Daughters Get Brutally Honest with Their Moms
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0:00 - Intro
0:38 - Prompt 1: I feel responsible for your happiness
4:20 - Prompt 2: You have invaded my privacy
12:29 - Prompt 3: I find it hard to be 100% honest with you
15:56 - Prompt 4: There are times I needed you, but didn't want to bother you
27:22 - Prompt 5: You have a bad habit that worries me
28:36 - Prompt 6: You have defined the way I see the world - Zábava
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I couldn’t imagine calling my dad “bestie” knowing that he almost beat my mom to death.
Agreed. I think beating your child's mother disqualifies you from the "Amazing Father" description. I understand mental health was a part of it, so maybe there's been some healing and forgiveness and all that now that the issues been addressed. But still.. I don't know if I could get past that.
Truly disturbing
I is truly traumatising. The fact she had to call 911 yet she still thinks of him as a close person. Nothing could make me forgive that.
My dad use to beat my mom but now he has stop but still yell at her when he get angry, he use beat me and my siblings often but I have moved out I remember one time my younger brother stole money he beat him till blood coming of of his head but still my mom is with him, I feel like she's scared about what other family members and friends would say
They admitted that he got diagnosed with schizophrenia. Chances are he didn't know he had it during the events they mentioned.
WOW - the mom that called her daughter a b1tch online for people to see is absolutely awful. It's still online with her real name.
Yeah seriously
where
@@Nateaue 8:45
yeah even as clickbait that's effed to exploit ur children that way....
Dude the fact that she didn't take it down after she felt "bad about it" is really not cool. I also think the fact that she used the "mommy blogging" as an "outlet" to make money online and her kid has been clear it's harmful to them that people can still see it, is just really the definition of exploitation
The story about the mom writing a story about her daughter and calling her the b word made me so emotional. The mom should be ashamed of herself and its nothing to laugh about. I'm so glad the other mom asked if her daughter was okay.
You can see exactly what kind of parent that mom is. She used her daughter for content and quick clicks and her daughter has to live with forever having that piece follow her. In job searches, relationships, if she has kids. The girl was nervously looking around the room when she shared it and that whole display of a hug… I hope the daughter can heal and find peace
AND it infuriates me that the daughter is literally forced to emotionally soothe HER, and she still can’t say sorry or take accountability. It was all ‘maybe I shouldn’t have BUT’ 🙄
Totally get ur side but I will admit that her reasoning for writing the article was to show the sides of motherhood and many mothers feel this way at times. Not saying it’s ok to call your daughter a b but she should be able to write her experiences.
@@CherryCupcakePieshe literally says sorry and hugs her and said it haunts her. You are either so chronically online or have your own issues your pushing onto these people if 10 minutes of scree time makes you think you know this entire relationship. You clearly have issues
@@CherryCupcakePie did u even watch the video? ur so chronically online go outside and touch grass. the mom literally apologized to her daughter and hugs her , the daughter clearly loves her mom and said dont worry about it. stop pushing ur issues onto other people.
Moms admitting to war crimes within the first 10 minutes 🚩
Wut?
All four of them divorced too?? Yo the US seems like a failed state to us outsiders at this point 😂
@@DChris3 50% of marriages end in divorce it's nothing new
@@DChris3would u rather they stay married and miserable?
@@user-tw5fz8th8k He prolly is moreso talking about the carefree attitude towards marriage and relationships as a whole over here.
Hearing that mom say she put privacy blockers on all her kids computers, phones, everything is absolutely CRAZY!! She has serious control issues.
Trying to save her from online creeps
Welp
Yeah it sounds crazy until the FBI shows up at your door because someone is trying to sex traffick your daughter online.
yeah it's a bit much ☹️
@@Graces_wrldASMR and it's not easy to make friends or connecting with friends
not them justifying the privacy prompt...
yeah it was pretty bad, but i can understand Sarah's responses
@@tramarthomas6105she was the best mom there, she seemed caring and she had the best style
was it that bad? parents need to monitor if creeps are texting them or if their kid is getting bullied or something
It's necessary to an extent. As an adult who grew up with the advent of the internet, parents need to be involved.
Oh
How does your dad beat your mom and you're still "besties"?!?!?! I could neverrr and I will never. Whoever lays a finger on my mother is absolutely dead to me forever.
The love you have for a parent can be crazy sometimes
THANK YOU!!! I was waiting for someone to speak on it.
I once experienced this as a child> my childhood trauma
I don't trust my dad after that even though he apologized
ikr i cant also.
