IN MY DATING ERA | GRWM FOR A SECOND DATEEEEEE !!! + CHITCHAT 💕

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  • čas přidán 10. 07. 2024
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Komentáře • 338

  • @tionajaielijahking3059
    @tionajaielijahking3059  Před 25 dny +244

    I guess I didn’t make this clear enough in the video lol but this was not just someone random that I met. We’ve been knowing each other well over a year we just so happened to go out this year. Of course I know better than to let someone I barely know show up to my house for crying out loud you guys I’m not 16 smh 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @bcherie229
      @bcherie229 Před 25 dny +18

      They must not been listening to what you said in the beginning lol. My last relationship was extremely traumatic and i havent trusted to get to know anyone old or new again for years.

    • @nikkipoohw
      @nikkipoohw Před 25 dny +26

      They just want you to be safe

    • @madelinedelgado8845
      @madelinedelgado8845 Před 24 dny +5

      @@nikkipoohw thats all

    • @laquishanard2814
      @laquishanard2814 Před 23 dny +2

      😂😂

    • @FabFergie
      @FabFergie Před 23 dny +7

      You said in the video that you’ve known him for over a year lol. I think people just care about you and want the best.

  • @vp205.
    @vp205. Před 25 dny +332

    If a man wants to pay for everything ALLOW him. He is just showing he can provide. That's what men love! 33 years old I've learned a little lol. Congrats on the date!

    • @ashakc4life
      @ashakc4life Před 25 dny +20

      I agree 👍🏽, that's awesome she's offering being a super considerate individual but yeah let him show you how a man can really treat a lady.😊

    • @lisakyles3561
      @lisakyles3561 Před 25 dny +11

      He had already showed her he was Will to pay for everything. I think it was great of her to let him know that she is willing to reciprocate.

    • @turad2001us
      @turad2001us Před 24 dny +8

      I think she offered because she said she asked him to go to the movies with her. He didn't initiate that particular date.

    • @Madison-sr5nl3ie6y
      @Madison-sr5nl3ie6y Před 19 dny

      😂😂😂😂 who paying her

    • @g.r.michigan5332
      @g.r.michigan5332 Před 9 dny

      ​@@Madison-sr5nl3ie6yUr daddy

  • @user-ic3pf3fx7r
    @user-ic3pf3fx7r Před 5 dny +13

    They love to love bomb in the beginning. Just guard ya heart, be discerning, and take ya time.

  • @Natalie-np9er
    @Natalie-np9er Před 25 dny +222

    You are now doing big things so be careful with the people you are going to start meeting; people are going to make you feel good now..... the Devil is out here roaming like a lion....

    • @kerrylevett9423
      @kerrylevett9423 Před 25 dny +28

      I just got back in the dating scene after being single for a while. I know it’s some crazy people out here,so I meet them at a public place I wouldn’t let them met me at my house or know where I stay until I really get to know them. You definitely have to be careful!

    • @Ms.HoneyH
      @Ms.HoneyH Před 25 dny +32

      I don't let anyone come to my home if we just meet. I don't care if I met him a year ago no sir, not coming to my home at all.

    • @Ms.HoneyH
      @Ms.HoneyH Před 25 dny

      ​@@kerrylevett9423💯

    • @RGeorgia_peachR
      @RGeorgia_peachR Před 25 dny +8

      Exactly 💯

    • @SC-gs1xr
      @SC-gs1xr Před 24 dny +9

      Take it one day at a time and see where it goes. If nothing enjoy the ride.

  • @blaquebutterfly5066
    @blaquebutterfly5066 Před 25 dny +90

    If he watches your channel, please be mindful of what and how much you share. Yah cover and guide and order your steps. BTW: if he or anyone else wants business advice of any kind you may want to consider charging a consultation/service fee. Faith, Hope and Love 🙏💕💓💗🐛🦋

  • @Godsangels1970
    @Godsangels1970 Před 25 dny +72

    I'm trying to figure out when late 40s early 50s became old. Side bar.. a man is going to always show his best side in the beginning. That's the courtship period then later on the real them comes out. And you will learn later on when a man is trying to pay and be a man let a man be a man. Too many women out here complaining about the man don't want to do this and the man don't want to do that well sometimes women don't let them do it. I'm just saying. Anyway have fun girl❤

    • @yolandalcheek462
      @yolandalcheek462 Před 21 dnem +3

      Unfortunately, 40 is considered middle age now

    • @staynyourlane422
      @staynyourlane422 Před 4 dny

      I would dump a guy for using an entree fork for a salad. If I ever had to pay for anything, that would be my second date- First and last. My mom says if he asks you out, he pays and if I ask him out, I pay. So, I just never asked anyone out but got asked out enough... til I met my husband of course.

