Muslim Sister SLAMS Men, Daniel Ain't Having It
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Muslim sister complains that Muslim men are not stepping up. The MuslimSkeptic team responds with some facts.
The sister agreed with us at the end alhamdulillah. May Allah reward her.
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Ameen.
Polygamy is a sign of disrespect for the woman.
@The Muslim Skeptic I feel you should also talk about riba and make video and articles on riba on how the global order is built on riba and makes it hard for Islam and strong stable families to be established. Also when Muslims become United how do they free Palestine with out causing a nuclear war cuz Israel is willing to use nukes and whatever it can to continue its oppression of Muslims so when Muslims do become United how they fight Israel without causing a nuclear war? Also when is the video on RAND a coming out?
You should make a video response debunking Jordan Peterson’s claims of “Africa isn’t poor because of colonialism” Give citations and references of how the Europeans colonized Africa in a way that it was bound to have corrupt politicians and made Africa dependent on the west. And point out the difference between colonialism of the past and colonialism of the west both Christian colonization of the americas and the liberal colonization of Africa Asia Australia and point out that their colonialism was racist and genocidal and made it hard for natives to become a part of the colonizing powers point it out with references and sources pls. I know his video is refutable I just want sources and citations just in case if someone confronts me avoid this issue or I tell them about it I give them the sources.
brother Daniel a good example,you can show us of the failures or the liberalism of American conservatives is the video where Babylonian bee a conservative Christian channel made a video with that liberal joke David wood to talk about how to “dismantle Islam “ I think that would be a very good video to show an example of the liberalism of conservative Christians and if you want you can respond to their points to if you want also please make articles and videos and debunking Imran hose in and his bogus “Islamic escotolghy”.
Also can you give make articles and videos on if communism is and Nazisim and fascism are shoot offs of liberalism but tolerant of different things? And if so please provide the sources and citations and resources pls. Also make a video responding to Abdu mussab on the issue of Muslim rulership and can you make articles on criticizing Muslims leaders is in the Quran and sunnah with the references pls and give sources on how are these muslim leaders are puppets of the non muslims pls.Also can you make a video or article on exposing or debunking the feminist human and woman rights news middle eastern eye based in the uk. They have done a good job on exposing Israeli atrocities but at the same time doing it under the banner of UN secular liberal feminist rights being violated and democracy being violated I think they deserve to be exposed so Muslims can be aware of the fashia they spread peace. If you read this just say that you read it and noted it.
The core of islam low view of women is based on misogynistic text both in the quran and hadith.
@@megalodon3655 The world economy is based on interest not usury. Riba is usury. Get your facts correct.
According to Allah in the quran Palestine belongs to the Jews. You are a munfiq when you try to claim Palestine for muslim.
Well we have to give the sister credit.
She had the decency and the humility to accept when she is wrong and reconcile as well.
Jazak Allahu khair.
@@alliyahsgalaxy Barak Allahu feek beloved sister, Ameen : )
*This massive discrepancy exists despite the fact that there is no gender bias in the law favoring females.*
Whether you like it or not, the welfare system forces you as a man to pay for single women, many of whom, as you know, are degenerates.
Without welfare and all kinds of affirmative action promoting women in the workplace, women can't support themselves. The feminist welfare state just distributes the burden of taking care of women to all working men. So you, as a man, have the burden of financially supporting these women without any benefit in return, women who will berate you and call you an incel if you disagree with how stunning and brave they are.
*Basically, Western liberalism forces you as a man to fund the lifestyle of women drinking, sleeping around with a new man every night, popping anti depressants like candy, going to the womens march on weekends to whine about how oppressed they are. You're literally subsidizing all that.*
Women being free is not free. Someone has to foot the bill.
Islam says, no. No one gets a free ride. You want to be taken care of, you have to be in a marriage as an obedient wife. And if you dont want to be an obedient wife, go be a burden on your father, who didn't raise you right. And if you don't want to live under your father's roof, go live in the wilderness or beg on the streets. See how long you last there.
Well we hope that she also understood or better said listened to what was said because alot of these feminist Or in generell women (im not saying all!) dont really listen ,they just Talk to Talk
@@markusschwanz6038 interesting you should say that, as we think the same. Perhaps we aren't saying things in a way that will make others listen, Allahu alam.
_"A feminist is someone who wants equal rights but not equal responsibilities."_
~ Wisdom hunt
May Allah ﷻ protect us from this cancer.
I don't want equal rights. Women and men are not the same. Some rights are the same but other rights are according to the status Allah gave us.
@@khuzaimabutt392 is the Qur'an and sunnah a laughing matter?
@@khuzaimabutt392 what exactly is toxic about what I said?
@@khuzaimabutt392 *This massive discrepancy exists despite the fact that there is no gender bias in the law favoring females.*
Whether you like it or not, the welfare system forces you as a man to pay for single women, many of whom, as you know, are degenerates.
Without welfare and all kinds of affirmative action promoting women in the workplace, women can't support themselves. The feminist welfare state just distributes the burden of taking care of women to all working men. So you, as a man, have the burden of financially supporting these women without any benefit in return, women who will berate you and call you an incel if you disagree with how stunning and brave they are.
*Basically, Western liberalism forces you as a man to fund the lifestyle of women drinking, sleeping around with a new man every night, popping anti depressants like candy, going to the womens march on weekends to whine about how oppressed they are. You're literally subsidizing all that.*
Women being free is not free. Someone has to foot the bill.
Islam says, no. No one gets a free ride. You want to be taken care of, you have to be in a marriage as an obedient wife. And if you dont want to be an obedient wife, go be a burden on your father, who didn't raise you right. And if you don't want to live under your father's roof, go live in the wilderness or beg on the streets. See how long you last there.
When that sister spoke all I heard was the “Muslim” version of the movie Purple. These “edumacated” sisters are following the path of African American women whom fully bought into the lie of feminism and take a gander at the utter devastation it has caused to their communities in America and I’m pretty sure m it ain’t all too different across the pond.
