Living Alone for the First Time *things to do if you're feeling lonely*

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  • čas přidán 13. 07. 2024
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    Living alone for the first time has been quite a life-changing experience. Living alone for the first time is definitely a privilege and one I am grateful for. I am very mindful of spending habits since I am fully responsible for all my bills and utilities, while before I'd always split my rent or my utilities with an apartment mate. The art of being alone comes from truly being comfortable with yourself. Even if I live alone I'm not lonely :). There were moments when I felt lonely since I've always lived with someone, but I wanted to share ways to avoid feeling lonely. Feel free to share things you do if you ever feel lonely, too!
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Komentáře • 128

  • @mayaleex3
    @mayaleex3  Před 2 lety +49

    You never walk alone :) posted this weekend’s video early! Hope you enjoy my honest thoughts ~
    If you could please help me by:
    1. Subscribing if you haven’t already 🥰
    2. Smashing the like button on this video 👍
    3. Watching the video all the way through👀
    4. Following my life on Instagram, too! @mayaleex3
    That would mean so much to me🥲!

  • @khalilahd.
    @khalilahd. Před 2 lety +269

    I feel like everyone should live alone at one point in life. It’s a great way to grow and get to know yourself better. I love this series 💛

    • @mayaleex3
      @mayaleex3  Před 2 lety +31

      I totally agree 🥰 it’s a bigger financial responsibility but definitely a huge opportunity for growth!

    • @matiaslier1545
      @matiaslier1545 Před 4 měsíci

      I became a alcoholic👍

  • @annieaugust1567
    @annieaugust1567 Před 2 lety +89

    This video came while I really needed it, living alone right now is hitting me hard and to know I'm not alone and your tips will help me feel better.

    • @xoxoluvadam
      @xoxoluvadam Před rokem +1

      I’m starting my journey in two weeks. I have been an emotional wreck knowing that I’ll be alone for the first ever. We will get this right?

  • @navmari
    @navmari Před 2 lety +73

    this came at the perfect time for me, I'm 17 and I moved to another city bc of college and I just said goodbye to my parents. It's a scary time, but I'm sure I can make it! thank u

    • @mayaleex3
      @mayaleex3  Před 2 lety +11

      That’s a really big change! You’re going to grow so much and learn a lot about yourself :)

  • @adriennehilll
    @adriennehilll Před 2 lety +40

    Needed this energy today ❤️

  • @destinythomas7860
    @destinythomas7860 Před 2 lety +9

    this is so crazy because yesterday i was feeling lonely and sad but uploaded this.. I just find it so weird, but I'm so grateful you made this.

  • @tarangnarayan07
    @tarangnarayan07 Před 2 lety +15

    I am literally on a bus back to my work city where I ll be living alone. Your timing is impeccable, just wanted I need to cheer up for this new chapter ❤🥺❤ God bless you Maya! Thank you and Borahae 💜💜💜

  • @cmjk1
    @cmjk1 Před 2 lety +6

    Ahh the BTS sounds in your car, took me tf out for sure!! really really love your content. All your videos are so amazing

  • @memesssss37
    @memesssss37 Před 2 lety +4

    You are doing your things by your self and it's so good 🌿

  • @slbp4290
    @slbp4290 Před 2 lety +2

    Omg I love it thank you Maya! Have a nice day 🤍

  • @kyra9051
    @kyra9051 Před 2 lety +2

    Aww love this video! Thank you for sharing helpful tips! So so happy for you! And I love your customization for your Tesla!

  • @mandyhickman8463
    @mandyhickman8463 Před 2 lety +25

    Wow! This is a pleasant surprise! A Saturday video!😊💜 thank you Maya! I recently got my own place too, my best friend was supposed to move in with me but bailed last minute. It is usually too quiet for my liking and I get bored easily as there is only so much to clean lol, Thank you so much!!

    • @mayaleex3
      @mayaleex3  Před 2 lety +5

      Congratulations!! Even if you didn’t initially plan for it hehe I think it’s good :)

    • @mandyhickman8463
      @mandyhickman8463 Před 2 lety +1

      @@mayaleex3 Exactly! And now I have more motivation to take advantage of it! Also, I found it very funny how your car uses those phrases and those exact ones are different phone notifications for my different friends... Even the "Hey, Stob it!" Lol

    • @parflegideon2854
      @parflegideon2854 Před rokem

      I like to workout when bored,this has helped much lol,some people like to read …it all depends on personal choices

    • @parflegideon2854
      @parflegideon2854 Před rokem

      Mandy maybe you were missing your former place before you moved in maybe that’s what it is not just botedom😊 did you think of it that way?

