Bringing the Same Sins to Confession? Try This

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  • čas přidán 30. 01. 2020
  • Bringing the same sins to confession is like sitting in traffic. It feels like there’s nothing we can do about it. We are confident we know the way out, but we still keep falling into that sin, whatever it may be. Instead of clinging to the lie that “we got this”, cling to Jesus.
    We can’t do it alone. We need directions. Better yet, we need someone who knows the way to show the way.
    Fr. Mark-Mary offers this prayer from Brother Isaiah for when we’re struggling with habitual sin:
    From the tendency to self-reliance, deliver me O Lord
    From a fear of asking for help, deliver me O Lord
    From a doubt in your providence, deliver me O Lord
    From a doubt that you are a good Father, deliver me O Lord
    From the tendency to believe that my weakness will define me, deliver me O Lord
    From discouragement, deliver me O Lord
    From despair, deliver me O Lord
    With a confidence in your fatherhood-that you are a good father-strengthen me, O Lord. With a trust in your guidance and your providence, strengthen me, O Lord. With a zeal for virtue and growth, strengthen me, O Lord. With hope that I can with your help succeed, strengthen me, O Lord. With the confidence and the courage to ask for help, strengthen me, O Lord. With an ear that is attuned to your voice, strengthen me, O Lord. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
    Spend time with the Word of God as well, and let it soak in. You will find that you are not meant to fight this battle alone. God wants us to be one, to be a family, helping each other to become holy.
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  • @hbsong9964
    @hbsong9964 Před 3 lety +96

    Pray the Rosary daily, it will weaken your attachment to sin...

    • @ceceliah2426
      @ceceliah2426 Před 2 lety +1

      So true

    • @ddmdUp1
      @ddmdUp1 Před 2 lety

      Why does the rosary do that?

    • @hbsong9964
      @hbsong9964 Před 2 lety +13

      @@ddmdUp1 because its a Supernatural weapon against vice

    • @m.yb1097
      @m.yb1097 Před rokem +6

      @@hbsong9964 Yes, you also meditate on Jesus's life ❤

    • @HabibJackson
      @HabibJackson Před rokem +2

      I agree, its so incredibly powerful!

  • @lowenwelle1044
    @lowenwelle1044 Před 4 lety +223

    "Did Jesus fall while carrying the cross? And did he give up after falling?"
    (Some confessional advidse I once heard from a priest)

    • @anyssamata1452
      @anyssamata1452 Před 4 lety +8

      Löwen Welle ah that is true😢 thank you for sharing!!

    • @dannykraeger1602
      @dannykraeger1602 Před 4 lety +7

      Wow that's deep

    • @davec3689
      @davec3689 Před 4 lety +5

      Thank you for posting your confessor's comment. Both of you have helped me.

    • @cheryllittlepage2096
      @cheryllittlepage2096 Před 4 lety +6

      Thank you for sharing your priest’s advice. Something to think about and remember

    • @TheFunfolks
      @TheFunfolks Před 4 lety +8

      "We're not meant to do it all alone"..... Lord Jesus, Son of the Father, in union with the Holy Spirit have mercy on us!!!
      Thank you, Fr. Mark Mary😇😇😇

  • @Quetzal00358
    @Quetzal00358 Před 4 lety +93

    I was actually just about to leave for Confession when this popped up

    • @anthonyjmaurizzio7036
      @anthonyjmaurizzio7036 Před 4 lety +18

      John 20:21
      Again Jesus said to them, “Peace be with you. As the Father has sent Me, so also I am sending you.” When He had said this, He breathed on them and said, “Receive the Holy Spirit. If you forgive anyone his sins, they are forgiven; if you withhold forgiveness from anyone, it is withheld.”
      From this as the church was "led into all truth" by the Holy Spirit the sacrament of reconciliation developed. You may not put faith in it but it comes to us from Jesus himself.

    • @mr.f6215
      @mr.f6215 Před 4 lety +2

      that’s what we do as Catholics

    • @gemum4219
      @gemum4219 Před měsícem

      @@anthonyjmaurizzio7036 YES, from JESUS Himself. Love it!

