In the spirit “that it takes a village” , when a child holds the door for me I not only say “thank you,”, I also add “What lovely manners.” I feel like this can reinforce the lessons the parents are teaching. Also, at Halloween, when giving out candy, I say “what good manners” to the first child who says “Thank you” and I notice that every child afterward also says thank you. Of course , I am an elderly woman.
I agree, I remember my elders doing this for me. I wanted to please them with such manners, and children want attention so give it for behavior you want to see more of! Love the comment !
I think a basic etiquette form we have lost is DINING ETIQUETTE too! Basics are: No talking with your mouth full No phones at the table Being kind to the server ✨ How to hold your knife and fork How to position your drinks and pour/hold them How to sit To never EVER comment on what another person has chosen to eat negatively
People forget that last one. You don’t know what other people’s relationship with food is (EDs etc.) and you can unintentionally make people feel insecure or uncomfortable 💛
This is the video series I didn’t know I needed!!! Love how gorgeous you look. Pearls, chiffon, curls! You’re reminding us that refined and elegant looks good in 1921 and 2021
The saying you go wise with age. Isn't true I've came across individually that's are just down right rude. Then they think they are entitled to such behaviour because there older. Which is so wrong. Respect is earned.
I really like this Fashion Mumblr Finishing School idea! I personally think that these kinds of basic rules of politeness and kindness are less common than they used to be and they are something worth preserving, as I think they go a long way in making our society more harmonious! :)
It is wonderful to see someone of the younger generation concerned with simple kindness. Thank you, Josie. We surely need more of these tips in the world, especially in these difficult times in our world. The hardest irk I have is people gluing to the phone instead of listening or holding a kind conversation with the person with them. I see this so much today.
Holding the door, is something I’ve always done... but my pet peeve is when I hold the door and the person doesn’t say thank you or even acknowledge you.. it drives me nuts! So rude!🙅♀️
I agree. When that happens to me I say to the person You’re welcome. That might get them to think next time around and say thank you. I’m from New England and people think we are cold and unfriendly but manners and respect are very important to me.
@@spontaneousjane lol, I’ve never heard that one before. Where are you from? Nevertheless, if you read correctly; I didn’t point out a specific individual. I was simply referencing a situation that bothers me, nothing rude there.
@@FaithHannah2468 I was referring to the suggestion to say You're Welcome to someone who hadn't thanked you. That seems ruder than not saying thank you, IMO. 😅
Josie, Etiquette is so important, I teach my daughter it daily. Manners are so important. I own a book on etiquette. Well worth the investment too look back on. It teaches how to set the table, respectfulness, amongst so many other thing’s. My grandparents truly were the best teachers in these traditions and I believe in passing them down. This will be a beautiful series. xx ❤️🌸
@@JosieIrons We have a book by "Miss Manners" which is all about etiquette but with humor thrown in as well. On the surface she seems stuffy but is really funny. Well worth it and I'm wondering if that is the book that your follower is referring to.
Good manners never go out of fashion! I applaud you for wanting to give a refresher about good manners, or even for some an introduction. Respect, kindness and consideration will always be appropriate, even in tense and uncomfortable situations! I LOVE the idea of an entire series... from making proper introductions to table manners and everything in between! A world with more respect, kindness and consideration is a wonderful thing! 🥰❤️🥰
Thank you Josie! People not holding the door is my pet peeve. I agree it’s a total deal breaker. I also get crazy looks from people when I hold the door cause I’m a women but it’s simply just being polite.
I get weird looks when I hold the door for others as if I have to go through it first. I really just like others to pass before me, just being polite. My male coworkers especially find it weird 🙊
I always try to hold a door open. Rain or shine, cold or hot. I will be holding a door for someone. My mom was so proud of me and I made her laugh one day. I had to use the restroom really bad. We had to find a gas station. By the time we got there I was in trouble. I quickly got to the door right before to others and I still held that door for them. It was close. Mom said I was probably the only person who would've stopped and hold a door open for others when they had to go that bad. TMI. I tinkled alittle before I made it back there. I'll never live that down. Luckly they both said thank you and gave me a smile. I said you're welcome 😊. I was 32. I'm 39 know. Lol
Josie Darlin, this is one of the BEST videos you've ever produced!! Kindness and respect - something we in America need more of desperately!!! Way too much anger here. Underlying principle of any interaction should be "Love your neighbor as yourself". "Treat others as you would like to be treated." Thank you for being a genuinely kind role model
Love the consideration point especially at this time... people love to talk about kindness but considering others especially during these times is such a kind thing to do✨🥰❤️
Josie darling 💮 When "Proper Etiquette" became a seminar in the corporate workplace in the U. S., I realized that civilization had begun to decline... Reviving or introducing this behavior is to be applauded... When I began to travel internationally, learning to say hello please & thank you in the language of the country has always been appreciated. Being more of a diverse society it's something I choose to do locally... I find it creates a moment that leaves a good feeling between people 💞
There is such an art to really and truly listening to someone that you are in a conversation with and it does take practice and effort - but it has a way of challenging and encouraging you both. Thanks Josie!
This is something I've been waiting for. Probably one of the reasons I have been so drawn to you- your elegance. Please please do a detailed etiquette series. Especially how should you respond elegantly to someone who is rude or hurtful
Thank you so much for this Josie - it is SO important to afford a little respect to our fellow humans. It rubs me the wrong way when someone says etiquette is old-fashioned or unimportant - it is so important to make other people feel comfortable and respected, and having good manners shows that you are someone who puts in that effort. I'm very much looking forward to more Finishing School videos, this was so well done!
Ooo I loved this video Josie! ❤️ It’s nice to have a little reminder when morale is lower and stress is higher during this time. Interestingly, I noticed that manners are more appreciated here in the UK than they are in Canada/US which is so lovely! Door holding is a MUST in Canada, but in general our North American countries tend to be a lot more... informal! 😅
@@JosieIrons Hello Josie, I'm with young 100% on men holding the door for a woman. For me it's the little signs that will make it or break it. It's not a difficult thing to do, no matter what some people think about it by calling old-fashioned/dated, it shows a lot about a person in general - basic respect and manners.
Americans that I have come across in the UK are extremely polite, cheerful and friendly. Same for most British people too but I have come across a few that are formal but not necessarily friendly or polite.
I am very offended by this I’m a New Yorker and I always hold the door for others and have had the door held for me many times and we say thank you! I feel it’s how you are raised not which continent you’re from.
Regarding saying "bless you" - the actual proper etiquette requires to ignore when someone sneezes. Why? Because if there is a business meeting or other professional event, the person sneezing is already feeling awkward and by saying "bless you" you are acknowledging the situation and putting even more attention to the person, who is already feeling a bit awkward. So in those situations the proper and professional way is to ignore. However, in a more informal situation, saying "bless you" can be considered a nice gesture.
