How can I get a hold of you all privately and talk with you cuz I have some things I would like to talk about to get off my chest and to get it under standing a better understanding on things
1. Shame 2. Insults 3. Guilt trip 4. The need to be right all forms are subtle emotional manipulation. If you don't do what they want you to do, you're a bad person.
@@MrCobain89sounds like me saying this. I grew up in insults, shame, guilt trips, need to be right, physical abuse etc. The classic one was when she literally said to my face, “Your ex has found a very good somebody”😂😂😂. And my ex was actually a second wife. The abuse only ended when she died last year when I was 54!
When was the last time you had a woman, including your mother, apologize to you sincerely. I’m 71 and I’ve never had a sincere apology from a woman no matter how egregious the offense. Talk about heartbreaking.
Many “Christian” women will say they need a man who knows how to handle them. If you read your Bible your role as a wife is not to be handled but to be a help. If I have to “handle you amongst all my other responsibilities and duties as a man than you’re not worth handling. I have enough of a responsibility when aiming to guide and direct our family in the right direction and if I need to make time to handle you like some bill then you’re adding to my problems and not helping to solve them.
Who the hell wants to handle anyone? I want positive memorable interactions! These women must evolve in their idea of men and get off the TV programming!
When I discovered him last year, I was overweight, miserable and a drunk. He motivated me enough to lose the weight, quit drinking and start acting like a lady. Now I have an amazing boyfriend who is planning our future. I wouldn’t be where I am without his wise words
Honestly… 💯 could be both genders too smh & how ironic to think because they have all those other things that may appear good & “high quality” but truly and deeply thier true colors show it’s only a matter of time 🤷🏻♀️
I didn’t really know who Kevin Samuels was until after he died. I googled him and watched some of his videos to get a sense as to why so many women were celebrating his death. I must say that I wish he were still here. Although some of the things that he said stung a bit he was telling the truth about many of the things that he said. Women were only offended because they felt attacked, but as old country people say, “A hit dog will holler.” When you know better and want to do better you welcome honesty even if it hurts.
So true. It's amazing how many women would call in to his show which just tells you that women truly want that honest, male assessment of themselves. Not another women's advice but a real, secure man's advice. And, boy, did he deliver
@@javontaebyrd6464 When they have been run through, they can't pair bond any longer. They will always belong to the street. Just your turn till it's somebody else's. They love what you can offer them, not you. Hypergammy. Always looking for a better deal till they hit the wall. Then they settle if they can with a simp or get a cat.
I remember how in physics class, I argued something that I'd read in the book minutes before class started (I was a bit behind in my reading). The professor and good student disagreed. I let it go, knowing that I was right. I knew then that I'd grown as a person; I knew what I'd seen and read, and that was enough for me... :)
Woman here 🙋🏾♀These are all very true. My aunt is a successful retired VP from Coca-Cola. She does all of these things. Success and money means absolutely nothing when your heart is dark. She has used these thing to emotionally abuse me since I started college 23 years ago. People tend to listen to everything she says even if its false narratives. Also, she claim to foster woman empowerment which is complete bs. She is the successful, educated, wealthy, mean, cold hearted black woman. In my experience, she is the perfect example of a Low Value Woman.
The man who divorced his high school sweetheart after one year, leaving her with a baby to raise? Right. Just the kind of "man" needed as a father figure.
100 % think about this lets go back 1000' years what to ALL CONQUERS do first ? They take out the MASCULINE MALE first and the rest of the sheep will follow. There is NOTHING WRONG with men. Think about this guys over 1000 years and beyond WE ALL want the SAME. We want a good mother, good cook, NO DRAMA, with NO SMART MOUTH. We never changed WOMAN HAVE. All done by the communist that want to rule America. Some great leaders once said our enemies will not destroy us by tanks they will destroy us from within ...".ITS ALL PLANNED " Let these woman suffer the consequences for not letting us take the lead let them be ALONE WITH A CAT hahaha. All you guys out there reading this God has blessed you. Why you think it is written in the bible about MEN always taking the lead it is God's will. Boss Babes will parish over time its God will. Build yourself up guys woman today are NOT WORTH IT
My ex narcissist was a very low value men. He was all of this and more. He would shame people for no reason just to subtly put them down. Now that I’ve learnt about narcissism I spot low value people from far away.
The word “narcissist” has been thrown around to the point it no longer has much meaning. Every time someone has a disagreement with another person, he is suddenly labeled a “narcissist,” and of course the person making the accusation labels themself a victim and expert on narcissistic survivor.
@@jqight740 yep indeed especially ellaine flor flores my friend though she knew her beloved ryan is a married guy with kids but she rather be with him than a single guy 😂😂😂 even filipinas are 99% westernized
Been called everything in the book but somehow I was still the bad guy... I say Let's talk like adults and she takes it as me saying she's not an adult. Then the red herring and the conversation is now about how I'm talking not what I'm saying
Yeah I don't understand it either , like women tend to always go to the other side of the statement or question , they don't see the bigger picture , they always play defensive by completely taking down the question in another manner , it often shocks me how they interpret the questions so i usually ask very firm and decisive questions and i stick to the question no matter what , no matter what they say i don't go defensive i play my question on the interpretation i meant and not what she interpreted it by , that's a key role and very exhausting too for me
All four of these traits stem from low self-esteem. When you can't/won't get along with others it is usually because you are not happy - with yourself.
