Ex-Wife Who Cheated & Abandoned Our Family Years Ago Shows Up At My Door With Another Man's Kid...

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  • Ex-Wife Who Cheated & Abandoned Our Family Years Ago Shows Up At My Door With Another Man's Kid, Wanting To Be A "Family" Again - I Slammed The Door In Her Face.
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  • @Brittanyknuckles1427
    @Brittanyknuckles1427 Před měsícem +2721

    “And there was no better mother than angela” ARE YOU JOKING? I’d cut my parents out for that level of delusion lmao op sounds like a great dad.

    • @Tomiisomaa
      @Tomiisomaa Před měsícem +177

      and it only got worse after that like wtf is wrong with ops parents, why do they hate their son so much that they would betray his trust and bribe his young daughters to also lie to him. That's vile.

    • @Brittanyknuckles1427
      @Brittanyknuckles1427 Před měsícem +65

      @@Tomiisomaa OMG RIGHT I posted my comment before I finished the story and once I heard they allowed her to see the kids I was like damn these people are garbage

    • @rem9367
      @rem9367 Před měsícem +44

      My pet hamster is a better parental figure than the mother and the parents

    • @rionat1314
      @rionat1314 Před měsícem

      What's crazy is the whole "god will punish them" to fucking kids. Crazy religious undertones from the grandparents. Better off they don't get contact with the kids

    • @DancingAngelz
      @DancingAngelz Před měsícem +5

      Wish I had a half decent one.

  • @tothewonder6248
    @tothewonder6248 Před měsícem +1829

    Honestly his parents are worse than the wife.

    • @lazallewillemse3617
      @lazallewillemse3617 Před měsícem +32

      Agreed

    • @rogueshark23
      @rogueshark23 Před měsícem

      They are both POS all three want to play f****g happy family.

    • @princessmarlena1359
      @princessmarlena1359 Před měsícem +35

      Undermining OP like that is unforgivable.

    • @kilamkam
      @kilamkam Před měsícem +29

      Nah she literally signed her rights over her kids away, after cheating.. What she did was just evil all around.. The parents we're we manipulated by her tears and sob story....

    • @Shadow_Blade-cx8gf
      @Shadow_Blade-cx8gf Před měsícem +3

      I dont think his behaviour for his parents were right just as an Indian in which we take our Parents like God. (Specifically in sanatan dharm) . Whqtever they did i dont think he should have removed them completely from his life. Since they were the one who gave birth to him.

  • @Rj-ij6ko
    @Rj-ij6ko Před měsícem +1275

    I’ll be honest: it takes OLYMPIC level mental gymnastics to think that the lazy, abusive cheater, who signed her rights away for her children over a man is somehow the victim when her ex doesn’t want her around HIS children…
    Good luck Op, i’m sorry your family sucks though.

    • @jbcroos918
      @jbcroos918 Před měsícem +14

      I have a mother like that, they seem to always know better and see their sons as little children and their reactions as exaggerating, mine tried to get my brother to marry a very conservative christian cheater and pass the baby as my brother's

    • @BestMster
      @BestMster Před měsícem

      The OP doesn't need luck, this is obviously made up

    • @DatAsianGuy
      @DatAsianGuy Před 25 dny +7

      @@jbcroos918 "Conservative christian cheater"
      that shit is funny as hell lmao.

    • @Zeltesh
      @Zeltesh Před 25 dny +2

      Not to mention she failed two marriages - one to a 'childhood friend' too. LOL delulu

    • @matthewgabbana5021
      @matthewgabbana5021 Před 11 dny

      @@DatAsianGuy😂😂😂

  • @okiamherenow6372
    @okiamherenow6372 Před měsícem +1313

    I rather have my wife cheat on me than my own parents manipulate my kids and betray me behind my back with the cheater wife, that would be unbearable 😢 you are strong my man

    • @toigo68
      @toigo68 Před měsícem +6

      Bc I'm hor

    • @darkknight3037
      @darkknight3037 Před měsícem +13

      hm i choose option 3: being single

    • @deathknight1239
      @deathknight1239 Před 21 dnem +8

      And yet he got the worst of both options unfortunately

  • @taylordaenzer4852
    @taylordaenzer4852 Před měsícem +1356

    It's not your fault it's Angela's fault she's the one who cheated not him.

    • @sheetaljoshi8049
      @sheetaljoshi8049 Před měsícem +8

      You are right

    • @BestMster
      @BestMster Před měsícem +15

      It's not anyone's fault because this entire story is fake

    • @Cari_Q
      @Cari_Q Před měsícem +1

      @@BestMstermhm

    • @zacharyturner6425
      @zacharyturner6425 Před 27 dny +13

      ​@@BestMsterit is but sadly this happens in real life more than you want to know

    • @KietTran-sn7du
      @KietTran-sn7du Před 24 dny +7

      ​@@BestMstereven if it's fake, jit shit happens nowdays bro.

  • @nr1fan4all
    @nr1fan4all Před měsícem +596

    I am so heartbroken to hear about the plot his parents had with his ex wife, this kind of betrayal...

    • @zacharyturner6425
      @zacharyturner6425 Před 27 dny +5

      People in this life can prove their really nothing but backstabbers

  • @Riri_734
    @Riri_734 Před měsícem +367

    I thought his in laws & ex were already pretty f up. But it turns out his own parents have gone senile. Hopefully OP can totally cut out his ex and parents from him and the kids. Definitely looking forward to a positive update.