  • @Aku-pm8cp
    @Aku-pm8cp Před 2 lety +1

    This is helpful for living on your own! Thanks Maya!

  • @fifochiken
    @fifochiken Před 2 lety +3

    Wow maya your so positive
    You really encouraged me a lot :)

  • @brianna4098
    @brianna4098 Před 2 lety +1

    Ahhhh "On" is my favorite Choreo of theirs 🥰

  • @1ogerose
    @1ogerose Před 2 lety +3

    Thank you so much for this video. It was right on time! God bless you

  • @natmichelle
    @natmichelle Před 2 lety

    Love you so much Maya! 💜

  • @ARTISINGH-bw4cw
    @ARTISINGH-bw4cw Před 2 lety +3

    Hey Maya, I hope you're doing well!
    Keep going💫💟

  • @tarasmith7039
    @tarasmith7039 Před 2 lety

    I really enjoy you’re energy. I watch you’re videos all the time ❤️

  • @liliansimonafudong
    @liliansimonafudong Před 2 lety +1

    hi maya! keep growing sending you sm love

  • @cosygracegames
    @cosygracegames Před 2 lety +5

    Was feeling a little lonely the other night for the first time in a bit so this helped so much! I relate on many levels, it helps to play things all throughout the day whether sound or shows, etc just to feel like you’re with other people, fun exercises and cleaning projects or fun meals/baked goods to look forward to making :) also knowing gods there knowing just how to make you happy/feel safe :) thanks for the video!!

  • @crystalmariegee4268
    @crystalmariegee4268 Před 2 lety

    I definitely need the energy you bring. I need the guidance to better and make myself happier.

  • @samanthadeloach
    @samanthadeloach Před 2 lety +3

    This is so helpful love this video so much 😇

  • @LeMErin21
    @LeMErin21 Před 2 lety +4

    I love living alone. When you enjoy your own company, you’re never (or rarely) lonely 😌

  • @fdoctor79
    @fdoctor79 Před 2 lety +3

    Great tips and relatable! Love the robo vaccum/mop! Tfs

  • @dar.d
    @dar.d Před 2 lety +2

    Every time I watch your videos I always want to hit the subscribe button, but it already says subscribed!!! You are the best Maya! I love love your content! You are loved and blessed ❤️

  • @rachelretherford8971
    @rachelretherford8971 Před 2 lety

    Loved this video! It is something that I struggle with!

  • @peytonb9771
    @peytonb9771 Před 2 lety +2

    I love the BTS car!!! 💜 great video Maya!😊

  • @halscorner
    @halscorner Před 2 lety

    Great motivation!

  • @singingchristian
    @singingchristian Před 2 lety

    Have been living alone for 9 months now. Agree with all this. Thank you 💚

  • @emmmmaluv
    @emmmmaluv Před 2 lety +2

    hoping i can live alone soon! i think i really do need a change of scenery and a clear head thank you for keeping me motivated!

  • @JoyfulOne468
    @JoyfulOne468 Před 2 lety

    I loved this video! Your customization on your car is great. 😅

  • @Copper48
    @Copper48 Před 2 lety +2

    I listen to music at home all. the. time. 😍 It really helps!
    Amen, God is always with us. Thank you for the video, Maya 👋

  • @onestep2525
    @onestep2525 Před rokem

    a very good reminder for me while im on my living alone journey ✨🤗

  • @bycapybara
    @bycapybara Před 2 lety +1

    your videos are just so calming... love from pluto!!

  • @teenatbabu3802
    @teenatbabu3802 Před 2 lety +2

    I love your videos 💜 especially your thoughts and perspective in 1:35 was amazing. Thank u so much .U NICE KEEP GOING 😁

  • @user-pm5bq9mg5g
    @user-pm5bq9mg5g Před 8 měsíci +1

    Single for the first time at 58. Scary but I have a lot of cleaning to do. Great video.

