Steve Harvey | Parenting Tip: Yelling Vs Whispering

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  • čas přidán 21. 04. 2019
  • I asked my audience two questions: "How many thought it was ok to yell at their kids?" And "How many thought yelling at their kids is unnecessary?" For those who didn't, I told them they are going to catch hell 😁😂I don't know how I could've raised my kids without yelling! Watch this parenting tip and more #SteveTVShow on SteveHarvey.com
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Komentáře • 266

  • @JaniceMba
    @JaniceMba Před 5 lety +465

    I laughed because I experienced all of them & the consequences.

    • @laurajenny1999
      @laurajenny1999 Před 5 lety +3

      Me too 😂😂😂😂

    • @blazayblazay8888
      @blazayblazay8888 Před 5 lety +4

      Exactly not cause it's witty or funny he still stuck in def comedy jam style comedy ..." women be shoppiiinnng " 🙄 my girl funnier than this cornball

    • @mihailshevchenko2368
      @mihailshevchenko2368 Před 3 lety +1

      Balkan parents dont even look at you they go straight to the shoe or the belt

  • @JonahGhost
    @JonahGhost Před 5 lety +572

    when parents whisper threats its more scary.

  • @Sam-iy1nt
    @Sam-iy1nt Před 5 lety +278

    How does Steve know my mother?🤣🤣🤣

  • @Noix009
    @Noix009 Před 5 lety +311

    My sister would ask her kids if they wanna use the bathroom 😂😂😂
    When they’re out n they know what that means and they’d just behave 😂😂😂

    • @WifeofaJer
      @WifeofaJer Před 5 lety +6

      Let me show you the way to Jesus! In a whisper because only Jesus can save your ass now. I was out with friends and my friends brother was acting a fool. His mama smiled at all the ladies in the group and said those words to her son. I was standing right next to them and heard what she whispered. I thought um I dont even want to mess with her. One kid had kept saying to her mama I need to go to the bathroom. Her reply you didn't need to 2 minutes ago and unless you want the trots like that little boy you better behave and wait.

    • @JacquiceWynnette
      @JacquiceWynnette Před 5 lety

      Temi David 😂😂😂😂

    • @moitah01
      @moitah01 Před 5 lety +2

      🤣🤣that is exactly what my mama did if we were misbehaving in church.

    • @motrin34
      @motrin34 Před 5 lety

      Lol

    • @RayRayManUtdFan
      @RayRayManUtdFan Před 5 lety

      Oh lol I do same 😂😂😂😂

  • @Avant402
    @Avant402 Před 5 lety +142

    Lord, I remember the squint. That means you need contact yo next of kin😂😂

  • @noxmagubane9515
    @noxmagubane9515 Před 5 lety +220

    I can totally relate ,my mom has successfully delivered all three

  • @emmangumbela
    @emmangumbela Před 5 lety +85

    We don't deserve this man y'all 👏

  • @olgasa6943
    @olgasa6943 Před 5 lety +190

    When you get that long stare! Its because she's trying to decide between the big kitchen spoon or the homemade paddle.

    • @LORGSW6
      @LORGSW6 Před 5 lety +1

      Hahaha true!

    • @johnlopez3996
      @johnlopez3996 Před 5 lety +3

      What about syllable spankings? I (whack) told (whack) you (whack) to (whack) get (whack) down(whack)! My parents had a paddle that said, "To heck with psychology!"

    • @rubenthompson5900
      @rubenthompson5900 Před 3 lety

      I’d use both

    • @janinecox256
      @janinecox256 Před 3 lety +1

      Sometimes she has to cool off before she beats you because if she does she could really hurt u!

  • @ef9374
    @ef9374 Před 5 lety +70

    My mom balls up her eyes....from this 😑to👀....scariest stuff ever no words needed 😂

  • @noraako7250
    @noraako7250 Před 5 lety +95

    That clinched teeth😁🤣🤣😂.. I love u steve❤️

  • @clarencejacksonjr.
    @clarencejacksonjr. Před 5 lety +51

    Steve, my mother did all of that! And it was VERY EFFECTIVE! Mama even carried a paint paddle in her pocket book in the store in case we misbehaved!

