Ask Steve: How to get a man || STEVE HARVEY
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- čas přidán 13. 12. 2016
- A woman has a crush on her child’s teacher.
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am i the only one, thinking that dating the teacher of your daughter is a really bad idea?
this can only cause problems.
The daughter is only going to be in that grade for one year.
@@NewEyes25 In Norway we had the same teacher from the 1st to the 4th grade, then the same from 4th to 7th and then 8th to 10th was the same, so in total I had 3 teachers in elementary school, which is 10 years in Norway.
I thought Steve would tell her that like mom you can’t go else where
But who knows? She could actually find love??? You never know where and how you can and will find love. 💯💯💯It's worth the risk. You've got to take the chance.
@@OriginalPuro She's in the U.S.A though so she's good. In this country, we have the same teacher for one year.
just because he is good with kids for his job doesn't mean he would be good with your kid on a personal level
She's obviously very thirsty lol lookin at her kids teacher.
Also, just because he's good with kids, doesn't mean he wants to get with a single mother and someone else's kids. Let the man live a successful, fulfilling life and enjoy his wealth. A lot of us just want to be left alone, we love being single to do as we please, talk to who we want, and go where we want without someone getting in the way of that. MGTOW!
ltsallwood true
And to add on that. He's getting paid to do all that..
She sounds desperate.
Doesnt mean he would be bad with her kid either, She only said he was good with kids, not that he will be good with her kid.
Just because he's not wearing a ring DOES NOT mean he's not married!
#princewilliamdoesnotwearaweddingring
that is true
Louisa Byrd you got point nkt everyone does n nkt for wrong reasons
And why not wear his ring in the first place?
That was not the point
If a man is in a relationship, you don’t want him! “How you get him is how you lose him”!
That’s right cause a relationship always ends in marriage....NOT. Don’t be naive. Men are always in a relationship...even if the woman is the only one that sees it that way.
Not necessarily you might be what he’s looking for
I was married but on paper only, you see as l found out he was in heavy porn and he started cheating with called girls prostitution and then he got to close and started cheating with a woman in the church, he was kicked out of the church said he was done he was going to change but it didn’t he continued and continued his unfaithfulness I kept hoping finding out he was never ever committed to me! 34 years and I emotionally snapped I don’t think I’ll ever remarry again I have not even had a date I did everything I could to be the best wife the best mother to look the best I would run exercise keep my figure in good shape but it didn’t matter! Yeah better get to know that man I guess I have to just Have God is the only void in my life I get very lonely no dates no nothing I’ve never been asked and I guess that’s OK
That's right!
he just answered the lady's plea and how can she get it. but you're right.
I give up I feel very comfortable alone this is too much pressure,
Girl. And it's too many rules to remember.
I can’t even .Staying single is easier
I say just try to go by what you feel is right for you. Forget about the rules, just let it flow, but it never hurts to learn about how the male mind works how they are triggered and understand their language, yet I don't believe holding yourself short cause of some silly rules that if anything should apply more for young women, not for women over +35, is not the way to go. That would be depriving yourself cause of some ridiculous rules...setup mostly by men. Now, if you're not ready or don't feel comfortable...that's a whole different story.
Be confident, strong, and take responsibility for your sexuality...Be empowered. If a man belittles you for whatever reason due to what society has implanted into his system (he let it happened), then he is not worth your time. He hasn't educated himself to understand women of the 21st century nor to respect women for their worth as a person and NOT value her by her sexual experiences. Especially if you have acted responsibly in that field, within reason.
Lmao 😂
I think you should just let it go as it is
“Act like a lady think like a man!” Don’t chase a man. Ever!
Don't expect a lot of men to be chasing women.
Pay, sex and leave.
Then be as single mother with 3 kids
lots of good smart men have taken the red pill these days due to feminists, metoo movements and what not, so good luck to you.
And thats why ur single
If you don't chase we assume your not interested
“Let him see what he can get, let him imagine what he can have.” - Steve Harvey ✨
Got it 🤔😁
Steve has an incredible amount of life experience and wisdom. He is very intelligent.
Steve can be so extra sometimes 😂 Love him !
Lol totally agree
I lost it with the cookie 😂
If he's seeing someone already how about you respect his relationship and find someone else?
