Americans MEN Are Dating Overseas! WHY?!
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- čas přidán 16. 08. 2024
- Why Are American Men Dating Overseas in places such as Thailand, the Philippines, etc? Dating in Asia as a foreigner.
American men are increasingly looking eastward in their quest for love. A rising tide of romance-seekers from the States are finding their hearts ensnared by the charm of Southeast Asia, but what's behind this cross-cultural fascination?
Pull of the Exotic and the Enthralling
At the heart of this trend lies an allure towards the exotic and the novel. From the bustling markets of Bangkok to the tranquil beaches of Bali, Southeast Asia offers a distinctly different life rhythm compared to the usual hustle and bustle of American cities. These differences in culture, tradition, and lifestyle become a compelling curiosity that often morphs into deeper attachments.
The Appeal of Traditional Values
At times, the charm lies not just in the exotic landscape but within the cultural fabric itself. Southeast Asia, with its tapestry of rich traditions and values, often holds appeal for those who feel that Western societies are drifting away from family-centered life and values. These men are often attracted by the perceived strong emphasis on family and relationships in Asian societies.
Economic Advantages
One cannot overlook the economic motivations behind such cross-continental romance. Cost of living and relative wealth can be influential factors. Some American men find that their dollar stretches further in Southeast Asia, allowing for a better quality of life and the potential for securing a comfortable future together with their chosen partner.
Dating Dynamics
The dating scene in America can be fraught with complexity and confusion. On the flip side, some men find that dating dynamics in Asia are more straightforward, making the process less stressful and more enjoyable. This, combined with the warmth and hospitality common in Southeast Asian cultures, makes for a tantalizing mix.
Online Connectivity and Globalization
In an age of increased connectivity, meeting someone from a different continent is just a few clicks away. Online dating sites and apps have played a significant role in fostering these international connections. As globalization advances, so too does the fusion of cultures and the breaking down of barriers to international romance.
Paradise or Mirage?
This romantic quest overseas isn't always without its pitfalls. Language barriers, cultural misunderstandings, and differing expectations can create tension. It's critical for those seeking love in Southeast Asia to approach the journey with an open mind and a willingness to understand and embrace the cultural nuances.
But on a counterfactual note, had the internet not revolutionized our world, would we see such a trend? The ease of global connectivity has certainly amplified the international dating scene. What once might have been rare and exceptional, now is commonplace and increasingly the norm.
This shift in romance geography offers a vibrant and fascinating window into the ever-evolving dynamics of human relationships. It underscores the fact that love knows no boundaries, and for many, the quest for companionship will always chart its own course, no matter how unexpected the journey might be.
From this perspective, it’s clear that while American men seeking love in Southeast Asia may be drawn by a blend of novelty, tradition, economics, and the modern dating scene, ultimately, they're just like anyone else in the world - trying to find a place where their hearts feel at home.
00:00 - American men dating abroad
00:20 - The bigger picture of Asia dating
00:41 - Why are men dating in Asia?
01:22 - Society in the west
01:27 - How men feel about dating
01:50 - A few facts about dating in America
02:25 - Researching American & Asian dating
06:29 - Other points of view
07:02 - Expat dating advice for Philippines / Asia
08:30 - Passport Bros Videos
10:00 - Trends of Overseas Dating Article
11:30 - What Expats have said about dating in Southeast Asia
11:54 - The direction
13:44 - Extra Information dating abroad
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After two marriages in the USA, at age 57 I moved to Mexico and found a traditional wife. Life is good.
How is dating in Mexico? I'm 40 and just retired, finances are good, and looking to move to either Mexico, Costa Rica, or Ecuador. I'm in Canada, it's cold and I'd say 75%+ of the women are busted and overweight here, guaranteed divorces too.
Fine, just leave the feminist ego trip woman alone. Traditional woman in other parts of the world will be happy be a good wife instedt.
@@dans78 yessir you got that right
I learned from men like you, as a Millenial. I agree with the idea that women in the West are not worth the effort anymore, especially after all the negatives that come with even the most basic relationship with a Western woman, which gets worse as more the depth is added to the relationship. I have been the guy no Western woman wants for a long time, while watching the men in my life that women 'want' get completely used, destroyed, and discarded like trash by the same kind of women I once wanted to marry and start a family with. What I once thought was a curse turns out to have been a major blessing. I have since then found a good woman from Eastern India where Feminism hasn't begun an infestation, and now I am genuinely happy. Unfortunately, I have to bring her back to the US so we can complete our ambitions before we can leave the country, but she has already agreed to be a stay-at-home mother, and while she still wants to work due to cultural reasons, she has also agreed to work from home.
