I had so many narcissists in my life from my mom, (discovered only at 33 y/o she was one) grew with her from 0-8, then foster family, 8-12 with narcissist, (was the most hated child), then 18 went with a narcissist bf for a year.. then narcissit roomate/friend at 24-28, with narcissit boss.... but life is sometimes about learning..... i had this time to put a stop to it and defend myself, because usually empath just defend their friends and never themselves, so it's more about learning and life lessons, that I needed to go through. I don't think I will be affect anymore by any narcissists out there, I learned precious lessons. We can't stand lies and injustice towards our friends.. but when it comes to us .. we just let it slip.. and we shouldn't. Gods signs when you need NOT to experience something uselessly harmful : I called it the 3 cancellations You try to do something, but it fail, and it will failed at least 3 times, that is a good sign you should not pursue further. You can be stubborn and try a 4th times but that is on you.
I had a bad flu out of the blue right after I was hoovered by the Narcissist and my blood pressure worsened. We broke up again after two months and I decided to block him forever although I hadn't known then that he was a Narcissist. I found out after a week, by chance, watching a video on CZcams.
This is so important and overwhelming at the same time. I'm taking a break from this video after only 35 seconds... There's no "right circumstances". I guess there never will be. I need to get my head, heart, stomach and soul straight. Feel like flying away from the inside. I need to regroup... ☝🏽🌌💖💫
Yes! Narcissist asked me for a divorce when I was diagnosed with autoimmune diseases, can you imagine the shock? But then this happened, after the divorced God healed me! Now I rejoice not being in that marriage anymore, I wake up with smile in face in the morning. Don’t be fooled also, when you get the healing, they want to come back, NEVER EVER GO BACK! I repeat never go back! Please take care of yourself
I know a narcissist can make you feel as though you could really knock the hell out of a narcissist...but you must step back and let God knock the hell out of them. Trust me, He will!!! God can handle horrible people way better than we can.
@@NoCappingSportsLegendYes, people may not know your story, however, God does. He will deal with your enemy and give you strength to heal and move on.
Have you noticed that every time you become stronger spiritually, a new challenge arises? A new narcissist appears in your life to block you or to test you. No matter which way you turn another one appears. I think it’s to teach us, to grow in the ways of recognising them.
Yes!! Mine *RUNS* (can't get out the door fast enough) to go & help other people whenever they have certain things wrong with their buildings (homes or businesses) -- but when I need something done, it takes a half a year to a full year, if at all, to get it done!! Now, I acknowledge that it *could* be for the extra money he makes from these "side jobs". Which I know is a big part of it bc he is motivated by money. But, the part where he can't move fast enough to help others, while putting me on hold -- even if he's suppose to cook dinner or get dinner for us -- he'll drop *EVERYTHING* to help others first and foremost!
God saved me at the time when I thought my life was crashing down. I picked myself up and slowly started to recover trying to heal from soul crushing abyss not giving up
The description of them being Anti-God is spot on. I believe that is why so many of them pretend to be 'ultra religious'. They are trying to make faith dirty by association so that you turn from God. Thank you for this video.❤
Wouw this comment was in itself a revelation 🫢the npd in my life did exactly that. Defile faith. Undermine the purity and beauty of God. Also by bribing his way into church leadership. Almost cost me my faith
💗 Thank you for sharing, in a way it's healing me to get validation. These things do happen and exist. I'm so exhausted, tired, thinking/knowing I'm insane, I'm not taking care of me... Making myself suffer more I think. Giving my energy, and priorities where it doesn't belong. Hard to love yourself. Like it's a disgusting selfish evil act, undeserving... I tell myself to hold on, have faith, patience and hope ☝🏽🌌💖💫
💯 I lot of people say they believe in God, but are doing terrible wicked things and then other people see it and think its ok to do these things because of the so called "people of God" are also doing it. Gotta be careful and not trust everybody just because they mention God. To walk with God we gotta repent, change our ways and make sacrifices. We need to become so pure that our image and what we do are acceptable to every age range.
Narcissists are masters at spiritual abuse. They will warp and poison your perception of God while they attack your very spirit knowing that God is the only way to truly escape them. The term "abuse" represents war on the most personal level. Nothing is more personal than your soul/spirit. They know what it takes to break someone, and they do it. That's why their abuse is the most painful and damaging while also being the most difficult to see. If you're looking only at the physical, you won't see the spiritual attacks and won't be able to fight back. So they drive you away from seeking God.
God revealed to me that my husband is narcissistic by letting CZcams notify me of lessons on narcissism. And now I understand what I have been going through for the past 13 years. Thank you for opening my eyes.
I am realizing the exact same thing.....as I listen to and watch these videos. I now realize I have been married to a narcissist all this time. Some things are right on-poiny but there are some traits that are not. But I am wondering whether or not some other mental disorder or character traits is at play along with narcissism. But these videos have really taught me alot.
Same here,I passed out at home had a emergency surgery could have died , I've cried several times because of the narcisist no witness but God and the walls. I know a sheep in wolves clothes God opened my eyes. Giving all praise to God he is my refuge.😇
King JESUS the greatest faithful and true. By HIS stripes we are healed. HE led me through the memories that horrified me and showed me the truth I could never accept. HE gave me a heart of flesh and protected me from all fear
My mother told me something wasn't right with him, and my dad did not want me to marry him so soon.... I took it as they were judging him for being different and I was naive. It took me years to see the cycle of abuse with love bombing, tension building up, and then an explosion. I have been able to move on from that relationship, but now I see the narcissism in a different way through trying to co-parent. Seeing how our children now have to deal with his narcissism. It's sad and challenging. Maddening when I get called a liar and delusional and trying to make me question myself. Be careful who you marry. For your sake and your future children's sake.
I'm a 58 years old who has been divorced from my narcissistic ex-husband for many years now and I can tell you that as I began to recover so did my children. There more I relied on the holyghost, my ex-husband just became a non-factor. Currently he is in a nursing home because he got really sick and due to his behavior none of his children or family members would take him in.
Marriage and procreation ARE the most important decisions of your life. Do not screw this up. Do not let people talk you out of red flags!!! Family will do this if they want to get rid of you or unload you onto anyone. Watch out when they insult you or physically abuse you. Do not ignore this. Better not to marry than marry this person.
They are most definitely anti God. I’m experiencing something very disturbing but I know God is with me through it all. They hate God. I know God loves me! Awesome video!
There are many different signs. These include spending time on phone that was not spent previously, withholding sex from you, withdrawing in communication with you, agitation or anger over Petty stuff or making up situations to get angry or agitated over, lying, being secretive in any way, randomly spending more time caring for and pampering oneself such as putting on makeup or wearing cologne or coloring hair etc. Any type of changed behavior that is not aimed at pleasing or benefiting your relationship. With all of that though, follow your gut. your gut is telling you that something isn't right and it's telling you that this could or is happening, therefore listen to it. Just Free yourself from all of it! Run and don't look back. Go 100% no contact. The mental and emotional abuse is not okay at all! Do not bring anything up to her. Don't try to rationalize or have a conversation about anything. Don't let her know that you know she's in narcissist. All of that can cause a narcissistic rage. If you have not yet witnessed one of those just trust me that you don't want to! A narcissistic rage is beyond any rage I have ever seen or witnessed in my entire life. I am an army combat veteran and served front lines for a year and afghanistan. I have abuse going back from as long as I can remember, the first time in my personal memory is 2 years old. With everything I have been involved in, and my rape, other sexual abuse, their physical abuse, etc in narcissistic rage is by far the worst! If you need to contact your local police department and start a new contact order. No one can protect you like you can! free yourself from it all and move forward in your life. The minute you run and go no contact is the minute your life begins again. If need be seek out professional help. Therapy is the best thing I did for myself. The best gift I gave to me! The abuse is so deep and overwhelming that having a professional guide you through the steps of the healing process is extremely beneficial! Just remember, there is great strength in asking for help. There is great lack and strength or no strength at all in putting on a mask and hiding behind the opinions of society and pretending that you are okay! As human beings we all witness A Time In our lives where we are not okay! Those that heal, move past, and move forward, and have a brighter future are those who ask for help and do the work that is needed through the help! I'm so sorry you are going through this and I wish you the very best! Good luck! Always remember that you are stronger than you believe you are, you are worthy and deserving of better and always, and you are enough just the way you are and who you are today! Take this time for you! Get yourself again. Fix that meal that you're all time favorite, rent that movie you've been wanting to see, have a guys night out with your best friends, remodel a room in your home, go purchase that item you've been wanting to for so long, just do for yourself! Self-acceptance, self-love, and being able to forgive yourself is far more important than what anyone else can give to you! Believe in who you are! You deserve nothing less than that! You're not alone! Feel free to tag me in any other questions that you have! I'll help if I can. Additionally you can hire a cyber expert to help you get remote access to their phone so you can track them and monitor all of their activities without them knowing. You may locate the top cyber specialists locally at digitalinvestigate@gmail.com where you can engage a well-trained professional to assist you..........
I mysteriously developed chronic fatigue syndrome not long before he went through an extremely dramatic change that turned him into a completely different person. I thought it was just extreme stress and just life events. I entirely missed every devine sign because I wasn't a believer at the time. It wasn't until years later when things devolved to the point I was going to commit suicide when I suddenly heard a voice behind me asking "why are you letting him win?" I suddenly had a compulsion to fight back and I literally yelled "screw that! I'm not going to let you win!" It took some time for me to realize that I had experienced a genuine move of God. I've been forever changed since that day. And it's been a fight to get to a position where I can finally make the final break from this demonically possessed narcissist. I've been failed by humans 100% of the time. I've NEVER been failed by God.
Check this out, the Pastor that married us told the Narc he didn't deserve me at the ceremony- shocker. I've had warnings from his own friends before we married. I wasn't listening, but God delivered me from that abuse and now all I do is listen to God. He never fails. Thank you God for your Grace 🙏🏿! Blessings and love to everyone on their healing journey.
Every since I started living according to the Bible and allowing the holyghost to guild me....I have not had any trouble from the narcissist. The holyghost always exposes them and I PAY ATTENTION!!
wow am sorry about that experience, but am so glad you got yourself out of it, and even more happy to hear that you got your voice back! stay strong, you deserve the best.
I believe God gives us signs all the time. Trust God over people everytime. He loves us. If you're unsure, you can ask God. He always shows up. And if you are in real danger, call out the name if Jesus. In the spiritual realm, Jesus has all the authority.❤😊😊😊😊
This is so true… and beyond that. One day the narcissist (mirroring what I’d been telling before) said he was praying a lot. I answered by sending him some psalm texts en prayers. By reading them realising myself that God promised -love-. By which we can bloom and get free. I At the same time I realised that thát in the relation with the N was not the case. On the contrary. So I left. These words of God gave me strength en defeated him. As promised by the way…
At 9 months pregnant with our 3rd child, I dreamt the narc got married and he asked,"arent u coming to my wedding?' I was devistated, hysterical and he laughed at me and said, ' well I told u if u dont give me 'it' as much as I need 'it' I would get it somewhere else'. I woke up from this dream hysterically crying. He put his arm around me and said, 'I would never do that to you' 11 yrs later, I caught him cheating, it was no coincidence that this woman he cheated with, looked just like the woman in my dream, 11 yrs prior!!! God tried to warn me, but I was trauma bonded. Listen to your dreams people. ❤❤ I hope everyone starts to heal and break free. I did. But it took me 30yrs!!
My soul told me my ex’s soul was dead, but i didn’t listen to my own intuition. Cost me many years of happiness and healing (still healing) Trust in God, always
They do abandon you when you need them the most. My example: dealing with post partum depression after our first baby is born. He gamed for hours and would not help out. Was jealous of lack of attention for him. I was very vulnerable and he created drama which made everything worse and I ended up needing an intervention.
@@FoundSheep-AN I ended up needing to get on antidepressants to be able to take care of my baby. By that point I couldn't eat or drink water. My family got the police involved so I could leave safely.
@@arianagarcia3733I am so VERY sorry that happened to You. I don't know You, but I send you hugs and love and joy. God keep you safe. Rachel in Nashville 🛐😺☦️😇
@@valeriedorsey7527 well first of all he was asleep. A man 6’5” 240# needs to be in somewhat of a weakened state when dealing with his demons. I was scared until I realized all they can do is speak when you are a child of God. They were forbidden from touching me. I spoke the name of Jesus and some left, but the Evil One was only weakened to the point of arrest and my husband fell out on the floor. He was fine. But he also knew what happened after I woke him up. Showed him the videos, he just refused to renounce them and repent so they returned.
@@MKHall2014you would had experience intense fear & trembling as if your cold but shaking in fear my last experience from my dream, I was frozen & I couldn’t breath!
I know. My heart knows he's one. But,my mind is in denial. And I love him. So it's hard to break free from him. Half of me want to leave and the other half won't let me leave him
My life turn into HARDSHIP when I said “I do” to the narcissist. I dreamt myself drop in a deep dark pit and another dream of being in a room that I had rented with the narc of high ceiling dirty water but I didn’t understand. Years went by and I try to change him. The marriage turned into a living nightmare, I almost lost my mind and my life. Divine help came. Thank you Jesus Christ. Five years of confusion, emotional abuse and abandonment, ghosting and rejection. Ain’t this man telling the truth.
Lol! The thief thing happened to me. A guy broke into my house looking for my now ex. He was looking for him because owed him money. I started crying uncontrollably and told him my sob story that I was ripped off, too. The guy said he'd find him and get my money back, too! Pretty bad when a thief who broke unto your house has more compassion than your partner
Not a thief but a postman. It was so hot outside . As I waited for him to get me my mail from his bag, he asked me to stand in the shade. Could be such a small act of kindness for him; for me I was overwhelmed. I haven't felt kindness from anyone in ages. I think I cried after getting inside my house
YOUR BODY REPELS THEM! I remember one particular incident I won’t forget, I literally could book a flight to see this person, and when the person came to see me, I felt this DISGUST 🤮It never makes sense to your conscious mind but trust me when I say that MIGRAINE, HEARTBURN, stomach pain, lack of appetite etc are God’s way of saying FLEE BECAUSE YOU ARE PLAYING WITH A SNAKE 🐍 If you’re still in it, I hope you find courage to LEAVE TO LIVE!
