The REAL Reason Women Get So ANGRY
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- The real reason women get so angry when they're older is because they have lost their looks. When they were young and pretty, they got lots of male attention. That's the privilege of being a beautiful young woman but it does not last. Young women should be encouraged to use their best years to attract a good, decent man as a partner.
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Completely disagree. This was the case decades ago. Now young women are just as angry as older women. They are not unaware, they are fully aware and they enjoy the power and they want more of it.
If they aknowledge that they have privilege then they will have to give some away, and they are not gonna do that.
They know exactly what they re doing and they re partially doing it to punish men , after being brainwashed by their mothers and grandmothers that women have always been holy creatures that were abused by the vile men.
If you talk with a woman or a feminist man long enough and you cut through their BS fake arguments good enough , they ll say it openly.
hey man, u ok? u sound a bit annoyed the more u make these videos. unlike back then
@@chrisdiaz3043 I think he sounds calm and fine.
Keep up the good work.!
Weirded out by this sponsor. Also agree with the commenter concerned for your disposition. Don't you think it's possible for someone to dislike another person for reasons that are non-cognitive? There isn't always a hidden answer & not every phenomenon (women included) lends itself to logical positivism.
*"You can ignore the reality, but you can't ignore the consequences of ignoring reality."*
O'SSÉIN - Master Your Mind With Me - so true!
But aren't the consequences of ignoring reality reality too and ergo also ignorable as per the first assertion?
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You are all over the place
Coach Corey Wayne quote
As a woman, I was never particularly attractive and thus not as desirable to other men, but that was really a blessing in disguise because I learned to develop intrinsic value that was not dependent on my appearances. My talents and skills will last a lifetime so I am optimistic I will survive this anger episode.
Great attitude!
hello to Faroe Islands
welcome to 80% of men's world
that just made you attractive
And that is the attitude that makes you desirable. Dare i say sexy.
You know whats the scariest thing for the young women... the older women who've suffered, will absolutely not tell the younger women "the truth" because they hate them and want to see them suffer just the same. Its jealousy. Facts.
Yeah they want to sabotage any competition in any way they can including their own offspring. Great point Illustrious1!
Dang....that's deep bro/sis or whoever you are. That's really deep (no sarcasm)
As I understand it this is why female genital mutilation is prevalent in some places of the world. After all why would any sane man want to have sex with someone, who won't ever enjoy it?
As others have said... THATS DEEP!!! But so true... They hate on each other SoOoOo much...
lol he said facts to his own comment
it is tho
They're actually still privileged over men when they become older. They receive more empathy, concern, their problems, feelings and lives are still considered more important than any man's. And they still can't see it.
Wow well put . Didn't realise 😊
True. Society sympathizes with them.
Lower retirement age as well, even if they don't have children.
Ive noticed that a lot of women nowadays are pissed off. Regardless of age.
Yeah I actually just comment that as well. Women are angry and bitching all the time for no obvious reason.Regardless of their age. Even women who have everything going for them are complaining all the time . It's like they have a quota to meet or something lol
Handsome Bastard feminism in its finest
@Ike Dyson You obviously cared enough to write "who cares" to a bunch of random strangers in a comments section 😂
Ike Dyson you care, clearly
Who said that!? O.o I'm the calmesr person you will ever meet. I think anger is a stupid and useless emotion. Damaging and uneccessary.
Single mothers teach their children that their dad is a deadbeat and a player. They don’t teach them that they were a floozy in their youth and that is the real reason she is single and bitter.
Yup!
Yep, she chase the father away, living off daddy government and now in control of the narrative to her children.
In my case it wasn't necessarily my mother but more the media and society but... I learn to see value in a person actions! I love my father and I hate my mother.. My mother is the deadbeat! And I think we're going to see a lotttttttttt of those types of women in the future. Because the main focus of women to this day has been trashing men and think they're invincible and perfect. They're not following the examples of good men... They're following the examples of bad men!
I know many examples of this. Teach the kids to do it MY way to get even with men.
100% truth
I think people can start by not calling their daughters princesses.
Don't put them in front of the TV with female Disney movies. That'd be a help. Too many 'girly' girls
Put them to work on a farm will solve all that bs lol
Just start calling them what they are. Gold diggers. That's what a princess inherently is.
@Arthur a girl is not suppose to be on a pedestal
@Arthur a lot are taught to be princesses at an early age and this leads into their adult life that they can get what they want and do no wrong
Yep just tried explaining this to a woman in her 40s and she's upset that she doesn't get the same attention like she did when she was 20 I said ehhcheer up now your like the invisible average guy lol ......she dint take that to we'll ...
LMAO
hahaha :D the invisible average guy good one
But it’s true though lol
Savagee!!! Lol.
At least men have it easier with age
They are angry at 35 to 40, pissed at the world from about 40-50, then they go into full catshit-crazy dingbat mode after about 50.
I like those descriptions hahaha
Bless up, brother.
I work with many of these women!
So true.
Defcon #5🤬👹☠🤣🤣
@Jerry Crooker no, you look at them!🤣🤣🤣
I’m becoming a cat breeder, I see a growing future in that market 🐈
Don't waist your time. Theres no money in it. Those women will be broke.
