DISSING MY EX | Response to “Congratulations” by Pewdiepie & Boyinaband

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  • čas přidán 2. 05. 2019
  • This is for anyone let down by Boyinaband’s collab with Pewdiepie. It also happened to be the most painful personal betrayal I’ve ever experienced.
    I’m calling out Boyinaband for prioritising his subscriber growth over doing what’s right.
    The fact that the racism in “Congratulations” is insidious, rather than blatant, and the platforming of a vocal transphobe is legitimised simply by omission, may make it difficult to immediately see what is so wrong with it. In my opinion, that makes its potential for harm far greater.
    More detail below.
    ~Beat from CZcams library
    ~Videography by Envelope Generator
    ~ Sound effects by samijoslapaho, qubodup, and lematt
    __________
    I don’t know who this will reach, if anyone. I imagine those likely to listen will already have ditched Boyinaband and won’t go within a mile of Pewdiepie. But after seeing those videos, this response came up near-uncontrollably. Like vomit. I’ll be damned if I’m not going to throw it out there in the hope that the sheer grossness of it gets through to one or two.
    It does seem iffy to write an entire song slagging off India with someone who platformed Ben Shapiro and not mention a single line of it to the brown trans person you’re supposedly dating. (When his video dropped the relationship officially ended.)
    Context as to how a degenerate leftist and “edgy” fuckegg became friends: prior to meeting David I knew next to nothing about CZcams. By the time I really understood what was going on, he'd disappeared out of contact, citing depression as the cause, making it difficult to talk to him at all, let alone address my concerns. That and, ya know, he’s a big old CZcamsr with millions of followers and I’m some no-one he happened to be into.
    Since I wrote this, Dan Bull put his parody song out. While it's clear the blanking treatment isn’t just reserved for people like me, the power difference between plebeians in relationships with rich influential fuckos, with the responsibility lying with the latter to be conscious and considerate of that dynamic, remains an issue worth raising in its own right.
    There may have been no malicious intent in the making of “Congratulations”. That doesn’t excuse gross negligence and irresponsibility.
    Onto the video.
    The “caste system,” line is the one that stands out as A. Irrelevant, B. Arrogant, and C. No different in many ways to the UK. I actually LIKE some boundary pushing when it comes to humour - trouble is, this isn’t humorous. It’s a genuine criticism of a historically oppressed country coming from a white man at the top of his own privilege pyramid. With no context for it in the video itself, the line is totally out of place - not to mention othering, condescending, and by extension, low-key actually racist.
    Newsflash: Stating self-awareness in a separate disclaimer video doesn’t somehow make it ok. Even with the explanation provided for those who do see it, the irrelevance of the line being deliberate, it’s still… irrelevant? What’s their point?
    I tried to find one and couldn’t: the only explanation is that they’re simply using the fact that it’s an Indian channel to shit on the country. Might not be the most serious racism in the world, but that’s undeniably what it is - and what IS serious is the knock-on effect that it has by opening the doors for allowing the more harmful stuff to flourish.
    I get the point about individual vs. corporation, though I have zero interest since it’s clear the motivation here was just to get views/fling shit in the pan.
    I’d add that this is a weird example of an underdog. Pewdiepie is a powerful white man who virtually represents the dominance of patriarchy, white supremacy, and western 'culture’. Never had one of those running the joint before! But sure, let’s resent the rising influence and power of the global south - specifically a country that used to be a British colony.
    Also just - PEWDIEPIE. Even now he keeps bleating “I’m not racist,” while uh, being racist, signalling to fascists, giving the alt-right a free pass on his channel, and going “it got out of control” in response to what’s happening - like his own repeated misconduct has had nothing to do with it.
    Even if we assume he isn’t an alt-right sympathiser just for arguments’ sake, he remains someone who, granted, sometimes admits to his mistakes - then carries on making them. Then asks other people to stop what he started, like it's their fault instead of his. This is not what being a decent person is; it’s just inching back from being a blatantly shitty one.
    The Overton window is a lot further to the right than I ever could have imagined, if most people can’t see that.
    Including David Brown. To me, it does seem that he used to have a moral compass, but has been steadily breaking it along the way in favour of anything that will get him more attention. Perhaps there’s still hope that he’ll turn around. That or next he’ll start up an incel protection society.
    I guess we’ll see.
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  • @Shonalika
    @Shonalika  Před 5 lety +1809

    I'd like to draw everyone's attention to the trans beach hut

  • @itsallrhythm
    @itsallrhythm Před 3 lety +1238

    I think one crucial point people are missing in this comment section is the line about depression. Shonalika isn't making fun of him having depression, they're pointing out how he seems to have used depression as a means of justifying his behaviour. Depression is extremely hard to live with, but it is not an excuse for acting shitty or ignoring somebody's concerns about issues that affect their daily life. People also seem to have overlooked the subsequent line about Shonalika being hospitalised while Boyinaband ignored them, which contrasts the previous line about using depression as an excuse.

    • @ozymandias8523
      @ozymandias8523 Před 3 lety +10

      Nowadays everyone says they have depression when they are just being assholes to garner sympathy

    • @jimballard1186
      @jimballard1186 Před 3 lety +71

      I have depression. I am still responsible for the choices I make, because those choices have outcomes and repercussions. Maybe it's unfair of me to hold others to that same standard, but it feels patronizing not to.

    • @rxden5591
      @rxden5591 Před 3 lety +3

      @@jimballard1186 thats sad i hope you eventually feel better! x

    • @jimballard1186
      @jimballard1186 Před 3 lety +8

      @@rxden5591 Thanks! I actually am a lot better. It's just a disease I'll always have, but that doesn't mean the symptoms are unmanageable, you know?

    • @blungoga1528
      @blungoga1528 Před 3 lety +7

      But she made it sound like it wasn't important

  • @caradetu
    @caradetu Před 3 lety +364

    Weren’t pewdiepie and dave (and roomie) friends before any of this anyways?

    • @DevoDude
      @DevoDude Před 3 lety +41

      yeah

    • @outherewildinb2874
      @outherewildinb2874 Před 3 lety +45

      Right, and he made some questionable statements in his videos in the past. The track was just a confirmation. But that's because we're terminally online, just wish Shonalika never got involved with him to begin with.

    • @takentofu507
      @takentofu507 Před 3 lety +6

      Yeah

    • @elijah8011
      @elijah8011 Před 3 lety +2

      Caradetu yeah

    • @disastermidi1990
      @disastermidi1990 Před 3 lety +18

      Ehhhhhhh...Joel and Felix kinda were friends but Dave’s really been friends with Joel muuuuch longer

  • @fishlordusername891
    @fishlordusername891 Před 3 lety +216

    Jesus Christ this comment section.

    • @caseyb1346
      @caseyb1346 Před 3 lety +13

      Welcome to youtube, home of the defensive white boy.

    • @TheClumsyChicken
      @TheClumsyChicken Před 2 lety +1

      Can’t believe people are actually agreeing with her, and if we disagree we’re automatically transphobic, homophobic racists

    • @SquirrelTheorist
      @SquirrelTheorist Před rokem +3

      @@caseyb1346 youtube is home to just about every person interested in youtube lol

  • @stuffz4040
    @stuffz4040 Před rokem +1392

    After finding out about the allegations this goes hella hard

  • @IkawaMansion
    @IkawaMansion Před rokem +323

    "disappeared out of contact, citing depression as the cause" from the discription lines up with the allegations oop

    • @hollisticc
      @hollisticc Před rokem +10

      also the line towards the end about the caste system he has… big oof

    • @jokermain6665
      @jokermain6665 Před rokem +3

      she didnt talk anything about abuse though so I don't think the most important part of the allegations are true. theres just not enough evidence yet

    • @Chamathkaraperera
      @Chamathkaraperera Před rokem +1

      @@hollisticc are you saying the cast system doesn't exist in India? It's a huge problem in India and south east Asia.

    • @Chamathkaraperera
      @Chamathkaraperera Před rokem

      How does that line up with abuse exactly?

    • @IkawaMansion
      @IkawaMansion Před rokem +2

      @@Chamathkaraperera the alleged victims also said he was like this

  • @bakuraryou2159
    @bakuraryou2159 Před rokem +147

    So he was called out 3 years ago and no one cared?

    • @Anna-dx2qr
      @Anna-dx2qr Před rokem +53

      No, people cared. For Dave, so they ate Shonalika alive. Lol i remember, i followed shonalika at the time

    • @bakuraryou2159
      @bakuraryou2159 Před rokem +5

      @@Anna-dx2qr I meant no one cared about these girls.

    • @alzbetal1499
      @alzbetal1499 Před rokem +24

      No, general consensus of CZcams audience at that time was that indian channel taking Over white youtuber is some sort of great reolacement and masses werent willing to listen. I’m glad that we are moving forward but it’s sad looking back and seeing how we as an collective CZcams community thought that all of that was Okay. Shanika was so brave then, they knew that the mass would come for them and yet posted this amazing response

    • @alzbetal1499
      @alzbetal1499 Před rokem +3

      *shonalika lmao Why did it switch to Shanika

    • @bakuraryou2159
      @bakuraryou2159 Před rokem +1

      @@alzbetal1499 I see.

