Married at First Sight: Update with Dave and Amber (Season 7, Episode 17) | Lifetime
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- Amber and Dave discuss the development of their relationship without the help of the experts in this clip from Season 7, Episode 17, "Reunion: I Still Do?" #MarriedAtFirstSight
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Shes able to admit her mistakes and talk about what she learnt, something Dave is unable to do ever! The blame doesnt always fall on one party - he thinks hes so perfect urgh!
Agree this is the reason why is not married yet. Amber is a nice person he made her insecure
They never had a great connection
I felt like he was playing a role the whole time.
He got her where he wanted her- she finally ran hoping to be caught, only for him to finally have the out he wanted. He never wanted to be with her and she had insecurities because she sensed that, but he didn't want to be the "bad" guy so he let her fall on the sword and then he got to walk away. He's a true manipulator. Run Amber!
Yep!!!!!!
You hit the nail on the head
Stephanie Berryman 😂
yeah, I don't care for him. She needs someone all in like Bobby. He honestly doesnt seem ready for marriage
Yes! I've been saying since the honeymoon. He is gaslighting her and playing mind games. He wants a young thing to control.
Her insecurities were unsettling and really did come off as pressure and strain their relationship. I saw this coming. He’s actually a good guy! Her uncertainties in herself created unnecessary arguments amongst the two of them
He made her insecure he was never into her he has issues
Constantly reassuring an insecure person is exhausting. People don't change and he knew he would be doing this throughout the marriage. Its too bad - I like them both, but he did the right thing.
He made her insecure.his acting he was never into her
@Wise4Sure well he was never into her
People say he was not into her, but according to him they have been doing the bed activities almost every day since they were married.
Not sure why so many comments blame Dave for quitting. He did try on various occasions to help her through her insecurities and she was very immature. Now that doesn’t go without saying that with any relationship things take time to improve on. She did walk away from him, moved out? That’s extremely offensive. They discussed it in one of the episodes when they found out one of the other couple went through it and clearly Dave and Amber both agreed they could not look past that if either one did that too each other. I’m all about us women empowering each other but making men the villain isn’t right. This is just my opinion.
Completely agree. Dave didn't stand a chance of not having to tread lightly and walk on eggshells with everything he would say. I don't blame him for not staying with her. I found myself rolling my eyes every time Amber would use the words, "judgy" or "judgemental". Amber, get some therapy. Also, Amber looks much better as a blonde.
He did Amber a favor. This guy loves to hear himself talk. He's great at making himself out to be the good guy and everyone else to be at fault. A-1 manipulator
I feel like he was testing her, and once he molded her and she did what he wanted, he got all his satisfaction me now he can say peace out.
This guy is all about friends friends friends...w his "wall of friends" and his" friendsgiving " lol!! he should just stay single. And I hope amber finds love bc she deserves it .
He never loved her from day one, she felt he was not INLOVE with her as she was with him. Yet he tried to tell her it’s in her mind, don’t worry he’s old n bald . U will find your mr perfect .
I feel like they should have someone on the show make him feel insecure about his receding hairline, & see how he feels.
The fact that Dave could not see himself in a relationship with Amber because of her former relationship with one of his friends just confirms what I thought, he's a narcissist. I love that Dr. Pepper confronted him with that topic.
And in true narcissistic fashion he got angry, highly offended and defensive.
That is why his “tribe” is his family of choice. Luckily they are there to help him.
However, Dave will not take sound advice from people who befriend him because he’s a narcissist. Honestly he’s not marriage material. Few narcissistic people are.
Omgosh, that was a total excuse to dump her. He was obviously not in love with her. I mean he told her she was a 7-1/2 to her face, how rude. She deserves better. He's looking for perfection.
Christine Guttilla and I pray he finds a perfect narcissistic woman. He deserves that. Only someone who is on his level will do.
😘
@Eva Z WAIT, WHAT!!?? What did I miss?
@@christineg.6006 7.5 of 10 that mean 5 is average and that she's above average. What a Jerk, lol. Only a narcissist woman would only accept a 10. She wasn't a 10 and let me break it to you but you're also not a 10.
Amber this is a positive thing! That guy is sneaky and selfish!
She looks better as a brunette, which ironically is her natural colour
agree
Sh does yes! Beautiful
100% agree
Yes! I think she could do a tad darker too!
Her hair is gorgeous love the color
Good for him! She needs a therapist to work on her insecurities.
