Joelene thinks her Date is Lying!🤥 | First Dates South Africa

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  • čas přidán 26. 11. 2023
  • Retired professional boxer Ruben is 41 and single. He has given his life to becoming a world champion fighter, and is now looking to share the next chapter of his life with a knockout! Mother of three Jolene wants a man who can make her feel protected. Ruben is a man of few words and he cuts straight to the chase with some loaded questions. Jolene is caught off guard and defends her corner with humour and jest.
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  • @BruceLee-fd7uw
    @BruceLee-fd7uw Před 4 měsíci +31

    She came to the date looking like shes shopping at lidl😂

  • @aphroditetarot
    @aphroditetarot Před 5 měsíci +40

    I thought he was so sweet, handsome & doesnt drink! Hes a total catch. Hope you bring him back for another date ❤🙌🏽

    • @nonsensetalk8953
      @nonsensetalk8953 Před 3 měsíci

      How is not drinking a positive?

    • @aphroditetarot
      @aphroditetarot Před 3 měsíci +8

      @nonsensetalk8953 😁🤣
      Well... some people don't drink or are in recovery. But funny comment. I used to binge drink. It ruined my life for 7 years. Now I no longer Binge drink. Have a wonderful day 🕊❤️🕊🙌🏽

  • @robertgelblum5154
    @robertgelblum5154 Před 6 měsíci +67

    This was a total mismatch from the beginning. These two simply don't have anything in common. Who decided to match them together?

    • @gillowens24
      @gillowens24 Před 6 měsíci +4

      I agree there

    • @GalaxyA-qv2hs
      @GalaxyA-qv2hs Před 5 měsíci +3

      Probably the World Boxing Federation or however it's called haha.

    • @mauramcferran2612
      @mauramcferran2612 Před 4 měsíci +3

      Def not a match . Guy has warm personality. 😁

    • @shaft8779
      @shaft8779 Před 4 měsíci

      Probably Malena matched them 😂

    • @jemmajames6719
      @jemmajames6719 Před 3 měsíci

      As happens a lot on these tv shows they do it on purpose to create in their opinion great tv. What a plonker he was and she wasn’t the nicest.

  • @BiPolarBear128
    @BiPolarBear128 Před 3 měsíci +10

    she didnt even bother dressing up for the date ..looks like she is going to the grocery store

    • @cortneyrens
      @cortneyrens Před 2 měsíci +1

      Was thinking the same thing. Also doesn’t have a fun personality like he does

    • @user-jw7ew8dz5z
      @user-jw7ew8dz5z Před 2 měsíci

      She wants to take a good look at herself 😅

  • @aron.gortman
    @aron.gortman Před 6 měsíci +36

    This guy actually fought Carl Froch IN ENGLAND. That's as legit as it gets in boxing.

    • @Shnayblay
      @Shnayblay Před 5 měsíci +1

      Not wrong. Dodged a bullet there that lad.

    • @GalaxyA-qv2hs
      @GalaxyA-qv2hs Před 5 měsíci +2

      He has never been a World Champion in any class, that's the real truth.
      He is a complete narcist

    • @maximiliandegarnerinvonmon6457
      @maximiliandegarnerinvonmon6457 Před 4 měsíci

      Ruben Groenewald

    • @emmy166
      @emmy166 Před 4 měsíci +1

      My family are from the boxing world, I know that sport, he isn't a bad boxer, but he isn't famous or well thought of, but if that's what makes him happy to think that, then let him be lol. Omg he doesn't or can't talk about anything else. Take te boxing talk away. He as nothing to talk about

    • @emmy166
      @emmy166 Před 4 měsíci

      All the best to both of them. Maybe they should spar 😂

  • @Inquisitor2024
    @Inquisitor2024 Před 3 měsíci +9

    Stop with the personal questions? Isn't that how you learn about each other 😂

    • @harryvanderveen773
      @harryvanderveen773 Před měsícem +1

      She clearly felt bad about 2 marriages, was nothing wrong with that question.

  • @torih2014
    @torih2014 Před 6 měsíci +58

    I can’t quite put my finger on it, but she strikes me as someone who has a very nasty streak

    • @mauramcferran2612
      @mauramcferran2612 Před 4 měsíci

      🥶

    • @cortneyrens
      @cortneyrens Před 2 měsíci

      Yes, her personality is very off putting. He seems fun and has a good personality

  • @DS-vs2pm
    @DS-vs2pm Před 6 měsíci +49

    44, married twice, 3 kids and a bad attitude. Good luck lady

    • @mvnorsel6354
      @mvnorsel6354 Před 5 měsíci +1

      Great comment😅.