  • @joannaparker8050
    @joannaparker8050 Před 2 lety +10

    Maya!!! Ive lived by myself for two years as well And watching your videos was always such a cool vibe. I really feel like God is doing such wonders through you and your talents to show to the world. Thank you for blessing the CZcams world. You are amazing and keep going ♥️🙏

    • @mayaleex3
      @mayaleex3  Před 2 lety

      Awww thank you so much for watching! Hope you're enjoying your journey of living alone, too ~

  • @kanao_editz4248
    @kanao_editz4248 Před 2 lety +12

    The fact that you are so positive and inspire me soooo much.You are such a comforting person keep up the good work.Btw can we appreciate the fact that this women found the meaning of love and life.Love you so much you inspire me so much and make me positive evretime I watch your videos you make me smile so thank you(:

  • @sahaniaaktari
    @sahaniaaktari Před 2 lety +1

    best video , because this topic I thought most

  • @jennygracefully
    @jennygracefully Před 2 lety

    Oh my gosh, I love your Tesla!

  • @shafy5009
    @shafy5009 Před 2 lety +1

    tnx maya

  • @ClarissaRose
    @ClarissaRose Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you for sharing this video with us!!!!! And awww Bangtan Bot!!!! 😆💜💜💜💜💜💜💜

  • @lily_blinky
    @lily_blinky Před 2 lety

    Love you I'm so Early ❤️

  • @laylia99
    @laylia99 Před 7 měsíci

    your life is amazing
    I wish I could live like you

  • @krutichudasama
    @krutichudasama Před 2 lety +2

    Maya...!! You are the most relatable person for me in my current situations... I have always felt and thought about things the way you do, still I used to believe that I am the only crackhead over thinking about my life. But hey! Thank you so much for posting such a realistic video.😍🥰💜💕 Also, that "hey...Excuse me!" part😂😂

  • @barryberkman1070
    @barryberkman1070 Před rokem

    Thank you for your video! It helped!

  • @sanatshah
    @sanatshah Před rokem

    Thank you for this video, I am 17 and I just started living alone for the first time in a hostle to prep for a competitive exam. And many times a day I feel lonely but your video make me feel better ❤‍🩹 Thanks 🙏 ☺

  • @createwithlulu
    @createwithlulu Před 2 lety +2

    you are such an inspiration to me! You actually inspired me to start my own CZcams channel!🤍🤍someday I want my channel to be like you! I would love to be able to share the Bible on CZcams like you do!💕keep it up friend!

  • @Ni3.975
    @Ni3.975 Před 2 lety

    Love you❤️

  • @fortheshygirl4938
    @fortheshygirl4938 Před 2 lety

    8:11 Probably the best feature of the Tesla. First time I heard this it was hilarious. Cheers, Maya

  • @Elena-di8rn
    @Elena-di8rn Před rokem

    The BTS car sounds threw me 😂 I laughed out loud while doing the dishes.
    I'm living alone for the first time and this was comforting to watch.

  • @chandrakamalkumar
    @chandrakamalkumar Před 2 lety

    First omg 💜 ly

  • @zahedakhan8789
    @zahedakhan8789 Před 2 lety

    I eagerly wait every Sunday for you video... watching it gives me so much positive energy, motivation and happiness.,,, you are such an inspiration to young generation for living simple and yet enjoying life.. lots of love from India.. ❤💫🌺

  • @ricobuttonpusher7061
    @ricobuttonpusher7061 Před rokem +1

    Today I started living by myself for the first time in my life and I’m already feeling some loneliness

  • @snakeXxbite
    @snakeXxbite Před rokem

    Watching this to prepare myself for living alone for the first time

  • @daniellepham8280
    @daniellepham8280 Před 2 lety

    haha im the opposite ! i go through the day compartmentalizing issues and focusing on whats going on and then when i workout i zone and think about everything that needs to be done/ worry. then its out of my system when im done working out and i can go back to focusing on the present.

  • @shafy5009
    @shafy5009 Před 2 lety +1

    its very useful vedio💜💜💜👍👍👍

  • @redridinghood2676
    @redridinghood2676 Před 2 lety +5

    I think I feel guilty as I try to be an engaged Christian I often forget to pray before my meals and before bed. These are all just things that I do and criticize myself for not holding myself to my standards. I mostly just talk to him casually. My mind is so focused on other things and God seems to be on the bottom part of the list. But I'm glad I can watch your videos and be reminded that he is with me always and that he's always there, waiting.

