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Damn, just ended a almost 20 year marridge because of these reasons, did not respect me and had to beg ta get sex. 8 months seprated I feel way better and I just have time for me right now and it feels sooooo great. I was hard the first months, but we can all overcome.
Fuck marriage
Peace and blessings to you!!
I'm in the same boat fam your not alone out here stay strong you got this!✌🏾✊🏾
Things will only get better-im 15yrs divorced & my life is the best it's ever been...😁
Glad for you. I want out of mine too but I stay bcz of the kids. I don’t feel like she is capable of caring for the kids well or herself wo me around.
Women want attention.
Men want recognition.
yup
Reciprocity
@@strtfghtr88 lol naw
FACTS !!!!
Yet Men don't give the attention. Women don't give recognition. And usually when one person in the relationship is doing it, its not reciprocated by the other. Why can't people just be honest and say they aren't capable right now or just don't want to do these things?
Ended my 3 year relationship for these two things, lack of respect and lack of intimacy, plus shaming me for being interested in intimacy. She started off with respect and interest and very warm intimately and then lost it despite the fact all I did was improve myself for those 3 years.
Sounds like she was a cover narcissist. Seems to be a common Thread among modern women
You got trapped by a chameleon, trust and believe she will be telling the next guy she don’t know why yours relationship ended coz she done everything a woman could do 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Women do that. These days, they simply lose interest after a while. It happens.
Sounds exactly like my kids mum lol hope ur alright nowadays
@@musaruzvidzo5691 I feel u on that bro
It's so sad that so many men feel disrespected and unloved. My husband treats me like a queen, and I don't mean just money. It is my absolute privilege and pleasure to say thank you for working hard for me and our kids everyday. Thank you for understanding when I may need a break and never getting angry. Thank you for making it easier for me to be the best mom possible to our children by taking the weight of the bills off of my plate. I live my life in a way that honors him and our relationship because he works his life away to make sure that our children and I are thriving in all possible ways.
Cause some of them men are not emotionally intelligent and think they are good men when they may not not necessarily be a good partner. Some men thinking if provide they don’t have worry about their character or how they treat someone. I can’t just see how a group of men end up be treating wrong for no reason. It’s always two sides of the story.
@@gsoe9894 well.... There are good men and bad men, same as there are good women and bad women. Women certainly aren't all innocent. Though, I do agree that good men are the back bone of society and when they fail to be good men society fails as well. Society is certainly failing.
@@gsoe9894 How can you not understand? It’s very simple women today are not the women of back in the day. Feminism, women empowerment movement and victim mentality has allowed most women to complain with no accountability or feel they don’t need a man or that they are above their men. Overtime they begin to lose respect for their partners as CGA says in the video. Most of the time men are there emotionally for their women not just the providing part but those are the men who women stomp all over because they are too “soft”. Most men just can’t win with women in 2022. I’m speaking from the experience of what some of my male friends have gone through with women and other men i know.
Okay
Please please please Mentor some of these other women because you definitely have a winning formula. Your mindset is what makes a real man want to go to work and provide as he should.
Women will withhold sex from their husbands. Then when they get divorced they'll go have sex with some new guy who isn't going to put a ring on her finger. The logic astounds me.
You're mistaking their actions as being motivated by logic instead of emotions.
That's a rookie mistake but you'll figure it out eventually, just keep at it.
no tingles from him
You know why cause women love to use men and men for some reason have not figure that out. Women do not marry for love they marry for resources meaning they don’t even want or love you they just there to use you.
Let use common sense what women who genuinely loves her husband and very attracted to not want to have sex with him ?! That does not make sense.
Y’all need wise up and read between the lines and stop marrying people that don’t have no intention to love you.
@@gsoe9894 that’s all true, these broads will do any and everything with a man even marry, have kids, get filthy like a xxx star and in all reality she can’t stand the sight of him, it’s really all about survival and resources until her real choice comes along and if that choice never comes she’ll play Oscar winner forever if the guy can’t figure it out
News Flash. They don't wait for the divorce.
Men do not generally end marriages. It is the women that file for divorce the majority of the times
Men file out of necessity. Women file out of boredom or to move on to the next best thing (AKA hypergamy).
@@don8668 Women file cause the mf is either cheating, abusive or lazy and won’t work!
cuz men will lose a housekeeper, someone to raise their kids and sex worker, why would a man wanna leave that? And this is exactly why women file for divorce cuz they are doing it all alone.
@@SuperTruthful Those are the women that choose loser men that they have there kids and want them to do more than what they are worth on the market place. Unrealistic expectations. First have a good relationship with your father, so he can help you vet a potential husband. Find out what men want in a wife.