Amen bro i took a woman from another country back to USA after 4 years building HER UP putting my life on hold making her life perfect she had the nerve to tell me in the kitchen of MY HOME that i was "SETTING HER BACK" most SIMP men would have continued to die inside like Kevin said NOT ME. I kicked her out of my home. She filed for divorce i evaded the papers so she would rack up legal fees because i had a golden ticket. The ticket was i never applied for a marriage license/certificate in my state. Only marriage was done was in her country hahaha the case was dismissed and we have to divorce in her country but she already lost thousands of dollars in legal bills hahah. For any Bro's in Wisconsin NEVER GET MARRIED but if you did get married NEVER GET A MARRIAGE LICENSE here is the "WI Statue 765.05 " look it up guys GOOD LUCK
Yep. It's in the bible... A MAN SHOULD SLEEP ON A CORNER OF HIS ROOFTOP, WHICH IS BETTER THAN DWELLING IN A HOUSE WITH A QUARRELSOME WOMAN!!!!" she will cause CHAOS within the house...!!!!😖😖😖
Simple definition of high value: she doesn't Need man but want man to share her life. She is growth focused, responsible, positive and supportive ( supports her man, other women ) and embraces being equal part with men. My mother used to make me feel gulty, shame for things that was not my fault, and for her issues. After awareness and realisations now i know where she stands wrt me.
But when I offer this to a man they always reject or just want sex or run to another girl so how do y’all want these things again when it’s not appreciated
Not only is man highly intelligent, but also highly educated, wise, & experienced. He worked really damn hard to achieve all of that, something modern women seem unable to either understand or do themselves. Either he's extremely astute in human behavior, or he studied a fair degree of psychology.
Yes.. when I saw this video 2 years ago, I began my exit strategy from my marriage of 17 years. I thought I was the crazy one but in reality, this man explains my marriage in 8 minutes
This doesn’t apply in all situations, because I was with a man that I uplifted and treated like royalty. I saw him as a partner and never asked for anything. Was just happy to have him in my life. BUT he took my kindness and tried to manipulate me, shame me and mistreat me. When I called him out on his BS, now I’m the “low value” because I “shamed” him?.. so expecting a man to take accountability for his own actions is bad?… all these rules are really confusing and don’t touch on all situations. A woman needs to respect herself enough to stand up to a man who is doing her wrong. Stand up and walk out if he refuses to take accountability, or am I wrong?
@@2smoothpopt.v681 the 2nd side is he is a player. I walked out. Much happier now with a good man. You’ll never be enough for a greedy, ungrateful man. He’s not even enough for himself. Lesson learned, and now I’m happy 😃. God definitely hears #grateful
I’m coming back to all my old comments to be a testament that good men and good women do exist. And when we find each other it’s pure magic. Don’t be jaded by the past hurts. True love is out there. I have a man so good I thank God for him everyday. And I am thankful for the lessons of my past because now I can pour even more love and admiration into this man.
I totally agree. Thing is, I rarely use these in my arguments. But I do live with a man that does this to me all the time.. the SIGNs are not only female tactics. #fact
Rest Up KS, This is Spot On Game Fellas. I appreciate how this Man had the courage to Expose the BS that a lot of Females been Running 4 years ! A lot of Simps have been allowing them to get away with this SIGN Language as well.
Yeah back in the day we used to call this "Negging" short for being negative or deliberately putting down your potential partner emotionally and psychologically before you make your move on them. It is an extremely dangerous and low yield technique I don't recommend it. If you want to get someone on your side, get inside their head and make them love you the best technique I have found is called the "deep dive" technique. It is basically when you attempt to get the person to talk about the things, people, or events that are most important to them to attempt to rapidly develop a deep connection to the other person as well as place yourself further and further into their circle till you reach or even become the center of their "inner circle".
(S) Shaming (I) Insulting (G) Guilting (N) Needing to be right (A) Abusive (L) Lacking empathy From the person who birthed me and my ex wife. I wish I could have found you many years. You would have saved me a lot of grief. I had to leave but I am at peace.
You explained that ❤ hit it right on spot. The thing is my husband is the one that shamed me while I continue to give praise him. He is always saying some ill stuff so this video is for him to. Each one teach one! God bless you!
People need to learn the difference between Cosmo tier "he doesn't let me use his credit card so he's abusive and narcissistic" kind of complete bullshit, and the actually clinically significant pathologies in people in an objective sense. Male or female. 1-4% of people are psychopaths allegedly, if you count NPD and sociopathic personalities it's surely at least 1/20 men and women are almost incurably toxic and sick. That's not even counting Borderline, schizophrenia, bipolar, I mean just the straight up antisocial personalities that are deeply abusive. I can't remember that Borderline is Cluster B or not, but it's present in male as well as female though culturally more often attributed to women. I think if people understood psychology better they'd have better ability in interpersonal relations and better self awareness. Some people just need hard boundaries.