  • @christophewakim3587
    @christophewakim3587 Před 4 lety +164

    Pray for me guys

    • @jonahkane7027
      @jonahkane7027 Před 4 lety +4

      🙏✝️🙏🙏

    • @JacobSmith-rx5xj
      @JacobSmith-rx5xj Před 4 lety +8

      Will do! May God be with you forever and show you his will. You're loved

    • @phoebesue3008
      @phoebesue3008 Před 4 lety +2

      🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

    • @mirtham2372
      @mirtham2372 Před 4 lety +2

      Wakim Wakim 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

    • @josephjackson1956
      @josephjackson1956 Před 4 lety +3

      I pray that you grow to know God and to love Him, as well as to recognize the graces in your life coming from Him and love Him because He loves you.

  • @TomBear86
    @TomBear86 Před 4 lety +29

    I just failed with the same sin, please brother pray for me to defeat this weakness. God bless you.

  • @12mountain
    @12mountain Před 4 lety +146

    Fr. Mark-Mary: “...and just to sit with my-excuse my language, if this is too strong of a word for you...”
    Me: **leans in with increasing shock and terror at what he might say...**
    Fr. Mark-Mary: “...stupidity”
    🙄😂👍🏼 You’re wonderful, Father! Thanks for your great video, per usual.

  • @wreloise1
    @wreloise1 Před 3 lety +21

    I desire NOT to let go of studying God’s Word through Catholicism ( I am alone). Even though By staying committed to my Non-Catholic religion , I can find assistance. However, where are the thoughts of my heart ( for 4 months...in secrecy, I’m growing in a in-depth intimate relationship with God through the study of the Catholic Religion) Pray for me🙏🏾

    • @gemum4219
      @gemum4219 Před měsícem

      IF you don't mind sharing, what have been some eye opening or experiences you notice have taken place along your way of growth? I find knowing of my brothers and sister's in Christ testimonies help me to grow or inspiring.
      Either way, it's okay if you don't feel ready or able to share. But just in case, I thought I would ask.
      Bless you, bless all of us who are growing closer in our relationship every day with our Lord! Amen.

  • @Dr_Analise
    @Dr_Analise Před 4 lety +47

    cling to Jesus!

  • @mortonjay4143
    @mortonjay4143 Před 4 lety +33

    Meditation: Lord, how quickly and easily I run from You. Fearful of losing my will, I run from Yours, knowing full well, like the young rich man in Scripture, that in following You I must give up what I cling to.
    My Lord, as I run from You let me stumble over your love and mercy so that I may fall into your arms and cling to your loving embrace.

    • @josephzammit8483
      @josephzammit8483 Před 2 lety +1

      @Teresa Bogus Well said! I’m publishing a weekly CZcams video on episodes from the life of Don Bosco, entitled ST JOHN BOSCO by JOE ZAMMIT. In this series I’m narrating events and miracles from the splendid life of Don Bosco. St John Bosco used to perform a miracle almost every day, through the intercession of Mary Help of Christians. From the lives of saints we can learn how to love God more and draw closer to him. Thank you

  • @katkat2340
    @katkat2340 Před 4 lety +41

    Confession is a beautiful grace, it’s never easy to go and reveal the things you still have not overcome. God wants our hearts , our love, our humility.
    I’m also directionally challenged 🤣😂your story is hilarious , love the honesty. Keep happy and laugh at yourself and lost is a place too!🤣

  • @elspethsilverstar6136
    @elspethsilverstar6136 Před 4 lety +45

    I need to be reminded of this often.

  • @donnapatelmo316
    @donnapatelmo316 Před 2 lety +3

    Talk to Jesus every day i have conversations with Him so many distractions today He has to come first be the center of our life

  • @timmcb5758
    @timmcb5758 Před 4 lety +21

    Sounds like working the 1st Step of AA "We admitted we were powerless over alcohol and our lives are unmanageable" I been practicing that for years and this video reminds me to do it with all my sins. Thank you

  • @trinidadraj152
    @trinidadraj152 Před 4 lety +13

    This is a wonderful video.
    But I have to say, being bad at directions isn't a sin. It's a lack of prudence, it requires humility and help to improve, it is a weakness. But not a sin. For it to be a real sin it has to be intentional. Getting lost isn't intentional.
    For the areas of life where we are imprudent or where we need to grew in greater excellence and virtue, yes it takes a growing sense of humility so that we can become more reliant on God's grace to guide us and help us to grow. I love that he mentioned the Jesus Prayer.

