r/Askreddit GIrls, What Was the Most Obvious Hint a Guy Missed?
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r/Askreddit Guys, how obvious does a girl have to be before you finally get the hint that she wants to F!%# you? The girls in this r/Askreddit thread cover all the times when a completely clueless guy missed out on a golden opportunity to get some action. Prepare for the cringe! If you like this video, let me know by hitting the like button!
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"Sneaky Snitch" Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com)
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What's the biggest hint YOU ever missed?
rSlash Her sayin she was pregnant
rSlash when she asked me if I was single lmao
Wow im early
She asked me if I wanted to smash, and i got my gamecube controller
When we got married
He probably still had his clothes on while they showered together.
lmao đand told her "don't worry I won't look"
Lady of Darkness that's exactly how I would act in the situation
facts
That reminds me of the shower scene in Strange Science.
South Texas Fail Weird Science
Here's a tip girls:
Most guys don't think you could possibly be into them.
Also, bonus tip: most guys will remember a compliment or nice gesture from a cute girl FOREVER
And most guys are usually literal so innuendo might not work that well.
Thanks for the advice. đđ»
I always try to say the nice things I think about people out loud because they do more good being said than staying in my head :)
How about asking?
I second this^
Girls = Heat vampires
me: *thinks: burning hot showers, hot covers, fluffy sweaters, campfires, and warm things* seems legit
As soon as he said that I thought "FACTS"
yea im not sure why they need heat so much, if i had/needed those things i'd be sweatin like crazy lol
I feel like I'm the only guy that likes to shower with hotter water than his gf
And yet I walk around in a t-shirt in the middle of winter
I never knew I am a girl...
â..asked him if he could give me a massageâ and his reply was
AD STARTS
âLETS PLAY RAID SHADOW LEGENDSâ đ
Underated
CZcams just being CZcams
XD
START NOW FOR FREEE
i laughed so hard on that one
Girl 1: dont look at me, creep.
Girl 2: dont look at me, creep.
Girl 3: dont look at me, creep.
.......
Girl 99: dont look at me, creep
Girl 100: would you like to sleep at my house?
Guy: (she is nice to me. Better try not to seem like a creep) "sure, where's the sofa?"
Anita Bonghit
The test isnât so hard:
The test: just because a girl is nice to you doesnât mean she likes you. Also if sheâs nice to you, catch a hint, guys are so dumb lol.
Sync Grave this just confused me more.
Exactly
Be careful, He/she is a hero
This is just so confusing...
At least the gay guy and the confused virgin had valid excuses
The virgin didn't, he suffered from being the stupid and being stupid isn't a valid excuse.
@@OmniscientWarrior fair enough
But you can be born with STD's though. So you can never be sure
Monique Star The valid excuse is that nobody is going to look for hints because every girl has different ways of being flirty, banter, or casual conversation.
The guy explaining god of war lore was teaching her cultured facts to her
âGirls are heat vampires, and use us for warmthâ YESS
Jesus no
My sister literally gives out heat jshskhdkss
So thatâs why girls steal my sweaters
@@ibol13l3 yes
@@happily3 ok boomer
Her: "Do you want to have Kids later?"
Me explaining God of War lore: "Boy"
This actually made me chuckle.
Spectral Umbra Same!
WE GET THERE WHEN WE GET THERE!
DO YOU DARE TO INTERRUPT ME,MORTAL ?
BOY!
To be fair, if men did take the hint and were wrong they might earn an orange jumpsuit instead of a cold shoulder
Guys who are not aesthetically perfect are best to avoid women for that purpose.
@@silverletter4551 I Just avoid People in general
@@silverletter4551 Alright, I'll go fuck myself. Thanks for the tip.
Yup. Any one of these situations could be flipped and just be the girl being nice. Instant MeToo accusation.
@@knightghaleon Except for the showering togehter.
Alternate theory: Just bc you gave a hint doesnt mean he was interested :)
Like the gay guy.
Minus that in some of these stories the guys confirmed they didn't get it
@@Nakia11798 Obviously :) My statement was more of an in general maybe the ladies didnt get it, then a direct response to any story :)
@@medcen4955 Yeah, you're completely right! Guys have different preferences and they can be nice/polite and it may come off as interested.