@@illustrious1 Please remember that there are plenty of beautiful, educated, well-paid women who have so high expectations towards men that at certain age only a cat can pass the exam. This guy over here is going to be a millionaire
@@kwiat126p3 You have a good point. 😄
@@illustrious1 Thanks :D
😂😂🤣 you'll be a millionaire in 30 years
Estrogen is one hell of a drug
It was never a good idea... Rgr
But it does suppress the appetite.
*You're wrong. They KNOW perfectly well how bad it is for men. They just don't care. We're beasts of burden in their eyes.*
Exactly.
If they are a virus for men, imagine what they could be for the rest of the world.
No they really don't care, we are for the most part invisible to them, like the janitor at the mall, the cleaners, we really don't exist to them as humans. Only the top tier guys are looked at as Men.
Nah we just $ Collectors
exactly.. and talking about equality and feminism all the time..
they really don't see how good they have it in the western world, they only see a few bad things, but ignore all the advantages they have.
Hypergamy has no limits... Until they hit the wall! The Wall is undefeated!!
They get less attention, especially if they gain weight but a lot of women between 30-37 still get men chasing them. So it just depends
un-da-feat-ted, un-da-feat-ted! *Bianca Belaire*
I'm such a nerd. 😆
The Wall is about to be toppled; for rich people at least. Look up Dave Sinclair, Harvard, reverse aging.
@@Surteronarto so alphas are shallow grown men who chase young girls?!
@@lesbean538 True, but it's not the kind of attention they want. They want attention from tall, muscular and wealthy guys who almost exclusively go for younger and hotter women.
This is why Feminism exists in its current form.
i think you hit the nail on the head,
OldBlue560 interesting viewpoint.
Yes!!!!!! Young women can't recognize their privilege because feminist society keeps screaming patriarchy
Yes, it's the reason for some of them. Your theory still doesn't explain the ogres that are feminists! XD
@@thegoblin3629 They are feminists because they hate men. Men who won't hang with them, and put with the hate for them.
If you don't like to be a target for abuse, then you're not granting them their privilege, because patriarchy.
I remember hearing my dad telling my sister to find herself a good man before 35 ... he told her that her looks would eventually decrease and told her that she will have more trouble having kids with age ... I think this is also one of the responsibilities of fatherhood, blunt truth. And coming from a man, it carries more weight.
Which is also why it's important to have a father in your life.
Single motherhood is imo one of the most destructive forces at work in this day and age.
single mothers cause boys to imitate their mother, and girls to think they should be doing the roles of men.
When I was young and single in Manhattan, I learned discernment. I avoided classically beautiful young women because they were usually very spoiled and rude, with the worst of them just plain batshit crazy. I bided my time and watched for the cactus flowers, women with real style, brains, and intact libidos. I was much happier after that.
That stupid show, "Sex AND the City" is a contributing factor.
Absolutely!
Bring back book burning for something so vile.
Sex in the City is essentially feminism on steroids placed on a pedestal. It is the golden idol that modern women worship.
You should also mention the women who created that cancer admitted to regretting creating that garbage. She regrets it now since she doesn’t have children and lost her fertility
“You don’t go to Napa, you take a Napa...” Sex and the City
Thank you for this video Alexander. I’m 18 , female and I live in England, and I will be taking this on board. It’s a harsh reality that women have to face, but it will happen to us all eventually , and I hope by that time I will have a lovely husband and feel grateful for the years I had in my youth ❤️🌸🦋
You are one in a million these days vanessa
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Vanessa Koukla yes and he will love you in your later years! Get yourself a good real one
Hi, Vanessa. Please preserve your chastity if you want a high-quality man. It is your only chance to get a loving, faithful and responsible husband.
Perfect, Vanessa. I'm 82 & not in the market but if I were, I'd find you !
13, female, and extremely grateful for this content. channels like these are a GOLD MINE! i cannot deny that i would do these sort of things if i did not learn the truth, and i likely still have a lot to learn. extremely helpful for my future. if youre wondering how i even stumbled across these kinds of videos, i bounce through a lot of topics, but this is the most useful one i know
Awesome, just don't forget this video when you are 21. Still a long way to go, if you remember stuff like this it will change your future a lot.
@@Repsforjesus67 thank you, i agree
How's the life going now? Do you still hold this opinion?@@concentrateddarkmatter7991
I'm a 21 year old young woman, and when I was a teen, my mom had a way of making me feel ugly. It was awful at the time, but I think it had a pay off. Most of my cousins were guys, so I was a bit of a girl tomboy, looking at pictures, I see that I was pretty in the girl next door way, which explains how some guys treated me in middle school or high school, not bad or mean, but making fools of themselves. I didn't get it at the time and I think it made me a nicer person. I judge myself by my ability to be nice to others and my grades and my writing. It also makes more sense why my first boyfriend told me he couldn't belief how nice I was...little innocent me assumed being nice was the default state of being a human being.
I know better now, but I'm grateful I know enough not to make other people miserable. Life's hard enough, and I'm smart enough to look for the best man for me to have a family with.
I am the best man!
@@whiiteshirt7192
She means she now knows it's not the default state for everybody.
