I May Have Quit Social Media FOREVER, Here’s How

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  • čas přidán 27. 08. 2024
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    Yes, it's true. I may have quit social media forever. To be clear, the one I was REALLY addicted to was Twitter. But I'm not anymore! I kinda tricked myself into quitting. I'll show you how. (Also to be clear, I'm not quitting entirely. Just no longer addicted. I go DAYS without logging on. It's wonderful.)
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    1:19 The Good Stuff About Twitter
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    4:40 Why I Failed to Quit So Many Times
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Komentáře • 541

  • @wheezywaiter
    @wheezywaiter  Před 4 měsíci +8

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  • @Dionyzos
    @Dionyzos Před 4 měsíci +744

    Never understood the appeal of Twitter, but oh boy, do I have a problem with CZcams.

    • @jttasso753
      @jttasso753 Před 4 měsíci +45

      The terminally online viewers ASSEMBLE...unfortunately.

    • @someguy2135
      @someguy2135 Před 4 měsíci +27

      For me- I do have a problem with both CZcams and Reddit! I started out in the CZcams comments, and then Reddit. Between the two, Reddit is better, but the threads disappear quicker since they are replaced by a newer thread. With CZcams comments, I get replies sometimes years after my original comment or reply to someone else's comment.

    • @oz_jones
      @oz_jones Před 4 měsíci +4

      CZcams isnt social media.

    • @someguy2135
      @someguy2135 Před 4 měsíci

      @@oz_jones Yes it is. Google it and every hit says so. Here is one- "What is Social Media? Social media refers to the means of interactions among people in which they create, share, and/or exchange information and ideas in virtual communities and networks. The Office of Communications and Marketing manages the main Facebook, X/Twitter, Instagram, LinkedIn, and CZcams accounts."-Tufts University

    • @MesoScale
      @MesoScale Před 4 měsíci +8

      ​@@someguy2135 I disabled reply notification years ago. And the fire and forget approach really helped me. See you in the next life, buddy. Maybe in person? Take care.

  • @utopiaoflove
    @utopiaoflove Před 4 měsíci +499

    Don’t sell yourself short, you’re ready for mesh transparent tops

    • @wheezywaiter
      @wheezywaiter  Před 4 měsíci +52

      💪

    • @piketubeman
      @piketubeman Před 4 měsíci +19

      No really Craig. We all think you're ready ❤️

    • @calmyourmind5665
      @calmyourmind5665 Před 4 měsíci +11

      It’s settled that he’s ready for transparent mesh. Now the real question is black tape on the nipples or go all natural?

    • @98Zai
      @98Zai Před 4 měsíci

      At least as a joke? Please? 🙊

    • @lowwastehighmelanin
      @lowwastehighmelanin Před 4 měsíci

      @@calmyourmind5665 tape for YT censors

  • @asirrisa7615
    @asirrisa7615 Před 4 měsíci +94

    Something i heard about any addiction is that the more times you quit the more likely you are to quit for good. This might have just been your time. I've quit most social medias that way, by quitting multiple times over about 5 years. If you're trying to quit something, don't give up just because you gave up!! try again! it's gets easier and easier each time :]

  • @MightiestBeard
    @MightiestBeard Před 4 měsíci +197

    The best part about quitting Twitter is how quickly you realize it stinks when you go back and check it again. Like "wow, this is how I was spending my time..."

    • @wheezywaiter
      @wheezywaiter  Před 4 měsíci +35

      This is true for me, too!

    • @saphire82
      @saphire82 Před 4 měsíci +11

      Exactly like you go there and Twitter says to you hello are you ready to go back to being in a horrible mood today? Me “no thank you” aaannnnddd exit

    • @Somebodyelse141
      @Somebodyelse141 Před 4 měsíci

      Yup, but somehow I still find myself scrolling hours later 🙃

    • @Temö-000
      @Temö-000 Před měsícem

      Agree!

  • @margretsnae
    @margretsnae Před 4 měsíci +109

    I don't use Twitter, but I need a way to not accidentally fall into a doomscroll of short form videos on Facebook, CZcams and Instagram. I thought I'd solved it when I deleted TikTok, but then TikTok spread everywhere else.

    • @blue9070
      @blue9070 Před 4 měsíci +18

      FELT THIS i have never download tiktok because I know it would be bad for me, but turns out CZcams shorts just became bad for me instead 😩

    • @audreyl606
      @audreyl606 Před 4 měsíci +8

      you can turn off auto-play on video so that videos don't start playing automatically. it's so annoying it might help. if you tend to use your phone on data, you can also set youtube to wifi only

    • @YouFoundBen
      @YouFoundBen Před 4 měsíci +2

      Delete them all?