@@SuperTruthful A man can buy everything you mentioned.
I ended my marriage because I caught her lying about where she was two weekends in a row. That’s all it took. I don’t deal with lies like that.
Respect
Well done for not taking disrespect like that
Lack of respect. Exactly what CGA said. You did good.
How did you find out?
@@AV-kr6gc inconsistent stories. Weird behavior. Gut feeling. There are many ways to catch people lying about where they are these days.
My marriage ended for the same reason. I told her straight up that a man's needs are very simple. A man needs to feel respected, loved, needed and wanted. If he isn't getting that, he will eventually leave. It also doesn't hurt if she has pride in him.
Did you make sure you took care of her too, respect her, help her with children and the house, take her out on regular dates, etc? If a women starts to feel like shes your mom, she will see you as her son... men have sex visually, women have to feel the mental and emotional connection, you may still see her as a bangmaid, but if she sees you as another child, then you cant expect her to feel pedophiliac
@@CitySlickerButtKicker I think it was deeper than that. She came into the marriage with a lot of baggage (third marriage, first for Me) I came in with little experience. She grew up without a father figure and a bit of abuse from a BIL. so she liked what men could do for her, but didn't trust them. She was looking for a daddy that she never had, I was looking for a wife. Lots of things going on. I worked hard for the family, I honestly tried as hard as I knew how. There was plenty of fault on my part, but I stick to what I posted before.
CGA does his homework, and also has life experience. I appreciate his hard work that goes on behind the scenes to create content that adds value to us. Would love to have seen him as a coach. Wait...he still is.
well said...
...similar to tate, these people, like the rest of us, can be picked apart, however, i love how no matter how much that is a fact, the larger fact still remains...that coach greg adams, kicked @$$ right here in this interview, someone had to be there to compare the basic principles of having insurance...yet when it comes to the sacrifice of jumping into marriage for the sake of "living your life", similar to cheating...it's a bad idea, where similar to the fact that the sacrifice should be going towards "not cheating", the sacrifice should ALSO go towards conversating about introducing some basic insurance coverage before a couple apply for a marriage license.
people like adam have even sold insurance...yet when it comes to applying the same principle towards marriage...he seemed like he understood the point, but didn't want to touch it with a ten foot pole, nor focus on the "negative facts"...
perhaps one of the main reasons greg was accurate about insurance agents having a bad scum bag reputation, atleast in the past, for slick moves, such as a prime example right here, where they wiggle around things like facts everyone can understand for their greater agenda of their show remaining pro marriage over all...
hafeez and adam both agree, damn the consequences...just jump in, yet when it comes to regular insurance...we all get to see where their sanity truly rests...🤔
Coachgregadams he's one of my favorite.
My dad remarried 35 years ago helped her raise her basterd child she never worked got mad when he would look for me I caught her cheating never said anything didn’t think he would believe me he is 62 and she got caught cheating on him and her son threatened my dad after he raised him and gave him his last name he wasn’t even born here gave him citizenship and overdrew the credit cards kept his car house and now he sleeps in my aunts living room where my cousins sleep at as well.all I have to say is stay hydrated my friends 🙏
B as tard is the correct spelling 🤦🏾♀️🙄. Punctuation is your friend - put it to use!
he can stay with you?
62 that’s a young dude , best find him Miss 30year old upto 38 , with no kids and in a profession but looking for that first baby, get you a new baby brother or sister let the young man enjoy the later part of life 😊
Your punctuation makes this difficult to understand.
So you betrayed your dad too.
This is baffling to me… my husband, he hates birthdays and holidays because he feels guilty for not being able to give back to those he loves, I don’t care He can’t spoil me for my birthday or Christmas. Every holiday I do whatever I can to spoil him and make him feel special, his birthday just passed and I wrote him a two page letter and gifted him Jordan Peterson’s book cause he loves him.
I bake him his favourite cookies, make pumpkin pie because it’s his favourite. I do everything to make him feel special, holidays or not. Why? Well for one I know how it feels to be treated badly in a relationship and I wouldnt want him to feel that way, especially after all he’s given to me and made my life better… also, I thought us girls it was always common practice to do the cutesy girly stuff for our boyfriend/husband 😂 like love letters, heart shaped pancakes with eggs and bacon, baking cookies.. did majority of girls really abandon this stuff? Or was I just the weird one following girly 90’s rom com’s
I haven’t had girl friends in a decade moment I met my husband.
It’s insanity to me that this is the reality now… I thought us girls were always the romantic infatuated type.
I’m a man n I’m def the romantic head over heels one. Good for you and your man, he appreciates it! I think us men love to give and provide (born 1990 🤷🏾♂️) more than receive but we still want one woman to notice and take care of us some days. Thanks for sharing!
