"Shaykh" Abu Eesa's Advice Will Destroy Your Marriage
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Daniel Haqiqatjou reacts to a video from Abu Eesa on the question of wifely obedience according to Islam. Abu Eesa's attitude exemplifies the feminist rot at the core of the "Compassionate Imam" dawah that has destroyed countless Muslim marriages.
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Has your marriage been destroyed by a Compassionate Imam's feminist teachings?
how ı can talk to you?
And have you ever wondered how many marriages was destroyed by your teachings!
@@d.t12 that's mean
@@d.t12 zero
@@d.t12 none
He is basically bashing husbands for asking thier rights according to the law of islam the irony is the quran say "if you disagree on things refer it back to allah and his messenger "
💯 facts! The moment we start diluting Islam because there is a huge increase in divorce within the Muslim community, we will end up far worse off in the long run.
There is wisdom to knowing when to bring up these topics in a Marriage. If your wife is being disobedient or you are in an argument be careful how you present the Quran and sunnah because she could say something the leads to Kufr. Yes it is important to remind each other of our duties to one another but there is wisdom in know how to do it.
It is really hard watching him do that thing with his fingers multiple times.
@@generalali7609 do you really think a grown man and woman don't know when to quote Islamic law? I mean wouldn't you know after all you lover your wife and don't want to hurt her by your words but that being said I understand what you are saying but the way the guy put it raise questions
@@pathfinder101 because there are dismissive men out there. Narcissis that don’t realize that there may be more going on in your marriage and to just quote Quran and sunnah as a weapon to get her to do something that is clearly a struggle for her at this point is a healthy marriage. If she ask why should I do this on the first day of marriage then yes explain it to her. But if this is a new problem in year 6 of your marriage, her saying something like that could indicate other issues going on. To me he is say before you start open your mouth think and be gentle and understanding that there may be other issues or that you may have done something yourself to cause such a reaction. This is what wisdom is. It not always saying what is right but it is knowing how to and when to and what to say so you can arrive with the best outcome.
Spoken like a true secularist “religion is good however we can’t let it dictate it or govern our way of life”
Lol if your deen doesn't dictate your decisions and way of life then what does ?
Abu Eesa's wife doesn't bring him tea.
Abu Eesa: "I'm the problem. It's me."
😂
Yes, by the old generic value of relationship on chapter 9, verse 10, its the man's fault.
🤢
I thought you wrote this to mock him. Then I watched the video further and you’re actually quoting him. 😂😂😂😂
سُـبْـحَـانَ ٱلله
Lol
SubhanAllah I am shocked at what this brother is saying.
The first thing I told my wife who is an arab and I am from west africa is that the difference in our cultures will not affect our marriage as long as we base our marriage upon Qur’an and sunnah. This is the best way we will successful marriage and she took my advice. And we have been married for almost 9 years and wallahi we barely even argue with one another and now everyone in my culture praise Arab woman well specifically Moroccan women because they see how good we are to each other but I gave credit to following what Allah has revealed and was taught by our Prophet (peace upon him).
Wallahi there are some beautiful Qur’anic verses about marriage that when we act on it, it makes our marriage full of love, compassion, respect for one another and knowing each other’s rights. She respect me so much that it makes me love her more and want to keep a smile on her face wallahi. And the sunnah even teaches us that the best amongst men are those that are good to their wives.
So yeah I happily base my marriage upon Qur’an and sunnah because there is nothing more effective than them alhamdulillah
Masha Allah brother I am so happy to hear about your successful marriage it gives us youth hope to keep firm on Quran and Sunnah and to make dua for giving us pious spouses and having a successful marriage.
May Allah protect your family from Ev il eye
May Allah grant you all Jannah Ameen
@@H.a.q.q ameeen my beloved brother barakAllahu feek
Mashaallah, brother! 🥰
Jazakhallah khair for sharing!
@@H.a.q.q Ameen.
@@therebelliousprince0073no problem, I had to share to show that marriages that are based upon Qur’an and sunnah work the best and they are full of love and compassion… wa anta fajazakAllahu khairan
People who attack Ustadh Daniel for being to “harsh” seriously need to realize how many of these Muslim “shaykhs” are causing so many false things to enter the laymen/laywoman’s mind. He’s being “Harsh” out of necessity not because he enjoys it. There is a huge, disgusting push from secularism to change the religion and we need MEN like Ustadh DH to call these things out “Harshly” may Allah bless Ustadh, and all the people who stand for the Haqq. Allahu Akbar!
I feel Daniel is totally normal but these simp imams are going crazy
@@cherryontop2911 yes
I don't see bother Daniel as harsh in the slightest. In light of the utterances of some of these people and the harm it is causing our community, I think we're all pretty smug about things considering the everlasting consequences. Filling the heads of our sisters with rebellion and making complicit milquetoasts of our men is what it is.
