THE ULTIMATE FILIPINA PARTNER - Life Doesn't Get Any Better Than This!
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Even if the ultimate Filipina partner exists, what does it take to find her? I hit the streets for four consecutive days, and interviewed foreign men about what they're looking for in a Filipina partner, and compared it to the quality of women they've actually found. You may be surprised at their answers and experiences! Does the ultimate Filipina exist?
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Are you single Pea?
Well Pea, perhaps you should show consideration to your foreigners subscribers, by placing a disclaimer and a health warning ⚠️ when you post a picture of your gorgeous self in a tiny bikini on the front page: the emotion could trigger a heart attack 😅❤
What % of those guys you interviewed hit on you?
My guess is 30%.
I Am Seeking A Virgin Wife!
Spent 9 months in the Philippines 82,83, best time of my life . Love the food , people, weather , the jeepneys,trikes and of course the beautiful women.
I found exactly what I needed in the Philippines, which it had nothing to do with women or romance. I found peace and Tranquility From the first time I visited the Philippines in 2015. I felt at home. Having served in two different wars and returning to the USA, I felt dirty and ashamed, and I felt like people pre-judged me as a screwed-up Vet. I came to the Philippines because here I’m just a foreigner, not someone that suffers nightmares or PTSD or any of that other stuff. sleep better in the Philippines. I eat better in the Philippines and live a much healthier lifestyle there. The only medicine I need is the Philippines and its beauty.
It's great you found help for your mental health. Most everyone could use less stress and anxiety in their lives!
Im a retired vet and i feel the same found the love of my life here always new that i would get back here after subic bay navel base closed
The same goes for me except it's Thailand for me.
Thanks for your service...peace to you..tomk fdny
"and I felt like people pre-judged me as a screwed-up vet".
I'm from Austria and I always thought that only in my country (ex)militaries are handled with no respect.
I'm surprised to hear that in the US it seems the same.
Always thought that US veterans are honored.
My PERFECT Filipina - She has almost perfect English, a great sense of humor, beautiful long hair, is young - 30-ish, slim, has traditional values, knows her way around the kitchen, and has her own CZcams channel called "The Filipina Pea" :)
No way! She’s 30ish? I would have put her at least 5 years younger.
Almost perfect English. Perfect by US standards that's for sure.
Yeah she could have me if she asked nicely. 🤣
I hit the jackpot with my Filipina. She had come to the states already with her husband who passed away after she had been here just a year and a half. A tragic story for sure. She was thinking about going back to phillipines after about 1.5 years after he passed when we met at the park. Connected instantly. She has traditional values and family oriented. I'm a nurse and work my butt off. It was 2 years ago we met. We have a 4 month old boy and I've never been so happy. She is amazing and we spoil each other
Glad at least someone is Happy in this life. ! GOD. Blessed. You
Aren’t you worried she’ll poison you too?
What does you 1) being a male nurse 2) working your butt off have to do at all with you "hitting the jackpot" with your female? 🤣
So happy for you guys. May Good Health Continue.
Enjoy while it lasts.
With the 71 year old American, I got very blessed having a Filipina that is honest, loyal, and willing to answer questions honestly. The best part is that her family expects nothing of me and has never asked anything from me. Every time I visit the family, they always make me letchon chicken and make me feel apart of the family and do their best to make me feel comfortable and my inlaws are definitely not rich. But, even though they never ask, I do tend to spoil them with things they would probably never get on a regular basis. This last Christmas, I got every member of the family (including grandparents, cousins, etc) a new outfit and a new pair of shoes. Last week I visited them and brought them all Dunkin Donuts. It cost me $20, but man, the level of appreciation from them was simply amazing.
The operative word - appreciation. An excellent filter for giving - give to those that deserve it but not need it.
Bro what 71 year old loser gets laid? Bro flipina women need to off themselves out shame.
he comes off as a bit selfish .and he is 71 trying to date 20 year olds .
plus he doesn't want anyone with kids .
he should be extremely grateful a 40 year old girl would give him the time of day
and that age pinay would be better suited for what he is looking for. all pinay have kids unless they aren't able to .
he could find a woman with grown kids who are on thier own and occasionally treating some family members for drinks or food isn't going to hurt . he isn't long for this world so he ought not be so demanding and narrow minded .
@@boracay12 Yeah, I agree. Still his choice I guess. Explains why he's single.
@@boracay12 I wouldn't say he's selfish, I would say he is particular. There is nothing wrong with going after what you want and don't want. Why should he be an ATM for someone else's kids and their extended families. Like he states... there are the greedy and the needy. From what he is saying, if you read between the lines, most of them are greedy. It will be a challenge for him to find what he is looking for, just like finding a unicorn, and I wish him all the best of luck in his search. Any Filipina that he does find that meets his qualifications and is willing to be with him will have hit the jackpot financially.
I had the pleasure of meeting a Filipina who was working outside of Toronto. We've been married over 11 years and I couldn't be more blessed.
The Filipino Pea is not only great at explaining things but she is also great at interviewing.
Thanks Coach!! 👍❤️😊
@@TheFilipinaPea you are welcome lovely lady I'm just speaking facts ♥
...and easy on the eyes!
She never ceases to impress me with her abilities and insight. Can we perfect cloning now, please?
What Is my favorite kind filipina? She has long hair, has gold brown skin, likes to smile a lot, speaks good English, buys preety dress from discount stores, likes pet elephants, has nice laugh, understands western culture so she can understand me. Has small boobs, small like a PEA wink wink. Ahahah 😂
Watched a former co-worker and his Pinay wife very closely. She was so easy to get along with that you could not help but like her. One of the nicest people I have ever met.
