3 tips on staying safe at cons💪🫵

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  • čas přidán 26. 08. 2024

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  • @TrenchAngel
    @TrenchAngel Před rokem +332

    ALL OF THIS! I remember once there was a little 14 year old that attached herself to me at a con (I was 18) and I'm so glad she did. We both had horrible men hitting on us the whole time, many got worse when she gave her age. I was there to grab her wrist and walk her away from the creeps and get us both to a safer area. I was so mad and ashamed of our community. Remember to look out for the minors, and if you see anything that seems off or creepy step in. We're a community, and we protect each other!

    • @theidiot231
      @theidiot231 Před rokem +9

      I will keep that in mind thank you because I was going to ask my parents if i could walk around and shop a little bit on my own thank u

    • @purple_nova4496
      @purple_nova4496 Před měsícem

      Aw, you’re amazing for keeping that girl safe! And right, some of the people in our community are just downright disgusting…

  • @Whoskaijou
    @Whoskaijou Před rokem +23

    I love watching pros giving advice to the inexperienced it’s so wholesome 🥺🫶

  • @JustYuuuki
    @JustYuuuki Před rokem +171

    I remember that someone asked to take photos of me, they were looking for photos of cosplayers, I declined and I think I made the right decision

    • @LordAuron
      @LordAuron Před rokem +4

      You refused a photo... whats the big deal?

    • @JustYuuuki
      @JustYuuuki Před rokem +5

      ​@@LordAuronidk I just wanted so share my experience lol

    • @Hyperrcapsule
      @Hyperrcapsule Před rokem +12

      @@LordAuronyou know how these types of people are.. they try to make problems and drama and get attention out of literally anything.

    • @theidiot231
      @theidiot231 Před rokem +1

      ​@LordAuron most times snot a problem but sometimes you don't have a good feeling but normally not big deal and doesn't hurt to ask

    • @gopenssj9356
      @gopenssj9356 Před 11 měsíci +10

      ​@@theidiot231it is a con. With cosplayers. Just saying. Not that she can't refuse a simple photo but i am saying that shouldn't be presented like it's a red flag. It invalidates other issues people have run into and unnecessarily villianizes a (most likely) innocent man. Refusing photo's is fine. Coming up with assumptions and strage theories isn't.

  • @aidantuck9113
    @aidantuck9113 Před rokem +25

    I'm a 6'4, heavily bearded, very deep voiced man. Stereotypical bad guy look. I go to the gym regularly, and it shows. From personal experience, we are the safest people to go to if you ever feel like you're in danger. Please, go up to us, and act like we are your sibling. This applies to when you're in public too, but especially at conventions. Now, some people that look like me are very weird, but most of us that have the dedication to go to the gym as often as we do have no sympathy for anybody like that.
    Also, I understand being worried about going up to us. The media gives us a bad rap for how we look. If you've had a bad experience with somebody, please know that not everyone is like that. While we might be big and scary, most of us don't really like the fear that instills. If you feel worried about going up to us, please, find someone else. But if you are comfortable, we are normally some of the best people to go to. I mean, if you're a creep, are you going to go harass a kid next to the guy who looks like you could rip you in half?
    Please stay safe out there, and have fun at conventions. That's why you're there!

  • @ElixsArtsz
    @ElixsArtsz Před rokem +80

    Tysm! I was planning on going to a convention soon so tysm!!

    • @captain_kandi
      @captain_kandi  Před rokem +8

      of course have fun and stay safe

    • @BigAnimeFan20
      @BigAnimeFan20 Před rokem +3

      Thanks for this information!!!! I am going with my dad to Boston Comic Con in August on Saturday the fifth and going to be Mario Movie Princess Peach, I will show this to my dad so he will know!!!😊

  • @Weirdvampir
    @Weirdvampir Před 7 měsíci +2

    i wanna go to a cosplay convention so much i’ll keep these tips in mind if i ever do end up going to one

  • @gothcxnt
    @gothcxnt Před rokem +6

    I was one of those naive kids who almost befriended an adult at a con as a minor. I was there with my dad, and I went off by myself for a while to look around and this grown man kept following me around and asking for my number. I was young and dumb so i thought he was just being friendly and liked my cosplay. Luckily my dad found me and took me away from him. Idk what wouldve happened if he werent there with me. PLEASE BE CAREFUL and go find security if you feel unsafe!

