My Mother is the same way. She picks fights and tries to blame it on me, and always finding a reason to complain, gossip, or start a fight. I pray for her narcissism, but I dont see her changing. My Mom always tells me I need her when I don't. I need God. I live an hour from this lady and she lives with my aunt and uncle for free since 2012, I give her rides when I ain't got the money and she don't even have a job. She sits and complains about my aunt and uncle to when they dont make her pay rent or do anything to her. She has always blamed everyone for her own problems. I don't get these elder women now a days. There's many of them like this.
@@winning3329 Same, both of my parents are narcissists and I had to go no contact years ago with them. It was the best thing I ever did but it was very hard to do in the beginning. Now, I wish I would have done it sooner and avoided as much toxicity, trauma, and harm as possible.
My dad and sisters/brothers are narcissistic abusive and my moms dead . Ive been alone since age 16 - i cut them off at 21 - im homeless and theyre rich but im at peace
@@mfs2047 I'm so sorry you're going through homelessness. Please know you're not alone and there's people out in this crazy world that pray you get on your feet soon, and that you are loved by many of us that don't know you. I can't say I've been through homelessness as in on the streets, I can't even imagine what you're going through.but I know the feeling of feeling alone and having no one, even in a room full of people. God got me through 100% of my shitty hardiships in life, and he will be there for you to, through ALL of it. Trust and believe. Please trust and believe. I almost ended my life a few times. The Holy Spirit is real, and if you trust and believe in Jesus and his promises to never leave nor forsake us , he won't. Please please trust in him and accept him in your heart and you'll see what I mean. 💕 that is if you haven't already (no judgement). I love you brother/ sister. Peace be with you in Jesus name .
The fact that you broke the cycle shows your growth and development. The fact you want more for your son .... You are beyond a good soul !!! Don't let the mind games set you back . Toxic is toxic !!!!!!!!!! No love is worth losing everything and even more yourself .
Parents got to realize your children has a voice and feelings. As a parent myself I have 2 sons and I respect them as an adult. I will be praying for you and your mother. She needs to see herself for herself so she can correct herself. Love, peace and blessings to you and your baby. Mother Dessie from Chicago Illinois. 😷🙏🏻😇🌹
So good 🙏🙏🙏 I was her once upon of time and dats why I speak from experience.. God has a blessing with her name on it.. he hear her cry and know her heart.. He setting something up right now for her 🙏🙏🙏 in due time..
One thing I learned as a parent is that people know that you want to be a good parent. They know that your child is your weak spot. So they will call you a terrible Mother just to get under your skin play mind games and make you feel insecure about yourself. One thing I like that you do and I wish I did is document everything you do. These videos you make show that you care for your son. That you’re a wonderful Mom. This must be a old video. So happy that you moved and have employment.
This is triggering me because I know this toxicity. Hoping you and Eli find refuge! She's using her grandbaby as a scapegoat. She has a problem with you.
I do NOT KNOW how this found its way into my feed. I thought my life and my son's "home life" with my mom was a secret. But I promise to the Lord that we are going through EXACTLY what you're going through honey. I'm praying for you and your son. Please pray for me and my son as well. Love your sister in Christ!
Artificial intelligence is how this video got into your feed. The AI is listening and watching us constantly. Our world is being turned upside down with this technology. A TRAP!!!!!🙄
Awww my mom was very abusive to my brothers and I and us get evil. Even as an adult I invited her over @ 27 and she assulted me in front of my daughter. Age never helped me when I became a single mother abs she also didn’t teach me any values growing up. All she did was run the streets chase men abuse us and te us we were a burden so I feel your pain. Us millennial children we’re screwed over big time. Our grandmother were better mothers for sure. Stay strong and cut her off. I at 33 and now married now see of how toxic my mom is and cut her off.
I feel for you. Being a "mother" does not necessarily a good person make. There are many evil people out there, who are mothers. They're selfish and destructive and children are only possessions that they try to make use of, as far as I can see. You did the right thing; cut it off, no matter who it is. It's a wonder we even survived our bad mothers.
Tiona, before I even watched this vlog I prayed for you and Elijah. I wish I could give you a hug; I’m so so sorry that you have to endure these things, but thank God for your grandmother. God kept her in your life for a reason. Remember, Satan’s goal is to kill, steal and destroy (John 10:10)…and he can even manifest himself in your closest family members! Keep your distance for now and ask the LORD for instruction and listen closely as He gives you direction. I myself am also waiting on instructions from God in my next phase of life. Be blessed!
I am not putting you down please don't Don't misunderstand me I have beening homeless before and loss my mom at the same time I really beening through a lot but I had to come to reality I had to get my life together and got me a job and trust God and I got my own so I say this some point in your life you you got to get up and do more for yourself and your son its time to get out of the pity party and start working toward getting your self Sable in a place you can do stop putting your trust in your family and other people fall on knees and cry out God this is 2023 its time to make move be blessed
I'm praying for you baby girl. It might be better if you contact a women's shelter near you for the safety of you and the baby. I went through something similar with my mom who suffers from bipolar disorder among other things. Please get out see if you can stay with your grandma for a little bit. Stay strong beautiful
Iv forgave my mother for her choices while growing up because forgiveness is for me not her....but as a adult she is still the same and never trying to have a healthy relationship so I had to remove myself mentally and physically and set boundaries for my own life and wellness ..it truly hurts but it's a wonderful and peaceful life today I choose me.
Same with me I don’t talk to my mom she is very negative and acts like we her kids owe her something she is very toxic so I love her from a distance. Sometimes you have to cut unhealthy relationships even with family
I'm just now seeing this. I know from other videos God blessed & you are out of this now. You've come a long way. I know God has a plan for your life & I can't wait to see where God takes you.