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She's a great interviewer and her personality suits her format. Engaging, animated, up beat, funny, non biased and non judgemental. And her English brings the European subjects to shame at least in this particular video.
while her english is excellent, the european men did just fine...no need to bring them done. i know that is not likely your intent... but it came across that way
@@secretagent86 I have had a lot of experience listening to Northern Europeans and their English is usually excellent, as good as or better than North Americans. The guys interviewed here are not as good as the ones I have encountered.
Interestingly, most Europeans and people from other places do not have English as a second, or even an official language. English has been an official language here in the Philippines for a long long time, and yet most foreigners from non English speaking countries speak better English than most Filipinos.
That’s so very nice of you to say, Marjory - thanks!! ❤️
@@Kevins-Philippine-Retirement Uhm most Europeans dó have English as a second language. We are taught in school. Most books at universities are in English.
They are all describing the Pea for the perfect Filipina. One of your best videos ever. Great job.
I finally met my online Filipina girlfriend in person after video chatting for 9 months. Big difference between Western women. She calls me every single day and genuinely asks how I’m doing and remembers things about me. It really feels like partnership. She’s not perfect, but caring and respectful. Most of my experience with American women is they feel they are above every guy they meet and the relationship should only be beneficial to women. They ask for so much and give very little in return. My Filipina is a little less independent that I’m used too. However, she gives back so much in simple ways.
How much you send her a month....?
*Crap Game*
And how many other men is she chatting with that you don't know about? Until you meet in real life there is know way to know how they are. Before wasting more time you should meet up.
Well done, me to I met my filliipine girlfriend online,she is a dream girlfriend,s he works in Japan,she came over for Christmas and wanted to fund our trip to London,halfed in for petrol, paid for excursions so not all these girls are gold diggers, I'm going to be engaged and in the future hopefully marry 🫂❤️
as the song says "American woman, stay away from me"... simple words that are capturing the reality of the feminism plague...only fools will keep complying with their wishes and demands...
@@franklidgad "I finally met my online Filipina girlfriend ***in person*** after video chatting for 9 months"
I see fundamental reading skills aren't your strong suite.
I married a Filipina that I met in Philippines after bringing to Australia she cheated on me several times enjoying all the attention she was getting there unlike at home so after 5 years being together we divorced and she went back home. Lucky for me I found my perfect Filipina right here in Australia the relationship is so much better and she’s more caring honest and loyal
Never bring a Filipina to your home country.
It is about individual though, but generally many are still better in percentage
I found mine 3 years ago, it's great to finally be living here. All is like a dream, nothing could be better than the life I have now.
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These interviews were really varied and with lots of great feedback, even a guy seeking guys got into the pot! That was hilarious. Pea kind of looked like, "We'll keep this one in the vault. This is not the current demographic we are interviewing for at the moment! Thanks for the submission, sir!"
That’s funny
Yeah. Even though I’m not gay myself, I would like to hear how he thinks as well. Just one in the bunch is enough though😁
lol....or put this one in the 'back' of the list.
I don't get why gay guys come here to the Phil unless they're looking for young pretty boys/bakla. There are plenty of gays already in America for them to chose from.
He wants a ladyboy!
Filapina Pea, I want you to know that we appreciate all the efforts you put forth in your videos to help the western men (ALL MEN REALLY)that come to Philippines looking to retire or for a mate..Your videos are priceless in that capacity..Thank you for your hardwork and may it payoff in subscriptions and likes!! we love you Filapina Pea!!!
Pea, is Cebu the "G Spot" for a 68 year old American looking for a life mate. Not rich but makes 2x's as much as your president.
@@andersonhutsell8368 Only one way to find out. I think it's time for you to plan a vacation to Cebu. Maybe make it a multi-destination one and make multiple stops to other places to check out what is available. You never know you just might just find your mysterious "G Spot" and live happily ever after.
I am 67 and married for 7 years to a wonderful 54 year old Filipina. My wife is funny, loyal, indépendant and the best possible wife I ever hoped for. I met her in California, not the Philippines. There are Filipinas all over the world so look for them where you live and you will be very happily married. Thank, Filipina Pea, for your great videos.
I feel guilty commenting without seeing your video first, that's why I can't get first post anymore. I'm afraid Mike may just die alone but hopefully he enjoys his time in paradise. He's a little too picky but my estimation. The unicorn he is looking for would be rare anywhere in the world. Thanks for blessing my morning. Have a great weekend!
yes finding a childless non married gal say over 40 past child bearing age would be very rare if she wasn't homely. I think these guys were not brash enough to say they have physical appearance as a top priority. I'm sure Mike is have a great time. He is a smooth talker with lots of wisdom.
I admire his determination 😂👍
Yes there are a lot of Western men who think just going there and acting as selfish as they are in the west will work but it won't. You have to be a very giving person to make a good life with a Filipino.
I knew one my youngest sister!😬😂
The thing about the honest answers is not that Filipinas want to lie.
They want to please. That's why they say what you want to hear.
But this just doesn't work.
Later on it will create friction, disappointment, distrust...
Filipinas are afraid to hurt the other with telling a sometimes harsh truth.
Indeed, sometimes the truth hurts, but it's always better in the long run.
It's a cultural thing which works on short term, but not on long term.
Great stuff, Pea!
