Why Are Men Intimidated By Women Like Me? ©
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Men are not intimidated. They just don’t want you. It’s just the true
Exactly, Madam!
lol
They confuse men avoiding ,aggressive,argumentative, masculine and insufferable women with being ”intimidated”
I’m glad a woman said this. There is absolutely nothing a man is intimidated by from a woman.
Men dont want to fake this high level lifestyle like she does.. They just wanna be what they actually are... middle class regular ppl
Men don't want a " baddie". They want a Lady.
@Me and My Girlfriend Are Rich Shouldn't you be busy sweatin your gf that you can't stop telling everyone about instead of hatin on dudes and puttin the cape on for these delusional chicks like a b**** made punk
@Me and My Girlfriend Are Rich hating for no reason
@@brownpapi2634 I think it's his rich girlfriend that's commenting
@Me and My Girlfriend Are Rich bot
Baddie stand for waste of time
the majority of these women who call in wouldn't even make a good roommate,forget about a wife.
This is the first interview I see where the lady is poised, open to learn, not arguing. She was so open minded and calm. I hope she finds love, she really deserves it.
Nobody deserves anything.
If she can really listen she may have a chance
@@davidsellers3639 Agreed!
I concur sis ❤some women just run their mouths wayyyy too much
@@alexismclean7667 that's a shame. KS taught us so much he wanted the best for the Black community
No matter what you think of this lady, her mature response to the feedback is commendable
It's too bad she gotta get the wake up call at 36
She seems like a good but missguided person to me. A shame she had been in a abusive relationship. If that one was good instead she could have been a llot better of
Until she gets in a relationship
Then it takes about 3 months for the beautiful playful sexy nature to dissolve and she becomes Ms. WHEELER. The nut cracking demon priestess sapping upon the life force of the pheasant snared in her clutches.
@@violent_bebop9687 its never too late for a wake up call
Mature, until it comes down to it. What she says isn't what she does. Women speak what they would like to like, but not what they actually like. Some unemployed bozo in sock and flip flops will get it in all the same.
Don't give her any flack she sat and listened and took his advice.
Tons of respect to this young lady
>young lady
>36 years old, nearing the end of her fertility window.
Pick one.
@@blokeabouttown2490 Young lady
Don't tell people what to do
She is 36 noting in her vocabulary has to do with young
@@blokeabouttown2490 She looks pretty attractive tho in her defense
She was patient, open minded, and honest. She has the potential to make a great wife.
She is the epitome of You never pass up a time to be quiet and listen and learn … she will prosper
I think women confuse "intimidated" with "not putting up with their shit" and by saying intimidated it makes them feel better about being a shitty candidate.
💯🎯
Women live in denial.
Exactly. So they call it toxic.
Yes sir
Intimidated by my 180+lbs, because he probably has a small meat and cant handle a thick queen.
Intimidated by the lingerie i wear to the gas station, because he is insecure and thinks i will find someone better.
Intimidated by my attitude because hes not a king and isnt strong enough to date an independent queen.
She is really here to LEARN. NOT TO ARUGE. applaud to her. 👏👏👏👏👏
Yes, she’s very mature ❤️
And apparently you didn’t learn how to spell “argue.” You women who seek validation from men show nothing but the fact that your self esteem is in hell. Real men don’t sit online and talk down on women the way this black male does.
I'm wondering if her financial understanding kicked in when Kevin hit on numerical facts. She seem to pause, register and acknowledge in an instant. She is far from any body's fool.
She's way too delusional.
650K 😂😂😂🤣😂😂😂😂😂🤣😂😂
She probably makes less than 20k a year....
I don't trust women who say "he's intimidated by me"
Why would a man would be intimidated by a woman?
Good conversation
Someone will DEFINITELY Choose Her... This woman is POLISHED, Non Combative, Listens very well and accepts the Insight and Gems that Kevin Is Giving. Great Conversation
Nope she’s in fantasy land. She watches too much tv
Right. No, this woman is just good at interviews, that's what she's trained for. She knows how to articulate things that make her appear better. She's good at making resumes, but when she's hired, you realise it was just lip service.
@@joschmo4497 100% correct my friend. It is amazing to me the number of comments from males on this video that were fooled by the presentation this woman gave on this call. It just shows the number of Simps out there still in this world that are ignorant of the nature and the duplicitousness of the woman.
What is her Facebook name or Instagram
@JDunk-tg5vr Why don't you choose her or someone just like her if you think she's so great?
Thought not. 😐
This woman falls into the 1 percent of woman that hold themselves accountable and stay composed during criticism, she seems like great person
Guys who are serious about relationships will most definitely pick an average woman with traditional values over a “baddie.” In fact the more sweet, peaceful, feminine in general, the more attractive she becomes. So relatively speaking, she becomes a high rank. Although we won’t even view it that way. It’ll be as simple as “man she’s amazing.”
Factsss
Yeah, things are changing. Normal girl with good values is becoming the new supermodel.
As they say, a pleasant seven is better than a bitchy ten.