I said bless you to someone who I didn't know was a Jehovah's witness and they were very insulted and asked me not to do it again. The bless you apparently has something to do with the adsumption that if you sneeze it has a devil connotation 🙄
And it's not just about feeling awkward, but if there is a meeting with 15 other people, and everyone would start saying 'Bless you!' it would take the attention from the topic of the meeting. One of my university professor taught us this, and asked us kindly not to say 'Bless you!' to each other when we have a lecture going on, it would distract everyone's attention.
@@tirsup that's just rubbish - it's not what it means at all. It's short for 'God bless you' and was said to people at the time of the Black Death (Plague) as as sneeze could be a sign they'd got it, and has been carried on to show concerns for someone.
@@aztaNoemi Absolutely right. Same with coming too late. If you can sneak in to the meeting, you do it and apologize to the professor afterwards. But if you can't sneak in and everybody is looking at you anyways, you quickly apologize for the interruption and take your seat. Nevertheless I feel like Josie is not referring to a meeting but to private situations where I feel like saying "Bless you" is the politest thing to do when you are with friends/family.
This is the golden rule, “ All things therefore that you want men to do to you, you also must do to them.”, Mathew 7: 12, we all want to be treated with dignity and respect. I agree 100% with you I just wish people was more like that. We don’t have to all agree on things but being kind even when we don’t shows respect . Xx
Another thing - ‘thank you’ cards! I was always taught to send ‘thank you’ cards anytime someone gifts me something and I still religiously do. However, I hardly ever receive any. It’s such a small and easy act to show that you appreciate someone spending their time and money to send you a gift ✨
Modern women NEED this form of training. Thank You for providing it. As for manners, men need to learn it as well. I'm afraid modern society frowns on traditional manners because they were never taught them.
Hi all, I agree with what you all have said. I am afraid that it, speaking for the US, those etiquette lessons went by the way side when parents were practicing "new age" parenting starting in mid thur the 80s. Then late 80s through 90s when women were burning their bras (a figure of speech) plus going for traditionally men's type jobs everything from police to automotive and home improvement type chores. Then in 2000s women were joining the military. Now, that so many more of us are at home, I think Josie will get a huge interest in Mumblr Finishing School. It will be fun to watch this series. I'm going to share it with my neighborhood group. Tootles, CL By The Seashore
Thank you, Josie! It's always important to remember to be kind. Basic manners are the essentials, nowadays even more as it seems we have forgotten them. A mini series like this would be nice! I totally agree with you on everything but especially on keeping the door open, always! A simple gesture can change the day. ❤❤❤❤
I am looking forward to more etiquette videos! It is a breath of fresh air to get down to basics and evaluate how we can improve on our own etiquette. Josie, I admire how you utilize your etiquette skills in your vlogs. You are such a classy woman!
Loved this! 100% agree on the holding the door on a date thing, such a good indicator on whether someone has good manners or not. I think a lot of it boils down to observing and being present in the moment. Noticing the people around you, reading the room and giving people your full attention. But observing yourself too, so you can catch your reactions before blurting out the first thing that comes to your mind. It's not always easy but practice makes perfect!
Personally, I think there is a fine line between keeping tradition alive and 'etiquette'. Much of this feels out of date to me, as you can certainly be a lovely polite person without following anachronistic customs - unfortunately, the moment someone mentions 'etiquette' my mind immediately goes to classism (aren't these just global good manners?). Alas, you also cannot guarantee that someone will respond positively to such 'etiquette'; for example a male friend of mine opened the door for a female recently, who then proceeded to lay into him for being sexist. Just my thoughts.
He didn't open the door for her because she's a woman, he opened it because he is a gentleman. She is in the wrong here for lambasting his common courtesy.
I love this! I'm a bit older, but this is so needed. Manners are "old fashioned" and have been a part of our societies since the start of time for a reason, they are important!
I was taught these things when I was just a tiny kid. Me and my brother knew how to act when we were out in public and at a restaurant. No screaming and running around. My mom always had someone come up to her and tell her how great it was to see 2 well behaved children. We have table manners that people still complement us on. Its sad that we are complemented on something that everyone should know.
I personally really love etiquette videos, and you Josie are probably the loveliest person I have come across and I couldn't think of anyone more lovely to receive such videos from. For me its also one of the most important things to be able to teach or pass onto my children and I already have a few saved for anyone around me who might need them and I will do the same with yours. Truly to me this is such a huge blessing so please keep them coming. And this I would say, - you already smashed!
What a great idea Josie. Something I have noticed since COVID started is that some people have forgotten how to be courteous to others. They have forgotten how to drive and causes frustration. I also don't think the younger generation get caught basic manners and respect these days. If the only things they learn are what they pick up from 'street' talk they are seriously missing out on these important life lessons.
Coming from the younger generation, i completely agree, everyone think that it is cool to be rude but its really not, and mannerism is so much better and should be encouraged
Talking about dating... I would also notice how a guy (or anyone in general) treat/ talk to the waiters/ waitresses at restaurant 🙈 Love this series Josie!! ❤️
I’m very excited for this new series! I’ve been wanting to learn about etiquettes forever 💕 I loved the consideration points... These days it’s all about how “I” am feeling and how about what’s good for “me” but it’s so important to think about what would make others happy! There’s more happiness in giving then receiving!loved this video, very positive and fitting! xx
Feel like these things are a little too obvious to be pointing out in a video, perhaps a series might be a little condescending. Personally I was brought up to do all these things naturally but maybe it will be useful for others.
I love this! I was brought up with excellent manners and it does definitely seem to be lost knowledge. My 2 year old says "thank you" when she is given something and "you're welcome" when someone says thank you to her, if a toddler can do it, we all can right? And shouting from another room? Ooooh that really really gets to me. Its so rude, like the person doesn't think enough of me to come and speak to me. I totally agree with the door thing, no excuse for rudeness and that is a deal breaker for me. On the subject of people not making eye contact, it may not be that they are being rude, I have social anxiety which makes it hard to maintain eye contact. That being said it is obvious when someone is disengaged. Thank you for this series, you are an inspiration
About the ‘bless you’, I think it’s up to the person who sneezed or coughed to say excuse me! It came out of your body, why would I say it lol. I think it’s rude when people don’t say excuse me after their own bodily functions.
I don’t mean to be the etiquette party pooper but I am disappointed that you replaced the only fashion video you said you were going to do per week and that I was looking forward to with this. It may be tempting to hop onto one of the hot topics of the day but there are too many people out there already trying to make a living out of stating the obvious 😕
Gosh, it's just a bit of fun and nicely presented.Dont know about you lot but I do not want to hear about fashion trends in the middle of a pandemic! FM always produces entertaining footage.