    • @Olimar92
      @Olimar92 Před měsícem +16

      He has a Restraining Order for his Ex and Parents.

    • @mazthebear
      @mazthebear Před měsícem +3

      If i was him i would get out of dodge. F the parents and in laws and definitely f the ex harpy. Again why should ANY guy really be expected to “ let by gone be by gone “

    • @BestMster
      @BestMster Před měsícem +1

      You won't be getting one cause this story fake

    • @omegasquadlder
      @omegasquadlder Před 19 dny

      It’s safe to say, mom and pops are going into that shitty nursing home.

    • @ImnotBritish166
      @ImnotBritish166 Před 2 dny

      ​​@@BestMsterit isn't.

  • @thedemoman88
    @thedemoman88 Před 23 dny +32

    The manipulation of the kids was just disgusting. Threatening them by divine punishment? That’s just sick man

  • @gotenblack2542
    @gotenblack2542 Před měsícem +196

    crazy thing is i bet if op was the one that cheated instead the parents would never let him see his kids again

    • @frantheman1287
      @frantheman1287 Před měsícem +33

      Yep I was thinking just thst when the glass table broke. OP would've been in jail had the roles been reversed. Neither sets of parents would've allowed OP to see his kids.
      Which begs the question did OP's mom and mom-in-law cheat on their husband's for them to be so accepting of Angela. When the wife cheats and the in-law-parents still accept her it's 100% always because the mom cheated and the husband was a doormat.

    • @gotenblack2542
      @gotenblack2542 Před měsícem

      that or the typically she is a girl you have to fell bad for her and blah blah

    • @ren96706
      @ren96706 Před 18 hodinami +1

      @@frantheman1287 definitely sounds plausible that OPs mom cheated at some point in her marriage and the dad took her back. It doesn’t make sense for a proper man to see his son get cheated on and believe its right for him to take his wife back… unless he went through it himself

  • @DarkEinherjar
    @DarkEinherjar Před měsícem +236

    Man, I'm having a hard time trying to figure out who is worse in this story: Angela for being a narcissistic cheater, her parents for letting her cheat on OP in their home, or OP's parents for lying to him and going behind his back for half a decade for Angela's sake, not to mention endangering their granddaughters.
    I'm glad justice has been served in the end.

    • @samsonxd
      @samsonxd Před měsícem +25

      I think the parents, they basically switched up on OP and have become senile.

    • @samsonxd
      @samsonxd Před měsícem +15

      And they also went behind OP's back and talked to his ex

    • @frantheman1287
      @frantheman1287 Před měsícem +21

      IMO the parents are the absolute worst in this story. They knew what Angela did to OP but decided to take her side anyways. They snuck around OP to allow Angela to visit the kids she abandoned.

    • @BestMster
      @BestMster Před měsícem

      There was no justice cause none of this happened, all this channel does is post fake reddit stories. You can't take these at face value

    • @Shyhalu
      @Shyhalu Před 29 dny

      @@samsonxd They listened to her poison willingly, never underestimate a woman's ability to lie and manipulate.

  • @DarkEinherjar
    @DarkEinherjar Před měsícem +354

    Sounds like all Angela wanted was a rich sugar daddy...
    Also, if my spouse ever laid their hands on me, that would've been the end of the marriage right there. Full sc--ched earth divorce, full custody with only supervised visitations to ensure my kids wouldn't be in danger.
    I'm sick of people using PPD as an excuse. It's so overused, it's become the female version of "boys will be boys".

    • @frantheman1287
      @frantheman1287 Před měsícem +40

      Except for the fact that PPD gets used as a weapon to belittle, manipulate, gaslight, and control men.

    • @princessmarlena1359
      @princessmarlena1359 Před měsícem +24

      Well said, especially with PPD as an excuse for women on par with “Boys will be boys!”.

    • @AntiqueMilk
      @AntiqueMilk Před měsícem

      No. No. PPD is a real mental illness that has a heavy, heavy effect on the mother and still does not get enough recognition or support. As opposed to 'boys will be boys' that gets pulled out as an excuse to harass and rape women (or the actual version which is ride a shopping cart down a hill). That said, my mum, who had PPD did not do half the shit this woman did. This woman, like many men and women, is just an arsehole that had a legitimate mental illness. She was given every opportunity to overcome the illness, three that aside and instead chose to stick her tongue down another dude's throat.

    • @mysticspace1475
      @mysticspace1475 Před měsícem +7

      You censored scorched, really

    • @TheSergio1021
      @TheSergio1021 Před měsícem +16

      ​@@mysticspace1475yeah why the hell censor scorched?

  • @itsharperoffi
    @itsharperoffi Před měsícem +75

    I'm glad he got restraining order. His parents and ex don't deserve to be in those kids lives after what happend

    • @Big_Tyrone138
      @Big_Tyrone138 Před 26 dny +4

      Let them have Angela and the other kid.

  • @pujitarao600
    @pujitarao600 Před měsícem +394

    First of all, she wanted a family with her 'One true love' so she gave up on this family that she created with OP?! And now she's like 'Oh I'm so sorry let's resume our family again' like wtf?!
    Edit: Hello, it's sad that I need to say this, but: THIS DOES NOT APPLY TO EVERY WOMAN.

