Watch This When You Feel Lost and Alone - Jordan Peterson
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The only thing necessary for evil to succeed is for good men and women to idly sit by and do nothing.
The answer is obvious. The ppl would rather live in fear. Stop fearing them and you've already won half the battle. Fear is their greatest weapon. Turn their greatest weapon against them.
what's the bigger video you took this clip from?
He îs Full of IT! 2 negatives în One sentence! And u have The nerve to call me crazy
Oke...im 65 but i believe
Reich he said you create
You go home and feel
... Good...remember
Wilhelm Reich once a.
Enemy for the rich
Rip 1957 usa Gail
Orgon. Rainmaking.
And more we are ripped
By superrich then and
Now... Wake up sisters and
Brothers
I would love for that to unfold along with positive changes.
Oh crap. He's talking to me. I'm taking this advice right now.
Same here wow
Scrolling youtube shorts trying not to think about this fact and then he called me out and now i feel like i gotta get my shit together
Same here, dealing with cancer again, and I need some passionate thing to look forward to.
Yeah I’m truely lost in life. My brain feels like it’s covered with something so I kinda want to give up but at the same time I told myself that I wasn’t going to. Im stuck in the middle
Same
"All you do is get older, weaker and withdraw more...." Damn that hit hard.
I so agree... right to the bulls eye.
And legitemly
@Devil's Logic Yes, and as you said rightfully our very inner biological nature is nothing to vilipend about, it's just the natural order of things, but some humans also experienced death while actually being alive, symbolically or metaphysically, and still didn't die in reality, so many things about this are still vulnerable to interpretations
Lmao löser
Doing nothing is better than doing something bad
I’m 75. I never get bored. I feel that as long as a person is alive we have purpose. It doesn’t have to be a big thing. It can be giving a friend a ride to the doctor
Bless you. 🖤🖤🖤
You're 75 scrolling on CZcams shorts😂? Im not sure why but I deeply respect that
Yes I must GET GOING BECAUSE I GET TO LOVE HER, once I'm married to my wife I loved her before I met her and loved her after I met her! I suppose you never get bored because mabey you don't watch TV as much or CZcams binging crazy kooky stupid goofy videos that bring no meaningful substance , that is why I follow Jesus Christ and he sure does bring me a less boring life Amen!
Exactly. JP is barking up the wrong tree!
I make excuses not to do stuff. It's time to change that. Thank you for the reminder, Dr. Peterson!
Greetings from Bassam Riyad hello how are you doing
Try it
Hello beautiful 😻
This gentleman does not deserve the hate coming to him.
@Black King yes he is smart, yes he has principles. it's obvious. but why would you relate his speech to politics?
@@rusu959maybe because anyone who wants to help humanity, especially lately, gets jumped by the political left ???
@@elsajones6325 yeah, makes sense
@Bebe yes, fossil fuels that feed the planet and prevent people worldwide from starving and freezing.
Yes. Anyone bringing light to a dark world will be attacked by those in darkness who love darkness. We ignore them until they crawl back down into their holes in the ground.
His line 'hope comes from pursuit' is a mantra to live by. Nice one Jordan!
I thought I was the only one that felt that 👏
Like a dog chasing its own tail. Living in the light of hope is living in a limited way. True freedom does not require that you not be still so as not to feel anxious. True freedom comes from considering and accepting the potential fatality, which is different from fatalism. The possibility of the fatality comes after hope, it is said that hope is the last to die, not for us to hold on to it, but so that we know what is the last thing that should die. Hope must always die. What he is saying leads us to live a compulsive and blind perverse life, distorted by fear. Don't rush. You don't know what you want.
Holy shit it really is!!
I love it too! Brilliant man! He truly is a gem! His wife seems like an absolute angel too!
He's is so on point with his advice . I love to listen to Jordan
Greetings from Bassam Riyad hello how are you doing
Gotta do more than just listen. Take on his advice and try apply it to your life
@@FantySheenythe MAN speaks mostly for other men not for women
Life doesn't end when you die; it ends when you give up. I read that some where and it's true. What Dr. Peterson says about getting older and weaker and withdrawing just takes away from your quality of life.
