Stillness is the Key | Ryan Holiday | Talks at Google

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  • čas přidán 7. 09. 2024
  • Ryan Holiday joins Talks at Google to discuss how he draws on timeless stoic and buddhist philosophy to demonstrate why slowing down is the secret strategy for those charging ahead.
    Get his book here: goo.gle/32fHERi.

Komentáře • 109

  • @internetchartshow
    @internetchartshow Před 4 lety +341

    1. Get up early 4:04
    2. Start the day phone-free 5:02
    3. Go outside 6:52
    4. Journal 7:40
    5. Do the main thing right away 10:55
    6. Routine. Routine. Routine. 13.26
    7. Don't watch the news 16:08
    8. Explore a hobby 16:50
    9. Exercise 20:13
    10. Treat relationships seriously 23:00
    11. Say "No." A lot. 25:24
    12. Let go. A lot. 29:00
    13. It's either up to you, or it isn't. 29:27
    14. Practice being present. 31:10
    15. One of the hardest things is to do next to nothing...
    16. The good news about the present is that it keeps showing up to give you a second chance... 33:25
    17. Find "enough."
    18. Be still 37:13

    • @Sannyasin
      @Sannyasin Před 4 lety +11

      thank you bro

    • @prawinmore
      @prawinmore Před 4 lety +1

      Nice

    • @TaufikNaaim
      @TaufikNaaim Před 3 lety +4

      Dear God please bless this person

    • @anybxdy8928
      @anybxdy8928 Před 3 lety +2

      You helped everybody out here

    • @theworkethic
      @theworkethic Před 3 lety +1

      Fucking pathetic when an adult needs to look up to someone for these answers.

  • @j.o8707
    @j.o8707 Před 4 lety +27

    These principals are more important now than ever. We can’t control the external world, but is everyone tapped into their Stillness, the situation would be much easier

    • @KingMinosxxvi
      @KingMinosxxvi Před 3 lety +1

      If they are important find them in a book. Dont let this fuck exploit them!!!!!

  • @CompetitiveCODNews
    @CompetitiveCODNews Před 3 lety +10

    Ryan's point about the donkey is exactly why I love going out and nature, and almost need to at least twice a week. Every non-human being in this world just exists. It doesn't really think, it just goes on instinct. If humans were to do that, our lives would be so much simpler.

    • @anthonyofarrell513
      @anthonyofarrell513 Před 3 lety

      How do you know?. Ever watch a pride of Lions working together to hunt down its prey? They are thinking and planning.

    • @nogrammer
      @nogrammer Před 2 lety

      simpler, and 10x shorter lol

  • @MosesRabuka
    @MosesRabuka Před 3 lety +8

    34:13 - 34:44
    “The Psychology of Money”
    The story of Joseph Heller and Kurt Vonnegut about the billionaire

  • @KaddyFeast
    @KaddyFeast Před 4 lety +14

    Yes Ryan yes! I have been following and watching you and get soooo much out of it. You have helped to direct my focus and attention. But THIS is exceptional! So a mighty thanks for all your work and all your sharing! 💖

  • @leejay5202
    @leejay5202 Před 3 lety +12

    I find it funny how he says he won’t bring up meditation because nobody’s going to do it but then the first two things he suggests is to “get up early” and “get off your phone” which 90% of people are unwilling to do and seems way harder to implement than to just do nothing for 10 minutes a day. Otherwise though, great speech and advice!

    • @mhussain5669
      @mhussain5669 Před 3 lety

      Do you meditate and the other 2 things he says, do u really think they're easier than meditation

    • @leejay5202
      @leejay5202 Před 3 lety +1

      @@mhussain5669 I do and yes

    • @mhussain5669
      @mhussain5669 Před 3 lety

      @@leejay5202 I don't feel that way

    • @mhussain5669
      @mhussain5669 Před 3 lety +4

      @@leejay5202 meditating for 20 mins is way more challenging than the other 2 I believe

    • @leejay5202
      @leejay5202 Před 3 lety +1

      @@mhussain5669 k

  • @uncommonsense5876
    @uncommonsense5876 Před 4 lety +8

    Admire Ryan Holiday's work. Obstacle is The Way, fabulous book. You should get it.

    • @AdamFiregate
      @AdamFiregate Před 4 lety

      For me Daily Stoic is his best work still. Obstacle is a good gateway drug into Stoicism.

  • @FTW_666
    @FTW_666 Před 2 lety

    Excellent talk. Due to my schedule, waking up early is nearly impossible- who can relate?

  • @anandsharma7430
    @anandsharma7430 Před rokem +1

    Just ditch the smartphone and see how much life changes. Feature phones with internet browsing and MMS are plenty.
    But to really enjoy the benefits of solitude, get the most basic feature phone with only calls and texts. Life is much simpler.

