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  • @mariatwilightsparkle2593
    @mariatwilightsparkle2593 Před 9 měsíci +1492

    Yes omg, I hated my high school counselor. He would speak to me like I’m a child and also hinted to my mom that he didn’t think I was very smart until I took an “IQ test” with him. 😭

    • @sarahquinn2224
      @sarahquinn2224 Před 9 měsíci

      Wow what a jerk.

    • @jaybirdishhhhhh
      @jaybirdishhhhhh Před 9 měsíci +84

      dude my counselor in middle school brought me in for sh and forced me to show her my cuts, then proceeded to tell me my parents are going to put me in a mental hospital.
      i don’t miss you miss dominguez

    • @mariatwilightsparkle2593
      @mariatwilightsparkle2593 Před 9 měsíci +36

      @@jaybirdishhhhhh Oh dear god, I'm so sorry to hear that happened to you. That sounds really tough. :(

    • @Sweetfairiiee
      @Sweetfairiiee Před 9 měsíci +15

      @@jaybirdishhhhhhwtf I’m sorry that happened to you. I never trusted my counselors

    • @rivchamp
      @rivchamp Před 9 měsíci +26

      @@jaybirdishhhhhhdawg let me tell you. They are legally required to tell your parents that info bc it endangers your life BUT!!! I don’t think they’re allowed to force you to show them your cuts, that’s super weird and I’m sorry that happened

  • @joeyk3134
    @joeyk3134 Před 9 měsíci +963

    My school IT guy was more knowledgeable about shit the counselors should've known than the counselors were

    • @neonjoker
      @neonjoker Před 9 měsíci +12

      Fr the IT guy always knew what was up and they were usually very quite and soft spoken

    • @AceOfStars0
      @AceOfStars0 Před 9 měsíci +6

      my art teacher was way better than the counselor

  • @noahanderson984
    @noahanderson984 Před 9 měsíci +342

    Not the 'some of you' 😭😭

    • @tspeedy3396
      @tspeedy3396 Před 9 měsíci +2

      bro, that "some of you" hit me too hard lol

  • @mars.hawaii
    @mars.hawaii Před 9 měsíci +480

    this is even funnier bc my school is eagles, but our counselor is nice

  • @64___
    @64___ Před 9 měsíci +165

    Idk what the heck my high school counselor did for his job he acted like he had absolutely zero interest in helping me get into certain academic programs and always acted bored and annoyed. My mom literally had to go to the school and demand the paperwork so I could apply. He was way too lazy to help me otherwise.

    • @el4689
      @el4689 Před 9 měsíci +8

      mine was the same. i ended up forwarding our emails to the principal and suddenly the counselor found it in his heart to start helping me

  • @Watermellon609
    @Watermellon609 Před 9 měsíci +713

    All Middle Schools and Highschools are either eagles or wildcats

    • @KarenLeos91
      @KarenLeos91 Před 9 měsíci +27

      We were mustangs, which I think is probably just as common

    • @user-ji3wy5kd2o
      @user-ji3wy5kd2o Před 9 měsíci +13

      Mine was the sun…

    • @crowned_moth
      @crowned_moth Před 9 měsíci +7

      Mine is a cobra

    • @justsomeone2391
      @justsomeone2391 Před 9 měsíci +7

      I was a lion in middle school and a panther in high school 💀

    • @BonbonTB47
      @BonbonTB47 Před 9 měsíci +7

      Middle school were gladiators and High school was nobles lmfao

  • @bubonic019
    @bubonic019 Před 9 měsíci +49

    My counselor brought up my failing grades every time I vented about how I was failing

  • @N1k0lai_Th3ri4n
    @N1k0lai_Th3ri4n Před 9 měsíci +69

    STOPPP MY SCHOOL COUNSELLOR WOULD SCREAM AT YOU IF YOU INTERRUPTED HER

    • @DemonGoat-248
      @DemonGoat-248 Před 8 měsíci

      She's supposed to council you and yet, she's the one screaming for no reason

  • @Sleipnirseight
    @Sleipnirseight Před 9 měsíci +154

    The epitome of overworked and under-supported 😭

    • @catpaws2452
      @catpaws2452 Před 9 měsíci +4

      I'm now a case manager for social services and wonder if people's bad experiences were due to the counselors burn out, lack of experience or being overworked. Im feeling absolutely burned out from work and I know Ive been behind and stressed when working with clients. Trying to regain my senses :/

