WHIT PROMISED TEA AND THE TEA WAS DELIVERED. Jokes aside, thank you for being so transparent about your mental health, you're making a bigger impact than you know. Love you so much, Whit!
I’m a teacher and I used to have my students say affirmations everyday including it’s a beautiful day to be alive because of you. Always remember that!
“I miss the leg press. ….yea that’s it, I miss the leg press” 😂😂 I loved this Q&A (still watching) but I’m SO PROUD OF YOU, love you so much - you’re amazing
Laying in bed crying because my 2 year abusive relationship just ended and I see a new Whitney video posted. I just wanted to take the time to thank you for making me feel less alone and talking about your struggles with mental health. Makes me feel less alone and puts a smile on my face.
Aw girl don’t cry. I know it’s hard.. but I promise you will heal from all the trauma from that relationship. Eventually you will realize that the relationship ending was the best thing that could’ve happened to you. You will feel like a huge weight has been lifted from your shoulders. Just focus on yourself and getting yourself in a better mental space. One day the right person will come along. They will treat you with kindness and they will love you for you. Your life will be full of lots of happiness. I know it feels like your world has just ended but I promise you.. things will get better. Sending lots of love
I got out of a 3 year relationship a week ago and it hurts girl. I feel you heartbreak just sucks. But reach out if you want company. And just know there are people who care about you and love you no matter what. And everything is gonna be okay ❤️
I can’t tell you how much I appreciate you speaking about your mental health. I have bipolar 2 disorder which results in highs and lows that make me feel so defective. I really value you providing enlightenment to a larger audience. Mental illness doesn’t make you the ‘other’. It makes you human.
“Real Queens fix each other’s crowns” we need to stop judging everyone and instead empower/uplift each other! 😊 Love your videos! Your inspiring and beautiful!!
Long engagements are so normal. Pandemic or not. If you know you're going to spend forever together anyway, there's no "time wasted" in taking your time to plan. Props if you knock the engagement and wedding out in under a year but, that wasn't our style! Makes sense to me, Whitney!
Agreed!! Our engagement was 2.5 years long, and it was just what worked best for us. There is so much pressure once you’re engaged to hurry up and get married, but I’m so glad we took our time planning!
this! everyone is on their own timeline. my boyfriend and i have been dating for four years and everyone keeps asking when he will propose but i don’t want to get married until after law school and we agreed on that. let people live haha
We were engaged for nearly 4 years. No shame in that! Our wedding turned out to be everything we wanted & more and it was during a time when we were fully ready
I got engaged after one year, was engaged for 7 years, now been married for almost 3. There’s no rules for engagement anymore. Just do what suits you and your partner best and makes the two of you happy ❤️❤️❤️
You’re such a GIRLS girl and I absolutely love it. Your positive attitude towards other women is seriously a breath of fresh air. Absolutely love you keep up the good work!
“It’s a beautiful day to be alive”😊. So glad the thoughts that come with depression were not acted on. You have such an amazing spirit and such a light to the world. Continue to shine and be an inspiration to us all. I have suffered with depression and still suffer with anxiety. It’s not easy but I know I’m here for a reason. Be blessed Whitney, you are amazing.
I struggle a lot with being shy and introverted too, especially in the gym and when meeting new people.🥺 Something about being in the weight lifting section is so dang intimidating and stressful for me but I hope I can overcome it some day. I’ve been told I’m boring and don’t talk enough in some social settings and that really hurts. I’m very talkative and energetic around people who make me feel comfortable & it makes me sad that there’s that other part of me that can’t just be outgoing all the time.
Nothing to be ashamed of sweetie, I am the exact same. I’m really shy but very comfortable and outgoing with my closest friends. It’s something I’m definitely working on but don’t beat yourself over it. We all have things we wish we could change or struggles we go through , being shy just happens to be our struggle lol. But everyday you can make an effort to do things outside your comfort zone and become more confident in yourself. You got this girly!
This really hits home for me too because this exact thing has happened to me… but I’ve learned that it says more about that person than it says about you. If you’re not comfortable around a person, there’s probably a reason for it. You’ll find the people that you’re meant to have in your life, and those people are always going to support you! Don’t be sad over a part of you that you can’t control. The right people will appreciate that :)
This video literally made me feel like it was a chit chat session with my best friend! Thank you for being so vocal about mental health. I remember when you first posted about it last year, and I've seen so many people struggle with it (myself included till date). You are a ray of sunshine for all of here on CZcams, and we love you so much Whitney! I've followed you for YEARS now. Seen the numbers go from a couple hundred thousand to 2M+ and you're still the same, beautiful human being out there to remind us that it truly is always a beautiful day to be alive, even on the days you're struggling!
Grief is so hard, I’m glad you’re being kind to yourself. After my mum died it felt a bit like being in a storm on a beach, sometimes those waves of grief are so harsh and unexpected. The storm will ease up eventually though, you got it ❤️
Living together before marriage is def something I recommend. You learn so much about each other and your daily habbits. You really learn if this person is somebody you wanna spend everyday with or not. Also, yees girl; Silent exit! Couldn't agree more. No need to announce when you don't like a content creator, just unsub. Also thank you for normalizing cycles! Love your openess. Keep being the sunshine you are!.❤
I just want to give you some hope! I got diagnosed with severe anxiety and depression at 25 years old. It was such a difficult battle. Just remember, it’s not a bad life, it’s just a bad day! I currently am 34 and no longer suffer from it and haven’t for years. This does not define you and one day it no longer will be a part of your life! It takes a lot of strength to share about it and just remember it’s ok if you’re struggling and it’s ok to admit it and it’s ok to not be ok!
You’re the first person who has shared that similar trauma response to a place or an event tied to where you found out about it or felt something traumatic… & I appreciate you so much for sharing even though it’s hard Bc I’ve been through a lot like this recently too. It’s refreshing to hear someone else who seems super happy and bubbly go through hard sh*t while still smiling or trying to be there for others. I appreciate you.