@@camels9654 Mexico has the highest rate of obesity according to statistics. Honestly, I would recommend moving to South America altogether, but do your research and learn the language first. For example, Argentina has a lot of cultural and genetic Italians and Germans.
Having been married to two entitled crazy US women, I understand the concept.
You didn't have enough the first time, you went for seconds? lol
You have to go and see in person Chris. You'll thank me later. Philippines first stop
Yessir
@@nocapnobs7845 The sequel was much kinder but still full of crazy. At least the sex was good.
It's possible to meet good western women (though none of my close friends have) but the quickest indicator for me on when to bail was how a Westerner treats her parents.
I'm 63. I have been married to a Filipina for almost 6 years. My ex-wife was from the U.S., like me, but our marriage was a nightmare. I've dated many women, and never had trouble finding a date. I stopped dating American women because so many of them are entitled, argumentative, and made me realize I was happier being single than being with them. I finally went to the Philippines and met my wife. I have 2 other American friends that also married women in the Philippines, and both of them have never been happier. My wife is college educated, and didn't need me to bring her out of poverty. She is traditional, and I am 1000 times happier with her than I ever was with an American woman!
Same here, my bro! I love my wife and Im so happy with her! She is a great wife and an awesome, commited mother to our child!
Amen brother never again
Yes in many cases these women want to escape their poverty but if she finds happiness in that and the men also find this a satisfactory arrangement I don’t see what’s wrong with that. The expectations on both sides are clear. She is prepared to start a family and be committed to it. But if u think that means slavery u have a big surprise. They are not stupid and have their own pride and will.
Spot On Sir …..
Many western women use shaming language to make any choice a man makes sound like there are bad intentions. But see, they are projecting what they do and jealous. Most men are pretty straight forward in what they want. However, many western women will say anything to tear down another person.
Never fall for it. Good men finding a good women is always a great thing.
worst, many of these passport bros end up with bargirls or girls who come with baggages.
@@didiermontagnier6114 u cant tar them all with the same feather. I have married a former bargirl and I am not naive or stupid but she has been a gem. These girls do what they have to do to survive. They have their own morals. But for some of them, they are committed to a serious relationship
@@koonsiang0345
would you date a freelancer in your own country?
Philippines is truly paradise...for so many reasons.
For real.
Passport Bro "agreeing"...
Concur….
Absolutely true!!
Lived there for 10 months. Be careful, theft is off the chain
I'm in my 30's, am in great shape, eat right, have a healthy dose of confidence and charisma, and look like I'm in my 20's. I used to be able to go around and approach people that I thought looked cool, interesting, or cute (in the case of girls). I'd usually get positive reactions and had many fun conversations, made lots of friends, met girlfriends, went on impromptu adventures, insta-dates, and overall had many very positive experiences. Sure, there'd be guys who were dicks and girls who wanted nothing to do with me, but overall, it was fun and positive.
I went overseas to Asia for a few years and found that it was even better! I felt so carefree and had many experiences of going out at the beginning of the night with no plan, talked with and met people and had awesome adventures.
Then I came back to the US...and uh...things had changed. Suddenly girls were on the defense. Even if they seemed to be enjoying the interaction, they would never follow it up with a number or anything. Girls I met at places I frequented, like the gym, would act very outgoing and playful, then do a 180 and avoid me the next time I saw them.
Suddenly I was being told that I "made girls feel uncomfortable" for making jokes or lightly flirting. I got kicked out of places and ostracized. Not once did I touch anyone or make any dirty or sexual comments. No, it's just that being a man and playfully flirting is now "toxic masculinity" and is unacceptable.
I blame the woke left, the 4th wave feminism and MeToo movement for painting men as predators and toxic, making it impossible to approach someone and connect on a human level. But in Asia, men can still be men and it's no problem. So yeah, if you're a guy in the West, GET OUT and move to Asia. You won't regret it.
Idiot box telling people what to do😢
@@yuwannakno1269Did the part where I made fun of lefties hurt your feelings or something man?
Edit* So someone here made me realize that I completely misinterpreted your comment. As such, please accept my apology, I left the original comment up because I acted like an idiot and need to own it.
I hear ya, FP! You CANNOT approach or interact with anyone in the West anymore without being labelled. It is not a world I want to be a part of.
If I wasn't in a happy and stable long term relationship and employment, I would be in SE Asia right now. (I even want to retire there much to the chagrin of my Asian wife).
Find your happiness in SE Asia. These woke Western women require some much needed personal re-evaluation. (Maybe take a lead from Sinead O'Conner... 🙄)
@@fuzzypanda1684 chill, I think by "idiot box" they mean TV. it's a slang for TV. the mainstream media does tell people what to do. but a woman also need to be very soft in the brain to believe everything that's 'taught' there...
