When your child becomes independent: | urdu | | Prof Dr Javed Iqbal |
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- The journey of a child from dependent to independent phase. The role of parents in this journey.
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Prof Dr Javed Iqbal is a surgeon with special interest in laparoscopic and cancer surgery. His professional qualifications are FCPS, FRCS, FACS, FICLS, MCPS-HPE.
He is one of the pioneers of laparoscopic surgery in the region. He has trained more than 50 surgeons formally as their supervisor and thousands more who have worked with him in various capacities during his four decades long professional journey. He is an official mentor of Royal College of Glasgow and International Course Director of American College of Surgeons for Advance Trauma Life Support (ATLS). He is a well known medical educationist and has been a part of College of Physicians and Surgeons, University of Health Sciences and Nishter Medical University as faculty of medical education.He is on the reviewers panal of various index medical journals. He has more than twenty five research publications on his credit along with a book on surgery entitled "The Operative Surgery"He is a published poet, short story writer, critic and broadcaster. His current areas of effort are teaching and training of soft skill at various national and international fora. He is very active on social media and his team runs a very well subscribed youtube channel covering versatile topics& interests. He is regularly being invited on national & international TV shows for his intellectual contribution. He is an influential speaker. Millions of people are getting benefit from his videos on medical education, FCPS training, parenting, relationships, human wellbeing and various other social issues.
Govt of Punjab has recently assigned him the role of member, Punjab Health Policy Board.
this man needs to be at TEDx talks, he speaks beautifully and explains difficult concepts with ease
Booht acha kaha ap ny
Mn 24 years ki ho gai hn mn apni mrzi sy ik bag b purchase nhj kr skti apny parents ki waja sy
Toxic parenting is the most common problem of third world states that's why we can not creat something new, and we aren't modern in technologies and post modernism . But having people like you, so we will grow soon inshallah. Thank you sir
Signs of best parents:
Make time For their kids.
Talk with them.
Play with thier kids.
Family is the 1st institute where a child socialize.
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And also keep an eye on them....punishment is integral part of parenting.
This is the basic difference I have observed in my country and in a foreign country in which I am living now. They make kids independent with variety of skills and motor training(eating,changing,shoe tie) is encouraged to be done by themselves from nursery.
Make kids independent and make them bold there is a big difference I am living in Germany and parents suffering because kids every thing doing by them selves and that much make them independent that in the end all old people living alone and need help
May Allah pay you reward in the form JANNAH
May Allah bless him a Good Health.He is still alive ALHAMDULILLAH.
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Aameen
Hello sir I am here once again.......Loved this fantastic session by you
Though I am a teenager but I connected with your lecture....... Love from India and lucknow
Dr sahib Allah pak aap ko ur aasanian taqseem Kerny ki tofeeq dy aameen suma aameen
Mere papa n syd yhi sunaa h mujh bilkul free kr diya h . Yaa Allah paak hmare parents ko hifajat frma
Assalam alaikum dear doctor! I genuinely feel blessed to be connected with you. There has been "n" number of critical issues that I've been facing pertaining to my parents. Your videos are a beacon lamp of guidance that I can show to my parents. I can't thank you enough. May Almighty bless you abundantly here and hereafter🤗😇 (amen)!
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doctor sab ap boht ache he ma ne ap ki bato se boht kuch sekha allah pak ap ko lambi zindagi de
This is true for normal parents.... But if one parent has narcissistic personality, they destroy their children personalities n soul very much.... Coz they dont change n do irreversible damage to them.... Dr saab your lectures are soooo enlightening..... Zabardast.... Psychology is not your profession... But Allah has blessed you with this wisdom too.... MA
Great efforts sir
Sir ap hamary liay matlb (14-20) age wlay nojawano k liay aisi videos banain k hum khud ko prepare kerskain APNI grooming kerskain
Ap hamary mentor hain , bahot kuch ap say seekha hai
Greetings, Love and regards from india sir🙏🙏🙏 Truly blessed to come across you and service you are providing to the mankind.. keep showering your deepest understanding and wisdom.... Love and regards 🙏💕🙏
Every individual should have basic parenting skills and knowledge before they decide to marry.
Sir you are brilliant and I'm thankful that you enlighten our lives with your wisdom and l request you if you please directly address our youth means our teenagers about be respectful with their parents as they are very much influenced of Netflix's culture and mostly buissy on their gadgets hardly pay attention to their parents but consider them as boomer ,sir it's my humble request thank you for your time and being such a great person
Hats off, jazakAllah e khair for sharing such precious jewels with us
Dil khush ho gia thanks a lot
Assalamalikum beautiful sharing and topic stay blessed
Thanx sir for giving us expert advice on this issue which is very sensitive for parents like us.JazakAllah .Always stay blessed ,Ameen
God bless you,you are very effective speaker, jazak Allah kharian.
MA SHA ALLAH
The more you know the less you know & A wise man who knows everything is a man who knows nothing.
The more you learn the more you know, the more you know the more you lose, the more you lose the less you know.
so why learn???
Excellent topic, parenting is all about understanding.
May Allah bless you sir.....
Best motivation
I will do with my childrens
Allah bless you
Outstanding information thanks Dr saib
Ay Kaashhh sb log aap ki trha sochna shuru kr den. .. ay kaashh......
I think har parents ko aase hi karna chahiye insallah main ase karuga..