Thanks Kevin for helping people understand the value of life! Woman ask you’re mom or grandma how she kept him for 40+ years or how she lost husband in less then one!! You might learn a thing or two from your ancestors.
Been there, madly in love with a gorgeous woman that was insecure but wanted to be respected as a feminist! After going to a club because my job was shut down early, I arrived 4 hours early and saw her cuddled up with some guy she just met! Opened my eyes and realized she could not be trusted and she was always finding ways to insult me! Killed me to leave her and my daughter but if I stayed I was either going to go to die! Got back with her a year later and it was even worse! Took me a while to get back on my feet, but I learned, be patient, hold something back, and do not reveal your weaknesses, because they are emotional children, and cannot resist playing with fire!
This! I walked away from four daughters and a very sneaky, evil wife. It’s killing me because I tried to stay, but she doesn’t respect me. To the point my daughters don’t even take me serious. I’m tired, but this loneliness is so uncomfortable. It’s been only 3 days. I left and went back before and it was worse. I have to stay away
I hope both of you fellers left your shitty situations for good. Y'all talking about being lonely... try being lonely in a house full of people. Whatever does not serve you should be left behind.
I am not a fan of Kevin Samuels, at all. But I will say that I found this video to be very helpful. I realize that I need to pump the breaks on shaming and insulting men that I date and focus more on uplifting them. I’ve just met someone new; this is perfect timing.
Exactly! I get soo frustrated ppl want to argue then can’t keep focused on the subject and finally bring up past issues and bloat the truth just to win. Who cares about that? I would love to be allowed to be me as I allow you. It’s ok to not have the same opinion and if there’s a miscommunication, talk to find an answer or solution to the issue and get on with your day. It seems too many Karen’s and Ken’s are around anymore. All yelling and pushing their selfishness on others. Ugh
Your thoughts are refreshing. I lived with, her mishearing what I said and thinking me simply to be incorrect, would eviscerate me into tiny pieces. When I finally got her to "listen" she would angrily tell me she wasn't going to apologize for all the mean, nasty, hurtful things she said about me because "I said those things when I thought I was right, and I'm not going to apologize when I'm right!"
You just explained my ex-wife perfectly. Every one of those 4 traits was her. The whole time, I believed that I was supposed "handle her". And when I "could not handle her " she let me know with every one of those tactics. And in the end, at the divorce, which she initiated,.. It was all my fault. I did that for 15 years. I'm 37 now and just over the past 2 years have been taking in this knowledge (red pill I suppose). And let me just say it eye opening. Although it has still been tough out there. I have scored a few times since the divorce. But no joke, things are weird for sure.
Once I . Have a son I’m going to collect all Mr Samuels video and show him this was a great man and will make sure he know the principles he talk about
I remember telling the woman so many times if I have to sit there and argue with her all the time and go through the same things talk about that it could cause me one day to die. And I would rather leave them to die because of stress, it’s a shame some people get to that point even when you’re taking care of them. it was funny how she contacted me from various numbers just to tell me how she doesn’t have a phone because I cut it off temporarily after she left. I told her I was not going to support a woman who doesn’t even love me nor doesn’t even like me through her actions.
Bruh, I'm from France 🇨🇵 and you said it all :"even if you take care of them". That's being ungrateful and it's an heart breaker to deal with... c'est incroyable d'être comme ça ! Smh 🤦🏾
Gone but never forgotten. What not even the most toxic and delusion of women could ever do, is kill a legacy. No matter how much shade they throw on Kevin Samuels' name and memory, his message will forever ring true and will continue to hold up a mirror and reflect the ugliness which characterises the modern woman, right back at them. And there's nothing they can do about that.
Remember the I Love Lucy episode in which Ricky tried to have the last word? No matter how he tried to get her to STF up….she ALWAYS had another comment.
Okay my bro...I've been through some adversity in life i.e. soldier 2 time uni student divorced of 10 yrs with no kids and had to slowly progress up that hill and listen good and well mate.... It's good to vent and let this energy out of your system but the self deprivation and your "defeatist" mindset is EXACTLY what's holding you back. "The warrior that wins the fight SEES his victory before the battle has started"- Myamoto Musashi. Apply yourself...read, study learn, improve, one step in front of the other...every small victory is a thirst quenching of energy that no one can possess but YOU. STOP TALKING AND START DOING MATE! Conquer yourself and you will conquer your FEARS. Nuff said brother. Be well, stay up, never surrender. 🤘⚡👊🧠🎸🦇🇺🇸
4 Signs of a LVM 1. Blame everybody for the negatives in their life's but themselves 2. Think the world owes you something for being born . 3. A woman has to provide and protect for you. 4. You have 2 baby mommas or more.
I'm grateful for this. He's actually describing the internal posture of a woman's value by how they interacted with other's. I love this. This helps me to properly differentiate myself from those who intentionally hurt others to feel superior. Mr. Samuel is speaking actual biblical facts.
