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"If he loves me he should learn to love things that I love." Run, RUN as fast as you can.
Yeah that sentence right there. She's crazy.
You have absolutely no idea how many men think this way as well.
@@kinndah2519 Its all about harmony. I personally hope the women I have a LTR with does not like my hobby, so I can get some me time. I also hope we have other things in common that we do together. The thought of arguing every Sunday about me going dirt biking makes we want to never find a mate.
@@kinndah2519 Yeah... and the advice remains the same.
@@kinndah2519 mmm i doubt that
"Where do you women get these rules at?"....love this mans advice.
Not advice but close enough I guess haha
They Get Them From Their Fee Fees
Yeah I agree
If my wife like or love something, does not mean I will. And vise versa. I love shooting pool, she don't. She loves certain tv shows, I don't. It is what it is. Oh yeah, we've been married for almost 12 years now.
LOL! Im ROFL at Steve's facial expression!
Girlfriend: "if he loves me, he should learn to love the things that I love."
Boyfriend: "oh ok, cool. I can hang with that. Lets play some videogames and then we can, wait, babe where you going?"
Exactly "love me for me but you're gonna need to change some stuff to prove you love me"
Exactly 💯
"If he loves me, he should learn to love things that I love" - Lovely rule 😂
What's a verified channel with 3.11M subs doing here with only 22 likes? And nobody has even replied?
By the way, the quotes you post are helpful. I rarely read them but they are useful.
“That little ugly a... i am sorry” 😂
😂😂😂😂
Is this the girl who met a sloth in that other vid
Poor advice Steven. You’re just teaching women to expect less of men. And it’s a sloth, not a poisonous snake.
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THE RAXIO 😭😂😂😂
I feel like this is a pretty widely spread mentality. "if he loves me, he will do this for me to make me happy", but how about if you love him, you dont try to put him in a spot he doesnt want to be?
Mehikaner I've never been like that. However, I have known men who think a woman must be "down for everything" he is. She must like the exact same music as they do, drink the same amount of alcohol and eat the same food he does, and be willing to sit at their friend's house for hours on end talking about, watching or listening to only what they like.
If she prefers to switch up the scenery a bit, she's considered "high maintenance or "bratty."
Exactly, it's a 2 way street
look. there are many things we do in relationships we dont absolutely love but we do it to make our partner happy. it’s not a crazy idea. it’s only gets crazy when the demands get crazy. simple as that
@B G and judging by your comment, I can assume you're that type of man I described in my initial comment.
You can assume all you want, I don't have to defend scenarios made up by someone's head. My comment is pretty clear. Also, if I don't appreciate the type of men I described, then it means I'm not that same type of woman either. It means I have a man/husband that does his thing and I do my thing, and then we do things together and we don't get mad at each other for it.
Kindah
Nowhere in his comment did he say anything about gender or anything. If you're an exception to this rule then your confidence to it shouldn't mean you have to put down men for it, nor should you interpret what he's saying that way. Which I will admit you never said in bluntly, but I'm assuming that's why you felt the need to put that in your comment. What I want to understand is why is it such a bad thing for women to be introduced with a problem they usually are at fault to contributing to, but when men are confronted with a problem and a dude says "Not all men" he's either crucified, told that the majority of men are at fault for said issue existing, or called any number of insults by white knights and the insecure women they protect? OP said nothing about gender, but within context of the video he was indeed talking about women. And he'd be right. Yes men can be like that but we need to stop acting like whenever women have the spotlight on them in a negative light, it's automatically because of bad intentions. The conversation is about what women do bad. Not about what men do bad.
I like how he looks around after the question like he just spent all that time explaining everything in detail and added some personal experience with something similar and she asks “so what does that mean for me and my boyfriend” lol. That look around I felt in my soul. Like damn women I just told you everything and explained it! 😂
If you really loved the sloth, you wouldn't want it at your birthday party.
