Women Shocked They Can't Find A Man
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The fact that a bunch of men signed up for a singles event only to play tennis with the other men while completely ignoring the women is so funny that it hurts. 😂
Troll level 100.
Men taking it like competetive tennis
I almost want to get my boys together to go do this at single events.
Are we sure the "singles tournament" wasn't just 1v1, as opposed to doubles?
The men noticed the women were not interested in them, so why not hang out with the bros instead of furthermore feel their rejection 😂
"NO attractive men found." - Gourath, Princess of Nurgle
Father Nurgle approves.
Bro, I was gonna say they are not attractive either to roast them, but you fucking killed them 😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣💀💀💀💀
This neeeds to get pinned
Asmond talking about women is like a jaguar talking about the ocean
Women won't date a guy who's living with his mother but will happily date a high value man who is living with his wife.
OHHHH MAN!!
*Many
It is easier to deal with wife than mom.
@@wastrelpervlaw of averages. It's fortunate some women are infact smart or rather wise enough to not make that mistake.
@@flightkidd123 I've heard three girls in my entire life describe themselves as high-value. Two were friends so their shared idiocy was not that surprising. Women, people in general, want what is best for themselves. For some that manifests as justifying adultery but do not smear the whole demographic with that nonsense.
Women can talk about having impossible standards and it's taken as a matter of course, but as soon as men voice standards they immediately get labeled 'incel'.
nah this literally. women say "I want a guy over 6 foot and nothing less." and its fine, not height shaming at all. a guy says he wants a woman not fat and hes instantly labeled as a fat shamer. like we cant control our height, we CAN control our weight and diet/exercising habits
Both sexes have unrealistic expectations! The key is finding someone who is beyond such shallowness.
@@PlantNerdLady I agree, you can find examples of this in both sexes. However, in aggregate, it is much more common with women, especially on the internet.
@@PlantNerdLady This is such a weird take to put into this comment.
"Hey, Hitler killed people, but so does the Americans... The key is to finding a country who doesn't kill someone."
It has that energy.
It's not even about having unrealistic standards, it is about the women being praised for their standards, while men gets shamed for more reasonable standards.
@@SioxerNikita Yeah, ikr? Just wtf were they thinking when they wrote it?
Women are looking for Spider-Man, but walk past Peter Parker every day.
have you heard of UndeadChronicXiv he talks about this stuff but he is considered very controversial
Good one.
These women want Bruce Wayne
Perfectly said 😂
This is super cringey to say but it's lowkey super funny lmao
Sh*tting on men is a thing now, what did they expect? A lot of these dudes come home from work and get on Elden ring instead of hitting the clubs. Can’t blame them.
facts
Damn are you spying on me? 😂😂😂
Getting robbed, talked down to, smashed by bosses anyway right
Women would rather be with a Runebear than a fellow tarnished
On Gandhi bro.
"No attractive men found" alright Jabba
This is why the birthrate is going to -1000
Good we need less bums.
Birthrate always decreases the more advanced and educated a society becomes. High birth rates are caused mostly by poverty and poor education.
Not amongst the Muslim Community.
@@balung rich muslim countries birth rates are low too. Poor countries hv high birth rates regardless of their religion.
@@schadenfreude3236America has the worst education system in the west so don't know what " educated" your talking about.
What she says: "The event was a bunch of guys under 5'6""
What she did not say: "The event was a bunch of women over 200lbs."
Dating apps have a height thing for your profile if men gotta put their height in women should have to put their weight
Facts.
@@awesomeguy9513 their accurate weight. Also no photo filters.
EDIT: If you can lie about your weight on a dating app, or anywhere else, we didn't even started to date and you're already lying to me. Can't be more red flag than this.
@@awesomeguy9513 I'm ignorant about dating apps. Never been on one, and never intend to ... but you're telling me they actually have it codified to enter height but not weight?!? No ... that's not slanted in the woman's favor at all 🙄 Just one more example of "male privilege" I guess.
I'm sorry but I'm not sorry, that woman had the face of a Stonehenge statue.
🗿
maybe they should choose the bear
Ya i choose the Tree to talk to.
unfortunately bears choose men you can google to be sure xD
bears have standards you know?
Did you see the monster 'romance' section at the bookstore? 😅😂😂
Or the dragon, werewolf, vampire... anything from the Barnes & Nobles "hear me out" section.
Glad that the entitlement is biting them in the ass. "Gorlok the Destroyer" 2/10, won't settle for Steve, who is a 5/10.
These are only the ones who are hitting 30 I think. Younger women are still gonna ride the Chad Carousel
I wouldn't even say Gorlock anymore tbh, she's been hitting the gym apparently and wants to change her ways. And so far she's actually dedicated, so I've gained a bit of respect for her.
@@GigaChadicusMaximusgorlock is a dude
@@Nick-zp8wk Your thinking of a different Gorlock my dude, because the one we are talking about is not a dude.
Theres 2, gorlock the Destroyer and the dude gorlock looks like a pear dude
I've dated NY girls, nightmare. I went to Mexico and got treated like a man. She made me a sandwhich for me on the day i was flying out cause she knew id be hungry and the damn tears just poured. She's the one
With my non existent experience in as usual Human beings I would say treat her better but don't trust anyone.
Mexico is barely any better if we're being honest.
You dont want a girlfriend you want a mother
@@sanserof7 cope
@@sanserof7 Are you serious? you wouldn't do things for your partner? you think it would be weird if a guy made a sandwich for a girl or got her roses or what? jfc
Asking an introvert to pay to be surrounded by random people judging you feels like a nightmare.
My thought exactly. Every woman is gonna judge you purely by how you look because 1 minute of small talk is all they will get to make a judgment on your personality so it’s basically completely shallow.
Couldn’t pay me to go through that
@@kurtwagner350 i am woman and i am afraid of women.
@barbora1351 women are even meaner towards other women xD it's beyond my comprehension that you can walk with two people you see every day, then talk shit about them when you go the other room
@@barbora1351 Same. I would rather hang out with guys instead. They tend to be less judgemental and more chill, so I can relax around them.
Why would I pay money to be judged by pretentious women?
not necessarily pretentious. But fat or old or ugly.
*overweight mid ones who want to be treated like a Queen.
@@bbsonjohn And pretentious
I have lack of confidence so this really hits.
