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Evercoach by Mindvalley I’ve never asked them about their take always. Definitely will now. I start each session off with them saying 1-2 things they are grateful for as well. 😉
I love to grow my list of powerful questions! I'll share with you one of my favorites, "If I were you (talking to your client) and I were in the same situation as you, what advice would you give to me?". Most of my clients surprise themselves with their answers. Hope this makes sense. Cheers! Saludos desde México!
I'm just starting out and have been watching countless videos. Hands down, this is one of the most helpful videos I have seen so far. Thank you for sharing!!!
4:38 Lead up. What would you like to discuss today 6:03 Breakthrough conversation. _(YT search:)_ Top 5 powerful questions to use when coaching leaders 8:48 Take away. Don't choose their next steps for them, make they do
Great video. I took a lot of notes and I liked your presentation of the material. I also like how you have put a 'structure' into our coaching sessions. I am a new coach but an old person of 61. I am so inspired by this amazing 'artform' of coaching. I am like a sponge that soaks up as much information as I can. Thank you for the learning. All the very best for you...
No matter at what stage of the coaching journey we may be at, there's always something to give and there's always something to learn. Your message is inspiring! We're so glad to be able to provide value for your journey. We're rooting for you! Thanks for sharing, Brett :)
OMGosh... I don't know who does all this GREAT Filming, Editing and FX'ng... but it is a pleasure to watch this and all of your videos... I LOVE these videos not only knowledgeable ... but so entertaining which helps us learn even more... Thank you for all your hard work making this video.... OH... and the Guy that is speaking... He is Great Too!!!
Thank you for that summary. In order to get a transformational coaching session I also use a critical element: the observer shift performed by the coachee. If you guide your client t see the same situation from a different perspective, a huge mindset change will appear
I've utilized this structure and part 1 has helped me greatly in determining how to guide the conversation with my clients!! Thank you for this video! I'm sending positive energy your way!
OHHHHH I absolutely love listening to this man... but the background (noise) music makes it hard to concentrate and hear him... Please leave out the background music or get music that is the same tempo with your voice... This background noise is too busy....
Such great advice!!! 👏🏾😊 I'm in the beginning stages of my coaching career. I will definitely use this blueprint to push my clients out of their comfort zones and on the path to success!
Thanks for sharing all of this powerful information! I am learning and training to start my career as a coach, and I this is going to be really helpful 💡
We're so happy you found it valuable, Nerea! If you're just getting started, you'll love this free masterclass with the 3 simple steps to launch your coaching business from scratch: go.evercoach.com/nDfy8Ajx. We hope you enjoy it ❤
This is pure gold! Thank you so much for your help. As a coach, I naturally do most of these things, but it's nice to refine the craft. It truly is an art form in itself to fulfill this role and hold that space for transformation!
Thank you I will sure use this tomorrow! I have been using some of these questions but got a reminder of how important part 3 is, sometimes it gets forgotten or left out because I feel it's not appropriate or I feel insecure of the clients answers that they will say that the take way is none.
That is so true, many coaches focus only on part 2 when part 3 is just as important. Remember, if you work on honing your skills to deliver a solid part 2, there will always be a takeaway for the client. And if they still say they didn't have any, ask them what was missing. Maybe you'll discover you were focusing on the wrong problem the whole time and you'll both gain more clarity on how to move forward from there to keep supporting your client's journey. Either way, it's a win-win situation, so keep hanging in there! We're rooting for you :)
@@brigittel9997 Hello! I'm currently a coach for the multipotential persons. I help them discover their particularities, explaining their past, and then I propose to coach them in their new journey 😀
I coach managers to be more confident in speaking in meetings in English (when English is not their first language). They often lack the structures and vocabulary to express themselves clearly, and this is what they are looking for. So would your structure work in this kind of situation? It seems to me like you start every session asking them what they want to get out of it. Whereas till now I have always worked out a plan for 10 sessions based on an initial needs analysis chat with the client.