Society is enabling all kinds of denials and lies, cutting across every aspect of life. Great call out, Alex.
If we don't want to see our specie extinct we should resolve this soon.
Yeah, nobody likes an uncomfortable truth, and women even less than men.
I hear women say there is no good men left... thats not true. They're wherever the young beautiful women are.
Then why are men so angry that women want the same thing lol. So both genders are shallow AF
Christina Di Roma 100% agree that everyone is shallow, I don’t think that men and women want the same thing though.
@@christinadiroma8659 It seems like men want a woman, but women want men to provide stuff for them. Just this week I have heard three different conversations by 30 year old women talking about how they want to get married, but can't find a guy who is both single and is financially well enough off for them.
I can't imagine a man saying "I meet so many girls, but when I find out they're broke I lose interest."
@@88michaelandersen Most I agree with but not necessarily true on the last part. The guy having to pay for all the dates or fund everything would have a problem if the woman was broke. If said guy was not well off himself he would find the woman a cost rather than a benefit. He might lose interest then. This wouldn't be the same for the guy making 6 or 7 figures though - you know the top 10% guys.
@@alexfowler9785 I think a guy broke enough to think that he has to end a relationship because of the expense is probably not getting any interest from women in the first place.
I'm working as a hotel receptionist. Throughout my time in this occupation I've realized there are two groups of people:
1: young women and men and old men. Pretty chill and when they complain about something they usually have good reason for it.
2: Old women. 30 % cool , 70 % Batshit crazy.
Every time I casually mention the "power" a beautiful young woman of my acquaintance has over men, she laughs in my face and tells me no one talks about her "power" but me. One day she'll realise I'm the only one who was actually being honest.
She knows exactly what you meant but was deliberately acting dense. Thats typical defensive female dishonesty in the face of male insights about them. If women had no power over men based on their looks, why do they wear makeup that makes them look pretty lol
Meanwhile.. I'll name my son Chad just in case
good idea i guess i have to choose stacy for my daughter then 😂
awesome
I'll name my son Tyrone then lol
@@super-engineer8437 😆
@@giovannaroma9527 if my son becomes gay Stacy and if girl lesbian chad.
It's really scary that today we have to explain things knows since century before...
i really believe that this generation is the most stupid ever lived on this planet because of the mass media
@@wahresselbst5044 true, people are rediculous haha
@@wahresselbst5044 I mean we did eat up 2020 like it was real.
I'm fairly certain a man named George Orwell wrote about this.. he just had his dates a little mixed up
A friend was 29 and she was terrified of turning 30, she knew the wall was coming fast and fertility dropping like a cliff and that she didn't develop any other skill other than her looks
is this why they put 20 year old pics up in dating sites, lie about their age, i find it quite sad really
Its funny because when I was in my early 20s, the idea of a relationship sounded great, guest what..it was mostly WOMEN who where in their 20s that wanted to be strong and independent, single etc...women have probably come across three, four guys in their lifes that would have made great partners/husbands but they mostly friendzone them.
I agree %100 I remember my 20's and I was blown off by get this AVERAGE ATTRACTIVE WOMEN. They all thought they were exotics I am sure now they are all fat and tatted up with a mustache
I know what this channel is about, but let's not go the entremes here: if you feel your girlfriend is "sucking your energy" and "bitching all the time", maybe you're just incompatible. And vice-versa.
@@Simboiss Nope. The b*tching and anger is usually her way to compensate for the lack of masculinity from her partner. They are incapable of being direct and just telling their man the reason for their frustrating behaviour. Either that or she has already found a replacement for you and waiting for you to lash out so she can dump you without feeling guilty for cheating.
They are *Never* thankful they are pretty they take it as a *right* , not a *luxury* So true
Horndogs attention is not a privilege.
Absolutely zero sympathy for when thier looks start to fade and Men start treating them the same way they treated most Men in their youth.
i agree. Karma
I intend to age gracefully. I’m 38 and feel like I’ve got so much life left to live. Could be because I survived breast cancer, could be because I’m just not that concerned and never really have been. I choose to live with kindness, gratitude, and integrity in general. Life’s hard enough without being worried about losing my looks.
Great advice for the young women out there, Alexander. I hope they are not too egotistical to hear it.
Kimmy wimmy good luck! You don’t look bad from what I can see
Your version of thinking is plausible, but everyone develops through life stages at their own pace, you won't know how it's like till its your time, despite your age. Two years ago I came across a 67 year old woman who is a mother of 4 year old healthy twins all because she messed around under the assumption that her time for having more kids has passed years ago, that's something I never thought I'd see in a million years.
It is not good looks that make a relationship successful. In the past I have found really attractive women have little to offer.
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No mate, you’re not wasting your time with videos like this.
You are doing a great job 👍
We need more of these videos 🏆
Yeah I've learned so much from these videos! Keep going!
These videos are others like them are good stuff. They should only be reinforcing things we already know as men. We shouldn’t be learning anything new.
Solipsism equals anger when your subjective world does not equal reality; therefore, they’ll almost always be angry anyway.
The funny thing is they are angry already and they haven't even got old yet.