This was like 4 months ago but I feel relieved to have at least someone to relate to you remind me of my mother when she was in her 30s being the best mom she can be, seeing her go through ups and downs I’m 19 years old now and my mom is still being strong for me I don’t get along with her all the time but I love her to death. I just wanna say your doing great as a young mother and watching your videos keeps me going I hope god blesses you and your baby a nice home one day cause you deserve it a lot you really do. Kind people have to go through so much just to finally have their blessing, just remember your a sweet loving soul and when your son gets older he will thank you for being strong for him. I hope you have many blessings please don’t stop posting videos have a great day and the rest of your days as well 💗💕
Bet you recognize Tiona's kindness and loving spirit cause you're the same yourself 💞I would get into it with mom too but just like you said, we no doubt still love them. Everyone's learning and growing on their path, some are just further along than others. So glad you have have a mom who loves and care for you...I can imagine she's proud! 💗💗
I was in yours position when I was young I was going to pillow to post with two kids. I remember laying I. My nieces living room with my two kids on the floor on a Mat with both of my kids trying to go to sleep so my daughter could make the bus while my niece and her friends got high and talked about me like a dog. I just payed there and cried they thought I was sleeping. But God bought me through it I’m about to retire from my job and I’m doing well so pray God will bring you through. I wish you were close to where I live I would gladly open my door
You and Eli are in my prayers sweetie ❤️ hang in there and stay strong, reach out and talk to people, it's important you release your stress and talk about it, God has you and you'll be blessed 🙏 I love you and your a wonderful Mom 🥰
When my son and his wife and kids came to live with me it was bittersweet. My home will always be their home. However, when you have kids and you live in someone else's home you must always make sure you are taking good care of your children and clean-up after them. No Excuses. You must always take all marital drama outside and away from the homeowner. And always be mindful that being an adult means having your own. Every parent should instill in their children to never have children unless they have their own home and make sure you keep it. Things happen, but if you end up moving in with a relative be respectful of their home and house rules.
I’m sending love and a prayer❤️. I’m a single mother myself, I’m so sorry that happened. That really broke my heart children are so precious. And you are a great mother. Love from Dakeriah and Nova ❤️
I’m sooo happy you got out and stayed out. I’m getting the fuck out too and this time it’s for good. My mom slammed my face into the floor in front of my 5 year old and 3 year old at 5 am one morning, I left that day and came back once she became very ill (she was in remission from cancer). My kids are 8 and 6 now. I just got a new job I start in a few weeks. I’m so nervous to take my kids with me to the next state over because she just had surgery again and it will upset her. My mom keeps saying I should commute everyday 1.5 hours each way until I can buy a house where she wants me to buy it. I won’t do it. I’m ready to get the hell outta here. I’m bout to ask my father for a loan tomorrow to get my affairs in order. Thank you for sharing. New subscriber here.
I understand you were emotional but what you are doing in front of your son is not good. It will mess him up in the long run. I know it’s hard not to react that way in the moment, I’ve been there, but you saying things in front of him is not good. You even said yourself he was in the other room repeating what he just heard. You telling him that it’s her fault and she is the issue is very unnecessary. He is a toddler. A child should never be told thing like that. I hope you have found a safe stable place for you and your son. 💕
I've been homeless (in temp accommodation) with my daughter too in the past, having to live in shared accommodation with crazy people. I feel for you.. it isn't nice but things will and do get better x
One thing is for certain, we are living in a world full of broken people. Love is about give and take. We have to try to be more tolerant of each other as we all have flaws. 🤷🏾♂️
Hun you deserve a better life. I can see that you need to get out of that toxic environment. You are strong hun. Don't look back hun. You and your son need a new life style. You will make it
I hurt for you cause I go through the same thing and I feel so bad you and Eli have to go through this I pray and hope God gives you and Eli a home of your own or atleast a place where your comfortable
Hey friend, I appreciate the authenticity 💕 I really hate you’re going through this but let me say this, when things start getting super uncomfortable it’s time to GROW sis. You and Eli won’t be there much longer…greater is coming 🙏🏾✨
I am so sorry you are going through this but you will come out stronger and better for yourself and your son I will be praying for you and your family!!
I’m praying for u & your son. Things will get better for y’all. Everything happens for a reason. Keep God first & pray & things will work out. Praying u get your own place so u & your son won’t have to go through that no more. 🙏🏽
My heart truly breaks for you . I can see that you have a pure heart but have been dealt some bad cards in life but keep pushing sister & protecting your baby . I know you will have a great successful future , I believe in you !❤😘
“You are precious in my eyes, and honored, and I love you.”- Isaiah 43:4 Humans love for you can never compare to the amount of love that God has for you. He sees you, he is with you and he is so proud of you. ❤ I just found your page and I feel like you are my long lost best friend lol I am praying for you and your family and I know that there are so many great blessings in store for you. You are absolutely amazing! ❤
This broke my heart first time watching your video girl I love you so much I pray God continue to give you strength as you go along each day Remember that we love you ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
This is heartbreaking I’m sorry you had to go thru that man I pray for you and your son 🙏🏾🙏🏾 my mom is toxic always saying lil shit blaming me for stuff it’s like one min she cool then the next she spazzing out
Breaks my heart to hear him I only just started watching your videos but in the most recent one you have your own home now I’m very happy you have your own space I went through the same thing and now I have my own place and I know the relief it can bring
TODAY IS MY 30th BIRTHDAY✅‼️ I pray blessings over your son and you && I’ve been rewatching your videos all night/morning at this point☺️ Sometimes a completely new start HELPS‼️ I remember a few years ago going thru SO MUCH in my hometown and I up and left with my son and moved my life has been so much better‼️ If you ever want a change of scenery I’m in Louisiana; I’m a supervisor of a Home health agency I can get you a job, I can help you out to get your son into school, I can help you with living arrangements with your son! Us boy moms GOTTA STICK TOGETHER‼️ I don’t know you but I’m willing to help‼️✅
Omg you are going through what I’ve experienced all my life which is abuse from my mom. It did not stop until she died a year ago and I’m currently 55. I had to put my foot down and really looked over everything to make a final decision to do what is best for me and mines. I cut all ties and that is the best decision that I could have ever made.
