Ask Steve: Men don't give a damn how long it takes! || STEVE HARVEY
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- Steve Harvey tries to answer a woman's concern about her man passing his 90-day rule in time for the holidays.
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Sex is an expression of love not a tool for rewarding good behavior. That man has his hands in another cookie jar.
I was thinking the same bro
Why do we always assume everyones values or lack is like ours? There are those who give themselves away in matter of hours and there are those that want more.
I really like your first line.
el_Principe right
I agree. I think making any weird rules like this is a huge mistake. This is why women are so fearful of sex because they keep getting told by society that it's about rewarding their man. Sex is supposed to be something equally for both parties and is out of love for each other. We need to stop telling women it's something you give a man. It not something you give its something you both share with one another.
She should have never told him about the rule
how does that work: ? every time he is making a move , she rejects him and after... 10 times...he askes her: you don´t find me attractive? You don´t want to sleep with me at all ? Than you tell him somehow, if you just say: " not now".... the guy thinks: ok, she is playing games with me to get free stuff... I am leaving.
Sounds like Fuckery too me....
True just be like it will have to flow naturally 😂
@@colasalz2 She could just say I am not ready for this!
omg i was thinking the same thing
You tell a man that, now it’s a game. That relationship was over from the start 🤣
agree! what happened if men do that? what happens if we held off marriage or financial support? Or sex?
similarly, what happens if a man says I won't protect you until you passed the 90-day mark?
100% correct
That 90 days rule is for the ladies to know, not to tell the man. Just for ladies to come up to the man all kind of excuses and see if the man is still there after 90 days.
@@NoName-bb2pu LOL I love it when people lie for CZcams. no one respects you because of this comment.
@@marijar.6612 You're welcome, Marija. unfortunately for you, I don't take anything personally, I either tap it, or forget it.
If you are asking Steve Harvey if it’s ok to give up your “COOKIE” I’m afraid you’ve got more serious life issues you need to work through first.
Fr 😂😂😂
Fr 👍🏼
Sounds like he is getting the cookie from another source while waiting for her magic number to pop up.
Exactly!!
I think everyone's figured this out except her. You don't TELL the guy you are following a 90 day rule. That's just dumb. For all she knows he has four women out there all using a 90 day rule and each of them at different days. He could have 90 women out there for goodness sakes.
I can't believe she discussed the 90 day rule with the guy. That is just so naive of her. If she can't even figure out that you keep the 90 rule strategy to yourself she should NOT be having sex with anyone.
90 day rule doesn't work when there is a hoe down the street that gives it up in 90 minutes
Yes, it actually does work in that scenario. He goes down the street and she dumps him.
Having a hoe down the street helps weed out the garbage.
Sorry to burst your bubble, but a MATURE guy will wait 90 days for a female he thinks is WORTH it.
IF few men will wait 90 days then there are few men out there worth a woman's time. So in that you are correct. Most men won't show the maturity to wait 90 days for a female. Which is the whole point of SH's strategy.
Why would you tell him he is being tested? He'll wait for the cookie & jet just because you've told him it's a game.
Yeah I rather you keep that to yourself. I don’t need to be told by a woman that I’m getting a 90 day test. I would look at you like you’re crazy and I might be gone by the 90 days.
@@SpecialKRNB there is so much wrong in that comment 🤣🤣🤣 you gonna be single for a long time cause you think it's all about you, good luck with that mentality.
Exactly
He's just going to leave after you reject his advances 90 days in a row
Steve Harvey is WRONG.We should be equal.Afterall,we want and need the same things.To use sex or anything else as a power struggle is just WRONG.As a man here.I would rather focus on a true friendship in my relationship without sexual tension.Or,competition for power.
I want sex yes...I admit it! But,I also want friendship(best friend),lover and companion all rolled into one.
One more thing.Each person should never ever reject someone sexual or emotionally needs UNLESS you are sick.
Rejecting someone hurts right to the core of your soul.And might never be repaired.
If anyone is in this type of relationship.They should get out as soon as they can.
Problem is you think you are the only one with a cookie that’s special. Look around girl, look around.
Amen
mtnmann72 exactly
It is special because shes not giving it to out to every dude. That's a special woman right there
@@taylorc9212 Lol cmon gurl. This must be a simple normal behave. If u go out with all guys around, it is another word to call it ! Cmon !!!
