TSL Plays: We're Not Really Strangers

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  • čas přidán 1. 06. 2024
  • With the help of the card game ‘We’re Not Really Strangers’, we sat our colleagues down for a #HTHT session.
    Here are some helplines if you need to speak to someone:
    Belle, Beyond the Label Helpbot, go.gov.sg/bellethehelpbot
    Samaritans of Singapore (24-hour hotline), 1800-221-4444
    National CARE Hotline, 1800-202-6868
    Institute of Mental Health’s Mental Health Helpline, 6389-2222
    In partnership with National Youth Council Singapore and Youth Corps Singapore, join us in an upcoming IG live with Zhin and a Youth Corps Singapore peer supporter on May 21 at 8pm where you can stand to win attractive prizes if you participate actively! Stay tuned for more details on TheSmartLocalSG IG. / thesmartlocalsg
    Follow The Smart Local on Social Media!
    / thesmartlocal
    / thesmartlocaltv
    / thesmartlocalsg
    / thesmartlocaltv
    Featuring:
    Zhin Sadali - / zxynpot
    James Rainier - / justispao
    Fauzi Aziz - / mynameisfauzi
    Chow Jia Hui - / chowjiahui
    Brenda Tan - / brendatjy
    Renae Cheng - / renaecjc
    Produced, Filmed & Edited by:
    Bok Cuiwen - / chewywen_
    Additional Videography:
    Nicole Sim - / nicolesimxe
    Fiqah Zainal - / clikzfikz
    Business Enquiries:
    hello@thesmartlocal.com
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Komentáře • 112

  • @jc-2088
    @jc-2088 Před 3 lety +247

    Thank you TheSmartLocal. That's one thing why I preferred watching you guys for years and years regardless of how many talents joined and left, because you guys are so real and so true to the audiences that it goes deep down which we feels for you guys. Thank you for being in CZcams!

  • @hc5640
    @hc5640 Před 3 lety +427

    lets support our local influencers, we always see the positive side and often forget about their human side :'( Stay positive

    • @kentakicheeken4471
      @kentakicheeken4471 Před 3 lety +5

      Pretty sure there are people who liked your comment that shitted on Chow for the fasting challenge. The world is fucked.

  • @KpopingForLife
    @KpopingForLife Před 3 lety +272

    Could we please get a longer version of this with more people playing!! I love this game and I think it's important for everyone to rmb that the talents are humans too and not be so harsh on them at times. Rooting for you guys!

    • @rayroar1117
      @rayroar1117 Před 3 lety +5

      Agreed! Special request for Joyce Yang and John Lim! I love to hear their insights!

  • @xaverie303
    @xaverie303 Před 3 lety +403

    i just want to hug brenda because my parents are also facing marriage problems right now and i can understand how she really feels...

    • @jeslynng6847
      @jeslynng6847 Před 3 lety +2

      Stay strong!!

    • @mylifeasliz8234
      @mylifeasliz8234 Před 3 lety +3

      mine also. but luckily i have the best guardian who is always there for me and just one text away:) stay strong❤️

    • @DC-ru5xz
      @DC-ru5xz Před 3 lety +1

      My condolences. Stay strong

    • @nipneh
      @nipneh Před 3 lety +6

      I really feel a lot for Brenda. :( The good thing is that her parents recognised that their marriage was having issues and dealt with it. Instead of ignoring the issues and staying on together for nothing... :(

    • @xaverie303
      @xaverie303 Před 3 lety

      @@DC-ru5xz tysm !

  • @libraries144
    @libraries144 Před 3 lety +96

    for me, parents getting a divorce isnt the worst, its when they are still in the toxic marriage "because of their children" once your parents are divorced, you are no longer the threat that continues the toxicity of the family. its like a burden is lifted. its painful to see parents hate each other everyday which affects their children on an extremely negative way. for me, i dont really care if my dad has a mistress and treats this family like roommates, or my mom is mentally abusive towards me, i just wish them all the happiness and hopefully one day i can move on with myself..

    • @nipneh
      @nipneh Před 3 lety

      Totally agree with you

  • @Mrteddyable
    @Mrteddyable Před 3 lety +170

    I love this Ranae and Brenda moment :') it is sooo PRECIOUS!!!!!