His advice is so exact and based on knowledge.
greetings from Bassam Riyad hello how are you doing
Going by this theory I've been dead for the past decade
Free psychological advice to thousands That's very generously kindhearted of him. Thanks and God bless you Dr. Peterson
Yes he seems a loving human being.
He is a fraud.
@@Bone89 _"Genuine"?_ If he makes 10 millions a year, there's very little to no genuity in this cunning man.
@@Bone89 money is nothing in the face of good. He deserves all the money in the world. He is a genuine and a kind man, helping millions of people.
@@Bone89 why would it matter that he makes money?
Im a 21 yo woman, and very introverted, and this convinced me to go out more, and meet people, because it made me understand that my youth is going away, and soon, it will be a lot harder to make friends.
Update, I got a boyfriend, serious and it’s been going on for a few months and I have a few new friends. Going out more, at cafes, or at the gym, made things a lot easier. For those who feel alone, it’s possible, don’t give up.
Better explore spirituality first, than making friends.
Read J.krishnamurti
Great idea, in nature we humans are social people, even are immune system needs contact with others.
We are like a table of four legs, we need the social, as well as the intellectual, the physical, the spiritual, etc...
Great 😊
Wow… so glad you’re putting yourself out there . I bet you’re a lot more awesome than you think you are!!!
actually I made great friends in my 30s. so don't worry it will get harder; but regardless of age, it is good to be in connection with people and have the mindset for it. so good mindset to go out and do more!
Go Jordan, once again! My grandmother used to tell me if you don’t know what to do about something, do nothing and the answer will eventually come to you. Worst bullshit advice I ever got. It held me back from my life just like Jordan is saying here. There’s always a path to go down, even if it isn’t exactly what you want at the time, take action. That’s when answers will come. Nothing is going to help you if you’re not helping yourself. He is right on. 😊❤
greetings from Bassam Riyad hello how are you doing
@@BassamRiyad367 Hello.
@@sarahjmount9221 how are you doing my name is Bassam Riyad I'm from Dubai united Arab Emirates what about you where are you from?
@@sarahjmount9221I'm from Dubai united Arab Emirates what about you where are you from?
True True True I'm in that place right now
I swear without him i'll be really lost in my life. He's like our little angel over the shoulder.
...big 😇
Guillaume, you are capable of more than you realize. Keep moving forward with integrity. Every little improvement matters. I believe in you.
@@stephencaramenico8698 and you, Stephen, I believe in you. We share the same name btw.
@@stephencaramenico8698 that is so sweet of you. I'll do my best. I wish you the best too I hope everything is fine on your side
💯❤️
This guy right here is a gift from God. I believe this.
He has a lot of wisdom which probably could help you, but be cautious.
This intellect is good but it's not what gives you entry into heaven.
It's by a renews heart through the grace of God
Test all things and keep the good (in christ)
@rawix Hope comes from Godly pursuit.
He is a scamer.
Hello...
Yes he is 💯
Just share the full lecture. For godsake 🙏
Excellent advice!!
I love Jordan Peterson
Me too. Like genuinely love the soul this man displays so openly.
Amen to that. I don't know HOW I love someone this much that I've never met...
I love him more
It's truly incredible that so many people hate this incredible man, one of only a few heroes I've ever known.
Me too ❤
I'm a widow... i realized this, this year. I'm learning, going to pursue various hobbies. I won't marry again but I am composing my life without my beloved. He's right. I would die of grief and loneliness if I just sat down and did nothing.
I hope you'll find enjoyment in your new hobbies. Wishing you the very best!!!
Sorry for your loss. My wife's mother died 10 years ago now, and her father recently met somebody he fell for. We're all delighted he's happy again. She'll never, nor would she be supposed to, or want to replace his wife. It's nice he still has a place in his life to be happy with someone though! And I hope you find the same on your journey, however it manifests..🙏❤
I'm the other side of your coin. My wife died 23 months ago. I've been just coasting... going nowhere and doing almost nothing.