It's like living with a demon and they want to break you into their darkness and make you despair. Move towards the light trust in God to give you strength and courage to leave them.
Yes! When mask dropped his eyes changed. He would almost growl at me when I walked into the room. After 27 years of marriage-he said he felt nothing for me or our children. Terrifying! Earthly rejection = Heavenly protection. 🙏
Narcissists can destroy your health overtime when you leave stress. Unbalanced insecurities for too long. They can go in recavic on the body. Swelling flare-ups headaches, nightmares, trouble concentrating fidgety nervous, can't relax. Mine is going a 100 miles minute all the time. You feel like you don't have control. Like you're on a rollercoaster. It can just do a number physically on your body and when you get rid of these people. Sometimes your body just kind of explodes and then ever. It'll just calm down overtime when we get out of those relationships. And we're able to relax and we're able to rest and we're not always. Ready to jump at any moment. You know that high stress level leaves over time. And then you'll start to notice your body will calm down.
I agree God/universe will help you and warn you. I still stayed with my ex husband for 18 years. But I have 2 beautiful children. They are the sweetest things ever. They are 12 and 13 and give me hugs everyday, they can cook, they garden with me and we are so bonded against their poop head father. He tried to turn them against me but he failed miserably. I don’t know any other 12 year old boy who sits down with his mom and do puzzles and asks how to get his basil to grow bigger. My heart melts everyday. I’m starting to think since I grew up in a dysfunctional family and was married to a psychopath- the universe gave me 2 angels and we now show my family and their dad what REAL LOVE is. We are breaking the chain of abuse. 😊❤♥️♥️♥️
Your comment is so sweet. Your children sound lovely. And thanks for the chuckles for 'poop head father' 😂 Co-parenting with a narc is no joke! Best wishes to you!
#4. During a rebound and visiting in Oregon- he slept next to me for 5 nights (with no sex involved-I was there to observe). I could no longer stand his closeness. #5. I was no longer attracted to his looks or demeanor. On the 6th day - i caught him in two significant lies and turned and walked. It was such a turn off Thank you for your wisdom. 💟☮️✝️
Father GOD intervened and showed me visions of pure evil. Beloved Jesus rescued me from the pit of hell. I believe we are in a spiritual war. It is written. 2.Timothey 3-7 Everything you said is spot on.Thank you Danish. Thank you Lord Jesus. I love and Praise you.
Yes- They are sleeping well but giving you no sleep. Snoring, kicking and scratching all over, pulling sheets and blankets but claiming they are fast asleep. No remorse for giving you sleepless nights, only arguing that they are not loved by you.
So I have been in two relationships with narcs. First one overt (openly abusive) narcissist and the second one covert narcissist (hidden and sneaky). Some of the things that happened with the first one: 1) When I had intense pain in my chest and couldn't breathe, I collapsed in the middle of a street, strangers rushed to help me but he walked away telling me "stop being childlish". 2) He tried to force me to touch an electrified wire. When I refused, he left me in a forest by myself. Something that happend in my second relationship: 1) God showed me a very intense dream or vision about him before I had even met him. I felt violence and death in that dream but chose to ignore it. 2) The first time I met him, I felt drained within half an hour just sitting with him. He started trembeling violently and couldn't explain why. A bug sat on his knee and he knocked it away in a cruel way even though he wasn't afraid of it. He later did the same to me. 4) I had a dream of a dead horse walking around. It was half eaten and dead but still walking around. I told him about the dream and his response was "You need to see a psychiatrist as soon as possible. You are ill". God saved my life but I live in fear often and these men took years of my life never giving me anything. Please don't ignore the scary dreams.
That video perfectly reveals the cowardice, lack of integrity, and the grandiosity of the narcissist. Once while in a taxi in another country, my ex-narc sat up front next to the driver while I was in the back seated behind the driver. After a few minutes, my ex pulled down the visor with a mirror and proceeded to stare at himself for several minutes with an intense look of self satisfaction, pride and almost self-adoration (just like the story of Narcissus), as if his evil plan was working. it was the scariest and creepiest behavior I had ever witnessed in a person. At that moment, he did not think that I could see him from the back seat but I could see everything. That was a clear sign from the Divine to make my plans to move far far away from this demon. I thank God always for this and other signs he revealed to me in this and other relationships. Your topics trigger so many painful memories for me, Danish, but again it's all part of the healing. You are indeed a Chosen One from the Divine to help us! ❤
Wowwww they tend to be extremely proud of their accomplishments. They will even talk about their names in conversation. When you listen carefully you can figure out who they really are. My mom talk about herself quite often and is proud of what she accomplished in life...I don't think she has a lot to be proud of. Only material stuff. She told me that she used her time well. We lost our brother from drug addiction. That should be a concern for a mother.
YES!!! I EXPERIENCED THIS RECENTLY!! My father was diagnosed with cancer July 27, 2023 which so happened to be the narc's birthday. He got angry because how dare my father get cancer and need life saving surgery ON HIS BIRTHDAY?!? I was shocked and hurt beyond belief. That night he discarded me for someone he'd already been talking to. As a power move he assaulted me in my home and now he is in very investigation. This morning he texted me telling me he missed me and his family and blah blah blah. I'm in a DV shelter at the moment with our children. Please pray for us as I make the difficult decision of whether or not to press charges. The trauma bond is real and has such a terrible hold on me.
Press charges so you will get full custody of your children and not have to co-parent with the narc. He is dangerous and will only try to create drama between you and your children.
My husband stopped showing me affection many years ago I had to always ask for it. I agree with the sleep part. He felt so distant and night. He sometimes would slip into the room at night to not wake me and he would leave the room a lot at night and go downstairs and watch television but I felt he was up to something like talking or communicating with someone else.
The health issues were the worst. My body was so strong. I was dealing with chronic health issues. But couldn’t get answers. Then once my health was so depleted I was not of value. So I’m leaving. And my health is returning. And of course once my health is completely regained there will be more love bombing. Thank you for this channel.
I'm still is dealing with health issues. And I know for a fact, it's bc of him. Coz I was healthy & there was nothing wrong with me health wise til I met him. But, God is helping me thru it, AMEN
Same! I have always been super healthy. I developed stress rashes that didnt leave until he started to discard me and being away from him was becoming less scary. I had tension headaches, heart palpitations, and panic attacks, things i NEVER dealt with before and i am a survivor of childhood abuse and trauma in adulthood. I dont know why dealing with the Narc fucked my health over the most. I feel so much better and its only been a few days.
As much as I enjoyed the company of a new friend, my gut was screaming danger. In our final conversation I explained over the phone that I felt I still didn’t know them beyond their public mask and I felt frustrated by their lack of authenticity. Immediately after I hung up I watched an injured bird flapping on the ground get attacked and brutally murdered by crows. I took it as clear validation and confirmation to stop defending/justifying the multiple red flags and trust my gut to gently step away.
Pure sine. When my own thoughts were dark. I seen dead mice and other wildlife everywhere. I took that as a sine. I worked on things now at times a red ribbon does be close. Not always but not nearly as much death.
25 yrs ago gut feeling told me.. Don't do it.. I was thinking no... Come on... I was in the midst of comfort so I thought I should get over my comfort shackles... Anyway I'm still with this man n slowly planning an exit.
Recently, after 23 years of being with narcissistic I prayed, and I recently experienced all of these signs. Thank you. I must leave him for my own health and peace. ❤
You must learn to LOVE yourself and protect your INNER child, or INNER teen, or INNER adult and YOUR PEACE. Defend ALL of yourself!!! Love YOU F-I-R-S-T. Fall in love with YOU, Darlin'. You never allow anyone to ABUSE, VIOLATE, ROB, ASSAULT, ATTACK, SLANDER, DISRESPECT, OR OTHERWISE HARM your LOVED ones. Do for you what you would do them if they did THIS shit to your most cherished SOUL. ....YEP. PERIODT.
Yes, I have experienced that. My mind at the time could not comprehend the betrayal. It was no dream. It was real. It is only through my relationship with God, I have survived! ✨💖✨🙏🕊
Spot on! I figured out that a guy that I was dating was surely a narcissist when he left me stranded at the airport after he agreed to do so. He said that his plans changed and he had been invited to a party and that he "needed" to go. A party. On a Sunday. At 4pm. I told him that if he ever looked in my direction again he would regret it. I changed my phone number and never looked back. He called my other phone , a number that I never gave to him, sobbing saying that he had to go to the ER after I broke up with him bc he started having panic attacks. He begged me to take him back. I told him that I would get my brothers to deal with him if he reached out to me again. I never heard from him again. I dont play games with my time. The trick with narcissists is you have to deal with them firmly and keep it moving with no indecisiveness. If you dont, then its game on for them.
Very true about being firm with a narcissist, because they are almost like children. My daughter went on a mini vacation with my sister and my niece. Before the flight back to our region my sister texted me to see if I could pick my daughter up at the airport when they landed. It was a last minute curve ball thrown at me. That would have required me to drive into a major city, but they had their own vehicle already at the airport and they were driving themselves home anyway. We live 3 miles away from each other. I just couldn't believe they weren't willing to bring my daughter home from the airport. Because they were tired and didnt want to drop her off. I was firm with them and told them no, bring her the rest of the way home. And they did. (If they would have insisted that I pick her up, I gladly would have.) It was ludicrous. They were actually going to leave her there alone until I got there but I made them be responsible for her to the end of the trip.
“Feels like you’re sleeping next to a snake.” Yes! That was my dream when I was dating, I dreamt I was sleeping next to a serpent. One night while we were intimate I just felt I’ll I was in something demonic as if I was taking part in a ritual and it truly scare me.
I can't believe this I've been dreaming of Snakes chasing me and I'm just trying to escape and once in a while dream about dead animals i Love all animals and when i wake up im so sad to have these dreams Thank You Milly✌❤🙏
Yes. I dreamt of a snake too before meeting this real life snake. Attacking me. Very scary .. A predator. I left and nevert turned back. I got so frightened when I saw something demonic and demonic smell from him
I have been dreaming of a black snake enterring ou house frequently and every time i seek for the islamic dream interpretation it mentions that the black snake represents a giant enemy which unfortunately is my narcissist father who has divided the family , creating chaos and i have never felt so much hate for this man.
If God led me into this It was to teach me a lesson. To show me I was special too. To teach me to love and respect myself. To teach me self confidence and to trust in myself. This ugly experience taught me a lot. It was the most valuable lesson I have ever learned. I now have self respect.
💗 Thank you for sharing! It's hard to believe this. I just left a similar kinda comment, it feels very undeserving to simply love one self. May The Almighty Creator Heal us, ameen. ☝🏽🌌💖💫
@@bbdn5123 I was raised to know my place. To be subservient to my father and brother. The exalted men, because back then men went to work and brought home the bacon. Women did the cooking, cleaning, child rearing. We had very clearly defined roles. But look out if you ever expressed an opinion. It was the eta of children should be seen, not heard. That kind of upbringing doesn’t help you grow into a secure, confident, self respecting adult who has a sense of self worth. In fact, looking at it today. I’d say I was bred to be a narcissist’s dream 🙄 It was just the way it was back then. But at least I’ve come to terms with the fact that’s now how it is now and nobody deserves to be dominated and disrespected just because they’re male or female. And if someone treats me disrespectfully I don’t have to accept it.
@@maggie6Thanks again, feel a bit less insane for now. Reading, knowing you're "talking to me" is healing in itself. Never realized until recently I do need/want/deserve validation. Does healing hurt? I've got restless legs and fibromyalgia, or is it more of a left over residu from all the build up evil wicked toxicity? When I read it hurts here and there, mainly a fist hurting the womb kinda feeling... Or the heart being grasped tightly. I wonder a lot of things. Living in my mind. Fighting to get better, not sure what that means for me. Was unable to cry for five years and I tried so desperately to do so, I didn't succeed during that time, wondering what was wrong with me... The professionals diagnosed depression twice during my life, then acute stress disorder a few years back (after a chain of several shocking events) and now ptsd complex (because I left and could be honest first time ever). I don't care about the word labels. I'm trying to listen to and obey The One Almighty Healer of all hearts. I'm stubborn living in a denial shock state. Don't know what's up next, can't believe myself. I just know I need to take better loving care of me which is super hard. I can't seem to get in depth with your message, because I know all too well... My niece once told me I could make a great president cuz when I talk, I talk without talking/going in depth. Realized years later I can't talk about hurtful experiences and I can't "own myself". I'm locked up in my head. Life's different when there are no words ✍🏽💌🤯.
I have seen his eyes turn pitch black staring at me without blinking. He knew exactly what I saw and I was unafraid, God was and is still with me. Whoever reads this, please heed to the signs that you see and get away as fast as you can.
Signs I noticed... Wakes up between 2 and 4 am every night. Talks in sleep Drugs and alcohol binges Missing and no where to be found for days Always the victim Keeps me isolated from his family, coworkers and friends Blames me for everything
I thank God from the bottom of my heart for showing me the true face of narcissist and I also thank Mr.Danish (angel sent by god) for educating and saving us from evil(narcissist)...AMEN🕊🇮🇳🙏
I have been through hell, living with a narcissist who was controlling me like nuts. Fortunately, my God intervened and was put to shame. Glory be to God
I can tell a narcissist right away by how they want me to chase them. If I sense that push pull, also, these people do not have ANY warmth to them at all, they can somehow say the right things but you just feel something is off here… they truly are vampires! When people have love in them, you can feel it. ❤
My ex actually said something about the push pull dynamic. He would be a total shit when we would go somewhere and try to get me to peruse him. It totally backfired…I just told him he either wanted to be with me or not waste my time by playing stupid games. He flew into a victim rage! I learned from that that I couldn’t confront him with anything!
During the love bombing stage, the end of it, we were out on a very nice day and I said that I was happy and it was one of the really good days. Immediately the switch was flipped. The dark eyes came out and I could feel the hatred for me. He secretly hates if I am happy and will make sure I am as miserable as him. I have been with him on and off for so long I feel like the evil as invaded me. Like possession by an evil being. I am scared. I am out of this once again and need to get help to stay away. I need to be sure I NEVER go back. Frightening
I was diagnosed with a autoimmune disease. Dr said he was confused about seeing so many of these diagnosis in his practice. That was 12 yrs ago. I now know it came from my Narc now deceased husband. I have been healing from his abuse since he died in 2006. God had been showing me what I had been dealing with in many ways since his death. I'm finally starting to look like myself again. My Dr says he is not seeing any signs now of the autoimmune disease and to just keep living healthy. I am off medication and feeling better than I have in many decades. I now have learned so much about Narcissist and have removed several of them in my family from my life. I now have 0 tolerance for toxic. No matter where it is coming from or how closely they are related to me. Those days are over.
