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Hit tge nail in the head pea I rather be in phippines and vist thailand and other places thailand is more ahead yes but the women not even close . 🙃 any way they don't have the pea either hahah
Not too offend anyone. These are kind of silly observations. Thai women much more likely to have surgery (face and fake boobs) Thai women squat a lot and have a unusual quacking noise when they talk
Pea I wanted you to know what I wrote as a comment to your video with the young ladies from the provinces that you posted 8 months ago. - In the Bible it talks about the woman being the weaker vessel. For thousands of years that passage has been used to subjugate women. What it actually means though is quite different. Imagine a 3lb metal coffee can and a pure crystal champagne flute. The man is the coffee can, you can put nuts and bolts in it or dirt or oil all sorts of dirty nasty things. When you need it for something else you dump it out and use it for whatever. The woman is the crystal champagne flute which you only put the finest of champagne in. When you finish the champagne you don’t toss it in the dishwasher either. You carefully wash it by hand and then with a clean towel you carefully dry it until it is spotless and sparkles ✨. Then you carefully put it on a high shelf behind a door with a glass front. It’s kept there so nobody but you can touch it and it’s behind the glass fronted door so others can see it but not touch it. The coffee can is used for all the dirty day to day stuff because it can handle it and yes it may get a little beat up or dented here and there but it will continue to do it’s job and function as it always has. The crystal flute is only for the finest things in life and is treated as the most special and valuable thing in your kitchen and your world. It’s not for the day to day grime and dirt of life. That is the true meaning of that passage. I used to teach a class for young men preparing for marriage and that passage as well as Ephesians chapter 5 is what I used the most. Think about what I wrote, men and apply it to your life. This woman that you call wife who loves you and cares for you, who is going to give you children. This woman who will care for your children and be with you through all of what life is going to throw at you. Do you want her to be your “helpmate” or as a resentful adversary? It’s actually up to you which one she becomes and you would do well to remember that. Cheers
I learned the best way to shop in Thailand by accident. I had a Thai female friend with me and the vendors hated her. The vendors would tell me a price and my friend would loose her mind and they would begin arguing. She ALWAYS got the prices lowered for me. It shocked me the first time then it made me laugh after that.
@@TheFilipinaPea I am in the process of obtaining an education visa for my Filipina. Once married the Filipina can piggyback on the ex-pats visa as a dependent. The education visa is a bit expensive but after the initial outlay, it is not a problem.
@@TheFilipinaPea There are pros and cons with both countries. It all depends on what is most important and what you are willing to compromise on, and in that matter we are all different. Regarding your question; the Philippines is much easier when it comes to visa matters. For the past 20 years, the rules and regulations have changed at least once per year in Thailand, which can be very annoying. The easiest solution in Thailand is to get an ELITE-visa, which lasts for 10-20 years - and costs 1-2 million Baht...
As a German who is married to a Philippina (since 50 years now!) I love the content of your videos. A couple of years ago my wife, my sister in law an her son booked a trip to Thailand. There were good traffic rules in the city of Bangkok. I asked my Philippino nephew if these rules would work in Manila too. He said „ yes uncle for about 20 seconds“ His way to analyze things tells a lot of the philippino mentality. Philippino people got a lot of humor and they are able to joke about their flaws. Not many Asian people are like this! Ready for an example of deep philippino humor? Here is what a wise Philippino told me: If you want to get rich in the Philippines you will have to add a „lord“ to your business: landlord, druglord or praise the lord.
Hi Harald, good to hear your comparisons 👍 .. thanks mate. As you've been married for 50 years, how much has the Philippines changed over this time? ... And (I appreciate that you may not do this yourself) is the internet good enough to live there as a digital nomad? I always hear about people doing this in Thailand, but not in the Philippines.
Hi, I just spent 3 weeks in Thailand about the same time you did Pea. I haven't visited the Philippines yet, possibly my next trip in December. My observation of Thailand is very similar to yours. The country is almost as clean as here in the U.S.. My biggest surprise was that I didn't get sick. I have a weaker stomach and I usually would have a few days on every trip stuck next to the toilet. I ate everywhere and drank everything. I enjoyed eating in the street food stalls the most and I tried numerous of them. I rented a scooter and roamed Phuket and Chiang Mai. It was extremely fun and most importantly it was safe (I traveled solo). I am a new biker, I never rode more than a few blocks before this. The rode condition was very well kept and I rarely find potholes. Even a beginner biker with almost no experience can safely explore Thailand's back country. The things that stood out was the honesty. Everybody leaves their motorcycle helmet on the bike unguarded and unsecured. There were a few incidents where I left the keys in the ignition and nothing happened. I would buy stuff and hang them on the scooter on the street and it never got stolen. I actually overpaid a few times and the sellers would correct me. One incident that amazed me the most was when I was in Bangkok, the hotel accidentally overcharged me. The hotel messaged me numerous times but I was already on a plane. The manager got his personal friend in Phuket to drop off the money at my next hotel. I didn't even notice that I was overcharged. The honesty of the Thai people is beyond anything I ever experienced. I look forward to comparing Thailand to the Philippines soon.
Do mind your steps in the Philippines especially in the big cities Weak stomach dont eat and drink anything on the streets in the Philippines Eat only at fast food restaurant Man Inasal is one of the best places to eat if you dont want to get sick in the Philippines
After 3 weeks you still have your rosa glasses filter on. I lived 6 years in Thailand in the north. It's far from save as you think. But Philippines is neither.
@@eisirt55 Well, it's been a year since you asked your question and still no answer. So, maybe the Philippines was a problem; who knows? Only he knows.
Love your take on this Pea. I'm still considering moving to Thailand from Philippines, Infrastructure and Medical care are two of the most important considerations from a 60 yr old Expat.
The best nurse I had when I was in hospital for 2 months was from Poland. She was very stern and exactly what I needed during physical rehab. One evening she came into my room and this was the one sided conversation: Will you be joining us in the dining room for dinner tonight? Let me rephrase that, you will be joining us in the dining room tonight. Vasiliska (Vikki) was the best nurse for me at the time.
I’ve lived in Thailand for over 2 years and been visiting for the last 7 years. As a foreigner you will always be an outsider. You are a guess and they don’t let you forget. I’ve visited the Philippines a few things and people are much friendlier. I plan to move from Thailand to cebu next year once all the covid nonsense has finished. I just wish I could some decent food in the Philippines 😂😂😂
@@TheFilipinaPea It could be, they do a terrible job of marketing it and keeping things sanitary to capture the western visitors. Thailand has simply adapted better to the vacation hordes. You mentioned fresh milk, I've said it before, I'll say it again, even lowly Dumaguete has a dairy farm managed by a MAJOR American Dairy cattle corporation and offers refrigerated fresh milk in several locations in the city. Do your homework Pea if fresh cow's milk matters to you. When it comes to food, cleanliness is next to godliness.
If you watch president Marcos SOTN address, he said he will be removed the wuhan flu restrictions.... My family there are happy the kids will be going back to school etc......
I’ve lived 5 years in Thailand and am married to a Thai. My Thai wife speaks pretty good English and we have little difficulty communicating about most things. Western food, restaurants and groceries, are a bit more expensive as you would expect of imported foods. Thai food meals are typically $2-4 and is delicious but it helps to tolerate pretty high spice levels. I never heard you remark on the beautiful Thai temples, particularly in Chiang Mai. Pea - you described Thailand very well. Now it is just up to each of us to find what suits us individually. I’ve already made my choice in Thailand but I am well aware of the considerable benefits of the Philippines to many expats.
Hi Martin, I know we've communicated before on one YT channel or another. Perhaps this one of Miss Pea's. Wondering what nationality you are & if a Brit, could I ask you a question on pensions in Thailand?
I think she meant well but clearly didn't have full thailand experience, i mostly feel like you that if you don't go to the outskirts of the cities you may not really know how cheat you can find meals, many markets serve decent meals for about $2 to $3 or less.
Interesting to hear your thoughts. I've been to Thailand more Times than the Philippines and I do prefer Thailand. The language is very difficult to learn. I've tried !! But I've always got by with the little bit I know and sign language in the more remote places. I feel totally safe in Thailand but the last time I was in the Philippines l had pick pockets try to steal from me more than once. This has never happened in many visits to Thailand. The food is on a different level. Thailand is slightly more expensive but that's a price I'm more than happy to pay. Visas are a negative with Thailand. Much stricter rules than the Philippines. As busy as Bangkok traffic is Manila is a car park at times. But I'm glad you saw and experienced many places.
This article is a real petition and article from a Filipino that sees various problems which is more than Thailand in almost every aspect. And knowledgeable and educated people accept these things. But there are still some Filipinos who are still deaf and blind who cannot see the problems of their own country. But trying to cheer for their own country in the wrong way. The more people come out to support the wrong and random things, the bigger it will go causing the country to lack sustainable development. While Thailand has developed very far We can barely keep up. From modern, large airports, infrastructure systems in every province, the country is clean. People with knowledge and education. Here are the Philippine problems that prevent foreign tourists from coming to our country: 1. We do not have a modern infrastructure like Thailand. 2. We do not have modern transportation, Subways, High-speed trains. Double track, Railway system Monorail 3. The internet is weak or non-existent. 4. Power outage (power outage) 5. The water is weak or lacking or there is no water. 6. Robbery at NAIA Airport 7. Accommodation is very expensive. 8. There are many pickpockets, snatchers, and criminals in the Philippines. At the mall there must be soldiers everywhere with guns. 9. There are a lot of illegal taxi and tricycle drivers. Extorting money from locals and tourists Overcharging/defrauding foreign tourists 10. Garbage or rubbish on roads and sidewalks Including in many rivers and canals. 11. Even on beaches, seas, forests, and mountains, there is garbage..plastic bottles, plastic bags, wrapping paper, and other garbage. 12. Vendors sell illegal goods on the street/sidewalk. There were merchants in the middle of Badian Valley. San Sai Panglao and the banks of the seas of El Nido and Coron. Dirty and there is a lot of garbage in our environment and nature. Shop in the right place. 13. Smugglers, street people, and beggars everywhere. especially children that asks for money from foreigners 14. Our medical and public health systems still lag behind when compared to Thailand. Then we say "It's more fun or better in the Philippines" ??? It is very embarrassing! Tourism stimulates our local economy as foreigners spend money in our country which helps our local businesses earn more money. Local and national governments must take some steps to address these issues. I want to see Thailand as a good example of development.
Such a refreshing online experience to see a Filipino who is not blindly patriotic of their country when it comes to a realistic/unbiased comparison between Thailand and Philippines @@elmirafavela3463
Have just seen your Philippines/Thailand comparison video. For someone who is only an occasional visitor, your assessment was excellent. I have lived in Chiang Mai for 15 years and before that was an occasional visitor (from Australia) for 25 years. Thailand is an extremely refined and ultra civilized country. Whereas (to generalise) they may not be particularly deep thinkers, traditional Buddhist civilization over many centuries gives Thais an almost instinctive and cultured philosophical attitude to life. This phenomenon is the same for Thais who happen to be Christian or Muslim. In all my years living here and visiting, have never once seen an instance of road rage, or even people raising their voices after being involved in a road accident. However as you imply, life can be lonely in Thailand if you don't speak the language. And even if a farang does speak Thai, the cultural barrier is immense, despite goodwill on both sides. Interestingly enough, I have found Filipinos who live here to be among the best Thai language speakers, running a close second to the Chinese. I have not been to the Phillipines for more then 30 years. I visited twice in my late 30's and unfortunately was mugged at gunpoint in Manila on the 2nd occasion. Consequently I gained a prejudice and have never been back. However time changes everything, including feelings and perceptions. So in early 2023 am going to give the country another try. Will avoid Manila completely, and change flights for Davao City without leaving the airport. I also want to look at Cagayan de Oro and Dumaguete. The first time I visited I also went to Cebu City, which I liked, but no doubt it is greatly changed. Anyway, much as I love Thailand, perhaps it is time for me to change countries. Filipino people are definitely easier for a Western foreigner to interact with. As to why I don't return to Australia, which is really a great place to live: essentially it is a country for young people who are trying to save money or build a career. It is also horrendously expensive, although wages are also very high. In addition, although retired people there who are solvent have a physically comfortable life with all amenities, you always get the sense of being irrelevant. ie count your blessings, stay out of sight, and keep quiet. One advantage of Thai culture is respect for the older generation, and I believe the same applies in the Philippines. Thanks for the video. You are not a Pea, you are a Gem!
Wow you must be a smart person, so we'll articulated and balanced comment. And so valuable as it is based on an extensive life experience over many years. Thank you for your comment, it was a refreshing pleasure to read something smart on social media 👍🏽
I agree with you about Australia and would add that the behaviour of the government especially law enforcement during the pandemic was atrocious and nearly unbelievable for a country that supposedly has “rights”. Those “rights” were tossed out the window so easily that it almost made your head spin. After seeing all the local Australian news in 2019, 20,& 21 I decided I won’t be visiting there again. Been there done that anyway. Cheers
@@prepperjonpnw6482 Spot on, I think if Leopold ever returned to Australia he wouldn't recognize it, we have been completely overtaken by an International set with no regard for the local people or democracy, rights or anything else other than their own power like much of the West.
I married my Thai wife over 15 years ago. You will never find a more beautiful, lovely, caring and intelligent woman. I bought our house 16 years ago and have lived here for the past 4 years. The most wonderful experience of my life and I've been to 68 countries. I've been to the Philippines and there is no comparison with Thailand. A large part is down to Buddhism which is a central part of life here. Another is that they have not been invaded for 1000 years and are fiercely patriotic. As a foreigner if you respect them they will respect you equally, if not more so.
2024 - and - I'm just a US retired old man - searching the globe - ( w/o bias ) - for a comfortable retirement destination just for myself - these past 2 years. -- Thailand has been historically recommended - but the govt. is not so friendly with their visa policy - have stiff financial requirements - and now - wants to tax all your income !!! > Many need to do visa runs due to ridiculous laws - unlike Cambodia next door for example - or the Philippines which allows 3 years on a simple tourist visa ? + Both countries speak more English - are friendlier people in general and Cambodia even accepts USD !!! -- The people in Thailand - speak little English - road & business signs and menus are not easily understood. (?) = There are 'tradeoffs' everywhere in the world that I look ??? 🤔 I simply want to be "comfortable" in my last years - not have my life made difficult by self serving Govt.'s ? Too old to learn any new languages either ! -- Or I might pick Mexico - closer to home and a milder climate possible ?
I lived in the Philippines for a couple of years with a wonderful nurse I met in Doha, Qatar where we both worked. Decades earlier I was in the Navy my first foreign country was the Philippines and passed through a few times, but did not have much time to get to know the real Philippines. However, I have visited Thailand numerous times for several years, mostly down in the southern islands of Ko Phuket and Ko Samui for a couple of weeks at a time. Also Bangkok a few times to use the top notch medical hospitals for LASIK and a total knee replacement. I agree the language barrier is more in Thailand as most Filipinos I knew, male & female, spoke English very well and my nurse girlfriend spoke really good. Anyway, I was introduced to a former high school teacher and now businesswoman in Thailand via a mutual Thai friend and after Facebook messaging for over a year when I was back in the US, we finally had time to meet up in person. Long story shorter, she was different and more independent than either Filipino or Thai women I have met in the past and we hit it off and we are still together living in Thailand after more that 3 years. She is the youngest and most successful in her family and supports her parents and told me not to worry about me needing to support them up in the Northern province. We met in Bangkok and she surprised me the first day picking me up with her own car as most Thai women do not drive cars. I love both countries and the women are very pretty and feminine and let a man be a man which is a big relief after being married to an American woman for too long. Anyway love watching your videos.
I spent 3 months in Thailand and 1 month in Palawan and a week in Manila. I am currently wrestling with this very issue, where to retire in SE Asia, but Thailand edges it for me. Accommodation I would challenge you on this one Pea. IMO like-for-like quality long-term leased accommodation is far cheaper in Thailand this forms a core to your living costs. In Palawan, the big issue is good standard rental accommodation was scarce or expensive. Loose comparables would be twice the price in Palawan, compared to Rayong or Hua Hin, and three to four times that of northern Thailand. In northern Thailand, I rented a 160sqm air-conditioned house for 6000 PHP, 4000THB, £90 or $110 a month. For those wishing to buy a home, Thailand also has many high-quality condominiums and housing developments available for foreign ownership, the developers have already set up lease land arrangements. To my knowledge, Palawan developments do not, in almost every case need to make you own arrangements for land leasing and building property around the existing laws. Oh there are a few condo developments on the outskirts of Puerto but they start at 5m PHP for a min studio, ridiculous vs build cost and comparables for 2.3m PHP in Thailand. Language In Manila much better, but I found the general standard of English comprehension (not the ability to speak English) very poor across shops, hotels, and Malls. Ask a question and wait for the deer in the headlights' response. Example: Me "I would like a large Coke Zero please", Server "We do not have any Po" Me "What other drinks with no sugar do you have?" Server "We have Coke, Fanta, Sprite......" Me: But those all contain sugar, what sugar-free drinks do you have?" Server: Deer in Highlights look, no response. Me: So do you sell water? and so on. I found it frustrating. I would rather have an expectation staff do not speak English and prepare to speak in their Language or in the case of restaurants ask in Thai for the food or an English menu. Manners I also found queue-jumping Filipinos irritating. A number of times I was stood queuing to be sat in a restaurant or waiting to be served at a pharmacy, shop, or restaurant, Yet many male younger Filipinos (20-40) would walk in, pass me like I was invisible and go and get served. Never experienced that once in Thailand, even with the language barrier, they would always ask. Food The fish is good in both countries was great, but it's accepted that Filipino food is bland compared to Thai. It is also often laced with sugar when it isn't needed. Goods and foods are readily available and plentiful in Thailand. Interesting Im going to give the Philippines another go for longer before I give up, maybe I was missing something
There is no way to challenge on accommodation: Philippines lose, and Indonesia lose and Malaysia lose and Laos lose. Only Vietnam can keep up with Thailand. For me it really comes down to the character of the female partner. And i trust Filipinas much more than any thai women. It's a cultural thing.