  • @cl2425
    @cl2425 Před 3 lety +3

    Buddy the donkey part was the best! He lit up and was so authentic when he was explaining his pet donkey

  • @booksmith6061
    @booksmith6061 Před 3 lety +4

    Great talk!

  • @kindcounselor
    @kindcounselor Před 2 lety +1

    I practice Qigong....the original moving meditation!

  • @Shadoufang
    @Shadoufang Před 2 lety +5

    16:30 "The news is not there to inform you. The news is there to make you watch more news." ~Ryan Holiday
    Hah, especially now. Marketing, money, business comes first 😪

  • @ajijulhakimabid8094
    @ajijulhakimabid8094 Před 2 lety +1

    Donkey is my spirit animal

  • @doodsanddudes
    @doodsanddudes Před 4 lety +2

    Love this ryan

  • @roiedward7073
    @roiedward7073 Před 4 lety +2

    this is a great discussion about stoicism and about life in general.

  • @jorgeromera3861
    @jorgeromera3861 Před 4 lety +3

    Marina Abramovic's performance is jaw-dropping. I didn't know her. Thanks!

    • @radiotench
      @radiotench Před 4 lety +1

      She's also a satanist, just so you know

    • @Adosio1
      @Adosio1 Před 2 lety

      @@radiotench even better

  • @aaronwimberleymbamsf5776
    @aaronwimberleymbamsf5776 Před 3 lety +1

    Great meditation for the day=]

  • @formisfunction1861
    @formisfunction1861 Před 3 lety +1

    Brilliant!

  • @kentvandervelden
    @kentvandervelden Před 4 lety +4

    Great talk! Dinosaur National Monument or Waco Mammoth National Monument? I'm visiting Texas in a couple months and would like to know.

  • @michaellyttle4347
    @michaellyttle4347 Před rokem

    How do you rationalize a development of compassion and present awareness knowing the consciousness of sentient beings with hunting and even fishing? I ask this for my understanding of the question. Does the water separate us from the awareness of the consciousness of the fish? How do we ignore or become numb to the awareness of he prey? There must be something in mind that allows this but realizing we are not this mind can we be the body that performs the thought that takes a life as though we are not that life?

  • @irfanaslamcom
    @irfanaslamcom Před 3 lety +26

    Stillness... is listening to your spouse's complaints with a happy face 🤪🤐

    • @othmane-mezian
      @othmane-mezian Před 2 lety +3

      Not happy face necessarily.. just indifferent

  • @DuckODuckProductions
    @DuckODuckProductions Před 4 lety +2

    This was amazing! I'm really starting to love Ryan

  • @muggymug
    @muggymug Před 3 lety

    Right. Right. Right. Right.

  • @stoicdarwin
    @stoicdarwin Před 2 lety

    Commenting for the algorithm

  • @jwa47
    @jwa47 Před 2 lety +3

    I’d like to hear how he has such control over his morning with two children in the house. He must have a very loving and patient wife who takes on that morning task.

  • @kylestoddard353
    @kylestoddard353 Před 4 lety

    Good talk

  • @StoryShotsApp
    @StoryShotsApp Před 4 lety +3

    Thanks for this! When will you upload the podcast version?

  • @retronimo
    @retronimo Před 2 lety +1

    I read that at "Silliness is the key" and I legit thought we were going to be instructed in clown Buddhism or something.

  • @Lil9Lou
    @Lil9Lou Před 4 lety +4

    What is the Spar app that he mentioned?

    • @aaronbuckets1326
      @aaronbuckets1326 Před 3 lety

      Essentially it charges you money for using your phone during certain times

  • @lawofselfcontrol
    @lawofselfcontrol Před 3 lety

    self control is the key

  • @KingMinosxxvi
    @KingMinosxxvi Před 3 lety

    The inflection point was that I relized I had enough stolen watered down bullshit in my head and that no one would mind when I passed it on them in a piss poor excuse for a book.

  • @youganon
    @youganon Před 3 lety +1

    2:50 Could anyone tell me which translation of Tao Te Ching is this?

    • @soundariyawankhede3637
      @soundariyawankhede3637 Před 3 lety

      It's an ancient Chinese philosophy/ Religious Text written by Lao Tzu

    • @FaFa-bw1mm
      @FaFa-bw1mm Před 3 lety

      道德經, Tao Te道德 means "moral" ching經 means "scripture". The holly bible is called 聖經.

    • @soundariyawankhede3637
      @soundariyawankhede3637 Před 3 lety

      @@FaFa-bw1mm wow! Thanks!!!!

  • @bokajon
    @bokajon Před 4 lety +3

    What is the app called where you have to check in when you use the phone?

    • @RyanHolidayYT
      @RyanHolidayYT Před 4 lety +3

      Spar!