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Us men don't tolerate bitches at all we hit and quit 🤣🤣🤣
How can I get a hold of you all privately and talk with you cuz I have some things I would like to talk about to get off my chest and to get it under standing a better understanding on things
he stole talking points from tommy sotomayor
1. Shame
2. Insults
3. Guilt trip
4. The need to be right
all forms are subtle emotional manipulation. If you don't do what they want you to do, you're a bad person.
My mom has all these qualities
I only knew of this man after he passed...I'm a Jamaican woman and I find him to be on point almost all the time..
I know someone with all these qualities as well as symptoms of covert narcissism which is the worst form!
@@MrCobain89sounds like me saying this. I grew up in insults, shame, guilt trips, need to be right, physical abuse etc. The classic one was when she literally said to my face, “Your ex has found a very good somebody”😂😂😂. And my ex was actually a second wife. The abuse only ended when she died last year when I was 54!
@@MrCobain89 😂girl
Add this one to this list: She never admits to her mistakes. Only recognises mistakes by others.
that's an NPD on top
That's my roommate
Uugh....the need to be right..
Daammnnn you right!
True, true, and true. No accountability once so ever. Those are actually signs of a narcissist.
1: facebook queen
2: hyper sensitivity, needing approval
3: manipulating
4: lack of empathy
Her name is Tonya Gordon aka Betty Boop.
Yeah a socialpath plain and simple
Sounds like narcissism.
Outside validation, need to be right at all cost, shame and guilt, gaslighting
When was the last time you had a woman, including your mother, apologize to you sincerely. I’m 71 and I’ve never had a sincere apology from a woman no matter how egregious the offense. Talk about heartbreaking.
Yessir, that is so true! Their ego/pride is much higher than men when it comes to correcting their behavior.
they’ll apologize about some pointless ,insignificant stuff but not when they do wrong
Damn
"Win the argument lose the man" HEAVY.
Win the battle, lose the war.
💯
@@AngelTechnowin the battle lose the whore
It's definitely a sign that this man spoke facts when you have thousands of woman celebrate when he died..long live Kevin Samuels!!!
A hit dog will holler....
Cali in the building, The Celebs was disgusting
He got called everything but a liar 😂😂😂
Really? I’m just finding out aboit this man and his videos recently...
Ikr they hate the truth
Many “Christian” women will say they need a man who knows how to handle them. If you read your Bible your role as a wife is not to be handled but to be a help. If I have to “handle you amongst all my other responsibilities and duties as a man than you’re not worth handling. I have enough of a responsibility when aiming to guide and direct our family in the right direction and if I need to make time to handle you like some bill then you’re adding to my problems and not helping to solve them.
Say it!
Damn!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
You handle criminals and rabid animal!
Bingo!
Who the hell wants to handle anyone? I want positive memorable interactions! These women must evolve in their idea of men and get off the TV programming!
When I discovered him last year, I was overweight, miserable and a drunk.
He motivated me enough to lose the weight, quit drinking and start acting like a lady. Now I have an amazing boyfriend who is planning our future.
I wouldn’t be where I am without his wise words
Respect ✊🏾
❤
I'm glad to hear that
Keeper
Good for you and good luck to you.
Looking good, smelling good, having good income, owning her home, driving a nice car, and some of them are as rotten as six-day-old fish
Honestly… 💯 could be both genders too smh & how ironic to think because they have all those other things that may appear good & “high quality” but truly and deeply thier true colors show it’s only a matter of time 🤷🏻♀️
Very true!!!! Never judge a book by its cover
"Many of your mothers are low value...there's a reason your dad ain't around" 🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯
Many men are low value that’s why women stand up and take care of the home!
the fact that he chose a low value woman mean he is also a low value man.
Yeah, smart men get the hell outta there!!!!!😎
@@doctordef324 smart women will tell a wannabe man to get the hell on!!!😂
I’m glad my dad took me with him
I didn’t really know who Kevin Samuels was until after he died. I googled him and watched some of his videos to get a sense as to why so many women were celebrating his death. I must say that I wish he were still here. Although some of the things that he said stung a bit he was telling the truth about many of the things that he said. Women were only offended because they felt attacked, but as old country people say, “A hit dog will holler.” When you know better and want to do better you welcome honesty even if it hurts.
True
So true. It's amazing how many women would call in to his show which just tells you that women truly want that honest, male assessment of themselves. Not another women's advice but a real, secure man's advice. And, boy, did he deliver
Precious comment. Be blessed ! From France très chère 🇨🇵
Very well said. Very intelligent 🏆
He was a misogynist & a lots of women were peeing on his grave lol!😂😂😂😂😂
The need to be right does not matter.
The need to be righteous does matter.
Wise words, amigo.
Precisely that part!!!
(S) Shame
(I) Insult/s
(G) Guilt
(N) Need to be right
Lies
Manipulates
Betrays
Never apologizes
Narcissistic
Destructive
Dangerous
Shameless
Damn that's a smart slogan 😮
Brilliant. Watch the "SIGNS" fellas.