@@cherryontop2911 How is this imam a “Simp”? Just because he believes in something you don’t?
As someone whose marriage fell apart recently (after just 2 years of marriage) I fully support brother Daniel’s position and warn all sisters, PLEASE avoid these toxic and misguided imams at all. My wife unfortunately was very much effected with these feminist ideologies and it was very hard for her to obey me in simple things. And she was never thankful and appreciative of my contributions to our life.
Feminism is destructive and such imams helping this destructive ideology. May Allah guide our ulama and sisters!
Ameen
Brother have hope I cannot imagine how you must be feeling and I am really sorry for what you have gone through
May Allah marry you to a pious wife who does k u f r of these batil ideologies
May Allah reward you for your patience
May Allah guide us all to the straight path Ameen
I'm sorry to hear that, brother. 😢
Inshaallah, you will be granted something better. May Allah bless you and grant you ease!
@Sam M marriying young isnt an excuse. We live in societys that constabtly push this. Your age wont keep you chained nor free you until learn it yourself
You done good. As Prophet Ibrahim AS ordered his son Ismael AS to change the wife.
Mainly ahle hadith sect's teaching, is same as feminism's which has destroyed many muslim families in eastern countries. .
My blood boils when I hear how these so called imams are destroying people's lives. Well done Daniel for calling him out.
I think you will destroy your marriage if you follow Daniel’s advice in this respect. A relationship is delicate. Barking orders and referring to Quran and sunna at all possible opportunities will not mend a souring relationship.
@Salah
Here we go, dude if you are Muslim fear Allah, and follow his guidance, otherwise you will incur Allah's ire. If your wife repeatedly disobeyes you, you MUST bring the Qura'an and Sunnah.
Daniel pictchu will make you an incel like him
@@whoswho2215 you will always remain an incel like daniel if you dont grow up and and give up that teenage behavior
@@homer1273
A married man is an incel? Are you a child?
He makes me speechless. What is going on! Why they are attacking Sharea’a and Sunna.
May allah guide us all to the right path.
What is going on? Public opinion specialists on the other side work professionally
he is fake muslim
Many dajjalic agents out there. Be careful who you take your deen knowledge from. I have come to learn that it's always been the most harsh sounding brothers i.e the so-called "extremists" who actually uphold the true sunnah. The prophet pbuh said there wil come a time when Islam will seem strange to people. We are living in that time now. And you will see many comprosing their deen just to fit in.
@@Arjunarjunskiy well said brother
War... war is going on my brother.
Secular people say: your deen should only apply to your personal life! Compassionate imams say: your marriage shouldn't be always guided by Quran and Sunna!. Like w Allah these crazy people will cause whomever follows them to become schizophrenic if their faith is not strong, stay away from them!
They are basically trying to change the moral base of muslims from Islam to 'human values' whatever that means
@King Sultan do they? Unfortunately, the majority of the followers of compassionate imams like this joker, yq, os. Menk are women. Makes u fear what will happen when dajjal comes if they can't even see past the deviency of the compassionate simp imams
@kingsultan3 they are not compassionate imams.
They are feminist marriage wrecker Imams
I totally agree with Daniel. I have been feeling this way for many years. If a person is annoyed with Ayats and Hadeeths being quoted then that person's heart is spiritually sick and on life support.
As a Muslim woman and wife, I want to be reminded of what Allah says in the Qur'an and of the Sunnah, and I don't see it like that if a husband reminds her with these two, that it's because he's trying to just get his rights, I actually feel this is an admirable quality for a husband to remind his wife toward righteous actions, to obey Allah and His messenger (saw), this shows true love and concern for HER and her hereafter, so I totally disagree with this brother and what he's saying. JazakAllah Khayr for addressing this br Haqiqqatjou.
Exactly! SubhanAllah. May Allah bless you and your marriage!
@@therebelliousprince0073
Ameen! JazakAllah khair.
masha Allah
I totally agree, Sister. Reminding her of Quran and Sunnah is 100x better than just random argument and far more likely to diffuse the situation. A woman may argue with her husband’s random commands, but she’s much less likely to argue with a reminder from Quran or Sunnah, so many men don’t understand this.
@@kellycharif1526 Exactly!
_"The best marriage advice I have received is: Write the good in stone and write the bad in sand."_
~ Ustādh Daniel Haqiqatjou
May Allah ﷻ bless us all. Ameen!
Akhi you are every where machallah
Mashallah..! Excellent and amazing quote.
*Haqiqatjou
@@qazwsx487 Fixed :)
@@sajjadmehmood2943 Thank you.
