SONS OF SINGLE MOTHERS: Honor & Love Your Mother
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- čas přidán 7. 02. 2017
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I cannot count the times that I had to console a single mother after she shares with me the hurt she feels when her beloved son disrespects her. Every time that I do, I am reminded of the years I resented my mother due to the absence of my father.
In this short video, I was led by Ruach HaKodesh (The Holy Spirit) to address not only the disrespect that some of my recruits display to their single mothers, but also remind them that it’s one of Yahuah’s commandments that they honor their mothers or their life will be cut short! I pray this short video will encourage all the single mothers who sacrificially raise their sons in the midst of this wicked world. Shalom
I'm blown away by these powerful videos. This is exactly the type of training I wish I had when I was younger. How can I support your mission, sir?
Thank you for the encouraging words. How would you like to support our academy? Volunteer opportunities, financial donation, sponsor a recruit?
What a piece of crap video, i see nothing but young males being brainwashed to be obedient and accept false premises without critical thinking. Single mothers who break the family and leave their children's fatherless are deadbeat mothers who should be ostracize from the society.
I hope this "academy" fails asap.
Your perspective is small. I havent watched all the videos however, I have seen enough to see he teaches the whole family. Also, when he says mother he may not mean the biological mother that may or may not have abandoned them. He may be speaking on behalf the mother that cares for you. I don't necessarily agree with what he is quoting, but I believe in the power behind the lessons.
I wish something like this was in my area as I do social work and this would be very helpful to some if not most of the kids I work with. Keep doing the work
Imu Lippo I see your point, but I think you’re being a little judgemental. Think of him as speaking in generalities and not specifics.
And yes, as you get older, you should learn to think for yourself and not just believe whatever you were taught. You can disagree with your parents and still respect them.
@@imulippo5245 You are a weak-spirited individual, driven by vanity - not critical thought. This will Always negatively effect your life until you are willing to let it go. Save the rest of your anger for yourself. It's only you who is being burned by the hot coals you hold in your hand with the intention of throwing at others. EXCELLENT video - Tons of respect to Sensei teaching future generations of men ideals that seem forgotten. Thank you for the reminder of this lesson.
I am muslim but respect the values your instilling in these young men. You're one of very few who represent Christianity in the proper sense
Sending love from a Christian brother man 💯🙏🏾👑
@@isaiah5480 much love from another muslim man my brother. May god bless us all🙏🏻
Another Muslim here. May God bless you all.
Go eat some pork.
@@kiddhkane overrated. go to japan, eat some kobe beef. now that's delicious.
This man should be national news. These videos show true human decency. Forget all the fake media stars and make him famous
This is extremely helpful for those that took advantage and hurt good moms who helped them, feed them & birth them. God is good, healing is essetial to grow and God is the root.
Turning boys into men. Respect.
All we need is one of him in every neighborhood that has boys that have gone astray. Broken boys create hoods, and our communities need some serious healing.
This should be all over everything. Should be mandatory to watch
This man is incredible (because his servitude to God is clear). What a blessing to your men. Even to me, a 29-year-old man only learning from him from behind a screen.
I like how you compared honouring your mother and father with combat, it made sense.
Matt Brewerson toda shalom!
Cave313 Shalom :)
If the message was "disobey her and you get hit... Unless you evade her touch and wrestle her to ground", then yes, it made sense :-D
I can’t believe I just watched this for free but sir I tell you what I am ordering your book ASAP your officially a mentor to me
Whats the name of the book? Where can i find it?
@@abdinaasiromeraden3535 Cry like a Man I ordered my copy from Amazon but I’m sure it’s on all platforms
This lesson is pure gold. Look in the faces of these guys. They seem to understand how important it is to honor mother and father.
I taught this to my son but as a woman I really dont know his thoughts anymore he is changing. He's ten going on 11. He can fly through a book. The first book he started reading was the bible.He's so gifted and bright. Now he is becoming filled with rage so wish this was in Pittsburgh PA.
Ivory Lee Boys pull away from their mothers at a certain age, and get closer to their fathers. Then they pull away from their fathers and become their own man. Most boys with anger problems don’t have a father to help him with the rest of his development.