It's so damn hard finding a good women
@@javontaebyrd6464
When they have been run through, they can't pair bond any longer. They will always belong to the street. Just your turn till it's somebody else's.
They love what you can offer them, not you. Hypergammy. Always looking for a better deal till they hit the wall. Then they settle if they can with a simp or get a cat.
If you're an adult you can admit you made a mistake and apologize. That right there proves you're high value
My mother is 76 years old she told me that everything this man was saying was the truth, didn't feel good to hear but it was true
"You don't need to be right, relax in being correct" this is the best ever!!! So many people don't even understand the difference. Thank you Kevin!!!
I remember how in physics class, I argued something that I'd read in the book minutes before class started (I was a bit behind in my reading). The professor and good student disagreed. I let it go, knowing that I was right. I knew then that I'd grown as a person; I knew what I'd seen and read, and that was enough for me... :)
I think he says "Relax and be *incorrect* " (6:25). But I think your quote is more profound/helpful
Woman here 🙋🏾♀These are all very true. My aunt is a successful retired VP from Coca-Cola. She does all of these things. Success and money means absolutely nothing when your heart is dark. She has used these thing to emotionally abuse me since I started college 23 years ago. People tend to listen to everything she says even if its false narratives. Also, she claim to foster woman empowerment which is complete bs. She is the successful, educated, wealthy, mean, cold hearted black woman. In my experience, she is the perfect example of a Low Value Woman.
Is she married? Kids? How are your cousins doing?
I swear I think I know exactly who u are talking about smh DK?
I was a tax write - I mean - intern for her
I think I know of her
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God, I miss this man.
THIS is the father figure young men
today desperately need.
Yes I love this man. SALUTE Sir from a CBVet
I'd rather get John Witherspoon back over this POS
I grew up with men and my father but I can say this man saved my life in so many ways.
Facts
The man who divorced his high school sweetheart after one year, leaving her with a baby to raise? Right. Just the kind of "man" needed as a father figure.
My sisters try to shame me all the time, but I don’t respond. I just walk away in silence. Now, I just stay away from them and pray for them.
Are you guys under 25?
@@jackjack4412 Hell to the No,No. I am 75, that why I don’t respond to my sisters and their jealousy attitude.
@@williesmith3466 damn..... I am sorry to hear they are still like that.
🤦🏾♂️ RIP KING 🤴🏾 YOU WAS THE TRUTH!!!!!!This makes sense now that the relationship is over years later WOW!!!!! 💯✊🏾
I read something that resonated with regard to this topic.
“How miserable do I need to be for you to be happy?”
I often wonder if the system erased this man for speaking to and empowering men as he did.
I believe so... because it's an agenda against true masculinity
He was taken out. It was obvious
100 % think about this lets go back 1000' years what to ALL CONQUERS do first ? They take out the MASCULINE MALE first and the rest of the sheep will follow. There is NOTHING WRONG with men. Think about this guys over 1000 years and beyond WE ALL want the SAME. We want a good mother, good cook, NO DRAMA, with NO SMART MOUTH. We never changed WOMAN HAVE. All done by the communist that want to rule America. Some great leaders once said our enemies will not destroy us by tanks they will destroy us from within ...".ITS ALL PLANNED " Let these woman suffer the consequences for not letting us take the lead let them be ALONE WITH A CAT hahaha. All you guys out there reading this God has blessed you. Why you think it is written in the bible about MEN always taking the lead it is God's will. Boss Babes will parish over time its God will. Build yourself up guys woman today are NOT WORTH IT
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All they did was create at least 10 Millon of him and made him a martyr
My ex narcissist was a very low value men. He was all of this and more. He would shame people for no reason just to subtly put them down. Now that I’ve learnt about narcissism I spot low value people from far away.
I think that the “narcissist theories” are destroying your minds. You are playing the victims game just to shame, insult, guilt and need to be right.
The word “narcissist” has been thrown around to the point it no longer has much meaning. Every time someone has a disagreement with another person, he is suddenly labeled a “narcissist,” and of course the person making the accusation labels themself a victim and expert on narcissistic survivor.
99% of these women nowadays are totally common in society 😅
Don’t you mean westernized females.
@@jqight740 yep indeed especially ellaine flor flores my friend though she knew her beloved ryan is a married guy with kids but she rather be with him than a single guy 😂😂😂 even filipinas are 99% westernized
U mean men?
@@Nixem444 women mostly
@@wilkinstokarev5705 men too but ok
Emotional scars really do go on forever!! 😞. You sir are a scholar & a gentleman
Been called everything in the book but somehow I was still the bad guy... I say Let's talk like adults and she takes it as me saying she's not an adult. Then the red herring and the conversation is now about how I'm talking not what I'm saying
Yeah I don't understand it either , like women tend to always go to the other side of the statement or question , they don't see the bigger picture , they always play defensive by completely taking down the question in another manner , it often shocks me how they interpret the questions so i usually ask very firm and decisive questions and i stick to the question no matter what , no matter what they say i don't go defensive i play my question on the interpretation i meant and not what she interpreted it by , that's a key role and very exhausting too for me
@@karankapoor9707 I like how you explained that. 👌 A1
BrUh😂😂😂 You be spittn!
