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"Modern women want weddings, they don't want to be married" Nailed It!!!
The baby shower is the new wedding !!!!
@@frefe5291 This hits different. Like they want to get gifts?
It’s possible to marry yourself actually 😅
@@introvertdude99 women should just marry themselves then
@@kalabana3957 they do and it’s sad and a bit mental
"This isn't a black thing; it's a modern thing."
EXACTLY. Thank you!
The black thing is the lack of friendly and respectful, characters, attitudes, and behaviors.
Yeah but the culture spread to other races
@@architecture.w - Stop singling out black women. Last time I checked white women intruded the black community with their thoughts, beliefs and etc. they’ve done the same with the men.
@Niamaiyah Charleson Stereotyping a whole race of women is ignorant.
@Architecture Whisperer Stereotyping a WHOLE race of women is rude and delusional, as well as ignorant.
The three “A’s” that all modern women want:
1. The authority of a man
2. The advantages of a woman
3. The accountability of a child
Wow I don't see how this comment doesn't have a million likes, this was a one in a million comment
Screenshot
Dang. That's deep.
@@playah71frl me too
Damn.
The more videos I watch of Kevin the more I lament his passing. The man is a gem.
Just started watching his videos I feel the same way brotha rip the mutha fucken man
For real, I miss this man. He was so important
Men have no idea what they will be missing in the next five years because of his loss.
I feel the same
@@cynthiadossantos He was every man's Hero.
This how much of a feminist society we live in Telling average woman they are average is a insult. A average man knows he’s average
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Grand delusion in all its glory
Word I'm slightly above average lol. Shit I worked hard to get here an maintain it this shit
We live in a male patriarchy, always have and always will.
@@rickd438 I can name 5 rights that a woman has, but a man doesn't. Wanna Playa Game?
Ladies. Please. Listen to me. I PROMISE you. I GUARANTEE YOU that there isn’t a single man you will ever “intimidate” by being a basic adult doing basic adult things. This woman really just said an insurance worker probably making 4 times her salary with benefits is “intimidated”’of her cutting hair… This delusion needs to stop. Annoyed, unimpressed, tired are not synonyms with intimidated.
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Its the nature of the job not the income from the job. Her having daily access to only men with a more intimate job like that IS THE PROBLEM and for good reason. Do you think the amount of access and flirtation and DM's (only for business though cough cough) and personal conversations ect ect influenced her behavior towards her LTR? We both know the answer. Ill bet she thought she could do better than her little petty "insurance man" and she proved it with the conversation she had with Kevin.
@@ajpope2010 that is a trend I’m seeing with women. They knowing ly go to job sites while being in relationships vetting their man’s replacement and then pull out the “insecure”
Card when a discerning man calls them on it. Trying to frame it as men trying to marginalize them. Another form of gaslighting.
Well said
In her case, it had more to do with her being around dudes all day is what she thinks he was intimidated by. She might be delusional but she’s attractive so you know those dudes are coming at her. So he was probably more insecure than intimidated.
"You women want traditional outcomes... weddings, white dresses... and you're schizophrenic psychotic non-virgins with trust issues."
12:53
The brother is spitting truth
I sang the 'woooooah my gaawd' meme when I heard that
@Capriol_Knight don't forget solipsistic, narcissistic, egomaniacal, EGOTISTICAL,hypergamous,insecure, EASILY intimidated, unsure, not confident, materialistic, and the black ones are ALL these multipled by 5...and I'm saying THIS as a Trey Songz/Tyson Beckford/Zayn level good-looking dude.💯🧔🏾♂️
Boom!! 💥 They want a traditional wedding, i.e all the fancy stuff that someone else is paying for but traditional marriage? No they don't!
Truth bomb.
The days of $20,000 engagement rings and $100,000 dollar weddings needs to end… Now.
If I had a dollar for every time one of these woman said they were getting into real estate. I could quit work, and watch Kevin as a job. They say it enough to cover my bills. LOL
Both our bills
@13:55
Ur mortgage
That’ll be enough to move into a mansion
I get 10K a month from real estate. It’s a pretty good career
Nobody tells a 27yr old that they are mature for their age. That's something you tell young people.
Middle schoolers will 🤣🤣🤣🤣
It's something some older guy trying to smash told her which inflated her ego.
Yeah it something you tell a teenager...by 27 your supposed to be mature.
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Well I'd disagree... I bought my home cash @27, married @19, had 4 kids with my wife, finished school and had been working my career job since the age of 22. I'd say being married with 4 kids, with my wife since sophomore year of high school working a career and NOT having a mortgage... I was mature for a 27 year old.
Modern woman-child: “I want to build an empire”
KS: “lady, you cut hair for a living.”
That’s called a checkmate, ladies.
I cried when he said that! It was on time no hesitation!!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
If you want to walk in circles ask a woman a question that requires a truthful answer🤯🤯🤯
🤣 Now ain't that the gospel truth?!
@@thenaughtyamericanexpat Dam right👌🏾
I've never know a male to tell the truth works both ways.
@@SuperTruthful woman can’t handle the truth thats why we do it, man adapt.
@@SuperTruthful goes to show what kind of people you surround yourself with
I wanted to be a psychologist but then decided I wanted to be a barber.. Thats really something only a woman can say and not be a laughing stock
Exactly! If men say this, we'd be called all kinds of idiots.
😂😂😂😂😂😂
I mean she is still working on the same area...
She comes across as lazy and unmotivated!
You can’t do anything with a bachelor’s in psychology, other than more school. The cutting hair thing probably just fell in her lap.
Just found out about this man. He's a modern national treasure for men like me who don't understand women very much.
make sure to watch every video. Each one has a gem in it.
He passed away, unfortunately! Where were you when his videos were blowing up?!
@@Khaled91how did he die?
same, wish i found out sooner. my goal now is to watch every single video, and write down the nuggets of wisdom that pertains. Good luck sir.