She said “if he loves me then he would get the sloth.”
My question for her is, “if you love your man, why you putting him through fear?”
I have the answer: she's brainless
Haha good counterargument.
He's not afraid she's selfish and she thinks he'll do what she wants to prove her wrong.
Vu Le fear? Look never be afraid of your woman, NEVER!
Id argue its not fear because whos really going to fear something that you can run away from at a casual stride? Shes just projecting what she thinks is the issue. Hes most likely like who the hell wants a sloth and no im not going to waste money on it. Shes most likely the problem not him.
What is a sloth gonna do at your birthday party, slow dance?
SamytheGreek hahaha
LMFAO
I love it
OMG I'm dying! lololololololol
This comment is underrated 😂😂
😂😂😂😂this comment though!!
I love Steve! He makes me laugh every single day!! 😂😂😂
0:44 “that lil ugly a- oh I’m sorry” 🤣🤣🤣
lady there is a place called a "zoo"
crashpal some zoos don’t have them
How about just leaving them the hell alone in their natural habitat ? How would YOU like to be enslaved in a zoo ?
@@lordbane729 he is not the one enslaving the animal
So dont talk to him like that you dumb ass
@@lordbane729 why are you acting like it's his fault that sloths get put in zoos?
@@lordbane729 I don't think he's putting the sloths in there dumbass
Girl, take your ass to the zoo and call it a day
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LMAO!!!!
lol!!!
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you have to love Steve. Delivery and timing are impeccable. A class on how to ve funny
“If you loved me... you’d do [blank]” is a great way to keep someone close to you 😉
“So what are saying for me and my boyfriend?”
Steve: 👁👁
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I knew I wasn’t the only one that thought it was funny
😂😂
My response: Depends. How hot is your best friend
She had the audacity, not to mention the pure unbridled stupidity to ask that question.
I just reached this comment at the same time in the video.....😆😆🤣🤣🤣
Why do women always think men are scared about something no we aren’t scared we just don’t like what you’re talking about
Thelondonbadger sexist shaming tactic.
As if women never experienced that.
People call you a slut for almost everything nowadays
@@anja6983 The thing is with all that feminism crap you do not need to say that anymore. We all know it already
@@feedelstick4670 lol
Lmao 😂😂😂
@@anja6983 Lies. More than half of your kind like to pull out all sorts of "facts" and "statistics" from out of your arses.
Steve is one of the few men that can make a basic question so intriguing . Love ya man one of the few real ones left
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There's never a time that I don't all the way through Steve's shows .
He can't be replaced.
I am a woman and I love sloths -- but expecting your boyfriend to have a sloth at your birthday party is so diva. Everybody thinks that just because Dax Shepherd did it for Kristin Bell that it's like the ultimate expression of love -- it isn't. Keep in mind both Dax and Kristin are millionaires, first of all, and paying a rescue facility to transport a sloth to your home is very expensive. Secondly, sloths (even those raised in captivity) are wild animals. They have absolutely no desire to interact with people. Having a sloth at your party is solely for your amusement and not for the sloth, who could actually get very stressed out by the trip and all the loud noises at a party. It isn't really respecting that animal to have it come to your home. If you really love sloths, you should volunteer at a rehab/rescue center instead, where you can observe them where they're most comfortable and will behave the most naturally.
Sir jee I m seeing long long blog r there while giving u the expression by someone but I m Indian belongs to a stste called Bihar I did not check how old this videos r , bit one thing is this yr response towards the public is excellent, great u r once again ....
raelonewolf 🙏🏾 well written and brilliant clearly she wasn’t thinking about the sloth
Correct. She was thinking only about herself here.
marry me
Best advice I ever read on youtube
"where y'all get these rules at?" hahahahahaha
lol i cried once he said that hahaha
From |Majorie's book
deepvoicegirl28
Hah...
But still, where do women get these ridiculous rules from ?
korohone Disney and Hollywood haha not sure tbh.