    • @charthepirate
      @charthepirate Před 4 měsíci +3

      I turned my phone to grayscale. That really reduces the amount of scroll I do

    • @MelissaHammondsD
      @MelissaHammondsD Před 4 měsíci

      On CZcams settings, you can turn off saving your watch history, next you delete your entire watch history. After that shorts do not work on CZcams. You can search for something and click a short and scroll through about 4 before it says it can't play anymore because it can't do suggestions. This will also turn off CZcams video recommendations on the home page. You can still see your sub box and search for videos.

  • @casperkittle
    @casperkittle Před 4 měsíci +21

    getting rid of instagram was similar for me- i genuinely thought i was going to lose friendships and that my life would collapse, socially, without it. but no. i feel a lot better without social media, especially knowing that it is designed & developed to keep you on it. i feel healthier when i can’t see what everyone else i know is up to, all of the time.

  • @Novara95
    @Novara95 Před 4 měsíci +40

    I quit everything but CZcams like ten years ago, still going strong. All my real friends know I don’t have it at this point and they all think to call/text for events. It’s actually really nice. Couldn’t imagine going back.

  • @boredirishguy
    @boredirishguy Před 4 měsíci +156

    OK fine, I'll comment on your videos from now on. Though that seems like a big commitment, how about I'll comment on this one, and we'll see how it goes.

    • @alysonmarie
      @alysonmarie Před 4 měsíci +15

      Hey you’re doing great. Good job

    • @boredirishguy
      @boredirishguy Před 4 měsíci +6

      @@alysonmarie thanks. You know, buzzing off your positive vibes makes it all worth it.

    • @tracyaf6084
      @tracyaf6084 Před 4 měsíci +2

      Seems like a good plan 😊

    • @kellyradtke4885
      @kellyradtke4885 Před 4 měsíci +1

      Comment every day for 30 days.

    • @alysonmarie
      @alysonmarie Před 4 měsíci +1

      @@boredirishguy here to cheerlead you along 😂

  • @amandasaufley8665
    @amandasaufley8665 Před 4 měsíci +94

    Usual lurker here being brave and commenting. I wanted to get rid of socials for awhile but having a baby finally motivated me to get rid of it all. After reading about the effect of social media on children and young teens, that was the final motivation. I’m happier and doing more things I actually enjoy with my free time. I obviously still have CZcams, but I don’t think “the algorithm” has ruined CZcams in the same way it as all other social media platforms. My feed is still lots of educational, creative, and inspiring and usually fun content!

    • @Redhippo55
      @Redhippo55 Před 4 měsíci +3

      I'm in the same boat! I'm slipping a little lately and find myself picking up my phone a little more often but it's so much better than it used to be, phew!! Seeing how intrigued my baby is by my phone makes me want to throw it in the bin haha.

    • @Somebodyelse141
      @Somebodyelse141 Před 4 měsíci +2

      I'm reducing my time on social media. A big motivation for me is my daughter. I already have a full time job and other responsibilities. I want to make sure the time I spend with her, I'm present. Plus, I want to be a good example to her

    • @X24453
      @X24453 Před 4 měsíci +1

      The real problem I have is shorts. Short form video content is stupid addictive and I have to actively block myself from using it.

    • @X24453
      @X24453 Před 4 měsíci

      (as opposed to the rest of CZcams which is generally just fine)

    • @alonnamarie5134
      @alonnamarie5134 Před 4 měsíci

      New mom here too, feel like social media addiction is taking me away from my kids so I'm trying really hard to quit.

  • @rundtbalet
    @rundtbalet Před 4 měsíci +28

    My best tips to make apps less addictive on iPhone: Settings > Accessibility > Display & Text Size > Color Filters > Enable Color Filters > Grayscale

  • @OnDVD
    @OnDVD Před 4 měsíci +47

    Reddit and Twitter seemed so hard to quit and then I neeeeever missed em. It’s better on the other side.

  • @yrguitar1
    @yrguitar1 Před 4 měsíci +18

    This is why I love Shabbat regardless of religious reasons. One day of the week to disconnect and relax. One day of the week to be with family and friends

    • @joleneonyoutube
      @joleneonyoutube Před 4 měsíci +9

      have you or anyone else noticed that the concept of the weekend seems to have just disappeared? with flexible working schedules, people working shifts/different times of the week in different industries, it's like nobody has rest days anymore regardless of when they're working. I'd love if we could all culturally learn from religions like Judaism that practice Shabbat. It was so forward thinking to have that practice/discpline/connective time with what's truly important. Even more important in today's never switched off never not hustlin' world.

    • @thatjillgirl
      @thatjillgirl Před 4 měsíci +6

      @@joleneonyoutube Boy I sure have! I went into a career that runs seven days a week, which means I work every other weekend, as well as several other days throughout the week. Never having consistent rest days has really kind of thrown me off kilter. Because, yes, I get the days off, but I can't really plan a regular scheduled leisure activity or reliably make plans with friends (who do have consistent days off). It just feels like even when I get a day off, my mind doesn't quite disconnect and recover, because there isn't that dedicated protected time off where my brain and body know to relax and rest.