I don't drop hints (because I have a mission and can't be wasting time) and a lot of the guys that I thought would be interested in me rejected me, it was a blow to my self confidence, but it saved a lot of time for both of us and we were able to move on to something else.
@@ItsmeeeeeeXD I officially love you in a noncreepy platonic way :) You go girl!
I feel like a man dying of thirst watching another man drown
- KrÏllÏñ
Yes TFS. :D And accurate.
Senzu bean!
My daily mantra.
Said this to a buddy of mine who complained girls were hitting on him at a gym.
That one about the shampoo, though - 5:23 - how IS a guy supposed to respond?
Girl: How did your hair get so smooth?
Guy: Wanna bang?
Mayby, did you know that sun is actualy green?
@@popolnocy no
You smile, touch her hair too and say well you would know. You don't have to immediately act upon flirty signs, just say something light and flirty back and take a mental note that she likes you and that you can take things further (make your move, ask her out) without having to worry that she won't like it
@@sleepygirl96 problem is... if she wasn't flirting, you now are branded as "creepy".
@@jacobguillerey4476 if you really are not sure if she's flirting (although her touching/caressing your hair is a very safe sign) then go the safe route and just say something nice back, that can be interpreted as flirting, like a compliment.
"I want to be yours"
*spouts facts about space while internally screaming at himself*
Lol
That sounds like my husband lol
I honestly did something like that but instead of space I talked about History, since i'm fond of it.. she later told me that she did liked me but I never got the signsđ€Šđ»ââïžđ
Well actually i would do the same xD
I did that once! The thing is I only realised she was flirting like two years later
Iâm autistic so I have that as an excuse lol
That last "how do you tell if a girl is into you?" is genius
A part of his brain knew what was going on but couldn't get the part that was in control to listen. So it sent a message and he was like, "I need to fact check this first."
He was having some REAL DEEP THOUGHTS and needed info ASAP
I think he was trying to google it on his phone but instead said this aloud.
The girl is the clueless one
Meanwhile, somehow in the same reality as this video
incel: why were you acting all flirty if you didn't want to date me?
girl: I wasn't flirting with you, I was just treating you with common human decency!
The biggest hint I missed.. and I admit I was a very clueless girl, when we were watching a movie together and getting closer n closer together under the covers. At that point he stopped the movie, looked at me and said, I dont want you to leave but the movie is done, what else can we do.... I honestly didnt get it. Then he came closer, and kissed me. Did I get it? No.... I thought he accidentally slipped or something... so I ignored it because I thought it might be akward for him. After a minute he kissed me again, thats when it finally hit me. Twas my first kiss, and its one to remember my absolute blindness by.
I'm sorry, but I'm kinda glad that girls can be as oblivious as guys sometime. XD
I'm definitely a heat vampire. My fiance is so warm, I take his spot in bed when he gets up for work trying to find his warmth, all the while I'm still sleeping.
Iâm a heat vampire and my boyfriend is a blanket hog. One time while on holiday he had stolen the blanket so I had huddled right up against his under what little blanket I could get. The next morning he accused me of taking over the whole bed. We had a good laugh about it.
SteviiLove i am delighted to steal seats from my dogs.
My friends have a dog that is the same way. He loves one of them to death and always gets excited when she comes home and likes to be around her a lot (but not all the time). But when winter comes and they don't have their heat turned on, he cuddles up to be, even if it means wedging between me and the seat, just for my warmth. He sold out his love for heat. It wasn't even that cold, I still was wearing a t-shirt inside.
I'll bet you even try to steal all the covers from him even WHILE he's still there! Go on, admit it... we won't tell! ;)
@@PurpledaisyShasta Amazing! You're the first woman ever to not have stolen the blanket first!
I'm calling Guinness book of records right now! ;)
I feel like if a guy asks you "How do you know a girl is into you?" While you've been dropping hints, that's just him "subtly" confirming whether or not him picking up on the hints is correct yes or no, at least that's what I would do if I were a guy.
As a guy I will confirm that.
100%
Literally, yes.
I would be too dumb to catch on even on the most obvious of hints lol
@@mirzahamzabaig5667 I feel you man, I wonder every now and then if I missed a hint a girl dropped me
Or at least, I would if girls were ever interested in me enough to try hints ;(
plot twist
when a guy says "how do you tell if a girl is into you" it's them giving you a hint to actually be straight forward xD
"Dude, did you just accidentally turn down a threesome?"
