my preteen daughter's VIRAL video choosing to be herself changed EVERYTHING (contacted directly)
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- čas přidán 22. 01. 2023
- Day 4 of our 5 day western caribbean cruise on the Disney Cruise Line's DREAM boat, and today is our last day at sea. Addelyn and her cousin get a full bippidii boppidi boutique makeover on board, where I noticed a difference that may have been inspired by Lilia's prince charming transformation from the Disney Wish back in June of 2022. Either way, SO happy that this is an option for kids now!
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FAQ: Names and ages of the kids: Caden (step son, born in 2009), Lilia (daughter, born in 2010), Tommy (step son, born in 2010), Kyson (son, born in 2012), Kaden (son, born in 2012), Landen (son, born in 2014), Addelyn (daughter, born in 2016)
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As someone who grew up hating dresses (still do) and being forced to do "girly" things when I very much did not want to, it makes my heart so happy that they offered them whatever they wanted on this trip. Thank you for advocating and Lilia for just being you!
Same here!!!
I am 10 years old and same
Same!
They should have more options for the boys imo. It's fine if a girl dresses up in typical boy things, but you know people would side eye a boy in a dress.
Sgs
that’s so cool that disney contacted you about the lilia video!! she may have had something to do with it, lilia making literal disney history 😍
I love that your sons paint their nails and your daughter dressed as charming. It’s really all just a form of artistic expression no different than tattoos or hair dying. You’ve created a safe place for them to explore.
I love this for Addi. It fits her so well💞 Save the ponytail and braid it into her real hair next time, I bet she'd love it!! Also, way to go Lilia!! It's awesome to see that she is living her best life and owning it! Much love to the whole fam as always💗💗
After watching y’all’s cruise videos, I really want to book a Disney cruise!! Thank you for sharing, as always. So glad y’all are having a blast.❤❤
This cruise has been a blast ! to experience with you so much fun hopefully someday I will go with my Grandchildren
Hey Jesssfam! I love your travel and cruise vlogs!! 💙
As a 23yo nb bi person... I'm so proud of Lilia, and of you Jess, Chris, Gabe, Mimi, family for supporting her so well & allowing her to make the impact she has. My generation, my queer peers... well let's just say we're so excited for the next generations and how they are healing, building bridges for our society... and its thanks to social media giving a platform for the brave and loving parents of today's LGBTQIA+ youth, letting us who are scared, tired... mentally ill, chronically ill... boost your voices, your ideas, Lilia getting to be herself (or- since i can't be sure either, maybe themself.) Just... thank you so much. I've been watching since I started high school and I'm excited to keep watching all of you and supporting you in your endeavors in the future. ⚡️
I adored this! Love the Disney content! 😊💕
I LOVE LILIA AND WHEN SHE IS HERSELF IT MAKES ME SO HAPPY 😊 ❤️❤️❤️
. Back in 2019 when we went on Disney Dream my daughter was offered to also be a prince. So🤷🏼♀️
wooo Lilia, keep speaking your mind and always stay true to yourself! xxx
Yes ma’am Lilly!!!! Change the world love!!!!
Can't wait to see the new vlog and to see the before and after.
Delaney and addi have such a cute bond💛
Addie is so beautiful in her dress! 🥰
This is incredible. My daughter reminds me of Lilia. Middle school, anime, questioning her sexual preferences. She's gone through stages, and currently considers herself to be straight. Her best friend id's as non binary. What I'm trying to say is, sometimes it's a phase, but whether it'll pass or not, supporting them in whatever stage they're in is not only important, but critical. Imagine all the kids whose parents overlook their identity as a stage? We need more parents like Jesssfam who will love and accept their kids regardless of anything and everything.
Not just Jesssfam, but you aswell! 😊
Id say it’s not really a phase, it’s just finding out your identity. And questioning who you are and what you love.
@Jaden stark What is?
My daughter is the same as well she’s in middle school, likes anime and is also questioning her sexuality. She told us last year she wants to go by he or she. We are supporting her but we think it maybe a phase as well. Kids are trying to figure themselves out at that age and we just gotta be there for them.
@Jaden stark 😐
Lilia's video is up to 16 million views. Congratulations !
this made me so happy
Addie is totally a mini version of you hahahah 😂❣️ I love to watch you guys 💗
Addie’s missing 2 front teeth are so 6-year old vibes. Stay sweet and strong forever ADDIE!!!
OMG I love Lilia and her fun personality ❤
I love how when the cleaners clean the room they put Addie’s baby doll to sleep ❤
I love watching your videos
So happy for Lilia! She may not know this now but she is inspiring so many kids with her confidence to be herself! ❤
First! Btw I absolutely love watching your videos jesss and time has absolutely flown by cause I remember the first video I watched was posted like 4 years ago which means I have been watching for 4 years!