He's using the term seeing someone rather than in a relationship. Seeing someone does not mean relationship. I think that's the angle, not him telling her she should try to take him out of a relationship
idomagirl abahi Seeing someone doesn't necessarily equal a relationship. The man could just be dating. Dating does not necessarily equal a relationship either. So it will be up to the man to tell her whether or not he's just dating or in a "committed" relationship. Then if he is in fact in a "committed" relationship the young lady should move on.
idomagirl abahi 🙌🙌🙌🙌
Yesss
hello
"Let him see what
He can get but
Let him imagine
What he can have
The hunter in us is
Triggered by that
And if you can
Delay the giving.."
Let's him see what he can get? I don't understand see what? Get?
@@blingblingcrystal1938 I thought 'get' is the woman he can get
Ngan Kimmie see who she is internally by talking to her ....getting her intellectually
I dont quite understand what that statement mean? What he is trying to say. What if he's not interested in her?🤷♀️
Let him see what he can get, but « let him imagine what he can have » here it means trust him enough to give her intimacy « cookie » to that man.
My strategy all the way and it WORKED. I've been happily married 6.5 years and counting. Yes ladies the strategy does work and I'm living proof.
The egg doesn't swim to the cell
Don't you know that he might be see this show !!!
Best comment👏🏾
faho0ody wbas I thought the same thing too! Lol
...that's her idea, she wants him to know
That would make it easy for the woman, plus she’s obviously not afraid if she’s approaching him. #Confidence
@@nedudee7861 exactly
I'm going to present to you another option... I'm going to let you see what you can get and I'm going to make you imagine what you can have... THE HUNTER IN MEN IS TRIGGERED BY THAT... WOW!!! That was deep.
I really don't agree with this one. You shouldn't assume that they are indeed INVOLVED and still continue to tempt and break up the relationship you assume they have. Present yourself to the "hunter" if you assume that he's single but NOT if you assume that he's taken because that means you have a homewrecking mentality and is clearly disrespectful towards their relationship or really down playing it when that might not be the case for them. A respectable wholesome woman does not tempt a taken man especially knowing how possessive and jealous we can and tend to be.
Ok? 💜👌🏻💯
The problem of sinlge moms is looking for a father for their kids instead of a partner. That's why they run away. If he's good to you, he'll be good to your kids.
That’s not always true, are you a single mom?
Well the problem is that for a Man it's not in our preference to get with someone that had already a strong back sotrie
@@xsbbx5191 ??
@@GypsyRock à Man is the leader of the house hold, the problem is that is going to get in a family that is already established and he has to lead it, but if the mom doesn't give him the right thé kids will not and he's most likely going to live in a home that is not his in some sens, for exemple let say thé kid is doing something bad he can't decipline him because the mom would be like "don't tuch my kid" not all the Time but most of time that what happend so it takes to much work without really a hight chance of sucess so Man préfer someone that doesn't have a backgroud already and get a fresh start with them
@@xsbbx5191 ask any long time married man if he or his wife is the leader of the household. He will say his wife, because it's true. Many men know this, you currently don't. Those who do and are serious and ready about kids in a grown up way, do not mind if the lady already has a child. She should absolutely look for someone like that.
Break it down Uncle Steve 😂
Right? I yelled "PREACH" bout a hundred times! #Slay Steve
Alright Steve
I was a teacher and , I had parents interested in me…. I wouldn’t cross the line and date a parent, because it can get tricky 💁🏾♀️
Hello 👋👋👋
It would be very unprofessional for a teacher to date their pupils parents. In certain circumstances where you know the person socially it's different but if they see the school gate as a dating pool it would become a very awkward place very quickly.
Alarai Lun True. When I was teaching, we were warned to not fraternize with the parents. Dating my student's parent was taboo.
She could date him after the daughter moves up a grade and changes to another teacher
And if it is for marriage or something serious? It's because today everyone goes to the bedroom before marriage that relationships became not serious and dating became shameful in some curcumstances. Personally I think that one can date everyone if it is for some serious staff (or to get information at least, to see if the person convenes you).
I thought the same thing. And depending how willing they are to date a parent begs the question of how many other parents have they “dated”.
Furthermore how does that play out for your daughter in the long run. Follow your instincts , like you said you don’t want to seem crazy and desperate
My mom dated my history teacher when I was in 9th grade. Then when I went to college HE pursued me! YUCK! He wanted to take me to various countries.