Sounds to me like they dodged a bullet. That's how you wake up in a bathtub full of ice, missing a kidney. Some of us can't afford to make that mistake again.
Wait what?
...wait... again?!
50/50 ill take the odds.
I'm sorry... again?
i mean when it's between this or getting accused of sexual misconduct it's best to just play it safe. Also women joke about stuff like this alot so it's hard to tell when your just being baited .
Thing is, at any point a woman can withdraw consent so every one of these is baited regardless because they all have the potential to be withdrawn.
Levant I mean anyone can withdraw consent to any activity at any time.. right?
@@theplumscrub1627 NOT AFTER THE ACTIVITY IS OVER!!!!!!
@@theplumscrub1627 Not after the activity has concluded. You're free to remove consent at the beginning and middle but if you consent to the act, the act finishes and then 30 minutes later withdraw consent and try to destroy someone's life, then consent no longer holds any value and means nothing.
wait they joke about this shit i just thought they were being nice now i gotta rethink my entire situation
If you want to get a hint, you gotta watch an Ad first to claim your reward
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Ah I see, but too bad! I don't watch ads because I hate ads!
Just A Dio Who's A Hero For Fun I play games with no wifi
and that ad is RAID SHADOW LEGENDS!
I got no wifi...,FUUUUUUUUUUCK
Yeah, when I was like 14?15? I was at a friend's party, he decided that he would put a trampoline and we would dropkick on each other's legs, that is, until a girl one or two years older appeared and told us that she wanted to play, as we were doing some dumb shit, everyone decided to leave, I was last, cause I wanted to wait them off and do a backflip
When I'm getting out to follow the rest of the guys she looks at me and says
"but you're gonna leave me here alone? In a kinda flirty way
I look at her blank faced and say
"Yeah"
Then go on my way
I was dumb...and kinda still am...
Oh well, probably had more than just this one
bruh i relate so hard, a girl i was with was obviosly flirting with me, but i though she had a boyfriend cuz she always talked about some dude she called hairball. one day i was with her and her friend and some buddy, my buddy cuddling with her friend, and she said she was feeling lonly, i suggest she go to 'hairball' she then informs me that hairball is a cat.....
All of these can be solved be right clicking and clicking âElaborateâ in the drop down menu
Communication is key
Unless she's an older model, in which case you have to install the "elaborate" menu from scratch
Mr Cooked Bacon Actually the older models tend to have this feature due to technological maturity and community feedback. The newer models rarely get that amount of machine learning exposure but, thankfully, can be early adopters of this patch when their central processing unit is binned above 85th percentile.
I knew I wasnât tech savvy, but I didnât know I was this bad. Thanks for advice friend!
Aatrox is best
I admit, we are idiots when it comes to hints.
TheMara246 No weâre not idiots for assuming some random girl is into us because they said something that might be considered a innuendo. Itâs way for girls to turn the blame on us because theyâre too scared to be blunt. Not to mention we get told constantly that just because a girls nice to you it doesnât mean she likes you, so we have to work within this grey area. Also every girls being nice or flirting is completely different, so again weâre not idiots.
Flirting doesnât mean she likes you. And âyou can sleep in my roomâ means nothing.
@@hulkinglasses7174 Only other thing flirting could mean that I can think of is "I want free drink" or "I want someone to do something for me" so I guess you're right.
we really are though, i swear i didnt realize that some girls were hitting on me until at least 3 months later then i felt like an idiot, im not sure how i failed that much, although idc about most girls anyway, i have one whom i cannot give up on if it means spending the rest of my life single
@Jaymee Lightfoot that's true ... My self esteem is absolute shit and it didn't help that all the boys I was honest with actually rejected me đ when I let the dudes pursue me without giving too much away, that's when I ended up with a boyfriend ... It's honestly so weird
8:10
Nope, he successfully avoided having his minibar raided and going bankrupt.
i guess i'm not the only cynical person around here. though i have to say- could go either way right?
This calls me single in so many different ways.