Brother Kev broke this down as much as this can possibly be broke down. Make a lot of sense to me! The knowledge still resonates.
Yeah but if you Read it's several out there that don't want Kev to talk about the EVE descendents...
I can’t stop watching that perpetual motion thing…
Same here 😄
Im staring at it.
What you were trying to teach us reached a lot of Us . I appreciate what you did for me . RIP Mr. Samuels .
He dead???? My goodness
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All four of these traits stem from low self-esteem. When you can't/won't get along with others it is usually because you are not happy - with yourself.
My "woman" left the room @1:07. She can't handle the truth.
Hope she can re watch its really helpful
😂😂😂
Sounds like you have a decision to make.......
@@eugenedantzler4485 As soon as these investments mature. Boom!
😂😂😂
Man we lost a true one in Kevin. He was helping the world and changing lives and those with the issues were the ones pressed.
"No need to be right...just, relax at being correct t!" I LOVE this Man!
People will say Trump was right, well **Kevin Samuels WAS RIGHT!!!** 👏🏽🤣👏🏽🤣👏🏽🤣
Damn, the ending of this is very powerful..we as Men want our Peace..or we’re going to leave.
Amen bro i took a woman from another country back to USA after 4 years building HER UP putting my life on hold making her life perfect she had the nerve to tell me in the kitchen of MY HOME that i was "SETTING HER BACK" most SIMP men would have continued to die inside like Kevin said NOT ME. I kicked her out of my home. She filed for divorce i evaded the papers so she would rack up legal fees because i had a golden ticket. The ticket was i never applied for a marriage license/certificate in my state. Only marriage was done was in her country hahaha the case was dismissed and we have to divorce in her country but she already lost thousands of dollars in legal bills hahah. For any Bro's in Wisconsin NEVER GET MARRIED but if you did get married NEVER GET A MARRIAGE LICENSE here is the "WI Statue 765.05 " look it up guys GOOD LUCK
Yep. It's in the bible... A MAN SHOULD SLEEP ON A CORNER OF HIS ROOFTOP, WHICH IS BETTER THAN DWELLING IN A HOUSE WITH A QUARRELSOME WOMAN!!!!" she will cause CHAOS within the house...!!!!😖😖😖
Simple definition of high value: she doesn't Need man but want man to share her life. She is growth focused, responsible, positive and supportive ( supports her man, other women ) and embraces being equal part with men.
My mother used to make me feel gulty, shame for things that was not my fault, and for her issues. After awareness and realisations now i know where she stands wrt me.
But when I offer this to a man they always reject or just want sex or run to another girl so how do y’all want these things again when it’s not appreciated
Losing Samuel was an enormous lost for MANkind RIP BOSS
RIP! This man took the time to evaluate!
I found this guy's Channel about a week ago I'm very sorry to hear that he passed away rest in peace
Not only is man highly intelligent, but also highly educated, wise, & experienced. He worked really damn hard to achieve all of that, something modern women seem unable to either understand or do themselves. Either he's extremely astute in human behavior, or he studied a fair degree of psychology.
There are more low value, bringing nothing to the table, always take take men out there today; it works both ways!…😢😢😅😅
I wish I had him as an uncle or older brother. I've learnt so much and like every other person I didn't agree with everything.
@@nomakosazanabengu8002 he’s not making sense!!
he dead. He died with a prostitute and red bull. Stop it
Wish I’d found Kevin in my 40’s. A Tru OG.
Feel you bro
A woman that’ll mock you cause ya mom fat and black is a woman that knows you a good person so she need to find something to make you feel bad about.
Things I wish I knew about 15 years ago. He described my baby mother to a tee. RIP Brother, you were wise beyond your years!
Yes.. when I saw this video 2 years ago, I began my exit strategy from my marriage of 17 years. I thought I was the crazy one but in reality, this man explains my marriage in 8 minutes
@@mblunt00 Damn bro, that’s crazy but happy you made it out though 👏👏👏👏 W
This doesn’t apply in all situations, because I was with a man that I uplifted and treated like royalty. I saw him as a partner and never asked for anything. Was just happy to have him in my life. BUT he took my kindness and tried to manipulate me, shame me and mistreat me. When I called him out on his BS, now I’m the “low value” because I “shamed” him?.. so expecting a man to take accountability for his own actions is bad?… all these rules are really confusing and don’t touch on all situations. A woman needs to respect herself enough to stand up to a man who is doing her wrong. Stand up and walk out if he refuses to take accountability, or am I wrong?
@@2smoothpopt.v681 the 2nd side is he is a player. I walked out. Much happier now with a good man. You’ll never be enough for a greedy, ungrateful man. He’s not even enough for himself. Lesson learned, and now I’m happy 😃. God definitely hears #grateful
I’m coming back to all my old comments to be a testament that good men and good women do exist. And when we find each other it’s pure magic. Don’t be jaded by the past hurts. True love is out there. I have a man so good I thank God for him everyday. And I am thankful for the lessons of my past because now I can pour even more love and admiration into this man.
