Psychosis, Broken Sacrum, and What's Next? | Car Diaries Pt 2

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  • @jennyandtony
    @jennyandtony  Před 15 dny +23

    Thank you for being here! We both appreciate the love and support you’ve shown. ❤️

  • @wheelchere
    @wheelchere Před 12 dny +10

    Jenny I went through this two years ago, they did a surgery on me to pull skin over the bone and close the wound, its called a FLAP surgery. If you can research it and find a doctor that will do it, it could save his life. My pressure sore didnt present on the outside either. I was SO septic and kind of having cognitive issues as well. I have completely healed now but it was a long journey to heal.

  • @NickY-uc9fq
    @NickY-uc9fq Před 13 dny +13

    Having muscular dystrophy too, I can relate to what Tony's going through. In 2013 I fell and fractured my pelvis. It was the worst pain. It took 2 and half months in rehab to heal but I still have bouts of pain sitting in my power chair - until just recently. My PT suggested I get fitted for a custom molded wheelchair cushion. I've had it a few months now and I can make it through the day now with minimal if any pain. Maybe you can discuss this option with his health care team. It could be a game changer for him. Give Tony my best regards (we have texted and traded war stories before so he might remember me). Nick...

    • @susanlynn6545
      @susanlynn6545 Před 7 dny

      Where can you get a custom molded wheelchair cushion ?

    • @NickY-uc9fq
      @NickY-uc9fq Před 6 dny

      @@susanlynn6545 your doctor can write you a script and NuMotion was the company that sent a team out to my home to make the mold which they use to make the custom cushion. It takes all the pressure off your dit bones and redistributes it onto the front bottom of your legs and lower back side.

  • @Sassafrassin-kp
    @Sassafrassin-kp Před dnem +1

    Long term care/rehab of some sort where Tony can get well enough to then graduate to less medical intervention sounds like a good plan. It will give you both room to get to a better place - you to concentrate on yourself, the kids and work and Tony to concentrate on getting better with all the necessary medcal support. I sincerely wish you and your family the best.

  • @winters260
    @winters260 Před 15 dny +15

    Thank you for the update, Jenny. We continue to pray for your family. Hugs to you and Tony. 🙏🏻

  • @ljhoneywell
    @ljhoneywell Před 15 dny +11

    Thank you Tony, after all you have been through, you put Jenny's well being first. To advise her to keep documenting in order to help her through this is a great idea!
    Jenny, it sounds like you have a very good medical support system now. Please continue to keep updating. Praying daily!🙏

    • @jennyandtony
      @jennyandtony  Před 15 dny +2

      @@ljhoneywell thank you so much!! ❤️

  • @rebeccam1027
    @rebeccam1027 Před 12 dny +8

    I don’t know about your state, but one option is palliative care. That might be what your SW means by hospice. In our state it means helping him not be in pain as other services are used. He can “graduate” from palliative care also. It doesn’t have to lead to hospice (in my state’s terms). 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻for you all!

  • @wjcorrinne4052
    @wjcorrinne4052 Před 15 dny +8

    Years ago before my diagnosis in May 2014, I came to decision. That at the end of each day I would tell myself that I did my best. I had to train my brain to acknowledge this and not compare it with the previous day or other days that I might have been more productive. Having done this I’m better able to relax in the evening and get a better night’s sleep and feel refreshed in the morning. Prior to this epiphany of sorts, I would be very critical of myself for not achieving some chore or work that I needed to do but didn’t. I tend to accept people the same way now and not think negatively about them because I don’t know what their day was like before we’d interacted on some level and I try not to compare my day with theirs. It’s helped me a lot because it seems that there’s always more things that need to be done and no one’s able to do it all. So I’m glad to learn you’re giving yourself and Tony respites.

    • @loridamico3368
      @loridamico3368 Před 14 dny +1

      Your comment is so insightful and full of grace and love toward yourself and others around you! It's a great reminder to all of us when the challenges of life seem overwhelming . I hope you are doing well!🙏❤

  • @jeanieturner5183
    @jeanieturner5183 Před 13 dny +5

    Hospice is wonderful. We had it for my Mom and it was a blessing. My mom was paralyzed with a stroke and they got everything we needed. What a blessing it was.my sister and I took care of mom for 2 1/2 years. You have to do what is best for all of you.