@@bbsonjohn or insane -- but that's kind-of redundant in current year.
Women don’t need singles events, they aren’t suffering from a lack of options. They have a deeper issue, there’s a huge dissonance between their perceived value and their actual value
Facts
damn well said
Wife here. If you want single events to be successful, let the men join in for free, and women pay the ticket. A fun fact, compliment men, for example: you have a nice smile, beautiful eyes, a great outfit choice looking sharp, trust me. When i was single, smiled, and complimented men, the men were very much gentlemen. I, of course, wore modest clothes. I learned through all my male relatives by giving me advice on what men actually wanted. Some of my gf's were perplexed on how so many men bought me drinks, talked about American history, our rights, and how we all hated paying taxes. It's easy. Never once did i ask, who much do you make? I actually ask about God. Boy, did so many men share their favorite scripture of the Bible. I try to give the same advice to single ladies, but it all falls on deaf ears.
That is epic advice, but, if I share my favorite scripture's would you think I am flirting with a married women?
On a more serious note, it is sad that so many men and women have so little trust in each other, and so little hope. We have allowed ourselves to be demoralized by those who would have us be so (I almost wish I didn't know so much about evil, tactics, idea's, and specific applications of such tactics). But I cannot judge others for being demoralized, I am pretty demoralized, and slow to trust myself. I don't know if very many of us will manage to develop significant, faith, hope, or charity, in this lifetime.
after all, men don't care about compliments, it's cool when someone says it, but society has made men all the positives directed towards a guy, he perceives them as deceitful and not sincere, now even if he gets them, it doesn't make any difference to him because he is used to the routine, work , gym, bike, or swimming pool, guys nowadays have stopped fighting and don't give a damn.
This is an A+ comment. A man here dating a modest, kind, traditional woman. You actually live to serve one another, have meaningful conversations about continual growth, control, preservation especially the body. That's the only precious thing we have in all reality. Not even getting into religion, modesty is a preservation of the human in many respects. Modesty also in action and being gentle and vulnerable. A respectful traditional woman will bring that out in a man, and a man truly respecting a woman, being gentle, not desiring her body in a twisted way, helps her to realize modesty and move towards a more dignified and meaningful life
Ok federal agent😊
A man getting small compliments like "I like your shirt" has us thinking about marriage, because it is sadly so uncommon to hear.
*Insert long rant about men's mental health here*
A big problem is that a woman who's a 5 thinks she's a 10, and she sees a guy who's a 6 and thinks he's a 0.
Only untill mid. 20s, then the roles slowly reverse and at 30+ you ve all the cards in the hand, when u r a dude. 🤣
@@derek4177with a little luck maybe
@@derek4177 but at 30+ a woman who was a 5 at 20, is now...
@@bloodstripeleatherneck1941 i was just comparing a 30+ dude vs a 30+ old woman and both are single.
Since she was teenager, she basically got chased by men untill the end of her 20s but now in the 30s its rather the girls who are still single chasing the guys.
Of course its a very general statement but also physical appearance matters less and less.
"The Queen" who was ultra pretty in her 20s, aint a Queen anymore in her 30s, if she didn't gain any more values than her beauty, which is fading pretty fast.
😂😂
Because they get pumped and dumped by a 10 who tells them they love her, when he's got 5 other girls in his rotation.
Guys do attend singles events, they just call it Dungeons & Dragons and they don't pay to go to them.
Hey, we do Pathfinder 2e too you know! 😂
Asmond talking about women is like a jaguar talking about the ocean
Grossly underrated comment, on point.
@@user-uw6ob1rn9c cars can't talk though
@@Mrpokemon718yea, the taken men like me play Pathfinder 1E
I hear this "Lower your standards" shit all of the time.
I have been single for 4 years. I am average and I make good money. I don't care if a girl is chubby. I dont care if a girl isn't that attractive. I don't even care what she does for a living. All I go for is average.
You are essentially telling me to date the 300lbs whale or the girl that doesn't brush her teeth or the woman with 3 kids or the transvestite.
Lmao No, the standards arent the problem. My standards are at least average. Never asked for a cat girl. Never asked for a super model. All I want is average and all I go for is average.
I feel like average is what most men go for.
It's a waste of time and it isn't the women's fault. Everybody is just confused and don't know how to act like a human being. People suck anyways. We are at the point to where FRIENDS are ghosting each other now.
i am 20 . i heard the "How dare you as a young man have standards"
Nobody cares
@@themodfather9382 I hope you find the right one, man.
@@themodfather9382
I think you're projecting
"NO attractive men found." ...did she eat them?
From that clip it seems she can eat extra burgers too
Real talk, I'm married, but I've always wondered: has anyone ever successfully picked a woman up at the gym? I was always so paranoid about making women who were just trying to workout uncomfortable or looking like a creep. I can't imagine anything more embarrassing than asking a woman out, her saying no, and then having to see her again at the gym.
In 2018 I had a cute nurse taking care of me for an entire week as I recovered from a massive surgery at a VA hospital. We joked around every single day and had amazing chemistry. On my last day there, I was extremely disappointed because she wasn't working. I was disgusted with myself for not asking her out and I knew it would haunt me forever, but I didn't want to make her uncomfortable if she didn't feel the same way or if she was just being nice. Nobody wants to be that delusional guy who thinks that the waitress is into him and completely misreads the situation. Anyways, on my last day in the hospital, a different nurse asked if there was anything I needed before I left and I said "Yea, my previous nurse's phone number would be great!" and we both chuckled. Three days later I got a text saying "Hey, this is Nikki". Apparently she did feel the same way and was bummed that I didn't ask her out. She was eating lunch with my other nurse who told her what I had said. Long story short, she broke some rules and looked up my info to get my number. We got married in 2021.
I genuinely can't imagine my life without her, and it scares me to think that none of this might have existed had my other nurse not mentioned what I had said...all because I was too afraid to speak up.
What a great story man, I'm so happy for you and your wife! Thank you for sharing!
Happy for you man, thats super lucky. Stories like that give me hope. Sometimes I think that's all it is...luck. all the best!
only 50% of people in the US are getting married, its a coin toss if you even find someone.
There's a few people at my gym who have met there and are dating. I've gone on a few dates with people from the gym as well, but in all those cases we see each other at the gym and see each other outside of it first before asking each other out
This was super wholesome, gj brother
Butchers are complaining that cows are no longer attending slaughterhouse events.
vastly underrated comment
Lol!!!!