  • @conniegnesda9720
    @conniegnesda9720 Před 24 dny +55

    Silent watcher....1st comment. I just want to say that I think you are very smart for only being in your 20's. I am 71 and you actually taught me a few things! Good luck with this new gentleman and take it slow and if it's meant to be, it will happen.

  • @madelinedelgado8845
    @madelinedelgado8845 Před 25 dny +49

    Just be careful ma thats how it all starts good luck ❤️🙏

  • @dr.cheryldenegall4987
    @dr.cheryldenegall4987 Před 20 dny +12

    Continue to be mindful that guys are on here watching how you are now all together. Be mindful of wolves in sheep’s clothing. You don’t want to bring different people around your son. Please be careful during a weak moment as you are lonely. 🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽

  • @kymommysjourney8736
    @kymommysjourney8736 Před 25 dny +37

    I watched this twice ✅✅🤞🏾🤞🏾 that’s how good it was got me blushing and cheesing like it’s me I love to see my girls happy and smiling flourishing go mama 💜💜💜💜

  • @FURYWORLDx
    @FURYWORLDx Před 25 dny +35

    The flaky stuff is a major red flag for me. Good luck out here Sis.

    • @punchanella_0
      @punchanella_0 Před 24 dny +16

      Exactly. He would have only had to flake me once.

    • @Tboogiewitdabun
      @Tboogiewitdabun Před 17 dny +6

      Word, especially the first time…..

    • @staceywilliams1863
      @staceywilliams1863 Před 4 dny +2

      Should be a red flag for anybody! Flakiness=inconsistent=you got some other shit going on! 😅

    • @staceywilliams1863
      @staceywilliams1863 Před 4 dny +1

      @@punchanella_0Cut yo ass off so QUICK!!! One time! 😂

    • @punchanella_0
      @punchanella_0 Před 4 dny

      @@staceywilliams1863 alright now!!!! 💯

  • @Blueivy115
    @Blueivy115 Před 25 dny +39

    So happy for you . Just be careful ok cause the world is a lil weird now . Love ya and be safe ⚘️

  • @kimahrenay4795
    @kimahrenay4795 Před 25 dny +66

    doing my hair in the ponytail because it’s so thickkk arms be burning 😭 take me out everytime

    • @tamekaBplus3
      @tamekaBplus3 Před 25 dny +5

      Girl arms be hurting,back be hurting,be sweating 😂

    • @charrise79
      @charrise79 Před 25 dny +2

      Yes!! That's why every few years I chop it off. And about 2 years it completely grows back😏😏

    • @Lunalane567
      @Lunalane567 Před 25 dny +1

      Yea it’s a pain

    • @FabFergie
      @FabFergie Před 23 dny

      Me too 🤣😭

    • @Jessica.Shawnte
      @Jessica.Shawnte Před 20 dny +1

      That’s why I stick to two puff balls 😭

  • @sparkling2sweet007
    @sparkling2sweet007 Před 25 dny +112

    Be careful, sometimes, they are looking for a place to stay, not really wanting you, but what you got😢😢😢

  • @kimbaker1988
    @kimbaker1988 Před 25 dny +17

    Sounds like a gentleman,,a dying breed...I 'm cheering for you,,Great date..