    • @pneron2032
      @pneron2032 Před 4 měsíci +5

      She hasn't got a bad attitude. I thinks he's nervous.

  • @leegarthgarth8387
    @leegarthgarth8387 Před 6 měsíci +35

    I get the feeling he used to be a boxer.

    • @nightsky3981
      @nightsky3981 Před 6 měsíci +5

      You think 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @bmc5075
      @bmc5075 Před 5 měsíci +3

      Ye a boxer dog 🐕 🤣

    • @GalaxyA-qv2hs
      @GalaxyA-qv2hs Před 5 měsíci

      😂😂😂​@@bmc5075👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻

    • @julieoluna8887
      @julieoluna8887 Před 4 měsíci +1

      Ummm... 🤔 You might be onto something there.

    • @GalaxyA-qv2hs
      @GalaxyA-qv2hs Před 4 měsíci +1

      @@julieoluna8887 😂😂You will never know😉

  • @cathybelk-cb3ei
    @cathybelk-cb3ei Před 6 měsíci +34

    She s thinking she s a catch. 🤣😜

    • @bluemoon8498
      @bluemoon8498 Před 4 dny

      Rubin just dodged a bullet with three kids😂

  • @gianinaciobanu5630
    @gianinaciobanu5630 Před 6 měsíci +21

    She didn’t like him from the moment she saw him, and that’s ok. I didn’t like how she was talking to him, though…
    She was dismissive. He was nice.

  • @SongBillong
    @SongBillong Před 4 měsíci +5

    Doomed from the moment they set eyes on each other

  • @sparra3819
    @sparra3819 Před 6 měsíci +21

    It wasn't quite a match but I did really like how kind they were with each other.

  • @Skeezer66
    @Skeezer66 Před 6 měsíci +11

    I'd rather see a date with nice people that doesn't work out (like this one) than see the horror stories I've seen on other First Date franchises. South Africa has a great version of the show!!

  • @BenKellyMusic92
    @BenKellyMusic92 Před 4 měsíci +8

    Ruben Groenwald. Not a bad boxer by any stretch 🥊

  • @Jack_Hurst_
    @Jack_Hurst_ Před 6 měsíci +24

    She a red flag

    • @Shnayblay
      @Shnayblay Před 5 měsíci +4

      She’s all the red flags 😂

  • @MaverickLee11
    @MaverickLee11 Před 6 měsíci +40

    "I want somebody who can feed the dog when I don't want to"
    "stop with the personal questions"
    "who needs a man"
    "I drink, smoke and covered in tattoos"
    Him: "theres no spark" (thats because her pair bonding has been destroyed)

    • @aron.gortman
      @aron.gortman Před 6 měsíci +9

      You also forgot the part where she has been married twice and has 3 kids. She's a catch!

    • @adamfirst9321
      @adamfirst9321 Před 6 měsíci +4

      In a word.. “Jaded”.
      Only Thor could get a rise out of her… and only If he flies her around on his Magic Hammer..

    • @MaverickLee11
      @MaverickLee11 Před 6 měsíci

      "jaded" is a true word, too much previous pair-bonding.. same reason most men and women are disconnected from each other these days too @@adamfirst9321

    • @lav7161
      @lav7161 Před 6 měsíci +8

      Damn bro. You're everywhere, just regurgitating nonsense. Go on a date. Live a little. Drop the phone for a couple of hours.

    • @aron.gortman
      @aron.gortman Před 6 měsíci +4

      @@lav7161 Is he wrong though? This woman has no sense of reality.

  • @Davechappelle445
    @Davechappelle445 Před měsícem +2

    Boxing is his entire personality. One dimensional

  • @keelyrogers3969
    @keelyrogers3969 Před 4 měsíci +5

    Horrible attitude from lady made him uncomfortable run

  • @jermainep5314
    @jermainep5314 Před 6 měsíci +14

    I don't think he knows if he's serious or joking. Something just wasn't right about him.

  • @pepper1188
    @pepper1188 Před 6 měsíci +12

    Everything about this episode is awkward

  • @dtbristol
    @dtbristol Před 6 měsíci +10

    When he was boxing at the beginning, some of his moves wouldn't be allowed in boxing. Something not quite right here.