Unfortunately you are the exception rather than the norm. But I do want you to be encouraged and continue to love on that man. As a man what we really want is respect. Your respect is more valuable to a man than your love ever will be because when we respected we are being acknowledged for who we are and what we're trying to become and it encourages us to actually go harder and be the best we can be for our lady...
Definitely the exception. Lucky man to have found you. You're a unicorn.
Unfortunately men are not valued in society just generally so most women don't bother to develop these relationship skills. Because they often confuse their worth as a wife for their worth as a gate keeper of sex, women often have a detrimentally inflated sense of self worth. That makes them always want more for a husband or boyfriend than they can actually get. When they go too high, men dont care for them or men impregnate but don't marry them; when they go too low, they can't sustain an attraction for their man. And that always leads to disrespect, lacking sex life and her cheating. Any one of which will cause him to end it.
You sound awesome, definitely teach other women the way!
@@pamlemm903 dear Pam you have to be one of the most insightful and honest women on CZcams that we will ever find in the comments section! I say this as a compliment, I know for a fact you sound like you're over 40 years old! Because no Young or younger Modern Woman of today that I have heard from or read any response in the comments has ever been that forthcoming and honest. I salute you and I pray that you can get through to more women so that we can repair this Tangled mess that we are living in today. God bless.
When will we understand, we all would like to be respected, appreciated, given attention, sexed good, listened to, loved, feel valued. Both men and women are built to have these things.
Yes!!!
“Sometimes it’s better to pay somebody for some intimacy than it is to get it from your own wife”
Unfortunately, it is far easier as well
The more I deal with women, the more appealing those life like dolls from Japan start becoming.
Its not your wife
@@mikewilcox9348 🤣😭
Then they shouldn't be married.
I'm reading comments and it's funny how we all ended up here same damn outcome just a different story. I think my situation wasn't that bad full custody of 2 and she has to pay me child support
"Wasn't that bad"
If you got the kids and she's gotta pay you, you kicked ass. You won the lottery.
GOAT
Damn she fd up real bad. She should of picked man with money so he wouldn’t be asking her for child support. Sheeeshhh sucks for her lmao
Shout out the Bruce Wayne of this ish!
“….The Prognosticator, The Speaker of Truth, Coachstradaumus…” 😂
I call him Black Jesus. He has saved the souls of many good men.
CGA > hope strategy hafeez
@@Stop.At.Nothing im married , to a pretty incredible woman, i still would advise men against marriage and my wife knows my stance on marriage for MOST men, especially these days. My wife knows i am the lead and doesnt challenge me, isnt masculine and doesnt withhold sex , i cannot say this would be the outcome for MOST men so to say marriage is good for men is operating off of HOPE, which is why i called him hope strategy hafeez lol
@@Stop.At.Nothing i never said other men cant, i operate off of reality and what numbers say along with macro environments, which all do not bode well for MEN in the marriage and dating market, hence people like you and hafeez operating on hope. I dont rely on good feelies to make decisions, i account for all factors , ESPECIALLY negative ones in my decision making because those have the most impact on where my life can end up for the worst, this isnt an extremely complicated thing to grasp lol. I can tell you are young and if not, you are an older man with a long way to go and things to figure out, and for your information, my wife is resting very peacefully in the other room as i multitask listening to random podcasts preparing for work in my home office, not everyone has to clock in ;) be well my man
@@Stop.At.Nothing for the record, i wish nothing but love and happiness to all my dudes out there, but i have seen far more atrocities in the court systems with men than i have ever with good outcomes, both personal and statistical data prove that. Id rather tell men to focus on themselves 100000% and for MEN marrige can absolutely be an after thought that you seek after success but 1000% you should be focused on self improvement before focusing on women or marriage especially in your younger years
@@Stop.At.Nothing MOST men these days are not logically sound thinkers, so im glad im not like MOST men, i can give no biased advice strictly based off of facts and not personal experience. Once again, my back and forth with you is pretty much futile due to either your age or lack of logical understanding as to why a man in a happy fruitful marriage would still advise against it.
@@PrecYsely How are you married but still advise men against marriage? Makes no sense brother
I ended my 4 year relationship with my gf because she had no respect for the advice I was trying to give her when she was the one who asked for the advice in the first place.
What did you reveal about yourself in the advice you gave? I was low on cash and one person I dated suggested stealing money from my job. I never looked at that person the same.
All 3 reasons and then some are why I just left my daughter's mother. Very good decision, tried like hell to get her to understand but it was like talking to a rock...
Same.