Great question, Emma! We suggest starting with that question to meet our clients where they are at and what they hope to get out of that conversation. In your case, as your sessions are already planned in advance to reach a specific goal, you can always use the starting to suggest the "topic of that session" and ask your client if they agree or there's something on their mind they want to share first. But do know this structure doesn't have to be a "box," it's about having some structure you can always follow which creates consistent results. if your current structure is achieving that, no need to change it ;) Thanks for sharing!
Unfortunately, we don't! But client homework doesn't have to be overly complicated. At the end of each coaching session, help your client set 1-2 actions they can take before the next session that will take them one step closer to their goal. And that should be enough ;)
I have a question I hope I can get some feedback on. I did a coaching course to get certified and the programme is designed to be completed in 16 sessions with each sessions containing an exercise you do with the client, i.e. anxiety removal, goal setting etc. Are there any coaches who only do "talk therapy" and not do specific exercises with clients?
Hi! That's a great question. Exercises (aka coaching tools and techniques) are great for clients and situations that need more visualizing, perspective shifts, out-of-the-box thinking... that sometimes just talking might not be effective enough to do. However, there are tools that are solely based on conversation like the art of powerful questions which is powerful enough, if used correctly, to elicit insights and aha moments. We believe every coach should find their own style: what works and resonates with them, and what doesn't, to create their own coaching methodology that creates results for their clients. But the only way to discover this is by trying different tools and models (like the 16 exercises your course is providing or other methodologies that are not based on them) and finding your signature style from that. We hope this answers your question and gives you some ideas! Let us know :) Thanks for asking.
@@mindvalleycoach So gooood! I’m currently taking a step forward by introducing exercises and visual tools to enhance my coaching Sessions especially with my group coaching !
.... OH... there is one down side to this video the background music (noise) is distracting and unnecessary ... We just want to HEAR him TALK>>> no background noise/music.
I agree. The message is powerful and does not need background music to make it interesting. It is just unnecessary, irritating noise. Love the video clips though.
I'd rather if these points were squashed in 5 minutes powerful brief other than talking us out of the structure. In fact that's what were here for and we also want to make the most pít our time, just like our clients.
Hi Ma Ya! If you'd rather read about coaching structures at your own time, you can check out our free guidebook here: go.evercoach.com/BnPNbOE_. Hope you find what you're looking for ❤
Thanks for asking, Bartłomiej! We prefer using the term "we" instead of "you" because it gives clients the feeling that they're not alone, that "we" are "in this together" and that you as a coach will support them during the journey. This however, does not mean that the coach will do the work, but will hold them accountable. I hope this answers your question :)
Really wanted to listen to this it sounds amazing but the background music is so off putting I had to stop listening. Please record without the background music.
Hi Lynne! We're sorry about that. We've fixed the music for our videos after this one, but we appreciate your feedback. Hope you find our other videos more enjoyable and valuable :)
How do you deliver transformational coaching sessions? Share your best tips below! Become a highly paid, impactful & sought-after certified coach trained by Mindvalley. Explore our certifications 👉 shor.by/I5B5
Evercoach by Mindvalley I’ve never asked them about their take always. Definitely will now. I start each session off with them saying 1-2 things they are grateful for as well. 😉
@@MarshaunO That's a great start to bring out the positive emotions first. Glad you found this video valuable. Thanks for sharing :)
Wow! I'm a teacher of 8 years, this is literally the structure of the majority of my lessons. Warm up, Main section, "Homework"
@@alexs555 Great to know a solid structure can work in different environments too :) Thanks for sharing!
Couldn't agree more.. The module is in line with International Coach Federation... Explained very well
I love to grow my list of powerful questions! I'll share with you one of my favorites, "If I were you (talking to your client) and I were in the same situation as you, what advice would you give to me?". Most of my clients surprise themselves with their answers. Hope this makes sense. Cheers! Saludos desde México!
That's a fantastic question, Lucinda! So often we are better at giving advice to others than following our own. Muchas gracias por compartirlo ;)
I love that!
that's very powerful, thank you for sharing! :)
I love this idea! Gracias!
Great question
I'm just starting out and have been watching countless videos. Hands down, this is one of the most helpful videos I have seen so far. Thank you for sharing!!!