  • @jclus8156
    @jclus8156 Před 5 lety +55

    as asian, hanger, sandals, belt, and mosquito racket delivers the rage better than it should. Kinda universal language for us.

  • @biancaredifer6570
    @biancaredifer6570 Před 5 lety +26

    As a teacher I love the look lol....it workshop even the baddest kids. Sometimes it'll be a staring contest but I always win

  • @thecrow9003
    @thecrow9003 Před 5 lety +37

    Respect 4 Steve Harvey

  • @chrisxavier7612
    @chrisxavier7612 Před 5 lety +48

    This guy is a living meme

  • @margaritadoza80
    @margaritadoza80 Před 5 lety +24

    OMG so true!!!!
    When you get that long stare... you already know what's going to happen lol.... 🤣😂🤣😄😃

    • @ferzinhaN
      @ferzinhaN Před 5 lety +1

      You know you gotta get your act together real quick!😅

  • @eileenwelter90
    @eileenwelter90 Před 5 lety +6

    Y’all I am a yeller of a type of parent. We had weather to open windows and I sent a goodie bag with muffins and a letter apologizing to my neighbors
    “If you hear me use a crazy mama voice just know I told my family 5 times nicely first. The kids are fine. Promise.”
    Got a couple of text laughing but I swear I know they hear me and they too get off the darn couch.

  • @myabynes546
    @myabynes546 Před 5 lety +39

    To me yelling or whispering does not matter. Its what you say that has the real effect.

    • @elisebean1
      @elisebean1 Před 5 lety

      Get out of here

    • @crystalortega2156
      @crystalortega2156 Před 5 lety +1

      elisebean1 exactly what I was thinking. That be the kids with no discipline! When u just gotta 1,2, and the kid knows that’s when u know u doing it right. Lol My daughter is 3 and I’m like 1,2 and she’s already know lol

  • @namulindwapr0ssy368
    @namulindwapr0ssy368 Před 5 lety +30

    The long look was done in 90's, yelling up loud was done in early 2000 now parents whisper to their children

  • @laurenk.7325
    @laurenk.7325 Před rokem +5

    My Mom had every look and whisper, absolutely perfected!
    LOL 😆 Especially during Church events.
    Wow! I truly do miss her. ❤
    There's not a single day which goes by that our beautiful and loving Mother isn't thought about or deeply missedI

  • @oreemmanuel
    @oreemmanuel Před 5 lety +16

    My mother's Nigerian and in church she'd do what I call, the "silent twist" maneuver to which she would whisper in my ear and pinch and twist my side. Lord knows if shrieked from the pain, It be more trouble for me
    Shaped me to learn quick & fast not to act up😂😂

    • @lovebunniemack
      @lovebunniemack Před 5 lety

      oreemmanuel ooooo Haitians do the same thing. It is the worst! Makes you want to cry right then and there.

  • @farhanazm
    @farhanazm Před 5 lety +5

    I ❤️ Steve Harvey. He’s hilarious!🤣

  • @tegalicocious
    @tegalicocious Před 5 lety +33

    The last one.... particularly common amongst African mother... it’s called the ‘one time mention name’... all my momma had to do was say Tega!

    • @priscilladavenport5791
      @priscilladavenport5791 Před 5 lety +1

      My mother would say your first middle and last name with the Dead Eye stare. Worked every time

  • @CJ_Pharaoh
    @CJ_Pharaoh Před 5 lety +4

    The old adage comes to mind . . .
    Spare the rod . . .
    Stay blessed Mr Hightower 🙏

  • @botlhalemaredi9164
    @botlhalemaredi9164 Před rokem +1

    Lol. Even the silent eye-pop!