    • @TVman4321
      @TVman4321 Před 6 měsíci +5

      Googled him after he said he fought Anthony Farnell. Turns out that story is actually true 😂. Not sure why he was doing some MMA/Kickboxing moves tho

    • @JamesCraigWhoop
      @JamesCraigWhoop Před 6 měsíci +3

      Ruben Groenewald vs. Anthony Farnell I.MW.2002.06.01

    • @aron.gortman
      @aron.gortman Před 6 měsíci +1

      @@JamesCraigWhoop He also fought Carl Froch.

  • @donnabuttery9316
    @donnabuttery9316 Před 6 měsíci +7

    Horrid match for both....I think he seemed a nice guy perhaps nervous and the lady hmmm not sure .....

  • @erin6238
    @erin6238 Před 4 měsíci +5

    I liked him. I'm free for a date if he's interested 😂

  • @bumble8588
    @bumble8588 Před 5 měsíci +4

    why do they match folks with NOTHING in common

    • @RachelSings21
      @RachelSings21 Před 4 měsíci

      They don’t do that with the British one…they seem to always get it wrong for these ones in other countries though. Surely it’s the same franchise?

  • @2615ParkAvenueAssociates
    @2615ParkAvenueAssociates Před 6 měsíci +14

    She really didn't seem to like anything about him from the get-go, so I guess it's a no-go for boxing Joe.

    • @aron.gortman
      @aron.gortman Před 6 měsíci +10

      He dodged a major bullet.

    • @imvention5696
      @imvention5696 Před 6 měsíci +7

      ​@@aron.gortmanyes, he deserve better

    • @aron.gortman
      @aron.gortman Před 6 měsíci +4

      @@imvention5696 3 kids...been married twice since she was 20...looks markedly older than her chronological age...smokes and drinks...yeah I think a former athlete can do a bit better.

  • @sonz9260
    @sonz9260 Před 6 měsíci +11

    Why is she so rude omg 😂😂

  • @adedut8134
    @adedut8134 Před 6 měsíci +9

    Wait why did they kiss on the lips at the end?

  • @lewistaylor1965
    @lewistaylor1965 Před 2 měsíci

    Rubens....The British boxing fans know exactly who you are and how good you were...Respect and thank you for your commitment to the sport...Some great fights to watch

  • @stivib5937
    @stivib5937 Před 5 měsíci +6

    4:25 what a weird woman

  • @Sophie-cw7bf
    @Sophie-cw7bf Před 5 měsíci +2

    First dates around the world is awesome 🤣🤣🤣

  • @melliemellieg
    @melliemellieg Před 6 měsíci +8

    Speaking Africance. Love it

  • @user-fm8br2my4n
    @user-fm8br2my4n Před 5 měsíci +6

    Don't like her

  • @Davechappelle445
    @Davechappelle445 Před měsícem +1

    Married twice lol. Run

  • @heartpursuer
    @heartpursuer Před měsícem +1

    Unlike Fred in London, this maître d' has a rather unctuous way of greeting customers. A bit creepy for my taste.

  • @stevenkass6154
    @stevenkass6154 Před 6 měsíci +10

    He's a sweet guy. She's snarky.

  • @mehdimehdikhani5899
    @mehdimehdikhani5899 Před 6 měsíci +4

    Boxers organize a match, win the match and suddenly they are "world" champion.

    • @aron.gortman
      @aron.gortman Před 6 měsíci +9

      He fought Carl Froch in a title match in England. Thats about as impressive as it gets in the sport.

    • @samoday2992
      @samoday2992 Před 5 měsíci +3

      @@aron.gortmanagree . Give the man the respect he deserves

    • @GalaxyA-qv2hs
      @GalaxyA-qv2hs Před 5 měsíci

      ​@@samoday2992Only the real Pinokkio deserves respect.

  • @ginaandseason2774
    @ginaandseason2774 Před 4 měsíci +1

    I think they are both lovely people and hope they find the one

  • @bluemoon8498
    @bluemoon8498 Před 4 dny

    When a red flag takes you out, you are better off staying onbda floor😂 Rubin my friend you took the red flag like a man not as imp😂

  • @pleun315
    @pleun315 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Grrrrrreat match.....
    🙈

  • @rainbowsarelife5856
    @rainbowsarelife5856 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Do you think he’s a boxer? He didn’t mention it

  • @bahiras
    @bahiras Před 6 měsíci +3

    Cute bartender!🎉

    • @zipinha
      @zipinha Před 6 měsíci

      My thoughts exactly 🎉😅

  • @TheShmikes
    @TheShmikes Před 4 měsíci +2

    Was he a boxer?