My life has been far from perfect and sometimes fowl...at 65 I am so done with what anyone says to or about me...please be strong and keep letting God show you the way in His truth Amen 🙏
Its going to be okay trust in the lord your not the only one going through mom and daughter issues I’m going through it as well just stay prayed up you leaving was the best choice you could have done ✅ start your journey with you Nd your son sending you nothing but peace love and blessing there’s light at the end of tunnel always
I ran across your video on ytube. It touch my heart. I subscribed to your channel. Babygirl know this, that trouble don’t last always and joy comes in the morning. God knows your heart and he may not come when you want him, but he his always on time. I can relate to what you are going thru I have gone thru a lot of similarities in my life. I just kept praying and trusted in the lord he would answer my prayers and he did. Stay encouraged. I would like to help you if I can. Dm if you need someone to talk to or just be there for you and your son.
Hiii love I just wanted to tell you your videos really inspire me because I’m single mother myself and it is soo hard being single mother I be having days we’re I just wanna give up but my son is the only thing that keeps me going and watching your videos have help me made me understand a lot better that I’m not the only one that’s going through this you are so strong and beautiful to put your story out there and you keep doing what you doing love
I just came across your page watching your recent videos and I just want to say I really love your account and your so strong ❤️ just subscribed my love !!
I know this is an old video but I’m just now seeing it. It’s so sad that a grandmother can act like that over her grandchild! I have a daughter & grandbabies also, Lord I cannot even begin to imagine acting like that over my grandbabies making messes, or being rowdy or being noisy. They’re babies! And I want my daughter & my babies to want to come see me, I want my babies to cry to come see their nanny (me lol). It would destroy me if my daughter & my babies even slightly felt like they was walking on eggshells at my house, my house is where I want them to just know they are safe here, they are very welcome here, & happy feelings & memories is all I want them to feel. Many prayers for you, your mama, & your baby ❤🙏
I feel your pain I have to pray without ceasing to get thru the few days a week that I am around my nonbiological mom. Hang in there kiddo go into prayer when your around her. 🤗🤗🤗🤗 GOD bless u and Eli
My heart truly goes out to you and your son !! I’m praying for you guys I know god has a big blessing with your name on it please keep pushing and don’t give up I can only imagine how tough it is but god will never leave you or forsake you continue to fight baby girl blessings are coming your way ⭐️
Honey just pray for her. The Most High love you and got you and your baby. Don’t worry he seee and he knows your pain . He will help you find the way. Blessings love ❤️ . I am great full you receive help bless them to honey
Listen I'm dealing with it now!!! My father was mad over my son not showing him his Nintendo switch. Ridiculous tries to kick me out telling me get out and shut up. It's a tough place to be in. We will get through this sis. My son was so angry witnessing it. I hate him seeing it. I'm proud of your growth.
Don’t give up young sister!! The devil attacks when your on the right path. Keep pushing there is light at the end of the tunnel. Yes it’s no place like ya own home!! You will keep your head up in the name of Eli.. you can’t pick ya blood family unfortunately lol you don’t have to take on their demons either. Love em far a far! Keep praying and asking god for what you want, he listens ❤❤❤ love on you & that beautiful son of your Moma’s
I went through the same issues with my MOMMY, there are a lot of generational curses in my family, secrets, hurt and pain. From the time I was a teenager My mom and I had issues. As I got older and moved out our relationship got much better. Due to hard times I had to move back n with my Mommy. It was me , mommy & my daughter. It was very toxic and hurtful. Does ANYONE know how hurtful it is to hear ur Mom talk about u like a dog? Well I do, my hust was broken. It’s so much hurt and pain In outer relationship stemming from her being a teen mom, the generational curses on our family( most of the women were teen mothers including me) . It’s so much I could go in to but, I’d need more time and space to type. ALLLLLLL that being said I lost my Mommy in 2019 and, what I wouldn’t GIVE to have her back😢. All the hurt and pain I felt over the years is NOTHING compared to the emptiness I feel without her here. I’m praying u and ur Mom can find peace and healing b4 it’s too late. GOD bless u and baby boy.
My heart broke for you when I saw your video. I can sooo relate. I was a single mom, and all I had was my son, and the devil tried to take that away from me. The devil attacks the meek ones of the earth. He sees that you crave the love and approval and safety from your mother; and it's just not there. You can't trust her shifting moods and cruel words. You need a plan and a new support system. And God will eventually get you out of this situation. My son is grown now, and I got him safely to adulthood, but boy we had to live on the cheap. But he's right with God; that's the main thing. Never had any legal trouble with him, either. You will prevail. You're so sweet and right hearted. Just keep praying. I will pray for you too.
The devil likes to attack whenever he want to whomever he wants. You life could be going ducking fantastic and the devil listens in waiting for the right timing to make he’ll break loose. And when shit breaks it’s all over, never just the one issue. I love your comment but please don’t think of yourself as mean. The devil attacks everyone! God helps us grow from it if we lean on god. If not, we still make it through it just takes a lot longer it seems.
I'm new to your channel I'm praying for you and your son I can tell you are a great person and mom so trust me one day you are going to have everything you want and need hold on a little while longer
Wow, I could cry seeing and hearing your thoughts on your mother. It’s almost like looking through a mirror. My mother and I always have a good relationship, but when there are issues between us it always seems to revolve around my child. I honestly deep down feel that there is deep rooted anger in her stemming from the way she raised us and the mistakes she made. So, now she’s trying to fix those mistakes through raising MY child. But I have to continue to remind her that I’m the parent and the rank pulling is triggering each time honestly. But like you said it’s very toxic because the kids are see it all and it’s not a very conducive environment.
I so understand Tia,,you have a friend in me ❤ My mother was the type of person that if she had a negative thought during the day,,she'd wait on me to take her anger out on,,though she was a beautiful lady & everyone loved her,,she was quiet & stern but very abusive,,but only towards me,,so I get it,,its been yrx ago now & I've finally( kinda) figured it all out ,,I always said I wld never treat my children like she treated me & I haven't,,I'm a great grandmother now & I love them all each & every 1,,I'm praying 4 you to get through this & know that her issues aren't your fault ❤️ 💖 ♥️ 💗 💙 💕 ❤
My boyfriend's mom does the same exact thing you said everything is literally like my story it's crazy. We need these people to be locked up not us each time
It's not you, Your mother has some issues she needs to fix with in herself love her from a distance find you your own place and do what makes you happy pray God change things you get things as you go it's not you fault you are a good mother if your taking care of you child never give up God see everything
God Bless you Dear...hold your head up. Keep your beautiful soul, you are enough...don't let those that being you down, they are the ones who are lacking in heart & soul!😘
I am just seeing this video and I am in tears because I seen you go from this to your beautiful apartment that you’re in right now. Keep on your knees keep praying Jesus heard you blessings, strength, prosperity keep your circle small.