  • @0_.Moss._0
    @0_.Moss._0 Před rokem +31

    Tysm!! This will help.
    I also love the Yashiro cosplay

  • @Demidostov
    @Demidostov Před rokem +14

    I live in a small town and i decided to go to my local amusement park as springbonbie. I was just taking pictures, goofing around but then some guy appeared out if thin air and started lifting me 0-0. I told him to stop.

    • @-RubbingAlcohol-
      @-RubbingAlcohol- Před 2 měsíci

      I wanted to go to a con as Springbonnie but i cant see out of the head, and i wanna go alone lol

  • @Kaalokalawaia
    @Kaalokalawaia Před rokem +1

    There are creeps at every convention. My BF has started calling them out when he sees them now. Esp when they talk to young girls.

  • @atomicfallout67minis
    @atomicfallout67minis Před rokem +7

    Avoid drunk members of public and stay in open public areas

  • @BLITZO_HB
    @BLITZO_HB Před rokem +2

    I am going to my second ever con in about 2 months so I’ll try to use these tips as a young Cosplayer! Ty :)

  • @inkkladar
    @inkkladar Před 7 měsíci

    People can get weird. I was walking alone to meet up with some friends, and a guy stopped me, clearly delusional drunk or something, telling me to move away, move off the grid, stop playing anime games, and was just eyeing me weird. I broke my cosplay that day and i didnt dare go back for it because i was sure some people would be waiting. It can get scary being alone. Company is best for safety and the mind.

  • @Weslaything
    @Weslaything Před rokem

    This is so helpful tysm

  • @GumdropElissiaRoselle
    @GumdropElissiaRoselle Před rokem +8

    Tyy, 2 of my friends are going with me to my first convention(It was a coincidence were going on the same day) and my parents are going too..

  • @theidiot231
    @theidiot231 Před rokem

    Thank you so much I'm so new to con's and I'm going to my second one and finally cosplaying thank you for this I had no idea

  • @foxzie._8371
    @foxzie._8371 Před 7 měsíci

    YES YES YES, I’ve been going to conventions for a few years now and what I’ve learned as a minor!! Is always have a buddie(s), if someone asks for a picture and they creep/weird you out you can always say no, if you find a minor unattended keep a close eye on them and or ask them where their friend(s) or adult is and don’t leave their side until you find that person

  • @lillybareham1257
    @lillybareham1257 Před rokem

    I also recommend, if you're wearing a skirt, dress or cosplay outfit that has a skirt or dress to wear shorts underneath. You get some absolute creeps with cameras during cons.

  • @KandiFangzzz
    @KandiFangzzz Před rokem

    I LOVE THE KANDI OMGG

  • @colorfulmoss6945
    @colorfulmoss6945 Před rokem

    I'm going to a con and I'm a minor I'm so glad you give tips how to stay safe because this is the first ever time I'm going to. Be going to a con and I'm so scared and excited at the same time

  • @wptwashington3265
    @wptwashington3265 Před 11 měsíci

    ok thanks! i was planning on going sometime as well, and im under driving age:)

  • @uquie_
    @uquie_ Před 11 měsíci

    WAS THAT A SHIN COSPLAY AT THE END???? youre gorgeous btw omg

  • @advxnture_
    @advxnture_ Před rokem

    :OOO is that nene? and i think i saw a sou hiyori cosplay in the background :D

  • @-RubbingAlcohol-
    @-RubbingAlcohol- Před 2 měsíci

    Will remember this. I plan on trying to go without my parents so this will be useful

  • @RaineMakesMusic14
    @RaineMakesMusic14 Před rokem

    thank you, i'm planning on going to a convention with my aunt and uncle bc we all cosplay so thank you

  • @Ojoni_H
    @Ojoni_H Před rokem

    ik this is off topic but i love that toga cosplay

  • @_K3M0R1_
    @_K3M0R1_ Před 9 měsíci

    me and my friends will definitely keep this in mind, I really should have seen this before my last con and I was left comepletely alone, my mom was at scavenger hunt and both my friends were somewhere else, I was left there alone, but my mom didnt know, she thought my friends were still there, but it was all okay, one of my friends came back and we walked around.