Amen
I smashed the 10s and married the average women not affected by modern women bs. She doesn't ask for anything, and I go out of my way to give her what she wants because she doesn't ask, or demand.
Men aren’t intimidated, they just don’t want the type that’s thinks they are intimidating.
Women love spreading that narrative
Exactly it's not feminine or attractive
She was dressing like she was still in the market and men that are trying to take them seriously aren’t for that so they just shame said men with “I intimidate them” or “they’re insecure”.
Can I have this? Lol.
men of value are always wary, around HUSTLERS, phonies and chameleons.
they're always looking for weakness.
an open window.
a faulty lock.
a loose thread.
a bad habit.
when they find it, they WILL Exploit it.
the crook's ego would like to think of it as 'intimidation'.
let them think whatever they want.
maintain your safe distance.
be prepared to engage your Security Protocols, at the first REAL sign of danger and eject the Invader/Interloper/Intruder.
Bloated expectations, but finally a woman without a bloated ego.
I am 37 single male with no kids, never married. I would give this woman a chance, she is intelligent and open minded. I live in Houston as well. I am a business owner. I’m not rich but I am stable .
When you make 650k hit her up 😊
@@ObiWanShinobi_ If I make 650k and up im having multiple women
@@ObiWanShinobi_hahaha.
B@@musicplug1730 If I make 650K, I go buy a whole village in Thailand..😊
Do you smoke or drink?
This woman has great listening skills. I like people who seek advice and really listen, not argue with the person who is giving them advice. Respect to her.
I normally agree with Kevin on almost everything but the advice at end didnt make sense. From personally experience if your knowledgeable enough in something and put the work in it will work. I started my 2 YT channels in 2019 and 2020... I was studying YT for like 4 year prior watching everyone blow up and seeing how and I knew I would also by learning all the flaws and successes. When I started it was slow for a year and I was a dish washer.... even my girl left me for other reasons but made fun of the dream. I knew it would work tho and it went crazy in 2021 and now my first channel is 700k and this one i started uploading right after and now this one is at 140k. The chances of a YT channel blowing is is less then 1% but somehow I knew cus all the research and studying. Kevin said her company ain't gonna pop off but if you really know what your doing that 5% he said can go to like 70%... most ppl just dnt know what their doing or are lazy in most fields. I literally executed the exact plan I been planning for years and it worked. The first year I only had 1k subs so most ppl would just think it was a failure but I did that on purpose to build up a back catalog and then made a viral video and the past videos started to go viral with it and chain reacted to make me get 200k in 2months almost the exact way I seen other CZcamsrs do it
I love this man... how did he die?
Why epsteined?!? What did he do?!
Most people are grown and insecure and run away from their problems so that they can't take criticism they can't stand the fact that you're telling them what they did wrong even if you say it's for their own good they're stuck and are statistics you are to move away from those people because they'll forever stay there and be miserable by partying drinking drugs to run away to escape reality but they don't know that soon they'll get their reality check and all that running will soon catch up until they hit rock bottom , a good listener could be broke but are powerful people bc they have the ability to change they're aren't stagnant
She had to least listen because the alternative is to be alone
Guaranteed she treated that truck driver like he was “less than” or he was lucky. Then when he gets fed up, he is “insecure”.
What man says they are intimidated by the way their woman looks... unless he’s taking her to Wingstop and she’s dressing like she’s going to Nobu after the Grammy awards - 🥇🥈🥉
@Me and My Girlfriend Are Rich i think he simply thought up an example. That was a dumb reply to make.
Men staying away from Red flags is considered “insecurity”
@Me and My Girlfriend Are Rich so you wouldnt worry a woman who dresses up for wingstop like going to Nobu has serious mental issues?
@@cryptoscircus6880 😂😂😂😂
Binge watching. This man is (was) brilliant! I hope this channel stays online for a long time. The brutal insight and honesty are unparalleled.
It warms my heart to see that we still have a number of black women who are willing to open their minds to absorb information. This Woman is beautiful, she was quiet, she was listening, she never interruped or talked over Kevin she waited her turn to speak. More women need to learn self control over their feelings and their mouths. This Woman is a Jewel. 🙏❤😊
She’s old
"He was intimidated." No, Ma'am, men aren't intimidated by that. Men are exercising their freedom to walk away from red flags and not to tolerate cold or bullish behaviour. Rejection is something you will need to deal with.
She sounds super boring in a relationship. Like you would have to sign a contract just to get head. 🤦🏿♂️
Exactly!!!
It's a saying women use as a coping mechanism to deflect their undesirability on to men to make men seem like they're the issue. It's as if men have to just accept anything that comes with a woman and if they don't it's somehow the man's fault for being inadequate or not man enough for not being able to "handle" or by being too "intimidated". Men have preferences and find certain physical and personality characteristics desirable. If a woman doesn't fit that it's not him, it's her.
When i worked at a hospital for a short period of time, i avoided speaking to the large, loud chicks that added bonnets to their scrubs uniform (classy). I primarily focused on my work and helping people’s loved ones; but would sometimes speak briefly with the civilized women that worked there.