They’re biologically designed to not be happy long term because their beauty is a depreciating asset, like their hormones. In reality they’re only fun for 5-6 years and after that they become miserable and in turn do the same to your life. No cohabitating, no marriage, no long term relationships. Only short term entanglements.
Solipsism is a scary philosophy yo.
Imagine, everything is just your imagination and not real
@@bullymaguire2061 To say that it is "not real" is hardly fair to solipsists. The story changes, the raw data persists. If your external reality was actually generated internally by your subconscious through right brain creative generation of your simulated self, would that make it any less real than if "nature" or "god" was the linguistic label assigned to the exact same phenomena of "external reality" ? (in quotations precisely because where does this external reality project? onto what surface is it displayed? Is this not an internally generated image of the external world and we perceive all of our senses through the mind? Is this not a mental process, and holographically projecting sensory data produces the illusion of an external world? Is the body in the mind or is the mind in the body? That we linguistically divide the inner self from the outer world is a semantic and linguistic choice of the language that was imposed on your mind. The story need not be this. Just because you're the only one here, doesn't even mean "you" are in control. You're barely in control of the fleeting moments of reality you are able to steer while you tread above the waters of unimaginable depths, gasping for breath as you slip between moments like a lost child in a sea of confusion, firing off predictable synaptic loops of desire that shape your inner and outer worlds. That our people correctly nailed down reality with the current linguistic structure used for communication is laughable and unlikely. Whatever the truth may be, whatever you experienced was real. It is a set of experiences defined by your beliefs-at-the-time. The story, told through you. You're the only one here to tell it, no matter how you look at it. No matter what it becomes. Most of what you're telling yourself was told to you. What did you really contribute, other than a few vague fleeting sparks of desire?
Bitterness in them is the end result of taking everything for granted.
When I was younger I always joked that the looks of a women are inversely proportional to her character.
Inside I thought it was just me, but that turned out to be darn accurate.
"Nobody wants to admit they get special treatment because the class they are in."
People often don’t realize that privilege is not always about money. There are things like looks, personality, a propensity for being content with what you have, and other qualities that can’t be given a monetary value. If you have the right mix of qualities, money becomes secondary. After all, it does come and go.
Reminds me of white people in societies where it's a privilege.
@@Aldo7899 As long as what you earn is enough to pay the bills, fix the car, cover your healthcare, and everything else. If it isn't then there's stress and health problems.
"Ambition privilege"
Women think they ate entitled and plastic surgeons are making millions of dollars a year for it.
I wasn’t ever “the pretty girl” growing up... me and my mom knew that, so she encouraged me to work on other aspects of myself (school, personality, hobbies)... then God decided to help me out and my appearance shifted for the better these past few years. When people compliment how I look I don’t mind but it doesn’t really mean much, but when someone says I’m smart or funny I really appreciate it. The parts of me I’ve worked on mean more than my looks. I really connect with your message but it’s probably because I’m late to the pretty game 😂
Mira A so you have an idea what it feels like to be a man lmao. Even the pretty ones don’t have it that great dating-wise 😂. It behooves one as a man to therefore seek self-improvement in other aspects of life.
Aldo L haha yea I really understand 😂 The number of times I’ve been friend-zoned, told I was too nice, and been treated like a last choice over trashy women is ridiculous. I understand the struggle and sympathize with the guys who watch videos like these. I think it’s a people problem though... most suck 😂
Mira A people do suck 😔🤷🏻♂️
Good for you girl. Truth is both genders are shallow AF.
This is just another reason why you don't compliment a woman on her looks.
When I was in my twenties I wasn't good enough for you, now you're in your late thirties and you're not good enough for me.
That look on her face when she starts to think about where she will be in just a few short years. This is like the moment a child becomes aware of their mortality and gets sad.
And she clearly hasn't realized her decline has been noticeable for some time already.
They become bitter when they start to think, for lack of a better word. Craig Ferguson was asked by a female guest what he was looking for in a new wife. His answer surprised me. He said he wanted a complete lack of bitterness. Her response was that he would have to look for a woman rather low in age. Craig said he was prepared to what he had to do.
Not gonna lie.. It's pretty funny to see it come back and hit them in the face though
_"It's pretty funny to see it come back and hit them in the face though"_
So you are a misogynist then.
BlunderCity It’s more karmatic than misogynistic. It’s like the difference between “that’s what this specific group of women deserves” as opposed to “I hate women, ALL of them should suffer.” Sexism is even more different in which it’s a belief that men and women are naturally different (this is biologically correct). Using you’re logic, one would be able to say that trump is racist. Not true, you have to really look at all the things he has said in compilation, but with context. He calls out specific groups as opposed to races.
@@BlunderCity lol don't be so obtuse
@@alanandrade2083
_"It’s more karmatic than misogynistic."_
It's both: Schadenfreude and misogyny. You see, if someone said: That girl rejected me and now she's alone and miserable. That makes me happy. Well that would be slightly bitter and resentful, which I don't recommend, but it wouldn't necessarily be misogynistic. But here, he is really reveling at the idea that ALL women feel miserable if or when that happens to them. That's probably based on his personal history with women.
