Absolutely correct. Most people hate to admit it, but criticism is like Khujli, jitni karo utna Mazaa aata hai. I realised a few years back about myself that I was doing the same. The way out is to be extremely busy, be it work, learning or something else. You stand to gain much more out of it.
Bilkul sahi hai, Sir. Meri problem kuch alag hai. Maine bahut samay tak apne husband ka criticism jhela har baat mein suna" tumhen kuch samajh hi nahin aata." Although I am educated and worked as a lecturer in a govt. school for 35 years. Now I refuse to listen him and trying to be independent. Bahar ke logon se to aap tackle kar loge par ghar ke nindak ka kya karen? Aapki videos dekh-sun kar ab zindagi ko samajh rahi hoon
Sir, True. You're right. We agree with you 100 💯 percent. We should avoid unnecessary criticism of others. We should not blame others. Thank you very much. We're learning a lot from you. May God bless you. Unfortunately I am still illiterate after spending 84 years of my life. 5.12.2022. Lahore, Pakistan.
Sir kuch baat bolna chahti hu.... Aur agar ho sake to inke solution bhi bataye 1. aajkal Ghar ke andar bhi humne ek dusre ko salah lena aur dena band kar diya hai kyuki humare vichar hamesha match nahi hote aur kuch bol do to bura lag jata hai....bas unhi cheezo par bola jata hai jab kisi ki taarif karni ho taki relationship me kadwahat badh na jaye.. 2. bahut baar unnecessary cheezo pe bina salah maange bhi mil jati hai, bade log jinko humare field k bare me zyada knowledge nahi hai wo bhi humari field k andar ghus k hume sikhane lag jate hai bas isliye kyuki wo bade hai, is se self confidence me bahut Kami aane lagti hai, aur husband wife me jhagde ho jate hai... aise me kya kare?
Excellent original analysis on avoiding criticism. 'Even a stopped watch shows correct time twice a day. Similarly, only 2/3 % critics are correct.' Rest are doing it because they have plenty of free time, are below you and envy it, it gives them a kick, or do it for hidden motive. So avoid all criticism and even so called healthy criticism, except from close relatives and professionals. It pulls you down to negativity and loss of confidence. Wonderful.
What you said is obsolute correct sir ..I used to do it when I was totally free doing nothing..when I got busy in my work..I didn't get any thought to know about others..doing nothing is main reason for laziness and criticizing others..I am from karnataka..don't mind my English but if is my experience..thank you sir
hi amit ji,i can see u are struggling with your cough.....try VASAVALEHA from Dabur,1 spoon with hot water before sleep. MAX3 days it will vanish thx and warm regards Gautam
Ordinary girl criticise b.ful girls.once i heard , ordinary girl saying डायन तो b ful गर्ल without any reason. निन्दा में मजा आता ह, सास bhu को क्रिटिसाइज करती हैं , सुपीरियर फील करने k liye. More talented person is criticized more ,bcoz other person feel inferiority. Your analysis is correct. I feel same.
Yes this is a very difficult area when your close family members criticize you on most of your decisions but at the same time enjoying the benefits of the results of your decisions
Alochana or vimarsh = critisize Ninda = condemnation I am not a guru like you sir but i think they are different so critisize is good condemnation is bad
आलोचना करना मनुष्य का नेचर नही है यह एक संक्रामक खुजली वाली मानसिकता है एक व्यक्ति आलोचना करता है दूसरा व्यक्ति संक्रमित होकर काउंटर आलोचना करता है फिर संक्रमित आलोचना एक तड़का लगा नैरेटिव बनकर संदेह अंदाजा अनुमान की नमक मिर्ची लिए हुए घरो आफिसो टीवी बहसो से लेकर संसद भवन तक आलोचना प्रसारण केन्द्र के रूप मे पहुंचकर धर्म संस्कृति जाति राष्ट्र अर्थव्यवस्था के लिए खतरा बन जाता है और फिर इनसे हमारी संवेदनाओ का संवेदी सूचकांक आहत होने लगता है।
Sir please start a channel with only English. I don't understand fluent Hindi. I google many words and i recommend your channel to my friends as well even they will enjoy your videos.. across borders
WOW! TAKE A BOW! Indeed Life-Altering. Please make Feedback video as well. Thank You P.s. I am guilty of being the aggressor (I severely criticise other people). I believed I have genuinely cared for people and criticised them, but it hasn't had any positive impact on me or the relationships. If possible, please consider discussing the subject of how NOT TO criticise, when you are genuinely concerned about other people and you see them in a mess. Thank You Again.