😂😂
Wow....nail on the head
The height of their date should be inversely proportional to the size of their waistline and weight.
"Grazing table..." Bro they market this shit like they're trying to attract cattle ranchers.
"No attractive men found." - The Crushinator.
"No one over 6 ft"
Yet she dunks her head in a tub of makeup LMAO.
Woman be quick to call a man insecure meanwhile they leave the house in a permanent mask that took 30 minutes to synthesize. like you EMBODY insecurity never use that word as an insult ever again💀
It's a defence mechanism. Have so many nitpicky superficial requirements, so when the guy you're with realises how much of a dud you are, you can dump him first before you have to address your own shortcomings.
do never forget that theyre "empowered" at our cost
WE BUILD, WE MAINTAIN, WE PAY! without us they are nothing! the media will tell you that we are equal, but in reality its men who do most of the work
have you heard of UndeadChronicXiv he talks about this stuff but he is considered very controversial
All that makeup is a huge red flag. Who'd ever want to date that?
It's the actual female incel event
Asmond talking about women is like a jaguar talking about the ocean
@@Suchen_Wahrheit it's males fault for not liking us 😡
@@user-uw6ob1rn9c So which rage bait account is this one your 5th or 6th
@@welpheresanamei9445isn't it sarcasm?
@isadora-6th: Doubtful. They're posting that exact message in multiple comment threads, so it stinks of troll.
Did she just call the snack table a fucking grazing table? What shes herding cattle now?
Im sure theyre at least in a comparable weight class
Grazing tables are a thing these days. It's kinda buffet but with food that doesn't need cooking like fruits, berries, cheese. With multiple items but less in quantity compared to your regular buffet.
People are so shallow it hurts.
Exactly. More people should be like me. If she’s not Asian, petite, 5’-5’5”, 25-28, and already rich, she doesn’t exist.
It’s not complicated people.
LOL! I get the joke, cuz you are shallow too.
@@megauser8512 Personally, I am very shallow. Not quite to the extent that I mentioned, throw in some tattoos and she would be about as close to perfect that I could imagine though, but far more shallow than I should be. It’s a problem.
Shallow, or honest?
@@sirkylelennify They are certainly honest about how shallow they are.
Remember when Twitter was making fun of single men? and now women are complaining about not being able to find a partner? 😂
Shamed if you do; shamed if you don't.
As an autistic guy I feel that, women see my singleness and hate me for it generally speaking. Of course that’s not all women but the majority take one look at me and write me off completely actively trying to find ways to prevent me from talking to them as if I was gonna ask for their number in the first place when I wasn’t and it’s kind of funny. Even when you fully stopped giving a shit and don’t go out people will find a way to other you for things beyond your control. Well in my opinion just looking at the state of my friendships society had better drop the hate for already struggling single guys it’s the majority of my generation. I’ll end my bloodline if they have to grow up in this society anyway fuck that. One of my friends has a dating strategy where he acts married with a fake ring, leases a nice suit and acts like a married stockbroker and he doesn’t leave the bar alone ever it’s hilarious imo and it’s why I don’t care if women judge me for being single they wrongfully judge married guys for being good cause it’s hot so what does it matter?
When was that? I don't doubt it cause after that shoeonhead video on men I saw the negative reaction
have you heard of UndeadChronicXiv he talks about this stuff but he is considered very controversial
@@e69alpha If you saw that shoeonhead video, then you dont really need to ask because she covered it pretty well. And its not like a single time and more of a gradual thing.
Imagine going to one of these events as a guy and watching women complain later on social media that there wasn't any attractive men, lol.
have you heard of UndeadChronicXiv he talks about this stuff but he is considered very controversial
... even worse if those men paid for it.
lol
The single guy who goes does not have enough money to pay for 100 women he's never going to see agains dinners.
Basically like job interviews. Doesn’t matter if you are the only applicant 😂
Hear me out. Wear a bear costume to a singles event. Think about it lol
Teddy Bundy
As someone who has gone speed dating in NYC I can definitely say on average most of the men aren't tall, but that being said, why should that matter? If you want to find someone, go beyond the physical. I'm 5'4" and the last man I met speed dating was 6'3". The guy I met before him was 5"5" and I had no problem with it. The reason why both relationships went nowhere was that they were looking for a very short term Good Time Sally relationship and I had a different goal in mind, so we were incompatible because of our different values. I've even had men say to me, "You're too normal for me," "You're too put together for me," and even, "I don't like smart women." I routinely admonish women when they make comments about a man who is shorter, or losing his hair, or is already bald: so superficial and shame on them. These are the same women who get mad when men demand a thing woman 15 years his junior. Superficiality sucks!
How in the hell a normal (at least that's my impression) and pretty woman like you is single? This is baffling to me.
@@deviantan021 thank you, that's kind of you to say, but I think a lot of people are fed the fairy-tale of the "pretty woman." Being conventionally attractive is no guarantee of happiness, success, and/or relationships. Aside from initial attraction, there are so many other factors that go into it, like personality, goals, values, etc. There are plenty of people who just don't ever find someone; it's possible I am one of them.
@@juliea. People are fed a lot of fairly tales, delusions, very rigid and inflexible narratives when very few are THAT easy to pigeon-hole.
80% of women are dating 25% of the men and then get mad when they find out they are in a harem.🤣
I don't think that's true. I think it appears that way due to the discourse online. There are several factors.
It's the same when woman call every ex a narcassist. It's like really? No, not really.
Sometimes we are the problem, or we just don't mesh or we presume every man or woman is like what we see online.
@@charissa6648 Do you think hookup culture only exists online? Or that it was invented by men?
@@charissa6648 I know I am going to be angry old guy yelling at clouds when I get to that age. And I am okay with that. I am a strange dude, average looks, and dislike crowds.
Thing is, I will make an effort to be by myself when not at work. You will find me somewhere on a long walk, in a museum or at home pursuing hobbies, not anywhere close to crowds or loud music. Those do not make for "meeting people"-places, by design.