Not sure what your racism and Trump analogy is but his behaviour is the equivalent of a guy who got mugged by a black guy and subsequently feels good about a tragedy that affect all black people. Yep, that would be the definition of racism.
Basically, bigotry is when you can't make the difference between members of a group and the group as a whole.
@@BlunderCity you are acting like a girl.
Hi! You asked for womens opinion on what you told- here is mine.
I am now almost 70 years( old/young :)) and I totally agree on everything you said. I grow up in a family with a mother, father and siblings. From 16/17 years of age until 30 I was out having fun all the time and I met many really nice guys (whom I hardly understood were nice guys) . I did not understand how I should have acted. In my family we never talked about how important familylife is or how important it is to find a nice guy and stay with him. Then I was in a relation for some years but I became a single mother of three between my 30-40 and I was very sure I would find a new man. Now I now that it is very difficult to find someone but I was hoping. That never happened. Anyway I have listened to many really good philosofers here on youtube and I have learnt so much, things I wish I had known before/earlier in my life. Anyway, I have done many stupid things in my life and I have learned many lessons- and I know I can do nothing about the past. I can now choose to be happy with my"children" and grandchildren and learn new things. I am not bitter at all I am just happy that I still learn about relationships and that I have a family and grandchildren.
Monica
Thank you for sharing your life experience, this situation "I was VERY SURE I would find a new man... NEVER happened" it's what needs to be shared to young woman in a manner of urgency. Luckily, you have kids and grandchildren, they're of course family and they give you real love, but many womans don't even have that, the love and company of a partner is not equal neither. It's on us to share the wisdom, have a great day!
I have been speaking about this openly to my female friends (all of them in their 20s) for a while now, about their privilege, that women get way more attention in their 20s and why, and the eventual decline in their looks and the corresponding attention of males. I am glad to say that almost all of them seem very interested in talking about it and it seems to open up their mind to seeing things from a males perspective. I feel that it creates more empathy and gives them a reason to work more on themselves, since a non-developed character and bad attitude in your 30s definitely leads to you being alone or having to settle for an equally bad man. So, talking with women about this very subject is a great idea imo. Thanks for the great video, which I can easily share with the females in my life :)
I have one problem with this video...it ends.
I know 😂
In china they call these women "left over women " and it actually benefits society in the long run . it may seem politically incorrect to westerners but really it is like a parent disciplining their kids. if the kids are not studying or working for their future in their youth, the parents tell them off and say negative things which is instilled into your mind. (this happen to me) when i was young i gamed non stop and didn't study. but when i neared 25 i was like my parents were right . . . i need to study hard make a future for my self and was very disciplined.
same for this "left over women" its meant for women who get to 24ish and think ... "well my parents are right .. i need to treat meant to treat men with a lot of respect all the time . and that i have no value at all ... the beauty i though i had was just a lie i told my self .. so now i know guys are actually much better then i am so i need to pic a nice guy / average ( or even below average joe) guy and be an amazing wife to him all the time"
this was done for 70 centuries in china and as we can see in their society they have done very well in them selves in both population and also economically.
Yes, we should do that everywhere but also condemn male promiscuity, no exceptions.
@@GatsuKS i agree , all promiscuity is wrong . However when studying psychology it is a common fact that women cheat more. I think male promiscuity came from their mis trust of women after being cheated on . I met a few player guys in aus and it seems that they started loving relationship with girls who cheated on them . I believe that lead them down the player/ lover pathway.
That being said my comment was a comentary to the video that women do waste their time because of been promiscuous till they are old. And in successful country like china they used this methode of giveing girls a reality check so that they cheat less or keep it to near 0 so they can have happy fulfilling lives
There's no male promiscuity if there's no female promiscuity
@@hcupo thats an interesting idea. The men whom cheat cheat with women . So its ment to be equal
Back in the 80s the Japanese call these kind of women spoilt Christmas cakes.
I remember when I turned 29 years old, there was a large amount of women my age group all of a sudden getting married and started having kids. It truly was like everyone's biological timer went off all at the same time.
Very true from what I hear. I believe some call it the "Epiphany Stage". It's interesting.
I'm 29 and I've seen in the last year a sudden desperation not to be alone and to have kids.
Thanks for this video really helps me understand what my wife is going through. She's had a couple kids and is now over 30 and is upset because she's gained a little weight. She still looks good, but the weight is really bothering her as well as other cosmetic things. She never was a makeup girl and was/is naturally pretty. But this really helps me understand why she do frustrated about her looks. She's pretty self aware it's self anger and frustration and does good to not point it at me or the kids, but you can tell sometimes she's overwhelmed.
Thanks for the breakdown, maybe this video will help her understand it's not just her?
hopefully you and she can exercise together and maintain vitality, and she can get back her self-esteem. good luck. My wife went cold as she felt undesirable, even though it was obvious I was desiring her.
Just wait til her late 40s, bro... you aint seen nothing yet!
@williambraddell8052my wife does do things, but women have it harder. I quit soda, I lose 10lbs. She quits soda, she loses 2lbs. She’s quit soda full stop. She avoid sugary stuff like candy etc. But there is no real change. It’s pretty disheartening. She works, comes home, does laundry, we take kids to their practice etc, we come home cook, eat and watch 1hr of TV while eating, then go to bed and rinse repeat. We’re not heavy by any means, she just remembers what it’s like to be 16, thin, never pregnant (hips and uterus don’t go back to original size), and great metabolism. She remembers looking like a trophy without needing to work for it.