He's DEFINITELY a narcissistic, unemotional and IMMATURE person! You could tell she gave it her all, and she didn't know what else to do in a loveless marriage because the only person he loves is himself! He is so immature in so many ways, Amber you can do so much better!!!
I'm sorry, but it's hard to love someone who doesn't love themself.
"You're beautiful"
"No I'm ugly, I'm fat blah blah"
"I love you"
"You're gonna find someone better"
Their chemistry is not as strong as Bobby and Danielle’s chemistry.
These 2 should not remain together. They were mismatched & have personalities that don't mesh well.
agree not a good match
but then I don't think any are
I agree. I don't know why they were matched. If he says what he's attracted to and they give him the opposite... it's just a fail. Attraction is NOT everything but let's face it folks, it's a start.
Dave is the problem
Relax she is not a natural blonde. She look good as a blonde, but her hair look healthier as a brunette. If she decides to go back blonde, she have to find the right color and maintain a healthy up keeping. Hopefully work on herself as well and he made it no better.
He lack compassion towards her through her insecurity. She even changed her hair colour. Tell me he couldn't give her a year of marriage even. This dude overthinks everything and projects his throughs onto her in a way that amplifies her insecurity. She seems like a nice lady to me, just need to work on her confidence.
He's insecure himself. He also portrays himself like he's perfect! He's far from it.
dani238159 yeah he nit-picks on his own stuff too when he kept criticizing himself at the altar, but it looks like he wants a woman much less emotionally expressive and more confident and Amber couldn't fit that requirement. She said she wanted a man who would make her feel secure. Security has to come from inside and then the relationship can compliment that.
Time 6:35AM Fri 10/25/18
It took Dave so long to answer the question when the lady asked are you & Amber still married? It took Dave so long to answer that question it will would have take him 2 seconds to answer that.
Kayla Fagan
Well explained observed comments of fact Agreed 😊☺
She's not entitled to a year of his life.
Wow can't believe she dyed it brown for him!
rosie delray she let go of the blonde hair for him and his hair is just plain old letting go of his scalp 👀
Her hair was brown she dye it blonde but she was losing her hair she had to stop dying it for a while.
Yes she's not a natural blonde & she's saving her hair
That's her natural color she was bleaching it blonde. It looks better and healthier now.
I thought everyone could tell that the dry brittle white hair was sooooo bleached and over processed. Nice to see her natural brown color but she could still use some highlight (not a total bleach job) to soften the dark look.
He didn't seem happy when he said he wanted to stay in the relationship, on decision day. He literally had a frown on his face. He still looks unhappy here ... which is why
Spoiler
They are divorcing
I like amber, I wish Dave would give her more time but I guess Dave's not in love with her at all
I love her as a brunette 😍😍
I was shocked that he said at first that he wanted to stay married.
Me too
I liked her, she was insecure but seems like a nice woman. Also she probably changed her hair more because everyone online ripped her and her hair the whole season. This guy sucked all season though...he tries to act like he is so mature and better than her. The dude has issues and I think she can do better. Shes pretty cute to be honest.
Chris yes I agree!!
@@jviewz88 thanks, I was beginning to think I was the only one
I think he could not handle the insecurity in her personality....he said he wanted someone that he could lean on for support and vice versa....she needed so much reassurance it wore him out.....some people do not like weak people...or insecure people it can be draining...and she was really insecure...and a little scatterbrain at times...it was not for him...he was sexually attracted to her....but it seems he had a hard time talking to her...she was so offended at every little comment...Dave needs a more mature woman that is secure in her own skin....nice couple but not right for each other...he was turned off by the third week in....
I love her hair this color!
They should of not stayed together in the first place
He pushed her until she couldnt take it any more. Ily Amber ❤️ I hope she gets stronger & tougher
Don't EVER beg someone to love you honey!
Why are people so down on Dave? He was very patient with her and her endless insecurities. I wouldn’t want to put up with that either. Her constant need for validation was exhausting.
I agree she has a lot to work on: she is too insecure and came out as immature and annoying many times (in my opinion of course). But he also has some growing ip to do. He also had a fit during the salsa lesson (I would not have patience for that if he was my boyfriend/husband), and in more than one ocasion I felt that he was having fun with her being insecure and making strange compliments like when he said her perfume was good but then proceded to say it was almost overpowering... I would just reply yeah you also smell nice, it's a nice perfume, vary mild almost like a girl's fragrance... (I'm just being mean now! Lolol)
@@almadeluz1061 he was definitely playing 😊Word games with her to chip away at her increasing insecurity.
