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  • @antonioburton8332
    @antonioburton8332 Před 3 lety +4954

    This girl went to my college lol. I live in Raleigh/Durham area and I encounter women like this all the time. I always tell them I’m a farmer (grew up on a farm and still contribute to it in free time) but I never tell them I have my MBA and doing well in my career. I always downplay what I do and sure enough it never goes anywhere after they know I’m a farmer but the funny part is sometimes I’ll run into them in the same social circles or they come across my social media and they see what I really have going on and they try to slide back into the picture after realizing it but I’m not interested anymore, I wear my blue collar up bringing with pride.

    • @mzcain1521
      @mzcain1521 Před 3 lety +260

      Much respect to you as a part time farmer. I used to rake leaves growing up and that was tough for me so I couldn’t imagine milking a cow or feeding animals or making hay bales ....

    • @B1GNole
      @B1GNole Před 3 lety +219

      I appreciate you sharing this, the majority of women don't have any interest in knowing a man. That actually takes time, patience and being willing to put in the work!

    • @Aright231
      @Aright231 Před 3 lety +141

      @@B1GNole 100%. I downplay too. This is the part of manhood that gets objectified, it’s the same as a woman touting her “goods” around to advertise herself to be objectified. It’s not respectable.

    • @aprilcoleman8369
      @aprilcoleman8369 Před 3 lety +73

      Farm life is great the animals the peace of it all

    • @ourvidskj
      @ourvidskj Před 3 lety +38

      As a woman I down play my job tbh. I got a regular smegular good benefits role at a tech company and men are funny also. I don't make much but if I say who I work for and people look at my life somehow think I'm wealthy and things get very weird in dating for me. I've been told I look wealthy too and I work part-time on the brink of minimum wage. It trips me out. I don't have much at all and its like dang y'all are weird out here. Not same situation but in reversed the "IDEAL" of having something got people moving weird. I try to go off how people were raised and their spirit before I commit so honestly asking of money from a man is a warning for me. (I'm just talking sharing my experience but yep...I can see how that works)

  • @thisara4526
    @thisara4526 Před 3 lety +6951

    I’m not black but Kevin’s material is universal in my eyes.

    • @dylanc.7050
      @dylanc.7050 Před 3 lety +504

      I totally agree this is for all people💯

    • @Cryptokat
      @Cryptokat Před 3 lety +366

      the truth, like justice (and "colour") should be blind.

    • @BlakJakk
      @BlakJakk Před 3 lety +79

      Facts

    • @bpraise517
      @bpraise517 Před 3 lety +68

      100% agree

    • @alansjf33
      @alansjf33 Před 3 lety +57

      Facts

  • @frankpinmtl
    @frankpinmtl Před 2 lety +106

    She's the kind of woman who you sit down to dinner with and all she does is go on about her day and what she did, look around at everyone and have her phone out, every two minutes, updating her status.

    • @Depharrella
      @Depharrella Před rokem

      I’m glad you know this type honestly

  • @nancybenton5635
    @nancybenton5635 Před rokem +130

    I wish I had this advice when I was 20. He’s so right. The more independent I became due to necessity, the less desirable I became. In my mid thirties, I realized I was a left over. I laugh about it because there’s nothing I can do now. Good luck to this girl.

    • @sgeine
      @sgeine Před rokem +11

      I agree with everything you said 100% and it needs to be repeated by moms/dads year after year to their children. However, I don't agree with the 'giving up' part. You don't have to give up, you just have to adjust expectations. Your market is different now. Expect men with kids, divorced, probably in their 40's (who also earn a lot more) etc. I married my wife when I was 42, she's 38 and from a humble upbringing. very traditional woman, was raised to be a wife, native korean, She's pregnant with a healthy son right now which will be in addition to my 13 year old daughter I have primary custody of. You're still in a good place and can be competitive.

    • @nancybenton5635
      @nancybenton5635 Před rokem +12

      @@sgeine that’s wonderful. I love a good love story. No, I’m over 55 now. Dated many divorced and even widowers, just never met the one. It’s ok, I have a big family and amazing friends. Life is good.

    • @sgeine
      @sgeine Před rokem +1

      @@nancybenton5635 I understand. I think the most important takeaway then, as adults, is for us to end this endemic destructive cycle and stop teaching little girls and young women that family/marriage/children are slavery and career/independence at the expense of the former is the goal. There was an place for feminism RE: equality but now it is literally destroying our society. No children, no society. We have to allow and encourage each gender to fulfil their unique roles. I have never seen a more sustained and destructive attack on women and their unique (equally valuable) contributions to society than what feminism and 'trans rights' have done and continue to do to women. Its frightening.

    • @nancybenton5635
      @nancybenton5635 Před rokem +4

      @@sgeine we could be friends. I completely agree.

    • @kokoalaska9888
      @kokoalaska9888 Před rokem +7

      Im in the same boat. Now at 34, dating is like going through a clearance rack. I meet many men along the way but my career was my priority cuz thats what i was taught. 😢Whew, lets try to get it right before 40.

  • @cegb551
    @cegb551 Před 3 lety +3066

    The fact that she thinks she’s a 10, is the main reason why she’s single.

    • @deironhorton33
      @deironhorton33 Před 3 lety +148

      unfreakingbelievable!!! just unreal

    • @EyesofMichael
      @EyesofMichael Před 3 lety +55

      LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    • @Dahbigballer
      @Dahbigballer Před 3 lety +337

      She is NOT EVEN A 6. Her voice is ANNOYING

    • @EyesofMichael
      @EyesofMichael Před 3 lety +214

      @@Dahbigballer She is "average AT BEST"!!!!!!

    • @cegb551
      @cegb551 Před 3 lety +230

      @@Dahbigballer her whole vibe is annoying which is why at 30, her longest relationship is only 6 months.. she lacks self awareness.

