WE HAD TO CALL THE POLICE! (Ep. 12): He is escalating and I no longer feel safe in my own home!
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- čas přidán 5. 10. 2022
- I have really struggled on whether to share this with you. However, our neighbor is escalating and I no longer feel safe in my own yard. This is not the type of content I want on my channel and really prefer to share only positive content. However, I felt like I needed to be transparent with all of you to let you know what Keith and I are dealing with. Our neighbor feels it is his right to trespass any time he feels like it into our yard. He has told us that he has a right to be in our yard to maintain his fence, so he comes over whenever he wants! There are numerous issues, but this is just a highlight of what we face every day. Please be sure to comment below to let me know how you would handle the situation.
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Never apologize if you haven't done anything wrong. This is a situation for the man in your life. He is the protector of his family
He's infringing on your property and in some cases after time he will be able to claim the land that the fence is on as his own. Your kindness is allowing him to steal your land and could cause a huge legal headache when one of you decides to sell. You really should take legal action now before it gets more complicated and issues escalate any further. He looks elderly and may be having issues and need assistance or a care facility. Having the authorities involved could be in his best interest so that he can get the help he needs.
Sorry you're going through this headache. You may want to take a serious look at having him move the fence. At some point if you decide to sell, that could be an issue. And I believe that if after so long the property boundary is not disputed it may become his. I would at least check it out with the zoning dept. Your husband must have the patience of job. If someone talked to my wife like that, well, he wouldn't do it a second time. The best of luck to you and the family.
Thank you! Yes, we plan on looking into our options with the fence. We certainly don't want him acquiring part of our property!
I agree with @KHudd, its called Adverse possession. If you allow him to use your property unhindered for long enough he can claim it.
I am so sorry to hear this Hannah. I pray will pray and ask the good lord to protect you and your family. 😢❤🙏👼
Thank you!! I just hate that we're in this situation. Thank you for the prayers.
@@hannahslist15 You are very welcome Hannah. Godspeed. 🤗😇❤🙏
I admire you and your husband’s long suffering. The neighbor sounds like the kind of person that was never taught conflict resolution. Some people just don’t get it and they can’t handle not getting their way. Sounds like you’re beyond just dealing with it and turning the other cheek. If your safety is in question and you can’t use your personal property in the way you want you just have to be done with it. Your casting your pearls of kindness before swine at this point. Tough situation.
On a related note, I’d advise you that you should look into easement law in your state/county/city. That fence on your property, his use of it, etc. He could possibly get an easement because of the length of time he’s used it and it isn’t petty to protect your property boundaries. Our home has a neighbors garage that is practically on our property boundary because the previous owners allowed a toxic neighbor to build it and then the neighbor got a lawyer to sue for an easement. He could get WAY more petty than he’s getting. Tread carefully.
This has been such a tough situation to say the least. We really feel he is escalating, so that is why we turned to getting the police involved (he just went at our other neighbor this evening! Another yelling match! Ugh!) Thank you for the kind words and sympathy. I will define look into that easement recommendation. That's excellent advise! Thank you for watching and hopefully this drama comes to an end soon.
Omg I’m so sorry you are going through with this 😢 I feel so bad for you guys. I’m glad you have a way to let go of all this and if sharing with us helps I’m glad to be here and hear you and give you my support… I send you tons of positive vibes
Oh, thank you so much!!💕 Now you know why I've been saying in my last videos how much your positive comments mean to me. We'll get through this! Thank you again!💕
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I went through something like this with my neighbor, and I just kept praying until God moved on it, but I did let the neighbor know that I was not going to except his behavior. Now things are great with us.
Oh, that makes me feel better! Ever since we put up our fence, we haven't heard from him. I hate it though, because I don't feel comfortable being outside when he's home. The last time we were outside at the same time, he yelled at me for parking in front of our own house on Easter! It's perfectly legal to park on the street. Ugh! Yes, we're still praying daily for him.
@@hannahslist15 I completely understand how you feel. I am a stay at home mom and I homeschool. My neighbor never came over only when my husband was not at home. To cause trouble .It was bad he even put cameras up so he can watch my children play in my backyard. I let him know in a nice way I was not going to put up with it. My husband is a lot like yours he is so laid-back slow to anger. I am working on my anger lol. I am help you pray for your neighbor.
Yes it sucks for sure. When you are not free on your own property. I know the feeling. Hope you guys stay safe.
Thank you! It's the worst feeling. I'm really hoping things calm down.
So sorry to hear about all this trouble you’re having with the neighbor. As a believer, keep taking the high road, but also exercise your rights as a citizen, and don’t be afraid to keep calling the police. Let them intervene on your behalf. If things escalate further, then an order of protection would be a smart move. It’s also okay to continue showing kindness to him as opportunities arise. I hope you’re able to get back to filming your Globestar renovation videos…they’ve been super inspiring!
Thank you for the kind words and encouragement! It's been a really tough situation. Our Globestar has been my passion and have trips planned for my family. So, I'm really hoping things calm down and I can get back out there
Use your phone record him, call the police. Set up cameras. Do not speak to him. Call an attorney. Stop debating what to do. He's shown you who he is- believe him.
Thank you! We haven't spoken since this incident and don't plan to again!
My Suggestions regarding your situation with your neighbor.
Please Install security cameras around your entire property.
Front, rear, sides of your entire home.
Install security alarm system in your house, and vehicle.
Direct your cameras towards your driveway, front door, rear doors, rear back yard.
Document all negative encounters with him
Maintain your distance
This person seems very petty, and a person that holds grudges against you for petty reasons.
Record negative encounters
Don’t engage with him to much keep your distance.
Record all these Negative arguments...
Please be Careful and Safe...
I wish you well and Well-being
Be Aware
Be Alert
Be Safe
Is he older? Perhaps he has had some brain deterioration causing him to behave this way. I am so sorry you’ve dealt with this
Yes, he is older and a smoker. He works in construction and has had an accident or two. He is retirement age and I'm worried we'll be his new project when he's home all day.....just tormenting all the neighbors😔
@@hannahslist15 😢
@@hannahslist15 was just curious since his behavior has changed over the years ❤️ I hope it gets better