I will definitely be praying for you and your son. Please do what you know is right don't ever succumb to the negative that's coming at you. Keep your head up. I know at times it feels like you are all alone but trust me there are people out there that do care. I pray God sends someone your way that will be able to help.
Idunno how I came across this video but I’m so happy I did and I just want to say you are so strong for leaving like that and I hope it’s not lost on you how brave that was because it’s so much easier said than done ❤
Please stay strong all of this will be behind you. Go through this is your story to tell. You are going to be good. I have been in your situation. Things will change it always seem long while you going through. You will get through this hold on and pray keep praying
My heart truly breaks for you. On CZcams it says this was 5 months ago. I pray that things are better for you and your son. I know what it feels like to be in that situation. To live with someone knowing they don't want you at their home. For some reason Black folk can't do like the Mexicans and Puerto Ricans. we don't know how to share so everybody can get ahead.
Hi. I want to thank you so much for sharing . God knows we need each other. Everyone seems to be going through many different situations. I believe for every trial God takes us through he wants us to learn something. But I want to say you are a very kind and caring person. And you are doing the right things and staying true to your son and God. So as you know stop stressing so much and let God do his thang and watch your world turn around in God's name Amen 💯 with 💕
My prayers and thoughts are with you, when I was homeless due to an abusive marriage my dad wanted me to come but I said no, my mother, his wife has made my life so bad I dug my own grave by getting pregnant to the abusive guy to escape her at 15, today at 65, parents have passed, I told my mom that I hoped she found and has peace because she wasn't finding it in this life, just keep the faith, she will never change, she has problems like my mother, mental illness is an awful thing, my last kiddo was an issue to my mom as well as my 1st child that I had at 15, so much so, she refused to go to her graduation from High School, know that you can ALWAYS walk away from the chaos, you can ALWAYS choose for your son the better path, but also know unless she gets help, she will never change. God be with you
Wishing you the best queen that god covers you and your son and sees you through what seems like a dark cloud 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 god had the final say and he is a provider and a protector stay encouraged trust this process and watch how god moves in your life and pours and overflow of big blessings bigger than you can imagine in your life. It broke my heart to hear you say that you feel like you have nothing to call your own😢 well remember you have to crawl before you can walk💯 we all did. But In aligned time it will be✅🤗🙏🏾
I am so sorry that your going through this , just keep God first in your life ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ he will carry you ,so just talk to gid and give him your burden , he hears you so be patient because his time is not our time ❤️❤️❤️🙏❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️🙏❤️❤️🙏❤️❤️❤️❤️
If you have to cry, then cry. And when you find yourself crying uncontrollably, Praise The Lord! Give Him All the Glory! He will fix it if you give it to him. Your Dealing with so much and i just want to tell you "I Encourage You, Not Discourage! Stay well, Stay safe and Stay Blessed!!
Please continue to do EVERYTHING in your power to GET OUT! This from a person that has been where you are! My mother is one of the main trouble makers in my family; lies when she can’t get her way, controlling and takes ZERO accountability for her actions! She’s truly a monster! There are soo many stories! I’m not sure where you’re located but look into section 8, affordable housing, everything! And i know you are going through it and having a child makes it tougher bcse you have to protect him and make a way to go to work. Saying a prayer for you! Also try your best to not have another child please bcse it will make it soo much harder! And stay strong! Please! And yes I’m soo happy you have an outlet in you tube bcse it is helping you, trust me! You are a fighter please please keep going you will make it! Just don’t let yourself down! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
My Mother is the same way. She picks fights and tries to blame it on me, and always finding a reason to complain, gossip, or start a fight. I pray for her narcissism, but I dont see her changing. My Mom always tells me I need her when I don't. I need God. I live an hour from this lady and she lives with my aunt and uncle for free since 2012, I give her rides when I ain't got the money and she don't even have a job. She sits and complains about my aunt and uncle to when they dont make her pay rent or do anything to her. She has always blamed everyone for her own problems. I don't get these elder women now a days. There's many of them like this.
My mom is also an evil narcissist i cut her out my life and my life is so much better.
@@winning3329 Same, both of my parents are narcissists and I had to go no contact years ago with them. It was the best thing I ever did but it was very hard to do in the beginning. Now, I wish I would have done it sooner and avoided as much toxicity, trauma, and harm as possible.
My dad and sisters/brothers are narcissistic abusive and my moms dead . Ive been alone since age 16 - i cut them off at 21 - im homeless and theyre rich but im at peace
@@mfs2047 I'm so sorry you're going through homelessness. Please know you're not alone and there's people out in this crazy world that pray you get on your feet soon, and that you are loved by many of us that don't know you. I can't say I've been through homelessness as in on the streets, I can't even imagine what you're going through.but I know the feeling of feeling alone and having no one, even in a room full of people. God got me through 100% of my shitty hardiships in life, and he will be there for you to, through ALL of it. Trust and believe. Please trust and believe. I almost ended my life a few times. The Holy Spirit is real, and if you trust and believe in Jesus and his promises to never leave nor forsake us , he won't. Please please trust in him and accept him in your heart and you'll see what I mean. 💕 that is if you haven't already (no judgement). I love you brother/ sister. Peace be with you in Jesus name .
@@BBBB-nd8pl Thankyou and Merry Christmas 🎄
we wrestle not against flesh and blood but evil spirits in high places.
SO TRUE 🙏
Amen !
Say that sis
Amen
Toxic mothers are something else I tell you 🙄.I have a text only relationship with mine. She's lucky we have that much
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The fact that you broke the cycle shows your growth and development. The fact you want more for your son .... You are beyond a good soul !!! Don't let the mind games set you back . Toxic is toxic !!!!!!!!!! No love is worth losing everything and even more yourself .