@@shirleymclean5895 In the middle of a pandemic is the best time to continue living our normal lives in every way including fashion. There is no need for all of us to turn into savages because someone on TV said so.
Josie! You’re lovely, rewatching this etiquette video after watching your vlog. You don’t seem stiff or scripted, I guess you’re a natural on camera. Just a little more hand waving than usual. But you’re still your usual lovely self. A natural on camera 🎥
Loved this video Josie! I’m 53 and so believe in proper etiquette. I find it so sad that the younger generation has lost the use of proper etiquette. Especially here in the USA. I find it so refreshing to watch your channel and your fashion sense. Very classy. Which more of the younger generation watched your channel. Keep up the great work. The Secret is how I like to live my life as week. Vision boards have all come true.
LOVED this video! So heart warming to hear the importance of manners from someone else. I hope we all put these tips into practice everyday! Wonderful video Josie! 🎉🌟💖
Thank you for this my dear! I’m looking forward to this series! We need reminders on how to be better especially with how people are these days. Hopefully we can bring back when people used to properly talk to each other! Handle yourself with grace & beauty my dears! Sending you lots of love! Have a beautiful and magical day!💝💋
Thank you for these etiquettes, I’m a french girl who lives in London and sometimes I am a bit lost with what I have to answer or what I have to do 😆,So Thank you!
Respect & kindness is something I go by everyday. Treat others the way you’d like to be treated 🌸🤍 I feel like basic manners could be overlooked especially in the US so easily due to entitlement unfortunately. Thank you for reminding everyone to be more grateful Josie! 🌤🤍
What a lovely video and idea! We could all use some grace and kindness. I am American and my parents taught me to hold the door for people which I continue to do. My husband is a total gentleman and always hold the door, not just for ladies but for everyone.
When talking about etiquette it is also important to note that etiquette and manners are highly dependent on cultural context and a country / region / religion. For example you never blow your nose / sneeze etc in public in Japan. You never use formal pronouns in (official) conversation in Sweden, but you always do in Russia and Germany. As I have noticed, the owner of this channel tends to apologize several times during most videos - her hair and nails, random noises or "mess". Is this overapologizing a British thing? For me it sounds quite awkward and seems that the person wants me to notice all the irrelevant things I wouldn't otherwise (such as her nails). Where I live, we only apologize for something that's worth it - such as accidentially stepping on somebodys toes, interrupting a conversation etc. Overuse of "sorry" devalues the true meaning of the word. Too much "etiquette" is not actually polite nor elegant. To sum up, the idea of this video is good and I totally agree that other people must be treated with respect and kindness (only in this case you can expect something similar in return) but content of this particular video is somewhat shallow.
Maili, whilst everyone is entitled to their opinion, I think its understood that this is not a 'lecture' designed to cover the etiquette/customs of every country in the world and, yes, it is a British thing to apologise a lot. It's what 'we' do and always have done. In fact, we are known for it and, call it 'awkward' if you must, but we don't find it so. For us, it's something that shows we are human and we are aware of our flaws, unlike other nationalities who sometimes can appear aloof ,distant and, dare I say it, 'superior'. I'm sure that Josie is not intending to be 'shallow' as you say, (I'm positive her followers will not agree), and I find it fascinating that you felt you had to post such a comment and criticise something that you clearly are not interested in. Why not just read it and move on, instead of saying something clearly designed to upset the author?
I didn’t see it as a criticism but as a really valid point, actually. I’ve sometimes been accused of being “rude” when in reality those things are just not a custom in my culture and therefore don’t come naturally to me. In my language there’s no word for please, but that doesn’t mean that we’re rude or ungrateful! As a foreigner in the UK, I sometimes find that overt politeness hides people’s intentions and true opinions about you - it’s hard to know if they are truly interested in what you’re saying or just being polite sometimes. I find that difficult, but after years here have adjusted. I think people should have more understanding doe cultural differences - just because a child forgets to say please, doesn’t make them rude, maybe it’s just not a thing in their mother tongue or culture and doesn’t come automatically to them! Similarly, if someone struggles with polite small talk, maybe they find it really difficult to talk about “nothing”. I’m not saying that There’s anything wrong with politeness, but think people should be more understanding of cultural differences :)
Love this. Good manners and etiquette is always a good reminder. I do shout to my husband across the house every once in a while and know it’s not a cute look for me - ha. Something to work on. Totally agree on holding the door, it’s just an easy kind thing to do. Can’t wait to watch the rest of your series! 💓
This was a really great refresher. I like that you made the focus how your actions make others feel, rather than how these things reflect on the people who do them. 'People will forget what you say, but they'll never forget how you make them feel.'
Loved this video, my mother went to a convent school, she had elocution lessons so when we were going up she taught us, so when I had a daughter I automatically taught her and now she has children I'm hoping she will teach them x
Love this video & these kinds of videos. Would definitely like to see more of this type of video. Unfortunately simple manners and etiquette seemed to have been forgotten by many nowadays, it's so very sad. Xx
I think it is very important to treat people with respect and politeness and I do agree with you on the holding-door scenario, I would simply end the relationship should he not hold the door open for me!💁🏻♀️💜🎀🩰
My father taught me that the man should always be on the outside when walking along a street and my husband has always done this and it’s funny if it happens that we ware not walking that way and I always move to the inside ( old saying about stopping the women getting splashed or touched by traffic ) interesting video reminding us about good manners
Thats pathetic. Women don't need special treatment. Its about equality now. Do you stay at home and care for the kids as well whilst he goes out and provides lol.
Can you manage to squeeze in somewhere that when people wish to say et cetera that they do not say ec cetera!! It is a pet peeve of mine....nearly as bad as advacado. Love this video Josie.
Totally agree Josie. Good manners is not just about using please and thank you it's about real consideration for other people. I see people often being rude or ill mannered to waiting on staff. Everyone you meet whether they are sweeping the streets or running the country should be given the same respect and value.x 😊
I agree with everything here..I was bought up with these manners.. My grandmother was very careful in introducing me to good manners..you are so right and it’s a shame some are being forgotten.
