Father Slammed for Not Wanting to Babysit His Daughter While Wife Is on Vacation
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- čas přidán 24. 08. 2024
- A father is under fire for not wanting to babysit his daughter while his wife was on vacation, but is he completely wrong? Plus, we’re revealing the wishes we now regret.
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He bought the child a ticket to get rid of the mom and kid so he could be out here in these streets. Stay woke.
Right!! 😂😂😂
‼️ That part
Exactly!!!
My thoughts exactly 🌚
All the way facts sir 🤷🤦
The fact that he called it *“babysitting”* is a red flag 🚩🚩🚩
That part
i see what Adrienne is trying to say, but if the woman brings their child with her on the vacation, it's no longer a vacation. it's no longer a break. it's just parenting in a different country, which might be even harder because it's the child's first time experiencing that.
Great point
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You can still vacation with your child
@@disneylady9116 as a stay at home mom ,who never gets a break you want to go by yourself not with kids .when my husband gets off of work I have to watch them again because he's tired I don't mind but you never get a break which is why I'm going back to work today .I can't wait for the both of us to take a vacation without the kids together
@@doneeshacunningham2949 I have a 3 year old and 3 month old and my husband and I both work as well. If we had money to go on a vacation and he couldn’t go but the kids could I would take them. Not leave them with him to work and take care of them.
I hope you and your hubby can find time for a trip together too that does sound nice but in this situation it seems a little unfair to have just the wife go on the trip if they husband always works
Sounds like the father wants a vacation from them. He's full of it and Adrienne is gullible as hell.
That part 🤣🤣🤣
She-a-pick-me
Yes, she is.🙄
YOU CAN’T BABYSIT YOUR OWN CHILD!!!! HIS CHILD IS 50% OF HIM AND HIS RESPONSIBILITY!!!!!!
4 real
As a mother I’m here to say - if I want a break , dragging a four year old around Europe with me is not a vacation. LOL I’m just being a stay at home mama in another continent . 🤣
That’s what I was thinking, if he really wants her to rest and enjoy the trip he needs to give her a break from being a mom 24/7, also the fact that he uses the word “babysitting” for his own child tells us that’s just an excuse,
That part!
Stay at home mom in another country 😂😂😂😂😂😂🏡
Exactly
Thank you!!! She'll need another "break" after that break.
First of all parents don’t babysit their kids . It’s called being a parent . Family comes first, never put your job before your child . I always put my family first and I got fired for it and didn’t have a care in the world . My kids are always gonna come first . He could’ve called out . He knew he had to work and knew he paid for a vacation . He either was tryna get rid of them both or he just expect the wife to always take care of the kids .
That’s it and that’s all!
He was wrong either way. Lol. Family comes first tho! He better gear up.
I agree except I understand putting your kids first but a planned vacation is not a reason to miss work just because they didn't make proper arrangements.This situation has nothing to do with putting the child first.. They should have planned and discussed this vacation in advance and agreed on where the child would be.
@@pinkstar9430 family comes means losing his job?? Most companies let call out 3 days before needing a doctor note
@@DWFIT he planned the trip he knew the arrangements . When you plan a trip you already know your arrangements and request off work . He chose not to request off . If you planned a vacation you planned to miss work you knew what arrangements were needed . However in this case, he refused to keep his own child so he can work or whatever the case, just seems like he wanted a break from his daughter too and wanted her to go on vacation with the mother . 🤷🏽♀️ there was no excuse .
If he can afford a vacation for his wife and child to Europe, he can definitely afford to hire an actual babysitter to take care of his daughter while he’s working.
And the fact that he uses the word “babysit” for his own child, is an indication to me that he may not think that it’s also his responsibility as a parent.
I agree with Loni and Garcelle, he just wanted to get rid of them for a while. He was actually paying for his own vacation 😂
He's having an affair!!
Why else would he want them both gone!!
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Period!!!
EXACTLY
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. That's right ✅ ♥
Yep 😂😂😂😂😂
Any man who says he’s babysitting his own children = 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
No really
Fathers don't babysit. They parent. That's a PARENT. I HATE that notion of "does the dad HELP OUT with the kids?". What do you mean HELP OUT? It's his RESPONSABILITY??????