Yes, that’s an important distinction, Zeppelo 👍😊
Another great video Pea! 🙂 I know I definitely lucked out with my wife. The older 30-35 year old Filapina that is honest, loyal, and childless does exist because I found one. If she is a unicorn, the one thing the Philippines offers is a greater number of them out there than you will find in the west. Chances are though, if you are patient, and looking in the right places for the type of woman you want in your life, the other difference from the west is that she will most likely find you! That's exactly what happened to me when I least expected it... So, like the last guy said, check out all of Pea's videos on the variety of subjects concerning Filapinas because knowledge is power, and she gives it to you! In my opinion, she is also one of those, selective, elusive unicorns with all those desired traits too that I hope finds her special someone when it is meant to happen! Thank you Pea! ❤️🙂
Oh yes, you hit the jackpot! 😂👍❤️
I found my unicorn online too. I knew she was special the moment we met. She braved a typhoon and a flood to come to my Island to meet me. When she arrived, she had gifts for me!
I dated 9 girls in the Philippines over the course of 2 years. Only 1 was sincere, and caring enough for me to feel comfortable of possibly being with her long term, or even marriage material. That's almost a 90% bad, to 10% good ratio. So you really have to do your due diligence. After some of these experiences, I came up with a perfect quote... "I would rather be with an ugly woman, with a beautiful heart... Than a beautiful woman with an ugly heart". Now if I can only find a happy medium, I'll be happy.
Agreed. Respectfully
I remember the song -"If you want to be happy for the rest of your life never make a pretty woman your wife. So from a personal point of view get an ugly girl to marry you -- Jimmy Soul -1963
@@keithkiekebusch6116 lol! No guy who is on his right senses and good looking will do that! Only the ugly and as* hole guys will do bec. they don’t have a good chsnce to find bec. of looks and attitude. ReALtaLk😀😛😜
9 is actually an amazing number. Having dated who knows how many more than 9 ... you run into the same more or less.
Maybe you should consider thinking that the problem comes from you for being this bad at judging people.
In all the girls I have dated, not a single one was a bad apple.
I found the love of my life in the Philippines. I was messaged by over 6000 women on a dating sight 1 out of all those women never asked me for money so 4 months later I flew over and met her in person. How I wish I would have done it sooner in life. And her family is amazing I have my unicorn!! I will be retiring in Philippines in about 15 years. My advice is find a woman from the country not a city .
6000? Oh my!!!! 😳👍
Not a surprise if it was "western females" the number would be a few more zoros on that.
Which dating app worked so well?
Pea, you are so balanced in what you do. This makes you even more valuable, and so appreciated. Thank you for giving the men a voice, because this informs us so much more. 🙏
I thought you might like to hear directly from the men 👍😊
A wise man indeed
Nice, Mike was a articulate and well thought-out individual I hope he finds what he is looking for like all the rest.
Me too, Dirk 👍😊
Believe it or not I found my filipina online and married her on line after 1 year of a online relationship. I have now been in the Philippines with her for 8 months and on Christmas eve we will celebrate our 1 year wedding anniversary and or 2 year anniversary of our first video chat. I love her more and more every day and same goes for the Philippines.
Congrats, and best wishes to you both 👍
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@@TheFilipinaPea love your channel, your video of the couple that married online through webwed inspired me. After a phone call to the county clerk in Utah county Utah l found out that we didn't need webwed or there outrageous fees.
Congrats
GOOD TO HEAR, GEORGE!! MAZEL TOV!
Wowza, Online meeting each other and online marriage after one year LDR. Why the rush, I would never do such a thing without meeting her in person and spending a lot of time with her and the family first. Brave soul. Good luck.
I am from Czech Republic too and seeing George being such a happy Czech man was the last straw for me. I am moving to Philippines!
If you do go maybe do a video of your journey. There still might be hope for me yet.
Very funny - made me laugh!
ty vole cech na tomto kanálu 😂😂😂
I didn’t go to the Philippines to find a girlfriend. I live in the snow belt, near Georgian Bay in Ontario. My Filipina moved to Canada long before we met. Her girlfriend who was a friend of mine asked me if her and her friend could spend a long weekend at my house which is a couple hours north of Toronto. I agreed and when they arrived, me and her friend were immediately drawn to each other and have been in a wonderful relationship for over two years now.😊
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Congratulations on reaching 160,000 subscribers. You should be extremely proud of developing a content based channel that is so useful to foreigners, is balanced and interject some great writing and humor. You will hit 200,000 subscribers sooner than you ever imagined.
We shall see!
Thanks 👍❤️😊
@@TheFilipinaPea Better start thinking on what you are going to do for your EPIC 200K milestone Dare The Pea celebration video. It will have to be the best one of them all compared to the others ones in the past. Just giving you a heads up now so you have time to produce it.
185,000 now!!
The last guy was probably the best. He knows what he wants and what he will tolerate. If she isn’t onboard from the beginning then she won’t make it to first base. Great job Pea as always
The problem is that guy wants it both ways. For starters, he doesn’t want a girl that’s working and providing for her family yet he doesn’t want to help the family either where there is a very good chance. The family is one who paid for her education, and they need her assistance.
Wow Miss Pea another great video. You found a good variety of guys from different parts of the world and almost all were looking for two things in a woman. Honesty and loyalty. That can be hard to find anywhere in the world. Almost impossible in the western world. I feel I have achieved that with my Filipina and many of the Filipina American marriages here I can see that. Keep up the great work Miss Pea and guys keep looking. When you find that special Filipina you won’t be disappointed.
You found a good one, Arnold 👍❤️❤️
Pea, I see that you have over 160k subscribers. I remember when it was just you and me! (well almost). The reason you are having success is that what you are doing is unique: thoughtful, honest, open, real. You are one of very few youtubers who create content that is not about 100% you, but rather about your audience. I could go on, but those who "know" you, understand and those who do not yet will think that I'm in your pay. The interviewee, Mike from Dallas, was one of the best I have sen on your channel. He was so articulate and thoughtful, not unlike yourself.