  • @allhailps5notworthy838
    @allhailps5notworthy838 Před 3 lety +2511

    Kevin is what we wanted Steve Harvey to be

    • @alf3071
      @alf3071 Před 3 lety +187

      yea but he would lose about 50% of his audience if he was

    • @R3LSH3LL
      @R3LSH3LL Před 3 lety +61

      Big facts but Steve don’t know when to stop

    • @eclipse4283
      @eclipse4283 Před 3 lety +363

      Difference is Steve tells woman what they want to hear. Kevin tells women what they need to hear.

    • @medic6yaeta254
      @medic6yaeta254 Před 3 lety +83

      listening to Steve Harvey's advise on black relationships to me is the equivalent to a salesman @ EZ car credit buy here pay here. Other words...a joke.

    • @pastortim9490
      @pastortim9490 Před 3 lety +10

      🤣🤣🤣

  • @rockstarkaustabh
    @rockstarkaustabh Před 2 lety +57

    I am Indian and it's not just Western women who are like this. I have seen and continue to encounter a lot of Indian and Asian women who have become like this as well: overtly masculine, argumentative, dominant and egoistic thinking the world has to get on their level. 3rd wave feminism has managed to breach the more cultural and traditional societies as well.

    • @Kingx90
      @Kingx90 Před 3 měsíci

      In the US it’s permeated every race. It used to just be the northeast, then California, then it’s the south and now other English speaking countries. There’s no hope for us. Feminism is a virus.

    • @Kingx90
      @Kingx90 Před 3 měsíci +1

      Notice she disagreed with every single thing Kevin said. Masculine energy through the roof. 5 years til geriatric pregnancy and you can’t tell her a thing. Good luck.

    • @cjizzle26
      @cjizzle26 Před měsícem +1

      Exactly bro. In Europe and Asia. I was in South Korea and that’s how the women were and Germany the same way

    • @Kingx90
      @Kingx90 Před měsícem

      @@cjizzle26they were masculine and unapproachable?

  • @dubzeefps4189
    @dubzeefps4189 Před 2 lety +160

    “Your whole energy is just sass” proves him right by tilting her head to side wide eyed! That is literally sass 😂😂

  • @JulianRodriguezIV
    @JulianRodriguezIV Před 3 lety +2117

    Her voice is enough of a reason for me to take my 160k a year elsewhere...

    • @myjizzureye
      @myjizzureye Před 3 lety +93

      To the gas station to buy newports or to the dog track?

    • @Chozen93
      @Chozen93 Před 3 lety +19

      😩😭😭

    • @Chozen93
      @Chozen93 Před 3 lety +21

      @@myjizzureye what are u gonna buy?

    • @body46
      @body46 Před 3 lety +25

      Hello sir, what field are you in? I am current employed in the healthcare field. Im not sure I could be of help, but I am trying to elevate my career and would appreciate any time you could afford me to discuss career topics. Thank you!

    • @ghostbandz4020
      @ghostbandz4020 Před 3 lety +2

      On god 😂😂😂

  • @SivvySiv
    @SivvySiv Před 3 lety +2098

    I would gladly “accept” a blue collar gentleman at 42k-60k a year or whatever. That’s who my dad was, and I respected and loved him. He did great. Ladies humble yourselves with these “income requirements”

    • @SmileyAdventures
      @SmileyAdventures Před 3 lety +305

      Exactly! They don’t get it Sis. Them benefits and retirement plans are on point! They listening to too much City Girls and on Instagram all day.

    • @SivvySiv
      @SivvySiv Před 3 lety +96

      @@SmileyAdventures I’m glad to know you feel the same! Especially coming from a lovely lady like yourself! You can have alllll those extras if you wanted that, but we realize that longevity and relatability are the keys to happy families and relationships! ❤️

    • @Jaleel88
      @Jaleel88 Před 3 lety +15

      Exactly! Much love to u sweetheart💪🏾🙏🏾✊🏾🍾🥂

    • @odinforce5020
      @odinforce5020 Před 3 lety +8

      Fire ass

    • @craigtrusty3496
      @craigtrusty3496 Před 3 lety +45

      I’m in the six figures Kevin is talking about and my ex still didn’t want to take this type of advice.

  • @The86thatdude
    @The86thatdude Před rokem +12

    Kevin preaches the truth. I married my wife over 20 years ago. We struggled and ate bologna sandwiches for dinner when we started out. I'm a VP now making +$100k and my wife takes care of me and our home. These women today don't get it.

  • @xavierchazwell8315
    @xavierchazwell8315 Před 2 lety +31

    “It’s sad that that man was your father and he ain’t good enough for you” …… that speaks volumes.

  • @Buddrick28
    @Buddrick28 Před 3 lety +1160

    You can't be ugly and play hard to get. You're already hard to want!

    • @khustarkula2976
      @khustarkula2976 Před 3 lety +65

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @kramer1372
      @kramer1372 Před 3 lety +9

      Hahaha

    • @kenwa4
      @kenwa4 Před 3 lety +41

      Dang… I think she’s an adjustable 5 😂

    • @kysstaylor
      @kysstaylor Před 3 lety +49

      Shes not ugly

    • @Buddrick28
      @Buddrick28 Před 3 lety +52

      @@kenwa4 More like a fixed 4 imo 🤷🏽‍♂️😂

  • @TheOliviadevon
    @TheOliviadevon Před 3 lety +831

    My husband is an average man. We married at the age of 22. We been together 11yrs have 3 kids. We live good. These women are slow! You start young and build with a man. These women to old!

    • @mariobalotelli2410
      @mariobalotelli2410 Před 3 lety +14

      olivia walton1 I agreed

    • @squirrelsgarden
      @squirrelsgarden Před 3 lety +32

      Very smart woman!

    • @MsDragonbal776
      @MsDragonbal776 Před 3 lety +88

      Exactly. The mass majority of human beings that ever lived on the planet were average. Since when did that become a bad thing?

    • @sjinvestors250
      @sjinvestors250 Před 3 lety +14

      Smart sis. They just don’t get it!

    • @ryanj357
      @ryanj357 Před 3 lety +65

      Most women don't realize that even though a man has an average income, he can still live comfortably and not have any debt. As long as he's financially responsible he's worth building with. Pair that with an average income with a woman who's not in debt either you can have a comfortable life style easily. But no they want more and everything right now. That's not how society works lol.