If my husband provides my housing and money for all of my expenses, why wouldn't I want to also give to him and lessen his burden? This just blows my mind. Sometimes, some women, certainly not all, feel that men have to provide for women in exchange for the blessing of the woman's company. However, the lifestyle that our husbands are required to give us often go way beyond what they're obligated to provide. For example, the housing, quality of food, clothing, car, electronics, etc. are all beyond what men would have provided previously. They're required to meet our basic needs, nothing more unless we are used to a luxurious life and they're able to pamper us without hardship. If we expect them to do beyond the bare minimum, then why shouldn't we also do that? Treating your husband/wife as an opponent rather than your friend is a recipe for disaster. Why foster conflict? I have been married for over 16 years, Alhumdulilah, and the biggest advice I can give to anyone getting married is not to keep score and treat your marriage like a battle. Once people fall into this mindset, our hearts turn against one another and it's very difficult to undo. That actually goes for any of our relationships (siblings, friends, colleagues, etc)
Where is she? She's been commenting all over. Surprisingly she hasn't commented herself.
This is what a sister does for her husband. It's not shocking she's been married for so long and look at her attitude. Look. Listen. Learn.
May Allah bless you and your household sister!
"if you give i give " mentality is wicked
@@anisahs2110 And you and your house as well, sister. And for all the Muslims insha'Allah
@@nassermohammed9329 I agree with the sister 100%.
Respect for this sister. She retracted what was proven wrong instead of how feminists scream when they are proven wrong.
she needs to go aways just go away......gad-dammm feminist
Actually we don't know since they ended the video. Maybe they ended the video becaude she attacked them and that is not allowed on CZcams or maybe they just didn't put it? Or maybe she didn't attack? We don't know.
@@uok6216 will you say the same thing to a brother who did wrong.
@@nuhmanhanif288 You're putting words in their mouth.
24:12
If only the believing men and women had thought well of one another, when you heard this ˹rumour˺, and said, “This is clearly ˹an outrageous˺ slander!”
Do not assume the worst in others, it's a sin. Most of this comment section doesn't realise their hypocrisy with their mockery or their insults. It's on you at the end of the day though, most don't realise the wrongs they've committed until they're brought on the day of judgment to settle for their slights and transgressions against others.
@@AArrad hello im just saying how they react. Read my comment again.did i assume that. Many react like that only please understand
" I am not a feminist... but I am a feminist"
🤣
Exactly 😂😂😂
proto feminist
Never let them know your next move ~ Feminist Shaykha
Thank you for your good deeds.
When someone starts off by telling you their “not a feminist” they’re actually a feminist.
Thank you for good deeds. I need as many as I can get.
Not really. She's just confused and thinks with emotions rather than statistics
nah
@@sugoi9680 have you seen how women have been treated in countries like Pakistan, Algerian, Afghanistan etc? The whole thing is a mess.
Why only mentioned Pakistan etc... What about the west? Are the women there being treated any better?
I used to think like her but then I've realised, if I have to go out and work to make money why is cooking and cleaning a bad thing if someone is going to provide and take care of me. Sounds like a better deal tbh lol
Lol, exactly!
You're intelligent, unlike many. 😅
She was honest and humble (although not correct in her opinion)
May Allah keep us on path of guidance
Wasn't humble 😂
@@rayyanabdulwajid7681 see pinned comment
@@kayf_ahmad wasn’t humble 🤡
_"You're being professional when you listen to your boss but you're being enslaved and oppressed when you listen to your husband."_
~ Br. Muhammad Hijab
This is the reality of feminism.
it all depends on which job you prefer, professional or in the home
If they say They are not Feminist then be ready. 😀
The sister was quite humble and accepting a lot of things Daniel mentioned.
But all I see is immature boys here could not hear all the positives she contributed; and only making fun of her.
If the Ummah is full of these sort of immature boys, then obviously women will treat you like kids and toddlers.
@@The_Chairperson Well aren't you a mature boy?
These women are clearly alone or with non-god-fearing muslim men. Personally, I’ll gladly cook and clean just to be able to be a stay at home wife/mom. Gladly. 9-5 isn’t fun, even if it’s work from home. I’d rather only answer to allah and a husband who fears allah than some random overworked and underpaid boss. My husband takes responsibility for the food and cleaning when I’m sick, tired, or busy with a new baby. It’s not a 100%, its a team effort. You don’t have to be a feminist to spew feminist values, it’s pretty much ingrained in all of us raised in the west by schools and the media. Every woman i know with a god fearing muslim man enjoys life at home, enjoys being a stay at home wife/mom. Also that hadeeth is NOT rarely mentioned, it is ALWAYS mentioned. That’s why believing men do pick up the slack when their wives are burned out/sick/tired/nafas/cramping.
alhamdillah for sisters like you.
That's exactly what she meant, especially the last part.
😐
If only all sisters were like you. 😕
Inshaallah, you will be granted a god fearing, loving husband from the most merciful...
May ALLAH swt give you a pious husband sister
for those jumping to conclusions, the sister was a bit emotional and stubborn, but sincere and humbly listened when she calmed down, and she is clearly opposed to feminism
Can't say that she opposed feminism😂
@@rayyanabdulwajid7681 though in a very awkward and totally mislead way, she did oppose it. She literally identified feminism spreading amongst muslim women as a problem- though blamed men for that
That's exactly what I also think is the case
And everyone mocking her and making insulting jokes don't realize they are transgressing. Daniel needs to sober his audience up, otherwise he's enabling this.
female actress, pilots, doctors , lawyer, police, professors, teachers, scientista and so forth. these are all mens roles.
women suppose to serve their men. they dont need education. its waste of money and time.
May Allah guide them and all of us ameen!
Ameen amigo.
I am a woman and i can say with confidence that my service to my husband and kids is my jihad in this dounia.
When Asmaa Bint Yazid was claiming why women are not called for jihad , the prophet peace be upon him said: حسن تبعلك يعدل كل ذلك أو كما قال صلى الله عليه وسلم.
Being a good wife and mother is ur jihad period.
So a struggle? Cause that is what Jihad means.
the first time when she said i am not a feminist brothers started smiling they knew what was coming
*Who feels proud to be the part of Ummah of our beloved Prophet Muhammad (S.A.W)* 💕
Those who are guided.
I don't .... I'm
Alhamdulillah my only pride is Islam and be a follower of the sunnah of the prophet peace and prayer be upon him and all his family and his companions.
I forsake my parents and myself for you oh our prophet peace and prayer be upon him
Clearly not this woman 😂
@@drive-2786 thank you for your good deeds for slandering me. I would give you some dates as the sahabi did if I could. But I can only say thank you.