    • @crimsonmason5418
      @crimsonmason5418 Před 9 měsíci

      ⁠@@catpaws2452 I’ve heard so many stories about social workers being under appreciated. I know it’s not much coming from a stranger on the internet but I hope you can overcome your burnout and thank you for all the work you do

  • @FlowersOfIcetor
    @FlowersOfIcetor Před 9 měsíci +52

    My school counselors never did shit for me lmao especially in middle school. Every time I had to see her she acted like I was the biggest interruption to everything, even when it was scheduled

  • @finn_the_fart
    @finn_the_fart Před 9 měsíci +90

    THE CARDIGAN

  • @simerwolf8272
    @simerwolf8272 Před 9 měsíci +4

    my counslors would always say "oh if you need help come to the guidence room!" i have seen them in that room mabey tops 5 times in a damn year and each time they would say "oh sorry were busy come here tomorrow". trying to do anything needing thier help was just about as easy as getting a brick to fly you to mars

  • @tammystiletto
    @tammystiletto Před 9 měsíci +82

    CeRTiFIeD PeRiOd CoUnSeLoR

  • @benjaminsierra5664
    @benjaminsierra5664 Před 9 měsíci +28

    The 25 minuets only 2 days a week 😭

  • @PhancyPants12
    @PhancyPants12 Před 3 dny

    My high school didn’t have a guidance counsellor. Whatever teacher liked you the most is the one that would come and deal with you or help you when you needed it.

  • @insertusernamehere3173
    @insertusernamehere3173 Před 9 měsíci +1

    The counselors are like: Feel free to talk about your schedule and we can change it! But don't actually try to change it because we won't help you.

  • @altunedin2777
    @altunedin2777 Před 9 měsíci +8

    I’m so glad my counselor was a literal angel because if I had to deal with this shit on top of the rest of high school 😭

  • @KennyMcCormick902
    @KennyMcCormick902 Před 9 měsíci +5

    I can’t even began to speak about my Counselor

  • @katmedina4082
    @katmedina4082 Před 9 měsíci +2

    I missed the SATs because of my counselor.
    I couldn’t get my teachers to let me out during class to see her and she’d be gone during the breaks.

  • @BirdGang6
    @BirdGang6 Před 9 měsíci +1

    My Mom is a guidance counselor and she couldn’t be farther away from this lady! Ignorance is bliss!!

  • @aster_l
    @aster_l Před 9 měsíci +7

    On the contrary, I asked my counselors to change my name on my ID and one of my classes, and despite being on summer break (it was mid-june) they responded the morning after

  • @Lu-ti9hy
    @Lu-ti9hy Před 9 měsíci +10

    No bc our counselor was so good, she was so nice, but she quit bc she was overworked bc of all the problems our school has (staff wise)

  • @-Ray_Moon-
    @-Ray_Moon- Před 9 měsíci +1

    I had panic attacks in school a lot and my school councillor told me to “suck it up and get on with class you’re fine”!

    • @sheagaier7582
      @sheagaier7582 Před 9 měsíci

      mine came into the nurses office when i had mt first panic attack in high school and kept giving me water helping me calm down

  • @cassidytalsma1818
    @cassidytalsma1818 Před 9 měsíci

    Man ik this is about high school guidance councilors. But "6 am to 6:25 am Monday through Tuesday" is definitely those college advisors too.

  • @Lane022
    @Lane022 Před 9 měsíci +1

    In my school, students were closer with the security guards and custodians then the school counselors. Like we would go to them instead and they actually cared about our problems.