  • @chocolatema1445
    @chocolatema1445 Před 2 lety +19

    I'm a RPN and I make 60k a year my hubby makes bout 45k a year we have 4 kids living together,next year I graduate to be RN and will be making 70k plus and with my experience over 80k .I worked pregnant yp to 7months and I worked after also ,I dbt have any problems with him making less .I value him and wht he brings to the table for the rest of our life's I will be make alot more and we're content and happy

  • @easyrebel
    @easyrebel Před 2 lety +32

    If she never said "you know what I'm saying!" Ever again in her life, she will see the immediate improvement.

    • @kimberly1567
      @kimberly1567 Před rokem

      she is for the street in sheeps clothing

  • @BlakJakk
    @BlakJakk Před 3 lety +1422

    Quiet women are much more attractive.. this girl is obnoxious. The silly giggles and loud voice is irritating

  • @BlakJakk
    @BlakJakk Před 3 lety +1647

    She said she dont want to "count" her last relationship. Pay attention fellas, all women lie about they're body count

    • @mdogzino
      @mdogzino Před 3 lety +41

      To be fair most guy would lie about it too! And lie in both directions low or high

    • @BlakJakk
      @BlakJakk Před 3 lety +268

      @@mdogzino it dont matter with men, it matters with women

    • @torachan23
      @torachan23 Před 3 lety +201

      @@mdogzino body counts matter more when it comes to a woman’s number than a man’s number

    • @tiktokbbyy3825
      @tiktokbbyy3825 Před 3 lety +63

      I wonder why all women lie about their body count?

    • @matchhunter6941
      @matchhunter6941 Před 3 lety +24

      Good observation! !

  • @ruffneckdaniel8842
    @ruffneckdaniel8842 Před rokem +10

    She don't want the man , she want the finance . 📣📣📣📣

  • @Reesestoked
    @Reesestoked Před 2 lety +143

    Kevin : “you mean to tell me, you’d be ok with a man that makes $42k a year and is a devout Christian?”
    Girl : ………
    That’s all you needed to know folks. 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @akinfolarinabatan4508
      @akinfolarinabatan4508 Před 2 lety +2

      And that is even above the median income that black men are earning in America. It's crazy how women cannot get this logic. You want a man that earns 350k per annum but at best you are LIKELY to get a median income partner. Your parents raised you up in a middle class life after working hard so many years and somehow that is not good enough. She is so focused on getting the "high value man" that she may miss out on the "medium value man" with whom they can build a middle class life together. If they are favored, they may even grow into more success than their parents.

    • @SynFlowers
      @SynFlowers Před 2 lety

      You can’t raise a family on less than 70 a year though. Realistically.

    • @michaelrobinson9713
      @michaelrobinson9713 Před 2 lety +5

      @@SynFlowers that’s why both work…

  • @PaullHutchh
    @PaullHutchh Před 3 lety +1528

    That ending was so powerful. She laughed at the idea of a 42k salary devout Christian man after she just said Spirituality is her #1 priority in a man WOW

    • @MrVanderbilt25
      @MrVanderbilt25 Před 3 lety +134

      Powerful and revealing. And she was real confident to tell Kevin to post this video so that us men can rate her. She’s in for a rude awakening lol 😆

    • @humbleservant7797
      @humbleservant7797 Před 3 lety +89

      And since she obviously based her answer off his income that means inadvertently she thinks her father isnt a good enough man.

    • @6ZouZou9
      @6ZouZou9 Před 3 lety +54

      She couldnt get her answer right without looking bad and started laughing... very revealing and cringy af.

    • @darkyafajk
      @darkyafajk Před 3 lety +109

      "Let a women talk long enough and she will tell on herself."

    • @truthbearer7891
      @truthbearer7891 Před 3 lety +39

      Literally came to comments to see if anyone else picked up on that. That was most revealing last of the whole video of how so many women like her claim to be spiritually led but their main criteria for a man are all worldy

  • @SuperShaunybaby
    @SuperShaunybaby Před 3 lety +1468

    I don’t understand why women come on his live looking for answers but when he’s giving you the answers.....it’s “I don’t think so.”

    • @justinthomas2334
      @justinthomas2334 Před 3 lety +79

      They will literally blame anyone/anything but themselves for their inability to find a man.

    • @rashidasimmons4909
      @rashidasimmons4909 Před 3 lety +5

      So everything he says is Bible? Like he's not God.

    • @SuperShaunybaby
      @SuperShaunybaby Před 3 lety +70

      @@rashidasimmons4909 I didn’t say that... smh putting words in my mouth.

    • @teshuahyisreal158
      @teshuahyisreal158 Před 3 lety +29

      @@SuperShaunybaby Sis they are in denial making us look bad😌not all us in denial

    • @ScottTakashi
      @ScottTakashi Před 3 lety +30

      @@rashidasimmons4909 So what god do you believe in to think being lazy is okay? The man you seek worked hard for his shit so why can’t you? 😂

  • @briancunningham594
    @briancunningham594 Před 2 lety +10

    One of Kevin's videos came up on my feed. 5 days and 60 videos later I'm still watching 😆

  • @redluck3048
    @redluck3048 Před 2 lety +94

    Met my wife back when I was living back at my moms, making 10 dollars and hour, driving a piece of shit car.
    She stood with me during that and now I’m making good money.
    Men take time to become high value. A girl that sticks with you through that growth is a high value women.

  • @MrsHammersley620
    @MrsHammersley620 Před 3 lety +1323

    My fiancé found me. He made it clear school isn’t for him and he’s happy doing what he’s doing. I accepted him, I never encouraged him to do anything else. 8 months later he’s in school and working towards something he feels will better him. 🤷🏻‍♀️ All I did for 8 months was cook, clean, respect, submit, and cater to him. The Latino way I was taught for a woman to behave. Now I have a rock 💍 on my finger and he’s on his way to making 6 figures. I get to benefit now because I stayed in my lane and he grew into his on his own time and in his own way. Ladies chilllllll. I am happy with a simple boring life. Humble yourselves. Oh and for the first 5 months we were living together, I paid all the bills, started our joint savings and checking and held the home down. Lol no shame here.