Thanks for letting your kids be who they are! I love your videos Jess I look forward to them so much. ❤
Heyy, jess, I heard someone else mention those wrist straps too and sometimes when I've seen the the go-pros selling I'm sure I've seen the strap in with them as I nearly bought myself one for when i was biking but had to give that up a few year's back so didn't get one, but you can get the straps that go across your chest, head and arm, I'm pretty sure you can get helmet attachments too for if you want to put them on your helmet for bike riding when out with the kid's!!!! XxxxX
Jess I believe you are right, it just makes sense.. like for Disney to contact you personally.. and they didn't offer the packages before but now they do... Yeah that little girl changed the way Disney does business..you should be proud momma
The cruise ship workers always put Lilia’s baby to sleep and it’s so sweet! 🥹
Lauren Neal it’s addelyn baby doll
@@jessicadavidson2635 you spelled my name wrong but anyways ok! Still cute
@@hamiltonslegacy I’m so sorry about that
@@jessicadavidson2635 it’s ok lol it happens all the time so I’m used to correcting people
I do tend to agree with you Jess that Lilia’s experience opened Disney’s eyes and now boys and girls can choose to be a prince or a princess. 💗 My three year old nephew loves Elsa so my sister (his other aunt) bought him an Elsa costume complete with the sparkly shoes for Christmas; he absolutely loves it. He also loves cars, sports, and such but he is big into Frozen at the moment and I think it is awesome that his mom and dad, as well as our entire family supports his interests without judgement; just like you do with your children. 💗
@@80sCanadian exactly. I think her wanting to place the change on her daughters video is a bit much. Most kids probably have never seen her videos honestly.
My little brother is 9 months old, and ever since he was 3 months he is OBSESSED with Anna and Olaf from frozen. My grandma bought him frozen pillow cases, and today we were in the store and I was carrying him and he saw a set of frozen dolls and his face lit up so bright and he started bouncing, and kicking, and making the cutest noises so we got him it and he LOVES it. I also loved trains when I was little, and I liked the “boy” lego sets and it’s not like I am LGBTQ+ but that just shows you should let your kid like what they like because now I love wearing dresses, makeup, skincare, and all of the “girly” things. It’s not like I was shaped into a boy, I just liked what I liked and that’s fine. 😊❤
@@nancyfarkas3592 that’s not what she was saying, she wasn’t saying it changed kids, she was trying to say that it showed some parents, and some of the Disney employees who do the makeovers that they should start offering princes to girls, and princesses to boys.
I Love these videos!!!! 🥰💕☀️🌴 It is so fun! 🎉 My favorite shot was of the sea from looking out the cruise ship. It reminded me of when we have gone on cruises… SOoooooo Wonderful!!!!! 🌊🎉🎉🎉☀️🎉🌴🌊 Of course, I’ve never been on a Disney Cruise and my, HOW GRAND and WONDERFUL!!!!! 😄😀👍🏽💕☀️🌴🌴🌴 ~Enjoy! And, soak it allllll in! 💕
I just love that addie and lila picked the same hair style!
Love this
i’m glad they changed it to be more welcoming!
Glad your boys are enjoying the cruise and your family. I cruised DCL 29 times with my Dad both of us adults with cruises 30th and 31st booked on Wish in April 2023 and 32nd booked on Dream in October 2023
I wish I was rich like that lmao
I love your videos
The lady in the background looking at Jess at 3:15 area is so funny she’s like are you talking to yourself 😂
That is Grammy and she is watching Delaney and Addie
I low key wished Addy picked Ariel’s dress and take Melody with her. If you know, you are a true Disney fan😂😂
I saw that video of you and Lilia and i loved her prince outfit
Jess, you truly have no idea how much your videos mean to me. Your videos literally heal me more than you will ever know. I grew up in a VERY small and dysfunctional family whom I am now zero contact with. You inspire me to not only be the best person I can be, but to strive to build a large loving family of my own and to one day be the most positive and influential person to my future children. You are an inspiration, a role model, and I sincerely look up to you Jessica.
Much love and wishes of continued happiness and bliss for you and your family!
Your in my prayers 🙏🏼 God bless you sweetie and your future loving family 💕
@@AyeYoTay thank you so much, it means a lot! 🥺❤️
Sending you so much ❤ xx
@@Katiedolly18 ❤️❤️❤️ Extra Sweet
You have to try Sunsplash in Roseville. That water park is awesome!!!
Where's that?
Disney is making the experience more magical by letting kids pick. I wonder if there will ever be more of an experience for boys. Like there is for girls. But I definitely think it had to have been lilia! They even used the exact same prince outfit.😂
Love the waiters shirt!!!
I love the Disney cruse waiters they are the nicest and I love the little origami they make I have about three or four from dinner
She slayed in that price I loved the way she look
I think the towel art on the bed at the end was either an ostrich or an emu that's my guess anyway🙃🤷♀️ you guys look like you're having such a fun time I'm so happy for you and your family! I always enjoy your videos I'm really bummed that you don't have the wrist part for the GoPro I would love to see the water slide!!! Next time😉
I need the link for that doll! My niece would just loveee it!!
Look at pily making huge moves already!!!
Kyson and Lilia crack me uo
It’s crazy that because of Covid Addelyn hasn’t done BBB since she was 2/3. (I think I remember her doing it at DisneyLand at 2 almost 3) It’s right up her alley!! What a magical experience for her 🥰. And how fun to share it with cousin bestie Laney!! 💕
Fun ! I want to go on a cruise ship :) but the people staring at you while filming 😅
So cute❤❤❤❤
Yes lilia
How busy/packed did the disney cruise feel? Did you feel overly crowded or waiting In long lines?