Just have him speak to his father then.
@@callywetini6794 He will need constant communication with his father and his presence with his father.
@@callywetini6794 I think you're very wrong.
@@callywetini6794 Yes.
Society need way more of this
Dicipline instilled and living close to God
OG is fixing society one young bull at a time
Im not religious at all but damn, you are a teacher that i would have loved to study under in my teens
That boy Gabriel has evil in his eyes. This wonderful Teacher is a Man Of Valor. I respect you Sir. I may not be a martial artist like you but I am the Protector Of My Mom and My Dad.
Im a white 48 yr old man from London Uk… my dad ran out when i was 11.
I remember thinking nobody is string enough to control me now….
Those boys are lucky they have you in their lives…
Power to you….
I am here at 5:50 in the morning, looking at this and holding back the tears that are choking in my throat and burning my eyes.
I've raised two boys and two girls with a dad in the home as a provider...but in many ways an absent parent. We did go to church as a family consistently. My children are all adults, college grads and "good" young adults.
I have a grandson, and two granddaughters from one of my four children. This grandson is my life. I love them all, but he has a special place in my heart. He is 12 years old, full of anger, and has changed so much in one year. He dislikes his mom to the max, says he loves me, fights with his two younger sisters, and is just rude; now I am included in his rudeness. His mother is a single parent, but lives with the dad of the last child. He has kind-a declared his parental roll to all three children...they love him! But he is not teaching my only grandson to respect his mother nor women... My heart is broken, that is why I came here searching for help.
I hope things have changed for the better. That's heartbreaking.
@@gonzo5648 I appreciate your kind words. Things have gotten better, not perfect, but I am thankful. Praise God!
Love what you are doing here.
Thanks for being a light to these kids.
Speaking the truth in love!
Wow. Wish I had something like this growing up without a father. Thank you for what you do, much respect.
God bless this man, he's full of wisdom.
Yes sir! What a blessing, I pray they are listening by changing their behavior.
You are an awesome gentleman sir, may God Bless You and your teachings. You are raising real young men there. My respect to you for your teachings!!!🙏
Thank you for giving these young men what they need...I wish my son could experience this great young man but peer pressure is high...peace and blessings
you are doing a great job. Respect and please keep doing it!
Thank you for the encouragement!
Love your fathers too
Thank you for this! Glad to see men like you in the world. Be blessed!
I love this guy. I wish I had this as a young man growing up. Would have saved me alot of hard times I made myself. Now I try and be a light to others bc I havw sure been in darkness. Bless you brother!!!
👏😪💕 muchas gracias! big huf from Buenos Aires, Argentina. From this single mom. God bless you sir and team. And God bless them boys.
This touched my soul since my mom is mostly a single parent. Thanks. I will give my mom an easier time about everything from now on.
Amen! Beautifully explained brother. Have to add to your words. Loving mother and father is like loving the two parts that you are made of. By loving and understanding yourself, the two parts if you will, you start to become aware of how and where are your parents, friends, teachers, people etc. at. They give the Best they can, the only love they know of. Remember that. We all grow in under different circumstances and only learn one angle, become aware of wider story here and you will understand way more about life and this Universe. Respecting your parents is respecting yourself.
Man, I ABSOLUTELY LOVE YOUR VIDEOS.
Awesome comments! These are the type brothers that are needed in the community to teach MANHOOD in a real sense…..
This is a PERFECT example of teaching our youth about The Most High God teaching while their still young when we walk in the fear and obedience of God we shall prosper Glory Be To God i love this its beautiful i love to see the youth gathered togather learning about God We need that in this world because satan is after our children our youth is out of control but God is patient and merciful kind and loving he does not take pleasure seeing his people perishing for lack of knoweledge but that we should all come to repentance God Bless You May God give you peace and shine his face upon you🙏🏿
so very touched...thanks, coach
Awesome. Definitely wish this training was in the area for my son to attend. As a father, it is important that boys build good early relationships. Subscribed.