@charissa6648 yeah you just proved it true 😂
@@charissa6648 reddit IQ
What's with american women's obsession with male height? I mean, it's common for women to prefer tall guys, but to cut off people based on that alone is insane
It's not just in America. You get the same thing in the UK too
I hate these videos but they keep popping up on my feed. I honestly do NOT know why women demand 6 feet or higher. I personally never cared about a man's height - I'm only 5 feet 4 inches so I have no right demanding a super-tall man. Now that being said, I have some tall female friends between 5 feet 11 and 6 feet 2 inches, so I definitely understand their desire for a taller man. I wanted to set up my 5 feet 2 inches friend with a 5 foot 7 inch male coworker and she flat-out refused...and that is likely why she is alone.
@@juliea. I've had one woman heavily imply I wouldn't be worth getting to know if I make less than 300k a year, and blocked a few times for not being 6 foot. I used to think all these videos were exaggerating but no it really is that rough out there.
@@SeanJacksonTutorials That is crazy! That woman does not see men as people, I swear.
@@juliea.I’m 6’1” and that shit has never made any sense to me. As a guy, a girl being too much taller than me would kinda freak me out a little though (not scared freaked), but I wouldn’t outright turn her down either.
Only thing that I can think of be a feeling of safety type of thing. Don’t think height alone would do that though but I got nothin else.
I had a friend whose dad was invited to an event in New York city that was free to attend for Estonian men to meet Estonian women after the Second World War,
His father said it was like a buffet of beautiful women, and the one he chose was my friends mom.
That event had a purpose, to preserve Estonian culture.
What is the purpose of these events?
man i read it as "my dad was invited .... and the one he chose was my friends mom", lmao.
NOTHING
he doin your friends mom. now your friend is your step sibling
You cant control your height, but you can control your weight/width.
Just be single and be as you want to be, no need to include some stupid human with oneself to get judged
I can't control not having huge clavocles and looking like Reeves tho.😂😂
"No attractive men found" *Scarfs down a burger* Nah this shit can't be real 😂
18:48 broly costs 10 elixer 💀💀💀
@@Grimmmmy-boyNAH 💀😭
@@Grimmmmy-boy Not Broly noooooo
Woman really got messed up by too much tinder and upping their standards because of one night stands with handsome fellas
not just tinder but deffo a good point. all this toxic self love stuff is a cause too
It's like you landed a summer job on a prevailing wage contract for $50 an hour and then you had to come back to the real labor market and every offer is $25 an hour and you're like "no way, i'm worth $50".
actually fucking true and thats the sad part..
Also, the women who don't fall into the same categories as these ones, have had their lives completely bullied and ruined by those women
100%. Makes them overvalue themselves and always seek the one that got away who was just using them as a throw away pleasure tool
I went to a singles event once organized by Match. It was unorganized, and people just talked to whomever they wanted. I don’t think a single girl talked to me. I can do much better at a bar all by myself and save the entry fee.
The world is so screwed at this point, no one knows how to connect, everyone is deluded in how they think, I don't blame them for it, the world is just crazy and there ain't a quick fix.
the problem will correct itself, when the leftist approach and progressiveness drags them to the bottom in terms of relationships, you have Islamic countries that have no problems with relationships and have more and more children, the problem is currently solving itself before our eyes.
Dating issues began because of women, they wont change until woman change first. I honestly think this has to happen or were doomed.
The lack of shared culture is hitting the nail on the head
You are not wrong. The pursuit of profits destroyed community spaces and the commons.
Read your bible! (KJV, preferably) ♥
the future dating spaces are going to be VR to aid this and its gonna be so funny to see how the government manages people getting married who've never met IRL lmao
That's the joy of diversity. Now we barely have unique cultures to make us special
@@abel6298 Fastest way to deconvert.
in this economy it's a big old hell no to these women.
In any economy
You don't deal with them period they're life ruiner's.
In this economy single moms are really getting no man because most can't afford themselves +1 let alone +2.
@@joshholmes1372 cope it was all good till Biden destroyed it on purpose and laughed.
@@tonygarcia2591 people were getting divorcegraped before biden
Church single events are still pretty effective. There's been several weddings, and engagement announcements at my church this past year. So yeah, having a shared culture is a major factor
I think there are a lot of things that make a church event successful besides shared culture. The attendees at a church event are more likely to have a shared goal, and that goal isn't one night stands. Christians do care about looks and Christian women do care about men's salary, but they also know that they are supposed to care about other things, and that helps too.
The internet pretty much ruined dating as a whole. It basically made women's standards "standardized" across a large group of women worldwide. Before the internet, women picked the best man within their area or inner circle in terms of who they interact with directly. But now it doesn't matter if she lives in Hollywood or Miami where a bunch of objectively good looking people gravitates towards or if she's from a trailer park in a small town... both women generally want the same thing.
So any man who got it all is basically living in an All You Can Eat buffet. Why settle down when you can try a bit of everything? And it doesn't help that a lot of women never consider the probability of getting a guy that has everything lol. If it's possible then they will go for it, but that kind of guy is playing the field.
The main issues with single events is women go there thinking they get to pick the one they want, and men go there hoping to get picked. You know it, I know it, they know it, everyone knows it.
This is a far more salient comment than most people realize.
You know whole six-six-six thing sucks and all, but there's plenty of truth there: Fine, you're not six feet tall, but are you muscular? Fine, you don't make six figures, but are you building your career? Do you make high five figures?
You don't have a six pack, but are you strong? Fit at all? Educated? Socially competent?
Men aren't making themselves worth so much that they feel they _can_ pick. They're hoping they _get picked,_ and that some 10/10 bombshell "sees the real him."
There's probably a lot of reasons to not go to these events, but "women are all trash" isn't it.
@@SelrisitaiPersonally I don't go to these events because :
1 I'm a fat loser
2 they seem awkward AF
3 I don't want to pay money to enter an event I don't see a lot of value going to
I know I'm getting rejected so why in the world would I go? Instead I should work on point 1 and point 3 instead of blaming other people for my problems lmao Ive been going to the gym for like a month and feels good 👍🏻 people can objectively understand why they get rejected but personally i feel they should try to fix their problems instead of pointing the finger at someone else for some byproduct of their personal shitty lifestyle.
@@SelrisitaiI don’t even think that’s it. You’re right that men aren’t making themselves “worth”, but that’s because we’re all post-women’s lib, post-heteronormativity and men don’t need a woman to affirm themselves as men, just like women don’t need men to affirm the seas women anymore. These are old benchmarks. Nobody actually lives like this anymore but dating hasn’t caught up.