  • @gregorychalmers2466
    @gregorychalmers2466 Před 3 lety +1202

    A typical 49er. A 4 that thinks she’s a 9

    • @ihateeverybody3442
      @ihateeverybody3442 Před 3 lety +113

      I gotta steal this from you. 49er🤣

    • @TheChupload
      @TheChupload Před 3 lety +51

      Damn I’m stealing this G g’looks

    • @GossTubeWorld
      @GossTubeWorld Před 3 lety +7

      💀

    • @saeidk736
      @saeidk736 Před 3 lety +36

      you were very generous with the 4 and underestimated the 9

    • @bochaka613
      @bochaka613 Před 3 lety +32

      @@saeidk736 more like a -310er😂 shes -3 and thinks she's a 10

  • @kellyjohnson9394
    @kellyjohnson9394 Před rokem +6

    She’s 30years old with no man talking about “she always gets what she wants.” She’ll be 35 years old , single and with more mileage on her body and 20lbs heavier saying the same thing.

  • @Jeru22
    @Jeru22 Před rokem +4

    As soon as the music hits the girl says hello. Just off hello I can tell. Ohhhhh she has zero idea how this is gonna go. We all do 😆. I’m here for it

  • @zubileegluckgluck
    @zubileegluckgluck Před 3 lety +885

    This woman is terrifying. Especially when she's faking being nice.

    • @alexisme-adeka440
      @alexisme-adeka440 Před 3 lety +40

      Wow they try to put on a good act

    • @WhoisGod777
      @WhoisGod777 Před 3 lety +59

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 absolutely it’s fucking creepy

    • @Cdrop63
      @Cdrop63 Před 3 lety +17

      That’s the worst part!

    • @Jaleel88
      @Jaleel88 Před 3 lety +17

      And this is the worst thing just be yourself she got two faces

    • @will4evermoore
      @will4evermoore Před 3 lety +6

      Preach

  • @MrOgunbase
    @MrOgunbase Před 3 lety +878

    KS: What state are you in?
    Her: Denial

  • @jc-9188
    @jc-9188 Před 2 lety +12

    He has a holy amount of patience.

  • @faithlives5643
    @faithlives5643 Před 2 lety +4

    Kevin was a great teacher and the women haters failed themselves.

  • @scirazzbrehh
    @scirazzbrehh Před 3 lety +719

    social media has really destroyed the idea of just living an average life

  • @danawoolfolk
    @danawoolfolk Před 3 lety +1626

    She doesn't want to be happy, she wants to be right. She isn't listening to understand, she's listening to respond.

    • @rathelmmc3194
      @rathelmmc3194 Před 3 lety +32

      She can’t. She thinks she’s high value and Kevin is straight up telling her she’s not. She’s completely defensive in this exchange and cannot accept that she should just try to get a good man.

    • @shalalala868
      @shalalala868 Před 3 lety +4

      True

    • @tw.dawson
      @tw.dawson Před 3 lety +4

      Bingo💯

    • @tw.dawson
      @tw.dawson Před 3 lety +3

      Bingo💯

    • @OJMCFLY
      @OJMCFLY Před 3 lety +7

      I say the same, she listens to talk, not listen to comprehend.

  • @ice319
    @ice319 Před rokem +2

    24:42 Got her!!! GREAT question. And her argument fell apart completely.

  • @jpaquaman1911
    @jpaquaman1911 Před 2 lety +16

    I met my wife in college and we built a high middle class life (in our 40s now). I would not have stayed with my wife if she behaved like this lady.

  • @kidsavvy660
    @kidsavvy660 Před 3 lety +1568

    This man calmy and rationally explains the same thing to women over and over again, and they never learn.

    • @seniorspecialist15
      @seniorspecialist15 Před 3 lety +11

      And over, it’s like it’s been installed in their heads !

    • @xxmyyoursxx123
      @xxmyyoursxx123 Před 3 lety +13

      @@seniorspecialist15 if it was installed then they would not be here getting owned

    • @joeashbubemma
      @joeashbubemma Před 3 lety +34

      They only hear what they want to hear.

    • @wildcasa9714
      @wildcasa9714 Před 3 lety +5

      This!

    • @zaneex4043
      @zaneex4043 Před 3 lety +24

      Problem is they all think that they are the exception to the rule

  • @et9120
    @et9120 Před 3 lety +887

    She's not ugly, but her personality is like a block of concrete dragging her down.

  • @tomaszbuzaa7322
    @tomaszbuzaa7322 Před rokem +4

    The amount of mental gymnastics those women will do to evade accepting responsibility for their actions is really impressive.

  • @bekindeventothosewhoarenot1779

    After watching these videos i feel lucky to be part of a community which still believes in shame and accountability.
    US and UK black girls seem to have very high expectations while looking less than average.

  • @Kyle5K
    @Kyle5K Před 3 lety +1282

    Does anyone else discount a person by how their voice sounds?

    • @cosimo8854
      @cosimo8854 Před 3 lety +14

      Instantly!

    • @heauxpas2542
      @heauxpas2542 Před 3 lety +83

      Her voice and face match

    • @benrex7775
      @benrex7775 Před 3 lety +23

      I've heard once that if a women is abused in her younger years, then the development of her voice stops there. I personally can not judge people from their voice alone, but I do think it is possible for people more skilled than I am.

    • @raychambers3646
      @raychambers3646 Před 3 lety +15

      Couldn't put up with that for one minute.

    • @JohnMiller-iu2sx
      @JohnMiller-iu2sx Před 3 lety

      Where I live its the "chalmation" accent.

  • @larryleisure9624
    @larryleisure9624 Před 3 lety +666

    “Men, Is this the kind of caliber woman that you want?”
    Men: no thank you 🥴

    • @gerijabarr6585
      @gerijabarr6585 Před 3 lety +25

      Please re-open the old fashioned "charm" schools!!!!! They taught elegance!!!