I rewatched that part now and it sounds like forgiveness there after they learned that the dad has schizophrenia... even though it's not easy to forgive someone who is abusive 😬
I feel like if I would do this with my mom we would argue and cry
real
same
lmao every argument with my mom ends with me saying "you're so dismissive" and her saying "no i'm not".... and then me saying "THAT response was dismissive" ....
My mom would walk off 😂
Same🥲🥲🥲
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You can see through Sarah. The run up to her daughter was so performative. And the article’s still up… Who would write something like that regardless of clickbait?🤦♀️
What’s the articles link?
This happened 15 years ago .allot of stuff was different back than. It's messed up but she isnt that person anymore .like what did you do 15 years ago ? What if people still judged you based on who you were back than? Like come on lol
@@maddiemaryanne426 Even in the video you can see that her mom still seems unruly. She definitely hasn't changed and she should be criticized rightfully so for making that article. Trying to embarrass or humiliate your daughter online even if it was long ago is pathetic, even more so since it hasn't been taken down.
@@gloriazduran2556 she doesn't have the rights too take it down .see you dont even know what's going on .youre walking blind with hatred 😅 grow up. An the story didnt even seem bad if you fully listened. Its a bad mistake .you can recognize it was wrong an also be mature enough too see people grow an change an you dont get to decide that off one video of a whole person like youre weird
another body language expert
Can’t that mom just take down or private the blog post? If it’s even effecting her daughter get jobs because she used her real name, that’s not okay!
She mentioned she worked for the LA times so i dont believe she owns the story anymore, so most likely doesnt have the rights to take it down
I think they were joking about the job thing. Also she mentioned in the comments that she did take it down, but other places (like the LA times) wrote about it so she can't take it down from those places.
@@apple-qx4qi Oh thank you so much for explaining!
@@apple-qx4qiactually it's not a joke, but more like "how if ..."
It's definitely not easy to find. I searched the title but nothing pops up related to this family. It's probably not as big of an article anymore
I would really wish someone as therapist would come there and explain to the moms why invading privacy is such a harmful thing to do and the way it affects their trust in the future, and also to validate daughter's feelings. 😢
Agreed!
1000 percent agreed!! but they need release of information first if therapists involve
If your mad about invading privacy it’s because they are doing stuff they shouldn’t
@@crystaldufour4719so your telling me that you would be ok with your parents checking ur phone everyday just because u have nothing to hide???Everybody deserves privacy
@@Bree0n3yes because as a child you don’t have half the info you do as an adult. So yes as many blockers as possible.
I’m sorry but if my parents ever put spyware on my devices they wouldn’t have a child anymore I think that’s so embarrassing
It's on everything for me and it sucks. They act all high and mighty keeping you "safe."
@@RaxeOnYT 🥺💙 same and we need to stay strong as much as we can till we can moveout from parents' home
What are you doing that would make it embarrassing?
@@MissingYouser being a growing teenager and child? a parent that does that is cutting their child off from needed social interaction that other children are getting. its creepy, and itll only lead to the child abandoning their parent eventually, not to mention how parent/child relationships like that paints their future relationships. very gross
@@tramarthomas6105 Those parents are probably trying to only cut their child off from the bad social interaction which is extremely common. A large amount of school children are either bullies, sexually irresponsible, mentally unstable, substance abusers, or just inappropriate in general.
All of those kinds of people want friends and they may be friendly to your child while also getting them wrapped up into bad stuff.
the mother-daughter dynamic is so sacred yet can be so toxic. especially when a mother is envious of her daughter, usually in regards to beauty, opportunity, or her father’s unconditional love.
true 🥺
Unfortunately this is so accurate
It is SO crazy that this is actually more common than other ppl realize
Imagine your mom being jealous of 3 out of 5 of her daughters 🤦🏾♀️
Look up “narcissistic mothers” it’s a whole phenomenon. Probably one of the most toxic mothering types.
The first mom who admitted to putting spyware on all of her kids' devices is out of control. You're looking at her images, texts and browsing history?! That's a massive no no! If I was her daughter I'd want to get out of her household asap. That's too far.
Update: Just heard the part when Artista explains that her kids' father beat her so bad that she was almost UNALIVED and the daughter says he's her best friend...each to their own ig but there's no way I could refer to someone who did that as my "bestie".
and I also feel sorry for the daughter that it's not easy for her to connect with friends in phone and social media account way😥
My mom did this many times to me and she never did so to my brother. Her idea was that she didn't need to control him, only me cuz girls are "naive" and "need to be controlled and kept pure"
monster parent behavior, but also Jubilee barely gave them any screen time, I wish we could have heard more from them.