I don’t go to shit like this because it’s lame and awkward and I don’t care if I “get picked” or not. In fact i’d rather not get picked because if I do it means i’m now enrolled in a bunch of patriarchal bullshit that’s going to suck me dry and not in the cool way.
@@Selrisitai Crazy that men have to make up for not having one of the 6 6 6 when the requirement for women to not be alone is just “Be a woman”. But right, it’s all men’s fault. Because why? We’re not all perfect like women are?
@@zeodark2761The real issue is that morality is gone. Dating and relationship goals for men and women have become self centered. It’s all about what you can get from the other person it’s not about what you can give, building or needing. It’s all about wanting. Just what you want. It seems like men and women used to feel like they needed each other and would get together because of that need at the expense of their wants. And now men and women want each other at the expense of their needs. It’s completely inverted and now everyone is sad. The way to fix it is to stop living a self centered life, but that only comes from morality which only comes from religion. A lot of people don’t want to hear it but it’s true.
Part of the problem is that women show zero interest in things men enjoy but expect men to fawn over them and show feigned interest in whatever they’re interested in. Asmond’s dad speaks the truth.
truth, just is what it is sadly
That’s kinda just the nature of men and women. Men are interested in things which women often don’t care about. Women are interested in people, so they expect you to be interested in them. If you find a woman who shares even half of your interests and you have fun together be thankful and accept that they’re not gonna like all the same things as you
What are women interested in? Money, bags, shopping? They have no interests that is not material, or simply gossip.
have you heard of UndeadChronicXiv he talks about this stuff but he is considered very controversial
let's be honest, are women even worth all the effort, time and money?
Men don't attend singles events because:
- A highly attractive guy can get netflix and chill way easier on dating apps.
- For an average guy such an event is yet another opportunity to be rejected, so he doesn't even bother.
In both cases, the juice is not worth the squeeze.
Hypergamy can be a b*tch.
I looked into these years ago and I discovered the discrimination against men. We get charged at least double the price women have to pay. I'll always refuse to do that
The problem with singles events is that the people who attend them are looking for the people who don't need them.
that's such a baseless assumption, man. These women take risks to meet people IRL, they're probably approachable and don't mind talking to "imperfect" men.
😂😂😂@@markerickson6320
@@markerickson6320 Hopefully. Hopefully.
Bro what lmao
@@markerickson6320 Yea, they've tried to get someone through other ways ignoring those "imperfect" men in the first place. But when it didn't work out and those Tinder top 10% guys somehow won't marry them, they turned back to "imperfect" men and found out that they don't want to date them now...
Pikachu face.
Average women don't want average men when they are in their 20s. But when they are in their 30s/40s/50s - that kinda switches. And for some reasons women are shocked.
Because when they were in their 20s they also were into those 35 year old men, with career/house/investments in place.
“No attractive men found”
No attractive women found either
Edit: Thnx for 1k. Glad to see y'all got a laugh out of this
Guys under 6 feet. Guys with low paying jobs.
If you are either or both you could have charisma.
With charisma you dont need a singles event.
@@thijsjongthe women that complain about singles events aren’t worth stressing over
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No no, you don't get it, they're are brave for saying that, you're an incel for saying that XD
And the women saying this cannot even begin to get their weight down.
They can easily find a guy, just not the one they want lol
A very good friend of mine who is very kind, carries on conversations and makes women feel comfortable around him especially at parties... he is now happily married to an incredible woman who is arguably the all in one package. He was just chatting with a girl about 30 mins before i came to this party we were invited to and hes being kind but this woman took it as firting and really got all up on him as he shows her by flashing his married ring... she bailed so fast and basically treated him like he never existed just like that... they turn on a dime that quick.
"No attractive men found" literally explains it when you look at the fact those two have 350lbs between them but expect Brad Pitt
Womens obsession with height is going to hit a boiling point lol
Selective breeding will eventually lead to the males looking like a dandy-long-legs
You're tall in Asia, and there is a billion women there.
@@Lukeormore than that even. More than 50% of people on earth live in East Asia + India
@@Lukeor the problem is that I'm not in Asia
that's a very 5'5 attitude. i have met so many dudes who are so hung up on their own height that it literally reeks like body odour, and i have to try and listen to them whine about it, but i am too tall to hear them clearly.
Women who want a 6 packs, 6 figures, 6 inches and 6 foots male
are very surprised to hear about his 6 girlfriends.
Woman, here! I’ve only been asked out three times. The first, I wasn’t interested. The second, I was, but it didn’t work out due to the conflict between our energy levels (not his fault, definitely mine). Third time, I was interested. Went out twice. The first time I was unaware it was a date. The second time, I was aware, and the guy was super creepy. I didn’t know how to say no to him when he kept pushing for me to stay after I was visibly uncomfortable. That was, again, on me. I should have been more assertive.
Still, I kind of hate that the dating scene is like this, now, because it makes it so difficult to find any interested parties, in public.
I haven’t tried dating apps, because I don’t want to get laid. I just want a relationship.
I’m not saying this as a ‘pick me’, but as a way of sharing my perspective. I agree with this video, wholeheartedly.
(Edit: Hey guys! I’m adding this because apparently I’ve attracted people who have had dating problems with women, in particular. I’m here to remind you that if you have had those problems, while you have my sincerest condolences, I am not the one who wronged you. Niether has every single woman in the world.
Also, I guess I have to clarify some things that I feel were relatively obvious, but I can see, now can be taken out of context in this post.
1: When I said “energy levels”, I was referring specifically to the energy that people expend when they do physical activities. Not some sort of spiritual thing. I’m not into astrology or crystals or anything like that.
2: I am not saying, nor have I ever insinuated that my experiences are worse than those of men. I’m certain that many men have had worse experiences. (I don’t know why this was something that people assumed. I rationally believed that people would extrapolate from this post that I believe that many men have far worse experiences in the dating scene than many women. Alas, the internet is not rational, and common sense is not so common.)
3: Some people are assuming things about my character, and me, in general. Remember that assuming makes an ass out of you and me, and be sure to actually do the elusive ritual we earthlings call ‘communication’ before placing any judgements!