    • @gerijabarr6585
      @gerijabarr6585 Před 3 lety +26

      Combative, poor English, ill-mannerd....

    • @UnexpectedWonder
      @UnexpectedWonder Před 3 lety +4

      Exactly!

    • @spiceisland7221
      @spiceisland7221 Před 3 lety +8

      @@gerijabarr6585
      It is needed, a lot adults are not taught manners,
      Respects, but know how to use a lots of profanity
      With limited Vocabulary usages

    • @rashadferrari3791
      @rashadferrari3791 Před 3 lety +3

      I was just thinking that if he made a episode asking men if they wanted the women who call in it would be 2 hours of silence

  • @andrewbloomquist6351
    @andrewbloomquist6351 Před 2 lety +3

    It's not that they don't know what men want... They don't care...

  • @streetlyticsogpauld301
    @streetlyticsogpauld301 Před 2 lety +1

    You preachin Kevin! That slap with the “don’t play with me” gets me every time!😂

  • @albertbrannan4
    @albertbrannan4 Před 3 lety +968

    After watching this channel I’ve decided dying alone isn’t such a bad thing.

    • @sean.the.survivor8730
      @sean.the.survivor8730 Před 3 lety +32

      Black Pill bro...

    • @pugsymalone6539
      @pugsymalone6539 Před 3 lety +87

      You're killing me! I agree. I've told my gal if we don't work out, she's my last attempt. I'll go solo if we break up. Too much work, too much bs.

    • @ShanntahnPininchula
      @ShanntahnPininchula Před 3 lety +72

      LOL for real. I realized this a while ago. I'm just not cut out for a relationship long-term. Women get on my nerves after a few weeks.

    • @anickrocourt753
      @anickrocourt753 Před 3 lety +6

      🤣🤣

    • @christelletremaine8900
      @christelletremaine8900 Před 3 lety +5

      Lmfao 🥂

  • @moa6189
    @moa6189 Před 3 lety +434

    I am 34 yr old black man, I would rather stay single and die lonely than wake up around a woman like this.

    • @mikeygirls1988
      @mikeygirls1988 Před 3 lety +18

      Agreed

    • @RaamiKala
      @RaamiKala Před 3 lety +20

      You ain’t never lie G

    • @ConsciousGame6255
      @ConsciousGame6255 Před 3 lety +15

      Facts bro.

    • @markswift
      @markswift Před 3 lety +21

      I witnessed a woman yelling at her bf or husband yesterday. She told him to "shut up and get in the car."
      He complied with her. 🤔🤔🤔🤔

    • @HMAKmusic
      @HMAKmusic Před 3 lety +5

      Yea I feel you brother

  • @ShibaInu481
    @ShibaInu481 Před rokem +1

    Thanks!

  • @tysonrickks1
    @tysonrickks1 Před 2 lety +17

    I tell women I work at Burger King and see a reaction from them and yet they clowning me .Not knowing that I own a franchise when I am the one doing the interviews when they come looking for a job or 2nd job seeing the looks on their faces as I read the resumes of college education from some to PhD that they couldn't get the job they went to school for and I am mechanic/ mechanical engineer through the Army with alot of Tech schools and Certifications from companies that build vehicles for the armed forces and police. No debt No College . Took me 3 years to make over 9k to 11k a month before covid and after covid 8 to 9k

    • @pennyproud1621
      @pennyproud1621 Před 2 lety

      Women nowadays are so e golfed in social media they have delusional expectations even when life shows them that it's not going to happen for them. And I'm 31 divorced at 23 married at 19.

  • @DasJaegar
    @DasJaegar Před 3 lety +400

    If she’s a 10 then I’m an astronaut

  • @treydeejones
    @treydeejones Před 3 lety +1590

    She doesn’t even sound high value, or have the etiquette and poise of a high value woman

    • @stewmeat92
      @stewmeat92 Před 3 lety +36

      At all

    • @phillipgoodlow1304
      @phillipgoodlow1304 Před 3 lety +20

      She definitely has the tone, but everything else she lacks

    • @phenomenon215
      @phenomenon215 Před 3 lety +3

      Facts Bro!!

    • @qualitytymwithkemba9266
      @qualitytymwithkemba9266 Před 3 lety +47

      to be honest home girl sound like she injects herself with 7 up and red bull....

    • @nextlevel6663
      @nextlevel6663 Před 3 lety +45

      They think high value is dollars. They want to be catered to and taken care and don't know how to fold a hand towel. This woman is poster child for why college isn't for everyone. She's learned very little.

  • @theurbanlifestylechannel2825

    Whenever a woman says I feel or but. Grab some popcorn this is gonna be a good show.

  • @lectrix8
    @lectrix8 Před 2 lety

    Came here from Melanie King's channel. This did not disappoint. You got my subscribe.

  • @edgardiaz3669
    @edgardiaz3669 Před 3 lety +328

    She perfectly represents the modern day women. Spends all of their 20’s being strong and independent than wants to hit the lottery with a high value man at 30 and up.

    • @TowerofAboveandBelow
      @TowerofAboveandBelow Před 3 lety +7

      She can if she's feminine, fine, funny, freaky and financially sound.

    • @edgardiaz3669
      @edgardiaz3669 Před 3 lety +14

      @@TowerofAboveandBelow Just like Kevin Samuel ask, would you recommend that strategy to all women? Chances are you wouldn’t because they would be racing against the clock and men value a women’s youth and fertility more than money

    • @TowerofAboveandBelow
      @TowerofAboveandBelow Před 3 lety +6

      @@edgardiaz3669 I'm not interested in her fertility. But other men are if they want to breed. Her money is not a focus but I do like to see that she has been an intelligent adult with life competency.

    • @edgardiaz3669
      @edgardiaz3669 Před 3 lety +10

      @@TowerofAboveandBelow That is fine but we have to keep in general terms, in general what she has done is not something that you would recommend most women to do because you know most men would not be highly interested in a women at 30 for marriage

    • @BlakJakk
      @BlakJakk Před 3 lety +1

      I dont care how fine any woman is, eggs dry up after 30 why marry her??

