Women Alone - The R Spot Episode 22
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- čas přidán 3. 04. 2017
- The R Spot episodes is where Iyanla shares messages, stories, and ideas to develop healthy relationships, and mend the ones that are broken. If you want to send Iyanla questions or share relationship issues; send correspondence to: www.IyanlasFixins@gmail.com
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I love the last part where she says "he's looking for you just as hard as you're looking for him". That made me smile. Ok future husband, I'm getting ready for you. I'm not there yet so wait on me. I promise you I'll be worth the wait.
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yesssss, the last part made me smile too,))
TheAlpha Femme-fatale WAS JUST ABOUT TO SAY THE SAME THING. THE LAST PART GAVE ME HOPE
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I am waiting on my future husband
COME ON HERE MS. IYANLA! He's not gay, he's not in jail & he's not married! THE VERY BEST STATEMENT I'VE HEARD ALL DAY!
thank god !!! this women exists on this planet!! shes the great gift. wise, beautiful, charismatic lovely... shes like warming loving mother to me that I had not in my life when i needed at most..
My husband, mmmh...he is 6 feet tall, dark haired, with green eyes. An engineer, spiritually enlightened, and of good character. I know this because we will meet in the summer of 2020. And the universe says...AMEN!
Amanda stephanie have you met him yet?
I have been that woman, afraid to be alone. What did I do? I stayed in 2 LONG painful relationships. I don't understand why we stay in hell but we do when we never knew heaven; these relationships hurt more than being alone! In my case, I never knew my worth. I was seeking the love, acceptance and validation I didn't have from my father. So I found men that were equally selfish, self-focused and non-committing. That way, I was "left" daily, while with them. Now I am finally alone and learning to love myself. All I would give to a man I will now give ME.
Melo Earth- been there too many times...I am now commited to being self partnered, get clear and focused on what I deserve and practice that for and to my Self. Hope you are finding blessings and owning your worth on your journey.
Peace, love, and light.
I HAVE NOOOOOOOOOOO WORDS FOR THIS VIDEO.... SLOW CLAPS.... STANDING OVATION.
You are such an amazing and gifted woman. I am so happy God allowed me to come across your videos in the nic-of-time. My husband left me (Oct 2016) while I was pregnant with our first child. I am still healing from the hurt. Your videos are helping me in ways you wouldn't imagine. Thank you and God bless!
Tammy Mitchell he's a dummy x
You are beautiful and you will find anotherone when the time is right.
Tammy Mitchell I hope you are doing better Tammy!! A detour could just be re-routing you to where you'll be celebrated and not tolerated. The best is yet to come!
Tammy Mitchell stay strong sister!
As a woman alone I found that inspiring and continue to do the work.... bless you Ivanya xx
I'm alone because I finally learned that I'm better off alone than with someone who doesn't value me.
Sadly, so many women feel that "anybody" is better than "nobody". I was in that group for a long time, but I realized I'd had enough. I wouldn't put up with someone treating my best friend like crap, so why would I put up with someone treating me that way.
Toni Spaulding YES!!!!
I don't do any of those things and I'm still alone. I hardly meet anyone and when I do they don't make the cut
I've been alone for 57 years and still alone don't know why just existing alone
Awwww this just made me giggle! So much truth 💗 "the universe will not supply unless a request has been made" wow just wow 😍
What a message! I am 38yrs never been married. I am getting to the point of being OK by myself.
T Over The most peaceful feeling ❤️
T Over yes me too didn’t think that anyone would say this. It’s ok to be alone doesn’t mean that your lonely.
capricorns1st yes very peaceful esp when you are ok with being alone 100%
what manner of woman is this, I could listen to Iyamla all day. Thank you for your words of wisdom. God Bless you.
I dont get tired of listening to u Iyanla, u blew the wind outta my sails everytime. I could do this all day loooong, drawing from ur wisdom. Thank you 🙆❤
Nicolette Orayn
Whew so many reasons I was glad when you came with suggestion at the end. I am doing the work and know my complement with appear at the divinely right time!
What an excellent R Spot. Need to listen to this a couple few times.
i was waiting for ur videos 🙌🙌🙌 thank u
Amen i receive it. Thxs for the uplifting message. Your a Gem.
sound like me✋! most women like me just get tired of the same mess.
Thank you Iyanla! I really needed to hear this!
Working this out. My biggest problem is making room for him. I am used to being alone. I am asking the Universe for mine 😉. Giving myself the best I've got!
I really enjoy being alone, I have a issue with sharing my space with someone ALL the time.