    • @joleneonyoutube
      @joleneonyoutube Před 4 měsíci +3

      @@thatjillgirl This is so important, and well said -- you need that consistency in order to rest effectively. Damn. Thanks for sharing and adding that! we need that dedicated time to really focus on rest, all the different kinds of rest, and quiet and focus and connectivity with our communities. It sucks that you dont get that I'm so sorry!!

    • @arioctober
      @arioctober Před 5 dny

      As a Jew I approve this message 😂❤

  • @sphinx1017
    @sphinx1017 Před 4 měsíci +20

    I signed up to twitter then forgot the password and that was that. So grateful!

  • @bethanythatsme
    @bethanythatsme Před 4 měsíci +21

    CZcams has been my only digital media outlet for almost a year now & it's been so damn beneficial to my mental health. Some folks can maintain a healthy self esteem and also not spend hours scrolling scrolling, but not this gal.

  • @98Zai
    @98Zai Před 4 měsíci +12

    I quit TV after many many years glued to it. Few years later got addicted to twitch. I quit twitch after many many years glued to it. I now experience boredom again and I think it's great. I do miss the awesome people over there, but it's just too addictive.

  • @lizilachman6809
    @lizilachman6809 Před 4 měsíci +22

    Good timing. I’ve deleted all social media apps on my phone (other than CZcams) 3 days ago! It’s really hard but will be worth it in the long term

  • @VernTheSatyr
    @VernTheSatyr Před 4 měsíci +16

    I have a problem with youtube, but I will make sure to not think about it and keep watching, thanks Mr. Water

  • @anitas5817
    @anitas5817 Před 4 měsíci +4

    I think this hits on the main issues with social media. Thinking for myself - I have constant input from others and I don’t sit with my own thoughts anymore. And the faux-social aspect of interacting by comments is addictive and a low quality type of relating to other people.

  • @Fenir2004
    @Fenir2004 Před 4 měsíci +11

    For the strong opinions, I completely agree with you. I've always said that people tend to leave reviews most when they want to express anger or something, and it's the same for online in general comments. The people that express anger/negativity will be the loudest, second you got the people with super high excitement, and those with minor thoughts will just say quiet. I noticed that whenever I would go into the comment section on instagram, I just end up feeling like shit after. I still use instagram, but I've had a higher sense of general happiness from just not looking at comments anymore.
    Using apps for a "purpose" is important, I agree. We all know that all the apps are designed to keep us on them for the maximum amount of time and to be addictive so then more ads can be shown to us. My apps previously were subscribed to such a giant mix, and it makes it so easy to just keep scrolling. I recently cleaned up all my follows/subscriptions to focus mainly on just artists (because I do art and want to insert myself into the community) with only a few exceptions, purposely scroll past anything that's "suggested", and stick to just checking on what's new with those specific people before being done. It leaves me feeling like I've used my time well and I feel less like a blob.

  • @Hoorkat
    @Hoorkat Před 4 měsíci +10

    Got rid of all the socials a decade ago, i feel like probably when the engagement tactics was a little less intense.
    I listen to the news in the car and have CZcams constantly going in the background at home so I stay pretty up to date, honesty the only thing I’m ever missing out on is the memes so the worst side effect is just feeling like a confused grandma.
    I can definitely relate to the struggle when quitting a time-sink though, I’m *really* productive whenever I lose interest in video games and legitimately don’t want to go back but the second I let myself slip it’s months of “whoops spent 5 hours just sitting here doing and accomplishing nothing”.

  • @MrDirtydisco
    @MrDirtydisco Před 4 měsíci +50

    I was only ever kinda addicted to facebook. Endless scolling without even planning to do so, was pissed all the time due to all the shit on there.
    I did it cold turkey. Deleted all likes , friends and everything with a script, since back then it was really annoying to have to delete everything one by one. That did the trick for me.
    As soon as none if my "identity" was on there anymore, and I didnt have any friends on there, i felt no need .
    I did feel lonely for a while, but that went away quick.
    It was the best thing i did that year.
    Congratz !!

    • @roberttalada5196
      @roberttalada5196 Před 4 měsíci

      I backed up my Facebook and deleted the entire account.
      Then I lost the backup. Everything is gone. It’s kind of depressing, I’m honestly never ever going to get fully over.

  • @richardmoore6078
    @richardmoore6078 Před 4 měsíci +15

    Long-time lurker, sometimes commenter, checking in.

  • @summermarsh4712
    @summermarsh4712 Před 4 měsíci +5

    I'm definitely a lurker. I just wanted to let you know that I like your videos, and I think you do a good job on them.

  • @jennymiranda6177
    @jennymiranda6177 Před 4 měsíci +10

    Im addicted to Tik Tok right now. It’s just endless content. But I can feel my brain hurt from not being able to focus on something for a long time. So CZcams is great for me to maintain my focus on one thing.

    • @JJ_Smilez
      @JJ_Smilez Před 4 měsíci +3

      I was addicted to TikTok too, and I got rid of it, and my life changed for the better. I thought I’d miss it, but I don’t!