  • @johnnyu8845
    @johnnyu8845 Před 3 lety +847

    What’s crazy is he will never run out of content cause there r millions of women that think like this

    • @ln8396
      @ln8396 Před 3 lety +4

      💯💯

    • @angleradventure8842
      @angleradventure8842 Před 3 lety +3

      Tom Leykise did, or I think he was canceled. He was the first podcast to do this.

    • @Cho0segoose
      @Cho0segoose Před 3 lety +12

      @@angleradventure8842 this is for black people tho

    • @shanedpain7734
      @shanedpain7734 Před 3 lety +3

      Billions...

    • @Carpe_Diem_XCIII
      @Carpe_Diem_XCIII Před 3 lety +8

      And they willingly go on his show 🤦🏻‍♂️

  • @Andrew-fq7pu
    @Andrew-fq7pu Před 2 lety +8

    "It's called Pushing People to their Potential" has been said by no submissive person in history.

  • @ChilLife.chillbro
    @ChilLife.chillbro Před rokem +2

    Yes I am still giving thumbs up to this man rip brother

  • @oscarmartin685
    @oscarmartin685 Před 3 lety +259

    She's not looking for happiness, she's looking for a come up.

  • @TheLifeofKam99
    @TheLifeofKam99 Před 3 lety +418

    She doesn’t want a high value man. She wants a submissive man that she can control.

    • @Rith9789
      @Rith9789 Před 3 lety +32

      Which she would eventually cheat on because he'll become unattractive.

    • @relicgordon9277
      @relicgordon9277 Před 3 lety +16

      Who makes alot of money, you forgot to mention that

    • @jeffreygiven4713
      @jeffreygiven4713 Před 3 lety +8

      Dont they all, though?

    • @reashabiggs2236
      @reashabiggs2236 Před 3 lety +2

      Then she wants a dl man

    • @TheLifeofKam99
      @TheLifeofKam99 Před 3 lety +6

      @@jeffreygiven4713 Yes the majority of black women are raised to be independent women not wives. Because of this most want to be the man and the woman in the relationship

  • @dkorianmcgee1805
    @dkorianmcgee1805 Před 2 lety +2

    Bless her heart. Hopefully she gets it before it's too late. When will young people stop talking and lend their ear to their elders who have done it and know it.....

  • @BeingAMan1
    @BeingAMan1 Před 3 lety +2959

    I’m getting dominance energy from her, she will take over the relationship if she feels your not doing what you need to do. That “Submissive” word does not apply to her maybe for a couple months but eventually her default self will come back into play.

    • @TheDarylMack
      @TheDarylMack Před 3 lety +72

      🎯 Facts!

    • @Rosiiie11111
      @Rosiiie11111 Před 3 lety +86

      @J King not every woman is like that. Sadly, now it's seen as weakness.

    • @ichoosemysanity6467
      @ichoosemysanity6467 Před 3 lety +79

      @J King You have to dominate them physically and emotionally for them to be submissive after say 2010.

    • @Rosiiie11111
      @Rosiiie11111 Před 3 lety +21

      @J King no, your natural state is natural. It does not need any outside force to bring it about. A masculine man is a masculine man at all times, same for a woman who is feminine. Sometimes some women try to "turn off" being dominant and keep it only at the workplace but as you can see it's not as simple as it sounds. Either you are or you are not. There is no back and forth.

    • @dgo9121
      @dgo9121 Před 3 lety +31

      What a woman like this will be happy with is an Beta male provider.

  • @tarrylove9414
    @tarrylove9414 Před 3 lety +794

    What’s wrong with middle class? My husband and I live comfortably with both our cars paid for. We just bought our first home. I’m a stay at home wife n mom. I’m going to go start on dinner. Man this keeps me on my toes n helps me appreciate my husband even more. Thank God for him,I’m truly blessed.

    • @fc775
      @fc775 Před 3 lety +5

      Are you a young girl? 20s

    • @WeAllWeGot333
      @WeAllWeGot333 Před 3 lety +7

      Your going to be broke with just 1 income and if your in a single family
      House it’s not an asset nothing to be happy about

    • @brooklove90
      @brooklove90 Před 3 lety +82

      @@WeAllWeGot333 wow that is really..rude

    • @carojames6776
      @carojames6776 Před 3 lety +119

      @@WeAllWeGot333 someone else who can't stand to see anyone happy.

    • @lighteningsnips
      @lighteningsnips Před 3 lety +95

      @@WeAllWeGot333 Were you able to fully comprehend her comment? She stated that she lives 'comfortably with both their cars paid for'. How did you get the impression that they're going to be broke?

  • @hg1651
    @hg1651 Před 2 lety +1

    This channel has helped me understand myself, females, males and black people, along with some black culture.

  • @antoniodillon5496
    @antoniodillon5496 Před 2 lety +2

    Her smile look goofy she done in life with relationships 😂😂😂😂

  • @erickqwesibentilmanie2382
    @erickqwesibentilmanie2382 Před 3 lety +432

    I clicked faster than a kid opening a Christmas present.

  • @custardavenger
    @custardavenger Před 3 lety +284

    "My dad told me if a man doesn't know he wants to marry you in a year he's not the one".
    She's not even found a guy who wants to be with her for more than 6 months.

    • @michaelm9621
      @michaelm9621 Před 3 lety +3

      Your father is a wise man, we need more of them.

    • @Jaleel88
      @Jaleel88 Před 3 lety +1

      Dam I quote that too

    • @redsoxfan2107
      @redsoxfan2107 Před 3 lety +2

      But my black mom and dad told me that a good woman will wait b/c if a relationship is to make it 50 years, it can wait 3 years. Whose black mom or dad wins???? And my black parents , like eEVERYONE’s black parents, are always right.

    • @RandomPerson-nd2ey
      @RandomPerson-nd2ey Před 3 lety

      I'm saying this more and more...
      I'm not religious anymore but "Amen and Hallelujah!"
      Ask the guy where he sees himself in 5 years and listen. Did he list a wife? Did he list kids? If he listed them, ask him to describe his future wife. Boom! That's *EXACTLY* what you want to become.
      Edit: If he didn't list them, keep on moving. A guy who is serious knows what he wants. If you're asking and trying to persuade him, he may tell you what you want to hear but that's just to get in your pants. It's not what his goals really are.
      Maybe give him a chance if he listed work stuff or something else. In that case, ask about when he comes home. What does he see there?