    • @Mrteddyable
      @Mrteddyable Před 3 lety +5

      PETITION TO HAVE MORE BRENDA AND RANAE MOMENTS IN FUTURE TSL VIDEOS!!! NEW FRIENDSHIP SHIP!! Branae

  • @callietoh1226
    @callietoh1226 Před 3 lety +108

    Omygosh I wasn't expecting myself to tear up from this video but so many of the stuff said inside was just so real and relatable.. to anyone who reads this, you are loved and you are enough 💙

  • @MswtMai
    @MswtMai Před 3 lety +26

    Thank you for hanging on Renae!

  • @damienlee927
    @damienlee927 Před 3 lety +26

    This is a great reminder to all of us, especially to those behind the keyboard and blasting away. A simple statement holds true, and that is, if you have nothing good to say, don't say it. There are ways to give feed back, and give suggestions how a person can improve based on your opinion, and this video is a perfect example of how to do it, with empathy, with genuine care, even if towards someone who is not very close to you.
    Simply blasting away behind your keyboard simply reflects your horrible character.

  • @carissalizz
    @carissalizz Před 3 lety +8

    This video means so much to me.... I struggled with mental health so much and feared seeking help for so long until I realised that my anxiety was affecting everything I did. Thank you for such an empowering video and I want to let everyone know that it's okay to seek help! You're really not alone is this. You are so loved and cherished.
    The quote that Renae said... "you'll never know when it's going to be the best day of your life. It could be tomorrow so you just have to wake up and get there".... That hit close to home🙆‍♀️🥰

  • @shernel_
    @shernel_ Před 3 lety +21

    yk.. if this was a podcast pls sign me up, I wanna listen to it everyday this is so calming somehow and made me look at life at a different perspective sometimes

  • @pehaiyin9027
    @pehaiyin9027 Před 3 lety +29

    Totally relatable to what what Zhin addressed about the pain question. Definitely a life experience that we have to go through in order to grow and become better.

  • @smridhichhabra9923
    @smridhichhabra9923 Před 3 lety +12

    This video made me cry :(. More so, it made me realize how only a few, if any people know the real us. I'm so grateful I got to watch you guys show a part of the real you. I love your videos and will always support this channel xo
    Ok ,thankyou for coming to my Ted talk.

  • @MswtMai
    @MswtMai Před 3 lety +49

    Did I just ship brenda and renae? HAHAHA friends like them are precious! If you have one, please hold on to them tightly

  • @waiyee4351
    @waiyee4351 Před 3 lety +11

    I love Brenda and Renae 😭😭 need more contents from them 😭💕

  • @xueying2210
    @xueying2210 Před 3 lety +8

    Everyonr is a gem, and anyone is blessed to have them in their life. Dearest Rainer, you're such a star, and such a goal, regardless your creativity, your talent, your looks or your personality!! 🌈🥰

  • @graces2860
    @graces2860 Před 3 lety +7

    I believe we all have our own struggles, some people might just putting a strong upfront to make sure other people don’t feel sorry/worry for them but in the end we don’t know how they really feel, so please be kind. Being kind doesn’t mean you have to solve all of the problems because sometimes we just need someone to listen or simply being there for us. Not typing hateful comments also counted as being kind in my opinion. So please if you didn’t have anything nice to say then don’t at all, or give an opinion or feedback about the content you see either it’s on CZcams, Instagram or the other platform.
    It’s not easy to talk about mental health, thank you for making this video.❤️
    Ps just in case someone read this, I may not know you but I do hope you are in a great condition. I don’t know how you feel right now but from what I experience life is not easy sometimes we can feel happy, angry, blessed, sad but it’s okay like what Renae said we are not a robot so it’s natural to feel the emotions and whenever it feels wrong, I hope you know that you are loved, always.❤️

  • @otakukat8245
    @otakukat8245 Před 3 lety +58

    the number of times i cried while watching this video just because i relate to so many of these is substantial, especially when i imagine what my own answers to these questions would be and think to myself like wow what have i become :V

