WORST Habits of Each Enneagram Type
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type 5 here and i TOTALLY AGREE! about a week ago i was thinking abt writing a story so i researched everything possible, planned every single detail of it but at the end i didnt write anything
I'm a 4w5 and sometimes planning is sooo much more entertaining than actually doing somethingđ
I have about 5 Stories, I could write a whole series, but instead I have been stuck in researching "How to write". Like, after a year of this I am basically a pro at storytelling techniques, how to be a good writer and even bookmarketing. But I have only written two half novels.
@@thirstwithoutborders995 LMAOOO
So relatable!
Im in this picture and i dont like it
Something that helps me as a 4 sleep more regularly is to write out all the things I want to do tomorrow because I know Iâll have more fun and be more productive doing them if Iâve slept well. And itâs best to start with just 1 goal a day then work your way up to three. Time management is the BEST and most LIFE CHANGING skill a 4 can gain. Ultimately, a four just has to believe organization will benefit them and make it work in their own way. Also having a simple but flexible nighttime routine is also helpful. Brush teeth is an every night thing and then itâs up to me if I want to watch a movie, do some yoga/meditation, snuggle my cat, or listen to music. But I usually just chose the one or two things while leaving everything else til tomorrow. â€ïž
Thanks for the tip! đ» I definitely relate
Thanks
Great advice! I need to get back to weekly planning.
WHAT A FANTASTIC TIP!! Thank you for sharing!
I think i am a 4w5(not 100% sure) and i have noticed that before i fall asleep i usually see the world of the dream building up in front of me, so i just tought myself to do that myself instead of waiting for it to happen, it just speeds up the process ^^'
Type 4 here and every night ends just about the sameâŠme pacing in my room blasting music in between trying to finish a sketch all whilst my dog looking at me with utter confusion and disdainâŠ.you hit the nail right on the head
Iâm type 5 but I have the bad habits of all the types in rotation except number 1 & 2⊠this hits hard đ.
i'm a type 4. the sleep thing is definitely accurate but OMG the "obsessively ruminating on times I've been hurt in the past" called me OUT
Same! it hurts so much. ;,(
Oh my gosh I'm a type 5 and I've actually done that to a guitar!!! I spent so much time learning how guitars are built and how they function but I still haven't learned to play it!!!
Iâm a type 4 who sticks to a pretty consistent sleep schedule. I think itâs because all my friends (actually, most people my age I interact with) have terrible sleep schedules, so my inner desire to be âuniqueâ and âspecialâ motivates me to sleep early and consistently. Yes, itâs kind of a stupid reason to have, but hey, it works, at least for me lol.
that is hilarious
this is me but with everything
LMAOOOO
I think I'm a 9w1 and this is spot on. I've spent hours scrolling Facebook and realize I've done nothing with my evening. I'm not so much on social media anymore, so it's mostly binging Netflix shows or CZcams, also playing video games.
Also, I could also relate to 1, 2, 4, 5, and 7. It's definitely a 9 thing to relate to almost every other type. It's honestly why it has taken be 2 years to figure out my type (and I still question it almost every day. Lol.) I mostly consider I could be a happy 4, or a more chill and non-risk taking 7.
As a 9 goes to 6 in stress I could relate to 6 in a negative way. I don't like spoilers for ANYTHING though. Sometimes I will google if a character is returning for the next season or whatever but if I come across a spoiler I hate it. I think, though, when I'm feeling stressed, I like to watch something I'm familiar with, something nostalgic where there aren't any surprises, like a TV show I loved as a kid or one of my favourite movies. So I think that need to be "familiar" is when we are stressed. Especially when trying to make big life decisions. How I can come to a conclusion when I'm uncertain of the outcome!?
ooh, what an interesting observation about the longing for familiarity when we are in stress. I definitely find myself looking for those comfort shows (like Friends or Gilmore Girls) when I'm having a rough week because I don't need to be super active while watching. There's no surprises!