  • @EpicSiena
    @EpicSiena Před rokem

    HES A KEEPER OM TYSM❤

  • @infinitydream3617
    @infinitydream3617 Před rokem +2

    I have that same phone case

  • @chloeynahbro5405
    @chloeynahbro5405 Před 11 měsíci

    WE HAVE THE SAME PHONE CASE

  • @infinitydream3617
    @infinitydream3617 Před rokem +2

    Hi I love you vids so much❤

  • @Kanaosan702
    @Kanaosan702 Před 9 měsíci

    So i remember when i was younger and i saw this nagito cosplayer and he just came up to me and started to be wierd so i just runned away 😂 (btw i was cosplaying Mahiru when that happend)

  • @Mindyourbuisnessplease
    @Mindyourbuisnessplease Před rokem +1

    “How to say stafe”

  • @RaynesBasement
    @RaynesBasement Před rokem

    Im always with my bestie at cons and we also would share every hotel room lol

  • @voidmcc1348
    @voidmcc1348 Před rokem

    I remember I went to the only comic/gaming con in my country and I was lucky enough that it was near my house there were so many people who were interviewing others (mostly cosplayers). and were so many adults and so many minors at the same time and all hanging out with each other. stay safe peeps :3

  • @queenandcorgis
    @queenandcorgis Před rokem

    Bring a water bottle as well!

  • @That_Cosplayer505
    @That_Cosplayer505 Před rokem

    OFF TOPIC BUT I HAVE THAT EXACT PHONE CASE

  • @Littletimmyboy04_VR
    @Littletimmyboy04_VR Před rokem

    I am going to my third con in September and the first con I went to there was mostly only minors and their parents but when I went to the same con again there was a lot more adults but l had my mom,my brother,my brother’s friend,my next door neighbours cousin and her mom and a friend or theirs we had quite a big group but it was a small con and the one I’m going to in September is way bigger and I’m going as mitsuri so I will be extra safe

  • @Itsuki0419
    @Itsuki0419 Před rokem

    I just came back from my first convention the other day as a 14 year old and I went alone and over all it's pretty safe as large cons have security and staff everywhere and over all just try to not talk to sketchy people

  • @SiLLySWIRLEEy
    @SiLLySWIRLEEy Před rokem +1

    Ty❤

  • @Emo_dog787
    @Emo_dog787 Před 10 měsíci

    Lucky for me they cant get my personal information because even i dont know it half the time
    (I gorget😢)

  • @fictional_comfort6706

    Yeah I always have my mom with me at conventions as she's also a bit of a cosplayer and enjoys seeing other cosplays

  • @lakritsiii240
    @lakritsiii240 Před rokem

    I KNEW ONE GUY FOR THIRTY MINUTES AND THEN WENT TO THEIR HOTEL ROOM LOL, it was fine tho. I’m really close with them now

  • @clorii1233
    @clorii1233 Před rokem

    Thank you for this Im about to go to my first con next month and i had no idea how it would be like:)

  • @The_goblin._.
    @The_goblin._. Před rokem +1

    ty

  • @InsaneLaughter01
    @InsaneLaughter01 Před rokem +1

    Adults have no reason to be friends with obvious minors. If you get a bad feeling, DO NOT IGNORE IT!

  • @Void-v1w
    @Void-v1w Před 11 měsíci

    I want to go to one 😢

  • @Capi9-9
    @Capi9-9 Před rokem +1

    This is so fuck*** underrated 😿😿😿 im gonna put so much comments yo make this not underrated xD

  • @Makeremoal
    @Makeremoal Před rokem

    If I see you at a convention can I ask for a picture?

  • @Ven7005
    @Ven7005 Před rokem

    Next can we have how yo stay safe at a convention as a miner

  • @acethepacifist1041
    @acethepacifist1041 Před 2 měsíci

    So, going to a con this week, the only name i will be giving ANYONE is character name- i don't give out my real name

  • @silly._Areon
    @silly._Areon Před rokem

    me always going with my best friend to a conv yay ! We are each others bodygard lol , nah seriously i ve never been to a convention without my bsf

  • @hkedbyskizz
    @hkedbyskizz Před rokem

    I was at that convention!!!

  • @The_Rizzness
    @The_Rizzness Před rokem

    On what video is the Bible on I wanna see it lol

  • @Rayven_child_of_hades

    You the cosplay

  • @AristineAri
    @AristineAri Před rokem

  • @Capi9-9
    @Capi9-9 Před rokem

    😂😂🎉🎉

  • @maybledenton1196
    @maybledenton1196 Před 11 měsíci

    Not to be rude but u pointed out every fact a 7 year old would know

  • @Capi9-9
    @Capi9-9 Před rokem

    uwu

  • @Tzaxoo
    @Tzaxoo Před rokem

    Or maybe just don't go to and convention as a kid ☠️