    • @mayaleex3
      @mayaleex3  Před 2 lety +3

      Awww don’t feel guilty! Like any relationship we love, it shouldn’t be out of obligation but out of desire 💕

    • @annieaugust1567
      @annieaugust1567 Před 2 lety +3

      Ohhh do not criticize yourself. The fact that you are aware that you forget or put him on the self is a first step to actually help you to start being mindful and be intentional about putting him first and actually praying. He loves you and remember the word of God says there is no condemnation in Christ Jesus. Do not condemn yourself. God loves you...start being intentional about putting him first. Lol okay bye now.

    • @redridinghood2676
      @redridinghood2676 Před 2 lety

      @@annieaugust1567 Honestly thank you so much! Those were some real words that I needed to hear and dang did that hit right were it needed too! Thank you 😊

    • @redridinghood2676
      @redridinghood2676 Před 2 lety

      @@mayaleex3 That’s so true but definitely some times hard to remember 😅

  • @la381
    @la381 Před 2 lety +1

    Hi Maya! 😀Which chocolate protein powder did you use in this video?

  • @dimplegirl21
    @dimplegirl21 Před 2 lety

    hiii!! i'm a new viewer and this has been so helpful as i have recently living alone as well. can you link the microfiber cloths you use on the countertop and to clean?

  • @milenaborges9965
    @milenaborges9965 Před 2 lety

    Hi! I am new here and your advices seem really helpful :)
    Love your vibes 🥰
    P.S. Where did you bought the closet that keep your shoes?

  • @krishnadesai2553
    @krishnadesai2553 Před 12 dny

    Where is your sofa from? ❤

  • @danielleperez1590
    @danielleperez1590 Před 2 lety

    I have that book! I’m reading Chasing Vines by Beth Moore now but I’m starting it next 😁

  • @inushuuun
    @inushuuun Před rokem

    Okay so i'm gonna leave my city in a couple of weeks bc of college at 18, i was super excited but now i'm a little bit scared bc is a bigbig city, i'm gonna have a roommate but stiiiiiill thank u so much for the video, I hope it helps me!

  • @user-bm3sq7xg5x
    @user-bm3sq7xg5x Před rokem

    I loved when u said God is with us always. Reminder to myself. He will never leave us. He is with us fil the end of the age.

  • @spelletjesaccount6271
    @spelletjesaccount6271 Před 2 lety

    8:02 HAHAHAHA THIS IS THE BEST

  • @harshita6927
    @harshita6927 Před 2 lety

    I really love to stay alone 😊😊😊😊

  • @davidparnell4675
    @davidparnell4675 Před 2 lety

    Hi maya

  • @arimartinez7775
    @arimartinez7775 Před rokem

    Where is your couch from?

  • @jenifermanuel4561
    @jenifermanuel4561 Před 2 lety +2

    Really miss the blue majik smoothie, try to make one in your next video 🥺

  • @saniya7649
    @saniya7649 Před rokem

    I will be moving to Wuppertal city for my internship and it will be the first time that I will be living alone. Actually, it is a shared accomodation and I really don't know what to expect and what not to expect.

  • @watermelon..baby12
    @watermelon..baby12 Před rokem

    I really wanna live alone when I’m old enough to move out

  • @lily_blinky
    @lily_blinky Před 2 lety

    First ❤️

  • @lily_blinky
    @lily_blinky Před 2 lety

    So Cutee

  • @fionajade9000
    @fionajade9000 Před 2 lety

    Does putting your shoes in the washing machine ruin it?

  • @LetsFIRELife
    @LetsFIRELife Před 2 lety

    🥰🥰

  • @Awaiskhan-br2kj
    @Awaiskhan-br2kj Před 2 lety

    hi maya lee how are you

  • @mellowbee7642
    @mellowbee7642 Před 2 lety

    I’m in my early thirties, I’m going to start living alone soon, I’m a Christian and the only BTS fan which means no one gets my K-pop jokes lol. I wish I had a friend like you! (although I do love my friends and I am grateful for each of them)
    Thanks for making this video and making me feel less alone 💜

  • @user-mo6gn7zz2k
    @user-mo6gn7zz2k Před rokem +1

    I am moving to Manila next year June 2023 from Cebu. I will be living alone for the first time and it's my first time as well that I will be going far from my mom... Reason? In my age, I just turned 23 last november, I feel like even how I dress up myself I still rely on my mom. For once I wanted to teach myself how to be independent, well, I really hope so

    • @maricorjanelaureta2330
      @maricorjanelaureta2330 Před 3 dny

      omg same! Moving to mnl in a few days now, from cdo. I’m also 23 y.o and wanted to teach myself how to be independent. I hope this would work well!!