Can't die can't live.why keep mum. Celebrate with good partner and sacrifice life to the needy. Finding own ways of creativity.🎉 Nothing wrong
This touched me. I hope your doing well and have taken up the said hobbies 😊xx
This Man is genius
"Don't do nothing. Give 'em hell!" - JP
This is striking a chord because I procrastinate like hell but if I do some physical exercise it shakes me out of it
Me too. Plus, I have the added struggle of living with severe Rheumatoid Arthritis for the last 17 years. Motivating yourself when you are always in pain and fatigued is no easy task. Although I'm older than Dr. Peterson's target audience of younger people, he still has lots of good guidance for all of us, regardless of age. God Bless Dr. Peterson, especially as he endures vile persecution from his so-called "Peers".
@@CherubChick1221 If you are in serious physical pain then you are doing too much, it should make you feel better
Same. I become more productive after exercise
“Hopes comes from pursuit.” I like that
Before this i would advise to first recover from depression or mental torture from whatever failure uve been to be in the state of "doing nothing"
Thsnk you! I needed to hear this! Just went through a devastating loss and sunk into depression despair. Time to get up and climb over this mountain! Thank you!
Get up woman and grab your panties! And bras! You're gonna need the lord
Felt like Peterson spoke right to me through the screen. Damn... I need to get up
SOOOO...what are ya doing?
Me to!
Ckean the room!!!
Well Said. I used to be stuck in place. Partly due to severe depression etc. But ive decided that i Will pursue life to help those who might be stuck in the same dark place. Its what kept going & pushing onward. That and a feeling that something good Will happen if i just continue to turn the page day by day and keep on pushing forward even if i feel quite fearfull sometimes. For now the goal is to be able to get out into the working life properly & get some stability in my life. & more friends along the road but i guess we Will see what the world has in store for me. But by the time i go i hope ive atleast Done something good for those who is stuck in the same place. And for those who are There now. Keep going even if its painfull & hard. Things might be bad now but one day things Will light up. And remember that so long you still draw breath & is Alive you can still set things right in your life and turn it to the better. So long as you still live you still hold the power to change your life for the better. You may not feel like you have the strength for it but you do. You just gotta find it
I understand. Thank you for your support. I loved your comment and it resonated with me. I will push forward through my depression. Sometimes, I get a small window of relief. It is at this time I should pursue deep hope and continue to push through it no matter what.
@@succumbtosucculents8545 yupp. If you like rock music of different types i suggest you check out citizen soldier on youtube if you havent already. Some songs are depressing & other encouraging but the singer have gone through the same shit i have & if i understand it correctly you have to.
@@succumbtosucculents8545 as for you. You should push onward. Only way out is through but if you just push one day at the time you Will get through it faster then you think. I would also suggest you put smaller daily goals for yourself. Just something to achive cause it Will give you a little extra boost plus something else to focus on for abit. Also a good idea to clean your room. Regardless if you live at home or alone. Might seem pointless but it does actually help. Primarily to think more clearly. Which makes it easier to sort out the dark shit in your head plus is also abit of a distraction. Just a few tips that helped me. But keep your chin up regardless. You have pushed this far undefeated so no sense in quitting now & letting it drag you down. You deserve better then that.
His words are addictive 👌🏻🩵
Greetings from Bassam Riyad hello how are you doing
Hi. . . I say that you are 1 in a billion, Mr. Peterson. God bless you and all of your loved ones, today, tomorrow, and always. Blessings
This might be one of the most important things I've ever heard on the internet
JP has a few GEMS alright! 😉
Wow! Your right! I know it is for me!!😅😅😅😅😅
I’m thinking the same thing
A thousand times YES ❤ HAHAHA 😆
I am a very anxious and pessimistic person, after Graduation i was SOOOO afraid of getting a job ☹️ because i can't stand being rejected (i have been rejected many times in my life in different circumstances and i developed a Trauma).
So... I just stayed stagnant... Doing the same things every single day...for the next 2 years (at least i know that the things i'm doing everyday won't hurt me). Then i realized that i was doing more harm than good to myself ☹️.
I'm getting older and still jobless, I was becoming more sad and more miserable because i protected myself from the things that would help me grow, i also prevented myself from gaining experience 😔.
I guess the saying *'RISKING IS BETTER THAN REGRETTING'* is true 😔.
I feel you!
I recently graduated (December) with bs in bio and I was planning for med school then I figured i don't find myself there, and wanted to do engineering instead LOl that came literally a semester before graduation 😂 but it's okkk..