@@tramarthomas6105 probably means some of their conversation got heated or revealed things they didnt want aired in the ep. happens more often than youd think
@@mirayoon1992the daughter acts like a psychopath that believes her mom should’ve gone through the abuse just to enable them to be able to afford more expensive, designer clothing. Did you even listen to her talk? Did you even pay attention to how she reacted to her moms recounting of events? Ffs…
Calling an abuser ‘bestie’ and ‘the best dad’ is WILD. That poor mother
My speculation is that when she says "he's a great dad but a terrible husband" is code for "he's a great manipulator who has convinced my daughter he's a great dad and I'm too scared to rock the boat".
@@FROOB202or maybe it means he’s a great dad and a horrible husband
@@jesusornothing3231or both
Coming from a dynamic where my father is this way its very complex. The dad and the husband are two different entities. & while they do overlap eliminating the existence of a parent in your life is hard. Especially when they have changed and are working on being a better version of themself. If we cut off our parents for every mistake many of us would not have any interaction with them at all. It hurts us and of course you want to stand in solidarity with your mother and there is resentment that is built when you may learn the things that she went through as a woman. It’s soul crushing but it also would have been soul crushing to be a little girl growing up without a father who showed up for her. It’s hard and I’m still processing the forgiveness for him and mourning the young woman for her. & I’m almost 30
@@Zbandsz weirdo
The privacy prompt triggered me because my mom always tells me that I'll only have it when I'm in my own home. I'm 19 and moving out for college for that reason.
Well then your mom doesn't seem to know about children's rights (not to mention that you're not even a child anymore) I hope your move will be everything you hope for ❤
Nothing to hide nothing to fear
@@omerkarakaya6212 this is an INCREDIBLY dangerous way of thinking.
@@omerkarakaya6212not about fear, simply about having privacy. which every human needs
see, and that's why i like the black mom's approach (granted she is raree) she tried to teach her daughter the lesson but didn't go too far in invading her privacy
they skipped over the part where the mom says she has extreme privacy blockers on her childrens devices way too quickly
She was so quick to admit and didn’t even try to play it down! That surprised me. Definitely an invasion of privacy. I think it’s pretty standard for parents to check on on their kids phones occasionally until a certain point, but monitoring every text, photo, web search, etc, is so intense.
The mum that called her daughter a b!tch online is actually insane the fact that her daughter will have to live with that online for the rest of her life is horrible in my opinion I think that is such a arrogant and irresponsible thing to do as a mother to ur own child……
My problem with it was how she chose to respond to her daughter about it. It was very invalidating and a "well it was a past mistake so it doesn't matter" type of angle.
Yes mistakes happen, but you never learn from them when you don't take accountability. She never (truly) apologized for the way that affected her life. You can literally hear the loathing behind the "I'm sorry😒"
@@SipMyCharlatteher response was pretty wholesome, she seemed remorseful and you can tell they’ve gotten over that, plus she has the best style
The internet and knowledge of it was different when it first rolled out. You have to give that mother grace.
@@Dash2bklyn true! Those articles were viewed by moms for the most part until years later.
@@Dash2bklyn grace is reserved for people who repent and acknowledge their mistakes.
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Edit: y’all please stop fighting in the replies 😭
provide evidence?
Plus they give free therapy to IDF soldiers
Just like Jubilee itself lmao
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Dads gotta be next
Gonna be awesome
Nop never
emotionally intelligent dads who actually spend time with their kids
@@yourmedicalupdatepodcast7256 why?
@@yourmedicalupdatepodcast7256why
It makes sense that people want privacy why do parents think that is wild???
😓 yeah...
Fr 😞
they think that resentment and discomfort their child feels will dissipate overtime, + they think they own their children so they deserve no privacy, its gross
I get their intentions in keeping their child safe but the whole spying thing with software is insane.
Because no one should have access to every move you make in your own life. That's called being controlling or living vicariously through your child. Your children are your their own people. Constantly monitoring them is dictator like and makes them appreciate you less as a person because they don't even act like they trust you or care about your own rights. This is coming from someone who has parental monitoring on everything. No child should only have the bathroom or shower as a source of privacy.
The first girl afraid of writing in her journal due to some one reading it, I found out my step father had cameras in all our rooms and a bug on our phones and would listen and watch, I will never be the same, I feel like someone is listening or watching me all the time, like I don't have the ability to be myself even by myself because of this. You need to heal this part of you before it gets out of control. I've been working for years.
😢 that is awful! I'm so sorry you experienced that level of intrusion.