God helped me. I almost went back together with a narcissist but God sent him a new woman. She finished with him very soon after they met. He wanted to come back to me. But I was strong. Never went back. Thank you God.
I was in a brief relationship with a narcissist and the main thing that happened to me that literally made me get out was the premonition of having children with him. I had a vision where I had a daughter and she would witness what she saw me go through with her father and internalize that trauma to be in her own abusive relationship. I felt dead inside when I saw my own child going through what I went through. That vision made me end it
Yes, the lord definitely gave you a premonition. A lot of people ignore premonitions (like I’ve done) and have suffered for it. I’ve learned to never ignore them ever again. Let’s take our power back ! ❤
Yes,I had a dream of the person at my door holding a weapon towards me. What was ridiculous in the dream to me is if they asked for help they would have gotten it. The fact that they were showing remorse in the dream YET still was holding a weapon towards me that could have killed me...said everything. Sadly while I was really disturbed and perplexed by the dream I ignored it for a while. Then a few months later found out they can pick locks and a few months after that my keys went missing, then showed back up when they came to my house. I know it was them because we're I found the keys it was not there before that was extensively checked. I really do feel I was so naive that the Lord truly intervened on my behalf and moved me completely out of the area. What Danish speaks about is bang on accurate.
Yes, I have experienced a narcissist in some of the most unbelievable ways!!! They have absolutely no conscience, no sympathy, no remorse, no anything that will make any significant impact for the betterment of your life. My advice is to walk away and never look back. Pray for them because God is the only 1 that can help them. I promise you that there is nothing that you can do on your own. ❤❤❤ I pray you find the strength in the Lord to walk away
About 6 months after being with my fiance at the time, I started havind very vivid/lucid dreams of him chasing me in a neighborhood with a knife/bat/pole and i was hiding under peoples back porches and going through peoples privacy fences to get away from him. I had these dreams on 2 or 3 different occasions. I had told my best friend about them and he actually said that he hoped it wasn't a sign of something. Seven months after getting married, was the first time he laid his hands on me. At first it was just shoving me around and throwing my things across the room, then it got worse to where he was banging my head against the wall, throwing me on the bed to choke me, then actually hitting me. I had opened up to one of his friends and told her what was going on and said that if he put his hands on me again i was going to call the cops. Another incident happened and he said that she told him I would call the cops and he whipped out his knife and said if I called the cops he would slit my throat open. And that was the same incident where he actually used an object to hit me with including his fist. This last time he hit me, he actually tried to break my hand since we were walking back from the store, he put me in a choke hold and dragged me through the back door and as soon as we were inside, he started hitting me. I thought I was safe since we were living with his dad during that incident and i knew he didn't want people knowing that he abuses me. That didn't stop him. That time i did call the cops on him. He basically manipulated me into having the charges dropped. That was a little over a year ago and still to this day he screams and yells that I put him in jail for no reason cuz he says that he fell on me. Those bruises looked like i had taken a beating or been in a horrible car accident. That wasn't from a fall and he didn't fall on me. He has to answer for all his lies and deceit when judgement day comes. I'm currently in the process of leaving him and will be gone in just a few days. He doesn't know but i've already taken the proper steps and precautions to make sure I'm able to leave peacefully and safe.
It was Maha Mrityunjaya Mantra. I got on my Path and discovered Shivoham. I pray to Shiva every day; the narc did Puja with me on Mahashivratri and after that everything he was doing behind my back became so obvious and undeniable. I finally caught him in a lie. Trust yourself. Look in your own mind. All the answers are there
@girlg0ne sounds familisr...these narcissists love to do pujas with you and try to bind themselves to you..they think then you won't leave them..don't do any pujas with men unless they are your husband...it makes it 10x harder to detach from them when you do spiritual practices with them! It also makes it easier for their demons to attack you, making your suffering 10x worse also...
@@AmberKR-xg9ug It helps to pray for the end result you want, for example pray for healing and freedom, and then surrender all the details to Him, I mean actually saying “I surrender all the details to you God, I trust you know best how to get me from here to there, in the meantime please give me strength to bear the process” thats important because He won’t break the promise of free will but when you ask God to get involved in the details it opens more avenues of help. Keep talking to God about how you feel, speak to Him like He is your therapist. Place your faith in divine timing, know that you won’t always understand in the moment why things are happening in the order that they are, honestly know that if things happened too fast or in the wrong order you could have ended up suffering even more. That you’re being protected from threats you never even saw. Keep the faith, try to listen to your inner voice and follow the wisdom because often that’s the part of you hearing answers from God, educate yourself, work on building internal safety & healthy self care habits like its your main job, help others when you can, and accept help especially when it seems like it comes out of nowhere. Hope this helps 🙏🏼 and of course only do what feels right to you, adapt it to fit whats in your heart prayer is very personal (or at least it should be)
Sign 1: Yes! He showed himself when I was stuck in the snow and he wouldn’t come get me out. When I had a car accident. When I had COVID he gave me the silent treatment. When my grandmother died, he went on vacation and gave me the silent treatment for two weeks!!! When there were two big issues at my apartment and I couldn’t stay there, he not only wouldn’t let me stay with him, he told me to go back to my ex, whom he knew was abusive to me! 🥺 I was so trauma-bonded. I forgave him for all of it. I am out of there now, thank God.
Those dreams are legit. I always have nightmares before and after meeting them. Your subconscious registers the threat and it manifests as the possible outcome.
Everything you said in this has happened to me 20 yrs ago. I am currently with my narcissist. My dream.... has always been snakes attacking me. I was baptized May of 2022 and have started seeing the narcissist for who he is since.
I said this on a group for narcissistic abuse recovery and it was interesting the split between those who completely agreed and those who completely disagreed. It was evident that those who disagreed were still fighting for the narcissist they loved to change, but once you see them for what they truly are, you can understand there is no hope for them. Thank you for speaking about the spiritual side of narcissism, so many will not. "....Love is a product of God, a Narcissist is a product of evil and is anti-Christ. Love comes from a frequency of higher consciousness, evil is a low frequency that exists outside that consciousness, and seeks to disrupt the harmony of love and unity. Narcissism is the antithesis of Love."
I became sick suddenly last year and got fired because of my illness. I was only making a little more than 40k, my ex was making close to 150k and had a lot of investments. There was no offer of help and it was like he didn't even feel bad for me (because he didnt). I finally got really upset with him and called him out and threatened to leave him for being so stingy and cruel, he said that this was his way of helping me. Then he had to nerve to tell me he talked to his dad about this and now his whole family thinks I'm a gold digger --- his long term partner who fell ill and can't work and I was temporarily disabled I needed crutches to walk around for months. But I'm a gold digger for expecting my well off partner to help in a pinch. But then I felt like I had to stay with him because I couldn't work.... I'm free a year later
Are you married though ? Cause if you are married you are entitled to this financial support If you are not married no you have not this right and maybe he didn’t marry you on purpose cause he wants to exploit you but not marrying you Broke up with him I hope you did not get in bed with him as boyfriend and girlfriend… break up!!!
I was about to reconcile for the second time with him, but I had this weird experience. A bird flew twice into my window pane. When I came the third time around I shouted at it and it flew away. It was almost as if it was on a self destruction mission. I realized that I was that bird. I decided then to walk away from the relationship. It still hurts, but I'm getting better. Time is certainly a healer.
A similar thing happened to me. A bird came down my chimney and was trapped in my lounge room. It flew around frantically, I opened the back door and it flew out. I didn't realise that bird was me. I wish I knew this before! 😮 I finally parted from him 6 months ago.💪
I saw SO many signs like this. Strange signs. And I KNEW what they were trying to tell me. And I just kept ignoring them :( I couldn't leave. Now he broke up with me for the fourth time, so I guess I have no choice now but to leave.
I went on holiday with a covert narcissist (work colleague). It was a nightmare of an experience, she said it happened because I feel that I don't deserve to be overseas, I don't deserve to enjoy the holiday because my self worth is very low. I was so surprised. I dreamt that she did something horrible to me, left me stranded without money or any idea of where we are. Later on in the holiday. This really happened. The holiday was in March and we are now in June, I am still trying to figure out what is happening to me. Thank you for your videos they helped me SO MUCH and are spot on!
The way my husband speaks to me, treats me and behaves at this point in our marriage (30 yrs) makes me feel that the only reason my husband has ever stuck/sticks around to help me in or out of a bad situation is because he feels obligated. Not because he loves and cherishes me but he's obligated by our marriage.
Thank you SO much, Danish. My husband is a narcissist, and the mother who raised me continues her malignant narcissism toward me to this day. I have remained with my husband for 40!! years, and am in close contact with my mother. After hearing you, I see all the chances and warnings and means of escape God gave me, and I foolishly forgave and allowed myself to be entrapped over and over. You have described those opportunities exactly. I thank you again. Would you please say a little prayer for me not to be so foolish again? God bless you.
When the truth of Narcissistic abuse becomes apparent as pure evil to us - we start to heal. Slowly. I was in similar circumstances. If your husband and mum are truly Narcissistic, don't slay 2 "snakes" at the same time. Start from your husband and keep mum in friendly terms otherwise toxic mums can turn your life upside down if they are given any power. Distance yourself from husband carefully and if he is Narcissistic - he will make your life a torture for many years. Toxic mums likely to join his battle no matter how good you are to them. For example, move to different town and don't give your mum your address under any pretext until your husband is defeated by you and everything settled. I also gave to my mum a burner phone number only so she can't call me any time she wishes and she can't upset, disorient myself while I am at war with my ex husband. I called her regularly once a month for years and treated her as kindly as possible. It worked.
My husband and stepmother were also a narcissist. My husband and I were together for 45yrs. Yes I’m praying for you and know what your going through. I also prayed for him and myself for years but if they can’t and won’t change you need to leave. You are dying inside. I did leave a year ago and it wasn’t easy even tried to get a restraining order. The judge took his side because he knew exactly what to say and believe it or not I tried to protect him by not telling my whole story. I was so devastated. He was a mess are whole marriage wanting and saying he didn’t want to live. He was depressed had anxiety, pain in his body and mind. We tried to get help but never worked for long. Please please if you are afraid and God has shown you many signs please leave. 🙏🙏 YOU CANT CHANGE HIM.
Yes Danish, I had soooo many warning signs in the very beginning of our relationship 55 years ago, but in those days, I was crazily "in love" that I brushed these warning signs aside. I did not even know the "narcissists" word existed let alone what it meant. There were so many incidences over all the years that I could not explain. But I kept trying to make my marriage work. I did think it was just me been over emotional. It was not until I got so desperate and genuinely prayed to God that I actually got my answer just recently. Now I am totally overwhelmed with all this narcissists information and how accurate it all is. You have helped me so much and I am sure it is He that has brought me to your attention. You are helping many people, looking at the comments. Thank you so much.
I don't know how you can just pick up my random thoughts and bring your videos exactly on time. You have saved my life nth of times. I watch your videos regularly and sometimes even twice or thrice. These help me to get through my difficult life. Just today I felt a lot of anger towards God for putting me through what I am going through. And see today I get a video from you on the exact thought I was going through. For me and our community you are next to God. Today I feel God sent you on this earth to help people where God didn't get time to help. You are a blessing. Thank you Danish for what you do. Your family lost a jewel. They are fools to not recognize your shine. Keep shining always. Lots of peace , love and hugs. Thanks Danish
I eco this same message. Just today before sitting for my morning prayer, i was litterally questioning God! I use to always believe in you and was spiritual since my school days then why did you have me meet this Narcissistic person and why did you not stop me from marrying him. After 16 years of my tortured marriage and after being left with no money in my bank after 16 years working in MNC I now got to know he is a Narcissistic man. THEN JUST I GOD my answer from God thru this video from Danish. I pay for the happiness and long healthy life of Danish who is doing this wonderful job of spreading awareness and helping them.
3 months ago, my narcissistic wife left me when i was facing financial problem now she has filed a divorce. I am happy to give her a divorce. Finally God has saved me😊
I had to have back surgery, after having our third son - my narcissistic EX husband wasn't willing to take me to the hospital. He is an attorney, and he had a deposition, so that was more important to him than taking his wife to the hospital for life threatening surgery. After surgery, I was left to my own devices to find help so that I could heal. He never offered to stay home, even one day, to help with the kids.
He may not be a narcissist but just a not so developed and not moral not religious man. There are a lot of men that like women when they are hot young etc or at least healthy and sexy and still fun to be around but the moment the wife gets older and has health issues, for them it’s not hot no more and no fun no more They are superficial and focused on sec and hotness They don’t love you like Jesus loves the Church The majority of men cheats or abandon a woman with health issues or cheat on her while pregnant… if that is enough to consolate you
Number 5 is true for me. I was shaking even at the time of marriage paper signing, it was extremely abnormal. God was giving me signs. Alhamdulillah God saved me later on too.
@@PoojaG_PG I stayed in that marriage for months, but it was never fine. But I kept praying, and God revealed his true face to me within 5 months. What helped me the most was lack of communication with him for a whole month. I was thinking clearly in his absence. (The lack of communication was because of his ego after he had mistreated me and ofcourse didn't apologise, blamed me for everything he had done)
This information is saving my pathetic life. I feel sick & paralyzed with fear & anxiety. I’m connecting the dots! I’m physically falling apart. Everything you say is TRUE! Thank you 🙏 for this channel.
Please know that there is someone out in the world going thru this also. Don't blame yourself. You have a loving, kind soul. Please stay in the shelter with your children. You will all be safe while you heal from your initial trauma. My prayers and love❤❤❤
@@coldfact. Someone else posted about a shelter. I liked the post. Don't know how it has shown up as my reply. In Australia we have Women's Refuges for women escaping any kind of abuse.
You are so right. A narcissist is the exact opposite of God. Totally evil. I went through so much embarrassing things that I never went through as an adult when I didn't know him or wasn't around him.