I used to always either be at a high 10, or a low bottom 1. Over the years my practice has been to learn how to rest at a 5. I feel so connected to your vulnerability. Your videos have always brought light to my life, but I must say that this new, raw, open, courageous version of you speaks to me on a soul level. You make a difference in my life and your courage rubs off on me and helps give power to my own courage. Thank you for you, you are an Earth Angel♥️
As a fellow introvert I feel your pain 100% 😂 even going to target alone makes me so uncomfortable and anxious lol. But loved this q&a, thank you for being so vulnerable 💕
I couldn’t get a new job fast enough after my mom died. I found out there and the memory haunted me to a point I jumped on an opportunity to go do a rotation in another state just to get out. I just adore you and your realness ♥️
You’re such a ray of sunshine, and my heart breaks for you because of the tough time you’ve had lately! Q&A vids are my fave, so happy I get to hang out with you for 25 mins❤️❤️
So, I’ve been here since literally day one 💁🏻♀️ I don’t comment often but I wanted to say it’s been so nice to watch you grow with such class and humility. Your hair looks AMAZING! 😍 I love you so much, thank you for always motivating me to be the best version of myself even when I don’t feel like it ❤️🙏🏼
There’s a podcast called Everything Happens that was a big source of comfort and validation. I’ve lost five people I loved dearly in the past four years and it’s helped me learn to live with it. Love you ❤️
I just subscribed to it and will be listening to it tomorrow. Thanks for the recommendation. It’s the kind of thing I need right now. Sending you peace and strength 💕
The fact that anyone would not like your voice blows my mind. I legit LOVE your voice. When I came across your channel your cool voice kept me watching. 💕
As a family/divorce lawyer, hearing you say separate accounts literally just made my day LOL😍😍It is so so much easier than the mess that is joint accounts. Not that you will ever get divorced, you won't ❤ love you thank you for being so open!
But what about people have their a joint account but also have their personal account on the side? Does that cause a lot of problems? I'm just asking because that's what I do
@@thatgirl_Devi I dont know your jurisdiction love so I cant say for certain how it may apply to you, this is just general thoughts from experience. Its just usually more difficult with a joint acct. People often contribute different amounts, after separation the account may stay active paying for things that both of you arent getting to use anymore, it just can get alot more complicated when it comes time to decide who gets how much. Not impossible to figure out its just more work. 🥰
Been riding the struggle bus with my mental health lately, thank you for reminding me that needing help doesn’t mean I’m “bad” or weak, and that I am deserving of help and support. Thank you for being here 💗
2021 has been very unforgiving to me as well. I lost my dad to suicide back in August and currently going through major problems with my relationship. When I say I completely understand what your battling with anxiety and depression I mean that. Mine has become so debilitating my Dr took me off work for 3 weeks. It broke my heart to hear you say you didn’t want to be here anymore but at the same time I completely understand. Please know that you’re not alone. Hearing you talk about this has made me feel like I’m not so thank you so much for that! You are beautiful, you are loved, and your existence on this earth is cherished by many! Love you Whit! Keep being brave!
I totally know what you mean about the gym being triggering. I found out my best friend passed away while I was at the gym. I was resting between sets of Bulgarian split squats when I found out, on social media too, right before the phone call. To this day, I cannot do split squats, which is probably silly to some people, but I just can’t mentally bring myself to do them. Loved this Q&A, and always appreciate your honesty and authenticity.
Your eyes are so pretty. I enjoyed the chit chat while waiting for my daughter in the car after school. I don’t have many girl friends and you definitely made me feel special just by listening to you:)
I found out my brother died on social media before my family could even tell me! I feel you on that. It’s so tough and I’ll never forget it. If you ever want to talk, I’m here because I feel like we have gone through a lot of the same things in life plus the depression and anxiety. I’m in your DMs all the time lol stay community stands behind you !
I am so proud of you for speaking out. I have bipolar disorder and have almost taken my life a few times. You’re right. We do feel alone. I started my company based around mental health and the stigma surrounding it. You are NOT alone Whit!!!!! Thank you for being so open. ❤️
In 2017 you were the reason I got the confidence to start my workout journey, I even ended up getting into competing in my first powerlifting meet! Past two years haven't been the best and I fell off pretty hard but I came across your videos again while I'm putting together workouts and I'm literally crying because I'm getting back up, taking things seriously again and its so great to see you thriving, esp because you helped me fall in love with fitness in the first place
I was not prepared when I started watching this. I am in tears because you've said so many things that are just so real... Thank you for being YOU. ♥️♥️
I have followed you for almost 5 years and I think this is my favorite video you have ever posted. Thank you for being so raw, vulnerable, and real with us! It helps make some of us not feel so alone in the struggles we share.
As someone who just graduated college and have yet to meet my people, it was so comforting to hear that you didn't meet yours until that "late" in life because I get worried that I'm in my twenties now and people have already made their friends and it'll be hard and weird to at this age.
yess extroverts get almost offended when we don’t wanna talk to them or if we’re shy or whatever and everyone thinks we’re bitchy 😭 i hate that about being introverted but it’s not my fault i don’t wanna smile or talk to you i just wanna keep my earbuds in and be alone lol
My Hubby is on those injections. He’s in his 2nd year on it. We cried when he got approved! Hope and praying you get approved from your insurance. It was life changing us! I get so annoyed when ppl suggest all these natural alternatives, thinking that we never tried them. But we just gotta brush it off and remember that they don’t have psoriasis and they don’t know shit about shit!
Whitney, I admire what you had to say when it comes to the question addressed at 6:18. That individual was clearly expecting you to talk down to other women. Appreciate your attitude and how quickly you addressed the issue at hand, which is identifying your triggers and avoiding them when you can on social media.
Lol the discharge! I love how real this is getting! My question for you is.... when I tried going commando, my pubic hair stubble made the fabric ball up (pilling) and it ruined my leggings! Am I the only one who has pubic hair growing in? If you can relate or give advice I’d love it - been too embarrassed to discuss this before. I have super sensitive skin and can only shave down there once every two weeks 🥶
I only shave every couple weeks too. Sometimes my pubic hair gets stuck and I just have to a little adjusting lol 😂 but that’s mainly it. Could it be the quality of the leggings? Maybe try a thicker material? It’s definitely so nice to go commando and I know there are leggings they sell with built in gussets that could help provide an extra layer of protection down there. You could also try sticking a panty liner on the gusset! I guess it’s just a matter of if you feel comfortable going commando.