I hate that... I'm so sorry that happened to you. Praying for the best to you ❤️
Hopefully he isn't in your family's life anymore. That feels so much more intrusive, that it might also be illegal, depending on how much he's watching. Did he see you changing? There's a law based on a girl whose stepfather was spying on her changing in her room through her webcam years ago. I believe he got arrested after they made the law.
@girlofanimation yes I saw this too, I know they were in our rooms and I always thought other places, there is no way too know, my mom told me and my sister, but know way to prove it now, I've been out of that house since 15 I'm 32 now, Thank you though I appreciate your words. Unfortunately he is in my life he is my little sisters father but I distance myself from him as much as possible.
@MAKEMEASANDWICHES thank you I appreciate that more than you know, I am healing 💖
4:53 SPYWARE?! And she said it so proudly too??!! Are you not embarrassed??? Are you not embarrassed, because this is very embarrassing😭💀💀
the last mom and daughter (the ones closest to the camera) have such a sweet relationship, it makes me so happy for them. :) !!
Who Sarah? She’s the best plus she’s got a great style
@@Al-gg4mmRachel and irene
Artista: great dad, phenomenal person, won’t say anything bad about him. But he almost beat me to death multiple times…😅What?!?
yes that's wrong in so many levels while I think she forgive him for abusing her
Where?
@@masochistic_lele4414 26:44
Sarah was the best mom here, and most stylish one
@@Al-gg4mmis she paying you to write these comments? 😭 no one is even mentioning Sarah
4:53 The way she sounded so proud and kept going on and on
Just from watching the video, she's obviously been through a lot and who knows what else she's been through that we haven't seen in the video. It's likely she's lived through several traumatic experiences and is doing what she thinks will help prevent her kids from similar experiences. I don't think it's her trying to be controlling, but a trauma response she likely needs to work through. Just an assumption and obviously not a justification. Hopefully one day they can all get support and heal.
@@sarahgonzalez01lol is this her burner account?
@@sarahgonzalez01 they barely had screen time, so i dont know how you got that impression. regardless, it doesnt matter if it was her intent
@@tramarthomas6105 almost being beat to death and having to still have somewhat of a relationship with that person because he's the father of your children (and evidently your daughter's bestie) is pretty damn traumatic... i'd say that's a fair impression given that story alone
@@sarahgonzalez01 I like that these are the types of comments you find on Jubilee videos. A lot of reflexive stuff, yes, but compassionate and understanding comments like this too.
i relate a lot to izzy’s relationship with her mom. izzy is so strong for forgiving her mom and still trying to have a relationship with her even after those invasions of privacy. her mom is definitely projecting her youngest sibling trauma and i wouldn’t be surprised if she hasn’t processed that still
Moms should definitely be going through their kids phones until they move out or become an adult
@@DGen7if thats how u do it its fine, personally as someone whose phone has never been looked through.. i would do things like age restrictions for apps, teach them toxic or bad friends ane dealing with it, stranger danger and teach them how to deal with certain things in life. Its always great to give a safe space and privacy for them
well, It's not that big of a deal and it's way in the past.
@@HenriCobbs even if it was the past it's still on the internet.....
Notice how the one mom only thinks about her own feelings. *I* was going through a lot when you needed physical therapy. *I* needed this (public and permanent) outlet to talk about *my* experiences. *I* felt bad about calling you a b1tch. It hurt *me.*
Not even mentioning that title.
I noticed that too! That woman def rubbed me the wrong way.
I really think that mom is a narcissist.
Bro. The mom that wrote that article about her daughter didn't really stick well with me. Like yeah, that past is in the past, but it's STILL going to be there and be on the Internet. Not to mention, it will stay with her daughter, Izzy, for a long time. It will be that one thing that's in the back of her mind.
How would **you** feel if your mother wrote an article about you, titled, "My daughter's a b***h"?
My problem is mostly that it was super long ago and she still doesn't look actually sorry. The hug really gave me the ick lol
i feel so bad for the daughter im usually not the softie type but she really seems psychologically abusive and manipulative
because it's not that deep and they've worked it out. She already apologized and is very sorry about it.
My dad nearly beat my mom to death but he's my bestie story feels like it could be its own hour long episode because that was brushed over
time stamp?
the mom in the green dress with her onyx colored hair inspires me, i hope i look like that when i am older. she has such an elegant, cool and caring vibe!
♥️
Absolutely. Her daughter will appreciate her more and more over time
@@queenj.8i895I’d say Sarah looks the best for her age there plus her style helps her
“onyx-colored” jeez
@@Al-gg4mmwhat’s your deal ? you commented this like 20 times replying to every comment lmao
I don’t understand how someone can be both a really bad partner and an amazing parent. If you’re beating your partner, you’ve failed as a parent.
because partnership and parenthood are different features entirely . i love my eldest child and i hated her mother long after we've separated ( feeling was 100% mutual ) . and er.. we fought a lot ( not just with words ).
it is nice to be picture perfect on both fronts but reality is different for some of us.