She wants the kids in all kinds of sports stuff and it eats into our time and the kids time obviously.
Diet is hard enough when you cook for a family because you don’t want separate meals. She also refuses to suffer through huel shakes even though, I think they’re pretty good.
It's extremely important for young women like me to be aware of things like this and keep them in mind. You are doing a really positive thing by spreading these messages. Thank you
Stay beautiful inside and it will irradiate to your outside, especially when you'll get older.
It will also attract kind men that will appreciate that.
U should get married fast
Older men like myself who have been victims of women who blow up long term marriages in order to call up Chad from 20 years ago don't want women to wake up to their delusions. Watching that humiliation when Chad lets her down not so gently, and then realising that she has released you into a smorgasbord of options is a beautiful thing to behold! We've put in the time, we've done the hard yards, and we deserve our entertainment!
I've already said this to my younger sister, and hopefully she'll hear me out like she always has. I really think we have to be more honest instead of trying to protect their feelings all the time. Empathy also means telling someone the truth, even if it's hard to say and even harder to listen to it.
I’m not angry and bitter at 45, and I love my two cats, but masturbation is so boring I can’t be bothered, and I’m well aware of the hard work I have to put in through exercise, eating healthy and looking after myself just to get by.
I do regret dumping the guy after a four year relationship in my twenties, who doted on me. We had so much in common and we shared the deepest connection, that I don’t have with my sister or friends.
The guys I went out with after that were ogres. Abusive and one even made off with all my life savings and gaslit me even though he was a fat ugly old bastard.
I still have horrible dreams where the beautiful gentle and handsome guy I left behind is lost to me forever. You don’t know how good you had it till it’s gone.
Karma pays back.u dumped him ,now circumstances dump you.You made your bed now enjoy it .
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You seem angry. What’s wrong, someone dumped you and you never got over it? Too bad so sad. You have issues, that’s why you were dumped! Now sleep in the bed you made and 🤫
@@tamaracoba ,you basically repeated what I said like a parrot .by the way I am fine but you r not n will never be .
Parents,,,teach your children to be beautiful on the inside. That never fades. It will stay with you long after your outer beauty fades.
Thank you Alexander. Women need to brought down a notch or two in the reality of things. They have been pedestalized to such a high standard. They need to know the reality for them and men.
I guarantee the term "dirty old man" was coined by a bitter and jealous older woman
Oh, come on now. Sure, there have been jealous old women, but there are also old men who do not have appropriate boundaries. All men do not become angels, just because some women are jerks.
@@jw70478 As long as he keeps his hands to himself I don't see why a "dirty old man" can't look and say what he wants.
Hi Alexander, I’m her. The older woman listening to this message. Yes, wise women would do well to lower their expectations, tackle reality. Men and women age. Dating, at every age, is fraught. Unrealistic expectations, games and lack of self awareness are rampant. All of us ought to work on self happiness, volunteerism, some inner work to become the best version of themselves. Less shallow, more we’ll read, Work out, get strong, eat right, seek people to build up and seek positivity. Radiate. Both of you. Cheers!
I really like this comment so I thought I would thank you. I think many responses here are rather extreme and - most of all - bleak when you read them as a woman. It makes you feel hopeless about your future and that's not right. No matter where we are in life we can still make things better and work on ourselves - not only self-improvement but also accepting our flaws and mistakes. Comments like yours help me stay positive.
More we'll read, meaning?
That's way too much work. Let's just say we do all that then not do 😂 it. You'll be less tired.
@@gabrielguzman6018 “more well read”, meaning read books on boundaries, dating smart, learn about men’s games, learn discernment, get good at communication.
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I can't understand why this video doesn't already have over 10,000 views and 200 comments. I imagine that even the title might be too raw and triggering for many. On another note, an interesting term some Japanese people use for women in Japan who have lost their sexual market value is 'Christmas Cake' ...That is, women over 25 are considered past their prime, like a Christmas cake loses it's value after the 25th of December. I have heard this term used liberally by both men and women of various ages over there and it was used in a humorous manner, without any sense of denial or triggering. The Christmas cake idea is perplexing to many foreigners who see post 25 year old Japanese women as looking exceptionally youthful in comparison to their Caucasian counterparts.
yes in china they call these women "left over women " and it actually benefits society in the long run . it may seem politically incorrect to westerners but really it is like a parent disciplining their kids. if the kids are not studying or working for their future in their youth, the parents tell them off and say negative things which is instilled into your mind. (this happen to me) when i was young i gamed non stop and didn't study. but when i neared 25 i was like my parents were right . . . i need to study hard make a future for my self and was very disciplined.
same for this "left over women" its meant for women who get to 24ish and think ... "well my parents are right .. i need to treat meant to treat men with a lot of respect all the time . and that i have no value at all ... the beauty i though i had was just a lie i told my self .. so now i know guys are actually much better then i am so i need to pic a nice guy / average ( or even below average joe) guy and be an amazing wife to him all the time"
this was done for 70 centuries in china and as we can see in their society they have done very well in them selves in both population and also economically.