  • @daveSoupy
    @daveSoupy Před 4 měsíci +6

    So I have changed my phone to B&W and it's really surprising me how much less stimulating it makes my phone. My mind is calmer and it is easier to leave the phone alone. When I turn it on for things it does feel amazing how saturated everything feels. idk it's helping me but it does take a few days to get used to it.

    • @joleneonyoutube
      @joleneonyoutube Před 4 měsíci +2

      This is super interesting to me how common I'm seeing this in this comment section - I used to do this at night to make my phone less stimulating/less bluelight as the bluelight filter making everything rosy/pink was annoying for me. Then I realised that I was wanting to switch it off to see the colours for games I would play at night to wind down before bed. So i learned a lot about what I was actually using my phone for habitually, - I actually WANTED the stimulation! - and that helped me figure out how to change the habit.

  • @LarryDLaneYT
    @LarryDLaneYT Před 4 měsíci +10

    Type Type Type. Strong opinion. Strong opinion. Type Type Type.
    Loved the video, Craig!

  • @NarutoFreak47
    @NarutoFreak47 Před 4 měsíci +7

    Excited for the comic video! I've fallen out of them since TWO of my favorite comic stores closed (2016 and 2018) and never really found another. Will honestly probably be helpful for me as well.
    Anyway, proud of the Twitter separation. I managed to luck out by never actually starting on Twitter, but Facebook still has me in a vice grip, so I get it.

  • @knitpiks587
    @knitpiks587 Před 4 měsíci +3

    Thank you for acknowledging us lurkers, and showing us how it's done!

  • @kris12385
    @kris12385 Před 4 měsíci +2

    I have literally done this EXACT same thing. The EXACT process. But my addictive social media was Reddit. I quit all social media other than Reddit and CZcams in 2017, and it was the best decision I ever made. But Reddit was my weakness. Until I blocked it using an app on my android phone. Now I only go to Reddit on my computer, but only when I am looking for specific advise or information. I Reddit maybe 3 times a week, and I never use r/all or r/popular anymore. I am so out of the loop, and it has made my relationships better because now all my friends and family have to spend far more time explaining news and pop culture to me and we get to bond more and talk about it critically. I still use CZcams daily (we pay for no ads) but I only watch things that make me happy. I love when my husband gets home and debriefs me on the news of the day, with the added benefit of not having to sit through rage bating content creators. Anyway, I think my coffee is done, time to put on an old Driftless Pony Club CD and fold laundry while I catch up on Wheezy's newer old videos.

  • @GoufinAround_
    @GoufinAround_ Před 4 měsíci +2

    Twitter was, embarrassingly, the toughest thing for me to quit. Then the unhealthy use of it transitioned to Instagram and after that I got rid of instagram from my phone, I'm down to looking at that very rarely now too. Social media is such a double edged sword

  • @vilo159
    @vilo159 Před 4 měsíci +1

    I did this with CZcams last year for a while. I did the blocking stuff, but I think mostly I was just ready to quit. And I did, with pretty much no desire to go back, for a good six months. I wasn't monastic, I'd still use it to seek out specific information (which was always the killer on other times I tried to quit, the convenience would bring me to the site then I'd get sucked in), but it didn't have the same magnetic draw. Unfortunately, because it was relying on some unspecified mental state, that state eventually changed, and now I'm back to being on CZcams way too much. Cool video, but part of me expects a follow-up in a couple months saying why you're back on twitter. And that's okay, that's life. :) Enjoy it!

  • @partydogg0
    @partydogg0 Před 4 měsíci +2

    "And I can just float, with my thoughts" AND the sound of the autofocus rattling on

  • @jennesont4791
    @jennesont4791 Před 4 měsíci +1

    I adore you! Your videos are the best combination of useful information, fabulous humour, and relatability!! I look forward to every one. Thank you

  • @gregorious111
    @gregorious111 Před 4 měsíci +1

    WheezyWaiter's advice is pure gold

  • @sgtigereye
    @sgtigereye Před 4 měsíci +2

    Saga is my favorite comic, so glad to see you are enjoying it!

  • @Optionfinity
    @Optionfinity Před 4 měsíci +2

    Appreciate your video and perspective, Wheezy!
    I've been off social media my for most of my life (aside from CZcams - if you can call this social media) and haven't felt like I've missed a beat.

  • @timmles42
    @timmles42 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Once I saw that blue cartoon-like dot by your TV…I couldn’t unsee it.

    • @joleneonyoutube
      @joleneonyoutube Před 4 měsíci

      Wait, what? Why is it there, what is it, what's going on 😂😂👀👀

  • @MyFocusVaries
    @MyFocusVaries Před 4 měsíci +3

    I gave up Twitter during COVID. So much idiocy and 🔥. Doom scrolling hurt my mental health, so cold 🦃 was my only option.