@@PHlophe Partnership and parenthood go hand in hand, especially in terms of the environment you are fostering for your child. This environment can set them up to either fail or prosper. Disagreement among partners is normal and fine, but fighting (not just with words) is not. Reality is objective, not relative-in every partnership, it is wrong to be abusive.
The risk of her chosing a partner for herself like her father was to her mother is a great risk. Thats why i agree with you you cant possible see them individually especially if its something she even experienced! Would it be a "only" story of the experience it could have been different(i personally even dont understand it than)
Exactly …
I'm very surprised that Jubliee didn't upload this last Sunday when it was Mother's Day.
Honestly
they had to secure that betterhelp sponsorship. jubilee keep outdoing themselves with their shitty behaviour
probably after what they did for international women's day
i love heather and sonya talking about therapy, i really want my mom to talk to a therapist too
As asian American, that would be hard for me with mom since mom scoffed at some of my decisions. I sense my mom doesn't want to get in trouble with my therapist while my parents doesn't accept alot of my decisions as an adult 😓
Bruhhhh, believe it or not, not everyone needs a therapist
@@AlignWithJesus but therapy is an outlet, everybody needs an outlet + it’s a great way to receive diff perspectives/tools!!!! self awareness + critical thinking is so important
Whew, when that daughter who called her dad “bestie” really sits back and thinks about what she saw her mother go through… Lord have mercy. At least she has her mother to help her through.
he probably had a separate loving relationship with her and has probably turned his life around.
Seeing other moms always makes me appreciate mine more bc Spyware is absolutely incredibly insane 😭
my parents never do this either while they invade my privacy in a different way
Can't believe they all said they can be 100% honest with each other.. I def can't say that
Yes I found that so surprising! Tho Heather seemed to be hinting at kinda/not fully but getting there
Yea I can’t say that either with both parents.
Because they’re lying, ask them to share bank info and they’ll politely decline
Same
Mama in the Green dress serving Body!
♥️
@@sonyakaye9081you looked stunning in your outfit! But I think Sarah look even more spectacular in her outfit
Me screaming no when Irene asked if she should talk to her child about her divorce. Like as someone who has gone through my parents divorcing when I was an adult, I wish more than anything that they would leave me out of it. Of course there’s levels to honesty, but keep that between you and your friends. The stress it puts on your child sucks
Agreed, they should suffer in silence and then hear their child calling the guy who nearly ended them "bestie"
I would have appreciated some discussion when my parents decided to divorce. My parents basically spoke to us for 3 minutes: "We're getting divorced. Don't be upset, this has nothing to do with you. Stop crying. Go to your room."
@@FROOB202 so trauma dump on your child and let them suffer with you?
@@jesseb5710 Humans are not dichotomous. Learn how to give and take and be a family.
ah... nothing better than being parentified as a teen because of your parents rocky relationship. I know way, way too much about my mom's sex life now
Taia’s mom put her through so much oh myyy 😭
Lidia, when Taia grows a bit older she'll realize the depth of it it wont be pretty
Irene and Rachel have such a healthy relationship ❤
I loved how real and elocuent they both were.
My favorite mom/daughter pair
True ❤️ 👍
Why did you skip the mom's responses to the bad habits prompt?
yeah, i was wondering about that
maybe it's too private to share
I'd assume it's about drugs or alcohol and they wouldn't necessarily want that out in public.
probably about boys/sex/alcohol/drugs
substance (ab)use, I guess.
Cries with asian/Indian parents😂😂😂
If I answer any of this honestly- I would have to face a flying chappal!!
Africans too 😂😂😂
As korean American, it would be hard for me as well. When I told mom that my parents doesn't accept alot of my decisions as an adult, she scoffed.. ☹️ my parents have dementia
I’m sorry your parent is too immature to accept honesty. Must be pretty frustrating
me with my chinese parents, i can def relate to this🥲
@@ziporahanaa 🥺💙
Listening to lizzy not liking her mother blogging about her as a child bc now that info is out there for literally EVERYONE to see & she couldn’t consent to it bc she was a CHILD- no wonder many influencers are deciding to not show their children online!! Privacy is a key part in allowing children to grow up safely
Jubilee, I am kindy requesting a "extended/unseen scenes" portion of this vid. There are some answers that I would love to hear that were not included.
the mum in the green dress is so cool
And the one in the green shirt is nasty LOL
Yep, she's extremely manipulative and disgusting, she goes in for the hug as a get out of jail free card pretending to be emotional about the situation, when her eyes don't have a single ounce of regret. Just social acceptance pr.@@j_me
dude she totally beat on her kids in the past and was side eyeing her daughter to keep quiet abt it lmfaoo
@@j_meagreed
No really she wrote an article about her daughter which is incredibly weird
Rachel and irene was match made in heaven
💯💯💯💯💯💜💕💜💕💜💕
Need to do this with Dads + Sons/Daughters and Moms and sons too!