I GOT MONEYYYYY
Chaching chaching chaching! Im rich bitch!
$$$$$$ 💥💣😂😂😂
Also a problem, a lot of men suffer from lack of self respect. Paying onlyfans thots and taking abuse from toxic gf's instead of walking.
I feel like he’s explaining my situation and I’m a woman. I have to beg my husband for some love and intimacy. So I asked if he still wanted to stay married or go out separate ways and he was like “I love you. I love you and our kids. You’re my world “ I asked what he needs from me and what I need to change to be a better wife and said nothing. I’ve constantly asked him what he wants and needs. How can we better our marriage nd I feel like everything we discuss just goes in one ear and out the other.
I’m in the same situation let’s talk
@@englandhall5316 it sucks doesn’t it?
@@joannar5020 worse than terrible. I’m not just tired of not getting my needs met but what kills me is I express how I’m feeling and that it’s important to me and she doesn’t even try. SMH
@@englandhall5316 me tooooo!!!! It’s been going on for years and for him everything is fine but I feel so …. Miserable? I love him and I want to be the best wife to him but when he says I’m doing fine and doesn’t even try to hear how I feel and build a more intimate marriage to be strong together forever. I didn’t get married just to get divorced. That is not my goal
@@joannar5020 yea I definitely can relate. We been together 8 years and I been struggling with it for the past 3 and a half. I definitely don’t want to end things but I have definitely put a date on the calendar and if she isn’t showing signs of actually trying im walking. Im getting to a point I have too much self respect for myself to be this unhappy and my partner isn’t even trying.
Just ended an engagement 100% for the exact 2 reasons he just listed. I hear that deep man.
Yup! I pulled the plug on my 17 year marriage last year. It hurt, it hurt my kids but I could tolerate the disrespect anymore. It was either me going to prison from knocking her teeth out or choosing peace. I chose peace which lead to passport which lead to HAPPINESS 😂
Marriage only benefits women not men.
marriage sucks for women that's why more file for divorce
@@SuperTruthful if it sucks then why do they get benefits for initiating divorce?
@@panama2468 what benefits? child support, so men don't want to help financially support the children they make?spousal support cuz you wanted your wife not to work? what benefits are talking about? this is part of the marriage agreement, it's law.
@@SuperTruthful I mean, they should be strong an independent and get their own job. It's not men's fault that women sabotage their own relationship in order to divorce. Why should the man suffer bc the woman is emotionally unstable? There you go blaming men for the actions of women.
@@panama2468 you're not of sound mind. how old are you?
Facts. Head over to the junior college. I don’t see myself getting married
Why junior college
@@szn1580 It's easier options
@@cxa011500 depends on area tho
Wear condom. College women love to f everything doing those stages. Unfortunately some men live in fantasy land and think they don’t. 3 yrs ago out Az.
The entire ASU campus had stds cause the women and men were passing each other around like a hot potato ! Choose wisely
Was all over the news with the dorms listed just to help anyone who wasn’t doing all that nasty sharing on campus
I happen to get the girl of my dreams by some lucky chance , soon as I found out she didn’t respect me I left her, 7 years of crazy
I just left one after 6yrs. Shit is crazy dude smh
No woman disrespect a man,who gives her something to respect,you can be annoying and expect to earn respect.
As a guy who’s never been married this seems absolutely insane. These statistics are just proof that most of you do not marry your actual match, you just married someone… A lot of you don’t understand you might not meet your real match until later in life. It’s something that should happen naturally, if you’re saying I’m gonna get married between 30 and 32… That’s not a good plan, unfortunately no one will ever have control of when they meet their actual match.
That's true tho I have yet to meet a dame with the same interests as me
As a man who has never been married, the possibility exists that you don't understand as much as you think you do. Theory and reality/experience are often worlds apart.
sadly our society does not educate girls on being good mates when they become women. It teaches girls how to be whores and slaves to the matrix.
But that's pretty much how people got married a century ago and beyond. They quite literally just married someone of a similar background and who shared the same values and those marriages almost always worked out in the end.
The problem is not that people aren't "marrying their match", it's that people (overwhelmingly women) are not committed to their role in marriage. The commitment to the marriage and family is the biggest reason why marriages work but in this day and age women are refusing to commit.
I agree. I am a woman and I refuse to marry some dude JUST to BE married. If we don’t have the same values, principles or views on life and relationships, what are we doing?
Respect is earned..Over weight drunken men with bad personal hygiene blaming women..Improve yourself and when that is complete re-evaluate the situation, if it continues , then leave the relationship.
Obviously, but we’re talking about dudes who have relationships. That being said she must’ve respected him enough to be in a relationship with him in the first place.
Atleast give one something to respect,respect is earned truly.