  • @kimfleury
    @kimfleury Před 4 lety +19

    3 Hail Marys for you, Father

  • @paulhill7726
    @paulhill7726 Před 4 lety +22

    Thank you Brother I needed to hear this. Please pray for my priest in ICU

    • @paulhill7726
      @paulhill7726 Před 4 lety +7

      My priest was able to come home! Thank you all who prayed for his recovery!

    • @gemum4219
      @gemum4219 Před měsícem

      @@paulhill7726 Thank you God.

  • @LadyK007
    @LadyK007 Před 4 lety +26

    As always, right on time. God bless you Father.

  • @petermolloy992
    @petermolloy992 Před 4 lety +11

    Thank you Fr. Mark-Mary, I would imagine I speak for many when I say that I really needed to hear this today.
    I believe that the gift of confession is one of the most precious gifts we Catholics have. My Protestant friends don’t quite get it. They say ‘I go straight to the source.’
    By consciously verbalizing our sins to our priest we get to recognize these weaknesses. Something you really don’t consciously get when you just think about your sin.
    Knowing that you are bringing the same sin to confession ‘yet again’ brings this weakness to the forefront of our consciousness.
    If you have not been to confession in some time, don’t wait. You will not regret it when you leave the confessional with a renewed feeling of lightness and energy.
    I have a reminder on my phone. As soon as I’m finished my confession and back in the car I move my calendar reminder out four weeks. I always try my best to go at least once every four weeks.

  • @anthonyjmaurizzio7036
    @anthonyjmaurizzio7036 Před 4 lety +10

    Deliver me Lord from the bondage of self!

  • @achienglilian6395
    @achienglilian6395 Před 2 lety +3

    Sometimes I feel like going to a priest who does not know me because of this problem, same sins again. It's very embarrassing. Pray for me please

  • @guitardan666
    @guitardan666 Před 4 lety +4

    Pray for people in hospital every single day,they really need your Prayers.

  • @denisecee5413
    @denisecee5413 Před 4 lety +27

    I needed to hear this

  • @66samhainsfire
    @66samhainsfire Před 3 lety +5

    Thank you so much Fr. I have struggled with the same sins for years and only recently realized how much my self reliance....insidious pride...fed into that cycle. I literally just took notes on this video. Its as though you were speaking directly to my heart.
    Thank you!

  • @Helpmeasinner
    @Helpmeasinner Před 4 lety +4

    You cannot and never will grow in holiness unless you admit that you, by yourself, are powerless. Only by the grace of God can anyone succeed.

  • @bridgetg2661
    @bridgetg2661 Před 4 lety +9

    Thank you Father! ALWAYS good timing - I went to first Saturday Reconciliation this morning and the more I confess the same sin, the more I sometimes feel that it's (the nature of the sin) ingrained in me. I know that it does not define me but that it is something I need to pray about and work on. Thanks for the gentle reminders!!

  • @edeverett9170
    @edeverett9170 Před 4 lety +6

    I need to let go of my self reliance and cling to Jesus! Hits home for me in a real way. Thank you my brother!

  • @blissfulanddivine3101
    @blissfulanddivine3101 Před 4 lety +18

    Thank you father. That prayer is wonderful. God bless you for the light.

  • @cameronwalker3677
    @cameronwalker3677 Před 4 lety +17

    Oh my, your message brought tears to my eyes. Thank you so much.

  • @ks7343
    @ks7343 Před rokem +1

    I totally get the frustration with the GW bridge! Was just there last weekend! I'll pray for you! Also, Google maps works better than mapquest IMHO. But honestly, with the GW? I'll PRAY for YOU. Ask St Christopher, and St Nicholas and St Raphael to help you. I really will pray for you, Fr Mark-Mary.

  • @hannadavelucy
    @hannadavelucy Před 4 lety +12

    Thanks Father Mark Mary. Thank you.

  • @claytonwenrich4663
    @claytonwenrich4663 Před 4 lety +11

    I really needed to hear this Father.

  • @Richie016
    @Richie016 Před 4 lety +4

    Longing for Lord's love & mercy and living the truth of his presence in holiness relieves from despair.