Lol I agree. Girls sometimes have a bad habit of putting their own pussies on a pedestal as if that’s the best thing they have to offer 🙄
First mistake you told him so now he is being a perfect angel until he gets the cookie. I don’t even think she understands why the 90 day rule is important, she’s just doing cause uncle Steve said so
Very good point!!!!!! I felt the same way.
So True sis🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
Exactly
Should we blame uncle steve? Hell no.
Some people decide to have sex on the first day or date and then the person that we thought was the one ends up leaving us. I think the 90 day rule is very important. It's something I definitely wish I had implemented more because I've had guys sweet talk me for a month then gave it up because I felt something and he bounced out of my life. But it's each to their own. Every person has the right to decide what they want to do with their bodies.
she's so proud that she come on national TV and informs everyone she's giving up her so called prized cookie? WTF?
shan681. As we all see, hers is not that prized!
This woman is dumb 🙄 why come on tv to tell this to the world?
I know 😂🤣.
😂😩😅😆😂
Her cookie stinks
You were not supposed to tell the guy about the 90 days. Smh. How foolish can she be? The guy could just be waiting for the 90th day to reach to hit it and leave. Use your brain lady.
Exactly! stupid
Its only because she wants it just as badly as any man. She wants sex and she forced herself to hold back by using that rule. Its not about the man, its the only way she can show self control which is pathetic because there's nothing wrong with enjoying sex regardless of gender or sexuality
Uh YES there IS something wrong with enjoying sex. It's called unplanned pregnancy, sexually transmitted disease, and date rape...
It's not different than driving a CAR.. yes it CAN be fun but you need to have the MATURITY to MANAGE yourself with intelligence and care.
THIS girl just outright TELLS the dude in Ninety days she will have sex with him which demonstrates shes NOT got a good head on her shoulders for this business yet.
There is fun with sex, but there is ALSO something called good JUDGEMENT... one without the other is a SERIOUS problem.
aah no the guy would be stupid if he does that if he got to wait 90 days for a one night stand he might as well go for another chick
If a fool wait 90 days to just hit and quit a chick hes a whole goofy
The thing is, as soon as rules are put in place for a relationship, it no longer feels special. Both agreeing to wait until marriage is one thing, but giving him a test and rewarding him with sex after 90 days is degrading, and a huge red flag for me.
Cringed as soon as she started talking about it. So uncomfortable.
@@AlexanderWebster_ Yes very much so, Lord have mercy 🙄🙄😱
I think it's the Godly thing to do to refrain from having sex until after you're married, but the reward shouldn't be just for him, it should be for her too, if they love & respect each other & want to please God!
She's like a lot of these women - trying to figure.out how to manipulate men into marriage. Like it's the 1800s. Problem is, the world has changed since then. Women sleep around, men are not as pressured by social convention or law.
While almost anyone might be manipulated into some sort of activity that violates their moral code, if any, it usually only works for a matter of hours or days. This is how men can bed women fairly easily, but women can't get those guys to marry them.
In the 1800s, men would marry a woman if he got caught with her or she got pregnant, to avoid scandal or even jail. Breach of promise suits were invented to force men to marry women they slept with.
These things no longer exist or are greatly diminished. You can't guilt or sue a man into marrying anymore. And any court punishment will be less trouble than marriage.
The “cookie” comes on the wedding night
Science has found a food that destroys a woman's libido. It is called wedding cake. In today's world bedroom fun is happening less and less on the wedding night, let alone afterward.
LMAO Um most women obviously aren’t virgins until they’re married and you’re not a virgin so what are you talking about??? 90 days is a long time to make a guy wait for sex.
@@michellepaul8514 First of all we have to change the expectations.
Day 91...she s single again !!
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Lol usery will happen because of these type of silly woman.
😂😂😂 thats wat I du to thm
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I tried the 90 day rule, mine lasted 2 weeks. We're married now. Lol
Congrats girl.
90 days, not 90 hours... Congrats!
Exactly how it should be done. Forget these rules that will leave people forever single.