She is also told me that when she hears the words of prayer coming out of my mouth that it literally hurts her stomach that she is in pain just from hearing me speak words of prayer and I don't know what to do to help her I just make sure I explain to my son when we're alone you know that be aware of your surroundings but God is always with you he's got you you have nothing to worry about he's already proven that to me many times
Hi Danish, i strongly believe its God who showed me your videos to me and am so thankful 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 to God first. I have a covert narcissist sibling and mother... I never understood in my entire life (am 45 now) why all my other siblings do not understand me but very supportive to them even when they are wrong... I suffered a lot a lot in silence all these years and have been asking God whyyyy whyyyy as they started influencing my kids as well... Its then i got the answer watching your videos 🙏 Thank you Danish❤ God bless you ❤
Hello arunajyothi, They are evil and despise your good nature. Please distance yourself and do not trust them. Abusers only escalate the abuse and we know the statistics prove that. Best to go no contact. As the last of my parents health began to deteriorate, my sibling took over. Twice it poisoned me and made it to look like accident or illness. There was an inheritance involved which sibling would have totally controlled if I died. I have my own family. The sibling did this to me knowing I am very ill, and was in the hospital many time and have my own children. Sibling is very financially successful and connected supposedly but it still chose to be envious, and abusive. Also since my parents passed on, I caught the sibling lying about banking, refusing to provide records I requested, filing documents in unattainable court locations, withholding known moneys and lying about procedures and assets. Btw, its monied and no kids. Also it along eith toxic relatives discredited and smeared me to my parents and most likely others. God has helped me and saved me. Those abuser types are not of our world or realm..
I'll never forget the horrible dreams. Omg 😢 And the medical conditions... I have always been healthy. But the past couple years... It's like my body just wants to shut down and give up. I see it all now, though.
@@caroleminke6116 that's wonderful! I'm so proud of you! I'm in the beginning stages of recovering. There are still so many painful moments, and so much self-doubt. But I'm slowly learning. I am very hard-headed and stubborn sometimes. I wasn't perfect in ANY way (especially once I started getting reactive). But I am learning that I didn't deserve what I got!
@@ladyvirgo013 , I'm so sorry you had to experience this evilness on earth, I experienced it as well, I grew up around these people, so I was blinded for a very long time. Divorced 2-2-23, 55 year's old, God how I wish I could've known better sooner. 🙏💥💫💦
@@ladyvirgo013 , I know the pain, the reality, is so very painful. I'm so happy for you that you're getting divorced. I do understand the pain involved, keep your faith 🙏 💯
He left covertly by just escalating rage, lies manipulations for years and emotionally abandoning me to the point I had to break it off. It took a bit to grasp why nothing made any sense but after we broke up and I was able to ask a few significant questions. He’s told me that what ruined our relationship for him was me becoming chronically ill. He got much worse after watching me get pulled back in over and over from narcissistic parents. He watched so much hurt and yo-yo “Love” thank goodness and all of the help yourself who have brought e back to reality light, hope and true future ,mine. I am more than a minion of his. More than his life secretary, parent of a grown man etc.
This is a lifesaving channel. I was held in bondage and slavery for 10 years. I was a professional woman with a successful medical career. I lived in the U.S. and this monster promised me so many wonderful experiences if I left my country and moved to his. Every single word in these videos is, exactly, the truth. I often dreamed of being stuck on an elevator, so very small, being suffocated and the elevator wouldn’t move anywhere, in the rarest moments that it did work, it would let me out in a strange city where I had nowhere to go. I ended up being a slave who saved his life, by my medical education and training for 10 years. This was always his plan. He did ten months later, after I left. Smearing my good reputation with horrible lies, and trying to convince the world that I was the abuser. Please, revisit these videos often. They might save your life 😢.
All of it. And, yes, questioned how God could let it happen, was so upset. Then later in retrospect realized I had been getting signs from God all along. The narcissist was covert but I was having dreams of him physically beating me to death. (I feel sure that he was actually fantasizing that.) Thank you for this video and for the description of being next to someone who you feel like isn't alive.
What a horrible nightmare! I had recurring dreams of trying to find a new place to live, and my parents were always there, and there was always a sense of foreboding. I do think that there is a sick psychic connection there.
Yes. It's very hard to see through the fog but when you do, you see their agenda is to erase you in any way they can ... and often through deliberately driving you to suicide, then they can say you really were crazy. I dreamed of my ex narc then husband, attending my funeral with our sons, playing the poor grieving husband and single parent. I resolved after that dream that I would stay alive no matter what. He used the 'crazy' label against me and manipulated me to react like I was crazy. Then I realised what he was doing. I couldn't explain to my kids what he was doing to me behind closed doors. He was very clever to always behave like the model husband in front of them, so I did appear crazy if I tried to explain to them how he really is. I'm still here at 70, fully compus mentus and the day will come when he will reveal himself to our kids and they'll realise I wasn't crazy after all.
Oh, my God, I've been saying this over and over again. That I saw black eyes. Your are the first person to say this. Thank you I thought I was going crazy thank you thank you.
God has been telling me these things lately. I come from a family with narcissistic patterns. My father has been a narcissist, and yet like Luke Skywalker, I feel there is good in him! He turned away from God to atheism and when I was a little girl, in the name of freedom, he denied me my faith. He said this was because religion (according to him) was controlling...but also, I know he was molested by a man of the church - and I have high hopes he might be saved, but meanwhile I know he'd suck me down if he could). He is not the only one in my family who can be cruel in especially painful (demonic) ways. What you said about abandonment at a critical time resonated. That shock lasted me for years. I have been celibate for over twenty years. Some of us given our backgrounds are better off looking solely to Christ and not seeking to be loved by this world. So thank you for this message because I constantly doubt myself. I've been under narcissistic attack for so long and by so many people, and for once I have a wonderful opportunity, and I aim to take it, even though I've been groomed by narcissists all my life to deny myself and instead feed them. I am struggling with guilt, but I am taking this lesson from God. Thank you Danish Bashir for helping God break through my thick skull!
Holy Moly Danish!!🥺 This is my exact story after my sweet Mom died. After putting my life on hold to care for my dad (he was the “sick” one) and assist with setting him up to function on his own, my dad stole everything my daughter & I ever owned, ruined my 1st business, locked me out of our shared home (that I invested way too much money in), left me homeless, and disowned my brother & I. The most traumatic discard ever. I found myself at 40 years old having totally lost everything and had to start over from scratch. By God’s grace & my relentless spirit, I bounced back better than before. Now I realize this whole ordeal was God saving my LIFE! Material things can ALL be replaced. Thank you!! 🙌❤
The day we came home from the honeymoon I had a horrible nightmare. I walked up on something crouched down in the middle of the street. When I got really close to it it turned around and jumped on me. It was a viscous attack. In the dream I was fighting a demon. In reality I was fighting my husband who turned out to be a narcissist. I could hear him screaming at me to wake up but I was fighting for my life. By the grace and power of God, eleven years later I won the fight.
I literally had a dream last night after an disagreement. It felt real and I had to call in Jesus to get me out of it. I have had series of these dreams and this one was so real I know I’m waking up to the truth ! Thank you for this message.
Two things opened my eyes. A dream and indeed a look I once got but at the time didn’t recognise. I’d be not so quick as to point to God who warned me. But since “His” power is in all, anyone who opens up spiritually, can find strength and help from a deeper layer of conscience. In my case first in a dream in which I found myself locked up in a room (prison like lack of freedom to be myself) at the same time realising that I was to the narcissist nothing more than a accessoire. Then It remind me of a look I once got. I got back to some 25(!) year old photos and there it was. Fear and anger as a way to get me in control I at the time didn’t but now recognised. The narcissistic look. God was there when I broke down realising I had been dealing with lies all these years. To catch me making clear that maybe I wasn’t there, but “He” had been there all the time to carry me if necessary. A terrible period became a very valuable period. I learned about myself and my longings. I informed myself and it made me strong so I can’t get mislead another time.
Owe, I had dreams my ex was hurting me. Missed a lot of signs. Now I see. Divorced and free after 30 years of marriage. Big thank you for educating about narcissists. It is hard to get out.
Life on earth is constant trials. How you learn the lessons, grow, and bounce back is key. We should finish better than we started. Blessings to All, Danish and All our Family. You are Loved. 🙏🏼🤍🕊
The dreams and our unconscious once tapped into cognition will tell you exactly who the person really is. Sometimes, the images or objects or animals don't look like the narcissists, but it doesn't matter. Also, in dreams, certain smells, colors, and emotions that come up can help interpret them. Trust in all your dreams and may all the good ones you love come true❤🥰👍!
YES! Thank you so much for mentioning this! I couldn't sleep next to him, the voices of all his evil Deeds and demonic energy seeped out when he was asleep, I could not handle the feeling, it would keep me up and I'd get flashes of so many evil and disgusting things he had done in my mind from being near him while he was asleep. Things he was pathologically lying about but turned out to actually be true! My intuition was able to see them and pick up on it during his sleep. So glad to be away from it.
THANK YOU FOR ACKNOWLEDGING THE DEMONIC ENERGY SEEPING FROM THEM AND THE ABSOLUTE INABILITY TO SETTLE PEACEFULLY. I used to just break out in tears. I HATED being there. The energy is attached to my daughter. I have noticed it since APRIL 2020. Gets lower every day. Yet HE is on Oak Island inside of the new house he built for his 'wife' and the ILLEGITIMATE kids he erroneously provides for, SEXUAL TRAFFICKERS, SWINGERS, CLIENTS, SACRIFICES, AND DEMONS. I shall rescue MY FAMILY from the 'DEN OF DEMONIC PROSTITUTION'. ...
So this is like…when my husband never came to one cancer treatment….only wanted me to cater to him while I was going through cancer….and got mad when I couldn’t fulfill his needs during my cancer stage….GOD BLESSED ME AND SAVED ME FROM Cancer for my kids….I’m still with the husband because they are good at trap and manipulating!! I’m finally really seeing him for who he is! GOD reveals him to me every day!! ❤
Link to my best resources:
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I love that you love God... may God continue to bless your wisdom...Amen!
I had so many narcissists in my life from my mom, (discovered only at 33 y/o she was one) grew with her from 0-8, then foster family, 8-12 with narcissist, (was the most hated child), then 18 went with a narcissist bf for a year.. then narcissit roomate/friend at 24-28, with narcissit boss.... but life is sometimes about learning..... i had this time to put a stop to it and defend myself, because usually empath just defend their friends and never themselves, so it's more about learning and life lessons, that I needed to go through. I don't think I will be affect anymore by any narcissists out there, I learned precious lessons. We can't stand lies and injustice towards our friends.. but when it comes to us .. we just let it slip.. and we shouldn't.
Gods signs when you need NOT to experience something uselessly harmful :
I called it the 3 cancellations
You try to do something, but it fail, and it will failed at least 3 times, that is a good sign you should not pursue further.
You can be stubborn and try a 4th times but that is on you.
I had a bad flu out of the blue right after I was hoovered by the Narcissist and my blood pressure worsened. We broke up again after two months and I decided to block him forever although I hadn't known then that he was a Narcissist. I found out after a week, by chance, watching a video on CZcams.
Thank you for making this video. I think it’s so important ❤
This is so important and overwhelming at the same time. I'm taking a break from this video after only 35 seconds... There's no "right circumstances". I guess there never will be. I need to get my head, heart, stomach and soul straight. Feel like flying away from the inside. I need to regroup... ☝🏽🌌💖💫
Most of the people turn towards spirituality when they are at the peak of narcissit abuse...that is when you learn about self love...❤❤❤
Yes, Amen!
Yes
Amen. At it hard. Calling on God with endless tears. It's so hard😢
True
Amen! That is my journey now. Self-love.❤🙏
It is only by the grace of God that I survived my childhood and am still alive today ❤️🙏
Me too.🌷🌷
@@cherylfarrington6906 may God bless you and continue to watch over you ❤️🙏
Same here. I'm thriving now.
Me,too. But I still have sleep disorder.
God chose you, Dear One. Rejoice. 🙏🏼🤍🕊
Yes! Narcissist asked me for a divorce when I was diagnosed with autoimmune diseases, can you imagine the shock?
But then this happened, after the divorced
God healed me! Now I rejoice not being in that marriage anymore, I wake up with smile in face in the morning.
Don’t be fooled also, when you get the healing, they want to come back, NEVER EVER GO BACK! I repeat never go back!
Please take care of yourself
❤🙏
Thank you darln 🌷🌷
I have heard that narcissists also drain your life energy. Thank God you are doing OK now 👍👍👍👍
@@gojiberry7201 absolutely true! It is like your life is paused.
Thank you 💕
❤🙌🏾❤🙌🏾❤
I know a narcissist can make you feel as though you could really knock the hell out of a narcissist...but you must step back and let God knock the hell out of them. Trust me, He will!!! God can handle horrible people way better than we can.
Trying my best to fight off those thoughts people don’t know my story
@@NoCappingSportsLegendYes, people may not know your story, however, God does. He will deal with your enemy and give you strength to heal and move on.
@@debbier9555 thank you for this amen.
💥🎯 Gods way is always the best way.
Is your name Joe? That was beautiful Joe, thanks. So true. Let God deal with these monsters. I am done and I trust God.
Have you noticed that every time you become stronger spiritually, a new challenge arises? A new narcissist appears in your life to block you or to test you. No matter which way you turn another one appears. I think it’s to teach us, to grow in the ways of recognising them.
Perfectly put
They get into debts ask your help pleading and promising then when you help, you are left carrying his debts..liars and manipulators
Please teach where to run for assistance as the victim is left penniless...when the family are all narcs and he is the only one left notmal.
@@ma.teresagarcia3014 YHVH ALMIGHTY!!! This is the point! So that you rely only upon him.
New levels-new devils.
He would help every other woman when we were in public but wouldn't even open a door for me.
Me too
Yep
Exactly.. my experience
Yes!! Mine *RUNS* (can't get out the door fast enough) to go & help other people whenever they have certain things wrong with their buildings (homes or businesses) -- but when I need something done, it takes a half a year to a full year, if at all, to get it done!!
Now, I acknowledge that it *could* be for the extra money he makes from these "side jobs". Which I know is a big part of it bc he is motivated by money. But, the part where he can't move fast enough to help others, while putting me on hold -- even if he's suppose to cook dinner or get dinner for us -- he'll drop *EVERYTHING* to help others first and foremost!