    • @miyagifatghost2684
      @miyagifatghost2684 Před 3 lety +1

      Honestly by Her calculations and out her *own* mouth...I think it's HER not keeping men past six months. You can tell no1 man is good enuff by the way she play it. He gotta be this, he gotta have my religion (which ain't all bad), I make BIG BANK Buttt I ain't even tryna share. It's a bad deal to invest in

  • @legion1630
    @legion1630 Před 2 lety +1

    Btw this was a good informative video..tks KS and thank you lady for speaking your view point

  • @RatFacedJasper
    @RatFacedJasper Před 2 lety +5

    "You're right, know what I'm saying?"
    The language equivalent of dividing by zero.

  • @Truckingforbs
    @Truckingforbs Před 3 lety +249

    Her voice alone would make me scream and run away lol 😂

  • @kilduce4423
    @kilduce4423 Před 3 lety +214

    Imagine hearing her voice when you wake up each morning

  • @michmex220
    @michmex220 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Damn ! I love the white sweater Kevin is wearing, it looks great on him too ! This guy had the best taste in clothes.

  • @KL9702.
    @KL9702. Před 2 lety +26

    "I'm submissive" but she argues with everything he says.

  • @lcthatsit7527
    @lcthatsit7527 Před 3 lety +697

    She’s exhausting. She really don’t get it. He’s good! His patience is unparalleled.

    • @joeldavis287
      @joeldavis287 Před 3 lety +17

      She thinks it’s funny and she thinks it’s cute to be exhausting. A man doesn’t want that.

    • @evantheking6218
      @evantheking6218 Před 3 lety +6

      It’s actually really exhausting how she is generally nice and not disrespectful and she’s still getting criticized. Kevin says “black women cannot be lazy” “beckys see kicking your ass because they do something” how does that make sense? Especially since black women go out and get an education more so than any other race of women so they are around “high value men” …he says she doesn’t do anything yet he also at the same time says she’s has a high income and that doesn’t matter. She must be doing something if she’s working…so he can’t say she’s lazy. Tired of the stereo types, I’m black and white my mom is white and my white side is the laziest side of all. Give me a break. You cannot claim black women claim their phds and then claim they are all lazy. You cannot get phds from being lazy. I think Kevin is confused

    • @deniseedwards415
      @deniseedwards415 Před 3 lety +9

      She is so lost.

    • @parsia2897
      @parsia2897 Před 3 lety +3

      @@deniseedwards415 to a point of no return the sad thing is she’s not the only one man

    • @stefnitty215
      @stefnitty215 Před 3 lety

      True

  • @supertiger1979
    @supertiger1979 Před 3 lety +740

    I'm a Hispanic male and I too believe KS is speaking for all men. I really appreciate this man's wisdom! Great job Kevin!

    • @daxeven
      @daxeven Před 3 lety +51

      This mindset has infected Latinas too. I see a generation of young Hispanic women who can’t cook or clean. So many women that lack “home” skills that their mothers had mastered.

    • @supertiger1979
      @supertiger1979 Před 3 lety +11

      @@daxeven Yes I live near in New Mexico and I see it everywhere!🤦

    • @carlosenriquez3859
      @carlosenriquez3859 Před 3 lety +20

      @@daxeven these are the same women who can’t do a damn thing around the house but they want a man that can fix their car or be handy

    • @LetsLearnEconomic
      @LetsLearnEconomic Před 2 lety +6

      Thank god we have Kevin

    • @NanoverseProductions
      @NanoverseProductions Před 2 lety +3

      Same here

  • @Steph_nd_Tee
    @Steph_nd_Tee Před 2 lety +3

    Kevin you need to do a panel of "high value men" these women want

  • @Rareness
    @Rareness Před 4 měsíci +1

    My first time seeing this video and I was exhausted watching? I’m not a man and this young lady was too much! She’s open to receive wisdom and knowledge, her push back is strong, her ego gets in her way and she has masculine energy.
    She went to Kevin for advice and pushed back on everything that he was trying to help her with. It’s no reasoning with her and she’s going to have a hard time with longevity relationships I can’t even see a marriage for her. I pray she realizes that she’s a problem and she believes in God and allow to correct her to be in order for marriage and as a woman.

  • @johnletourneau6176
    @johnletourneau6176 Před 3 lety +477

    A man's world is a world of competition, from his job to his physical appearance to his interaction with other men.
    The last thing a man wants is to come home to his wife or girlfriend and compete with her. No sale!

  • @fyodordostoevsky2154
    @fyodordostoevsky2154 Před 3 lety +382

    This guy gets paid to introduce reality for deluded females. Brilliant business plan!

  • @Ninjahbutter
    @Ninjahbutter Před 2 lety +1

    Kevin’s wisdom is a cure for a lot of the nonsense out there if folks are willing to listen.
    Kevin for President 2024.

  • @leeyarbrough9636
    @leeyarbrough9636 Před 2 lety

    Great channel , I don’t really know what career he’s in , however he’s a very smart man an has a great logic about life an whatever is in it.

  • @emojimr4427
    @emojimr4427 Před 3 lety +138

    👯 16-30 " I don't need no man
    🤱31-36 " where the good men at
    👵37-45 "I'm still young
    🧟46-death " I made a mistake
    ☠️ Last word I blame men

  • @kingmansa886
    @kingmansa886 Před 3 lety +489

    My wife makes 72,000 a year as a teacher and she's beautiful I snatched her up early she has character she's submissive, caring, and wanted to have my 2 children

    • @imjustezzy2076
      @imjustezzy2076 Před 3 lety +24

      Oh my God congratulations! How old were you guys when you started dating? I hope it’s OK that I ask

    • @Lee-fk4kh
      @Lee-fk4kh Před 3 lety +23

      $72,000 as a teacher? How long has she been teaching & does she have her masters ?