The marriage contract is only meant for intimacy?
Marriage is about a family unit, about a whole society, about rights and obligations, you really shouldn’t narrow all that down into mere intimacy only sister.
Right.. If it's only intimacy it'll be something else. I think what the sister meant was marriage is mainly about it but yes the are other important aspect to marriage as well
It's supposed to be a partnership that strengthens both persons
@@MohOz actually check Islamqa, marriage contract is mainly based on intimacy. Daniel haqiqae is ignorant on many Islamic laws. Check out Saajid recent video on him also
@@programferris1018 i checked, it says it's a basic custom for women to serve her husband and included many hadeeth supporting the notion..
@@julinaonYT well, if anyone in the right mind wants to stay in a marriage like that, has mental issues.. it's like prostitution with no love, no companionship.. without love, how can one be loyal? whosoever, says that it's just do that and do this, then that person's marriage is meant to be failed..
i think the sister wants love and appreciation from husbands which is true and she should be asking.. but to say, i won't obey and serve husband, is another blunder.
One aspect that I feel is missing in the "Men Need to Help Out More!" debate is the unrealistic energy levels. People just assume that just because a man works in an office, it must mean that they're not doing tiring work when its not true. Office jobs can be very mentally and emotionally draining to the point of complete burnout (I would know cause I used to work in one though hoping to stop soon). Not mention more laborious jobs like lorry drivers or plumbers!
Its important to be compassionate. Homemaking is not easy, but give your husband the space needed to relax by himself. Providing for your family isn't either, but do what you can lighten your wife's burdens even if a little bit. Gratitude goes a long way.
I have never seen Muslim men say that housework is easy, they always appreciate it in their own way
@@femcel101 I *never* said that Muslim men think housework is easy. If you notice in my sentence, you would see that its directed to the wives.
I know that most Muslim men appreciate homemaking, I am simply stating that one of the ways to show your appreciation is by small acts of service in the house (washing dishes, fixing house, etc.) so the wives won't feel too overwhelmed as she has to tend to the household and children the whole day. At the same, the wives must also be *grateful* to her providing husband and do what they can to ease husband's burdens like making him tea, preparing his meals and giving him alone time.
Yes, we each have our designated roles, but that doesn't mean we need to have this "its his/her job anyway" and not be compassionate to each other's troubles. Let's all do what we can to help each other.
@King SultanYes, wives do get overwhelmed. Ever heard of post-partum disorder? Its not something she can control. Its quite disappointing to see you look light towards that. Some wives I know would lend money to her husband or get a job to help out their husbands financial burdens when in crisis (like loss of job) *without* ever being asked to because that's what it means to be a compassionate spouse.
@@anisahs2110 yes I was agreeing with you there. Mostly these types of arguments are presented by Muslim women who aren't even married and resent women with caring husband and happy family, they try to feed the idea of dividing household chores with husband
@@femcel101 That was not at all I was going for. I thought back to the hadith of Prophet Muhammad ﷺ doing house work not as division of housework, but being compassionate and helpful
This poor sister has been labelled a feminist when she is not. She is line and agreeing whole heartedly with the sunnah of our beloved Prophet ﷺ. Yes blame some zalim muslim men and zalim muslim women
Yea it's sad
She is a feminist what not a normal one pseudo she wants men to pay for everything but do 50 percent of the house chores aswell 😂
I like to think of it this way. If you are in a workplace and there is trash on the floor you should pick it up and throw it in the trash. But in no way are you responsible for cleaning the building. Men helping to clean up is just a good thing to do, but that doesn't mean there responsible for cleaning and maintaining the household.
"I am not a feminist"
Then who is feminist
HAHAHAHA that pepe onzema reference 😂😂😂😂
@@Nothingburger90 how do you remember the name 😂
@@Dvlly99 due to she being trolled hard by (he is a she: direct quote of pasta) pasta sempa/ he is soooo epic in that interview. hahahahahaa
Why are you geh?
Who said im gay?
You are geh!
There are some way crazier beliefs out there under the umbrella of feminism, like LGBT acceptance, transgenderism, etc.
Debating with women is a pointless endeavour. Women never digest logic properly as much as they do with anecdotes
The r ant always starts with "I am not a feminist 🤡"
😂😂😂😂😂
Are you from pakistan?
@@Ahmad-lpg16 No why?
Alhamdulillah i serve my husband the best possible i can..without asking him for anything in return ..i see him as either my jannah or my jahannam , i am submissive and obedient wife to him..Allah said if a woman pray her 5x prayer, practicing her deen and if she pass away and her husband is please with her, Allah swt would grant her jannah in shaa Allah..if only woman knows the value of there husband in islam that evn the prophet pbuh said ,if only he is allowed to tell the woman to prostrate to there husband, he would say so but prostration is only for Allah..may Allah swt guide us all, make us among His pious slaves and make us those who pleases there husband and be the comfort to them ameen..
You are crazy....
@@apartahotelsmadrid375 may i ask why you said i am crazy if you dont mind thanks..
@@haydeelo9016 how can you be happy to be a slave?
@@apartahotelsmadrid375 how is that a slave?..ur serving ur husband, the man who provides for you..the man whos the dad of ur kids, the man whos there to protect you, the man who is your way to jannah, theres too many to mention..serving ur man, cooking for him, do house chores, iron his clothes etc.. and be an obedient wife to him is not that hard at all..id rather be my husband slave and please him and be grateful to him and to whatever he can afford to put on the table than be a slave to this dunya,be a slave to ur boss and career and freemix to opposite sex..my home is enough for me to be safe and enough covering for me.. my husband like i said is either my jannah and jahannam ,serving him ,obeying him is not enough to compensate of what he is offering which is jannah..if u call that a slave so be it..coz i wudnt exchange that for any wealth in this world which sooner or later we all gonna leave behind..this world is nothing but a temporary enjoyment..just to add one more thing,during our nikkah,i told my husband that he can teach me quran as dowry instead..im not someone who like to chase this worldly life..may Allah swt guide us all and make us His righteous slaves ameen..
May allah bless you and your marriage sister!! You are a real woman in times of feminist muslims. May allah grant everyone good husbands and wifes
The problem nowadays is many women think marriage will oppresse them, they think the relationship in terms of the man being an opressor.