Subhanallah. It's like Islamic advice for people who don't like Islam. Or people who think that knowledge is having a beard and a hat. May Allah make us people who utter the Qur'an and Sunnah upon all of our affairs.
I've been married for about 8 years now so not the most experienced but also not complete newbies, and Allah's injunctions are actually a huge source of softening the hearts between my wife and I. We often even quote the most stern of them upon ourselves.
"Islamic advice for people who don't like islam"
Accurate
exactly. they are trying to make the religion pleasing to feminists. when infact they are hiding some parts of the quran and the sunnah to make it pleasing to those that would dislike hearing those parts of the deen. Take the deen in its entirety, either all in or not at all.
Well said brother. That's the cancer that's seeping into our umma
Between you and your wife til you had add new wifes or like the prophet add a child wife.
@@enockt6218 🥱
Brother, thanks for exposing these feminist imams. It's a must.
How is the imam feminist he's saying it to both men and women
Simp Shaykhs.
@@summayahra5315 Wife SHOULD obey husband.... just like husband SHOULD protect and provide
@@summayahra5315 he is telling not to allways follow Qur'an and sunnah in marriage
This is very annoying. I remember taking this course from Abu Eesa when it was first launched and he specifically said that he couldnt marry a woman from the west because of the type of mentality. He himself married a woman from 'back home' So that she would already know to perform as a traditional wife. Whats hes saying now is contradictory to his own life choices. He didnt marry a western independent woman.
We need more videos like this brother Daniel.
These compassionate imams are working hard to impose feminist ideas amongst Muslim women.
It seems they have successfully done so to a large extent...
@@therebelliousprince0073
That's why I say that these "shaykhs" are more dangerous than actual Islamophobes.
An Islamophobe can barely raise some doubts amongst some Muslims but these compassionate imams can misguide thousands within a blank of an eye.
Actually the feminist agenda is so old and worn out now I wouldn't worry.
I know many women who would much rather stay home than work. They're exhausted from doing two jobs and realize that Allah's plan is best.
Most of the time she should be home and he should be out working.
@@dayan47 Unfortunately it isn't, sister.
Infact it has spread accross the muslim world and simping imams like this have made it possible.
Apart from fmnsm, Lib'e'ralis'm, Sec'ula'ris'm and the l'g'b't movement are also ravaging the Ummah...
yes!
He said "relationship are still based upon good all generic value that don't always need the Book of Allah and the Sunnah of the prophet SAW"
As Muslims aren't we supposed to base every aspect of our lives upon the Quran and Sunnah?
Some of these sheikh nowadays are tripping. Alhamdulillah, Islam isn't like Christianity in that we call out misguidance and errors when we see it no matter who they are coming from. Jazaakallahu Khairan for those pointing out these misguidance and errors.
These guys are not Sheikhs, but employed by various NGOs to push their agenda.
This "Shaykh" literally works for the World Economic Forum and was promoting the jab. Anything else? Lol
I had to verify this for myself. I googled it, and I found a page on the WEF website for him. 💀
Don't be an idiot and please get vaccinated, its saved way more lives than it has killed.
What is „the jab“
@@theBakinNoobthe vaccine
Really?😭
Can Shaykh Abu Eesa please tell where did those old generic values had come from and Who taught it? Can those generic values ever supersede the instructions of Quran and Sunnah? Audhubillah
Wife is the husband Boss, husband is the worker that have to pay the boss. That how feminist want.
That’s pretty spot on with the narrative we are constantly being fed into.
Modern marriage counceling comes down to the wife complaining about things that she thinks matter but actually doesn't and then the councelor telling the man to change for her trivial demands. It's where marriages go to die.
Perfectly summarized the situation
Facts
Daniele aziz, I'm so glad you make these critique videos. This is how I found your amazing channel. Damet garm. Ajret ba khoda.
Why is it wrong for a man to ask his wife to be obedient? Just as why would it be wrong for the wife to ask husband to go and work? He's being oppressive and she is ONLY asking for her rights?
And that is exactly the problem with Islam; double standards. Husbands are allowed to do whatever the FCK they want to their wives, but the wives can't do anything at all, to their husbands.
Sorry madam. We Muslim men ALWAYS get what we want. And the poor poor women who doesn't get clothed, kids, half the house, etc is sooo soo opressed. I apologise to unon behalf of Islam. Pls do send imam Abu Esa any questions u may have...
As a sister, I agree 100 % that this indeed is a spreading cancer. Why don't you hear husbands whining about how others' wifes go out everyday working and earning their own money, while the muslim woman stays in the comfort of her home at their expense, in peace and security, with her kids, not having to work hours for money, away from her beloved children.
The amount of ungratefulness amongst the muslim feminists is sickening.