The classy bonnets made sure to harass me daily until i finally quit (and got them fired before christmas 😅). I audio recorded them on my phone while i went on a break, they were openly trying to call me gae just because i ignored them 90% of the time. There was an caucasian new guy that was a silent worker just like me, but they showed him respect. With me, its like they felt i was obligated to be their court jester and show em attention.
Sht was sad and pathetic how my “own kind” (supposedly), could be so destructive towards me. Nowadays i view these type of modern black cultured women as invisible ghosts. Nothing positive comes from em if you as a black man reject them.
A high-value man should feel lucky to get her 36-year-old womb and pay for housekeepers so she doesn’t have to work at all.
I gotta give her kudos. She stayed humble, Never interrupted and listened.
and kevin was patient and polite back. amazing how far some fucking curtesy will go these days.
Signs of how to learn
The average Truck Driver make 85k-100k a year, Owner Operators 120k-300k a year. I’m sure the trucker is making more money than her now. She said he complained about money. Something smell fishy here.
@@zabrill6473 I was thinking the same thing. I make $120,000 a year. But she said he was working at the port so he isn’t making as much as a OTR
Nothing humble about this lady lol
If every women is like this lovely sista, then this world would be a better place. Rare Gem!
We are in a time where we appraise an adult woman doing a minimal thing such as listening. Just insane!! Just think about that. 😅
I never mapped my marriage like this. My husband and I have been married for 36 years, both worked full time, raised two scientists, one is a medical doctor. We are now enjoying retirement. But have I never thought we would land on our feet successfully.
I can't help but root for this woman to succeed.
Why is she accepting such abuse.
@@francessmartin4716 She wants a rich husband. There are people who do all kinds of things for money.
I think if she’s a bit more realistic, realizes men don’t want baddies, and willing to do the housework/ childcare, she could probably find something close enough to what she wants to be really happy
Same !
@@francessmartin4716 she is affraid and reality is starting to sink in. She is desperate for gaining any new insights that may save her fantasy. And if not she knows she needs the wakeup call to prevent a complete collapse of her mind in the future when all hope is lost and she only then allowed herself to her reason.
This woman is definitely a rare one. Not argumentative at all and sat there & LISTENED. These other women need to pay attention to her poise and the way she carried herself
She doesn't care what he looks like as long as he makes money
@@firstactionhero true, very true
thats because she comes from educated background and dont let emotion control her
She is 36yrs old, I'd expect that....then the fact is she is 36yrs old. The wall is down and crumbled upon the ground....so time to settle with median income type guy and good luck. Sheesh!
But still too masculine.
This wise and humble woman took advantage of this session. She wasn't arguing with the teacher, but came to learn.
See this is how women need to come on any social platform. She's also very articulate and patient with the information she's getting.
3 minutes in and she's figuring out the power couple issue is a pipe dream...
It’s such a outliner type of dream. Like their are maybe 1 I can think and I don’t really think it’s one Beyoncé and Jay z
Power couple 2022. Man does 95% of the work, these ladies Facebook post about the business and "network" to his already existing friends for the remaining 5%.
@@HARwinsOUTagain lol 😂 man you are so right .
@@HARwinsOUTagain LMAO on point😂😂😂
@@HARwinsOUTagain literally
Im 42 years old, traveled the world, and i have yet to ever see/meet a woman that was “intimidating”. These women need to stop with that notion
“Intimidating” is a title they like to give themselves because it is easier to swallow than “shitty to be around” 🤷🏽♂️
@@CarlosRomero-uj6ry facts
@@CarlosRomero-uj6ry well said!!💯
Same I'm 42 truck driver I don't even look there way
@@musicfan5520 nope, she said it out of her mouth
This woman is devastated. I really feel for her and wish her all the best .
I keep watching and listening… And she takes criticisms well, and not combative. I like that.
I actually like this lady. She's different from most women on here. Love her intelligence and listening skills. Hope she finds her guy.
Yeah hard to believe she’s from California
Her guy that makes 650k?? She is a fool at best I’m good I wouldn’t even go on a date with this loser
@@meechmusicON1 I'm sure that you don't make $650k, so you don't have anything to worry about.
@@25nahshon I’m sure your in the closet
@@meechmusicON1 your maturity level just showed that you're a $40k or less individual. Have a good one
Love how avoiding red flags and having common sense is considered "being intimidated".
It's because modern women have been taught to compete with the man, either explicitly or implied. If the man resist, they think it's intimidation. Modern women are not taught what a man wants/needs outside of sex.
Get you a 2nd world country woman
@@Jayinjapanese haha ?? What
A lie that makes them feels better about the fact that they aren’t desirable to the men they want.
@@keisha2shoes say it again for those in the back
“Out of your league”.
Brings to mind the saying “Fake it until you make it.”
Gotta love how she came here to learn and is highly respectful.
Woman: They're intimidated
Reality: They're not interested
Men tolerate her long enough to have sex, and then deal with her accordingly.