    • @Treegonaut
      @Treegonaut Před měsícem +25

      Ya didn't ya know you can just resume like a video game save file!

    • @frantheman1287
      @frantheman1287 Před měsícem

      ​@@Treegonautonly delusional 304s can have that sort of mindset and think everyone else is crazy

    • @joet7136
      @joet7136 Před měsícem +16

      No surprise. That's how some women actually think.

    • @ew3150
      @ew3150 Před měsícem +12

      She doesn't respect him one ounce.

    • @jamegumb7298
      @jamegumb7298 Před měsícem

      @@joet7136 My mother too. In her words: Why are you so weak that you will not take her back after she had bigger and better dick? Out of this door and make up to her! Or I will make usre I have that abortion extra late term." To explain: she wanted to abort me, but was too late, tried to get it done 8th month in Spain but I got out in time.

  • @matt3248
    @matt3248 Před měsícem +88

    She ditched the horse who won the race for the horse who slipped and broke its leg at the beginning, and acted like she was the winner until reality hit.

    • @Shyhalu
      @Shyhalu Před 29 dny

      No, she ditched 5th place for 1st place. 5th place bends over backwards for you, 1st place pump and dumps because there are 1000 other wmn fawning over him.
      "Shawn" was a Chad. She dropped everything for him to run her through, then started the betatization by 1000 concessions BS with him and he wasn't having any of it.
      Can't even blame him, she wanted to hinder his career so her child could stay in a school.....As if where he was moving didn't have good schools.

    • @lolaakram9836
      @lolaakram9836 Před 24 dny

      Really like your analogy 👍

  • @bgcorporation
    @bgcorporation Před měsícem +80

    Lmao. What? She wanted alimony yet she wants to give up all rights to her children, and was cheating? What Judge would go "Ya, she makes sense, let's give her alimony".

    • @C.G.Gaster
      @C.G.Gaster Před měsícem +14

      The ones in a no-fault divorce state

    • @frantheman1287
      @frantheman1287 Před měsícem +25

      Most courts would actually allow that. The fact OP didn't have to pay was actually mind blowing. Not sure if you know or not but alimony and child support are 2 different things. As a man you're most likely liable for both.

    • @lordmars2387
      @lordmars2387 Před 22 dny +12

      This story was one of the worst examples of gender roles, cultural bias, and female entitlement I've heard in a hot minute. Shame on the grandparents.

    • @cvpoct466
      @cvpoct466 Před 5 dny +3

      A Democrat controlled state that #BelieveAllWomen with a diversity hire judge😂😂😂
      Its a real possibility especially in California

  • @georgia3043
    @georgia3043 Před měsícem +31

    "" and there was no better mother than angela?""
    You mean the 'mother' who made at least one child scared of her the 'mother' ignored her children and then abandoned them and the 'mother' who only came back as she had nothing else and wnated a husband for her son?

  • @Olimar92
    @Olimar92 Před měsícem +27

    "We did this so you could give her a second chance" nope, that was what the marriage counseling was.

    • @frantheman1287
      @frantheman1287 Před měsícem +11

      2nd chance? I don't think OP's senile parents realize OP already gave her a 2nd chance and she cheated with that chance 🤣🤣.

  • @GamerstudPrime
    @GamerstudPrime Před měsícem +55

    That lazy cow would definitely have put OP in jail if the assault had happened the other way around.

  • @Bucketus.Lord.of.Buckets
    @Bucketus.Lord.of.Buckets Před měsícem +356

    "I almost filed for divorce"
    You were pushed onto a glass coffee table. You should have filed for divorce and criminal charges.
    *ETA*
    Also, I am so sick of PPD being an excuse for abhorrent behaviour.
    Depressed male acting out? incel!
    Depressed mother acting out? PPD! she's a victim!
    F Off with that crap. She was terrible. Wouldn't do work at home. Wouldn't look after the kids. Just sat around watching reality TV. Cheated on husband.
    Holy crap.
    L to the parents too.

    • @AllmostLucy
      @AllmostLucy Před měsícem +21

      I had PPD after first. Don't talk if you don't understand. It's something you can't fully control especially if others around constantly calls you stupid or stop acting.

    • @mahanyasingh139
      @mahanyasingh139 Před měsícem +22

      Finally someone I can agree with but sadly this the real truth and even if we try change is almost impossible.

    • @rem9367
      @rem9367 Před měsícem

      ​@@AllmostLucy Stop acting stupid then bish

    • @Vic-pg4rg
      @Vic-pg4rg Před měsícem +52

      ​@@AllmostLucy That's still no excuse. Especially with Angela seeing how OP did everything he could to make things right. Not only that, a lot of women were pregnant or after pregnancy didn't become like that at all. I sure as hell wouldn't had tolerate that behavior from the get go and had her committed.

    • @ornerylurker8296
      @ornerylurker8296 Před měsícem

      “Don’t talk if you don’t understand?” Well unfortunately the problem with that is, we can’t control when people are self centered degenerates who refuse to get help and act more like an animal. Ooooooor! Are you just using it in the very same handwavy excuse the commenter was complaining about? Pick one.