  • @prajaktachandekar9112
    @prajaktachandekar9112 Před 3 lety +1

    That's how Indian moms work.. omfg.I died laughing. That's the best one steve !!!💓

  • @anjusmith843
    @anjusmith843 Před 5 lety +4

    Steeeeeeve....you are right on point

  • @rozenabashir7773
    @rozenabashir7773 Před 5 lety +7

    So true🤣

  • @krizzthekid25
    @krizzthekid25 Před 5 lety +28

    Just my opinion but there's a time and place for yelling and a time and place for whispering I whisper or talk normally the first few times I asked him to do something then after that it's time for the voice to get raise a little bit and if it is at a point of yelling somebody's ass is in trouble.

    • @jasminevaliente96
      @jasminevaliente96 Před 5 lety

      Lol oddly enough the yell usually comes first my house the whisper means I'm about to go to jail and the kids usually put up and shut up when I get to staring and whispering

  • @dadandadan2571
    @dadandadan2571 Před 5 lety +1

    So so so true!!!

  • @amyw595
    @amyw595 Před 5 lety +1

    Yeah I got the look!

  • @LessonsInLife
    @LessonsInLife Před 5 lety +10

    Engage the child where she is, while she is in that mood, and do what you can do to help her negotiate it. Do not expect from your child a level of maturity that she does not possess. You are the parent. Be the big person. 😘😘😘

    • @brendahenry134
      @brendahenry134 Před 5 lety +3

      Lessons In Life thanks I needed to hear that. Sometimes I have too many expectations for the lil ones😩 I’m learning how to be the bigger person as I am 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾💪🏾

    • @LessonsInLife
      @LessonsInLife Před 5 lety

      @@brendahenry134 Your welcome 😘

  • @sarebear4351
    @sarebear4351 Před 5 lety +3

    😂😂😂 best advice. My aunty told me the same a few years ago. I still yell but once i whisper they move

  • @blessngifted
    @blessngifted Před 5 lety +17

    Also, when they "appear" calm and say...OK...that means run

  • @yankubafatheo6764
    @yankubafatheo6764 Před 5 lety +4

    💯correct

  • @IdanActual
    @IdanActual Před 5 lety +9

    My man Steve🔥

  • @ReannaKennedy1
    @ReannaKennedy1 Před 3 lety +1

    I got the eyes and silent mouthing in church all the time😂😂

  • @crystalfrager3828
    @crystalfrager3828 Před 5 lety +4

    My sister and I experienced all of those growing up as a kid. Oh, and don't let me have to call your first name, middle name and last name or if I have to tell you a third time ... you just knew you were in deep trouble. The funny thing is we use those same methods of discipline on our kids as well...generation after generation. 😂😂😂😊 If it ain't broke don't fix it. Go with what works. 😂😂😂😊😊😊

  • @mysteriousdude280
    @mysteriousdude280 Před 5 lety +1

    I can so relate to this, cause I can remember all of them and the beating that followed when the message was ignored

  • @mercynasser2776
    @mercynasser2776 Před 5 lety +4

    Yeahhh Uncle Steve it’s all that

  • @melindmccluske8109
    @melindmccluske8109 Před 5 lety

    Powerful parenting tips steve.highly appreciated.

  • @shaylaahava6413
    @shaylaahava6413 Před 5 lety +1

    Steve is bringing back horrific memories for some folks! Flashbacks! 😁

  • @sssalsera
    @sssalsera Před 5 lety

    I love him!!!

  • @elisabeth4543
    @elisabeth4543 Před 5 lety +4

    Lmfaoooo I'm working with kids everyday and I should say I don't yell but always being pacific. Our mamas are the greatest teachers of the earth

  • @Jakeein
    @Jakeein Před 5 lety +4

    Those are all of me with my children.