Exactly
A woman can be the future Queen of Neverland and marry a peasant. If that man isn't running the show, he'll leave her and gladly go back to being poor.
@@dangerwetikosclose2682 facts. Women have really lost it trying to be equal
😆☝🏽🤣
This lady is very different than 95% of the callers. She listens. She answers the questions accurately. She takes Kevin's answers and doesn't verbally question it. She actually seems like she genuinely wants to learn.
She’s a great woman to grow and build we’re is her meeting I will join
Well said!
She's probably a chameleon...the presence she's presenting, a man would've scooped her up already. She's pleasant and understands how to carry herself in different settings, as she stated. KS even mentioned she comes across as a imposter.
She post wall and starting to realize it.. only reason she's half listening. And she's got kids already, nobody wants that
@@infotechsailor oh I must have missed that part, she has kids?? Not a bad thing though...but how many?
miss this dude for real having his videos come out every week was such an enjoyable time, rest in peace man.
I give credit when credit is due. I applaud her for her honesty and she at least listened to him, willin' to process what he was telling her. Kevin never digs in till he gets perspectives from women first. Can't react to what don't know about anybody UNTIL they tell you about 'em! "Tearin' down" or "bashing women" to many women is nothin' more than sayin' "I hate hearin' the truth from you about what I am that YOU SHOULD AND BETTER ACCEPT, and I ain't changin' shit! And what's crazy about it is they CHOOSE to call him to HEAR IT FROM 'EM! They get a charge, an organism from it, cuz they're too PASSIONATE about bein' the perpetual victim, which is a sick mindset anyway that they've always had!! The "guilt" is what make them call in the first place, which S.I.G.N. language, Shame, Insults, Guilt and the NEED TO BE RIGHT, FUELS THEIR FEELINS' AND EMOTIONS since their ego was "pierced" like a needle to a balloon, POP!!!!!! And it all comes out, THAT FAST AND THAT QUICK! If they didn't think or "feel" they were wrong, benefited from what they SHOULD BE, or got the results they wanted to substantiate their position, they wouldn't call him and KNEW this shit from the B-gin!!!!! And KNEW IT WAAAY before they even called his ass!
I applaud the woman for her honesty, willingness to accept constructive criticism, transparency, and well mannered disposition. Thumbs up to her!
Those nostrils tho...
Many women are humble and behaved in front of their pastor. The problems start when they're not on stage. Does saying men are intimidated by me, match being humble?
Now what about the obscene delusion of her “standards” that a man has to have?
How do you feel about that?
Remember, she is a professional saleswoman. She knows how to behave in front of an audiance.
@@no_one_wins Those nostrils are beautiful n sexy. And they are a symbol of good health. *Look it up.* Learn.
This lady is different. She came with no fight, she just wanted to listen and improve herself. Doesn't matter what the message was, she was willing to self improve. She's great! I really like her👍
It might not have been disagreement day…
@@alexisjankowski3281 so naive dwl smh
@@alexisjankowski3281 nah she seems like a genuinely nice woman fr
💁🏽♂️👸🏾
@droppa57kgx24 and yet, like EVERY other "modern woman", she still wants a traditional provider male to make her life "easier." She still thinks she's on oar with a guy making 1/2 million a year.
It's this mindset that make most women intolerable in this day and age.
Respect to her for her ability to listen & accept facts
Wow that's the first time I actually seen him talk to a woman and had a great conversation and she actually listened great episode
This is a grown woman here. I respect the fact she was open to, and actually received advice and constructive feedback without interruption. This positive example of dialogue also shows how Mr. Samuels is respectful to a woman who is respectful to herself and him as well.
Sadly that is a very low bar to reach, and so few can manage a level that low.
nah she's worldly, educated, and wise. She's seen both words, whereas most people haven't.
At 16:21 he cut her off. At 16:30, he called her degree “useless”. He is so disrespectful, as him usual self. He told her that she may suffer from “imposter syndrome”. He is NOT QUALIFIED to talk to anyone and give that type of advice to anyone. He called her “too old”, and she’s 36. Only “lost” women go to him for advice. I wouldn’t go to him fa shxt as it relates to advice on ANY SCALE. He’s rude af. He’s telling the woman how the truck driver viewed her, and he wasn’t even there. I see why he has a following of men. The men that think like him, and that is sad af. It’s not ok to cut someone off EVERY CHANCE YOU GET in a conversation! He only wants to be heard , but never A fully listening to what the woman has to say. Halfway through this video, he cut her off at least 7 times. I can’t with him.
@@supercutiee LOL. You sound like you're triggered on another level. Like it or not, bro is speaking facts. Yeah, sometimes his approach is rough around the edges, but at least he is honest. Nothing that you said in your comment held any weight. He wasn't cutting her off any chance he got, he actually was on his better behavior on this one as opposed to other ones, he was most definitely letting her speaking and Listening. Stop with all the cap because he described you somewhere along the way lmaoo
@@supercutiee, You hate everything he says or does, Yet you come here to faithfully listen to everything he has to say. Do you ever stop to think these women call his show because they value what he has to say, whether you like it or not? What part of, THEY CALL HIM TO HEAR WHAT HE HAS TO SAY, confuses you? Think about it you came here to see what he had to say. If you need your ego stroked and told you are a queen? Steve Harvey and Dr. Phil have shows that will fill your needs. What qualifies you to say he is not qualified?