Holy Moly women fall out of love quicker l think...as a women... myself
Notice how he didn't say money, she won't work, her health, her lack of possessions... most of the things women leave a man for
Respect has to be mutual no point disrespecting and expecting to be respected
From my experience when a man is healed accountable by their wives ,they rather just pay for someone else for sex than own up to their house hold issues/ obligations or just walk away, because it's easier. Not dealing with the resaon of what is being addressed as lack of respect..
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@@Akronkangaroo Mommy issues are a thing as well as immaturity.
Sex for chores. Yeah you’re right. Sex for money is an easier form of prostitution. And it comes without the attitude.
This man hear speaks volumes! Listen up men to understand what your missing and why if you don’t see it. And listen up ladies to understand what your man wants if he’s to remain loyal or keep you secured and as his main woman if y’all have come to an abnormal understanding that works!
Cga is very accurate with realism as well
No one is entitled to respect. You must earn respect.
True but if she doesn't respect you then the relationship should end.
I think it's worthwhile looking at why these things happen..
The respect thing goes both ways, the sex thing ... if someone feels used they won't look forward to sex
Agreed. I would say he doesn’t deep dive to root causes. If you really think about it… it would probably be hard for a woman to give her man sex if she doesn’t respect him.
Now, why does she not respect him… that’s what we need to dive into…
9 times out of 10 he may be treating her like shit
In a lot of cases men work hard to get you, you let your walls down. The moment they realize they have you they change.
It annoys me that this clip isn’t dealing with the reason why respect and intimacy has left it’s just giving validation to leave the marriage. Aka not taking responsibility for the marriage, and putting it all on her to do it right.
OMG so true! “Sometimes it is better to pay for intimacy rather than try to get it from your wife”
Respect, intimacy and affection are earned not demanded. Improve and everything will fall in place.
Respect, intimacy, and affection are earned? Sounds more like a business transaction than a relationship or marriage.
CGA boss. That is why it is important not to put anyone in a pedestal because once they know that they tend to get this abusive behavior like CGA said. You have to always be in the grey line in a sort. Never let anyone that you are secured.
I myself have ended probably about 95 percent of my relationships due to, lack of respect and understanding as well as them cheating.
So yup.
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Lack of RESPECT IS #1! He has to leave or end up going to jail for splitting her head.
But he doesn’t go into why the women are losing respect for the men which is also affecting the sexual aspect.
He almost stated it when he said “men wants to feel love but not often THE GIVERS OF LOVE”
But he defaulted to the faults of women.
Why do we never talk about men’s ability to pour emotionally or lovingly into women the way they expect us to pour into them.
Respect means different things to different men. Some men think that respect is "fear me, I'm superior. Nothing you say is right" God complex. Other men it's tell me whatever but your tone , for others it's words and tone
The only thing someone should fear is God not no stanky a** man 😂
CGA
Hahah the two reasons I left my baby mama now I’m a free Single Dad, less stressed, less responsibilities because she has two kids from a different baby daddy, and wayyy more money in my pocket!
How are you a single dad if you have less responsibility? You just a dad.
@@tyrone2434 I was in a relationship with my son’s mother and now I’m not lol? I had responsibilities for 3 kids while I was with her and now that I’m single I only have responsibility of my son
@@brianhouston7852 the term single parent doesn’t apply to you. Your just a parent. The stigma of that really falls on the women. Your ex is a single mother. It seems like you want to label yourself as a single father when you don’t bear all the responsibility, pain, and stress of one. But props to you for being a father to your child, and I wish the best to you and all involved. God knows best.
If you act in a respectful manner, you will be respected. Idk how some guys lie, cheat, and gaslight then expect to be respected.
Really ? As if most of the cheating is not done by women en masse ??
And ofcourse you women would only go for the top 20% of men everywhere across the world.
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He just explained why none of us should ever get married, especially to Western women. Because fewer than 2% come to a marriage as virgins, there is always a guy that came before you that they wished they could have married, but couldn’t.
She will always treat you with disrespect or at least as a second class citizen because you are not the person she wanted to be with. I learned that from Rich Cooper and God it is so true.
My wife was stunned when I shared this with her. I have constantly had to check her for her disrespectful behavior. I have never tolerated it. But I also never understood where it came from. I told her to do me the favor of a divorce so I can move to Costa Rica and live the rest of my life in peace. On my life, her behavior changed the same day and has been a 180° flip in her conduct.
Women don't get respect , Women need love and respect to give to it. We need loyalty also.
Str8 fax
Respect is earned.
If you have to pay someone to sleep with you, that’s not intimacy. That’s sex.