Yesterday i had an episode again after i thought i was “healing” and let me tell you! It hurt more than usual. I didn’t want to be here anymore and i was thinking about going through with it, but a little voice kept telling me “no don’t do it.” I start therapy dec 24 & im so excited to be a better person
"My mom and dad never split their bank accounts" Whoa. This is something I've been considering doing after getting married, for a very similar reason--I don't want my fiancee to feel guilty splurging on a present for himself, and he feels the same about me. Just hearing you say you're not going to combine bank accounts makes me feel comforted that this is not weird or bad!!
My husband and I have separate bank accounts and we always will. He thinks having an additional account with both of us on it would be "easier" for certain categories (things split down the middle or whatever else) (in Whitney's case - kiddos?) So what we've talked about is keeping our own private accounts and then with the additional account we would put equal amounts into. Just a thought? But do whatever works for your relationship and it will never be weird!!
100% support that move! Going on 12 years of marriage and finances have never been an issue 🙌🏼 But to each their own, gotta figure out what works for each couple!
I am with my husband 12 years now. We have out personal accounts and 1 combined where all bills are paid. We have preagreed on what will be paid from that account and how much money we each put. Anything remaining on our personal account is ours. We never have fought over money. Definately though have a discussion on how to deal with vacations. You don't want one person to have saved more that the other for vacations and then going somewhere "cheaper" because of this all the time. It of course also depends on your salary difference
I finally asked for help n reached out to school about my bi polar & they were more than receiving & sympathetic of the news and my favorite professor gave me an hr long personal zoom meeting & I told her she was the biggest reason I spoke out & went on student accessibility becuz she speaks out for people with mental illness 🧡💜🤎 Love how you opened up about your struggles as well ❤ Here with you ❤ All of you ❤
Thank you for speaking so candidly about mental health. I've noticed a lot of influencers that I follow are doing the same. You can't know the relief I feel when I can relate to your stories. (Any PMDD ladies out there??) Each of us can be so alone in our individual struggles, but it should never be an alienating thing. We should accept each other's stories because we all have ours...and our own stories deserve acceptance from ourselves as well. TLDR; keep preaching the self-love and acceptance (even when we have to dig deep) ❤
I was diagnosed with PMDD not too longer and some weeks are just brutal and I am a completely different person. Accepting it and knowing it is only temporary helps and also hearing other people's stories and how they handle their mental health.
This made me tear up and it's amazing how connected I feel (and I'm sure many of your followers) feel to you without even knowing you! Thanks for being a wonderful inspiration. xoxo
My BF and I do the separate bank accounts thing and always will. It’s the best way to guarantee you don’t argue about money. Plus, as a woman it’s super empowering. Especially when I have friends that ask for permission to spend money. Protect yourself ladies, split the bills!!! 🙌🏻💖
I feel like it’s so easy to push everything that’s not “pretty” aside on social media and I love that you don’t! This last year has been the hardest on me mentally and it makes me feel better knowing that even the ones we think are the strongest struggle. That being said, you’re not alone either ❤️ I’ve followed since the beginning and you’re one of my favorite human beings!
Living together before marriage is something I would recommend to everyone. It either validates your love and makes it grow stronger, or makes you truly know the person and makes you realize you may not be the right person for them.
@@familyvideos7621 this has actually been proven false. Other factors go into this, like religious beliefs that ALSO influence your likelihood to divorce. Divorce also isn’t a bad thing, it can mean people are willing to accept that happiness and well-being are more important than staying married. Staying married isn’t the best, healthy, or safe option for everyone. Keep an open mind.
@@aprilmiller7601 No, it hasn’t. I won’t keep an open mind to people breaking their promises. A stable society relies on people keeping their word and remaining faithful. People need to ask more difficult questions before they enter a marriage and then stick with it.
@@familyvideos7621 so you’re suggesting that if someone is being abused by their spouse they should stay with that abuser just because they made a “commitment”? Often times abuse doesn’t start until after people are comfortable with their relationship, meaning it can start AFTER marriage. What if someone cheats? Or breaks other vows? You’re suggesting their spouse stays because of “commitment” ? Gtfo with your ignorance😂🤦🏼♀️. There are PLENTY of circumstances when divorce or separation are in fact the best option for the safety and well-being of parties involved. I find it interesting that you doubled down and said you wouldn’t open your mind… idk if I’ve ever come across someone who so willingly admits their refusal to learn & grow. That was a strange and unfortunate first for me. I hope you evolve as a person, I want the best for you my dude. Take some deep breaths, take a few steps back from judgement, and have a good day.
Whitney, I sincerely hope that you feel were given this platform for a reason and that you can see the positive effect it’s having on so many other people. I have always looked up to you as a person, but when you opened up about battling depression and anxiety it brought it to a whole new level. I’ve been living with both for years now and every single time someone opens up about their struggles I feel a little weight lifted off my shoulders. I hope it helps you to talk about it to your millions of friends here on social media. I can not imagine how hard it has been to make something so personal, public. You carry yourself with such grace, but I hope you know you don’t have to seem perfect all the time, you can have bad days and be able to be transparent about that. My heart goes out to you for all that you have went through the last couple years. Keep fighting girl, we are all cheering you on. ❤️
I almost struggled with watching this video because talking about depression can be very triggering for me and my depression. I admire how you talk about it while providing yourself with strength and patience. You always have been there for me during my darkest struggles and you continue to do that with every video! Thank you soo much💕
Whit I've been following you for 4 years at this point, and I feel as proud of you as I would of one of my own friends for all your amazing growth both in your profession and in your mental health. I'm so grateful for you!
The amount of times I teared up during this Q&A 🥺 thank you for being so vulnerable, and raw as always 💛 The unseen V3 vlog footage was *chefs kiss* also
Got me tearing up within 2 minutes of the video 🥺 You’re both physically and mentally strong and I’m so glad to hear that you’re getting help. Sharing your story is helping others experiencing similar things and I appreciate it so much ❤️ been watching your videos for YEARS now and your positivity is what kept me going and kept me motivated ❤️
your vulnerability and honesty is one of the (many) reasons you’re my favorite “youtuber”. you always keep things real and aren’t afraid to speak about mental health while alot of others shy away from it…as someone with multiple “mental illnesses” it means the world to me 🥺 pls never change 🤍
What a blessing it was that a “more experienced” woman pushed you out of that job so you could flourish ❤️ I’ll never forget those egg chicken strips 😏😏or those ice cream rating videos.