The question of coming to a conclusion amidst uncertainty is a big one, and an important one. One thing I learned from therapist Doug Friedman (of the Your Mental Breakdown podcast) is asking yourself this when you're facing anxious, unknown situations:
*"Is this thing really unsafe or does it remind me of a time that I felt unsafe. And if it did, can I also remember that I got through it."*
Hope that helps!!?
Totally relate
As a type 8 that is 100% me. When I delegate I often feel like the task wouldâve been done quicker and better if I had just done it myself. The only thing I would add is being too blunt that you border on rude (unintentionally in most cases).
Yes! That's what I've heard from a lot of 8s- their experience with delegation ends up with the task being done slower and (subjectively) not as well as they would have done it.
@@AbbeyHowe and it limits me. If I could get help at 7:30 pm on Tuesday, and I have to schedule my time accordingly, then yes, I can move houses by taking furniture individually on public transport, or carry a queen-sized mattress on my back for 5 km, because I don't want to be inconvenienced by schedule limitations of the person who might help me. Yes, it's exactly as dumb as it sounds. And yes, these are things I've done.
And the constant belief that you actually ARE better than other people. Thats what bothers me the most and what i try to work on :(
The accuracy of this video is impeccable. I couldn't help but laugh the entire time and the 4 bit got me dying. I never realized the distractiveness was a 4 thing.
high praise!! thanks Madelyn!
âFeeling let down when others are not as enthusiastic as I amââŠso true for me as a 7âŠknowing the enneagram and realizing other types donât show their enthusiasm the same way I do has really helped.
one of the many reasons the Enneagram is so helpful for everyday life
9w1 and.... yeah đ
Love me some mind-numbing scrolling. Especially when I'm scrolling as a form of procrastination đ
And then when my loving husband helps me by doing the chores I'm putting off, I suddenly am compelled to redo them ~correctly~
But also, the type 6 examples felt a little too personal. I'm almost definitely googling a movie as I'm watching because I neeeeed to know.
....also type 5. And 4. But also 3, 8, and 2.
Actually, this video really highlights how well-rounded my bad habits are đđđ
Spoken like a true Type 9. From what I've read, Nines have a habit of merging with other Types, so chances are, you have someone close in your life who has those habits and you inadvertently get the habits as well.
hahahaha amazing. (I google EVERYTHING, especially scary or tense movies)
This was interesting, Abbey!
Type 1 made me cringe, because that's my main type. The thing is, I hate to be micromanaged but yeah, I do micromanage others' mistakes.
Type 4 hit me hard because that's my stress path. My sleep schedule would be way more chaotic if I was a full-time writer and didn't have my remote work. Easy to wake up on time when your salary depends on it lolz.
Type 9 was also hard to watch because that's my wing type but instead of scrolling (I'm hardly on social media these days) I numb out binging CZcams and Netflix.
I'm a 1 too and I totally get where you're coming from. CZcams is everything when I need a break. Lol
I'm glad you found it interesting, Avionne. And I totally agree that it's easier to keep a sleep schedule if you have a job that keeps you accountable to show up on time.
I totally agree with you on this (also type 1 wing 9). The other problem with using CZcams to numb out is that eventually it turns into stress watching because the inner critic starts yelling at me about not getting things done đ
Also after seeing the 9 first and finding it so relatable, I suddenly got worried that I mistyped myself but then lol'd at the type 1 for how accurate that is. If I'm so afraid of being wrong about my type, that's probably another good indication I am indeed a 1 and my test was right and it's fine, haha.
@@cmpicha2934 Wanna hear something funny? I totally mistyped as a 1w9. After having doubts about my type (and a shameful back-and-forth rigmarole of tests where I got type 3 and then type 4), I discovered that I'm a 4w5. The type 1 is still in there (stress/growth path) and what I thought was type 9 numbing out is actually detachment to preserve my resources (type 5). The key for me was the interpersonal coping styles (which Abbey mentioned in one of her videos): Type 1s are compliant and move towards people while type 4s are withdrawn and move away from people. That's what I do! In the beginning I thought I was a type 4 but had doubts when I tested as a type 1. But test results have been all over the place depending on my mood when taking it. Glad you found your type though!