  • @Maninawig
    @Maninawig Před měsícem +33

    "So, mom, you believe the best mother in the world is one who neglects her kids, beəts their father, abandons them, then kicks them out of their lives for a Richard.... so glad you went above and beyond what a bestest mother could be." - click -

    • @Shyhalu
      @Shyhalu Před 29 dny +6

      Make you wonder wtf nonsense his own mother is hiding. We all damn well know it was his mother convincing his father to go along with it.
      It wouldn't surprise me if his children aren't his at this point or if his "father" isn't his.

  • @lizlemonline2951
    @lizlemonline2951 Před měsícem +29

    A better mother wouldn’t frighten her children, and disown them for a man. A better mother also wouldn’t sneak around. She’d go to op directly with her true concerns and figure it out. She also wouldn’t let someone threaten them with “punishment from God” or tell a child to lie and keep secrets. They deserved that restraining order. I hope op moves and finds someone else who will truly care for him and his children.

    • @frantheman1287
      @frantheman1287 Před měsícem

      I agree. I would 100% be moving and make sure not to tell anyone. If he has 1 or 2 real friends I'd tell them but make sure they know damn well not to go telling anyone else

  • @legiontepes3474
    @legiontepes3474 Před měsícem +118

    Op is amazing and his ex was a lazy pos.

  • @thorcadail5812
    @thorcadail5812 Před měsícem +31

    Bet the ex's parents feel "real good" with how the relationship turned out with their daughter and the AP. Why have a loving husband for your daughter when you can have a pos instead?

    • @frantheman1287
      @frantheman1287 Před měsícem

      They always wanted their daughter to be with Shawn a low life scumbag who cheats with a married woman and then once he's had his fun abandons her and his son. Those parents sure know how to pick a guy 🤣🤣

  • @terrahansen5279
    @terrahansen5279 Před měsícem +41

    As OP pointed out, its very warped backwards logic how his parents couldn't "in good conscience" not let a woman who signed away her parental rights to appease the man she ran off with have a second chance she DID NOT deserve.
    But their conscience was clean in regards to lying to their own son who took care of HIS daughters and then go on to emotionally blackmail those girls. Again, all for the woman who abandoned them. I guess the ex promised to take care of the parents in their old age because they sure as hell won't get any help from OP now.
    Who wants to bet the ex will dump her son on her former in-laws and run after her husband or look for a new guy?

    • @C.G.Gaster
      @C.G.Gaster Před měsícem +11

      It's quite the possibility, op was just a fall back plan.

    • @frantheman1287
      @frantheman1287 Před měsícem +11

      ​@@C.G.Gastershe knew OP was a good man/father which is 100% why she came running back when her "true love" didn't work out. It always happens. Just like the zombies in CoD they always come crawling back.

    • @tallyp.7643
      @tallyp.7643 Před měsícem

      They must be the type of parents who insist only women can really raise kids (or the grandparents helping). They tried to leverage their years of help against the OP like it was proof. They could've refused, but then again... they were using that as a chance for Angela to show up covertly and spend time with the girls. I really wanna know what the girls thought of all that, especially with the lies and manipulation they had to go along with for years. I hate lies and would've spilled the beans WAY earlier if I was one of them (plus I was always terrible at lying, anyway).

  • @russell85353
    @russell85353 Před 12 dny +2

    Shout out to this dad for standing strong in his position on this crazy situation.

  • @jetset808
    @jetset808 Před měsícem +39

    imagine being forced to be with someone you don't like or love or trust to make someone else feel like a good person .. oh the irony

    • @Shyhalu
      @Shyhalu Před 29 dny +3

      The narcissism of the parents is beyond mind boggling. "Hurr durr think of the childrenz!!" - the children she abandoned, even legally.

  • @ArtsyShikigami
    @ArtsyShikigami Před měsícem +22

    Man, i wish i could be a fly on the wall when the parents realize that because they backed the wrong horse, they lost both their son and their granddaughters. Pretty good chance they'll blame Angela for that

    • @Shyhalu
      @Shyhalu Před 29 dny +3

      You'd be sitting on that wall for a looooong time. People that have the audacity to dictate your life like that, just because they helped you out, will never admit they were wrong.

  • @zack-wk9on
    @zack-wk9on Před měsícem +10

    the nerve of the wife and the parents is unbelievable

  • @coriweaver4343
    @coriweaver4343 Před měsícem +18

    What kind of insane bs did ops parents just do!!!??? Throw out the whole family! Using god to force the daughters to keep secrets from their father????? That’s so disgusting that they would actually do this to their son!! The mother wasn’t in a corner! She knew what she was doing and did it happily. She never cared about her kids. I hope Op is living a better life after dropping these toxic twisted people

  • @trinityharmon5107
    @trinityharmon5107 Před měsícem +102

    Op sounds like an awesome husband

    • @jean3030
      @jean3030 Před měsícem +3

      What job does he have that he's able to go to therapy sessions and pick the kids up from school?

    • @trinityharmon5107
      @trinityharmon5107 Před měsícem +17

      @@jean3030 a job that understands about being a single father

    • @Alice15210
      @Alice15210 Před měsícem +8

      ​@@jean3030 my nephew is a data analyst.... I found him babysitting his niece and watching a movie, I asked him what he's doing.. he was working 😂😂😂😂
      I still don't know the mechanics of the work but he gets awards for his contributions

    • @URLHASBEENBANNED
      @URLHASBEENBANNED Před měsícem +2

      10:28 why did the audio change

    • @trinityharmon5107
      @trinityharmon5107 Před měsícem

      @@URLHASBEENBANNED i realized that as well (I know nothing about why dude)

  • @LeniBats
    @LeniBats Před měsícem +7

    *His* parents sticking up for Angela is just as bad as Angela herself.
    Post partum depression is no excuse for treating anyone like crap or being violent/aggressive towards them.