@kl×58. Jzks khaor sister for standing up.for the deen (not my view). May Allah SWT grant all of us understanding of our deen. We need to stop pointing fingers and moaning all the time about each other and just get on with pleasing Allah. That will in turn ensure we work to help each other. Isn't that the key? Husband helps wife. And wife helps Husband. What so difficult to understand there? Why does everything have to be a debate. Lol.
@@tutormeislam2078 Ameen wa iyyaki. Our ultimate goal as muslims is Jannah and if that for women can be reached by being good and obedient to your husband and pleasing him, and especially if this behaviour is pleasing to our Rabb, there should be really no resistence to it. We were only created to please Him. And also not to forget about the beneficial side effects like mutual love and attraction and harmony in the household. Allah is ever merciful to His slaves. May He guide us all to His Straight Path.
If the Muslims looking for a spouse don't use the guidelines from the Quran and Sunnah. If the Muslims within marriage do not give each other rights derived from the Book and the Ahadeeth, then where and what source are we meant to get it from?
from liberalism and feminism
LOL exactly bro. I fully agree. Abu Eesa is tapped
I feel that kind of speech comes from a person under pressure from a surrounding of feminist females.
100%
He’s a simp Shaykh just like so many others out there. We need to call them out more often and expose them.
@@AliHussain-od9fs I think many of these influential preachers have recently become paid agents of the disbelievers with a purpose of injecting deviant, pro-liberal, pro-western, pro-feminist ideology into the minds of Muslims.
In the west, the donations to these compassionate imams and their institutes mostly come from strong indepedent women lol
You can add Mufti Menk to that list too, along with Omar Suleman and his nonsense support for the LGBQT community.
The problem IS is that the Qur'an and Sunna is NOT being used to remind in the marriage. People are letting their egos be their shariah. Letting their emotions be their shariah NOT Islam.
Well said, sister!
@King Sultan What is your point in saying 'mostly women'? This video isn't about mostly this or mostly that. I'm not sure why you felt the need to say a negative about women. Marriage is between 2 people. Both sisters and brothers can be at fault for not taking heed on advice from the Qur'an and sunna, but you want to make it a gender war. You are not helping us be undivided with your constant passive agressivenes. Fear Allah. Try to unite the brothers and sisters, not divide them further. You are only helping the shaytan with your constant negative comments about sisters. If you really wanted to help and be a 'man' take the high road and make the changes that need to be followed by the 'women'.
@King SultanSounds like; pride is an emotion that affect sisters and brothers. You are causing more divisions. Why? Because you won't take any accountability for the male side of the errors. This is narcisissm on a whole new level, you aren't just being narcisist for your own ego, but the whole male gender. It's really odd. This is not Islam to side with your own when they are wrong. Islam is about justice. We only side with the haqq and call out the batil even if it is against our ownselves. You are forgetting that part of the deen. I don't care if someone is a sister or brother, if they are wrong they are wrong. I'm not going to side with sisters just because I am one, which is what you do. You constantly show yourself as someone who isn't sincere but just a trouble maker. Allah doesn't like those who are troublemakers. Causing trouble between Muslims is a major sin. Seek tawba for your actions and please stop commenting on videos until you have matured enough to be able to do it effectively so as to save yourself from sin.
@King Sultan the sisters may be doing more wrong now a days, but that is a reaction to hundreds of year so suppression and oppression and systematic division caused by those wanting to destroy Islam by infiltrating the sisters with feminism. I mean, do I really have to list here what men have done to women over the years here? Something that should never happen from someone who is meant to be the protector. I realise that men are also susceptible to the wass wass but just in a different way. Stop saying women are mostly the problem. If women were mostly the problem, why haven't you all been saying this before? You've only been shouting about it since the women have taken on feminism from the non Muslims. You never said a word when they were docile about it all. I'm not saying they are right, but be a man and take accountability for where it has gone wrong. Nobody likes or respects narcissists.
@King Sultan brother you’ve overdosed on red pills. Men can have ego a fail to admit when they are wrong or have a deficiency. You’re now doing the opposite of simp imams by denying that brothers have issues too. Mainly that they’re not masculine
Surah Qaf, Verse 45:
..فَذَكِّرْ بِالْقُرْآنِ مَن يَخَافُ وَعِيدِ
..therefore remind him by means of the Quran who fears My threat.
I remember reading the Rand corporation's manifesto over 10 years ago after Anwar al awlaki exposed them. Their plan has literally come to fruition since then; with the emergence of these celebrity imams trying to water down and emasculate the deen. I feel sorry for Muslims who take knowledge from these people.
Allah have mercy of Alwaki (ra). A true definition of a man
@Abdullah there was no evidence. still the US murdered the imam and his family. how can you justify the murder of his 8 year old daughter??