  • @aei2023
    @aei2023 Před 4 lety +4

    When I cling to Jesus, I remember that my clinging is his clinging through me to him. After all, all strength comes from him and so does all goodness so if you ask him to cling to you where you cannot cling then you are clinging to him everywhere.

  • @TheFunfolks
    @TheFunfolks Před 2 lety +2

    DON'T GIVE UP !
    DON'T GIVE UP !
    DON'T GIVE UP !

  • @palace_pro4923
    @palace_pro4923 Před 4 lety +2

    Awesome JESUS CHRIST bless!!! Needed this video 🙏

  • @maryanneevans9563
    @maryanneevans9563 Před rokem +2

    I needed this message! Thank you!

  • @joaniehiggs6575
    @joaniehiggs6575 Před 4 lety +3

    This is just what I have needed lately. Thank you !

  • @lindarector8254
    @lindarector8254 Před 4 lety +4

    Thank you, Father. We are the Body of Christ and need each other to survive. Amen.

  • @elizabethmaslin7317
    @elizabethmaslin7317 Před 4 lety +2

    Thank you brother, God's timing is perfect. I so needed to hear this. May God's love increase in your heart. Keep on clinging!

  • @virginiaswiatek8409
    @virginiaswiatek8409 Před 4 lety +2

    Thank you for this video, Father. I think this is your most powerful video yet. Cling to Jesus!

  • @jossthedemonslayer7160
    @jossthedemonslayer7160 Před 4 lety +6

    Thank you Fr. Mark-Mary. I needed to hear this.

  • @SteveAubrey1762
    @SteveAubrey1762 Před 4 lety +2

    I SO needed this video! Praise be Jesus Christ! JA

  • @allanweilert7185
    @allanweilert7185 Před 4 lety +1

    Thanks, Fr Mark-Mary!

  • @homethatilove4595
    @homethatilove4595 Před 4 lety +4

    I'm with you Fr. I'm bad with directions.
    Noooooo, not the Holland Tunnel 😱😱 . Im sorry that it also cost you time & money (frustrating!!). This made for an Powerfully, Important video. Thank you for relating this story.

    • @nancyjanzen5676
      @nancyjanzen5676 Před 4 lety

      Make sure you have a local guide if you come to Brownsville TX. Wrong lane on the Interstate on your way to Holy Family parish will trap you in a lane to Mexico.

    • @homethatilove4595
      @homethatilove4595 Před 4 lety

      @@nancyjanzen5676 😲

  • @kathyzacherl3055
    @kathyzacherl3055 Před 4 lety +5

    Thank you, really needed this, I too keep confessing the same sin ☹️🤦🏻‍♀️

    • @josephzammit6396
      @josephzammit6396 Před 2 lety

      Yes. You're right. You're confessing also hear. It is possible to get rid of all sins, even venial ones, by God's grace. Grace is more powerful than any temptation. We sin because we find it difficult to deny ourselves. Now, by God's grace we can win all temptations always, immediately and easily. The secret is by growing in our love for God. The more we love God, the easier it becomes for us to win temptations, please God and do his will joyfully: czcams.com/video/5XmeGWZhV44/video.html

  • @samlawson6507
    @samlawson6507 Před 4 lety +1

    🤯 Wow. Great video. THANK YOU Father Mark-Mary!

  • @sharbelashcar8694
    @sharbelashcar8694 Před 4 lety +5

    Very consoling and liberating! Thank you brother

  • @jmkm333
    @jmkm333 Před 4 lety +4

    Needed this. Great video and advice. Thank you! Happy Friday

  • @WarriorKnitter
    @WarriorKnitter Před 4 lety +1

    Praise God for you and your videos. The last video with the prayer about asking the Father to take from us what we are not strong enough to give. And now this, how to cling to Jesus. Thank you Father Mark-Mary.

  • @robertpeto7094
    @robertpeto7094 Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you. Your videos are priceless to me. Thank you

  • @mssixty3426
    @mssixty3426 Před 4 lety +1

    Thank you for this - I added a new playlist titled "Prayers" just for this video, will continue adding prayers to it in the future. I listen to various Catholic playlists while on long drives, or when working around the house or out in the yard. Thanks again for all you do. God bless you.