So when I graduated everyone was saying that this degree is hopeless (bio) and I was sooo afraid of not finding something better than my current job and was also afraid of getting rejected, :(
And unfortunately I can't do anything w engineering atm cause I don't have the degree, so I was feeling very hopeless.
Currently, I decided to enroll for post bacc and take the pre req in engineering for masters and meanwhile I switched to full timer at my current job( been there for over 2years) and trying to use my free time to learn all the skills needed for engineering
God got a plan, and all I got is to be patient
Best of luck for you:)
Give it some time and do be afraid of change !!!
@@sallyart00 Thanks for the encouraging words man 😊👍. I'm currently trying to fix my life now, been applying for a job as an English Tutor 👍 am really hoping i get hired ❤️
I can relate on similar levels. Let's do a little more today than we did yesterday and then cheer ourselves and each other on.
Comparisons do not inspire. Dreams we take some action on inspire us.
Let's take some action!
We deserve to grow even though, speaking for myself, I have hid away for decades, afraid I would make another mistake.
So true, im 60's, divorced 15 yrs ago, isolated alone, withdraw more, boy does he hit the nail on the head! Need a job afraid of rejection, not "qualified" for a lot, ugh, why cant I find , hear the rest of this conversation from him?
Three things: a crap job is a catalyst for a good job. Go serve coffee or drive Lyft, etc. it will show you that you can succeed and help you socialize. Anxiety is a primitive response to not having a “tribe” or social circle to keep you safe. Plus crap jobs are easy to get right now. Also, anxiety is often what happens to a brain too exposed to comfort. Look at the comfortable things or dopamine inducing things you do and start cutting them out little by little. Less sugar, caffeine, alcohol, sex, nicotine, etc. now, go get a six pack. Do the P90X ab routine. The effect it produces on your brain is shocking. It is the single most pain inducing exercise routine I’ve experienced. After you complete it, the pain induces a “runner’s high” like I’ve never felt before. If you do it in it’s entirety, you will literally feel like you just took drugs. No kidding. Plus, It rewires anxiety out of your neurology. Your brain must become more sensitive to dopamine to overcome the pain, which drastically reduces anxiety. Finally, stop saying negative things in your head. If you do that, your subconscious will think you’re going to die. Anxiety is the result.
Thank you Sir for this advice I'll take it to my heart and keep it there
I like how you said that. I've never heard it that way before. I've heard I'll take it to heart, but I've never heard anyone say "and keep it there." That's cool.
GOD protect this man
greetings from Bassam Riyad hello how are you doing
May the grace of Jesus be with you Jordan, and thank you for your advice
🙄
This hit hard. Damn this dude is full of wisdom
He is a fraud.
Very true. Also, it's the best thing to do if you/I/we don't know what to do: PRAY. PRAY. PRAY. Lord will come, enlighten you during and through prayer. Eventually you/ I know what to do. God bless you 🙏 ❤️
I rather die believing what I want to do than force to be with someone just because I thought I was lonely.
So true!!! Force yourself / challenge yourself every day (or at least every other day) to get out and interact and learn something or meet someone, especially when you're older.
Yes. I believe that this is true. Find something to prioritize and focus on "doing something" having a tiny success really changes your focus
Greetings from Bassam Riyad hello how are you doing
This Man literally Describes my Life... I feel like he is talking to me directly... Thank you for the Inspiration Jordan Peterson. ❤
You just inspired me with words 🎉
He’s absolutely right I have done nothing to last 19 years. I’ve had no path and it’s almost been unlivable. The only thing that kept me going trying to get to the root cause of the trauma that was my childhood
🤗🤗🤗
Are you 19?
I honestly can relate. I pray, I Trust in God, HE had brought me through some of the most painful and roughest times…. Trust in God! HE Will Help You. ❤
Wel that's surviving so thats doing something. If I were you I would start selling things online.😊
Liana. Talking and listening is a great therapy, helping many to reach a stage to recognise, what they like to Pursue and keep going and leading a beneficial life for self and community. ❤
Hope comes from pursuit! This nails it for me.
Agree 100% Dr. I’m 70 n I’m gonna get a Motorcycle for myself while still working part time cuz I want to ✅ cruise around and pursue😉
Bravo to you, After I allow myself time to grieve my husband and family and traumas and such so many of us, have, I would like to try Hand gliding!