  • @blazingzombiex1724
    @blazingzombiex1724 Před měsícem +78

    Hey guys pro tip here, once a relationship gets physical. Get out. No excuses no “it was a mistake, I was a mental break, it was blah blah blah” get out cause no matter what they’ve shown you their true colors and it WILL happen again no matter how many times they say it won’t

    • @gtdc4685
      @gtdc4685 Před 28 dny

      What do you mean by physical 😏

    • @Njordin2010
      @Njordin2010 Před 25 dny

      Hm no. Thats not for married couples with kids. Really depends on the situation and severity.

    • @nathanielchieffallo4273
      @nathanielchieffallo4273 Před 23 dny +4

      ​@@Njordin2010 yes it is, especially if you have kids get a divorce if your partner is abusive

    • @Lynn.-_-.
      @Lynn.-_-. Před 20 dny

      ​​@@nathanielchieffallo4273 Not everything is abuse. Now if you want to leave a relationship or whatever it's your decision. But damn stop being so god damn annoying and scream abuse at everything. If someone just hits you once it's not abuse unless it's actually a beating or it's constant. We are humans. We can lose control in rage. Now if that's the line you draw that's ok.

    • @nathanielchieffallo4273
      @nathanielchieffallo4273 Před 20 dny +6

      @@Lynn.-_-. yeah justifying a significant other punching you "because it only happened once" is quite ridiculous. Is this the same ideas you have for children as well? Should children be kept in abusive environments because the abuse "only happened once?" Any decent human being walks away from a situation where they feel as if they are going to be violent. An abusive person doesn't and gets their anger out in a violent manner because they are weak. Abuse isn't a "personal preference" and nobody should be culturally forced to stay in abusive relationships because of age old nonsense about how man + woman = necessary. It never has been, never will be

  • @catherinefijn6253
    @catherinefijn6253 Před měsícem +49

    Real dirty thing of the parent to manipulate the kids and force their son to give his ex a second chance when that's not up to them. How can anyone take the side of a cheater who wasn't acting like a good mother who physically abused their husband and sociologically turned their kids against their father?!

    • @mevan883
      @mevan883 Před měsícem +5

      The moment the kids said they would be "punished by God" if they told their father, says it all.

  • @parrycup7212
    @parrycup7212 Před měsícem +16

    The parents are just " forget and forgive" kind of person, they didn't said it, but their words make it clear.

  • @WPDJF
    @WPDJF Před měsícem +8

    "They couldn't tell me because they'd be punished by God" 💔💔

  • @arthaiser
    @arthaiser Před měsícem +22

    at first it looked like the normal cheater wife story, until the crazy parent nation attacked!
    what i dont get is how op turned out to be so normal, taking into account that he was surrounded by insanity his whole life

    • @frantheman1287
      @frantheman1287 Před měsícem +2

      Sometimes insanity doesn't reveal itself. It stays hidden.

    • @chanayplease
      @chanayplease Před měsícem +2

      I come from a dysfunctional family, it can happen and at random. Genetics can skip a generation or more + their environnment. Plus, like Fran said, sometimes it stays hidden scarily enough and takes circumstances like these for it to come out. Some ppl know how to move in silence better than others

  • @patricklitterallyit4164
    @patricklitterallyit4164 Před 28 dny +3

    I actually feel so awful for poor OP. For so many years he was lied to, manipulated and betrayed by everyone around him. Nobody was on his side. And the monsters used his own daughters against him by threatening them like an abusive parent would. Poor guy how can people be so evil???

  • @redbonehaitian
    @redbonehaitian Před měsícem +37

    The fact that she still chose a man that who told her to abandon her children is wild . Hiw you look at that man and say " yup he is the one for me "

    • @tallyp.7643
      @tallyp.7643 Před měsícem +12

      And her parents wanted her with that Shawn guy... would love to know how they felt about him after he abandoned their pwecious daughter, considering they reveled in OP's misery and helped her cheat with the Shawn guy in the first place. OP seems to be the only sane person in crazy town.

  • @LPL1221
    @LPL1221 Před měsícem +16

    Delusional parents and the useless ex.

  • @daisyperez3387
    @daisyperez3387 Před měsícem +9

    Those “parents” are disgusting for supporting the cheater instead of their own child

    • @frantheman1287
      @frantheman1287 Před měsícem +4

      Not only that but they, in their own words, felt entitled to make decisions for the daughters because they took care of them. While it was awesome of them to do that, based on how quickly after the divorce Angela indoctrinated them it wasn't entirely out of good will. From day 1 they were allowing Angela to see her kids.