  • @quickwolfx
    @quickwolfx Před rokem +394

    I love how she recorded in the filming location of bitch lasagna and congratulations

    • @arizonaicetea3274
      @arizonaicetea3274 Před rokem +79

      they go by they/them

    • @brwisnt
      @brwisnt Před rokem +25

      @@arizonaicetea3274 🤓

    • @hollisticc
      @hollisticc Před rokem +39

      @@brwisnt wow transphobia so coollllll /s

    • @brwisnt
      @brwisnt Před rokem +15

      @@hollisticc indeed it is, also NB people aren’t trans, they’re NB, so not transphobia

    • @YeetusTheFetus
      @YeetusTheFetus Před rokem +23

      @@brwisnt NB people can identify as trans. Some NB people go on hormones and get surgery as well

  • @shaynestark1550
    @shaynestark1550 Před 5 lety +280

    Someone give me more context for this video cause I'm really confused.

    • @mirayo7876
      @mirayo7876 Před 5 lety +16

      +1

    • @chris-fo8hx
      @chris-fo8hx Před 5 lety +27

      There's more info in the description.

    • @Crustiecricket
      @Crustiecricket Před 5 lety +131

      A salty idiot tries to compete with pewdiepie and boyinaband

    • @fostergaming7994
      @fostergaming7994 Před 5 lety +1

      +1

    • @shnouth5391
      @shnouth5391 Před 5 lety +24

      @@chris-fo8hx P.S. If you respond please use my pronouns. "correct" and for speech including "correct's". It's my option and if you don't call me correct you are a xenophobic, racist asshole who most likely marches with the Nazis.

  • @rookregent5623
    @rookregent5623 Před 3 lety +377

    y'all gaslighting in the comments like you know anything that happened or have any room to comment on the medium of a Diss Track but okay

    • @goldstargirl185
      @goldstargirl185 Před 3 lety +41

      It's more of a critique of his communication than insulting his depression imo

    • @xcherryxxchanx3425
      @xcherryxxchanx3425 Před 3 lety +7

      I think it's pretty bad but I can see where they're coming from I've been in relationships like this and it's really frustrating and you feel like they don't care about you I think we should try to see things from both sides

    • @Gormfork
      @Gormfork Před 3 lety +25

      @The Grammar Nazi depression isn't an excuse to be a bigot. Coming from someone with a bouquet of mental health diagnosis.

    • @Gormfork
      @Gormfork Před 3 lety +7

      @The Grammar Nazi someone's fuckin triggered with that response time lmao

    • @TheChickenRiceBowl
      @TheChickenRiceBowl Před 3 lety +6

      @The Grammar Nazi helps* Whatever _helps_ you sleep at night*

  • @tobithetabby6376
    @tobithetabby6376 Před 3 lety +435

    Am I the only one here with depression that's not offended or triggered by this video?

    • @miles4939
      @miles4939 Před 3 lety +112

      honestly as someone with clinical depression, depressed people can be fucking assholes and it's important to recognise that your mental illness is never an excuse
      yes, it can be hard to be a good person when you're depressed, but you still need to take responsibility for it, because it is completely unfair to try and excuse yourself for shitty (and sometimes toxic/abusive) behaviour, because whether or not you're mentally ill the consequences are just as real and damaging to those around you

    • @inkterp5322
      @inkterp5322 Před 3 lety +41

      @@miles4939 as someone who also struggles with depression, LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK

    • @JigmeDatse
      @JigmeDatse Před 3 lety +21

      @@miles4939 This is a good way of putting it. When depressed we can be really shitty to other people, and maybe not really have been able to "not be shitty at the time," but to just use it as an excuse really sucks. It's not an excuse.

    • @jimballard1186
      @jimballard1186 Před 3 lety +10

      I'm not offended or triggered. Kinda bummed I've lost some respect for Boyinaband, but hey, that's on him, isn't it?

    • @jadesyoutubechannel1151
      @jadesyoutubechannel1151 Před 3 lety +10

      I'm not offended either. I might have been distant and insecure when I was depressed, but I didn't suddenly make racist "jokes" because of it.

  • @scraggledy
    @scraggledy Před rokem +319

    The truth is out for anyone who didn't listen to you then.

    • @WiloPolis03
      @WiloPolis03 Před rokem +10

      This aged quite nicely

    • @ExarchGaming
      @ExarchGaming Před rokem

      @@WiloPolis03 Not really; zero evidence, and then they up and vanished deleting their account and the accusations. This was with a large majority of people supporting whoever the accuser was.
      After what happened to Kwite, we should all think twice before believing something with zero evidence. Waiting for evidence costs nothing, but the consequences for jumping the gun can be life or death, especially with someone who has a history of idealation and severe depression. You think most people care enough to come back and see that all the allegations are gone now?

  • @yorkpantheon6415
    @yorkpantheon6415 Před 3 lety +596

    Lot of people in the comments complaining about a diss track being too mean. Kind of funny. Good track.

    • @tobithetabby6376
      @tobithetabby6376 Před 3 lety +19

      People need to understand is that's what a diss track is

    • @Jakeyisdead
      @Jakeyisdead Před 3 lety +15

      I dont have a problem with the song being mean for me the main problem is that the person who is singing is so wrong about pewds 🤷‍♂️

    • @foxtrot-mikey-lima6225
      @foxtrot-mikey-lima6225 Před 3 lety +32

      “Distracks are mean” right because propping up the alt right is so kind

    • @Axolautism
      @Axolautism Před 3 lety +2

      Isn't that the whole point of a diss track?

    • @a_lethe_ion
      @a_lethe_ion Před 3 lety +7

      well yeah bc on the first view (which is usually the only one haters give) it looks like a woman wrote it and there's enough studies showing that when women act like men, they are devalued and attacked as bossy, bitchy, cold etc, while men are applauded.
      so no wonder that the fan of a guy pretending to be a feminist who leaves friends behind if he can get more attention by befriending more well known people, incl Stormfronts nr1 youtuber, who needed a scarily long time to openly criticise that neo nazi website. (I don't use disavow, because that word is used, facetiously by the alt right to pretend they don't support racism etc

  • @gingermaniac5484
    @gingermaniac5484 Před 3 lety +545

    Wow, I never even knew he had a partner, much less one who was hurt so much by his song and actions. I feel horrible I didn’t see something so blatant.

    • @blungoga1528
      @blungoga1528 Před 3 lety +29

      It is a song with his friend. What the fuck. These are jokes.

    • @gingermaniac5484
      @gingermaniac5484 Před 3 lety +39

      @@blungoga1528 Wait. hold up. So this isn't actually serious? I'm not good at reading tone.. but I don't think its really okay to make fun of an entire group of people to show why you don't like a company, even if this video was a troll it still has truth to it in that sense.

    • @blungoga1528
      @blungoga1528 Před 3 lety +25

      @@gingermaniac5484 it is not ok to be this pissed about a song he made WITH HIS FRIENDS

    • @blungoga1528
      @blungoga1528 Před 3 lety +9

      And it is also a joke

    • @gingermaniac5484
      @gingermaniac5484 Před 3 lety +52

      @@blungoga1528 You seriously think they're friends? its not very likely, CZcams is a business first and foremost especially to people who make money primarily by you tube? its more like work friends
      the fact that I see you here in the comment section picking fights with others also speaks volumes about your mood, I don't know if you're in a home where you're not aloud to get angry or what but I hope it gets better for you. I've been there.

  • @sanewitch8036
    @sanewitch8036 Před 3 lety +93

    I have no idea who is David but this comment section is weird.

  • @devons.3481
    @devons.3481 Před 3 lety +312

    Real quick: Shonalika uses they/them pronouns, misgendering them just indicates that you don't actually have much care or respect for them as a person. Also, if you want context for what exactly prompted this particular video, read the description.
    I find it odd that some people in this comments section are fixating on the personal details and separating them from the more political points. To me, this video doesn't come off as focusing on either of those aspects of Dave's character exclusively; it's a broader picture of a person illustrated by specific personal experiences. I think sometimes people get caught up in thinking of being racist or being a bad person as a neatly tied up state of being. It's a pattern of behavior.
    I think at least one of the benefits of sharing such personal stories is to show what Dave is like as a person, as a partner, as a friend, behind the scenes and after the camera cuts. As a viewer, I wouldn't know what he says to those close to him unless those people speak up about it publicly. So I, as a viewer, can make a more informed decision of whether or not I want to support his content.
    I know that depression can lead to socially withdrawing and losing capacity and/or motivation to do things previously much more possible. I've experienced that, as have most of my friends. And when each of us hits a depressive episode, we don't use that to justify reinforcing harmful narratives against each other. But that isn't what this was. Shonalika made an interesting point in the description about the way that power, privilege, and platforms can play a role in relationships between influencers. The two of them did not start on an even playing field and as the one with the upper hand, it falls on Dave to even that playing field. Which he did not do.
    And yeah, some parts of this come off pretty vindictive, and I think if I was in the hospital and my partner didn't so much as text me, I would be feeling pretty fuckin vindictive. This video isn't meant to be devoid of emotion or "objective". It's very clear (to me at least) that this is about the way that public, politicized displays can double as personal betrayals. And that is, in fact, in the first two lines of the description. The rest of which gives a lot more context and explanation of the situation leading up to this video.
    I could probably write an entire essay about this video but instead I'll leave it at that. Thanks for reading and I hope you have a wonderful day :)

    • @cats9thlife704
      @cats9thlife704 Před 3 lety +6

      👏👏👏

    • @bellabean1686
      @bellabean1686 Před 3 lety +5

      Oh I'm sorry I didn't realize they used they/them I'll change that if I can find my comment

    • @rory6984
      @rory6984 Před 3 lety +6

      Yeah I disnt realise either. That said if pewdiepie is in th alt right hes one of the least effective recruiter I've ever seen.