Omg I wish I could tag like HUNDREDS of people in this😂😂 To anyone else reading this, I hope youre having an amazing weekend?? Stay safe whilst seeing your family and friends!! Remember to keep smiling, lots of love a small time CZcamsr trying to spread positivity❤️❤️
I love this video and playlist idea. Its surprising to see how many of these tips are just common sense but so many people don't do them any more which is such a shame. I always try and say hello to any fellow walkers when out walking my dog. If I get a hello or even a smile back it makes me feel so good and sets me up for the day xxx
Good manners cost nothing and I do not understand people who are rude. I find people in villages are more friendly in towns and have really noticed this when out walking during COVID. I think your series will be useful as it is a reminder of how we should conduct our selve. Thanks Josie for another inspiring video
Those are definitely basic... And sadly, on the list of 'things that sound snobbish' "Finishing School" is only a level below 'good breeding'. Brings up the most outdated and stuck up connotations for 'etiquette' where is all about classism and putting on a show. However, there are some things that I wouldn't mind seeing if you want to go ahead with the series. Things to do less with everyday life and more with special occasions. How to organise a dinner party, how to eat lobster, how to use all those utensils they only have at State Dinners, how to keep up in a formal dinner party setting, how to negotiate to get what you deserve but not come off as loud and rude, etc.
Please Josie, make this into a series. Even though so many things seem common sense, it’s astonishing how many don’t bother to follow the most simple ones. My friend in high school used to hold up the door every day for people behind her and I think she got thanked maybe once every ten times, so rarely that she in the end, once she had hold the door for a group of guys for maybe fifteen seconds (none of them which thanked her), loudly said “thank you” to them when they had passed. It was also really fun to see the difference between “proper/traditional etiquette” and modern curtesy (for me as a foreigner, I would never had known about the “how do you do”-greeting) - Would love a video on that subject, like which etiquette rules you should follow and which are outdated!
Josie- thank you so much for reminding everyone these basic rules. It never hurts to be reminded. Please do more as it comes across very genuine from you. Second- a point about lack of eye contact...it drives me crazy as well. But please do keep in mind that many people with autism and sensory issues struggle with that. It is natural to think it rude, but sometimes there is another issue. (I say this because my son is autistic and struggles with eye contact).
Oh dear! I have no doubt that my comment will be edited out but it will be interedting to see if you have the courage not to. Josie, I have been an avid follower for a long time but I don't know if you have enough self awareness to know that you sometimes come across as having a superior attitude. And this latest venture is not helping. You are not speaking to 'people'. You are preaching to your loyal followers and I think you could credit us with having some sophistication. I find it insulting that you think we need lessons or reminders on how to behave. Have you misjudged this one maybe? I am very sad to say that I cannot subscribe to a reminder of rules at a time when we are hearing about nothing else but rules. However I have enjoyed all your fashion and house content so I wish you every success in 2021
Good manners and style ARE more superior “behaviors” than slobbing around and not knowing how to interact well. It’s obvious that a lot of people need to and may even want to watch this video to help improve themselves. Thank you for trying to Help people elevate their behavior and how they treat others!
Patronising or what! As an older subscriber I do not research fashion advice to be taught manners that come naturally in my family. My thoughts are that it seems moving to the Cotswolds you think you have moved into a higher class of society than the rest of us. This is feedback, not trolling, you asked for thoughts. Please stick to fashion, i follow you as I admire your style and ethos about sustainability and quality.
THIS IS SOOO LOVELY JOISE. JUST SPLENDED. WOW! WE NEED TO PRACTICE KINDNESS IN EVERYTHING WE DO EVEN WHEN WE DON'T AGREE WITH OUR NEIGHBORS. KINDNESS IS MUST! WE MUST BE REMINDED OF THIS ALWAYS. THERE IS A CZcamsR NAMED GLORIA STARR WHO HAS A CHANNEL HERE THAT HAS THE SAME CONCEPT.
Greetings from San Diego California✨ I love this vlog💚 I was taught manners as a child. I proudly raised 5 well mannered humans😍 My children held doors for people, showed respect in every way...still do as adults. It's disappointing to see lack of manners in any age group. Thank you for reminding everyone how welcoming & appreciated good manners are!✨
I agree completely in all of those and I just realized that I follow almost all of those rules on a daily basis! My favorite one is complimenting something I see in someone. Their hair, their clothes or if that was the case, their garden. They always seem so happy! :) And when I get one of those I am also so happy too.
this was a lovely video Josie but regarding eye contact: often times neuro diverse people find it more difficult than most to maintain eye contact. Lets extend some grace and be mindful in these situations!
In the spirit “that it takes a village” , when a child holds the door for me I not only say “thank you,”, I also add “What lovely manners.” I feel like this can reinforce the lessons the parents are teaching. Also, at Halloween, when giving out candy, I say “what good manners” to the first child who says “Thank you” and I notice that every child afterward also says thank you. Of course , I am an elderly woman.
Saying things such as ‘what lovely manners’ to a child often ends up more patronising than polite, even if you didn’t mean it to though.
I agree, I remember my elders doing this for me. I wanted to please them with such manners, and children want attention so give it for behavior you want to see more of! Love the comment !
God bless you my lady.
Great idea! Positive reinforcement usually works.
what a lovely way of acting!
I think a basic etiquette form we have lost is DINING ETIQUETTE too!
Basics are:
No talking with your mouth full
No phones at the table
Being kind to the server ✨
How to hold your knife and fork
How to position your drinks and pour/hold them
How to sit
To never EVER comment on what another person has chosen to eat negatively
People forget that last one. You don’t know what other people’s relationship with food is (EDs etc.) and you can unintentionally make people feel insecure or uncomfortable 💛
@@Jaderoselima ❤️🙌🏽
No elbows on the table as well!
dania 2010 Yes!
I think you mean "Talking with your mouth full" but yes, I agree with you.
I’m 15 years old and I rlly do want to curate a good habit of etiquette manners. This video was absolutely delightful, thanks josie 💕
Yes, more please. Thank you so much.
I am 14-years-old and I am looking for ways to improve myself. It is nice to know that others are doing this too.
This is the video series I didn’t know I needed!!! Love how gorgeous you look. Pearls, chiffon, curls! You’re reminding us that refined and elegant looks good in 1921 and 2021
Woohoo!!
So true, so lovely and refreshing. Manners make us all.
Would love to have this series for my grands
I'm such a stickler for good manners and definitely feel like we should keep it up! Would love to see this as a series!
So happy to hear that!
Ms. Conway, I need as a best friend!
A kind word, caring, empathic personality does go along way x
The saying you go wise with age. Isn't true I've came across individually that's are just down right rude. Then they think they are entitled to such behaviour because there older. Which is so wrong. Respect is earned.
I really like this Fashion Mumblr Finishing School idea! I personally think that these kinds of basic rules of politeness and kindness are less common than they used to be and they are something worth preserving, as I think they go a long way in making our society more harmonious! :)
So many seem to have forgotten the basics!
@@JosieIrons yes! It's easy to do in the hectic world we live in today, and especially now... But these videos are a nice reminder :)
Also check out the competition. Ana Bey runs an online finishing school called School of Affluence. She has worked hard with this for years.
It is wonderful to see someone of the younger generation concerned with simple kindness. Thank you, Josie. We surely need more of these tips in the world, especially in these difficult times in our world. The hardest irk I have is people gluing to the phone instead of listening or holding a kind conversation with the person with them. I see this so much today.