4: I invite people to share their experiences as I have, mine! However, hostility does not progress any conversation, and is not useful or effective in allowing others to understand your point of view. As such, any *constructive* criticism will be met with my thanks. Meanwhile, unconstructive feedback - especially those comments that make any of the dreaded assumptions I have warned about earlier - will be met by either me ignoring it, or further elaboration on what was incorrectly assumed.
Thank you)
"I've **only** been asked out three times." 😂
That's all I needed to here, living life on recruit difficulty
Nothing after that was wrong or bad, sometimes things just don't work out or the guy is awful, but your use of the word "only" shows the glaring gap between genders, and I just can't help but laugh.
@@vulblhotdiessfi You realize two of those 3 times were in high school, right? The third one was the creep.
Additionally, you have no idea about my life other than what I’ve spoken about, here. So, I guess I’ll help elaborate for you, because just assuming makes an ass out of you and me.
I have been told, to my face, that I am ‘Jailbait’. By a person from a group that claims to be supportive of everyone, at a convention. So, yes, I apparently have chronic baby face, which doesn’t help with anything.
I have trouble speaking with people I don’t know, and additional trouble picking up certain cues (specifically, as in the case with creepy dude, those concerning dates).
I went to a university that is known for being nerdy. Despite being surrounded by people who may have shared common interests (specifically in video game design or animation courses), I had just as much trouble finding people to hang with as everyone else who was introverted and pushing themselves to communicate with others.
Everyone has their own issues with the dating scene, especially today. Telling me I’m living on recruit difficulty when I have literally only told you about the three times I was approached (and again, 2 of which when I was a child), is kinda weird.
Well keep waiting around then, maybe get some cats and some ficus plants. They'll keep you company in old age. Or, I don't know...ask a guy out? If you have something to offer in a relationship, he'll say yes.
Must be nice getting asked out. Guys literally never get asked out but hey... traditional gender roles are bad amirite?
Also, being an experienced guy, any woman who mentions "energy" is an immediate hard pass.
True, the dating scene is so messed up right now. As a guy, I feel I run the risk of not only rejection(which doesn't bother me anymore), but also getting caught up in some stupid social media clout chasing attempt😅.
Only winning move is to not play the game.
The world is big, no need to play in usa, fantastic women in Brazil and Asian countries...
I fond when I stopped putting effort in, and just did not care anymore was when women fond me interesting. It's odd how they want the guys that pull themselves out of the game, and treat the guys that are trying like crap.
@@krellindogs still bark in Brazil and Asia be careful
Go to other places where women are still humble and grateful. If you want serious relationship and marriage.
The only winning move was to patch the game when that was still possible.
But all of you guys were too busy chain-drinking soy lattes.
I think both men and women that go to these events are mostly average, but average women think they can get young brad pitt. They can't.
Problem is these days tall and fit dudes are commonly seen walking around with a Goodyear blimp for a wife/GF/Baby momma. They help mess up the game.
@@zyrtor1 crazier part is the bad built "wife"/gf/baby mama is the one to cheat on the fit and muscular male partner.
@@zyrtor1 never seen that personally, good looking guys with a gf I've seen are all with fit girls
I don't think you know anything about women.
You can't both say women are passing you up, and not ever interact with women ever.
@@Knights_of_the_Nine you'll definitely know when they want nothing to do with you though. Body language plus whats going on in society where only handsome and tall dudes are given a chance. So why put yourself in a fix and "interact" with women at all?
I am 6'2, in good shape and make well into 6 figures. I got married to a reasonable, kind and beautiful woman when I was 28. That is were those "triple 6" guys went. Good girls got us early. Those "good guys", that wound up with women that treated them bad are now no longer looking. Congrats ladies, the culture played you and your just now figuring it out.
When Asmon said "89 degrees are you f****** kidding me?"
I felt that.
In a situation of his own creation. I'm sure he's like my cheap relatives who are like, ok it's 110f outside and 90f inside, let's put the AC on for 1h.
I m 44, i tried a single event once in the past years. It was a therapy session for single mother. Never again.
Lol oh no!
They're all like a million years old.
Single mothers still have many more options than the average man.
Oh I can see it now. Probably just venting about a baby daddy or some shit
And you had to pay for that?
the girl at 9:00 rubbing her face god knows for how long, getting off 10 layers of make up with fake lashes and complaining about no 6'0 guy is so gold
War paint
Even if there was a 6’8” guy, he didn’t make $700,000 per month. Or his eyes weren’t the right color.
it's a loop
@@BrianGivensYtube Or the wrong zodiac
Her face should be bright red out of embarrassment, not removing her make up.
2:23 'you smell like an old chair' 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 done me
A man just wants to date a woman with whom he can have normal conversations. Women who are obsessed with showing their strength and women who constantly challenge us to debate our values are just exhausting.
translation: chads aren't showing up
we all know if the average man appears he'll just be invisible there.
bro, go outside.
@@HackersSun both genders have too high of an expectation going into these events. it just sucks when a person gets ridiculed for things outside of their control, like the girl in this very video making fun of short people while she's removing ounces of make up from her forehead.
@@HackersSunWe do. We're just invisible evem from men lmfao
@@HackersSunno u
Im sorry but we need to accept the fact that most singles events arent for dating they are for certain types of women to still feel like they have options
All women still have more options than average men sooo...
Good call, mate.
A singles even is another name for speed dating, the non virtual equivalent of online dating, where in both cases you are observing the person in a zoo and have no idea how they behave in the wild.
15:30 That's the thing about passport bros, they may still be losing but they're winning more often with that than they are here.
I like how these women act like they "deserve" anything...
Cause simps keep fuelling the delusion
@@IOverlordfacts!
The under-evolved ♀ brain.
*Solipsism*
Because they're on Chad's roster of ~20 women. Each one getting 1 date every couple weeks, and because of that they think they deserve a Chad all to themselves when they're not even competitive as a side piece yet. 🤣
We need David Attenborough to observe them and help us understand.
As a pretty tall guy (6'7") when i was still single and dating i would actively avoid women who only wanted a guy if he was tall.
Same
Same here dude 😂 I'm 6ft 2 and any girl who says that shit is instantly less attractive to me
Yeah, because if something happens to you and you're no longer in peak physical condition, you know like aging, she's going to be looking for an upgrade.
Everyone wants to find someone that cares about who we are, not what we look like, how much we earn.