"Girls are heat vampires"
Bro I
I am either a living heater or a walking freezer. There is no in between and most of the time it's the former
Iâm just a heater, if I go ice skating with friends I become the human heat pack
@@Yarnza I relate. It was raining a few days ago and my friend would not stop hugging me
As someone who suffers from poor circulation I am a heat vampire
Yeah same, sometimes itâs too hot for my gf at night
Hot neighbor: âIâm gonna be home alone tonightâ
Me: (pause) âthat sucksâ
Disclaimer: she lived with her boyfriend and somehow I was supposed to read minds and know they were breaking up but still living together for convenience lol
Yeah... I'm still not so sure that was an invitation, and if it was, it's not an invitation you should have taken. So... Good on you bruv.
You dodged a bullet
Dodged a bullet
Thing is though, a lot of these "hints" have turned out to be just friendliness. Like once a girl used to like to walk while hugging my harm, hold my hand, would rest her head or legs on me, lay her head on my lap and I felt it was going somewhere so I told her I liked her and she said she had a boyfriend and she stopped.
Girls, when we are thinking about other things, you need to smack us on the back of the head (a reset if you will) and tell us bluntly. And yes we will be panicking.
I remember a girl saying this:
I wish I could meet a guy like you.
My thought:
Yeah. I am right here but I am not good enough for you.
Not a fun thing to hear someone say.
So, girls/guys. Don't say that to anyone.
It's just like a punch in the face.
@EmpressBeauty No. I have not. Or maybe I did. Don't remember.
It's maybe 15 years since this happened.
If it would happen again I will try.
@@stonedbeaver "I wish I could meet a guy like you" "... but not you"
Every time, dude. Every. Time.
Yeah
I had a guy do this to me once. I would spend whole Saturdays at his house watching whatever he wanted and he kept complaining he couldn't find a Christian gamer girl, preferably with red hair, who wanted to date him....I eventually gave up
@EmpressBeauty A girl i had been friends with for 2 years in school and who previously had a boyfriend told me soemthing like "Why can't all men be like you". And honestly that sentence implies that it shouldn't be me. We've been best friends and always kinda (jokingly) flirty and cuddly, so there couldn't even be a change in behaviour if she wanted to drop hints.
But such a sentence just makes a guy overthink it for the rest of your relationship. Every hint you drop the guy will overthink whether you could take it in a friendly way because she said something like that (especially in times of friendzone)
One time i used a pickup line then he said âIâm gonna use thatâ
Another one is my friend asked out a guy she said âwant to go out?â Then he replied with âwhere?â
The first one, he dumb.
The second one, without knowing the inflection in the voice, your friend may be the dumb one.
The second guy. I see no problem with what he said, want to go out can translate into different things.
I would be those guys, not necessarily because I missed it, but because I'd only want to be friends in the first place, for some reason.
I must of been the "where" guy.
"Where?" isn't necessarily missing the point
One time a girl told me she liked me
I continued talking about the difference between the Boeing 747 and Airbus A380
8:17
He either accidentally avoided a 3way or luckily got out of being tricked into bed by 2 hot chicks then get robbed or killed. Kind of a 2 way street lmao
I've missed a few big ones over the years.
Once, when I was 16, my grandparents and I were out camping, I was floating down a river on an innertube in swim trunks and was joined by a couple of girls who were out skinny dipping. The one girl asked me if i wanted to join in and hang out for a while. Me, being the awkward teen that I was, didn't skip a beat and said "naw, i'm good just floating here." And that was that. I clued in an hour after and I lamented that for a long time after. My first time being in a threeway? Goddammit.
Another time, A friend of my roomate got new nipple piercings, and was showing them off for my friend, but I'm a respectful gent, so I only stared for like a minute or so. Then she asked if I wanted to take a closer look at them, and she had the uhm, seductive kind of voice and the bedroom eyes, and me, being an awkward 21 year old at the time, not skipping a beat, said "naw, I had a good look earlier." I didn't clue in until the next day. We ended up hooking up a few months after that. Still, that was a facepalm.
My third biggest missed hint was pretty recent. A lady I worked with and really enjoyed being with was I guess super into me. She'd come and convince me to join her for breaks, sit with me during mealtime, etc. Weeks turned into months and I even hung out with her at her house, and she'd always be cuddled into my arm. Did I clue in and kiss her when we stared into each others' eyes in silence for like 5 minutes? Nope. After hanging out with her at her place like the 10th time, she just straight up yelled, "stop being so f*cking dense! I want to f*ck you!" THAT hint I got.