The thing is that you did it and showed what type of person your husband is. The number of days doesn't matter
It lasted 2 weeks because he passed the test. Good for you
No 90 days for me, he will get the cookie on the wedding night! Saving myself for marriage I'm 28 so far so good. 😁
Girl tell me ALL about it. Yes, agreed. 🥰👏🏾💃🏾
You are stupid. Simple.
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heyyyy same here girl! saving it for marriage!
Or was he saving himself from you till marriage?
She waiting he’s NOT
Truth.
I think that sometimes Women talk too much. Just because her belief is the 90-day rule, doesn't mean she has to disclose that to him. That's a personal choice that she should keep to herself. She needs to determine if they're in an exclusive, monogamous relationship. Determine where they are. Like Steve said, he could be just waiting for the 90-day rule is over and his true colors to show.
+Jeannette Marie And be gone after the 91st day!
+Jeannette Marie
Guys, be logical about this. What "hit it and quit it" guy is going to wait 90 days for this? Sex isn't so rare and precious that he has to put up with some girl making him "earn" a natural, loving, bonding act. The whole thing is messed up. She shouldn't treat sex like some amazing incredible award she has to give. His "true colours" can come out 10 years from now. Sex isn't the issue. And personally, I'd respect a woman less who thinks that's the main thing she has to offer me. And after the "gift" is given? What then? It's just messed up. You guys are wayyyy too concerned about sex and its implications. You need to be worried about how you treat the man and how the man treats you, regardless of sex.
Well if he doesn't treat me with the love and respect I require, then he will get no sex. Sex should not be so damn special but to a woman it is.
+Vana Phill
That's my point, actually. If you want to hold on to a man and be treated with love and respect, it's not going to be about sex. He will do that based on his personality and your actions, whether you give sex on the 3rd date or the 3rd month. Sex is special. There's no point in trying to deprive everyone from it when it's not even what actually matters most.
The point of the 90 day rule is to get women to stop giving it up so quickly. Steve knows there are higher priorities than sex. This rule is there to point out that very fact.
The 90 day rule is there to weed out sleazebags and to make women wait longer.
There is nothing wrong with advising women to wait longer in order to weed out sleazebags. He is NOT suggesting you HAVE to have sex on day 90. He's just saying wait til at LEAST day 90. He is just not very good at explaining this reasoning. I DO get what he's getting at, but this girl has no idea. The fact that she disclosed her 90 day strategy to the guy proves just how naive and NOT ready she is for sex with anyone yet. She needs to keep her pants on until she wises up a bit more.
I don't understand how she could put her personal business on blast like this
Baller shot I find it amazing she found a guy willing to go along with her 90 day rule and then goes on TV questioning her man's ability to hold an errection right before the times up. Hope her fella takes this as a warning sign.
Me either hell no lol
Um obviously everyone know that she’s going to sleep with men she dates.
Lack of moral compass.
He's been getting the cookie from someone else and as soon as he gets it from her, he's gonna bounce.
You don’t know that.
After 90 days he will be like 'thanks, it was great. See you'.
He's passing with flying colors, not caring to wait 90 days. He's not so excited, umm sounds like he's getting it somewhere else.
Or maybe he's lost interest
Hes supposed to be giddy over some sex or he’s cheating? Damn, it’s a lose lose situation for men out here
Or that she’s just killed the excitement by testing him with a 90 day wait in the first place.
MsSamStudent exactly
Yeah from his hands 😂 mafuckas beating themselves to death.
If he doesn't care about it, he's probably getting it from somewhere else.
+Leondra Fair The End. She's all by her lonesome on that 90 day nonsense.
maybe but don't always think that
Leondra Fair yeah, we're gonna get ours regardless. I think this a bad way to start. Test, games, resentment, maturity.
Leondra Fair agreed☝️
Ismael Ausua I haven't had it in my 19 yrs of life and you caint even wait 90 days? Shame
I've been on somewhat of a Steve Harvey binge with these videos and it makes me want to go to a taping of his show it seems like so much fun 😆
I can't stop laughing at Steve...
The girl obviously can't wait for the 90 days to finally arrive.
I can tell she already bought her lingerie and everything....
Okay and ?!!!! Ur crusty
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From her demeanor, I inferred that she was a typically sex addicted modern woman. I also assumed from the same that she was actually celibate during this dating process.