You'd rather talk to someone who doesn't speak the language you speak at all, over talking to someone who speaks intermediate english? That doesn't make sense. How does that solve the problem of them misunderstanding you, in any way?
Dear pea,so I have been married to a Thai for 36 years,just retired at 57,I was married at 21.I have been to 141 countries and by far the Philippines is by far the best for me,I would choose to live in the phillipines but I have Thai wife,both countries are full of kind wonderful people,thank you for a brilliant channel,keep up the good work,all my love david from london
This has been an amazing series. The tour of Thailand was very realistic but also balanced. Difficult to choose between which but I think choosing the Philippines for me might be biased because of Pea!!!
Travel to both countries and make an informed decision. Not what somebody is telling you. And besides, there's no fried scorpions to eat in the Philippines.
I'd choose Philippines because my wife if Filipina so no biased just common sense and they know how to party better and have Red Horse I move for vote of confidence for Filipina Pea...I'm Phillipines lover and I approve this message!! 💯💯😁😁
Hey Pea thanks for your thoughts on both countries. I’ve lived in Laos &Thailand for about 10 years and I’ve visited the Philippines multiple times and without a doubt Filipinos are friendlier and language makes it a much better destination for retirement for most people unless you enjoy the challenge or excitement of learning a language .
You are right - those are the two areas where the Philippines beats Thailand ... and I will add one more: the Philippines is more affordable. Now where is Thailand superior? Thailand is a little more developed and it is a wealthier country. - it has been better hospitals, roads, infrastructure, there is less poverty. Thailand is a more liberal country - just ask anyone in the LGBT+ community. But Thailand was never colonized nor ruled by a western power, Philippines was a colony of both Spain and the US. The Thais are very proud.
I got interested in Asian culture when I was a kid having a Cantonese friend whose father was the head chef in the only Asian restaurant in town. I learned a lot of their culture growing up (and this was during the Vietnamese American war) and living in a west Texas oil town (Midland) I became well aware of the effects of what suppression brings about in Asian families. Move forward several years, I move through two larger cities, Houston and El Paso, then joined the Navy, and traved through the Pacific and Indian Oceans visiting countries along the way. Thailand was a neat and exciting country and appeared to have retained more of its original culture and ways, also because they had not to submit to western or Eastern rule to the point that it really impacted the people of the land, changing the beliefs and social norms of the people. One very important part of Thailand is their faiths, especially Buddhism, that many Westerners are totally unfamiliar with, and can confuse and "overshadow" their experience in Thailand. Thailand is still a beautiful country with many, many unforgettable experiences for the traveler. The Philippines is a different experience, one that left a tremendous mark in my heart, because of the fact that it has been westernized a bit because of being subjugate to Spanish rule for 300 years that converted a majority of the country to Catholicism, the incursion and take over by the Japanese in WWII, and rescue by the Americans, by the efforts of General MacArthur during the world war,, that really changed the Philippines, to be topped off with the fanatical rulership of Ferdinand Marcos and his wife Emelda, that permanently changed almost all of the Philippines. I think it is so important to learn some of a country's history and political history to start seeing insight into the people who are native to the lands. Religious beliefs should also be a strong priority especially if the beliefs are different than your own. Learning these pillars of understanding along with the foundations of the culture of the people themselves, you can make a visit to a different place a unbelievable experience!
Really excellent comment. I think that Buddhism is so fundamental to Thai culture that you miss so much if you ignore it. It is one of the main reasons I will choose Thailand over the Philippines.
The Msrcos family almost destroyed the Philippines If they had more time they would have completed the destruction But the Philippines people love them so they give them a new chance
I expected Filipina Pea would be biased towards the Philippines, but she did a surprisingly good job of pointing out the pros + cons + differences of both countries. Good job.
I have always considered both countries. In the end though, the Philippines was the only option for me because in addition to the huge cultural adjustment the difficult language barrier would be a killer. I am happily married to a Filipina and living in the provinces of Cebu. The conversational English is very bearable and I am slowly assimilating to the culture.
I have never been to either country but have done some research and watched a ton of vids my conclusion is that they are two very different countries - Philippines is more Americanized and easier for an American to retire to the people are nice but the food is not great, good Hospitals in the cities, but definitely your experiencing the island life which is everything is slow - On the other hand Thai is very Asian and definitely more geared for foreigners who are looking for that and can live outside there comfort zones. They have some of the best food in the World, and they have Great Hospitals, and a better infrastructure, people though not near as friendly as Philippines - Now as I said I have never been to these countries this is just my personal thoughts from watching shows on CZcams - I do plan on visiting both countries in the very near future as I have lived in other countries and laugh at those articles that say "Best Place To Retire" I am like have you ever visited my country...lol ..
You nailed my plan. Move a Filipina to Thailand. The perfect mixture for me. I agree with most of what you say. I find rental values much better in Thailand. Just so you know, it is better to find your place through different methods than hiring an agent for a search for accommodations. Their salary is one month's rent so they are not motivated to show the good deals. As far as restaurants go, there are scads of great Thai restaurants where wonderful meals can be had for as little as 5-10 USD. I notice you passed on mentioning a qualitative review of the cuisines. Thai food by a mile.
Some of the rentals in Philippines are downright gross. Locals in the Philippines just think it's normal. Thailand has the most beautiful houses and apartments for the money, hands down.
Pea, thank you for investigating Thailand. 🇹🇭 While the kingdom is still my current choice for a retirement destination, I plan to visit the Philippines frequently. You’re the best. Thanks again for the videos. 🤗
Having resided in both places I have to vote for Thailand. No disrespect to the Philippines or Filipinos. I love both countries, the cultures, and people. The reason why I say The Kingdom is due to a more clean an d organized society. I say the word DISCIPLINE which in my humble Western opinion and attitude is lacking in your country. This is no reflection in you or your countrymen. I've learn so much about myself living in the Philippines. I choose Thailand because of the clean hospitals as I'm growing older and will need quality health care. I've been to so-called the TOP hospitals in your country in Mindanao, Cebu, and Luzon. It's was scary what I observed. Some will say I'm being "racist" or "anti-Filipino." Far from that. Secondly, the food in Thailand makes my taste buds orgasim. Thirdly, I'm a beach/ocean guy. The fishing, scuba diving, and beach crawls in Thailand are the best!
I'm going to give a perhaps non-consensus opinion on the difficulty of becoming practically functional or even fluent in Thai vs. Tagalog or Visayan for a western native English speaker such as myself. I find Thai to be much easier to pick up than Tagalog because the words are much shorter, and there is minimal grammar in Thai. The tones you find in Thai but not Filipino languages can be your friend or your foe. Let me explain. Westerners are not used to applying a tone on each syllable to distinguish meaning. But once you get used to it, you start appreciating how simple sentences are. Thai has 5 tones. In your early days, you need to practice them a lot. But once you become very familiar with them and understand how each syllable needs to be produced with one of the five, you can learn how to produce and understand everyday phrases and sentences since they tend to be very succinct and don't involve changing verbs tenses, etc. I struggle to remember long words with long strings of syllables. Tagalog has a lot of this, probably because tone choices cannot be used to add to the meaning of each sound. So for me, Tagalog is very difficult; after years, I still don't get it. But another tonal language - Mandarin Chinese - was relatively easy for me to pick up because it's similar to Thai in that it has tones (4 for Mandarin), short words/phrases, and very little grammar. So for those who assume Thai is impossible for a westerner to learn well, consider that this belief may be partially a myth, maybe due to the perceived mystery of the far east. But if the humor bond is key the way it seems to be for Pea, well, that's something that would be extremely difficult for guys like us to learn in either Thai or Tagalog. But in the Philippines, many locals also know western/Anglo humor in English, thanks to their exposure to our movies and contact with Anglos. You just won't get this with most Thais.
Hi, I recently came back from a trip to Thailand. I was there about 2 months. Your experiences mirrored many of mine. I met a many nice people but communication was extremely difficult. App translators were little help. I visited the provinces of the north and communication plummeted from bad to zero. I also got a strong feeling of a barrier between myself and Thai people. They were always very polite....just somewhat distant. The infrastructure in Hua Hin where I spent some of my time was very good. I did find the cost of living as compared to the USA was about 60 percent less, which was great. I generally ate my meals at street vendors as it was cost effective and the food was great! Once noticeable issue I had was that many of the Thai people I conversed with seemed to stereotype me as "The Rich Farang" and while untrue, it made me uncomfortable and on guard. I would like to next visit the Philippines this year as a comparison. I hear many great things about your country and would like to experience it first hand. I am looking for a retirement home for at least 6 months out of each year. You country is on my list to explore. Thank you Pea for your videos, you do an excellent job and they are very informative. Thanks again, Rick
I’ve lived in both. You’ll be perceived as being rich in both places and relative to their citizens you will be unless you’re a destitute pensioner trying to eke it out on $1200 a month. Both populations are friendly and accepting as long as you don’t act like an ass. Everyone wants a better life and wants a little of our money. Difference is that Thais are extremely provincial and have no desire to leave Thailand for the most part. Filipinos on the other hand , especially if you’re American have the immediate eyeball on the green card potential you show. Either way it will cost you money (as with any woman anywhere) but a lot less than a western marriage and subsequent divorce fiasco lol
Rick great insight. Me not speaking the language and not being able to communicate with wonderful people frustrating. (Shame on those who think everyone should speak English we are in their country) phillipines is wonderful but different. Pea has a great comparison. Rick I hope you blog or post more of your insight......God Bless
There is no doubt that the language barrier is problem in Thailand. But the landscape and beaches absolutely are better hands down than in the Philippines. Phuket, James Bond island, Koh Samui, Pattaya, come on Pea. Boracay, that's it?
A few points about language in Thailand. Except for the remote countryside you are going to pretty easily be able to meet your basic needs of day-to-day living here even if you don’t speak the language. There are expats living all over Thailand and particularly in the cities. There are expat groups everywhere where you can meet and speak English with people from all over the world. Women? There are Thai women that speak English either rudimentary or fluently but you have a much smaller pool to choose from within the general population. You just have to figure out how to find them. You won’t have woman coming up to you and speaking English the first day. When you do have a gf/wife she will speak English (because that is who you chose) and she will be a great help as a translator when needed. I’ve never met an expat couple in Thailand where the woman didn’t speak English. I’m not sure how a Filipina partner in Thailand helps you if neither of you speak Thai. Also, you won't being going to a government office to verify that she is not married. You will be aware daily though that the people around you are speaking another language and most of the signage is in a different alphabet. Learning a little Thai is possible for most people but there is no need to be fluent.
This was one of the best comparisons I have ever seen between the two countries, and should be required viewing for any potential expat planning to retire in one of them However, the social conditions in the Philippines are much worse than in Thailand. Pea did touch on this topic, but in my view she only partially addressed the actual gap between the two countries.
What a great unbiased summary Pea. I would say language really is the main obstacle for most foreigners to get to know Thais. English classes at school, for many Thais, are like medicine. So it’s no surprise if they would avoid having anything to do with it if not necessary. That’s why when the Thais know you are not local, only few will have the courage to start a conversation. But believe me, most Thais will try to treat foreigners as best as can in most situations. It’s been embedded in the belief system to take good care of your guests (sometimes even better than to their fellow Thais :).
Very interesting content, Pea. I love how diplomaticly you conducted yourself, refraining from judgments and simply reporting what you observed and taking ownership of how your preferences might be influencing your perceptions. I see you maturing as a content creator, and I applaud you for this.
When I came back and reread this comment, I had the thought that it could have been taken as a statement that "maturing" was needed or called for. That's not how I meant it. Everything I wrote was intended as a compliment.
I spent 6 months in each country, TL and PH. And one huge difference that I noticed was in the immigration office. On TL I had to go every 30 days and it would take most of a day waiting, maybe 4-5 hours. In PH it was very quick and easy, maybe 20 minutes. In TL they mostly want to get the sexpat tourists who come for 2 weeks and spend a lot of money then leave, but in PH they're much more friendly about people who want to stay a long time.
I plan on taking advantage of the best each country has to offer. I already am married to my lovely Filipina. However I enjoy the infrastructure and food in Thailand much more than the Philippines. Food is a very big deal for me. Sadly I cannot get excited about the food in Phils and I view this as a major negative. We'll look to retire up in Chiang Mai in a few years. It's nice because Philippines will always be a 3 hour flight away from Thailand so it's convenient. So I vote using the hybrid approach :)
Your observations about Thailand is very true and correct. I might add that singers are very more widespread and very good in the Philippines. Despite how hard they try, Thai singers have great difficulty singing American songs. I agree, the best if both worlds is having a Filipina girlfriend living with you in Thailand. Infact all my friends here in Pattaya are in the music industry. It's amazing how much support they have for each other. There is a huge Filipino network of performers here in Pattaya and Bangkok. Most everyone here that are Filipino speak English but often you will here Tagalog amoung there friends. My Facebook Friends list is 95% Filipino. So I feel like a Filipino but am American from California. I worked in the Postal Service and can honestly say the Filipinos were the hardest working and friendly people I had the pleasure working with. A Filipina window clerk suggested I visit the Philippines and I did. It's people who make the Country great. Of all the countries I've visited worldwide, Philippines is #1 on my list.
I recently returned from Thailand and still have PTSD from having a Thai singer scream Gloria Gaynor's I will survive at a club I was passing.. The one thing I will say is its a hard song to pull off with talent.... she didn't really have any and you can imagine my shock when I passed the following day and she was back there with her band!
I've visited both a few times and you pretty much nailed it. The easiest way for me to describe Thailand is it's a country run by introverts. I think this is mostly because its a Buddhist country and it truly is "up to you". The Philippines is like Asia lite for an American. I'm guessing its because of the large military presence for so many years. Cheers Pea!
Thanks Miss Pea. I have been in Thailand few times and actually you are right, it always depends what people come for. Culture wise Thsi is completely different from the Christianity, so I was amazed by Buddha temples and the way they attend it. Food is absolutely amazing, I always liked seafood and they cook it really nice and delicious. The way Thai people look, well yeah you were right, Thai people dress smart, also they are very clean and take shower 3-4 times a day for sure, besides they change clothes evry time (actually everyone would do after being sweaty from 36 C heat) 😊 I have never been in Philippines though, but it will be my next destination. Thanks for such an important comparison. Take care Miss Pea. God bless 🙏
Ive been in Thailand for over 2 months and I found that using Google Translate and just showing them my screen so they could read it, and then letting them know that they could speak in Thai back into the phone that it would translate it to English :) Glad you liked it here, soon I will be to the Philippines for the first time :)
@The Filipina Pea Im looking forward to it, Time in Manila, Bacolod, Cebu and who knows where else it will take us :) We will for sure make lots and lots of videos from your country coming from a beginner video maker like me :) (Im a computer nerd not a photographer)
For people and beaches, the Philippines takes it. For renting homes, many say Thailand is cheaper even though we have a long term lease on a 2 bedroom 2 bath home walking distance to beautiful beaches, for 8000 pesos per month, (About $150 now). The bottom line for me is this- the Philippines has the people are much more friendly.
A Philippines adventure Curious about what province and city were you renting for the 2 bedroom 2 bath for P8,000, We're arriving in the Philippines end of August and would love to rent something similar to yours, thank you so much in advance ☺️
I agree with you 100% that communication and a common sense of humor is important, if not absolutely necessary. For 60 years my dad told dumb jokes and mom laughed. She really thought he was hilarious. No one else thought so. But Mom was the only audience that Dad needed.
Hi Pea, as someone who has been married to a Thai lady for 17 years, I'd think you have a very good understanding of Thailand and the system, better than most men casually travelling there. I agree that Thailand is a little more expensive place to reside but has better infrastructure and quality of most services. The once thing that you didn't bring up is the concept of 'face' and saving face. It's huge for the Thais, they have a very hard time saying, 'I don't know' or 'sorry I was mistaken', to them, that can lead to a loss face. I'm not an expert on the PI, so I don't know if the PI has equivalent, but that combined with the language barrier can lead to some interesting situations for Thai/Western interactions. The other thing that really contrasts Thai and PI is each country's most prominent religion, with Buddhism in Thailand and Catholicism in the PI, both are great religions, but they shape a lot of each country's society. And is probably a topic best left alone. Enjoyed the video and it looked like you enjoyed your trip. Thanks.