100% true thank you sir
Wah sir
Mashaallah Allah sir jazak Allah
Thanks for information Sir
Ma sha Allah Sir
Sir you have all my respect! Ur family is very lucky to have u in their lives and I envy them because of this :") unfortunately parents after the age of 45 mostly blv that they know the world and thus they don't even think that ur told things are right! :"/
You are great teacher and also a great life observer
Yes…. Here in Pakistani families they don’t let their kids grow up and they tend to be around their parents even after getting married. I had the same fate and I was amazed how irritating that was for me. Now my kid is growing up I remember my time so I let him go to do whatever he needs to be doing in his life and get things done. We don’t let our kids grow up and we like to hold them back and that creates do many problems for the parents, child and his or her spouse. Let them be because that’s their life and their time. Let them lives for heaven sakes. I learned that when I was young how my husbands parents didn’t let him do anything and we ended up fighting for our freedom to get a house and get our lifestyle. so same your kids wants for himself or herself. Letting go is not easy for Asian parents I know coz we are so controlling and super protective of our kids but that makes them suffocated and they don’t want that in their lives. Give them space and respect they will eventually come around if you’re responsible enough with them.
The great personality
Sir my 4 year kid takes his decisions himself. Should I celebrate...... 🤷♀️
Its not like he is just a kid right now. His personality is that way that he thinks from his own mind.....intelligent kid MashaaAllah
Well it’s all about upbringing and childhood learnings.. basics we are taught about does really help build a substantial persona for life.
Jazaka Allah khair Sir, love from Afghanistan.
AOA Sir, please share some parenting advice for overseas families. specially when father and mother both are working and they have very limited time for their kids, where kids spend most of their time with nanny/house maids/ nurseries etc and they don't find much social opportunities like back home....
Good content. This is a very good discussion.
Mashallah Zabardast
very well said
Sir aap boht acha bolte hain. Plz sir parenting p or b videos bnaen
Thank you so much sir
Masha Allah v.good idea jazakAllah
Amazing😍 sir I'm big fan of your personality and your knowing...
شکریہ سر
Right 👍😊
Salam. I request professor Dr. Javed Iqbal , to put efforts, in training couples, before they become parents. On , how not to trust any one ,who pretends to be trustworthy. And how to train their children .To protect them, from becoming the victims of child sex abuse . In my opinion, child awareness should be included in school's curriculum. This important issue needs to be brought, to the attention of school board officials .
Asalamaoalikum. I will change myself in sha Allah. Thnx alot..
Thank you so much sir 🤲 may Allah bless you 🌹
Right ahsas e kamtari paida hoti hai asy
Very informative.
I like your video and always wait your video
You don't have to wait for his videos. Look for some previous video and watch till you get the next one. They are all full of golden advice.
Your thoughts are really nice and wotthy
If parents become like this then many problems can be sort out without facing any quarrels.
شکریہ
I always like ur videos
Nice personality
Sir aapka video start karnea ka tariqa sabse mukhtalif hai aap direct kaam ke Baat krtea hai
Mashallah subhanallah sir
بارك الله فيك
Kash ye bt koi myry parents ko b samjhaey 🥺
Just what I needed to hear
Thx dr. Salam from Afghanistan.
ان جناب اور حسن نثار کے پاس ہر مسئلے کا حل ہے...
Prof Emeritus sb...
Sir, your lectures are mashallah very nice. Please comment on this situation. If parents have given enough time to children from childhood till they are 9-13 years. Have given good education, got them gifts, have spent quality time, gave them moral, ethical and religious teaching with explanation.
Now when grow up and reach teen age, they say that the parents life style, their belief in religion or behavior with other people, or their belief in religion and prayer and telling children not to spend time on TV, mobile gaming, loitering with friends, coming home late is all wrong.
How can one handle such situation, and now kids are not ready to sit and discuss but avoid parents company. Please advice. Thank you🙏.
Excellent 👌
Thank you so much sir you are absolutely right
Were good
Sir I really like your videos
True
Thanks. Sir i have nt father but i lesation your licture remmber my fatherاللهم ارحمهما كما يرحمني ربيياني صغيرة
Excellent!
Very nice sir.but in our culture these types of thinking is rare
Assalamu alaikum sir love from India ❤️
Zabardast 👍👍
I am a your big fan sr
Very well said!!!
Excellent views
Bacha chahe jitna b brha ho jay maa baap k liye tou bacha hi rehta ha
Very nice explained sir
Excellent sir
Sir you should discuss rumi's philosophy of love
Mera beta 3 sal ka hy or wo abi se bht se mamlaat me individual hy
great🥰
i do like this
Good sir . Thanks
From tharparkar sindh Pakistan
informative video, but 18 s above age kafi problm krte hn , agr hm un s kuch kam krwana chahen to kia tareeqa ho?? jis m sb s imp namaz ho.
Best video of you
اسلام علیکم سر، میں آپ کی یہ ویڈیو دیکھ رہی تھی، اس دوران آپ کسی کے سوال کا لائیو جواب دے رہے تھے. پلیز مجھے بتائیے کہ کس طرح آپ سے لائیو بات ہو سکتی ہے؟ میں اپنے بیٹے کی پڑھائی کے حوالے سے بہت پریشان ہوں. وہ 7th گریڈ تک A+ گریڈز لیتا آیا ہے لیکن آہستہ آہستہ اس کی دلچسپی پڑھائی سے ہٹ گئی ہے. وہ اب 9th میں ہے (او لیولز). میں نے آپ کو ٹویٹر پر بھی میسیج کیا ہوا ہے لیکن آپ نے نہیں پڑھا.
Good luck explaining it to Desi parents.
Nice Sir,
thyroid ka aasaan aur quick relief wala ilaaj batai please
In the caption (backdrop) the spelling boldly written needs to be corrected as :
INDEPENDENT
Thanks.
That's why I hate when my parents interfere in my matters.