  • @Jenn4rmblk
    @Jenn4rmblk Před 14 dny +3

    Yesss T!! I learned this the hard way. LET THAT MAN PAY! They really do enjoy the feeling. It fuels their ego and makes them feel good about taking care of you ❤

  • @brendashort3294
    @brendashort3294 Před 25 dny +41

    Hey, Tee glad to see you had a good time on your second date. You deserve to have a Life outside just being a Mom. Your date sounds like a real Gentleman but, keep your eyes open girl because you never know where people be coming from. Thanks for sharing your update in your Life. God Bless!!! 🙂🙂🙂

  • @FalconsGirl1
    @FalconsGirl1 Před 25 dny +18

    Period sis pop outtttt ❤ I’m so happy for you girl you are so deserving

  • @tamekaBplus3
    @tamekaBplus3 Před 25 dny +8

    Omg tiona this was absolutely a beautiful video and you might have just helped someone because lord knows you definitely just helped me.congratulations on getting back into the dating field you seem genuinely happy and I love that for you!! Hearing him in the background say take your time I was like awwwww lol thanks for sharing this with us and I know your crazy ass gonna keep us up to date on everything

  • @rarasheed1209
    @rarasheed1209 Před 23 dny +51

    Just remember your son comes first before any man for any reason.

    • @evelyn7881
      @evelyn7881 Před 17 dny +10

      She's an EXCELLENT mother. I've watched her journey. I actually admire her. ❤

  • @anyepierce
    @anyepierce Před 25 dny +14

    So happy for you boo, this is your season 💕💐

  • @stacyjohnson7395
    @stacyjohnson7395 Před 25 dny +4

    Aww Tiona I’m soo excited for you many blessings on your dating journey.. you look cute thank you for bringing us along🥰🥰

  • @cheshy8533
    @cheshy8533 Před 25 dny +8

    Good girl, slow and steady 😉 he will stick around, take your time and enjoy. I’m very happy for you. You are glowing. ❤️

  • @amyamarie9615
    @amyamarie9615 Před 25 dny +13

    Why this video got me blushing 🤣💕get it teee

  • @ninabean4857
    @ninabean4857 Před 21 dnem +3

    😂😂😂 when you was doing ur hair, had me cracking up!! I felt that girl, it's a damn workout fr! 😅

  • @conniehytche9546
    @conniehytche9546 Před 25 dny +4

    Excited and happy for you Tiona take it slow but enjoy. Loving the bag Gucci dupe are not❤☺️

  • @Faith-sh5jm
    @Faith-sh5jm Před 15 dny +5

    Let him pay for everything!
    WHEN GOING ON DATES TAKE A PIC OF HIS ID, LICENSE PLATE NUMBER, COLOR AND TYPE CAR HE DRIVE AND TEXT THIS INFO TO MULTIPLE RELATIVES BEFORE YOU LEAVE WITH HIM AND WAIT UNTIL YOUR RELATIVES RESPONSE BACK AND MAYBE EVEN TEXT THE LOCATION AND PLACE WHERE Y'ALL GOING ON YALL DATE.
    PLZ BE CAREFUL AND HAVE FUN. ❤

  • @lisaaa.18
    @lisaaa.18 Před 25 dny +11

    yesss the consistency 😩

  • @queenc123456789
    @queenc123456789 Před 23 dny +3

    I love this for you. ❤ you are beautiful and worth it. Some advice as someone in their 30s. Don’t give up the cookie too soon. Make him wait until you are ready. The anticipation is the best part.

  • @angelabarnes3901
    @angelabarnes3901 Před 25 dny +5

    Congratulations you deserve all the things and more. Your a great Mom young and responsible i love that for you. Be Blessed.

  • @HarlemML
    @HarlemML Před 25 dny +19

    I LOVE THIS SIDE OF YOU ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
    BIG MOMMA 🔥😁 drop everyday untill school comes back I need your vibes daily

    • @Lunalane567
      @Lunalane567 Před 25 dny +3

      Sammmmmeeeeeeeee🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @c.williams3740
    @c.williams3740 Před 24 dny +1

    I really enjoyed this video. So glad you enjoyed yourself ❤ Your a beautiful person!!

  • @spoildoll3333
    @spoildoll3333 Před 24 dny

    I was on the live the whole time!😍😂 glad you had fun!