Anyway, keep up the excellence. Thank you as always.
Thanks for those words, Neil, you flatter me 👍❤️👍❤️
@@TheFilipinaPea The truth is not flattery.
I met my Filipina back in June 2010 while on Facebook. I had a real problem with the age difference but in time we finally came together. We spent 3 years getting to know each other and so after praying about it twice where I heard the Holy Spirit say that she would love me till I died, I travelled to the Philippines in April 24, 2013 and we finally met in person. All I can say is she is the finest woman I could have. She was a gift of God to me and in January 2023 we will be married 9 years. I love your channel Filipina Pea and enjoy the ones especially like this one. PS...my Filipina was a province girl who grew up in Cadiz City which is near Bacolod.
how much did u spend for flight and hotel? USD
You got lucky with the last guy because he actually talked about his experiences with Filipinas. All the other guys just said what they expected and I don't think anyone cares about that. Preparing with specific interview questions asking for their experience with Filipina girls would yield a far better result.
He did seem to let it all out, yes 😂👍
Yeah his only fault was that he is/was looking for a young Filipina, which is delusional in my opinion considering his situation/boundaries.
Yes and filipinas love children. I see nothing wrong give her a baby. Children is cheap to support in phillipines. Give her one or two babies. Yes babies is that cheap to support. That way when you die before she does...the children will take care of her when old. As a widow she is entitled to our social security check which is plenty of money to take care of her in the phillipines.
@@dominicanfrankster
yeah, a 70 yo and a 20yo wont have much in common.
@@eduardomaldonado1647 1)Children are not cheap to raise and support into adulthood anywhere including the PI, especially if involved with a foreigner, ..... 2) widow has to meet minimum SS requirement for dead husband's check : 60 yrs old (age waiver if have child under 16 yrs old), married 10 years, lived 5 years in US. Don't think Mike wants to start another family in US and have to return to work full time .......
Basically raising children could be/is a lifetime commitment if murphy's law happens and common sense is not used by all.
The last gentleman asked the right questions. Educational.
Once again great as always Pea I find it funny I really have started looking forward to Tuesdays and Fridays for whatever is coming from you as I said before you do a wonderful job and I really really enjoy what you do you're great at your job and I know you like it and that's wonderful being able to enjoy what you do for a living makes it wonderful blessings always
Thanks Bruce! Now the pressure’s on to make even better stuff for you 😂👍
@@TheFilipinaPea you'll never get any pressure from me. To me you're a rockstar, but I did see you met another Bruce over there in Dumaguete I'm jealous
I'LL SECOND THAT!!
Can’t edit on an iPad. Western women, “I am strong like a man.” Oh my gosh! I nearly choked on my lunch when I heard the young guy in the white shirt say that when describing Western women! Priceless! What great interviews!
There is no ultimate relationship, Filipina or otherwise. You just need to find someone that is most compatible with the least amount of negatives. Take the good when you get it, accept the bad and work on those aspects. And communication is key to any relationship.
I can't agree more.
Best interview was with Mike he was very informative of what he was looking for. The shortest was I am Gay I think he took you off guard. Another excellent video Pea. People may not like this but I don't like that men are coming to the Philippines to get a Filipina. It feels like let's go to the Filipino store and buy (pick) a woman. I know I am married to a Filipina but I didn't go looking for one I didn't hunt for a young 20 year old girl. I asked God to find me love. Since I found love I have been learning more about the Philippines. I understand now why people want to date to marry a Filipina but make sure you learn you respect the people. Sometimes it feels like you are getting a pet loyalty is you first thing you want. I think if you respect the people the culture you will find love.
Awesome video Pea! If I can be so bold as too offer one suggestion..Fellas, if you plan to retire and remain in the Philippines, be respectful enough to learn the language! It’s their country my friends not yours. My wife speaks perfect English and she gets real clingy and misty eyed when I speak phrases I’ve learned back to her in Tagalog. Why? Because she sees that I’m leveling the playing field and just as committed as she is. Anyway that’s my opinion. Good luck fellas..Bahala na..thanks Pea for another insightful video.
I'm trying to learn, but I find it difficult to talk to them (even when using their own language). Most of them get very shy and uncomfortable whenever I try to strike up a conversation with them, so I've largely given up.
Wow, that was such a crazy coincidence meeting George, what treat for him. Love knowledge you share with us all. Thanks again, your the best! ✌️♥️🙏
That really was a VERY improbable meeting, yes 👍😂
I suspect that all viewers of Pea's vlogs go th Dumaguete hoping to meet her.
Pea,
The last guy you were interviewing, should be required viewing for all Filipinas!
Great Job!
These interviews outside in a different surrounding are great. I really like these.
That was some great content. They all seem to have a common thread in their search. I hadn't thought about the difference between "needy" and "greedy." And the half truth thing is really anointing. Thanks for always making the best videos.
Yes, we have a definite problem with half-truths here 😳
Uhm. So, the half truth is a religious experience? 😉. Anointing? Im you meant annoying. One of the reasons i turned off auto complete on my phone 🤣
@@ManOfAdventure2011 I really appreciate my auto correct. I just give it a good proofread before I submit it--or edit it soon after I post it😊
@@ManOfAdventure2011 Almost everything here will be described in half-truths or lies. The culture in the Phil is very stereotypically Asian in that they save face, and don't want to look embarrassed for not knowing something, or being caught in something. Just search for the "hiya" shame/guilt cultural phenomenon in the Philippines.
That last guy you showed, I appreciated his no nonsense answers. Got a feeling he has been through some things in his life. Hope he finds someone that meets his requirements. Enjoyed the video.
