My Weight Loss Journey: How I Transformed My Body | Iris

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  • One woman shares her inspiring weight loss journey.
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    I've lost weight, I have gained weight,
    I've maintained weight, it's been a really long process.
    But, as everyone says, it is a marathon, it's not a sprint.
    And I'm deep within that marathon right now.
    As an operatic artist, you have to deal with
    the stereotype of, it's not over until the fat lady sings.
    That's not opera today.
    You have to be fit.
    I definitely think that my food habits
    were shaped in my early childhood.
    I grew up in a small town in Georgia called Sylvester,
    it's in the deep south.
    My entire family is overweight and that's not something
    that's abnormal in the southern community.
    Big happy family, emphasis on big, was what we were.
    Everything revolved around food,
    cookouts, barbecues, fish fries, all kinds of things.
    Just food was a big part of it.
    When I was , this is when I was really
    starting to come into my own,
    I stepped on the scale and it said pounds.
    I knew that that was big, but I also knew
    that my sisters were bigger than me.
    So, I was like, I'm doing fine.
    I didn't see any of the red flags.
    That's what held me back for so long
    from actually getting my weight in control.
    The real pivotal shift was my best friend's wedding
    in college, I was asked to sing at her wedding
    in this beautiful valley, in North Georgia.
    Just a stunning spring day.
    And I wore a dress that I felt awesome in,
    and it was really flowy so it hid all those trouble spots,
    and we had a great day.
    The problem came when I saw the pictures.
    It was the first moment in my life
    that I actually saw myself how others saw me.
    And I was, it sounds so cliche, but I was so shocked
    because I was like, who is this woman?
    You know, she has my smile, and she has my eyes,
    but she looks swollen.
    I got on the scale and it read pounds.
    I knew then, because I was a stone's throw away
    from pounds, that I could either step up,
    do something that I've never seen anybody like me
    or in my community, or you know,
    anybody but Oprah really, lose weight.
    And I just want so much for everyone to realize
    that health and wellness is for everyone.
    You know, regardless of skin color,
    socioeconomic status, your job.
    I started to see results within about six months of me
    really trying, is when I lost my first to pounds.
    And, I stepped on the scale and I saw that
    I was around , and that was groundbreaking.
    It was addictive.
    I was like, how far can I go?
    You don't have to be, you know,
    a suburban housewife to lose weight.
    You just have to have an idea that you want better for you.
    Motivation isn't always there.
    I don't always want to meal prep,
    I don't always wanna go work out.
    But, if you take time to cultivate discipline,
    it doesn't matter what your motivation is.
    I know there's gonna be times where
    maintaining weight's gonna be really hard.
    I know that.
    But what I see in the immediate future
    is me really getting back to a place where
    my weight loss journey becomes more consistent.
    A place where, doing things every single day
    because I know they're good for me,
    that's what I see in the future.
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Komentáře • 121

  • @zacharylavender1568
    @zacharylavender1568 Před 6 lety +24

    My motto, "if you don't like something, change It!" Great job!

  • @kreykreymommy7316
    @kreykreymommy7316 Před 5 lety +1

    Wooow! I was just scrolling through my YT home page and I said ....hey that’s my cousin. I never write comments on YT but my heart was just filled with joy when I saw this video. To hear you speak your truth is music to my ears. Weight loss is an ongoing battle for many people like myself but your video just gave me the motivation that I needed again. Just know your family here in Sylvester is extremely proud of your accomplishments and we look forward to seeing what other great things you have in store. Great work!

  • @mariyahwiggins8744
    @mariyahwiggins8744 Před 6 lety +28

    Thanks for sharing your story. You really inspire me and I hope you the best.

  • @EliteXtasy
    @EliteXtasy Před 6 lety +15

    £:25 - "If you take time to cultivate discipline, it doesn't matter what your motivation is." - True words. Hopefully she'll get used to her new routine which automatically lead to her becoming fit and healthy, regardless of her reasons to get fit and healthy.