Parents got to realize your children has a voice and feelings. As a parent myself I have 2 sons and I respect them as an adult. I will be praying for you and your mother. She needs to see herself for herself so she can correct herself. Love, peace and blessings to you and your baby. Mother Dessie from Chicago Illinois. 😷🙏🏻😇🌹
He's carried you through this storm... and look where you are now girl...
God is so good!
So good 🙏🙏🙏 I was her once upon of time and dats why I speak from experience.. God has a blessing with her name on it.. he hear her cry and know her heart.. He setting something up right now for her 🙏🙏🙏 in due time..
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Not sure how i found your channel but Baby, i am truly praying for you and baby Eli. Keep trusting God and never give up.
One thing I learned as a parent is that people know that you want to be a good parent. They know that your child is your weak spot. So they will call you a terrible Mother just to get under your skin play mind games and make you feel insecure about yourself. One thing I like that you do and I wish I did is document everything you do. These videos you make show that you care for your son. That you’re a wonderful Mom. This must be a old video. So happy that you moved and have employment.
This is triggering me because I know this toxicity. Hoping you and Eli find refuge!
She's using her grandbaby as a scapegoat. She has a problem with you.
Jealous of her own daughter silly , I know the story too well smh!!! Gossiping to ya friends about ya own flesh in blood
I do NOT KNOW how this found its way into my feed. I thought my life and my son's "home life" with my mom was a secret. But I promise to the Lord that we are going through EXACTLY what you're going through honey. I'm praying for you and your son. Please pray for me and my son as well. Love your sister in Christ!
Artificial intelligence is how this video got into your feed. The AI is listening and watching us constantly. Our world is being turned upside down with this technology. A TRAP!!!!!🙄
I hope life is a little better for you my dear. Stay strong and look forward, always.
Sending you love, prayers and positive thoughts.♡♡
Praying for you and Eli! There’s always a storm before your breakthrough. Praying for healing, strength, and blessings your way!
Thank you 💜💜💜💜
So true. So true.
Awww my mom was very abusive to my brothers and I and us get evil. Even as an adult I invited her over @ 27 and she assulted me in front of my daughter. Age never helped me when I became a single mother abs she also didn’t teach me any values growing up. All she did was run the streets chase men abuse us and te us we were a burden so I feel your pain. Us millennial children we’re screwed over big time. Our grandmother were better mothers for sure. Stay strong and cut her off. I at 33 and now married now see of how toxic my mom is and cut her off.
Oh my goodness
I feel for you. Being a "mother" does not necessarily a good person make. There are many evil people out there, who are mothers. They're selfish and destructive and children are only possessions that they try to make use of, as far as I can see. You did the right thing; cut it off, no matter who it is. It's a wonder we even survived our bad mothers.
Tiona YOU GOT this! Find your strength, it’s in there. Do NOT give up!
My heat breaks for you and Elijah 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Tiona, before I even watched this vlog I prayed for you and Elijah. I wish I could give you a hug; I’m so so sorry that you have to endure these things, but thank God for your grandmother. God kept her in your life for a reason. Remember, Satan’s goal is to kill, steal and destroy (John 10:10)…and he can even manifest himself in your closest family members! Keep your distance for now and ask the LORD for instruction and listen closely as He gives you direction. I myself am also waiting on instructions from God in my next phase of life. Be blessed!
My family and I are keeping you and your son in our prayers. 🙏🏽❤️❤️❤️
I am not putting you down please don't Don't misunderstand me I have beening homeless before and loss my mom at the same time I really beening through a lot but I had to come to reality I had to get my life together and got me a job and trust God and I got my own so I say this some point in your life you you got to get up and do more for yourself and your son its time to get out of the pity party and start working toward getting your self Sable in a place you can do stop putting your trust in your family and other people fall on knees and cry out God this is 2023 its time to make move be blessed
That poor baby doesnt need to be in the middle of whatever is going on.
I'm praying for you baby girl. It might be better if you contact a women's shelter near you for the safety of you and the baby. I went through something similar with my mom who suffers from bipolar disorder among other things. Please get out see if you can stay with your grandma for a little bit. Stay strong beautiful
Iv forgave my mother for her choices while growing up because forgiveness is for me not her....but as a adult she is still the same and never trying to have a healthy relationship so I had to remove myself mentally and physically and set boundaries for my own life and wellness ..it truly hurts but it's a wonderful and peaceful life today I choose me.
Same with me I don’t talk to my mom she is very negative and acts like we her kids owe her something she is very toxic so I love her from a distance. Sometimes you have to cut unhealthy relationships even with family
I'm just now seeing this. I know from other videos God blessed & you are out of this now. You've come a long way. I know God has a plan for your life & I can't wait to see where God takes you.
I can relate to your situation. I wish I was as strong as you are when I
went through it. You are amazing ❤️🙏🏾
Mental health issues are the problem. Please try to get help as a family
This was like 4 months ago but I feel relieved to have at least someone to relate to you remind me of my mother when she was in her 30s being the best mom she can be, seeing her go through ups and downs I’m 19 years old now and my mom is still being strong for me I don’t get along with her all the time but I love her to death. I just wanna say your doing great as a young mother and watching your videos keeps me going I hope god blesses you and your baby a nice home one day cause you deserve it a lot you really do.