  • @deepalin2481
    @deepalin2481 Před 5 lety

    this is so true

  • @lystraalexander9783
    @lystraalexander9783 Před 5 lety +2

    Lol...sure right Mr. Harvey!!! I remember my mama!! 😂😂

  • @kensakiro
    @kensakiro Před 5 lety

    Thank you mr. H... Your description is literally my Mom's description. The best moms :)

  • @dmac8671
    @dmac8671 Před 5 lety +1

    I work with school children and they have selective hearing, sometimes you got to raise your voice not to demean them, but they literally will tune you out or act as if they can't hear you. You'll be trying to get your attention, and the more you try to get their attention the louder they get.

  • @MZKISSESGETITRITE03
    @MZKISSESGETITRITE03 Před 5 lety

    Sooo true

  • @ImprovementisGrowth
    @ImprovementisGrowth Před 5 lety +1

    all classic mother moves

  • @tselengbotlhole750
    @tselengbotlhole750 Před 5 lety

    This was absolutely funny 🤣🤣🤣

  • @NicholeLT
    @NicholeLT Před 5 lety

    Yeeeeeees Steve. Yeeeeeeeees. Omg. This is so me.

  • @renadachandler9068
    @renadachandler9068 Před 5 lety

    So true 😂😂😂

  • @elishanewton7131
    @elishanewton7131 Před 5 lety

    The suit and shirt priceless

  • @missevans626
    @missevans626 Před 5 lety

    Behavior management strategies I’ll use in my classroom 🤗

  • @johannspurlockallen8743

    All it took was a LOOK for me and I was straight 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @susanndungumuriuki4897

    The long look with a squint is a personal favourite. It works all the time.

  • @mellery23
    @mellery23 Před 5 lety

    Yoo! Steve hit this one dead on! 😂😂

  • @priscilladavenport5791
    @priscilladavenport5791 Před 5 lety +2

    My brothers and I were talking about this over Christmas. LOL. We used to call it my mother's evil eye. Act up somewhere like church or in the doctor's office and you would start crying when she looked at you because you knew what going to happen once you got home. She never open her mouth but she gave you the evil eye

  • @allanc1894
    @allanc1894 Před 5 lety +4

    Experienced every one of them from my grandmother...

  • @tarneemalissa2539
    @tarneemalissa2539 Před 5 lety

    True

  • @gkficker
    @gkficker Před 2 lety

    I used some of these in my classroom.

  • @MihaelaV68
    @MihaelaV68 Před 5 lety +15

    One day I wish to see “Steve and Marjorie show”

  • @Ms.Haleyy
    @Ms.Haleyy Před 3 lety

    Boy, when my dad whispered my whole spine would lock up sh*t so scary 🤣

  • @lailahlyn9428
    @lailahlyn9428 Před 5 lety +1

    😂😂😂😂facts

  • @madgekap9196
    @madgekap9196 Před 5 lety +8

    🤣🤣😂🤣

  • @JustSheaShea
    @JustSheaShea Před 5 lety +5

    I had to introduce my 1 yr old to the clenched teeth whisper at church Easter Sunday. I had to add a firm squeeze to his arm to add emphasis to my point but we made it through the whole service with no problems.

  • @kimkimkimkimmie
    @kimkimkimkimmie Před 5 lety

    My childhood!🤷🏽‍♀️😂

  • @kimmulakshmi
    @kimmulakshmi Před 5 lety +1

    My mother had done all of these. But HONESTLY, the MOST FRIGHTENING & TERRIFYING & PETRIFYING of them all is the WHISPERING. Seriously tho!!! LORD!!! When my mum whispers, I seriously get the chills. Mothers are TERRIFYING!!!

  • @derekallen7245
    @derekallen7245 Před 5 lety

    I swear i just got the worst flashbacks of my life with these aha. Truly very effective

  • @dannygreen9419
    @dannygreen9419 Před 3 lety

    BEEN THERE! HAD THAT DONE!! LOL MAMA!!