@@fumomofumosarum5893 Haha, wow I think you're right. I haven't heard that term in such a long time I didn't even think about that use of it. I thought it was just a lazy insult. Well damn, don't I feel like an idiot box now 😂
Women in eastern asia is far more better as wifes - then modern feminist woman in west
Yes. And usually so are east asian women in the US. I mean the BOBA (brought over by airplane) or their 1st gen children raised strictly by Asian parents. They leave our murican girls behind!
Its odd that being feminine is almost the exact opposite of being a feminist. Being feminine has always been what it is for thousands of years. Being feminist means having all the authority of men, the accountabilities of a woman, and the responsibilities of a small child.
Feminism demands that women be handed the world to them on a silver platter with zero risk.
So much insight here. Subbed! I am a 50yo Caucasian Aussie, married for 22 yrs to a 55yo Chinese Singaporean.
We have two highly achieving sons (thanks to the Asian importance place upon education) with strong genetics.
I had relationships with local women who were entitled, manipulative and unappreciative. I thought I was going to be happily single.
Western women in general, have only themselves to blame for the exodus. Congrats to all the happy "passport bros"!
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So Australia has bad women too?! Man it's spreading too fast...
Yep. I'm married to a Filipina now, and she is wonderful. As our boys get older, I will discourage them from marrying an American woman, because the American culture poisons the minds of young women.
They Call It Getting Americanized.
Probably the white inferiority. Rah these democrats are so right. They warned you: whites must disappear, mixing is the future. Diversity is a strength!
After 2 US marriages, and just returning from Thailand a few days ago for the first time. It’s time to move! I’m out.
Enjoy yourself, man. You deserve it. Build a castle and let women clean that shit up real nice. Lol
Look in the right places and you'll find an amazing companion for life.
You clearly didn't learn your lesson if you think the women there are any different
@@alexvig2369 ha ha ha hee hee. Good point. Get another one. But this time get a real stupid 3rd world whore with the worst genes possible that is dying to breed. Hilarious
Men need to completely stop giving them out time, attention, and money, have self respect and treat them INVISIBLE. They earned it.
I've ran through many American entitled nasty women, now 53 flew to the Philippines to meet my friends sister. Absolutely 100% better women. K1 visa in motion and lovin the backlash of the nasties here at home. My woman now is educated, beautiful, respectful and most of all feminine. Going from nasty to true intentions
Same for me and in complete agreement
Good luck bringing her back and not getting westernized.
Congrats on escaping the Plantation!!! & finding a Loving Woman
@@surfguy777 I'm not worried about that. I met her through her sister that's been married to my friend for over fifteen years, happily. These men that go and find a poor girl half their age my have to worry about it
You look beautiful together
I am a product of this type of marriage. And I can give you my own insight:
Foreign women have a personality trait, that's not as common with Western women. Especially with online dating.
Guys don't want "independent" women because of all the meme-level expectations. And if he runs out of money, or nudges her the wrong way: She packs up and leaves.
They want a woman who will actually be there. And recognize an important situation when it happens. Somebody who can actually validate them as a human being. Along with a genuine sense of honesty.
And you usually end-up with children who are smarter. Because the women they marry are more mature.
Some guys in the West feel disillusioned with online dating. And they think they won't find it in their country. So, they look for it somewhere else.
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I'd have to disagree. Men want a women bound to house, cook clean and spread legs, foreign women especially in third world countries like Philippines, Columbia etc are never have college or job opportunities, many are in poverty so they don't know any better. That's why they agree to be so called "traditional" wives because it gets them out of poverty not because they actually like those men. Go to India Japan, south Corea, etc you ain't gonna find those "traditional women" because women there can hold their own and don't need man to tell them what to do
I got married at 25 while stationed in South Korea. My wife was a Nurse, but many women make comments that I must have not been able to find a match here and my wife must have been living in poverty. My wife is older than me by 3 years. We are still married, after 34 years together. Not once have I received negative comments from other men, but women seem to feel free making assumptions about my wife and I.
It's so true. Family unit is critical. Commitment and sacrifice are critical
today it's " every WOMAN only for herself and each other! "
I met a few very nice Canadian women, but even back in the 90s the entitlement and feminism were getting bad, so I moved overseas and found a wonderful more traditional Korean wife.
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It does not matter where you go to find love around the world. Women always think whats in it for ME.! Money talks shit walks.
Yes that’s absolutely true that’s just female nature but u can more bang for ur buck outside of the western hemisphere
@@HippobottomlessOr you could get better women that add value instead of costing money. My wife (we are both black from the US) tripled our online business income during the pandemic and she started them in the first place so she could care for me 24-7 after I had a knee surgery. A good woman is priceless.