  • @aynapaisley
    @aynapaisley Před 4 měsíci

    No way..I remember watching your channel like 15 years ago. I remember you with no beard! So happy to have stumbled upon your channel and see that your goofy (in a very good way) personality have not changed much. And that the banjo face and the wink at the end of the videos are still here. Even your profile picture is still the same 🥹

  • @csmith7404
    @csmith7404 Před 4 měsíci +2

    I loved that little Fresh Prince interstitial 😆

  • @briangilley5960
    @briangilley5960 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Everyone seems to have a social media kryptonite. Twitter doesn’t do it for a lot of CZcamsrs but we all seem to have a weakness. App limits are super helpful for me. Like this video, keep rolling 👍🏼

  • @munstracity
    @munstracity Před 4 měsíci +8

    Okay, you're Nord mention is the only sponsorship message I've ever fully listened to on any video! Good job for keeping me engaged!

    • @kremzupa_69
      @kremzupa_69 Před 4 měsíci +1

      I watch though wheezywaiter and PewDiePie's ads ONLY. period

    • @habersmashery
      @habersmashery Před 4 měsíci +2

      The shorts. I had no idea I was so weak-willed until shorts entered my life.

  • @JustineAprilJ
    @JustineAprilJ Před 4 měsíci

    Was also addicted to Twitter for a while, but then I lost my password and never bothered to recover it. Now when my friends talk about problematic tweets and controversial takes, I feel glad that I didn't go back.
    Still very much addicted to CZcams, Reddit, and IG (reels) tho.

  • @thatjillgirl
    @thatjillgirl Před 4 měsíci

    You have summed up my feelings on the subject perfectly! I never got into Twitter at all, but boy did Facebook reel me in. Facebook was fun way back in the day when it was just your friends on there (and actual forum style groups--remember Facebook groups?). But these days, most of it is ads and sponsored posts, perfectly calibrated to keep your specific eyeballs glued to the screen, and scrolling, and clicking, and scrolling, and clicking. And each and every comment section is filled with people with horrible opinions, hot takes, and the like, and I know some of them aren't even real people, and it STILL makes me feel despair for the state of humans every time. It just leaves me feeling depressed. And yet, it's so well designed that my brain comes back for MORE, another shot of dopamine from that stuff that doesn't even make me feel good! I hate it, even while I don't want to get rid of it completely, because like you, I do still find some good in it. My brain actually felt way more cleansed of it than it ever has before after this past Lent (I've given up social media for Lent every year for the past few years). But it's starting to creep back in. I need to block it the way you have. That's the only way. Deleting the app has helped (Facebook's website on mobile is shockingly clunky). But it's not enough. Thank you for the tips. I will be implementing them effective today.

  • @98Zai
    @98Zai Před 4 měsíci +2

    Death from the Sandman comic is my favorite character ever.

  • @flexorlamonticus
    @flexorlamonticus Před 4 měsíci +1

    I would love to hear your thoughts on those comics you are reading! You definitely have some of the best!

  • @EricaGamet
    @EricaGamet Před 4 měsíci

    Last year I actually deleted all of my Twitter accounts. I found that it had become a cesspool and not the lovely place it was back in 2008. Add to that some of the questionable choices made in regards to hate speech and attacks on those of us in marginalized groups and I was done. I don't miss it... I was already mourning what it had been so quitting was also easy for me. I find I spend a lot of time on my city's main Reddit sub... at least there I feel like I'm actually discussing (and sometimes arguing) with actual people who at least live in my city... feels more like real life, I think? And I've become more active in what's happening in my community (transit, crime/policing, cultural)... it's been great! I think it's important to find online communities that bring something good into your life, maybe a little spice now and then, but not heap on more negativity... the world is full enough already of that.

  • @GuanoLad
    @GuanoLad Před 4 měsíci +1

    I enjoyed Twitter because it gave direct access to celebs I admired and they were fun contributors to the platform. Over the years those celebs came and went and came back and went away again, and now that Twitter is far worse than it has ever been and unlikely to improve they've stopped coming back (also, not just celebs, but also news organisations and my fave TV show accounts). So soon enough I'll go too. But I will miss all the non-celebs who have become my online friends who may not go to wherever I end up next.

  • @EcomCarl
    @EcomCarl Před 4 měsíci +1

    Great insights on moderating social media use! Setting boundaries is key to maintaining mental wellness, especially in today's digitally driven world-balancing connectivity with personal health is crucial. 👍

  • @lefrinj
    @lefrinj Před 4 měsíci

    Yes to that Understanding Comics book, it's way deeper than I thought when I was given it.

  • @radicalewok
    @radicalewok Před 4 měsíci

    I’ve stopped using Reddit and it was maybe one of the best things I did. I used to scroll for ages. Sometimes I’d be like “I should stop scrolling and do something else and then the something else was just opening Reddit on a new tab.
    The hardest part was just breaking the impulse of opening Reddit. Once I got past that I never missed using it or had a desire to use it.