I knew from the beginning that she was so insecure that the relationship would tank and be basically ruined by her
Hes not the best but she has emotional issues she needs to deal with her low self esteem and EVERYTHING else shes dealing with🤯
She will never change, she needs a shrink, not a husband. No one would put up with her. He will bail shortly.
she's too insecure for any relationship, she needs some serious counseling before she can move on with any man
Dave made her insecure he was never into her.
He said he likes brunettes so she goes from blonde to brunette ....
Elena Land Brunette is her natural hair color. The blonde looked horrible on her and her hair was dry.
He never said that, but that’s how psychotic woman interpreted his answer. Jessica Biel is pretty and it has nothing to do with her hair color.
Amber loves Dave a lot, it can be seen in her eyes. Obviously she will feel insecure she knows Dave never loves him. She tries to do a lot for being loved by him. Those who feel she change hair color out of insecurity it's totally wrong, she does it because she loves him a lot. Dave can't find someone best than her as a lover who is ready to give everything for him.
Poor girl. That sucks.
Wrong. Amber is an insecure nut job. Yet she wouldn't change the gym her ex lover worked for her marriage even when she's the one saying it was hurting Dave. Dave already found something better than Amber, it's called peace...
@LadyD Are you stupid or have some sort of learning disability? First Amber found out that Dave's celebrity crush was Jessica Biel and freaked out because in her own words looks nothing like her. Secondly Dave told Amber about how they had to rate the wifes and how he gave her a 7.5 out 10. Amber proceeded to melt down because she wanted a ten. Even when Dave told her that 7.5 was a great score Amber couldn't accept it. Thirdly Amber start a conversation with Dave about how her hair was falling off from dying it blonde all the time and when Dave posed the question on why does she keep dying it if it's falling off and Amber freaked out. Lastly Amber admitted she was the one that gathered all her things and moved out. I do thick Dave is cocky but Amber is extremely insecure and Dave couldn't put up with it... They're both better off...
@LadyD You MAYBE a Physiologist but you clearly don't have a clue what you're talking about... While you focus on a persons eye/the window to their souls, I'll focus on a persons actions. Lastly you didn't refute anything I brought up about Amber, Interesting...
She loves what he has not him. I am glad he saw through it.
looking at their facial expressions Dave looked away as soon as Amber said try to reconcile and she has a slight smirk on her face, I think she knows the answer like they've talked about it but she wants him to be the one to say it in front of the cameras. He wasnt the right guy for her tho she tried to fit into his mold. He said they went through something so crazy unique and weird together like he was on a game show..like the amazing race...lol
Dave never admitted any fault and acted like Amber needed to change for him. He was never interested, he seemed in love with himself and seemed passively aggressive abusive. I can’t imagine him ever being truly good to a woman. In time he would have stripped her of believing she was worthy of love. I’m glad she doesn’t have to live that.
I agree they were not a good match.
Just barely catching up...and Dave likes to do things his way or no way🤦 Amber needs reassurance and security and he can't provide that.
She asked the guy about his ideal looking female celebrity and then got all psychotic over nonsense. She has too many issues and red flags to mention. The guy seems quite normal and deserves someone normal too.
I agree
Where can I find the first part?? This one begins with "welcome back" :/
Dave, good for you. I do believe you gave this relationship your all. Amber, good for you. You should be with someone who rreally loves you. You cannot make someone love you and cannot make someone secure in their own skin. Everyone has to define their own self worth. I don't believe you guys were a good match.
I Feel Like Dave Has Another Woman Already. I Hated This Season So Bad
Denise Ingram I agree completely, he was always using little threats in the relationship, like saying he didn’t know if he could live forever with this or that trait of Ambers. You can’t say forever about anything, it makes you feel smothered.
@@sherrillkennedy8489 he doesn’t like her to pressure him into revealing his feelings, but I feel like he is putting so much pressure just by being negative.
She looks better with this hair.
I felt this coming.
she looks so much
better with that straw
gone
but not a great match
I think he was always enjoying making her suffer he never liked her to begin with, she is very insecure but he seemed to prey on that instead of making her feel beautiful and well loved, i feel that if she would of been stronger woman he would have kept from putting her down as much, she can do way better! Something about him is off he has a sinster feel to him, her issues are none that any real man cant handle and or help her deal and disolve, its sad cause she was ready to love and give her all!