Whatever my community values the broader society doesn't care about until I went overseas.
Ive been single for 10yrs and I'm tired of being treated like a ATM MACHINE and I'm not rich enough for American women 😢
I live in the Netherlands and I have the same experiences... they're not interested in me, but only in how much I make ☹️
"The more likely situation is that there will be more pressure ... placed on men ...": Don't make me laugh. If a guy living in Asia is happily married vs. being miserable in the US, he's not going to give a rat's ass about the self-righteous judgement of women here.
Amen! What I fear may happen, though, is that it becomes more difficult to get a passport and travel. Remember the Kung-Flu restrictions?
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
@LenParliament5 Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?
@LenParliament5 Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
I've heard the same thing from my parents and sister. But my cousin and cousin in law agree and think I should give it a try.
I was married for 35 years this time I was courted by a 27 year old Japanese woman who is also a specialist MD. WE have A 10 month old daughter and all is great in my life.
What kind of specialty are you
At 0:25 you say it is not just the US, what you didn't elaborate is that those other nations you listed are all considered WESTERN nations, more specially of the Anglo-speaking West. Ask yourself if there is a commonality occurring in the English-speaking West that is causing males of all ethnicities to look to Asia for marriage material.
Also, at 4:30 hit on a VERY important point, one which is the crux of why East Asia tends to be more stable in the long-term. Confucius said it best: "The Strength of the Nation is derived from the integrity of the family". Confucius was born the illegitimate son of a noble lord. Unlike many such men, he wanted to prevent others for experiencing the broken family environment he lived. There is a reason why Confucius is considered the pinnacle of Asian philosophical thought.
1. WESTERN culture is in decline everywhere. This is why some folks think the USA, Europe, and Canada will cease to be dominant economically in the coming future. (I disagree, because while the West is in decline, it is still, "the best house in a crappy neighborhood.")
2. I was raised by both parents stressing the primacy of the family unit. As this tends to rely on gender roles, the nuclear family is under attack as being oppressive, or something. Madness if you ask me, but I guess if folks want to live in chaos that is their choice.
@@grumpymcgrump5822 I agree with you that while the West is in decline, there is not really anything that can replace it.
The Totalitarianism of resurgent Maoism in China is a trojan horse and will implode under the weight of its own stifling behavior. The fickle and capricious nature of autocracy in Russia along with the rampant corruption will prevent that nation from ever threatening the West again.
There is a reason why South American economies crumble when they put kleptocratic left-wing politicians in power. From Hugo Chavez and Maduro in Venezuela to Lula da Silva in Brazil, the continent can't seem to get the monkey off their back.
"Beautiful thai women with super basic white dudes" But if both parties are happy and both have their needs met, who are you to judge? The man knows he will be paying for most everything but at least he knows his girl will be faithful, kind, and feminine, and that's worth it's weight in gold to some men.
If you see lots of fat white chicks with black men, won't you make the obvious judgement? She's doing exactly the same thing right here and she's justified to do so.
Nothing has to be wrong these days, if a woman is tired, bored, lonely, feeling down, encouraged by her friends or thinks life is greener on the other side of the fence, she will throw it all away on a whim and seek to "upgrade". Then she'll complain when there is no "upgrade" or even what she had before any more, then she decides it's a man's fault she made that decision and took those actions...
Now who wants to be on the receiving end of that...
I grew up in a family dynamic that had both a mother and father. Both of my parents worked, but my father was and is the primary "bread winner". They are still married. For all my life, this is the kind of lifestyle everyone I knew expected to be. From college years through old age. Now, I'm not able to work, therefore, being a "bread winner" is no longer an option. Lost.
Why not? Injury?
Women in Western countries are more money motivated & materialistic than the rest of the entire world! If you want a woman that is interested in you a man, Asia is the best place to be- I know - I have traveled extensively and I made the decision to buy a place there to stay at least 6 months out of the year. I’m also selling one of my 3 homes in the USA not because I can’t get beautiful women here but because I don’t like their mindset & the onerous laws on their behalf! Better Women, Better Times, Better Lives, Better Laws Overseas! No BS. No Liabilities. ✅
These laws are downright evil
With physical and economic factors considered, I'm about a 5 at best in the U.S. My filipina fiancé sees it quite differently :)
Fellas, get your passport🛫
Got it!
After my wife of fourteen years filed for divorce, after cheating on me, i was devastated. Fourteen years of marriage and two children, were thrown away like it was nothing. Some time after the divorce I dated American women, and got the same response from them. American women believe marriage is some sort of trap for women. I stumbled across some foreign websites and began talking to a foreign woman. No, she wasn't eighteen years old, and in fact she had two children like me. I flew to her country and we married. Eleven years and counting, and we are in still love.