  • @marlinyoung8917
    @marlinyoung8917 Před 25 dny +10

    Hey Tee & yasss bookie do u & be safe ❤

  • @audreymitchelljones7688
    @audreymitchelljones7688 Před 22 dny +2

    Tiona you deserve happiness, go for it

  • @Nifty50ish
    @Nifty50ish Před 7 dny

    You got this!
    Enjoy the process and trust the universe 🙏

  • @gotmelanin6970
    @gotmelanin6970 Před 13 dny +1

    I’m so happy for you knowing your story and all ❤❤☺️☺️

  • @cathymalone5650
    @cathymalone5650 Před 25 dny +7

    Tionna, I loved watching this video. I am so happy that you and your date had a great time. You looked great. I love how you took the time to heal before stepping back out there to date. That is so important to do. God bless! ❤

  • @PrettyBeige1
    @PrettyBeige1 Před 9 dny

    I love those bracelets !! I’m all for all that noise they make 😂😂

  • @nadanalia3000
    @nadanalia3000 Před 5 dny +1

    Sis just let the man throw down 👨🏿‍🍳 🤑 💰 Men LOVE to provide when they have the means to

  • @Loyalitystatus
    @Loyalitystatus Před 6 dny

    I’m so excited for you ! You deserve happiness beautiful . Looking forward to more videos

  • @amycrumedy6586
    @amycrumedy6586 Před 25 dny +100

    Be a classy lady with him he sounds like a good guy no cursing in front of him no sex before marriage remember shit only attracts shit.

  • @lashawntalisa
    @lashawntalisa Před 13 dny +1

    “I’m finna bag him! I’m finna get em” 😂😂😂😂❤️

  • @yourriderdie8472
    @yourriderdie8472 Před 7 dny

    Just found your channel! I’m binge watching you girl. Congrats on the 2nd date. Hopefully yall still going strong.

  • @LanieMy
    @LanieMy Před 9 dny

    The hair scene! I felt that lmao

  • @user-cd6ss1mp1f
    @user-cd6ss1mp1f Před 3 dny

    You go girl I’m so happy for you 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👍🏾💕❤😊

  • @AshleyT716
    @AshleyT716 Před 11 dny

    Great vlog and advice beautiful! I'm rooting for you.

  • @Jd1156
    @Jd1156 Před 25 dny +2

    Dope content keep rising🔥🔥

  • @andrelwhitnire
    @andrelwhitnire Před 21 dnem

    I just sub’s to your channel today! I loved you as soon as I beard you speak lol I’m gonna go back and watch your old vids so I can get to know yall! I did watch one short about being the “backbone of the fam” and you said “I don’t want to say no when I know I can”! Baby girl you “can” but at what cost??? That’s what I had to start asking my backbone self! Lol

  • @MsBonita3333
    @MsBonita3333 Před 25 dny +10

    What other hairstyles are you open to? Cause i can imagine you with a high pony and bangs or half up half down look super fun and girly even maybe some length if thats not too hot (just sharing ideas) anyway cute outfit i enjoy all your videos

    • @nikki6606
      @nikki6606 Před 21 dnem +1

      Maybe try knotless braids?

  • @lynnapdist7782
    @lynnapdist7782 Před 12 dny +1

    Girl I am a fan , bagging a guy you always wanted is the greatest feeling . I hope things work out for you guys. Take it slow and enjoy.

  • @shellyshellz581
    @shellyshellz581 Před 10 dny +1

    You are really a well put together and intelligent young lady. Sounds like a fun date 😊

  • @AaliyahNEmia
    @AaliyahNEmia Před 25 dny +12

    I love this for you 🥰🥰🥰

  • @PamelaJiles-jw3vu
    @PamelaJiles-jw3vu Před dnem

    I'm happy for you awww you have a glow about you that's wonderful .Continue to do you an be happy

  • @dalemsbelle8662
    @dalemsbelle8662 Před 25 dny +2

    Absolutely I'm going to dig deep.😊

  • @LeeleeJones-um9pl
    @LeeleeJones-um9pl Před 25 dny

    Alright Lady T 💙 I see you girl! Next time sis we get a long drawstring ponytail. That would be so cute and quick. You look fabulous regardless but just a suggestion mamas💙 happy for you!! 🔥🔥

  • @roshondabowens9809
    @roshondabowens9809 Před 25 dny +13

    Hey t and eli, you looking so cute for your date,I'm so proud of you and have fun and becareful,hope y'all are having a wonderful thursday and stay safe out there 🤗❤️🤗❤️

  • @Boyzmom
    @Boyzmom Před 25 dny +13

    You looked cute on your movie date❤ so happy for you.