Yes, he knows what he wants, and that’s halfway to finding it 😂👍👍👍
But, we already met her? The other potential partners are the lesser ones! You're the dream Pea 😊🥰❤
Hahahahaha
The perfect Filipina Partner is the Philipina Pea . So amazing
I love helping out the family back in the Philippines. They haven't ever ask me for a dime. I have offered to help them a little have a better life. They been happy findly getting AC. The great thing is it doesn't cost and arm and a leg to help out a little. My wifes father still works the family farm and her mother still runs the store everyone is still working. Im not a big holy roller but i do believe in god and believe in Jesus. Gods word says God loves a cheerful giver. I thank God in not greedy like some people. 😁😁😁😁
You have to respect the guy from Texas he knows what he is looking for and it’s well thought out. His eyes are wide open.
Yes, he sure does know what he wants 👍
Yes but he should have stayed in Texas as he is not a suitable partner for the Philippines.
@@johnwalsh518 and why is that?
interesting vlog. I gotta say, Mike from Dallas, hit it right on the nail. His views of a good relationship is one I'd be looking for also if I moved to the islands. To some, he might be asking for a lot, but remember, Mike is retired and wants to enjoy his golden years with a mate who is willing to spend a lot of time with him so they can enjoy it together.
Mike should be looking for a 60 year old woman instead of a 25 year old based on the description of what he wants. He has lived his life, done everything a a 20, 30, or 40-something does or wants to do. Now, he is 71,retired and looking for a 20-something woman who is willing to live her life like a 70-year old person. It is not realistic.
This video was an eye opener and also confirmation of what ive suspected. Please interview a few of these men in more detail. Especially the ones that haven't had much success finding a mate yet. I would like to understand why they feel that way. Perhaps there's something wrong with the men also 😏
I did keep some of their contact info, so that’s a possibility, yes 👍
@@TheFilipinaPea yes, please do!
Pea, thank you for all the fine content. I always want to have conversations afterwards. Western, Eastern, men, women, family, relationships, meaning, etc.. Your voice control while interviewing and speaking at the camera are engaging and thought provoking and it has a unique rhythm to it.
Probably the most concise, cogent and confidant offering yet Pea. You are growing well. Salamat.
Ms Pea, another great show and believe Mike from Texas, gave the best answers and more of what a majority of men are looking for. In my opinion. Also you can tell that he has been watching your videos for sometime. Hopefully you can stay intouch with Mike to see how his journey goes and hope that he finds the right one. Here in the states, I've seen the good and the bad in relationships with a Philadelphia. Again thank you for another great and informative show!!!! 👍🏻
Correction on Philadelphia, autocorrect changed Filipino.
Yes, I need to check in on him 👍😊
@@TheFilipinaPea I'm 62 and look a lot younger. But unlike.. Mike ... I would never think of looking for a 20 something year old for a marriage partner. LOL, that is plain ridiculous as he is 71. I'd be looking for someone closer to my age to grow old with ,like around 50 ,she would have to be young looking and in shape as I workout hard to stay in shape. And if I can afford to help out her family I would. Mike sounds like a greedy cheap stake.
I really liked the comment made in the last interview. "Needy, not greedy." That really hits the nail on the head. His feelings about that are not selfish. You could be potentially financially secure in one country but be classified as "very low income" by your own nation's government. When that is the case, you tend to be a lot more careful with the little money you have, regardless of where you may relocate to. You work hard all your life and have little to show for it. It happens.
Dear Pea, you asked exactly the right questions. You may have noticed that foreigners' ideas differ widely. But there are also similarities in the answers. did you do really well. Very professional. Thank you for that. Georg
Thanks Georg! Yes, there were some definite similarities and themes in their answers 👍
Filipina = the most sought after women on earth❤️❤️❤️❤️
Mike at the end was dead on .. he spoke for many men !! Thank u mike .
The closest thing to the perfect Filipina is you Pea 🇵🇭❤️
Awww thanks Nate ❤️😊👍
You just keep getting better and better Pea.
Thank you for your hard work.
Another great video Pea, you’re a natural communicator. I love Filipinas, but many of them see things very differently to guys from the West. Telling lies is quite a common trait, although they’re not always anything serious. Being unfaithful seems to be more accepted and less serious than it is in the West. They certainly are there to be found, but a truthful and 100% faithful girl is harder to find. Overall though, they are great fun to be with and have many better qualities than Western girls. Just allow for a different mindset.
Yes, an honest and loyal woman seems to be a rare commodity anywhere 🥺👍
PEA, I ran across your channel this morning, and I have been binge watching it, your channel is fantastic. Your content is spot on, and your comments are also stupendous, keep up the great work and know that we do appreciate you here in the US.
I adopted a girl in Vietnam mini years ago, she is my only family and is an English teacher that works with Filipino ladies in the center, your channel has inspired me to go to the Philippines on my next trip to Asia. God bless.
Robert from Michigan found my perfect Filipino lady,she is 11years younger and we talked for 11/2 years before we met, but was always honest and talked everyday and when we met it was like we always have been friends and plan on marriage in 2023 !!!
I'm looking for a lawyer to help me though the SRRV visa ,. If you would send me a email for one I would really appreciate your help, thank you
Great interviews. Cool that you ran into a guy that used your videos to go over there. He mad a good choice. I've had a good number of friends with Filipina wives and listening to you confirms what I learned from them and my one short trip there. Thanks again for your videos.
I’m so glad my info is accurate! Thanks 😊👍❤️
Hi sis. I think the last guy hit all the nails on the head. He seemed confident in what he wanted and wasn't going to settle for less. I'm the same way. I'm not saying Filipinas are the best wives in the world but I've dated women from many different countries and cultures and a Filipina was the only 1 I chose to marry.