  • @rogerokelley
    @rogerokelley Před 12 dny +8

    🚩How can I get your information. I will buy him a new wheelchair cushion and send it packaged and unopened Size? Brand? Model #? Insurance is so picky😡. Subscribed

    • @rogerokelley
      @rogerokelley Před 11 dny +1

      How can I get your information please ?

  • @snrch1007
    @snrch1007 Před 15 dny +6

    I pray for you and Tony often. Thank you for taking some time to keep us updated. I am so glad to hear a plan is being put in place for where to go from here.

  • @martinemikita9281
    @martinemikita9281 Před 11 dny +3

    I'm 14 weeks post sepsis,I was put on life support... When I was finally taken off life support, I experienced ICU/life support delirium and it was the scariest experience of my life!!! It lasted 5 days for me... the meds they give to keep u unconscious on life support are INSANE!!
    I am little... 5 feet tall... I was placed in a crib bc of how aggressive I was. When u have this psychosis ur completely unaware yet somewhat aware... everything that u remember experiencing is an absolute FACT in ur mind. I don't know how to explain it. Its not fun tho... I know that.

  • @marciamartin5559
    @marciamartin5559 Před 15 dny +5

    I know how difficult it is to care for your spouse. It’s physically, mentally and emotionally exhausting. Everyone says take care of your self, but how can you do that. Give yourself lots and lots of grace. Prayers for all of the family. Hospice is wonderful, my husband was on hospice for 1 1/2 , they can come help do some of his daily need, which in turn helps you, plus they provide for all his needs

    • @jennyandtony
      @jennyandtony  Před 15 dny +3

      @@marciamartin5559 thank you! That is so true. ❤️❤️

  • @laurab7379
    @laurab7379 Před 15 dny +5

    It sounds like the best decision for Tony at this time, you do need rest to even thnk well. I know I was a caregiver for my Dad for 10 years with ALZ and no help! I wish you both the very best and hope he can get to the facility soon, I think he will feel much better being out of a traditional hospital. It is hard to recover in the hospital with all the noises and interuptions rest is even hard. I am so glad you had a chance to speak with the professionals. Praying for you and your family! God Bless!

  • @donnaatkins723
    @donnaatkins723 Před 14 dny +5

    You look so much more relaxed now!! ❤ You both are so strong!! 🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @letitbee7248
    @letitbee7248 Před 15 dny +5

    Thank you for this update. You look so much more calm and relaxed. So happy to hear that you and Tony and his medical team had the long term care discussion before he had to go back into the hospital and decisions were made for everyone's benefit. I'm sure having a plan going forward has been a tremendous burden lifted. You and Tony and family continue to be in my prayers.

    • @jennyandtony
      @jennyandtony  Před 15 dny +3

      @@letitbee7248 yes, it has helped so much to have a plan! Thank you for your prayers! ❤️

  • @morgancalvi6675
    @morgancalvi6675 Před 15 dny +13

    People PLEASE don't just recommend things without knowing what issues may be hurt even more.

  • @elizabethtallman3280
    @elizabethtallman3280 Před 14 dny +4

    My daughter has a spinal cord injury and gets botox injections in her bladder because when her bladder spasms she gets autonomic disreflexia which causes her blood pressure to soar and heart to race and her vitals to go crazy. Also any pain below her injury can cause it to happen. Might help to look into that. Keep praying!

  • @psychedforlife7176
    @psychedforlife7176 Před 8 dny +1

    Hospice isn't giving up. Sometimes people end up graduating from it back to lower level care. It really helps meet complex care needs. Whatever you both choose I pray it meets both of your needs and helps him have a good quality of life with you and the kids. ❤
    Im a caregiver. All of my clients are on medicaid and have lost their previous physical abilities, careers, social life and time with family. The grief is real. Maybe you could attend a support group meeting on grief and Tony could get a grief informed counselor to help him through these significant life changes.

  • @jennit9479
    @jennit9479 Před 8 dny +1

    Sending love and prayers!

  • @simplyfreedom171
    @simplyfreedom171 Před 12 dny +2

    Look into Primal Trust...helps the nervous system regulation. He may be in a flight or flight state where its hard to heal. People have healed from hospice beds and from very serious conditions! Wishing your family well!