Holding the door, is something I’ve always done... but my pet peeve is when I hold the door and the person doesn’t say thank you or even acknowledge you.. it drives me nuts! So rude!🙅♀️
I agree. When that happens to me I say to the person You’re welcome. That might get them to think next time around and say thank you. I’m from New England and people think we are cold and unfriendly but manners and respect are very important to me.
@@rosemaryfromrhodeisland-usa that’s a good tip, thank you. 😊
I will use it next time around.
Yes, manners are super important!
It’s bad manners to point out another persons bad manners. Maybe something to consider...😊
@@spontaneousjane lol, I’ve never heard that one before.
Where are you from?
Nevertheless, if you read correctly;
I didn’t point out a specific individual.
I was simply referencing a situation that bothers me, nothing rude there.
@@FaithHannah2468 I was referring to the suggestion to say You're Welcome to someone who hadn't thanked you. That seems ruder than not saying thank you, IMO. 😅
Josie, Etiquette is so important, I teach my daughter it daily. Manners are so important.
I own a book on etiquette. Well worth the investment too look back on. It teaches how to set the table, respectfulness, amongst so many other thing’s.
My grandparents truly were the best teachers in these traditions and I believe in passing them down.
This will be a beautiful series.
xx ❤️🌸
Ooh I love the sound of this book!
@@JosieIrons We have a book by "Miss Manners" which is all about etiquette but with humor thrown in as well. On the surface she seems stuffy but is really funny. Well worth it and I'm wondering if that is the book that your follower is referring to.
Good manners never go out of fashion! I applaud you for wanting to give a refresher about good manners, or even for some an introduction. Respect, kindness and consideration will always be appropriate, even in tense and uncomfortable situations! I LOVE the idea of an entire series... from making proper introductions to table manners and everything in between! A world with more respect, kindness and consideration is a wonderful thing! 🥰❤️🥰
These rules may be basic, but it’s amazing how quick we forget the basics, so its very nice to have these reminders!😊 Thank you very much❤️
I could not agree more Josie! There is nothing more attractive than an individual with good manners 😘💕
Thank you Josie! People not holding the door is my pet peeve. I agree it’s a total deal breaker. I also get crazy looks from people when I hold the door cause I’m a women but it’s simply just being polite.
Women should do this too! Everyone should practise politeness!
I get weird looks when I hold the door for others as if I have to go through it first. I really just like others to pass before me, just being polite. My male coworkers especially find it weird 🙊
My pet peeve is when I open the door and the people I open it for don’t say thank you or even look at you! Drives me crazy!! No manners.:(
I always try to hold a door open. Rain or shine, cold or hot. I will be holding a door for someone. My mom was so proud of me and I made her laugh one day. I had to use the restroom really bad. We had to find a gas station. By the time we got there I was in trouble. I quickly got to the door right before to others and I still held that door for them. It was close. Mom said I was probably the only person who would've stopped and hold a door open for others when they had to go that bad. TMI. I tinkled alittle before I made it back there. I'll never live that down. Luckly they both said thank you and gave me a smile. I said you're welcome 😊. I was 32. I'm 39 know. Lol
Josie Darlin, this is one of the BEST videos you've ever produced!! Kindness and respect - something we in America need more of desperately!!! Way too much anger here. Underlying principle of any interaction should be "Love your neighbor as yourself". "Treat others as you would like to be treated." Thank you for being a genuinely kind role model
Love the consideration point especially at this time... people love to talk about kindness but considering others especially during these times is such a kind thing to do✨🥰❤️
Josie darling 💮 When "Proper Etiquette" became a seminar in the corporate workplace in the U. S., I realized that civilization had begun to decline... Reviving or introducing this behavior is to be applauded... When I began to travel internationally, learning to say hello please & thank you in the language of the country has always been appreciated. Being more of a diverse society it's something I choose to do locally... I find it creates a moment that leaves a good feeling between people 💞
My daughter, a Millennial herself, shocked me one day when she blurted out "All the manners have been sucked out of my generation!"
Wow sad but true
There is such an art to really and truly listening to someone that you are in a conversation with and it does take practice and effort - but it has a way of challenging and encouraging you both. Thanks Josie!
This is something I've been waiting for. Probably one of the reasons I have been so drawn to you- your elegance.
Please please do a detailed etiquette series.
Especially how should you respond elegantly to someone who is rude or hurtful
Yes please! Especially in a digital world
Thank you so much for this Josie - it is SO important to afford a little respect to our fellow humans. It rubs me the wrong way when someone says etiquette is old-fashioned or unimportant - it is so important to make other people feel comfortable and respected, and having good manners shows that you are someone who puts in that effort. I'm very much looking forward to more Finishing School videos, this was so well done!
Exactly - it’s not old fashion - it’s just showing respect to those around you!
Thank you, Ms. Josie! As a children's etiquette consultant, I appreciate you sharing this information with your followers. :)
How about : party etiquette, both as a host & guest, house guest etiquette and perhaps gym too
I’ve been doing these things my whole life! I think I was raised well. People are so rude these days. Be Kind!🦋
Ooo I loved this video Josie! ❤️ It’s nice to have a little reminder when morale is lower and stress is higher during this time. Interestingly, I noticed that manners are more appreciated here in the UK than they are in Canada/US which is so lovely! Door holding is a MUST in Canada, but in general our North American countries tend to be a lot more... informal! 😅
Thank you darling glad you like it! Haha yes I know what you mean 😅
I lived in Canada and US, will attest to that, which is a shame.
@@JosieIrons Hello Josie, I'm with young 100% on men holding the door for a woman. For me it's the little signs that will make it or break it. It's not a difficult thing to do, no matter what some people think about it by calling old-fashioned/dated, it shows a lot about a person in general - basic respect and manners.
Americans that I have come across in the UK are extremely polite, cheerful and friendly. Same for most British people too but I have come across a few that are formal but not necessarily friendly or polite.
I am very offended by this I’m a New Yorker and I always hold the door for others and have had the door held for me many times and we say thank you! I feel it’s how you are raised not which continent you’re from.
Regarding saying "bless you" - the actual proper etiquette requires to ignore when someone sneezes. Why? Because if there is a business meeting or other professional event, the person sneezing is already feeling awkward and by saying "bless you" you are acknowledging the situation and putting even more attention to the person, who is already feeling a bit awkward. So in those situations the proper and professional way is to ignore. However, in a more informal situation, saying "bless you" can be considered a nice gesture.