As a woman....watch him. He isn't lying! Don't let these women use you up out here cause they will!!
My husband and I were married by a notary who was a friend of my father's. The whole thing cost from beginning to end 300 dollars and I wouldn't change a thing if I had it to do all over again. We just wanted to be together and that was all that mattered. 38 years and 2 30+year old sons later, I still wouldn't change a thing😊. He is my partner in life as well as my best friend. We have had good financial years, and we have lived in poverty. But, we always worked together and got through it all. I'm a very happy woman!
The good ole days!@@somebody700
@Spartacus basically, they grew up in a different REALITY... currently reality is one similar to twilight zone.💯🧔🏾♂️
Yeah right buddy 😂 if you guys had stacks I doubt you would just spend $300 dollars to re live that experience.
@@somebody700 im 32, met my wife when we were both 15. Either of us have never been with someone else, we are all we have known. We have 2 boys. I make 52k a year as a plumber. She is a stay at home mom. If you buy into what society is selling then thats your own fault. The only opinion a man concerns himself with is his own. I still have some of the clothes i had in high-school, still wear them. I dont know how you people let what others think influence you. Men are just as bad as modern woman. Boys and girls pretending to be adults.
@@somebody700 i did reply to the wrong person, apologies.
“You’re 28! You’re at an age where the Chinese will call you leftover.” … My Chinese wife hit the floor laughing. So true indeed.
Shes a Jaded pearl
what does that mean? leftover.?
My Japanese wife did the same. The Japanese call them leftovers as well or "Christmas Cakes" apparently.
@@elijahmelendez9864 Technically it’s “left behind.” East Asian societies are highly competitive. There are more people and fewer resources to go around. People are highly encouraged to marry young, work cooperatively with their spouse, spouse’s parents and their own parents. This “I’m a strong independent career woman that don’t need no man” bullshit doesn’t fly over there. People that do that, or can’t work with others get literally left behind. I’m sure you’ve seen the move Parasite?
@@thekingofthisworld2154 yea i just googled it , the term in chinese seems to have two different meanings, like i just read, which makes sense to me, " A 28 year old male who is alone , the chinese seemed to call "Diamond men" or gold something like that .i'd think we'd all have more respect for women around that age ,who said there not ever getting married because of scientific aims ,or ex cit-era , "No it doesn't interest me, instead of being nebulous about it , thats hard though as it is.
"I'm a hair stylist, and want an expensive wedding, partnership, real estate, and an empire, but I want it on my terms, my timeline, and want everyone else to pay for it!"
She has nothing to offer and does not deserve a big wedding! Still her girlfriends will say: You go Girl!!!!
You can’t make this sh!t up lol
Summed up perfectly
Hahahahaha so ridiculous huh?
Its funny but not so funny that woman think this way delusion. Men need to set them off right all men its our fault
I like that he is so direct and while delivering some brutal truths never loses the sense of being respectful, teaching and not about himself or his ego. He has some precious communication skills for sure.
Yeah, his speaking style is very impressive. It’s like Patrice O’Neal, but genteel.
Man has the patient of a saint, it seems he really put in a lot energy to genuinely help. Although I think his ultimate motive was to open the eyes of men. I don’t think I could take that much stress that he put himself under. Rip
Very rare with communication to have all of those skills
Sadly he is no more.
It's like he said, it's not an ethnicity problem - It's a problem with the modern women's mindset.
The fact that she starts every single answer with “uuummm” and then a long pause, I don’t know how he stayed so patient with her! Every single sentence! Uuuuuummmmmm!
Uuuuuuummm I don't know what you're talking about, I haven't uhhhhh noticed it once.
It's his patients that makes him the GODFATHER...
Acting.
“You women want traditional outcomes, weddings, white dresses, and you’re schizophrenic psychotic non virgins with trust issues”, god damn Kevin spitting flames
Lmaooo
Golden
The flames of facts and they do burn deep and some women NEED to hear that but sadly most will relish in being burned by those facts instead of learning from them lol but in truth that's what modern women want while not being traditional themselves
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When a woman responds to serious questions with answers like “Probably” “Maybe” and “Not sure”…RUN FELLAS 😂
😭😭💯
One word responses..flee!!
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Right on point.
It means they don't really know what they want!
This man's teaching should be used for ALL YOUNG WOMEN..
MUCH RESPECT MR.SAMUELS
That's it.!
I don’t think rational arguments work.
@@jimhendericks they really don’t because they’ll just reject the truth if it doesn’t suit their ego
When women say a relationship ended mutually it’s either because he ended it after she cheated or she ended it and regrets it. She wants to “shop around” so to speak and experience more men. Her priority is HER enrichment and wants to party.
She definitely ended it because she was getting flirty with her “clients” and he wasn’t having it. “He was intimidated of my career” 😂☠️
@@tentoesdown6247 yep. Definitely.
Most women are ego driven. If she says it was mutual 90% if the time the guy ended it because if she would’ve she would’ve just said it. They just wanna save their face
She’s playing the victim… this women is left over trash… who has no idea in hell like a majority of the women now
@@kma997 I look at this woman and I see your point about ego
A lot of recursive reasoning. Try building an empire with this one
She has 80k in the bank but never mentioned it when discussing who’s going to pay for the wedding
😂
Selfish af
She's not ugly. She should be looking for a decent man with a JOB, an nine to five, who will treat her good. Nothing more.
Her expectations are so much higher than her value it's laughable.
Nothing wrong with average women getting together with average dudes. It worked for centuries, then with social media, women have delusions of grandeur to the point they will not settle for average.
She's from my home state. She's a pretty girl who's like all the other girls there. They think they deserve a guy making 150k while their only contribution is being there lol. If she said she wanted a man who makes 65k, works out, and loves her, she could be married tomorrow. However she's a barber who thinks they deserve a banker
@@rashaanc.richardson9057
To be fair, it's not just the pretty girls with those expectations. But yes, she's probably rejected at least five decent men in her life who would have been just fine for her.