5:10 that is way too far. Number 1 way to ruin trust
a lot of people dont deserve to be parents. they view them more as property rather than growing people
My mom had no boundaries. Went through diaries. Put hidden recording devices around the house, went through my phone that I bought, while I was working full time, buying my own groceries and school supplies then used photos I had as blackmail.
Now she knows nothing of my life as she is not in it.
how abt u tell the full story as to why she did that. its never for no reason
@@ChaseBurns-kc7xgway to victim blame. Why is your response to her privacy being constantly violated, what did she do to make her mon violate it?
@@NiMissNithat's easy my house my rules. She choses to leave the mom out of her life. Again we don't know the full story.
she's too controlling 🥺💙 I want to have a moveout home to avoid conflicts with my parents cause they don't accept alot of my decisions as an adult
Wow. Shame shame shame on you for having first thoughts like that. Yes that happens for no reason, parents (a lot of them) are and can be toxic af. Speaking from experience. So do your reaserach first bud. @@ChaseBurns-kc7xg
Sonya is giving me mother theresa vibes I feel like I could tell her all my secrets and she’s so pretty omg
I wasn't allowed to have social media as a kid without my parents, also being able to access it whenever. It was told to me that they could check it.
I do not think it's unreasonable for parents to check that and to monitor their child's exposure to things online. I do think it's unreasonable to put spyware on your families items. That's wild.
agree 🥺
Having an open and honest dialogue about doing this is totally fine, then the child knows that's what you intend to do. Doing it behind their back is a whole other story and breaks that trust between parent and child
Sonya. I repeat. You are a great mother
Thank you ♥️🙏🏿
She is but I think Sarah was a better mother and she overall had a better relationship with
She didn’t used to be but she changed
id never look at my dad the same if he almost beats my mother to death
same
If me and my mother do this, I'd end up in tears :/
I’d end up in jail 🤣
@everythinger1ca lmao what could you have possibly done that could land you in jail, I'm kinda concerned 😳
@@-Mochi_Rose- Think they may be joking about how they *would* respond to hearing about what they'd done?
what’s a sorry gon do? that article still there for everyone & their mother to see 😭😭
izzy’s mom is weird af😬
I really hope izzy is like an adult and living in a different home or sum.. or else the car ride would be so akward and i can tell by izzys mom's strares (personal expirience) after she talked about certain things she was NOT HAPPY
She seemed like the best mother there, plus she had the best style
@@jadesimone_ you shouldn't judge someone you don't know on something they did a long time ago. Calling someone's mom weird is disrespectful.
i feel really bad for izzy, i think that article situation is really crazy and she seems super sweet so she probably doesn’t want to not have a relationship with her mom
not finished yet so dont come at me but that mum with the green dress is such a cutie
Facts
I’d say Sarah the one with the green shirt looks the best for her age and has a cool style
That woman put tracers on everything would be dead to me from that day forward
Imagine every email
@@Planck944 😖 yeah, definitely not easy to get school/work from email like that
Irene, thank you for being you. Rachel is lucky to have you and she sure shows how grateful she is ❤
Whoever came up with this concept, amazing
Rachel & Irene has a beautiful nd strong mom daughter bond :) nd the best one so far among most of others in the video...
No I’d say Sarah is the best mom in this and the one with the best style
@@Al-gg4mmSarah is that you
@@crisp_rat I've seen all of her comments on this video so far, I think she is either the mother Sarah or her daughter
the fact that artista didn't talk poorly about her ex husband toward her kids is sooooo mature and important. so many parents who split up act so negatively and toxic toward one another, and it shows a lot of strength to go through a bad relationship and not put it on your kids. MAD RESPECT for her.