“First of all let me say I’m not a feminist… “
You sure bloody sounded like one!
Thank you for more good deeds. If I said I'm not, then as a sister in Islam who has not given you reason to doubt my sincerity you should take me as such. I don't need feminism. I have Islam.
@@alliyahsgalaxy Sorry about my comments, out of order, especially the second comment that i made and which I’ve deleted now. Hope you can find it in your heart to forgive me. Will refrain from making comments like this in the future 👍
@@yourfamilydoctor172 I 100% forgive you. A very respectful attribute to have to accept when advised when one is wrong, also it is the only way for a believer to improve themselves. As Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him was sent to perfect good character. Jazak Allahu khairen.
@@yourfamilydoctor172 also just to add; I thanked many for their good deeds today and yesterday for slandering me, because that was what a sahabi did. Well he gave them dates to thank them for their good deeds, but I can't do that. The sad thing is, if someone said that to me, I, like you would be worried and concerned that I had done such a thing and I would try to rectify it, but that didn't happen much here. Abu Sa’id al-Khadimi reported: A man said to Hasan al-Basri, may Allah have mercy on him, “Indeed, someone has backbitten you!” Hasan sent a dish of sweet dates to the backbiter and he said, “I heard that you have given me your good deeds as a gift, so I want to repay you for it, but please excuse me for I am unable to completely repay you.”
Source: Tanbīh al-Ghāfilīn 1/164
Both the husband and the wife should be doing their best to make each other happy. The whole point of marriage is to make Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta’ala happy.
6:09 She says the husband has to provide for the wife as a part of the marriage contract and Daniel agrees with that so why is it a one-way street that part of the marriage contract the wife has to handle household chores? It’s never equal rights with fems but superior rights.
I never said the wife doesn't have to do chores. Did I say that? Did those words actually come out of my mouth? Selective hearing isn't a commedable attribute. My point is that the whole relationship between husband and wife has been skewed and because of that the women rebelled. When people rebel they always take it too far, hence now you have feminism.
@@alliyahsgalaxy please tell us what are the duties of the wife towards the husband.
@@alliyahsgalaxy women didn't rebeled because of men. They rebeled because they are indoctrinated with the feminist agenda, which is telling them that they are oppressed when they are not actually.
@@hammadafsarvines586 I agree and disagree. Yes the agenda plays a part, but let me ask you this. If I was giving you gold, would you replace it with aluminium in its place? If the men treated the women according to the sunnah, that is gold. Surely women are not going to give up gold for aluminium. You see, the ruling elite did find cracks in the way we have practised the sunna and they have taken advantage of that. So don't think that men have had no responsibility in this. All good comes from Allah, all bad our ownselves.
@@nassermohammed9329 to obey him, to not refuse him when he wants intimacy, to not go out without his permission, to not invite anyone into the home he doesn't like.
Bro Daniel, this was beautiful mashaAllah. Dawah done correctly with good composure. May Allah continue to guide you. I hope this sister realises that as muslims we need to provide evidence for any claims, rather basing our arguments on feelings and my chachi ji did this and that lol
"why does the wife have to?"
a millisecond later
"Becaus you have to"
Muslimfeminists: im not feminist
Lol that was funny
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If she says that she is not ,then she is not a feminist
im.not sure about the muslim part but ok
She's not though. I genuinely think she was just confused. And she says she's not and said that men should be the leaders of the housholds and women should obey their husbands. A feminist would never utter such a sentence
I just watched the first part and honestly we guys need to do our own part. Eat put it in the sink when thirsty get up and help yourself don't ask her. If she never says "you could have told me honey you can lie down you just came from work" then she's not a good wife.
Beautifully said.
Are you married?
@@alliyahsgalaxy So you want to take full rights but when it comes to giving rights to your husband, you shy away?
@@ahmeds754 and where did I say this? You are slandering me by saying I said something I didn't.
I feel like she’s the type of woman that lack self-awareness and who’s always inclined and attracted towards bad boys over good/nice guys. Then complain and moan on why she couldn’t find a good nice husband, is she even married?
This woman is the textbook definition of "i am not a feminist.....BUT."🤣
I must give this woman credit for at least having humility and decency ig what dhe was talking about even when there were points that I disagree with. Thank you for sharing!
Jazak Allahu khairen.
Good discussion. The sister was well spoken while making her points. I heard her plight.
In an ideal marriage the husband will try to help her wife even when she is saying that she'll do it by herself even though she knows she is struggling. Both care for each other
Exactly sister. Love, cooperation and compassion. If the majority of women felt that, feminism wouldn't have stood a chance to affect the sisters.
@Hasan I agree with you. In fact, where was the outcry and live streams when sisters were discarding hijab and jilbab for makeup and skinny jeans with hijab? I didn't see much of a campaign against this degradation of the beautiful blessing of hijab and jilbab.
@@alliyahsgalaxy Not true. All that exists, but sisters are literally being brainwashed.
@Hasan Get married first and then come back 2 years later here
That's what an ideal situation looks like... What percentage of women get these ideal marriages? Why do you get disappointed to a point of rebellion when you aren't one of those lucky ones?
The best is to prepare for the normal life and not ideal situation. In that case, even Muslim men would love ideally their wives to contribute in household expenses then should this be enforced as a norm and men rebel if a woman refuses to do so?
Thieves never accept that they're thieves🤧
Are you reverted ? Are you from India?
I've never heard this saying before where is it from
MashaAllah brother Daniel.. you are an inspiration, keep going brother.. (كثر الله امثالك اخي)
Making no sense... I spend 70 hours a week with my life on line providing for my home and I gotta come home and hear this shit cause I forget to wash my dish when you been in this house all damn day doing what? Exactly what
Just don't let women enter your life and peacefully live your life .. Imagine marring women like this and have conversation like this with here ..let them live liberated, just don't save them when they hit the wall
Ew, we don't want your "saving", wallet. You have too much self importance 🤣
Bro Daniel, she came to your live call show with sister Umm Khalid two years ago and she made this exact same point. "Who did it for him before marriage?" She has some feminist traits but other than that she is actually a good sister. Not a feminist. She agrees polygyny and loves it.
I guess, the counter question one could make, "Who provided for her before marriage" ...