  • @denisejackson4819
    @denisejackson4819 Před 11 dny +3

    Something to consider is heavy metal toxins. Conventional doctors are very reluctant to address because of liabilities. A simple hair test that you can order w/o a prescription will tell a lot about our minerals. Toxins are responsible for sooo much illness. Autoimmune… Could your husband have been in exposed to something toxic? It certainly could cause a body to go haywire. Chelation or available. Doctors can do much for it because of the liability factor. Millions are affected, (Autism) but we’re doing DIY healing… pm if you’d like more info… 💜 PS Amalgams?

  • @ginnyplihcik16
    @ginnyplihcik16 Před 13 dny

    Thank you for your update! Praying for both of you! ❤️

  • @lisaavery7353
    @lisaavery7353 Před 10 dny +1

    I am going to binge watch for you! Hng in there! Praying from . I found your channel from your first car update!

  • @amyh1045
    @amyh1045 Před 11 dny +1

    Thank you for the update. Many prayers for you and Tony.

  • @sonjabryant2567
    @sonjabryant2567 Před 14 dny

    Thank you so much Jenny for keeping us updated on Tony so nice of you to

  • @deannabrock5951
    @deannabrock5951 Před 15 dny +1

    Prayers for you and your family 🙏

  • @ItsCynthiaMisagreeable
    @ItsCynthiaMisagreeable Před 15 dny +4

    You look so beautiful today and not so stressed hope you’re taking time for you we need you as well rested as possible because we surely missed you guys ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

    • @jennyandtony
      @jennyandtony  Před 15 dny

      @@ItsCynthiaMisagreeable thank you so much! We appreciate you! ❤️❤️

  • @Angie.Li.
    @Angie.Li. Před 14 dny +1

    Jenny if nothing else consider this a personal journey for yourself and Tony as well as the kids to see the changes and how you have grown together as well as apart. Mentally as well as physically and emotionally.

  • @mariaserra8402
    @mariaserra8402 Před 15 dny +2

    Many prayers for you Tony and your family May God bless

  • @jennsnow9704
    @jennsnow9704 Před 15 dny +1

    Prayers, positive energy, hugs for you all!❤

  • @22RosesGrow
    @22RosesGrow Před 14 dny

    Praying for you, your whole family, all of you.

  • @cathy2142
    @cathy2142 Před 15 dny +3

    Sounds like your team has been so helpful with new plans❤. Im so thankful you are feeling more settled❤

  • @katies5658
    @katies5658 Před 13 dny

    Hi Jenny! Love the car updates and keep them coming! ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @angiekerr3154
    @angiekerr3154 Před 13 dny

    I’ve been binge watching Cleaning therapy. I love your motivation and can use the help getting my butt in gear!😂❤ continued prayers!!❤❤

  • @Rosa-kf6yy
    @Rosa-kf6yy Před 6 dny

    Just tuning in while painting a room. I'll do some watching. I'm sorry you are dealing with this. I deal with some really hard life situations also. When you said (paraphrase), "It is what it is and you have to find the silver lining and just do the best you can" made me feel uplifted, so thank you for that. 🙂

  • @leahhart2777
    @leahhart2777 Před 13 dny

    Thinking of you, Tony and your family. Hopefully you can both get the much needed respite soon.

  • @user-uo2mp8qv1b
    @user-uo2mp8qv1b Před 14 dny +1

    Thanks for sharing your journey. You just popped up in my feed today, but you seem like such a supportive and loving wife. My prayers to all of you as you make these tough decisions. You are right, hospice can easily be graduated from and may give you all the break you so need.

    • @jennyandtony
      @jennyandtony  Před 14 dny

      @@user-uo2mp8qv1b thank you very much for your kind words! I’m so glad to meet you. ❤️❤️

  • @Anne051357
    @Anne051357 Před 12 dny +1

    I’m new to your channel and the first I viewed was video prior to this one. I was praying for you and I’m very happy to see you much calmer. Having a plan in place that addresses the issues that both you and Tony face is a real game changer I’m sure. I will look to view older videos if that can help you out. Give it all to Jesus and he will help you maneuver and discern good paths moving forward. Continued prayers for you and your family. Anne

  • @wjcorrinne4052
    @wjcorrinne4052 Před 15 dny +2

    Missed your video from 8 days ago, I’ll have to go back and catch up on it. I had asked during one of the 30 minutes prior to the Monday Wellness Webinar, but hadn’t heard much of anything. On how both of you were doing? You seemed to be meeting life’s challenges head on and rising above all the turmoil and stress that goes with it. Glad to see your back but feel so bad that Tony is dealing with these health issues.wishing you both a speedy recovery.