  • @Lobotomized_raccoon
    @Lobotomized_raccoon Před 9 měsíci +2

    My school had like four counselors yet are still only available to work on schedules before school

  • @miahgray8383
    @miahgray8383 Před 8 měsíci

    the fact that my school was eagles & was just like this EXCEPT that one guidance counselor who was the only reason i graduated. gave me her cell number & all. really was the best woman ever

  • @hotcocoandart
    @hotcocoandart Před 9 měsíci +1

    She was just a little too close for comfort in that last clip. Perfect school councilor vibes tbh

  • @PragmaticEmpath
    @PragmaticEmpath Před 9 měsíci +2

    I found the most stale candy to put in my jar 😅

  • @blooeejellysfun7822
    @blooeejellysfun7822 Před 8 měsíci

    "welcome back EAGLES" LIKE HELLO?! THATS MY ELEMENTARY SYMBOL

  • @Moth_the_furry
    @Moth_the_furry Před 9 měsíci +3

    I hate my school counselor💀

  • @tineke4134
    @tineke4134 Před 8 měsíci +1

    I remember my parents told us they were getting divorced and then I showed up at high school the next day crying. I sat in the guidance office waiting room for like 20 mins as the staff and students walking by just watched me cry. The counselor even walked by and ignored me. All I needed was a private room to cry 🤦🏼‍♀️☠️

  • @Ozzy_Orion
    @Ozzy_Orion Před 9 měsíci

    Not my school mascot being eagles with a counselor like this

  • @cosmicvale
    @cosmicvale Před 9 měsíci

    I'm so glad I had an awesome school counselor

  • @1star._.
    @1star._. Před 9 měsíci

    The sad thing is that we have an eagle as our mascot and this is how it is😭

  • @alexlavoie4174
    @alexlavoie4174 Před 9 měsíci

    Seriously the only time I ever saw a counselor was when I had a mental breakdown in school AND IT WASNT EVEN MY COUNSELOR

  • @cassideeznutz7
    @cassideeznutz7 Před 9 měsíci +1

    I had the best guidance counselor ever, she was so nice and really cared about us

  • @CloudCloud01
    @CloudCloud01 Před 9 měsíci

    When your school mascot was an eagle 😶

  • @ozzuwazzoo4124
    @ozzuwazzoo4124 Před 9 měsíci +1

    THANK YOU. i fucking hated my counsellors. i was a “special case” kid so i was forced with them and they were always so patronizing and spoke to you like a toddler.
    the “support” they gave you was when you’d ask them a class related question, they’d get stuck on it themselves, then ask the teacher for help… 🤦

  • @ryangriffin5362
    @ryangriffin5362 Před 9 měsíci

    My guidance counselor told me to my face that should would prioritize my needs because I had a high class ranking. I watched her close a student’s file she was working on and move my paperwork to the top of her pile withy own eyes 😭

  • @betulceyhan8519
    @betulceyhan8519 Před 8 měsíci

    My school counselor took me out of the class to do posters and said in turn she’d check out my social work hours😅 and she did that mostly during his husband’s history classes.

  • @Mwahsadie
    @Mwahsadie Před 9 měsíci

    My school hated when kids wanted to change our schedule and they would even get kinda rude and yell-ish at us when we came in to ask

  • @Megal._.
    @Megal._. Před 9 měsíci

    its the fact that my school mascot is an eagle

  • @BluLuv_Harvey_Scooby
    @BluLuv_Harvey_Scooby Před 9 měsíci

    My counselor hated me for absolutely no reason and made it almost impossible for me to graduate because he'd make changes in my schedule or school year plan without telling me and not tell me when certain senior events are ((graded events)) and I end up missing them and then he says "you're behind already so it shouldn't change your grades much"

  • @bethanybrookes8479
    @bethanybrookes8479 Před 9 měsíci

    I honestly preferred chatting about my shot with the biology teacher than the guidance Councillor. Because the biology teacher 1) knew shot and 2) had an interesting collection of weird photos and models and stuff from biology lessons past.

  • @Idfc.0
    @Idfc.0 Před 9 měsíci +6

    Bro this felt targeted my school thing is the eagles

  • @Scalooosh1
    @Scalooosh1 Před 9 měsíci

    I thought she was going to say.
    "We've missed you ALL summer, and we're SO glad you're finally HERE!! WOOOOO!!"