If I can see this just from watching her online, most guys prob can in person. If this man she's dating can't see it, he's likely very inexperienced, maybe a virgin. That might be the only kind of man who will play this kind of game with this kind of woman.
The thing is, 90 days is not long enough to get to know each other and once sex starts, any effort to get to know each other gets hampered by that. Just adds to the confusion, especially with an inexperienced person
I am an actual relationship counselor in training. ladies and gents, let me tell you something. 90days is NOT enough time to get to know a person. Putting people on probation is not a guarantee. and stop trying to change people's relationship values. you will fail every time. we need to learn how to discuss our expectations and be real when a person shows their truth. Steve's advice is not a one size fits all. respect is however. it takes a minimum of two years to get to know a person. and trust, you need every bit of it to see who someone is. its easy to maintain a lie for 3mos. its rough to do it for 2yrs. be friends with people and stop looking for a relationship so hard
SuperPhdiva true! some people will lie for a lifetime if you allow them to lead the relationship and let your emotions rule your decisions.
SuperPunch76 yeah that's true also.
SuperPhdiva good point!! Thanks for this.
This advice is so real.
+YourHomieHenry Right?
Performance issues? 🤦🏾♀️ She seems more worried about sex than actually getting to know this guy. And why tell him?? That was really dumb.
She missed the whole point of the rule...and it seems harvey did too here 😅
He obviously liked her, you stay with someone for 90 days that you hate just to bang them.
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She is talking to him on the phone all the time, didn’t you hear her? That’s getting to know one another.
Lmao if she waited 90 days and she gonna leave him for “performance issues” then she wasted her own damn time! 😂😂
M. Harvey's expression @0:17 is just PERFECT.
The best part about these questions is the extra that Steve puts into it. He had me laughing so hard there are the end with the cookie business!
Hello dear , how are you doing?
He's not excited BECAUSE you've been waiting 90days........he hasn't! Lol it's a regular day to him boo.
Preach.
I wonder if he gets a chocolate advent calendar? Then on the 90th day he opens it and a durex falls out with a time and place printed on the door? 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣
B K hu
True.
Amen somebody!!!
Hahahah. She thinks he's been waiting.....
ikr!!
Lol 😂😂😂 Men Always Find A Way To Get The Cookie Else Where Trust Me💯💯💯💯
She so stupid!!
Absolutely! The 90 day rule is for you women. A N#*%@ aint gone wait no 90 days just cause some female iz....
@@bgrod3205 for real 😁
Steve's facial expressions crack me up. 😂
Steve is the best! He's really fine tuned his humor, he finds the funny in everything 😄.
The point is not to wait 90 days so you can sleep with someone. It is about taking time to get to know a person and what is in his heart. People are so confused. I'm glad he told her that it is not about the 90 days. She's lost.
Yeah
They're dense. It's pathetically comical!
She acts and sounds like she's at her limit of celibacy. She's probably addicted to regular sex and she'll go crazy if he turns her down. This 90 day rule is pointless. Will I think shes not a 304 if she makes me wait? Esp if I know she did other guys sooner?
Sounds like this relationship is costing him more than its worth. At 26 and presumably little experience, he probably doesn't realize it yet.
im bothered. was she looking at the calendar to see if 90 days was up? cmon now.I mean steve said 90 days but honestly its a time to get to know someone not to count the days to have sex . feels weird the way she put it.
He is using the 90 day rule as a guideline. But too many people just don't seem to get it. This chick in particular. She FOOLISHLY DISCLOSES her 90 day strategy to the guy!
I think Steve suggests the 90 day rule just to have something out there in place that's specific for women. I honestly think 90 days is too soon for most women. THIS girl in particular. If you are as naive as THIS girl you need to be waiting ten years. lol
+Steve D yea I agree
+Steve D lol
I agree and get you. You're saying it's anecdotal. "90 days" is just saying get to know the person
😂😂😂 45 more sleeps till freak in the sheets time. 🤣🤣🤣 Hell no I would be moving on from her for having such a stupid rule. I rather have sex when we are both 100% ready and happy with each other.
She's using the "90 day rule" as a test that she's enforcing on him... and then pre judging the guy because he's not excited about her rewarding him like a good puppy.