Hi Jesssfam good morning everyone happy Tuesday morning and I hope you having amazing day today and I just wanted to say that you all amazing Supporter
ILYSM
I love Delaney's princess Crocs 👸 😆
Beautiful
I went on a Disney Dream Cruise right before you and Lilia went on the Disney Wish. I went to Bibbidi Bobbidi Boutique, and only the princess option was offered. We didn't get the option to be the prince, but I think Lilia's video might've changed that! I checked and I couldn't find the Animator's Palate chairs anywhere, but I did read that if you found the right furniture maker, they could probably make them for you. The cruise ship does sell the Animator's Palate paintbrush knives, however.
As a girl who grew up wearing dresses all the time and not loving it I would have decided to be a prince as well, way to go Lillia, I bet you helped make a great change, also if I had a son and a daughter I’d want my son to have the opportunity to be a prince, they need to include this, we have princes and princesses and both can be worn by either depending on what the individual would like.
Bibbidi bobbidi BOO-tique 😂
That bibbidi bobbidi boutique is soooo cute! So glad the girls got to do it! I can’t wait till my little one is old enough to enjoy that!
There was a TikTok going around of people taking their mattresses and putting them on the balcony and sleeping/relaxing. Wonder if that’s why!
Lilias video is was made me discover this amazing channel
I love guys
The GoPros rist thing I think u can buy one on the ship bc I have seen them on all of the 9 cruises I have been on
They have chest harnesses for GoPros also
Link please! Love your channel!!!
The lady behind you 😂
OMG I love Addie’s sass. You are in trouble with that one when she gets older. Lol
Lilia is an inspiration! Inspiring many people. This is so cool 😎
I’m not sure maybe just me but we haven’t seen Chris much for a while hope he’s okay
He was in yesterday's video a lot.
I went a few years ago and what I can remember they didn’t offer the prince
Just A mom making her baby a dream come true ❤
I would have loved to see Melody's first impression of Addie's transformation 🤭
🤭
Yes I can finally cosplay as belle
I’m so happy that Lilia being who she truely is has helped other children help them be who they are as well. Great job Lilia, you have inspired me and others
Did you guys see the "Beauty and the Beast" special that was on TV a few weeks ago? I watched it because Shania Twain was playing Mrs Potts. I thought of you guys when I watched it.
I will say this for the ones in the back, Jessica you are one ultimate mom!
What Disney ship is this?
Are cruise ships all inclusive, or do you have to pay for things on board?
Most of it is included in the package. You are paying for a dining plan, the ship entertainment/shows, and the water activities pool/slides. The boutique experience cost extra. The full princess makeover is around $450. And there are plenty of other opportunities to spend $$ onboard, but you can also pass on the extras.
If I was the hotel maid i would love to put the doll to bed it’s so cute
What’s up fam ❤
didnt addie did bippidi boutique when you guys went to hawaii? ah, i wish i could go back as a child and do it
She definitely did! I was thinking that when they were talking about it. Lilia was Moana and I feel like Addie was Ariel but I could be wrong. But i know she did it in Hawaii
Yes that’s what I was thinking! She did
They haven't been to Hawaii in a few years though I'm pretty sure, so she would have been 3 or 4
@@brief402 ummmm… they were in Hawaii four months ago? Lol but if you go to the video “we don’t want to get escorted off the property..” they did in fact do something similar to bippidi boutique but it was technically not the same exact thing-
@Jessica Collins oh shit, I totally forgot about that 😅
My brother inlaw put the go pro on his ankle so he can record himself
They probably sell the GoPro strap in the photo area of the ship.
Do they keep the dress they both look so cute
Can we get an update on the status of the podcast :(
I took my girls there about a year and a half ago and they never offered it. We were on a Disney cruise as well
The wrist straps break super easy !! Plus they are unbalanced so you get shakey videos i recommend a chest strap instead
What happened to the podcast?
I’ve always been a girly girl but I absolutely HATE dresses and I’ve wanted to wear a boys suit to a formal event etc etc!😊
Didn’t addie do Bibbidi-Bobbidi-Boo teak at Disney World?
I love addy’s Ariel swimsuit
When is Addie going to get an apple watch like Delaney has
What’s up Fam?! Missing the famtastic four podcast!! Hope everyone is ok and that we’ll hear something soon!
lmao
Hey Jess I have been seeing a lot of hate comments lately and I just wanted to tell you to not listen to them. You are a great mom and content creator. Keep doing what you do. Love you guys!!!❤️
Hi Jesssfam If Lilia Love Disney So Much I Think She Should Attend Disney College Program Or Attend Disney University In Orlando Florida I Bet This Will Make Your Dream Come True Even More Bigger And I Hope She Will Get Her Future Dream Job In Disneyland Or Disney World Or On Disney Cruise In The Future
When did Lilia come out? Love your videos, and you Jess!!
A few days ago officially on her Instagram