I said bless you to someone who I didn't know was a Jehovah's witness and they were very insulted and asked me not to do it again. The bless you apparently has something to do with the adsumption that if you sneeze it has a devil connotation 🙄
@@tirsup wow, that’s probably why I say “God bless you!” ❤️
And it's not just about feeling awkward, but if there is a meeting with 15 other people, and everyone would start saying 'Bless you!' it would take the attention from the topic of the meeting. One of my university professor taught us this, and asked us kindly not to say 'Bless you!' to each other when we have a lecture going on, it would distract everyone's attention.
@@tirsup that's just rubbish - it's not what it means at all. It's short for 'God bless you' and was said to people at the time of the Black Death (Plague) as as sneeze could be a sign they'd got it, and has been carried on to show concerns for someone.
@@aztaNoemi Absolutely right. Same with coming too late. If you can sneak in to the meeting, you do it and apologize to the professor afterwards. But if you can't sneak in and everybody is looking at you anyways, you quickly apologize for the interruption and take your seat.
Nevertheless I feel like Josie is not referring to a meeting but to private situations where I feel like saying "Bless you" is the politest thing to do when you are with friends/family.
This is the golden rule, “ All things therefore that you want men to do to you, you also must do to them.”, Mathew 7: 12, we all want to be treated with dignity and respect. I agree 100% with you I just wish people was more like that. We don’t have to all agree on things but being kind even when we don’t shows respect . Xx
Wait i actually will use the “how do you do” instead of “nice to meet you” makes so much senses
Another thing - ‘thank you’ cards! I was always taught to send ‘thank you’ cards anytime someone gifts me something and I still religiously do. However, I hardly ever receive any. It’s such a small and easy act to show that you appreciate someone spending their time and money to send you a gift ✨
The fact that so many doesn’t even know these etiquettes is beyond me!
and here in sweden we say ’Prosit’ of course,not ’bless you’ 💛
Modern women NEED this form of training. Thank You for providing it. As for manners, men need to learn it as well. I'm afraid modern society frowns on traditional manners because they were never taught them.
People do tend to forget the basics. Especially these days when everyone is so tense and distracted.
Absolutely!
Hi all, I agree with what you all have said.
I am afraid that it, speaking for the US, those etiquette lessons went by the way side when parents were practicing "new age" parenting starting in mid thur the 80s. Then late 80s through 90s when women were burning their bras (a figure of speech) plus going for traditionally men's type jobs everything from police to automotive and home improvement type chores. Then in 2000s women were joining the military.
Now, that so many more of us are at home, I think Josie will get a huge interest in Mumblr Finishing School.
It will be fun to watch this series. I'm going to share it with my neighborhood group. Tootles, CL By The Seashore
Thank you, Josie! It's always important to remember to be kind. Basic manners are the essentials, nowadays even more as it seems we have forgotten them. A mini series like this would be nice! I totally agree with you on everything but especially on keeping the door open, always! A simple gesture can change the day. ❤❤❤❤
I am looking forward to more etiquette videos! It is a breath of fresh air to get down to basics and evaluate how we can improve on our own etiquette. Josie, I admire how you utilize your etiquette skills in your vlogs. You are such a classy woman!
Loved this! 100% agree on the holding the door on a date thing, such a good indicator on whether someone has good manners or not. I think a lot of it boils down to observing and being present in the moment. Noticing the people around you, reading the room and giving people your full attention. But observing yourself too, so you can catch your reactions before blurting out the first thing that comes to your mind. It's not always easy but practice makes perfect!
Personally, I think there is a fine line between keeping tradition alive and 'etiquette'. Much of this feels out of date to me, as you can certainly be a lovely polite person without following anachronistic customs - unfortunately, the moment someone mentions 'etiquette' my mind immediately goes to classism (aren't these just global good manners?). Alas, you also cannot guarantee that someone will respond positively to such 'etiquette'; for example a male friend of mine opened the door for a female recently, who then proceeded to lay into him for being sexist. Just my thoughts.
Being angry at someone for opening a door?!!! Wow......
He didn't open the door for her because she's a woman, he opened it because he is a gentleman. She is in the wrong here for lambasting his common courtesy.
I love this! I'm a bit older, but this is so needed. Manners are "old fashioned" and have been a part of our societies since the start of time for a reason, they are important!
I was taught these things when I was just a tiny kid. Me and my brother knew how to act when we were out in public and at a restaurant. No screaming and running around. My mom always had someone come up to her and tell her how great it was to see 2 well behaved children. We have table manners that people still complement us on. Its sad that we are complemented on something that everyone should know.
I personally really love etiquette videos, and you Josie are probably the loveliest person I have come across and I couldn't think of anyone more lovely to receive such videos from. For me its also one of the most important things to be able to teach or pass onto my children and I already have a few saved for anyone around me who might need them and I will do the same with yours. Truly to me this is such a huge blessing so please keep them coming. And this I would say, - you already smashed!
What a great idea Josie. Something I have noticed since COVID started is that some people have forgotten how to be courteous to others. They have forgotten how to drive and causes frustration. I also don't think the younger generation get caught basic manners and respect these days. If the only things they learn are what they pick up from 'street' talk they are seriously missing out on these important life lessons.
Coming from the younger generation, i completely agree, everyone think that it is cool to be rude but its really not, and mannerism is so much better and should be encouraged
Josie, I have always admired how respectfully you and Charlie treat each other. "Bless you!"
Talking about dating... I would also notice how a guy (or anyone in general) treat/ talk to the waiters/ waitresses at restaurant 🙈
Love this series Josie!! ❤️
A lot of people seemed to have forgotten about this throughout 2020! Great reminder 👑
Dear Josie, thank you for that video. I am looking forward to your etiquette series. Kind regards from Germany
This is absolutely needed!🤗💖 Many people lack basic social graces such as these and fail to teach their children as well. Beautiful!
Thank you Josie.😊
I’m very excited for this new series! I’ve been wanting to learn about etiquettes forever 💕 I loved the consideration points... These days it’s all about how “I” am feeling and how about what’s good for “me” but it’s so important to think about what would make others happy! There’s more happiness in giving then receiving!loved this video, very positive and fitting! xx
Feel like these things are a little too obvious to be pointing out in a video, perhaps a series might be a little condescending. Personally I was brought up to do all these things naturally but maybe it will be useful for others.
I love this! I was brought up with excellent manners and it does definitely seem to be lost knowledge. My 2 year old says "thank you" when she is given something and "you're welcome" when someone says thank you to her, if a toddler can do it, we all can right? And shouting from another room? Ooooh that really really gets to me. Its so rude, like the person doesn't think enough of me to come and speak to me. I totally agree with the door thing, no excuse for rudeness and that is a deal breaker for me. On the subject of people not making eye contact, it may not be that they are being rude, I have social anxiety which makes it hard to maintain eye contact. That being said it is obvious when someone is disengaged. Thank you for this series, you are an inspiration
About the ‘bless you’, I think it’s up to the person who sneezed or coughed to say excuse me! It came out of your body, why would I say it lol. I think it’s rude when people don’t say excuse me after their own bodily functions.