Absolutely correct. Most people hate to admit it, but criticism is like Khujli, jitni karo utna Mazaa aata hai. I realised a few years back about myself that I was doing the same.
The way out is to be extremely busy, be it work, learning or something else. You stand to gain much more out of it.
Bilkul sahi hai, Sir. Meri problem kuch alag hai. Maine bahut samay tak apne husband ka criticism jhela har baat mein suna" tumhen kuch samajh hi nahin aata." Although I am educated and worked as a lecturer in a govt. school for 35 years. Now I refuse to listen him and trying to be independent. Bahar ke logon se to aap tackle kar loge par ghar ke nindak ka kya karen? Aapki videos dekh-sun kar ab zindagi ko samajh rahi hoon
Sir,
True. You're right. We agree with you 100 💯 percent. We should avoid unnecessary criticism of others. We should not blame others. Thank you very much. We're learning a lot from you. May God bless you. Unfortunately I am still illiterate after spending 84 years of my life.
5.12.2022.
Lahore, Pakistan.
Kamyab.. hamesha ki tara... Respect from Lahore.Pakistan.
Bhai tumko Shudhh hindi samajh me ajati he kya? Jese "Gyan" "Shlok" aese sab words?? Curiously asking.
Respect from Rajasthan India 🇮🇳
@@prasadbhadane608 ji 🙂
बहुत बार सुना हैं Sir, about healthy Criticism. Very good gyan
Sir kuch baat bolna chahti hu.... Aur agar ho sake to inke solution bhi bataye
1. aajkal Ghar ke andar bhi humne ek dusre ko salah lena aur dena band kar diya hai kyuki humare vichar hamesha match nahi hote aur kuch bol do to bura lag jata hai....bas unhi cheezo par bola jata hai jab kisi ki taarif karni ho taki relationship me kadwahat badh na jaye..
2. bahut baar unnecessary cheezo pe bina salah maange bhi mil jati hai, bade log jinko humare field k bare me zyada knowledge nahi hai wo bhi humari field k andar ghus k hume sikhane lag jate hai bas isliye kyuki wo bade hai, is se self confidence me bahut Kami aane lagti hai, aur husband wife me jhagde ho jate hai... aise me kya kare?
SANGWAN ji - All the facts you mentioned are absolutely correct. Opened my eyes and made be realise my habits and behaviour as well.
Eye-opener, i felt that i had been doing this all time
Excellent original analysis on avoiding criticism. 'Even a stopped watch shows correct time twice a day. Similarly, only 2/3 % critics are correct.' Rest are doing it because they have plenty of free time, are below you and envy it, it gives them a kick, or do it for hidden motive. So avoid all criticism and even so called healthy criticism, except from close relatives and professionals. It pulls you down to negativity and loss of confidence. Wonderful.
What you said is obsolute correct sir ..I used to do it when I was totally free doing nothing..when I got busy in my work..I didn't get any thought to know about others..doing nothing is main reason for laziness and criticizing others..I am from karnataka..don't mind my English but if is my experience..thank you sir
Critic when there is time
Criticism joy but no success
Healthy criticism feedback
Nice video, thankyou
Yes Sir, Well understanding of the topic for all to think
Excellent 🎉
Awesome
Absolutely spot on …. One way or other all of us do this . This awareness is real gyan to absorb and be conscious about it . 🙏🙏
Achha laga
Perfectly explained !