Catholic is not a religion The mafia and pedophile are using it to keep the people down and stupid Just open your eyes and check the history how they misbehaving Molesting children and committing serious crimes See what they did in Canada and the rest of the world to the local people Only the white men rules are important locals can die Not even considered humans
Oh yes, the Philippines has that silly ‘saving face’ thing too, which often leads to a lot of just plain lying! I even made a video about it that you might find interesting: czcams.com/video/y7KcHJbm96g/video.html
Thanks for taking the trip and showing us around and giving us information. I have seen lots of videos from both countries, and Thailand does always look cleaner and more modern, and Philippines seems to have more poverty, but the people always seem friendly and willing to engage a stranger making them feel more welcome.
Pea thank you for this series and especially the (mostly) unbiased wrap up in this video. I am one of those considering either Thailand or PI. The lack of age gap relationships in Thailand is of no concern as I do not want a LAG relationship. The cleanliness, traffic (and following road rules plus driving on the correct side of the road) and infrastructure are all positves in Thailand but the language barrier is a big one. I could easily survive in PI but I am aware that even with Thailands advantages the language barrier will be a big one. One concern re PI is the changes that have been made to the SRRV by the new president and wondering what other changes may be coming that will deter foreigners living there. Thanks again for your wonderful comparison between these two retirement destinations. God Bless.
regarding age gap, if i was going to philippines i would choose a girl in her 20s. In thailand i would have no problem with a girl in her 40s (i'm in my 50s), because in thailand they really maintain their body and looks into older age. Not so much in the philippines. Regarding the language, thai is not as hard to learn as you might think. I've tried mandarin and vietnamese but i consider those languages virtually impossible to learn, at least for me. But i'm enjoying learning thai and i'm confident i will be reasonably fluent one day.
As a Thai 🇹🇭 We don't usually do this kind of comparison, Because it's something that people have to experience for themselves before they retire in Thailand or somewhere else. Everyone has different lifestyle tastes. Therefore, we dare not compare or suggest with little information or knowledge. It would be an insult to the intelligence of others or our guests. So we tend to keep quiet, humble and try to improve everything as best as we can especially the healthcare system because we know that at the end.. You will need it. 🤟
Not to worry about comparison of our country to yours because the number alone of foreigners in Thailand speaks of how much better it is than the Philippines and also Filipina Pea spoke a lot of positives of Thailand. For the Philippines, it's usually just the English spoken in the Philippines and the wide age-gap being a thing in provinces in the Philippines and most of the rest goes to Thailand. At the end of the day, it is the foreigners' choice where to go.
@@miguelbalisi9952 I'm not Thai or Filipino but both cultures have unique characteristics and one may appeal more than the other to certain people. I think her video was fair. But both have great people. I have met some of the nicest people in my life from both countries.
If your wanting to be receptive to foreigners then the best thing you can do is learn English. My wife and I was there for a week and spoke to maybe 10 people because nobody else knew how to speak English. She is Filipino and I am American. Americans know one language and that is English, which most of the world speaks, especially the countries who welcome foreigners to their land to spend money! That's just my input!
I have been visiting Thailand 5 times and visited philippines 3 times. So for me I know but for people that don't know it's good information 👌. And it's honest information about both country's. Do not get offended by reality dear friend. I like both country's but if I am to choose to retire I will choose philippines
@@advancedanrI think that a person travelling to another country and expecting them to be able to speak your language is a bit self-centered, but maybe naive. When I go to a country where the native language is not English I make an effort to learn something about their language beforehand. I've been living in Thailand for many years, and from the start I made a point of learning the language. I think it's respectful. I definitely don't expect them to speak my language unless they're in a tourist scenario.
Great video Pea! I think whoever Incorporated the English language into Filipino society was a genius when it comes to attracting Westerners to the country, that, the friendliness of the Filipino people and the sweet nature of the Filipina will keep Westerners coming for years to come.
About english being our second language, Americans were responsible. We were colonized by Americans for48 years. It began with the cession of the Philippines to the U.S. by Spain in 1898 and lasted until the U.S. recognition of Philippine independence in 1946. Since then we've never stopped using it.
I'm glad you had a safe trip Pea. I'm excited to watch this a little later this morning and hear what you say. I think I'd still have to say Philippines because of language and friendly people like you!
I agree 100%. I found being single in Thailand is a lot easier than being single in the Philippines. I wanted to find a place to live before I found a mate found that the experience is difficult without having someone to help. I’m in a difficult position because I can’t stand the thought of getting into relationship with someone and then leaving them because i want to live somewhere else . So afraid of commitment on marrying somebody just to bring them to another country and find out it doesn’t work. I think I think to much 🤔I think . Lost between two countries. Oh big fan in Dumaguete but still loooking . 🥰
Hi Jay, while I understand your concerns, if you're honest & open with anyone you meet from the word go...would that not ease your concerns? Or is it also about keeping your options open, until you meet the special one for you? Either way, it's your life so be yourself & be happy.
@@TheFilipinaPea "Thinking is the great enemy of perfection. The habit of profound reflection, I am compelled to say, is the most pernicious of all the habits formed by the civilized man." These words are from the Author's Note for Joseph Conrad's great novel, "Victory." Joe was a neurasthenic ruminator of the first order, and knew all about overthinking.
I could live another 63 years and not see a beautiful Filipina wearing a Nirvana t-shirt. The ability to converse deeply with the woman I love outweighs some of the hassles of the Philippines. Thank you again for a quality finish to a great Thai series !
Awesome video series, Pea! I enjoyed every one of your Thailand videos. I've never been to either country, but have watched hours on content from various providers. My impression of both are exact opposites. The infrastructure is more advanced in Thailand with some really beautiful and affordable beachfront condos and... the nightlife is certainly a busy scene in Thailand. That being said, the Philippine women seem much more demure and beautiful. Plus it seems to me the Philippines has a much more structured moral code then Thailand, which I like. My knowledge of the Philippines is more centered around Dumaguete and Valencia. People seem way more down to earth as opposed to Manila or Cebu. I live in Dallas, a BIG Texas city, but would prefer a slower lifestyle. Anyway, I love your Channel and look forward to future videos. You are are a charming, charismatic, intelligent and beautiful lady. Take care Pea!
I fairly much agree with all your perspectives contrasting Thailand and the Philippines. I, summarize it this way.. the Thai are all business, while the Filipinos are all heart...
Thailand being cleaner has only improved a lot in the last 10 years. I guess once you are more comfortable in your lifestyle(less poverty), you tend to care about your surroundings, more. Thailand improves every year, being cleaner with each year and with better infrastructure. It's a work in progress, of course, and Pea's comment about Philippines being a generation behind, is probably pretty accurate. I know a few couples in Thailand who have Filipino girlfriends, or wives. They seem pretty happy, and becoming more familiar with the culture helps with identifying when Thais are being friendly.
"familiar with the culture helps with identifying when Thais are being friendly." I can tell you have really strong Thai understanding, that statement is gold.
That’s an accurate overview of Thailand Pea, you’re like a little sponge, soaking up up culture and information wherever you go. Thailand edges it for me for infrastructure, efficiency, cleanliness and food. The Philippines edges it for the people, friendliness, language….and of course girls. If you found the language issue challenging in Thailand, just wait until you get to visit Vietnam haha. All countries are great to visit for vacations, but the Philippines is the only place I seriously consider for retirement.
Excellent observations Super Pea! I agree neither country is better, you just have to find the one that fits you best. I personally prefer, someone you can communicate with, friendly people, loud music, cheaper cost of living, knowing who my neighbors are, living in a tropical island paradise, and falling in love with beautiful, intelligent loving women in the Philippines.
I enjoyed Thailand. My tour guide was my wife, who is from Thailand. I had the advantage of always having a translator with me. I agree that the language is a major issue. I found the culture and the people that I met wonderful.
I've narrowed my potential retirement locations to Baguio City, Philippines, Panama City, Panama, and Bangkok, Thailand. My plan is to spend two weeks in Panama in 2023, two weeks in Baguio City in 2024, and two weeks in Bangkok in 2025, then begin the rotation again. I'll retire in 2028, sell everything, pack two suitcases, and spend the next fourteen months across the three countries, deciding which one becomes my permanent home.
You did a great job telling about the differences between both countries. Very helpful! Fast reliable internet service is important to me. Thailand will probably be my choice to live based on that alone. I'm in Mexico now and have lived here for almost four years. I'm ready for a change. Thank you again for this video, for all of your videos!
Yes, the fact that there is a VA clinic in Manila is a HUGE factor to me (and other US military vets) looking at the Philippines for retirement. Also, with the US military reopening several bases in PI I'll have access to medical care there as well (and commissary and exchange access too). I found the same thing to be true about Thai women: They look at you MUCH more analytically then I remember Filipina women do. Even if they choose you (I had a friend who married one) they are even more "stingy" with affection. That clean thing is (I believe) from the Buddhist influence in the country. Most Buddhists I know are very conscious of cleanliness. They aren't afraid to get dirty, but when they can, they prefer to be clean. IT also might influence the "quiet" factor, as well as the lack of homeless and stray animals. Buddhists believe in taking care of those in need, and I suspect that carries over to animals (most Buddhists are vegetarian) and the homeless. Another great video, Pea! I appreciate you being totally honest in your assessment of not just Thailand, but your own country as well!
The cleanliness and lack of stray dogs are positive aspects of Thailand, but the social taboos and language barriers are a definite deterrent to wanting to live there. I think I'd be happier with a province girl ( like the Pea!) in the province region of the Philippines! :)
Social taboos are few, and most don't apply to foreigners. The language barrier can be a challenge, but it can be fun to learn/teach each other. Most foreigners who stay in Thailand decide NOT to live in tourist areas, for obvious reasons.
@@manuelaffonso2191 I’ve lived in both. The Philippines is a shit hole. Unsafe, no infrastructure and abject poverty which is heartbreaking to see. And yes much cleaner than the Philippines. Soi dogs are numerous as Thais don’t want to kill anything as prescribed in their Buddhist faith. Only thing Philippines has going for it is if you’re lazy and don’t want to learn English you have an easier time of it. Other than that Philippines also appeals to the destitute pensioner because of lax visa financial requirements. The ghetto of SE Asia
In the Philippines, every one moves slower, until they're in a vehicle, then speed is all that matters, everyone is polite and considerate, until in a vehicle. I thought about Thailand for a VERY short time, then You Tube recommended one of your videos and after watching it, Thailand was a distant memory and my sights turned to the Philippines. Glad you're back safe, and hope you enjoyed your vacation, even if it was a "working" vacation. Financial support should NOT be EXPECTED, it should be given because you WANT to, their parents chose to make their children and in doing so THEY CHOSE to take on all responsibilities for that child, including financial. Her family may ACT like they welcome you to the family, but I really don't think the foreigner is truly accepted as family, so why give away your hard EARNED money, relationships come and go for whatever reason, are they going to return any money you've given if things don't work out with their daughter, of course not, and I don't think a foreigner is going to ask for it either. As you pointed out in your video with the Province ladies, a wife's duties and responsibilities are to her HUSBAND, I still find it funny how quickly the ladies changed their mind about putting family 1st when you brought up what the Bible says. If you want to fix littering problems, give people more places to put their trash, more trash cans is what's needed, it would also add jobs because you need people to empty those trash cans.
Better in Thailand is the food, health system, internet, weather, shopping and may be entertaining. Philippines is cheaper and may be the people are more polite to foreigners.
I did my first year of college in Thailand. I bought a Honda sonic 125cc and really enjoyed the fresh paved jungle roads winding through the countryside. I'd love to go back for a visit one day.
I've never been to either, but it seems to me like the perfect scenario would be to blend the Filipino friendliness with the Thai orderliness. Both places are beautiful. But Thailand doesn't have the Pea, so that's definitely one mark for the Philippines!
I have visited both countries on several occasions. Thailand has more advantages, better infrastructure and Internet services, water and hydro are very reliable in Thailand not so much in the Philippines. Medical care is better, more safe in Thailand. Philippines has few advantages only, English Language and safer drivers on the road. In summary Thailand wins.
Great video as I am looking at both countries. Yes communication is a key attribute for me. Leaning toward Phillipines but visiting Thailand. Keep up the great videos.
I am considering visiting and maybe living in the Philipines, soon.The content of this video is so unbiased and informative, almost professional. I am lucky enough have lived many countries and have visited Thailand several times. I consider myself experienced in living in different cultures, but I have to say that I am very, very impressed by the content of this video.Congratulations, and thank you very for this..
I really like all your vids Ms. Pea, but this one was particularly good. You're honesty, ability to discern and relate the nuances, the subtle differences in the two cultures is very impressive. I think you are getting better and better at this, and how hard you work at it is really paying off, well done. For me , the two salient points in this discourse are the language, and the innocent naivete aspects. I, like you, need to be able to relate to my partner in a deep and meaningful way, to get to know her needs, wants fears and desires. And to be able to talk about the complicated aspects of life, like why we're here, how the universe works, and the deeply complicated nature of relationships. As for the innocent naivete thing - to me, that is something to be cherished and protected. The philopena who eventually chooses me will find that one can retain that friendliness, that trust and optimism; and still grow to be worldly and cognizant about how life works. She just needs to be nurtured, encouraged, protected, and valued as a person, and she will grow and still not lose that innocent child within her. You have related (in past vids) that I will still face hurdles with my philopena partner, such as jealousy, insecurity, perhaps lack of motivation and drive, and difficulty in communicating, sharing deeply of herself, whereas Thai women might be more wordily, mature, emotionally stable and realistic. Well, for me, I'll take that innocent, screwed up philopena, every time. If I do my job right as a partner, in a couple of years she will come to trust me, to trust in and value herself, and will flower into a healthy, vibrant, and dedicated lifelong partner.
Wow, thanks for that review, Mark - I really appreciate that 👍👍👍 Yes, I agree that the only successful relationship for me would be a deeply connected one, on a higher level than just physical companionship and shared experiences 👍
Thanks for all the information on Thailand. Very well done (as usual)! You forgot one advantage the PI has over Thailand. The PI has the Pea and that is one valuable asset! ❤
The Philippines is the best country I have ever lived in. I am from the UK. I live in Mindanao and I have never felt more at home in my life. I love the Filipino people and their beautiful culture. The Philippines is heaven for me. I could never go back to the western world, for the best is here!!
@@narendra62 The UK is terrible. I lived in London for a year and the crime was crazy. People are getting stabbed left and right. Compared to Manila or Cebu, the UK is horrible.
Great Video with great info. The keyword is FREEDOM. Neither countries are having political regimes that favours Freedom for their people, but right now Thailand is by far to prefer. I have just travelled both countries the last 3 months and I got tired of all the rules in regards to Covid in The Philippines.
Very Good job Pea. I've been to both countries myself and think you nailed many points. Your way of explaining and making your videos is both entertaining and informative. Thanks for the opinions and the female point of view.
Sin Sod (Thai Dowry as Westerners refer to it) is tricky. It's not nearly as common as it was even 15 years ago and often times the money is actually returned. This is a VERY deep topic with a lot of variables around their culture and saving face. I'm not Thai so I won't even pretend to understand it all. Honestly, the idea of westerners paying thousands of dollars for engagement rings seems just as absurd.
My experiences with Thailand were a bit different to yours because I was going for work and between 88 and 2000 definitely the infer-structure has come on a long way in 22 years particularly in Bangkok which was pretty sleazy and dirty when I was there My work took me on a lot of beaches and I made friends with a group of guys running the paragliding on one beach they virtually adopted me into their group and took me to the places only Thai people go although their English was very basic we communicated fine so I saw a warmth and affection behind the cool serene wall they usually surround themselves with
Agreed, personally I don't frequent any of the tourism. I'm not saying there's anything wrong with them per se, it's just not my cup of tea. I live more of an immersive lifestyle and have learned the language the reasonable degree. I too experienced the envelopment by the community.
Hello Pea. You did a nice job of understanding the barriers that foreigners run into when it comes to doing anything in Thailand. The language issues were number one for me when I lived there, and it's probably why I always saw my foreign friends hook up with a Thai woman very quickly once they arrived. Thai people are very warm and welcoming once you understand their culture and can speak some of their language. The foreign guys I saw who were successful learned to speak at least basic Thai if they wanted to achieve basic tasks (transportation and ordering food mostly). Anything beyond that required a better command of Thai or the intervention of a native Thai person. Yes, you're right on the money when it comes to the awful translation software. Even Google is pitiful at best. (edited). Most doctors and some dentists can speak basic English, at least enough to get you some medical care. Great video as always! Edit: The Tuk-Tuk drivers involved in the jewelry scams are working with the Thai mafia. Scary stuff that can end badly. Best to avoid those and only take a Tuk-Tuk if you know that person. As far as discounts go, the Thai people consider it a game. If you can play the game "Oh that is such a beautiful scarf. I would love to pay the asking price for it, but if I did so, my husband would never speak to me again. Is there some way I can pay you a little less money and also save my marriage?" It's said with a joke and from a light heart. They know your husband wouldn't divorce you over 10 Baht (30 cents or so), and they appreciate that you understand the culture and the spirit of bargaining. In Mexico the hard bargaining works (walk away), but not in Thailand.