    • @BestMster
      @BestMster Před měsícem

      This story is fake man, don't give this channel the benefit of the doubt

  • @droganovic6879
    @droganovic6879 Před měsícem +108

    Should probably do a DNA test on your daughters as well, just to be sure 😕

    • @JustMeDidii
      @JustMeDidii Před měsícem +27

      That would only hurt him if they aren’t his. He has already excepted that they are his daughter blood does not matter

    • @droganovic6879
      @droganovic6879 Před měsícem +28

      @@JustMeDidii I thought of that right after I posted the comment. "He probably doesn't care if they're not biologically his" and all that
      But from a medical standpoint it would still be very beneficial to have a history, so I kinda just left the comment. Figured someone would be as pessimistic as I was and I'd just clarify then 😕

    • @Huehue-qf1ri
      @Huehue-qf1ri Před měsícem +5

      @@JustMeDidiiIf its so, blood shouldnt matter he could do to satiate curiosity. If/would it matter more than “his” kids, he should do to learn the truth.

    • @BaeBunni
      @BaeBunni Před měsícem +8

      it really doesn't matter legally either he is on the birth certificate though i'll be honest it would be sort of a moral justice if he found out both his daughters weren't his and he showed his parents the dna results just a "Look at that literally throwing everything away for grandkids not related to you."

    • @C.G.Gaster
      @C.G.Gaster Před měsícem +1

      There is not much he can do now, blood or not they are his children

  • @sophieb777
    @sophieb777 Před měsícem +3

    You're the only parent in this whole messed up scenario who seems to have any loyalty towards your kids. They're all insane!

  • @JRMAV1
    @JRMAV1 Před měsícem +47

    Boomer parents showing their true colors once again

    • @frantheman1287
      @frantheman1287 Před měsícem

      My bet is OP's mom cheated on her husband and he didn't have the ballz to get a divorce. He chose to reconcile and be a doormat cuck. Only way I can see them being ok with a cheater who singed away her parental rights

  • @InsatiableMonkey
    @InsatiableMonkey Před měsícem +2

    So thankful to have a wife who is faithful, works hard on maintaining our home, shopping, planning, feeding us, etc., etc., etc. A good marriage is built, not found, and it takes both parties.

  • @thisisastrobbery363
    @thisisastrobbery363 Před měsícem +8

    My ass would be telling Shawn she went behind his back and to take her son in the divorce so she cant have any lmao

  • @MetalHanyou1
    @MetalHanyou1 Před měsícem +12

    "They said that my daughters needed a mother and there was no better mother than angela."
    A cereal box is a better mother than Angela. She injured her husband, begged him for a second chance, he gave it to her, then she cheated on him and surrendered custody rights to her children and tried to sue him for alimony anyway. Angela is scum. The only reason she is reaching out is because her boyfriend dumped her.
    OP's parents do not have an equal right to decide what is right for OP's children. That is for OP to decide and OP alone. To hear them try to guilt trip OP into taking her back and to manipulate OP that way is absolutely disgusting. That they scared your daughters the way they did if they told you shows how absolutely unhinged and insane both your parents and your ex are.
    There's a very real possibility that the stuff she said about Shaun isn't true and that she (and maybe even OP's parents) made it up to try to get sympathy for their situation.

    • @frantheman1287
      @frantheman1287 Před měsícem +1

      I hope OP sends a letter through a lawyer to his deranged parents and ex detailing the statistics of single father households vs 2 parent households vs single mother households. The first 2 are pretty on Parr with eachother with the latter being a complete $hit show. OP statistically doesn't need a woman to help raise his daughters.

  • @elitefdc2171
    @elitefdc2171 Před měsícem +3

    why not contact the cheating partner new company?
    who in right mind will hire cheater and homewrecker?

  • @GreyLeo
    @GreyLeo Před měsícem +16

    If a husband or wife works 12hrs a day they should never have to clean up the house when they come home. On off days sure butt not when they are working

    • @Shyhalu
      @Shyhalu Před 28 dny +2

      No, not even on off days. That is for yardwork and etc.
      Cleaning a house, cooking, and doing laundry are not difficult things to do. We all do them when we are single, children eventually take care of themselves and help with chores.
      The laziness of modern women is insane.

  • @flavioilda1
    @flavioilda1 Před měsícem +2

    It's ok to feel sorry for the people who hurt you. It's *not* ok to reconcile right away, especially if you still don't trust them. You'll know that the person who hurt you has truly changed when they either only try to reach out to apologize and then leave you be, *or* when you don't want to hear them and they respect your boundaries.

  • @chandrarice9000
    @chandrarice9000 Před měsícem +2

    So glad that he got a RO against all of them. Those parents are horrible.

  • @curtisjackson4090
    @curtisjackson4090 Před 27 dny +2

    With friends (family) like that, WHO NEEDS ENEMIES

  • @mailmuncher9346
    @mailmuncher9346 Před měsícem +4

    I was %100 positive that the parents were religious after they try to make him forgive the cheater and i was like "yep i knew it" when the kids say they got threatened to be punished by god. Religious parents are always the same

  • @KK-45
    @KK-45 Před měsícem +5

    His entire ecosystem is working against him.

  • @donaldkue2364
    @donaldkue2364 Před dnem

    Great job brother! Even toxicity from family could ruin your life. You did the right thing!