Wow... Dave wanted out already
Did you see the show? I would've left her at decision day. She was to insecure and didn't want the responsibility of taking care of another person... That's what it means to be married. Women lean on their looks/attractiveness to much and don't think they have to also provide. Looks fade, all of the men that would've waited on you hand and foot like you were some queen just moved on to Daenerys Targaryen. Thinking that man should be treated like a kings and women like queens is the problem.
@@NYC1E1 She dodged a bullet. The guy despised her, always belittling her. He couldn't get over her dating his friend and Lord knows what his friend said about her. She may have had some insecurity beforehand, but it increased 100 fold by the time they divorced.
This show is terrible! It does not strengthen women's ability to recognize abusive relationships! And for them to think this marriage can work is such a delusion!
Amen ... it's a hook up show. Even the hosts got in on it last season when it didn't work out for john!
He did not not abuse her.
Amber I can tell he s narcissist ! Please RUN . ! Take Control of your life . He is only wants narcissist supply . PLEASE Go ON you tube and learn the symptoms .
He is a narcissist!!!!
Fully agree
She is the one with huge insecurities and probably bipolar too
Wow her hair looks so much better as a brunette!!!!!!!!! She looks younger
The heightened insecurities and often feeling judged by him seemed all too familiar to me when I was in a very brief relationship with someone. That someone is a Virgo so I took it upon myself to check out this Dave guy’s sign and look at that! He’s also a Virgo. Sis... run. Not because he’s a Virgo but because you should never let a man tell you more than once that he doesn’t want you.
Interesting!! My ex husband treated me the same way and he was a virgo too. While watching Dave with Amber it eerily reminded me of my first marriage!
Where did you saw he is a virgo? I thought he is a scorpio
My impression is that Dave did not genuinely give Amber a chance after learning whom she had dated previously. She appeared to always be trying to live up to his expectations and even if she was more insecure than some, her intuition was probably correct in judging how Dave was feeling towards her. Like most comments below, I feel she could do better!
She's needy, boring and shallow
Her insecurity is exhausting! And his know it all attitude is annoying..
Poor Amber
Wow, all the comments on here.... I don’t believe Dave is a narcissist, I just believe they weren’t a good match. I feel like both of them are good and fun people, but they both have their own things they need to work on, which is part of the human experience, after all. Also, I feel like it did strain things when she put the pressure on him to always make her not so insecure. Insecure people are exhausting, and needing constant reassurance is hard to live with. But again, I think they’re both good people, but everybody has their own skeletons. Just my two cents.
lol
IM DONEEE did she dye her hair 😂😂😂😂
She dyed her hair 😂😂
Right...cause he liked brunettes
earthangel He never said that he liked brunettes only That’s how the psychotic woman interpreted his answer to a certain question. He most likely found Jessica Biel pretty not because she has certain color hair but her face.
Amber looks 100% better with dark hair. But, she is too unstable and insecure. Don't stay Dave.
Her hair is brown 😳
The way he looked at her when she was cooking just made me want to throw up!!!! He didn’t even like her!
Poor Amba I feel u...ur such a beautiful lady but u lack confidence in ur self but I know u have learnt a lot and that will help u in future relationship. I know for sure u will get a better and a good man that will love u. Dave loves Himself 😀😀😀
This is too much for him.
Vulnerable isn't the same as INSECURE Amber !? (Moving out wasn't the answer)
It was. He didn't love her and was always criticising her.
Amber Dave is such a sweet guy. I knew you were going to push him away with all ur unnecessary wining....he shows u he cares all u had to do was work with him and do ur best. He choose u
He was never into Amber
Love shouldn't be hard... Amber made love hard.
*and now
I think things change for him when he found out that they run around in the same Circle at the gym and one of his buddies has smashed her at one time and then talked about her with him before he met her and so then he was completely turned off when he found out it was her so he wasn't never the same after that
Dave is acting like hes a perfect innocent person
Annnnd it's been announced they broke up, as of December 31 2018... sad
She too insecure and needy. She needs to work on her self esteem and get some self love.
