Is it okay for your PARTNER to have SECRETS? 😲 | Hush Podcast

Don’t we all dream of a fairytale ending with our partner? For some of you, that reality may very well be true. Perhaps things are going really well with your S.O, there have been no fights, no arguments, just smooth sailing through…almost like it’s too good to be true. But sooner or later, you get hit with something along the way. Maybe you find out something unexpected about them… a shocking truth? A bad habit? A scandalous history? The rose-tinted glasses come off, and all of a sudden they don’t look so perfect anymore, dare I say they almost look -HUMAN?
Now the question in mind is, should I stay or should I gtfo?!?
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0:00 Intro - Do you dream of a fairytale ending with your partner?
5:30 Things you would only reveal later in your relationship
7:43 'Secrets' that would be a deal breaker
11:08 Surprising, unexpected secrets people find about their partner
16:10 Questionable things people find out their partner
18:17 Shocking stories: Cheating and lying
24:05 When these findings should be your sign to let go
27:43 Outro
Featuring:
Hazelle - / heyhihazelle
Germaine - / germaineleonora
Azura - / azuragoh
About Hush Podcast:
At Hush, hosts & Radio DJs Germaine Tan, ‪@HazelleTeo‬ and Azura Goh, discuss relationships, health and wellness topics that may be taboo or just plain paiseh to talk about.
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[@eseetoh]

So who's the singer? 😅

[@Vovo-xf9sj]

I have dated a narcissist before… better run before you get married to them. There are signs and red flags so pls don’t ignore your intuition!!

[@theaudacity_0]

What kind of signs and red flags to tell?

[@Vovo-xf9sj]

@@theaudacity_0they will make it seem like ur fault. Or question your self esteem. End up you will feel depressed, that’s because they are manipulating you.

[@Ben-kh2rh]

Eg of red flag?

[@dchew5552]

I used to have two chou chou but my mom threw away my elder sis' as it smells. which she took one of mine and it became a cloth, so she took the last chouchou I have. sadly I didnt have a chouchou in my teenage years and adulthood. just earlier this year, my mom concluded that whatever I have my sis would insist it would be hers. I realised it was so true because I've bought countless water bottles in the recent years because sis would just use mine when hers wasn't washed. to make her learn her lesson as I bought new bottle twice just because she use it, I insisted her to pay for it else it would be a vicious cycle.

[@r.chiwon1708]

In Korea, dating is 3 times faster, within 3 dates you gotta decide whether you are a couple or not

[@sleepy_dobe]

Wow.....separated wife is nowhere to be found.....is....tricky for the future. How are they going to get married since he can't be legally divorced? If you can't find the ex-wife, how can you get her to sign any divorce papers, and since SG law don't allow bigamy/polygamy, how can he marry her eventually? Even for SG Muslims, before they can take another wife under Islamic law, their current wife/wives must agree, and if she can't be found, how to get approval? Hmm....

[@lala-rj5di]

Even if he is seperated frm his wife. He is still not divorced. Things r not clean n u should not be involved for too long. Mayb he might have lied that his wife is u reachable. I dont believe tat. Unless either one of them is rich. Or his wife ran away frm him for some reason. 4 yrs is too long. If he us serious w u, at least after 2 yrs it should have been mentioned as a responsible man.
If he has no sense of responsibility, u never know he might just run if there comes a accidental baby. He could hide this key matter he could hide more. Maybe his wife is just treating him being away frm home to earn for the family. She do not think they r on bad terms. He coyld have been just wanting to have some fun feeling like a free man away frm wife. Keeping his opts and someone in the country he is close w. 4 yrs is way too long. At a 3 yrs mark it's enough to raise for a divorce even if its one sided being willing. He needs to do it bef he should be involved w any other lady. Be mindful. Ur youth & time cant be earn back.