  • @lyra6695
    @lyra6695 Před měsícem +21

    Oh his parents is asssss

  • @Zaine_02
    @Zaine_02 Před měsícem +3

    Imagine this : what if the roles we’re switched, like Angela gets cheated on by her husband, do you think Angela would want to see him EVER AGAIN, exactly so why should he let back the personne who ruined his marriage back into his life just because he SECOND ex-husband dumped her

  • @itzghally1311
    @itzghally1311 Před měsícem +2

    That facts that the parents thought they had a say in his broken realationship just because they helped take care of their grandchildren is ridiculous

  • @kidhoodmealz
    @kidhoodmealz Před měsícem +9

    does anyone else have a strange obsession with reddit stories like i watch like 3-5 vids a day esp when im eating

    • @frantheman1287
      @frantheman1287 Před měsícem

      I do too, it helps me realize how blessed I am to have amazing parents and sisters. Our problems have never been 1% as crazy as reddit stories

    • @wambamimsam3780
      @wambamimsam3780 Před měsícem

      i wish more were on spotify because i listen during work

  • @micaholson1052
    @micaholson1052 Před 23 dny +1

    This really is just heartbreaking all around....Having not just your wife cheat on you but her AND your parents manipulate you behind your back makes you feel like you're all alone in the world....That no one had your back. And that you have to force yourself to stay strong because you have kids....I swear that op needs a hug from someone and needs to hear that everything will be ok.

  • @user-hq6nh3yh3k
    @user-hq6nh3yh3k Před 14 hodinami

    the betrayal of your own blood is much more painfull than betrayal of your wife.. protect your children from them at all cost

  • @annabellegarcia4240
    @annabellegarcia4240 Před 27 dny +4

    Parents were wrong.

  • @mehdimusa6327
    @mehdimusa6327 Před měsícem +2

    The simp power is strong in this one😂

  • @dis_madman2736
    @dis_madman2736 Před 20 dny

    Out of everything i heard....the "god qould punish us" bit is what upsets me the most. Thats just sad. Not only did they betray you, they messed with your childrens' heads.

  • @Twittershouldceasetoexist
    @Twittershouldceasetoexist Před měsícem +2

    I don’t know what’s worse betrayal by your parents or betrayal by a cheating spouse

  • @sadclam1881
    @sadclam1881 Před měsícem +1

    Bruh, even his own family turned out to be crazy in the end. Glad he got that restraining order.

  • @jacquelinenovak2127
    @jacquelinenovak2127 Před 26 dny

    Sorry to hear this happened to you! My husband was cheated on by the woman he was with before me. He kicked her out and filed for divorce and she stalked us for several years after, acting like it was our fault. When in reality I didn't even meet him until about 6 months after he filed for divorce. So Much I could share about that crazy b**** but we'd be here for hours lol. But know that you did the right thing looking out for your daughters and I commend you for seeking out family counseling. Beautiful to see a dad looking out for his family. If she ever cared that much, she wouldn't have seriously planned on leaving her family to begin with... some people are just ridiculous! Best wishes to you and your family!

  • @royal-wolf
    @royal-wolf Před měsícem +2

    With family like that, who needs enemies?

  • @darkness5019
    @darkness5019 Před měsícem +5

    The grandparents don’t get to decide who their grandchildren mom is going to op ex wife is no longer their mom she didn’t care for them the only people who can decide who the kids new mom is going to be is their dad and the children

  • @FrutoseDeMorango
    @FrutoseDeMorango Před měsícem +1

    Crazy how op is ok with killing the kid and how he didn’t do a single big move against that woman when she assaulted him. That woman is a monster, hope that he has a happy ending after all and don’t get mistreated again

  • @thousandyardgavri2785
    @thousandyardgavri2785 Před 4 hodinami

    I swear.... when the cheater say "IM WILLING TO GIVE US ANOTHER SHOT" its so funny and disgusting at the same time.
    Its like saying "Im willing to be forgiven now" alltho to them its actually "Im ready to forgive you for not forgiving me"

  • @randomusername3873
    @randomusername3873 Před měsícem +1

    13:40
    "It was a difficult choice"
    It's not supposed to be a difficult choice. If a guy tells you to choose between him or your children, you shouldn't even think about it before telling him to eff off
    Why do people always hear this arguments that make the person look worse and use them to excuse her?

  • @vinaydavis6786
    @vinaydavis6786 Před 23 dny

    Hello my name is Vin, and i fully support you being a father whose mother abandoned their own children is not an easy thing, you have my respect 👍
    And God bless your daughters and i wish my part of happiness also goes to you and your daughters. Whenever you feel low always remember we are here for you 🙂.

  • @2Breezyyy
    @2Breezyyy Před 5 dny

    Bruh the beginning of this story already had me fucked up but then it only kept getting worse, damn, may god be good with this man.

  • @STB-jh7od
    @STB-jh7od Před 25 dny

    Moment SO lays hands on you-LEAVE IMMEDIATELY and press charges!

  • @1Ahnaf
    @1Ahnaf Před 13 dny

    I genuinely feel bad for him especially how his parents betrayed him even after everything she did to him 😢

  • @elreyes777
    @elreyes777 Před 9 dny

    The parents are more than free to take her in if she’s such a good mother.

  • @maebell227
    @maebell227 Před měsícem

    You did everything right. You are an amazing husband and father. The world would be a wonderful place if more men acted ur way. 🎉😊 Great job dad!!

  • @RG-vs8qz
    @RG-vs8qz Před 6 dny

    People will destroy their family, cause pain to them and then try to come back like nothing happened.