  • @entronetcalitz6567
    @entronetcalitz6567 Před 14 dny +1

    Poor Tony. Seems like such a likeable person. Poor you too. Not easy. I will pray for you and your family❤

  • @Angie.Li.
    @Angie.Li. Před 14 dny

    I’m so glad to hear from Tony he’s still in good spirits we all have good and bad days people that have disabilities or don’t we just say our prayers and smile happy thoughts❤. Tony is strong and so are you

  • @cathy2142
    @cathy2142 Před 15 dny +2

    Praying over you and your family❤❤❤❤

  • @andybernal9690
    @andybernal9690 Před 13 dny

    Prayers and love from the Philippines ❤️

  • @Sassafrassin-kp
    @Sassafrassin-kp Před dnem

    I am glad that his absess surgery was successful.

  • @margarettheisen2170
    @margarettheisen2170 Před 15 dny +3

    You are one amazing woman 🙏🙏🙏

    • @jennyandtony
      @jennyandtony  Před 15 dny

      @@margarettheisen2170 thank you Margaret, you are so kind! ❤️

  • @kathysteffek879
    @kathysteffek879 Před 15 dny +1

    🙏❤ sending prayers for you and Tony and the kids.

    • @jennyandtony
      @jennyandtony  Před 15 dny

      @@kathysteffek879 thank you! ❤️❤️

  • @mistygekle2664
    @mistygekle2664 Před 9 dny +2

    I’m really sorry that your family is going through this. I know how devastating this is. Just a thought especially when you mentioned that he was sepsis…was he given fluoroquinolone antibiotics? I had this same experience 4 times, and was bedridden for a year. Unable to sit up on my own, unable to move my legs, and the pain was incredible. No one including the Cleveland Clinic could figure it out. This sounds very similar to my situation. Dr. Hugh Wegwerth, helped me…

  • @alisonvanschoor730
    @alisonvanschoor730 Před 3 dny

    God Bless you and your family.... such a hard, hard road ❤

  • @Sassafrassin-kp
    @Sassafrassin-kp Před dnem

    Wishing you all the best. Sorry had CZcams name changes - I am not new to your channel. I hope this process of talking to the camera is healing for you.

  • @janirav3454
    @janirav3454 Před 11 dny

    You are so beautiful! I am praying for you! ❤❤❤❤…and i will be watching all of your videos…

  • @tiredtreasurestore
    @tiredtreasurestore Před 15 dny +1

    My mom gets the same way in the ICU. It's scary and kinda funny at the same time. My mom has been chronically sick for almost 2 years. Going into the hospital almost every month.. sending prayers.

  • @marydoyle6254
    @marydoyle6254 Před 15 dny +1

    Love you both very much xxx ❤

    • @jennyandtony
      @jennyandtony  Před 15 dny +1

      @@marydoyle6254 we love you Mary! 🥰❤️

  • @andrealangston3075
    @andrealangston3075 Před 14 dny +1

    New subscriber!! 🙏🙏🙏

  • @kakylong2
    @kakylong2 Před 14 dny +1

    Jenny, Thank you for the update. I've been turning on your long Playlist at night & letting them run all night. My wkly report said that my YT viewing was up 8 hrs a day from last wk (so 60 hours watching your videos). Hope that helps y'all. 😊 How is Tony's family doing being so far from him? My sister goes to the chiropractor to get her sacrum put back in place. Ouch. I'm praying daily for y'all. Your NE IN friend. 😊