Gross, eh? She's doing it because she got bad advice, but I guess she'll have to learn the hard way.
Actually really boils my blood.
So obviously its the greatest gift to him!!!
You're NOT SUPPOSED TO TELL HIM ABOUT IT DUMMY!!!' 🙄🙄🙄
Now you don’t even know if he sincerely wants to be with you. That "rule", is to protect you!
Exactly this!!!
what is this all about: sex is not " the ultimate prize" .... you are not " together" just because you both had sex.
what kind of beta male is he if she just waits 90 days and calls you every day and invest so much time into the relationship if he just wants sex? You don´t want that kind of guy as your partner...that would be your dog. The rule is about your decision: if you sleep with somebody, you are never sure what the otherone is thinking.: thats part of live.for you sex seems to be a " currency"... for good bahaviour? I feel really sorry for you that you don´t enjoy sex for your own. :) be a "sinner"....sleep with him at day 88.....be a bad girl :)
ButterFlyy Gyrl’s World Exactly!!
Someone gets it! The lady is back at square one now of not knowing dudes intentions. 90 days is just a minimum amount of time to wait, not the deadline!
"it's gon be cookies crumbling on day 90" 😂😂😂 OMG Steve a fool
Lol omg cookies in the ass tray lmao
Bruce Mj 😂😂 I wonder how the cookie day went now
cookies on the tablecloth 😂😂😂
Lmao im weak
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Killin the spontaneity
THANK YOU
He could just be pretending just to get it. All she should have said was "I'm waiting for the right time" A true gentleman and man who ain't thirsty will wait.
A true gentleman (AKA a high value male) will only wait for a high value female....everything about going on this show and talking about your "cookie" screams low value female.
Love the last sentence. It's so dignified
@@mkd3351 facts!!!
@Majidah Smith, M.A Yeah sounds like loser talk to me
These women are the types who have nothing else to offer but a vagina.
he's not excited because he's getting it from somewhere else in the meantime...
It's what I would do. Can't put a time limit on something like that. It's all based on attraction, chemistry, etc.
Danielle, I was saying the same thing.
Yup... I'd do the exact same
Great advice Unc
I love Steve Harvey
She said he passing the test with flying colors, Steve Harvey got all these women thinking they're professors out here... smh lol
😂😂😂
I wonder what test she is talking about? 😒🤐😒
If he was excited, she would be totally turned off...
LordHollow ongggg
True true true
Game rules 101 here
This man is amazing.
The man is not that excited about it. Then, he's not really into you.
Can you blame him? I mean this chick plays a game and tests with a grown man... and let him wait for 90 days... sorry but every person will lose interests period.
She trying to rebrand the cookie, but at the end of the day it's still the same ole cookie.
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@@thebotfather9508 🤣
@@UnitedPacci 😂
@Jordan Brendmoen Wtf are you responding to me for? What buzzwords did I used to shut somebody up? Privilege? You don't even know anything about my lifestory and what I've been through. What are you even talking about?
I was gone laugh at initial comment until i seen this stupid argument ☝️ and got thrown off
Steve's slight facial expressions ARE priceless/but his comic professional wit is priceless.
Steve Harvey The Legend
you awsome steve 🐾🐾
You know some women need to get over themselves
Sex is not a gift you give to someone after they pass some test
Hes not a dog, hes a human being treat him like one
Sex is something you have with someone because you want to.
If you do it for any other reason you are making a mistake.
You are not as special as you think, he could be having it out there while waiting for those 90 days
Stop using sex as a tool it will backfire
*some men too
Sex isn’t something you should give to a man unless he is treating you right. And if a man doesn’t think a woman is special then you definitely shouldn’t give them sex. 🤦🏻♀️ LMAO
@@michellepaul8514 you are not giving him anything
You are both having sex together, its not like women don't like having sex and it's something they do just for men, if thats how you view sex with him then you shouldn't be with him, , its not a gift.
Yes you shouldn't have sex with someone who treats you horribly
But both men and women deserves feel special to their partners that's not really the issue here
Clap everyone clap this man is a hero among men
Amen, you tell these nut cases. I’m watching this whole thing like it’s an alternate reality. Honestly, people are delusional.