  • @lulagardner8038
    @lulagardner8038 Před 25 dny +99

    Don't do that again! Let him ask you out and pay.....stop right now, don't cook for him and no watching movies at your place or his. Let him lead.

    • @LouLou-ut6eb
      @LouLou-ut6eb Před 21 dnem +8

      Facts it’s summer it’s plenty to do outside

    • @yolandalcheek462
      @yolandalcheek462 Před 21 dnem +5

      Great advice

    • @brownjewel3818
      @brownjewel3818 Před 20 dny +11

      Don't listen to any of the women in the comments. Just follow your intuition, and it's totally normal to stay at home at home and cook... Everyone doesn't like to be outside and eating out all the time. She isn't high maintenance, just natural and high vibrational. Don't change yourself listening to strangers they probably look like 🤡 fake everything 😊

    • @LanieMy
      @LanieMy Před 9 dny

      Yes yes yes!

    • @staceywilliams1863
      @staceywilliams1863 Před 4 dny +1

      Right! She’s showing him she’s not used to a man taking care of her and that’s not good. Men are chasers and providers by nature.

  • @Spiritualzone299
    @Spiritualzone299 Před 21 dnem +5

    40’s 50 not old many younger women that are in their 30’s even 20 something looks already in their 40’s . Hint . Don’t start off being jealous or thirsty. Let a man pay period down the road then nothing wrong with chipping in .

  • @patricecarter7289
    @patricecarter7289 Před 25 dny +4

    ❤❤❤😊aww IAM so happy for you
    😊 I can see you are in your happy and chill era to start back datingcan't wait to see more dates ❤❤

  • @OksanaBeall
    @OksanaBeall Před 15 dny

    Dead 😂 not with T, sounding like me 🤦‍♀️ “I -romose, the look gon come together @ 😂’’ that’s me, when my kids are watching me try to get my ass QUICK.READY 🙄 💯 😂

  • @agneswilliams6578
    @agneswilliams6578 Před 21 dnem

    I'm happy for you ,enjoy your time and be safe ❤️ ❤😂

  • @laquintaknox5907
    @laquintaknox5907 Před 25 dny +3

    I love this. im so happy for you, and i love watching your videos ❤️❤️

  • @jackiebell3189
    @jackiebell3189 Před 23 dny

    Congratulations on your new journey I hope he is your perfect one cause u deserves it.

  • @KarenBryant-qq9fg
    @KarenBryant-qq9fg Před 25 dny

    Go gurlll❤😊

  • @TTontv
    @TTontv Před 25 dny +7

    I'm so happy for you. I hope it flourishes into something beautiful. 🧡💛

  • @mavistyler8325
    @mavistyler8325 Před 12 dny +1

    U better than me. i wouldve told that lady about herself 😆

  • @debbiewilliams744
    @debbiewilliams744 Před 25 dny +2

    So true

  • @dalemsbelle8662
    @dalemsbelle8662 Před 25 dny +4

    You deserve everything you receive. You are such a beautiful person and he seems like an amazing guy too ❤

  • @lisapalmer4041
    @lisapalmer4041 Před 25 dny +1

    Hey T Blessings to you glad to see you are dating an in a Happy space 🥰💙💙💙🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾🤴🏾👸🏾 glad you had a good time with your date 🌹🌹

    • @Lunalane567
      @Lunalane567 Před 25 dny

      ❤❤❤❤
      💕💕💕💕💕💕🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹

  • @tynishagrace9473
    @tynishagrace9473 Před 11 dny

    Happy for you! 😊

  • @His1nonlyMWwilliams
    @His1nonlyMWwilliams Před 25 dny +6

    You go girl 💪🏾 just be careful Tee🤗💞💞

  • @kierrawashington5647
    @kierrawashington5647 Před 25 dny +1

    I am happy for you. Everyone deserves to be happy. But definitely take it slow. He sounds like a gentleman. Enjoy yourself girl. P.s he paid, girl i would of made sure i got extra butter lol jp.

  • @michelle2816
    @michelle2816 Před 25 dny +3

    You look cute I love your T-shirt have fun.