HI Pea, I' m from Hawaii and are really thinking about moving to the philippines when I retire, people are friendly and the women are absolutely gorgeous
I would prefer the Philippines due to my brother's experience and his being married to a Filipina. It has been a really good marriage so...Philippines for me. Thailand may be a few years ahead on tech and transportation but the women are not as warm as Filipina women.
I've travelled a lot in Thailand and I do find the food prices there a lot cheaper than in the Philippines. I was shocked to see that some of the food items were the same as here in Sweden. If you eat where the locals eat in Thailand it is dirt cheap. I paid, on my last trip no more than $3 a meal.
Hi Pea, Thousands of Filipinos live in Thailand. My Filipina wife and I do actually live in Thailand and we both love it. Nicer, more friendly people in Thailand I'd say. So very much cleaner and well maintained. The fiber connection in my unit is about 7 times faster for one about 25% the cost of Philippines. I would never retire in Philippines or Thailand. Both places are just wrong for that (for me). You are right. There is no better country. But there is a cleaner choice. You cannot compare condo prices with Philippines because of the vast difference in quality. Anyways, just my 2 cents worth. If Philippines works best for you - that's what you should do. BTW: our "helper" is also from the Philippines. Just our preference.
@@TheFilipinaPea We found her in Thailand. There are many many Filipinos working here. You may not recall but I had suggested you interview one of the Filipinos living in Thailand. I think it would’ve been fascinating. She may have been TNT, I really do not know. But I do not believe it would be terribly difficult to bring in a helper under a work visa. My attorney in Thailand works magic. But, he is not exactly cheap.
I lived two years in the Philippines on the island of Siquijor and two years in Thailand. You can live cheaply in both countries, but in Thailand you will get a much better standard for the same money. Many people are able to find interesting houses or apartments in the Philippines at a reasonable price. It is definitely easier to find in Thailand. What distinguishes the Philippines versus Thailand is mainly the immigrants. In Thailand there are many young people 20-30-40 years old who emigrate with their families from foreign countries and live in Thailand as expats. There are very few young people in the Philippines and the vast majority of expats are 60+. However, this does not mean that there are only older people in the Philippines. I myself have several friends who are my age i.e. 30 years old. After living in the Philippines and Thailand for two years, I can definitely say in which country I lived better and what are the pros and cons. I have a Filipina girlfriend and it was very difficult to get her to go abroad. It is not impossible but you always have to expect that she will get an offload. However, the problem is not immigration. The biggest problem is that Filipina women are often poor by choice. Even if they get the chance to go to a better country, they will still miss all the Filipino culture. The Philippines is a country where everyone gossips about someone else. This is especially evident in the small provinces. I noticed that many people write that Thailand is a fake smile, etc. You are fools if you think that every Filipino loves foreigners. Most adore because we just have the cash. I'm not saying that every Filipina is a gold digger because that's not the case, but the questions "what do you do for a living?" "where do you work?" are probably not without reason. Once you get a Filipina out of poverty count on the fact that her family will be jealous and your monthly expenses will grow because once you run out of food, once someone is sick and it goes on and on. Of course, in that case, don't agree to send money. I am sending 7,000 pesos for a "Filipino family" and only because her sisters are going to college. Filipinas and Thais are nice women but finding one who will honestly love you is very difficult. My girlfriend's sister personally doesn't hate foreigners, and in the case where I did a test for them and pretended that I didn't have 7,000 pesos for the month when I was in Thailand, my sister called my girlfriend and said "TELL ME TO BUY YOU A TICKET AND RETURN" So they don't really love us that much anyway. Well, but let's get back to the specifics of why I think Thailand is better, even though there are many great places, mountains, beaches, etc. in the Philippines. Above all, Thailand gives me a sense of freedom, because I know I can always find an apartment for the price I'm looking for wherever I go. Here in the Philippines if you look on AIRBNB some people are wishing for 20,000 pesos for some bungalow or other messy rooms. In Thailand for that much you rent a condo with a swimming pool gym and sauna. Many people say there is no language barrier in the Philippines. THIS IS THE BIGGEST NONSENSE. Of course, the official language is English and all company paperwork is in this language, but the bureaucracy that prevails in this country is a deterrent in starting any business. Most people speak English, but only basic English. Older people don't speak English at all, or they break like in Thailand. Younger people in the Philippines speak English More and more Thais are starting to speak English, and I think that will eventually change in Thailand. My dream was to go to Boracay, but after seeing the prices I just gave up. Therefore, Thailand in terms of opportunities with me definitely wins. I don't want to judge Thai women because I never had a relationship with a Thai woman, but my friends who have Thai wives definitely praise them. The problem in the Philippines is that if you're going to have a girlfriend from an island, they're usually such simple people that you're going to have a hard time getting that girl anywhere abroad. In conclusion, for me Thailand definitely wins and I will list in points why. 1. better infrastructure (cheap housing prices even 2 times lower than in the Philippines). 2. better food (in the Philippines they put out lids with food first thing in the morning and no one heats it up, are they lazy enough?) 3. safety (Thailand is definitely safer than the Philippines and has less crime) 4. lack of Brownouts (I used to think it was just a problem for small islands, but even in dumaguete they have problems with lack of electricity. In a normal country they would do it in two years and the problem would be gone. 5. More stable government (There is incredible corruption in the Philippines which means that if you pay, you get everything faster, etc. 6. more interesting places (bankgok is beautiful, of course not everyone will like it, but then I would recommend going to manila where kids are out in the streets gluing themselves to the glass just to give you a few pennies) 7. more interesting culture (apart from the old churches in the Philippines there is nothing else to see) 8. and the most important point. HEALTH CARE. Honestly, I don't know how people over 60 can live in a country that won't even take care of your safety. There are no good hospitals in the small islands, the closest one to any reasonable hospital is on cebu (4 hours away by ferry). Count on the fact that if you don't have cash in the Philippines, no one will even touch you with a finger and lifesaving without money in the Philippines simply doesn't exist.In Thailand, health care is at a very high level. All this makes me choose Thailand and not the Philippines. Unfortunately, I need many other things besides beautiful beaches, and I gave the Philippines a chance several times. I was disappointed once again and decided that Thailand is the place for me.
A very good Comparison my gwapa friend pea am glad that you did enjoy your time there am also happy that you are back home in the philippines salamat for sharing such intricate details about Thailand and the Culture differences every Country has its own Charm and Beauty however for me my Choice in Southeast Asia would always be the Philippines no matter what the others have to offer this video is another one of your great as always Videos you Look great at Home my Gwapa friend pea have an awesome Adlaw Sa Dios Until next time Love Lots
Ok, my first online relationship was with a Filipina. It did not work out. Not her fault, not my fault and certainly not your fault. Thanks for your advice that helped me understand the culture which I thought was important, I still do. I am now in a relationship with an amazing Thai woman. Still I thank you for your comparison and insights. Love is love and love speaks all languages, it speaks to us one heartbeat at a time. Thanks pea. I still watch.
Thanks for a great vlog and having such insight into the country. I find it very refreshing to hear a Filipina recognize that things are done more efficiently or better than in the Philippines, in other countries besides the USA. You seemed to be very honest in your comparisons and I found the vlog very informative. I think if English was widely spoken in Thailand, they would take away much of the tourism and expats living there, from the Philippines. The biggest attraction of the Philippines over the other countries is the wide use of English.
That would be better, I guess Filipinos should start ignoring western English speaking tourists or basically any foreign tourists & talk to them in Tagalog or their local languages to make it hard & add up to their disappointment/frustration & made them more lonely in the island nation PH😁🤭
Wrong, Thai english still doesnt sound good to me, even if they did speak it fluently compared to Filipino english, so I would be sad if FIlipinos didnt now english.
Another outstanding video Pea, you’re hitting on all cylinders, the food thing is a make or break for our family and sadly and oddly the Philippines is lacking in that department. So much potential for a Thai food court in the Philippines, would be a money maker in the right locations.
So right on the food. everything is deep fried until it is dead LOL. I really can't handle all of the grease. I would kill for a bowl of Thai street noodle soup right now.
Good points you have. I’v had a relationship with a filipino girl ( many years ago) and im now married to a thai women. With all due respect to my wife, but the Filipino woman was more adventurous and curious of everything in life. My Thai wife is more careful and "calm". It may be personal, but I think there is a cultural difference between Filipino and Thai women. For better or for worse 😁
Hi Pea, thanks for your observations, I'm sure I mentioned a couple of the things you said before you went 🙂 The language is certainly one of the negatives for Thailand however I wouldn't see that as too huge a barrier as if I moved there I'd want to learn the language, in the Philippines I'd be looking to learn some of the local language there as well. I think the 2 main point that suggest the Philippines may be the better location for me relate to visa and pensions. The visa situation is much better for long term stay in the Philippines as Thailand is only looking to make it easier for you to retire there if you're rich as they're clearly after your money. Since the main part of my retirement fund will be from my social security that also points to the Philippines as the better choice - the UK government freeze your state pension at the amount when you claim it if you are living abroad, there are a few countries that are exceptions to this rule and still allow you the annual increases in the amount - the Philippines is one of these countries however Thailand is not. I'm looking forward to finally being able to make it to the Philippines towards the end of this year so that I can see things there for myself. It's fantastic to be able to follow a channel like yours and get a great deal of useful info however it's important to get a feel of a place for yourself too.
Well said Andrew. The pension freeze is something many Brits don't even know or think of, until its too late & they're already settled in Thailand. A way around it, but probably not permanent is keep a UK property/address, as if living in the UK. Have your pension paid as normal into your UK bank & transfer into a Thai bank or cash machine withdrawal. Not sure how long an individual would get away with it, but it seems its what some British expats in Thailand do.
The retirement visa/extensions are similar in cost to the Philippines SRRV. What Thailand doesn’t have is the ability to stay 3 years in the country on tourist visas/extensions. They consider tourists to be tourists and not long stay expats.
Hmm thailand v phillipines they both have good points .. I prefer phillipines to be honest the food is amazing plus the beaches are much nicer to.me ... great video pea
Thais are very inter reflective. Part of it has to do with Buddhism. The other thing you will notice is if you stay quiet like a thai they will assume you are thai, my wife was not charged a skin tax like I was at a couple places. Sorry to say you are wrong about VA services for Americans in the Philippines. The only ones that qualify are veterans with service connected disabilities. I am retired Military with no disabilities either service connected or otherwise so VA will not provide any services to me. For dating, I used to date a School Teacher up in Prasat Surin in Northeast Issan, she was fluent in English and we got along well. Our problem was her finances were a total wreck. I helped her as much as I could but it was to much. I was recovering from a brutal U.S. Divorce as it was. So her many problems were making mine worse.
I have to admit that both countries are beautiful in its own way and I can see myself doing 6 months in the Philippines and the other half in Thailand and that way I can have the best of both worlds 🌎 👌🇵🇭 🇹🇭 why settle for just one country 😁
Pea, as you said, it's a choice. Comparing different Countries can be very intricate and time consuming when trying to explain. My aunt married a Filipina man 60 years ago and they are still married to the best of my knowledge. I've been to both the Philippines and to Thailand. Both have their own appeal, but for me, I prefer the Philippines.
I’m in Thailand quite often. I’m nothing special but it’s obvious Thai’s love Americans. I can see most service personnel treat me differently then other tourists from other countries. Thailand is my happy place and love the kindness and customer service I receive thru out the country. In the Phillippines it’s more like the US, people just doing their job with as little effort as possible the only exception is when a beautiful girl once to chat you up.
Pea, I appreciate your thoughtful analysis. However, I put together my own checklist in the pro vs cons for each county. Philippines (Pro) Ability for many to converse in English. Lower cost of living. Nice friendly people. Philippines (Cons) Hard line stance on jab injections Antiquated rules on foreigners owning land Too much corruption Food is sub-standard. Too much pollution. Thailand (Pros) Fewer “Jab” Nazi’s Clean environment Better infrastructure Food is relatively good Encourage investment and ownership Thailand (Cons) Fewer people speak English Not as friendly as Filipino’s Slightly more expensive than PI Less congestion .
If you're from UK then the state pension is frozen from when you leave the country, you won't get any increases in pension, UNLESS you move to Philippines, it goes up with inflation there, check it out before you choose
2 things in my opinion where the Philippines wins. First, the people. Filipinos and Filipinas are more friendly and there isn't really the anti-foreigner (anti farang) undertones like in Thailand. Second is the language. Of course, there is the laid back lifestyle I prefer. But really, it's the people I like. The Philippines wins hands down.
Once you get out of the tourist traps, those "undertones" disappear, and are more of a perception than a reality. As for friendliness... I think Thais are extremely friendly I cannot walk anywhere without people offering rides!), and think that the difference between Thailand and the Philippines will come down to where you find that amazing woman. :)
Until recently i don’t understand why the farangs (mostly white foreigners) being singled out. It was not like that when I was there 3 years ago. Language is a big blunder when I was there. It was ok in the hotel front desk and a few restaurant.
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Personally I Love the Philippines ❤❤
It's all about the people!!!
Hit tge nail in the head pea I rather be in phippines and vist thailand and other places thailand is more ahead yes but the women not even close . 🙃 any way they don't have the pea either hahah
Not too offend anyone. These are kind of silly observations.
Thai women much more likely to have surgery (face and fake boobs)
Thai women squat a lot and have a unusual quacking noise when they talk
Pea I wanted you to know what I wrote as a comment to your video with the young ladies from the provinces that you posted 8 months ago. -
In the Bible it talks about the woman being the weaker vessel. For thousands of years that passage has been used to subjugate women. What it actually means though is quite different. Imagine a 3lb metal coffee can and a pure crystal champagne flute. The man is the coffee can, you can put nuts and bolts in it or dirt or oil all sorts of dirty nasty things. When you need it for something else you dump it out and use it for whatever. The woman is the crystal champagne flute which you only put the finest of champagne in. When you finish the champagne you don’t toss it in the dishwasher either. You carefully wash it by hand and then with a clean towel you carefully dry it until it is spotless and sparkles ✨. Then you carefully put it on a high shelf behind a door with a glass front. It’s kept there so nobody but you can touch it and it’s behind the glass fronted door so others can see it but not touch it. The coffee can is used for all the dirty day to day stuff because it can handle it and yes it may get a little beat up or dented here and there but it will continue to do it’s job and function as it always has. The crystal flute is only for the finest things in life and is treated as the most special and valuable thing in your kitchen and your world. It’s not for the day to day grime and dirt of life. That is the true meaning of that passage. I used to teach a class for young men preparing for marriage and that passage as well as Ephesians chapter 5 is what I used the most.
Think about what I wrote, men and apply it to your life. This woman that you call wife who loves you and cares for you, who is going to give you children. This woman who will care for your children and be with you through all of what life is going to throw at you. Do you want her to be your “helpmate” or as a resentful adversary? It’s actually up to you which one she becomes and you would do well to remember that.
Cheers
I learned the best way to shop in Thailand by accident. I had a Thai female friend with me and the vendors hated her. The vendors would tell me a price and my friend would loose her mind and they would begin arguing. She ALWAYS got the prices lowered for me. It shocked me the first time then it made me laugh after that.
I have lived in both countries for many years. For me to choose a winner where to live is easy, it's Thailand - with a Filipina wife :D
That’s what I suggest at the end of the video 👍👍👍
Was it easy to get her visa there?
Wise man
@@TheFilipinaPea I am in the process of obtaining an education visa for my Filipina. Once married the Filipina can piggyback on the ex-pats visa as a dependent. The education visa is a bit expensive but after the initial outlay, it is not a problem.
I agree with your statement and i already live 5 years retired in Pattaya.
My next lady should be from Philippines, so November i will be in Cebu. 😉
@@TheFilipinaPea There are pros and cons with both countries. It all depends on what is most important and what you are willing to compromise on, and in that matter we are all different. Regarding your question; the Philippines is much easier when it comes to visa matters. For the past 20 years, the rules and regulations have changed at least once per year in Thailand, which can be very annoying. The easiest solution in Thailand is to get an ELITE-visa, which lasts for 10-20 years - and costs 1-2 million Baht...
As a German who is married to a Philippina (since 50 years now!) I love the content of your
videos. A couple of years ago my wife, my sister in law an her son booked a trip to Thailand.
There were good traffic rules in the city of Bangkok. I asked my Philippino nephew if
these rules would work in Manila too. He said „ yes uncle for about 20 seconds“
His way to analyze things tells a lot of the philippino mentality.
Philippino people got a lot of humor and they are able to joke about their flaws.