@@Avionne_Parris Oh that's interesting, but makes total sense! It's fascinating to me how deep we can go with the Enneagram and how much it reveals about ourselves. To be fair, I've only taken one test and it was about a month ago (I think). But after digging deeper into my type, everything just clicked and explained a lot (and if I compare the 1 to any other type, I still find the 1 sounds more like me). Whereas if the test result isn't accurate, I imagine people can generally sense it from the beginning like you did. I'm glad you figured yours out and found what fits you!
This Enneagram 4 feels CALLED OUT! Sleep is so so hard. Rest in general is hard. Also the other bad habits for type 4s was so spot on! Thank you Abby.
im a 4w5 and i do extensive research and almost always do nothing with it
Same here and usually no one understands when I talk about them
Type 2w3 here and you NAILED it! That feeling of "if you really loved me, you would observe how I drink protein powder every day and surprise me with extra protein powder and the fact that you didn't means that you don't truly understand me" is very real.
absolutely đ đ
Sorry this might sound stupid but what does the w mean?
Yes I feel that! A really powerful phrase my friend told me once was, âdo it from love, not for love.â That has helped me SO much when I check my motivation!
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@@cghynd thank you! I love this!! â€ïž
"Hey! Can you do this for me?"
Me(2w3) internally: 'NO! I'm clearly in the middle of completing 7 other tasks for the other people in my life that I couldn't bring myself to say "No" to and I'm running on barely any sleep and haven't eaten since this morning. Clearly you should've picked up on this and asked someone else since you know that I'll say "Yes" no matter how overwhelmed I am. Why don't you care about me and my feelings? If you were a good friend you wouldn't have asked me! Why does no one love me?!đ'
Me outwardly: "Sure thing. I'll get it done right away.đđđ»"
I'm a 1 and my husband is a 3 we can get some stuff done and very efficiently unless we get overwhelmed and my wing 9 kicks in and those 9 traits kick in for him for stressful times. It's like full throttle until we are absolutely burnt out. It's not so bad if it doesn't happen at the same time for both of us but it usually does. All or nothing baby! Lol!!
The type 6 one is so wrong for me. I absolutely hate spoilers. My brother's also a type 6 and he always reads the Wikipedia plot before watching movies (especially horror) and I just don't understand it. I think what you said is kinda true though for real life. Like I hate making decisions or even going somewhere if I don't predict what will happen and mentally prepare myself first
thanks for sharing your POV!
Iâm a type 6 who hates spoilers too đ
lol type 6 here and I absolutely hate spoilers too! ...it's probably because there's no danger in not knowing how a movie will end. this is one of the few times not knowing is okay so really upsetting when someone ruins it lol
I'm a type 6 and I love spoilers (unless it's a "feel good" movie that I know it's going to end well). I need to prepare myself for what's coming!!
Iâm a 6 and this is why my two favorite book genres are romance and mysteries! I know how things end (true love / mystery solved), but itâs about the journey.
I am a type 4 and my sleep schedule is really messed up It actually started when my muse started to come at 4-5 am in the morning also I try to study at night because everyone is sleeping and it feels really quiet But I aim to fix it anyways
As a 9w8, it makes sense that I'm really bad with scrolling and trying to do everything myself.
Type 9 here. I have problems stopping myself once I start scrolling on Twitter or Reddit, so I set my phone to lock the app after a certain period. Otherwise, I would have spent my entire day scrolling.
Type 9 here, the scrolling habit is absolutely true, I crave relaxation so much that whenever I open a site and start scrolling, there's no stopping for me for about a few hours, half an hour at the minimum
I also have one of the lowest attention spans out of anyone in my family because of this habit, and I tend to fall in the "I'm not good enough" rabbit-hole more times than can be counted on one's hands.