You are so welcome, Melinda! Hope we can continue bringing value to your journey :) We're rooting for you!
Brief, incisive, focused! Thanks Ajit for taking it away so clearly. Questioning, then listening in silence, helps my clients to dig the clutter deep.
So glad you resonated with this. Thanks for sharing 💜
4:38 Lead up. What would you like to discuss today
6:03 Breakthrough conversation. _(YT search:)_ Top 5 powerful questions to use when coaching leaders
8:48 Take away. Don't choose their next steps for them, make they do
Great video. I took a lot of notes and I liked your presentation of the material. I also like how you have put a 'structure' into our coaching sessions. I am a new coach but an old person of 61. I am so inspired by this amazing 'artform' of coaching. I am like a sponge that soaks up as much information as I can. Thank you for the learning. All the very best for you...
No matter at what stage of the coaching journey we may be at, there's always something to give and there's always something to learn. Your message is inspiring! We're so glad to be able to provide value for your journey. We're rooting for you! Thanks for sharing, Brett :)
@@mindvalleycoach Thank you so very much, this has really help me.Love,Joy, and Perfect Peace🙏🌺
@@queenp7324 You're most welcome ❤️❤️
i did not learn anything before my first coaching but i have more clarity that i am in a roght direction
That's great, Abhilash! Thanks for sharing ❤
OMGosh... I don't know who does all this GREAT
Filming, Editing and FX'ng... but it is a pleasure to
watch this and all of your videos... I LOVE these videos
not only knowledgeable ... but so entertaining which helps us
learn even more...
Thank you for all your hard work making this video....
OH... and the Guy that is speaking... He is Great Too!!!
We're so happy you enjoyed the video as well as found value from it! Thank you for your encouraging words, we appreciate you :)
Now I have a very clear plan for how to conduct a session. It was so vague before. You're good Ajit!!!
So glad to read this, Debbi! We appreciate you, thanks for sharing :)
Thank you for that summary. In order to get a transformational coaching session I also use a critical element: the observer shift performed by the coachee. If you guide your client t see the same situation from a different perspective, a huge mindset change will appear
That's fantastic, Andres! Thanks so much for sharing :)
No accident I found you 3 years later and I'm so glad I did. Thank you for sharing this valuable information 🙏🏽 definitely subscribed 👍🏽
We're so happy you found us again! Thanks for being part of our community 💙
I've utilized this structure and part 1 has helped me greatly in determining how to guide the conversation with my clients!! Thank you for this video! I'm sending positive energy your way!
This is fantastic, Robert-David! Glad it was valuable for you. We're sending awesome vibes back to you too ♥
@@mindvalleycoachThank you!
I love and enjoy so much the sense of humor in the middle of all. ❤️❤️❤️❤️ Great advice can be fun too. 💯💯💯👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
So glad you enjoyed the video, Jennifer! Thanks for sharing ❤
This session is outstanding and just in time for what I'm working on. Thank you. Looking forward to learning more. you. Thank you.
We're so glad you found it valuable! :)
Hope you subscribed. Because we are bringing more goodness every week!
It’s good topping hear that there several strategies and most important there is no ‘one fits all structure’. I will continue to learn more. Thanks.
Love this takeaway, Nicholas!! Thanks for sharing ❤
Love the idea of having the client summarize what was discussed.
It is a very effective technique. Do let us know how it works for you and your clients :) Thanks for sharing!
your videos are excellent brother. thank you for the great content.
Thank you for your support, Sabz!
Your video clips are a great refresher to get back to basics! Thank you.
Thank you so much, Stephanie!
Being a structured person this makes perfect sense so thanks a lot for sharing. Very good !!!
Glad it was useful, Anita! :)
My mentor, Ajit. I am so grateful to you, man!
Thanks for your kind words, Monica! ❤
It made me so happy to see you smile 8 minutes into the video. You seem happier when you smile:)!
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I have learned a lot just watching this video, thank you so much!