The last guy has been living there for 5 years and is 71...has tried it with some and didnt work out. Does he have time to find the perfect one? Perhaps he is too picky and helping her family even a little each month should not be out of the question. Helping the fam is part of their culture...Filipina Pea helps her family.
I disagree the last guy needs to look in the mirror and know his limitations he comes off to me as entitled although dirt poor broke and setting all these demands, he will be alone forever
@@johnnypastrana6727 agreed. That’s part of the deal. Many times that girl will be the breadwinner of the family and if you’re removing her from the family home you’re going to have to expect to help those she’s left behind financially!
I also disagree, at 70+ he should be grateful for anything he gets. Especially as he seems to be concentrating with the under 30's. 99.99% of whom want kids and want to help out their families.
I did find one who didn't want to pay for her family (she didn't have parents but loads of siblings).
90% all like night fun also, not bed by 10pm. He needs to get a reality check.
It’s all about him. That is his choice but to tell a young lady she would not have children. When all her life she has been told how wonderful it is to have children.
Also …. Don’t bring any children into the relationship. Be educated but don’t get a job.
He is not going to help the family and neither can she because she’s not gonna get a job.
5 years later he is still without a companion.
We all have choice’s and so do Filipinas 🇵🇭
Hello Pea, Another great video! The guys were good. Especially Mike in being honest in what he is looking for. It doesn't matter where in the world you are at. You just have to be careful and take the time to get to know the person. Always look out for the "red flags" and make a wise choice. Don't be afraid to of losing a woman if she is not right for you. You can always meet another one.
Wow, super job with your interviewing. You knocked it out of the park. The last gentleman you interviewed, he is on top of things and has figured a lot out. I found him very articulate in his expression of things. Again, great job and this is something you could do more then once. I doubt it would ever get old.
I can't stop watching your videos, Pea, and this may have been the best one yet.
I’m so happy to hear that, Rog!
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Whenever you come across one you really like or really dislike, will you post a comment letting me know?
I’ll be watching for them! 😊👍
@@TheFilipinaPea Of course. 🙂
This is something i always try to teach to my filipina daughter..... to NEVER lie :)
How old is your daughter? If she's young it's gonna be difficult growing up in the age of TikTok where everything on there is an act/lie it all becomes normal to pretend/lie when it's something young people consume everyday while growing up.
@@The-Cat Yes it's true. My daughter is only 6 and she love to watch TikTok, but my way to teach her it's by trying myself to never lie to her.
i found the perfect match on filipina cupid . we are both athiest , only children without much family , both like philosophy , and are empathic , affectionate . we both had bad past experiences and it was hard for us to trust . so i feel very lucky have found her so fast after a bout 1 month on the dating site . its been over 2 years now and we just spent a month together this past july , so now we are engaged and i just finished the k1 visa petition , and i plan on going back over again this coming summer . im 52 , she,s 34 and we are perfect for each other , we both agreed that we feel like we have known each other for years already . its worked out better then i could have hoped for .
My Asawa is not exactly what I was looking for. She is more than I could have desired. I am blessed.
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Pay attention to MIKE at 11:13. I live here now in BGC and he was SPOT ON! You definitely have to find someone who is HONEST, a good communicator, and not looking at you as her financial savior. Some guys are ok with being the ATM but if you're looking for something solid, there are plenty of good women here. You will have to sift through quite a few to find your golden egg but with a little patience, you will land your dream girl. Good luck out there!
I’m 64, USA citizens. I have plans to retire in your beautiful country basically looking for peace and to know an area of the world that by watching mostly your videos and from other bloggers for the past 2 years made me fall in love with.
Im not looking for girls nor I entertain the idea of dating apps at all or going from one women to the other to see if I can find one…but if you ask me what is the kind of Filipina I will like to make a life with, my answer is very simple…it has to be someone that represents the Filipina complexion. For me, you can see her by just looking at your mirror reflection… that reflection is exactly the woman I really like and that I will love to get to know deeply for how wonderful she has openly proven to me she is.
She's not available unfortunately. Sorry to burst your bubble bruv.
Thank you Pea. One thing I keep finding is what I find here in the United States, Philippinas answering questions I didn't ask. I WANT THE QUESTION I ASKED ANSWERED.
Its in their culture to be that way. You just need to figure out how to deal with it
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Thank you so much for your videos and information you share. The last guy your interviewed gave a lot of perspective on why he moved there and what he has found in a different culture. When you asked them all what is the perfect woman you are looking for, I can not believe not one of them said please stand up and spin around for the camera to see ;-)
Hahahahaha
Not a single one, no 😂
@@TheFilipinaPea Well they were wrong then not to do so 🥰
@@TheFilipinaPea Well if they have watched enough of your videos they would not have to.
Great video, Pea! Although I've never had reason to doubt you, getting confirmation of what you've been saying from real life is always nice. Maybe hearing it from other foreigners will help more guys take your advice seriously!
Take good care!😊
Thanks Kranz! It’s always good to double-check with reality 😂👍
This is why my vlogs are all about going foreign! Keep it up, Pea!
Pea is awesome! An ambassador giving both sides the knowledge. And she sooo Fine. I've had the Filipines for a while now. Maybe a spring destination. Thanks!
Great episode.. I’m convinced Filipina are the best companions for life.. thanks pea for always telling it like it is!