Procrastination, living out of a laundry basket and refusing to tell people how I really feel is daily life in a nutshell XD
Iâm a 2-6-5⊠going through the video and thinking đ€ I relate to all of these. Then 6-5-2 come up and embarrassment hit. Thatâs when you know your type ~
It really helped me understand deeper, now my aim is to understand every point of view to get the harmony. Understanding differences, having better communicationđ that's what I was searching for through all those things zodiac signs, numerical analysis of names birth dates etc. and here I started to reach actually... â€â€feels so relaxing.
Fellow 4s ⊠Abbey is right. Early to bed, early to rise. A little sleep, a little slumber, a little folding of the hands to rest, and poverty comes upon you like a bandit.
As a 2w3 I can relate to that. I always try to help people too much, giving them schedule and ideas on how to do things. Taking care of your loved ones no matter how bad my day is and push selfish needs to the side. But at the same time hurt when they donât do the same for us, like not understand us like the way we do. But still awareness of all these behaviours In myself helped me overcome all the problems.
love that: "awareness of all these behaviors in myself helped me overcome all the problems."
Also a 4, I sometimes have a consistent sleep schedule, but it is _very_ easy for that to change.. I noticed another 4 mentioned having a consistent sleep schedule, and I think that makes sense when a type 4 is on the path of integration to type 1, you take on healthy habits of a type 1, and in disintegration, unhealthy habits of type 2 can lead us to people pleasing, which often leaves us not caring for ourselves and then the only time you have to take care of yourself tends to come out of the sleep schedule. đ
4w5 have no trouble keeping to a sleep schedule. Iâm a morning person. Itâs just my internal clock. Donât even need an alarm.
the CHAOS in the beginning and had my anxiety going. i love it though. as a type 3w2 i totally related to those. and i could see how my ex (a type 8) was totally that too
I'm a 4 and go to sleep at 10 every night. All you need is 2 children and you'll be exhausted and unable to stay awake. You're welcome.
As a type 4 the only time I come even close to a consistent schedule is when I get out of bed some time before work lol. It could be 3 hours before work, 30 minutes, or somewhere else. But no matter what I never go to sleep around the same time, just last night I went to bed at around 3 am but the night before was midnight.
O goodness! It's next to impossible to allow my husband to cook and clean, but I am letting go and enjoying the food.
let it goooo, let it goooo âïž
I'm a 2w3 and I have to say I want to feel loved so I people please a lot.
Oh dear.. this was pretty exposing. As a 1w2, some of my bad habits are fretting that things won't go well, procrastinating because I'm afraid things won't go well, beating myself up, and.. yes using the words "actually" and "necessarily" way too much.
Everyday is treat day - 7 and proud
You absolutely nailed it for type fours! I mean, I don't control my inspiration lol. If it hits me at 3 am, so be it.
social 1w2 and i can relate xD especially 3 and 6, that self critic is strong..
Oh yes, Iâm a 4 and I initiate drama when things are to calm for a while đ
Abbey: "I've never said 'urinary tract' on this channel, so that's a first."
CZcams: *updates milestone awards*
4- dealing with the disappointment of a spouse đ
All the four things were such a callout đ€Ł I often don't fall asleep until 4 or 5 am, and since I have chronic illnesses, I need more sleep than the average human;;;
My beautiful wife is a type 4 and she has fought against her âup all night got to writeâ She is a poet/academic and she now goes to bed at a regular hour because she thrives on disciplined habits on her own terms. We meditate together and do yoga as well -non negotiable habits for calmness ( Iâm a type 9 â€ïž)
Oh my goshhhh the 9 one is so true đ I have that issue with video games as well
Lol love the type 4 example. I was laughing đ cause this is what my wife does. Singing to music and playing with our dogs.
As a six, I feel extremely called out.
I'm a 4, and I go to bed pretty regularly/early, but that's just because my evening meds make me sleepy lol... and also I'm internally 85 years old đ
Even though Iâm a enneagram 5 I related more to the bad habits of 9. Likely because Iâm a 594 so I have a lot of enneagram 9 traits.