Why would you tell him he has 90 days to wait???🙄🙄🙄👎🏽👎🏽👎🏽.... of course he’s going to be on his best behavior!!!! Umm....it’s called “waiting you out”! 🤦🏽♀️. Anyway good luck with that!!!
Love Steve.
Uncle Steve is funny as hell 🤣 😂
Lol @ a 90 day rule. Women are better off waitin till marriage, seriously.
Agreed. The 90-day rule is a joke.
Agreed. The 90-day rule is a joke.
Agreed. The 90-day rule is a joke.
+Rick Rijuana Beats But will men wait till marriage?
+Vana Phill Some men will or a woman will definitely find out who really wants her over just sex.......
Dang on that 91st day that man will move on. Next. The true test is if he waits til marriage.
Wait till marriage. Did she make the other guys do that?
Candy xoxo 91st day??? Try the 1ST day with this feminist b.s.
MGTOW
and who is testing who than? just because you have a vagina doen´st make you a teacher.
Best answer.
Yes that's the true test. Only the strong survive
Steve's face is hilarious 😂
Hey Steve was great, it could be show by itself
dude already getting some cookie on the side..
She looks like her cookie is crumbling.
lmbo ...that was so bad yet so funny.
Fabrice Faho lol
😂
Fabrice Faho--You wish you could get that cookie, huh?
Ouuuuu lmao
The afterwards comments from Steve are the funniest part of his words of advice.
So funny , luv it
What if he gets the cookie and leaves the next day.
😃😊😃😊
Olgales
Men just want sex
Like Steve said.
They will wait for awhile,
Then boom.
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@Ruben Ruvalcaba ... when a "man" is looking for just sex, he can easily find it.....red light district.
Lisa
Do you mean
Prostitutes.
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Or she's bad at it. Possible. Just saying...
We men say the same thing about marriage.
Virgins have left the chat
Steve was hilarious on this one😂 I wouldn’t have told the bf though, he’s definitely just waiting. But I hope it worked out.
You were so rightnabout that young woman. She is so eager.
90 days is not long enough....
Baby nobody's waiting 90 days maybe on you but there's that side piece in the meantime he's practicing on DAILY 😂
True player Big L lol
True and I know better then that! But I won't be mad, as long he don't make it known or pressure me about it. I consider when I give him the cookie he's officially my men in my eyes. I want to do it on my time.
gabrielle lawrence your cookie is crumbs by the time he waits. Timing is everything trust you gut feeling not your pride
BIG- L i don't believe in the 90 day rule. But I do believe in getting to know that person. It really depends on the attraction and chemistry frfr. But I fall into the 6-8 month mark DONT JUDGE ME BIG L!
Goodnight
if it takes 6 to 8 months to touch that you must be a lonely chic ain't no man waiting on you for 6/8 months you fooling yourself. He may say hello in January n come back in August 😂😂
Keep making him earn it! YES. This is so funny. Yeah, girls, respect yourself! Don't be stupid and give away the cookie too soon. I love this.
Hello dear , how are you doing?
Steve got me laughing 😅😂
Easy to last 90 days. He just seein other women while waiting for you
Jason Chicoine yes 😂
Golden rule !!! Haah... I am from another Continent, but the rules still the same !!! Haha ☝️👏👏
Facts
That's real talk
It makes sense though
Cookie crumbling everywhere 😂
3:11 the guy on the right sitting beside his wife/gf is trying to control his laughter so hard...omg🤣🤣🤣
Oh she shouldn’t have told him. You doing great Steve… watching from Ghana🇬🇭
The 90 day rule should be anecdotal. A mere figure of speech for GETTING TO KNOW SOMEONE. You do not have to wait a full 3 calander months to figure out if you want this person or not. You should be adults. Make your decisions and go on with life. I didn't wait 90 days for my wife and guess what, she wasn't gonna wait 90 days for me either. She gave me the cookie the first day. 8 years later I'm still here and we still strong. So it's just to get to know the person. You're gonna do what you feel you need or want so let's not be naive to your feelings. If you're gonna have sex, be responsible and come to a understanding. Most of all, enjoy it. Intimacy is rare between people. Sex is everyday. Love is common. But no one shows intimacy anymore. I showed my wife intimacy on day one. 2 kids later, and she's still the most beautiful person to me.