Make them up as they go whatever it takes to manipulate them
This man just singlehandledly saved this couple's relationship
Love her chuckle in the beginning
This is a protected wild animal.
It doesnt do birthdays😆
tehilovely That spoiled girl doesn't do common sense either.
This is probably the real reason her boyfriend said no. Bringing a protected animal to a birthday is just asking for legal trouble.
Now I know why men or boys do not want relationships nowadays because of women like these...
If she keep pushing those petty things at me the relationship will be over
@@IWill4everBeSamurai oh trust me there's far worse things that could happen with the metoo and the 3rd wave feminism flying around.
The term “wild animal” needs to be taken more seriously :/
I agree.
And sloths are crazy strong anything that can hang their entire body weight for hours with one claw. Aint getting anywhere near me.
@Tao Pai Pai lol they stink and have long claws plus lots of parasites in their dirty fur.. yuck🤢🤢 I'd dump that girl
@@Cody_Ramer they dont use any strenght hanging unlike humans they need strenght to open their hand
@@Cody_Ramer They're harmless
Costa Rica is my country, I am from Port Limon and I love you and your beautiful family mister Harvey! GOD bless you!
Hello Kimberly, happy new year to you and how are you doing?
The lady in glasses at 01:14 knows her issue is a deal breaker
If you love sloths... you would not put that animal through that. Leave it alone in their environment.
why? all animals were wild and through years of training you now have pets. one day you could have house sloths
ya, a rhousand years from now!
Totally. I was thinking the same thing.
+newbeauty80 yeah but zoos do their best to put an animal as close to their environment as possible
+MrGamerxpert So what, it's unnecessary.
"If he loves me, he should learn to love what I love" I think women who think like that have the mindset of it's not OUR relationship, its MY relationship.
Too many women think its Happy wife Happy life, Its really Happy Spouse Happy House
@Ronald Mitchell Yep. We do.
@@SpecialKRNB 😐
@@z.incognito6259 What?!
@@SpecialKRNB Did you just say Women get whatever they want?
They’re soooo cute and sweet!! I’ve had the chance to meet a sloth and feed it 💖 My heart melted!
I love Steve Harvey's facial expressions and comments! He should try and be a comedian one day! :) lol
“And then tragically the dog got hit by a car...”
Look of absolutely no regret*
i so thought the next line was going to be, "so then i got out of the car"
Toast
I expected that too 😂
@@trje246 same here. The way he was narrating it sounded like he killed the dog.
@@trje246 😅😂😂😂😂I was patiently waiting for that one
He said he was in 9th grade. That's 14-15 years old, aka no drivers license yet. He also said he rode his BIKE over there.
Ok I'm a girl and I don't understand why your boyfriend should love the things you love. Opposites attract.
Its about control and domination. In my experience, girls like this only apply their logic one way. They're always quick to pressure their man into abandoning things that he loves, but they will never compromise on things that they love.
Kelly U yup i can tell you that's a fact.
When you say opposites attract I hope you are talking about magnets
It'd be like me telling my girlfriend she needs to start being into soccer and doctor who
kelly u you are right man is simple. if we love it then we adore it, if we dont love it we dont care about it. dont care =/= hate, e.g. if woman like to talk about beauty product or cosmetics it is okay, but mostly we as a man didnt find it interesting.
3:33 Steve is hilarious 😂
Women: We equal! Respect!
Women: You gotta like what I like because you love me -_-
She is Like: Isn't he Cute?
Steve just said that Ugly Ass...... LOL
Right?!!
She's "I want to talk to the manager" type
Thabang Lehetla 😂😂😂😂
KAREN 😹
@@duyphan4617 🤣🤣🤣
Dammit Karen!
Yep 🤦🏻♀️
The look ok Steve’s face when she asked what is he saying about her and her boyfriend❤
I've been watching these and laughing quietly, dying inside from laughter. But I couldn't control the loud laugh I gave when he saw that sloth.