Ty for the little tidbit about friendships and that we have friendships for a reason, a season and for life. Also LOVE the saying of “100 dingy pennies or 4 shiny quarters” is GOLD. I have such a hard time moving on from toxic friendships and I feel like I don’t know how to accept that they should be over/are over 🥺 so thank you 🥺❤️
This is the first time I’ve ever watched one of your videos and I want to thank you for sharing your battles with grief and depression as well as being a introvert… I suffer from these same things due to losing my mom last year and it’s so nice to know I’m not the only one. What you said about the feeling alone thing is completely relatable! Glad I found your channel!
I LOVE YOU WHIT!!! Thank you for making me feel less alone in my battle with depression and anxiety. I'm sending you ALL OF MY LOVE!! I feel like we're besties
My father in law had really bad psoriasis and he uses a product names nopsor it completely cleared it in case you need anything to help out when it gets bad we got it for my sister too
Long engagements are great!!! We had over a year engagement and NO regrets! Happily married for almost 2 years. Everyone’s love story is different I love the longer time to plan the wedding and not have stress.
Your “RBF” just looks like a neutral expression to me. You’re beautiful inside and out and seem like such a genuine and down to earth person. I’ve loved following you for years ❤️
Whitney please make some tshirts that say “Know what I mean?” I love when you say that because yeah I do know what you mean most of the time. I relate to you in so many ways! Thank you for being transparent and helping us feel like we are your Internet friends!
UGH, Whitney, I just… I think you’re so sweet and amazing. I’ve been here off and on for years and when I’m away and come back you’re always better and more mature and it’s so obvious you’ve grown. I’m proud of you and what you’ve done and what you’re continuing to do. Also THANK YOU SO MUCH for showing that it’s okay to change your mind with time. We grow and we learn so of course our opinions will do the same. Love you girl and I’m so proud of you.
You have a beautiful soul that brings so much light to the world I am so much older than you but I watch all of your videos I am also introverted and proud
I am so so so late to this q&a, but this vid made me so happy 🥰 you’re so honest and genuine, you can talk about your highs, lows, quirks, insecurities, trauma, freaking DISCHARGE, and it makes this video all that much better 😂 you are amazing ❤
I just had to pause the video and say that I’ve always loved your voice! I love listening to you talk. I couldn’t imagine having so many strangers pick me apart. 💔
I just want everyone who loves Whitney as much as I do to know that she is just as incredible in person!! She absolutely lights up a room. Whitney is the most thoughtful and personable angel! Even when they were trying to rush her through her meet and greet, she was solely focused on meeting her supporters and each interaction she had was so clearly important to her. Meeting her was a moment I’ll never forget and a day I wish I could relive over and over!! Sending you all my love from one Whit to another♥️
I have been married for 13 years. With my wonderful husband for 15. We have shared a bank account since day one. I think sharing one, and each having your own is also a great option.
I can totally relate to your emotions when you spoke about the injections. I was able to manage my Crohn's Disease with other non-specialty medications for almost 15 years, but this year I had to make the change to biologic medication/injections. Autoimmune diseases effect people both physically and emotionally... you are not alone
Okay, wait! Your flashback video to you in your current video! I didn’t even realize how much of a change you had, in your hair and eyebrows!! You look amazing whit!!!
In terms of shared bank accounts, my husband and I share a checking now and it's so nice just having our income pooled into the same place and all bills coming out of that account as well. But our credit cards are still separate, so we don't judge each other on every little purchase. As long as the money in the checking is still flowing and we can pay our bills and achieve our savings goals, we gucci👌🏻
I so understand your struggle to get back to the gym after losing your friend. Places can be such a trigger for trauma. I unexpectedly lost my mom in 2020 and I was standing in my kitchen when I found out. I had to move. I literally couldn’t be there anymore… I pray that you find the peace that you need to move forward from that.
I lost my mom in 2020, too. Still grieving. We were so close - just the two of us most of my life. Her illness took me by surprise. I’m so sorry for your loss. ❤️
I think my parents like my husband more than me too sometimes 😂🤷🏻♀️ Hearing you talk about your mental health helps me focus on taking better care of my mental health. I love you ♥️
After I messed things up with a guy last night and getting my heart broken I really needed this Whitney thank you so much. I really appreciate you uploading ❤️
WHIT PROMISED TEA AND THE TEA WAS DELIVERED. Jokes aside, thank you for being so transparent about your mental health, you're making a bigger impact than you know. Love you so much, Whit!
I’m a teacher and I used to have my students say affirmations everyday including it’s a beautiful day to be alive because of you. Always remember that!
😭😭😭🤍
“I miss the leg press.
….yea that’s it, I miss the leg press” 😂😂
I loved this Q&A (still watching) but I’m SO PROUD OF YOU, love you so much - you’re amazing
Laying in bed crying because my 2 year abusive relationship just ended and I see a new Whitney video posted. I just wanted to take the time to thank you for making me feel less alone and talking about your struggles with mental health. Makes me feel less alone and puts a smile on my face.
Aw girl don’t cry. I know it’s hard.. but I promise you will heal from all the trauma from that relationship. Eventually you will realize that the relationship ending was the best thing that could’ve happened to you. You will feel like a huge weight has been lifted from your shoulders. Just focus on yourself and getting yourself in a better mental space. One day the right person will come along. They will treat you with kindness and they will love you for you. Your life will be full of lots of happiness. I know it feels like your world has just ended but I promise you.. things will get better. Sending lots of love
You are so lucky it ended with you alive. It only gets worse-I didn't get out until he tried to shoot me.
I got out of a 3 year relationship a week ago and it hurts girl. I feel you heartbreak just sucks. But reach out if you want company. And just know there are people who care about you and love you no matter what. And everything is gonna be okay ❤️
I hope you're doing okay, Morgan
"You are in full control of your content and the content you consume..." OMG girl... on point! 🥰🤩 I love that you touched on this....
I can’t tell you how much I appreciate you speaking about your mental health. I have bipolar 2 disorder which results in highs and lows that make me feel so defective. I really value you providing enlightenment to a larger audience. Mental illness doesn’t make you the ‘other’. It makes you human.
I love you Maddy 😭😭🙏🏼
bipolar 2 girlie here too babe!!! i’m so proud of your strength and it always gets beter
Bipolar 2 here 👋🏼 sending some love! It’s so tough but we can do this! ❤️
I also have Bipolar type 2!