Yep! I can relate
God saved me at the time when I thought my life was crashing down. I picked myself up and slowly started to recover trying to heal from soul crushing abyss not giving up
Same here 🙏🥹 Praise be to God
Same with Me
To the point 💯 %
Soul crushing abyss is an accurate way to describe the utter despair, the devastation and excruciating heartbreak. 😢
Yes ! Just in time
The description of them being Anti-God is spot on. I believe that is why so many of them pretend to be 'ultra religious'. They are trying to make faith dirty by association so that you turn from God. Thank you for this video.❤
Interesting. I know a few religious narcissists
Wouw this comment was in itself a revelation 🫢the npd in my life did exactly that. Defile faith. Undermine the purity and beauty of God. Also by bribing his way into church leadership. Almost cost me my faith
💗 Thank you for sharing, in a way it's healing me to get validation. These things do happen and exist. I'm so exhausted, tired, thinking/knowing I'm insane, I'm not taking care of me... Making myself suffer more I think. Giving my energy, and priorities where it doesn't belong. Hard to love yourself. Like it's a disgusting selfish evil act, undeserving... I tell myself to hold on, have faith, patience and hope ☝🏽🌌💖💫
💯 I lot of people say they believe in God, but are doing terrible wicked things and then other people see it and think its ok to do these things because of the so called "people of God" are also doing it. Gotta be careful and not trust everybody just because they mention God. To walk with God we gotta repent, change our ways and make sacrifices. We need to become so pure that our image and what we do are acceptable to every age range.
Narcissists are masters at spiritual abuse. They will warp and poison your perception of God while they attack your very spirit knowing that God is the only way to truly escape them.
The term "abuse" represents war on the most personal level. Nothing is more personal than your soul/spirit. They know what it takes to break someone, and they do it.
That's why their abuse is the most painful and damaging while also being the most difficult to see. If you're looking only at the physical, you won't see the spiritual attacks and won't be able to fight back. So they drive you away from seeking God.
God revealed to me that my husband is narcissistic by letting CZcams notify me of lessons on narcissism. And now I understand what I have been going through for the past 13 years. Thank you for opening my eyes.
I am realizing the exact same thing.....as I listen to and watch these videos. I now realize I have been married to a narcissist all this time. Some things are right on-poiny but there are some traits that are not. But I am wondering whether or not some other mental disorder or character traits is at play along with narcissism. But these videos have really taught me alot.
Same here,I passed out at home had a emergency surgery could have died , I've cried several times because of the narcisist no witness but God and the walls. I know a sheep in wolves clothes God opened my eyes. Giving all praise to God he is my refuge.😇
Yes. What the enemy means for evil, God uses for good! 👏🏼
You may never know that Jesus is all you need until Jesus is all you have 🙏 stand strong dear Saints of the True Living God 😇
Amen
AMEN! 🙏 Thank you Lord, Jesus!
AMEN 🙏
King JESUS the greatest faithful and true. By HIS stripes we are healed. HE led me through the memories that horrified me and showed me the truth I could never accept. HE gave me a heart of flesh and protected me from all fear
Those words “You may not know that Jesus is all you need until Jesus is all you have.” are absolutely profound ! thank you for sharing that !!
My mother told me something wasn't right with him, and my dad did not want me to marry him so soon.... I took it as they were judging him for being different and I was naive. It took me years to see the cycle of abuse with love bombing, tension building up, and then an explosion. I have been able to move on from that relationship, but now I see the narcissism in a different way through trying to co-parent. Seeing how our children now have to deal with his narcissism. It's sad and challenging. Maddening when I get called a liar and delusional and trying to make me question myself. Be careful who you marry. For your sake and your future children's sake.
I'm a 58 years old who has been divorced from my narcissistic ex-husband for many years now and I can tell you that as I began to recover so did my children. There more I relied on the holyghost, my ex-husband just became a non-factor. Currently he is in a nursing home because he got really sick and due to his behavior none of his children or family members would take him in.
Marriage and procreation ARE the most important decisions of your life. Do not screw this up. Do not let people talk you out of red flags!!! Family will do this if they want to get rid of you or unload you onto anyone.
Watch out when they insult you or physically abuse you. Do not ignore this. Better not to marry than marry this person.
@@tatie7604 thank you
I moved out with my kid ,i could not leave my child to such devil
@@swetashukla5947Yes, you did the right thing.
They are most definitely anti God. I’m experiencing something very disturbing but I know God is with me through it all. They hate God. I know God loves me! Awesome video!
God loves you❤
There are many different signs. These include spending time on phone that was not spent previously, withholding sex from you, withdrawing in communication with you, agitation or anger over Petty stuff or making up situations to get angry or agitated over, lying, being secretive in any way, randomly spending more time caring for and pampering oneself such as putting on makeup or wearing cologne or coloring hair etc. Any type of changed behavior that is not aimed at pleasing or benefiting your relationship. With all of that though, follow your gut. your gut is telling you that something isn't right and it's telling you that this could or is happening, therefore listen to it. Just Free yourself from all of it! Run and don't look back. Go 100% no contact. The mental and emotional abuse is not okay at all! Do not bring anything up to her. Don't try to rationalize or have a conversation about anything. Don't let her know that you know she's in narcissist. All of that can cause a narcissistic rage. If you have not yet witnessed one of those just trust me that you don't want to! A narcissistic rage is beyond any rage I have ever seen or witnessed in my entire life. I am an army combat veteran and served front lines for a year and afghanistan. I have abuse going back from as long as I can remember, the first time in my personal memory is 2 years old. With everything I have been involved in, and my rape, other sexual abuse, their physical abuse, etc in narcissistic rage is by far the worst! If you need to contact your local police department and start a new contact order. No one can protect you like you can! free yourself from it all and move forward in your life. The minute you run and go no contact is the minute your life begins again. If need be seek out professional help. Therapy is the best thing I did for myself. The best gift I gave to me! The abuse is so deep and overwhelming that having a professional guide you through the steps of the healing process is extremely beneficial! Just remember, there is great strength in asking for help. There is great lack and strength or no strength at all in putting on a mask and hiding behind the opinions of society and pretending that you are okay! As human beings we all witness A Time In our lives where we are not okay! Those that heal, move past, and move forward, and have a brighter future are those who ask for help and do the work that is needed through the help! I'm so sorry you are going through this and I wish you the very best! Good luck! Always remember that you are stronger than you believe you are, you are worthy and deserving of better and always, and you are enough just the way you are and who you are today! Take this time for you! Get yourself again. Fix that meal that you're all time favorite, rent that movie you've been wanting to see, have a guys night out with your best friends, remodel a room in your home, go purchase that item you've been wanting to for so long, just do for yourself! Self-acceptance, self-love, and being able to forgive yourself is far more important than what anyone else can give to you! Believe in who you are! You deserve nothing less than that! You're not alone! Feel free to tag me in any other questions that you have! I'll help if I can. Additionally you can hire a cyber expert to help you get remote access to their phone so you can track them and monitor all of their activities without them knowing. You may locate the top cyber specialists locally at digitalinvestigate@gmail.com where you can engage a well-trained professional to assist you..........
T m i. Wrong medium
I appreciate you for your response & testimony! Godbless you
I mysteriously developed chronic fatigue syndrome not long before he went through an extremely dramatic change that turned him into a completely different person. I thought it was just extreme stress and just life events. I entirely missed every devine sign because I wasn't a believer at the time. It wasn't until years later when things devolved to the point I was going to commit suicide when I suddenly heard a voice behind me asking "why are you letting him win?" I suddenly had a compulsion to fight back and I literally yelled "screw that! I'm not going to let you win!" It took some time for me to realize that I had experienced a genuine move of God. I've been forever changed since that day. And it's been a fight to get to a position where I can finally make the final break from this demonically possessed narcissist.
I've been failed by humans 100% of the time. I've NEVER been failed by God.
Check this out, the Pastor that married us told the Narc he didn't deserve me at the ceremony- shocker. I've had warnings from his own friends before we married. I wasn't listening, but God delivered me from that abuse and now all I do is listen to God. He never fails. Thank you God for your Grace 🙏🏿!
Blessings and love to everyone on their healing journey.
💗 All praise be to The Almighty Creator☝🏽🌌💖💫
Every since I started living according to the Bible and allowing the holyghost to guild me....I have not had any trouble from the narcissist. The holyghost always exposes them and I PAY ATTENTION!!
@@armedanddangerous711 Amen, I love how God exposes all our enemies 🙏🏿.
@@appointed546 I'm sorry for your loss 🫶🏾God bless you and your family.
1TRILLION %%% ACCURATE
Can you tell a narcissist in his face that his a narcissist.?
Besides never admitting or acknowledging it.😂
I had lost my singing voice but after leaving the narcisist, I found I could still sing.
wow am sorry about that experience, but am so glad you got yourself out of it, and even more happy to hear that you got your voice back! stay strong, you deserve the best.
That’s oddly something I’ve noticed in my own situation that I haven’t heard anyone talk about.
I believe God gives us signs all the time. Trust God over people everytime. He loves us. If you're unsure, you can ask God. He always shows up. And if you are in real danger, call out the name if Jesus. In the spiritual realm, Jesus has all the authority.❤😊😊😊😊
Amen! 💛
Amen
This is so true… and beyond that.
One day the narcissist (mirroring what I’d been telling before) said he was praying a lot.
I answered by sending him some psalm texts en prayers. By reading them realising myself that God promised -love-. By which we can bloom and get free. I
At the same time I realised that thát in the relation with the N was not the case. On the contrary.
So I left.
These words of God gave me strength en defeated him. As promised by the way…
At 9 months pregnant with our 3rd child, I dreamt the narc got married and he asked,"arent u coming to my wedding?' I was devistated, hysterical and he laughed at me and said, ' well I told u if u dont give me 'it' as much as I need 'it' I would get it somewhere else'. I woke up from this dream hysterically crying. He put his arm around me and said, 'I would never do that to you' 11 yrs later, I caught him cheating, it was no coincidence that this woman he cheated with, looked just like the woman in my dream, 11 yrs prior!!! God tried to warn me, but I was trauma bonded. Listen to your dreams people. ❤❤ I hope everyone starts to heal and break free. I did. But it took me 30yrs!!
My soul told me my ex’s soul was dead, but i didn’t listen to my own intuition. Cost me many years of happiness and healing (still healing)
Trust in God, always
God warned me of each of my family members @5 years old. Im 59 now & HIS truth has never once waivered.
Wow me too 5 years old and now 62
God bless you both
@@Ellie-rp8bh Me too. I was warned since five and I am now 70. We survived.
Amen ❤
62 in Nov.! ❤
They do abandon you when you need them the most. My example: dealing with post partum depression after our first baby is born. He gamed for hours and would not help out. Was jealous of lack of attention for him. I was very vulnerable and he created drama which made everything worse and I ended up needing an intervention.
Me too. But I never got any intervention
Unfortunately a lot of men without narcissism also do that…
What kind of intervention did you do?
@@FoundSheep-AN I ended up needing to get on antidepressants to be able to take care of my baby. By that point I couldn't eat or drink water. My family got the police involved so I could leave safely.
@@arianagarcia3733I am so VERY sorry that happened to You. I don't know You, but I send you hugs and love and joy. God keep you safe. Rachel in Nashville 🛐😺☦️😇
Mine mocked me in a baby voice saying mama for days following the miscarriage of our baby 🤬 they are sick individuals
It's literally like sleeping with the Devil... your worst enemy. 😞
Yes. Very true. I used to say to him often, that I felt like I was sleeping with the enemy, yet I still loved him very much. 😞
Because you are. I have videos of demons speaking through my husband telling me their names. One said…I am The Evil One!
@MKHall2014 Wow that had to have been so scary and unsettling. How did you respond to him when it was happening, and were you making videos
@@valeriedorsey7527 well first of all he was asleep. A man 6’5” 240# needs to be in somewhat of a weakened state when dealing with his demons. I was scared until I realized all they can do is speak when you are a child of God. They were forbidden from touching me. I spoke the name of Jesus and some left, but the Evil One was only weakened to the point of arrest and my husband fell out on the floor. He was fine. But he also knew what happened after I woke him up. Showed him the videos, he just refused to renounce them and repent so they returned.
@@MKHall2014you would had experience intense fear & trembling as if your cold but shaking in fear my last experience from my dream, I was frozen & I couldn’t breath!
Trust your intuition and instincts (God is speaking to you) and the truth will be revealed. Learn as much as possible. Thank you, Danish!
I know. My heart knows he's one. But,my mind is in denial. And I love him. So it's hard to break free from him. Half of me want to leave and the other half won't let me leave him
@@missygeno4391 I have been there too.
@@missygeno4391Run as fast as you can!!!! I was like you and it is Hard, but it‘s getting every time/day worse!!!
I was with him so long that I became toxic myself, I hated everybody, fought with everybody. And yup when I had no more money, all fell apart
My life turn into HARDSHIP when I said “I do” to the narcissist. I dreamt myself drop in a deep dark pit and another dream of being in a room that I had rented with the narc of high ceiling dirty water but I didn’t understand. Years went by and I try to change him. The marriage turned into a living nightmare, I almost lost my mind and my life. Divine help came. Thank you Jesus Christ. Five years of confusion, emotional abuse and abandonment, ghosting and rejection. Ain’t this man telling the truth.
Lol! The thief thing happened to me. A guy broke into my house looking for my now ex. He was looking for him because owed him money. I started crying uncontrollably and told him my sob story that I was ripped off, too. The guy said he'd find him and get my money back, too!
Pretty bad when a thief who broke unto your house has more compassion than your partner
So true .
Not a thief but a postman. It was so hot outside . As I waited for him to get me my mail from his bag, he asked me to stand in the shade. Could be such a small act of kindness for him; for me I was overwhelmed. I haven't felt kindness from anyone in ages. I think I cried after getting inside my house
Wow
😮😢
YOUR BODY REPELS THEM! I remember one particular incident I won’t forget, I literally could book a flight to see this person, and when the person came to see me, I felt this DISGUST 🤮It never makes sense to your conscious mind but trust me when I say that MIGRAINE, HEARTBURN, stomach pain, lack of appetite etc are God’s way of saying FLEE
BECAUSE YOU ARE PLAYING WITH A SNAKE 🐍
If you’re still in it, I hope you find courage to LEAVE TO LIVE!