Caucasian ? That's a myth
In America, before political correctness, we used to not pander to these women and they were more or less ostracized for their mistake of not settling down.
Ursa Major - don’t forget the herbivore movement among Japanese men.
Ursa Major That's because youtube is owned by women and controls how popular a video can get
So a while back I went through the mall with my buddy and we passed by a woman who looked like she was maybe in her late thirties, and for some reason I was intrigued by her looks, and I didn't even notice that I gave her a big smile. Then I saw she had a big grin on her face looking back at me, I guess she was really happy about me liking her looks. My buddy had no reaction to her, in fact he was confused because he didn't find her particularly attractive (we're into different types). That's when I realized some women as they get older get really hungry for that attention that men give to young women, I guess because they no longer get it so much.
But my main takeaway on that day was that a simple thing like a big smile can make a person's day.
LOL your name tho .... 😂😂😂
:)
you just found out to be a good human. i am 41 one, alwqys happy guy and i flirt with ALL women over 30. same time i neglect the younger ones. its sooo funny to see their faces.
A young women here, I'm aware of this and I really appreciate you talking about it! People often try to brush it off or don't consider beauty as a factor but I've seen it happen and know it's often very related.
men are valued for resources, and women for beauty/youth. this culture of 'empowerment' misleads young women to waste their peak years having fun instead of finding best mate. Then they have regrets when things change for the worse and they have missed the train. Over time men get wealthier and becoming more valuable. so there are two opposing forces working against them. Men of all age find girl around 21 the most hot... so further away women is from this number the fewer options they have. So women have most options at 21 but they go for men who are in top 1% who just like most women have lot of options. And they are not looking to commit. So 90% f chase 1% m and ignore other 99% m.
"We are going to build that wall and women are going to pay for it." GOD
I remember a korean show where one of the girls tell that her mom says something like the message you said for woman and about the apearance is just temporaly, and all the other people, man and woman, just laught and say "your mom hate you?"
Her expresion was like "i know right?"
This was brilliant. Great job u are helping many men understand this crazy world.
Who cares? Be yourself. Dont try to pretend that you are someone else. Be proud of whou you really are.
Just wanting to add my 2 cents.....as an older [single] male, I appreciate the wisdom, grace, elegance, intelligence, and many more aspects that ONLY older Ladies "own". As I've gotten older (I'm 68) I am Much more " forgiving" of things like weight gain, grey hair (on Some Woman it looks very appealing to me, believe it or not), wrinkles, and the like. Sure, young babes are still cute and all, but there's another kind of beauty that Only an older Lady can "own", that is " enhanced" by all the other aforementioned traits of an older Woman. As an older man I have come to appreciate all these attributes.
There ARE some of us that aren't after girls young enough to be our daughter!!
I will try to talk my daughter about it. Good advise.
This needs to go viral.
Great vid! Made it so clear. Keep em coming.
Ive seen the anger in females in my family but I do feel they wouldn't understand your message... Thanks for trying
That one was really good. Will be supporting in about a month
Girls have more hangups then you think; my daughter is a stunning looking girl but she has little confidence and is scared to talk to guys. Many beautiful girls dont think they are beautiful.
In my experience, beautiful women don’t think they’re beautiful enough for the top guys. That’s not the same as not beautiful. If an ugly nice guy asks them out, they won’t say yes. Deep down they know they’re attractive, they just feel ugly when pining for the top 1%.
By far one of your best videos. Well done. Preach brother.
Hi... great video and some additional thoughts on this from a 70 year old thats been married for 43 years with children and now grandchildren.
Back in 2019 we had over 50th highschool reunion and many of us that survived have pleasantly mellowed with the passing of time.
Not all the girls back in 60's fit the beauty stereotype of the day...lots were considered wall flowers...ignored...probably felt very bad many times not being included etc. 50 years on those once sadly over looked girls many turned out to be wonderful and warm ladies perhaps because average looks at the time they focused on other more lasting and far more valueable personality traits to get through life.
Sounds corny I know but its true....life can be a meat grinder and good looks alone will not always be there to get you by.
Straight facts.
I don't know what you're talking about man, my sister has always been angry and bitter 😂😂😂
ROFL
Because they don't have logic or facts to back up their opinions and arguments, so they resort to emotion.
Love it ... ❤️
"If this video inspires that conversation somewhere in the world, just once, then it was worth it " Epic statement
Love it. Very well handled. I will share this with my daughters.
respect
Society teaches women to hold off on a family and marriage until they start a career. By then, their looks are fading and they've had all kinds of sex in their 20's with alpha men and have becoming worldly instead if innocent and the work force has taught them how to compete (to some degree) in a man's world. So they find themselves in their 30's, their eggs are drying up and their market value has lowered. They finally get married as their biological clock is ticking, they have a kid, but work long days and eventually divorce due to having lived as a single person for so long that a husband is no longer needed, just the kid and the child support check. Plis the marriage had no chance because both parties are working all day. Their nurturing instinct allows them to have some semblance of female satisfaction from raising a child, part-time. By then they hate men and are just looking for a nice beta guy to live out their days with and expect him to reat her like a queen, while she abuses him with her expectations of the guy she should have married at 23.