I don’t mean to be the etiquette party pooper but I am disappointed that you replaced the only fashion video you said you were going to do per week and that I was looking forward to with this. It may be tempting to hop onto one of the hot topics of the day but there are too many people out there already trying to make a living out of stating the obvious 😕
Gosh, it's just a bit of fun and nicely presented.Dont know about you lot but I do not want to hear about fashion trends in the middle of a pandemic! FM always produces entertaining footage.
@@shirleymclean5895 In the middle of a pandemic is the best time to continue living our normal lives in every way including fashion. There is no need for all of us to turn into savages because someone on TV said so.
I LOVE this idea! Etiquette is becoming a lost art. Common courtesy, respect, and being nice don’t cost a thing! Please continue with this!
Josie! You’re lovely, rewatching this etiquette video after watching your vlog.
You don’t seem stiff or scripted, I guess you’re a natural on camera. Just a little more hand waving than usual. But you’re still your usual lovely self. A natural on camera 🎥
Loved this video Josie! I’m 53 and so believe in proper etiquette. I find it so sad that the younger generation has lost the use of proper etiquette. Especially here in the USA. I find it so refreshing to watch your channel and your fashion sense. Very classy. Which more of the younger generation watched your channel. Keep up the great work. The Secret is how I like to live my life as week. Vision boards have all come true.
LOVED this video! So heart warming to hear the importance of manners from someone else. I hope we all put these tips into practice everyday! Wonderful video Josie! 🎉🌟💖
Thank you for this my dear! I’m looking forward to this series! We need reminders on how to be better especially with how people are these days. Hopefully we can bring back when people used to properly talk to each other! Handle yourself with grace & beauty my dears! Sending you lots of love! Have a beautiful and magical day!💝💋
Thank you for these etiquettes, I’m a french girl who lives in London and sometimes I am a bit lost with what I have to answer or what I have to do 😆,So Thank you!
Josie- I can't believe that you are planning a video on how to look wealthier. Why would this be important to anyone? WHat a very bad message.
Hopefully just a bad choice of words
No no - I already did this video - have a watch and then make your mind up! It’s a really fun video!
This would be an amazing series! I’ve always been interested in etiquette so i’m so excited🥳
Respect & kindness is something I go by everyday. Treat others the way you’d like to be treated 🌸🤍
I feel like basic manners could be overlooked especially in the US so easily due to entitlement unfortunately.
Thank you for reminding everyone to be more grateful Josie! 🌤🤍
Sadly that’s so true!
Good manners never go out of style. A reminder of them is a good thing. Thank you
What a lovely video and idea! We could all use some grace and kindness. I am American and my parents taught me to hold the door for people which I continue to do. My husband is a total gentleman and always hold the door, not just for ladies but for everyone.
Dating etiquette please! Or even more specific, meeting your partners parents, etc!!
love this series idea!
When talking about etiquette it is also important to note that etiquette and manners are highly dependent on cultural context and a country / region / religion. For example you never blow your nose / sneeze etc in public in Japan. You never use formal pronouns in (official) conversation in Sweden, but you always do in Russia and Germany. As I have noticed, the owner of this channel tends to apologize several times during most videos - her hair and nails, random noises or "mess". Is this overapologizing a British thing? For me it sounds quite awkward and seems that the person wants me to notice all the irrelevant things I wouldn't otherwise (such as her nails). Where I live, we only apologize for something that's worth it - such as accidentially stepping on somebodys toes, interrupting a conversation etc. Overuse of "sorry" devalues the true meaning of the word. Too much "etiquette" is not actually polite nor elegant. To sum up, the idea of this video is good and I totally agree that other people must be treated with respect and kindness (only in this case you can expect something similar in return) but content of this particular video is somewhat shallow.
Maili, whilst everyone is entitled to their opinion, I think its understood that this is not a 'lecture' designed to cover the etiquette/customs of every country in the world and, yes, it is a British thing to apologise a lot. It's what 'we' do and always have done. In fact, we are known for it and, call it 'awkward' if you must, but we don't find it so. For us, it's something that shows we are human and we are aware of our flaws, unlike other nationalities who sometimes can appear aloof ,distant and, dare I say it, 'superior'. I'm sure that Josie is not intending to be 'shallow' as you say, (I'm positive her followers will not agree), and I find it fascinating that you felt you had to post such a comment and criticise something that you clearly are not interested in. Why not just read it and move on, instead of saying something clearly designed to upset the author?
I didn’t see it as a criticism but as a really valid point, actually. I’ve sometimes been accused of being “rude” when in reality those things are just not a custom in my culture and therefore don’t come naturally to me. In my language there’s no word for please, but that doesn’t mean that we’re rude or ungrateful! As a foreigner in the UK, I sometimes find that overt politeness hides people’s intentions and true opinions about you - it’s hard to know if they are truly interested in what you’re saying or just being polite sometimes. I find that difficult, but after years here have adjusted. I think people should have more understanding doe cultural differences - just because a child forgets to say please, doesn’t make them rude, maybe it’s just not a thing in their mother tongue or culture and doesn’t come automatically to them! Similarly, if someone struggles with polite small talk, maybe they find it really difficult to talk about “nothing”. I’m not saying that There’s anything wrong with politeness, but think people should be more understanding of cultural differences :)
Over apologizing is two words... oops 'sorry' for pointing out your grammar error.... ;) It is also a Canadian thing.
Love this. Good manners and etiquette is always a good reminder. I do shout to my husband across the house every once in a while and know it’s not a cute look for me - ha. Something to work on. Totally agree on holding the door, it’s just an easy kind thing to do. Can’t wait to watch the rest of your series! 💓
This was a really great refresher. I like that you made the focus how your actions make others feel, rather than how these things reflect on the people who do them.
'People will forget what you say, but they'll never forget how you make them feel.'
What a great idea, Josie ! Bring on the etiquette academy ! 😁❤️
Loved this video, my mother went to a convent school, she had elocution lessons so when we were going up she taught us, so when I had a daughter I automatically taught her and now she has children I'm hoping she will teach them x
Ooh so interesting!
Love this video & these kinds of videos. Would definitely like to see more of this type of video. Unfortunately simple manners and etiquette seemed to have been forgotten by many nowadays, it's so very sad. Xx
I think it is very important to treat people with respect and politeness and I do agree with you on the holding-door scenario, I would simply end the relationship should he not hold the door open for me!💁🏻♀️💜🎀🩰
Hahahahaa glad to hear I’m not alone!