I like that she’s listening and accepting feedback. This is how it’s suppose to go.
She dated a truck driver.
@@nursemcfarlane6655 so???
@@nursemcfarlane6655 so ?
It’s rare tho
@@nursemcfarlane6655 Many owner ops are making well into six figures, but being away from home can put a strain on any fragile relationship.
RIP Mr. SAMUELS.
Let's Listen, with an Open mind and Heart.
" Practicle Honest Advice , sorely needed for all generations "
This one was a really good segment. She truly was a really good listener and wanted to take action, very rare to find. RIP KS
You've done great work on this planet and change my whole outlook to truly level up my values.
I’m so shocked at how many of these women say they want a housekeeper and a nanny!!! WTF! Why even want kids and a nice home if you aren’t going to take care of either???
Yea I dont get that either I love cooking in cleaning myself and a I'm guy but I love maintaining things it's just in my blood people dont realize cooking and cleaning In doing all that stuff is what keeps you young being lazy is what ages you i be busy alot in I feel surprisingly awesome it keeps you going its just a game in you just keep running but when you stop you can hang it up
It really does depends on the size of the house! How many kids you have, and their ages, etc!
Because that requires this really cool thing called "personal responsibility."
They want the look the look......is love.....it's in their EYES....THE LOOK!!! TOO BAD I'M ON AN ISLAND EATING 🍐 & Papaya sipping coffee laughing at CRAZY!!!!!
It’s those pop culture films. They want the status of the children and the home. There is a reason they choose not to show what a housewife used to do before the 1920s.
Nanny’s are for royalty, castles for the same.
I love this conversation. I appreciated her humility and her ability to listen effectively. She wasn't argumentative and fighting because she came to learn. She's gonna be alright
She wasn't argumentative and combative on his channel because she knows what he will tolerate and how his audience will roast her, I seriously doubt she is this submissive in her relationships and this humble and meek in her personal life.
@@IslamIslam-vj5fz can't win for losing. A woman can be argumentative and combative and it will confirm your bias. If a woman isn't either of those things she's putting on a show.
@@silentj624 lol Ohhhhh trust and believe, we wife up the submissive, humble, meek quiet feminine women right in high school or shortly thereafter. If she would like this all the time in real life SHE WOULD BE MARRIED NOW. But I know you women like to live in hypothetical Fantasyland so you're going to justify why she's single.
@@IslamIslam-vj5fz oh so you go after little girls who dont know better.
@@doggowar Those are your words not mine, but a dude that has his stuff together would rather have a "little girl" that doesn't know any better as opposed to an "older woman" that knows it all.
This is a woman i can love , one who listen, dont argue when they wrong, dont cover up , They learn. Together. Much much respect young 👩
She’s open minded and willing to learn. I hope it works out for her
Even Though She Has Issues(Everyone Does). She’s a Top 5 Call. She Listened, took in all the knowledge, and I can honestly say she might act on the advice she received. You can say she supposed too blah blah blah, but she even took the extra step for therapy. People don’t really do that, black people especially. I really applaud this woman.
Same. Hopefully she finds the best outcome for her at this stage of her Life.
I'm saying she good on the listening part but think she's probably hell on the controlling part or she might just push a man away after she gets what she needs from a man that's the state of mind of these women in the first place
Nah it’s honestly kinda too late for her. Even with therapy and such some habits are behaviors have been practiced too long. Therapy is good it works but it only works to an extent, in the end true person will always come back, or show itself. Whatever ways she’s stuck in has led her right here.
Yeah, she pretended to listen. After she hangs up, she'll write off everything she said..
As Kevin says, she's respectful, but her attitude on things still sucks...
"I'm and entrepreneur building a business." Code for unemployed.
"I want to change thr trajectory of my family..." by relying on another man's money
"I'm flexible" as though she has a choice
It's amazing how out of touch from reality these women are. Listening to Mr. Samuels lay it out to them is so therapeutic.
She wants to be a power couple but doesn't want to pay significant amount of bills. LoL
Maaan I swear it is SOoo therapeutic.!!
The entitlement... A man that makes 500k a year what does he need a partner for?
@Me and My Girlfriend Are Rich hmm interesting. My guess is you are like her son and she is a boss. WARNING If this is the case she will stop loving you at some point, might even cheat and have babies with a thug. I'm not trying to be rude but women don't value betas. Many men here have already endured that pain. Please study masculinity, testeorone...build yourself up, find your purpose.
nailed it!
This woman was open and honest. I very much appreciated her candor. I think after this conversation this woman gained more understanding. On that day Kevin helped her. I think she's gonna be alright.
Mr. Samuela knows what he knows.
What a gift to share with us all.....
Start living life on purpose.
Quality, not quantity.