Women are the same everywhere. The customs and laws in other countries hold them back , but if they can they will take you the the cleaners. I have heard stories of men moving to other countries and couldn't put the properties in there names so put them in there wives name and she took the kids and all the properties after divorcing.
We met 25 years ago and I have been married for 20 years and counting to a Filipina/German raised by her full Filipina mother.
I'm 27, I had dated several times, had several relationships, the longest I had was 2 years and only lasted that long because I didn't waver my traditional values. But she didn't, she immediately wanted to get married 3 months in, I didn't allow it, she wanted to move in immediately and have children 6 months in our relationship, I didn't allow it because we were not in the time to have all of that and as I told her I first have to live with her for 1 year before even considering marriage or kids but had to date her at least 6 months to allow living together. As that's how my parents did it "old school way".
She was perusing nursing during this time so it's another reason why I didn't want to do what she wanted, I told her first to focus on graduating or prioritize being a traditional wife for me to consider children or marriage as it's an expense I have to think about and take care of it. She didn't like it on how strict and structured I was being, called me controlling and a monster. When all I was doing is making sure we have less things to stress about and be able to fully put our attention and effort rather than have it split; I didn't want to be like my parents where I had them both until I was 5 years old because then we moved into a house that we can barely afford, and my mother going to college, forced both of my parents to work, so I barely saw them.
I grinded hard at work to be able to help her pay for nursing, we went out on dates and several good entertainments. I was going to take her to our first big trip to a crusade from the U.S to Hawaii and propose to her. But beforehand I had dark month where everything was going wrong for me, long story short I broke down, it took me that whole month to recover, afterwards I got back on my feet quickly, the sad part was during that dark month she cheated on me just because I was not the man, she thought I was. I did everything what I could for her the several times of her breaking down for 2 years, but I had only 1 for a month and stabbed me on the back with no hesitation. I could've cheated on her several times with women who were way hotter than her, but I didn't because I was loyal.
At the end I dodge a bullet, I tried dating several times and I'm disgusted on how women are nowadays. Even the woman at work that I flirted with chose the other guy than me but then wanted me so much because the guy pumped and dumped her, got knocked up by him and she tried to pass/trap me with the baby, hahaha... no, I aint raising someone's child because she couldn't keep her legs closed.
The amount of single mothers that hit on me and only want me because I'm financially stable and got things in order is baffling, it's even more baffling because the ones that are not single mothers don't give me a shot because I hit every of their criteria but 1 which is earning 6 figures, but when they find out what I really have, oh they come at me so fast but nope I won't put up with it. The amount of women still acting like highscool girls is seriously alarming... and they say us men should grow up?
I know I have vented/ranted quite a bit but to end it off, I at the age of 27, I'm tired of dating women in the west. I got my passport, got some things in motion but coming October I'm flying oversees and saying goodbye to the women in the west.
What? Jonathan doesn't blame women but blames society, and feminism, and divorce laws? How that doesn't say "women" to you is beyond me. My good friend could never get a second date. He is a real nice guy but the women found him boring and stodgy. After analyzing the situation that over 50% of the marriages is the US ended end in divorce and women filed almost 80% of the time, he decided to go Ukaine to find a wife. He is happily married for 15 years and has 2 beautiful children.
Twelve years of heaven and hell being married to a chinese female.
She told me i should of married a Japanese woman if i wanted a good wife. She also told me she wanted a divorce so she could marry a richer man. I confess i laughed and wished her luck.
She left me the house. My wages and pension intack. Her choice. Divorce cost 175$ court cost. No attorneys and i did all the paper work😊
First wife an American cost 9 grand for an attorney and she went after all. She lost and I got custody and 200$ a month. Never saw a dime but thats ok.
Obesity rate alone is a justification
We got drugs to fix that now lol
These men are saying they don't blame women, but they should. Women are the ones at fault.
Yes women do share some of the fault but I would mainly blame the matrix
Fantastic insight!!! I hope others will see this video. I have lived much of this for the past 23 years and I am very happy with my second wife and live a balanced life with her very happy also!
Here is the difference:
Western Women: what is in it for me?
Foreign: what can I do for him?
West: individualism is cherished
Foreign: Relationship is the goal
West: Masculine women, feminine men
Foreign: feminine women, masculine men
As an American when I am with a foreign woman I feel appreciated, cherished and there is honor in how she treats me. None of that happens in the West. When she held all the leverage I got nothing but abuse, I felt used and taken advantage of. Now that I have the leverage, I am going where I feel appreciated and my options are much better. Going to Asia is one of those places.