Not many Asian people are like this!
Ready for an example of deep philippino humor?
Here is what a wise Philippino told me:
If you want to get rich in the Philippines you will have to add a „lord“ to your
business: landlord, druglord or praise the lord.
Hi Harald, good to hear your comparisons 👍 .. thanks mate. As you've been married for 50 years, how much has the Philippines changed over this time? ... And (I appreciate that you may not do this yourself) is the internet good enough to live there as a digital nomad? I always hear about people doing this in Thailand, but not in the Philippines.
None of that will work.
@@TheDivineScience yes, you can get good internet in the pines. My wife lives in CDO and our internet is good 👍
Lol
😂😂😂
Hi, I just spent 3 weeks in Thailand about the same time you did Pea. I haven't visited the Philippines yet, possibly my next trip in December. My observation of Thailand is very similar to yours. The country is almost as clean as here in the U.S.. My biggest surprise was that I didn't get sick. I have a weaker stomach and I usually would have a few days on every trip stuck next to the toilet. I ate everywhere and drank everything. I enjoyed eating in the street food stalls the most and I tried numerous of them.
I rented a scooter and roamed Phuket and Chiang Mai. It was extremely fun and most importantly it was safe (I traveled solo). I am a new biker, I never rode more than a few blocks before this. The rode condition was very well kept and I rarely find potholes. Even a beginner biker with almost no experience can safely explore Thailand's back country.
The things that stood out was the honesty. Everybody leaves their motorcycle helmet on the bike unguarded and unsecured. There were a few incidents where I left the keys in the ignition and nothing happened. I would buy stuff and hang them on the scooter on the street and it never got stolen. I actually overpaid a few times and the sellers would correct me. One incident that amazed me the most was when I was in Bangkok, the hotel accidentally overcharged me. The hotel messaged me numerous times but I was already on a plane. The manager got his personal friend in Phuket to drop off the money at my next hotel. I didn't even notice that I was overcharged. The honesty of the Thai people is beyond anything I ever experienced.
I look forward to comparing Thailand to the Philippines soon.
Do mind your steps in the Philippines especially in the big cities
Weak stomach dont eat and drink anything on the streets in the Philippines
Eat only at fast food restaurant
Man Inasal is one of the best places to eat if you dont want to get sick in the Philippines
After 3 weeks you still have your rosa glasses filter on. I lived 6 years in Thailand in the north. It's far from save as you think. But Philippines is neither.
I agree & disagree about Thais being honest I lived in Thailand 20 years
I'm surprised that you had a scooter in Phuket. Were you not constantly hassled by the police checkpoints looking for kick backs ?
@@eisirt55 Well, it's been a year since you asked your question and still no answer.
So, maybe the Philippines was a problem; who knows?
Only he knows.
I always choose this one when it comes to this choice!
Thailand 100%
I'm from Japan.
Today, Japan and Thailand gives non-stop flight 24/7.
Love your take on this Pea. I'm still considering moving to Thailand from Philippines, Infrastructure and Medical care are two of the most important considerations from a 60 yr old Expat.
Thailand better equipment, facilities and doctors; Philippines more caring nurses. (Maybe)
The best nurse I had when I was in hospital for 2 months was from Poland. She was very stern and exactly what I needed during physical rehab. One evening she came into my room and this was the one sided conversation: Will you be joining us in the dining room for dinner tonight? Let me rephrase that, you will be joining us in the dining room tonight.
Vasiliska (Vikki) was the best nurse for me at the time.
100% agree its crazy to me the way some expat live in Philippines makes me sad
One big attraction in the Philippines for me is their sense of humour and quick wit and ability to have a conversation about lots in general
I’ve lived in Thailand for over 2 years and been visiting for the last 7 years. As a foreigner you will always be an outsider. You are a guess and they don’t let you forget. I’ve visited the Philippines a few things and people are much friendlier. I plan to move from Thailand to cebu next year once all the covid nonsense has finished. I just wish I could some decent food in the Philippines 😂😂😂
There are a few Thai restaurants in Cebu and the prices are very reasonable.
I know what you mean, Jason - the food in the Philippines isn’t very … inspiring 😳😂
@@TheFilipinaPea It could be, they do a terrible job of marketing it and keeping things sanitary to capture the western visitors. Thailand has simply adapted better to the vacation hordes.
You mentioned fresh milk, I've said it before, I'll say it again, even lowly Dumaguete has a dairy farm managed by a MAJOR American Dairy cattle corporation and offers refrigerated fresh milk in several locations in the city. Do your homework Pea if fresh cow's milk matters to you.
When it comes to food, cleanliness is next to godliness.
If you are wise, you can take the food w/ you, simple
because how I wish I could take people from the PH to be my neighbors😁😅
If you watch president Marcos SOTN address, he said he will be removed the wuhan flu restrictions....
My family there are happy the kids will be going back to school etc......
I’ve lived 5 years in Thailand and am married to a Thai. My Thai wife speaks pretty good English and we have little difficulty communicating about most things. Western food, restaurants and groceries, are a bit more expensive as you would expect of imported foods. Thai food meals are typically $2-4 and is delicious but it helps to tolerate pretty high spice levels. I never heard you remark on the beautiful Thai temples, particularly in Chiang Mai. Pea - you described Thailand very well. Now it is just up to each of us to find what suits us individually. I’ve already made my choice in Thailand but I am well aware of the considerable benefits of the Philippines to many expats.
Hi Martin, I know we've communicated before on one YT channel or another. Perhaps this one of Miss Pea's.
Wondering what nationality you are & if a Brit, could I ask you a question on pensions in Thailand?
@@tman5634 American. Sorry, I don’t know about British pension.
@@tman5634 what's your question?
I think she meant well but clearly didn't have full thailand experience, i mostly feel like you that if you don't go to the outskirts of the cities you may not really know how cheat you can find meals, many markets serve decent meals for about $2 to $3 or less.
Those are simply amazing and that is one beautiful thing in thailand, temples masterpieces beautiful art.
Interesting to hear your thoughts.
I've been to Thailand more Times than the Philippines and I do prefer Thailand.
The language is very difficult to learn. I've tried !! But I've always got by with the little bit I know and sign language in the more remote places.
I feel totally safe in Thailand but the last time I was in the Philippines l had pick pockets try to steal from me more than once.
This has never happened in many visits to Thailand.
The food is on a different level.
Thailand is slightly more expensive but that's a price I'm more than happy to pay.
Visas are a negative with Thailand.
Much stricter rules than the Philippines.
As busy as Bangkok traffic is Manila is a car park at times.
But I'm glad you saw and experienced many places.
This article is a real petition and article from a Filipino that sees various problems which is more than Thailand in almost every aspect. And knowledgeable and educated people accept these things. But there are still some Filipinos who are still deaf and blind who cannot see the problems of their own country. But trying to cheer for their own country in the wrong way. The more people come out to support the wrong and random things, the bigger it will go causing the country to lack sustainable development. While Thailand has developed very far We can barely keep up. From modern, large airports, infrastructure systems in every province, the country is clean. People with knowledge and education.
Here are the Philippine problems that prevent foreign tourists from coming to our country:
1. We do not have a modern infrastructure like Thailand.
2. We do not have modern transportation, Subways, High-speed trains. Double track, Railway system Monorail
3. The internet is weak or non-existent.
4. Power outage (power outage)
5. The water is weak or lacking or there is no water.
6. Robbery at NAIA Airport
7. Accommodation is very expensive.
8. There are many pickpockets, snatchers, and criminals in the Philippines. At the mall there must be soldiers everywhere with guns.
9. There are a lot of illegal taxi and tricycle drivers. Extorting money from locals and tourists Overcharging/defrauding foreign tourists
10. Garbage or rubbish on roads and sidewalks Including in many rivers and canals.
11. Even on beaches, seas, forests, and mountains, there is garbage..plastic bottles, plastic bags, wrapping paper, and other garbage.
12. Vendors sell illegal goods on the street/sidewalk. There were merchants in the middle of Badian Valley. San Sai Panglao and the banks of the seas of El Nido and Coron. Dirty and there is a lot of garbage in our environment and nature. Shop in the right place.
13. Smugglers, street people, and beggars everywhere. especially children that asks for money from foreigners
14. Our medical and public health systems still lag behind when compared to Thailand.
Then we say "It's more fun or better in the Philippines" ??? It is very embarrassing! Tourism stimulates our local economy as foreigners spend money in our country which helps our local businesses earn more money. Local and national governments must take some steps to address these issues. I want to see Thailand as a good example of development.
Such a refreshing online experience to see a Filipino who is not blindly patriotic of their country when it comes to a realistic/unbiased comparison between Thailand and Philippines @@elmirafavela3463
@@elmirafavela3463💯💯💯💯
Have just seen your Philippines/Thailand comparison video. For someone who is only an occasional visitor, your assessment was excellent. I have lived in Chiang Mai for 15 years and before that was an occasional visitor (from Australia) for 25 years. Thailand is an extremely refined and ultra civilized country. Whereas (to generalise) they may not be particularly deep thinkers, traditional Buddhist civilization over many centuries gives Thais an almost instinctive and cultured philosophical attitude to life. This phenomenon is the same for Thais who happen to be Christian or Muslim. In all my years living here and visiting, have never once seen an instance of road rage, or even people raising their voices after being involved in a road accident. However as you imply, life can be lonely in Thailand if you don't speak the language. And even if a farang does speak Thai, the cultural barrier is immense, despite goodwill on both sides. Interestingly enough, I have found Filipinos who live here to be among the best Thai language speakers, running a close second to the Chinese. I have not been to the Phillipines for more then 30 years. I visited twice in my late 30's and unfortunately was mugged at gunpoint in Manila on the 2nd occasion. Consequently I gained a prejudice and have never been back. However time changes everything, including feelings and perceptions. So in early 2023 am going to give the country another try. Will avoid Manila completely, and change flights for Davao City without leaving the airport. I also want to look at Cagayan de Oro and Dumaguete. The first time I visited I also went to Cebu City, which I liked, but no doubt it is greatly changed. Anyway, much as I love Thailand, perhaps it is time for me to change countries. Filipino people are definitely easier for a Western foreigner to interact with. As to why I don't return to Australia, which is really a great place to live: essentially it is a country for young people who are trying to save money or build a career. It is also horrendously expensive, although wages are also very high. In addition, although retired people there who are solvent have a physically comfortable life with all amenities, you always get the sense of being irrelevant. ie count your blessings, stay out of sight, and keep quiet. One advantage of Thai culture is respect for the older generation, and I believe the same applies in the Philippines. Thanks for the video. You are not a Pea, you are a Gem!
Good analysis
Wow you must be a smart person, so we'll articulated and balanced comment. And so valuable as it is based on an extensive life experience over many years. Thank you for your comment, it was a refreshing pleasure to read something smart on social media 👍🏽
I agree with you about Australia and would add that the behaviour of the government especially law enforcement during the pandemic was atrocious and nearly unbelievable for a country that supposedly has “rights”. Those “rights” were tossed out the window so easily that it almost made your head spin. After seeing all the local Australian news in 2019, 20,& 21 I decided I won’t be visiting there again. Been there done that anyway. Cheers
@@prepperjonpnw6482 Spot on, I think if Leopold ever returned to Australia he wouldn't recognize it, we have been completely overtaken by an International set with no regard for the local people or democracy, rights or anything else other than their own power like much of the West.
Excellent review, thank you!
I enjoyed both places,, but to me,, there is nothing like the kindness and friendliness of the Filipino people,,
I married my Thai wife over 15 years ago. You will never find a more beautiful, lovely, caring and intelligent woman. I bought our house 16 years ago and have lived here for the past 4 years. The most wonderful experience of my life and I've been to 68 countries. I've been to the Philippines and there is no comparison with Thailand.
A large part is down to Buddhism which is a central part of life here. Another is that they have not been invaded for 1000 years and are fiercely patriotic. As a foreigner if you respect them they will respect you equally, if not more so.
Very nice to hear your perspective.
2024 - and - I'm just a US retired old man - searching the globe - ( w/o bias ) - for a comfortable retirement destination just for myself - these past 2 years. -- Thailand has been historically recommended - but the govt. is not so friendly with their visa policy - have stiff financial requirements - and now - wants to tax all your income !!! > Many need to do visa runs due to ridiculous laws - unlike Cambodia next door for example - or the Philippines which allows 3 years on a simple tourist visa ? + Both countries speak more English - are friendlier people in general and Cambodia even accepts USD !!! -- The people in Thailand - speak little English - road & business signs and menus are not easily understood. (?) = There are 'tradeoffs' everywhere in the world that I look ??? 🤔 I simply want to be "comfortable" in my last years - not have my life made difficult by self serving Govt.'s ? Too old to learn any new languages either ! -- Or I might pick Mexico - closer to home and a milder climate possible ?
I lived in the Philippines for a couple of years with a wonderful nurse I met in Doha, Qatar where we both worked. Decades earlier I was in the Navy my first foreign country was the Philippines and passed through a few times, but did not have much time to get to know the real Philippines. However, I have visited Thailand numerous times for several years, mostly down in the southern islands of Ko Phuket and Ko Samui for a couple of weeks at a time. Also Bangkok a few times to use the top notch medical hospitals for LASIK and a total knee replacement. I agree the language barrier is more in Thailand as most Filipinos I knew, male & female, spoke English very well and my nurse girlfriend spoke really good. Anyway, I was introduced to a former high school teacher and now businesswoman in Thailand via a mutual Thai friend and after Facebook messaging for over a year when I was back in the US, we finally had time to meet up in person. Long story shorter, she was different and more independent than either Filipino or Thai women I have met in the past and we hit it off and we are still together living in Thailand after more that 3 years. She is the youngest and most successful in her family and supports her parents and told me not to worry about me needing to support them up in the Northern province. We met in Bangkok and she surprised me the first day picking me up with her own car as most Thai women do not drive cars. I love both countries and the women are very pretty and feminine and let a man be a man which is a big relief after being married to an American woman for too long. Anyway love watching your videos.
Wow, Daniel - you found a Diamond there 👍❤️😳👍
I spent 3 months in Thailand and 1 month in Palawan and a week in Manila.
I am currently wrestling with this very issue, where to retire in SE Asia, but Thailand edges it for me.
Accommodation
I would challenge you on this one Pea. IMO like-for-like quality long-term leased accommodation is far cheaper in Thailand this forms a core to your living costs. In Palawan, the big issue is good standard rental accommodation was scarce or expensive. Loose comparables would be twice the price in Palawan, compared to Rayong or Hua Hin, and three to four times that of northern Thailand. In northern Thailand, I rented a 160sqm air-conditioned house for 6000 PHP, 4000THB, £90 or $110 a month. For those wishing to buy a home, Thailand also has many high-quality condominiums and housing developments available for foreign ownership, the developers have already set up lease land arrangements. To my knowledge, Palawan developments do not, in almost every case need to make you own arrangements for land leasing and building property around the existing laws. Oh there are a few condo developments on the outskirts of Puerto but they start at 5m PHP for a min studio, ridiculous vs build cost and comparables for 2.3m PHP in Thailand.
Language
In Manila much better, but I found the general standard of English comprehension (not the ability to speak English) very poor across shops, hotels, and Malls. Ask a question and wait for the deer in the headlights' response. Example: Me "I would like a large Coke Zero please", Server "We do not have any Po" Me "What other drinks with no sugar do you have?" Server "We have Coke, Fanta, Sprite......" Me: But those all contain sugar, what sugar-free drinks do you have?" Server: Deer in Highlights look, no response. Me: So do you sell water? and so on. I found it frustrating.
I would rather have an expectation staff do not speak English and prepare to speak in their Language or in the case of restaurants ask in Thai for the food or an English menu.
Manners
I also found queue-jumping Filipinos irritating. A number of times I was stood queuing to be sat in a restaurant or waiting to be served at a pharmacy, shop, or restaurant, Yet many male younger Filipinos (20-40) would walk in, pass me like I was invisible and go and get served. Never experienced that once in Thailand, even with the language barrier, they would always ask.
Food
The fish is good in both countries was great, but it's accepted that Filipino food is bland compared to Thai. It is also often laced with sugar when it isn't needed. Goods and foods are readily available and plentiful in Thailand.
Interesting Im going to give the Philippines another go for longer before I give up, maybe I was missing something
There is no way to challenge on accommodation: Philippines lose, and Indonesia lose and Malaysia lose and Laos lose. Only Vietnam can keep up with Thailand.
For me it really comes down to the character of the female partner. And i trust Filipinas much more than any thai women. It's a cultural thing.
Foreigners cannot own land in Thailand…FULL STOP…Don’t think some crazy BS lease back agreement is going to save you from this.
You'd rather talk to someone who doesn't speak the language you speak at all, over talking to someone who speaks intermediate english? That doesn't make sense. How does that solve the problem of them misunderstanding you, in any way?