This lady was pleasant, listened, wasn’t rude, was respectful, and she’s not unattractive. I hope she finds someone that can appreciate her qualities and that she remains hopeful in her search. The biggest piece of advice anyone could get is to just be yourself and enjoy your life. That energy attracts the right person.
You can tell she's very picky
Her biggest problem, by far, is her hypergamy. Once she understands that money is only really important if you are homeless or hungry, she will be fine. But sadly, most women never figure this out.
@@ligafftheindifferent3495 Hypergamy is so ubiquitous as to basically be a truism for modern professional women. Money does matter, especially if a someone wants to raise a family with 2-3 children in LA. Remember, California makes life as easy as possible for junkies and "free-spirited" folks that would prefer being homeless if it means living aimless, idle lives in which they can party at will and avoid the responsibilities that used to come with adulthood.
But for those actually trying to do the best they can in life, trying to build a family and working to pay all the bills that come with it?? California's political leadership practically goes out of its way to make life as difficult and expensive as possible for THOSE people.
Agreed
This woman needs to learn to have fun, and a bit of adventure. She needs someone who will light her up a bit, and be a bit spontaneous, who isn't abusive, but doesn't put her on a pedestal. There are lots of men like this out there. They make $40,000-$55,000. She should find one of those. Forget kids. She needs a lover, best friend, and confidante. Not a "partner".
I'd give her a shot. :)
IF she could do this, she would find happiness.
Intimidated has become code word for repulsed….
FACTS.
Preach!!
@Me and My Girlfriend Are Rich Bruh,you’re literally in every comment trolling. Shut the hell up 🤣
@Me and My Girlfriend Are Rich trolling again?
@@blackandproud83 like bruh tf is wrong with these people lol. Like these mfers just be pathetic
Very brilliant conversation… I really wish her the very best.
5 mins into this I could feel the mutual respect...the lady is definitely a gem..a rare one to be precise..her poise,tactful approach in responding and her listening skills are top notch.and has a very cool demeanor....Best iv seen ever..Wish you the best ma'am.R.I.P KS
She has good emotional control. It hurts to hear the truth, but she held her composure. Of all the women that I’ve seen on this channel, she has the most potential to find her partner.
Thee most for sure. You’re absolutely right. This woman is humble and super chill. She deserve a good man
Her age is the main issue, that and she does not come across as a very good home maker. While she listened respectfully, she is not submissive, and she has champagne tastes with a cheap beer wallet.
She needs to drastically lower her expectations. Her goal should be a man she can trust, steady job, financially stable, no serious drug, alchohol, or criminal issues. Given her age and position, ANY man that meets those base criteria needs to be considered a viable option.
Given her age and desire for children, she needs to forget about career and focus on finding a good man, and becoming the type of submissive, nurturing, and hardworking woman that most decent hardworking men would want.
She is quickly running out of time, this needs to happen like yesterday. Her odds are not good, I wish her well and good luck.
@@ericmichel3857 you’re right. Look at me over here simping!! I take my comment back, dammit! 😂 thanks for highlighting all of that, bro.
@@ericmichel3857 Her age is what it is.... she can't change that. What is impressive is that despite her obvious intelligence, she didn't try to rationalize bad decisions like so many women (especially those who know how to choose their words) tend to do. She didn't pretend to have a good argument or justification in the face of Kevin's inconvenient truth bombs about the reality of life and relationships in the modern era. She actually listened, and made no effort to hide the fact that she's got a lot to think about in terms of what was just discussed. She is pretty and willing to learn, I think she might end up finding happiness. She has a better chance than a lot of the girls Kevin interviews.. in my humble opinion.
FACTZ
She's respectful and well spoken despite being asked some difficult questions by Kevin. Hope she finds what she needs.
Hope He Finds Her!💯
How is it difficult when it's your life no one suppose to know u more then u unless you lie to yourself
She does seem trainable. That's a good thing.
@@balloonmanalvinpitts she is too old. I don't know any man who wants to build a family with a 36 years old woman.
@@charlesirby9571 There are a lot of broken brothers out here with self esteem issues. They would do it. 36 and Abandonment issues.
This was actually a great learning conversation. A lot of reasoning and understanding came with it.
Praying for this woman to find and make a home with a great man. The way she listens, ask questions, converse is just delightful! I wish I had a woman with those characteristics. All the best sista 👍
This young woman was honestly fantastic in her poise and answers. I hope she finds her love/happiness
“Young Women”
She was silly and delusional.
She’s so fantastic that she needs a man that’s .8% of men
Why do you care
It’s hard because she’s already deep in being financially secure. She clearly is financially set and just looking for a partner. Basically she’ll have to let everything go, to attempt to maybe make a match. I’m high middle class I worked 4 days until I gave birth. We have a cleaning service, yet we raise our son together. He’s giving a old school standard of love and partnership. He wants you to be a perfect nothing, over a wonderful something. That’s not fair, there are more avenues to love then that.
Watching this gave me the feeling I was eavesdropping on someone's therapy session. I think Kevin quickly zeroed in on her issue and gave excellent counsel. RIP KS.