Translation: "My boyfriend won't give me what I want, so how can I manipulate him into getting my way?" This is why you need to go #MGTOW4Life
Not all women are like this girl. Most of the comments are other girls/women ragging on her request/manipulation desires.
Just say you can’t get a girlfriend and move on #mgtow
@@Alina-oz7ej Mgtow is not wanting a gf
Stfu
Accurate translation!
Imagine a man saying ''If u love me then you'll learn to love the things I love'' Most women would be out the door so fast.I don't agree with Steve Harvey often but where did women get these rules!
How many men go on and on about sports in that one paragraph they give you to describe yourself?
@@windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823 I don't know.Honestly I have no interest in how men describe themselves but most men enjoy sports doesn't mean they expect the woman they're involved with to like sports! It would be great if they did but I doubt it's a deal breaker for men!
@@lexico8165 yep that's why we hang out with the fellas just like she needs to hang out with her girlfriends from time to time everybody needs their own personal space as long as it's not every weekend reason why men build man caves so you'll know exactly where we are to stop your mind from going supernova...😁😁😁✌✌✌
@Dojocho Sorry that happened to you bro! Unfortunately we'll never know what goes on in the mind of females. Women never want to be seen as the ''bad guy'' so they do things like that, then end up resenting u with a smile on their face while plotting their next move. Peace bro.
I want to know how many women get together and decide on these rules and what their drinks were spiked with
That woman's face in the background when Steve said "We ain't got to love it cause you love it. " 😆
Gotta love Steve's humor! 👌😆
مرحبا يا سوفية 🙂
Wanting to meet a sloth ain't bad, it's just she's going about her situation like a little girl who wants to manipulate someone into doing something for her, instead of being a grown woman about her issue and going to see the sloth herself.
It's not her boyfriend's responsibility to do that for her, it's hers.
Yes, it is on her bf to make her happy. Sexist. You have issues with women to work on. You don't know her buddy, you don't know she manipulated him. Guys manipulate women far far far far more.
Step right up, step right up! Take your pick, is nofy bn a feminist, neckbeard, or simply embarrassingly uneducated? Take a wild guess folks and win a grand prize!
no its not on men to keep women happy...are you our gf or our child?
@@TopFlightSecurity415 their child duh. Just like a mother, we take care of them, would die for them, make decisions for them, etc. Think it's just coincidence women have bigger eyes than men and youth like features? Also their image of innocence and need like that of a child is what makes them desirable, sadly. And old independent women asking for assistance... Not cute.
@@nofybn7794 by far one of the most ignorant and self entitled comments I've read. I would suggest you take a page from your own books and work on your hate towards men. I'll pray for you young lady and everyone in your gender studies class.
What does he have a book signing somewhere lol
I love the way Steve answers, in my own opinion when it comes to matters of love it should not be one side but both sided to be considered. But most woman say if he loves me he should love what l love, but that doesn't happen like that, that's why there is so many problems and breaking up over petty things.
this is the truest i've ever seen steve be. respect.
This man just earned my respect, he’ll never sugar coat anything !
"How do I get my boyfriend to pay for ridiculous things?"
Welcome to Costa Rica anytime. Steve, you are welcome to come over too.
Steve's facial expressions are priceless
Image dating someone for 5 or more years only to have that relationship ended by a Sloth.
For that woman is specific wouldn’t be surprised if her bf left her. Who the hell goes to a tv show to complain about her bf that ridiculous way.
That's a really slow death.
Or a Sith Lord.
He should run from this crazy controlling chic!
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And women wonder why they still aren't being taken seriously....
Lol.. Softies on their way to start a fight with u... With their fingers.. Just with a keyboard.. Without logic.. With their last resort as tears...