@Abdullah I agree he lost his way at the end, but you need to consider why he became like that. He only became radical after the CIA conspired with the Yemeni govt to imprison him after he exposed their Rand agenda. When that happens in the Muslim world it usually comes with torture and abuse. Like Abu Usamah said America made him like that. And he still done more for the deen than you have sitting on your keyboard. May Allah forgive his shortcomings and grant him shahada. Ameen.
@@samfaris313 his life after expdus is unclear/murky...btw, he exposed that long after he was imprisoned. He was imprisoned in 2004, that report was in 2008.
I agree with you, there was a difference before/after imprisonment
On domestic roles, I rememner him saying in one of his series, that a husband and a wife should be worried about responsibilities and not rights. Because the fights for rights will never end, whereas the responsibilities are tenable.
This video is 😮. Imagine if a brother said to his wife “marriage is based on human qualities, not Qur’an and Sunnah. So therefore, my human quality is to be a homemaker therefore I refuse to work.”
"So therefore, my human quality is to be a homemaker therefore I refuse to work"
- Well if you refuse to work then either the wife has to work or the relationship is over. Simple as that.
I love for the sake of Allah brother Haqiqatjou. 😅 . Especially when you said Wow. It’s an amazing reaction. It’s beautiful how you handled the brother video.
Thank you.
May Allah ﷻ guide him. Ameen!
Bro your a legend. You find all the amazing clips.
Thank you brother danial for your eagle eye. May Allah give you reward of morabetoon for keeping check on the teaching of modernists
From indian occupied Kashmi❤❤❤
Did he really just say a marriage is sufficient on "old fashioned" values and don't need Quran and Sunnah?? I can't watch this. This man lost his damn mind. He's getting his values from somewhere else if not the Quran and Sunnah....
I used to consider myself as lucky to be born in a country like India, away from such influences. But now it's all changing for the worse. May Allah guide us all.
Bro me too from India if you just read times of india paper everyday it has of men getting charged with rape charges only when I read further they give the whole truth of how she elope with her partner. If you are male in India trying divorce your wife the court will ruin your life by imposing fines that you have to give to your wife as if she contributed and made you everything, just reading the pathetic cases make me want to leave and go to tribal regions. The legal system is so flawed and now I realised the importance of sharia.
@@oneis1394 yeah man... I feel you. Where in India are you from?
@@ruzainpatel5993 Bombay
@@oneis1394 mai aurangabad se hu
I have seen alot of indian women become a stauch feminist at high alarming rate!
2 mins in, absolute crock. When my marriage was on the rocks, I went to sura Nisa asked for rights straight up. He made fun of the text. I was done. Now my advice to women is, always go back to your and HIS rights. Work out your own deviations also
The thing is most muslims just don’t take Islam seriously anymore its
Just a piece of cultural heritage for them with no authority
It sucks but it is what it is. This won’t change with you quoting Qur’an to people. They will just laugh at you, r exactly how you described. They have absolutely no respect for the Qur’an and the Hadiths. The idea of actually obeying these texts and quoting them fills them with skepticism and impressions of a primitive attitude.
The only way this can change is if the position of Islam in society changes. Right now people treat it as just a piece of culture, and the non muslims look at it as a piece of foreign culture.
Nobody sees Islam for what it was, in the beginning: The religion of God, possessing absolute political, military and social Authority.
Thats what we need to restore before we can start using the Qur’an and Sunnah.
(1) We’ve got to create a legitimate Islamic state
(2) All muslims must be taught the obligation of obeying Allah and His Messenger in all affairs.
Of course, these are monstrously difficult tasks. Many people have tried to complete the first task and failed repeatedly. The second task is a lot easier and its something we can start doing now. That Islam is about *submission* to Allah and His Messenger.
But even this can’t be done to its fullest effect until Islam regains Political Authority. This is the only thing that will give the Qur’an and Sunnah Respect from the Masses.
Then, nobody would have laughed at you for quoting the Qur’an. They would have listened intently and the idea of laughing at somebody quoting the Qur’an would have filled them with dread and disgust.
Wait a min, so if I tell a friend to fear Allah, am I threatening them? Or is it that our friendship is in the dangerous zone ? Or am I being a good friend?
May Allah protect us all during these Ajeeb times! Aameen.
It really depends on what he did and why, but mostly, Fear Allah is used by someone who seen someone do something VERY unacceptable to both to religion and humanity ( e.g. hurt a human, steal without reason and shirk ), and yes. As much as I love Islam I will give you the answer outside of it. Short answer : leave your friend, he will drag you into darkness. Long answer: there’s a lot of studies that basically shows ( you are your friends ) even if you aren’t them or like them at first, but slowly you will be like them, so be sure to surround yourself with people you love and people who is smarter, work harder and generally better. It’s okay to be bad, but you should never stay like that. Stay humble, pray for god and inshallah we meet in heaven!