Problem is, they are just fine, not perfect.
The main problem is social media. If you ask these girls to name some of the popular women they look up to or follow and you will see the problem. It's girls who preach they don't have to do a thing and they have a bunch of rich guys spending it like it don't mean nothing on them, while they do as they please . Why would these women even consider an average guy or a guy on their level when in their head they feel they will hit the jackpot eventually and life will be daisies .
@@kbgibson I like to use the analogy of a great athlete thinks he'll make it in the pros, when in reality less than one percent of college level athletes will even get a sniff at the next level. You have to have a backup plan. These gals don't think they will ever have to settle, well, well not until they are stone cold out of options, and by then it's too late for most of them.
By their forties, they are like average men. Invisible to the opposite sex.
@@thomasmichaels6850 pretty accurate
I'll give credit where it's due. She at least wasn't combative and nasty. For hearing a ton of things she didn't like she handled herself well.
And she did have the money to get into real estate lmfao
@@inamsaj She may have money for a used camper van. That's about it.
@@inamsaj Not defending her but becoming a relator isn't expensive at all. I think here in FL you take like 6 weeks in classes and pay maybe 1k and get with an agency and you're good to go.
I feel sad for her...she seems a good person ... but bad informed...Life is not that easy...as a barber she probably is earning about 20k a year....she definitely need to wise up and get a man!!! Please girl...you have to lower your standard... for the man in terms of income.
That's because they don't take any of it to heart, she may be quiet but that doesn't mean she agreed with anything Kevin said
Places like this "Comment section" is where I often come to feel related/connected to other humans, I went through a tragedy on my marriage but most hurting part is no one understand my mentality and way of thinking .. Only In videos like this I feel I was right and not alone... Thank you Kevin for your talk and for gathering all these minds around.
You’re not alone at all it just feels like that. Keep your head up high
No way you're alone look up Derek The Fiend's channel as well, there are a couple other really good ones. Don't think you're alone, this happens a LOT to people, not just you.
They hide the reality of men... To cater to the feminism of modern women. It's sad it's the new world we live in. And no one seen this coming. It's a playground for men with money. That's who they try to listen to. And they still find a way to cheat even with that.
@@astrahcat1212 you mean Taylor the fiend?
I think she was holding back tears. And she seems like a nice woman she just never really thought about this stuff in depth and she got a heavy dose of reality that she needed. Shit this is the heavy dose that we all need. We need to really sit and think about these things and look ourselves in the mirror and be realistic about life. It’s good to be optimistic if we are working hard toward our goals in life and are determined to get there. I’m so glad I found this channel and am grateful to have learned so many things, I wish I was younger and knew all the things I know now. It’s crazy to see how woman really think and feel and how delusional most of them are. As a 34 year old man, who owns my own car and owns my own condo, making 100k a year currently, I don’t think I’ll ever find a wife.
She definitely held back some tears for sure. And you were saying some real shit here bro
And as far as you go bro I think you’ll definitely find a wife
@@versatilelord8893 thanks alot brother, all the best to you.
Have to venture out.. hit Europe, Africa, UAE
I know what the reasoning behind that is. She saw all of the women in Psychology and decided she wanted to be somewhere to meet men. Her motives always were ulterior. Women don't ever do anything without a secret motive. It's usually to manipulate a situation into what they want.
The internet makes this seem more common than it is, I hope...
I had 60 people at my wedding , it was $3000-$4000 total, and it was beautiful, I was 22 and a virgin and still happily married! I know so many women who had grandiose weddings and divorced 2-3 years later, fancy weddings are overrated !
26 people at my wedding. At first we werent going to do one..... But happy we did.... I unexpectedly had a great afternoon/evening lol
I know it's hard to believe anything in the internet cause people make it up but I am happy for you. Happy for your choices and give credit where credits due.
Your simplicity is a choice that pales comparisons in modern world where the lines are blurred. You deserve the happiness thats coming for you.
Yes my sis wedding was $3000 and she got divorced so it’s definitely better than $20,000. If I ever get married I just want a cruise wedding with my immediate family. At least I can say I went on vacation 😆.
Very similar story here, except I was 20. That's the way to go!
It is overrated! My brother in law refuses to marry his fiancee, because she wants (and in her words, DESERVES) at least a $25k wedding.
He had 2 kids with her, and she's still waiting for that wedding, 5 years later! She doesn't even work!
She/Her: "Isn't that traditional [having a wedding]?"
Kevin: "You're not a traditional woman. Are you a virgin?""
She/Her: "No"
Kevin: "...You women want traditional outcomes; weddings, white dresses and you're schizophrenic, non-virgins with trust issues"
Solid point. What good is the facade of tradition without the structural foundation of tradition? Buying a flashy luxury car at full price with the engine missing defeats the purpose of getting a car.
plenty of nfl players making 500k buy 500k cars to maintain the image of making millions. its ludicrous. she will NEVER be happy.
That's the point. All social favor and facade without any heavy lifting of a real relationship.
Female version of free lunch. They gotta look the best of female models. Without making ends meet.
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She is attractive and must be getting lots of offers for 'casual' relationships by some of her hair clients. I guess she is getting pumped and dumped. She doesn't want to commit because she keeps hoping a better man comes along and saves her.
i knew men who were cleaned out, some to the tune of 7 figures,
but they kept going after women until they were so broken down and
low market value they couldn't even hook up with 'cat ladies''.
I've known men who stayed married until a few days after retirement and the
wife cleaned them out and took most of the savings and pension.
I also know men who are hanging on because they know the wife will clean them
out in a divorce.
The only reason marriage and even hook-ups are still going on is because
young men aren't being taught the truth and so many men are too damn thirsty,
and
politicians, &
bureaucrats owe their careers to the female vote.