    • @lancesakaida7609
      @lancesakaida7609 Před 3 lety +3

      ok

    • @digitaldeathsquid3448
      @digitaldeathsquid3448 Před 3 lety +2

      Probably a bit off-topic but I only just got here. Thanks for the pronoun heads-up. I will store that in my brain when watching more of their videos.

  • @ThatNerdyTrucker
    @ThatNerdyTrucker Před rokem +13

    Honestly, I found this because I saw a thumbnail about some drama, but this whole song comes off as nothing but a bitter ex….. but I guess that’s actually the point

  • @EsmeMarion
    @EsmeMarion Před rokem +552

    We all owe her an apology.

    • @mackenzie9329
      @mackenzie9329 Před rokem +123

      Hey, I'm just gonna assume you didn't know this but Shonalika is agender and goes by they/them pronouns.

    • @brwisnt
      @brwisnt Před rokem +46

      @@mackenzie9329 🤓

    • @rohansharma5610
      @rohansharma5610 Před rokem +21

      @@mackenzie9329 💀

    • @northern830
      @northern830 Před rokem +61

      @@brwisnt "🤓" 🤓

    • @piccoloatburgerking
      @piccoloatburgerking Před rokem +80

      @@mackenzie9329 Alright, we all owe them an apology.

  • @nonyabiznaszh148
    @nonyabiznaszh148 Před rokem +219

    Seriously I need to start realizing that when someone puts as much effort into something as Shonalika did a few years ago with this diss track that I shouldn't dismiss it because I like the person that is being criticized. Every. Single. Time I've done that a few years later not only were the criticisms clearly true but it ends up being even WORSE than what was mentioned already!

    • @rabidvampdude
      @rabidvampdude Před rokem +7

      I can’t believe i used to try to defend dave. I think I connected to his videos when I was younger and then latched onto that, even if he was putting on a persona for the camera.

    • @nonyabiznaszh148
      @nonyabiznaszh148 Před rokem +2

      @@rabidvampdude Yeah I mean, it's not like he generally came across as his true self, obviously. And many of his songs made him sympathetic and relatable. So that probably had something to do with it.

    • @titanium4082
      @titanium4082 Před rokem +4

      @@nonyabiznaszh148 tbf this diss is on a song that was literally a meme capitalizing on the clash
      I'm not gonna say your accusations are right. Keep in mind that the only thing that matters is evidence.

  • @jaredwark4775
    @jaredwark4775 Před rokem +419

    Wow. Not surprised I didn't come across this at the time, but I just want to give you some mad props for using such well-crafted pastiches of Dave's songwriting styles and video aesthetics to turn things back around on him. That's really clever and I respect the work you put into that. Sorry you had to go through what you did.

  • @hellspawn1226
    @hellspawn1226 Před rokem +525

    You were so brave to post this when you did. I wish and hope nothing but the best for you and everyone else affected by that vile monster. Be well luv, my deepest and sincerest sympathies

    • @dailydoseofblues7708
      @dailydoseofblues7708 Před rokem +26

      There is still no proof tho. Idk

    • @rupert5402
      @rupert5402 Před rokem +5

      ​@@dailydoseofblues7708 exactly

    • @brandyc9645
      @brandyc9645 Před rokem +15

      @@dailydoseofblues7708 there is proof that he dated a 16 year old at 22. That's bad enough by itself

    • @sarah8638
      @sarah8638 Před rokem +2

      @@brandyc9645 if it's legal its completely fine in my opinion,yeah maybe its not morally right but in the uk its legal and also in other country many people have a 4 year age gap and literary no one makes a big deal,ig it's only a big deal in America

    • @secretcompanion8034
      @secretcompanion8034 Před rokem

      There is much proof that David is a shitty person and is generally an asshole to much of the people his friends with. He even abandoned one of them after he became more popular.

  • @itzdakristinnoice
    @itzdakristinnoice Před rokem +39

    They really should’ve teached him what laws there are

  • @Pazliacci
    @Pazliacci Před rokem +68

    time to give this a relisten with the big news.

    • @Tree-House69
      @Tree-House69 Před rokem +1

      Absolutely, I already believed her but most people just hated on them. I would say time for validation, but it would've been better if anyone dared to listen at the time of this being new instead.

    • @Pazliacci
      @Pazliacci Před rokem +2

      @@Tree-House69 ? I am giving this a relisten cause it was a banger when it was new, and it's still a banger, like the Boyinaband news wasn't a surprise since I already knew he was an asshole who was racist, simped for Elon Musk, and just all around miserable guy as this song makes more than obvious-

    • @NShiro-tp1fe
      @NShiro-tp1fe Před rokem

      What's the big news? I haven't followed these youtubers in a while

    • @Pazliacci
      @Pazliacci Před rokem +2

      @@NShiro-tp1fe Boyintheband turned out to be an even worse person than he already was (to do with grooming) and being abusive.

    • @NShiro-tp1fe
      @NShiro-tp1fe Před rokem +1

      @@Pazliacci oh seems like I missed a lot haha

  • @yilinkong3640
    @yilinkong3640 Před 4 lety +432

    Belittling someone’s depression doesn’t seem right too.

    • @MCArt25
      @MCArt25 Před 4 lety +30

      Belittling someone's racism doesn't seem right too.

    • @josh4601
      @josh4601 Před 4 lety +56

      @@MCArt25 Whatabout-ism isn't exactly the way to go about this.
      OP came up with a perfectly reasonable criticism of this video. She is belittling depression and trying to characterise it as something that is the same for everyone.

    • @neighbo17
      @neighbo17 Před 4 lety +10

      Shel coppler “I cant have a smart answer so I’m gonna swear at you”

    • @redElim
      @redElim Před 3 lety +35

      @@josh4601 She didn't belittle his depression. Listen again, she criticizes using depression as a means to justify behavior.

    • @sirsilly33
      @sirsilly33 Před 3 lety +4

      @@MCArt25 she made it a white thing... Didn't have to be a white thing.

  • @User64607
    @User64607 Před rokem +48

    I want to hear your opinion on the Reddit post

    • @donxx1206
      @donxx1206 Před rokem +1

      They are who the post is talking about one of them and there's more

  • @fangsabre
    @fangsabre Před 3 lety +141

    I feel like a lot of these comments are just fangirls/fanboys of BiaB here to shit talk.
    For the record, I'm aware depression sucks and it can make you irritable and not up for a lot of communication, but if your SO is in the hospital you should say something to them. Depression is not a get out of consequences free card, you're still responsible for how you treat others.

    • @danicawing7203
      @danicawing7203 Před 3 lety +5

      totally agree

    • @StabbyTheSkaven
      @StabbyTheSkaven Před 3 lety +18

      i think there might also be a lot of pewdiepie fans here that might be slightly annoyed that somebody still thinks that pewds is asociated with the alt right. (wich he isnt, never was ,never will be). And the person making this video is obviusly misunderstanding jokes aimed at t sieres and the lawsiut they filed against pewdiepie as genuine racism. (wich it wasnt). i wont defend or accuse biab because i dont know what happend. but the stuff about pewdiepie is wrong and that makes me uneasy about the rest of this video.

    • @HaifaaAmni
      @HaifaaAmni Před 3 lety +8

      @@StabbyTheSkaven yea idk much about biab and dave but she's getting mad at pewds for rlly bad reasons. It's like someone making a diss track on the movie White Chicks

    • @Emma-dp8lh
      @Emma-dp8lh Před 3 lety +3

      but writing a diss track on him is chaning nothing if hes trying to get better already what is the point. its only going to make him worse if he mistreated her, hes having therapy and taking a break from youtube for years now so clearly he doesnt just care for the clicks.

    • @hiidupiidu3292
      @hiidupiidu3292 Před 2 lety +2

      Well then this person should have made the disstrack about how Dave is an awful boyfriend but they're instead USING the racism Indians face to further their narrative. I don't mind them talking about their experiences while dating because it is all about perspective and everyone has a right to do so, but you can't accuse someone of something they didn't do just because you don't like them. The way this person uses the plight of poor Indians just for the sake of their argument makes me think that they don't actually care about the people they're "fighting" for..

  • @onyxmurphy
    @onyxmurphy Před rokem +34

    you’re an inspiration to me, i never heard of this before the allegations, i’ve been harassed and bullied for coming out about abuse and you were so brave to say strong and not take it down, i hope i’m believed too one day

  • @xanderreade
    @xanderreade Před 2 lety +54

    I mean I see you have points here, but why would you take this to the internet and then claim only they care about clicks. When you've got a clickbait title taking a private matter public seems hypocritical.