@@autumnicleaf She would say her father. Or she has a job. What would be your answer then?
Jazak Allahu khairen. Having what seemingly are traits doesn't make a person what those traits are indicative of. The whole point is wanting everyone to take accountability. If we don't take accountability we aren't going to fix the problem.
@Juxtaposition - (She keeps her own earnings if she has a job. Her husband still has to be the provider).
If her father was already providing for her, then why doesn't she keep receiving father's money after her marriage, just as he is lectured to keep doing his past chores after marriage.
Wife is the 'field' the husband (the farmer) goes to, and toils on. If the field yields no crops or fruits, why doesn't the farmer sell it off?
@@alliyahsgalaxy
Look who showed up. The good sister herself!! Thank you for not getting angry at me. We (including Daniel) only want good for you, good for our sisters, our daughters and our mothers. It's not a gender war. We understand that this is the effect of modernism and feminism. This corrupted the fitrah of our sisters. So we are trying to fix issues here. No offense sister. May Allah bless you immensely. As-salamualaikum.
She agreed at the end and that's the best part. Accepting the truth itself requires humility. I'm happy for her. Alhumdullillāh! :D
Daniel is an absolute legend masha Allah tabarakAllah
Just a question for you Daniel and brothers (& sisters) out there:
In our post-moder era where 1 income is hardly enough to provide for the household; with the technological progress that made home work almost effortless and fast; and with electronics and media that make information, ideas as well as temptations omnipresent in our lives. How can a family be traditional???
The husband can hardly provide, his authority is undermined by the system that seeks to liberate wives from the patriarchy that kept them in check.
If he can provide, his time will most likely be spent outside the house. Meanwhile, the wife barely spends 2 hours for cleaning the house ( she can cook for 2 days because we have fridges and microwaves, shecan do laudry in 10 mins because of washing machines, etc) and the rest of her time is EMPTY. She just roams on the internet and drinks from the cup containing impurity such as feminism and so on, not to mention how she can get in touch with other men and women online, creating a perfect climate for sheitan to set in. Thus the woman staying at home means she has extra free time and just consumes internet and gets tempted. What would you recommend for us men to face this?? I would argue potentially forcing her to go and work and split the costs, since home tasks are now insignificant thanks to technology.
Yeah. She's at work and getting railed in the bathroom by Tony, moaning.
You do what you're intended and breed, once she has a child she won't have time to scratch her head, and more importantly choose correctly and remember there's nothing wrong with love, love her and allow her to love you.
It seems like her thesis was that men have responsibility, but women ought not to.
where is the last live stream with the brothers ? not this one but the following one . Barackallahu fikum
بارك الله فيك
I missed the stream but I'm so grateful that Daniel posted this highlight. Allah bless you and your team for their work.
MashaAllah well said, brother Daniel. In Islam, our gender roles are PERFECTLY BALANCED with our responsibilities and this is from none other than Allah, who is perfect and complete in His names attributes. If we all followed the Islam that the prophet salallahu alayhi wasalam and his companions radhiAllahu anhum were upon, we would never have such issues plaguing our Muslim communities.
Happy that Daniel cited that he does help out at home, the problem is Muslim men don’t offer this enough. They take this role of caring for the home and exploit it!
That is my point.
16:30 how beautifully Brother Abu Lut answers in few words the long argument from semi-feminist sister
Alliyah: Women have to obey her Man, I am not disputing that
Him: [orders her to do the chores]
Her: nooooooo, why can't you wash your clothes
Lmao these 'not feminists'
Thank you for your good deeds for slandering me. I appreciate it. I have received quite a few on here today. Allah provides from where we know not.
@@alliyahsgalaxy that's what you said! It's there on the podcast for everyone to listen.
@@alliyahsgalaxy I understand your points, and they’re valid at some abusive men. Maybe you had a bad run in with a Muslim man. But that doesn’t mean anything. Marriage is love and happiness were men and women do everything to make each other happy. As a man who works himself to death I’m grateful for my wife who cooks and cleans!! And she is grateful for me working myself so hard. It’s all one big team we love each other. And I understand you’re points again. But stay firm on the path of Allah marry quickly and obey your husband in all that is good and Islamic. And disobey him in kufr and shirk and may Allah grant you jannah.
@@alliyahsgalaxy Truth hurts doesn't it. I guess finally getting some tatse of it isn't so bad since men have to experience it everyday anyways. But since I am a fair person I will say that I don't think you're a feminist but in the podcast (if that's what it's called) you did for a bit act like one. That's just reality. But I saw your other commen and you still hold same views as in the video I didn't know it was you so I wonder if your stance even changed from what you said in the video. You need to understood that what the Prophet did when it came to the socks and some other stuff it was because he wanted to not because he was obliged to. Tbh to me you seem to think of it as an obligation. Also to be fair you shouldn't be mad or surprised about these comments because you contrqdicted yourself you said you're not feminists but acted like one. So responding to these comments makes you wrong. Just saying. Also I do see a level immaturity in these comments towards you so these people are also wrong not just you. Just wanted to clarify that. Anyways just to be clear I mean no disrespect to you I still respect you and also have a great day.
@Ghost protocol just because I say things that may be the same as them, doesn't mean I am one. I'm also pro polygany; don't know many feminists pro polygany. Many times I have spoke out for the right for a brother to have more than one wife. It's just tiring that you brothers don't want to see what's been happening culturally for years. Amazing how you all can take this hadith and that hadith but when it's talking about our beloved Prophet, peace be upon him, working in the home when he is there, you all have some excuse. No one is saying that we should be compassionate and do things for each other; you just have all forgotten that the Prophet, peace be upon him worked in the home. Culturally the men have become like how the western man used to be towards their women, rather than the Prophet. Try being more considerate to your women. Do you not think the women depend on you to also help them? You are the man by the way. It's not her job to hold everything together, it's yours. She is just there to help. Why you all think your days work is done when you get in is selfish and no community works like that. People have to work together.
I wanted to hear her final response
The hadith clearly mentions that the original question specified "at his home", not in general.
It is incredible how she went from slightly emotional to completely accepting the arguments without being dishonest. Please brothers and sisters, remember that we are all learning on different level and on different speeds, don't be harsh towards those who disagree with you, they are learning as we all do. And those who give contradicting and dishonest answers, know that they don't want the truth, they just want to feel good about their messed up choices.