  • @loudaudio1865
    @loudaudio1865 Před 5 lety

    Lol I love to clench teeth you funny Steve Harvey God bless you brother

  • @tashafinnprayeatlaffluv4giv

    Yep I have officially effectively done all of those

  • @tinaleonie5811
    @tinaleonie5811 Před 5 lety +5

    🤣👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @heatherparker2491
    @heatherparker2491 Před 5 lety +19

    Yes, I yell. Not to be abusive, but to get the point across. It put the fear of God into me as a child and I survived. I got my booty whipped. I survived and mine will too. I learned respect via an Agner belt lol!!

  • @sunshinesunflowerz1647
    @sunshinesunflowerz1647 Před 5 lety +1

    😂😂😂
    👌🏾👌🏾

  • @contacterase7701
    @contacterase7701 Před 3 lety

    Father's shout, mother whispers 😅😅😅😅😅

  • @untiedshoelaces2588
    @untiedshoelaces2588 Před 3 lety

    The whispered threats are the most effective...Mainly because it gives the parent plausible deniability. At least that's what my childhood buddies's mother always said. She was a great lady.

  • @anitamazyck8603
    @anitamazyck8603 Před 5 lety +3

    👍❤️😂

  • @demesijohnson9221
    @demesijohnson9221 Před 5 lety

    I have done it all...lol

  • @SharpDesign
    @SharpDesign Před 5 lety +1

    1:50 Paddington knows it as a "hard stare" when people have forgotten their manners.

  • @JustLexie16
    @JustLexie16 Před 3 lety +1

    My big sister is the one that always sets me straight. She does that deadly whisper and that silent mouthing 😂
    And if anyone but my sister does the whisper I just say “cho breath stink” (even when I'm not in trouble 😂)

  • @davidram9511
    @davidram9511 Před 5 lety

    You go how the ocean moves,

  • @tonyaneal38
    @tonyaneal38 Před 8 měsíci

    They call me the whisper mom😂😂😂

  • @looksok3327
    @looksok3327 Před 5 lety

    Yes!!! Yelling

  • @waheedahsrecipes5004
    @waheedahsrecipes5004 Před 5 lety +1

    In our house that’s NORMAL to yelling and the tightness of the teeth UNCLE STEVE THATS SO TRUE Ha Ha

  • @donnagee4183
    @donnagee4183 Před 5 lety +2

    Lawd if this aint the truth🤣🤚🤣

  • @JSMFMS
    @JSMFMS Před 5 lety

    I’m thinking he knows my mom, that was her in church. When it’s bad, her line was “you just wait until I tell your dad when he gets home”. My dad was the worst with the look, or just cleaning his throat, I’d straighten up so fast!

  • @kashstar6475
    @kashstar6475 Před 5 lety +1

    It's hot outside🌄T-side😜

  • @ChasingCarson
    @ChasingCarson Před 5 lety

    The squint is that “ wait til we leave here or wait til we get home look”

  • @donnagee4183
    @donnagee4183 Před 2 lety

    Lmao he so silly

  • @MzTinkerbell
    @MzTinkerbell Před 5 lety +4

    You know you were raised by a black mama when... Yes lawd!!😝😅

  • @JacquiceWynnette
    @JacquiceWynnette Před 5 lety

    When I start whispering at my boys they. Think I’m crazy lol 😂

  • @christophershanklin112

    😂😂Steve sound like he took some ass whoopins for the team

  • @rakshapatel1478
    @rakshapatel1478 Před 5 lety

    I have to use these methods on my kids

  • @MsSHINeeTVXQSuju
    @MsSHINeeTVXQSuju Před 5 lety

    My mom doesn't squint...she stares then opens her eyes real wide and gives a death stare XD

  • @sweetbearfanfictions5575

    Have gone through all with beating from rulers,hand , kitchen utensils

  • @nybsbfan18
    @nybsbfan18 Před 5 lety

    Some of them know what's waiting for them when they get home...lol

  • @miriamnaome3583
    @miriamnaome3583 Před 5 lety

    Mr. Steve Harvey with all due respect, how do you know my Mama, She all of these!!!Damn specially the whisper awww hell naw.