  • @sharonholmes6083
    @sharonholmes6083 Před 4 lety +3

    Thank you, for this timely video! This IS what I needed. I am going to copy Brother's Isiah's prayer so that I can recite it often.

  • @andreaarthur2258
    @andreaarthur2258 Před 4 lety +1

    This is what i needed thank you gods using you so much and i trusted god something ive struggled with for so long with his word and made him pround celebrate yourself!!

  • @sallybartholomew8470
    @sallybartholomew8470 Před 4 lety +1

    Thank you Fr Mark Mary.

  • @sandragrace4613
    @sandragrace4613 Před 4 lety +2

    That is the perfect facial expression on the thumbnail of this video for how I feel about when it happens to me, as it does often

  • @kerwinfernandes9583
    @kerwinfernandes9583 Před 4 lety +1

    Great insight Fr. God bless you and your family. 😌🙏

  • @rosemarymaher6726
    @rosemarymaher6726 Před 4 lety +1

    An excellent prayer.Thank you.

  • @rw8873
    @rw8873 Před 4 lety +1

    I so appreciate your failure with directions!!!
    Totally unrelated but very funny story - when we moved to our new house (now 20 years ago, no smart phones, no gps), my dh lovingly wrote down directions to every important place in town - the grocery store, church, library, bank, etc on pretty, colorful index cards. I used them faithfully the first 2-3 wks. I was figuring it all out! I wasn't stupid.
    Then the town switched two one way streets to go the other direction! Couldn't believe it. My dh told me at dinner and even the kids laughed as he said the town did it just to mess with me. To this day I think they did as I can't see any other reason.
    I got lost the very next day and in my anxiety couldn't even remember where I lived. I was alone, so I couldn't ask my kids. I was in tears and then I realized - my house was near the local high school! I was saved; I nonchalantly walked in the next gas station, asked if could get directions to the high school. No one laughed or thought it was odd; the gentleman even said, 'no problem, it can be hard to find' - he wrote them down (avoiding the one way streets!) and I got home safe and sound.
    Now, I have schedule confession this weekend :-)

  • @carolherm
    @carolherm Před rokem

    Thank you so much Father. You are so gentle with us, making it easy to run to Jesus.

  • @elenasartori9938
    @elenasartori9938 Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you! Amazing wisdom words

  • @deborahgitto1614
    @deborahgitto1614 Před 4 lety +1

    Thank you 🙏 for this message

  • @bezaleelcastillo9775
    @bezaleelcastillo9775 Před 4 lety +1

    Thank you father...thru you God answered multiple questions I've been mulling over and over and over. God bless you father

  • @markkristynichols845
    @markkristynichols845 Před rokem

    Fr. Mark Mary you have become such an inspiration for me! ❤ and prayers for you, Kristy 😃🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸

  • @Shiftyy0012
    @Shiftyy0012 Před rokem

    Thank you for this one!!! This was very helpful for me I appreciate it very much.

  • @nathandyck2558
    @nathandyck2558 Před 9 měsíci

    God bless you and thank you for this video Father Mark Mary! You give inspiration, and I'll give you good directions around NY/NJ👍😁

  • @andrewforbes2577
    @andrewforbes2577 Před rokem +1

    Simply excellent!

  • @petergarcia8225
    @petergarcia8225 Před 3 lety +1

    We all fall but we are the few that know the way back up. Our sins were paid for and we all have been shown the way up.

  • @lambchop1960
    @lambchop1960 Před 4 lety +2

    Thank you. Praise God

  • @peterpatterson3435
    @peterpatterson3435 Před 2 lety +1

    Amen Father l need you Jesus for your help and support for Virtue 📿🙏🏻🕊

  • @DannyDHidalgo
    @DannyDHidalgo Před 4 lety +6

    Amen!

  • @jamesgonzales7994
    @jamesgonzales7994 Před 4 lety +1

    LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE YOu father and Our Good Lord JESUS CHRIST and mama MARY!!!!!! THANK YOU! U R A BEAUTIFUL PERSON!!! GOD BLESS YOU!! Please pray for KOBE AND GIGI AND FAMILIES HURT!!! PLEASE

  • @nellypinilla5577
    @nellypinilla5577 Před 2 lety +1

    Hi,father. We need a lot of prayers, I’m so deeply saddened for all what it is in this time

  • @bettye444
    @bettye444 Před 4 měsíci

    Excellent Fr M/M.