  • @archfiend221
    @archfiend221 Před 2 lety +43

    I have seen both sides of the story and gotta be honest shonalika is out of bounds calling Dave and pewds racist based off one song proven and explicitly said to be a meme and joke which is essentially all of PewDiePie's content except for the few games he plays I think this is just them and many others reading way to deep into a joke and not realizing it is no deeper than the surface level of a house

    • @LoveLee_Dreamer
      @LoveLee_Dreamer Před 2 lety +9

      The problem with the "It's just a joke" argument is that it's a very convenient excuse to hide behind when you do or say something that upsets someone else. As the ones not effected by their own words, Pewds and Dave don't get to say "haha, this racist rhetoric is just a joke so you can't be upset or offended even though it closely parallels real things said to and about you and people like you in real life."
      If something you're saying isn't used against YOU or a minority YOU belong to, it isn't okay to use that rhetoric or language because you don't know or understand the pain it causes the people who are actually effected every day by it. Saying "It's just a joke" deflects any blame that would be placed on a person for saying something hurtful about others under a guise of not "really" meaning it. Regardless of if they meant it, they said it, and their words carry weight. Dave, being a rapper who uses his words to convey messages, should understand this better than most. The "It's just a joke" mentality needs to stop being a tool people hide behind to avoid taking responsibility for their words and actions. You can make fun of your own life experiences and that's fine, but making fun of groups you don't belong to isn't okay and we should stop treating it like it is.

    • @tylerjames805
      @tylerjames805 Před 2 lety +2

      @@LoveLee_Dreamer Jokes don’t cause violence against minorities people cause violence against minorities. Jokes don’t hold you at gunpoint telling you to go hurt people. Jokes are just jokes hold PEOPLE accountable for their actions,

    • @johnpanicker7590
      @johnpanicker7590 Před 2 lety +4

      @@tylerjames805 Do you think jokes don't have the ability to influence how a demographic is perceived?

    • @killertigergaming7395
      @killertigergaming7395 Před 2 lety +1

      @@LoveLee_Dreamer im sorry my jokes hurt your tiny little feelings i will never make another joke again so i shall never offend anyone again because I definitely care about when people find what i say offensive as a matter of fact lets just throw comedy down the drain

    • @cyberpunkdenton9497
      @cyberpunkdenton9497 Před rokem +2

      ​@@killertigergaming7395 Yea DudeBro, making factually untrue remarks and gross generalization('hold your defecation' line, that problem is actively and mostly solved, just look at the stats but that didn't stop him from making $treet $hit3r 'joke' and this is just one example) against Indians even though you only have issues with t-series and than brushing it all off as just joking tis fine.
      Remember its all going to happen to his kind as well. Folks from other races and religions are clapping back already with trolling and all sorts of nasty hateful actions and comments.
      Now of course I'm not going to perpetuate the same crap against you all but I would be brushing it all aside as well, no worries.
      Also loved that we abstained(stayed neutral) in Ukraine-Russo war. They wanna live in peace or want a go at each other, fine by me. All the nonsense that pewds, BIAB and his followers/defenders such as yourself pulled has really opened my eyes. And like I said, I won't be as garbage as these people are(won't perpetuate the same hate towards others of his kind) but I won't play be nice either.

  • @nathanjasper512
    @nathanjasper512 Před 3 lety +309

    I'm not LGBTQ, and I have no context for this diss track, Im just sort of here by an accident of the almighty algorithm... but your flow is legit.

    • @auline8531
      @auline8531 Před 3 lety +31

      What? This flow is mediocre at best

    • @papasscooperiaworker3649
      @papasscooperiaworker3649 Před 3 lety +22

      @@auline8531 nah i like it

    • @daltonlilledahl3663
      @daltonlilledahl3663 Před 3 lety +23

      @@auline8531 yeah, the flow is pretty bad. She basically just pulled the race card and said he was a terrible human being for joking in a diss track, and then said he should constantly be helping out minorities because they deserve his help for nothing

    • @gizmo3702
      @gizmo3702 Před 3 lety +28

      @@daltonlilledahl3663 lol did you actually listen to the track?

    • @daltonlilledahl3663
      @daltonlilledahl3663 Před 3 lety +8

      @@gizmo3702 yes actually, you cannot say that she didnt just play the victim and try and make you feel bad for her

  • @opame1560
    @opame1560 Před 4 lety +144

    i feel like the majority of this is personal relationship drama, and therefore turning to youtube is gonna do literally nothing

  • @ace.of.space.
    @ace.of.space. Před 4 lety +513

    wow as a nonbinary indian american who had... Mixed Feelings after that video.. this is the cutting analysis i didn't know i needed .. thank you

    • @cats9thlife704
      @cats9thlife704 Před 3 lety +10

      @@anunimates_2690 please get mental help, you're literally in all these comments defending a man who's not harmed by this at all and who will never recognize you. Get well soon, hope you get over your bootlicking addiction ❤️❤️❤️

    • @vintheguy
      @vintheguy Před 3 lety +21

      @@cats9thlife704
      Did you even watch the video?
      get over *your* own bootlicking addiction before you critize others
      And trust me, it's not that hard to get over it
      All you have to do is get off reddit

    • @chiptheocelot920
      @chiptheocelot920 Před 3 lety +24

      I watched the Congratulations video. I saw the blatant racism, but I think even as an enby, the transphobia flew over my head

    • @disastermidi1990
      @disastermidi1990 Před 3 lety +10

      @@chiptheocelot920 I don’t remember the transphobic part, remind me if you don’t mind?

    • @DanielCohen447
      @DanielCohen447 Před 3 lety +3

      Um. They're not American...

  • @mysteryperson706
    @mysteryperson706 Před 3 lety +372

    I've just found your channel and I'm sorry this video got such a bad reception - your perspective is valuable even if people in your past dismissed it and treated you badly

    • @blungoga1528
      @blungoga1528 Před 3 lety +9

      She said pewds is alt right. The fuck do you mean

    • @mysteryperson706
      @mysteryperson706 Před 3 lety +22

      @@blungoga1528 literally no interest in arguing with you

    • @blungoga1528
      @blungoga1528 Před 3 lety +7

      @@mysteryperson706 why. Because you have 0 defense

    • @mysteryperson706
      @mysteryperson706 Před 3 lety +16

      @@blungoga1528 yeah sure, whatever. Like I said I'm not gonna argue with you

    • @blungoga1528
      @blungoga1528 Před 3 lety +5

      @@mysteryperson706 you just have 0 evidence that what she said is correct

  • @JAlexBenham
    @JAlexBenham Před 8 měsíci +8

    Anyone from TurkeyTom?

  • @pedrovazquez6940
    @pedrovazquez6940 Před 3 lety +6

    I'm literally so confused as to what's going on and I don't know where to look someone please explain to me 🥺👉👈

    • @unolino
      @unolino Před 3 lety +2

      Check 'Congratulations' on Pewdiepie's channel. You're welcome lol

  • @explodingwolfgaming8024
    @explodingwolfgaming8024 Před 4 lety +66

    I don't know much about the context, but is she complaining her ex isn't messaging or talking to her? Because that's just stupid

    • @TekkenMasterPL
      @TekkenMasterPL Před 4 lety +16

      Yeah, kinda. And a lot of strawman arguments to "expose" him.

    • @zacpier
      @zacpier Před 4 lety +17

      It's mostly about his platforming of the alt-right.

    • @explodingwolfgaming8024
      @explodingwolfgaming8024 Před 4 lety +5

      @@zacpier how is it platforming them?

    • @AbdallahTeach
      @AbdallahTeach Před 4 lety +2

      @@TekkenMasterPL I didn't know diss tracks had arguments for them to be strawman.

    • @TekkenMasterPL
      @TekkenMasterPL Před 4 lety +1

      @@AbdallahTeach depends if we talkin bout true, good disstracks or shitty youtuber disstracks

  • @PaleVoyager
    @PaleVoyager Před rokem +134

    Looks like you were right.

  • @aviendha1154
    @aviendha1154 Před 3 lety +350

    Damn you attracted a lot of haters. Glad the nonsence has made you stronger rather than quiet.

    • @nittygritty7034
      @nittygritty7034 Před 3 lety +4

      Right!

    • @nittygritty7034
      @nittygritty7034 Před 3 lety +22

      @@johnjasmine3632 which it is. Check out the Pewdipideline. CZcams promotes some crap like Crowder and Stehpan Molyneux.

    • @nittygritty7034
      @nittygritty7034 Před 3 lety +17

      @@johnjasmine3632 yeah! She's very entertaining. Doesn't mean youtube doesn't have a problematic algorithm. Check out the Pedipipeline it has footage of the algorithm suggesting more and more bigoted things. Its a rabbit hole.

    • @nittygritty7034
      @nittygritty7034 Před 3 lety +12

      @@johnjasmine3632 yeah socilism is just another polical party. I'm a socialist. And He makes great points. Pewdipide promotes anti-Semitism. The 'death to jew' Fiver "joke".

    • @nittygritty7034
      @nittygritty7034 Před 3 lety +15

      @@johnjasmine3632 punching up is funny. Making light of difficult things. He's just being either lazy or bigoted. No one has to find him funny and he's getting well deserved critism. Free market.