Quran 11:114
And be constant in praying at the beginning and the end for, verily, good deeds drive away evil deeds: this is a reminder to all who bear [God] in mind.
No wonder many of us Muslims look up to ppl like Andrew Tate who actually affirm the fact that women should obey their husbands.
because the quran affirms that women should obey their husbands quran 4:34
Bro.. if anything Andrew state has taught us/educated us more about women and how they should behave obediently to they’re husbands than these so called simp “Shaykhs”.
@@AliHussain-od9fs and this is why Andrew Tate is being attacked by the western world elites.
i dont agree on many points with tate, but the way he taught young men to stop simping for worthless women is amazing....
This. People tell men that they shouldn't look up to Andrew because he has faults and that's true, but when our "popular imam" advice is to "quack on the phone when your wife tells you to because it's love" no wonder men are listening to Andrew more.
Compassionate imams's first mission is to make fake-muslim feminists feel comfortable while breaking every rule in the book.
Quran 51:55 And remind, for indeed, the reminder benefits the believers.
Daniel, the sound is so great! The microphone is amazing. Makes everything sound 100% legit =)
One of the reasons we need to learn arabic, or we're at the mercy of the translators and the interpretations
If Allah existed, there would be no need to learn Arabic. The only true religion, as proclaimed by the intolerant Islam, should be unfalsifiable in all languages.
Thanks for your opinion, which is nothing more than a waste.
@@Lokournan1 There's a logic to this world, and it doesn't respond to human delusion.
@wisewisdom7879 Why do you assume I don't know other languages? I have a passion for linguistics and I have mastered three languages plus Latin and Greek. Yes, I don't speak Arabic, but your argument for learning Arabic to learn more about the Quran suggests that translations are suspect.
Wow barakallah feek Daniel Haqiqatjou for calling out this so called imam. Unbelievable to see how feminism reach even Islamic preachers. Some women who listen to this guy may not hear the diverted messages, but this just proves that women who tend to be emotional about things will agree to whatever advice they hear as long as it is Islamic and it supports their arguments. Some women are like this, alhamdulillah may Allah keep protecting me from wrong advices, women really need to be super cautious nowadays.
Ameen.
It looks like he is advising couples to reconnect with each other emotionally before resorting the legal requirements. It did not appear that he discarded the law, which he acknowledges exists, but that the priority in time of possible dispute is to understand each other.
His advice was very relevant for a time when men would threaten with legal requirements while overlooking their wives needs. The idea is not to break the marriage with threats while you may actually be unknowingly causing the issues.
Yup. Too bad Daniel was not able to understand this.
I agree.
assalamu alaikum, Bro Daniel. a fan of yours from South Africa. keep up the great work!!! 💪🏾
I remember about 11 years ago when I was a fresh revert to Islam in Minneapolis, Minnesota and Al-Maghrib Institute seminars started popping up on the scene. I went to a couple of the free Fridays but never actually attended the courses because I realized that the events were being used as free mixing events in-between the classes by a lot of attendants. I'm sure khayr came from those events but it just wasn't for me. Interesting to see the stuff they are peddling these days and better yet, what the compassionate imams who once made those events their stomping grounds are up to. I think I made the right decision.
I don’t think that is what he meant. I think he just didn’t articulate himself well. I think what he is saying is , use the the Quran and sunnah as advice and way of life and NOT using ayahs to abuse your authority, but rather use hikmah (wisdom) in your approach.
Yeah that's probably right
This is EXACTLY What he means but doing videos on people is the thing now smh
I wonder how Bro. Daniel is able to go to sleep at night. It's very obvious Abu Eesa used the wrong choice if words. Any sane, reasonable person knows precisely what he is saying. He's saying that let your marriage be based on understanding, empathy and tolerance. If you always bring my rights, your rights into the argument, then that marriage is already set on a slippery slope. Someone needs to keep Bro. Daniel in check. I mean, what kind of adab is this? Misunderstanding your brother and lampooning him in public so much so that a commenter is calling Abu Eesa a dajjal? Bri. Daniel, how can you sleep with the knowledge of the futnah you've caused?
I almost took this "course" lol.
That guy is a clown. Quite sad that some people actually take him seriously. Keep up the good work Daniel!