That last one sounds suspicious.
What could she possibly mean, do you think?
I still wouldnt get the hint after she yelled those exact words to me.
Also fuck is spelled fuck, not f*ck.
I'm autistic, so I've missed quite a few. Can't be vague with me. I just won't get it.
Thank, my son's autistic. Never thought of that. I'll give him a heads up to tell this girl he likes.
I know my boyfriend is autistic too and he told me that I can't be vague or give him hints or else he will never get them... that was after we started dating when he told me about this đđđ
Itâs sooo fucking annoying... in retrospective I think I missed hits from, at least 3 different girls... could hit myself with a brick for this
MystBunnyGaming Itâs not your fault if a girl is too scared to be blunt, so they play these games to try to swap the blame over to you. Youâre fine my dude.
Hello fellow ASD person. I agree; most of these anecdotes had me like "Uhm... I thought this was about Obvious Hints?"
"Turned out he was gay lol"
Same but opposite gender
I wonder how many of these were actually people trying to dodge flirting from someone they werenât into. sometimes people arenât as clueless as you think lol
Yep, sometimes I do it on purpose. The bad thing is that sometimes they continue to insist that I didn't understand, when I clearly know what they were trying to say
Nelson Serrano lmao same here
I've been married for years, I still miss hints from my wife.
My wife just tells me what she wants now. I missed so many hints
With my current partner, I don't bother with hints, I just say, "Hey, let's do the devil's dance, I'm in the mood."
Works every time because he doesn't have to guess what I want at the time.
@@ItsmeeeeeeXD oh my god, I thought you were the husband but then I read your name. I was so confused, "husband?" "...how are you gonna do the "devils dance..." lol
@@ItsmeeeeeeXD Your profile picture says you are a woman of culture as well
For every one of these that seem obvious we've gotten just as seemingly obvious hints that lead to rejection, shame, and sometimes sexual harrassment charges.
Best to assume she's not really interested.
Damn straight bruv. MGTOW FTW.
Agreed, this video demonstrates only one extreme of the spectrum, the other one is being accused of sexual harassment or being called a perv/creep.
That's why I always keep a recorder on
âWell in all fairness girls are heat vampires and use is for our warmthâ đ€Łđ€Łđ€Ł
Yes but... to the heat vampires out there, please suck our heat more gently xD
Had my ex once come into bed, put her Colder-than-an-icepack hands on me, and nearly made me jump through the roof.. like daamn, wait a minute, give me those to warm them up before you put them around my waist. My chest was literally hurting from that immense temperature transition lol
This topic could be sum up to :
*"Is she into you ?"*
*"Can't tell"*
I never understood why y'all drop hints instead of just talking about it.
So it is better to let the guy struggle with random hints? I mean... There is literally a guy in a story here who got shut down by a girl who sent hints. C'mon, there is nothing to lose. Men and women both eat, drink, breath and poop in toilets, there is nothing different... đ¶
That's quite a sad modus operandi...
@._. guys go through the same thing but get told to go for it anyway.
Because it will become booring i believe? Would you like to buy a game and finish it in a few minutes or you would like to see more new things?
@@Xedga1ltX So you're comparing girls with a game? đ€š
Jk, but no one should have to go through so much mental shit, even less with nowadays context where you can be labelled as "that guy" or be the creep that misinterpreted a hint of someone genuinely being nice and hence being flagged as the weird hands dude
F's for the guy in class with the girl hanging all over him then finds out she just sees him as a friend. That right there is the most frustrating thing, so glad I havent had to deal with dating for a long time now.
Aaron Larson This litterally happened to me except it was a guy and Iâm a girl.
Turns out some guys are also extremely friendly, and he thought we were just being bros.
Yeah, men do the same shit to women.
"Heat vampires" made me crack a smile. That's cute AF
A word of advice:
most guys don't take hints because they don't wanna misunderstand and come of as creeps.
So when you like someone, F*****G TELL THEM!!! We men are extremely one track minded and we don't really like complicated stuff. So being clear is the best thing you can do if there is chemistry.
Thanks, now im sitting and trying to remember even a single missed hint. Annnd so far, there is only 2 options
1)Im too "dumb" so I completely missed everything and still do not realize even to this date.