Mother.... god continue 2 bless her
Your words sowed a good seed and touched a very broken part of me that needed healing and mending. Thank you for using your wonderful gifts to help woman like myself.
thank you sooo much miss Iyanla I'm going to have this on replay until I learn my lesson and practice loving myself enjoy myself and realize what it is that I want in a relationship
Thank you..i needed this...especially that last part
wow thank you so much Ms Iyanla, I love the way you put things into perspective with an eloquent and profound turn of a phrase.. and always with compassion. I will be looking at what stories I tell myself.
with much gratitude and love💜
Thank you for your advice. I needed that.
Many valuable points made I appreciate this video. 5'6 and 180, had me cracking up I love your personality
Wow. As always Ms. Iyanla brings so much wisdom, light, and truth and in a way that is clear, heartfelt, and just simply touchable. I can feel her words inside me breaking stuff up lol in a good way. After being married for 20 years and experiencing betrayal and a horrible divorce, the scariest part to rebuilding my new life has been men. Honestly, they simply scare me. I'm not afraid of men, I feel strong and confident as a single woman again, but I definitely have trust issues and as much as I "know" good men exist, I feel unable to connect with the right man for me. I will apply the tools you shared Ms. Iyanla...working on being healed and whole because I do desire a loving partner who desires me too. Thank you
"Learn from the experience over what u did not what he did" 🙇🏽♀️.
Thank you Iyanla!
I will make application of this valuable information in my life. I choose to do "the work" in my current situation as well as throughout my life on a daily basis.
all your video is so inspiring. its give me light to a dark tunnel of a relationship with my men.
love you so much! and thank you for the bottom of my heart
Wow great vid. There is someone out there for me !!! I gave up on love such a long time ago but this has certainly sparked me to believe I deserve a good man.thank you
God bless you woman of wisdom.
What an AWESOME message which spoke dearly to my heart. Thank you so much for sharing this message. I will truly take heed and do my homework to ensure I find the love I desire.
Love you Iyanla, thanks for these valuable lessons, God Bless!
I needed to hear this message today! Thank you Ms. Iyanla for your wonderful ministry.
Thank you for these videos
Amen Mother Iyanla. I so needed this
I thank you for this message. I receive it. I welcome the healing and the necessary work I must do.
This made me cry, especially when she said the love you seek is seeking you touched my heart, I have been single for some time now, and I needed to hear this at this moment of my life, I am doing my self work and will continue. Thank you beloved for all you do. Love you Iyanla
I wholeheartedly received this message. I can relate to alot of this and because of that I have put up a shell for years that has now pretty much become a part of who I am and now I find it difficult to put let this shell go because it has become a security blanket of sorts. Sometimes I wonder if its even worth it because the men I meet are so not worth the effort. But I have realized that I have some serious soul searching to do within myself If I truly want to consider being vulnerable(that word alone makes me cringe) to looking for love.
So true, it is a comforting shield
Thank you sistah! I am a proud subby (subscriber) lol and I love the part when you said "...he will not break your heart!" I can deal with relationship ups and downs but the breaking my heart is a deal breaker. Pray for me.
Awesome Advice& Thnx 💘!!!!
This is SOOOO good 😊 I'm sharing this with all of my girlfriends 💅🏾
This snatched my edges straight but very reassuring that I've grown in my thought pattern towards dating. I agree with her 100%
MsFitKitty not the edges!! LOL I put JAM on mine LOL
OMG! I love that your "edges" are involved. That means we are getting through! Yes!
😂😂😂 when she said edges straight
@@IyanlaVanzant You are so very blessed,powerful, intelligent, beautiful and appreciated. Keep growing and speaking your truth. You are helping so many of us on our journey...
Thank you, thank you and thank you Sister Mother Vanzant.
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Yes!! Please keep making these videos. They are GOLD! ❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏
Iyanla you are so wise and gifted! Thanks for sharing! 💜 👏🏽👏🏽
you are soooo right!! you were dancing on my toes on this issue. I am struggling to be open to a relationship and not lose myself.EVERYTHING you stated is something I am working on.This is a struggle. :(
Before listening to this I was a mess.. Thank you so much this video brought me to my senses....
Bravo Miss Iyanla! You have the gift of logic in psychology, which WAY much more than SO many "experts" online claim to have. Deep compliments from a humble heart!
Wow. This is so soothing, so healing. I really needed to hear that. It's truth told in love. God bless you Mam. Your God sent.
thanks so much am really learning much from ur videos
this was TRULY a beautiful segment. everything she said is the truth...I enjoyed every word she spoke. thank you. Lyanla.👍💝
Wow! That was amazing, thank you Iyanla ❤️
That last part made me my tears fall uncontrollably!