This needs to go viral. 💪🏿💪🏿💪🏿💪🏿
so let me get this straight. a man with his wife that he chose to marry. she starts to lack respect and intimacy instead of trying to find out why these things are happening. he decides to go sleep with another woman and then goes home to his said wife and expects her to be jolly, happy, respectful, and intimate. WOW!!!! then pity duty sex. WOW.!
@Princess-Marie. Stop me when you disagree. When a woman loses respect for a man, her love for him diminishes. So does her desire for intimacy with him. His does not. Typically, a woman will make excuses NOT to have sex, or she will start treating him like crap. This makes his desire for her lessen, but not his desire for intimacy. If he broaches the subject about sex, she will get defensive. And admittedly, he may not do it in the most sensitive way.
Why would it not be HER responsibility to tel HIM why HER feelings have changed, and what caused them, so they can discuss TOGETHER what they should do?
Men are not mind readers. How would you feed if you knew your man hated his job, was disrespected by his supervisor/team. But he only keeps up the daily grind to provide for you and his family? Congratulations. You have now had a glimpse into most men's life. Note that he does not take this out on you.
We don't ask for pity. We just ask for respect, loyalty, peace and occasional intimacy to remind us why we go through the grinder.
When respect is gone its hard to get back. And alot of respect is lost when SHE treats you poorly and you can't do anything about it.
@@chitownbob9714 this is it. It’s the women’s fault for not verbalizing her problems with the relationship. Men are not like women, we don’t stick around or fall deeper in love when we are disrespected
Can we agree to abolish marriage. Like literally it’s not a tradition worth supporting if obligations are not met.
@@FazeParticles had to think about this. Historically, we had marriage customs and weddings to create families and hold them together for a lifetime. IMHO the strain of arranging a wedding allowed couples to see each other in less than perfect situations.
Today's brides seem more concerned with the wedding than the marriage! That's a red flag.
More importantly divorce is very easy today with no fault divorce. And, after vowing to love one's partner until death.. In front of hundreds of friends and relatives, there is absolutely no shame in divorce today.
Divorce and custody and spousal support laws were written in an age where women were homemakers... Now both work. These laws are changing to be fairer but are still being adjudicated by many judges who favor women.
Lack of respect.
Wasting his time.
Very poor communication or none at all.
Poor sexual proformance or under sex'd
This guest is spot on.
Yikes. It works both ways. He never said be able to communicate effectively what the needs of the marriage or relationships needs.
If the women is not giving those 3 things - there’s a reason behind it - the man has to be deserving - he is not entitled 🤷🏽♀️
Neither is the woman entitled to what the man has to offer. Just stay single and we will all be good. Men dont bother women and women dont bother men.
Just like women are not entitled simply for being women. Just stay single and fuck it.
Respect is earned! Respect is not sex! A woman needs to feel emotional support to want to engage in a physical relationship! Many men miss this! Women want a man who has empathy and cares about her feelings. He can show that by spending time with her and listening with care and concern. Women lose respect for their men when they neglect these things. If you want more of a physical relationship with your woman, give her more of this. She will give you more of that!
So here's the question for the men, have you been acting in such a way that would encourage Respect? Or are you just demanding respect because you are a man? The biggest failure in my marriage was him not having integrity in anything he did, and as a result, I just simply couldn't hold respect for him. I wanted to, I tried, I even pretended when he was a tyrant.
Food for thought guys- respect comes when you say what you mean and mean what you say. Actions of integrity will gain respect from women all of the time. If everything that comes out of your mouth is empty and you're more focused on the facade, then respect will not be in your relationship.
Never beg a woman for sex,someone didn’t beg yet had it multiple times,with that same lady.
Also,never beg for respect from a lady.
Sometimes women and wives don't want to have sex or intimacy because the husband/guy doesn't invest in them. If a man wants a great relationship, he doesn't just go to bed with the woman. He calls her, takes her out, buys her flowers or gifts, asks her how her day went, talks to her, tries to get to know her, doesn't go visit other women, doesn't keep secrets, shares his feelings with her, and tells her the truth.
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Oh and I forgot to say in my last comment that there’s a reason, probably multiple reasons why the woman doesn’t want to have sex or intimacy with her husband. It’s called lack of respect for her, not helping with the house or the kids while they both work, it’s ignoring her opinion, interrupting while she’s talking, and putting her down. And that’s ignoring all the abusive men. So tell me this starts with the women? Because I don’t believe it for one GD minute. I have been married for over 40 years to two different men and they’ve all been the same.
Man. This is so accurate
I want to get married so I can have sex everyday except period days. But dang I can’t seem to find a man that I like and respect. The one that I did like , didn’t like me back. Too bad. I would have given him intimacy and sex like no other. I actually desired to be with him. But I guess I’m not feminine enough for him. Whatever then.
I can do that. In a good situation it flow freely.