إنَّ اللهَ لاَ يَقْبِضُ العِلْمَ انْتِزَاعاً يَنْتَزعهُ مِنَ النَّاسِ، وَلكِنْ يَقْبِضُ العِلْمَ بِقَبْضِ العُلَمَاءِ، حَتَّى إِذَا لَمْ يُبْقِ عَالِماً، اتَّخَذَ النَّاسُ رُؤُوساً جُهَّالاً، فَسُئِلُوا فَأفْتوا بِغَيْرِ عِلْمٍ، فَضَلُّوا وَأضَلُّوا
As a Muslim pashtun your right brother. This guy Abu is a feminised pashtun male. He don't represent the islamic pashtun warriors. This guy is a waffler tryna please the American society like omar S. Take care my brother. Salams from Kandahar Afg.
As-salamu alaykum
Brother Daniel you’re doing a great job
Unfortunately, I could not finish watching the whole video. This so-called (Imam) makes my blood boil.🤬
Always glad that you let us know about the madkhalis lurking around
We can't use Quran and sunnah to claim man's right. That’s the actual messege i got from him.
Very sad.
Lol, it’s an absolute joke bro. Simp Shaykhs I call them, fuelling the feminist agenda/narrative if anything. Way too soft.
Whats new?
He is a feminist marriage wrecker Imam.
One of the agents of minor dajjal.
From the very beginning i can see that this man is trying to mislead people.
May Allah guide us and guide him brother.
Who called him a sheikh? 🤨
I don't
You should keep to these kinda content which is important
He basically says that if you are threatening your wife with the hereafter then your marriage is messed up and at the same time he says that wives don't have to obey their husbands but he forget verse 4:34 where the husband has to correct his wife WHEN she is disobedient. So that means that the marriage is messed up WHEN the wife is disobedient. QED.
But does the wife have the right to 'correct' their husbands, WHEN HE is disobedient? No? What's up with the double standards?
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Does the son have the right to correct his Father ? What's up with the double standards ?
@@haafilah2003 men are the leaders. They are naturally more dominant. Double standards as men and women are different and have different roles to play
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@@haafilah2003 Its about leadership. Sons, although men, don't even have the right to say "ah" what more to say raise their voice against their mothers. But now wife enslave husband, and children enslave mothers, if not abandon her the first chance they got. Maybe the mother would remember religion at this point of time.
You are absolutely right brother Daniel... such types of shaikh are corrupting people's wives
That intro tho.. 🤣🤣
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If my wife wouldn't quote Qur'aan and Sunnah to me I never would have married her.
لا جول ولا قوة الا بالله ،، نسأل الله العافية والسلامة، يا رب ثبت قلوبنا على الحق حتى نلقاك
Br. Daniel, may Allah Subhaanahu Wa Ta'ala guide, preserve you and let you among the mukhliseen. I thank you from the bottom of my heart for exposing these fake/misguided people posing as Muslim leaders. May Allah Subhaanahu Wa Ta'ala guide and protect us all from such and all pitfalls.
Allahumma Ameen 🤲🏿
To be fair he never said its the man's fault if the wife is upset! He said that if things get to the stage where each person is quoting their rights, it means its going to be a strained relationship, where both are defending their position.
And there's an Islamic solution for this situation. It's mentioned in Quran and I hope you already know it.
But a reminder, in this situation, Allah says to those around them, family or neighbours or friends, try to mediate between them. If that doesn't help, they can go to an imam or a judge.
Jazzak Allahu khayran Daniel
Mohammed soussi on deen love podcast is quite good. Talks about marriage and masculinity and other issues. He’s solid Allahuma baarik
Love your Islamic perspective, may Allah bless you. May Allah guide feminist sheikhs
Look at his hand movements he doesn’t even behave like a man and giving us men marriage advice. Calling him a “Shaykh” is an “insult” to our scholars
A bit gay isn't it
@@homtanks7259 I wouldn’t be surprised if he came out as a gay 5-6yrs down the line
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Literal clowns... Takes everything literally.... Ur a joke
If Daniel is such a man why didn’t he protect his sister?
What do these imams get out of corrupting the deen? Are they directly on payroll? How does it work?
just to fill their backpacks with content
SubhanaAllah. If we are not basing our life on the Quran and Sunnah, then are we even supposed to call ourselves muslims? It's funny and sad at the same time how this so called shaykh is so confused and doesn't know from whose perspective is he talking about. JazakaAllah brother Daniel for unveiling the true colors of these "Compassionate Imams"
This was comprehensive enough to pre-emptively destroy the usual "out of context" sillyness. I used to watch al-Maghrib content years ago but never came across this video. I remember in the first podcast with Ustadh DH that I said how "maybe" these compassionate organisations start off well-intentioned but then once they grow to have employees and monetary targets and overheads, you can imagine how things can quickly derail towards trying to appease the event paying audience. Not that that justifies it in the slightest, as pointed out by DH in our interview, but guess who the majority of event and seminar attendees are for such speakers? Sisters. That shouldn't matter in terms of their content but I'm struggling to see how anyone could otherwise justify putting stuff out like this.