Those who look for the truth will always find it, no matter where they start, because Allah is always with the people of truth and honesty.
I leave this video more impacted about how the sister backed down despite how she was feeling, and that in a matter of few minutes, rather than what she said in the beginning. And so should you.
May Allah guide us All, and makes us love eachother for his sake.
It seems that Muslim women who want to talk about some issues in the ummah, and say anything about the men's participation in that is a feminist. What happened to being able to enjoin the right and forbid the wrong? You all prefer to brush things under the carpet by cancelling them out by calling them a feminist than deal with the issues so that we can get back to the foundations of Islam. It's an easy out to just call someone a 'feminist'. One could easily say that brother Daniel is a misogynist by the fact that men don't have to take any accountability, but I don't actually believe he is a misogynist. So, please. Be mindful of what you say. If you have enough good deeds to give me, keep slandering me by calling me any name you like. I need your good deeds and I thank you in advance.
She literally said the husband should provide for his wife as well as take care of the household. But she don't want to do the same. This is typical feminist muslim female talking points.
@@sayeeed1303 where is the timestamp where I said that? You are exaggerating. That is a sin. It is lying. And it is slandering. I'm only warning you but I do need more good deeds so happy to have anyone's who wants to slander me.
@King Sultan because, brother Daniel will give about 2 min of accountability of where things have gone wrong in the ummah in this regard then move on to the feminists, ie yes some brothers, 'some brothers?' have done this or that, but let's move on to the feminist sisters. Ok, no problem, let's deal with the sisters who are feminists, but shouldn't we at least tackle where things have gone wrong? I don't need to quote stats, it is plain to see, if the women had been treated as the Prophet, peace be upon him said, kindly, why would they shun that for feminism? It's like someone having gold and giving it away for aluminium. This back and forth is not going to solve the problem. Cancelling out a sister every time she makes a point is not going to solve the problem.
@King Sultan perhaps I was emotional, I feel strongly about the direction the ummah is going in. We won't even be worrying about feminism soon, we will have even bigger issues which if I mention here will probably get the whole video removed. There are young sisters and brothers who don't want to get married. The young sisters have experienced such nonsense online, and in their lives that they are fed up and don't actually like men. How sad is that?
@King Sultan did I actually say that? Timestamp please. The point is, before a man got married he picked up after himself, and did chores. Is he not able to pick up after himself after marriage? Daniel said he got married to basically have a woman do chores for him, but in reality we get married to make the intimate relationship halal. There is nothing stopping us from living together for this or that except Islam. It says we can't without the marriage. So that is why we get married.
She said nothing, she meant that you didn't understood. Everything she told never understood by anyone 🤣🤣🤣
Can you please share the link to the statistics where you mentioned the divorce rates, where women are initiating it more?
May Allah bless you guys.
Muslim women are not asking for 'equality ', we are asking for good manners, kindness and generosity. You can't deny the cultural mentality of alot of muslim men who oppress their households.
Exactly true. Most women work outside the home and at times, even more hours. So, a man can help with household chores to assist. It’s just the humane thing.
The stench of their natural inclination towards takkabr blinds them from seeing this
A lot of these "muslim" men on social media are filled with pride. Mostly arrogant 14 year Olds commenting "I am the provider and maintainer...gigachad...based" etc...But there are also many Muslim men in real world who are actually quite humble and not arrogant like them who gladly help out their wives.Glad my dad is one of them.
@@sa_shah same. Couldn't be happier for my husband either, alhamdulillah
@@Babycake. I hope to find a husband like that one day inshaallah. It's not like we want to sit around eating all day while our husbands do household chores. But what these arrogant men fail to understand is that when a man some times helps out his wife in household chores it doesn't diminish his value but increases it. It is an act of kindness and affection which will make a Muslim wife love him more. If our Prophet pbuh can do it so can they.
We must give the sister some credit she did after all agree with a lot of stuff and softened her stance, alhamdulilah for that. This is a good sign that she is sincere.
Lol how all the brothers smiled when she said she’s not a feminist, they knew what was coming.
Anyone noticed this is the same woman from the "Share your husband" call on a livestream last year?
6:19 Abu lut gets pressured 🤣
Feminists like this put me off marriage. Couldn’t imagine living with such a headache. InshAllah I find a good wife
Thank you for your good deeds of slandering me.
Bro you need to come out of Anime land in order to find a wife. Playing games and being an Anime fan won't get you one. XD
Women generally have smaller feet. Smaller feet equals getting closer to the stove. Closer to the stove equals better ergonomics. Better ergonomics equals less injury. That's it that's all.
The double standard of saying the man has to provide Bc its part of the marriage contract but the girl doesn’t have to cook or clean! Girl WHAT?? 🤦🏽♀️
She is a good and a pious sister, MashaAllah. She was just a little confused because of the constant feminist and liberal propaganda we're bombarded with everyday.
She understands a woman must obey her husband. She just didn't make the connection that the husband can simply ask his wife to cook and clean and then it becomes obligatory on the wife.
good because she seemed insecure about men leading dawah before...
How in the world can you expect someone to provide roof, food, medical care, intimacy, children, financial stability. Then him asking you to clean the home he provided, clean his clothes and cook for him is too much lmaoooooo.
How you can communicate with Danial ?
Is they are a way to sent him a message or ask him a questions?
If someone want to have a consultation with him is they are any way to schedule online or phone meeting with him for 20-30 minutes ?
Man, Daniel such a straight shooter. Alhamdulillah we have someone like him.
They all say they are not feminist but when they start talking it is like those who keep saying I'm not racist.
Im not racist but….
When a wife does something like picking up ur clothes and other domestic duties it fills the heart with love that this pretty being could be doing anything else in the world but she humbled herself for Allah and for the sign of love to her husband and a man should praise and always acknowledge it and be there for her with all the amazing rights Allah has placed on his shoulders for her sake.These humble things add value to the home because it's a position that can only make sense and work like this in marriage and family overall.It's where you find Allah and his blessings waiting.