Yea what about the days he isn’t home? Marriage aint only about sex, get your mind right, it’s obvious why dude doesn’t mess with you.
Even if you where brought up in a broken home, you should know what it takes for a woman to be a good wife. Many of these stories are from men marrying women that shouldn’t have gone past casual girlfriend.
This really spoke to me, as I was out with a girl last night. The disrespect was just so sad. I was doing her a favor and she was acting like I’m just lucky to be there.
Money is the currency of gaining respect from women.
And my friend is still not enough sonetimes.
most women work today so you have to bring more than money to a relationship and most men don't and then they want respect and sex
@@SuperTruthful cap. Women want a sugar daddy and don't want to put in effort. They think they're all princesses who don't have to lift a finger, and initiate divorce to try to find a simp who will grant her that fantasy of being lazy
@@panama2468 you made that shyt up. that's not a reality for women.
@@SuperTruthful I didn't make that up. I've heard it from people around me, and clearly online. As long as women get to sit around and watch reality TV, they will be "submissive". When hard times come, and you need her to get a job or do kore housework bc you need to get more hours at work, then it's downhill bc she is lazy
You want Respect give Respect, People want what they do not give sometimes , No woman wants to be disrespected and still expected to be loving towards that person , That doesn't make sense, 4 reason why a woman does not want to be intimate with you , 1 , She doesn't find you attractive, 2. Sex drive doesn't match, one person is higher than the other or lower than the other 3. You have abused her with so much disrepect from catching you cheating on her to many times , verbally, emotionally, mentally, physically , financially abusing her untill you have turned her off , 4. your hygiene and lack of taking care of yourself
In to me you see
In ta ma cy
You’re not getting intimacy from a paid person. That’s just lust and Adultery.
Respect is more important to me than money sex or love.
a lot of women begin their marriage showing respect & intimacy to their husbands but are not shown love & affection in return.
when ur husband is ungrateful & treats u like an assistant/maid u begin to lose respect for him & don’t want to be intimate.
why is that so difficult for men to understand?
Assistants and Maids get paid and go home to their families. Maybe you should have more pride in the role of your household, if that’s how you want to categorize your contribution to the marriage, THEN THATS ON YOU! Show up and do your damn job, because if you think you’re an assistant or maid, then that means HES PAYING THE BILLS!
Who gives a damn about your job. DO IT!!! It’s what you signed up for, take pride in it, and play your role.
Men do it EVERYDAY, it’s women who stickers and gold stars everyday for basic effort. Men don’t get to live in a world where we are constantly emotionally considered. Get over yourself.
Shut up
@@ikey1119
funny how u completely ignored the part where i said a WIFE would want LOVE and AFFECTION from her HUSBAND in order to crave intimacy from him. Instead, u turned being a housewife into solely a “job” as if women marry men just for their bills to be paid. maybe the trashy women u attract 🤷🏻♀️🤡
women are not like men. we’re emotional and sensitive and need to feel like our man values, loves and is grateful for all that we contribute to the household.
sorry u lack emotional intelligence and only know how to rant about what men want & couldn’t care less about what good women actually want in a relationship. most likely because you don’t even deserve a good woman, based off of how you speak about them.
@@whocares9413 Go back and check your own words. It’s a shame that I have to sit you down like a child and literally cut up your food and feed it to you.
You said: “Women” not “Wife” (and you put it in all caps too 😂) and that’s just my point. I read what you wrote and you can’t even get your own words right.
First thing you do is contradict your own words. What’s with the insults? That shit don’t matter in real life, so why bother? The facts are the facts, do your job because I do mine. The emotional bullshit is where you reside and “feel” most comfortable. That shit ain’t tangible and can’t be assessed under real circumstances. You can’t run a home or pay bills on feelings. Do your fuckin job first, then you can have a voice about how you feel about shit.
There’s women with rings on there fingers all over the world who seem to make it work. And they’re not on CZcams in the comments section.
And what’s even crazy, is how full of shit you truly are, because my message is GENDERLESS. You’re only here because you deem this shit as a “woman’s issue” talking about emotional intelligence, throwing around insults. FOH. If a man was home NOT DOING HIS FUCKING JOB, and his WIFE was out pulling her weight. I’d be saying the sam exact shit.
But you didn’t think about the true value of the situation (like men do) you automatically went into this: pseudo womanhood, emotional, shaming, bullshit. Instead of sitting with the situation and seeing all sides.
And this is why your full of shit. Because of your REASONING, and LOGIC, not because your a woman, your just a dumb person who happens to be a woman. And that’s what you’ll never understand about men. Results and Logic, always come first.