Kind people have to go through so much just to finally have their blessing, just remember your a sweet loving soul and when your son gets older he will thank you for being strong for him. I hope you have many blessings please don’t stop posting videos have a great day and the rest of your days as well 💗💕
Bet you recognize Tiona's kindness and loving spirit cause you're the same yourself 💞I would get into it with mom too but just like you said, we no doubt still love them. Everyone's learning and growing on their path, some are just further along than others. So glad you have have a mom who loves and care for you...I can imagine she's proud! 💗💗
I was in yours position when I was young I was going to pillow to post with two kids. I remember laying I. My nieces living room with my two kids on the floor on a Mat with both of my kids trying to go to sleep so my daughter could make the bus while my niece and her friends got high and talked about me like a dog. I just payed there and cried they thought I was sleeping. But God bought me through it I’m about to retire from my job and I’m doing well so pray God will bring you through. I wish you were close to where I live I would gladly open my door
You and Eli are in my prayers sweetie ❤️ hang in there and stay strong, reach out and talk to people, it's important you release your stress and talk about it, God has you and you'll be blessed 🙏 I love you and your a wonderful Mom 🥰
I know I have been in that situation before
When my son and his wife and kids came to live with me it was bittersweet. My home will always be their home. However, when you have kids and you live in someone else's home you must always make sure you are taking good care of your children and clean-up after them. No Excuses. You must always take all marital drama outside and away from the homeowner. And always be mindful that being an adult means having your own. Every parent should instill in their children to never have children unless they have their own home and make sure you keep it. Things happen, but if you end up moving in with a relative be respectful of their home and house rules.
100%
I’m sending love and a prayer❤️. I’m a single mother myself, I’m so sorry that happened. That really broke my heart children are so precious. And you are a great mother.
Love from Dakeriah and Nova ❤️
I’m sooo happy you got out and stayed out. I’m getting the fuck out too and this time it’s for good. My mom slammed my face into the floor in front of my 5 year old and 3 year old at 5 am one morning, I left that day and came back once she became very ill (she was in remission from cancer). My kids are 8 and 6 now. I just got a new job I start in a few weeks. I’m so nervous to take my kids with me to the next state over because she just had surgery again and it will upset her. My mom keeps saying I should commute everyday 1.5 hours each way until I can buy a house where she wants me to buy it. I won’t do it. I’m ready to get the hell outta here. I’m bout to ask my father for a loan tomorrow to get my affairs in order. Thank you for sharing. New subscriber here.
I understand you were emotional but what you are doing in front of your son is not good. It will mess him up in the long run. I know it’s hard not to react that way in the moment, I’ve been there, but you saying things in front of him is not good. You even said yourself he was in the other room repeating what he just heard. You telling him that it’s her fault and she is the issue is very unnecessary. He is a toddler. A child should never be told thing like that.
I hope you have found a safe stable place for you and your son. 💕
I've been homeless (in temp accommodation) with my daughter too in the past, having to live in shared accommodation with crazy people. I feel for you.. it isn't nice but things will and do get better x
Damn😢
One thing is for certain, we are living in a world full of broken people.
Love is about give and take. We have to try to be more tolerant of each other as we all have flaws. 🤷🏾♂️
I totally understand . I will definitely keep you and your son in prayer. I pray for peace and a renewing relationship between you all.
Hun you deserve a better life.
I can see that you need to get out of that toxic environment.
You are strong hun.
Don't look back hun. You and your son need a new life style.
You will make it
I hurt for you cause I go through the same thing and I feel so bad you and Eli have to go through this I pray and hope God gives you and Eli a home of your own or atleast a place where your comfortable
Hey friend, I appreciate the authenticity 💕 I really hate you’re going through this but let me say this, when things start getting super uncomfortable it’s time to GROW sis. You and Eli won’t be there much longer…greater is coming 🙏🏾✨
I am so sorry you are going through this but you will come out stronger and better for yourself and your son I will be praying for you and your family!!
I love your content it’s so real and honest and not this fake you tube.. love you and your son! You got this 😊
I hope things get better love ❤️ keeping you in my prayers everything will work out in the end a blessing is coming !
I just subscribed. And watching this broke my heart. God bless you, beautiful lady and Elijah
I’m praying for u & your son. Things will get better for y’all. Everything happens for a reason. Keep God first & pray & things will work out. Praying u get your own place so u & your son won’t have to go through that no more. 🙏🏽
My heart truly breaks for you . I can see that you have a pure heart but have been dealt some bad cards in life but keep pushing sister & protecting your baby . I know you will have a great successful future , I believe in you !❤😘
“You are precious in my eyes, and honored, and I love you.”- Isaiah 43:4
Humans love for you can never compare to the amount of love that God has for you. He sees you, he is with you and he is so proud of you. ❤ I just found your page and I feel like you are my long lost best friend lol I am praying for you and your family and I know that there are so many great blessings in store for you. You are absolutely amazing! ❤
This broke my heart first time watching your video girl I love you so much
I pray God continue to give you strength as you go along each day
Remember that we love you ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
This is heartbreaking I’m sorry you had to go thru that man I pray for you and your son 🙏🏾🙏🏾 my mom is toxic always saying lil shit blaming me for stuff it’s like one min she cool then the next she spazzing out
Breaks my heart to hear him I only just started watching your videos but in the most recent one you have your own home now I’m very happy you have your own space I went through the same thing and now I have my own place and I know the relief it can bring
You will live in my prayers. God bless you and your baby. I'm sorry you're going through this. You're a great mother and things will be better. 😘
I am so sorry love you don’t deserve this I wish u nothing but the best and that things get better
TODAY IS MY 30th BIRTHDAY✅‼️
I pray blessings over your son and you && I’ve been rewatching your videos all night/morning at this point☺️
Sometimes a completely new start HELPS‼️
I remember a few years ago going thru SO MUCH in my hometown and I up and left with my son and moved my life has been so much better‼️
If you ever want a change of scenery I’m in Louisiana; I’m a supervisor of a Home health agency I can get you a job, I can help you out to get your son into school, I can help you with living arrangements with your son!
Us boy moms GOTTA STICK TOGETHER‼️
I don’t know you but I’m willing to help‼️✅
I'm so sorry ur going through this I hope u find something safe for u and ur son much love you and God bless u got this. ❤️💪🏽🙏🏽
These babies are exposed to way too much. Get your baby and light out. You and your child deserve better.
Omg you are going through what I’ve experienced all my life which is abuse from my mom. It did not stop until she died a year ago and I’m currently 55. I had to put my foot down and really looked over everything to make a final decision to do what is best for me and mines. I cut all ties and that is the best decision that I could have ever made.