R.I.P Kevin. Thanks for the knowledge you have given us men.
The matrix got him so he couldn't keep talking
I miss this man so much. We need him more than ever.
THIS! THIS! & THIS!!! he couldn't be more spot on!
As a BM I can really appreciate this wisdom I will keep this in my mind 🔥🔥🔥🔥
I’m so thankful for this content. So much valu here.
I totally agree. Thing is, I rarely use these in my arguments. But I do live with a man that does this to me all the time.. the SIGNs are not only female tactics. #fact
This is an awesome tutorial. I wish I had this information earlier in life. He hits the nail on the head.
Rest Up KS, This is Spot On Game Fellas. I appreciate how this Man had the courage to Expose the BS that a lot of Females been Running 4 years ! A lot of Simps have been allowing them to get away with this SIGN Language as well.
💯💯💯💯💯💯🎯 You will be missed!!! They hated you for telling the truth 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯🎯
The shaming is a dirty tactical move.
Yeah back in the day we used to call this "Negging" short for being negative or deliberately putting down your potential partner emotionally and psychologically before you make your move on them. It is an extremely dangerous and low yield technique I don't recommend it. If you want to get someone on your side, get inside their head and make them love you the best technique I have found is called the "deep dive" technique. It is basically when you attempt to get the person to talk about the things, people, or events that are most important to them to attempt to rapidly develop a deep connection to the other person as well as place yourself further and further into their circle till you reach or even become the center of their "inner circle".
(S) Shaming
(I) Insulting
(G) Guilting
(N) Needing to be right
(A) Abusive
(L) Lacking empathy
From the person who birthed me and my ex wife.
I wish I could have found you many years. You would have saved me a lot of grief. I had to leave but I am at peace.
Thank you god for giving us this man and his works rest up king
Everybody should hear this!! We need to check ourselves to make sure we’re not being toxic. Don’t make someone else tell you you’re toxic AF
You just described both of my ex-wives and another ex-fiance.
You don't choose well.
dude believed all the "customs" lol
@@jeffs7915 😅 not necessarily, some know how to fake the funk and manipulate. Knowledge is power
You probably the problem
Well said sir. This saved me from many toxic monsters, I mean women.
You explained that ❤ hit it right on spot. The thing is my husband is the one that shamed me while I continue to give praise him. He is always saying some ill stuff so this video is for him to.
Each one teach one! God bless you!
People need to learn the difference between Cosmo tier "he doesn't let me use his credit card so he's abusive and narcissistic" kind of complete bullshit, and the actually clinically significant pathologies in people in an objective sense. Male or female. 1-4% of people are psychopaths allegedly, if you count NPD and sociopathic personalities it's surely at least 1/20 men and women are almost incurably toxic and sick. That's not even counting Borderline, schizophrenia, bipolar, I mean just the straight up antisocial personalities that are deeply abusive. I can't remember that Borderline is Cluster B or not, but it's present in male as well as female though culturally more often attributed to women.
I think if people understood psychology better they'd have better ability in interpersonal relations and better self awareness. Some people just need hard boundaries.
Your kind needs to take a Knapp because you probably feel he shouldn't talk about The EVEs of the World
Doubtful, projector.
@@westa1762 Just by your comment, I would say you must be a low-value "man."
Thanks Kevin for helping people understand the value of life!
Woman ask you’re mom or grandma how she kept him for 40+ years or how she lost husband in less then one!! You might learn a thing or two from your ancestors.
Kevin you're a Great asset to MANKIND.
Thank you so much ...
God Bless You Kevin.
Peace Understanding And Love 💙
Right! One using shame when they do not have a good argument
This never would have been a topic in 1980.
The truth never runs from a lie. But a lie will always run from the truth. 😊
Im just now learnings about this man. Nothing but facts. Can't wait to learn more from him.
He's is perfectly right. Everything he said is true!
If she’s a single mother on any form of government assistance.
Been there, madly in love with a gorgeous woman that was insecure but wanted to be respected as a feminist! After going to a club because my job was shut down early, I arrived 4 hours early and saw her cuddled up with some guy she just met! Opened my eyes and realized she could not be trusted and she was always finding ways to insult me! Killed me to leave her and my daughter but if I stayed I was either going to go to die! Got back with her a year later and it was even worse! Took me a while to get back on my feet, but I learned, be patient, hold something back, and do not reveal your weaknesses, because they are emotional children, and cannot resist playing with fire!
This! I walked away from four daughters and a very sneaky, evil wife. It’s killing me because I tried to stay, but she doesn’t respect me. To the point my daughters don’t even take me serious. I’m tired, but this loneliness is so uncomfortable. It’s been only 3 days. I left and went back before and it was worse. I have to stay away
I hope both of you fellers left your shitty situations for good. Y'all talking about being lonely... try being lonely in a house full of people.
Whatever does not serve you should be left behind.
I wish this man was still here serving his purpose❤RIP
I am not a fan of Kevin Samuels, at all. But I will say that I found this video to be very helpful. I realize that I need to pump the breaks on shaming and insulting men that I date and focus more on uplifting them. I’ve just met someone new; this is perfect timing.