@@ikey1119 LMAO. Well, clearly you either cannot read or lack comprehension skills. Let me post my original comment once again and maybe try reading a little slower so that your tiny brain can understand.
“a lot of women begin their marriage showing respect & intimacy to their husbands but are not shown love & affection in return.”
My entire point from the beginning was that A LOT of women DO their job in the household but once they feel their husband does not love & appreciate them anymore, they no longer feel the urge to become intimate with them.
This is called HUMAN NATURE. This is just a part of our BIOLOGICAL DIFFERENCE as women. Whether you like it or not, women will never be men. We value other things than men.
But once again, you clearly lack the emotional intelligence to comprehend what this entire conversation is about in the first place. Pathetic and embarrassing.
How can he get intimacy from prostitutes? Sometimes men just say anything to justify their cheating.
The prostitute knows what the customer wants and average man that is to feel desired and wanted. Men know when you are giveing pity sex and real sex because we can tell if the desire is there. Yes they know with her it's fake but she so good at performing in the moment it feels real.
@@justinwallace451 teach your wife that, make sure you give her real pleasure too.
@@kristinajackson5862 why women always make it about y'all in every convo even when men saying what we want though. And if teaching women how to treat us was so easy why are there so many men who relate to this video.women tell there husbands oh well and will threaten divorce and take there money if they go any where else so suffer and deal with it. You don't like how it sounds but this is what marraige and long-term relationships get you and why men are not getting married anymore
Shut up and make your man a sandwich
@@fabianortiz1712 bro sad part he probably not lying lmao
Respect is everything
No lies told 👍🏼
My reason was lack of respect combined with no intimacy ( lack of respect) ! I would say these two are the top reasons for men ! I also stayed in the relationship far longer than I should have concerned about losing my children but staying hurt the children more than just divorcing her !
Lack of respect is big. Your right on sir
CGA, one of the GOAT in the RP community. 😅😅😄
Gotta love Coach! Always keeping it real!
What was the 3rd reason?
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Lack of respect, absolutely.
A woman here trying to understand my partner. He says I don’t respect him when we’re having a hard conversation and I voice my issues and defend myself. I don’t cuss, I don’t raise my voice, and I don’t cut him off. This happens every time we argue or don’t see eye to eye. I ask him what do you mean by I don’t respect you and he can’t give me an answer. I genuinely don’t want to make him feel like I don’t. I need some insight and understanding. I want to be a better partner. Help!!!!
“In to me I see” say that 10 times really fast
He’s absolutely right
As a woman I totally disagree. You have to look at why there is no more respect for that male partner. The female didn’t just one day say oh I don’t respect him anymore. There was a reason and probably multiple reasons like lack of real intimacy, and don’t tell me men want intimacy because they don’t, Eleck of respect for the woman, and men don’t really seem to be emotionally grown or mature. They still want the 1950s housewife in an apron cooking dinner when he gets home from work, however, he wants her to work 40 hours a week too. And that just does not work in today’s society unless the man earns enough money and the woman wants to stay home. Some women cannot deal with staying home and I think every man is looking for a maid, a sex slave, do you know just somebody he can order around and have weight on him hand and foot. Again the immaturity in my case is 60 year old man was absolutely horrendous.
This is a sad world out here sex is not a major priority in a marriage or relationship. Smfh
Are you saying sex shouldn’t be a major priority or that it’s sad that sex isn’t a major priority?
CGA is a world treasure.
Absolutely coach !!!!💯
It’s strange that both sexes feel victimized and one can make a case that sounds very compelling. No matter what, let’s not forget that we get to choose our partners. You experience what you choose. Make better choices.
I fell in love with a Feminist, 12 years fellas, ended up being disrespected, and lack of intimacy hit the nail on the head Coach
Sex & money how women use them as weapons determines the relationship!!!
LACK OF RESPECT? You get what you give and we all know Men find it hard to Respect their Partner. Everything is taken for Granted!! Yeah. They prefer to PAY for intimacy rather than WORK on the Relationship.
Women wanna be desired, men wanna be admired.
I like Adams Sossick's swagger
Van, you just summed it up perfectly. It is a Game! Almost everything is a Game! $$$
Tell me, on lack intimacy how in the hell can they feel connected to that person who they don't even have a relationship with? This makes no damn sense to me? By the same token when a man expects a woman to " pick up her guys underwear, socks, or has to encourage him to shower" , that doing these things for her man, makes a woman feel like his damn Mother, and is a total turn off for women! Don't expect your women to cook, clean, scrub your clothes and pick up your private things, and expect her to even want sex! Why, you ask? BECAUSE WOMEN DON'T SLEEP WITH THEIR SONS!!! 🤨
There's an enormous difference between passive submission and active participation.