A friend of mine once posted on insta a funny post about latina women. I commented "I agree, latina women are something else". Then I kept getting bombarded by notifications from a chick (American) going to war with every guy in the thread that agreed with me, that was after constantly trashing me for what I said. I ignored her, not bothering to reply back.
My fiance' is from Shanghai. In that region she is considered to be a 'throw away woman', because she is over 26 and not married. She has spent her time educating and teaching primary age girls dance and ballet. She has traditional family values, and looks to me as the man she trusts with her future, as I will trust her to take care of the family, as she does her own. I had 2 serious relationships end badly in the US because of infidelity and the entitled "I need to be entertained 24 hours per day" syndrome. My heart is now at peace.
I hit the jackpot with my girlfriend, who is Chinese. It might also be that she is the same age as me and we like similar music, movies, videogames, and clothing (the Chinese entertainment she grew up with and recommended is outstanding), but she holds the same values as me. I had a very hard time, even as a fit, educated, somewhat well to do guy, meeting western women who valued things like civility, cleanliness, selflessness, self-reliance, and the mundane. It's so refreshing to have a conversation with someone so grounded that they notice things like pretty clouds and a nice breeze. She has her quirks, and there are things she doesn't like about me, but our relationship is just about as close to what I envisioned for myself based on the relationship my parents have with each other: my best friend is my partner.
I just got engaged with my long term Thai girlfriend and gonna get married this December. We're together because of our common fundamental values, interests and attraction to each other. Many people initially said she's after my money until I told them she makes 2 times more money than i do working in an international company. Most of the times its not just about Asian girls dating foreigners for money or security, its about what we want from each other and common factors I guess
Same. My girlfriend is Chinese but everything else applies to the letter (even the wedding in December). It's like a breath of fresh air to find someone who shares values and common interests. Even our sense of humor is similar, when advanced grammar doesn't apply.
@@12ealDealOfficial Really happy for you and congratulation to both of you in advance as well. Welcome to the team
The main reason for that is the lack of religious faith and spirituality in modern society compounded with modern women thirst for liberation, liberty and freedom to do whatever they want. The common point about women in southeast asia is that most have been raised under strict dogma of religious rules and dedication toward men and the nuclear family, which is the polar opposite of what modern women aspire to be. My only fear is that we will reach a point where women would have to pay men services and attention like it is the case in Asian countries with too much western influence ( japan, south korea)
NBM, have two friends that went to the Philippines, once u marry you become the provider for the whole village, anyone else hear about this?
We are dumping men over the BARBIE MOVIE. Thats how bad it is now 💣
Women will never agree their the reason. And it hurts them more
This is going mainstream and it's happening before my eyes. Ive watched men for a decade nearly complain about their issues with American women on CZcams. Women will either adjust or turn out like Japan
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As an East Asian man, I would like to say to all people coming to Asia dating Asian women, the Asian people generally do not see anything wrong about marriage with foreigners, as long as the other party respect the local culture, and participate in taking care of the family. There is no real regulation about gender equality, because there can never be true equality, but both men and women are equal in Asia because both gender play their respective roles in the family.
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The #1 reason is child support.... You get a girl pregnant then you have to pay child support for the next 18 years. FUCK THAT!
So whose responsibility should it be?
Yep. Women have reproductive choice but men do not. There is no equal protection under the law. The law is inherently misandrist.
@@johnlacey3857 If a woman leaves a man for another man he shouldn't be force to pay the bitch. We are providers not slaves!!!!!
Yeah, that's called "not being a deadbeat". In a family-oriented society, if you get a girl pregnant and don't marry her, her father and brothers will hunt you down and make you regret you were ever born, so, you know... 🤷♂
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This channel is going to be big
It’s fascinating that some older men go through two failed marriages, and still go for a third one overseas, at 55 or older 🤷♂️. Like dude, just enjoy life. You don’t have to tie the knot every single time you know.
marriage only fails if one or both stop putting in effort.
That's The Problem With It.
IS The Juice Worth The Squeeze?
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if you marry a good woman so can't be more than 1% of women, and live a good life with a family, seeing your kids and grandkids grow up, then sure.
sure you can't 100% predict that she will 100% be loyal and never divorce you, but if she's a healthy conservative and was raised in a healthy family to model in her own with you then the risk of divorce sure is way lower than if you just take a random feminist ho*
so far the ''conspiracy theorists'' have been right....
It's hilarious that western women think men should work harder to get them. It never even cross their mind that they arent worth the effort.
No to Toxic Women!
I'll wait for sexbots.
Or become a Passport Bro!
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It's their culture. The economic boom isn't as strong over there. So, they've retained their traditional family structure.
The women especially don't have as strong of standards. Because they're used to having that simple life.
They don't need expensive jewelry, 5-star restaurants, or a fancy French dog.