    • @jennyandtony
      @jennyandtony  Před 14 dny

      @@kakylong2 thank you so much for watching! It has helped so much. ❤️❤️

  • @patriciatimson1730
    @patriciatimson1730 Před 12 dny +1

    Is the psychosis “delirium”? 🥰

  • @nobletijuana5844
    @nobletijuana5844 Před 13 dny

    Im so sorry for all your going through! ❤ i went through a very rough time last year with my mom and they couldn’t figure out what was wrong.😢 at the end she had an infection in her blood and also went septic 😢 due to a wound she had she was in a nursing home due to all her medical issues. I’m sure they’ve done everything but have they checked if it’s lime disease? It sounds like his body is attacking itself. I truly hope they can find out what is going on! God bless you and Tony!!! As well as your home family ❤

  • @susanlynn6545
    @susanlynn6545 Před 7 dny

    Have him get a methylmalonic acid test and a homocystiene test, and copper test, and an "ACTIVE B 12" test...... it's important.
    And vitamin D levels test.

  • @terrypurvis2535
    @terrypurvis2535 Před 13 dny +1

    I did want to ask about Tony's mom. Just how she is doing? She lives so far away from Tony now.

  • @susanneschaefer2268
    @susanneschaefer2268 Před 15 dny +3

    I know I am a stranger, but I love you and Tony so much. I am so glad that you can find the silver lining in a bad situation. I am glad you are not giving up. Your plan for long term care and rehab sounds hopeful. My best wishes and prayers for healing for Tony so he can make the transition to that. Sorry for going on like this, I just feel such a connection. I am so glad that your mother is so supportive! ❤❤❤

    • @jennyandtony
      @jennyandtony  Před 15 dny +1

      @@susanneschaefer2268 thank you Susanne! We appreciate your love and support so much! We love you back! ❤️❤️❤️

    • @morgancalvi6675
      @morgancalvi6675 Před 15 dny +1

      @susanneschaefer2268...in the last video...I reminded her life wasn't going to give her more than she could handle.

    • @carlandrosefendrick4482
      @carlandrosefendrick4482 Před 14 dny +1

      Hello
      Praying for your family
      Tell Tony I said Hi❤

    • @mairamolina3931
      @mairamolina3931 Před 11 dny

      Praying for you guys🙏🏼

  • @wincharles1195
    @wincharles1195 Před 6 dny

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @christine1973
    @christine1973 Před 15 dny

    ❤❤

  • @susanparker4550
    @susanparker4550 Před 11 dny +2

    I'm sorry if i'm stating the obvious, but re Tony's delusions, you said they started after he took antibiotics? My disabled daughter had hallucinations after she was prescribed penicillin, we took her off them & the hallucinations stopped, she was given an alternative antibiotic & was fine. I know Tony's is a more complex case & you're very aware & involved in his welfare but sometimes simple things are overlooked
    Wishing you love & God Bless

  • @wendyheusel6046
    @wendyheusel6046 Před 14 dny

    Praying complete healing in Jesus name. Ask the elders at your church to come and pray over him

  • @nobletijuana5844
    @nobletijuana5844 Před 13 dny

    Can you yours recall any different that changed or happened before he started getting sick? Did he get bit by anything? Ticks, spiders? Maybe without you guys even realizing. A cut? Even if it’s a paper cut. I’m sorry for so many questions it’s just some times it could be the smallest thing to cause something so bad

  • @cheriwhile929
    @cheriwhile929 Před 15 dny

  • @CarolynLife
    @CarolynLife Před 12 dny

    ❤is there a way to make Tony’s job remotely

    • @vickiv354
      @vickiv354 Před 11 dny

      He was working remotely but is no longer able to work at all right now.

  • @morgancalvi6675
    @morgancalvi6675 Před 14 dny

    My comment didn't stick for some reason...knowing me, I hit 'cancel', instead of 'comment'. Anyway, I was just saying your channel was originally to help others...now it seems it may have taken a turn and you need it to be for therapeutic reasons. We're here for you. I think it was a fine idea for 'car diaries'...and if that was Tony's idea...he knows you need a way to release pent up feelings. Keep being strong Jenny...this somehow will all work out.