You're right akhi, the video is up for years and nobody is giving attention to this video. These kind of idiots who portray themselves as imams while they distort the islamic teachings in horrible ways have to be confronted massively. I'm relieved that somebody who has the same respect as i have for islamic values can act like a spokesperson for me and say almost all the things i want to say to these simps, except you can articulate it in a kinder way. Its difficult for me to treat such simps in a kind way, so its good there's somebody who can act on behalf of me. Continue to blast these people, it is much appreciated. Stay safe and sharp
I feel like p.n.....g these feminists marriage wrecker imams whenever I see them misguide so many people by saying and doing things that are contrary to Quran and Sunnah
Br. Daniel really loves his tea
the bar for women is sooo low that even asking for a tea is considered as a big task for her in marriage, while husbands are always taught to provide and protect... huge round of applause for Simp Abu Eesa
Big facts bro, you couldn’t have said it any better. Abu Eesa is a well known waffler and always has been (at least when it comes to the topic of marriage). Throughout this 3 or 4 mins or so video clip, the guy’s just waffling the whole time lol. Just get straight to the point.. women are to serve, be respectful and show obedience to their husbands. The guy’s a simp and afraid he’s going to be called out by these feminists or just women in general.
I can’t actually believe people legit go to him for marriage advice.. he’s beyond a joke and a waffler. He’s one of so many simp imams/Shaykhs contributing and fueling the Muslim marriage crisis. Honestly bro.. sometimes I wonder that these very same people are part of the problem and making things much worse than they already are.
in what world do you live subhanAllah.
is it a western thing
because almost everywhere the bar for husbands and fathers is below the ground apparently 🤣
To all my brothers and sisters, sporting a beard these days is merely a fashion statement if it’s not accompanied by the Quran and Sunnah
I agree with daniel, a strange course for a daee.
The quran and sunnah involve legal matters but also how to interact as humans and how to develop chararcter by showing mercy being kind being brave etc.
I'm glad I've never heard of this sheikh before up until this video. 🙄
Same here
Sheikhs like babling abu shabi esaa are just secular democratic liberal cucks. Don't take them seriously.
Thank you brother Daniel allahamdulilah
What he said was SHOCKING!
Doesn’t qualify to even a student of knowledge, let alone passing it out.
This video exposes your level of ilm.
That guy is just a meme factory at this point 😂
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Good one, sis. 🤣
So is the literal clown that takes thing's literally. What did he try covering at 20.35 mins "guided by Islamic principles"
blind literal clown
@@Samia_19 😐 What do you mean, sister?
@@therebelliousprince0073 sorry I tagged the wrong person, I guess the other brother deleted his comment
This turns out to be a nice roast 😜😂
Thank you Daniel for addressing these fake Imam's!
May Allah bless you...
It is not a coincidence that all these "compassionate Imams" give this kind of advice in societies where it is politically expedient and convenient to do so.
SubhanAllah, it's shocking how a muslim "scholar" can say those problematic views.
Jazakallah khair br Daniel for exposing this kind of destructive advices.
When I see bro Daniel's content I like first watch later. Must be something interesting and funny.
Shows that you are a programmed sheep. You didn't even watch the content and already agree with it.
@@shaz2761 By the time you are writing this reply I finished watching the video. Abu Esa's minions are as pathetic as him.
@@juxtapositionMS I know right. How dare anyone disagree with someone who you Simp after!
@@shaz2761 If you knew then you would not have made such pathetic comment to simp for this deviant Abu Esa. Clearly you are both a liar and an ignorant like AE himself.
Good job brother Daniel!
Thank you for this video Daniel. This man is trying to destroy marriages.
Just as Dr. Israr Ahmed said: We've taken the worship aspects from Islam but the entire system of life we want from the West". Where there is no following the Law of Allah but one of the Self only.
compassionate Imam vibes , no thanks! JazakAllahu khairan Ustadh Daniel
May God Almighty keep people like Daniel firm upon the right path and may Allah bless his intention for years to come.
Assalam alikum brothers and sisters from around the world. May Allah save me from these kind of imams, all those sisters who listen to them. I reather be alone then having to deal with a modern Muslim woman. These so called imams need to resign immediately and stop spreading misinformation.
Masha Allah your doing a amazing job exposing these simp imams massive problem here in uk great work keep it up 👍🏼
According to him, we don't even need Islam, we can just be good humans based on "generic morals".
Lol.
Brother you are going to a dangerous road if he really said that provide evidence because if he did this is not a simple marriage issue anymore
This is getting insane with these Simps that called "Imams"