  • @PokiandLemon
    @PokiandLemon Před 4 měsíci +1

    I have a strong opinion that Wheezy is pretty cool and would probably be a great person to bounce ideas off of.

  • @janehex
    @janehex Před 4 měsíci +1

    I got on Twitter in 2008 too! And tweeted about... once a year. I kind of only use it to follow my sports teams. But it's mostly trash (except for the Merriam-Webster account and maybe some dog accounts). I don't use the app, and Twitter hates that I don't use their app, and won't let you post pictures or gifs outside the app. So I kind of don't look at it anymore at all. I realized that a) I am not missing anything, and b) when I did find myself scrolling on it, or reading the comments, I always started feeling bad or anxious. Eff that.
    BTW, the Twitter account "Avoid Comments" or "Don't Read The Comments" has existed almost as long as Twitter. It holds up.

  • @LimeCabbage
    @LimeCabbage Před 4 měsíci +2

    Osaka station is technically not a department store, but the clip you used is sandwiched right between two department stores 😅

  • @NadavMorad
    @NadavMorad Před 4 měsíci

    I deleted my Twitter months ago (for the same reason most people do), and while watching this video i had the thought "huh, I haven't been using Twitter for a few months and it's not like I feel like 100% amazing all the time, maybe that means Twitter wasn't so bad for me and i can go back". I think that idea might be a common reason people go back to their old habits: It's not like my life now is THAT much better, right? After a while, it's easy to forget the reasons you wanted to quit.

  • @johnnyvvlog
    @johnnyvvlog Před 4 měsíci

    I just turned off all notifications except for calls and messaging apps. Makes life so much better.
    And between 10pm and 6am everything is off and my phone automatically goes into do not disturb.

  • @testtheworld
    @testtheworld Před 4 měsíci

    I quit last summer. I have no urge to go back. I feel so good about the time I have now. That was one of my main reasons, another being how depressed I felt after scrolling or blurting out endless stream of consciousness to the void. July 7th will mark a full year for me!

  • @jakedixonmusic
    @jakedixonmusic Před 4 měsíci +1

    Hello, long-time viewer of the channel here. Just commenting to let you know that I have a strong opinion about enjoying WheezyWaiter content. Thank you.

  • @CristinaB228
    @CristinaB228 Před 4 měsíci

    Last week I closed my 12-year-old Facebook profile for good and I felt such great RELIEF! Now I only have a tiny private Instagram where I follow cats, chickens, and other cute animals. Best thing ever!

  • @pianoplayeh
    @pianoplayeh Před 4 měsíci

    I have the same problem with CZcams-currently watching this on safari for iPhone.

  • @markchmielewski8495
    @markchmielewski8495 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Craig lurking makes me think he may have went to Milford Academy. "You can always tell a Milford Man"

  • @haplesslee1275
    @haplesslee1275 Před 4 měsíci

    I quit it all too. And its the bomb! I text friends more, and I think I may even start writing letters again to friends and family :)

  • @NicholasWellcome
    @NicholasWellcome Před 4 měsíci +1

    My secret to not being addicted to Twitter is that I never used it to begin with.
    My secret to not being addicted to Reddit (anymore) is that I uninstalled the mobile app for a bit and while I was gone it became significantly worse so I got to jump back into the scalding water instead of being gradually boiled .
    My secret for not being addicted to CZcams is denial.

  • @washout04
    @washout04 Před 4 měsíci

    Good work. I quit Instagram a while ago and it’s been a great change.

  • @catharinab8860
    @catharinab8860 Před 4 měsíci

    This remind me it’s time for one of my two yearly instagram breaks which usually takes place in may and november/ december.

  • @ArtfulMaverick
    @ArtfulMaverick Před 4 měsíci

    I had to ‘censor’ my Twitter feed (by muting certain words) so that it doesn’t make me feel frustrated every time I use the app/website. Yes, debating sensitive or taboo social issues is important; but, when you have the problems of limited amount of characters per tweet, plus the most important factor: the tone of voice that is missing…it just makes lurking on the site a really unpleasant experience.

  • @m_here1
    @m_here1 Před 4 měsíci

    I have two motivations for finally quitting Instagram and CZcams doom scrolling: (1) my mental health and (2) I am taking my state bar examination in a few months and I really need to get rid of the distraction and the opportunities to compare myself so I can actually focus on studying and not get anxious about whatever everyone else is doing. I think it would be really healthy for me, and will hopefully help me have a better relationship with the Internet as someone who grew up online.

  • @MaartenBlij
    @MaartenBlij Před 4 měsíci

    I did something similar. I blocked all social media on my main phone and did not block it on my old phone. The old phone is next to the couch. If I’m at the coach, it’s probably time not be productive so it’s not a big deal if I scroll.