I've spent most of my life feeling compelled to pick at any rough edge on a smooth surface. Never knew this was a common type 6 thing.
Right on, girl! I resonate with all of the factors of 3!
hello fellow 3 â„ïž
Jesus. I know I'm a type 9 because I've scrolled forever, but I STILL relate to basically every other type because I've done their mistakes once or twice as well.
9s are always relating to all the numbers đ
I feel so called out⊠as a 5⊠but itâs so true..
As a 5w4⊠weeeelll.. yep. The 5 and 4 were both very accurate.
I have most of these bad habits! đ I actually cringed before you read 1's even though I'm maybe a 4 or a 1.
OMG its totally true about type 2!
there is somthing that does help me go to bed tho, as a four I think about a lot of things at night that keep me awake, so I listen to music every night for like 3 hours now. it doesn't help me stop thinking but it makes those three hours even MORE enjoyable
I'm an enneagram 2 core, and I have 3(well 4) main habits. First I'm very paranoid about losing things(either objects or relarionships) this makes me always check my bag and belongings. This also makes me overanalayse a lot of things my friends or people I care about say or when they say they want to "talk to me about something". Oh and yeah I expect a lot of things from them too as well. Second I talk to myself a lot when I'm at home or outside. This is because I get really bored easily(maybe because I have enneagram 7 in my tritype) and I just want to express and ramble to someone but I don't always have someone to ramble to that will listen to the stuff I say except myself haha. This could also be due to how I was very socially neglected before or how I hang out with a lot of talkative friends that don't really listen to what I have to say or react the way I wanted. Third I say sorry wayyyy too much like I keep saying sorry to people for the littlest things even when it's their fault! This could be because I have enneagram 9 in my tritype as well or maybe because I got bullied severely when I was younger so yeah. Lastly I fiddle with my hair a lot but I don't think that has any meaning other than maybe I get nervous and bored a lot lol.
I felt very called out with that whole 30/90 thing. But I actually go to bed on time. I'm an actual morning person. Taking melatonin and drinking chamomile tea helps.
I also felt called out on the OTHER Type 4 bad habits. I compare myself to ppl all the time and I sometimes start some drama in my Star Wars RPG. But I don't dwell on past hurts anymore, thankfully. Ain't nobody got time for that!
TICK TICK BOOM 4EVER
Type 4 here with a pretty decent sleep cycle (sort of). I tend to get to bed between 10 and 11 pretty consistently with the target of waking up between 3 and 6 am to get some early creqtive/learning/solo making time in.
I'm a 3 and literally laughed aloud at the refusal to pee thing, I had no idea that was a shared quality. (also w4, kinda felt the sleep thing too)
"Sleeping at Last" made a beautiful Enneagram EP - 9 Types = 9 amazing songs. Highly recommend you look it up.
I've heard them! truly beautiful. thinking about making a video about it. â„ïž
@@AbbeyHowe oh wow! That's so cool Abbey , did u like ur song? If u wanna dig a little deeper into the enneagramm - they also made a podcast (the sleeping at last podcast/spotify) where they explain how the lyrics, the music and the 9 characteristics came together. Truly mind-blowing and with a lot of depth. Big hug from Berlin đ€
Nailed it!! 9 here
I'm almost join a project just now while i also having a big personal project that haven't been done since 2020. Thanks to my 8 wing who repressed my 7 impulsiveness by doesn't want to cooperate with other people.
Only care for these for novel writing lol. I can just copy and paste these personalities, filter them through their experiences and boom đ€Ł love these insights
(Type 9) I find it ironic that Iâm pretty sure I saw this community post and went âuhhh⊠I donât know what my habits are???â And then watched this video and went âOh yeah those all apply to me.â
I'm an infp 9 w 1. I'm hiding from my sadness as well as anger. I'm just idealistic and wish everyone can get along and stop judging others
Type 4 w 5 geeeeeee that's accurate :D When I started a new career path I was literally obsessed with finding information about my brand new and shiny tools - still when I start sth new first thing i do is research:) As if only gathering (the best and the most beautiful) things I think I need to do the job would be the work itself...