RIP KS? Is he dead?
@@cellshaded months ago
I felt that it was a therapy session too. I think cos she had a better attitude than most of Kevin's guests in fact I quite liked her
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@@cellshaded Yep. But his message lives on. I think he is part of a gradual change of the culture if only these females will take note.
@@Sam-bd5mrwhat was the final, definitive cause of his death??
I actually enjoyed this exchange. It shows that there are women out here that are capable of being self-aware without being self-critical. Women who can listen to learn and not hear to respond or contradict. She was not triggered by any of the assessments Kevin offered and seemed to be receptive to ideas outside of her own. loved loved loved this insight.
She was willing to listen. But damn women are asking for millionaires out here without anything in return.
No one is intimidated by you, they are choosing to not invest significant amounts of their time and resources in you
Often these women confuse independent with troublemaker. They really think men are intimidated but in reality, men hate this type of vvoman.
@Me and My Girlfriend Are Rich bot
@Me and My Girlfriend Are Rich nobody is mad who lied to u?
@Me and My Girlfriend Are Rich
Relax Russel Wilson
Exactly fam! Most cats aren't intimated they are just choosing not to deal with yall.
I like this girl. She's resisting internally, but he hit that cord and she knows it. She probably accepted it within about 2 weeks after the call. Praying for her.
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I am praying for her also, that man will find her…soon!
She should be already married for 15 years with two kids.
Great job Kevin - right on !
Let's get the Legend to 2 Million Subs!!!!!!
Overall, this was a great conversation. They respected each other’s talking space and she listened. She called because she wanted Kevin’s assistance, not because she was perfect.
She was relatively cool headed and not in her emotions. She was respectful and never talked over him.
I also think she was one of the few women on the show that he was making up stuff to knock her down.
Does he really believe wealthy men don't hire cooks, housekeepers and nannies? Seriously? He also contradicts himself because previously he's stressed that the wife of a HVM needs to have excellent social skills, and yet this woman says she has those skills and he acts like they aren't important.
The wife of a wealthy man runs his household by directing the servants and managing the homelife, seeing that bills are paid, kids are doing well in school, ironing out problems in the neighborhood, scheduling and conducting social events, involving herself in charity events (promoting her husband's and families' reputation in community) etc. She isn't locked up at home on her hands and knees scrubbing floors and elbows deep in diapers.
@@stephenjones101 agree
@@stephenjones101 She don't got the looks (A higher earning man can get the younger version of her ) .....because she aged out .....if she did she would be dating that man and not on the show at 36
@@stephenjones101 Yes, you're spot on.
Agreed, clearly just as disillusioned as the rest but, her manner was noticeably different. I'm not giving too much respect for behaving as you should in conversation but, she's at least listening.. At least
That maturity hit different. Salute to this sister for her openness and vulnerability. Hope she find happiness. 💯
Yup.
That's another lie people tell. You don't find happiness. You create it
@@AnAZPatriot well said
She fell for the lies, realized it late, and is trying to fix it. I definitely feel sorry for her.
As a man I’m fine with staying single because I can’t drive and I work a 9-5. And most of the good ladies are married or in a serious relationship with someone. So I’m good being by myself and I’m doing just fine
I believe this is the best conversation I’ve ever seen Kevin have with a lady who was mature and ready to really get down to business. For the first time, I liked the lady he’s talking with. 😊❤
I've been married for 31 years. Six years ago we lost our only son. I'm SO glad to hear Kevin say all this because he's right. In the end, all we have are the relationships. I gave up the career track to care for my children and, especially since our son died, I'm so grateful that I made that choice. That gave me two things more precious than all the money in the world. Time and memories.
Im sorry for your loss 🙏
God bless you and your family. I hope your honesty can help others follow in your path.
My sincerest condolences to you and your family
My deepest condolences friend
💖💖💖💖🙏🏽🙏🏽
I like how she stayed out of her feelings, listened, and answered questions. She earned points in my book.
that's rare
She was really there to listen and juice the advice. Also very poised and well spoken woman.
This was really refreshing to say the least
This is great! Kevin is doing a great job! He is actually getting somewhere! She is listening and engaging. I love him here! Great conversation!
She lost me at “I’m an entrepreneur......” Another “BOSS” chick!!! 🙄🤦🏻♂️
With a generic fake business😂
😭😭😂😂
When somone says entrepreneur rather than a specific sector you know its bullcocky, "i work as a private stock broker, i run a freight forwarding business, i have my own accounting firm, i am a electrical engineering consultant" those are examples of somone exerting their entrepreneural ambition. Glossing over the specific means your full of horse dung.
@Me and My Girlfriend Are Rich who tf are you lol.
@Me and My Girlfriend Are Rich are you a dude cause if so bruh grow some facial hair I don't know who the woman 🤣🤣.
I found Kevin after his death and hearing all the hate. I don’t believe the hype til I see for myself. I think this man is more than reasonable and he makes excellent points. I’m already married with a child, but he definitely plants seeds in my head that are helping me discover my potential as a better wife.