    • @bokajon
      @bokajon Před 4 lety +1

      @@RyanHolidayYT Thank you Ryan! All the best to you.

  • @sofitocyn100
    @sofitocyn100 Před 2 lety

    Stillness is the key, coming from one of the most nervous guys you can possibly encounter, is so ironic. Everything in ryan holidays demeanor screams crippled anxiety and unresolved adhd

  • @teeI0ck
    @teeI0ck Před 3 lety

    Manjistha Seeburn

  • @stepup6452
    @stepup6452 Před 4 lety +2

    you all live in a GOOGLE bubble why don't you invite those you don't agree with?????

  • @KingMinosxxvi
    @KingMinosxxvi Před 3 lety +2

    3 keys to life
    listen to Bach before bed and in the morning
    spend time with my son
    never listen to watered down idiot thief again

  • @climbeverest
    @climbeverest Před 3 lety +1

    These folks are quite greedy for money ir something, they keep talking of success, not sure if it helps the lowest rung

  • @eshanyadav9572
    @eshanyadav9572 Před 2 lety +1

    This guy's questioning the enlightenment of Buddha😂

  • @thepadre4551
    @thepadre4551 Před 3 lety

    How can Ryan do business with Google? They suck

  • @charlessterling3700
    @charlessterling3700 Před 3 lety +1

    you are no different then CNN why do you have to interject your politics? do you have to kowtow to the powers that be?(youtube)? I realize your trying to make a living.stick to the format. practice what you preach.

  • @giordanobruno7943
    @giordanobruno7943 Před 3 lety +11

    Made a fortune off of Stoics backs ✊🏼

    • @gilbertdaroy6080
      @gilbertdaroy6080 Před rokem

      Good content, but unfortunately, he's not as riveting a speaker as , like, Mark Manson.

  • @medizom
    @medizom Před 3 lety +2

    Love his books. Unfortunately, Ryan’s ability to talk about stillness without seemingly being able to remain still himself, and present, instead - a bundle of nerves and pacing around.. loses his message. Eckhart Tolle - that’s the man you want to be listening to talking about stillness. His google talk is phenomenal.

  • @alsimikolon3526
    @alsimikolon3526 Před 4 lety +1

    😂😂😂😂😂

  • @freeelectron52
    @freeelectron52 Před 3 lety +2

    Sad he’s become so political.

    • @dexstewart2450
      @dexstewart2450 Před 3 lety

      Comes from having morals - you should try it sometime

    • @freeelectron52
      @freeelectron52 Před 3 lety +2

      @@dexstewart2450 Having morals leads to becoming political? LMFAO!!

  • @waynewhitworth4932
    @waynewhitworth4932 Před 4 lety +9

    Ryan does good work but he's not so still and stoic anytime the name "Trump" is mentioned. Ryan needs help in this matter. I've seen him on podcasts absolutely change within seconds and start cursing and losing it...all of his stoic philosophy goes right out of the window. Ryan, just breathe and realize that half of America disagrees with you. We all want the best for America, but just disagree on the path. This year or in 4 years, the administration will change and life goes on. I didn't vote for President Obama but I didn't go into a cursing fit whenever his name was mentioned. I actually prayed for the man and hoped that he would be a good leader.

    • @Knowledge_Nuggies
      @Knowledge_Nuggies Před 4 lety +7

      Ever considered that the Stoic philosophy is not made for people who are naturally calm and controlled, but rather to be a means to the end of controlling your own impulsiveness, temperament etc.? Some historians (e. g. Pierre Vespirini) write about Aurelius that he actually had a hot temper and stoicism was just a counterweight to it. Think about that.

    • @AdamFiregate
      @AdamFiregate Před 4 lety +1

      Ryan confessed in an interview he is in therapy with a psychologist. So I guess he's working on himself.

  • @MichaelBabich
    @MichaelBabich Před 4 lety +8

    What did he do except writing books? Seriously, the guy has zero real life experience with real results except repeating other people's stories and selling them as books. No reason to pay attention.

    • @raymondtendau2749
      @raymondtendau2749 Před 4 lety +3

      One Man's terrorist is another man's freedom fighter.

    • @CoolThisIsMyUsername
      @CoolThisIsMyUsername Před 4 lety +15

      Yeah. He's an AUTHOR. Authors tend to write things, like books.

    • @liambeatz3158
      @liambeatz3158 Před 4 lety +6

      He was the director of marketing at American Apparel.

    • @windowcleaninganthony2605
      @windowcleaninganthony2605 Před 4 lety +3

      For real? The guy was director of marketing at American apparel in his early 20s until they closed. And for years he mastered using the media against themselves for marketing purposes. He still does it for huge companies. He wrote a whole book about it ironically lmao

    • @cooperbaggs8147
      @cooperbaggs8147 Před 4 lety +3

      Michael Babich bro you’re dumb