My life has been far from perfect and sometimes fowl...at 65 I am so done with what anyone says to or about me...please be strong and keep letting God show you the way in His truth Amen 🙏
Its going to be okay trust in the lord your not the only one going through mom and daughter issues I’m going through it as well just stay prayed up you leaving was the best choice you could have done ✅ start your journey with you Nd your son sending you nothing but peace love and blessing there’s light at the end of tunnel always
I ran across your video on ytube. It touch my heart. I subscribed to your channel. Babygirl know this, that trouble don’t last always and joy comes in the morning. God knows your heart and he may not come when you want him, but he his always on time. I can relate to what you are going thru I have gone thru a lot of similarities in my life. I just kept praying and trusted in the lord he would answer my prayers and he did. Stay encouraged. I would like to help you if I can. Dm if you need someone to talk to or just be there for you and your son.
Hiii love I just wanted to tell you your videos really inspire me because I’m single mother myself and it is soo hard being single mother I be having days we’re I just wanna give up but my son is the only thing that keeps me going and watching your videos have help me made me understand a lot better that I’m not the only one that’s going through this you are so strong and beautiful to put your story out there and you keep doing what you doing love
I just came across your page watching your recent videos and I just want to say I really love your account and your so strong ❤️ just subscribed my love !!
I know this is an old video but I’m just now seeing it. It’s so sad that a grandmother can act like that over her grandchild! I have a daughter & grandbabies also, Lord I cannot even begin to imagine acting like that over my grandbabies making messes, or being rowdy or being noisy. They’re babies! And I want my daughter & my babies to want to come see me, I want my babies to cry to come see their nanny (me lol). It would destroy me if my daughter & my babies even slightly felt like they was walking on eggshells at my house, my house is where I want them to just know they are safe here, they are very welcome here, & happy feelings & memories is all I want them to feel. Many prayers for you, your mama, & your baby ❤🙏
I feel your pain I have to pray without ceasing to get thru the few days a week that I am around my nonbiological mom. Hang in there kiddo go into prayer when your around her. 🤗🤗🤗🤗 GOD bless u and Eli
I also went through this too. I simpathize with you. Keep strong and pray to the most high God for help. 🇬🇧🙏🏽❤️
My heart truly goes out to you and your son !! I’m praying for you guys I know god has a big blessing with your name on it please keep pushing and don’t give up I can only imagine how tough it is but god will never leave you or forsake you continue to fight baby girl blessings are coming your way ⭐️
I’ve Been Binging On Your Channel- Your So Strong & Look Where You Are Now!!!! Hallelujah- God Is So Good!!!
Honey just pray for her. The Most High love you and got you and your baby. Don’t worry he seee and he knows your pain . He will help you find the way. Blessings love ❤️ . I am great full you receive help bless them to honey
Listen I'm dealing with it now!!! My father was mad over my son not showing him his Nintendo switch. Ridiculous tries to kick me out telling me get out and shut up. It's a tough place to be in. We will get through this sis. My son was so angry witnessing it. I hate him seeing it. I'm proud of your growth.
Damn 😮💨
Don’t give up young sister!! The devil attacks when your on the right path. Keep pushing there is light at the end of the tunnel. Yes it’s no place like ya own home!! You will keep your head up in the name of Eli.. you can’t pick ya blood family unfortunately lol you don’t have to take on their demons either. Love em far a far! Keep praying and asking god for what you want, he listens ❤❤❤ love on you & that beautiful son of your Moma’s
Girl you are correct when walking on eggshells because they don’t want you there! Run and don’t stop until you got your own!
I went through the same issues with my MOMMY, there are a lot of generational curses in my family, secrets, hurt and pain. From the time I was a teenager My mom and I had issues. As I got older and moved out our relationship got much better. Due to hard times I had to move back n with my Mommy. It was me , mommy & my daughter. It was very toxic and hurtful. Does ANYONE know how hurtful it is to hear ur Mom talk about u like a dog? Well I do, my hust was broken. It’s so much hurt and pain In outer relationship stemming from her being a teen mom, the generational curses on our family( most of the women were teen mothers including me) . It’s so much I could go in to but, I’d need more time and space to type. ALLLLLLL that being said I lost my Mommy in 2019 and, what I wouldn’t GIVE to have her back😢. All the hurt and pain I felt over the years is NOTHING compared to the emptiness I feel without her here. I’m praying u and ur Mom can find peace and healing b4 it’s too late. GOD bless u and baby boy.
My heart broke for you when I saw your video. I can sooo relate. I was a single mom, and all I had was my son, and the devil tried to take that away from me. The devil attacks the meek ones of the earth. He sees that you crave the love and approval and safety from your mother; and it's just not there. You can't trust her shifting moods and cruel words. You need a plan and a new support system. And God will eventually get you out of this situation. My son is grown now, and I got him safely to adulthood, but boy we had to live on the cheap. But he's right with God; that's the main thing. Never had any legal trouble with him, either. You will prevail. You're so sweet and right hearted. Just keep praying. I will pray for you too.
The devil likes to attack whenever he want to whomever he wants. You life could be going ducking fantastic and the devil listens in waiting for the right timing to make he’ll break loose. And when shit breaks it’s all over, never just the one issue. I love your comment but please don’t think of yourself as mean. The devil attacks everyone! God helps us grow from it if we lean on god. If not, we still make it through it just takes a lot longer it seems.
@@scorpionattitude Oh I know he attacks everyone. He has me all my life!
I'm new to your channel I'm praying for you and your son I can tell you are a great person and mom so trust me one day you are going to have everything you want and need hold on a little while longer
Just saw this! I pray all is well and going good for you and King Elijah. God has a plan for you. Stay head and heart strong.
It’s going to be alright,God sees all and he’s walking with u all the time,I am praying for you and Elijah
Wow, I could cry seeing and hearing your thoughts on your mother. It’s almost like looking through a mirror. My mother and I always have a good relationship, but when there are issues between us it always seems to revolve around my child. I honestly deep down feel that there is deep rooted anger in her stemming from the way she raised us and the mistakes she made. So, now she’s trying to fix those mistakes through raising MY child. But I have to continue to remind her that I’m the parent and the rank pulling is triggering each time honestly. But like you said it’s very toxic because the kids are see it all and it’s not a very conducive environment.