Exactly! I get soo frustrated ppl want to argue then can’t keep focused on the subject and finally bring up past issues and bloat the truth just to win. Who cares about that? I would love to be allowed to be me as I allow you. It’s ok to not have the same opinion and if there’s a miscommunication, talk to find an answer or solution to the issue and get on with your day. It seems too many Karen’s and Ken’s are around anymore. All yelling and pushing their selfishness on others. Ugh
👍😂
Your thoughts are refreshing.
I lived with, her mishearing what I said and thinking me simply to be incorrect, would eviscerate me into tiny pieces. When I finally got her to "listen" she would angrily tell me she wasn't going to apologize for all the mean, nasty, hurtful things she said about me because "I said those things when I thought I was right, and I'm not going to apologize when I'm right!"
I don’t disagree with what he’s saying nor some of the comments. Stay blessed, kings.
You just explained my ex-wife perfectly. Every one of those 4 traits was her. The whole time, I believed that I was supposed "handle her". And when I "could not handle her " she let me know with every one of those tactics. And in the end, at the divorce, which she initiated,.. It was all my fault. I did that for 15 years. I'm 37 now and just over the past 2 years have been taking in this knowledge (red pill I suppose). And let me just say it eye opening. Although it has still been tough out there. I have scored a few times since the divorce. But no joke, things are weird for sure.
Once I . Have a son I’m going to collect all Mr Samuels video and show him this was a great man and will make sure he know the principles he talk about
Absolutely Spot On! What a Legend
You can call such women as miserable women. They do this in friendships or to anyone they see is doing better than them.
I remember telling the woman so many times if I have to sit there and argue with her all the time and go through the same things talk about that it could cause me one day to die. And I would rather leave them to die because of stress, it’s a shame some people get to that point even when you’re taking care of them. it was funny how she contacted me from various numbers just to tell me how she doesn’t have a phone because I cut it off temporarily after she left. I told her I was not going to support a woman who doesn’t even love me nor doesn’t even like me through her actions.
Bruh, I'm from France 🇨🇵 and you said it all :"even if you take care of them". That's being ungrateful and it's an heart breaker to deal with... c'est incroyable d'être comme ça ! Smh 🤦🏾
He spoken nothing but the truth 💯
Man this guy is on point
The more I review his videos, the more I respect his work.
Gone but never forgotten. What not even the most toxic and delusion of women could ever do, is kill a legacy. No matter how much shade they throw on Kevin Samuels' name and memory, his message will forever ring true and will continue to hold up a mirror and reflect the ugliness which characterises the modern woman, right back at them. And there's nothing they can do about that.
This video essay makes me want to review my behavior towards others, thank you for offering your thoughts
The exact same thing can be said about other Black Men who put pressure on you or use shame to get you to choose black women over other women.
Kevin is right on this. I hate saying this but I experience it through my mom. She shames me, insult, guilts me & always needs to be right.
this brother always drop Facts
This is incredibly true for both women and men. I have seen it for women and men.
There are men that do this with other men too..
Umar Johnson?
1. His mama
2. His sister
3. The one he made a baby mama
4. His auntie
Remember the I Love Lucy episode in which Ricky tried to have the last word? No matter how he tried to get her to STF up….she ALWAYS had another comment.
Every black woman, at minimum, has two of these traits.
You damn right(Shack voice)😢😢😢😢
Okay my bro...I've been through some adversity in life i.e. soldier 2 time uni student divorced of 10 yrs with no kids and had to slowly progress up that hill and listen good and well mate....
It's good to vent and let this energy out of your system but the self deprivation and your "defeatist" mindset is EXACTLY what's holding you back.
"The warrior that wins the fight SEES his victory before the battle has started"- Myamoto Musashi.
Apply yourself...read, study learn, improve, one step in front of the other...every small victory is a thirst quenching of energy that no one can possess but YOU.
STOP TALKING AND START DOING MATE!
Conquer yourself and you will conquer your FEARS.
Nuff said brother.
Be well, stay up, never surrender.
🤘⚡👊🧠🎸🦇🇺🇸
4 Signs of a LVM 1. Blame everybody for the negatives in their life's but themselves 2. Think the world owes you something for being born . 3. A woman has to provide and protect for you. 4. You have 2 baby mommas or more.
I'm grateful for this. He's actually describing the internal posture of a woman's value by how they interacted with other's. I love this. This helps me to properly differentiate myself from those who intentionally hurt others to feel superior. Mr. Samuel is speaking actual biblical facts.
Men do the same exact thing. Kevin was notorious for doing all of these.
We talking about women. You just have to be right all the time huh
@@fxxnxx2775 No, the qualities KS is describing are found in both males and females.
He wasnt shaming tho, he was putting them back into reality
Low Value Woman lol
Need to be right is a trigger from feeling "cornered" in some way in the past. IT triggers aggression hence the masculine behavior to build a wall.
I even know some guys that act like low value women
You hit nail on the head brother 😂!!