  • @greenlight-_xx6224
    @greenlight-_xx6224 Před rokem +2

    Ive repented and im crying as we speak i need help 😞

  • @michaelangelomateo2597
    @michaelangelomateo2597 Před 2 lety +1

    Always Care.
    C-onfession
    A-doration
    R-osary
    E-ucharist

  • @joeycarlson6411
    @joeycarlson6411 Před 4 lety +1

    Perfect video!

  • @mbrown23ag
    @mbrown23ag Před 4 lety +3

    Thank you!!!!!

  • @alexsantoscoswosk8046
    @alexsantoscoswosk8046 Před 2 lety +1

    love this song

  • @petergarcia8225
    @petergarcia8225 Před 3 lety

    We all get lost at times but through his light we will find and we will be found.

  • @dewey6912
    @dewey6912 Před 4 lety +2

    thanks Fr

  • @drcardinalli
    @drcardinalli Před 4 lety +2

    Totally irrelevant comment, but the hair and the beard are the perfect awesome-friar semi-biker length. Rocking it!!!

  • @humphreyobanor866
    @humphreyobanor866 Před 4 lety +2

    This is definitely for me

  • @CaryChilton
    @CaryChilton Před 4 lety +1

    POWERFUL.

  • @mmswp.channel
    @mmswp.channel Před 3 lety +1

    Have never thought of seeking assistance...thank you!
    But still have no idea how to have one, and whether I'm dare enough to confess 🙏

  • @evanslawrence88
    @evanslawrence88 Před 4 lety +2

    I need to go to confession. I haven't went in a couple of years. I will go to confession before Easter this year.

  • @sbrown8937
    @sbrown8937 Před 3 lety

    Amen.💜✝🙏All prayer is powerful but I think the most powerful prayers are from those who struggle in the same areas who have the same weaknesses and who have been through the same types situations as the ones are praying for.

  • @Shiftyy0012
    @Shiftyy0012 Před 7 měsíci

    Thank you.

  • @pamregan7916
    @pamregan7916 Před 3 lety +1

    Exactly what I needed to hear, thank you Father

  • @annacpa58
    @annacpa58 Před rokem

    Wow perfect

  • @gemum4219
    @gemum4219 Před měsícem

    Pray for conversion to Christianity for all the world's people.

  • @jamesolson5833
    @jamesolson5833 Před rokem

    Thanks!

  • @annacpa58
    @annacpa58 Před rokem

    Thank you

  • @steveyu9308
    @steveyu9308 Před 4 lety +2

    Thank you, Father! This sounds like the same first steps that Alcoholics and Drug Addicts have to take. Beautiful!

  • @evanslawrence88
    @evanslawrence88 Před 4 lety

    Don't feel bad. New York is hard to navigate for anyone. And traffic is terrible.

  • @imalive4u169
    @imalive4u169 Před 4 lety +3

    As St. Paul said, "The spirit is willing but the flesh is weak". In one way we are unlike Christ and His Mother in which we are conceived in original sin not in a State of Grace we are fallen sinners. Even after we are Baptized born again in which the original sin is forgiven and we enter into a State of Grace made a people of God we are still under the effects of original sin therefore we still struggle with our sins in a cycle of falling from Grace repenting for our sins and being restored to God's Grace until the last hour of our lives. God places no restriction on the num!ber of times we repent for the same sins we commit over and over again which is St. Peter came to the Lord and asked, "Lord, how often should I forgive someone who sins against me? Seven times? 'No, not seven times, 'Jesus replied, 'but seventy times seven!". Put that together with what St. Paul stated about the the spirit is willing but the flesh being weak we we all succumb to our sins even those which we repeat over and over again in a struggle to overcome them.
    This is how I see it the penitent already knows what they had done was wrong which is why they confess their sins they already acknowledge their guilt for having committed these sins. The Priest should be like Christ and forgive them their sins absolving them. In my opinion giving advise to the penitent is a waste of time because they already know what they done was wrong and therefore they already know what they need to do in order to prevent themselves from committing those sins again but as St. Paul stated the spirit is willing but the flesh is weak. I think it would be better for the Priest to listen rather giving them advise which could be taken by the penitent as judging them. So listen to their confession withholding your judgement and absolve them of their sins and prescribe their penance.