I want a life update on this girl. This was a life changing conversation for her hopefully. Props to her for doing this very publicly.
Agreed
Not gonna lie she’s cute 😍
@@Rahimshabazzbut has the mindset of a teenager
@@kebokev7519 all I said was she’s cute that don’t mean I want to date her obviously
This dude is straight up addicting! 🤣 As a dude it's easy to think it's all your fault because our society says so constantly. Even as a severely average guy he gives me hope.
“A lot of people tell me I’m mature for my age”
My sister in Christ you’re 28
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sent lmao
😭😭😭😭😂😂
Lmao
thats something you say of a 14 year old
"It was mutual" - said every woman when they got dumped
Or when they break up with a suitable partner thinking they can do better.
@@ericneal8582 this !! 👆🏿👆🏿👆🏿👆🏿👆🏿👆🏿👆🏿
Notice she had to think about whether or not she had sex with someone else. But wait...she spoke about HER not cheating, rather than saying her guy didn’t cheat. She has guilt. I think she didn’t have sex, but WAS ‘cheating’, but she’s changed the definition of cheating.
She cheated and knew she'd get destroyed for it. And one of his next questions was literally "did you cheat?" He let her live because he knew there was more dirt at the surface.
Facts! They always trying to save to face
Pretty sure the stress and shock dealing with these "brilliant" women dealt a huge amount of damage to Mr Samuels' health.
All them damn Red Bulls he was always drinking
I often think that too. The stress dealing with these children who think they're grown women.
@@da9_dex He did drink too much of that red bull crap.
no. this is dumb to say.
@@SpaceMuffin According to a troll named space muffins 🤣🤦🏽♂️🧌🧌🧌
Delusional Lady: I want to build an empire with my husband.
Kevin: Lady you cut hair for living.
😂 pure gold.
*"This is not a black woman thing. This is a modern woman thing."*
*"Women today want weddings. They don't want marriages."*
I'm sure she will keep that same energy and smug face with the wall.
The wedding is the Queen for a day celebration.
Naw I don't think she's smug...more like embarrassed/humbled.
Black folks are usually 2 decades ahead with the bs. Canaries in the coal mine.
They will never change, because they think "it works for me".
She's smug because she knows he's right
I told a girl that I wanted to open up my own architectural firm, she laughed and said “that’s it?” At the time I was already a designer well underway in an apprenticeship and making $80k. She was a Los Angeles 8 and an admin making 25k. I ghosted her after that date.
Good
Have you started your own practice yet?
You dodged a bullet. She will be a 6 making 25k once she hits 33
@@Daddydeathv2 not even a 6. You're too generous. She'll be a 3 and half bro.
Good!
This was almost a father to daughter conversation. Loved her attentiveness and Kevin's honesty. It takes two. Collaboration and compromise is a good start for a healthy relationship.
Except shes delusional as fk and will continue being delusional as fk.
Yes she appears to be a great lady
Her: I'm mature for my age...
Her: I'm not mentally ready for marriage....
Stop the cap.
Man them eggs 🥚 are drying up fast 😭😭😭😭
@@jeremiahdavis3398 no your sperm is just not attractive to all kinds of eggs .
@@NoreLyne And you're not funny.. Damn
Confused and delusional
@@IaintTrynaGoOutLikeBIGnPAC we women are naturally mood swingers , it’s hormonal .. I can have psychotic moods swings until demons come out of me
Most American women have never visited and compared themselves to women in other countries. As an American immigrant,, I'll tell you they do not compare. American women have grown rather accustomed to a system and media environment that supports their abject mental laziness when it comes to men. I wish them well in their search for the one.
What’s the biggest differences?
Can I just say.....you nailed it......I swear I didn't have the balls to write this, not all but unfortunately most,coming from a different country I never seen this" there are no good men out here" mentality. Men are winning so much I am looking forward to my wedding soon but iya a damn shame.
@@wpp1586 They sure did... wrote what i was thinking.
I wish them loneliness and misery..
@@CA-zr1kz the weight is the biggest difference. I travel to Europe and the Middle East a lot. When you spend time in another country and then land back at the airport in America, it's so amazing to see the difference and realize how much bigger American women are compared to other women. American women are huge LOL
He probably passed out after dealing with all the self-entitled modern women who think themselves to be the prize in a relationship. RIP, Kevin.
Nope he passed from health issues after telling women about thier bodies. In a hotel room with a women he just met. Why would he have failed marriages and still be dealing with self entitled women but give everyone else relationship advise😂 This man would tell everyone what to do and not to do on camera and do the same off camera😂
@@kjt1872 Being married is not a guarantee of wisdom, some people choose to preserve a toxic relationship
Plus the redbulls which is bad for hypertension ....
@@patrickbunduki3477 Yes, I don't drink energy drinks anymore, they are bad in general
Thank God these videos still remain. His mind and words live on. I'm just now starting to follow his content. At the age of 43, very athletic, never married, a relatively high earner with no kids, I'm able to date women in their 20s, 30s and 40s and even 50s. What I've experienced and learned over my years he's confirmed. I'm personally grateful.
It’s amazing. Modern women literally have zero seconds of self-reflection in their whole life. We don’t hate women but are annoyed at the disparity. As a man, we wake up everyday reflecting on why we aren’t good enough to get what we want and then work to improve ourselves. Women literally don’t have a thought in their head other than, “I’m here. Isn’t that enough? That’s what Disney told me, so where is my prince?”
This deserves more likes tbh perfectly said
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It's also the same in the job market.
In the same job a women with the qualifications but no experience will get the same job as a man who would need the same qualifications- but five years experience- just to be considered for an interview.