  • @maliahperez8281
    @maliahperez8281 Před 24 dny

    Yass!! ❤ love u T do y girl . 🥰

  • @frankiecarrington3224
    @frankiecarrington3224 Před 25 dny +2

    Happy for you just take your time and date as many men as you please live life happy and freely without restrictions you will know if the man is the right one

  • @dread6152
    @dread6152 Před 7 dny

    Good for You! 🎉

  • @DD-jb8he
    @DD-jb8he Před 25 dny +8

    Just please be careful

  • @ShundurlaCrockett
    @ShundurlaCrockett Před 25 dny

    Happy for you ❤❤

  • @fantazephir5597
    @fantazephir5597 Před 25 dny +3

    Hii I wasn’t on YT for a couple months so I haven’t seen you in a long time, your energy is upbeat and positive 👏🏽😎glad you’re doing well 🙏🏽. I was cringing when you were putting those body lotions on your face 😮. I want to send you some samples of moisturizers!

  • @yolandaclemonts
    @yolandaclemonts Před 25 dny +1

    I love your outfit where did u get that jumpsuit from??

  • @deborahsimmons3370
    @deborahsimmons3370 Před 12 dny +1

    I want to help u with some of your dialogue. Such as , I wish I had let him decide where we should have gone, not went. Taken, not tooken which has been in the comments by others as well . I will send u these nuggets as I see the need. Hope u agree, it will help polish u further. U looked so excited, am so happy for u ! But again don’t rush anything! Just enjoy his company w/o compromising yourself.

  • @tkwashea30
    @tkwashea30 Před 25 dny

    ❤❤❤❤congrats on dating sis

  • @user-gz9uh6rq6p
    @user-gz9uh6rq6p Před 25 dny +3

    Patricia here: I'm super happy for you, we can't wait to meet him😊 just take it slow everything will work out GRREEATT...... Love you and I'll see you on the next video❤

  • @_iiamm.nevaeh
    @_iiamm.nevaeh Před 25 dny +5

    I’m glad you went on a date and it went good and I hope you too move slowly and let things work out .

  • @sollandernorman-rv7dd
    @sollandernorman-rv7dd Před 25 dny +4

    Congratulations

  • @user-cs6xj4ki7b
    @user-cs6xj4ki7b Před 25 dny +3

    I love how u carry yourself. Keep it up ma 😊❤

  • @RAEGANY09
    @RAEGANY09 Před 25 dny

    ❤ this go T happy for you

  • @TheRealGoat76
    @TheRealGoat76 Před 24 dny

    "That lady" should of known better smh on another note its nice to see you happy❤🎉

  • @kymommysjourney8736
    @kymommysjourney8736 Před 25 dny +2

    I enjoyed this video thoroughly and I enjoyed seeing you hush and smile and talk about your journey of healing and being ready to date!!!! Love that for you. You’re the prize and I hope you go on more dates and continue to require to be dated love you girly

  • @donnacamm8155
    @donnacamm8155 Před 25 dny +11

    Girl if you gotta go to the bathroom u gonna have allot of work

  • @itsthetates.
    @itsthetates. Před 9 dny +2

    You are super cute, great personality, positive and have a beautiful spirit. Im sure you will find success in your dating era💘

  • @magguy3301
    @magguy3301 Před 25 dny +6

    CONGRATULATIONS!!!

  • @cynthiaharmon9294
    @cynthiaharmon9294 Před 25 dny +1

    You go gurl!!!! So proud of you. You look beautiful!!!!

  • @goldenchild9892
    @goldenchild9892 Před 25 dny +1

    Thank you T for being transparent

  • @RealTakerslady
    @RealTakerslady Před 8 dny

    Girl you had that man waiting outside all that time 😮😮😮😂

  • @cickv3152
    @cickv3152 Před 19 dny

    Where’s the body suit from ??😍😍

  • @PhyllisBlaylock-us3ur
    @PhyllisBlaylock-us3ur Před 25 dny +1

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @divinequeenlovealiyyah1742

    Hey I had to do the same thing that you did I was in a abuse marriage only for 2 years and it was hard I understand being only for 6 years is hard I’m taking my time too 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