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  • čas přidán 13. 05. 2017
  • Hi, guys! This is a Mother's Day Tribute to my amazing mom who unfortunately I lost during my medical school training. It's a story about how she raised me, inspired me and made me the person I am today. Love you, Mom! Happy Mother's Day to all the amazing moms out there!
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  • @jacob1931
    @jacob1931 Před 5 lety +3241

    That was the saddest time I’ve heard you say chest compressions.

    • @davidapolonio1617
      @davidapolonio1617 Před 4 lety +63

      Kracken “we should stop doing chest compressions its doing more harm then good~”

    • @amshazow
      @amshazow Před 4 lety +50

      he only said it once too...
      damn, i feel really sad

    • @girlsiegirls253
      @girlsiegirls253 Před 4 lety +3

      David Apolonio what do you mean it saves lives how is it doing more harm then good yeah maybe it breaks ribs but it save lives not to sound pissed I’m not

    • @chrizid514
      @chrizid514 Před 4 lety +19

      @@girlsiegirls253 i think it was because they had probably been doing chest compressions for over 20 minutes which even if the patients pulse comes back can leave them brain dead since the brains been without oxygen for so long

    • @stulip5707
      @stulip5707 Před 4 lety

      "Lord thanks for time and time well spent" Lyrics Ben Everson

  • @jordansullivan5764
    @jordansullivan5764 Před 5 lety +13676

    My god, your mom sounds like an incredible woman. Brilliant and hardworking.

  • @garydomaz1849
    @garydomaz1849 Před 2 lety +982

    My face is getting hot and my eyes are swelling from hearing about how his dad was being irrational and wanted his beloved wife to live, despite the attempts to keep her alive were futile and hurting her. I can tell everything he does now is for his mom.

    • @MacKa-VLogs
      @MacKa-VLogs Před 2 lety +23

      I believe that he is as successful as he is today because of the strength of his dear mother

    • @StonedtotheBones13
      @StonedtotheBones13 Před měsícem

      Esp knowing his dad is a physician too.

  • @Just1HotPringles
    @Just1HotPringles Před 2 lety +2125

    His story bought tears to my eyes....No wonder he's genuinely humble....he's seen alot!

    • @valentina7997
      @valentina7997 Před 2 lety +8

      Wow

    • @perennialgypsy6491
      @perennialgypsy6491 Před rokem +8

      In a puddle of tears too😭

    • @Meme-dp9gn
      @Meme-dp9gn Před rokem +3

      What a beautiful tribute , to a wonderful beautiful mum , what stunning lady , and mum , she must have been so proud to have such a son and daughter btw . Your beautiful sister is so very like her ! But I’m sure you know that ,and your other gal Roxy wow a stunner ! And I think she came into your family’s life at the right time ! So we’ll done you ! No idea how you filmed that with out. Reading down, she must have be so proud of you and your sister thank you for sharing her story . Wishing you Heath and happiness to all your family ❤❤❤❤

  • @symatra
    @symatra Před 4 lety +4605

    Your face isn’t the only amazing thing about you. Your heart is even more beautiful.

    • @lvintagenerd
      @lvintagenerd Před 4 lety +36

      His brain**

    • @jenpai_senpai
      @jenpai_senpai Před 4 lety +51

      @@lvintagenerd ***Everything about him

    • @lvintagenerd
      @lvintagenerd Před 4 lety +4

      @@jenpai_senpai I guess...?

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      @loubna6142 Před 4 lety

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    • @fathimavp9929
      @fathimavp9929 Před 4 lety +1

      Yes indeed.

  • @hzyolo7
    @hzyolo7 Před 7 lety +12309

    This video has made me respect you even more.

    • @hzyolo7
      @hzyolo7 Před 7 lety +218

      Thank you Dr. Mike. You are my number 1 inspiration and after seeing this and knowing about you my decision to become a doctor is even stronger because of you. You inspire me in ways no one else does. Much love,
      Haz ❤

    • @richiemartinez8564
      @richiemartinez8564 Před 6 lety

      Haz 1

    • @saifhamdoon3395
      @saifhamdoon3395 Před 6 lety

      تطرب

    • @marylee4263
      @marylee4263 Před 6 lety +15

      Thank you for sharing your beautiful, bittersweet story. Amazing parents wonderful family. God bless you all.