“Real Queens fix each other’s crowns” we need to stop judging everyone and instead empower/uplift each other! 😊 Love your videos! Your inspiring and beautiful!!
Whitney you are the complete embodiment and example of ‘just be a kind human’! It’s truly inspiring. Much love ❤️
I’m literally so happy you are alive! Please please never forget that! 💜
this is such a nice comment....its true whit! im happy your alive too!!
Long engagements are so normal. Pandemic or not. If you know you're going to spend forever together anyway, there's no "time wasted" in taking your time to plan. Props if you knock the engagement and wedding out in under a year but, that wasn't our style! Makes sense to me, Whitney!
Agreed!! Our engagement was 2.5 years long, and it was just what worked best for us. There is so much pressure once you’re engaged to hurry up and get married, but I’m so glad we took our time planning!
this! everyone is on their own timeline. my boyfriend and i have been dating for four years and everyone keeps asking when he will propose but i don’t want to get married until after law school and we agreed on that. let people live haha
We were engaged for nearly 4 years. No shame in that! Our wedding turned out to be everything we wanted & more and it was during a time when we were fully ready
Haha. I’ve been engaged since Christmas 2018. My plan is april 2023. We will have been together 10 years by then
I got engaged after one year, was engaged for 7 years, now been married for almost 3. There’s no rules for engagement anymore. Just do what suits you and your partner best and makes the two of you happy ❤️❤️❤️
You’re such a GIRLS girl and I absolutely love it. Your positive attitude towards other women is seriously a breath of fresh air. Absolutely love you keep up the good work!
“It’s a beautiful day to be alive”😊. So glad the thoughts that come with depression were not acted on. You have such an amazing spirit and such a light to the world. Continue to shine and be an inspiration to us all. I have suffered with depression and still suffer with anxiety. It’s not easy but I know I’m here for a reason. Be blessed Whitney, you are amazing.
I love that I have someone like you in my life and I know I'm not alone. You are a beautiful light in life.
I love you 😭🤍
Whitney: "TEA!"
Also Whitney: "Nothing happened."
We love a non-dramatic, dramatic Queen :D
Whitney’s comments about social media and people editing their photos are so insightful and she’s 100% right.
🥺🥺🤍
I struggle a lot with being shy and introverted too, especially in the gym and when meeting new people.🥺 Something about being in the weight lifting section is so dang intimidating and stressful for me but I hope I can overcome it some day. I’ve been told I’m boring and don’t talk enough in some social settings and that really hurts. I’m very talkative and energetic around people who make me feel comfortable & it makes me sad that there’s that other part of me that can’t just be outgoing all the time.
Nothing to be ashamed of sweetie, I am the exact same. I’m really shy but very comfortable and outgoing with my closest friends. It’s something I’m definitely working on but don’t beat yourself over it. We all have things we wish we could change or struggles we go through , being shy just happens to be our struggle lol. But everyday you can make an effort to do things outside your comfort zone and become more confident in yourself. You got this girly!
This really hits home for me too because this exact thing has happened to me… but I’ve learned that it says more about that person than it says about you. If you’re not comfortable around a person, there’s probably a reason for it. You’ll find the people that you’re meant to have in your life, and those people are always going to support you! Don’t be sad over a part of you that you can’t control. The right people will appreciate that :)
In the same situation as you :( but we got this
This video literally made me feel like it was a chit chat session with my best friend! Thank you for being so vocal about mental health. I remember when you first posted about it last year, and I've seen so many people struggle with it (myself included till date). You are a ray of sunshine for all of here on CZcams, and we love you so much Whitney! I've followed you for YEARS now. Seen the numbers go from a couple hundred thousand to 2M+ and you're still the same, beautiful human being out there to remind us that it truly is always a beautiful day to be alive, even on the days you're struggling!
Grief is so hard, I’m glad you’re being kind to yourself. After my mum died it felt a bit like being in a storm on a beach, sometimes those waves of grief are so harsh and unexpected. The storm will ease up eventually though, you got it ❤️
Loved every minuteeee, great video bestiieeee ILYYYY ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Living together before marriage is def something I recommend. You learn so much about each other and your daily habbits. You really learn if this person is somebody you wanna spend everyday with or not.
Also, yees girl; Silent exit! Couldn't agree more. No need to announce when you don't like a content creator, just unsub.
Also thank you for normalizing cycles! Love your openess.
Keep being the sunshine you are!.❤
I just want to give you some hope! I got diagnosed with severe anxiety and depression at 25 years old. It was such a difficult battle. Just remember, it’s not a bad life, it’s just a bad day! I currently am 34 and no longer suffer from it and haven’t for years. This does not define you and one day it no longer will be a part of your life! It takes a lot of strength to share about it and just remember it’s ok if you’re struggling and it’s ok to admit it and it’s ok to not be ok!
You’re the first person who has shared that similar trauma response to a place or an event tied to where you found out about it or felt something traumatic… & I appreciate you so much for sharing even though it’s hard Bc I’ve been through a lot like this recently too. It’s refreshing to hear someone else who seems super happy and bubbly go through hard sh*t while still smiling or trying to be there for others. I appreciate you.
Whitney you are one of the most genuine, honest, realest people on this planet & I admire you completely!!!
I used to always either be at a high 10, or a low bottom 1. Over the years my practice has been to learn how to rest at a 5. I feel so connected to your vulnerability. Your videos have always brought light to my life, but I must say that this new, raw, open, courageous version of you speaks to me on a soul level. You make a difference in my life and your courage rubs off on me and helps give power to my own courage. Thank you for you, you are an Earth Angel♥️
As a fellow introvert I feel your pain 100% 😂 even going to target alone makes me so uncomfortable and anxious lol. But loved this q&a, thank you for being so vulnerable 💕
I couldn’t get a new job fast enough after my mom died. I found out there and the memory haunted me to a point I jumped on an opportunity to go do a rotation in another state just to get out.
I just adore you and your realness ♥️
You’re such a ray of sunshine, and my heart breaks for you because of the tough time you’ve had lately! Q&A vids are my fave, so happy I get to hang out with you for 25 mins❤️❤️
So, I’ve been here since literally day one 💁🏻♀️ I don’t comment often but I wanted to say it’s been so nice to watch you grow with such class and humility. Your hair looks AMAZING! 😍 I love you so much, thank you for always motivating me to be the best version of myself even when I don’t feel like it ❤️🙏🏼
I'd like to send a personal thank you to Stefan for giving you the love you deserve and then some.