I definitely needed this message😂My whole life had been busy until I retired. Our bodies were made to stay active. I’m definitely going to get on the move 💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽
Thank You Dr Peterson for your wisdom I can't tell you how much you've you've helped me God bless you good Sir
Having a Partner gives you reason to take care of yourself to be a good Partner
Exactly!!
Having a horrible partner gives you a reason to die earlier.
Exactly it motivates you to not be a degenerate cuz you’re like well shit now I need to make sure I’m in good shape to take care of this person. Or something like that. It holds you accountable
If it's a loving and caring partner YES
Hmm. I must admit I've never heard it quite like that before.
Hope is the first step in the road to disappointment
I’m 34 and each time I watch this man he raises me like the father I never had. Immense immense immense respect for Dr. Jordan Peterson he is literally sent by God to tell people to “get up and be useful”.
Hello beautiful ❤
@@KilvenLee don’t be cringe move on
@@MariahRuthven: how are you doing
@@MariahRuthven marry Christmas to you
Jordan Peterson is a worldwide Treasure
Thank you for helping to save my life. My son is counting on me. Thank you for being a champion for men.
You are such a blessing!
Losing so many things and facing challenges especially after Covid which isolated so many of us your words are gold!!
Thank you I pray you continue helping us who can’t afford a therapist and having you a spiritual one is such a blessing.
I love this man. These words spoke to me. He is a gift to all of us.
“All you do is you get older and weaker and you withdraw…” an unbelievably necessary statement for so many of us right now. Thank you Dr. Peterson ❤
and eventually you die
Each day, I thank God more and more for putting Jordan Peterson on this green earth...
Protect this man at all costs
Oh man! That's exactly what I've been doing. I saw my husband die in front of my eyes on our kitchen floor. It was his birthday and we had no idea that was his last day on Earth. Thank God I did not feel bitter. He had been a gift from God to begin with. I spent the first year just trying to stay alive. Then, I moved onto trying to not become homeless. I successfully kept depression away for a couple of years. I'm pursuing nothing and even worse, I'm living in the past in my memories. Becoming a widow at 55 years old almost broke me. God is my refuge and he never left me for a second. I know this because, I'm still alive. God bless you, Mr. Peterson.🩵
Greetings from Bassam Riyad hello how are you doing
This is 100% true, for the past 10 years I’ve been a landscaper, running my own business, during the winter I had at least 8 storms, even if small and it was enough to keep me moving…..getting prepared …. Maintenance, actually doing the storm …… billing, and in between I would take on small jobs. This last winter had ONE TWO inch snow storm…… I laid around very depressed… Met a girl who was very lazy, and laid in bed all the time, and I was right there with her, now come spring my body is failing… I’m in a massive state of depression and I’m stuck. Thank you Jordan Peterson.
I hear you, man. I've dated a lazy person in the past. She got me back into the addiction of watching tv. It took years to get back out of it after we broke up.
You can’t blame others for this action
You’ve blamed somebody for what you didn’t do. You could have done some of both
I don’t think it has to necessarily be a “blame” though I feel it is fine and constructive to acknowledge what parts of your life have influenced you in positive in negative ways, as long as you are able to remove the negative influence or bring them into your positivity if they are willing.
Yes you cant blame others for your own choices but you become like the five pple you spend the most time with. Thankfully, he realized this and made changes. God bless you brother abd best wisges to you. You'll get back to being yourself❤
Feeling desperate right now, worst feeling since it appears to have no infinite horizons, I needed this, what he said about predestination and partner choice is also amazing
Do mindfulness daily…look into the mirror and say to yourself…I love myself everyday…will help you feel better each day…I have been alcoholic for 30 years, including PTSD, Depression…now I am sober for over 13 months…I am going back to school for Electrical Engineering/Math degrees…Life is so beautiful without drinking…I help others to overcome depression and alcoholic/drugs…do the best you can…do not give up…keep looking forward…one step at a time…one day at a time…let’s all your past go…Good luck
@@kevinng1702one time i did exactly what you said, and i felt better and more confident in my self and good,
But after a while i forgot to say it
And after that i felt more and more weak in my head
So i told my self some bad things, like im nothing, and that even God forgot about me, im mostly alone so it was everyday that i told that about my self
And right now im still in this phase of my life but i feel its going to end and become better
Im doing exactly what he is saying in this vidéo,
I just started to working out whitout even wanting it in first place, but i had nothing els to do so i juste did something, and i feel that i like it
But its weird that i started something els then i see this vidéo maybe its à signe for me to not stop and keep going
@@user-bq2nj8yb4e Yes, do you to do it daily…spend time alone with yourself…self-care, self-love and consistent self-discipline is the key…it is a long journey…remember you only live once…do the best for yourself…don’t worry about others…not being selfish…but you have to do what is good for you…There is no path to happiness…happiness is the path…don’t give up…Good luck
People may not always agree with JP, but you can't argue that some of the things he says actually make a lot of sense!