Just got out of a relationship with a woman just like this. I had to sacrifice and give up everything, and she still wanted more. All the while, she didn’t want to do anything I asked. Just being there should have been enough for me… It really wasted so much time that I really didn’t have to start with. Now, got to start over at 40, and a new career. Hope you fellas learn about what they do earlier than I did. Godspeed
that’s because they are modern feminists that explains it all wether they officially claim to be feminist or have those indoctrinations is of little distinction
Unfortunately, even the women in their early 20s have miles and damage. It's really odd they have no idea how to price or sell anything. And Kevin is dead on about the crazy modern woman demands no matter which community.
I had a 17 year old colleague and she was telling us proudly that her bodycount was 17. We are screwed fellas. Stay cold.
@@sidohofman6835 Heart so cold we need super suits
RIGHT!!! On average by the time they are 22 body count is already double digits. They have probably had multiple casual relationships, been hurt multiple times, played emotional games with multiple guys and still think they are a prize. We need to get Kevin to address this. Younger women may be more physically attractive but they are a pain in the rear to deal with. Won't cooperate won't put in any effort, talking to 6 guys at a time, emotionally unavailable. They are no better than 30 - 40 y/o women.
"You know the price of everything but the value of nothing"
- Jay Z
They’ll get it when they 50 years old then they’ll be a little nice to dudes n address younger men as sweety sweetheart honey baby babe ish like that
When a modern woman says she’s working on her mental health, only means she’s not done riding the cokk carousel. I’m j/s.
Also that she’s mental as f*** and she doesn’t plan on working on it
Kevin is a savage and I love it! Getting people uncomfortable is healthy. I'm a Realtor for the last 8 years and if this lady wants to be a Realtor, she'll need to adapt the motto that growth comes from getting out of our comfort zone. Statistically, there are many women Realtors and statistically women have an easier time meeting new customers in real estate (lots of guys who will use women's real estate licenses as an opener to talk to them for a date). However, real estate is a full time job and is very demanding. You'll work when your clients want to work AND you'll work a regular 8 to 5 day. If you come from a standard job, you will have to learn to self-manage and control your daily activities. The industry average is 2 years or less for new Realtors before they drop out and go back to a standard job. To make 2.4M, you'd have to sell 80M of real estate at 3% commission, so 200 homes at $400,000 each. The average Realtor sells about 2-5 homes a year. That's gross commissions, so pre-tax, pre-expenses, and pre-broker splits, by the way.
Some realtors (a couple) I've worked with sold a lot more homes a year than that, but maaaan, they did it by playing the looooong game. They played it long, and they played it deep. They were always developing business, and looking to turn current business into future business. They were also always quick to adjust to circumstance. At times when very few realtors could sell homes due to market and supply issues, they were among the few. They did this so long that most of their customers were repeat customers, yet they kept generating new business every way they could.
In the end they semi-retired, selling some houses here and there "for fun", mostly because they liked helping people do what they wanted to do. But even in semi-retirement, this "for fun" work was probably what most successful realtors were selling at the height of their careers.
I'm starting to see this side in my wife's sister, who is 10 years younger than my wife. She often comes over and stays the night with us to go out with her friends. She sees the result of our work. She sees what we have accomplished in 10 years together.
But she doesn't see when we both were right out of college and were barely making ends meet. She doesn't see when we both lived on my wife's salary because I was building up my business and working my ass off. She sees the results. The nice apartment and the nice car.
No one wants to grow with each other anymore. Everyone wants easy money. I keep telling her to find a guy that has potential, that works hard, that is loyal and loving. Find someone that has goals. Not someone who has reached his goals. A man that has reached his goals and is still single is a man who won't be taking any BS. He won't accept any sassy, strong, independent woman. He will move on.
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They don’t want potential thats the problem they want the results now and bring little to the table its fast food dating fast food marriage speed dating tinder hookups no one wants the real thing, im blaming feminism on this problem
Most people only see the results. Not the struggle. My wife and I slept on my dads living room for a year. Scrapped up for an apartment. Slept on the floor with no furniture. Now we own a car free and clear. No debt. Live at a home with two kids and she is a stay home wife/mom.
@@Imhere12345 They all think there are so many options so many fish in the sea but they can’t explain why they are single lmao. More options aren’t always a good thing. Give me one option worth a diamond over a million options each worth a grain of sand.
It takes a fool to learn ,,,
That Love Don’t Love Nobody
Honestly massive respect to her for not losing her shit. She handled the embarrassment rather well.
She really handled it well
Lmao
i agree compared to most. she took it on the chin, i respect it.
I think she just thought it wasn't completely true... a lot of it appeared to go over head. There was almost always a "What about this" type response.
she looks high.
The most honest conversation. As a woman its needed. Rest in Power
What a legend of a man.
I really hope this woman took to hart his excellent advices, made the right choices and is happy with a husband by her side.
I'm sure she didn't. You cannot start out this ignorant and end up emotionally healthy and aware at the end of the conversation. These women seem hopelessly dumb.
She for the streets
My dad said the same thing after my nephew and his wife got a divorce after an expensive wedding and 8 months of marriage. "Women want weddings, not marriage." So true. 🙃
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I would just do a small wedding with my congregation…you don’t have to have an expensive wedding…just like we do on the feast days…everybody bring a dish…simple…everybody comes…bam…no serious money spent…I get to celebrate my union with the people I care about…I think women deserve a chance to redeem themselves…we grew up without fathers…didn’t have value for ourselves….how can a man expect a high value woman if they not high value…some of the stuff he saying is kinda not making sense…he’s saying she shouldn’t desire to build an empire with him…instead she just supposed to work full-time…He’s not making sense…and taking care of kids and a man IS a full-time job….