😭😭😭🤍
There’s a podcast called Everything Happens that was a big source of comfort and validation. I’ve lost five people I loved dearly in the past four years and it’s helped me learn to live with it.
Love you ❤️
I just subscribed to it and will be listening to it tomorrow. Thanks for the recommendation. It’s the kind of thing I need right now. Sending you peace and strength 💕
The fact that anyone would not like your voice blows my mind. I legit LOVE your voice. When I came across your channel your cool voice kept me watching. 💕
As a family/divorce lawyer, hearing you say separate accounts literally just made my day LOL😍😍It is so so much easier than the mess that is joint accounts. Not that you will ever get divorced, you won't ❤ love you thank you for being so open!
But what about people have their a joint account but also have their personal account on the side? Does that cause a lot of problems? I'm just asking because that's what I do
@@thatgirl_Devi I dont know your jurisdiction love so I cant say for certain how it may apply to you, this is just general thoughts from experience. Its just usually more difficult with a joint acct. People often contribute different amounts, after separation the account may stay active paying for things that both of you arent getting to use anymore, it just can get alot more complicated when it comes time to decide who gets how much. Not impossible to figure out its just more work. 🥰
Yay! My husband and I do this and we never have financial arguments. It works for us but may not be for everyone
@@karagarcia9326 I'm gald to hear that! But I'm curious, how do pay for the rent/ mortgage and utilities?
I agree. As a divorced person.. lol 😂 we had a joint account and that sucked when I ended things.
i’ve been struggling so hard lately and it’s so good to know i’m not alone ❤️ I love you so much 😭❤️
we’ve got this 😭😭🤍
You both got this! I feel like I am finally getting closer to the other side of the tunnel
Been riding the struggle bus with my mental health lately, thank you for reminding me that needing help doesn’t mean I’m “bad” or weak, and that I am deserving of help and support. Thank you for being here 💗
2021 has been very unforgiving to me as well. I lost my dad to suicide back in August and currently going through major problems with my relationship. When I say I completely understand what your battling with anxiety and depression I mean that. Mine has become so debilitating my Dr took me off work for 3 weeks. It broke my heart to hear you say you didn’t want to be here anymore but at the same time I completely understand. Please know that you’re not alone. Hearing you talk about this has made me feel like I’m not so thank you so much for that! You are beautiful, you are loved, and your existence on this earth is cherished by many! Love you Whit! Keep being brave!
Feels like sitting down to chat with a best friend ❤️
🥺🥺🤍
I totally know what you mean about the gym being triggering. I found out my best friend passed away while I was at the gym. I was resting between sets of Bulgarian split squats when I found out, on social media too, right before the phone call. To this day, I cannot do split squats, which is probably silly to some people, but I just can’t mentally bring myself to do them. Loved this Q&A, and always appreciate your honesty and authenticity.
Your eyes are so pretty. I enjoyed the chit chat while waiting for my daughter in the car after school. I don’t have many girl friends and you definitely made me feel special just by listening to you:)
I found out my brother died on social media before my family could even tell me! I feel you on that. It’s so tough and I’ll never forget it. If you ever want to talk, I’m here because I feel like we have gone through a lot of the same things in life plus the depression and anxiety. I’m in your DMs all the time lol stay community stands behind you !
I am so proud of you for speaking out. I have bipolar disorder and have almost taken my life a few times. You’re right. We do feel alone. I started my company based around mental health and the stigma surrounding it. You are NOT alone Whit!!!!! Thank you for being so open. ❤️
In 2017 you were the reason I got the confidence to start my workout journey, I even ended up getting into competing in my first powerlifting meet! Past two years haven't been the best and I fell off pretty hard but I came across your videos again while I'm putting together workouts and I'm literally crying because I'm getting back up, taking things seriously again and its so great to see you thriving, esp because you helped me fall in love with fitness in the first place
You are SO appreciated. I cherish you and your content. 💜
Also, side note: I love your voice! It’s just like sunshine ☀️
I love hearing you open up about mental health. It makes me feel so ok
I was not prepared when I started watching this. I am in tears because you've said so many things that are just so real... Thank you for being YOU. ♥️♥️
I have followed you for almost 5 years and I think this is my favorite video you have ever posted. Thank you for being so raw, vulnerable, and real with us! It helps make some of us not feel so alone in the struggles we share.
😭😭😭🤍
As someone who just graduated college and have yet to meet my people, it was so comforting to hear that you didn't meet yours until that "late" in life because I get worried that I'm in my twenties now and people have already made their friends and it'll be hard and weird to at this age.
same! i am 25 and felt the same way. I also quit drinking so it was refreshing to hear her talk about that as well
yess extroverts get almost offended when we don’t wanna talk to them or if we’re shy or whatever and everyone thinks we’re bitchy 😭 i hate that about being introverted but it’s not my fault i don’t wanna smile or talk to you i just wanna keep my earbuds in and be alone lol
I feel this to my core😩
My Hubby is on those injections. He’s in his 2nd year on it. We cried when he got approved! Hope and praying you get approved from your insurance. It was life changing us! I get so annoyed when ppl suggest all these natural alternatives, thinking that we never tried them. But we just gotta brush it off and remember that they don’t have psoriasis and they don’t know shit about shit!
you are literally the cutest, most pure person I've seen on CZcams. I wish you all the best for everything in life babe. Lots of love for you!
Whitney, I admire what you had to say when it comes to the question addressed at 6:18. That individual was clearly expecting you to talk down to other women. Appreciate your attitude and how quickly you addressed the issue at hand, which is identifying your triggers and avoiding them when you can on social media.
Lol the discharge! I love how real this is getting! My question for you is.... when I tried going commando, my pubic hair stubble made the fabric ball up (pilling) and it ruined my leggings! Am I the only one who has pubic hair growing in? If you can relate or give advice I’d love it - been too embarrassed to discuss this before. I have super sensitive skin and can only shave down there once every two weeks 🥶
I only shave every couple weeks too. Sometimes my pubic hair gets stuck and I just have to a little adjusting lol 😂 but that’s mainly it. Could it be the quality of the leggings? Maybe try a thicker material? It’s definitely so nice to go commando and I know there are leggings they sell with built in gussets that could help provide an extra layer of protection down there. You could also try sticking a panty liner on the gusset! I guess it’s just a matter of if you feel comfortable going commando.