Just stay in Thailand, it's better for your overall health 😅
Dear pea,so I have been married to a Thai for 36 years,just retired at 57,I was married at 21.I have been to 141 countries and by far the Philippines is by far the best for me,I would choose to live in the phillipines but I have Thai wife,both countries are full of kind wonderful people,thank you for a brilliant channel,keep up the good work,all my love david from london
This has been an amazing series. The tour of Thailand was very realistic but also balanced. Difficult to choose between which but I think choosing the Philippines for me might be biased because of Pea!!!
Hahahahaha
Well I appreciate the vote of confidence ❤️👍😂
@@TheFilipinaPea lmfao
Travel to both countries and make an informed decision. Not what somebody is telling you. And besides, there's no fried scorpions to eat in the Philippines.
I'd choose Philippines because my wife if Filipina so no biased just common sense and they know how to party better and have Red Horse I move for vote of confidence for Filipina Pea...I'm Phillipines lover and I approve this message!! 💯💯😁😁
Hey Pea thanks for your thoughts on both countries. I’ve lived in Laos &Thailand for about 10 years and I’ve visited the Philippines multiple times and without a doubt Filipinos are friendlier and language makes it a much better destination for retirement for most people unless you enjoy the challenge or excitement of learning a language .
You are right - those are the two areas where the Philippines beats Thailand ... and I will add one more: the Philippines is more affordable. Now where is Thailand superior? Thailand is a little more developed and it is a wealthier country. - it has been better hospitals, roads, infrastructure, there is less poverty. Thailand is a more liberal country - just ask anyone in the LGBT+ community. But Thailand was never colonized nor ruled by a western power, Philippines was a colony of both Spain and the US. The Thais are very proud.
I got interested in Asian culture when I was a kid having a Cantonese friend whose father was the head chef in the only Asian restaurant in town. I learned a lot of their culture growing up (and this was during the Vietnamese American war) and living in a west Texas oil town (Midland) I became well aware of the effects of what suppression brings about in Asian families. Move forward several years, I move through two larger cities, Houston and El Paso, then joined the Navy, and traved through the Pacific and Indian Oceans visiting countries along the way. Thailand was a neat and exciting country and appeared to have retained more of its original culture and ways, also because they had not to submit to western or Eastern rule to the point that it really impacted the people of the land, changing the beliefs and social norms of the people. One very important part of Thailand is their faiths, especially Buddhism, that many Westerners are totally unfamiliar with, and can confuse and "overshadow" their experience in Thailand. Thailand is still a beautiful country with many, many unforgettable experiences for the traveler.
The Philippines is a different experience, one that left a tremendous mark in my heart, because of the fact that it has been westernized a bit because of being subjugate to Spanish rule for 300 years that converted a majority of the country to Catholicism, the incursion and take over by the Japanese in WWII, and rescue by the Americans, by the efforts of General MacArthur during the world war,, that really changed the Philippines, to be topped off with the fanatical rulership of Ferdinand Marcos and his wife Emelda, that permanently changed almost all of the Philippines.
I think it is so important to learn some of a country's history and political history to start seeing insight into the people who are native to the lands. Religious beliefs should also be a strong priority especially if the beliefs are different than your own. Learning these pillars of understanding along with the foundations of the culture of the people themselves, you can make a visit to a different place a unbelievable experience!
Exactly. So very well said
Great post Eric.
Really excellent comment. I think that Buddhism is so fundamental to Thai culture that you miss so much if you ignore it. It is one of the main reasons I will choose Thailand over the Philippines.
The Msrcos family almost destroyed the Philippines
If they had more time they would have completed the destruction
But the Philippines people love them so they give them a new chance
Yes, absolutely Eric.
I expected Filipina Pea would be biased towards the Philippines, but she did a surprisingly good job of pointing out the pros + cons + differences of both countries. Good job.
I have always considered both countries. In the end though, the Philippines was the only option for me because in addition to the huge cultural adjustment the difficult language barrier would be a killer. I am happily married to a Filipina and living in the provinces of Cebu. The conversational English is very bearable and I am slowly assimilating to the culture.
I have never been to either country but have done some research and watched a ton of vids my conclusion is that they are two very different countries - Philippines is more Americanized and easier for an American to retire to the people are nice but the food is not great, good Hospitals in the cities, but definitely your experiencing the island life which is everything is slow - On the other hand Thai is very Asian and definitely more geared for foreigners who are looking for that and can live outside there comfort zones. They have some of the best food in the World, and they have Great Hospitals, and a better infrastructure, people though not near as friendly as Philippines - Now as I said I have never been to these countries this is just my personal thoughts from watching shows on CZcams - I do plan on visiting both countries in the very near future as I have lived in other countries and laugh at those articles that say "Best Place To Retire" I am like have you ever visited my country...lol ..
You nailed my plan. Move a Filipina to Thailand. The perfect mixture for me. I agree with most of what you say. I find rental values much better in Thailand. Just so you know, it is better to find your place through different methods than hiring an agent for a search for accommodations. Their salary is one month's rent so they are not motivated to show the good deals. As far as restaurants go, there are scads of great Thai restaurants where wonderful meals can be had for as little as 5-10 USD. I notice you passed on mentioning a qualitative review of the cuisines. Thai food by a mile.
Yes, Thai food by miles 👍👍👍
by a mile even to American food.
But you can take a food but Not a more warm & friendly people.
How difficult/easy will it be to bring a Filipina to Thailand with all the complicated rules considering long term visa?
Bring a Filipina to Thailand is like bring a duck to the desert, the two just don't work......
Some of the rentals in Philippines are downright gross. Locals in the Philippines just think it's normal. Thailand has the most beautiful houses and apartments for the money, hands down.
Pea, thank you for investigating Thailand. 🇹🇭 While the kingdom is still my current choice for a retirement destination, I plan to visit the Philippines frequently. You’re the best. Thanks again for the videos. 🤗
I’ll be very interested to see what you think of the Philippines, David 👍😊
Having resided in both places I have to vote for Thailand. No disrespect to the Philippines or Filipinos. I love both countries, the cultures, and people. The reason why I say The Kingdom is due to a more clean an d organized society. I say the word DISCIPLINE which in my humble Western opinion and attitude is lacking in your country. This is no reflection in you or your countrymen. I've learn so much about myself living in the Philippines. I choose Thailand because of the clean hospitals as I'm growing older and will need quality health care. I've been to so-called the TOP hospitals in your country in Mindanao, Cebu, and Luzon. It's was scary what I observed. Some will say I'm being "racist" or "anti-Filipino." Far from that. Secondly, the food in Thailand makes my taste buds orgasim. Thirdly, I'm a beach/ocean guy. The fishing, scuba diving, and beach crawls in Thailand are the best!
I'm going to give a perhaps non-consensus opinion on the difficulty of becoming practically functional or even fluent in Thai vs. Tagalog or Visayan for a western native English speaker such as myself. I find Thai to be much easier to pick up than Tagalog because the words are much shorter, and there is minimal grammar in Thai. The tones you find in Thai but not Filipino languages can be your friend or your foe. Let me explain.
Westerners are not used to applying a tone on each syllable to distinguish meaning. But once you get used to it, you start appreciating how simple sentences are. Thai has 5 tones. In your early days, you need to practice them a lot. But once you become very familiar with them and understand how each syllable needs to be produced with one of the five, you can learn how to produce and understand everyday phrases and sentences since they tend to be very succinct and don't involve changing verbs tenses, etc.
I struggle to remember long words with long strings of syllables. Tagalog has a lot of this, probably because tone choices cannot be used to add to the meaning of each sound. So for me, Tagalog is very difficult; after years, I still don't get it.
But another tonal language - Mandarin Chinese - was relatively easy for me to pick up because it's similar to Thai in that it has tones (4 for Mandarin), short words/phrases, and very little grammar.
So for those who assume Thai is impossible for a westerner to learn well, consider that this belief may be partially a myth, maybe due to the perceived mystery of the far east.
But if the humor bond is key the way it seems to be for Pea, well, that's something that would be extremely difficult for guys like us to learn in either Thai or Tagalog. But in the Philippines, many locals also know western/Anglo humor in English, thanks to their exposure to our movies and contact with Anglos. You just won't get this with most Thais.
Hi, I recently came back from a trip to Thailand. I was there about 2 months. Your experiences mirrored many of mine. I met a many nice people but communication was extremely difficult. App translators were little help. I visited the provinces of the north and communication plummeted from bad to zero. I also got a strong feeling of a barrier between myself and Thai people. They were always very polite....just somewhat distant.
The infrastructure in Hua Hin where I spent some of my time was very good. I did find the cost of living as compared to the USA was about 60 percent less, which was great. I generally ate my meals at street vendors as it was cost effective and the food was great! Once noticeable issue I had was that many of the Thai people I conversed with seemed to stereotype me as "The Rich Farang" and while untrue, it made me uncomfortable and on guard.
I would like to next visit the Philippines this year as a comparison. I hear many great things about your country and would like to experience it first hand. I am looking for a retirement home for at least 6 months out of each year. You country is on my list to explore. Thank you Pea for your videos, you do an excellent job and they are very informative. Thanks again, Rick
Thanks for sharing that experience, Rick! I can’t wait to hear how we compare 👍😊
I’ve lived in both. You’ll be perceived as being rich in both places and relative to their citizens you will be unless you’re a destitute pensioner trying to eke it out on $1200 a month.
Both populations are friendly and accepting as long as you don’t act like an ass. Everyone wants a better life and wants a little of our money. Difference is that Thais are extremely provincial and have no desire to leave Thailand for the most part. Filipinos on the other hand , especially if you’re American have the immediate eyeball on the green card potential you show. Either way it will cost you money (as with any woman anywhere) but a lot less than a western marriage and subsequent divorce fiasco lol
Rick great insight. Me not speaking the language and not being able to communicate with wonderful people frustrating. (Shame on those who think everyone should speak English we are in their country) phillipines is wonderful but different. Pea has a great comparison. Rick I hope you blog or post more of your insight......God Bless
Would you say Thais mind their own business? Are they nosy?
There is no doubt that the language barrier is problem in Thailand. But the landscape and beaches absolutely are better hands down than in the Philippines. Phuket, James Bond island, Koh Samui, Pattaya, come on Pea. Boracay, that's it?
A few points about language in Thailand. Except for the remote countryside you are going to pretty easily be able to meet your basic needs of day-to-day living here even if you don’t speak the language. There are expats living all over Thailand and particularly in the cities. There are expat groups everywhere where you can meet and speak English with people from all over the world. Women? There are Thai women that speak English either rudimentary or fluently but you have a much smaller pool to choose from within the general population. You just have to figure out how to find them. You won’t have woman coming up to you and speaking English the first day. When you do have a gf/wife she will speak English (because that is who you chose) and she will be a great help as a translator when needed. I’ve never met an expat couple in Thailand where the woman didn’t speak English. I’m not sure how a Filipina partner in Thailand helps you if neither of you speak Thai. Also, you won't being going to a government office to verify that she is not married. You will be aware daily though that the people around you are speaking another language and most of the signage is in a different alphabet. Learning a little Thai is possible for most people but there is no need to be fluent.
You just repeat what she said 😅
This was one of the best comparisons I have ever seen between the two countries, and should be required viewing for any potential expat planning to retire in one of them However, the social conditions in the Philippines are much worse than in Thailand. Pea did touch on this topic, but in my view she only partially addressed the actual gap between the two countries.
The Philippines is the place for me 🙂
What a great unbiased summary Pea. I would say language really is the main obstacle for most foreigners to get to know Thais. English classes at school, for many Thais, are like medicine. So it’s no surprise if they would avoid having anything to do with it if not necessary. That’s why when the Thais know you are not local, only few will have the courage to start a conversation. But believe me, most Thais will try to treat foreigners as best as can in most situations. It’s been embedded in the belief system to take good care of your guests (sometimes even better than to their fellow Thais :).
Very interesting content, Pea. I love how diplomaticly you conducted yourself, refraining from judgments and simply reporting what you observed and taking ownership of how your preferences might be influencing your perceptions. I see you maturing as a content creator, and I applaud you for this.
What I liked about THAI women is they taller and slimmer compared to Filipinas. Pinays are shorter and more rounded. Even Farangs say so.
When I came back and reread this comment, I had the thought that it could have been taken as a statement that "maturing" was needed or called for. That's not how I meant it. Everything I wrote was intended as a compliment.
I spent 6 months in each country, TL and PH. And one huge difference that I noticed was in the immigration office. On TL I had to go every 30 days and it would take most of a day waiting, maybe 4-5 hours. In PH it was very quick and easy, maybe 20 minutes. In TL they mostly want to get the sexpat tourists who come for 2 weeks and spend a lot of money then leave, but in PH they're much more friendly about people who want to stay a long time.
You can get a visa one year thsiland is far better than the phillapines that's a fact better shops better hospitals thailand is the land of smiles
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I plan on taking advantage of the best each country has to offer. I already am married to my lovely Filipina. However I enjoy the infrastructure and food in Thailand much more than the Philippines. Food is a very big deal for me. Sadly I cannot get excited about the food in Phils and I view this as a major negative. We'll look to retire up in Chiang Mai in a few years. It's nice because Philippines will always be a 3 hour flight away from Thailand so it's convenient. So I vote using the hybrid approach :)
Hybrid love might be the best 😂👍
Your observations about Thailand is very true and correct. I might add that singers are very more widespread and very good in the Philippines. Despite how hard they try, Thai singers have great difficulty singing American songs.
I agree, the best if both worlds is having a Filipina girlfriend living with you in Thailand. Infact all my friends here in Pattaya are in the music industry. It's amazing how much support they have for each other. There is a huge Filipino network of performers here in Pattaya and Bangkok.
Most everyone here that are Filipino speak English but often you will here Tagalog amoung there friends. My Facebook Friends list is 95% Filipino. So I feel like a Filipino but am American from California.
I worked in the Postal Service and can honestly say the Filipinos were the hardest working and friendly people I had the pleasure working with.
A Filipina window clerk suggested I visit the Philippines and I did. It's people who make the Country great. Of all the countries I've visited worldwide, Philippines is #1 on my list.
I recently returned from Thailand and still have PTSD from having a Thai singer scream Gloria Gaynor's I will survive at a club I was passing.. The one thing I will say is its a hard song to pull off with talent.... she didn't really have any and you can imagine my shock when I passed the following day and she was back there with her band!
I've visited both a few times and you pretty much nailed it. The easiest way for me to describe Thailand is it's a country run by introverts. I think this is mostly because its a Buddhist country and it truly is "up to you". The Philippines is like Asia lite for an American. I'm guessing its because of the large military presence for so many years. Cheers Pea!
Thanks Miss Pea. I have been in Thailand few times and actually you are right, it always depends what people come for. Culture wise Thsi is completely different from the Christianity, so I was amazed by Buddha temples and the way they attend it. Food is absolutely amazing, I always liked seafood and they cook it really nice and delicious. The way Thai people look, well yeah you were right, Thai people dress smart, also they are very clean and take shower 3-4 times a day for sure, besides they change clothes evry time (actually everyone would do after being sweaty from 36 C heat) 😊 I have never been in Philippines though, but it will be my next destination. Thanks for such an important comparison. Take care Miss Pea. God bless 🙏
Ive been in Thailand for over 2 months and I found that using Google Translate and just showing them my screen so they could read it, and then letting them know that they could speak in Thai back into the phone that it would translate it to English :)
Glad you liked it here, soon I will be to the Philippines for the first time :)
I’ll be very interested to see what you think!! 👍👍👍
@The Filipina Pea Im looking forward to it, Time in Manila, Bacolod, Cebu and who knows where else it will take us :) We will for sure make lots and lots of videos from your country coming from a beginner video maker like me :) (Im a computer nerd not a photographer)
For people and beaches, the Philippines takes it. For renting homes, many say Thailand is cheaper even though we have a long term lease on a 2 bedroom 2 bath home walking distance to beautiful beaches, for 8000 pesos per month, (About $150 now). The bottom line for me is this- the Philippines has the people are much more friendly.
A Philippines adventure
Curious about what province and city were you renting for the 2 bedroom 2 bath for P8,000,
We're arriving in the Philippines end of August and would love to rent something similar to yours, thank you so much in advance ☺️
I agree with you 100% that communication and a common sense of humor is important, if not absolutely necessary. For 60 years my dad told dumb jokes and mom laughed. She really thought he was hilarious. No one else thought so. But Mom was the only audience that Dad needed.
Hi Pea, as someone who has been married to a Thai lady for 17 years, I'd think you have a very good understanding of Thailand and the system, better than most men casually travelling there. I agree that Thailand is a little more expensive place to reside but has better infrastructure and quality of most services. The once thing that you didn't bring up is the concept of 'face' and saving face. It's huge for the Thais, they have a very hard time saying, 'I don't know' or 'sorry I was mistaken', to them, that can lead to a loss face. I'm not an expert on the PI, so I don't know if the PI has equivalent, but that combined with the language barrier can lead to some interesting situations for Thai/Western interactions. The other thing that really contrasts Thai and PI is each country's most prominent religion, with Buddhism in Thailand and Catholicism in the PI, both are great religions, but they shape a lot of each country's society. And is probably a topic best left alone.