Simp
@@Therebelliousprince001 I was linking this in defence of why the domestic duties of the woman is better than going out to work unnecessarily.Also don't be embarrassed of compassion towards the wife.Yes men should take leadership over their women for good reasons but, judging by you throwing out the word simp like this,you think you have to throw love and compassion out altogether and just play the tough soldier 24/7.Not what Islam is teling us.Even us men have to stay in check Allah never gave us this authority to abuse and throw around under our own whims and desires.Yes take lead where needed but don't just make life about that.Enjoy the Rahmat Allah placed between you and your wife while using your leadership to protect and maintain Islam and family value.
@@Nope991 you just gone to the other extreme
Man is ordered from Allah to provide for his family and woman is ordered from Allah to obey her husband. If one of them break this command he/she is a sinner
Every Ramadan I see people on social media posting clips of women doing cooking during iftar and men "just sitting" on couch while she's "struggling" in the kitchen. Ignoring the fact that men work outside all day while fasting, I personally deliver amazon packages while fasting and I get extremely thirsty but have to continue working while the women are sitting in the comfort of their homes. My father works in a restaurant, cooking all day while fasting in a kitchen without ac while my mom is sitting in the comfort of her home and doing small house chores every now and then. Then we men come home only to see memes that we're doing nothing while our women are working so hard in the kitchen.
Is cooking during iftar really hard compared to what men do outside while fasting?
This reminds me of that hadith about majority of the inhabitants of the hell being women who are ungrateful to their husbands for one shortcoming out of thousand favors.
On a side note, I do my house chores myself during ramadan and outside of ramadan and moreover I help my mom and my attitude will be the same with my wife.
"we demand the right to have more women working in the sewers" - said no femenist ever
How can I say I’m feminist without saying I’m feminist
By being based clearly
You may think that I am a feminist :ACTUALLY you are right
Just want to check there is camera in place of one of the participants and taking the viewer photos? Why and who is doing this?
Im gonna be straight, visiting Kosovo after the war has given me reason to understand the sister. Men were so accustomed to being taken care of, they turned into children. This lead to women accepting liberalism extremely fast and now there is more nudity in the streets than in a bath house, and men were powerless because women had taken over the responsability at home, daughters became amplified by the mothers and fathers remained the childish ignoramuses which they still are today. Talking about cars, money and women, and the occasional friday prayer and eid to pretend like they are spiritual.
Men are also to blame for not deserving and demanding respect. If picking up my socks once in a while or getting a glass of water when my wife is tending to the children will make my position in the house respectable, then Ill do that any day of the week. And in fact, I married a sister from that Kosovo and it is this behaviour that makes her respect me enough to never complain about my role or her role. In my case, the sister is right.
@@user-ks4rd7jk2d oh but they are. Men are gambling the money of their women. It s basically like this, you got 4 types of households:
1) governemental posts. These guys make a lot of money and have their women in the same department so they get double the pay, even if they dont have the skills. This makes the household equal and since liberalism is crucial for the job, the woman decides what to do.
2) hard workers, peopme who break their back earning minimum wage, definitely not enough to earn the respect. So women start their own business, cooking stuff for banquettes, cleaning, and sometimes even sexual acts, and oftentimes they are more succesful and men sometimes take their money for gambling.
3) business men who earn more than an entire village. These guys get the respect but you can count them on your fingers.
4) men who procrastinate, ask for money from family abroad and wait for zakat to gamble it away. Their women are usually better off because they got money from family in Kosovo AND abroad. So the man is literally castrated in the household. These women typically also go out with different men and get paid to be with them.
You can combine the scenarios to create more complex structures but that s pretty much 95% of the population. And not to mention family honor combinations which makes it a bigger mess. Men looking to marry up dont realize the cost of respect.
It s a shit show. And I blame men. Id invite you to kosovo, and we ll walk the street house by house, ill tell you what happened to each one.
Alhamdulillah, jazak Allahu khairen for your honesty. It is only with acknowledgment and recognistion of a problem that things can change. Both sides of course, but it needs to start somewhere. Men are the appointed amirs, so really it needs to start with them, then we can get to work on the sisters etc and get back to the foundations of Islam.
@@user-ks4rd7jk2d So if a man is horrible to you you have to respect him for doing what Allah commanded him to do?
Daniel being a Chad as always
Daniels ego is out of control
Really is puntable isn't it
These are a couple of hadiths that women need to read. If they believe they're better than Fatima Radhiallahuanha. Are they better than Asma Radhiallahuanha?
It was narrated from ‘Ali [رضى الله عنه], “Fatimah [رضى الله عنها] complained about the pain caused to her hand by the mill, and some prisoners had been brought to the Prophet [صلّى الله عليه و سلّم], so she went but did not find him, but she met A’ishah and told her.
When the Prophet [صلّى الله عليه و سلّم] came, A’ishah told him about Fatimah coming to her. The Prophet came to us, and we had gone to bed. We started to get up, but the Prophet [صلّى الله عليه و سلّم] said: “Stay where you are.” Then he sat between us, until I could feel the coolness of his foot on my chest. Then he said:
“Shall I not teach you something better than what you asked for? When you go to your bed, magnify Allah thirty-four times, glorify Him thirty-three times and praise Him thirty-three times. That is better for you than a servant.””
[Sahih Al-Bukhari: 3502 and Muslim: 2727]
Al-Tabari said in his commentary on this hadith:
“We may understand from this hadith that every woman who is able to take care of her house by making bread, grinding flour and so on, should do so. It is not the duty of the husband if it is the custom for women like her to do this themselves”.
Narrated by Asma Bint Abubakr:
"When az-Zubayr married me, he had neither land, nor wealth, nor slave, nor anything else like it, except a camel to get water and his horse. I used to graze his horse, provide fodder for it, look after it and ground dates for his camel. Besides this, I grazed the camel, made arrangements for providing it with water and patching up his leather bucket and kneading the flour. I was not very good at baking the bread, so my female neighbors used to bake bread for me and they were sincere women. And I used to carry on my head, the date-stones from the land of az-Zubayr which the Prophet sallallahu 'alayhi wa sallam had endowed him and it was a distance of two miles from Madinah. One day, as I was carrying the date-stones upon my head, I happened to meet Allah's Messenger sallallahu 'alayhi wa sallam, along with a group of his Companions. He called me and told the camel to sit down so that he could make me ride behind him. I felt shy to go with men and I remembered az-Zubayr and his ghirah (ghirah is the sense of pride that a man has which causes him to dislike his wives, daughters or sisters from being seen or heard by strangers - it is this ghirah which makes a man protective about his women) and he was a man having the most ghirah. The Messenger sallallahu 'alayhi wa sallam understood my shyness and left. I came to az-Zubayr and said, 'The Messenger of Allah met me as I was carrying date-stones upon my head and there was with him a group of his Companions. He told the camel to kneel so that I could mount it but I felt shy from him and I remembered your ghirah.' Upon this az-Zubayr said, 'By Allah, the thought of you carrying date-stones upon your head is more severe a burden to me than you riding with him.' I led this life of hardship until Abu Bakr sent me a female servant who took upon herself the responsibility of looking after the horse and I felt as if she had emancipated me."