  • @thiaamak
    @thiaamak Před rokem +18

    Relevant again

  • @saulcontrerasOfficial
    @saulcontrerasOfficial Před 4 měsíci +4

    how is Pewdiepie Alt-right?

  • @TheRatSquid
    @TheRatSquid Před 5 lety +118

    Don't mind me, I'm just commenting here before these comments turn into a complete shitshow.

    • @Shonalika
      @Shonalika  Před 5 lety +24

      lol yeah that's a risk. but at least I've got off to a nice start

    • @fenrisredacted2870
      @fenrisredacted2870 Před 5 lety +22

      @@Shonalika Look, I'm not one to attack people. All I'll say is I don't quite see the reason to hate Felix. I've watched him for multiple years now. I'm not saying he's perfect. All I know is that he never meant to hurt anyone. He's made mistakes, we all make them. However, when you're that popular it is very easy for things like that to be blown out of proportion. This video will end up being huge, one way or another. There are people that will be as unfair to you as they can often be to him. You honestly don't deserve hate, but I know you'll likely end up getting it. Although I do not agree with you... The music is pretty cool if I'm being honest.
      Case in point, it's rare that somebody wants to hurt somebody else. Felix didn't want to seem racist. In fact, he ended the subscribe to pewdiepie to try and prevent anything bad from happening and then being blamed on him. I can only imagine how he feels. Everyone takes things out of proportion, it's how it is.
      Essentially, my point is that it's easy to be upset at somebody. It's easy to hurt somebody by mistake. I'm sure that Dave himself wasn't trying to hurt you either. Now, I only recently started watching him, admittedly, but I really do like his content and he definitely doesn't seem like the person to fuckin somebody over like that.
      Obligatory "Thanks for coming to my TED Talk."

    • @Shonalika
      @Shonalika  Před 5 lety +28

      @@fenrisredacted2870 The intentions don't change the consequences, unfortunately. What does is genuinely acknowledging mistakes and altering behaviour. I'm aware pewdiepie ended the movement - but I thought his doing so was entirely devoid of any actual responsibility taken for WHY such people have chosen to associate with him. This isn't something that inevitably happens to all people over a certain subscriber count. If he really doesn't have alt-right sympathies, he needs to address that, not keep feeding into it.
      I've gone into more detail on this in the description. It still doesn't quite cover everything, but I'd have to do several more videos in order to do that and other people have already done that more effectively.
      I appreciate your politeness even though you disagree, that's a rarity here.

    • @carsonrichter9305
      @carsonrichter9305 Před 5 lety +3

      @@fenrisredacted2870 wiser words have never been spoken.

    • @bridgey5931
      @bridgey5931 Před 5 lety +11

      @@fenrisredacted2870 lmao the only reason that she will get views is because this video has ended up on pewdiepies reddit submission thing (and being regarded as autistic, which i agree with, no one cares that you broke up with someone @Shonalika) and that the fact that she is just riding pewdiepie and boyinaband's coattails. also @Shonalika just because ur boyfriend broke up with you doesnt mean you have to drag other people into this. and call me out all you want for not seeing the message, im not listening to 4 minutes of audio autism.

  • @hellothere6007
    @hellothere6007 Před 3 lety +111

    I think people are also missing the fact that it's also about him doing the collab, that they have genuine problems with pewdiepie and how he normalizes a lot of alt right ideas, likely accidentally. This isn't about the dumb lyrics it's more than that, watch their video on edgelord humour using bo Burnham as an example done well. I don't know about their relationship, however acting like this is just a break up rather than an argument against the dismissal of their concerns. Idk if I'm making sense, but it's not a shallow issue.

    • @blungoga1528
      @blungoga1528 Před 3 lety +13

      He does not support the alt right. I agree pewds has done edgy jokes, but he understands he made mistakes and is trying to distance himself from thoes types of jokes

    • @Vicente75480
      @Vicente75480 Před 3 lety +8

      For the public in general: I don't know if you are interested, but there's a video called the PewDiePipeline by NonCompete which I found pretty good

    • @Jake-rm4be
      @Jake-rm4be Před 3 lety +10

      ‘Alt right ideas’ What? Where did you get that from? I’ve watched PewDiePie for ages now and I have never seen him once say anything really that political

    • @outherewildinb2874
      @outherewildinb2874 Před 3 lety +7

      @@Jake-rm4be Apart from casually platforming one of the biggest conservative influencers Ben Shapiro?

    • @Jake-rm4be
      @Jake-rm4be Před 3 lety +8

      @@outherewildinb2874 what’s the big deal? It wasn’t political and you make it seem like conservatism is absolutely terrible and a bad thing he should be ashamed of

  • @patrickcarney6171
    @patrickcarney6171 Před 3 lety +84

    Funny that literally all the comments hating on this song call them her I mean it shows the lack of awareness of their content. I mean I'm not surprised but I did just recently come across their channel and have been a fan they do a lot of great leftist content with good humor in it as well when appropriate.

    • @joskimengstrom2853
      @joskimengstrom2853 Před 3 lety +11

      That's irrelevant though, isn't it? Not the pronouns, the rest of their content. If the comment is just about this video in which Pewdiepie and Boyinaband are criticised, surely knowledge about those two people is what is relevant. I'm not trying to defend anyone here, I'm not in anyone's side, just liked the track.

    • @Jake-rm4be
      @Jake-rm4be Před 3 lety +13

      She made some wild assumptions and decide to put it on her CZcams for some views. All this really was

    • @patrickcarney6171
      @patrickcarney6171 Před 3 lety +11

      @@Jake-rm4be that's your opinion I disagree I genuinely like *them

    • @joskimengstrom2853
      @joskimengstrom2853 Před 3 lety +4

      @@Jake-rm4be What most CZcams videos are, really.

    • @joskimengstrom2853
      @joskimengstrom2853 Před 3 lety +4

      @@patrickcarney6171 *your

  • @averytischer2144
    @averytischer2144 Před rokem +193

    I'm so sorry you had to go through this. As a queer disabled trans person, I understand your struggles, even tho I am white. I just wish people actually listened to you back then instead of waiting 3 fucking years to say that you've been right the whole time!

    • @sydney4271
      @sydney4271 Před rokem +10

      I didn't even know about it 3 years ago it didn't get as much attention as it should have.

    • @Goldfishbroha
      @Goldfishbroha Před rokem +4

      What is a queer disabled trans person

    • @brwisnt
      @brwisnt Před rokem +1

      @@Goldfishbroha I assume a trans amputee but the comment isn’t very clear to begin with

    • @ND-yz5gh
      @ND-yz5gh Před rokem +3

      @@brwisnt disabled does not always mean an amputee

    • @BenSS
      @BenSS Před rokem +3

      @@Goldfishbroha Queer is an umbrella term for people who are not heterosexual or cisgender. Disabled likely refers to a mental disability.
      I'm a queer disabled trans person: I'm queer because I'm neither heterosexual nor cisgender, I'm disabled due to my diagnosis of adhd, autism, anxiety, and depression, I'm trans because I don't identify with the gender I was assigned at birth, and I'm a person because, just like everything else I've just listed, I just happened to be born that way.
      Hope this was helpful!

  • @FairyCRat
    @FairyCRat Před 4 lety +85

    Err, where's the transphobic part in Congratulations?

    • @cameronbooth1217
      @cameronbooth1217 Před 4 lety +15

      Honestly I don't think there is any homophobia

    • @cameronbooth1217
      @cameronbooth1217 Před 4 lety +14

      Or transphobia that was a typo

    • @psych0536
      @psych0536 Před 4 lety +35

      its not the song thats transphobic. its that pewdiepie gave platform to ben shapiro, who _is_ transphobic and homophobic

    • @Livikyu
      @Livikyu Před 4 lety +5

      Or the alt right in any of pewds videos?
      She lost me at that, shows how completely closed minded a person is to facts.
      Wasn't a bad performance though.

    • @maxkuhlman356
      @maxkuhlman356 Před 4 lety +3

      the dank emperor cameron “t-gei”???

  • @OldMateRiver
    @OldMateRiver Před rokem +8

    Shit. This has been around for 3 years and I'm just seeing this now?

  • @Wind0wsMediaPlayer
    @Wind0wsMediaPlayer Před rokem +61

    Since the recent allegations have come out, I kinda feel like I sort of have a higher ground here bc I always believed Shonalika

    • @DioJeans
      @DioJeans Před rokem +3

      Same here. Came for the victory lap after finding out

    • @anti1training
      @anti1training Před rokem +10

      But Pewdiepie ain't alt right

    • @risingdarkness
      @risingdarkness Před rokem

      This really doesn't make ANY sense.
      Shonalika is calling Dave out for being Racist because Dave made a 'racist' song with a 'racist' person.
      All of the allegations made about Dave were about Pedophilia. And mind you, these are still allegations.
      Congratulations was never racist to begin with. Neither ever was PewDiePie. She got offended because of the caste system verse saying that it is not true and saying the UK has a worse caste system which is absolutely wrong because anyone who has ever LIVED in any SouthEast Asian country knows that Caste systems still play a very big role in society.