  • @heriled4760
    @heriled4760 Před 2 lety

    Mantab...

  • @ramibilal1042
    @ramibilal1042 Před 2 lety

    زينة

  • @user-tc3oy8qy5f
    @user-tc3oy8qy5f Před 2 lety

    love your chimmy slippers :)

  • @vash7995
    @vash7995 Před 2 lety

    @8:40 omg 😱😱

  • @TheMusiclover8675
    @TheMusiclover8675 Před rokem

    Hey fellow ARMY!!

  • @haze_2563
    @haze_2563 Před rokem

    Quite frankly I’ve started getting kinda sick and tired of living with my parents, I wanna be able to live my life my way, and at my pace, I have good credit, and I have good savings, although I’m waiting until I have more since I wanna get a house, not waste my time and life at an apartment, I have a small group of friends who I’ve known for years now who’d be willing to rent from me, that would ease up on the bills and mortgage

  • @fortheshygirl4938
    @fortheshygirl4938 Před 2 lety

    8:16 Party party yeah. Any army here?

  • @eman-152
    @eman-152 Před 2 lety

    The first 🍉❤

  • @mylifeingeneral
    @mylifeingeneral Před 2 lety

    wish I could afford a narwhal

  • @Mstdianapeke
    @Mstdianapeke Před 2 lety +1

    I would love to have a car where you can press a button and have Jimin saying “uMm EXcUsE mE!l” anytime someone cut me off hahaha 😂

  • @amandajenny6577
    @amandajenny6577 Před 2 lety

    Spot cooky there..

  • @Awaiskhan-br2kj
    @Awaiskhan-br2kj Před 2 lety

    i ak hird 😯😯

  • @bubbly_sunflower9886
    @bubbly_sunflower9886 Před 2 lety +3

    I haven't watched maya in quite a long time. I decided to come back and BOOM! She has a fiance, a Tesla and lives with herself?! 🤯
    I'm very happy for her 🥳

    • @mayaleex3
      @mayaleex3  Před 2 lety

      Really just embracing all the changes that are coming my way 🥲😅

    • @bubbly_sunflower9886
      @bubbly_sunflower9886 Před 2 lety

      @@mayaleex3 That is awesome! Thanks for replying to my comment! You are so awesome!

  • @your_Lychee
    @your_Lychee Před 2 lety +1

    i started to learn to live alone from the age of 8
    Both of my parents were busy out their work so i would live alone from 11 am to 9pm
    Sometimes it would become 12 am too..
    I used to come from school and then do my work by my own
    Good thing i had my birds so i would play with them
    Then tuitions
    So it wasn't that a worry to be honest.
    Before my mom was reall confident on me livin'alone
    Now my mum be like:
    *My ChIlD Is GoNnA LiVe AlOnE WhAt If ShE GeTs In TrOublE*
    Even though there's so much security here and I'm almost turning 13
    But she is still worried lol

  • @user-ms5ig1cj4t
    @user-ms5ig1cj4t Před 2 lety +1

    Is this a routine? 😢💋

  • @nishkasharma1675
    @nishkasharma1675 Před 2 lety +1

    An army living alone? I've found my people😭

  • @shanish985
    @shanish985 Před 2 lety

    Sister hi sister hi 🗼🗼📡

  • @hustle2muscle
    @hustle2muscle Před rokem

    Surround yourself with technology and social media 😂

  • @jesslaughs408
    @jesslaughs408 Před rokem

    …. But this is just you being really busy to distract yourself from loneliness.
    This doesn’t solve the loneliness issue.
    It’s like you do things and get things to fill the loneliness hole. But things don’t replace people or the need for human connection. At least for me it doesn’t….
    I was hoping this would give me hope but really it just made me feel like living alone is empty.

  • @Tiffany-dn1vz
    @Tiffany-dn1vz Před rokem

    No way I'd payb2-3 hundred for a mopping robot lol.