It's like living with a demon and they want to break you into their darkness and make you despair. Move towards the light trust in God to give you strength and courage to leave them.
Amen❤
Yes! When mask dropped his eyes changed. He would almost growl at me when I walked into the room. After 27 years of marriage-he said he felt nothing for me or our children. Terrifying!
Earthly rejection = Heavenly protection. 🙏
💯 on 🎯!! ✝️✝️🕊
Narcissists can destroy your health overtime when you leave stress. Unbalanced insecurities for too long. They can go in recavic on the body. Swelling flare-ups headaches, nightmares, trouble concentrating fidgety nervous, can't relax. Mine is going a 100 miles minute all the time. You feel like you don't have control. Like you're on a rollercoaster. It can just do a number physically on your body and when you get rid of these people. Sometimes your body just kind of explodes and then ever. It'll just calm down overtime when we get out of those relationships. And we're able to relax and we're able to rest and we're not always. Ready to jump at any moment. You know that high stress level leaves over time. And then you'll start to notice your body will calm down.
CPTSD
I agree God/universe will help you and warn you. I still stayed with my ex husband for 18 years. But I have 2 beautiful children. They are the sweetest things ever. They are 12 and 13 and give me hugs everyday, they can cook, they garden with me and we are so bonded against their poop head father. He tried to turn them against me but he failed miserably. I don’t know any other 12 year old boy who sits down with his mom and do puzzles and asks how to get his basil to grow bigger. My heart melts everyday.
I’m starting to think since I grew up in a dysfunctional family and was married to a psychopath- the universe gave me 2 angels and we now show my family and their dad what REAL LOVE is. We are breaking the chain of abuse. 😊❤♥️♥️♥️
Your comment is so sweet. Your children sound lovely. And thanks for the chuckles for 'poop head father' 😂
Co-parenting with a narc is no joke! Best wishes to you!
@@frehatipu9187thank you friend. It’s a full time job to make sure my kids stay “normal” and healthy. Best to you too!!❤😊
Kudos and congrats! What a lovely thing to hear!! ❤
#4. During a rebound and visiting in Oregon- he slept next to me for 5 nights (with no sex involved-I was there to observe). I could no longer stand his closeness. #5. I was no longer attracted to his looks or demeanor.
On the 6th day - i caught him in two significant lies and turned and walked. It was such a turn off
Thank you for your wisdom. 💟☮️✝️
Father GOD intervened and showed me visions of pure evil. Beloved Jesus rescued me from the pit of hell. I believe we are in a spiritual war. It is written. 2.Timothey 3-7 Everything you said is spot on.Thank you Danish. Thank you Lord Jesus. I love and Praise you.
AMEN!
Yes- They are sleeping well but giving you no sleep. Snoring, kicking and scratching all over, pulling sheets and blankets but claiming they are fast asleep. No remorse for giving you sleepless nights, only arguing that they are not loved by you.
🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯
It was beyond shocking. I only trust actions now, not words or promises…
So I have been in two relationships with narcs. First one overt (openly abusive) narcissist and the second one covert narcissist (hidden and sneaky). Some of the things that happened with the first one:
1) When I had intense pain in my chest and couldn't breathe, I collapsed in the middle of a street, strangers rushed to help me but he walked away telling me "stop being childlish".
2) He tried to force me to touch an electrified wire. When I refused, he left me in a forest by myself.
Something that happend in my second relationship:
1) God showed me a very intense dream or vision about him before I had even met him. I felt violence and death in that dream but chose to ignore it.
2) The first time I met him, I felt drained within half an hour just sitting with him. He started trembeling violently and couldn't explain why. A bug sat on his knee and he knocked it away in a cruel way even though he wasn't afraid of it. He later did the same to me.
4) I had a dream of a dead horse walking around. It was half eaten and dead but still walking around. I told him about the dream and his response was "You need to see a psychiatrist as soon as possible. You are ill".
God saved my life but I live in fear often and these men took years of my life never giving me anything. Please don't ignore the scary dreams.
That video perfectly reveals the cowardice, lack of integrity, and the grandiosity of the narcissist. Once while in a taxi in another country, my ex-narc sat up front next to the driver while I was in the back seated behind the driver. After a few minutes, my ex pulled down the visor with a mirror and proceeded to stare at himself for several minutes with an intense look of self satisfaction, pride and almost self-adoration (just like the story of Narcissus), as if his evil plan was working. it was the scariest and creepiest behavior I had ever witnessed in a person. At that moment, he did not think that I could see him from the back seat but I could see everything. That was a clear sign from the Divine to make my plans to move far far away from this demon. I thank God always for this and other signs he revealed to me in this and other relationships. Your topics trigger so many painful memories for me, Danish, but again it's all part of the healing. You are indeed a Chosen One from the Divine to help us! ❤
@tarey05 This might sound strange but where was your ex narc from?
@@Carnel-ev2prfrom syria
Whoah that is really scary!
Wowwww they tend to be extremely proud of their accomplishments. They will even talk about their names in conversation. When you listen carefully you can figure out who they really are. My mom talk about herself quite often and is proud of what she accomplished in life...I don't think she has a lot to be proud of. Only material stuff. She told me that she used her time well. We lost our brother from drug addiction. That should be a concern for a mother.
@@Carnel-ev2pr Damn that turned out to be one spot-on question 😢
YES!!! I EXPERIENCED THIS RECENTLY!! My father was diagnosed with cancer July 27, 2023 which so happened to be the narc's birthday. He got angry because how dare my father get cancer and need life saving surgery ON HIS BIRTHDAY?!? I was shocked and hurt beyond belief. That night he discarded me for someone he'd already been talking to. As a power move he assaulted me in my home and now he is in very investigation. This morning he texted me telling me he missed me and his family and blah blah blah. I'm in a DV shelter at the moment with our children. Please pray for us as I make the difficult decision of whether or not to press charges. The trauma bond is real and has such a terrible hold on me.
Press charges please! Not just for yourself and your children, but other future vitims.
Press charges
Press charges so you will get full custody of your children and not have to co-parent with the narc. He is dangerous and will only try to create drama between you and your children.
It has to be about them only!
🙏🏾❤️🕊️
My husband stopped showing me affection many years ago I had to always ask for it. I agree with the sleep part. He felt so distant and night. He sometimes would slip into the room at night to not wake me and he would leave the room a lot at night and go downstairs and watch television but I felt he was up to something like talking or communicating with someone else.
The health issues were the worst. My body was so strong. I was dealing with chronic health issues. But couldn’t get answers. Then once my health was so depleted I was not of value. So I’m leaving. And my health is returning. And of course once my health is completely regained there will be more love bombing. Thank you for this channel.
I'm still is dealing with health issues. And I know for a fact, it's bc of him. Coz I was healthy & there was nothing wrong with me health wise til I met him. But, God is helping me thru it, AMEN
Same! I have always been super healthy. I developed stress rashes that didnt leave until he started to discard me and being away from him was becoming less scary. I had tension headaches, heart palpitations, and panic attacks, things i NEVER dealt with before and i am a survivor of childhood abuse and trauma in adulthood. I dont know why dealing with the Narc fucked my health over the most. I feel so much better and its only been a few days.
God has an amazing way of turning another's evil ways into good for the ones that have been crushed.
I'm having faith!
As much as I enjoyed the company of a new friend, my gut was screaming danger. In our final conversation I explained over the phone that I felt I still didn’t know them beyond their public mask and I felt frustrated by their lack of authenticity. Immediately after I hung up I watched an injured bird flapping on the ground get attacked and brutally murdered by crows. I took it as clear validation and confirmation to stop defending/justifying the multiple red flags and trust my gut to gently step away.
Wow 😮 God really saved your life there.
Pure sine. When my own thoughts were dark. I seen dead mice and other wildlife everywhere. I took that as a sine. I worked on things now at times a red ribbon does be close. Not always but not nearly as much death.
I feel that I was brainwashed by my entire famdamnly.
25 yrs ago gut feeling told me.. Don't do it.. I was thinking no... Come on... I was in the midst of comfort so I thought I should get over my comfort shackles... Anyway I'm still with this man n slowly planning an exit.
@@keithstewart7514I love that new word you coined ("famdamnly")! That's great! 😂
Recently, after 23 years of being with narcissistic I prayed, and I recently experienced all of these signs. Thank you. I must leave him for my own health and peace. ❤
Same here. 23 years!
I left and so Happy I did! My safety and my on peace of mind is Worth it all!!!
I left after 28 yrs
Me too
You must learn to LOVE yourself and protect your INNER child, or INNER teen, or INNER adult and YOUR PEACE. Defend ALL of yourself!!!
Love YOU F-I-R-S-T. Fall in love with YOU, Darlin'. You never allow anyone to ABUSE, VIOLATE, ROB, ASSAULT, ATTACK, SLANDER, DISRESPECT, OR OTHERWISE HARM your LOVED ones.
Do for you what you would do them if they did THIS shit to your most cherished SOUL.
....YEP.
PERIODT.
Yes, I have experienced that. My mind at the time could not comprehend the betrayal. It was no dream. It was real. It is only through my relationship with God, I have survived! ✨💖✨🙏🕊
God knew it would come to this. It’s okay. He has a plan. ❤
God showed me a way out, and I'm 6 months free. I hope his plan for me comes soon! 🙏 ..lol..🙂
Spot on! I figured out that a guy that I was dating was surely a narcissist when he left me stranded at the airport after he agreed to do so. He said that his plans changed and he had been invited to a party and that he "needed" to go. A party. On a Sunday. At 4pm. I told him that if he ever looked in my direction again he would regret it. I changed my phone number and never looked back. He called my other phone , a number that I never gave to him, sobbing saying that he had to go to the ER after I broke up with him bc he started having panic attacks. He begged me to take him back. I told him that I would get my brothers to deal with him if he reached out to me again. I never heard from him again. I dont play games with my time. The trick with narcissists is you have to deal with them firmly and keep it moving with no indecisiveness. If you dont, then its game on for them.
Very true about being firm with a narcissist, because they are almost like children. My daughter went on a mini vacation with my sister and my niece. Before the flight back to our region my sister texted me to see if I could pick my daughter up at the airport when they landed. It was a last minute curve ball thrown at me. That would have required me to drive into a major city, but they had their own vehicle already at the airport and they were driving themselves home anyway. We live 3 miles away from each other. I just couldn't believe they weren't willing to bring my daughter home from the airport. Because they were tired and didnt want to drop her off. I was firm with them and told them no, bring her the rest of the way home. And they did. (If they would have insisted that I pick her up, I gladly would have.) It was ludicrous. They were actually going to leave her there alone until I got there but I made them be responsible for her to the end of the trip.
Bravo
“Feels like you’re sleeping next to a snake.”
Yes! That was my dream when I was dating, I dreamt I was sleeping next to a serpent.
One night while we were intimate I just felt I’ll I was in something demonic as if I was taking part in a ritual and it truly scare me.
Me too I had a lot of snake dream
I can't believe this I've been dreaming of Snakes chasing me and I'm just trying to escape and once in a while dream about dead animals i Love all animals and when i wake up im so sad to have these dreams Thank You Milly✌❤🙏
You were ........ and all their reptile friends and families were snakes also along with those they hooked up with
Yes. I dreamt of a snake too before meeting this real life snake. Attacking me. Very scary .. A predator. I left and nevert turned back. I got so frightened when I saw something demonic and demonic smell from him
I have been dreaming of a black snake enterring ou house frequently and every time i seek for the islamic dream interpretation it mentions that the black snake represents a giant enemy which unfortunately is my narcissist father who has divided the family , creating chaos and i have never felt so much hate for this man.
If God led me into this It was to teach me a lesson. To show me I was special too. To teach me to love and respect myself. To teach me self confidence and to trust in myself. This ugly experience taught me a lot. It was the most valuable lesson I have ever learned. I now have self respect.
You are absolutely Right with your explaining.
💗 Thank you for sharing! It's hard to believe this. I just left a similar kinda comment, it feels very undeserving to simply love one self. May The Almighty Creator Heal us, ameen. ☝🏽🌌💖💫
@@bbdn5123 I was raised to
know my place. To be subservient to my father and brother. The exalted men, because back then men went to work and brought home the bacon. Women did the cooking, cleaning, child rearing. We had very clearly defined roles. But look out if you ever expressed an opinion. It was the eta of children should be seen, not heard. That kind of upbringing doesn’t help you grow into a secure, confident, self respecting adult who has a sense of self worth. In fact, looking at it today. I’d say I was bred to be a narcissist’s dream 🙄
It was just the way it was back then. But at least I’ve come to terms with the fact that’s now how it is now and nobody deserves to be dominated and disrespected just because they’re male or female. And if someone treats me disrespectfully I don’t have to accept it.
@@maggie6Thanks again, feel a bit less insane for now. Reading, knowing you're "talking to me" is healing in itself. Never realized until recently I do need/want/deserve validation. Does healing hurt? I've got restless legs and fibromyalgia, or is it more of a left over residu from all the build up evil wicked toxicity? When I read it hurts here and there, mainly a fist hurting the womb kinda feeling... Or the heart being grasped tightly. I wonder a lot of things. Living in my mind. Fighting to get better, not sure what that means for me. Was unable to cry for five years and I tried so desperately to do so, I didn't succeed during that time, wondering what was wrong with me... The professionals diagnosed depression twice during my life, then acute stress disorder a few years back (after a chain of several shocking events) and now ptsd complex (because I left and could be honest first time ever). I don't care about the word labels. I'm trying to listen to and obey The One Almighty Healer of all hearts. I'm stubborn living in a denial shock state. Don't know what's up next, can't believe myself. I just know I need to take better loving care of me which is super hard. I can't seem to get in depth with your message, because I know all too well... My niece once told me I could make a great president cuz when I talk, I talk without talking/going in depth. Realized years later I can't talk about hurtful experiences and I can't "own myself". I'm locked up in my head. Life's different when there are no words ✍🏽💌🤯.
I have seen his eyes turn pitch black staring at me without blinking. He knew exactly what I saw and I was unafraid, God was and is still with me. Whoever reads this, please heed to the signs that you see and get away as fast as you can.
Signs I noticed...
Wakes up between 2 and 4 am every night.