  • @peggyoconnell7118
    @peggyoconnell7118 Před 5 lety +10

    I loved your story!! Beautiful video, too! Thanks for sharing!

  • @KEESHWASH
    @KEESHWASH Před 5 lety +8

    Why do these stories always make me want to cry? Good luck with your lifestyle change!💞

  • @kirah618
    @kirah618 Před 6 lety +12

    Work it cover girl! I was at a similar start point to you and I feel you so much, proud of you stranger ☺️

  • @Timetrae
    @Timetrae Před 5 lety +3

    “You just have to have an idea that you want better for you”!!! SO TRUE!!!

  • @lydiabrown4769
    @lydiabrown4769 Před 6 lety +43

    You exude a radiance of positivity! Continued success on your journey! You're absolutely adorable! Amazing voice!

  • @neemaa1192
    @neemaa1192 Před 6 lety +27

    SHE’S SOOOO PRETTY❤️❤️

  • @system6914
    @system6914 Před 6 lety +15

    This is very a very inspiring story she is amazing.
    Also @ 1:33 the lady in the middle is my chorus teacher.

    • @menelikm9779
      @menelikm9779 Před 5 lety +2

      Really?

    • @rav4066
      @rav4066 Před 5 lety +1

      I clicked on the time right as the video was originally playing it lol

    • @lewisueich3966
      @lewisueich3966 Před 5 lety

      developer.samsung.com/internet/terms-of-service-us

  • @carasends6812
    @carasends6812 Před 6 lety +59

    Wow I love her, so positive ! Keep up ! And damn her smile.

  • @Cinthya-Vargas
    @Cinthya-Vargas Před 6 lety +8

    That was so inspiring! Thank you for sharing your story Tareva!

  • @crystalgrose
    @crystalgrose Před 5 lety +1

    I am so happy for this beautiful young lady. Wishing her continued success in her weight loss journey and career.

  • @104vava
    @104vava Před 5 lety +8

    Wow, she rocks, I needed to see the video

  • @erickanyc8907
    @erickanyc8907 Před 6 lety +6

    Loving this video!!👏☺️

  • @soniaquintanilla3280
    @soniaquintanilla3280 Před 5 lety +8

    It's like I'm watching you tell my story all but the singing part (I sound like a cat in heat...lol!) I'm so happy I click on and I just want to say that you're on the right journey. I lost 97lbs kept them off for 2 1/2 years and guess what those 97lbs found me. I have started to invest in myself for change and slowly I'm loosing weight again. I just find it hard to exercise again. I'm so happy for you. You've made me realize that it's journey and it's all baby steps. We'll get there!!! You are a very beautiful woman with a beautiful soul! God continue to Bless You!!

  • @lisac5690
    @lisac5690 Před 5 lety +1

    OMG!! Blessings to you!! I'm an Opera singer as well. You are so inspiring. I feel like I'm watching a story about myself. I too have changed my lifestyle to one of better health. Keep up the great work. Maybe we'll meet one day on the Opera stage 😊

  • @MARCIA2978
    @MARCIA2978 Před 6 lety +9

    You go girl looking great

  • @striving1
    @striving1 Před 5 lety +3

    This was BEAUTIFUL! Thanks for sharing!

  • @muzicislife9198
    @muzicislife9198 Před 5 lety

    This, unlike a lot of weight loss success stories, was really inspirational. @ 1st the pic was all black, & I started not 2 reload it but I'm so glad I did. THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!

  • @Lina-tk9tq
    @Lina-tk9tq Před 6 lety +2

    This brings tears to my eyes im so happy for youu
    You do you girlll i love youu ❤

  • @charlenemyers7599
    @charlenemyers7599 Před 5 lety +12

    Tareva, you are absolutely gorveous inside and out! And I'm proud to know that you are also a Ga Peach!!💝🌼

    • @Webbgurl2000
      @Webbgurl2000 Před 5 lety

      charlene myers Georgia Peaches 🍑 are Best in Bunches!!