Genuine content hats off
Why did you stop captions please continue so more people can access your content!!!lovely content!!
U r always the best. Sir have a great time.
Very good explanation clears mind and soul and most important time. Thanks sir
Superb!!!!
Very good video
Thanks sir 🙏
Yes listened this word
Yes, I experienced this
Good one sir, I ve been following your vdos. Regards.
hi amit ji,i can see u are struggling with your cough.....try VASAVALEHA from Dabur,1 spoon with hot water before sleep. MAX3 days it will vanish
thx and warm regards
Gautam
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Such a deep video, I'm surprised why it got so less no. of likes. Great job Sango sir.
Sir very good 👍
Yes Sir
Very true
bilkul suna hai
Kamyab sir🙏
Genuine people admire and praise others, fake people criticize others to make themselves look great.
Kamyaab 🔥🔥
Yes suna hai
Ordinary girl criticise b.ful girls.once i heard , ordinary girl saying डायन तो b ful गर्ल without any reason.
निन्दा में मजा आता ह,
सास bhu को क्रिटिसाइज करती हैं , सुपीरियर फील करने k liye.
More talented person is criticized more ,bcoz other person feel inferiority.
Your analysis is correct.
I feel same.
Yes
Right
kamyab
Sir ji, you look somewhat like USA Donald Trump !! Nice video !!
haan suna hai
Han suni hai
Kamyab
yes
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Can you pls make a video on how to take criticism from family but when they are wrong in judging you
Yes this is a very difficult area when your close family members criticize you on most of your decisions but at the same time enjoying the benefits of the results of your decisions
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Alochana or vimarsh = critisize
Ninda = condemnation
I am not a guru like you sir but i think they are different so critisize is good condemnation is bad
Dear Sir, Pls make a video on the subject how to take feedback from seniors
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Yes suna he, ek baat batau bura toh nahi manoge
कोई अच्छा काम भी कर रहा हो तो भी लोग आलोचना करते है appreciate करना तो दूर हर चीज़ में खामियां ढूंढना.....
मनुष्य का नेचर ऐसा बन गया है
आलोचना करना मनुष्य का नेचर नही है यह एक संक्रामक खुजली वाली मानसिकता है एक व्यक्ति आलोचना करता है दूसरा व्यक्ति संक्रमित होकर काउंटर आलोचना करता है फिर संक्रमित आलोचना एक तड़का लगा नैरेटिव बनकर संदेह अंदाजा अनुमान की नमक मिर्ची लिए हुए घरो आफिसो टीवी बहसो से लेकर संसद भवन तक आलोचना प्रसारण केन्द्र के रूप मे पहुंचकर धर्म संस्कृति जाति राष्ट्र अर्थव्यवस्था के लिए खतरा बन जाता है और फिर इनसे हमारी संवेदनाओ का संवेदी सूचकांक आहत होने लगता है।
Very true
Czar Nicholas II of Clarity
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Sir please start a channel with only English. I don't understand fluent Hindi. I google many words and i recommend your channel to my friends as well even they will enjoy your videos.. across borders
Sir me to video dekhne se pehle hi like kar deta hoo
Kamjab
Suna he
sir aapke sare videos bharpoor gyan dete hai....... itna gyan sametna mushkil hota ja raha hai......only you can help in this🙏🙏
There r hundreds of such motivational video in English. May be they r inspiring u too
MAG
3rd point suna hai
Kabhi nahi suna
WOW! TAKE A BOW!
Indeed Life-Altering.
Please make Feedback video as well.
Thank You
P.s.
I am guilty of being the aggressor (I severely criticise other people). I believed I have genuinely cared for people and criticised them, but it hasn't had any positive impact on me or the relationships.
If possible, please consider discussing the subject of how NOT TO criticise, when you are genuinely concerned about other people and you see them in a mess.
Thank You Again.
Yes
Kamyab
Yes
Yes
Kamyab