  • @trashotaku
    @trashotaku Před 3 hodinami

    Ah yes, nothing says "good mother" like
    1. Belittling her eldest daughter to the point where she had to walk on eggshells because she was so scared
    2. Resenting her youngest daughter
    3. Not even doing the bare minimum when it came to bonding with her daughters
    4. GIVING UP HER PARENTAL RIGHTS IN THE DIVORCE

  • @jessicapyrope
    @jessicapyrope Před 20 dny +1

    "They would be punished by God if they did"
    Wow what a great way to religiously traumatize your grandchildren.

  • @Mischa21xo
    @Mischa21xo Před 18 hodinami

    Wow. This is one of the craziest, most sad stories I have ever heard. I'm so glad it worked out for him though, he certainly deserves it!. I can't believe people like this even exist, like I know they do, but it is SO sick and depraved how low they will stoop against people that they supposedly "love" and what they do behind their backs, while at the same time thinking that they have any right to do so! Just wow. People like him really have such a level of self-control that I never ever would be able to. If I were him, I would have broken out my firearm and I would be in prison after that level of betrayal from those 3 sickos. Good on him though, he did everything right and I hope he has an amazing and peaceful life from here on out!

  • @christianbenn316
    @christianbenn316 Před 28 dny

    Sorry for her & it's her loss for turning her back on the family

  • @notinrerested7134
    @notinrerested7134 Před 26 dny +5

    For my lads here. If your woman has this "hormone problems" and get moody all the time or cant do any work, then theyre fuckkng with you. My Mom never got moody and always did her part in the relationship, plus my sisters dont get moody too when they have their monthly bleeding. Dont let yourself get used by woman because theyre going thru smt. Ik its hard and hurts mad af but thats no reason to make ppl run on eggshells like this guy said.

  • @easybaby7148
    @easybaby7148 Před měsícem

    OMG, really sadness 😢, you have big Hercules hurt, so strong
    What kind in law make their daughter cheating with other
    That's crazy

  • @georgeblair3894
    @georgeblair3894 Před 25 dny +1

    I haven't gotten through the story - but the reason "Angela" is so moody after the second one is because it wasn't the OPs.

  • @gidneybeans
    @gidneybeans Před 15 dny

    Angela signing away her rights as a mother tells you everything you need to know about her.

  • @trashotaku
    @trashotaku Před 3 hodinami

    I REALLY want to know what Angela's parent's reactions were to their "perfect son-in-law" divorcing and abandoning her and their son >:D

  • @chanayplease
    @chanayplease Před měsícem +2

    This would've been my villain origin story fr, like NOBODY can be trusted? Goddamn, I hope those girls will be alright bc they're exposed to this nonsense so young. To use god in this situation to keep them from telling their dad is so diabolical and OP's parents are why double standards are perpetuated. What GOOD mother chooses her side dude from her FAMILY? Why should Angela be given the benefit out of the doubt when it's obvious she never put them first? Would they have given OP the same treatment if he did that? It's so goofy, the whole notion of needing 2 parents in the house is BS. I know women personally(family) who are terrible moms and have no business being around kids, including their own bc of how abusive they are. Like we need to cut the crap on that, not all dads are bad and not all moms are good! Not everybody should have kids!

  • @woekeraar
    @woekeraar Před měsícem

    I have listened to dozens if not hundreds of these stories. But never had I ever listened to one where I just sat mouth agape when I heard the stuff about his parents. By god this is insane. The woman who cheated and ran away is the best mother in the world? That’s a new level of delusion

  • @JaelMartinez-bp5yq
    @JaelMartinez-bp5yq Před 21 dnem

    It is really heartbreaking to know that they told your daughters that they were going to get punished by God if they told you about them seeing their mother

  • @Dloin
    @Dloin Před měsícem

    It's so insane that a wife can put her husband in the hospital and people will still side with her.

  • @richrich6247
    @richrich6247 Před 22 dny +1

    You know this isn’t true because the ex wife got nothing in the divorce. Would 99.9999% never happen in America

  • @justmika6964
    @justmika6964 Před 14 dny

    Dang, shattered his trust like that glass table.

  • @daylightzero
    @daylightzero Před měsícem +3

    In the parents eyes, its against god to get away from your cheating wife and also against god to tell the truth to your dad.

  • @uncommon_name9337
    @uncommon_name9337 Před 17 dny +1

    I feel bad for the other kid in these cases.

  • @Panwere36
    @Panwere36 Před měsícem

    Yet, if the OP had been the one doing all of that, she would have had everyone in her family, friends, and all those she worked with tell her to leave him. The fact she was "so defensive" proves she was always planning on leaving. She just came back because "Chad" wasn't going to keep her around.

  • @nathanaelheil2818
    @nathanaelheil2818 Před 29 dny

    Imagine wanting your daughter to abandon her family and ruin her kid's lives

  • @jamesalexander8193
    @jamesalexander8193 Před měsícem

    The only way karma could have hit her harder would be if shaun was cheating on her like she did op.
    I have a feeling she might do time in prison for this, she had no rights to the kids and has a history of violence. The grandparents might even get something like criminal conspiracy, child endangerment and emotional abuse if not psychological abuse and that is without the threats to the children.

  • @ultimateshield3406
    @ultimateshield3406 Před měsícem

    Proud of you. You did everything right.

  • @kyodarkness9243
    @kyodarkness9243 Před 8 dny

    That "shawn" guy must've done Angela pretty good for her to be willing to abandon her own daughters to be with him.