  • @sharonwright1631
    @sharonwright1631 Před 5 lety +2

    Health is wealth love congratulating you on a rich life🎉

  • @diamondlil597
    @diamondlil597 Před 5 lety +1

    I bow to my Opera Queen....your voice is healing.....I love Opera, I just discovered the Black Diamond, Kimi Skota of South Africa. OMG ...thanks for sharing, your voice is very special....Cha Ching $$$$$. You have the beauty

  • @kimberlyfrancis6040
    @kimberlyfrancis6040 Před 6 lety +1

    Awesome story..... so inspiring... I know this definitely will encourage many people and give them hope... keep doing what you're doing! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @babygirltdi
    @babygirltdi Před 5 lety +1

    You are an inspiration to me and so many others. Thank you, I really needed to hear this today.

  • @tracykolbs9211
    @tracykolbs9211 Před 5 lety +1

    Awesome for you young lady! God bless you on your journey!!

  • @Webbgurl2000
    @Webbgurl2000 Před 5 lety +1

    There needs to be more support for women of color dealing with weight issues.

  • @cheezeburger100
    @cheezeburger100 Před 5 lety +1

    Great job young lady..beautiful smile!!

  • @VisualMetaphor
    @VisualMetaphor Před 6 lety +11

    loved it.

  • @lisadukes6471
    @lisadukes6471 Před 5 lety +2

    You GO Gurl! 🙏🏿🙏🏾🙏🏻🙏🏽🙌🏽👑🙌🏽!

  • @haydentakerer4163
    @haydentakerer4163 Před 6 lety +11

    this is body positivity

  • @rav4066
    @rav4066 Před 5 lety +5

    Nice job!👏 keep it up and dont give up.

  • @karenquick8737
    @karenquick8737 Před 5 lety

    I loved this so much and her determination to go against all odds!! Yay for you, Iris! I love that 100W lightbulb smile too!! You inspired me!! xoxoxo

  • @gina1304
    @gina1304 Před 5 lety

    You're beautiful inside and out😇
    Your story has inspired me to make healthier choices and exercise more. Thank you and continue to shine bright like a 💎

  • @sharonadams1060
    @sharonadams1060 Před 5 lety

    That is Great. I am struggling with my weight you inspired me😀😀keep up the good work Iris You are Beautiful

  • @happylife7096
    @happylife7096 Před 5 lety

    What a beautiful lady and so positive! Thank you for your story!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @lilyjustice5261
    @lilyjustice5261 Před 6 lety +1

    Tareva you are beautiful and so inspiring, the sky is the limit reach it look back I'm right behind you!

  • @OMDItsMeLovedancer87
    @OMDItsMeLovedancer87 Před 6 lety +5

    Amazing ❤💜😍

  • @cocoaspice5
    @cocoaspice5 Před 5 lety +4

    Beautiful smile, beautiful attitude

  • @sims398
    @sims398 Před 3 lety

    Beautiful, well done.

  • @sharonadams2858
    @sharonadams2858 Před 6 lety +1

    Just ran into your channel and you're truly inspiring. New subscriber here. You're beautiful inside out. 🏵🍃🏵

  • @songjames4609
    @songjames4609 Před 6 lety +1

    Yes mate I can relate. Inspired

  • @julesgarcia5854
    @julesgarcia5854 Před 5 lety

    Awesome!!

  • @ameliabrown9308
    @ameliabrown9308 Před 5 lety

    Very inspirational I'm trying 2 figure out how I can get fit again

  • @wildthings6670
    @wildthings6670 Před 5 lety

    I excercise. I eat well, I research. I'm not happy with my weight, I'm overweight. I'm afraid of the scale, I'm afraid of telling anybody how much I weigh. I need help.

  • @raineynight
    @raineynight Před 6 lety +4

    Encouraging!