  • @bokkendabokken7689
    @bokkendabokken7689 Před 3 lety +11

    kazoo kid: wait a minute, who are you??????

  • @hhill9674
    @hhill9674 Před 3 lety +95

    To be honest I like that shonalika is being honest about how they feel instead of what dan did. Dan makes allusions to being uncomfortable with the way the diss tracks are handled in regards to the way they 'diss' Indians but seems to feel like it's the same as your friend preferring a different flavour and as such continues to want to be friends with him. I think the other thing is just that I for one am glad to know there were people around Dave who told him their honest thoughts and he ignored them for his own gain and it's not that he's uninformed, but willfully ignorant.

    • @teambloky
      @teambloky Před 2 lety +1

      Your comment on this situation is not looking at things Dave has actually done, Dave has talked about being ignorant in the past and many people have said he is ignorant(which can be reflected on that the school system was not helping if that did happen,) the video is to not be taken seriously more of a clout poke, if you hated someone you would talk about it on twitter or release something like a statement which these things if they were real would go to the police not on the internet.

  • @tinam4565
    @tinam4565 Před 3 lety +42

    I think it's sad that we're all making comments and judgments on either of these 2 people based on one side of a very Hazy description. If this song was just a way to vent her frustrations for a failed relationship. I'm glad there's a platform for her to speak. But I don't think that gives us a right to judge our decide who was at faults or describe anything to do with their personal lives. Just because we watch their videos and follow them doesn't give us the right to talk about them personally because we don't know the situation and we don't know what they're going through. Just hear what they have to say support them where they need support. Let's stop spreading hate and Useless tearing down.

    • @midoriasakusa
      @midoriasakusa Před 3 lety +5

      this is the internet ya hear, you arent allowed to have a negative opinion on someone unless you're a based chungus edgelord

    • @catboyreid
      @catboyreid Před 3 lety +9

      they use they/them pronouns :)

    • @AceOfWaffles
      @AceOfWaffles Před 3 lety +2

      Only comment here I completely agree with. (I mean, except for the pinned one.)
      Thanks for saying that.

    • @tinam4565
      @tinam4565 Před 3 lety +1

      @@AceOfWaffles Thank you

    • @anunimates_2690
      @anunimates_2690 Před 3 lety +1

      true

  • @AMVactivists
    @AMVactivists Před 3 lety +92

    This is actually brilliant.
    No idea about the context but this speaks to a lot of theamatic issues with some men with white saviour complexes that ultimately betray the people they claim to ally the second that allyship could actually cost them something

    • @Just_Liqourice
      @Just_Liqourice Před 2 lety +3

      you're right, you don't know the context.

    • @tiffany7023
      @tiffany7023 Před 2 lety +1

      @@Just_Liqourice 🤣

    • @tiffany7023
      @tiffany7023 Před 2 lety +1

      If he was black it would've been cool though right?

  • @GalvaV2
    @GalvaV2 Před rokem +32

    ok so its obvioulsy a song about not liking pewdiepie, the points she makes on him are just flat out wrong, but the dave stuff is frighteningly similar to the current situation so im guessing thats the allegations are true

    • @TeshiMeshi
      @TeshiMeshi Před rokem +7

      whew glad to se this comment ngl lol. the dave shit is obv the more important bit and i can see all the allegations lining up- but pewds stuff is a swing and a miss . i remember that era very well and it was way blown out of proportion . I hope dave gets his though, he seems to have gotten lucky with the try guys drama happening around the same time but i think more n more ppl are putting a spotlight on this now,too.

  • @xMidnightxRunnerx
    @xMidnightxRunnerx Před rokem +150

    You're likely going to get an influx of comments on this video with the recent allegations against your ex! Watching this video, I've never felt so vindicated for dropping someone at the slightest hint of them collaborating with Felix. I never saw this song when it came out (as it seems like many didn't), but I love it - your voice is gorgeous, and every single one of your lyrics is dead on. Subscribed, and I'll allow your channel through my adblock so you hopefully get some revenue as I watch your back catalog of videos.
    I'm sorry you experienced this. While I unfollowed him out of principle back then, I certainly didn't have any inkling that he was this much of a manipulative, abusive ass behind the scenes. I hope you're doing well!

    • @phobiaxz
      @phobiaxz Před rokem +14

      Just because boyinaband is a shitty person doesnt mean felix is. I know felix has done some things in the past, but he has always recognized his faults and apologized for them. Ive also never seen him repeat a mistake personally. Maybe focus on the real bad people, like people like boyinaband, who have actually HARMED people (allegedly I guess), then making this about felix lmao. Why bring him up at all?

    • @emo_jester69
      @emo_jester69 Před rokem +7

      @@phobiaxz dude the amount of racism I got from him causally saying the n-word and all the white kids in my year then thinking it is acceptable was massive he didn't face any repercussions for it

    • @emo_jester69
      @emo_jester69 Před rokem +1

      @Bonnie are you white?

    • @cantthinkofaname5046
      @cantthinkofaname5046 Před rokem +1

      @@emo_jester69He clearly did though, of course you can’t really ruin someone like Pewdiepie, but he did get dragged in the media, and he frankly learned his lesson. I am sorry about that whole thing with the n word though, but that as at the time of that weird anti-feminism era of 2016, those kids were trained to be incels and racists by the pipeline, unfortunately, it was inevitable

    • @emo_jester69
      @emo_jester69 Před rokem

      @@cantthinkofaname5046 pls explain to me the consequences what he lost a show that was it

  • @fireyangle9317
    @fireyangle9317 Před 3 lety +43

    I know this video came out a while ago so I probably just didn't see them, but there were way more people commenting about the haters then actual haters.

    • @cuckoobrain7999
      @cuckoobrain7999 Před 3 lety +1

      It's probably calmed down now so it's mostly fans rewatching it

    • @heydoeradio7298
      @heydoeradio7298 Před 2 lety +3

      They removed comments

    • @fireyangle9317
      @fireyangle9317 Před 2 lety +1

      Came back to this a year later and wow…. So much can change in one year. I feel so sorry for everything they went through.

  • @hakancarlsson2881
    @hakancarlsson2881 Před 3 lety +34

    I don't get it...
    They jokingly pointed out that the,
    unquestionably racist
    and
    super discriminating,
    caste system, is still a problem in India....
    And THAT is Racist? WTF?
    That's one of the dumbest thing I've heard this week.... And I've even watched MAGA-compilations...

    • @digitaldeathsquid3448
      @digitaldeathsquid3448 Před 3 lety +12

      Directly from the description:
      "The “caste system,” line is the one that stands out as A. Irrelevant, B. Arrogant, and C. No different in many ways to the UK. I actually LIKE some boundary pushing when it comes to humour - trouble is, this isn’t humorous. It’s a genuine criticism of a historically oppressed country coming from a white man at the top of his own privilege pyramid. With no context for it in the video itself, the line is totally out of place - not to mention othering, condescending, and by extension, low-key *actually* racist."

    • @hakancarlsson2881
      @hakancarlsson2881 Před 3 lety +16

      @@digitaldeathsquid3448 I read that.... And that's why I'm asking.
      Pointing out actual racism in a country can not be racism!
      A joke isn't racist because YOU don't think it's funny!
      Critiquing Apartheid in a song or as a joke was never racist!
      Critiquing slavery the same way isn't racist.
      Like I said.... Incredibly and unimaginably dumb!

    • @lambsauce8937
      @lambsauce8937 Před 3 lety +1

      @@hakancarlsson2881 "indians have poo poo in their heads" like damn, I'm not even indian but this shit is racist and disgusting lmao.

    • @hakancarlsson2881
      @hakancarlsson2881 Před 3 lety +9

      @@lambsauce8937 I'm guessing you're joking? But it's hard to tell these days ....

    • @lambsauce8937
      @lambsauce8937 Před 3 lety

      @@hakancarlsson2881 so you think there's nothing wrong with that line?

  • @tawhidkhan5151
    @tawhidkhan5151 Před 27 dny +1

    When he says he's depressed, not texting you back and engaging in other activities, it's your cue to understand that you are the problem.

  • @katvelyte
    @katvelyte Před rokem +9

    this video is about to see a second wave of people

  • @ww3196
    @ww3196 Před rokem +9

    I started watching you and LOVING YOUR CONTENT, then heard about the allegations and had to hear your diss track. My jaw literally dropped when I saw a snippet of your video in an iNabber vid. I'm really sorry you went through this, Shonalika. I hope that this song gave you some cathartic release and that you're healing now.

  • @kumaragurusaravanan2248
    @kumaragurusaravanan2248 Před 4 měsíci

    What is the background music used?