I realize the context of this video is single mothers. I do want to add from personal experience that fathers can be narcissists, tyrants. I did as I was told and it harmed my life deeply. There was no man there to call my father out and help me.
I think it’s important to be able to distinguish whether a father or mother is mentally or emotionally ill. This is a practical necessity in this world. Children and young men cannot do this for themselves.
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I think it's important to distinguish here. He is talking about true mothers with good intentions. There are just as much illequipped parents out there. But that is not the theme here. His focus is on their personal attitude towards well meaning mothers. The other kind, the bullies and such, get adressed in other clips
@Not Convinced so forcing them is the answer... it's a gift you choose not a obligation you tolerate.
Man, now more than ever your approach to training boys is desperately needed. Amidst trying to find the root of so violence in America it's staggering to hear the stats and predictions on fatherless homes and gang involvement. Christ bless you.
I thank God for you
God bless you and your mission here on earth. So much Love for this children and tools to understand not just to act. Recflect and think about things twice. Empathie. Open feelings. Thank you.
fuck damn it I'm just loving the dojo and the way he trains, respect
I'm a Christen and I'm extremely glad that you're quoting the Bible, I've seen people who spout things they just made up.
Praying for you brother. Please continue your work and labor of love. Have you thought about widening your footprint? Philly could use a similar program.
Israelites!!! A grafted in gentile saying this! HalleluYah Y’Shua i know this man walked with Messiah from the video when teachin little Bruce to punch through and realise men cry but The blood of Y’Shua is what will strenghten us! This! This is truly set apart (Holy) So rare. Keep walking in The Ruach Amen.
I didn't hesitate to subscribe when I watched this the first time
Beautiful message.
This guy is doing his part Grooming and building decipline young men 👏 who will be responsible citizens in the future contributing meaningfully back to the society .. ..God bless your heart sir...
The message is solid. Keep in mind it comes from a man who can kick these boys' ass. It's not only about having boys watch this, but being in the presence of this man delivering the message. It's what most fathers do. Most...
There is more to a single mother but it's not all praise. Respect is good, but not all praise.
That is beautiful
I've been living in China for 3 years. Haven't been back to America for 2 years. Haven't seen my folks. My mom
takes care of my dad who has early onset Alzheimer's. She sent me money every month since Covid broke out and all work shutdown in China. I couldn't earn a proper salary. She's been there for me with my struggles and helped me battle addictions. She is a true angel. I only get a chance to have a phone call with my folks 2-3 times per week because of the 15 hour time. difference. But I'm staying up late tonight to call them and let them know how much I love and appreciate them. This video is a golden reminder. Thanks brother.
No matter hoe much hate I have for my mother, I would always love her.I would never dishonor her.
I’ll start loving my mom
amaizing boy!!!!!
thanks for subtitles!!!
agreed. im 85% deaf, it helps! love your mission!
I live in Detroit and I have 2 sons that I want to put in this programme so bad. Where do I find you!
Pearl Me please visit our website www.savingboys.org
Amen speechless
Excellent work your doing...
MoKush 4Me thank you
And mother's honor your children by being loving to them
Awww very good lesson.
Yes, show your mother you love her. I no longer have that option.
Beautiful
Setting the standard congrats.
I'm a single mother with 2 children, a girl (11), and a boy (5). I pray that Yah gives me the strength, in all ways to raise them according to His Will and not my own. Bring spiritually strong men in their lives to help in molding them according to Yah's will.
I love your videos, they inspire me to be a better mother.
I mean this with all due respect, stop having relations out of wedlock. It is your own fault if it has happened to you three times
Find him a godly father. It's the best thing you can do for any boy or girl. Statistics prove that.
Seriously i dont know why i came across this page today i know everything i have watch is telling me something
The difference between powerful coaching, and paying some dude to watch your kid for an hour and a half. Hope this guys place lasts long
God I wish I'd had a guide like that
Wisest martial arts instructor I've ever seen. Whic martial art do you teach? Wish I had such a wise person to advise me while growing up without a father
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Good on ya.