@@Zeebo216 I don't believe he is saying it, the woman are. High value to them is a man who makes close to 1/2 a million dollars when they aren't even close to that money themselves nor in the physical department. The women need to be more down to earth and seek men on their level which most is the time average. I would want an average man myself, a real worker and not some pansy who flaunts his money around. 😄🌸
@@Zeebo216 ok, what women need to stop doing is comparing their value to how a man's value is ok, so what women need to do is know their own value, but to what they have done or not done, most men are looking for what is called a old traditional woman, which she will cook, clean and take care of her husband in the bedroom, in todays time and since i was a very young boy, i have not seen any woman or been with any woman that would even do one of those things ok and also i told people along time ago, women was pricing them self's out of the dating market ok and here we go, all men are now seeing women have priced them self out of the dating market ok, also keep in mind women have what is called a sexual market ok, that means as women age that sexual market will drop ok, as women have more and more sex with different men, her sexual market will drop even farther ok hehe
@@Zeebo216 also keep in mind how a man's value is said to be, is not the same way a women's value is consider ok hehe
He will be missed. Man, he opened eyes to so many people . It's sad he is gone. He work is ART. It will get value overtimes
it definelty will
It’s not good that he died ofc, but most people don’t get put on to great people until it’s too late. I myself just now getting into him.
RIP makes people more popular. More than ever this info is gonna get out. A change the world really needs.
I know he was smart
Crazy he died then all this comes to head. I even heard TD Jakes and others talking about “modern women”. KS, big brother, you will be missed sir. 💙
Amen Johnny Erinn Amen!!
Kevin wherever you are you are always with us.
Kevin is like a social economist
Lady: I want an empire
Kevin: Lady you cut hair
Me: priceless lmaoooo
Anything that sounds good and feeds the ego
When he called her average that stung her
Every woman wants an “Empire” without the work & responsibility. They just want the benefits of an empire.
@@derektheproducer They either have to build their own which they don't and won'tas they don't even build nests. 2nd she would have to find a man who has one and be willing to put her in his empire which most men won't due to the experiences they saw from the previous generation
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When a chick hesitate to tell who broke up , she most definitely did something to brake off the relationship. Their favorite trigger word is “ Mutual Agreement “ , Intimidation , and insecure . Anything to absolve any accountability. If women were Superman Accountability would be their kryptonite .
Just say supergirl leave superman out of this
I'd actually disagree. Women tend to be quick and proud to say "I broke it off!!" when they initiated the breakup.
I believe that HE actually broke it off and she's using that "mutual" BS to save face and not have to say that it was actually HIM that broke it off. Keep in mind that many of these modern women do NOT like rejection and do NOT like to be painted in a bad light.
@N Y Anyone that makes them accountable for their actions/words get labelled as an "abusive relationship".
"It was toxic." 🙄
"He messed up, I broke it off,"........."Now I'm working on myself" LMAO "Can't make this shyt up!"
My old man once told me "The couple who had $5k wedding, at the end of the day, are just as married as the ones who had a $50k wedding." Weddings serve one purpose: to make select people very rich. It's why the wedding cake industry alone is a multi-billion dollar a year industry. Though it sounds like in recent years, they're starting to die off. Can't imagine why...
You went from this life way too soon brother, you have left us with plenty of honesty and wisdom, RIP ❤️🙏
Kevin surgically disects the dreams of individuals showing them how unrealistic most are! Peace and love!
Kevin is genius. We need more people like him.
@@NoreLyne , to each is its own!!! Keep your faith! The right man is out there for you!! Use your wisdom to select the best one for You!
@@NoreLyne , OK Lina as long as you're happy, I'm happy for you! Peace and love!
@@NoreLyne , I'm heterosexual and will always try to find the right woman for me. My mom has been in the hospital since Jan 2nd and I just buried my Aunt last Friday. All Covid-19 related. This is a challenging period. Otherwise, life is beautiful. Something we all should cherish!
It will not help them. They will hear but not listen.
Her boyfriend ended it. If she broke it off, she would’ve just said “I did”. But she feels embarrassed and is trying to save dignity
exactly it’s obvious she was dumped and is actually low quality because if she is high quality and dumped him 1 she wouldn’t be in that video in that context getting grilled and 2 if she dumped him she would be arrogant and say it and 3 by dodging the question its clear she got dumped
I had a different take.....My impression was she broke it off and didn’t want to say it because she believed that was the answer KS was looking for.
I don't blame him to be honest. I would never go anywhere near a woman if her job involved grooming other men.
either the boyfriend or her or both had substance abuse issues and she did not want to damage her brand or his...
She broke it off. Doesn't want to say so, because it makes her look bad. The pause is because she is trying to figure out a lie that makes her look good. But she struggles because she is not used to being called out in real time.
problem is, people are so focused on status and money that forget about finding what’s the most important thing, the RIGHT person.
Thank you.
Right personality or character
Exactly these ppl are so brain dead they want to live a life of the rich an famous haha.. my wife met me when I didn't have shit now we have a house an a good amount of saving cuz I worked my ass off for her cuz she got with me cus of who I am as a person
… I think you mean women.
@@heimeschwartzbaum2037 no I think he means people. Anyone who thnks this is a female only problem is deluding themselves.
I made it to 11 minutes and I just couldn’t do it anymore. Just the audacity and delusionality of the modern woman these days is unbelievable.
You are trooper..I made it to 9 mins
I rarely can make it that long with any of the women he talks to.
@@ianparr5899 smoking a blunt helps
So after a woman would spend the night, I got pretty good at cooking breakfast the next morning. Sort of became a tradition (of mine). The vast majority of women I dated would say things like 'I could get used to this'.
The woman that stood out to me was the woman that told me my breakfast was great, but on our next date, she came over with a bag of groceries and she insisted that she was going to make ME breakfast at my house in the morning. She also had a few items that weren't needed for breakfast but she just wanted in the fridge for future meals. She actually acted excited to come in to my life and to help support what I had through cooking and doing laundry, etc. All with an excited attitude.
Some women figure out that instead of expecting to get waited on hand and foot that they can show their value to the relationship and honestly it starts right away. We were engaged in just under a year.