I so understand Tia,,you have a friend in me ❤ My mother was the type of person that if she had a negative thought during the day,,she'd wait on me to take her anger out on,,though she was a beautiful lady & everyone loved her,,she was quiet & stern but very abusive,,but only towards me,,so I get it,,its been yrx ago now & I've finally( kinda) figured it all out ,,I always said I wld never treat my children like she treated me & I haven't,,I'm a great grandmother now & I love them all each & every 1,,I'm praying 4 you to get through this & know that her issues aren't your fault ❤️ 💖 ♥️ 💗 💙 💕 ❤
My ex-husband was the same way! Take care of you and Elijah. Sending you love and healing💜
My boyfriend's mom does the same exact thing you said everything is literally like my story it's crazy. We need these people to be locked up not us each time
Keep believing in the power of God, and you can never fall! I will pray for this young lady and her son. 🙏🏾
shame on her for bringing a child into an adult situation, that is ab-use. keep your head up and keep on protecting the baby from toxic situations.
It's not you, Your mother has some issues she needs to fix with in herself love her from a distance find you your own place and do what makes you happy pray God change things you get things as you go it's not you fault you are a good mother if your taking care of you child never give up God see everything
God Bless you Dear...hold your head up. Keep your beautiful soul, you are enough...don't let those that being you down, they are the ones who are lacking in heart & soul!😘
I am just seeing this video and I am in tears because I seen you go from this to your beautiful apartment that you’re in right now. Keep on your knees keep praying Jesus heard you blessings, strength, prosperity keep your circle small.
Queen you are enough and God loves you and Elijah. STAY STRONG
I love that God answered your prayers. I’ve seen all the hard work that you’ve put in. You are a Great Mother.
I will definitely be praying for you and your son. Please do what you know is right don't ever succumb to the negative that's coming at you. Keep your head up. I know at times it feels like you are all alone but trust me there are people out there that do care. I pray God sends someone your way that will be able to help.
You are doing great. Keep going . Trust me you are NOT alone 💜 I’m going through it too but God got us 💚 stay faithful.
Idunno how I came across this video but I’m so happy I did and I just want to say you are so strong for leaving like that and I hope it’s not lost on you how brave that was because it’s so much easier said than done ❤
Please stay strong all of this will be behind you. Go through this is your story to tell. You are going to be good. I have been in your situation. Things will change it always seem long while you going through. You will get through this hold on and pray keep praying
Keeping you in my prayers sis 💗💗
My heart truly breaks for you. On CZcams it says this was 5 months ago. I pray that things are better for you and your son. I know what it feels like to be in that situation. To live with someone knowing they don't want you at their home. For some reason Black folk can't do like the Mexicans and Puerto Ricans. we don't know how to share so everybody can get ahead.
Hi. I want to thank you so much for sharing . God knows we need each other. Everyone seems to be going through many different situations. I believe for every trial God takes us through he wants us to learn something. But I want to say you are a very kind and caring person. And you are doing the right things and staying true to your son and God. So as you know stop stressing so much and let God do his thang and watch your world turn around in God's name Amen 💯 with 💕
My prayers and thoughts are with you, when I was homeless due to an abusive marriage my dad wanted me to come but I said no, my mother, his wife has made my life so bad I dug my own grave by getting pregnant to the abusive guy to escape her at 15, today at 65, parents have passed, I told my mom that I hoped she found and has peace because she wasn't finding it in this life, just keep the faith, she will never change, she has problems like my mother, mental illness is an awful thing, my last kiddo was an issue to my mom as well as my 1st child that I had at 15, so much so, she refused to go to her graduation from High School, know that you can ALWAYS walk away from the chaos, you can ALWAYS choose for your son the better path, but also know unless she gets help, she will never change. God be with you
Try for Section 8 go fill out a application for Section 8 or house it might take a while but you'll get it God bless stay strong
Wishing you the best queen that god covers you and your son and sees you through what seems like a dark cloud 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 god had the final say and he is a provider and a protector stay encouraged trust this process and watch how god moves in your life and pours and overflow of big blessings bigger than you can imagine in your life. It broke my heart to hear you say that you feel like you have nothing to call your own😢 well remember you have to crawl before you can walk💯 we all did. But In aligned time it will be✅🤗🙏🏾
Mannn your words just hits different for me I swear. Thank youuuu , God bless you. 💗💗💗
Yes I agree with you, don’t forget to capitalize the G in God Amen!
I am keeping you and your son in my prayers God Bless YOU stay strong
So glad you're in a much better place in your life. I pray you achieve even more things this year.
I am so sorry that your going through this , just keep God first in your life ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ he will carry you ,so just talk to gid and give him your burden , he hears you so be patient because his time is not our time ❤️❤️❤️🙏❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️🙏❤️❤️🙏❤️❤️❤️❤️
If you have to cry, then cry. And when you find yourself crying uncontrollably, Praise The Lord! Give Him All the Glory! He will fix it if you give it to him. Your Dealing with so much and i just want to tell you "I Encourage You, Not Discourage! Stay well, Stay safe and Stay Blessed!!
Sometimes u have to leave negative ppl alone. Luv yourself .
Please continue to do EVERYTHING in your power to GET OUT! This from a person that has been where you are! My mother is one of the main trouble makers in my family; lies when she can’t get her way, controlling and takes ZERO accountability for her actions! She’s truly a monster! There are soo many stories! I’m not sure where you’re located but look into section 8, affordable housing, everything! And i know you are going through it and having a child makes it tougher bcse you have to protect him and make a way to go to work. Saying a prayer for you! Also try your best to not have another child please bcse it will make it soo much harder! And stay strong! Please! And yes I’m soo happy you have an outlet in you tube bcse it is helping you, trust me! You are a fighter please please keep going you will make it! Just don’t let yourself down! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
This touches my ♥️to see the officer interact with the child.
She's having fun time with her best friend,God bless your ♥️officer.
I’m soo very sorry this happened and you’re finally settled in your own home now.. May God Continue To Bless You And Your Son🙏🏾🥰