  • @schwambibambi6492
    @schwambibambi6492 Před 4 měsíci

    I quit Instagram (never really had a problem with the others) and while I allow myself 15 minutes with a timer on my laptop, most days, I don't go on the website at all. I feel so much better now! You actually inspired me to do so, so thanks! Also yes, I am only commenting because you mentioned it in the video

  • @jessicapaul7538
    @jessicapaul7538 Před 4 měsíci +1

    The comments are so true❤ I love your take

  • @buttercupisevil
    @buttercupisevil Před 4 měsíci +1

    I even stopped reading the news about a year ago. All the bad all the time was really affecting me.

  • @evelepagus
    @evelepagus Před 4 měsíci

    I deleted my social media (except youtube lol) accounts a few years ago, terrified of how hard it would be. Turns out to have been one of the least regrettable decisions I have ever made 🤷‍♀My sadness levels have plummeted overall.

  • @SishGupta
    @SishGupta Před 4 měsíci

    Back in 2000 I used to have the TV on all the time. There was a "tv turnoff week" that I participated in just with the intent of reducing but it killed my addiction and I never really turned the tv back on for background noise ever again.

  • @JonasHamill
    @JonasHamill Před 4 měsíci

    I feel the objective deterioration since the X re-branding has certainly helped. Every time I open it I stay there a short amount, and I find myself opening it far less frequently, and that's without any other methods to reduce my usage. It's just lost most of what made it great and therefore loses the draw to keep going back.

  • @KellyFrisby
    @KellyFrisby Před 4 měsíci

    Had a "friend" who communicated events through Facebook. If you weren't on Facebook, you wouldn't know you were invited. She also only used Facebook Messenger. We are no longer friends, and i don't miss having to be on Facebook to communicate with her.

  • @rach.94
    @rach.94 Před 4 měsíci

    Recently put a one hour timer on a couple apps I tend to (honestly) waste a lot of time watching things I don't care about and that don't provide anything positive or educative to my life, just mindless watching. That timer makes it so you can't use that app until midnight. At first I'd spend the hour halfway through the day, sometimes even earlier, but I decided to keep it at one hour and not give myself a few more minutes. Sure, you can open your laptop and use them there but whenever I felt I was going to fall into that, I immediately put on a tv-show or put the computer away and read a book. Now, about a month later, if there's a day that I use up that hour it's around the end of the day. It can be hard but it's worth it.

  • @Rat__Wife
    @Rat__Wife Před 4 měsíci +1

    If you haven’t started playing Strands from the NYT you’re missing out.

  • @rubenskiii
    @rubenskiii Před 4 měsíci

    People ALWAYS have had the urge to do something with their time and not have to be alone with their thoughts. That's why things like drop spindles, worry stones, pocket books, prayer beads, etc, etc existed or exist. Smoking was also a really popular thing partly because of that. So if you want to quit something that is a time filler, like social media find something that takes that job. Hell, get a Fidget Spinner.

  • @Star-ef6dr
    @Star-ef6dr Před 4 měsíci

    I'll never understand people that complain about what they see on twitter. You pick who you follow and you can just stay away from the "for you" or "trending" sections alltogether...
    On PC you can use a browser extention and easily block and delete site elements from existance.

  • @hierismail
    @hierismail Před 4 měsíci

    I don't have the data on why it works, but I do have a theory:
    A brain is not good at complete bans of what you desire (certain foods, addictions, games, you name it). However, it is totally fine with 'not now, there's a time for this later'.
    At the same time that delay in getting your 'desires' met, will make you more calm when it is time to 'indulge'

  • @wilaustu
    @wilaustu Před 4 měsíci

    If I were to set a time restriction, I would end up just changing it back.
    What has worked for me was that after I deleted my old account and recreated a new account, I only followed things that don't seem to catch my attention or lead to a lot of hot takes. A lot of it is japanese accounts that I thought I would try to follow to practice reading japanese, but it just ended up making me not want to scroll twitter endlessly. The "for you" stuff I seem to get is from subcultures on twitter that I have no interest in being a part of, so I don't engage and don't really want to read the replies for very long.
    Basically, I made the app experience boring.
    The only reason I ever use twitter is when I want to see what's going on with a UFC event since I don't watch them.

  • @madkittyjoey70
    @madkittyjoey70 Před 3 měsíci

    I plead guilty to doom scrolling. I'm trying my hardest to stop that habit.

  • @flancrestenterprises945
    @flancrestenterprises945 Před 4 měsíci

    I tried to quiet many times and failed, but I only had to try once and it stuck after the current owner took over. The changes he made made the entire thing distinctly worse so that even the little chemical bump checking it used to give me went away. It became unpleasant, so once I broke the habit of checking it, I never felt that urge to go back that I'd always felt before.

  • @HypocritesExposd
    @HypocritesExposd Před 4 měsíci +4

    My biggest problem with Twitter atm: constant OF promotions posing as some kind of breaking news

  • @d14551
    @d14551 Před 4 měsíci +1

    This encouraged me in my recent decision to just not be on any screens past 6:00 PM. It's a sleep better (I hope) thing.