The good thing about being ugly all your life is that you aren't going to miss the beauty of your youngest days. Greetings from Colombia South America.
Ladies. Don’t drink or do drugs. It’s that simple. You will look young for a long time.
True. Look up Lure Hsu. She is a fine example.
Yeah my ex would pressure me to propose because of many reasons. But one of them was the complaint that she was 23 when we started dating and she was 25 when I was done dealing with her and she made me know how I wasted her time and she was “halfway to 30”.
It’s crazy how women want to get married so early in a relationship. After 2 years you don’t really know a person still and if you’re rushing the man to propose the marriage won’t hold for long because both sides weren’t on a similar mindset going into the union.
while you (and she, as a consequence of choosing you) did indeed 'waste' 2 of her best years, getting married after just a 2 year relationship is crazy
Lol. Fifteen is halfway to thirty.
Lol I've dated over a hundred women and they all say marriage is just a stupid bit of paper and they just want fun and freedom. You can just live together and you don't have to get married to have kids. I'm in the UK. Feminism is huge here.
I absolutely enjoy watching your videos. They're full of insights that are crucial for women to understand. I'm 28 now, yet I've never really felt the privilege I have, because I've never acted on them. Sometimes I'm afraid I didn't experience my youth enough (I've never had a real relationship and had, at max, two partners I've ever been intimate with). From some incidences and experiences with compliments (that I've been given so freely by men! Thank you!) I've often been told I'm pretty, yet I've actively tried to stay humble throughout them all. I'm glad I did. I'm glad that I continuously chose to hone my skills, concentrate on fulfilling hobbies, self-care in body, mind and spirit and my (educational) career over dating and throwing myself into reckless situationships (that probably might've left me more wrecked than happy).
I'm also well aware that, as a single woman going into my thirties I'm probably not going to attract as many men as i might've a few years ago (although, unfortunately, I'm rather oblivious to that...). Thanks to your videos and CZcams for providing us with all this exquisite information I've been able to continuously shift my future vision from video gaming and not being able to focus on my future plans (I've never been too much into partying and dating, so it's more about getting my priorities sorted) to knowing where to invest my time and attention. Thank you and your team for your work and for bringing up the uncomfortable, yet absolutely necessary truth and perspectives on life that some women desperately have to take a look at. 🙏 Stay healthy and well.
I am a plastic surgeon..... And the business is booming
Excellent topic and points to you made in this video Alexander. Good job.
nowadays even girl at their 40s are picky its just hilarious
There is no reason ever to date a 40 YO unless you are 60 or something and poor
This is true
I was once at a friend's birthday party and a friend of his wife was also there and was complaining to her how she couldn't find a decent man.
When my friend's wife told her i was single as well, she looked at me and just rolled her eyes.
Until she found out what my job was. Then she suddenly did want to talk to me.
Men are just walking ATM's to modern women.
Another great video. Congrats Alex
Man you're a philosopher. We need you >.
Excellent points Alexander.
"Feminism did NOT free women from the chains they thought they had. It freed MEN from the chains they had no idea were there."
~ Arch Stanton ~
Some say Karens are just women who were good looking when they were young, but are mad with the world because they stopped getting attention after their looks faded.
Good job 👏 I think it will take 50 years to strengthen this out .
I think it is a general problem, for women, that they do not mentor each other. Older men are constantly giving younger men advice on how to weather life's hardships, because they see themselves as fundamentally aligned against the forces that beset them. Older women, even mothers, see younger women as competition, and the sort of advice that they give them is less sympathetic and practical as a result. I can't count the number of times I've heard my mother encourage my sister to live life in the moment. She's clearly thinking of her own misspent youth. My father would never have given me advice like that. With him it was all harsh truths.
Man in no way could possibly be living unsatisfying dating life IF he is in good muscular shape & confident in his knowledge, in himself & the endeavours he is capable of. How much money a man has doesn't matter if he got all the above, he will be enjoying an attractive, desirable life among girls easily, period.
Never been an intp ehh
That's why a huge segment of the economy revolves around trying to make older women look young.
Yup!
great message man. I look forward to having this conversation with my daughter when the time comes.
I agree with you, and this entitlement that we women have is also very toxic. As a young woman myself I have had to come to terms with this truth early because I have been dealing with obesity. And people treat fat woman and just fat people in general the same if not worse then a woman that's aged. But I'm pretty greatfull that I've dealt with it because I've learned alot along the way. And one of the biggest lessons I've learned is no one should have to deal with my bs. And second, just because someone is attractive doesn't mean they are good. I'm glad that you have this channel Alexander because I think that in order for change to occur you need honesty and information. And the honesty and information here is very needed. I know that I find it helpful.
we need more of you, thank you for talking about the things nobody talks about. - Germany
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What I want to hear the answer to:
“As you age and transition from the romantic abundance you have now to the inevitable lessening of attention and options, what do you look forward to?”
I have my answers to this (deeper philosophical/meditative experience, closer friendships, bonding with family, achieving great things, etc.)
What do y’all think they might say?
You're right!
Why should we care?