EDIT: Btw, thanks for all the likes and comments. My reason for sharing the comment wasn't to brag it was just to let those who haven't encountered it yet know what it feels like to interact with a woman that knows what she brings to the table. Most approach the relationship with a 'whats in it for me' attitude, others know how to be in a relationship and how to demonstrate how they add value to your life. It's a night and day difference.
Good one. A woman's value has always been how she looks after the home and her family.
Hope things are still going well for you.
Nice 👌
Brilliant ..:you eventually got a good one ..Wise man !…good testimony …look after yourselves !
You see...that's a very smart woman...she saw an opportunity to be a wife.
Why do they keep saying men are "intimidated" by their job? Ain't nobody scared of that shit.
They blow smoke up eachothers butts for good feels..
It's because those females fear that their job means nothing to them so they project their insecurities on men. Fact is, their job really means nothing for us. Which intimidates them to a degree that they can't phantom what men want, because of their hearing impairment, they don't know what we want even tho we tell them exactly what we want. Which is why i avoid girls like this, they think everybody is as immature as they are.
Where’s the love button?
Only thing we don’t like is when you think you’re better than us because of the job.
Most women ain't making no money to begin with and the ones who are they spending 95% of it and paycheck to paycheck. I be meeting chicks making 100k still broke lol.
That's what he means, you respect strength, actions matching words✊
Well done Kevin. I've been married for over 30 years and I've just learned a few new things. Thank you.
You are a hero. Even though you're gone, your videos continue to help a lot of people. Rest in peace Kevin.
A good friend of mine got married at the local City Hall with his wife. I asked him why he did not want to have a wedding ceremony. He told me he's been to two of his older sister's weddings. He witnessed genuine happiness in their expressions just a few times during the entire day. The rest of the time? They were absolutely miserable. So he and his wife opted to skip all of that nonsense, have a simple dinner banquet, and took the money intended for their ceremony for a down payment on their house. Smart.
Wife & I did the same thing!!! Wedding money went toward closing cost!
You have a good wife who does not get influenced by the non sense social media.
Very grown...cuz I never understood weddings,,,so the married couple pays for other people to have a party to celebrate your communion ..nahhhhh it kinda sounds irresponsible once u really look at it
@Damian Married 5 years, dated only for about 5 months. We're living a simple, humble life. The house we're building is almost done. I'd say 4 months from now.
@Damian same, went to city hall been married for 22yrs and he asked to marry me after 2 months
Red flags (her words and translation):
"I want to work on things mentally and emotionally before I get married" - she's mentally ill and emotionally unstable.
"I've been through a lot"- a lot of men have laid pipe down through her. A lot.
"The purpose of marriage is companionship and security"- she wants your money, but she's only willing to give you mostly platonic friendship in return;
"I want to build an empire with the man I'm with"- she wants you to build an empire for her that she doesn't have to build herself, but then wants you to be her servant while she fulfills the role of queen;
"I think I have a lot to offer" - she does not have very much to offer and she knows it;
There may be more, but those were the most obvious to me.
Spot On!!!!
Yep. And if she met a man equal to her she would say gross. Yet they can't see their own hypocrisy. She has so many expectations of what her man should be, yet what does she have to offer other than decent looks that will fade with time? $200k/year and a stay-at-home lifestyle for "respect" isn't going to cut it for most men in the top 5% income bracket. Most would use her and throw her to the curb.
@@michaeldalton8374 Good point.
Still watching, but, "it was mutual." - Either she walked away from a partner or he left her. Round about answer means she's either ashamed it ended or she is dodging the fact that it might be her fault.
"We were fighting a lot" - he was telling me how i hurt/embarrassed/disrespected him but i didnt care because i dont actually care about him, only what he can do for me.
Build an empire? Lady you cut hair for a living 🤣🤣🤣I lost it right there
This is GOLD, miss this guy!
She's mature for her age. She answers questions like a 7 year old.
bruh i died
I just heard that and saw your comment as she tilted her head lol
Are u on drugs is is not mature.😂
Sadly these kind of women are becoming the norm
She's intimidated. Kevin was an intimidating person because you didn't know if you were going to get blessed out or not. She does need a bit more time to grow. Women ARE getting married a little later than what they were 60 years ago. I see A LOT of women getting hitched in their early thirties.
I got a lot of respect for her being grilled, embarrassed and being told the truth but taking it very well. Most people would’ve been offended and angry. Respect ✊🏾✊🏾✊🏾
I do agree
She must be getting paid for it
@@monsieurbennett No she’s just not a black woman so there was no need for confrontation by a fellow black man
Sure .. but she only gets my respect if I could what she does walking away from this conversation
She may have truly wanted incite.
We need this man more than ever
Great topic, great video.
When these women say
"I've been through a lot"
What they are telling you is a lot (of men) have been through them and they have completely permanently zeroed out their pair bonding ability.
This of course destroys their ability to trust or connect with another person, including their own children if they ever have any, and this is the source of their chronic uncertainty and inability to make decisions.
And no amount of therapy can undo that damage
At what number (i.e. “body count”) would you say that >50% of women’s attempts at pair bonding are unsuccessful
I say > 4
Agreed, many women do not want to give men respect and they do not want the responsibility of raising children. They only want happiness, fun, and building empires.
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Amen.
Indeed
If I had a dollar for every 20-35yo woman I've heard say their last relationship ended because they need to work on themselves but aren't actually doing anything I'd be living in a home with staff.
Lol we all know what "work on myself" means when they say that - carousel 🎠.
The proof? Give them a year and observe what has usually changed - nothing.
Why can't people 'work on themselves ' when they are IN a relationship? I hear this all the time, but it seems to be the 'go-to' line for all sorts of antics.
@@flagal519 well funny you say that. I'm dealing with this now.
@@CorlosMazda what are you working on? Keep it vague if you prefer.