  • @IanJomarAlabado
    @IanJomarAlabado Před 3 lety +5

    I just want to thank TSL for this video. It's makes me cry and I have many self realizations after watching this video. This video make me cry also because some of their answers are relatable to my current situation of having a mental breakdown this past few months up until now. Rooting for more of this. 💙🇵🇭

  • @ElijahKai
    @ElijahKai Před 3 lety +15

    Love this game! Thank you all for sharing a precious piece of your personal lives to your viewers! It’s not easy to be vulnerable to the public eye. Hope each of you will continue to stay strong on your paths! 🙏🏼

  • @javellelim5618
    @javellelim5618 Před 3 lety +5

    I cried at zhins part because it was something that I could really relate to and is a something many people experience

  • @yicheng.t
    @yicheng.t Před 3 lety +29

    ngl best video so far, thanks for making such videos

  • @aidualc420
    @aidualc420 Před 3 lety +10

    I swear crying is so contagious ;;

  • @ad3ylicious
    @ad3ylicious Před 3 lety +1

    Love the context of this video!! U guys should make more of such videos!!! LOVE YALL!!

  • @joylee007
    @joylee007 Před 3 lety +1

    Big hugs to all! You guys are so courageous to do this. Your video touched me and I’m sure a lot of others too. You guys are so loved and are so precious.

  • @judyc294
    @judyc294 Před 3 lety +2

    really respect the honesty and maturity of the participants
    I'm sure you've all helped a lot of other youngsters, well done!

  • @christinegui7781
    @christinegui7781 Před 3 lety +3

    Don't think this is a game that i wanna play coz WHOS CUTTING ONIONSSSSS😭😭😭 Anywayyyy thank you for being so so real and daring to open up about your life!❤❤ Most of the time they do try their very best to show and give us the happiest side of them on camera but in reality most of them have their own struggles to deal with too. Thank you again for making us feel like we are not the only one struggling!❤

  • @cheonsanim7
    @cheonsanim7 Před 3 lety +5

    Thank you for your stories, your vulnerabilities, strength and never-ending good content

  • @rachelwee5348
    @rachelwee5348 Před 3 lety +2

    All I can really say from the bottom of my heart is ❤️Thank You TSL for the many videos you have done. For always staying true and real with us, and providing creative yet important content. I'm really just so happy knowing that mental health awareness is being advocated. :) #mentalhealthawarenessmonth

  • @narutofreak95
    @narutofreak95 Před 3 lety +3

    Thank you guys for sharing such vulnerable thoughts and feelings. Thank you for encouraging openness and sharing, which is something so so difficult but so important for the improvement of our mental health. ❤️

  • @sashamericia
    @sashamericia Před 3 lety +1

    I really really love this game so much :”))) and seeing them play this and being so open and vulnerable is so touching ❤️ Everything will get better , you all are so so strong 💪🏻

  • @junkeefe6074
    @junkeefe6074 Před 3 lety +2

    This is crazy! Thks for showing what true peer support & friendship means!

  • @oriefa
    @oriefa Před 3 lety

    This is really good. These kinda sharing sessions, for a person to cry, it goes to show how vulnerably sincere they are. Too many a times I wished for such sharing sessions with people I thought are close with me, but in fact I am wrong. Crying is not for the weak. Period.

  • @mkz3616
    @mkz3616 Před 3 lety +1

    BIG HUGS to everyone who shared so sincerely!

  • @lilskittledpikachu5534
    @lilskittledpikachu5534 Před 3 lety +3

    i love all of them

  • @anyacool3755
    @anyacool3755 Před 3 lety +16

    This episode was wholesome !!! *virtual big hug to everyone*

  • @pearlinewong4842
    @pearlinewong4842 Před 3 lety +3

    this is such an emotional ep omggg

  • @katharinesoh9482
    @katharinesoh9482 Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you for sharing this, TSL. I want to send big hugs to all of you! ❤️

  • @privmxlan1971
    @privmxlan1971 Před 3 lety +13

    this is so wholesome🥺

  • @faria6258
    @faria6258 Před 3 lety +2

    i loved this!! pls do more of such content in the future

  • @twilight9113
    @twilight9113 Před 3 lety +1

    I hate it when I’m listening to such beautiful words and stories and the ads just have to appear!! Like someone had just actl interrupted you abruptly, ugh! Ahhh this video is beautiful!! 😍

  • @gideondoron
    @gideondoron Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you for this, TSL.