If she gave it so fast to you, what makes you think she isn't giving it to somebody else behind your back? Because you are special? Hahaha, bless your soul.
@@antonijajuric2249 but what about the guy? If he slept with her after only one day thn what will stop him from cheating on her?
Antonija Jurić that doesn’t make her a cheater.
This is so beautiful. May your marriage continue to be as special for you and your wife. 🙂
This is very beautiful, you are good grown up men with the right values!
I ♥️ Steve - he's intelligent, caring, funny, and tells it like it is!!
Though I don't like him on the game show, I love the way he answer's questions from the hip.
That's my man,you never disappoint 😂 there's gonna be so much Cookie
Keep your physical intimacy for marriage, soulties and baggage you can spare yourself lots of them. Be blessed
Well said!
its not the 1950's. men not doing that anymore.
@@thebotfather9508 Some do.
@Psalms121 its always new christians that try to shove their religion down people's throats. i bet you've been a christian for no more than 6 months 😂
@@thebotfather9508 Not every man is a prime misogynist looking to abuse and misuse women -- even in 2020, your view is NOT representative
Her wig gotta go! It’s finna be 91 if she don’t toss that wig! 😂🤣
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She's gorgeous, may not be the best wig out there but she looks good.
Lmfao I couldn't help but look at it every time they showed her I'm like "omg girl remove the wig" 🤦♀️
Yea,, it’s aging her
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😆😆😆 Yall nosey.. I just can't wait see him. I remember Amir's hugs.🥰
Layin Low
"We will get in some bushes with some camouflage on ....n wait for hours and hours and hours!" LMAOOO oh gawdddddddd
Most men are getting it from somewhere else already, before they meet.you. and will continue until they decide if they want to be with you. Your not supposed to reveal your test.
Right she through me off saying that! Like trick forreal you think be being waiting for that ass faithfully?
If she told him that there was a 90-day wait then thats not a test, it's just probation. As they say this isn't the 1950s anymore. A man doesn't necessarily have to cheat as there are many other options such as *free* pornography to supplement his sexual desires.
True, happened to me. Waited with me til after the wedding, meanwhile carried on an affair with a married woman.
@@luanntexascitizen4345 did you divorce?
Most women can get it almost anywhere anytime and often are .
90 day rule is nothing mine has been waiting for four years 😂
Amen!
Chicks are crazy, 90 days lmao. Dude is gettin some on the side.
This awesome girl back in the day made me wait 14 days and today she's my wife been together 14 years can't live by cookie cutter guidelines! If it takes 90 days for you to feel comfortable so be it but if it take 80, 60, 20 etc...then that's good for you. Any man would pass that test knowing it's a test...
90 days and 1 second
Guy : my final form is about to be revealed
Or maybe he’s a good guy.
Why do they give themselves so easily? i wish they gave themselves the VALUE and RESPECT they deserve
I Love steve 😂
I think rules are for football games. Trust your common sense and gut feeling. When time is right, don't cage your passion into a "rule". Rules can never save you from disappointment. Trying to build a relationship is not fail-proof. Be aware of it, deal with it and if it fails - get over it. Embrace the experience you made and move on. Some people come into your life as blessings, some come as lessons.
Just an opinion :)
B well y'all.
The "right time," is the "wrong time," bc it's just hormones talking. The infatuation phase needs to pass before making that decision.
Edit: Sorry, I didn't realize your post was 2 years old.
Well said. Just go with the flow. If there is something great. If there isn’t, move on. There isn’t any toolkit to dating. And just because you’re married, it doesn’t mean you achieved anything. That’s why it’s wrong to say congratulations. Best wishes is a more accurate response as I would say that to single dating and married people.
“Already got it planned...”, announced it on national television like every normal person does...🤣
This is sooo good!!! 🤣
Its good to tell a man this like I did so they know you are serious. It empowered me actually because I was not afraid of them retaliating for being dumped cuz they were far warned. By day 60 I moved on and found my husband. Had I not done what Steve said, I would have missed meeting my husband.
something about this whole thing makes me feel sick
Love Steve, he always makes me smile.
Out of respect: she's desperate. Must. Find. Herself. First.
She's doing this for him... please, imma pray for girls like this.
This is an "Ask Steve" I would've *loved* an update on.