Type 9 here and this is very accurate.
5w6 here and I agree with both the type 5 and 6 descriptions. Why us expose us like this? đ
The first thing I did after finding out that I am a 5 is researched for next 48 hours on Type 5
As a type 9, telling someone how I feel, especially if I know it's something they won't like, is really hard. I'm also an empath and I get drained by too much busyness, especially if I'm in a crowd or with people who drain me. Do I need time out. The trouble is when I 'fall asleep' to myself, get into that apathy state of mind, or too much time spent being who other people want me to be or in playing that role I think I should be playing. It gets exhausting. I do start scrolling or watching CZcams videos... at th he end of the day it's about balance- sometimes literally telling myself- put the phone down, go for a walk!
I am a total 8 and a partial 1 according to this video. Great work Abbey! Loved the content!!
thanks Marisha!!
Another really great/useful one!
glad it was useful!
Type 9 here. Personally I donât really relate to the bad habit you listed here but thatâs just me personally. Here are some of my personal bad habits though.
*Picking at my fingers when Iâm anxious or bored.
*Getting swayed to change my mind too easily by others.
*Not telling people about things Iâm upset about if I think it will make them angry.
4 watching this at 3:50 am... (but I'm not a TYPICAL 4, I'm special & different, right? Right? RIGHT?)đđđ€Łđ
I am ENTP 4w3 and I identify with what you said
Type 8 here and I actually almost died moving a whole bookshelf by myself down the stairs because i thought i could do it by myself and was too proud to ask for help sdnvkdjfn
Im a 2w3 and i wont eat, go to the bathroom or anything really until im done with what im doing. At work its bad, as soon as i finish im running đââïž i wont even drink water til im done n my mouth will be mad dry. Like a reward for working hard lol
I'm literally replying to comments right now and not going to the bathroom even thought I really need to đ
@@AbbeyHowe đ€Łđ€Łđ€Ł why r we like this lol
Omg, as a newly discovered 9w1, scrolling is accurate af.
That's scarily accurate... As a type 8, I never delegate things or I try not to only because I'm toxic if I do... Like I'd constantly check if they do it right or remind them they shouldn't do it like that or even wait for them to finish and start over in order to be less rude but some can also think it's even worse so idk...
And like one of my worst habits that wasn't mentionned in the video but people remind me of it EVERY DAY is that I order people around. I'm not even aware of it, I just do it because it's practical and quick but there are always people telling me "You don't have to give me orders you know" and that's when I realise but that's usually too late. (And the irony is I CANT STAND people doing that to me).
Just like in the video I tend to give my unwanted opinion every time I feel I need to just say it đI think the worst thing is not being able to NOT tell people they're wrong. I just can't or whenever I don't knew them and I try to keep my mouth shut they just can see my face cause I'm an open book especially when I disagree.
An other one (not mentionned) is that I'm loud and my presence too (if it makes sense?) I can't help it, people always tell me that and so it's easy for me to just step on others in the way I speak for myself and not listen to them, give them the time to talk too. Fortunately I'm very aware of this trait and I'm only like that when I'm highly stressed out and unhealthy.
Finally and to go with the one before, when I'm focused on one thing and I know how and when to get it done, you can't tell me anything that would make me change my mind. Even if I'm wrong, I'm gonna have to try and be wrong and start again, but I will not consider an other opinion as I'd think mine is the best đ
OK, I knew this would be amazing when the intro suddenly cut to you dancing around wearing headphones!! đ€Ł Again, I love your acting so much. đ OK, as an E3 here, I've said this before, but yes, nothing irritates me more than having to take bathroom breaks when I am in the middle of focusing and getting work done. đ Also, regarding the Type 1 example, I WILL rewash dishes. Glasses have to be spotless...it's an etiquette thing!!!! đ âș
My ex is an 8 and you just listed everything I hated about him LMAO
I am a 4 and I deal with this by just never having a set schedule so I can go to bed whenever I want and not feel bad about it
As a type 1, I spend an odd amount of time stressing about whether my boyfriend will "comply" with my dishwashing methods whenever we end up living together. It's so ridiculous! đ€Łđłđ€ŠđŸââïž
I'm a 6... I almost always read the last few pages of a book. I like to know what happens and then read to find out how they got there!