  • @micheleohmer4117
    @micheleohmer4117 Před 14 dny +1

    The Mediterranean diet is considered the best long term healthiest diet. A couple issues with the carnivore diet, it is taxing on the kidneys and also lacks fiber. If someone was relatively healthy, these fad diets wouldn't be such a concern but with Tony's medical issues, a less drastic diet is a safer option. When Tony was home, did he get regular PT or exercise? That would definitely be a good thing to do if and when he returns home. Keeping you all in prayer. God is the Great Physician 🙏

  • @susanlynn6545
    @susanlynn6545 Před 7 dny

    Jenny get a notebook or several pieces of paper, and watch this exact youtube video, all the way to the end, and take good notes.
    Make a list of all of the symptoms that Tony has, that's in the video. Almost zero doctors know the information in the video. It might be helpful information. The exact video is so important. It's called "DIAGNOSING AND TREATING VITAMIN B 12 DEFICIENCY. "
    I can almost guarantee they aren't treating the B 12 deficiency correctly, almost nobody does. 🙁
    The man wearing a yellow shirt is a doctor who had a long list of symptoms that were getting worse and worse, and nobody could figure out what it was,
    ❤ including psychosis ❤ and a long list of medical issues. His friend carried him and put him in the car and drove him to a DIFFERENT hospital where they finally diagnosed him correctly.
    Do NOT let them give him cyanocobalamin. For many people it makes things worse.
    Almost nobody treats this correctly. The guy in the video IS A DOCTOR, and he Almost died because he didn't figure out why he was having a long list of horrible symptoms that kept getting worse.
    (If it's not treated * the way that video tells you to*, its probably not going to get better. )
    It's explained in the video.
    It's dangerous to not treat it correctly. Also there's a book you can buy one copy for you and extra copies for anyone who is trying to fix him.
    BOOK IS BY ONE OF THE NURSES AND AN E.R. DOCTOR FROM THE VIDEO,
    BOOK TITLE - called "COULD IT BE B-12 ? AN EPIDEMIC OF MISDIAGNOSIS"
    It takes DAILY INJECTIONS of METHYLCOBALAMIN. plus other things to turn it around.
    It's explained in that book and video. You'll have to demand it, there's so many important things explained in that book and video. ❤❤❤
    if this is part of what's happening, it's really important to get him started asap with the correct treatment, aggressively.
    Just taking pill vitamins like a regular healthy person isn't enough.
    .and the tests they use is wrong, and the parameters they call normal is wrong etc.
    ((You need to be your own advocate and stand up for yourself once you find out, if this is part of what's going on. ))
    (( Pyschosis is part of the ,symptoms and a lot of these symptoms ARE REVERSIBLE if you hurry. ))
    Excellent helpful video. Blessings to you and Tony and kids.
    ❤ Maybe Have someone else watch that video too, so you can talk about it together. ❤
    SORRY this is so long. Having trouble breathing can be from anemia caused by the B 12 deficiency.
    They need to test the ACTIVE B 12 levels, because that's the only kind that helps. And many people absolutely cant convert cyanocobalamin into the usable form of B-12 called METHYLCOBALAMIN.
    Cyanocobalamin just clogs up the receptor sites, so methylcobalamin can't get in.

  • @JohnWilcox-gl4vj
    @JohnWilcox-gl4vj Před 15 dny +1

    Do you need a person with you and your husband and I hope he gets well real Sue. Thank you. Goodbye. John will 😊

  • @ytc257
    @ytc257 Před 6 dny

    Do you know Jesus is a messenger of God

  • @nettylhomme472
    @nettylhomme472 Před 14 dny +1

    Thanks so much for telling you have a brave husband and he has a brave wife you are both mend to be for one and other real soul maids sending to you and the whole family my love 🫶🌹

  • @Angie.Li.
    @Angie.Li. Před 14 dny

    Jenny if nothing else consider this a personal journey for yourself and Tony as well as the kids to see the changes and how you have grown together as well as apart. Mentally as well as physically and emotionally.

  • @mistygekle2664
    @mistygekle2664 Před 9 dny

    I’m really sorry that your family is going through this. I know how devastating this is. Just a thought especially when you mentioned that he was sepsis…was he given fluoroquinolone antibiotics? I had this same experience 4 times, and was bedridden for a year. Unable to sit up on my own, unable to move my legs, and the pain was incredible. No one including the Cleveland Clinic could figure it out. This sounds very similar to my situation. Dr. Hugh Wegwerth, helped me…