    • @gorizirdo7
      @gorizirdo7 Před 6 lety +3

      Yeah seriously!😍

  • @4us1onOsu
    @4us1onOsu Před 2 lety +462

    What's even more sad is his dad losing 3 people in just a short time... happy you're always caring about them even at their toughest times

  • @cq5069
    @cq5069 Před 2 lety +821

    Watching this after your "fault in our stars" video and I'm realising my uncle had this same cancer about 7 years ago. Didn't realise how serious it was at the time. Now I'm understanding much better what could have happened and how lucky we were that the bone marrow transplant worked on my uncle. Lots of love from Switzerland!

    • @delightfulmystery9527
      @delightfulmystery9527 Před 2 lety +5

      Same

    • @viveleshistoires4874
      @viveleshistoires4874 Před 2 lety +5

      My grandfather almost died numerous time due to his cancer that he battled for years. I was way too young to understand any of it at the time, so when he was finally cancer free, I didn’t realise just how big of a deal that was. To me it was just « grandpa was sick and now he’s better ». I’m now so grateful that I still have my grandpa with me and that he fought so hard!

    • @hugowong2317
      @hugowong2317 Před rokem +1

      Same

    • @boingyboop4960
      @boingyboop4960 Před rokem +1

      @@viveleshistoires4874That’s wonderful! I’m glad he survived. Cancer can be really hard to deal with. I’m very happy for you and your grandfather and your family that you still have him with you. That must be really wonderful.

  • @julialozanoceja8347
    @julialozanoceja8347 Před 4 lety +1875

    That Russian work ethic pays off! Your mom would be super proud of you

  • @chelsimcmahan681
    @chelsimcmahan681 Před 5 lety +2870

    Its allergies I swear... Im not crying 😭

  • @megs3019
    @megs3019 Před rokem +114

    The way he described her reminds me of Mike himself. He’s very good at explaining things and making it fun and not boring. Like his mom. Because of his mom he is now an amazing doctor explaining medical stuff online to millions and he’s humble and kind and sweet just like his mom. He doesn’t have his nose up thinking he’s better then anyone just like how his mom didn’t…She is def looking down on him being so so proud of where he is now❤.

    • @AXCBER
      @AXCBER Před rokem +5

      Dr Mike's mother taught him well. RIP Mrs. Varshavski

  • @KM-ql4eb
    @KM-ql4eb Před 2 lety +279

    Your mom sounded like a really strong woman. May she RIP.
    No matter how old you are when you lose your parents, you never feel ready. I lost my mom when I was 32, and my dad when I was 34 (I'm 39 now). Even though I am married with children, I just felt so alone. You never get over it. You just learn to live with those permanently missing pieces.

    • @boingyboop4960
      @boingyboop4960 Před rokem +6

      That is very true. You can never really be ready for that kind of loss. I lost my father to cancer when I was 10. But what keeps me going is imagining what he would say if he were still here, and sort of keep him with me at heart. Your parents would be proud of the person you’ve become.

    • @ohmydawggg
      @ohmydawggg Před rokem +2

      i hear you. my dad passed from brain cancer when i was 12; i’m 18 now and i still grieve, every day. i keep going by the grace of God. it sucks, but for me once i learned that with grief, ‘getting over it’ isn’t the goal, it got just a little easier; it’s learning to live with it. it’s been said that grief is just love with nowhere to go.

  • @cristinacrecente
    @cristinacrecente Před 4 lety +1763

    I wish one day, my children talk about me the same way you do about your mom. You´re a wonderful person...You´ve really touched my heart..

    • @EmilysDance1
      @EmilysDance1 Před 4 lety +8

      Same. A mother's heart is full when she sees/hears her kids saying all she had hoped she had been to them. Motherhood is the most difficult position I have ever held. Four girls, one with a terminal illness. Through all of this I hope I am teaching my girls what is important in life. I hope I show them strength can be found in the most unlikely times/places. Just hope that they see and learn, and put my life lessons to use so they don't have to learn the way I did. A mother's legacy should be exactly what this video showed. Thanks Dr. Mike. Thank you for posting, opening up for us, and showing mad respect for your whole family like this! Your family is the perfect story of successful immigration!