  • @feeyonarhh
    @feeyonarhh Před 3 lety +1

    Love love this episode

  • @beatricemakenci
    @beatricemakenci Před 3 lety +1

    the episode make me cry!! stay strong 💪💪

  • @notmarilynyap
    @notmarilynyap Před 3 lety +1

    i love this video so much aw my heart!! ❤️

  • @jaydencheng3719
    @jaydencheng3719 Před 3 lety +2

    most wholesome episode ever

  • @aidualc420
    @aidualc420 Před 3 lety +3

    So much feelings...what a wholesome video :')

  • @pinkpuma9799
    @pinkpuma9799 Před 3 lety +1

    thank you for sharing this with us ❤️ all of you are loved

  • @euempire4768
    @euempire4768 Před 3 lety +13

    Ouh wow didn't expect TSL would play this game ,as I only play this game with my partner for date night 👍🏻

  • @renaawq8742
    @renaawq8742 Před 2 lety

    Hello! I'm pretty late to this video but I fully agree with Renae at 12:56 ,, accessing and acknowledging deep emotions and experiences are not weak, but in fact very strong and brave. Thank you to all who've shared in this video, stay safe, stay strong. Much love 🙆🏻‍♀️❤

  • @Shuyi08
    @Shuyi08 Před 3 lety +1

    I cried when I watching half way thru 😩😢

  • @jadeloh4104
    @jadeloh4104 Před 3 lety +3

    So wholesome. I cannot 😭

  • @sersim608
    @sersim608 Před 3 lety +2

    Thank you for your courage and setting the scene that it’s ok to talk about mental health with others.

  • @olivialoh4815
    @olivialoh4815 Před 3 lety +4

    I really like this kind of videos for some reasons and also flfc

  • @renonathan4816
    @renonathan4816 Před 3 lety +1

    I wish I could give all of them a big hug

  • @cwxgamingchannel8661
    @cwxgamingchannel8661 Před rokem

    I believe we have to cherish Life in every moment even is good or bad. I grow up having seizure and my parents also divorced. And I am always blamed for everything because my siblings are always better than me.. thanks for this video.

  • @v.ctoriabernard
    @v.ctoriabernard Před rokem

    im literally bawling my eyes out 😭

  • @chloelimsy
    @chloelimsy Před 3 lety +2

    Thankyou for this, really appreciate it. A lot. :'))

  • @fizi2349
    @fizi2349 Před 3 lety +1

    Do more of this !!! 😢

  • @jaredjoshuaa
    @jaredjoshuaa Před 3 lety +14

    sending virtual hugs uwu 😢

  • @flwr.claire
    @flwr.claire Před 3 lety +7

    Hey hey. Everythings gonna be alright, everythings gonna be just fine. May I know where we can get this game im pretty interested in playing it with friends!

  • @haokai1872
    @haokai1872 Před 3 lety +2

    We need a part 2

  • @maddiefletcher5905
    @maddiefletcher5905 Před 3 lety +33

    ive tried it with a few of my friends (the online version), somehow it just never goes so deep, i reveal my honest feelings about what i feel towards them but when it comes to hearing it back, i don’t.

    • @Charlotte-xk5vt
      @Charlotte-xk5vt Před 3 lety +1

      aiyo.

    • @soapy2587
      @soapy2587 Před 3 lety +3

      Play with someone who is willing to be truly vulnerable with you.

  • @gita4942
    @gita4942 Před 3 lety +1

    Brenda I feel you :” my mom divorced twice actually and it really affects how i see a relationship. I hope we can heal from this soon....

  • @nuriinsyirah
    @nuriinsyirah Před 3 lety

    Love this x

  • @faithkwhy
    @faithkwhy Před 3 lety +1

    so good.

  • @cashlowe3348
    @cashlowe3348 Před 3 lety +5

    Bruh i wanna just give them a hug n be like its ok it'll get better :)

  • @doralto
    @doralto Před 3 lety +2

    Brenda so nice, so innocent, that pain is real. Divorce is not good.

  • @nk9501
    @nk9501 Před 3 lety +1

    crying w brenda rn......