We're so happy to hear that! Glad you found it valuable ;)
That's the intention. I like that Cosmic Truth suggests that you found value watching the video. Doesn't get better than that :)
OHHHHH I absolutely love listening to this man... but the background (noise) music makes it hard to concentrate and hear him...
Please leave out the background music or get music that is the same tempo with your voice...
This background noise is too busy....
Thanks for the feedback, Judi! We apologize for the inconvenience, we have implemented this feedback in the videos after this one ;)
@@mindvalleycoach
Thank you so much for your reply.
Such great advice!!! 👏🏾😊 I'm in the beginning stages of my coaching career. I will definitely use this blueprint to push my clients out of their comfort zones and on the path to success!
Yes!! We're so happy to be part of your learning journey! Thanks for sharing :)
8:28 caught me off-guard! Love how you explain every step! Very helpful video.
We love sprinklin' some joy around :) So happy you enjoyed and found it valuable!
I had a good laugh!! 😄
I'm so glad that I watch this I am planning on using your coaching outline to get rolling in my Life Coaching Practice
We're so happy it was useful! :)
Alright Terry! Let's get cracking on that practice
Thanks for sharing all of this powerful information! I am learning and training to start my career as a coach, and I this is going to be really helpful 💡
We're so happy you found it valuable, Nerea! If you're just getting started, you'll love this free masterclass with the 3 simple steps to launch your coaching business from scratch:
go.evercoach.com/nDfy8Ajx. We hope you enjoy it ❤
@@mindvalleycoach yep! I've already watched it and it's great!Thanks again x
@@nereananclares2038 ❤❤❤
The take away for me. Ditch the ‘what do you need from me’ and swap it to ‘what do you need to get that outcome’
Great catch on that! Thanks for sharing :)
Amazing and clear message. I love the special effects you did !!!hahahah so much humor inside.
Glad you enjoyed and found it valuable!
This is pure gold! Thank you so much for your help. As a coach, I naturally do most of these things, but it's nice to refine the craft. It truly is an art form in itself to fulfill this role and hold that space for transformation!
Oh yes, it is! It's all about mastering this art. Thanks for sharing and keep up the good work :)
Thank you I will sure use this tomorrow! I have been using some of these questions but got a reminder of how important part 3 is, sometimes it gets forgotten or left out because I feel it's not appropriate or I feel insecure of the clients answers that they will say that the take way is none.
That is so true, many coaches focus only on part 2 when part 3 is just as important. Remember, if you work on honing your skills to deliver a solid part 2, there will always be a takeaway for the client. And if they still say they didn't have any, ask them what was missing. Maybe you'll discover you were focusing on the wrong problem the whole time and you'll both gain more clarity on how to move forward from there to keep supporting your client's journey. Either way, it's a win-win situation, so keep hanging in there! We're rooting for you :)
Thanks a lot 🙏
We're glad you found it valuable, Chantal! Thanks for sharing ❤
The steps are amazing and are great for me as I’m rolling out my first coaching package!
Yey that's so exciting! We're happy to support your journey!
Woot woot! leave a note here to share if it worked or not!
Greatness Every Day what key points did you include when u put your package together. I'm a little stuck. Please share if you can.
Agreed 👍
Great great great video, Thank you so much!
You are most welcome, Valeria! Thanks for watching.
Absolutely brilliant! Thanks for sharing this wisdom :)
So happy to be of service! Thank you for watching ;)
Thank you my man! Use it in your practice and report back how awesome it went.
Sébastien MIQUÉE hello what are you doing as job now?
@@brigittel9997 Hello! I'm currently a coach for the multipotential persons. I help them discover their particularities, explaining their past, and then I propose to coach them in their new journey 😀
I am deeply appreciative of what you share in your videos.
Thank you! We're so glad you find them valuable :)
Awww.. thank you Helen. Glad you loved it!
This video was amazing and very helpful. thanks so much for sharing!
We're so glad it was, Rebekah! Thanks for sharing ❤
I loved this. Very helpful. I was stuck.