  • @jazmineroldan149
    @jazmineroldan149 Před 9 měsíci

    The cardigan constantly over wrapped!!😭😭😭😭

  • @exovit6348
    @exovit6348 Před 9 měsíci

    it was the school nurse that hated me for no reason and it this skit still applies somehow 😂

  • @thj_5046
    @thj_5046 Před 8 měsíci

    i dont think we have a equivalent to a school counselor in my country but i lowkey get it. i deadass had to run around for a week to get ONE of my subjects sorted out because after 2 months of constantly emailing the person responsible nothing had happened💀

  • @Mazygolucky
    @Mazygolucky Před 9 měsíci

    I had a panic attack once in the middle of class in high school and my teacher brought be to the counselor who proceeded to ask me about my college plans…

  • @Cecilpedia
    @Cecilpedia Před 9 měsíci

    I remember in elementary school I was very depressed because the dog that I literally grew up with died from inoperable cancer. So I went to the counselor to talk about it. She gave me a kids book that explained grief and taught me healthy coping mechanisms to help process the grief. It was great.
    And then we got a new counselor.
    I went to her office because it was like a week after the last meeting. I told her what had been going on and what the last counselor did for me. This woman looked me dead in the eye and said "Well maybe you shouldn't have gotten a dog if its death upset you that much."

  • @Pookieeeeeeeeee180
    @Pookieeeeeeeeee180 Před 9 měsíci +1

    It’s the shoes for me

  • @Malves71
    @Malves71 Před 9 měsíci

    my counselor denied my class change for 0 reason

  • @yowwowtow
    @yowwowtow Před 8 měsíci

    6-6:25am is so real it’s like wtf you going? I thought you worked here!

  • @Delicate_Disaster
    @Delicate_Disaster Před 9 měsíci

    My old high-school just changed to the eagles and I so badly want to send this to my sister that goes there now 😂

  • @nicolesymonds2349
    @nicolesymonds2349 Před 9 měsíci +1

    I went to Midlakes High School in Phelps, NY...
    We were the Screaming Eagles 🦅😂

  • @MightyAceCakes
    @MightyAceCakes Před 9 měsíci

    I literally never knew my school had councilors

  • @sukikurai
    @sukikurai Před 9 měsíci +1

    honestly a certified period counselor sounds nice. if only i actually believe that meant anything

  • @octopusstars
    @octopusstars Před 9 měsíci

    I actually love my school counselor, shes helped me so much and she really cares. None of my other school counselors have ever been helpful at all, but the one at my school has showed me so many resources and helped me pull myself out of some of my lowest points in my life. I hope there will be many more counselors like her in the future

  • @witheredhouseplant
    @witheredhouseplant Před 9 měsíci

    Every day I'm so grateful I graduated

  • @carly_0516
    @carly_0516 Před 9 měsíci +2

    Yeah guidance councelors are USELESS!!

  • @saturns_starz
    @saturns_starz Před 9 měsíci

    No, omg, stawp, my old middle school Mascot was litrally eagles- I'm dead

  • @Starsongzz
    @Starsongzz Před 9 měsíci

    The plot twist is she’s also a college counselor 😔

  • @sheagaier7582
    @sheagaier7582 Před 9 měsíci

    i had 3 amazing guidance counselors! this video reminds me of that 1 awful counselor that nobody liked lol

  • @JuneNafziger
    @JuneNafziger Před 8 měsíci

    At least mine only sucks because she’s overworked (underfunded urban public schools yayyyyy!!!) and doesn’t have the time to keep track of everything

  • @nyanmew170
    @nyanmew170 Před 9 měsíci

    The first part was so true

  • @papa_beans_
    @papa_beans_ Před 9 měsíci

    Not the mascot being our mascot 😭

  • @MikiArtist
    @MikiArtist Před 9 měsíci

    noooo my high school mascot was literally the eagles 😭

  • @axuwu6939
    @axuwu6939 Před 9 měsíci +1

    My councelor gave me a schedule so humanly impossible to do and acted like it was the only possible way for me to graduate, and I straight up started sobbing a while after the meeting ended wondering how I’d possibly do that 😭
    So that was a great first start. I’m now perfectly on-track to graduate and transfer without any issues at least

  • @RainieDays15
    @RainieDays15 Před 9 měsíci

    Why does this hit different because my school mascot is actually the eagles

  • @grandmafibian6792
    @grandmafibian6792 Před 9 měsíci

    NOT ME BEING AN EAGLE

  • @kaisaunders7122
    @kaisaunders7122 Před 8 měsíci

    is my school the only one with 5 guidance councillors? 💀

  • @Flaming_coconut_chicken-jg9fr

    When I saw the welcome back eagles I did a double take because that’s my schools mascot

  • @cashback3293
    @cashback3293 Před 9 měsíci

    I DONT HAVE MY SCHOOL COUNSELOR THIS YEAR AND IM SO SAD SHE WAS THE ONLY GOOD COUNSELOR

  • @TheRealCommanderWolffe
    @TheRealCommanderWolffe Před 9 měsíci +5

    What scared me the most was it said welcome back eagles and that’s my school’s mascot. This is too real omg.