BIG FACTSSSSS
skyclasp 🙏🏾😂🤣🙏🏾🤣😂
Men only in for sex and y'all keep on wondering why is feminism a thing lmfao
@@NoName-tu6ulthen y'all can withhold it and give whatever else you can offer, if there's any
Sloths are so cute always smiling and cutie pies
You are welcome in my beautiful country Steve. Costa Rica, Pura Vida
Question of the millienium. lol
Steve's face from 3:06-3:10 had me dyyyyyying,
Lmao SAME! That's GiFworthy
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"If he loves ME...He should learn to....."
Rest of the sentence she meant to say was...."learn to do what I want."
Her issue is making HER love all about HER and is conditional.
I thought it was supposed to be..."He is planning her a B'day party"
Yet it sounds as though she is planning her B'day party
"If he loves me-"
Now I'm gonna have to stop you right there.
"they got a book signin' somewhere?" dead 😂
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Hello Rob, happy new year to you and how are you doing?
Hello, how are you doing over there?
Hi sweetie
Even if I love a guy I wouldn’t pretend to love football and watch with him everyday idgaf we don’t have to be together 24/7 doing everything together, sae hobbies same everything we two different people lmao
As a guy I agree. I think the best relationship is where the girl does her hobbies and her things she likes , the man does the things he likes and just have a good relationship when you're together doing stuff you both like.
Communication is really lacking in these women or men that expect big things.
Ego is the second thing but that's depending on how much boundary you are willing to give
Steve is a natural! I like him.
When he actually gave his real tip, it was perfectly said. Concise, precise, and purely logical.
As soon as she said, "The issue it's my, boyfriend, he's the one that's planning the party..." I'm surprised Steve didn't start with, "Of you have a boyfriend? And do you want to keep your boyfriend?" then go on with his statements.
She told Steve, "And like you, he's terrified of sloths." Before she said that, I never heard him day he was terrified of sloths. I heard him call it "ugly" and ask, "Ain't that that little slow animal?" but I never heard him day he was terrified of them. Did I miss that?
After Steve's story about his 9th grader girlfriend and get dog, she asks Steve, "So what are you saying about me and my boyfriend?"
What I'll say it's he's probably going to break up with you sooner or later (and not just because of the weird sloth issue), or you'll break up with him. And no, he does not have to like all the things you like.
Im so sick and tired of that made up rule!! I can love a woman endlessly without liking every little she likes. I love Steve's reaction when she said " If he loves me, he HAS TO do such and such!! lol
I think she calls steve "terrified" because all these activism campaigns have spread the flawed logic that if you don't love something, then you must have a secret phobia of it
Amaravi that actually makes a lot of sense
@@chunkyMunky329 yes! I've seen that too! It's so bizarre!
@@chunkyMunky329 so a large amount of women are afraid of video games?
"If he loves me he should learn to love things that I love." - the words of a true crazy female. Run for your life, Forrest!
The first sentence of this video is enough to close youtube. Thanks 👍
“If he loves me he should learn to love the things that I love.” Great, I guess she’ll learn to love going to hockey games and getting in the mosh pit, too.
"If he loves me he should learn to love things that I love..."
*chuckles* Oh honey...
She just went a step or two too far. They should learn to tolerate and accept the thing you love. Your spouse has no obligation to enjoy your hobbies or interests but they shouldn't stop you from enjoying them (assuming your interests are healthy).
@@jffry890 Amen
I love how he kind of educated her on that misunderstanding. You do not have to love what I love and I don't have to love what you love, for me to love you. It's all about how we treat Each Other.
There were so many hilarious parts in this scene LOLLLLLLLLLLL
My favorite partner saying is, " if you loved me, you'd know". Being married is instant mind reader conversion. No classes required.
Time for her boyfriend to consider a different option too. 😂😂
"If he loves me..." lol guess that's a one way street.
0:42 that laugh tho 😂
Lol
"that lil ugly ass..." LMFAO Steve is pure comedy gold
“If he loves me he should love things I love”
BRUUUUH that’s straight up manipulation
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3:09 Steve's face: "You didn't get the lesson from the story I just told?"