So glad this helped you, Lilia! Keep up the good work, we're rooting for you :)
This is such a great video. Very helpful! Thanks for sharing :)
We're so glad you found it valuable! :)
Thank you Ajit very helpful. I will be thinking on how to use these in next session
Fantastic, Valerie! Glad you got value from it :)
I'll be back for more guidance. Thank you!
Always at your service! Glad you found it valuable :)
Thank you so much for this channel.....I may aswel be 1/10 people in my country aspiring to life coaching.....its great to hv this community....
You are so welcome! We love being able to support your journey to becoming an extraordinary life coach :) We're here for you!
Great 👍 video - I like the way the structure is layout
Glad you got some value from it, thanks for watching!
Thank you Ajit for this reminder to be even more dedicated 💯✨💯🌱🌎🌏🌍
We're so happy you found it valuable! Thanks for sharing :)
Exactly what I needed!! Thank you!
So glad it was useful, Emily! ❤
Good Morning Sri nice tell me transformationl coaching sessions. thanks
We hope you found the video valuable :)
Such a great video!! 👏👏👏
Glad you enjoyed it, Dianne! Thanks for sharing ❤️
This video gave me the structure that I was looking for as a newbie coach! Amazing, thank you for it!
Yey! We're so happy you found this valuable. You are most welcome :)
thank you so much for sharing these valuable tips! keep em coming!
You are most welcome! Glad you find our videos valuable, thanks for sharing :)
useful tips✌👌
Thank you for sharing ❤️
WOW, this video is amazing! Thank you 🙏
You're so welcome, Madeleine! Glad you found it valuable :)
Excellent insights Ajit as always, you re superb
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I’m loving so much your content! Thank you ♥️♥️
😍! Thank YOU for watching, Maria ❤❤
Love this! Thanks.
We're so glad you found it valuable! :)
Excellent!
Thank you! :)
Great tips thanks and i love the support questions 👍🏽🙏🏼
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A great informative and finely tuned course, Thank You
So glad you found it valuable, Peter! Thank you for watching and sharing :)
Thank you!!!
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Really cool stuff man
So glad you enjoyed this! ❤
Thank You Ajit!
You are so welcome, Stania! Glad you found it valuable :)
Great insights. Amazing
So glad you found it valuable! 🙃
What a useful video!
Thank you
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Very brilliant video ... love it. Transformational
Thank you so much! 🙏🏾
So glad it was useful, Brittany! ❤
This was great! Thank you!
We're so glad you enjoyed it! :)
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Awesome tips
Thanks for sharing, Wendy!
Excellent video!
Thank you for watching!
Wonderful tips.
Thank you! Glad you found it valuable ;)
Great vid. How do you do you’re editing? Love the transitions!
Your
We're so happy you enjoy our videos, Brandon! Just some Premiere Pro tricks and taking ideas from here and there ;) Thanks for sharing ♥
Keep the hustle up
Good content thank you, but background music was distracting 😊
Thank you for sharing, Tina! We've implemented that feedback in our latest videos. Glad you find our content valuable :)
Awesome information!
Thank you, Rain! We're so happy you found it valuable :)
Brilliant Ajit so helpful thanks a million ❤😊
You are most welcome, Lilian! We're happy to be part of your journey :)
awesome Insights😊 thank you.
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This was great!
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Great video thank you :)
Glad it was valuable, Sasha! Thanks for sharing :)
I coach managers to be more confident in speaking in meetings in English (when English is not their first language). They often lack the structures and vocabulary to express themselves clearly, and this is what they are looking for. So would your structure work in this kind of situation? It seems to me like you start every session asking them what they want to get out of it. Whereas till now I have always worked out a plan for 10 sessions based on an initial needs analysis chat with the client.
Great question, Emma! We suggest starting with that question to meet our clients where they are at and what they hope to get out of that conversation. In your case, as your sessions are already planned in advance to reach a specific goal, you can always use the starting to suggest the "topic of that session" and ask your client if they agree or there's something on their mind they want to share first. But do know this structure doesn't have to be a "box," it's about having some structure you can always follow which creates consistent results. if your current structure is achieving that, no need to change it ;) Thanks for sharing!