Integrity. JP is an avatar of integrity.
Wow, he is right. It’s like he is looking at me and describing me. I’m so stuck and depressed
Your not alone Shelly ..you've got to be your own best friend. Take care of yourself like you would someone you love very much.i hope and pray that you find your way into the light .love and respect to you my dear girl. 🙏🌞👍😎
Best do a checklist of your life pros and cons and start changing one con at a time.
So what are you going to do about it? (this isn't meant to sound rude, but genuinely ask yourself that question using the great JP's advice about 'just do something). Take tiny steps in the beginning, before you know it you'll be running. Sending love your way ❤❤
@Shelly Cooper *prods you with a stick* do something
Loving yourself first is the only way in finding the intimate partner who will love and respect you the way you deserve.
very timely advice. I grow stuff. grow plants. I am obsessed with growth and it used to hamper my relations with people as that relates to my relationship aspects in life. growing soil and trees really relieves stuff
greetings from Bassam Riyad hello how are you doing
My friend needs to hear this.
We all need a purpose in our life.
A path
It doesn't have to be the slavery of marriage.
I can't think of anyone who literally does "nothing" lol. Even those on the streets. But we know how life is. You gotta do "enough". And in this world 🌎 if you don't do "enough", you're doing nothing.
@@asadhafeez7713 Pederson is a fascist
Our purpose is to love God and people. That is why I love this man. God bless and love to all.
To anyone who needs this, you got this ! you're valued and important, don't loose faith in yourself, get up and do something!
I’m going for a run
Who is this message for, really??... hmmm
@@JDubetafools who believe it
@@JDubeta
Me
@@johnbagewll2321 Me too!!☝🏻👋🏻
He is so right do something life time never comes back DO SOMETHING DO NOT WASTE YOUR LIFE ❤️❤️❤️
Nothing is better than having this told to your face, even if it’s something seemingly obvious or you’d figure it out after thinking a bit, but Dr. Peterson organizing it so specifically, clearly and sincerely also gives the encouragement that it’s really possible
Watching Jordan Peterson on repeat is doing Nothing. Don't get confused stop drifting and learn a skill and commit to it.
I've finally started to do something with my life and I can say I'm almost happy. I'm almost financially free and mentally it's doing wonders. Now to free myself of all the other drama would be bliss..I worked hard to get where I'm at and it paid off
Yes, I feel like he's talking to me too. I'm listening. I am so grateful for his videos.
Legend in the truest sense of the word
I love him so much. This man saved my life and I will always be grateful for him.
Thank you Dr. Peterson for what you are doing for humanity.
THANK YOU DR.PETERSON! I AM FOREVER GRATEFUL
TO YOU!.
MUCH LOVE TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY!
He's undoing damage done to our generation and generation before ! Seriously I love this man he's a father figure straight up. He's knocked some sense in me when I was lost!
This. This is what i needed to hear.
There is a thin line between an overbalanced and an underbalanced life. I think that's what Prof. Peterson is talking about.
I'm 35.
This hurt so much to hear.
“Let’s look at what other people do”. I love that sentence. It’s good to learn from other people. I’ve tried to point this out to my kids and then I was accused of comparing us to them. It’s such a hard thing to teach!
I hear ya Dianne but you know kids learn by example. They don't want to be told certain things by their parents
Kids don't like to be compared to others. But encouraging interaction and spending time with friends who are living positive lives is a good idea. It's tough to see your kids hesitant and not fully utilizing their skills even after college degree. Seeing parents who got their kids to a good place, it takes time and encouragement.