First time CZcams gives me this clip, so ... i subscribed 🙂
This has to be the funniest reaction out of him i’ve ever seen😂😂😂😂
Ladies stop yourself if anything starts w If he loves me...
I have yet to hear a guy say Well if she loved me she would have gotten me the right toolset.
Lol steve making me feel so goood lol
Yes girl here in Costa Rica we have lots of them I hope one day you come to visit us and go to one of our forests and can see one of them❣️
Big #1 Fan of yours Steve God Bless You & Your Family Always! ❤
“I’m gonna tell you right now, yu birthday party is gonna be minus a sloth”🤣🤣🤣🤣
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She seemed open minded, communicating clearly and agreeable, I respect that... I hope she understands what Steve was trying to say..
Steve Harvey Makes Me Forget Evrything Bad Hapen To Me He Is So Funny
'That's Donald Trump's hair' lol
+Obiajulu Ifeanyi ikr xD
+Obiajulu Ifeanyi omg lmaooooo it does look like trumps hair, haha
i knew i wouldl come to see this on the first comment haha
I thought that was funny to LMFAO ha ha ha ha ha
it was funny the second time to ha ha ha ha ha ROTFLMFAO
Feminist mission statement, " We're not happy, until you're not happy"
Sexist. You have issues with women to work on. You don't respect WOMEN. RESPECT WOMEN! IT IS ABOUT TIME FOR WOMEN TO BE HAPPY! You have had centuries, it is our turn.
nofy STFU
@@nofybn7794 You kinda just proved his point.
@@nofybn7794 How about instead of focusing on the past and how men were more "dominate," focus on the future and equality between both genders, last I checked that's what feminism is supposed to be, Not complaining about how every man's a potential rapist and saying we should be burned alive. Also the reason men were more dominate for centuries is because we were the ones fighting wars and going out hunting in the unforgiven world and doing all the dangerous jobs while women were at home taking care of the kids and cleaning. Read a damn history book. Ever since the dawn of time, men have been the ones doing all the dirty work to provide for their families.
Lmfao 😂😂😂😂😂🍷
Steve you make me laugh so hard
Steve is the best
"He should learn to love the things I love" I don't think so. Anyone in a couple is still an individual. They don't have to like what their partners like.
Exactly. Well said. It's simple. Opposites attract.
Let animals live in their natural habitat. Its real selfish to request a sloath for your bday
And she has absolutely no idea how much money it would cost to even do that. She just want it to happen.
I have a new respect for Steve Harvey!
You didn’t respect him before??
X D I did have respect for this man, but there’s many smart men in the business who often play along with the this stupid charade of keeping men down just for a paycheck. Clearly Mr Harvey plays at another level.
I love this man
"If he loves me then he should learn to love thing that I love", SOO, if you love him then you should learn to RESPECT the things that he fears.
She seems lovely, but I'm tired of hearing this nonsense about "if he loves me..." How demanding! Don't make demands on someone if you truly love them.
Ronald Mitchell
There good people out there that get stuck or fixated on things that are not really important. And in turn they don't even realize that the thing they are so fascinated with or fixated on makes them act in ways that look or become selfish. It doesn't make them evil
if someone truly loves you, they wouldnt force you into not/doing stuff
J Taylor
Exactly! Things should just be natural and free. No dealing in ultimatums. Steve was right, something so trivial could mean the end of their relationship
Our demands would not be demands if you were genuinely interested in our happiness.
😅😂😭🤭 watch your words! Tho!
Steve's look at 1:42 had me dyin'
Steve: “I think he loves you, I think he absolutely crazy about you”
Me: how tf you know
Brady Marshall lool exactly
"think"
He said "think" not "know". That's not the same damn thing
What he ment was "He loves your pus*y"
Wouldn't he have to be to put up with her?