Also my friends can tell me all about a movie before I see it and it is fine.
For me, knowing the ene doesn't spoil anything for me. It helps me enjoy the experience more.
But I do make sure I don't tell others about what happens unless they want to know. I know others don't like to know.
Same for me, an anxious 4 đ
Type 1 here. Itâs a struggle for real. My husband asks me every day to relax. But I canât with soooo much to do. đ homeschooling and running own business
I have the bad habits of 9, 7 and 5. I am a 7 social subtype
I just wanna say ennea 7 is so accurate that I want to curl into a ball and scream : D
5w4, not just research but get stuck in thinking of and imagining all the things we want to do, but not make the time to do them. đ
As an 8 yeah i strongly agree lmao. I can't even count the amount of times I've been called stubborn because i refuse to get help when doing something...
And with the honorable mentions i mean im even watching this video at 3am so... đ
As a type 5....YES. YES. YES. Extensive investing in sword fighting materials, books, and swords?? Naw, rather sit in my cold desolate room listening to music or playing BotW. Got a violin to reawaken skills? Naw, people might critisize mentally. Extensive research on how to write a novel? Only get a few chapters done and then rewritten several times before given up in complete disgust of one's own abilities.
5w6
I need to research everything before
I need to know if this will help with my research before I start with it
Researching what/how to research!!!!
Type 4: the ONLY way have found to have a good bedtime, is to set a sleep schedule with an alarm on my phone. It chimes to let me know that if I don't go to bed NOW I won't get enough sleep and I am not a nice person when I don't get enough sleep.
I'm not self-aware enough to relate to my types problems, but I do relate to the 7's problem of overindulgence. Probably because 5s move to 7 under stress.
As a 9, I was just telling myself to stop scrolling and actually finish folding a basket of laundry. I feel personally attacked. Let me scroll CZcams for a few hours to find a tutorial on how to deal with this. BRB.
Mood! I'm a 9 too! And my tritype is 927
Same! I fight with myself weekly on the laundry folding!
YeahâŠI always wondered why I can never stop working late as an 8. The only way to not stay up late is if I had a normal 9-5 job and that ainât happening đđ
Im a wing 3 and it's so funny how I definitely identify even though I'm for sure a 2
I also identify with the 2s bad habit. Expectations. I really try to remember that I help people bc they need help and it makes me happy no if they reciprocate
need help/advice with my wing. I am a 5 with...a wing...lol...Now, I am more confused what the wing is because I definitely do the main things from both 4 and 6. But, especially, the spoiling movies for myself. As soon as think I have an idea where the movie/show/series is going, I will search spoilers and pester anyone I know whose already seen it. However, as a 5, there are certain things I can't stand when people spoil. But, have some huge projects have been prepping, researching, and overlearning for my company, and I can't launch certain things because of it. So think that ties into the always trying to do things better. There is always a better way in my head, but I am pretty creative I would say, and I think the 4 side ties into that and I can't go to sleep before 3-4am. Then I force myself to wake up at 11:30am. But, I am not a fan of social media acceptance things. I would never compare myself to other reels or anything. I only scroll through what I like and that isn't for long because there is a guilt that would flush through me for wasting time.
Type 4 here. Watching this at 1:30 am knowing I have work tomorrow morning, Very cool brain, very cool.
As a 5w6 I've BOTH procrastinate-researched A N D read the last sentence of a book to decide if i want to read it LMAO HOW ARE YOU SO ON POINT... (I might've googled whether "on point" was written as "on point" or "on-point"... it's on point. yeah. :D)