  • @merquayleperry6696
    @merquayleperry6696 Před 5 lety

    I love this and it inspired me!! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @jenniferdavis2110
    @jenniferdavis2110 Před 5 lety

    You go girl! ...Awesome 💜

  • @ladyd6545
    @ladyd6545 Před 5 lety

    Inspiring Story....Thanks for sharing, we never see our selves as others do....Peace, love light and BLESSINGS TO ALL.,❤️.

  • @lovess4051
    @lovess4051 Před 5 lety

    you go girl

  • @cynthiawright6193
    @cynthiawright6193 Před 5 lety

    Good story!

  • @theresarawlings3642
    @theresarawlings3642 Před 5 lety

    Love your motivation ❤️💃. I need to do the same. I want to be fit prior to surgery. Thank you so much 🤗 and keep it up

  • @libralady0220
    @libralady0220 Před 5 lety

    Thank you so much!!! 🙏🏾❤️🙂

  • @innocentlife2346
    @innocentlife2346 Před 5 lety

    I gotta get my weight under control myself and stop hesitating. Bck in 2016 I weighed 405 full of body weight fluid. After I start taking my H/B pressure fluid pills as I shoulda, I drop off 35 pounds in 2017 of fluid weight that wasn't really my actual weight. Now am at 370 in 2018😮 I've probably loss around 5 or 10 pounds jus haven't checked my weight yet! Doc wanna see me at 350 by nov 29th of this yr. Thanksgiving are b4 my Doc appt, Wat am I gonna do ppl?😔 I gotta get myself motivated like I where in my early 30's. Am at age 46 so the interest of losing weight not so excited when I was in my 30's..I feel real old at times all the young youth has left out of me..It's so hard getting that motivated spirit bck again. I'm sitting here with a nice big exercise bike and a huge treadmill. Smh😔

  • @soniaalexander277
    @soniaalexander277 Před 6 lety +1

    There is NOTHING like pictures that never lie to hou.

  • @jacquelinefreeman4855
    @jacquelinefreeman4855 Před 6 lety +6

    I hope you know you are a
    beautiful black woman with
    a lovely personality
    Simply BEAUTIFUL you
    The real you

  • @OmgTaylorD
    @OmgTaylorD Před 6 lety +5

    Hey, ain’t that @tareva_the_loser on instagram?! I LOVE HER ❤️❤️❤️

  • @haydeejohnson8290
    @haydeejohnson8290 Před 5 lety

    God bless you and your journey💘

  • @susanmoore6382
    @susanmoore6382 Před 5 lety +2

    U are an inspiration.

  • @SEJ3333
    @SEJ3333 Před 5 lety +1

    I love this person! Keep up the good and healthy work!

  • @kadijahedwards1684
    @kadijahedwards1684 Před 6 lety +23

    She's so cute

  • @beasaroze5596
    @beasaroze5596 Před 5 lety

    🎶🎙🎶💃🏿 *Go Girl!* 💃🏿🎶👏🏿🎶

  • @shikhajoshi4463
    @shikhajoshi4463 Před 5 lety

    I'm also fatty..... Nd hats off to ur positivity.... Stay positive mam😊

  • @tammywilliams9138
    @tammywilliams9138 Před 5 lety

    You are beautiful inside and out you ROCK!!!!

  • @shaediamond7336
    @shaediamond7336 Před 5 lety +4

    Her skin..

  • @stefanierimpel8002
    @stefanierimpel8002 Před 6 lety +2

    ❤️

  • @kon4lyfe460
    @kon4lyfe460 Před 6 lety

    Almost everyone can lose weight, just weight lift and count calories. That's literally it, don't make it so complicated. If you want it bad enough, you can do it easy. Use a calculator, find your TDEE, eat that shit every single day, when weight drop stalls add some cardio or cut your calories a bit. Rinse and repeat. It's all about discipline for the first month, then its just routine. If you don't like your workout, find one you like. If you don't like veggies, mix it with other foods or blend it into some pasta sauce. Can't eat enough protein? Get some whey, make smoothies. Don't eat animal products? Eat high protein alternatives, like quinoa and lentils. Don't know what workout to follow? Look up beginner routines on reddit. Can't stay motivated? Look in the mirror, if you don't like what you see, do something about it. Watching some bro online doing curls ain't motivation, looking at yourself in the mirror and finally saying "damn i look good" is. Not lying to yourself every morning saying "omg im beatiful, pretty, people don't know what they are missing!!!" If that were true you wouldn't need to tell yourself that. If you want this more than anything else, you would do anything to get there.

