Talk About SEX - The R Spot Episode 25
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- čas přidán 24. 04. 2017
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I would love for you to talk about rebuilding your life after making poor financial and professional choices.
Ms. Taylor, I thought that as well. Then I read her book "Peace from broken Pieces". You'll love it.
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This was very good. Thank you my sista. this sexless marriage thing is a bigger problem than we could ever imagine.
Shes actually one of the most attractive women Ive ever seen. Charismatic, the style, the accent, the enthusiasm. Like DAMN
This was brilliant advice. I miss my husband of 25 years because of this. He wouldn't get any help or anything. I'm living separate from him for four years now. Waiting. Hoping. Broken hearted. Thank you for helping me understand. Ms. Iyanla.
No. And I had lost 48 pounds, had a sculpted tanned rocking body. It was mystifying.
thanks I really needed this...
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Amen, best advice ever ♥️
Great topic!
thanks, I really like it
Thank you so much, Iyanla
love it!
My husband and I have been married for 8 yrs and he just won't entertain sex one way or the other. I shoulda known something wasn't quite right beforehand when we were dating, when he'd always wanted to "play around " but would never actually want to do things. I didn't think it was necessarily a negative thing. Infact, it made me love him more, that he wanted to wait until we got married. But when we got married, he just brick walled me. He still does, so I stop trying 4 yrs ago. We still have not consummated. We've had a chat about his possible sexuality, etc and he says it's not that. We both come from f*cked up families. Mine is crazier. I've dealt with all sorts of abuse including sexual. I've got PTSD behind all that and thensome. I've been through loads of therapy and caseworkers most of my life. So I get how hard it is for him on certain levels, but he shuts me out. He was different before we got married. We dated 3 yrs prior. He knows everything about me, and he kept/ keeping some secrets from me. Stuff about his father whom doesn't like me btw. I think there was sexual abuse by his father. But I didn't think it was a deal breaker. The positives outweighed the negatives. Like I said, I'm not perfect, but when I said "I do" I meant it. Funny how the one I couldn't love anymore if time were running out, is the same one slowly drowning me in sorrows. I don't want to cheat, but I don't want to die an old virgin either (married one adds insult to injury ) He won't do a divorce, but he knows I defo want to. So tired of this.😔
P.S. We tried couples therapy twice and he clowned so badly with one and the other he constantly played like he was the victim and that he didn't understand why we were there. And it ended with me getting told off quite a few times unjustly and unprofessionally. So never again. He behaves very childishly, like he has an arrested development issue, and he does have clinical depression ( which was hidden from me til after marriage) I made a mistake. A big one.
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Bjorklova81 Im curious, why didn't you make sure you two had sex before marriage? Sex drive, sexual compatibility, and sexual proclivities could have been weeded out early!
You deserve sooo much more!! Like Iyanla said, its very important for your partner to support you in being satisfied. He doesn't seem to want to meet you halfway.
icycici Well, it wasn't so important about actually having sex before I married him. Not saying I wasn't interested....just that it wasn't a priority. We just had a ball around eachother otherwise. He was so different then. Like nite and day now. Tbf, some of our relationship was long distance. And when you're living on two different ends of the planet, it's easier to be fake. I should've stuck to my guns about not getting into anything long distance, but he was persistent and my fam loves him. So did I.x
trevon lugg I'm from St.Louis, Missouri and he's from Scotland. We're both in Scotland x
Bjorklova81 Clearly a divorce is what you need. Go ahead and do what's best for you. He seems selfish, plus you're holding yourself back from finding a relationship that suits your needs.
these are great
The main guy I was not turned off to teach about me in that department was not a great connected communicator I didn't feel safe and this Blocked my enthusiasm. I have practiced Celebicy it is the extreme answer to my past sexual experiences (regreted). I feel unsure about him supporting me and sure Iam attracted to him. I have never been careless with the use of the word S.E.X.in an avoidant word, even more Iam not promiscuous with my body. However this was a potential relationship and still remained this way.... So this video helped me be concerned with what maybe my internalized problem
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Thanks from Russia
I just want you to know that you suggested to me, the Artist's Way by Julia Cameron some time back. And, it is doing some things. I didn't need it when I first bought it, but I need it now. Thank you. Ya'll listen. Iyanla knows quite a bit about a lot. There are sometimes things that render us unable to perform or participate in sex...just like art, and our dreams and going to work..etc.
What about the relationships where sex is the 90% of the experience? I had this experience, I confused his sexual conection with emotional conection, therefore, I allowed sex to be the most part of our relationship. We couldn't been alone and have a nice talking, caring and sweet moment. Sex, sex sex, I confused it with love. Now I've been working on it, I have realized that sex has to be CONSECUENSE, not a cause of love and emotional conection.
Damit Man . My Wife need to watch this 100% I told that woman jst.On second thought never mind
“PIT OUT THE PEACH!”
great topic. Can you discuss how to keep things alive and vibrant in relationships to avoid sexual disfunctions?
jeff harris just go to the sex store.
Good one! Yes!
funny lady lol
yes.
not interested but thanks for the input.
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sex is complex
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I would really like to email you about this subject lol
What if its sexless after a betrayal?
1 2 3 4 5 6 me come back baby
Your email address as listed is unusable. no email address starts with https:... trying to find the right email address to write to.
And what if your partner watches porn instead of having sex with his wife??
This video will certainly be beneficial to all partners (husbands and wives) who want their marriage to last. *God instructed mankind to get married before partaking in sexual activities.* Only married couples have the authorization from Christ to do that, not common-law individuals who've never contemplated marriage or those who are simply in "relationships" and won't get married (they're disobeying and violating God's command). God also wants married couples to enjoy sex to the fullest!
Raimundo Laurencia hmmmm. many people are in a sexless marriage. unless you deal with the problem beforehand, you will be bringing it into the relationship
not happening