They stick close to their family. Especially their extended relatives. And that's their emotional fulfillment.
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Anyone saying that women are the same in the Philippines and the USA have never been to the Philippines. Not all women in the Philippines are traditional, humble and loyal, but the majority are . And I am engaged to one.
just so we are clear, there is NO ESCAPING the Matrix there is only varying levels of comfort within it's subnets
I am 68, been in Manila for 9 months. Have a 49 year old Filipina GF, I heard a lot of the crap back home. Been very happy with my new Filipina GF and no desire to start an American relationship. This is a good life. Wish I would have done this years ago. Try it!
Its more or like same in big cities in India and states like Kerala. People like to remain single because of divorce related financial problems because laws protects women. Lots of men are victims of such laws in India. Also men loves feminine women not people who looks like female but acts like a dude😂😂
Awesome video hope to visit Asia one day...
I'm from Bangladesh and here women are more loving then USA .
At age 48 I married a 39 year old Chinese women. I'm not aware of any judgement over these past 10 years.
34 with a 34 year old Chinese woman. I only get static from younger white women in restaurants.
5:25 Don't rush into a relationship. Just be sure you can afford to support her family too. I dated a Filipina here In Canada. I was often asked to send money back home to help her family.
Some asian cultures value material luxuries and exert pressure to get designer brands, to flaunt their upgraded status. Many asians in western countries, send much of their income to their home country to fund education, medical needs, and upgrading family housing. They receivers may keep the pressure going in order to fund a relaxed lifestyle. One person told me 10 people were living off the monthly remittance of $500 and there was no incentive to get jobs.
Not saying it in all cases... "Family focused" -> blood bonds are stronger than marriage bonds.
Being born with a significant physical impairment and lacking self confidence, left me on the "Just Friends" level in the dating hierarchy. An older asian lady, never let it bothered her.
I would say don’t use a “dating service”. Just go to the Philippines or another Asian country and do it yourself. Have yourself together and be squared away, but you’d likely be better off going yourself.
I didnt travel abroad, but i met my wife while she was studying here. Shes chinese and we are quite happy even with our crazy little kids. I dont think alot of women realize how important a strong family unit is to a man. The pendulum has swung too far left that men are looking elsewhere. My wife stays home for now, but if she wanted i job id support that too. She may still get one, but we are getting through the early years as a traditional family. It would be much better if the world still allowed for 1 person to support a family
I have lived now in Dubai for 16 years, where pretty much ever female is a supermodel, I do feel when I come back to the states, women are not as attractive to me, not all but most feel entitled. But that's just my opinion.
family values goes equal happiness
Im 25 and i see this problem already i have never dated or had a girlfriend i will most likely die alone
Not only American , im from Europe i move to Vietnam Saigon , my girlfriend is beautiful and under 50kg 😂
The Brits are doing the same, they are much more likable and once you have connected and it is mutual she becomes possessive of you in that she shows you off and that you are hers. She will then attend to all your needs you want to shop she will take you to the best value similarly for a meal she knows the best and cheapest. She wont be put off if you take her to a more upmarket restaurant. like all affairs it is about give and take. and they are adapt at this. She will quickly now your worth how much of a budget you are working on and she will adapt to that. No complaints all with a smile she has the real target you. She will then look to to see if you would come out again if its going well and you would like to see her again. make or break time. you have to realise that she has to make money for her family and herself. So you have to realise this and work out if you can cope with this. If she is the one then start setting parameters. The when you go back and if you feel the same it maybe time to get her a job not doing the same thing and subsidise her with room to save for the following year
Your next video on Japanese women doesn't apply to western men... it's still an interesting video worth watching. If you are not born Japanese, you CAN NEVER become Japanese. You can't even become a citizen of Japan. So, Japanese women are NOT a viable option for western men unless you find one that really wants to move to the west. That's exceedingly rare!
What about the families of these Asian women? Are they accepting of their daughter's foreign husband?
Some other are ,some other not..
Absolutely! We currently live in my wife's mama's house.
For some, it is a status symbol of have a westerner in the family for the perceived improvement over locals.
The concept is geomaxing.
I see you uploaded 2 months ago why American men Prefer Asain Women. 🤔 I take it, it covers the same points here. I think this was perfectly executed. If be interested in another angle of the conversation if any other groundbreaking shift occurs in the culture.
Very interesting video, good info. I am 77 and have a 41 year old Filipina partner. Biggest problem is her government.
I really think japanese-korean the Philippines Thailand. Those girls are really cute the face. I kind of really like the Asian girl face the slanted eyes and the big cheekbone. Maigoro channel, Japanese football team the frontiers. Japanese cheerleaders. I guess in a sense I would say they're more feminine than the other people like black.