@@tomMXBN I'm not working on anything, I know my value and what I bring to the table. I got the "I need to step back and work on myself". But going on two weeks I see no steps and laziness. Just this video in particular resonated with my situation.
Over the last 3 months I have watched many of Kevin's shows. I keep looking for more every day. I can say I will never look at women the same again.
I want to build an empire.
You cut hair for living 😂😂😂
Rest in power legend. Thank you for every video you made for us.
It’s ok. A man making 200,000 a year will select her over a younger innocent less damaged woman 😂
@@Pokechop01 at least she's not a single mom frfr.
@@MakaylaHatesYou facts. She definitely knows what she wants.
Omg... I love this dude! Nothing but fire!!!
I think it is wonderful that women want this man with high value and a fat wallet, but feel offended when that man says that he wants a young woman who has not had a questionable past and package.
They drank the feminist Kool aid and now they gotta pay for it.
That 304 is gonna be found putrefying for months surrounded by cats eating her PhD 🐱 🐈☝️💀🐱🐈
It's like telling a young beautiful woman to be fine with an older broke guy. That the experience and maturity he gained from the last 15 years of constant bad decisions won't happen again, and now he'll be an asset and a good provider. It's ridiculous.
@@GGWP-nx3kn - "I've got a PhD!"
someone came out and said men want young thin virgins with little to no debt and no tattoos and so many supposed "tradditional" women were like HOW DARE YOU! JUST BC A WOMAN HAS TATTOOS DEBT is obeses AND OTHER MENS KIDS DOESNT MEAN SHES A BAD PERSON. Women sincerly do NOT see men as people. Just tools
"This ain't a Black Woman thing, this is a Modern Woman thing."
FINALLY! 👏
+Steve Taylor AMEN!!!!!!!...
if that's true then does that mean feminism has been a failure for men? i'd say yes but what do you say?
@@FazeParticles How has Feminism helped either sex. Simply ask 100 women what Feminism is and you'll get 100 different (usually factually incorrect) responses.
Thankfully the majority or women no longer identify as feminists.
White people are literally all through the comments celebrating being included in dysfunction.. Lmao! IT'S A WHITE Thing tuuuu!.. lol
I’m here for the comedy-keep it comin ladies-LAUGHABLE!
Kevin, thank you for your work I wish you were still here with us. You opened my eyes like no one else.
I'm 21 male with 2 kids and a stay at home wife. We were both virgins before we met eachother and that wasn't for religious reasons it was just how it happened. My wife says she enjoys staying at home and cleaning for the family. I work as a forklift driver and make a normal living with a 3 bedroom house. It's still possible to live that traditional life and I would never ever waste my time with modern women. Real women do still exist dont give up!
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Imagine a 21 year old thinking he know anything. You’re going to end up divorced.
@@whydoncha you let fear of being not enough control your life.
@@whydoncha stop talking down on what he got
Awesome!! Congratulations
Like KS said, 'a society will only rise as high as the moral position of its women.' Ego in the modern woman today is in large part destroying the nuclear family.
@Hubert Harrison you're right.
Ego, but their mattress is on the floor.
100
"The true worth of a race must be measured by the character of its woman." was said by Mary McLeod Bethune.
@@odiumgeneris729 Well looks like both white and black people are in the gutter. Asians are not far behind nowadays either
Kevin was a blessing to all of us☺️
This video touched my heart so much. Especially when he said “you can’t be free”…… lord I wish he was still here😢😢
This girl is a living example of the tragic consequences of feminism. It ruined womanhood. Respect to her for hanging in there and taking it though. That's a good quality that a lot of women he talks to don't share.
Yeah, she doesn’t seem to be out of her head, like many others who come on this show
Feminism is truly a cancer
Can’t lie she’s cute 😍
Cause she aint black,. This one is educated
@@mrjackbagginz stop that shit
“people in the middle have always gotten together for survival” 🤯 I felt that. Thank you Kevin!
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How dare you imply she’s average! She’s building an empire.
Truth hurts a lot of ppl. with that statement 👍🏼
@@wyganter empire for what leftover women
@@wyganter hilarious
Excellent video!!
We lost this man way too soon. A true gem. Lost him right when he was needed most.
These women demand alot but offer little.
The modern western woman.
"These women demand alot but offer little." These women demand alot but offer nothing.
There, I fixed that for ya.
Everytime he asks a woman what state she lives in, I say "denial".
It literally always works.
Best comment I've seen in a while!
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I say the same thing haha!
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Why is that? Oh because you think every woman lives in denial. lol
If she says "I'm working on myself emotionally" one more time I'm gonna punch myself in the face 🤣🤦♀️
God bless ks
Thank you for your wisdom
A mutual breakup is when both people say at exactly the same time..."I'm breaking up with you". Never happens.
One of my exes said I think we should break up and I said ok sure.
She probably tells everyone that it was mutual. When she was the one that instigated it. I just didn’t feel she was worth fighting for, I wasn’t gonna break up with her though.
Yes it does. In movies 😀
@@vicbirth1649 then you would have eventually broken up with her or probably never married her
Good point
It happens, my last ex wanted children and I did not. So we agreed at the same time it's better to break up
It took me 40 years and two relationships to realise what Kevin is talking about. He's absolutely 100% right. Women need to start learning their own truth instead of listening to their friends and society.
Damn, 40 years I learned this at a young age, a teen, just watching people they all tell you who they are
@@TheTaekwon3 lucky! Some never learn it!
They need to learn the ultimate and onlly truth, not theirs which is not objective . That truth is they have no discipline to their mouth , body or mind. Until that happens , their life is worthless..
@@jracerichards 🙌
Their friends are their competition where they live and they don’t realize it. Your friends sabotage your relationship then go for your man haha 100 % of the time
Kevin is actually very kind. Being honest can sound mean but it’s what people need to hear.
These videos are a reality check