Yesterday i had an episode again after i thought i was “healing” and let me tell you! It hurt more than usual. I didn’t want to be here anymore and i was thinking about going through with it, but a little voice kept telling me “no don’t do it.” I start therapy dec 24 & im so excited to be a better person
"My mom and dad never split their bank accounts" Whoa. This is something I've been considering doing after getting married, for a very similar reason--I don't want my fiancee to feel guilty splurging on a present for himself, and he feels the same about me. Just hearing you say you're not going to combine bank accounts makes me feel comforted that this is not weird or bad!!
My husband and I have separate bank accounts and we always will. He thinks having an additional account with both of us on it would be "easier" for certain categories (things split down the middle or whatever else) (in Whitney's case - kiddos?) So what we've talked about is keeping our own private accounts and then with the additional account we would put equal amounts into. Just a thought? But do whatever works for your relationship and it will never be weird!!
100% support that move! Going on 12 years of marriage and finances have never been an issue 🙌🏼 But to each their own, gotta figure out what works for each couple!
I am with my husband 12 years now. We have out personal accounts and 1 combined where all bills are paid. We have preagreed on what will be paid from that account and how much money we each put. Anything remaining on our personal account is ours. We never have fought over money. Definately though have a discussion on how to deal with vacations. You don't want one person to have saved more that the other for vacations and then going somewhere "cheaper" because of this all the time. It of course also depends on your salary difference
I finally asked for help n reached out to school about my bi polar & they were more than receiving & sympathetic of the news and my favorite professor gave me an hr long personal zoom meeting & I told her she was the biggest reason I spoke out & went on student accessibility becuz she speaks out for people with mental illness 🧡💜🤎
Love how you opened up about your struggles as well ❤ Here with you ❤ All of you ❤
Thank you for speaking so candidly about mental health. I've noticed a lot of influencers that I follow are doing the same. You can't know the relief I feel when I can relate to your stories. (Any PMDD ladies out there??) Each of us can be so alone in our individual struggles, but it should never be an alienating thing. We should accept each other's stories because we all have ours...and our own stories deserve acceptance from ourselves as well.
TLDR; keep preaching the self-love and acceptance (even when we have to dig deep) ❤
I was diagnosed with PMDD not too longer and some weeks are just brutal and I am a completely different person. Accepting it and knowing it is only temporary helps and also hearing other people's stories and how they handle their mental health.
This made me tear up and it's amazing how connected I feel (and I'm sure many of your followers) feel to you without even knowing you! Thanks for being a wonderful inspiration. xoxo
My BF and I do the separate bank accounts thing and always will. It’s the best way to guarantee you don’t argue about money. Plus, as a woman it’s super empowering. Especially when I have friends that ask for permission to spend money. Protect yourself ladies, split the bills!!! 🙌🏻💖
You coming out about how shy and introverted you are makes me relate to you on a whole other level😭❤️
Love that we can talk about discharge! Let’s normalize body functions ❤️
I feel like it’s so easy to push everything that’s not “pretty” aside on social media and I love that you don’t! This last year has been the hardest on me mentally and it makes me feel better knowing that even the ones we think are the strongest struggle. That being said, you’re not alone either ❤️ I’ve followed since the beginning and you’re one of my favorite human beings!
Living together before marriage is something I would recommend to everyone. It either validates your love and makes it grow stronger, or makes you truly know the person and makes you realize you may not be the right person for them.
You are more likely to get a divorce if you cohabitate before marriage.
@@familyvideos7621 cool lol
@@familyvideos7621 this has actually been proven false. Other factors go into this, like religious beliefs that ALSO influence your likelihood to divorce. Divorce also isn’t a bad thing, it can mean people are willing to accept that happiness and well-being are more important than staying married. Staying married isn’t the best, healthy, or safe option for everyone. Keep an open mind.
@@aprilmiller7601 No, it hasn’t. I won’t keep an open mind to people breaking their promises. A stable society relies on people keeping their word and remaining faithful. People need to ask more difficult questions before they enter a marriage and then stick with it.
@@familyvideos7621 so you’re suggesting that if someone is being abused by their spouse they should stay with that abuser just because they made a “commitment”? Often times abuse doesn’t start until after people are comfortable with their relationship, meaning it can start AFTER marriage. What if someone cheats? Or breaks other vows? You’re suggesting their spouse stays because of “commitment” ? Gtfo with your ignorance😂🤦🏼♀️. There are PLENTY of circumstances when divorce or separation are in fact the best option for the safety and well-being of parties involved.
I find it interesting that you doubled down and said you wouldn’t open your mind… idk if I’ve ever come across someone who so willingly admits their refusal to learn & grow. That was a strange and unfortunate first for me. I hope you evolve as a person, I want the best for you my dude. Take some deep breaths, take a few steps back from judgement, and have a good day.
Whitney, I sincerely hope that you feel were given this platform for a reason and that you can see the positive effect it’s having on so many other people. I have always looked up to you as a person, but when you opened up about battling depression and anxiety it brought it to a whole new level. I’ve been living with both for years now and every single time someone opens up about their struggles I feel a little weight lifted off my shoulders. I hope it helps you to talk about it to your millions of friends here on social media. I can not imagine how hard it has been to make something so personal, public. You carry yourself with such grace, but I hope you know you don’t have to seem perfect all the time, you can have bad days and be able to be transparent about that. My heart goes out to you for all that you have went through the last couple years. Keep fighting girl, we are all cheering you on. ❤️
I almost struggled with watching this video because talking about depression can be very triggering for me and my depression. I admire how you talk about it while providing yourself with strength and patience. You always have been there for me during my darkest struggles and you continue to do that with every video! Thank you soo much💕
Whit I've been following you for 4 years at this point, and I feel as proud of you as I would of one of my own friends for all your amazing growth both in your profession and in your mental health. I'm so grateful for you!