Do you have a video on what you use for the clients Homework?
Unfortunately, we don't! But client homework doesn't have to be overly complicated. At the end of each coaching session, help your client set 1-2 actions they can take before the next session that will take them one step closer to their goal. And that should be enough ;)
nice one...Thank you !!
You're most welcome, Kiran! Thanks for sharing :)
excellent!
Thanks for sharing, Kurshot :)
Yesssss
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Having a solid coaching structure is a take away for me.
And such an important one, Portia! Thanks for sharing ❤
Oh hi mark
I have a question I hope I can get some feedback on. I did a coaching course to get certified and the programme is designed to be completed in 16 sessions with each sessions containing an exercise you do with the client, i.e. anxiety removal, goal setting etc. Are there any coaches who only do "talk therapy" and not do specific exercises with clients?
Hi! That's a great question. Exercises (aka coaching tools and techniques) are great for clients and situations that need more visualizing, perspective shifts, out-of-the-box thinking... that sometimes just talking might not be effective enough to do. However, there are tools that are solely based on conversation like the art of powerful questions which is powerful enough, if used correctly, to elicit insights and aha moments. We believe every coach should find their own style: what works and resonates with them, and what doesn't, to create their own coaching methodology that creates results for their clients. But the only way to discover this is by trying different tools and models (like the 16 exercises your course is providing or other methodologies that are not based on them) and finding your signature style from that. We hope this answers your question and gives you some ideas! Let us know :) Thanks for asking.
@@mindvalleycoach thank you for your insightful reply! That helped me tremendously 🤗
@@cornelj. You are most welcome :) ❤️
@@mindvalleycoach So gooood!
I’m currently taking a step forward by introducing exercises and visual tools to enhance my coaching Sessions especially with my group coaching !
@@ChristianLivingWithK Those are great tools for group coaching especially! Thanks for sharing ❤
.... OH... there is one down side to this video
the background music (noise) is distracting and
unnecessary ... We just want to HEAR him TALK>>>
no background noise/music.
Thank you for your feedback, Judi! We'll keep it in mind ;)
I agree. The message is powerful and does not need background music to make it interesting. It is just unnecessary, irritating noise. Love the video clips though.
@@eternity7477
I agree... the background music is irritating...
Coaching sessions structure:
Lead-up,
Breakthrough conversation,
Takeaway ...
That's it! ;)
Forward to 2:17 :)
😉
I'd rather if these points were squashed in 5 minutes powerful brief other than talking us out of the structure. In fact that's what were here for and we also want to make the most pít our time, just like our clients.
Hi Ma Ya! If you'd rather read about coaching structures at your own time, you can check out our free guidebook here: go.evercoach.com/BnPNbOE_. Hope you find what you're looking for ❤
How do you want to hold the client responsible for the actions if you say "steps... we should take"?
Thanks for asking, Bartłomiej! We prefer using the term "we" instead of "you" because it gives clients the feeling that they're not alone, that "we" are "in this together" and that you as a coach will support them during the journey. This however, does not mean that the coach will do the work, but will hold them accountable. I hope this answers your question :)
Really wanted to listen to this it sounds amazing but the background music is so off putting I had to stop listening. Please record without the background music.
Hi Lynne! We're sorry about that. We've fixed the music for our videos after this one, but we appreciate your feedback. Hope you find our other videos more enjoyable and valuable :)
@@mindvalleycoach Thanks so much that's great :)
😂 thank you
thank YOU! ;)
wayyyy too much small talk. shave that off and get to the important points
We strive to make learning fun and light, but seems like you didn't enjoy it that much. Thanks for your feedback anyway :)
I did! 😊
V….veee..V !!! Try saying it.
Teeth in lower lip. Thanks. You’re a little too slick to feel
like a person with sensitivity.
We're not sure what you meant by that, Ursala.... but we hope you enjoyed the video?
Nice but for the fake accent…
Glad you enjoyed this video! We're not sure what you mean with "fake accent" though...
Thanks so much 👍👍👍
Thank you for watching!