  • @peace4serenity
    @peace4serenity Před 4 lety +7

    I would have sent a private message if I could because the Sacrement of reconciliation has always been so freeing to me. I had a recent experienced though of confessing the same sin for the 3rd time. I’m really trying to work on this and returning weekly to confession was to humble myself and keep working on it because I truly have a contrite heart. I left the confessional feeling worse than when I went in. The impatience I felt was so shaming to me I was tearful when I left and had a very heavy heart. Fortunately for me we have Adoration of Blessed Sacrement during the time our priest is hearing confession so I was able to give that sadness to our Lord. I was reminded that Jesus knows everything about me and loves me completely. Perhaps Father was having a hard day. He is replacing our priest while he is away. Don’t think I’ll return to confession again though until our regular priest returns.

    • @AllAboutTruth
      @AllAboutTruth Před 4 lety +2

      We will pray for you. 🙏🙏🙏

    • @bonniemelielo5446
      @bonniemelielo5446 Před 4 lety +8

      Remember, the priest is just a "veil" for Jesus, so even if you don't "feel" like you have had a good confession please remember you confessed to Jesus. I have been in your situation and this thought helped me a lot.

    • @katkat2340
      @katkat2340 Před 4 lety +5

      I have been shamed in confession also to the point I cried also, it really deterred me from going again with any trust and damaged me spiritually. I reached out to another Priest who reassured me and since I go back to confession , I have had some wonderful and merciful Priests since then. Even though we fail we never fail God when we reach out to him- we only fail if we don’t rely on him for mercy. Raise up your bad experience for the salvation of souls that way nothing is wasted, and it will please God. Shame is a bully, Grace is a shield , that quote is by Ann Voscamp . Keep going to confession and you are a beautiful most loved child of God. Peace, hope, love🙏🏽

    • @ricardotabares8771
      @ricardotabares8771 Před 4 lety +2

      @@katkat2340 That is an amazing quote, "Shame is a bully, Grace is a shield." Please pray for me. God bless and take care! Viva Cristo Rey y La Virgen de Guadalupe!

    • @st.michaelthearchangel7774
      @st.michaelthearchangel7774 Před 4 lety +5

      Carmen, yeah, I had a bad confession once too. It was quite damaging. However, we have to forgive and not let pride make the situation in our heart even worse.
      Priests are human, too, and can fall short, unfortunately. God bless them, though! 🙂

  • @beauvizenor8116
    @beauvizenor8116 Před rokem

    I will pray for everyone and please pray for me

  • @NormaZurita144
    @NormaZurita144 Před 3 měsíci

    Lord Jesus have mercy for me for I am a sinner

  • @user-cb5hj2lc4f
    @user-cb5hj2lc4f Před 3 měsíci +1

    For me its mortal sin 13 years away from the church gave me this addiction to tarot videos(divination).
    I prayed the rosary recently for a whole month all mysteries everyday the severe depression I had became mild to almost non existent.I took that as a sign that I should be catholic again,(as I am baptized so I continued praying the rosary.Soon enough I felt the urge to go to confession and I went to Fatima and received forgiveness.However this sin is so deeply rooted in my life I did it again I am so ashamed and I Feel like giving up.Maybe Im just not meant for heaven:( I still pray the rosary and asked mother Mary to intercede for me in getting rid of this mortal sin.But again IM ashamed I feel like the worst sinner

    • @Meneer_Davis
      @Meneer_Davis Před 3 měsíci

      Please do not despair remember: For God so loved the world, as to give his only begotten Son; that whosoever believeth in him, may not perish, but may have life everlasting. God bless I will pray for you

  • @leonoradompor8706
    @leonoradompor8706 Před 4 lety +1

    Jesus commanded us to love our enemies.On Valentine 's Day give your love to your enemies by giving them happy books,flowers,pictures of Jesus and Mary ,Holy Rosary and put kind words by saying Jesus loves you and I love you too !E