A father does NOT “babysit” their child.
It’s not babysitting if it’s his children. Tf?
What I came to say
I agree with Loni and Garcellw
He was trying to get rid of them two lol if you take ur child to Europe alone then it’s not a vacation
I’m tired of hearing about men who are not hands on with their child. Parenting is not just the mother’s responsibility.
Yeah Garcelle I'm a twin and my mom prayed for us, but then once her prayer was answered she said she used to cry because she had no idea how hard it would be dealing with 2 babies crying hysterically at the same time!!She never stops reminding us lol.
Make sure you know what your spouse's definition of a vacation is before planning one.
Yeah A, his nice gesture is flying them both to another continent 😂💀
The way Adrienne was mad that they didn't agree with her 😂
she always sides with the guy lol..
She was being ridiculous
What did loni say at the end that got her mugging? 😂
@@theumbrellaofdoom “Okay, I got a bridge to sell you munchkin” 😂
Haha yeah but dont forget Adriennes husband doesnt look after his own children, shes just used to seeing that..
I love how much more open and comfortable garcelle is, she's a ray of sunshine🌞
Adrienne is so naive. "He was doing a nice gesture." No, Hun. He wanted to get rid of both of them so he could do him.
Right. He was tryna cheat in peace lol
I can totally relate to Garcelle. I have 3 month old twins and I am so tired and stressed out all the time. It’s a lot of work 🥺
Aww hunny my twins are 6 now it gets better i promise. Don't try to be superwoman ask for help sis. Because you're gonna burn yourself out
You got this ❤️
Now come on.
He is clearly trying to cheat, and wants her and the kid OUT the house. This is so clearly jacked up. The fact he said "babysit" in reference to HIS kid, and wanted them both gone...? That's not even red flags...that's divorce with spousal, and child support, with a quick bye bye.
This woman needs to get out of that relationship NOWWWWWW.
I don’t even think the man said he “can’t” take off work.. i believe he said he didn’t “want” to and basically thought it wasn’t worth it to take off of work
I’m totally with Loni and Garcelle on this one! He tryna get rid of them *sza voice* “for the weekeeend” Lmboo!!
😂😂😂😂
The daughter may remember bits and pieces, but that's an expensive ticket for a bit and pieces memory. Sir if your wife is on vacation, then she is ALL THE WAY ON VACATION! Let her be child free for a while.
It’s not babysitting when it’s your own child. Stop having children with these irresponsible men smh.
*little boys
Thank you!
@@SuckerPunch92 ^^true
I'm with you Loni!!!!!! I said the same thing he doesn't want to be bothered!!! And I second that bringing a four year old to Italy is not a vacay!
Lonnie’s mmh in the beginning is hilarious
😂😂😂
I can totally resonate with what Loni is saying. My husband and I had a used luxury car for a few years and oh my, that gas, maintenance, everything was crazy expensive. We've now downgraded to a basic car that takes us from A to B and are so happy with our decision!
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"He wanted to get rid of both of them." Fact! Lmao
Daddy wants his own play time....he wants them gone...that's his vacation opportunity 😏 😜 🤪 not mommy's....he's wicked😆😆 Loni and G-money is right
Lmao Adrienne so gullible, that man wanted to be alone so he didn’t have to watch the kid 😂
Its not called babysitting when you watch your own child. Its called parenting lol
Adrienne got too much faith in people and their motives to think that guy is sending his wife away with the baby as only a nice gesture
The luxury car comment is no joke😩 don’t buy it if you can’t afford ridiculous amounts of money on maintaining the damn thing.
OMG!! So ONLY his Wife is Responsible for their Kid?? He can do whatever he wants and he will always assume that his Wife will be there. But this is part of Women's fault. Taking ALL the responsibility and not letting their husbands know. This is OUR kid. Our Responsibility.
Yes
You know Adrienne is ALWAYSSSS going to support the guys side🙄🤦
the dad shouldn't have bought the tickets without planning it out first
i never knew that parents supervising their OWN children could be referred to as babysitting
Whew i saw this post when it was posted. It was an AITA post on reddit and when i tell you the comments tore him up. But A has it wrong, it wasnt that he couldn't take off of work it was that he didn't want to. His wife is a SAHM and he felt that the child raising was his wife's responsibility. He didn't see the point in losing 2 weeks pay but was perfectly fine buying 2 tickets for her to go and take their daughter. The wife was upset and instead of taking off work he just said his sister or sister in law would just come over to watch his child.