I was maybe 19 and politely and firmly told him that was not ever going to be possibilty.
Why do i feel that Steve just tells them what the girls wanna hear
That was my same thought as well 🤔
Not always. He isn't afraid of being honest with women.
😂😂😂
Damn that’s a really nice suit Steve 🔥
Wow this man speaks the truth!
Steve is living on Mars. With all the divorces out there, of course, there are single 40+-year-old men out there trying to figure it out. Sheesh.
True
I think what he means is that many are still have "relations" with someone until they find someone they truly want 🤷🏾♀️
True, not everyone over 40 who is single is allergic to relationships
I agree with you.
my.sister got divorced the beginning of this year. started dating her twin boys basketball coach. then three months last is dating the second grade teacher. then a few months later she's bopped her way to a 4th grade teacher. Date a teacher. but don't sleep with half the school!
lol..and you bet they tell stories about your sis too..oh no
Well, dang! Tell all your sisters business, will you? LOL
What a nasty sibling you must be
Shayne Harvey I dont believe her sister did all that..she chic probaly was trying to sleep with sister's man and got caught now she is bitter!
I have five sisters and I would never ever bad mouth them even if we had a rocky relationship. You are wrong to insult your sister like this. We only have your side of the story.
Clearly something is broken within you to be this hateful towards your sister. I am shocked what kind sibling are you
This is the first time I REALLY did not like the answer. Just because he is not married does NOT mean he is fair game. She doesn't know if he is so he is fair game now... but if he is in a relationship he should be left alone.
Amanda Jade Holtz ...if you were a hunter, would you care whether the deer has a female/male or fawns. Or would you just want to taste their flesh.
Amanda Jade Holtz . Hi
To be honest, I was also shocked and disappointed at Steve Harvey's answer.
i usually like his answers, but this one sounds like he's lowkey telling women to be homewreckers
@@lang-ed3bk if someone not married but he talking to someone then you don’t chase him or provoke him but if he chase you then technically you not doing anything wrong
Steve, you r a nice person helping all women no matter what age, what background or what situation. Thank u !!!
I would make sure the man is actually single before I do any stupid move. I won’t ever go after a man in a relationship let alone married, I don’t care how good or bad his relationship is, he’s still in it. I am totally convinced doing so is very low.
Ooh ! Her daughter's teacher?
This was sooooo clutch! I love it!
Steve Harvey you the man when it comes to advice
This was the same situation with my current husband... I was 43 divorced-he was 47 divorced but with a girlfriend. A friend thought we would be good together-am values, the same interests. She set us up at line dancing ( shared interest.) . For three months we circled each other..no one making the move. It turns out he had been seeing someone for 4 years...that he never intended to marry as they had never once talked about anything serious! (Hard for me to imagine!) He said it was just convenient for him....It took him three months to let her down slowly and then we began to see one another. We got serious very quickly and were married a year and a half later.
So your advice is woman shouldnt chase a man, love will come along as it is set to be? I really want to know. Not picking a quarrel. Thank you
@@moneysfan I believe that if a man has not determined in his heart that you are worth the chase, you will do all you want and he will never see you as a catch. There's something in us men that is triggered when we find a lady that is not just there to occupy space and time but one who can beat companion
He is awesome with this advice!!
also when they break up she will try to get him fired. he dont want her
Steve is the best dressed man on TV. I'm fan from Puerto Rico and I'll love to go to a show and get to know him.
Amazing suits sir!!!! Perfect cuts.
Steven you on point with this one yessss
Thank you Steve
Merry Christmas to the happy couple!
Thank you Sir
I love Steve lol he is hilarious
Amazing thanks
Steve Harvey is the best!!!
Good job Steve always 😊👍
Have mercy!
Great advice
The 90 day Steve has going is unpredictable, a player would watch this and know how to act upon it.
Love is not in a book ,someone's story, study, but within one's experience..
Everyone has a different story, never know how yours will begin or end..
Aaawww thank you.needed to hear this😘
@@lethaboberenice1272 gosh you are so pretty.
Steve is the best
Nick Tekweme 9
I love you Steve! Great answer!✅
Steve is great
Love Steve's outfit beautiful tie
I say if he is interested He will let her know. Even if he is 40 I believe he knows who he wants by now. Don't ever show a man that you are chasing him, but let him pursue you, ladies. Otherwise, men will not respect a lady who runs him down. He looks at her as being too easy. Respect ourselves and men will respect us.