Cannot teach it, only gently guide, suggest. eg If they come home with an unsuitable partner to test you, invite them for lunch or to come away for the family weekend. Never ban them or criticise - the rebellious reaction will cement a long liaison that may have been only temporary if you'd kept cool. Opposition = extra determination.
Horrible advice. You are your own person. Forge your own path. Comparison is theif of joy, your interests will be different from those of others
It depends how you say it and how you do it. I don't know how you said it so I can't tell you, you did it wrong.
In my case, I did not like to be compared. It makes you feel less or superior. My mother used to say to my sister: "look at your sister, she is better than you at school." It hurt both me and my sister. Plus it made her feel inferior to me and it brings jealousy. However I am sure that she was wishing what was best for my sister, and her intentions were to motivate her to study more.
wish you were there for me in my youth
I love this man. To study under him would be my DREAM.
greetings from bassam Riyad hello how are you doing
I prayed for an answer, the right path.
2 days ago I gave up the painful job search at 65. I got online & was on the phone & filed for my social security.
A massive burden has been lifted.
♥️🙏
Whatever you do... just because you're retired now do not stop being social. There are always part-time jobs a couple days a week. You can volunteer somewhere. Someone always needs volunteers somewhere. My situation is a little different as I am a disabled veteran but I managed to completely isolate myself and let me tell you something it is really bad regardless of anyone's situation so don't do that... I have pretty much gone nowhere and done nothing for the past 7 years and my social anxiety is 10 times worse... so please do yourself a favor and get out there.
When I feel lost
I turn to the one who created me
And I find peace
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My life is effed. I no longer believe in god.
@@aem870God didn’t make this world. God created the eternal . You are timeless, this is not your home. You are not the body , you are pure Spirit, this is our classroom and the body your vehicle . God isn’t going to interfere with your free will . Ask to remember the truth for it reside within. Nothing outside of you will bring any lasting happiness. Be joyful and light your mind with love. Be the love you seek . Ask to be shown and it will be given to you ❤🙏
@@gloriahallelujah111 God didnt make this world ? Why should i call it or him God then?
Once you realise unity your never alone. 🙏❤️
@@gloriahallelujah111 The Most High God of Heaven created the Heavens and the earth. He Deserves The Honor and the GLORY for the Great work He has done✨
Yesterday I tapped into an old neural pathway of joy. I am cleaning up my art studio( has been a catch all for a few years). Yay! I'm an artist. I can now see room to create!
This man is so intelligent
I wish I saw this around 2016 could have saved 5 years. He's right here people, I experienced this. Doing nothing makes you depressed and it's a spiral and you lose years. If you're struggling I know it's bloody hard I'm not gonna say it's not it's soul destroying. Even if you fail keep going. Stay strong it'll be better even if you feels that it won't.
very true
History of my life. I'm 35, I'm just getting by awaiting dead. Just kill time work some, pay bills, have a friend's gathering, then workshop, house, nothing else.
Oh my word, I needed to hear that at this stage in my life. Thank you 🙏
Needed this, thank you and God bless!
Right ON 👍 YES' SIR
Always do something
pursue self-improvement, start with cutting out alcohol, junk food and drugs, then start working out, start praying to God and pursue meaning in discipline
With the help of his speech, I didn't gave up my degree, and today I managed to obtain it, securing me a safe route, and I can now pursuit my dreams. Thank you Mister Peterson, you are definitely a beautiful person.
Congratulations Elios! I'm grateful it happened for you! You're stronger now! 🎉❤
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This is just the video I was looking for the questions in my head. Thank you Mr. Jordan peterson
Tough but very wise and needed
I NEEDED to hear this!!
I wish I had had this advice 10 years ago.
Now is Better than Never. ❤️
Me too
I cannot put into words just how profound, personal and accurate this is for me…
Mr. Peterson has literally shifted my way of thinking numerous times!
Amen Hallelujah.
He’s talking to me. And he’s talking to a lot of people who feel this exact way. I love this dude
Misery loves company.
Thanks Dr Peterson 🙏
I want him as my therapist asap