I agree with you 100%
The way Loni said "Idilie" instead of "Italy" frickin sent me. 🤣🤣
😂
That dad deserved all the heat, he knew it ain’t a vacation with kids!!!
Forget “babysitting” I would be happy if my daughters father would call her more
I get what A was saying. He planned it for both of them since this wasn’t just a “vacation” but a family visit. But yeah there’s no babysitting when it’s YOUR baby.
How about the husband and wife take the vacation together to unwind & leave the child home with family while they’re gone? Wait til she’s older & can remember such an expensive experience 😂
Exactly
Because he can’t take off work? 😏
Adrienne will ALWAYS defend the man.
My husband gets PISSED if someone says he's babysitting when he has the kids on his own. It doesn't make any sense by the way bc I'm a working mom, he works too, but when I'm at work he is with them. I don't have to ask him to watch our kids. He is the fricken dad. This is so weird.
Yea that father is wrong. For whatever reason the son isn't or can't go and now it's a problem for him to stay behind?! Like I get that he can't take off of work but at age 4 they should be in school. Something has to be arranged.
Yes! That’s right. Adrienne thinking about it too deep she’s very naive at times.
I was thinking that. The kid is 4 shouldn’t he be in school. Or maybe it’s during the summer time. But he is in school. I think you can go and pick him up after when he is done
I was thinking that. The kid is 4 shouldn’t he be in school. Or maybe it’s during the summer time. But he is in school. I think you can go and pick him up after when he is done
Yesss Loni! Keeping it real. He wanted to get rid of them both...lol
I remember being 4 and being in kindergarten. Childrens minds are very powerful and retain more than given credit for
Adrienne is so naive. That explanation makes no sense to a parent that needs a break.
Taking a child across the world is not an easy task to just put on someone else. That would be so stressful, I wouldn't even go.
Why buy the ticket if you knew she couldn't go? Seems like gas lighting to me
4 years old is an opportune time for a child to learn a language.
Lmao adrienne is not understanding
what. else. is. new.
ITS HER FUCKING OPINION...That's the point of the show to see different view points
@@Shad106_ you ok?? It’s not that serious 😂😂
He trying to cheat
If he doesn’t want to take care of his child it’s better he doesn’t
Taking care of a child requires a lot of patience and attention
Anything can happen in the blink of an eye especially with a 4 yr old 🤷🏽♀️
I agree. He could neglect the child. It’s sad that he doesn’t want to “take care” of his daughter (rather than be responsible for)
Lonie got the point, he try to get away of both of them.
I'm with Loni and Garcelle on the first topic. Crazy.
Fishy! I think he was planning something while she was gone. I would put cameras to see what he is up to while I’m gone.
How does he want to babysit his own child ? He has issues.
Now I see why Mama needs a vacation… 👀
I agree with Loni and Garcelle 🤣 he was tryna push them off
Why would a four year old be able to process the complex culture and history of Italy? That’s such a bad excuse. Sounds like the dad wanted a vacation.
If he’s the dad, that’s not babysitting. WOW
It’s not babysitting, it’s parenting that’s 100%. I remember my first out of country trip at 4 but it’s not a vacation if she has to parent while she is there. My mom went on vacations or work trips and my dad made our time fun. After school rap battles with my dad or movie dates. We would go grocery shopping while mom was gone and bake together. I loved our moments and I think because of that I know I can come to him for anything. My father parented me and our bond is strong. My mom gets annoyed that my dad and I make the same faces when we are upset. Shame on any man who calls it babysitting when they are the parent.
He wanted to have time to himself!!! and whoever.....
He has a girlfriend on the side
I love Adrienne’s hair.
Careful What You Wish For!
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I think the one that I wished for looking back now… I remember walking with my older cousin when I was young and innocent and blowing a damn dandelion and being like “ I wish I was an adult “ BABBYYYY when I tell you i wish I could time warp back to the time and my older self snatch that thing out my hand… time went by a lil too fast and I’m just hating adulting and dealing with this messed up world today !!! Lemme go back in time plz 😭😂😂
Lol, yess!