Thanks Mario! This time o let the guys tell it 😂👍
The guy closest to me is the one who said he considers an overall score from more than one category. That's me exactly! Nobody is perfect and people are different, so I look at overall score for my preferences. Also, Pea, you said the guys mostly didn't seem concerned with looks, but remember that's the on camera answer. There is a reason the cosmetics industry is multi-billion dollars per year. ;)
To be fair 80% of philipinas are beautiful tho... and the older the men are the less they care as long as shes younger and has a pretty face wich is like 95% of philipinas lol
HOPE EVERYONE IS FINE AND SAFE 🙏 GREETINGS FROM PHILIPPINES 🤗
The gentleman with the BLUE T-shirt speaks the truth. You should consider, staying friends with this gentleman: he says it as it is. I appreciate his commentary.
Thank you, Filipina Pea. Your interviews demystified the idea of traveling to the Philippines. Best wishes.
Honestly, watching this video made me pretty sad. It seems like most of the guys traveled half way around the world to find love, and most were still alone, but now in a country foreign to them. It's really disheartening to think there are soooo many lonely people across the globe, and we still can't find each other.😔
interesting take. something to ponder for sure....
@@waltgreen8759 Something seems to be really wrong nowadays. Not only relationship-wise...
There's over 300,000 Americans in that country as well lol I don't think they're going to be too lonely on making friends. Definitely have a better chance at getting a relationship.
that's because when they come to PI, they probably think that Filipinas are desperate to marry or have relationship with foreigners. Filipinas prefer to have a Filipino BF or Husband. Foreigners have to lower there standards a bit and be patient.
Well looks like that foreigners are coming here to find a Philippine girl to look after them
Foreigners coming in bad physical and mental conditions to this country
I believe that the Filipino pee is the closest you can get to the ultimate Filipino partner, but there is only one of you and many in line to take that part. Definitely enjoy your videos and what you bring forth for information keep up the good work, and someday hope to also meet you in the Philippines
Naa, there's a lot more in the Philippines. But if I want to get a quality Filipina woman, I would get in shape, take care of my finances, be patient, volunteer in some charity organizations, maybe school? That is where you will find quality and educated Filipina women.
Pea, It seems to be a common theme amongst us western guys. Honesty is hard to come by in any country, unfortunately. To most of us who desire a serious long-term relationship, it is essential! Especially where you aren't physically together all the time. I think a lack of honesty is why a lot of western guys end up playing around with multiple girls. They get lied to so much that they decide to just have fun and move on. "What's good for the goose" to use an old cliche. If there is no honesty or loyalty then there really is no relationship, imho! Interesting video, I wonder though if it is harder to meet a Filipina in Dumaguete ( as opposed to say Davao or Dipolog) because there are so many foreign guys there?
Even though there are (relatively) a lot of foreigners in Dumaguete, there’s still an overwhelming number of Filipinas here too 😊
Yeah, I was thinking the same while watching this video. It seems that Dumaguete is over-saturated with foreigners, so I have a feeling a lot of gold diggers and scammers flock there looking for a target. You may want to try your luck somewhere more "provincial" that's just outside of a larger city like Cebu, Manila, Olongapo, Angeles City, or Dumaguete
I find the gold in this video was when you interviewed Mike from Dallas and I think she would agree as she gave a larger portion of her time to him. I just had one question, Mike referred to watching your videos and especially on "the subject" what subject was mike referring to?
This was a Necessary video. Since I plan to retire overseas, and the lady needs to be pretty much what the last guy said. the other guys had some pointers as well. I won’t reiterate what they said because you know but their honesty is sincerely important. When you know that you have a good woman, only the best will come. If I find a good one then I am incredibly lucky but only time will tell. Thank you again for the videos
If I was ever interviewed by you Pea, I'm from America I'm close enough to say I'm 61 yrs old and almost every answer that the men gave would ring true. Straight answers, skin tones and looks are not crucial. No kids And ready for daytime entertainment mostly no bars. As always 👀❤️ the Pea ( I forgot to mention longer hair on a Filipina is the plus column
Well there’s a lot of long hair here, for sure 👍😂
@@TheFilipinaPea Long hair can be attractive but yours is extremely long, much too long for my liking, lol.
Nah her hair is perfect length 😁😁😁 goes down to her perfect bum
Beautiful again Pea. Good insights. I would add that part of the responsibility of the man whether it be finding a life partner in the Philippines, Malaysia, Thailand, Ghana, Ethiopia or Columbia or anywhere else in the world is finding a way to adjust to the culture and the personalities of the ladies that one is interested in meeting. Western men or any others should not realistically expect a foreign female to meet all the requirements they seek, especially when they can't get the women in the countries they are from to do such a thing. Getting an understanding is best and from watching your videos i am learning about the culture as well as the women and the thing about not always being honest is not as bad or as negative as one might expect because it is the way the culture operates and one can't come from a far away land and change the cultures of others no matter how off based the culture may appear to be or one thinks it is. I've seen it up close and in person, not in the Philippines but in other countries and I tell people don't expect to change the people or the culture, because you are not going to be able to do that. The thing is to try to make adjustments and get along as best you can with the way things are and if that doesn't work, pack it in and leave. Just my suggestions and ideas.
I’m happy to help with explaining my culture 👍
Thanks for the input, Walter 😊
Pea, you should do more interviews like this. Nothing better than to hear from our peers that are on the ground in the Philippines. The last interview was the best as he clearly expressed what he wanted and his boundaries. I assume he states so upfront with any Filipina he meets. Now that is truth! I wonder how many Filipinas would actually appreciate him doing so? BTW, my unicorn is not limited to Philippines. If you happen to stubble across a woman that knows her purpose in life and is pursuing it...let me know! hahaha...they are very rare!