Sarah was the best mom here and the most stylish
@@Al-gg4mmdude shutup
Lowkey I can respect Sonya for wanting to remain true to her beliefs while also wanting to embrace her daughter heather even when the things heather does may go against it
High key for me
if your beliefs are homophobic, that's nothing to respect tho
@@heyspeckle8782no frrr. These ppl are brain dead
heather is annoying "I hate my mom reading my messages..... at 6 I was going to go off with a stranger" GIRLL GIMMIE THAT DAMN PHONE
Y am I laughing so hard at this comment 😭😭
I agree ☝️
😂😅
Sarah, there's so much I want to say but I'll say this instead, take responsibility and be a mother. To Izzy, I hope you heal honey ♡ you deserve more
The way she’s dressed, she’s probably going through a mid life crises
@@Al-gg4mm You've replied to a large proportion of the comments under this video and all you comments are about Sarah. I'm fully convinced that you are Sarah at this point tbh. You're outing yourself.
@@fairyberry444 no she’s actually paying me to do this
@@Al-gg4mmwhat lol I thought you thought she had the best style?
artista looking at every daughter's email/snapchat is 😬
She weird and so controlling
I would love to watch a mini TV series on this story of mother’s and daughter’s. Loved this group and loved all of the rich emotions this took me through. Thanks Jubilee!
my toxic trait is wanting to find that blog
Lmk if you do
nooo 🤣
Lol 😂
She deleted it, she seemed like the best mom there and she had the best style
@@Al-gg4mm I've seen all your comments on this video so far, I think you are either the mother Sarah or her daughter
"that's my favorite word disown, because black people never think about owning people" - a queen.
but black pppl do that all the time lmfao, parents think they own their children, the men think they own their women,,,
♥️
Which is a terrible statement but she meant it in the best way possible.
It's literally taking it outta context and making it about skin colour...also I'm blekk and where I come from, blekk peeple get stolen by other blekk peeple and then ensleived or unalived for body parts ...it's there in history that blekk peeple owned sleives too!
As someone from the same generation as these girls and who had a mom who invaded my privacy, now that I’m older and I’m thinking about having my own kids and thinking about all the scary things that have happened to me on the internet and just with my cell phone, I don’t blame my mom as much anymore. And I will probably have a level of monitoring on my own children, because you can teach your child over and over stranger danger but just like the girl in this video curiosity got the best of her and she was going to meet a random stranger. If anyone sits here and thinks “my child would never do that” you are wrong. Children have to have the privacy invaded to a certain level to ensure their safety.
Glad someone understands this concept
When I was underage I had someone say they will come get me and help me etc when I wasn’t getting along with my family. They kept pressuring me and manipulated me into it , I don’t blame parents who don’t give children privacy
Izzy’s mom justifies every wrong parental decision she makes. Omg I couldn’t imagine having her as a mom.
She seems like a caring mother and she regrets what she did, she’s the best one there and the most stylish
I hope they'll do a video on Fathers and Sons
(and maybe a mix of dad to daughter, mom to son, non binary folk, etc.)
Non binary? Wtf@@madyhatter17
I relate alot to Taia and Artista. I also grew up in a home where domestic abuse was happening and we had to leave home alot, but my mom really wanted us to have a two parent home. My dad eventually got disgnosed with bipolar disorder, schizophrenia, and ptsd and once he got the help he needed it did get a lot better and they’re both amazing parents to this day. ❤
That's amazing 💜 so glad your dad was able to get help too. Noone deserves to suffer abuse from someone they love. But we were young and he had an undiagnosed mental illness and was overlooked by healthcare professionals. Sad that people who just need help, often go so long before receiving diagnosis's that can explain and get much needed treatment. Taia's Dad is so much better on his medication and I'm grateful he got the help he needed so he could be there for the kids when they were older.
As a girl, it’s so confusing to see my mom pick random guys over her own kids. I have no idea what love is supposed to look like, how to act like a lady etc, I had to learn it all on my own.
that's called arranged marriage
yeah, it's unfair. Let kids find their own love
@@mirayoon1992 wait what?
@@JBUHJBUH maybe I misread but arranged marriage is parents choose romantic partners for their kids instead of kids choose romantic partners for themselves
@@mirayoon1992 are you slow? My mom is just a hoe lmao, she cheated on my dad and he took custody of us while she slept around 😭
As someone who lost their mom 3 years ago at 23 I really needed to hear a lot of what these moms said. People always agree the obvious and the emotional connection that their child is their mom’s baby, but my mom was my baby. She was my best friend and was forever in my corner. These girls were great
I skip Jubilee ads and sponsors until they actually address their bad behavior and apologize with actionable steps going forward to establish what expectations are for their staff. Love you, mean it.
What?
Could you explain this?
Did I miss something??