Talks in sleep
Drugs and alcohol binges
Missing and no where to be found for days
Always the victim
Keeps me isolated from his family, coworkers and friends
Blames me for everything
Besides talking in sleep, sleepwalking too!
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I thank God from the bottom of my heart for showing me the true face of narcissist and I also thank Mr.Danish (angel sent by god) for educating and saving us from evil(narcissist)...AMEN🕊🇮🇳🙏
I have been through hell, living with a narcissist who was controlling me like nuts. Fortunately, my God intervened and was put to shame. Glory be to God
I can tell a narcissist right away by how they want me to chase them. If I sense that push pull, also, these people do not have ANY warmth to them at all, they can somehow say the right things but you just feel something is off here… they truly are vampires! When people have love in them, you can feel it. ❤
My ex actually said something about the push pull dynamic. He would be a total shit when we would go somewhere and try to get me to peruse him. It totally backfired…I just told him he either wanted to be with me or not waste my time by playing stupid games. He flew into a victim rage! I learned from that that I couldn’t confront him with anything!
During the love bombing stage, the end of it, we were out on a very nice day and I said that I was happy and it was one of the really good days. Immediately the switch was flipped. The dark eyes came out and I could feel the hatred for me. He secretly hates if I am happy and will make sure I am as miserable as him. I have been with him on and off for so long I feel like the evil as invaded me. Like possession by an evil being. I am scared. I am out of this once again and need to get help to stay away. I need to be sure I NEVER go back. Frightening
I was diagnosed with a autoimmune disease. Dr said he was confused about seeing so many of these diagnosis in his practice. That was 12 yrs ago. I now know it came from my Narc now deceased husband. I have been healing from his abuse since he died in 2006. God had been showing me what I had been dealing with in many ways since his death. I'm finally starting to look like myself again. My Dr says he is not seeing any signs now of the autoimmune disease and to just keep living healthy. I am off medication and feeling better than I have in many decades. I now have learned so much about Narcissist and have removed several of them in my family from my life. I now have 0 tolerance for toxic. No matter where it is coming from or how closely they are related to me. Those days are over.
God helped me. I almost went back together with a narcissist but God sent him a new woman. She finished with him very soon after they met. He wanted to come back to me. But I was strong. Never went back. Thank you God.
Lol! That happened to me!
I was in a brief relationship with a narcissist and the main thing that happened to me that literally made me get out was the premonition of having children with him. I had a vision where I had a daughter and she would witness what she saw me go through with her father and internalize that trauma to be in her own abusive relationship. I felt dead inside when I saw my own child going through what I went through. That vision made me end it
Yes, the lord definitely gave you a premonition. A lot of people ignore premonitions (like I’ve done) and have suffered for it. I’ve learned to never ignore them ever again. Let’s take our power back ! ❤
Yes,I had a dream of the person at my door holding a weapon towards me. What was ridiculous in the dream to me is if they asked for help they would have gotten it. The fact that they were showing remorse in the dream YET still was holding a weapon towards me that could have killed me...said everything. Sadly while I was really disturbed and perplexed by the dream I ignored it for a while. Then a few months later found out they can pick locks and a few months after that my keys went missing, then showed back up when they came to my house. I know it was them because we're I found the keys it was not there before that was extensively checked. I really do feel I was so naive that the Lord truly intervened on my behalf and moved me completely out of the area. What Danish speaks about is bang on accurate.
Yes, I have experienced a narcissist in some of the most unbelievable ways!!! They have absolutely no conscience, no sympathy, no remorse, no anything that will make any significant impact for the betterment of your life. My advice is to walk away and never look back. Pray for them because God is the only 1 that can help them. I promise you that there is nothing that you can do on your own. ❤❤❤ I pray you find the strength in the Lord to walk away
This is how I was saved ❤ crisis lead me out of a relationship with a narc. There are no ordinary moments 🙏
About 6 months after being with my fiance at the time, I started havind very vivid/lucid dreams of him chasing me in a neighborhood with a knife/bat/pole and i was hiding under peoples back porches and going through peoples privacy fences to get away from him. I had these dreams on 2 or 3 different occasions. I had told my best friend about them and he actually said that he hoped it wasn't a sign of something. Seven months after getting married, was the first time he laid his hands on me. At first it was just shoving me around and throwing my things across the room, then it got worse to where he was banging my head against the wall, throwing me on the bed to choke me, then actually hitting me. I had opened up to one of his friends and told her what was going on and said that if he put his hands on me again i was going to call the cops. Another incident happened and he said that she told him I would call the cops and he whipped out his knife and said if I called the cops he would slit my throat open. And that was the same incident where he actually used an object to hit me with including his fist. This last time he hit me, he actually tried to break my hand since we were walking back from the store, he put me in a choke hold and dragged me through the back door and as soon as we were inside, he started hitting me. I thought I was safe since we were living with his dad during that incident and i knew he didn't want people knowing that he abuses me. That didn't stop him. That time i did call the cops on him. He basically manipulated me into having the charges dropped. That was a little over a year ago and still to this day he screams and yells that I put him in jail for no reason cuz he says that he fell on me. Those bruises looked like i had taken a beating or been in a horrible car accident. That wasn't from a fall and he didn't fall on me. He has to answer for all his lies and deceit when judgement day comes. I'm currently in the process of leaving him and will be gone in just a few days. He doesn't know but i've already taken the proper steps and precautions to make sure I'm able to leave peacefully and safe.
God came to me and personally delivered me from the narcissist. Greatest thing that ever happened to me. Bolo Hari Om
I’d like to know too, please 😊
It was Maha Mrityunjaya Mantra. I got on my Path and discovered Shivoham. I pray to Shiva every day; the narc did Puja with me on Mahashivratri and after that everything he was doing behind my back became so obvious and undeniable. I finally caught him in a lie.
Trust yourself. Look in your own mind. All the answers are there
@girlg0ne sounds familisr...these narcissists love to do pujas with you and try to bind themselves to you..they think then you won't leave them..don't do any pujas with men unless they are your husband...it makes it 10x harder to detach from them when you do spiritual practices with them! It also makes it easier for their demons to attack you, making your suffering 10x worse also...
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It helps to pray for the end result you want, for example pray for healing and freedom, and then surrender all the details to Him, I mean actually saying “I surrender all the details to you God, I trust you know best how to get me from here to there, in the meantime please give me strength to bear the process”
thats important because He won’t break the promise of free will but when you ask God to get involved in the details it opens more avenues of help.
Keep talking to God about how you feel, speak to Him like He is your therapist. Place your faith in divine timing, know that you won’t always understand in the moment why things are happening in the order that they are, honestly know that if things happened too fast or in the wrong order you could have ended up suffering even more. That you’re being protected from threats you never even saw.
Keep the faith, try to listen to your inner voice and follow the wisdom because often that’s the part of you hearing answers from God, educate yourself, work on building internal safety & healthy self care habits like its your main job, help others when you can, and accept help especially when it seems like it comes out of nowhere.
Hope this helps 🙏🏼 and of course only do what feels right to you, adapt it to fit whats in your heart prayer is very personal (or at least it should be)
@@KaylaJ8827 it wouldn’t let me include 2 names in my answer I answered also, I hope giving more avenues of help.
Sign 1: Yes! He showed himself when I was stuck in the snow and he wouldn’t come get me out. When I had a car accident. When I had COVID he gave me the silent treatment. When my grandmother died, he went on vacation and gave me the silent treatment for two weeks!!! When there were two big issues at my apartment and I couldn’t stay there, he not only wouldn’t let me stay with him, he told me to go back to my ex, whom he knew was abusive to me! 🥺 I was so trauma-bonded. I forgave him for all of it. I am out of there now, thank God.
omg so sorry about what you went through. I went through similar situations as you. I wish you healing🙏🏽
Same. How awful
Those dreams are legit. I always have nightmares before and after meeting them. Your subconscious registers the threat and it manifests as the possible outcome.
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Everything you said in this has happened to me 20 yrs ago. I am currently with my narcissist. My dream.... has always been snakes attacking me.
I was baptized May of 2022 and have started seeing the narcissist for who he is since.
I said this on a group for narcissistic abuse recovery and it was interesting the split between those who completely agreed and those who completely disagreed. It was evident that those who disagreed were still fighting for the narcissist they loved to change, but once you see them for what they truly are, you can understand there is no hope for them. Thank you for speaking about the spiritual side of narcissism, so many will not.
"....Love
is a product of God, a Narcissist is a
product of evil and is anti-Christ. Love comes from a frequency of higher consciousness, evil is a low
frequency that exists outside that consciousness, and seeks to disrupt the harmony of love and unity. Narcissism is the antithesis of Love."
I became sick suddenly last year and got fired because of my illness. I was only making a little more than 40k, my ex was making close to 150k and had a lot of investments. There was no offer of help and it was like he didn't even feel bad for me (because he didnt). I finally got really upset with him and called him out and threatened to leave him for being so stingy and cruel, he said that this was his way of helping me. Then he had to nerve to tell me he talked to his dad about this and now his whole family thinks I'm a gold digger --- his long term partner who fell ill and can't work and I was temporarily disabled I needed crutches to walk around for months. But I'm a gold digger for expecting my well off partner to help in a pinch. But then I felt like I had to stay with him because I couldn't work.... I'm free a year later
Are you married though ? Cause if you are married you are entitled to this financial support
If you are not married no you have not this right and maybe he didn’t marry you on purpose cause he wants to exploit you but not marrying you
Broke up with him
I hope you did not get in bed with him as boyfriend and girlfriend… break up!!!
Congrats for getting free! 👏❤️🎉
🙏🙏🙏
I was about to reconcile for the second time with him, but I had this weird experience. A bird flew twice into my window pane. When I came the third time around I shouted at it and it flew away. It was almost as if it was on a self destruction mission. I realized that I was that bird. I decided then to walk away from the relationship. It still hurts, but I'm getting better. Time is certainly a healer.
A similar thing happened to me. A bird came down my chimney and was trapped in my lounge room. It flew around frantically, I opened the back door and it flew out. I didn't realise that bird was me. I wish I knew this before! 😮 I finally parted from him 6 months ago.💪
I saw SO many signs like this. Strange signs. And I KNEW what they were trying to tell me. And I just kept ignoring them :( I couldn't leave. Now he broke up with me for the fourth time, so I guess I have no choice now but to leave.
@@BlinkinFireflybirds are Gods messengers❤❤
@@BlinkinFirefly Take that break up as a sign -- as a door opened by God himself, and never return to that hell!!
I actually feel uncomfortable when sleep in the same room with my husband but when I sleep in the other room I feel lots of peace.
Same here. Haven't slept in same room with him for years!!
I went on holiday with a covert narcissist (work colleague). It was a nightmare of an experience, she said it happened because I feel that I don't deserve to be overseas, I don't deserve to enjoy the holiday because my self worth is very low. I was so surprised. I dreamt that she did something horrible to me, left me stranded without money or any idea of where we are. Later on in the holiday. This really happened. The holiday was in March and we are now in June, I am still trying to figure out what is happening to me. Thank you for your videos they helped me SO MUCH and are spot on!
The way my husband speaks to me, treats me and behaves at this point in our marriage (30 yrs) makes me feel that the only reason my husband has ever stuck/sticks around to help me in or out of a bad situation is because he feels obligated. Not because he loves and cherishes me but he's obligated by our marriage.
It's because you getting into bad situations makes him feel powerful.
Thank you SO much, Danish. My husband is a narcissist, and the mother who raised me continues her malignant narcissism toward me to this day. I have remained with my husband for 40!! years, and am in close contact with my mother. After hearing you, I see all the chances and warnings and means of escape God gave me, and I foolishly forgave and allowed myself to be entrapped over and over. You have described those opportunities exactly. I thank you again. Would you please say a little prayer for me not to be so foolish again? God bless you.
When the truth of Narcissistic abuse becomes apparent as pure evil to us - we start to heal. Slowly. I was in similar circumstances. If your husband and mum are truly Narcissistic, don't slay 2 "snakes" at the same time. Start from your husband and keep mum in friendly terms otherwise toxic mums can turn your life upside down if they are given any power. Distance yourself from husband carefully and if he is Narcissistic - he will make your life a torture for many years. Toxic mums likely to join his battle no matter how good you are to them. For example, move to different town and don't give your mum your address under any pretext until your husband is defeated by you and everything settled. I also gave to my mum a burner phone number only so she can't call me any time she wishes and she can't upset, disorient myself while I am at war with my ex husband. I called her regularly once a month for years and treated her as kindly as possible. It worked.
Praying you are free indeed. And God will heal you completely and make you whole in Jesus name. Amen
My husband and stepmother were also a narcissist. My husband and I were together for 45yrs. Yes I’m praying for you and know what your going through. I also prayed for him and myself for years but if they can’t and won’t change you need to leave. You are dying inside. I did leave a year ago and it wasn’t easy even tried to get a restraining order. The judge took his side because he knew exactly what to say and believe it or not I tried to protect him by not telling my whole story. I was so devastated. He was a mess are whole marriage wanting and saying he didn’t want to live. He was depressed had anxiety, pain in his body and mind. We tried to get help but never worked for long. Please please if you are afraid and God has shown you many signs please leave. 🙏🙏 YOU CANT CHANGE HIM.
You CAN DO IT!!!
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Yes Danish, I had soooo many warning signs in the very beginning of our relationship 55 years ago, but in those days, I was crazily "in love" that I brushed these warning signs aside. I did not even know the "narcissists" word existed let alone what it meant. There were so many incidences over all the years that I could not explain. But I kept trying to make my marriage work. I did think it was just me been over emotional. It was not until I got so desperate and genuinely prayed to God that I actually got my answer just recently. Now I am totally overwhelmed with all this narcissists information and how accurate it all is. You have helped me so much and I am sure it is He that has brought me to your attention. You are helping many people, looking at the comments. Thank you so much.
I can relate myself too to your story 😢
I can relate too
I had so many signs too, early relationship and during marriage too.
I'm so sorry for what you've been through. Lookup crapfitting - crappy childhood fairy on youtube, sounds like you felt you had to do that.
My relationship started in 1968. I was 16 and very much smitten by this person. And I brushed things aside like u. But eventually got rid.