  • @leechong2291
    @leechong2291 Před 3 lety +11

    New 🚢, Reda or Brenae?! 😍 new besties 👩‍❤️‍👩, we ❤️ u both 🤗

  • @mentoscaricature164
    @mentoscaricature164 Před 3 lety +1

    same as chow, feeling bz and overwhelmed

  • @ayukimitzuki7384
    @ayukimitzuki7384 Před 2 lety

    Renae will be a good listener 👍

  • @agentkb2
    @agentkb2 Před 3 lety +2

    In the end, we are all humans.

  • @Yeorena
    @Yeorena Před 3 lety +4

    this hit me hard

  • @samchan45
    @samchan45 Před 3 lety

    Music very This Is Us OST vibe... :") tear jerking

  • @aaronfoo1018
    @aaronfoo1018 Před 3 lety +2

    To those that trashed Chow in the fasting video, checkmate.

  • @atiqahalim4382
    @atiqahalim4382 Před 3 lety

    Brenda got me 🥺😭🥺😭

  • @joannethong2323
    @joannethong2323 Před 3 lety

    where can I get the card game?

  • @skytan9526
    @skytan9526 Před 3 lety

    The main struggle is voting out the struggle

  • @aforapple3678
    @aforapple3678 Před 3 lety

    This kind of video once finish watching cannot immediatly click on another video. Need a moment of silence to collect your thoughts. Seriously...

  • @jieying2541
    @jieying2541 Před 2 lety

    It’s ok to be lost I am always feeling lost and hope I can hide myself from the world to take calm my inner peace…

  • @lynmansor9286
    @lynmansor9286 Před 3 lety +2

    12:21 is the emo part..

  • @feliciachin2301
    @feliciachin2301 Před 3 lety +2

    I really relate to zhin because that's me now I dun understand why I'm living and I feel so detached from my body I just wished I did not exist I wished a diff sperm entered the cell and it's so mentally exhausting because I know I gave up on myself a very long time ago

  • @chantel47
    @chantel47 Před 3 lety +3

    Eh wah I watched 4 minutes after it upload and I didn’t even know sia?????🤡🤡

  • @midnightturbofoxy1960
    @midnightturbofoxy1960 Před 3 lety +4

    I'm epileptic and nobody would understand me other than my family mere strangers wouldn't know my backstory before they comment 👿

  • @sanjay8854
    @sanjay8854 Před 2 lety

    I felt for brenda :(((

  • @myfamilyismyworld4166
    @myfamilyismyworld4166 Před 3 lety +1

    Idek if im first

  • @dharshaansegaran5545
    @dharshaansegaran5545 Před 3 lety

    15:07 hit me real hard. exactly what im going through

  • @sideprojectssaturday7637
    @sideprojectssaturday7637 Před 3 lety +1

    Before going to bed, think about what is one good thing that happened to you today? Great hack to apply everyday to be grateful of life

  • @kentakicheeken4471
    @kentakicheeken4471 Před 3 lety

    Some of you in the comments bashed Chow for the fasting challenge then suddenly comment nice things here? HM... 🤔

  • @user-bh1oh3ww2u
    @user-bh1oh3ww2u Před 3 lety

    😭😭😭

  • @kaerlanvinodkamalanathan7393

    second

  • @shahana5024
    @shahana5024 Před 3 lety +1

    4th comment

  • @MsDarkEra100
    @MsDarkEra100 Před 3 lety

    to everyone:
    how are YOU really?

  • @28-3
    @28-3 Před 2 lety

    They don’t have a clue what pain is

  • @astrolight5000
    @astrolight5000 Před 3 lety

    Ugh. I see who I used to be in all their stories. But God has changed me. God is real. I don’t know what you think about faith and God, but truly truly, God has shown Himself to be real to me. He has transformed me and given me the peace and joy I had been seeking from the world all this while. “For we ourselves were once foolish, disobedient, led astray, slaves to various passions and pleasures, passing our days in malice and envy, hated by others and hating one another. He saved us, not because of works done by us in righteousness, but according to his own mercy, by the washing of regeneration and renewal of the Holy Spirit” Titus‬ ‭3:3-5

  • @joeylim261
    @joeylim261 Před 3 lety

    😭😭😭