  • @tiffste243
    @tiffste243 Před 5 lety +1

    I'm proud of you. Continue your success

  • @alonzoeldenjohnson6341
    @alonzoeldenjohnson6341 Před 5 lety +2

    Nice

  • @DesireeArtesse
    @DesireeArtesse Před 6 lety +3

    Yassss QUEEN 👏👏👏 so much growth! So proud. You're an inspiration! Working your ass off with such charm & grace! Everyone follow her journey on insta at @tareva_the_loser!! But keep a tissue box at hand 😭 she's always bringing those happy tears 💕💕💕

  • @shamonicaandrews5244
    @shamonicaandrews5244 Před 5 lety

    My cousin a Georgia🍑. I'm proud of you!!!

  • @onepurpleflower8910
    @onepurpleflower8910 Před 6 lety +1

    👍👍👍

  • @fredawilliams3756
    @fredawilliams3756 Před 5 lety

    Congrats

  • @richardsalazar2651
    @richardsalazar2651 Před 5 lety

    She's beautiful

  • @bobbiejackson732
    @bobbiejackson732 Před 5 lety +2

    Wow love your story u have the want 2 either way u r beautiful on the n side

  • @pranaligiri9224
    @pranaligiri9224 Před 3 lety

    Pretty😍😍

  • @isamenejosephe9998
    @isamenejosephe9998 Před 5 lety +2

    So cute

  • @conniebruner8302
    @conniebruner8302 Před 5 lety

    jon

  • @ceecee8757
    @ceecee8757 Před 5 lety

    Aw, snap! Did she really just say "irregardless"?! 🤦‍♀️@2:37

  • @elizabethjohnson4623
    @elizabethjohnson4623 Před 5 lety

    This is great and I'm really proud of her but I could stop looking at her gorgeous teeth holy shit

  • @bobbiejackson732
    @bobbiejackson732 Před 5 lety

    I am proud r u

  • @butterflyangel75
    @butterflyangel75 Před 5 lety

    I thought she was Jill Scott at first

  • @edmundrichter4171
    @edmundrichter4171 Před 5 lety

    I wish my body and mind would heed what comes from my lips.

  • @raelynnstamper7513
    @raelynnstamper7513 Před 5 lety

    G. Addy

  • @toniawilliams3885
    @toniawilliams3885 Před 6 lety +2

    @tareva_the_loser love her 💕💕❤️💯

  • @abowlofsalad8812
    @abowlofsalad8812 Před 5 lety

    340 Fat Acceptance feminists disliked this video:

  • @yenquach4644
    @yenquach4644 Před 5 lety

    Tran nut phomg

  • @ferryarmand2503
    @ferryarmand2503 Před 5 lety

    Lagem bo dlo a

  • @MaryFieldoIIrwewq
    @MaryFieldoIIrwewq Před 5 lety

    Drudge c. AaVhids a a dN

  • @debbiesmith6155
    @debbiesmith6155 Před 5 lety

    lady gaga

  • @hellorat4922
    @hellorat4922 Před 5 lety

    Black Trisha pytas (what ever her name is)

  • @jeffreyjones9135
    @jeffreyjones9135 Před 6 lety

    No thanks

  • @ceil5001
    @ceil5001 Před 5 lety

    Gawd, I wish I could delete this out of my recommended. So tired of looking at her face and the thumbnail

  • @immasoxfanbaby
    @immasoxfanbaby Před 5 lety

    I subscribed cause I'm inspired.