He made her insecure he was never into her he pretended all along
Amber's brunette hair here after all she said in early episodes is so sad to see. She didn't want to be brunette, but for some reason she was certain he wanted her to be brunette and didn't like her bc of her hair color. Insecurity is such a killer
At first I thought they were a good couple. Then I realized that he puts himself above him. It’s as those he his better than her. Sure she has some problems but who does. It’s as though he is perfect. I am sad for them but in the long run I am glad for her. Move on Amber. Trust me there is someone better out there for you. Stay strong lady.
I know the family of David lol
What happened to Amber's hair..?? I loved it blonde
Dave is a fool. Especially now that Amber is a brunette! She seems very sweet and carrying and now she is absolutely beautiful!!
She deserves better than a passive aggressive guy with anger issues simmering just beneath his cold exterior.
This felt like an ultimatum marriage. Life iisnt so cut and dry... we are all human people. We all make mistakes
He did not want to be with her from the beginning... if she was feeling insecure and he could not even say you're beautiful just the way you are... says a lot
He did say that..... a lot
"If they choose to divorce...." Dr. Jessica, then You can snatch Dave up the same way you did the other guy!!!
When Mia heard that Dave was going to get a divorce, she suddenly look his way as if she was interested & plotting.
Dave never seemed to be attracted to Amber. He just doubts everything like reconciling their marriage. I feel bad for Amber. That relationship isn’t healthy
He felt very dry...very stoic. I feel he was just going through the motions...I hope Amber find her mr. Right.
Yes. Very matter of fact and his words didn't really have any feeling behind them.
@@xiocomaraebanks8816 he’s already decided to divorce so he’s trying to emotionally distance himself. Good luck to him because I don’t think there is a perfect woman out there for him if he doesn’t put in the work to examine why he is so passive aggressive, etc.
She’s trying so hard to please him that she died her hair dark brown? 🙄
I wouldn't want to spend every day trying to lift up an insecure person... that's so draining..and would finally make you resent that person...she couldn't control not getting mad over every little thing
She's another Molly from season 6..
I thought the same thing.
her hair looks healthy now it look damaged before
Dave had already heard horror stories about her from a gym friend who had dated her. So, unfortunately, he knew what was coming and already was looking for the issues and BS waste of time arguments her "insecurity" would cause. They likely did materialize....so, he knows, this stuff never ends based on his and his gym friends experience with her.
Didn't stop him from banging her did it. If he didn't love her then he should never have led her on.
And it doesn’t help when they shared that gym friend dating story that they showed her wearing a pink T-shirt that said coconuts on it to imply that she is nuts.
she is WAY too insecure! its annoying. Home girl even died her hair brown to appease him.
She is a nut case. A fight over her hair color and her other issue would have made anyone go over the edge
He made her insecure
@@theresascheepers2407she made herself Insecure
I hate Dave but I gotta admit that Amber looks great as a brunette. Dave is a straight up Narcissist tho. He gives me American Psycho vibes.
Dave; good for you being honest and real. Too many rushings and too many insecurities. Great decision.
He was never into Amber he played it good
@@theresascheepers2407I think he wanted to try
Dave dodged alimony and child support with Amber... It was clear from the start that she had a lot of self esteem issues and didn't want the responsibility of caring for another person. I'm glad he didn't let them convince him to waste his time with her.
Plus, I don’t think she knows how to cook and is somewhat of a scatterbrain.
She is empty
He have to be the first always way woman exposed them self to this
I think that Amber needs to be More secure in herself.. If you can't Love yourself then there isn't much room to Share your Love. Dave was Something.. I also think that Amber's insecurities didn't help any with their relationship.. As Stranded as All of the couples were.. Look at Danielle.. She was not the 'Touchy Feely' But she tried to allow Bobby to be that way with her.. Amber needed to let go e little bit more and so did Dave. He was a bit up Tight..
Well, they’ve been having a bit of bedroom activities almost every day, so I think they touch each other enough off-camera.
Danielle is more of a literary person. She does not like to verbalize her feelings. That’s why she likes to write her feelings down on paper. This is different from not being touchy-feely. She is attracted to Bobby, so it was not difficult for her to receive love from him in the way of verbal & physical affection.
She should dye her hair red.
She is crazy
Hi should married himself Ambar be happy you are Nice
Separated now
She seems like shes unstable and could lose it at any moment. He escaped
The episode meeting friends she told his sister that she was worried because he likes brunettes. Look at her now? 🤔it is nit enough honey to make stay in the marriage
Her insecurities is why he wanted, needed out! Can’t blame him!