I just hit 40 and a few years sobriety, 6ft 2 , suddenly heaps of women giving me a lot of attention.
Didn’t even know singles events was a thing. Looks like a hellscape.
Omg the magic the gathering Friday night draft singles event joke had me screaming out laughing 😃
I worked in a large medical campus, a woman who was 4’10’’(not exaggerating) and 4’10’’ wide too (exaggerating a little) who worked the lowest tier job and still lived at home tried for a year to get my number. Because i was tall athletic and had a good job. She could not comprehend for a year why I wasn’t interested. She even had her friends approach me to ask. I expressed to them and her several times that she’s not what I’d be interested in. Each time my responses would become meaner. My last day there her friend asked me again and I told her… what would I benefit from this she would be an anchor on my life. Her friend started laughing. About a month later an old coworker said she was still asking for my number from people around the building.
No joke, I work in a hospital system and we had a 5'7 250+lb food service worker, probably barely made it out of High School, they just walk around and take patient's orders, it's easier than fast food work. Well this gal was fawning over a young doctor for weeks, always talking about him to the nurses like she had a chance. They should have shut her down but they didn't. She kept asking about him over and over and tried to get his number, and when she was rejected she got mad about it and became mean. She really thought she was going to be chosen by this doctor who could probably also have been a fashion model. This type of thing exemplifies how much this Country's culture has degraded, especially the family and upbringing, and the delusion of a majority of females in our society. I personally don't believe this will be repaired in my lifetime.
Well the thing is if a man tried really hard to get a date from a woman, they can get in really big trouble
Had that kind of experience at a park one time. I was politely answering her questions and deflecting. She was persistent and chatty as well as kind so I felt bad being crass. If there is no attraction it just doesn't matter and sometimes physical conditions are really a turn off. It's pretty crazy the difference in looks women have from being fit to obese. One can be instantly attractive and other instant turn off. I'm no specimen myself but at least i'm pretty muscular.
"Still lived at home"
I don't see how that's a bad thing
@@jessnalulila5709 well when you’re over 30 I’d hope you’d have something to bring to the table. Anything. You know what she wouldn’t even laugh she would just say “I’m dead” 😑
"closest i ever got to a singles event was i used to draft magic the gathering on fridays" 😂
Sadly the last one i went to was just old dudes getting away from their wives.
@magicalmadness last one I was at had all ages and some women.
😂 it was D n D for me and we would get drunk and high until 4 am. And the only girl there was our GMs sister who was non binary 😂
FNM > singles events is the way
I bet it was a singles event.
Go to your local warhammer store! I feel attacked, but also 100% agree
Gave up on dating back in highschool. Looks like I dodged a nuke.
Men PAY to get there, women go there out of being bored and to mess around. Like what are we talking about here.
I've heard the same about dating sites.
"Women are shocked that they cant find a man" more like "Women came to the circus for a show but there were no clowns"
It's like going to the zoo and gawking at the animals to them
@@Toastergod44 exactly!
Dating just isn't worth it bro, get a hobby and peace of mind instead.
If a man goes to a "Singles event", he will be looked as a loser and he will just be used
You know from experience?
The only positive thing about it, is that we found the step above onlyfan simp in the loser category, 😂😂😂
Why would you put yourself into narcissistic women environment when you can be at home relaxing with a nice video game to play.
or labeled as a "toxic, abusive, misogynistic, insecure and foolish incel" whilst ostracized and marginalized
@@Zemlja_je_ravna because you might find a girl that can give you a better experience than any game, risk/reward
Tbh porn and social media has ruined some women's perception of men as well. Even some men have horrible perceptions about womem from both outlets. Never use them and you'll find a way to be social in the real world that's rewarding. People often talk too much on the internet, not knowing that it drains them mentally to the point of not even bothering to have a conversation with the people who live with you. We close off, thinking its helping by not burdening others with the troubles you contemplate during the day. It's not a burden and you aren't a burden. Build unbreakable relationships with those around you and you will always be in good hands. You're worth it.
Singles event with 99.99% chance of failing or lotto ticket with 99.99% chance of failure.
Women wants to go to singles event, sees guys going into singles event, and thinks "these guys must be losers who can't get women if they are going to a singles event, I don't want a loser". The very foundation of a singles event is a conundrum. Just like a person with very low self esteem wanting love, and then become disgusted at the guy/girl who would love a person like him/her.
I'm sure some women that go do end up in decent relationships. You're just hearing from the women who don't get picked, or the women who are expecting some guy making 200K+ a year to be totally interested in them
@@michaelangst6078 yeah probably. Not everyone have 0.1% of population standards.
100% lmao 😂 amazing
Well most of the guys who go are losers who can't get women right? They're not in her consideration to begin with but what she is wondering is why no guys that she might like are going. Think about it logically, if she is pretty and sociable, and goes to this event, why would it be weird to think a guy that is handsome and sociable would also go to the event? They could be a good place to meet people, but those people still need to be in each others league. A lot of us would like to meet guys in a more quieter, nicer way than a nightclub or a dating app, but it doesn't mean that we want to date ugly guys.
They go there to find the good guy, not too ugly or short. decent wallet. Settle is the word.
This is so funny.
I live in Germany and went to a pub recently. I did not know there was a blind dating event there that night . 20-30 women showed up for the event and not a single man came in for the event that night.
Things have definitely changed. Girls constantly posting their Ls and bad behavior on social media hasn't helped them meet Mr. Betabucks at all.
have you heard of UndeadChronicXiv he talks about this stuff but he is considered very controversial
Vielleicht lohnt sich so ein Event ja. Aber würde eh nur hingehen und mit der Sonnenbrille in der Ecke chillen um zu schauen ob mich wer approached 😂.
Ich zahle doch nicht mehr als die Frauen, wie sehe ich den aus 😂?
For Real? 😂
@@iirgendsonTyp Hatte ich auch schon erlebt ist aber ne ganze weile her, Kollege hatte mir nen pub empfohlen dachte ach gut Samstag abend gehste einfach mal hin was trinken. Wusste auch nicht das es nen Single event war hatte mich nur mit dem Barkeeper unterhalten und es waren vielleicht 4 Männer da 2 davon am Tresen mit mir einfach spaß am haben mit dem Barkeeper am reden und voll mit Frauen aber keiner hat sich unterhalten. Die 2 Typen die da standen unter den singles hatte niemand auch nur ansatzweise beachtet.