Enjoyed the video and it looked like you enjoyed your trip. Thanks.
I think rent is cheaper in Thailand than the Philippines
Catholic is not a religion
The mafia and pedophile are using it to keep the people down and stupid
Just open your eyes and check the history how they misbehaving
Molesting children and committing serious crimes
See what they did in Canada and the rest of the world to the local people
Only the white men rules are important locals can die
Not even considered humans
Oh yes, the Philippines has that silly ‘saving face’ thing too, which often leads to a lot of just plain lying! I even made a video about it that you might find interesting:
czcams.com/video/y7KcHJbm96g/video.html
Thanks for taking the trip and showing us around and giving us information. I have seen lots of videos from both countries, and Thailand does always look cleaner and more modern, and Philippines seems to have more poverty, but the people always seem friendly and willing to engage a stranger making them feel more welcome.
Pea thank you for this series and especially the (mostly) unbiased wrap up in this video. I am one of those considering either Thailand or PI. The lack of age gap relationships in Thailand is of no concern as I do not want a LAG relationship. The cleanliness, traffic (and following road rules plus driving on the correct side of the road) and infrastructure are all positves in Thailand but the language barrier is a big one. I could easily survive in PI but I am aware that even with Thailands advantages the language barrier will be a big one. One concern re PI is the changes that have been made to the SRRV by the new president and wondering what other changes may be coming that will deter foreigners living there. Thanks again for your wonderful comparison between these two retirement destinations. God Bless.
regarding age gap, if i was going to philippines i would choose a girl in her 20s. In thailand i would have no problem with a girl in her 40s (i'm in my 50s), because in thailand they really maintain their body and looks into older age. Not so much in the philippines. Regarding the language, thai is not as hard to learn as you might think. I've tried mandarin and vietnamese but i consider those languages virtually impossible to learn, at least for me. But i'm enjoying learning thai and i'm confident i will be reasonably fluent one day.
Ability to communicate makes travel and relationship interaction much more enjoyable, almost always 😁
As a Thai 🇹🇭 We don't usually do this kind of comparison, Because it's something that people have to experience for themselves before they retire in Thailand or somewhere else.
Everyone has different lifestyle tastes. Therefore, we dare not compare or suggest with little information or knowledge. It would be an insult to the intelligence of others or our guests.
So we tend to keep quiet, humble and try to improve everything as best as we can especially the healthcare system because we know that at the end.. You will need it. 🤟
Not to worry about comparison of our country to yours because the number alone of foreigners in Thailand speaks of how much better it is than the Philippines and also Filipina Pea spoke a lot of positives of Thailand. For the Philippines, it's usually just the English spoken in the Philippines and the wide age-gap being a thing in provinces in the Philippines and most of the rest goes to Thailand. At the end of the day, it is the foreigners' choice where to go.
@@miguelbalisi9952 I'm not Thai or Filipino but both cultures have unique characteristics and one may appeal more than the other to certain people. I think her video was fair. But both have great people. I have met some of the nicest people in my life from both countries.
If your wanting to be receptive to foreigners then the best thing you can do is learn English. My wife and I was there for a week and spoke to maybe 10 people because nobody else knew how to speak English. She is Filipino and I am American. Americans know one language and that is English, which most of the world speaks, especially the countries who welcome foreigners to their land to spend money! That's just my input!
I have been visiting Thailand 5 times and visited philippines 3 times. So for me I know but for people that don't know it's good information 👌. And it's honest information about both country's. Do not get offended by reality dear friend. I like both country's but if I am to choose to retire I will choose philippines
@@advancedanrI think that a person travelling to another country and expecting them to be able to speak your language is a bit self-centered, but maybe naive. When I go to a country where the native language is not English I make an effort to learn something about their language beforehand. I've been living in Thailand for many years, and from the start I made a point of learning the language. I think it's respectful. I definitely don't expect them to speak my language unless they're in a tourist scenario.
Great video Pea! I think whoever Incorporated the English language into Filipino society was a genius when it comes to attracting Westerners to the country, that, the friendliness of the Filipino people and the sweet nature of the Filipina will keep Westerners coming for years to come.
About english being our second language, Americans were responsible.
We were colonized by Americans for48 years. It began with the cession of the Philippines to the U.S. by Spain in 1898 and lasted until the U.S. recognition of Philippine independence in 1946.
Since then we've never stopped using it.
I'm glad you had a safe trip Pea. I'm excited to watch this a little later this morning and hear what you say. I think I'd still have to say Philippines because of language and friendly people like you!
That’s our biggest advantage, yes 👍😊
I agree 100%. I found being single in Thailand is a lot easier than being single in the Philippines. I wanted to find a place to live before I found a mate found that the experience is difficult without having someone to help. I’m in a difficult position because I can’t stand the thought of getting into relationship with someone and then leaving them because i want to live somewhere else . So afraid of commitment on marrying somebody just to bring them to another country and find out it doesn’t work. I think I think to much 🤔I think . Lost between two countries. Oh big fan in Dumaguete but still loooking . 🥰
I think I agree with your statement that you think you think too much … I think 😂
Hi Jay, while I understand your concerns, if you're honest & open with anyone you meet from the word go...would that not ease your concerns?
Or is it also about keeping your options open, until you meet the special one for you?
Either way, it's your life so be yourself & be happy.
@@TheFilipinaPea "Thinking is the great enemy of perfection. The habit of profound reflection, I am compelled to say, is the most pernicious of all the habits formed by the civilized man." These words are from the Author's Note for Joseph Conrad's great novel, "Victory." Joe was a neurasthenic ruminator of the first order, and knew all about overthinking.
@@TheFilipinaPea I think that wat u think that he thinks that he thinks too much is thinking too much,... I think
I could live another 63 years and not see a beautiful Filipina wearing a Nirvana t-shirt. The ability to converse deeply with the woman I love outweighs some of the hassles of the Philippines. Thank you again for a quality finish to a great Thai series !
great catch on the T-Shirt Dale. Nirvana rocks !!
And when you find her, I’ll send her my shirt for you 👍😂
@@TheFilipinaPea 😂😂😂
Great insights pea and I wanna do more in the PHILIPPINES 🇵🇭 too
Awesome video series, Pea! I enjoyed every one of your Thailand videos. I've never been to either country, but have watched hours on content from various providers. My impression of both are exact opposites. The infrastructure is more advanced in Thailand with some really beautiful and affordable beachfront condos and... the nightlife is certainly a busy scene in Thailand. That being said, the Philippine women seem much more demure and beautiful. Plus it seems to me the Philippines has a much more structured moral code then Thailand, which I like. My knowledge of the Philippines is more centered around Dumaguete and Valencia. People seem way more down to earth as opposed to Manila or Cebu. I live in Dallas, a BIG Texas city, but would prefer a slower lifestyle. Anyway, I love your Channel and look forward to future videos. You are are a charming, charismatic, intelligent and beautiful lady. Take care Pea!
I fairly much agree with all your perspectives contrasting Thailand and the Philippines. I, summarize it this way.. the Thai are all business, while the Filipinos are all heart...
Thailand being cleaner has only improved a lot in the last 10 years. I guess once you are more comfortable in your lifestyle(less poverty), you tend to care about your surroundings, more. Thailand improves every year, being cleaner with each year and with better infrastructure. It's a work in progress, of course, and Pea's comment about Philippines being a generation behind, is probably pretty accurate. I know a few couples in Thailand who have Filipino girlfriends, or wives. They seem pretty happy, and becoming more familiar with the culture helps with identifying when Thais are being friendly.
Thanks for adding that input, John - I appreciate it 👍
"familiar with the culture helps with identifying when Thais are being friendly." I can tell you have really strong Thai understanding, that statement is gold.
That’s an accurate overview of Thailand Pea, you’re like a little sponge, soaking up up culture and information wherever you go. Thailand edges it for me for infrastructure, efficiency, cleanliness and food. The Philippines edges it for the people, friendliness, language….and of course girls. If you found the language issue challenging in Thailand, just wait until you get to visit Vietnam haha. All countries are great to visit for vacations, but the Philippines is the only place I seriously consider for retirement.
You are without a doubt the BEST on CZcams. Love your point of view on everything and the way you express your self. Thanks, continue the Great work.👍
I’m from Tasmania/Australia and I’ve always wanted to retire some where like Thailand Or Philippines. This video was a big help. Thank you 🙏
Thanks Dino - let us all know where you choose and why 👍👍👍
Excellent observations Super Pea! I agree neither country is better, you just have to find the one that fits you best. I personally prefer, someone you can communicate with, friendly people, loud music, cheaper cost of living, knowing who my neighbors are, living in a tropical island paradise, and falling in love with beautiful, intelligent loving women in the Philippines.
Exactly what's the point of nice infrastructure if the people are cold to you or you can't even communicate with any of them?
I enjoyed Thailand. My tour guide was my wife, who is from Thailand. I had the advantage of always having a translator with me. I agree that the language is a major issue. I found the culture and the people that I met wonderful.
Beautiful people indeed!
I've narrowed my potential retirement locations to Baguio City, Philippines, Panama City, Panama, and Bangkok, Thailand. My plan is to spend two weeks in Panama in 2023, two weeks in Baguio City in 2024, and two weeks in Bangkok in 2025, then begin the rotation again.
I'll retire in 2028, sell everything, pack two suitcases, and spend the next fourteen months across the three countries, deciding which one becomes my permanent home.
Bangkok and Baguio - both good choices 👍😊
You did a great job telling about the differences between both countries. Very helpful! Fast reliable internet service is important to me. Thailand will probably be my choice to live based on that alone. I'm in Mexico now and have lived here for almost four years. I'm ready for a change. Thank you again for this video, for all of your videos!
Yes, the fact that there is a VA clinic in Manila is a HUGE factor to me (and other US military vets) looking at the Philippines for retirement. Also, with the US military reopening several bases in PI I'll have access to medical care there as well (and commissary and exchange access too).
I found the same thing to be true about Thai women: They look at you MUCH more analytically then I remember Filipina women do. Even if they choose you (I had a friend who married one) they are even more "stingy" with affection.
That clean thing is (I believe) from the Buddhist influence in the country. Most Buddhists I know are very conscious of cleanliness. They aren't afraid to get dirty, but when they can, they prefer to be clean. IT also might influence the "quiet" factor, as well as the lack of homeless and stray animals. Buddhists believe in taking care of those in need, and I suspect that carries over to animals (most Buddhists are vegetarian) and the homeless.
Another great video, Pea! I appreciate you being totally honest in your assessment of not just Thailand, but your own country as well!
What bases are re-opening in the PI?
@@cobra935o I think it’s just a rumor. There are no current plans for any permanent bases with an exchange and commissary.
The cleanliness and lack of stray dogs are positive aspects of Thailand, but the social taboos and language barriers are a definite deterrent to wanting to live there. I think I'd be happier with a province girl ( like the Pea!) in the province region of the Philippines! :)
Social taboos are few, and most don't apply to foreigners. The language barrier can be a challenge, but it can be fun to learn/teach each other. Most foreigners who stay in Thailand decide NOT to live in tourist areas, for obvious reasons.
Well fortunately for you, there are a few of us still available 😂❤️
'' The cleanliness and lack of stray dogs '' in Thailand ? 🤣😂😅🤣😂😅
@@TheFilipinaPea I need a good province girl too:) You could recommend?:):):)
@@manuelaffonso2191 I’ve lived in both. The Philippines is a shit hole. Unsafe, no infrastructure and abject poverty which is heartbreaking to see. And yes much cleaner than the Philippines. Soi dogs are numerous as Thais don’t want to kill anything as prescribed in their Buddhist faith. Only thing Philippines has going for it is if you’re lazy and don’t want to learn English you have an easier time of it. Other than that Philippines also appeals to the destitute pensioner because of lax visa financial requirements. The ghetto of SE Asia
In the Philippines, every one moves slower, until they're in a vehicle, then speed is all that matters, everyone is polite and considerate, until in a vehicle. I thought about Thailand for a VERY short time, then You Tube recommended one of your videos and after watching it, Thailand was a distant memory and my sights turned to the Philippines. Glad you're back safe, and hope you enjoyed your vacation, even if it was a "working" vacation. Financial support should NOT be EXPECTED, it should be given because you WANT to, their parents chose to make their children and in doing so THEY CHOSE to take on all responsibilities for that child, including financial. Her family may ACT like they welcome you to the family, but I really don't think the foreigner is truly accepted as family, so why give away your hard EARNED money, relationships come and go for whatever reason, are they going to return any money you've given if things don't work out with their daughter, of course not, and I don't think a foreigner is going to ask for it either. As you pointed out in your video with the Province ladies, a wife's duties and responsibilities are to her HUSBAND, I still find it funny how quickly the ladies changed their mind about putting family 1st when you brought up what the Bible says. If you want to fix littering problems, give people more places to put their trash, more trash cans is what's needed, it would also add jobs because you need people to empty those trash cans.
Better in Thailand is the food, health system, internet, weather, shopping and may be entertaining. Philippines is cheaper and may be the people are more polite to foreigners.
I did my first year of college in Thailand. I bought a Honda sonic 125cc and really enjoyed the fresh paved jungle roads winding through the countryside. I'd love to go back for a visit one day.
I'm so happy to hear the Philippines has the VA. That makes healthcare a 100% better for us Vets.
Before I watch the video I am giving my answer. Thailand is probably a better country overall, but I love the Philippines like no other.
That’s similar to the way I feel 😊❤️
I think it just comes down to personal preference.
I've never been to either, but it seems to me like the perfect scenario would be to blend the Filipino friendliness with the Thai orderliness. Both places are beautiful. But Thailand doesn't have the Pea, so that's definitely one mark for the Philippines!
I have visited both countries on several occasions. Thailand has more advantages, better infrastructure and Internet services, water and hydro are very reliable in Thailand not so much in the Philippines. Medical care is better, more safe in Thailand. Philippines has few advantages only, English Language and safer drivers on the road. In summary Thailand wins.
Great video as I am looking at both countries. Yes communication is a key attribute for me. Leaning toward Phillipines but visiting Thailand. Keep up the great videos.
I am considering visiting and maybe living in the Philipines, soon.The content of this video is so unbiased and informative, almost professional. I am lucky enough have lived many countries and have visited Thailand several times. I consider myself experienced in living in different cultures, but I have to say that I am very, very impressed by the content of this video.Congratulations, and thank you very for this..
I really like all your vids Ms. Pea, but this one was particularly good. You're honesty, ability to discern and relate the nuances, the subtle differences in the two cultures is very impressive. I think you are getting better and better at this, and how hard you work at it is really paying off, well done.
For me , the two salient points in this discourse are the language, and the innocent naivete aspects. I, like you, need to be able to relate to my partner in a deep and meaningful way, to get to know her needs, wants fears and desires. And to be able to talk about the complicated aspects of life, like why we're here, how the universe works, and the deeply complicated nature of relationships.
As for the innocent naivete thing - to me, that is something to be cherished and protected. The philopena who eventually chooses me will find that one can retain that friendliness, that trust and optimism; and still grow to be worldly and cognizant about how life works. She just needs to be nurtured, encouraged, protected, and valued as a person, and she will grow and still not lose that innocent child within her.
You have related (in past vids) that I will still face hurdles with my philopena partner, such as jealousy, insecurity, perhaps lack of motivation and drive, and difficulty in communicating, sharing deeply of herself, whereas Thai women might be more wordily, mature, emotionally stable and realistic.
Well, for me, I'll take that innocent, screwed up philopena, every time. If I do my job right as a partner, in a couple of years she will come to trust me, to trust in and value herself, and will flower into a healthy, vibrant, and dedicated lifelong partner.
Wow, thanks for that review, Mark - I really appreciate that 👍👍👍
Yes, I agree that the only successful relationship for me would be a deeply connected one, on a higher level than just physical companionship and shared experiences 👍
Thanks for all the information on Thailand. Very well done (as usual)! You forgot one advantage the PI has over Thailand. The PI has the Pea and that is one valuable asset! ❤
Hahahahaha
Well I’m glad you think so 👍❤️
The Philippines is the best country I have ever lived in. I am from the UK. I live in Mindanao and I have never felt more at home in my life. I love the Filipino people and their beautiful culture. The Philippines is heaven for me. I could never go back to the western world, for the best is here!!
Is it fairly easy to rent a condo or house as a US citizen? Is a driver's license and passport sufficient ID?
You must be easily satisfied but being from the UK I can understand why most places other then the UK would be better..
@@jimwilson4330 Very rude and unfair. The UK is great.
@@jimwilson4330 why?
@@narendra62 The UK is terrible. I lived in London for a year and the crime was crazy. People are getting stabbed left and right. Compared to Manila or Cebu, the UK is horrible.
Great Video with great info. The keyword is FREEDOM. Neither countries are having political regimes that favours Freedom for their people, but right now Thailand is by far to prefer. I have just travelled both countries the last 3 months and I got tired of all the rules in regards to Covid in The Philippines.