    • @yee5163
      @yee5163 Před 3 lety +24

      @@Lee-fk4kh Private school teacher or in another country. America isn't the only place that exists.

    • @courtneytyree-jones8563
      @courtneytyree-jones8563 Před 3 lety

      Awesome

    • @Lee-fk4kh
      @Lee-fk4kh Před 3 lety +5

      @@yee5163 judging by his subscriptions he’s most likely American, thanks. private school teachers don’t make that much here. So, my question still stands.

  • @ruffneckdaniel8842
    @ruffneckdaniel8842 Před rokem

    Can't never get enough of this . Omg 😲

  • @lucabrasi8817
    @lucabrasi8817 Před rokem +1

    At 8:15…. The type of frustration expressed in Kevin’s face, I felt that..

  • @dks80721
    @dks80721 Před 3 lety +155

    If she's a 10, I'm a 27.

  • @HooLeeYo
    @HooLeeYo Před 3 lety +498

    She's not ugly, but lord, she can definitely summon dolphins with that screech. The masculinity is very real here, not attractive at all.

    • @kingsweetz82
      @kingsweetz82 Před 3 lety +4

      Fact

    • @davidisaiah8065
      @davidisaiah8065 Před 3 lety +61

      If u don’t think she ugly den u def like goblins and ghouls

    • @judithbonefont2772
      @judithbonefont2772 Před 3 lety +22

      God her voice gives me a headache...

    • @juanseaforth5111
      @juanseaforth5111 Před 3 lety +5

      @@judithbonefont2772 I was thinking the same thing I have try to watch it several times but her voice give me a headache.

    • @ultimatematty
      @ultimatematty Před 3 lety +7

      @@davidisaiah8065 You ain't never lie. 😂

  • @margieparsons704
    @margieparsons704 Před 2 lety +1

    A high value person has integrity, is considerate of others, kind and helps those less fortunate.

  • @sotoalex5218
    @sotoalex5218 Před 2 lety +7

    I'm not black and Kevin makes all the sense in the world. Women forgot how to be women. My last relationship was the worst thing I've ever been through. It was like I was dating a man what torture.....

  • @7bimbam929
    @7bimbam929 Před 3 lety +201

    You women need to stop laughing like this man is telling jokes.

  • @carlosconcepcion-taylor5511
    @carlosconcepcion-taylor5511 Před 3 lety +382

    To many “reality show’s” got regular girls feeling like that shit is real.

  • @cuzzindavid66
    @cuzzindavid66 Před rokem +1

    I love the slaps back to reality ...👋👋👋

  • @jamesdaceyjr8857
    @jamesdaceyjr8857 Před 2 lety +1

    Another awesome video Kevin. For me a woman has to a girly girl, very pretty, respectful, soft spoken, etc.. her money, position and personal focused status isn’t even in the equation.

  • @matthewgarrette2242
    @matthewgarrette2242 Před 3 lety +123

    " I don't believe in 50% anything "...well good cuz you bout to be 100% alone

    • @steelbltz
      @steelbltz Před 3 lety +7

      LMAO Women like that kill me, basically telling me "I dont wanna be a partner/Team player" lol

    • @jimjoe4309
      @jimjoe4309 Před 3 lety +13

      Until it’s divorce time, then she’s all about 50/50z

    • @steelbltz
      @steelbltz Před 3 lety +3

      @@jimjoe4309 funny how that logic always works out for them huh?🤣

    • @FireAngelChris
      @FireAngelChris Před 3 lety +1

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @SmileyAdventures
      @SmileyAdventures Před 3 lety +5

      I try to tell my ladies, stop with this delusion of not helping out in the home with average men even. Instagram really got these women digging a hole in their life that they may never get out of with that mentality.

  • @gracedududube2855
    @gracedududube2855 Před 3 lety +292

    This "High Value Man" thing is driving some women crazy😂

    • @parsia2897
      @parsia2897 Před 3 lety +3

      True true

    • @pulsaran
      @pulsaran Před 2 lety +1

      They use to have a thing called Gold Rush trying to find gold, this is no different ;-)

  • @FirstLast-gk6lg
    @FirstLast-gk6lg Před 2 lety +8

    You can see in her face, when he says she is "all sass" she takes that as a compliment.
    And NO, she is disgusting. I would be embarrassed to take this women around the world with me.

  • @legion1630
    @legion1630 Před 2 lety

    I love the last question funny..sad ..true and her true self came out

  • @Blueraazor
    @Blueraazor Před 3 lety +412

    I'm Latino and I've been showing this show around the community, it hits home to all men. Doing gods work, first gen Latinas are acting like this.

    • @balerikirmu.11
      @balerikirmu.11 Před 3 lety +50

      It's the environment..
      The west is toxic swear..
      Many ppl feel at least Latinas and Asians last feminine women.
      Seems best to marry and have a family outside the west.

    • @Blueraazor
      @Blueraazor Před 3 lety +71

      @@balerikirmu.11 Like my dad said "Don't marry a girl that grew up here, go back to Colombia and get a girl that understands the struggle."

    • @Blueraazor
      @Blueraazor Před 3 lety +28

      @Beware of the Daggles Estan locas, they crazy man. Some want the world and they forget what their moms/pops just went through to give them what they currently have.

    • @RogueHero
      @RogueHero Před 3 lety +11

      Facts im half Puertorican and alot of them have that toxic behavior as well

    • @j.m.edwards3425
      @j.m.edwards3425 Před 3 lety +27

      All this! The millennial and younger generation that have been sold fantasies by Western media are going to have a lot of people out there dying alone.

  • @MaxCharpentier
    @MaxCharpentier Před 3 lety +126

    Her longest relationship is 6 months..I can't get passed that part

  • @boredman1890
    @boredman1890 Před 2 lety

    That intro!!!! Legendary! Because I’m a high value girl 🤣🤣

  • @mathomodithebe2970
    @mathomodithebe2970 Před 2 lety +1

    the clip of "cause I'm a high value girl" at the beginning had me rolling. lol