The amount of times I teared up during this Q&A 🥺 thank you for being so vulnerable, and raw as always 💛
The unseen V3 vlog footage was *chefs kiss* also
Got me tearing up within 2 minutes of the video 🥺 You’re both physically and mentally strong and I’m so glad to hear that you’re getting help. Sharing your story is helping others experiencing similar things and I appreciate it so much ❤️ been watching your videos for YEARS now and your positivity is what kept me going and kept me motivated ❤️
your vulnerability and honesty is one of the (many) reasons you’re my favorite “youtuber”. you always keep things real and aren’t afraid to speak about mental health while alot of others shy away from it…as someone with multiple “mental illnesses” it means the world to me 🥺 pls never change 🤍
this is my favourite of your Q&As so far, your bravery gives others the permission to be brave :') thank you
What a blessing it was that a “more experienced” woman pushed you out of that job so you could flourish ❤️ I’ll never forget those egg chicken strips 😏😏or those ice cream rating videos.
I just want to give you a hug Whit! You’re literally my favorite and so stinkin BEAUTIFUL ✨
So incredibly proud of your strength! I've been supporting you since before 500k and you've been a huge influence on my life ever since!
thank you so much for always being open and honest with us. It feels like talking to a friend ♥️
Ty for the little tidbit about friendships and that we have friendships for a reason, a season and for life. Also LOVE the saying of “100 dingy pennies or 4 shiny quarters” is GOLD. I have such a hard time moving on from toxic friendships and I feel like I don’t know how to accept that they should be over/are over 🥺 so thank you 🥺❤️
This is the first time I’ve ever watched one of your videos and I want to thank you for sharing your battles with grief and depression as well as being a introvert… I suffer from these same things due to losing my mom last year and it’s so nice to know I’m not the only one. What you said about the feeling alone thing is completely relatable! Glad I found your channel!
I LOVE YOU WHIT!!! Thank you for making me feel less alone in my battle with depression and anxiety. I'm sending you ALL OF MY LOVE!! I feel like we're besties
I've had psoriasis for years now, you being so open about it makes it a lot easier for me to deal with. Thank you, you're truly a beautiful person. ❤
My father in law had really bad psoriasis and he uses a product names nopsor it completely cleared it in case you need anything to help out when it gets bad we got it for my sister too
Your voice … brings me joy. Period
Long engagements are great!!!
We had over a year engagement and NO regrets! Happily married for almost 2 years.
Everyone’s love story is different I love the longer time to plan the wedding and not have stress.
Your “RBF” just looks like a neutral expression to me. You’re beautiful inside and out and seem like such a genuine and down to earth person. I’ve loved following you for years ❤️
Whitney please make some tshirts that say “Know what I mean?” I love when you say that because yeah I do know what you mean most of the time. I relate to you in so many ways! Thank you for being transparent and helping us feel like we are your Internet friends!
UGH, Whitney, I just… I think you’re so sweet and amazing. I’ve been here off and on for years and when I’m away and come back you’re always better and more mature and it’s so obvious you’ve grown. I’m proud of you and what you’ve done and what you’re continuing to do. Also THANK YOU SO MUCH for showing that it’s okay to change your mind with time. We grow and we learn so of course our opinions will do the same. Love you girl and I’m so proud of you.
You have a beautiful soul that brings so much light to the world
I am so much older than you but I watch all of your videos
I am also introverted and proud
Just in time for some happiness today 🥰 I really do feel like we’re hanging out when watching your videos. Love you! 💕
Nothing scarier than feeling so alone with your thoughts. Thank you so much for speaking about this and reminding us all that we're NOT alone🤍
I am so so so late to this q&a, but this vid made me so happy 🥰 you’re so honest and genuine, you can talk about your highs, lows, quirks, insecurities, trauma, freaking DISCHARGE, and it makes this video all that much better 😂 you are amazing ❤
Your beauty shines from the inside and that’s what makes you glow on the outside😍
I’m so happy you’re here Whit ❤️ proud of you for making it through such a hard hard year ❤️
The social media message in this was so good! Made me readjust my thinking for sure cause it is so easy to knit pick x
I just had to pause the video and say that I’ve always loved your voice! I love listening to you talk. I couldn’t imagine having so many strangers pick me apart. 💔
I just want everyone who loves Whitney as much as I do to know that she is just as incredible in person!! She absolutely lights up a room. Whitney is the most thoughtful and personable angel! Even when they were trying to rush her through her meet and greet, she was solely focused on meeting her supporters and each interaction she had was so clearly important to her. Meeting her was a moment I’ll never forget and a day I wish I could relive over and over!! Sending you all my love from one Whit to another♥️
I have been married for 13 years. With my wonderful husband for 15. We have shared a bank account since day one. I think sharing one, and each having your own is also a great option.
I can totally relate to your emotions when you spoke about the injections. I was able to manage my Crohn's Disease with other non-specialty medications for almost 15 years, but this year I had to make the change to biologic medication/injections. Autoimmune diseases effect people both physically and emotionally... you are not alone
Remember during depression your thoughts are NOT the truth. Thus helped me so much during depression. 💯❤️
Okay, wait! Your flashback video to you in your current video! I didn’t even realize how much of a change you had, in your hair and eyebrows!! You look amazing whit!!!
In terms of shared bank accounts, my husband and I share a checking now and it's so nice just having our income pooled into the same place and all bills coming out of that account as well. But our credit cards are still separate, so we don't judge each other on every little purchase. As long as the money in the checking is still flowing and we can pay our bills and achieve our savings goals, we gucci👌🏻
I loved this video so much! You’re such a kind soul and we need more people like you in this world🤍
I so understand your struggle to get back to the gym after losing your friend. Places can be such a trigger for trauma. I unexpectedly lost my mom in 2020 and I was standing in my kitchen when I found out. I had to move. I literally couldn’t be there anymore… I pray that you find the peace that you need to move forward from that.
I lost my mom in 2020, too. Still grieving. We were so close - just the two of us most of my life. Her illness took me by surprise. I’m so sorry for your loss. ❤️
I don’t know who’s complaining about your voice cuz I love your voice! I could fall asleep listening to your videos!
I think my parents like my husband more than me too sometimes 😂🤷🏻♀️
Hearing you talk about your mental health helps me focus on taking better care of my mental health. I love you ♥️
After I messed things up with a guy last night and getting my heart broken I really needed this Whitney thank you so much. I really appreciate you uploading ❤️