Bull! You can buy the ticket for when you CAN take off from work. You watch your kid, your wife gets a break. You can all go together another time when the kid is a bit older and will retain actual memories if an “experience” is what you’re interested in for them.
Never heard of a parent babysitting their OWN child. Smh he could've got an actual babysitter if he had such a problem. Furthermore memory retainment starts at 3. So a 4 year old would definitely remember
Adrian don’t have children so she doesn’t understand. He should have let his wife get a mental and physical break although you love your children you need a break raising children is a job within itself. Like garcell said he should take that time to bond with his daughter children remember those things. They don’t care about know fancy trip at 4 they remember a parents love the quality time they spend with them.
I don’t have children and even I saw it for what it was. It was pretty obvious.
Adrienne hasn't gotten a license yet???? I remember her talking about it season 1. Let me teach you omg
I was a stay at home mum for 5 years. I couldn't leave my kids behind as I'm too attached to them
Seems unhealthy lol
Seems codependent
That baby is 4 and in pre k. He only had to do drop off and pick up. Hire a baby sitter to fill in the gap hours or ask your parents to help. Using the term “babysit” is a 🚩
I agree with ask family/friends to help. But the child might not be in pre-k because some stay at home moms opt out and possibly they chose to home school or because of covid opted out of the kid going to school, he could need an all day sitter.
When you’re a father/parent you are not longer a babysitter you are raising your child.
She shouldve bought her own damn tickets👏👏👏
I LOVE Garcelle❤.."Oh yeah you can't drive"😂😂😂
He’s not babysitting if it’s his own family
The father is full of BS. He could hire a nanny while he at work.
Love how Garcelle randomly complements Adrienne
Well, almost a decade ago i took my toddler on a babymoon vacation that i badly needed. Safe to say i discovered that it was not a vacation and i was more stressed out. My kid fell down some stairs in the house i was staying in, drank bleach that was kept in the wrong place by the house keeper( which she vomited out and didnt get harmed luckily🙌) and survived. I decided to never ever take a kid on a vacation ever again. And that was 7yrs ago😭. I badly need one but someday hopefully.
It’s not babysitting if it’s your child 🙄🙄🙄
He just trying to get rid of them both. My dad used to do the same thing, my mom was a teacher an every year when the kids went on spring break in April she would take a trip to Europe. He would complain about how couldn't keep me because of work or whatever. So he started buying me a ticket too everytime she would plan a trip during that time
Why wouldn’t he ask before buying the ticket?? International flights alone with a 4 year old!? That is no vacation
Adrienne missed the part where he said she does everything. He wrote it was an understanding where he doesn't take care of the kid, which is why she's the stay at home mom. He is mos def the as$hole
Adriennes outfits this season are on point! I wonder who her stylist is
That 4 year old should be in pre -k he could take her to school and pick her up after work; depending on his work schedule and he wouldn’t necessarily have to take time off from work.
Lmao! Ades shock is HILARIOUS! I promise you nothing about traveling abroad with your 4 year old is a vacation! 😂
He wants a vacation from both lol
That’s why you keep your damn business off social media! He wouldn’t be subject to everyone’s judgement!
Thank you Garcelle! It's NOT babysitting when it's your own children
When I read the title for some reason I thought they were divorced. And it's not babysitting if it's your child. And if you can afford a trip to Italy you can certainly afford a nanny to take care of her while your at work. And this is a red flag for me. Like why are you sending me and our child to Italy. Like are you planing on cheating on me. And there is nobody home. So he can do whatever he wants no witnesses
It's not babysitting it's your child! He wanted to get rid of both !
🗣It's not a vacation with kids! Idc Idc
FACTS
My husband looks after our 6 year old and I have been going on holiday with my girlfriends every year and he looks after our child while I have mummy time ⏲ and it's great 👌🏽
The money he spent on the child’s ticket he could pay someone to nanny for him while he is at work
Sorry, but the thumbnail got me smile. Loni's face is so cute and funny 🤣🤣
I'm 35 and also dont have a license- only a permit🤣🤣🤣