Very Good job Pea. I've been to both countries myself and think you nailed many points. Your way of explaining and making your videos is both entertaining and informative. Thanks for the opinions and the female point of view.
Sin Sod (Thai Dowry as Westerners refer to it) is tricky. It's not nearly as common as it was even 15 years ago and often times the money is actually returned. This is a VERY deep topic with a lot of variables around their culture and saving face. I'm not Thai so I won't even pretend to understand it all. Honestly, the idea of westerners paying thousands of dollars for engagement rings seems just as absurd.
My experiences with Thailand were a bit different to yours because I was going for work and between 88 and 2000 definitely the infer-structure has come on a long way in 22 years particularly in Bangkok which was pretty sleazy and dirty when I was there
My work took me on a lot of beaches and I made friends with a group of guys running the paragliding on one beach they virtually adopted me into their group and took me to the places only Thai people go although their English was very basic we communicated fine so I saw a warmth and affection behind the cool serene wall they usually surround themselves with
Agreed, personally I don't frequent any of the tourism. I'm not saying there's anything wrong with them per se, it's just not my cup of tea. I live more of an immersive lifestyle and have learned the language the reasonable degree. I too experienced the envelopment by the community.
Hello Pea. You did a nice job of understanding the barriers that foreigners run into when it comes to doing anything in Thailand. The language issues were number one for me when I lived there, and it's probably why I always saw my foreign friends hook up with a Thai woman very quickly once they arrived. Thai people are very warm and welcoming once you understand their culture and can speak some of their language. The foreign guys I saw who were successful learned to speak at least basic Thai if they wanted to achieve basic tasks (transportation and ordering food mostly). Anything beyond that required a better command of Thai or the intervention of a native Thai person. Yes, you're right on the money when it comes to the awful translation software. Even Google is pitiful at best. (edited). Most doctors and some dentists can speak basic English, at least enough to get you some medical care. Great video as always! Edit: The Tuk-Tuk drivers involved in the jewelry scams are working with the Thai mafia. Scary stuff that can end badly. Best to avoid those and only take a Tuk-Tuk if you know that person. As far as discounts go, the Thai people consider it a game. If you can play the game "Oh that is such a beautiful scarf. I would love to pay the asking price for it, but if I did so, my husband would never speak to me again. Is there some way I can pay you a little less money and also save my marriage?" It's said with a joke and from a light heart. They know your husband wouldn't divorce you over 10 Baht (30 cents or so), and they appreciate that you understand the culture and the spirit of bargaining. In Mexico the hard bargaining works (walk away), but not in Thailand.
I never see bargaining in Thailand.
HI Pea, I' m from Hawaii and are really thinking about moving to the philippines when I retire, people are friendly and the women are absolutely gorgeous
Very informative video! Thanks so much😊
I would prefer the Philippines due to my brother's experience and his being married to a Filipina. It has been a really good marriage so...Philippines for me. Thailand may be a few years ahead on tech and transportation but the women are not as warm as Filipina women.
I’m so happy to hear that your brother found true love! May you be as fortunate ❤️
I've travelled a lot in Thailand and I do find the food prices there a lot cheaper than in the Philippines. I was shocked to see that some of the food items were the same as here in Sweden. If you eat where the locals eat in Thailand it is dirt cheap. I paid, on my last trip no more than $3 a meal.
Hi Pea, Thousands of Filipinos live in Thailand. My Filipina wife and I do actually live in Thailand and we both love it. Nicer, more friendly people in Thailand I'd say. So very much cleaner and well maintained. The fiber connection in my unit is about 7 times faster for one about 25% the cost of Philippines. I would never retire in Philippines or Thailand. Both places are just wrong for that (for me). You are right. There is no better country. But there is a cleaner choice. You cannot compare condo prices with Philippines because of the vast difference in quality. Anyways, just my 2 cents worth. If Philippines works best for you - that's what you should do. BTW: our "helper" is also from the Philippines. Just our preference.
Thanks for the input, Ronald! Can I ask how you got your helper to Thailand? What kind of visa - a work visa?
@@TheFilipinaPea We found her in Thailand. There are many many Filipinos working here. You may not recall but I had suggested you interview one of the Filipinos living in Thailand. I think it would’ve been fascinating. She may have been TNT, I really do not know. But I do not believe it would be terribly difficult to bring in a helper under a work visa. My attorney in Thailand works magic. But, he is not exactly cheap.
I lived two years in the Philippines on the island of Siquijor and two years in Thailand. You can live cheaply in both countries, but in Thailand you will get a much better standard for the same money. Many people are able to find interesting houses or apartments in the Philippines at a reasonable price. It is definitely easier to find in Thailand. What distinguishes the Philippines versus Thailand is mainly the immigrants. In Thailand there are many young people 20-30-40 years old who emigrate with their families from foreign countries and live in Thailand as expats. There are very few young people in the Philippines and the vast majority of expats are 60+. However, this does not mean that there are only older people in the Philippines. I myself have several friends who are my age i.e. 30 years old. After living in the Philippines and Thailand for two years, I can definitely say in which country I lived better and what are the pros and cons. I have a Filipina girlfriend and it was very difficult to get her to go abroad. It is not impossible but you always have to expect that she will get an offload. However, the problem is not immigration. The biggest problem is that Filipina women are often poor by choice. Even if they get the chance to go to a better country, they will still miss all the Filipino culture. The Philippines is a country where everyone gossips about someone else. This is especially evident in the small provinces.
I noticed that many people write that Thailand is a fake smile, etc. You are fools if you think that every Filipino loves foreigners. Most adore because we just have the cash. I'm not saying that every Filipina is a gold digger because that's not the case, but the questions "what do you do for a living?" "where do you work?" are probably not without reason. Once you get a Filipina out of poverty count on the fact that her family will be jealous and your monthly expenses will grow because once you run out of food, once someone is sick and it goes on and on. Of course, in that case, don't agree to send money. I am sending 7,000 pesos for a "Filipino family" and only because her sisters are going to college.
Filipinas and Thais are nice women but finding one who will honestly love you is very difficult. My girlfriend's sister personally doesn't hate foreigners, and in the case where I did a test for them and pretended that I didn't have 7,000 pesos for the month when I was in Thailand, my sister called my girlfriend and said "TELL ME TO BUY YOU A TICKET AND RETURN" So they don't really love us that much anyway. Well, but let's get back to the specifics of why I think Thailand is better, even though there are many great places, mountains, beaches, etc. in the Philippines.
Above all, Thailand gives me a sense of freedom, because I know I can always find an apartment for the price I'm looking for wherever I go. Here in the Philippines if you look on AIRBNB some people are wishing for 20,000 pesos for some bungalow or other messy rooms. In Thailand for that much you rent a condo with a swimming pool gym and sauna. Many people say there is no language barrier in the Philippines. THIS IS THE BIGGEST NONSENSE. Of course, the official language is English and all company paperwork is in this language, but the bureaucracy that prevails in this country is a deterrent in starting any business. Most people speak English, but only basic English. Older people don't speak English at all, or they break like in Thailand. Younger people in the Philippines speak English More and more Thais are starting to speak English, and I think that will eventually change in Thailand.
My dream was to go to Boracay, but after seeing the prices I just gave up. Therefore, Thailand in terms of opportunities with me definitely wins. I don't want to judge Thai women because I never had a relationship with a Thai woman, but my friends who have Thai wives definitely praise them. The problem in the Philippines is that if you're going to have a girlfriend from an island, they're usually such simple people that you're going to have a hard time getting that girl anywhere abroad.
In conclusion, for me Thailand definitely wins and I will list in points why.
1. better infrastructure (cheap housing prices even 2 times lower than in the Philippines).
2. better food (in the Philippines they put out lids with food first thing in the morning and no one heats it up, are they lazy enough?)
3. safety (Thailand is definitely safer than the Philippines and has less crime)
4. lack of Brownouts (I used to think it was just a problem for small islands, but even in dumaguete they have problems with lack of electricity. In a normal country they would do it in two years and the problem would be gone.
5. More stable government (There is incredible corruption in the Philippines which means that if you pay, you get everything faster, etc.
6. more interesting places (bankgok is beautiful, of course not everyone will like it, but then I would recommend going to manila where kids are out in the streets gluing themselves to the glass just to give you a few pennies)
7. more interesting culture (apart from the old churches in the Philippines there is nothing else to see)
8. and the most important point. HEALTH CARE. Honestly, I don't know how people over 60 can live in a country that won't even take care of your safety. There are no good hospitals in the small islands, the closest one to any reasonable hospital is on cebu (4 hours away by ferry). Count on the fact that if you don't have cash in the Philippines, no one will even touch you with a finger and lifesaving without money in the Philippines simply doesn't exist.In Thailand, health care is at a very high level.
All this makes me choose Thailand and not the Philippines. Unfortunately, I need many other things besides beautiful beaches, and I gave the Philippines a chance several times. I was disappointed once again and decided that Thailand is the place for me.
A very good Comparison my gwapa friend pea am glad that you did enjoy your time there am also happy that you are back home in the philippines salamat for sharing such intricate details about Thailand and the Culture differences every Country has its own Charm and Beauty however for me my Choice in Southeast Asia would always be the Philippines no matter what the others have to offer this video is another one of your great as always Videos you Look great at Home my Gwapa friend pea have an awesome Adlaw Sa Dios Until next time Love Lots
Ok, my first online relationship was with a Filipina. It did not work out. Not her fault, not my fault and certainly not your fault. Thanks for your advice that helped me understand the culture which I thought was important, I still do. I am now in a relationship with an amazing Thai woman. Still I thank you for your comparison and insights. Love is love and love speaks all languages, it speaks to us one heartbeat at a time. Thanks pea. I still watch.
Thanks for continuing to watch, Douglas 👍😊
Thanks for a great vlog and having such insight into the country. I find it very refreshing to hear a Filipina recognize that things are done more efficiently or better than in the Philippines, in other countries besides the USA. You seemed to be very honest in your comparisons and I found the vlog very informative. I think if English was widely spoken in Thailand, they would take away much of the tourism and expats living there, from the Philippines. The biggest attraction of the Philippines over the other countries is the wide use of English.
That does seem to be the deciding factor for so many 👍❤️
That would be better, I guess Filipinos should start ignoring western English speaking tourists or basically any foreign tourists & talk to them in Tagalog or their local languages to make it hard & add up to their disappointment/frustration & made them more lonely in the island nation PH😁🤭
Wrong, Thai english still doesnt sound good to me, even if they did speak it fluently compared to Filipino english, so I would be sad if FIlipinos didnt now english.
Another outstanding video Pea, you’re hitting on all cylinders, the food thing is a make or break for our family and sadly and oddly the Philippines is lacking in that department. So much potential for a Thai food court in the Philippines, would be a money maker in the right locations.
So right on the food. everything is deep fried until it is dead LOL. I really can't handle all of the grease. I would kill for a bowl of Thai street noodle soup right now.
Thanks for your info about Thailand❤
Good points you have. I’v had a relationship with a filipino girl ( many years ago) and im now married to a thai women. With all due respect to my wife, but the Filipino woman was more adventurous and curious of everything in life. My Thai wife is more careful and "calm". It may be personal, but I think there is a cultural difference between Filipino and Thai women. For better or for worse 😁
Hi Pea, thanks for your observations, I'm sure I mentioned a couple of the things you said before you went 🙂 The language is certainly one of the negatives for Thailand however I wouldn't see that as too huge a barrier as if I moved there I'd want to learn the language, in the Philippines I'd be looking to learn some of the local language there as well.
I think the 2 main point that suggest the Philippines may be the better location for me relate to visa and pensions. The visa situation is much better for long term stay in the Philippines as Thailand is only looking to make it easier for you to retire there if you're rich as they're clearly after your money. Since the main part of my retirement fund will be from my social security that also points to the Philippines as the better choice - the UK government freeze your state pension at the amount when you claim it if you are living abroad, there are a few countries that are exceptions to this rule and still allow you the annual increases in the amount - the Philippines is one of these countries however Thailand is not.
I'm looking forward to finally being able to make it to the Philippines towards the end of this year so that I can see things there for myself. It's fantastic to be able to follow a channel like yours and get a great deal of useful info however it's important to get a feel of a place for yourself too.
Wow, the pension-freeze would be a huge issue for Brits, yes 👍👍👍😳
Well said Andrew. The pension freeze is something many Brits don't even know or think of, until its too late & they're already settled in Thailand.
A way around it, but probably not permanent is keep a UK property/address, as if living in the UK. Have your pension paid as normal into your UK bank & transfer into a Thai bank or cash machine withdrawal.
Not sure how long an individual would get away with it, but it seems its what some British expats in Thailand do.
The retirement visa/extensions are similar in cost to the Philippines SRRV. What Thailand doesn’t have is the ability to stay 3 years in the country on tourist visas/extensions. They consider tourists to be tourists and not long stay expats.
Hmm thailand v phillipines they both have good points .. I prefer phillipines to be honest the food is amazing plus the beaches are much nicer to.me ... great video pea
It can be a real dilemma, but it sounds like you’ve done your homework, and decided 👍
Thais are very inter reflective. Part of it has to do with Buddhism. The other thing you will notice is if you stay quiet like a thai they will assume you are thai, my wife was not charged a skin tax like I was at a couple places. Sorry to say you are wrong about VA services for Americans in the Philippines. The only ones that qualify are veterans with service connected disabilities. I am retired Military with no disabilities either service connected or otherwise so VA will not provide any services to me. For dating, I used to date a School Teacher up in Prasat Surin in Northeast Issan, she was fluent in English and we got along well. Our problem was her finances were a total wreck. I helped her as much as I could but it was to much. I was recovering from a brutal U.S. Divorce as it was. So her many problems were making mine worse.
@@TheFilipinaPea yep phillipines more friendly people and people say sir so much alot of respect for visitors:)
I have to admit that both countries are beautiful in its own way and I can see myself doing 6 months in the Philippines and the other half in Thailand and that way I can have the best of both worlds 🌎 👌🇵🇭 🇹🇭 why settle for just one country 😁
Pea, as you said, it's a choice. Comparing different Countries can be very intricate and time consuming when trying to explain. My aunt married a Filipina man 60 years ago and they are still married to the best of my knowledge. I've been to both the Philippines and to Thailand. Both have their own appeal, but for me, I prefer the Philippines.
I’m in Thailand quite often. I’m nothing special but it’s obvious Thai’s love Americans. I can see most service personnel treat me differently then other tourists from other countries. Thailand is my happy place and love the kindness and customer service I receive thru out the country. In the Phillippines it’s more like the US, people just doing their job with as little effort as possible the only exception is when a beautiful girl once to chat you up.
Pea,
I appreciate your thoughtful analysis. However, I put together my own checklist in the pro vs cons for each county.
Philippines (Pro)
Ability for many to converse in English.
Lower cost of living.
Nice friendly people.
Philippines (Cons)
Hard line stance on jab injections
Antiquated rules on foreigners owning land
Too much corruption
Food is sub-standard.
Too much pollution.
Thailand (Pros)
Fewer “Jab” Nazi’s
Clean environment
Better infrastructure
Food is relatively good
Encourage investment and ownership
Thailand (Cons)
Fewer people speak English
Not as friendly as Filipino’s
Slightly more expensive than PI
Less congestion
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Thanks for adding your info, Vernon! 😊👍
The 'Jab' is a big issue for many.
I would put less congestion under Pros. Traffic that flows more smoothly is positive.
your list is exactly what mine is. I prefer Thailand. But my wife is from Philippines.
Agreed except on the food call. It's not relatively good, it's "infinitely better" than the Philippines.
If you're from UK then the state pension is frozen from when you leave the country, you won't get any increases in pension, UNLESS you move to Philippines, it goes up with inflation there, check it out before you choose
Ahhh, that’s a BIG deal for Brits, yes 👍👍👍
That’s good. I thought the UK state pension was always frozen when you lived overseas. It certainly is if you live in Spain
@@julius8383 there are a few exceptions, check the HMRC site for details. It comes down to reciprocal arrangements with some countries
@@andrewc2670 maybe the Philippines is the place for me. What is the health care system like please?
2 things in my opinion where the Philippines wins. First, the people. Filipinos and Filipinas are more friendly and there isn't really the anti-foreigner (anti farang) undertones like in Thailand. Second is the language. Of course, there is the laid back lifestyle I prefer. But really, it's the people I like. The Philippines wins hands down.
Once you get out of the tourist traps, those "undertones" disappear, and are more of a perception than a reality. As for friendliness... I think Thais are extremely friendly I cannot walk anywhere without people offering rides!), and think that the difference between Thailand and the Philippines will come down to where you find that amazing woman. :)
Thanks for your input and for casting your vote, Brian - undecided people are reading these comments 👍
Until recently i don’t understand why the farangs (mostly white foreigners) being singled out. It was not like that when I was there 3 years ago. Language is a big blunder when I was there. It was ok in the hotel front desk and a few restaurant.
@@JoFa876 1000%
Very interesting Thanks for your information
I appreciate the true nature of your respective insight.. still not sure where I will choose. But respect your opinion and overview. Thank You