  • @cheesemanthe2nd
    @cheesemanthe2nd Před 8 měsíci +10

    Anyone who seriously thought pewdiepie was or still is some kind of alt right symbol is too far gone.
    You can call him unfunny, offensive, cringe or whatever. but to act like hes grooming his fans into the alt right is completely delusional lmao

  • @elizabethtrammell4930
    @elizabethtrammell4930 Před 2 lety +71

    The fact that I didn't even know Dave was in a relationship says a lot

    • @bankruptcherry3332
      @bankruptcherry3332 Před 2 lety +2

      I thought this was pewdie pies ex? Sorry I don’t know 🤷‍♀️

    • @bankruptcherry3332
      @bankruptcherry3332 Před 2 lety +2

      Oh never mind I finished the song sorry for commenting:/

    • @TheClumsyChicken
      @TheClumsyChicken Před 2 lety +38

      If you’re trying to taking a jab at Dave for not sharing his personal life and dating status online, it’s none of your business

    • @bankruptcherry3332
      @bankruptcherry3332 Před 2 lety +3

      @@TheClumsyChicken I don’t think they are, pretty sure they were just surprised like a lot of people.

    • @natashawigley5552
      @natashawigley5552 Před rokem +2

      I sussed that he was by his response to the question in one of his videos (Googling Myself, I think?), which was something like, "I'm not comfortable sharing my personal life right now, but maybe in the future." And that's completely within his right.
      The fact that we didn't know means she didn't share it either.

  • @AxeSoul
    @AxeSoul Před 3 lety +5

    Has your opinion on David changed at all over this period of time? He hasn’t uploaded in almost a year now and was wondering if you’ve contacted him at all and to see if he’s changed at all since you’ve uploaded this.

    • @jimballard1186
      @jimballard1186 Před 3 lety +4

      @@thomasphillips7895 The creators who created the idea of the song and hired him to produce it were not dating Shonalika at the time. Betrayal hurts more when it comes from someone who's supposed to look out for you.

    • @cats9thlife704
      @cats9thlife704 Před 3 lety +8

      @@thomasphillips7895 he could have, and should have, said no. If I fucking murder someone I'm not exempt from responsibility because I was hired to do it

  • @mel-dt8fb
    @mel-dt8fb Před rokem +35

    this is interesting to watch after the allegations

    • @camelopardalis84
      @camelopardalis84 Před 10 měsíci

      What allegations? Against whom?

    • @mel-dt8fb
      @mel-dt8fb Před 10 měsíci

      @@camelopardalis84 against boyinaband. turns out hes kinda a piece of shit

    • @Zzucc
      @Zzucc Před 10 měsíci +2

      ​@camelopardalis8506 apparently against boyinaband, but I've yet to see any evidence, and this is just looking like nonsense.

    • @camelopardalis84
      @camelopardalis84 Před 10 měsíci

      @@Zzucc
      I get the context of this video here.
      I have also read about the allegations and know what people in this comment section are referencing.

    • @camelopardalis84
      @camelopardalis84 Před 10 měsíci

      @@Zzucc But yes, I didn't know that people were referring to BoyInABand, so you did answer that question of mine.

  • @hiidupiidu3292
    @hiidupiidu3292 Před 4 lety +49

    I’d love to see how many people would be mad at the Caste System line if they were dalit and living in India

    • @cpg6541
      @cpg6541 Před 4 lety +20

      Yea, seriously. It's not racist, and the technical term would be socialist. He wrote a song, the lyrics are of his own opinion. Never before have i heard people get so mad over a line of lyrics that was put there as a rythmical rhime to bridge the verses. I'm a music major.

    • @SS-yc5km
      @SS-yc5km Před 4 lety

      @@hiidupiidu3292 Amen

    • @rayanomar4832
      @rayanomar4832 Před 4 lety +7

      Im indian and thats not racist

    • @rayanomar4832
      @rayanomar4832 Před 4 lety +9

      also indians can be hella racist to africans and dark skinned people

    • @Dhjjgghjbf
      @Dhjjgghjbf Před 4 lety +3

      @@TrippyPixels if she had money to leave why would she? Most people that leave emigrate to get more money because their living conditions and quality of life is horrible. Although she does seem well educated so maybe she is from a more upper class family but then why would she leave?

  • @woomy8971
    @woomy8971 Před 5 lety +18

    thanks for reminding me to unsubscribe from him. i used to like his videos but after the pewdiepie thing it's hard to support him

    • @rileythorn4928
      @rileythorn4928 Před 5 lety +4

      Oh come on did you even see the behind-the-scenes video of Congratulations maybe it wily give you even more context to actually what they were thinking plus everything was a big joke at the time Ben Shapiro was a meme so it was funny that he didn’t meme review like come on

    • @woomy8971
      @woomy8971 Před 5 lety +9

      @@rileythorn4928 I did watch the behind the scenes. Saying racist things "as a joke" is still racist. As for the Ben Shapiro thing, allowing him to host the show is showing support, even if Pewdiepie disagreed with his views.
      Like what Shonalika said in their video, it would have been okay if they actually clearly acknowledged that the "Congratulations" was not serious and that actually saying racist things about India/Indians was wrong in the actual track, but instead Dave just said it in a seperate video on his (much smaller) channel.

    • @rileythorn4928
      @rileythorn4928 Před 5 lety +6

      WOOMY it was literally just for Memes for the Ben Shapiro thing because Ben Shapiro at the time was literally a meme Ben Shapiro didn’t even really get half the things also saying a racist joke doesn’t mean you’re actually racist like I actually hate this certain people of skin colour. PewDiePie even donated money to children in India do you think he would be really racist if you did that

    • @angeldexx7097
      @angeldexx7097 Před 4 lety

      Gorosaurus Guy they stopped responding because they know you’re right 👏👏

    • @woomy8971
      @woomy8971 Před 4 lety +7

      @@angeldexx7097 i realized there's no point in arguing and didn't want to waste my time. they obviously aren't going to change their view and it's unlikely for them to change mine, so it just wasn't worth it

  • @jadezworld1287
    @jadezworld1287 Před 4 lety +22

    I mean didn't they try to help them even though they didn't know how bad they're anorexia was? They make it seem that they were a bad person in their relationship.

    • @koi5918
      @koi5918 Před 3 lety

      hey youre misgendering them, they go by they/them pronouns

    • @jadezworld1287
      @jadezworld1287 Před 3 lety +1

      @@koi5918 Oh sorry. I didn't know I'll change that thanks for letting me know

  • @psyopticprodigy2427
    @psyopticprodigy2427 Před 4 měsíci +2

    imagine thinking pewdiepie was ever alt right. Guess it was popular to hate him at the time though.

  • @themothofchristmasfuture3892

    pewdiepie is not racist to Indians. In one of his videos, he said he LIKES Indian people, as long as they don't like T-series. This video is just a psychological excuse for leaving him for a reason that was not viable.

  • @milkyidk1020
    @milkyidk1020 Před 4 lety +41

    So who are you?

  • @pollux6560
    @pollux6560 Před 5 lety +17

    Context?

    • @aljuria3452
      @aljuria3452 Před 5 lety +5

      Description

    • @pollux6560
      @pollux6560 Před 5 lety +4

      @Luigi Nariana and is she really boyinabands ex and something we (everyone in the comments section) should discuss 'by pewdiepie and boyinaband' what about roomie

    • @cameronbooth1217
      @cameronbooth1217 Před 4 lety +5

      She's jealous because of boy in a bands success and using racism and transphobia as a crutch

    • @aneeya9387
      @aneeya9387 Před 3 lety +4

      @@pollux6560 they*

    • @daltonlilledahl3663
      @daltonlilledahl3663 Před 3 lety

      @@aneeya9387 wdym they. its a girl and can be called a she, just because she thinks or you think she is not a girl doesnt mean she isnt

  • @thehorriblebright
    @thehorriblebright Před rokem +3

    Came here from LadyKnighttheBrave. Had no idea of your connection to Dave. I watched his stuff years ago, when it was mostly reason tutorials. Never was overly impressed with the more narrative stuff. Unsubscribed immediately when the pewd video came out. That was simply pathetic.

  • @captaincaptain6014
    @captaincaptain6014 Před rokem +5

    Wish the world saw this video the year it was posted

  • @allegedlyni6939
    @allegedlyni6939 Před 3 lety +51

    I love a lot of Dave’s music, this really got me thinking about so many different things, not only related to “ congratulations “ , but otherwise 🌺.
    The whole hospitalization thing hit me the hardest. That’s just plain horrible.

    • @daltonlilledahl3663
      @daltonlilledahl3663 Před 3 lety +16

      If I were you I would get both sides, just because this girl said these things in a diss track doesn't mean they actually happened. I would be careful believing everything an ex says about their old boyfriend.

    • @allegedlyni6939
      @allegedlyni6939 Před 3 lety +7

      @@daltonlilledahl3663 Thanks...my point of view has changed a bit since, I’m not blindly trusting anyone 😊

    • @daltonlilledahl3663
      @daltonlilledahl3663 Před 3 lety +7

      @@allegedlyni6939 that's good to know, have a good day

  • @zactron1997
    @zactron1997 Před rokem +4

    Subbed, came from Xanderhal's shout out!

  • @uwu11
    @uwu11 Před 2 lety +26

    This comment section nearly gave me an aneurysm. I'm done.