  • @Slay.4
    @Slay.4 Před 9 měsíci

    today as a office staff kid going into 8th grade; i was the one saying:"you need you scedual changed?"

  • @5Crows
    @5Crows Před 9 měsíci +5

    The head shake "no" while saying "we've missed you all summer" is SO SUBTLE and so clever
    (For anyone that doesn't know, it's someone shaking their head no with a positive statement usually indicates they're lying ((especially in fiction or a comedy bit like this)) so the guidance counselor is saying they didn't miss you over the summer)

  • @laurenann4693
    @laurenann4693 Před 9 měsíci

    as someone whose school mascot was an eagle, wow the accuracy hurts

  • @Skriel
    @Skriel Před 9 měsíci

    My school mascot was actually eagles😂😂😂

  • @eleanorfrederic
    @eleanorfrederic Před 9 měsíci

    Bro our mascots an eagle and this is the most accurate thing ever

  • @Camilla-hb7ki
    @Camilla-hb7ki Před 9 měsíci

    The only good experience I had with the school councler was when I found a cockroach and they showed it to the janitors but I asked for it back so in the middle of class I got called to the councellers office so they could return my cockroach.

  • @jackfrost3564
    @jackfrost3564 Před 9 měsíci

    My high school got in a lot of trouble with the district because we had the highest population and required a parent to come down in order to do ANY scheduling changes including upperclassmen or students that were already 18, but our guidance office closed at 2:00 PM so they basically fucked everyones schedule every year and then made parents take a day off work to fix their mistakes. 🙄

  • @NatEva0812
    @NatEva0812 Před 9 měsíci

    MY MASCOT IS ACTUALLY EAGLES AND WHY IS THIS SO ACURATE

  • @allyedunn
    @allyedunn Před 9 měsíci

    My schools mascot are the eagles 😂

  • @c0d3.c0dy
    @c0d3.c0dy Před 9 měsíci

    i went to a school called eagles and we had a mascot that was an eagle 💀

  • @Norinia
    @Norinia Před 9 měsíci +1

    I remember 4th grade, I started having a mental breakdown, constantly thinking I was a monster (because when I was several grades younger, my autism overload would have me chucking full size heavy furniture at teachers. Not sure if the first one deserved it, but second one intentionally prevented me from calming down, so f^ck her) so I’d run away and around the school when I was suffering from overload.
    One day, the guidance counselor told me if I suffered from overload again, I should aim myself towards her room, that way they could know I was safe, and she’d let me stay until I calmed down.
    The next time I overloaded, I tried this, aimed towards her room. The moment I entered, she stormed over, grabbed me, and dragged me back, kicking and screaming and begging not to be forced to return. Both she and my teacher felt extremely smug from doing this.
    Needless to say, I overloaded again less than 10 minutes later, and I did *not* go near her room, ever again. Glad she felt so great destroying my trust in her for one single easy time ‘wrangling the retard’.
    (I overloaded and ran around 100 times through that single school year. Only once was a teacher ever willing to be calm and talk me down from it, but he wasn’t my teacher, and I’d never be allowed to be in his class.)
    (oh, and they’d never phrase it as overload. Even though I had autism in my diagnoses, they absolutely refused to extend me any help in understanding my condition or what was happening. I thought I was an absolute failure of a human being. I still do. I’m only now finding tricks, tips, and tools to help my condition from people online who share their stories and what was common for them and what helps. Mind you, not everything works, but what helps massively helps my condition and is insanely simple, I don’t know why school systems thought the easiest way was to hurt, abuse, and deny me any help instead of these ways)