This is so on point for me.
Thank you for all your wisdom. You look so beautiful and with such vitality. Blessings.
I love this video! Do the work. My aunt told me the same thing years ago. I didn't really understand what that meant until now. I'm getting my journal today. I have some healing to do. Thank you Iyanla!!
Love this video so much!!!!!
Amazing!! Amazing!! God knows what to send at the right time!!
Shermonicia Burton I agree with you 100percent.
WOW! Iyanla what a message.
I love you, Iyanla. Thank you so much for the work you do.
Really good topic, thanks for sharing your insight.
thank you miss iyanla for the r spot.... they help me get by... dont stop...
This is my favorite episode ever!!
She is so dope n raw!
I've been dating for 10 years. I know there is a partner for me I haven't met him yet. I'm 60 and love men. Personally I prefer honest, friendly, people that want a relationship vs cheaters , liars, and beaters of any kind. I feel these are healthy characteristics.
Amen ! Thanks Iyanla
Thank you for that Ms. Iyanla. I have been a long time fan of you and love the work you do. To no surprise this was much needed and so profound please continue to enrich us with your wisdom.
Ms. Iyanla is blessing so many of all walks of life. I thank God for her- I look forward to hearing from her. Thank you for the much-needed help. I'm doing the work! Not seeking perfection but working to be better.
I am so doing my homework!! thank you for following ur passion Ms. Iyanla. I had benefit and learned so much as I go true my journey. I am thankful and grateful to The Creator for you in my life. May Yah keep you n bless u!
YES SHE LOVES US JUST THIS MUCH!!! LOVE YOU RIGHT BACK MS IYANLA!
I love this woman! Iyanla never ceases to give me hope - in myself - in the Universe - and in the process of the growth that sets before me. I will do my work. Thank you so very much Iyanla, God bless you.
im learning self reflection is a powerful action.
Sadden me because I never wanted to be alone it just fell in my lap. I always wanted someone to love me too. I am human and still have interest in men.
Thank you! I really needed this!
Yess Auntie Iylana! You fix my life one video at a time! Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom and empowerment with us! I hope to meet you some day! God Bless.
Love this statement:The love you seek will find you!
Wow. ....now I know where I've been going wrong. Rewind ...need to write some of this down. Feeling hopeful now. Thank you Ms lyanla Vanzant. God bless you. x
Nothing but pure truth. More women need to hear good solid advice like this. Thank you for you wisdom, Iyanla.
Wonderful, wonderful, wonderful!
Wow....I've never heard anyone explain this better than she. What an eye-opening blessing this video has been! She just put into words everything I've felt deep down within at some point. I've been working on myself and I will be ready for my king when he comes. Thank you Iyanla Vanzant.
I needed this!!! Thank you so much Iyanla, you are truly God sent! Now if only I can apply these tools to my life consistently and diligently I'll be alright!!!! I chose to be the love that I seek💖
Thank you do much as i listen to you im rethinking my life the women im my failure in dating....just overall everything. ..life changing wish i would have know this before.
The universe will not produce a supply until the demand is made!! So nice I had to run it back twice.
I legit hollered!!!❤️❤️🙌🏽🙌🏽
Thank you Mother Iyanla your irreplaceable!
I am officially scared of engaging with another man, need to change my thinking however I think I gave up.
thank you miss iyanla for always inspiring and allowing us inside a beautiful spiritual expierience.
I just found your channel and subscribed, I am looking forward to more and getting caught up on the ones here.
Wow...amazing video, to be listened to over and over again. Thank you Iyanla
First of all Iyanla is looking radiant and gorgeous. Secondly, I 100% agree that it's about the beliefs we hold. It's taken a while but I know that I'm ready.
Yes Thank you
True story I love Iyanla
Amen and yes ma'am.....you called my fear out thank you
❤️🙏🏽praying for him daily
thnk you sista Iyanls love ur words of wisdom everything u said was right in time #thetruth I will listen to this vedio again later & jot down some notes theres a powerful message in the info u share I identify with alot of wht was said but I have to do my work my husband is out there somewhere & I have to get my right, let go of pass hurt from pass relationship so I can attract him. not ment to b alone
loVe it!👑💓and thank U!
Not sure how I missed this one ..... thank you Ms. Iyanla 🥰🌺
Thank you for those words of advice they will speak to me may God continue to bless you to continue doing what you doing
Thank you!