2) Nobody used hints towards me.
You're not alone tho
I mean, it's a risky gamble, it's either you hit the jack pot or have your life ruined, the jackpot isn't even that good.
Its the hair my dude
@@JoshuaFCB hair?
Arunix itâs a joke
i asked him out and he said no. smh, guys are so clueless đ
That sounds like he didn't like you. You must have forgotten to mention dinosaurs.
Try bringing bionicles next time.
Maybe that's because he didn't want to?
@@coolfred9083 I get r/whoosh someone, yes.
WHOOOOOOOOSH.
@@-Untitled- Oh yeah, thinking about it that's just a joke isn't it. Yeah I often miss that.
A girl told me she had a crush on me and I was like: "Nahh impossible."
The thing is it's so dangerous to do anything with a girl and personally I will pass a chance to avoid the risk of an orange jumpsuit.
I've seen guys get into trouble for making a pass.
MGTOW
My biggest hint I ever missed? I still think my dad is still buying milk from the grocery store
He's probably just giving away milk.
TheKittenSashimi Meow OMG you too?
He is ensuring that the cow was raised purely naturally, in a safe, healthy environment, with nothing put in the cow aside from what was needed for its health, may even being raising the mother and the father from birth, then it from birth for quality control purposes.
OmniscientWarrior You need a heartfelt like and most needed reward in a form of hahahaha
Its just the long line.
That elevator one - He established dominance over them without even using T-pose
Im dense aff but not this dense.
Still it would suck losing a friendship over misreading a sign
Girl approaches me while im at work.
G: "Can I have your number?"
Me: "Oh, yeah here's a card with the store's number"
Is she into you?
C. Can't tell
maybe she's just canadian
@@MissingNo0001 And being polite
42jwiener a man of culture i see
wait is that a âcasually explainedâ reference?? I see ya
These are all dudes who are probably so used to the friendzone that they really didn't know they were being hit on. Feels bad, man
Bingo. Been a number of girls that everyone would say they were definitely flirting with me. Ask them out and get the "you're too good of a friend to chance ruining it."
@@pa28cfi don't sweat it. I have learned that worrying about that ultimately ruins your chances anyway. If someone says that to you, get them out of your mind as soon as you can and move on to the next one.
The friendzone doesn't exist.
@@sadpotato3386 Explain,
I've been friend zoned and I have friend zoned people
It goes from, hey I am attracted to you and want a relationship to
No thanks, let's be friends.
This is actually how I made my best friend of 8 years!
If you guys never talk again it's not being friend zoned, it's just rejection, but if there's a prolonged friendship, it's friend zoning.
@@ItsmeeeeeeXD friendzone just doesn't exist. If someone seriously feels friendzoned, then they dont care about that person as a friend and is only pretending to be friends in the hopes of eventually getting with them.
- you like my new lingerie?
- no, it's awful, take it off.
Since men can literally go to jail for misreading a que, it's best to avoid women entirely.
@Nature and Physics Really? Are you reading the same news reports I do? www.washingtonexaminer.com/county-in-uk-makes-it-a-hate-crime-to-upset-women
@Nature and Physics Really? Given that #MeToo states women should be believed with NO EVIDENCE, merely for being a woman and making an accusation?
With the way this world is goin these hints may not be missed but may be too cautious so he doesnât get in trouble
At least super ugly guys like me don't get hints thrown our way.
My friend to her now boyfriend before they got together: I like you. Like like
Now boyfriend: This is a prank right? You don't like me
7:37 its possible to be born with a STDs
I feel bad for the guys that werenât interested and had to take the easy way out by acting dumb
I was over at my friend's house for the first time and I made myself comfortable sitting on her bed then laying down on it as we've been friends for about a year by then. She then got on top of me and looked into my eyes. Among the many things my blank mind didn't think of, her being into me was definitely one of them.
One girlâs âflirtingâ is another girlâs âjust being niceâ and if the guy misreads one as the other, heâll get MeTooed. Sorry ladies, youâre going to have take responsibility and accountability for your feelings or live with guys not going for it because the consequences for us are severe and life destroying.
Well to be fair.. it's not life destroying to flirt back.. only if your "flirting" = "fucking her with no consent" lol
@@NoobieLandCity Flirting can equal sexual harassment.