@Rosetta Jones I agree 100% with everything you said. Women have to stop being desperate and thirsty and let the guys pursue us. If you’ve already been around a guy and he’s seen you then he’s had opportunity to pursue you and if he didn’t it’s likely because he’s just not interested in you
He’s so right!!!
Nice one
Omg! Steve is SO wise!!! 💕
I love this suite Steve
I'd love an update on this one! Great advice Steve!!!
that girl gonna get A+😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣
This hurt to hear but I needed to hear this 🥲
My favorite person steve
That is the thing we us women. We need to date and date often. Don’t set your eyes on one man. Go out meet people. Show how lovely you are. You don’t always need to date a guy you like in the physical area. You can go out and share. Just save your best for the one you really like.
Why go out w anyone you're not interested in? What's the point? Just using him. You could go get dinner or go out on your own.
I love Steve's outfit😍
That was good Steve
That suit sharp 🔥
Preach Steve!! Haven't given the cookie 🍪 in 3 years! That was an awesome message
Three years later what's up m
That cookie must have spider webs
4 years cookie check,
@@toreibowe4262 lol 😂
@@toreibowe4262 not if u treat it right
Preach!
Read his book - a good book" Act like a lady think like a man". He is so funny
All the women in the world could look at that man but Steve fails to realize that there's only one soulmate and that could have been her. If you walk around saying that every man you're interested in must be married or has a girlfriend you will never give yourself a chance to meet the one that might be for you.
Yes Harvey
Love u Steve
Steve crimson and cream suit is sooo on point.
I love uncle Steve man!🥺
Amazing! TaDa! 🔐🥳🤞🏼
Steve logic is flawed sometimes there are plenty of single 40 year old men
jay_rael well said. Id also say that men in their 40s who aren't in a serious relationship are very discerning. Been there done that. It better be awesome lol. (There's also plenty of married men who don't wear a wedding ring)
well bring him to me then. 😂
+Justice Butler . exactly
jay_rael no he said there is no single 40 year old man that don't have it together that's what he said
jay_rael Yep something wrong
Preach it Steve I got involved with with a man who is too perfect and he ended up being married
I want an update on this one!
Hello 👋👋👋
As a teacher myself….I would NEVER date a parent of one of my students.
Maybe once they are out of my classroom. But not while they are still my student.
Bingo!
That was great(:
I love this man🙌😂
well said Steve Harvey 😄👍
Steve just all out here!
You need a box of beer & a lassoo. That's it. or chloroform & cable ties🤣😂🤣
I'm so going to be reading my book again
I love you the Steve Harvey show so much 💋❣️💋❣️💋❣️💋💋❣️❣️❤️❤️😙😙😙
Let him see what he can get, let him imagine what he can have, delay and value yourself, we do need advices from man indeed.
What does it means pls?😄🤦♀️
I'm enjoying this! Lol
I would LOVE to know how it all turned out for her!
1. Would you like it if someone(homewrecker) breaks up your relationship?
2. If the guy has a good thing going on with his girlfriend, why would you advise anyone to destroy that and take away the man she loves.
3. In another episode, you told an female audience the ways to fend off other women hitting on her boyfriend. So, which is it?
Seeing someone DOES NOT mean he is in a relationship. If he is in the dating stage, it DOES NOT mean he is in a commited relationship. It just means that he is dating in order to get to know the person and see if it could get to a good relationship. Guys, some of you are soooo exagerated
You're questioning Steve Harvey here, what is he on divorce number 3?
If someone is in a relationship and they are content they will stay with that person.
the 1st thing to do is find out if he likes you too n give out a sign to invite him to talk to you. If not dont pursue him.. it wont end well
“Tada”😂
Love you Steve!
Steve suit tho 😮💨😍
best of luck lady !
Love the advice you gave her.
Steve Harvey!!!
Sooo trueee Steve
I love this woman. Am single 🇬🇭🇬🇭🇬🇭🇬🇭😂😂😂😂😂
Damn. Steve is giving all the game away.
Ooh that suite my gosh!!!! 😱😱😱 Which brand is that?
love this👏👏💖✨😂
That's suit is tuff fr
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