Me too, Kevin definitely helped me step up my wife game!
I just found him but he on target im married to grown children and married why these women cant get on cause all it is luxury no mother no wifey kmsk
Alexis, I also found Kevin after his death. I’m picking up gems watching his content.
Same😍😍
I have to say after listening to more and more videos I saw that he based his advice off statistics only. He didn't bend from that and had no room for the other world. His world is based solely in appearances and that is a real world that many live by bit not all. I have to say he does make valid points but leaves out some valid numbers affecting black women and racism.
The perfect back and forth!
Damn we miss this guy. KS was on another level.
I can't imagine how bad this is all going to be in 20 yrs. The women of my generation are absolutely entitled and broken.
the genes will die out eventually
@@mask9558 not if these beta male simps keep giving them babies 😒
@@abyssalzone2957 exactly!!!
@@abyssalzone2957 not the betas as much as the Chad’s and Tyrone’s knocking them up. Remember only 1 in 4 black women ever get married.
I'm looking forward to seeing the shit show. It's unfortunate the family and community will continue to break down, but I honestly can't think about how to we can return to those values. I'm just going to enjoy the show
Intimidate means to scare someone or instill fear, in order to get them to do something. People just be using words as if they don't have meanings. Ain't no man of value "intimidated" by masculine women. Women usually use that word to make themselves feel good about their failure in not getting someone to marry them or to downplay their poor choice in men 🤷🏾♂️
🙏
Facts :)
Or in other words the guy didn’t want to lay hands on her masculine arse and left.
💯💯💯
Dam..
One of the many showings of Kevin using his platform to help someone who WANTS to be helped and by enduring his direct honesty & listen to his advice and do what they will with it. instead of going back & forth with the person trying to help them & force him to get brutally honest and make an example out of them.
I don’t care if it’s already been said but, this lady is awesome!! 😊❤
I honestly feel sorry for her. Her expectations are a result of the modern media. She seems like a sweet person.
media only does half the work, you do the other half feeling sorry
Don’t feel sorry. She’s pretentious as hell
@@Ryan-xq3klyea people feeling sorry for delusional women are the ones at fault 🤦🏻♂️🤡
@@Ryan-xq3klyou seem wise. Wiser than most.
Do you use preferred filters or just wing it? Either way, notable....
Delusional like most of them
As soon as she said power couple I sighed.🙄 What happened to women simply wanting a man to be a good husband and father. A lot of these women sound like they see marriage as a business transaction. Then when Kevin asks these women why should a highly sought after man choose them,, it’s silence. They can’t give one valid reason. So sad.
It all started with Jay z and Beyonce! Most of these women built their deluded fantasies around that🙄
Social Media got these woes gone stupid until they ignorant. Sad!!
@@zukkycage bingo
These women want to pretend for social media
Its the modern day thought process. What ever happened to true love?
My appreciation goes out to this wonderful woman.
Very good listening skills from her, she was here to learn and explore her reality 👏🏽
Somebody said how?😆
She's a great student. She's not going to find the man she wants but she's going to find the man she needs.
She has to be the most solid lady ever interviewed here. She’s going to be good.
yeah, a woman who doesn't want to work & doesn't want to take care of her own kids is _"solid"_
@@negative949 If you want to choose between work and don't work but with no penalty in your financial situation, would you choose to work? If you say yes, you are the minority of population! It is not just a pandemic of women, it is human to just try to go in a path of less resistance.
Yes. And that's sad that only one out of all the interviews. I would of loved to have a conversation with this man
@@negative949 any reason to stay mad huh?
@@negative949 she said she wanted to work. Are you deaf?
8:00 that “I have a phd” sound drop is too funny lmfaooo I gotta find that video
This girl has potential because she listens and doesn't get defensive
This is the first one I’ve seen where the woman is actually focused and receptive to the conversation. She isn’t messing with texts and notifications. She isn’t arguing. She isn’t denying anything. Best episode I’ve seen.
Yeah but she’s not smart
@@Chris-ey7zyaverage in every sense
Isnt it sad though that we are happy to just see a woman that listens..shes completely delusional in every possible way..But are just happy to see women with common courtesy these days..Its insane
I wish her luck. Don't hate on her for being fed the wrong message.
@@THOMPSON8787absolutely pathetic. How low is the bar.
To the women that might read this comment. Men aren't intimidated by you at all. Some of you have the most insufferable disgusting attitudes. Just because you have degrees a good job and a nice car means nothing. Being obnoxious and unnecessarily mean is the problem.
Amen
🗣️ Preach
Insufferable is the word. Many of them don't even have a degree, a good job and a nice car and are still just as obnoxious, insufferable and entitled as they can be.
@@Yobachi2007 Feminism has damaged these women for life by telling them they are better than men and can do it better themselves. Then they are bitter once it's too late and they realized they got played.
I really like what you wrote.....makes you want to marry a pauper rite?
What a great conversation
Great conversation and even better back and forth. Kevin is (was) and amazing man, He'll be missed.