  • @samliger9058
    @samliger9058 Před měsícem

    She didn't matbe wanted to hug or kiss him in the end 😂😂😂😂

  • @danablackburn783
    @danablackburn783 Před 5 měsíci +3

    This dude has no game ..no vibes ...his childish and creepy tbh 😂 I don't blame her at all. Also ..she made zero effort ...Ur a woman ..out on a date...put some make up on and dress up a flirt a bit ..jeeezeee

  • @liznicolas272
    @liznicolas272 Před 6 měsíci +4

    I didn't like either of them lol

  • @user-sl4cd2sz5l
    @user-sl4cd2sz5l Před 15 dny

    I like a man that doesn't drink ❤

  • @user-ob5ii2hj8i
    @user-ob5ii2hj8i Před 5 měsíci

    Ruben Groenewald

  • @nightsky3981
    @nightsky3981 Před 6 měsíci +6

    They look older than their age.

  • @pneron2032
    @pneron2032 Před 4 měsíci

    Why are they speaking English? Did the editors tell them to?

  • @agrace7889
    @agrace7889 Před 6 měsíci

    Watching this gust buy him a boxing gloves so he can sleep with rhem😅

  • @jennifergirling6850
    @jennifergirling6850 Před 6 měsíci +2

    I don't thii she liked him when she first met him

  • @thrithteller
    @thrithteller Před 3 měsíci +1

    Nothing about Ruben screams boxer..he doesn't have the cauliflower ears and he's just chubby..even his face doesn't have the boxer look to it...

    • @noffmannoff9367
      @noffmannoff9367 Před 2 měsíci +1

      Looks can be deceiving because you should research. This guy is a legit boxer

  • @benruane6670
    @benruane6670 Před 2 měsíci

    u guys reckon he used to box?

  • @johnfiveash6733
    @johnfiveash6733 Před 3 měsíci

    His head is full of hot air. A lot of been full of egotisic

  • @NKatz
    @NKatz Před 27 dny

    This woman was awful! She was just mean to him. You don't have to call someone a liar on a first date. Just don't see them again. Also she didn't dress up or anything. She could have been going to the groccery store. He needs a younger woman that is into working out. Plus, she looks like she weighs more than him... sorry... just a bad match.

  • @suzannebolt7949
    @suzannebolt7949 Před 5 měsíci +5

    Vile woman he’s a nice a guy

  • @SUTB00
    @SUTB00 Před 4 měsíci +4

    she's so horrible! lucky escape mate!

  • @jack1d1XB
    @jack1d1XB Před 5 měsíci +7

    Simple: she's for the streets, judgemental has been!!!!!🤬👎

  • @blackstter6317
    @blackstter6317 Před 5 měsíci +4

    You never get a nice South African.

    • @DS-xg9kf
      @DS-xg9kf Před 4 měsíci +1

      Tell me about it! Mistake learned.

  • @stockguruji2160
    @stockguruji2160 Před 4 měsíci +2

    For a boxer he looks like humpty and dumpty

  • @GalaxyA-qv2hs
    @GalaxyA-qv2hs Před 5 měsíci

    What a nerd

  • @davidnavratil5349
    @davidnavratil5349 Před 4 měsíci +4

    Poor guy whoever ends up with her.

  • @davegiteau6784
    @davegiteau6784 Před 6 měsíci +8

    Run Rubin! She rides a motorbike and covered in tattoos,drinks,smokes, she is looking for a girlfriend not a boyfriend, just doesn’t know it yet

  • @breezeblue3716
    @breezeblue3716 Před 3 měsíci +2

    She obviously is the problem here- married twice bad attitude

  • @liznicolas272
    @liznicolas272 Před 6 měsíci +4

    1:47 not even 2 minutes in and I'm already annoyed by him

  • @Inquisitor2024
    @Inquisitor2024 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Shes a drunk

  • @ashleysleeth1106
    @ashleysleeth1106 Před 6 měsíci +4

    Absolutely no personality this guy would creep me out

  • @patobrien6364
    @patobrien6364 Před 5 měsíci +3

    single mother
    with 2 car crashes behind her ?
    RUN 🪜

  • @davidbridgman9884
    @davidbridgman9884 Před 6 měsíci +7

    World Boxing Union isn’t really a world title bro .