@@JohnSmith-wx9wj yes and no... If you keep flirting after she said no or you keep *harassing her*, now that's sexual harassment..
Also, sexual harassment is not life destroying.. especially if you just flirt
@@NoobieLandCity
Since I can't assuredly know the mood of a woman, I cannot engage in flirting with one. Even if she reciprocates, she can later say that she felt pressured or intimidated. When I was in the Army, they brought in a feminist organization to teach us not to rape. It seems that I have no way of ensuring consent. Just because she may say and do certain things doesn't mean she actually feels good about them.
The other side too, is that I have noticed women feel disgusted or frightened when someone unattractive to her flirts. I don't want to be known as a creep and be locked out of some place I need to live my life.
@@NoobieLandCity Being accused of sexual harassment can get you fired and blacklisted from the industry you're in. Now yes not being able to work as a doctor anymore because someone misread a pleasant conversation or just wanted you gone isn't technically life destroying, it just renders you incapable of making a living in an industry you went into a crap ton of debt to enter and will have to spend a crap ton of money to get back into by suing the hospital and the person who accused you while your rent/mortgage is due and you have family or pets depending on your income to survive.
You wont die IMMEDIATELY due to the actions of this individual who falsely accused you and you can maybe work the docs or go scrap crabs off the bottom of the Alaskan sea to make ends meet. But your time as a doctor until you sue everyone and find a judge that sides with you will be done.
To be fair I've seen girls say if girl even looks at you it's somehow a hint and you missed it so i could see guys not thinking anything of it. This is why girls are hard to read they could be flirting or just trying to be nice or freindly you just don't know they need to be more upfront especially when just talking to a girl is considered sexual assault nowadays.
I think this whole "guys not getting it" thing is also a lot connected to the fact, that a lot of people can't imagine someone for real liking them, beyond just being moderately nice.
If I ever get a girl flirting with me I will let you know
They have, several times.
adir mugrabi probably in hints so hard to read that even Sherlock Homes wouldnât have been able to solve them.
And he was never heard from ever again
He's dead....dead dead. RIP
Lets be honest:
We, at least to some degree, klicked on this video in hope to find hints we missed.
Turns out i missed as many hints as sherlock
Went to a party to my best friends place, I missed the hint when I watched a movie with her for a whole 2 hours alone in a enclosed room while others partied, I was 18 and clueless, I liked the movie , thinking about it now she gave me almost 100 hints
Next day another friend asked where were you, told him about the movie and her, told him nothing happened.
He facepalmed so hard, I was a really fit and tall, loved manga and comic, guess I was too much of a nerd back thenđ€Šââïž
"The bat of Bluntness"
I wish people would use it more often.
Can we just give a hard "F" in the chat for these people
This whole post is about them missing the hard F, I think they will miss these as well.
F
indeed. F
HAPPY BIRTHDAY!! (Marked it on my calendar lmao) Love you Rslash! đđ
This is the first video of you I cant finish. I feel so bad for the guys that had their one chance and its over forever.
R/slash: girls what's the obvious clue guys miss
Me: time to land a girl
When the girl is interested, it's an OBVIOUS hint that was MISSED.
When the girl isn't interested, the exact same thing is JUST the girl being POLITE and we should KNOW that.
It's a confusing world...
Cause we should just know because reason. If i wanted to solved a Chinese puzzle i would just buy one. đ€Ł
Funny, I've seen this exact same mentality from more men than I care to count. Been told almost exactly that by multiple men, actually.
@@AngryReptileKeeper Probably because it's true
I'd much rather someone who didn't get the hint than someone who thought I was making hints when I wasn't.
Always assume politeness or friendliness! Saves you a lot of drama and slaps.
If you are with a guy and he asks 'how can you tell if a girl is into you' he has been catching your hints but is terrified he read them wrong.... he's getting clarification.
âi really like that shirt. you look like boyfriend material in itâ
âyeah but iâm singleâ
weâve been dating for a year as of now but i had to finally just say âlook do you wanna go out or whatâ and he was BAFFLED at the time.
That's cute
I hope you learned your lesson: don't give hints, just speak your mind with us guys.
FriedrichHerschel lol ur single
@@alexawood1588 Is that a question, a statement or an offer?