"The closest i got to a Single Event was a Magic Draft" broke me 😂
Why would I go to a singles event when my tinder account is basically a waiting list?
Maybe women should just accept the greater glory of Rome
Islam has a few things right.
@@denkerbosu3551 - Sometimes there are scary truths that are not to our liking LOL
@@denkerbosu3551if you live in the middle ages, yes
@@vencagek we'll return to the "middle ages", like it or not.
Modernity simply fucked up in too many ways to resist it.
@@denkerbosu3551 Only a few, but they also need to learn to put on deodorant when going to the grocery store. Shits annoying when trying to get groceries and you smell BO.
Dude I barely know where I'm going in life, I could really care less about dating anyone.
The internet has allowed people to reach a minimum level of human interaction without needing to go out and do things every day they aren't working. There's an alternative to starting a family now, for better and worse.
"I could really care less"
So you do care.
I know, right? It takes 5 seconds to figure that out. They all actually care, it's very funny. @@Okurka.
True
you woke up today and chose to speak facts!
The problem with singles events is that even if there are 90 women and only 10 men, the women will only be interested in the top 1 or 2 men, and will treat the other 8-9 men disrespectfully.
I went to a "single's" night event on a cruise once and nobody talked to me. Ah well...
I'd rather build gundams tbh.
Hell yeah, brother!
Gundam Fundam
have you heard of UndeadChronicXiv he talks about this stuff but he is considered very controversial
It's a Gundam!
Guitars are sexy, fun and soul nourishing! 🤘🏻
Imagine being the only guy attending the singles event and getting rejected by absolutely everyone 😂💀
Just act like you have no wealth and no job.
@@Zemlja_je_ravna it only works if youre incredibly attractive tho
You could probably do better than all of them anyway.
Lol at that point you just have to accept that you'll be single for life
He's 5'11" and makes 99k a year. Not good enough. Sorry fella, you can't land a 6 that thinks she's a princess.
my last few dates i have went on didnt have a second date. each date seemed like we hit it off, no awkwardness, dates ends, and each one says, "thanks for the date! but _______". a lot of them being that the fact im 5'8 was a deal breaker. like what? i cant really change that unless i get multi-$10000 surgerys and that aint worth it. it just seems like now-a-days, height is more important than being in shape. its crazy.
For extra comedy, I remember some little towns in Japan and Korea where the local government were setting up single events in an attempt to keep their towns from dying.
Someone said “Women choose the bear because they can’t choose a man” and I can’t stop thinking about it 😂
More like men aren't choosing them
Lmao, perfect response to the bear question.
@@LukeJohnson-tw5bo Keep coping. At the end of the day dating is still a woman's playground, redpiller. if no women ever wanted you then you didn't go your own way, you were sent your own way.
Fleas need dogs.
Dogs don't need fleas.
That is cold.
@@stevans6942 Lampreys drink the blood of their victims to survive and are also considered parasites... Cold blooded or is it just the Natural order of Nature?
sadly thats how both genders see eachother
Cooking
@@midragga Ironically something women can't do anymore.
02:28 - "Your favorite thing is talk about is weapons from middle ages" OH FUCK HAHAHAHAHAHA
Not focusing on any Woman is probably the best thing that can happen to any Man. After the beginning of 2023 (20 years old), I stopped wasting my time and energy on those who'll either friendzone you or, straight up treat you like a complete stranger after a month of getting to know each other. That alone led me to endless self-gaslighting and blaming for just the tiniest flaws that wouldn't affect my future at all. And no, I've never touched a single dating app in my life. That stuff sounds like hell for those who are very naive about the true nature of dating apps. Do yourself a favor and focus on self-goals related to self-improvement. If girls come to you, there is a 95% chance they want you to play their games. If you feel like they are pulling away, you definitely want to re-establish boundaries and leave them be. Keep your boundaries set after for some reason they try to reel you back in after pulling away.
Women: don't judge us on looks
Also women: ew 5"10
Women: we want a rich man who will take care of me
Also Women: doesn't cook clean or work
Women: we want to have it all
Also women: wdym I have to work and be a single mom
Women: we want a 10/10man
Also women: I'm a 2 at best but I still deserve the world while offering nothing in return
Women: why don't men want to approach us anymore?
Also women: you glanced in my direction time to ruin your life
Women: wants traditional man
Also women: refuses to be even a little traditional herself
Women: want equality
Also women: ill take everything you own in court cuz im a women
The risk is no longer worth it. You want a high value man? Then you better offer somthing in return. You can't expect the perfect partner to fall out of the sky no, better yourself into the person you want to date and chances are you'll find someone.
A fun question to ask a feminist:
Currently men are receiving harsher sentences than women, for the same crimes. Which of the following three do you support:
- reducing sentences of men, so that it's even
- increasing sentences of women, so that it's even
- not changing anything and keeping it uneven
@@lightworker2956 You know what they'll pick.
The mask has slipped. Even if they say they're fighting for "equality", their actions betray them. Feminism is solely about achieving power, but they want it handed to them.
True not worth it. Risk is too great, only option is to prepare your passport and fish in a better sea.
You're judging 50% of the population by the worst behaviour that gets pushed to the front of social media. I could make a list like this about guys too and it would be completely unrealistic bc most guys aren't actually like that.
Your world view is myopic and you need to get outside and actually meet some real people rather than hiding scared behind your computer screens and comforting yourself that the reason why you're alone is because of this bogus laundry list. No, the reason you're alone is because this is the way you think all women are.
@@dannii_Lbut most women are like this
I respect women so much I completely stay away from them
smart
"40 Year Old Virgin" movie quote if I remember right? 😂
@@newsing33 my movie counterpart
And that is why bros b4 …. Was invented.
@@donlee.4308 ?
These events are like trying to find matching socks in the bin where you throw the singletons you find in the washing machine
I've found that pretty much every relationship I've ever been in, I was never seeking the relationship out in the first place. I was just living my life the way I wanted to, improving myself as best I could each day, eventually people just noticed the fruits of my labor.
If you are not happy and content by yourself, that will NOT change when you are with someone else. Develop yourself, and eventually... Nobody will be able to ignore how confidently you carry yourself.