[Reported in Sahih al-Bukhari (eng. trans.) vol. 7, p. 111, no. 151]
What was her problem. She said a man must provide and has a duty to protect and provide. She said a woman should not obey a man that does not want to provide. She used the word obey, so she basically said if the man provides the woman obeys and does her part too what was her problem with women doing their duties?
Men have to right to obedience from the wife, and women have the right to kindest because the Rasul, peace be upon him, said the best of you is he who is kindest to his wives. Do you think it is being kind just being a bossy kind of husband? Do this, do that etc? Do you think it is kind not helping her? Not picking up after yourself etc? Think brothers. The BEST OF YOU, is he who is KINDEST, to his wives. Each wife is different. Ask her what she considers as kindness apart from what is normal. IF YOU TREAT YOUR WOMEN WITH KINDNESS AND LOVE they will bend over backwards to please you. Why do you think out of all the things the Prophet, peace be upon him, mentioned kindness? Because it is a big factor for the women. Just like respect is for men.
Feminist nonsense
its not what women consider kindness its what Allah considers kindness. human behaviour, rules and etiquette are made by Allah not human. So you cant say kindness is different for different women.
@@sully8061 are you calling the Prophet, peace be upon him, a feminist?
@@operationsnakeeater you are just trying to gaslight. Of course everything is based on what Allah considers as kind, but each person is an individual and one may be more inclined towards a particular type of kindness. Just as some Muslims are inlined towards dawah or charity work etc.
@@alliyahsgalaxy weak argument, im calling you a feminist. The fact that you fighting everyone in the comment section just shows that you are the problem.
simple answer .
Why are women not being forced to participate in wars to defend the homeland? Like what happened in Ukraine.
Why don't women do the hard work that needs strength in factories and construction?
Why do feminists demand justice in some matters and not demand it in other matters?
In summary, men have their own business and characteristics, and women do as well.
One of the simple tasks of a woman is to take care of her home and her children.
Unfortunately, you find some women complaining about this simple task as well
The problem is that the head of the feminist at work asks her to do more difficult things, and she implements them against her will.
Please. How you can schedule phone or online meeting with Daniel ?
Assalamualaikum Brother , I am excitement about your debate with Aron ra .😃
May Allah reward you!
One of the issues is women want to work, and will happily take a job a man should’ve had. Society has taken from the man to help the women, but mens responsibility to their wives are still the same.
@ 7:50 I stopped listening to the video and went to sleep, when I heard the woman say "marriage contract is only for intimacy". We ask Allah to succeed brother Daniel in both worlds. These discussions need a lot of patience.
The Prophet (ﷺ) said: "I was shown the Hell-fire and that the majority of its dwellers were women who were ungrateful." It was asked, "Do they disbelieve in Allah?" (or are they ungrateful to Allah?) He replied, "They are ungrateful to their husbands and are ungrateful for the favors and the good (charitable deeds) done to them. If you have always been good (benevolent) to one of them and then she sees something in you (not of her liking), she will say, 'I have never received any good from you."
This women is really mature and understanding, how she agreed with Daniel MashaAllah
May Allah SWT help you in your affairs
Ameen. Jazak Allahu khairen.
Seems like a good woman, bit misguided is all.
Best part of Sheikh Daniel is "proof" ''proof". I liked it
What happened in those marriages that caused women to initiate divorces? Which study was that stat from about educated women being 90% more likely to initiate divorce?
She is quite respectable in her positions actually.
you know what's funny, she isn't a feminist so imagine how bad the women who call themselves muslim feminists are...
EDIT: btw i don't think that was the best way to talk to her or people like her. she made the effort to go and talk to daniel and she clearly watches his videos. i'm not saying daniel should change what he says but he should change the way he says things slightly as it's too combative especially since it's not like she is an enemy of islam, she might be mistaken in certain subjects but we can first show her in a non combative manner and if she can't understand or more like doesn't want to understand then you can be combative as much as you want.
an example would be the whole she helps as long as the hubsband has money but then what if it's flipped.
go watch the video back and see how daniel said it.
on the other hand he could have summerised what she said, asked her if he understood what she said correctly and she goes "yeah" then he goes then bare with me for a moment what if *flippes the situation* then does that mean the wife doesn't listen to her husband?
if she says "no, she should" then great, he tells her that this is where they are coming from on this topic.
I think that’s the best way he could give otherwise if you know woman they will walk ok you if you talk In shyness I’m just so you shouldn’t be crying what happened here
@@Sweeti924 it's not about shyness or men vs women. it's about the style of speach, some people will take postivily to the combative type of speach but for the majority, they will keep their guard up and even if they would otherwise agree to your points if it was a more chill way of talking, they would pull up their guard and try to disagree just for the sake of disagreeing as they feel like they themselves are the ones getting attacked.
i am not saying to agree with her or even compramise, what i'm saying is using the parts both parties agree on, then use that premise to build up other things that she will have to agree with to support her earlier claims, it basically flips everything on it's head and she now WANTS to agree rather than disagree even though she might normally not agree.
that is if you intend to have a fruitful discussion/debate with you brother or sister in islam.
The big Sheikh Saajid graduate of the University of Medina and Muhaddith distanced himself from brother Daniel he deleted every Video of him how sad how important. The whole Ummah is in big sadness about his decision. But we wish he would be consistent in his decisions we wish that he should consider that his honorable Sheikh was also a Khariji because he yani the Sheikh made Khuruj against a legitimate Khilafa according to his own testimony and according to his own Video today. In deep sadness about his decision we wish him goodness and we wish that Allah guides him and us.
Yes, was put off by the same