FriedrichHerschel itâs an insult
Calling someone hot isn't "obvious" my close friends and I always compliment each other.
I had the opposite problem. Girl dropped multiple hints (over the course of a year) that she liked me, turns out she was just extra friendly and was actually, quote, "interested in someone else".
So ladies, if you're wondering why I'm not paying any attention to this hint-hint bullshit anymore...that's why.
Tbh, I think guys just want to be careful. It is better to miss a hint than be humiliated or accused of sexual harassment/ assault.
Brandi Plus guys are too busy with their lives to try to read into every specific thing you do like itâs a middle school love story
@@SyncGrave haha yes another valid point.
"Bat of Bluntness." Bat to you, normal communication to us.
With all the creeps out there , some guys may just be so afraid to be called perverts or creeps, so they wait till they are positive , like VERY positive that it is mutual. That's some time too long lol
Hey rSlash, I was on one of your r/prorevenge vids from February, and wanted to say congrats on growing from 100k subs to over 1m subs. Keep up the good tea đ”
Girl: Well you see I turned my head 5 degrees towards him while we were talking instead of the usual 3 degrees. HOW COULD HE MISS THAT?!?! Ugh. Guys are soo clueless.
Literally any guy: Would it kill you to just ask?
Right... men are clueless
@@deepface7758 I never been on a date so, how i am suppose to know i ain't Nostradamus. At 35 year old its pretty much over for me, could understand a hints even it if falls from the sky.
@@jakelowang4132 35 is the new 25
Arhaam Haque Guys:do the same thing*
Girls: iS tHaT sExUaL hArRaSmEnT?
@@SyncGrave *insert hello HR department meme
I would rather a dude be unaware than creepy lol.
I had this girl sitting on my lap and rubbing my leg with her hand - I didn't get the hint at all! She gave many other hints beforehand too lol! The reality is, I'm as blind as a bat and think everything a woman does is them being friendly! I never think they are into me...ever!
I have seen every single video on this channel and this is my favorite đđđ
These are the type of people who finish all missions but never take the reward
That remind me of one:
I was on a party and a friend of mine introduced me to his friend:
- Hi! i'm lesbian
- Hi Lesbian, i'm Tiago
we keep chating as the night goes on, until she come to me and say:
- You know, i think you are kinda lazy cuz i'm flirting with you all night..
(WELL MAAM MAYBE IT WAS BECAUSE U SAID U'RE INTO GIRLS BEFORE SAING YOUR NAME BUT OK LETS DO ET)
it was an amazing night btw xD
Tiago Alves guy dumb cause they believe you when you tell them that youâre gay lmao
@@SyncGrave That's your problem right there. You don't mean what you say, so who knows what's true ? Not even yourself.
Jesus H Christ I had a stroke trying to read this.
@@ayaan6913 English not my first language, was on mobile.. yatta yatta
Sync Grave the girl lied so itâs her fault
Coming from a guy,
Sometimes its not that we can't take the hint, BUT we don't want to "look things too far", if that makes sense.
#awkward4life
Being wrong can end up badly for the guy.
You know it's always amusing to me how our way of thinking changes with time
Teacher makes me sit with a girl in class
Me: No, I don't want to, anything but thatđđ±đą
My amigos: ahahahaha
University teacher makes me sit with a girl (gf)
Me:đđđ
My friends: Ooooooooooohhhhhhhhhhh
I've had a bunch of similar things happen to me in my late teens, when I know for a fact that the girls weren't interested in me romantically. That's probably why so many guy's don't react to it.
Which is worse :
Missing an OBVIOUS hint that the other person likes you
or
Not even getting a hint
Misreading a kind gesture and getting a restraining order on you
@@VanNessy97 uhh
@@alicizo that does happen
The lesson here ladies is to be blunt, be blunt as freakin possible. The signal system clearly does not work due to misuse of some women. It now amounts to a red light green light with asterisks attached everywhere with they guys lost in the fine print.
Seriously. If he's wrong, his life is basically over.
Men may be bigger risk takers but there has to be an actual payoff to justify it.
This "cold" hint just wouldn't work with me.
I hate being hot, and I love it when it's freezing cold.
the 'theres room for 2 under the blanket one' at the end was so heartwarming!