I just skip them because they’re boring
@Random_Being1 there's a lot going on behind the scenes that they never address like attacking black creators (Aba and Preach) then trying to strike their channel down with false copyright claims on the same exact content Jubilee will celebrate and encourage from white creators. They've never given Thoraya credit for her video formats and they've never invited her on to host. The people they promote and work with are no different from the people they're ignoring or attacking except for their race. Even when it comes to followers Jubilee works with smaller and bigger creators BUT only white and Asian. They've worked with PewDiePie, Cody Ko, Nut, and Gen on things they've attacked Aba and Preach for while copying Thorayas secrets series with no credit or even allowing her to host an episode.
Izy is such a forgiving daughter, so sweet.
its because she is still super young. give it 5 years when her brain has re-examined the toxicity .
taja's mom literally looks like she could be her twin sister. artista aged like fine wine...i cannot believe thats her mom omg.
This was the best one in this concept series so far.
Ms. Sonya reminds me so much of my own mother. It takes a lot of strength and love to embrace certain differences, and i hope that journey doesn't stop!
Dang it, Irene! You’re gonna make me cry!!
Sonya seems like such a real one
So does Sarah and she’s got style
I agree
@@Al-gg4mm Are you Sarah or something? You are complementing her in sooo many comments and defending her
Thank you again, Jubilee. I love my mum and sometimes I forget to her, finally I have come to terms with letting her know. Once again smashing video.
it sucked seeing heather have to mince her words so much in the conversation about her mom not fully accepting her sexuality. this is exactly my relationship with my mother now that i’ve come out and it always hurts so much but yet you have to continually swallow your feelings and repeat a thousand times that you’re “grateful they’re trying” which like yes… of course we’re grateful to not be fully shunned but we are also hurt and angry and why can’t we say how offensive it feels without them getting triggered and acting like the victim???
This is so spot on.
Maybe it’s another situation for you but this mom can have her beliefs too.. this
Mom loves her daughter 100%, so it’s definitely not a situation where she is not fully shunned because not even half shunned. Why do parents have to be on the same page about homosexuality? I’m gay myself so I had this myself but I think it’s okay that parents not have the same opinion bc there are a lot of themes we are not on the same page.
This woman loves and respects her daughter. So I think the daughter have to respect her mom too. For me it’s difficult that these times you can’t have an opinion anymore bc otherwise you would be cancelled. If the conversation is open and honest, that’s a beautiful thing. And that’s enough for me. It’s also a different generation.
I feel like the privacy thing is tricky, and this is coming from a mom that allows total privacy to my kids and I never go through their devices or journals. But the internet is a whole world of things to be nervous about for your kids. It’s not just about their personal thoughts or conversations, but about all the dangerous people out there that can connect with them. So I can understand to some extent the difficulty parents have offering full privacy.
I love heather and Sonya’s relationship. They’re growing 🥰
I thought Sarah and Izzy had the best relationship plus Sarah seemed like a down to earth mom, plus she had the best style
10:50 dang that’s crazy I can’t imagine having a mom like that
Loved this video! Really felt like everyone’s voice was heard. Enjoyed listening to everyone relate and talk amongst each other sharing different perspectives! Great job!
I’m very interested to see this style but with moms and sons
Mmm momma’s boys!
when i tell you i clicked so fast when i saw this thumbnail😭😭 - inner child is crying
people need to realize the hate relationship a girl has with their mother even if the daughter doesn’t want it. it’s very common sometimes i feel like a terrible person talking about my own mom but she starts a lot of arguments. i try and talk to her but she just finds ways for me to stop talking to her. sometimes i think about how somebody could have such a bad relationship with their own children because of jealousy.
Any chance of daughters with their fathers? I know I was primarily raised by a single dad after my mom died when I was 10 so it was a different experience (esp as he was an only child). Also sons w/ moms & dads ? Seeing guys vulnerable is always so rare, and this channel does it well
Thanks for keeping it real, your authenticity is refreshing
After listening to the abuse Artista experienced with her husband tbh it makes sense she went into control over drive with her kids. Not healthy or okay, but it makes sense.
need a part 2 with different prompts !!
The privacy thing is such a mixed bag because we all want our privacy and autonomy, but at the same time almost everyone can think back on a time where they wanted nothing more than to get away with stuff they knew they shouldn’t do. The spying is intrusive, but the one girl admitted to completely ignoring the stranger danger talk for some ice cream. You have to be honest with how much you trust your kid/how much you know you should be trusted.
Izzy - the answer to your mom's passive aggressive bull$#!t question of "how often?".... is "too often". Sarah is going to have to do some serious digging out for me to have any respect for her and I'm only 7m in. Dude... you need to set boundaries.
She did feel remorseful about what she did, plus she seemed like the only sane one here, also best dressed (doesn’t really have anything to do with it but she’s got drip)