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I love this channel. Super inspirational everytime I come to it.. how can I join one of your classes?
Tristan Kinney thank you!
This should be in schools.
GOOD VIDEO.
Thank you
I am trying to teach the younger brother of my wife this lesson. He's 12 and thinks because he the "baby" in the house, he can do what he wants. Which includes disobeying his mother. I have to show him this video.
I think you need to hold a seminar for men and young men.
To the camera man - your lens is creating that ticking sound. Either swap the lens or get an external mic to get rid of it.
Much love gentlemen.
And what would i do if they're ruthless and never raise me right, knew nothing but pulling me and down ? Would i stay obedient to thier embecility or rebel
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He forgets most single "mothers" are the ones dishonoring their sons, not the other way around!
Since some ppl have a issue with what this man is doing tell me what are you doing in your community to help avoid these issues because I see a few ppl in the comments talking crap but aren't bringing up better solutions since they think this is a bad ideal no other race of ppl thinks this way about their own except us how sad
What if our parents are telling us to do something that may be unholy? Do we rebel?
All day ....
I want to join you and your school
Shortening days can also mean ending up in jail. Years of your life gone.
You misunderstand the verse.
He tells you to honor them because their teachings will keep you safe and stay with you all the days of your life.
God made this world in a way where you reap what you sow.
If you sow destruction you will reap it.
If you sow life and wealth you will reap it.
If you sow love and understanding you will reap it.
God is the greatest father.
No disrespect I just wanted to pass this on.
Thank you.
The word “honor” does not mean that we tolerate abuse and obey our parents like mindless robots. It does not mean we have to love parents who chose to abandon, reject, or abandon us. The original Hebrew word kābēd used for the word for honor has many meanings according to the New Interpreter’s Bible, including to "be heavy.” This definition can be interpreted as “giving weight to” or seriously considering a relationship. It does not suggest being subordinate or obedient to parents who harm us.
Parents should not be laying hands on their children...period. Jesus even said, who ever harms these little ones...children are not responsible for their parents singledom or stress, nor should it be taken out on them nor should they be a slave In their home.
Mothers aren’t perfect, so what if your mother asks you to commit a sin? Are you still supposed to follow God’s commandment to obey your mother?
You then obey your father (father on earth or heavenly father).
Meanwhile those who honor their mothers but die early anyways 😬
We need to teach young black men to not run out on women when they get pregnant. Being selfless is hard but if you get someone pregnant you need to stand up and be a man. Never understood why this is such a foreign concept in the black community.
Women must accept accountability too. Not just men.
@@crzxm lord this right here is bs a woman can't teach a boy how to be a man they need father's period the whole blk community needs accountability but I've never understand why is it ok for men to have 4 to 7 baby mama's tho and not be there for none of their kid's it's a sin and it's nasty to be out here living this way I've known dudes that have 6 kid's by the time they're 30 no self discipline what so ever
@@PassportBrosAndBlondeManWeaves and the women allow these men to impregnate them. The women must take accountability too.
This doesn't just happen in the black community.
HOLD THE FUCKING CAMERA JESUS H. CHRIST
Damn. If this is not a mans man then I have never seen one.
i actually hate this i know some mothers and fathers that raise their kids to both hate themsleves and the world when a kid has parent issues 99% OF THE TIME THE PARENT IS TO BLAME
Terrible advice as there are abusive parents out there.
This guy doesn't give any advice at all. He literally just talks nonsense in all of his videos. People like this are a dime a dozen. This is giving off major cult vibes.
Good advice. But fact is, most single mothers are horrible parent, but most single fathers do just fine. Loving one's mother is common sense, but when the mother is not raising the child right it's better to recognise it and move away when you are mature, I am not talking about physically moving away, mental distancing. When a woman is marrying one after another and giving birth to children, then the mother might be still lovable, but never respectable; she brought an unhealthy childhood in her children's lives by her own stupidity.
You sound so bitter you need to chill and heal your problems sorry your mother didn't do her job you have mammy issues for sure
This dude just might be the reincarnation of Jesus Christ. Don't want to over hype it but just saying.
cult alert