  • @connersatterblom7661
    @connersatterblom7661 Před 4 lety +129

    Who what when where why how
    None of this makes sense

    • @connersatterblom7661
      @connersatterblom7661 Před 4 lety +5

      Walter

    • @prideofmanny2981
      @prideofmanny2981 Před 4 lety +5

      IKR FUCKING BULL SHIT

    • @softia9
      @softia9 Před 4 lety +3

      Seems like they (that’s the pronoun that’s used I think) was Dave’s (Boyinaband) girlfriend or something. They broke up too I think

    • @jimballard1186
      @jimballard1186 Před 3 lety +7

      Pewdiepie platforms Nazis, if he's not one himself, which I'm frankly not sold on.
      Shonalika is someone Nazis would like to see die in an oven.
      Shonalika dated Boyinaband.
      Boyinaband, while dating someone whom Nazis would like to see die in an oven, collaborated with Pewdiepie, who platforms Nazis.
      I am probably missing details, but that seems to be the flow chart version of events.

    • @thegoodman3822
      @thegoodman3822 Před 3 lety

      Boyinaband dissed india so she is dissing boyinaband

  • @villainova8941
    @villainova8941 Před 4 lety +28

    This is as bad as that hit or miss song.

    • @jacob9639
      @jacob9639 Před 4 lety +13

      no hit or miss is a master piece compared to this

    • @prideofmanny2981
      @prideofmanny2981 Před 4 lety

      W o r s e

    • @melondodo1152
      @melondodo1152 Před 4 lety

      Jeez I thought but or miss was brilliant while watching this

  • @viennar1918
    @viennar1918 Před 4 lety +115

    ACTUALLY Dave was friends with pewds before they made that song. You are definately allowed to not have the same opinions as everyone else but, you dont have to make a diss track over him.. not calling you back?

  • @lovelylipbonesouwwwwwwwolv2198

    2:21 this aged well...

  • @Emihana
    @Emihana Před rokem +43

    Damn, I hope you and everyone else is okay. I'm sorry you all had to deal with him.

  • @crowposting
    @crowposting Před rokem +159

    This goes so fucking hard. Also I'm so sorry what he put you through. He really is a terrible person.

  • @samissomewhere4573
    @samissomewhere4573 Před rokem +11

    The way you mimicked his music/visual style is petty in all the right ways, go off

  • @sirfizz6518
    @sirfizz6518 Před rokem +19

    As a past fan of Dave's (no more as of a few minutes ago) who learned the basics of music production from his videos, this was a shocking way to learn all this at once (that's what i get for being in and out of the CZcams community.
    This had me hyperventilating, on the verge of crying, and rightly so... You were so raw that this really hit home so massively.
    Thank you for your bold authenticity on speaking truth to power.

  • @RedRedacted123
    @RedRedacted123 Před rokem +1

    How did no one noticed this 3 years ago.

  • @jimballard1186
    @jimballard1186 Před 3 lety +62

    That's a damn shame. I remember hearing Boyinaband's song about the education system a few years ago and thinking it had great points. Guess it's just as well I never got into his fandom.

    • @thomasphillips7895
      @thomasphillips7895 Před 3 lety +13

      The entire video was entertainment and not meant to be taken seriously as said multiple times in the comments and even throughout the song. Please check both sides of the story before you form an opinion.

    • @jimballard1186
      @jimballard1186 Před 3 lety +43

      @@thomasphillips7895 If you're talking about the Congratulations video, I don't really care if they intended it to be a joke. Intent is not the same thing as outcome. If you step on my foot and I tell you that hurt, you don't get to say, "I didn't mean to step on your foot, so no it doesn't hurt."

    • @h2hoe625
      @h2hoe625 Před 3 lety +8

      Hi, Jim! David still has some good points regarding education, but his attitudes kind of discredit what he says. I have a philosophy of appropriating the good things people say and do and extracting the bad. I still think his point is pretty valid, but I can't lie I feel completely baffled now. I'm glad Shonalika made this video, even with some comments claiming David asked them to keep it off CZcams. Having their* perspective elucidates a lot.

    • @jimballard1186
      @jimballard1186 Před 3 lety +7

      @@h2hoe625 I agree. I mostly just feel like I dodged a bullet by not becoming a fan. That way, none of my ego is invested in him.

    • @daltonlilledahl3663
      @daltonlilledahl3663 Před 3 lety +5

      This is actually sad how people think that they are really racist after they made a joke diss track. I don't wanna pull political stuff into this but I have no idea why she put in the song that Ben Shapiro is wrong.

  • @zbhype6836
    @zbhype6836 Před 3 lety +16

    I’m here to just say how dare she forget about Roomie

    • @anunimates_2690
      @anunimates_2690 Před 3 lety +5

      Ikr! How could they forget about our swedish boy?

    • @nyarthecat8195
      @nyarthecat8195 Před 3 lety

      who is 'she'
      there is no 'she' in this situation

    • @anunimates_2690
      @anunimates_2690 Před 3 lety +5

      @@nyarthecat8195 you’re right, although I may not agree with their views, correct pronoun use is important. My comment above has been edited to use they/them, thanks for pointing out my oversight

  • @CazuBM
    @CazuBM Před rokem +31

    I didn't come across this video until seeing a video talking about boyinaband, but honestly, this is legit one of the best songs I've come across on youtube, specially knowing the context now. The chorus is just perfect, the lyrics are incredible and you are incredibly brave. Thanks and sorry for the hate you got.

    • @reezlaw
      @reezlaw Před 8 měsíci +1

      Meh, the rapping is really amateur af and the instrumental is from yt's library

    • @DantinozMC
      @DantinozMC Před 8 měsíci +3

      Is this like the first song you've ever heard or

    • @reezlaw
      @reezlaw Před 8 měsíci

      @@DantinozMC yeah that's the only way

  • @peppernytsia
    @peppernytsia Před rokem +6

    I don't know if I'll be able to find my old comment here, because I don't remember what account I used for it,but I just wanna say sorry for writing a hateful comment a few years ago.As a fan of Dave at the time I just didn't want to believe this and tried to justify him as much as I could.How wrong I was.
    Upd: And I also want to add that Shonalika was very brave to speak about this issue when nobody else did.It's not easy to talk about such things when you're not alone and it's even more difficult when you're completely on your own.

  • @agustiomaitimu144
    @agustiomaitimu144 Před 5 lety +64

    Im not sure if she rlly watched the behind the scene video

  • @lyrablack8621
    @lyrablack8621 Před 3 lety +22

    Ugh. The wake up call i needed. Thank you, even if it'll take some time to actually process this

    • @erin_layla
      @erin_layla Před 3 lety +7

      Me too. I really liked him, don’t stay in school was a big thing in the home-educated online community I was in, but holy heck this was an eye-opener.

    • @archfiend221
      @archfiend221 Před 2 lety +4

      You realize that Dave did nothing wrong the whole congratulations song is a literal joke menst to annoy t series and be a meme

  • @jeremycherry6762
    @jeremycherry6762 Před 8 měsíci +4

    Sooo this is a joke right?

  • @JaytheblueJ
    @JaytheblueJ Před rokem +16

    Here after the Reddit post

  • @Nyxisdangerous
    @Nyxisdangerous Před 4 lety +173

    I get diss tracks, but like, this is just nasty and mean. This really feels angrily impulsive and I wish you would've worked this out with him in private.

  • @pinkberries3993
    @pinkberries3993 Před rokem +17

    I would love to hear her take on all of this. Rewatching this everything makes sense, hindsight is a wild thing

  • @menstrualdissonance
    @menstrualdissonance Před rokem +3

    Its wild how people were hating until he got outed as a pedophile because, believing a queer person about his shitty behavior was just too difficult.

  • @ecclesiasticman4417
    @ecclesiasticman4417 Před 8 měsíci +3

    Bruh, that song has nothing to do with transphobia. Boyinaband was just not right in the head.

    • @azrieldev
      @azrieldev Před 8 měsíci +1

      That's not an excuse

  • @canyounotmydude9155
    @canyounotmydude9155 Před rokem +7

    Sorry for not seeing this in time

  • @Jasmin-bp6ic
    @Jasmin-bp6ic Před 4 lety +74

    Being right wing does not make someone a Nazi and mentioning Hitler in a song that is completely satirical is not offensive... take it from a Polish Jew, who is also a Democrat... I get he hurt you but don’t hide behind his depression or him collaborating with pewdiepie as the excuse for this. Mental illness is no joke and honestly people mess up and the internet exaggerates things way over the limit. I have to admit I have a bias for both pewdiepie and Boyinaband but I’ve witnessed their presence on the internet enough to know when they’re joking and when it starts being offensive...

    • @TallicaMan1986
      @TallicaMan1986 Před 4 lety

      Yes exactly. That line is typical edgy boasting. Basically a genocide towards those who step to as enemies as no one survives and the one in Question? Pewdiepie always thrives.
      And besides There are so many worse lines then that in hip hop.
      Horror rap is kinda grotesque.

  • @nula6706
    @nula6706 Před 3 lety

    wait sorry is this a diss track on boyinaband or pewdiepie? or both?

  • @cinder7258
    @cinder7258 Před rokem

    Does this apply to roomie official

    • @twainstevens9588
      @twainstevens9588 Před 6 měsíci

      Nah, not really. It was always clear that he was just friends with Felix because they happened to be the two biggest Swedish CZcamsrs and there was a kinship between them as a result. Roomie isn't the kind of guy to look too far into any of those things, but he seems to have dropped Dave like everyone else following the allegations.