I don't know how you can just pick up my random thoughts and bring your videos exactly on time. You have saved my life nth of times. I watch your videos regularly and sometimes even twice or thrice. These help me to get through my difficult life. Just today I felt a lot of anger towards God for putting me through what I am going through. And see today I get a video from you on the exact thought I was going through. For me and our community you are next to God. Today I feel God sent you on this earth to help people where God didn't get time to help. You are a blessing. Thank you Danish for what you do. Your family lost a jewel. They are fools to not recognize your shine. Keep shining always. Lots of peace , love and hugs. Thanks Danish
💯Such a Great support his posts have helped through my healing journey take care of your self 💚
Can you do a video that compares lovebombung to real sentiments?
Me too, no joke
I also find Danish a Good source for deprogramming FROM my childhood brainwashing til nearly 6 decades of age.
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I eco this same message. Just today before sitting for my morning prayer, i was litterally questioning God! I use to always believe in you and was spiritual since my school days then why did you have me meet this Narcissistic person and why did you not stop me from marrying him. After 16 years of my tortured marriage and after being left with no money in my bank after 16 years working in MNC I now got to know he is a Narcissistic man. THEN JUST I GOD my answer from God thru this video from Danish. I pay for the happiness and long healthy life of Danish who is doing this wonderful job of spreading awareness and helping them.
Yes I have experienced it so often that I can recognize a narcissist from a distance and they have the same demeanor, same trait.
3 months ago, my narcissistic wife left me when i was facing financial problem now she has filed a divorce. I am happy to give her a divorce. Finally God has saved me😊
I can't believe woman can do this...but that's the irony...I was good for my husband but he left me in the most difficult times of my life
I had to have back surgery, after having our third son - my narcissistic EX husband wasn't willing to take me to the hospital. He is an attorney, and he had a deposition, so that was more important to him than taking his wife to the hospital for life threatening surgery. After surgery, I was left to my own devices to find help so that I could heal. He never offered to stay home, even one day, to help with the kids.
He may not be a narcissist but just a not so developed and not moral not religious man.
There are a lot of men that like women when they are hot young etc or at least healthy and sexy and still fun to be around but the moment the wife gets older and has health issues, for them it’s not hot no more and no fun no more
They are superficial and focused on sec and hotness
They don’t love you like Jesus loves the Church
The majority of men cheats or abandon a woman with health issues or cheat on her while pregnant… if that is enough to consolate you
Number 5 is true for me. I was shaking even at the time of marriage paper signing, it was extremely abnormal. God was giving me signs.
Alhamdulillah God saved me later on too.
How? Could u share ur story?
@@PoojaG_PG I stayed in that marriage for months, but it was never fine. But I kept praying, and God revealed his true face to me within 5 months. What helped me the most was lack of communication with him for a whole month. I was thinking clearly in his absence. (The lack of communication was because of his ego after he had mistreated me and ofcourse didn't apologise, blamed me for everything he had done)
This information is saving my pathetic life. I feel sick & paralyzed with fear & anxiety. I’m connecting the dots! I’m physically falling apart. Everything you say is TRUE! Thank you 🙏 for this channel.
Please know that there is someone out in the world going thru this also. Don't blame yourself. You have a loving, kind soul. Please stay in the shelter with your children. You will all be safe while you heal from your initial trauma. My prayers and love❤❤❤
@@sonjiaferguson6867who mentioned a shelter tho? 🤔
@@coldfact. Someone else posted about a shelter. I liked the post. Don't know how it has shown up as my reply. In Australia we have Women's Refuges for women escaping any kind of abuse.
You are so right. A narcissist is the exact opposite of God. Totally evil. I went through so much embarrassing things that I never went through as an adult when I didn't know him or wasn't around him.
Well Satan is a narcissist
She is also told me that when she hears the words of prayer coming out of my mouth that it literally hurts her stomach that she is in pain just from hearing me speak words of prayer and I don't know what to do to help her I just make sure I explain to my son when we're alone you know that be aware of your surroundings but God is always with you he's got you you have nothing to worry about he's already proven that to me many times
A possessed narcissist! How lovely 😂
Hi Danish, i strongly believe its God who showed me your videos to me and am so thankful 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 to God first.
I have a covert narcissist sibling and mother... I never understood in my entire life (am 45 now) why all my other siblings do not understand me but very supportive to them even when they are wrong... I suffered a lot a lot in silence all these years and have been asking God whyyyy whyyyy as they started influencing my kids as well... Its then i got the answer watching your videos 🙏 Thank you Danish❤ God bless you ❤
Hello arunajyothi, They are evil and despise your good nature. Please distance yourself and do not trust them. Abusers only escalate the abuse and we know the statistics prove that. Best to go no contact. As the last of my parents health began to deteriorate, my sibling took over. Twice it poisoned me and made it to look like accident or illness. There was an inheritance involved which sibling would have totally controlled if I died. I have my own family. The sibling did this to me knowing I am very ill, and was in the hospital many time and have my own children. Sibling is very financially successful and connected supposedly but it still chose to be envious, and abusive. Also since my parents passed on, I caught the sibling lying about banking, refusing to provide records I requested, filing documents in unattainable court locations, withholding known moneys and lying about procedures and assets. Btw, its monied and no kids. Also it along eith toxic relatives discredited and smeared me to my parents and most likely others. God has helped me and saved me. Those abuser types are not of our world or realm..
Amen! Praise the Lord! I am so very happy for you! Our Father in heaven is faithful! God bless you dear!
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Me too. Arunayoth.
I'll never forget the horrible dreams. Omg 😢
And the medical conditions... I have always been healthy. But the past couple years... It's like my body just wants to shut down and give up. I see it all now, though.
@@caroleminke6116 that's wonderful! I'm so proud of you! I'm in the beginning stages of recovering. There are still so many painful moments, and so much self-doubt. But I'm slowly learning. I am very hard-headed and stubborn sometimes. I wasn't perfect in ANY way (especially once I started getting reactive). But I am learning that I didn't deserve what I got!
I for sure felt towards the end, that I was sleeping with a stranger 😢
It was the most horrifying experience ever! ☠️
Me too,not just a stranger but an enemy. My husband showed a very evil side
@@ladyvirgo013 , I'm so sorry you had to experience this evilness on earth, I experienced it as well, I grew up around these people, so I was blinded for a very long time. Divorced 2-2-23, 55 year's old, God how I wish I could've known better sooner. 🙏💥💫💦
@@Healinglove i will 49 in September and the divorce just started. The realization that my husband is a LIE is devastating
@@ladyvirgo013 , I know the pain, the reality, is so very painful. I'm so happy for you that you're getting divorced. I do understand the pain involved, keep your faith 🙏 💯
God loves all of his children whether or not they know him. He loved us even before we ever loved him or knew him.
He left covertly by just escalating rage, lies manipulations for years and emotionally abandoning me to the point I had to break it off. It took a bit to grasp why nothing made any sense but after we broke up and I was able to ask a few significant questions. He’s told me that what ruined our relationship for him was me becoming chronically ill. He got much worse after watching me get pulled back in over and over from narcissistic parents. He watched so much hurt and yo-yo “Love” thank goodness and all of the help yourself who have brought e back to reality light, hope and true future ,mine. I am more than a minion of his. More than his life secretary, parent of a grown man etc.
This is a lifesaving channel. I was held in bondage and slavery for 10 years. I was a professional woman with a successful medical career. I lived in the U.S. and this monster promised me so many wonderful experiences if I left my country and moved to his.
Every single word in these videos is, exactly, the truth. I often dreamed of being stuck on an elevator, so very small, being suffocated and the elevator wouldn’t move anywhere, in the rarest moments that it did work, it would let me out in a strange city where I had nowhere to go. I ended up being a slave who saved his life, by my medical education and training for 10 years. This was always his plan. He did ten months later, after I left. Smearing my good reputation with horrible lies, and trying to convince the world that I was the abuser. Please, revisit these videos often. They might save your life 😢.
All of it. And, yes, questioned how God could let it happen, was so upset. Then later in retrospect realized I had been getting signs from God all along. The narcissist was covert but I was having dreams of him physically beating me to death. (I feel sure that he was actually fantasizing that.) Thank you for this video and for the description of being next to someone who you feel like isn't alive.
What a horrible nightmare! I had recurring dreams of trying to find a new place to live, and my parents were always there, and there was always a sense of foreboding. I do think that there is a sick psychic connection there.
I think so, too!@@gojiberry7201
I kept having dreams about snakes while I was with him. I learned it was bc I was with a SNAKE
Yes. It's very hard to see through the fog but when you do, you see their agenda is to erase you in any way they can ... and often through deliberately driving you to suicide, then they can say you really were crazy. I dreamed of my ex narc then husband, attending my funeral with our sons, playing the poor grieving husband and single parent. I resolved after that dream that I would stay alive no matter what. He used the 'crazy' label against me and manipulated me to react like I was crazy. Then I realised what he was doing. I couldn't explain to my kids what he was doing to me behind closed doors. He was very clever to always behave like the model husband in front of them, so I did appear crazy if I tried to explain to them how he really is. I'm still here at 70, fully compus mentus and the day will come when he will reveal himself to our kids and they'll realise I wasn't crazy after all.
Oh, my God, I've been saying this over and over again. That I saw black eyes. Your are the first person to say this. Thank you I thought I was going crazy thank you thank you.
God has been telling me these things lately. I come from a family with narcissistic patterns. My father has been a narcissist, and yet like Luke Skywalker, I feel there is good in him! He turned away from God to atheism and when I was a little girl, in the name of freedom, he denied me my faith. He said this was because religion (according to him) was controlling...but also, I know he was molested by a man of the church - and I have high hopes he might be saved, but meanwhile I know he'd suck me down if he could). He is not the only one in my family who can be cruel in especially painful (demonic) ways. What you said about abandonment at a critical time resonated. That shock lasted me for years. I have been celibate for over twenty years. Some of us given our backgrounds are better off looking solely to Christ and not seeking to be loved by this world. So thank you for this message because I constantly doubt myself. I've been under narcissistic attack for so long and by so many people, and for once I have a wonderful opportunity, and I aim to take it, even though I've been groomed by narcissists all my life to deny myself and instead feed them. I am struggling with guilt, but I am taking this lesson from God. Thank you Danish Bashir for helping God break through my thick skull!
Holy Moly Danish!!🥺 This is my exact story after my sweet Mom died. After putting my life on hold to care for my dad (he was the “sick” one) and assist with setting him up to function on his own, my dad stole everything my daughter & I ever owned, ruined my 1st business, locked me out of our shared home (that I invested way too much money in), left me homeless, and disowned my brother & I. The most traumatic discard ever.
I found myself at 40 years old having totally lost everything and had to start over from scratch. By God’s grace & my relentless spirit, I bounced back better than before.
Now I realize this whole ordeal was God saving my LIFE! Material things can ALL be replaced. Thank you!! 🙌❤
The day we came home from the honeymoon I had a horrible nightmare. I walked up on something crouched down in the middle of the street. When I got really close to it it turned around and jumped on me. It was a viscous attack. In the dream I was fighting a demon. In reality I was fighting my husband who turned out to be a narcissist. I could hear him screaming at me to wake up but I was fighting for my life. By the grace and power of God, eleven years later I won the fight.
I literally had a dream last night after an disagreement. It felt real and I had to call in Jesus to get me out of it. I have had series of these dreams and this one was so real I know I’m waking up to the truth ! Thank you for this message.
What's even worse is getting treated way worse by them than they treat everyone else.
Two things opened my eyes. A dream and indeed a look I once got but at the time didn’t recognise.
I’d be not so quick as to point to God who warned me. But since “His” power is in all, anyone who opens up spiritually, can find strength and help from a deeper layer of conscience.
In my case first in a dream in which I found myself locked up in a room (prison like lack of freedom to be myself) at the same time realising that I was to the narcissist nothing more than a accessoire.
Then It remind me of a look I once got. I got back to some 25(!) year old photos and there it was. Fear and anger as a way to get me in control I at the time didn’t but now recognised. The narcissistic look.
God was there when I broke down realising I had been dealing with lies all these years. To catch me making clear that maybe I wasn’t there, but “He” had been there all the time to carry me if necessary.
A terrible period became a very valuable period. I learned about myself and my longings. I informed myself and it made me strong so I can’t get mislead another time.
Owe, I had dreams my ex was hurting me. Missed a lot of signs. Now I see. Divorced and free after 30 years of marriage. Big thank you for educating about narcissists. It is hard to get out.
Life on earth is constant trials. How you learn the lessons, grow, and bounce back is key. We should finish better than we started. Blessings to All, Danish and All our Family. You are Loved. 🙏🏼🤍🕊
The dreams and our unconscious once tapped into cognition will tell you exactly who the person really is. Sometimes, the images or objects or animals don't look like the narcissists, but it doesn't matter. Also, in dreams, certain smells, colors, and emotions that come up can help interpret them. Trust in all your dreams and may all the good ones you love come true❤🥰👍!
YES! Thank you so much for mentioning this! I couldn't sleep next to him, the voices of all his evil Deeds and demonic energy seeped out when he was asleep, I could not handle the feeling, it would keep me up and I'd get flashes of so many evil and disgusting things he had done in my mind from being near him while he was asleep. Things he was pathologically lying about but turned out to actually be true! My intuition was able to see them and pick up on it during his sleep. So glad to be away from it.
THANK YOU FOR ACKNOWLEDGING THE DEMONIC ENERGY SEEPING FROM THEM AND THE ABSOLUTE INABILITY TO SETTLE PEACEFULLY.
I used to just break out in tears. I HATED being there. The energy is attached to my daughter. I have noticed it since APRIL 2020. Gets lower every day.
Yet HE is on Oak Island inside of the new house he built for his 'wife' and the ILLEGITIMATE kids he erroneously provides for, SEXUAL TRAFFICKERS, SWINGERS, CLIENTS, SACRIFICES, AND DEMONS.
I shall rescue MY FAMILY from the 'DEN OF DEMONIC PROSTITUTION'.
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So this is like…when my husband never came to one cancer treatment….only wanted me to cater to him while I was going through cancer….and got mad when I couldn’t fulfill his needs during my cancer stage….GOD BLESSED ME AND SAVED ME FROM Cancer for my kids….I’m still with the husband because they are good at trap and manipulating!! I’m finally really seeing him for who he is! GOD reveals him to me every day!! ❤