I have been in several countries overseas from the U.S. Those countries in Europe, where the mainstream population is predominantly Caucasian, the women seem to be much like the women in the U.S, regarding what they look for in a man. In Asia, the women seem to be looking more for a better quality of life. Women overseas, in general, have this Hollywoodesque vision of what life is like in the U.S. There are women of some means in all countries. They may or may not be looking for a husband. They are the haves. In the U.S. it makes no difference if the women are haves or have nots. They are all mostly looking for the most they can get in a man. They try to 'dress to kill,' many time showing more skin than is necessary, showing off their best physical attributes. They become very upset if they are called out for what they are obviously doing and insist they are doing it to make themselves feel beautiful. But they blast a man for saying they look beautiful; a man is only objectifying them as sexual. I'm finished with American women, for that matter, most Caucasian women.
I'm partial to Eastern Europe. I met a wonderful Ukrainian girl, and I will never consider a western female (US, Canada, Australian, or western Europe) ever again.
For starters, you have to find an American woman who weighs less than you do. Good luck with that. I'm 6 ft, 195. If I meet a slim, HWP, semi-attractive woman, she will be married or have a boyfriend. Every time. Sometimes she'll have 2 boyfriends and a bunch of guys in her friend zone. You can't win that game, she's got too many options and the idea in her head is "what have you done for me lately?"
I say it depends on what part of America you live in on finding a more traditional conservative woman. But the choice is yours
Great video. I think the problem is in the way capitalist societies use dirty advertising tactics to denigrate women and men.
You could be all-around average man, but because you have been subjected to so much negative reinforcement through mainstream media, you could feel less than worthy... an American woman will feel the same way about themselves, you get together and then, when things get difficult, they just split, typically it's the woman who splits, typically because they want to trade up. I had many American girlfriends throughout my life, the girlfriends raised by parents from different countries or the women who were originally from other countries were the sweetest, kindest, most loving and respectful and appreciative and they never gave up on the relationship!!! Fat chance finding an American woman who is like that!!!
The second a hire some kids to take over for me. Im taking my heart to south east asia.
I'd like to hear women's views on this issue.
I married a controlling narcissist. Now I’m free to make my own decisions and spend my money my way. I’m in no hurry to date again.
It seems women don't even bother to look at such things 😂
It's always "men want a pretty, submissive woman." The reality is that some older men want this, but the much more common thread is a meshing of values. We want partnerships and lasting stability with shared goals.
Get your passports boys!! Western women are lost!
If you have the ability as an American to work remotely and can manage to work from Asia … and you are single .. you will be considered rich even with an average American salary.. and you’ll have the pick of the litter
Filipinas are loyal if you stay in the philippines..
The minute you bring them to the usa they monkey branch divorce and try to take as much cash as they can...if you are gonna do this living in the filippines will ensure a long term marriage...also in the Philippines divorce is illegal
The grass is greener on the other side.
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Now almost all Filipino women want to marry foreigners which we call the term "Afam" to improve their lifestyle and escape poverty.
I'm a Filipina with an American boyfriend. When my BF came here to see me, he thoroughly enjoyed his vacation since his money afforded him experiences here in the PH that would've been costly in US and it is possible to buy a piece of land in PH for as low as $6000.
I have American women friends my age too, and even young, conservative, family-oriented American women have a hard time finding a husband in America. As per my observation, even the most traditional and religious woman believes in the idea of the feminist equality of sexes and often have poor taste in men, either having ridiculous standards of what they want in a husband, but at the same time dating dudes who end up making them single mothers. Not all, but most.
The reason why I date American men is due to my own personal preferences, not exactly money. Other Asian men (especially East Asian men) are equally financially secured, if not more, but its due to the cultural and aesthetic Eurocentric standards too that make white men desirable to Asian women.
I will discourage my sons from dating women who grew up in a western household. I want better for them.
50% that is in the first 5 years
It is 80% in the first 10 years
The concept of western woman is that being a traditional wife means degrading themselves, which is wrong. I come from a more traditional women country and that doesn't stop them from pursuing a career and actually do both almost at the same time. I agree that this approach is more difficult to tackle, but the western woman is taught to believe that she can't do it and actually pursue a man she can grow with. When they do get married, often times is for some sort of convenience or just don't want kids and the legal system gives them too much if that marriage ends. The whole feminist movement is also forcing and manipulating those western woman who actually want to be traditional to be more like them. The fact that they choose to say that these foreign traditional women are less educated and using western men is wrong. These traditional asian, latinamerican and other women have far better bedside manners, home education and lack that arrogance these western women have.
They let the mask slip all the way off…🙅♂️
I might be interested in being interviewed. Depends on the situation. But I am usually good in the spotlight.