  • @ZombieSazza
    @ZombieSazza Před 9 měsíci

    My high school guidance teacher (Scotland, but same thing) actively hated almost all his students, and then would act shocked that none of us asked for help or spoke to him about anything. One day he pulled me aside, I was going through rough child abuse, and tried shaming me for having a poor attendance record when social workers had literally told him my mother demanded I stay home to care for her and my brother, and if I didn’t it would be met with violence. So he pulled me aside and tried to shame me, and I cut him off and just said
    “See this is why everyone hates you, you know some of us are going through real problems and you’re trying to shame us, you tried shaming the disabled girl for having to leave classes 10 minutes early just so she can get to her next class as she’s wheelchair bound, you tried shaming the deaf girl because she’s mute and tried bullying her into talking when her vocal chords didn’t develop properly, you tried shaming me for having bruising when you know I live in a violent home, and you tried shaming the IT teacher for actually caring about his students. That’s why nobody likes you, we actually all hate you because it’s obvious you hate every single student you come across, are a bully, and you make fun of disabled kids like wtf man”
    Apparently this made me “emotional”, “unreasonable”, and of course “rude”, so I made an official complaint and the school had enough of the dude and put him on early retirement, his whole career as a guidance teacher, where he’s meant to help and guide students, was a bully campaign by one sad man, and the fact he even had the job for that long is disgraceful.

  • @likelyok9634
    @likelyok9634 Před 5 měsíci

    Nah cuz my school has an eagle mascot-

  • @OliTru-zk3gw
    @OliTru-zk3gw Před 9 měsíci

    My school mascot is a eagle…

  • @aismakessounds
    @aismakessounds Před 9 měsíci

    I was in the top 10% of my class, only needed 2 credits to graduate but still decide to take the full year, and to fulfill one of them I tried signing up for a class th I'd been trying to get into every year since sophomore year. According to the counselor, there wasn't enough room and they wanted to give it to the older students first. Guess who originally got a schedule that wasn't going to let her graduate because that same counselor didn't think it was fair to move a sophomore out of the class! 🙃

  • @name-1787
    @name-1787 Před 9 měsíci

    STOP MY SCHOOL THING IS LIKE EAGLES

  • @Ryelle_hates_everyone
    @Ryelle_hates_everyone Před 8 měsíci +1

    Omggg this is soooo accurate ❤

  • @Starry9593
    @Starry9593 Před 9 měsíci +2

    My school counselor my fired because it came out that she was sharing private information from meetings with students with others... also she slept with one of the football players!!!

  • @mymymia2998
    @mymymia2998 Před 9 měsíci

    i love my councilor sm

  • @Rainbow0015
    @Rainbow0015 Před 9 měsíci

    I will admit that I got helped by a school counselor. Once. Just once. But I was so far gone that anyone would have helped. Besides that, they're useless

  • @arkidie
    @arkidie Před 9 měsíci

    I would talk about the troubles I was having at home, like being bullied by my older cousin and my school counselor was like “well there’s nothing you can do about it, so you shouldn’t worry about it” Like.. And she said the same thing about my sensory issues. I’ve had wonderful school counselors and very bad ones, but not so great for me is my last two and a half years of highschool were with the one I was talking about 😐

  • @Mothy2003
    @Mothy2003 Před 9 měsíci

    Cried to my councilor once because of how severe bullying was getting and she told me to shut up, and introduce myself when I stop 'whining'
    Nothing was done lmao I had to confront the dude myself and settle it in a less-that-school-rule-abiding way

  • @Sam-lc6vh
    @Sam-lc6vh Před 8 měsíci

    My school counselors all suck, hate their jobs and the students don’t have office hours so you have go to them every time you have a free period in hopes that they’ll coincidentally be there and one of them tried to convince me that I wasn’t dyslexic and then they get mad when I won’t share the most private details about my life with them so that they can “know what they’re dealing with“ I know this is a joke but I wish I had counselors like this

  • @AuntLoopy123
    @AuntLoopy123 Před 9 měsíci

    I wasn't even aware that my high school even HAD a counselor, or any sort, until they forced every senior to go, during the last semester, to talk about, "Where are you going to apply to college."
    "I've had my college chosen for about a decade, now, so I'll just go there."
    "Are you sure? You have fantastic grades and extra-curricular activities, and could probably go Ivy League."
    "Don't care. I'm going to the same college as my brother."
    "Okie dokie."
    So, that was my entire interaction with the guidance counselor. As far as any other sort of counseling, I don't think we actually had it.