    • @joleneonyoutube
      @joleneonyoutube Před 4 měsíci

      Good luck with improving your sleep, I hope it works for you! For anyone else who is struggling & reading this - there is no one solution that works for everyone, I've worked on my sleep for years and incorporating screens intentionally and specifically for my personal neurodivergence was the trick (& it does involves staying off of any social media apps!). different brains need different things. detoxing/avoiding screens is always a really smart thing to try just to see how you respond but don't feel bad/ashamed/guilty if it doesn't work out for you, it just means you need something else 🥰🥰😊😊

    • @d14551
      @d14551 Před 4 měsíci +1

      @@joleneonyoutube Thanks, Jolene. I have also been struggling with insomnia for years. I've often tried getting off screens but only for a night or two and then I went back, mostly because I think I'm addicted to you tube the way Wheezy seems to be to Twitter. So this time I'm going to give it two full weeks of no screens at all after 6:00 PM. Have to keep trying, right?

    • @joleneonyoutube
      @joleneonyoutube Před 4 měsíci

      @@d14551 the thing with addictions is that you have to recognise that engaging with said addiction is fulfilling a need - if you dont have a plan for alternatives to fulfil that need in the same way, of course you'll go back to it. what need is youtube fulfilling for you? social? emotional? nervous system/regulatory? the dopamine of the endless scrolling? stimulation/excitement/interest engagement dopamine?
      these kinds of questions actually lead me to a much more targeted path of changing my behaviours for the long term. fingers crossed for you dude!! please do keep trying 🤞🤞💪💪

  • @tangomike3681
    @tangomike3681 Před 4 měsíci

    Never fell into the social media thing. Did have MySpace back when you had to learn html to do anything, but after that died I was gone. CZcams is the closest thing now and commenting is rare.
    Perpetually online people are the worst society has to offer.

  • @Frygonz
    @Frygonz Před 4 měsíci

    I broke my 10 year reddit addiction by hard blocking it in a similar way. X got me for a few weeks recently, but I cut it before it became a wired routine. CZcams is my only remaining time sink, but at the very least what I watch on here is mostly educational. I wish I could block YT shorts specifically...

  • @saphire82
    @saphire82 Před 4 měsíci +1

    I remember when it was OK to post a picture of my french fries on Facebook. I miss those days

  • @Dwayne_Green
    @Dwayne_Green Před 4 měsíci +1

    no opinion here, just commenting.

  • @jasondolan7181
    @jasondolan7181 Před 4 měsíci

    A close friend said “if you just get off social media, you’ll find the world doesn’t really care about those on social media”.

  • @Hawkeye446
    @Hawkeye446 Před 4 měsíci +1

    I'm usually part of the non-commenting majority and today I have no strong feelings or spicy takes to change that. It just feels like the right time for some reason, so here I go.
    ...
    Hey Craig. Longtime viewer. I like your videos.

  • @TerryVideoZone
    @TerryVideoZone Před 4 měsíci

    You can do this in Windows by adding a line containing a reserved ip address not in use on your local network alongside the web domain you want to block to the hosts file in the Windows\System32\drivers\etc directory.

  • @CheveeDodd
    @CheveeDodd Před 4 měsíci

    Twitter became more frustrating than helpful sometime last year and I just sort of stopped caring. I've read 41 books this year. Did I read 41 books worth of Twitter in 3 months last year!?

  • @aytackiran3815
    @aytackiran3815 Před 4 měsíci

    "Because molecules don't actuually touch" was not something I expected to hear on this video, but here we are. Thanks for the visual aid. :)

  • @habersmashery
    @habersmashery Před 4 měsíci

    I was never a big tweeter, but yesterday I deleted the Tumblr app, which has the same scrolling ability. We’ll see how the goes.
    Now, if only I could find a foolproof way to block YT shorts and FB reels, my greatest weakness! Maybe refocus can help with that…

    • @fredaubin6023
      @fredaubin6023 Před 4 měsíci

      There's YT Revanced on android mobile and extensions on browsers if ya want

  • @Reaper31292
    @Reaper31292 Před 3 měsíci

    I found that just removing the apps from my home screen helped quite a bit. Not perfect, but it definitely reduced the amount I use them.

  • @floralpatterncouch
    @floralpatterncouch Před 4 měsíci

    had no internet for 3 months and felt GREAT despite no weather app. then i got the internet back and screen time is once again at 7+ hours a day. why do we do things we don't even like or want to do? to me it's all or nothing... i can't have internet just for the weather app without scrolling being all i do. i hate it

  • @ontario39212
    @ontario39212 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Great Video WheezE! Sincerely, The Lurkers!

  • @WaddleJrJr
    @WaddleJrJr Před 4 měsíci

    I quit Twitter in 2021, so before the purchase/rebrand that made it even worse, and it definitely made my life better in the same ways you described. For me deleting the app off my phone was good enough because I couldn’t remember my password and that stopped me from ever logging in on the browser.