Finishing school series is such a good idea!! Love it ❤️
My father taught me that the man should always be on the outside when walking along a street and my husband has always done this and it’s funny if it happens that we ware not walking that way and I always move to the inside ( old saying about stopping the women getting splashed or touched by traffic ) interesting video reminding us about good manners
My husband always does that when we are out together - sweet xx 😘
Thats pathetic. Women don't need special treatment. Its about equality now. Do you stay at home and care for the kids as well whilst he goes out and provides lol.
This is great. How many times have we been involved in conversations where the other person asks nothing. I loved this.
Can you manage to squeeze in somewhere that when people wish to say et cetera that they do not say ec cetera!! It is a pet peeve of mine....nearly as bad as advacado. Love this video Josie.
There isn’t someone else who can pull off these type of videos more than you! Keep shining 🥰♥️
Yes yes! More of this etiquette series please!
I love videos like this! Not old fashioned at all! We all need to learn how to be respectful and be pleasant to each other. Please make it a series.
When you said gifts for the kids, I automatically thought your sweet example of marriage is such an amazing gift! Love watching y'all! together!
Why would you order an Assam breakfast tea... it’s an Assam tea or breakfast tea!! They would laugh at you at the Ritz
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I found your channel through your graceful video! Josie, I am definitely looking forward to this series
Totally agree Josie. Good manners is not just about using please and thank you it's about real consideration for other people. I see people often being rude or ill mannered to waiting on staff. Everyone you meet whether they are sweeping the streets or running the country should be given the same respect and value.x 😊
I agree with everything here..I was bought up with these manners.. My grandmother was very careful in introducing me to good manners..you are so right and it’s a shame some are being forgotten.
I’d love to hear Wedding etiquette, travel etiquette, restaurant etiquette, hosting guests/at home etiquette
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Agreed!
Hahaha I know right!
I was going to ask if forwarding this is proper etiquette...😂
I love this video and playlist idea. Its surprising to see how many of these tips are just common sense but so many people don't do them any more which is such a shame. I always try and say hello to any fellow walkers when out walking my dog. If I get a hello or even a smile back it makes me feel so good and sets me up for the day xxx
Good manners cost nothing and I do not understand people who are rude. I find people in villages are more friendly in towns and have really noticed this when out walking during COVID. I think your series will be useful as it is a reminder of how we should conduct our selve. Thanks Josie for another inspiring video
Those are definitely basic... And sadly, on the list of 'things that sound snobbish' "Finishing School" is only a level below 'good breeding'. Brings up the most outdated and stuck up connotations for 'etiquette' where is all about classism and putting on a show. However, there are some things that I wouldn't mind seeing if you want to go ahead with the series. Things to do less with everyday life and more with special occasions. How to organise a dinner party, how to eat lobster, how to use all those utensils they only have at State Dinners, how to keep up in a formal dinner party setting, how to negotiate to get what you deserve but not come off as loud and rude, etc.
Lobster - don't eat it! One of the most beautiful creatures on Earth boiled alive for a few morsels of food!
So excited to watch this! Would love to see more content like this!!
Please Josie, make this into a series. Even though so many things seem common sense, it’s astonishing how many don’t bother to follow the most simple ones. My friend in high school used to hold up the door every day for people behind her and I think she got thanked maybe once every ten times, so rarely that she in the end, once she had hold the door for a group of guys for maybe fifteen seconds (none of them which thanked her), loudly said “thank you” to them when they had passed.
It was also really fun to see the difference between “proper/traditional etiquette” and modern curtesy (for me as a foreigner, I would never had known about the “how do you do”-greeting) - Would love a video on that subject, like which etiquette rules you should follow and which are outdated!
Josie- thank you so much for reminding everyone these basic rules. It never hurts to be reminded. Please do more as it comes across very genuine from you.
Second- a point about lack of eye contact...it drives me crazy as well. But please do keep in mind that many people with autism and sensory issues struggle with that. It is natural to think it rude, but sometimes there is another issue. (I say this because my son is autistic and struggles with eye contact).
Oh dear! I have no doubt that my comment will be edited out but it will be interedting to see if you have the courage not to.
Josie, I have been an avid follower for a long time but I don't know if you have enough self awareness to know that you sometimes come across as having a superior attitude. And this latest venture is not helping. You are not speaking to 'people'. You are preaching to your loyal followers and I think you could credit us with having some sophistication. I find it insulting that you think we need lessons or reminders on how to behave. Have you misjudged this one maybe? I am very sad to say that I cannot subscribe to a reminder of rules at a time when we are hearing about nothing else but rules.
However I have enjoyed all your fashion and house content so I wish you every success in 2021
Good manners and style ARE more superior “behaviors” than slobbing around and not knowing how to interact well. It’s obvious that a lot of people need to and may even want to watch this video to help improve themselves. Thank you for trying to Help people elevate their behavior and how they treat others!
Patronising or what! As an older subscriber I do not research fashion advice to be taught manners that come naturally in my family. My thoughts are that it seems moving to the Cotswolds you think you have moved into a higher class of society than the rest of us. This is feedback, not trolling, you asked for thoughts. Please stick to fashion, i follow you as I admire your style and ethos about sustainability and quality.
THIS IS SOOO LOVELY JOISE. JUST SPLENDED. WOW! WE NEED TO PRACTICE KINDNESS IN EVERYTHING WE DO EVEN WHEN WE DON'T AGREE WITH OUR NEIGHBORS. KINDNESS IS MUST! WE MUST BE REMINDED OF THIS ALWAYS. THERE IS A CZcamsR NAMED GLORIA STARR WHO HAS A CHANNEL HERE THAT HAS THE SAME CONCEPT.
I wish people even knew what the word "etiquette " actually meant. Thank you for doing this.
Yeeey, I am so happy that you uploaded this ❣❣, hopefull that this becomes a series 🥰🥰🥰.
Definitely would love to see more videos like this! Can’t watch to watch this 🥰
Yay!!
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Greetings from San Diego California✨ I love this vlog💚 I was taught manners as a child. I proudly raised 5 well mannered humans😍 My children held doors for people, showed respect in every way...still do as adults. It's disappointing to see lack of manners in any age group. Thank you for reminding everyone how welcoming & appreciated good manners are!✨
This has made my day! I'm so happy you're doing this!
Omg I love this new series ! Exactly what I needed now 😍
I don't understand why people need to be taught this it's mad!
I agree completely in all of those and I just realized that I follow almost all of those rules on a daily basis! My favorite one is complimenting something I see in someone. Their hair, their clothes or if that was the case, their garden. They always seem so happy! :) And when I get one of those I am also so happy too.
this was a lovely video Josie but regarding eye contact: often times neuro diverse people find it more difficult than most to maintain eye contact. Lets extend some grace and be mindful in these situations!
That’s really good to know!