Yes, I think he’s very upfront with the women he meets 👍😊
Idinisenyo ng Diyos ang mga babae upang magkaanak. Ang taong iyon ay mahihirapang maghanap ng isang dalagang nasa edad 20 na gagawa ng malaking sakripisyong iyon sa buong buhay.
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You're always politically correct to not add your opinions that might offend those your interviewing... However, your facial expression at times, gives away how you really feel about the matter.
@@aquafishes Naglaum ko nga mabuhi pa ug 40 ka tuig ug gusto gyud nako nga makabaton mga anak sa usa ka Pinay. Nindot kaayo nga adunay dagko nga mga anak nga magbantay kanato sa atong katigulangon.
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Pagpalain ka ng Diyos at ang iyong hinaharap na pamilya...
Thanks Pea
Keeping expectations in check is a key component for every trip. Good advice as usual!
You started your video by saying “The question is … but The question is can you find a Filipina that is capable of saying the words “ I am sorry, I was wrong, please forgive me.” This is a massive hurdle for most Filipinas to overcome. Have a great day. Looking forward to the next one! 😊
I recently subscribed to your patreon, I absolutely love your content it's funny, informative, and entertaining, please keep up the good work. Your the best🙂
That’s so kind of you, Richard!! I really appreciate that, and it helps me do what I do 👍❤️
Hi Pea,,, That was great,,, please do another one like that,,, its also good that you interviewed guys from different countries ,,, and getting there prospective on things,,,The last interviewee Mike was I found the best ,,, I could certainly resignate with him about what he want in his relationship,,, This can prevent certain problems further on in there relationship,,, I hope he finds what hes looking for,,, cause hes being honest to himself and any prospective partner. Pea please consider the opposite to the guys and ask some Filipino girls who has had a relationship with a foreigner and what was right and wrong and good and bad about it,,, if you can find any of course,,, As you know there's always two sides to every story. From my own theories it appears to be mainly cultural that gives the biggest problems,,, especially family issues,,, like helping to support her family or family members,,, At least with Mike he seems to have everything he wants covered,,, Should he Lower his expectations to find happiness or stick by his beliefs ???. Best Wishes Pea
I vote to stick with it 👍😊
You ask you interviews the right questions when you have them under the tube youtube to be exact and you do very well in your calming personality and beauty 🎉❤ keep doing what you do ,,😢although you haven't answered one of my post on your show ...😂😊I guess I have to wait till I get there .,.in the summer hope to see you there.
Phewww!! Thank you sir and madam for your candid Q & A. I just found your channel. I have a short story to relate. I am a 60 yr old Canadian male. On Mar 30 this year I received an FR on Facebook, from a 38 yr old Filipino woman with a middle school age son, I accepted quickly, my FB chat popped up. "Hello my dear"., long story short 4 days later she agreed to come to Canada to be my wife. Within 2 weeks she was sending me very naughty pictures and a few vids. Neither had a passport and I do not have a drivers license, required to obtain said passport, no real problem. Both my parents died in 21 and I expected a small inheritance from each. We hit a road bump after a few months (a flag went up when she answered my request to proceed with passport, visa etc with the word "wait") and because I would not send more money, I had sent her about 7000 pesos willingly to help her out. I understand the Filipino plight and indeed almost had a Filipino-Canadian MIL. We did not speak for a few days and when we began speaking again she informed me she signed a contract to work as a domestic. However she adamantly promised to come to Canada after her contract finished or terminated. I really believed we loved each other, I know I still do. However I received the proceeds from one will and did not offer to send any money. After a week or so she eased off contact, took a job on her day off and has not texted me for 4 days. FYI
Thanks for sharing your story, Dave 👍😊
@@TheFilipinaPea Thank you for replying. Further to the story, she finally replied a week after my comment here. I laughed a couple of days later when you mentioned the broken phone on one of your vids.
Filipinas are definitely the most caring. I wish there were more here in the states. I really want to come back
The states would ruin them... keep those diamonds in their country
Great video Pea!
I found my Unicorn over ten years ago. She was working for the Government and was the family breadwinner. And, it took a lot for me to convince her to leave that job security behind and become my wife. Nothing in this world is free. I took on the responsibility of family breadwinner at that point. And, happier I have never been. The ROI, on such a small monetary expense, has been exponentially fantastic!
I knew the culture, by educating myself, I understood the situation, accepted the costs and have never looked back!
These expats who expect so much for nothing in return are clownish! Selfish clowns will not find happiness in the Philippines, nor anywhere else in this world! I have so much more to say! But, it would be a waste of time.
I always love to hear from people who found their perfect Filipina mate! See guys? It really Does happen! Thanks, Take 15 👍❤️😊
There's absolutely no better way to put that
I think there is a real gold mine of wisdom and knowledge to be gained from interviews with the foreign men in the Phillipines. I find those interviews fascinating and as a man I can read the dialogue more clearly than I can that of the women you interview. My vote, more interviews of foreign men on their experiences and viewpoints, lessons learned. I am also very curious about the Phillipino heterosexual male perspective on foreigner men, so interviews of successful Phillipino men too would be cool. The female side I feel is fantastical and simply will never get the true viewpoints expressed on camera.
Agree - the men are mostly quite candid and it's telling to hear their thoughts. Of course, they're a subset of all the men that visit or retire there and may or may not be a representative cross-section. In any case, it's interesting to hear their stories.
Hey Pea...loved this video...especially the interview with Mike at the end...I think that is what all of us want...including the Filipinas who are honest & loyal...they want the same in return...at the end of the day...none of us ever want to question whether the partner that we are with has been loyal and honest that day...thank you for all you do for us with your channel...best channel on CZcams concerning this topic...😊
Sister, your intelligence comes through with that killer humor! That takes you up a couple extra notches!