    • @thirushatk2664
      @thirushatk2664 Před 3 lety +4

      trust me we always want too but its too chezzy because if i start telling how much i love my mom id be telling it every sec of the day

  • @justinsgurl7777
    @justinsgurl7777 Před 3 lety +4989

    I don’t know how he filmed this without tearing up. I’m bawling 😭

  • @katherineraquel
    @katherineraquel Před 11 měsíci +22

    I’m literally crying right now, this is so sad, I don’t know what I do if my mama died, I am sorry you had to go through this

  • @katrinakrause5969
    @katrinakrause5969 Před 2 lety +127

    What a beautiful story. Reminds me of my mom and all the love and hard work she put in to guide me and my brother. My mom passed 3 years ago of pneumonia, and honestly, the pain never goes away, it is like a constant hum you learn to live with. Thank you for reminding me that even though it’s hard, I’ll get through it.

  • @tiffanyperez9882
    @tiffanyperez9882 Před 4 lety +1955

    It’s like, “wow” that everyone calls you “The Sexiest Doctor Alive” and they probably don’t know your sad story. You don’t care if anyone calls you sexy or anything, you just wanna do good for the world and that’s amazing ❤️. Love you and your vids!
    You’re so strong!! 💪🏼

    • @tiffanyperez9882
      @tiffanyperez9882 Před 4 lety +128

      I look up to you a lot. Keep doing good!

    • @tiffanyperez9882
      @tiffanyperez9882 Před 4 lety +59

      You probably won’t see this comment which is okay 👍🏼😅

    • @DoctorMike
      @DoctorMike  Před 4 lety +339

      Nope I saw it, thank you for being kind and writing the nice message :)

    • @tiffanyperez9882
      @tiffanyperez9882 Před 4 lety +26

      No problem 👍🏼❤️

    • @reneiris2
      @reneiris2 Před 4 lety +12

      @@DoctorMike I cried

  • @lunaanika5962
    @lunaanika5962 Před 3 lety +1742

    WE ALL CRIED TO WATCH THIS DR MIKE.

  • @stephaniegoins4283
    @stephaniegoins4283 Před 2 lety +84

    It’s 2022 now, and I applaud him for his strength as I have felt this on a personal level since June 7, 2020. I lost my grandpa to cancer that the doctors all said he didn’t have enough time to even go into the stage and type of cancer that he had. He made it about a month and passed at 2:00am to be with Jesus. I miss you grandpa ❤️

  • @aidenhutto5969
    @aidenhutto5969 Před rokem +26

    Man this guy is tough.
    I was diagnosed with cancer and I am alive obviously and seeing the struggle my parents and close people went through is so tough.
    Respect Mike

  • @ayitsalex2893
    @ayitsalex2893 Před 4 lety +1620

    i searched "Dr Mike speaking Russian" I didn't expect this 😭

  • @shrek4972
    @shrek4972 Před 5 lety +1556

    I’m gonna spoil my mom so much when I get rich. But for now, I’m gonna spoil her with love, hugs, and kisses

    • @inkystix5327
      @inkystix5327 Před 5 lety +3

      No Body good, thats great :)

    • @leosulla790
      @leosulla790 Před 5 lety +2

      me too :-)

    • @najlaeel8217
      @najlaeel8217 Před 5 lety +7

      How sweeeeet 😍

    • @zanelemnguni6014
      @zanelemnguni6014 Před 5 lety +12

      My mom doesn't even like it when I touch her, stare at her for too long or when I'm basically around her...
      Does she hate me? Or does she just want her space? Find out in the next episode of Dragon Ball Z

    • @NoamRabbit
      @NoamRabbit Před 5 lety

      Check out my Mother Day videos --ENJOY

  • @OllieTheMoop
    @OllieTheMoop Před 2 lety +34

    omg im literally a human waterfall of tears 😭😭 this is so sweet

  • @lindaibarra384
    @lindaibarra384 Před 2 lety +6

    MY CONDOLENCES I LOST MY MOM IN 2014 SHE HAD BREAST CANCER 🎀 ITS TOUGH WHEN YOU LOSS A PARENT I LOST MY FATHER WHEN I WAS 5YRS OLD GOD BLESS YOU MIKE AND YOUR FAMILY 👪 🙏 💜💜💜💜❤❤❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @vicoART
    @vicoART Před 7 lety +1682

    She raised such a good man, she would be very proud to see you today 😀❤

    • @DoctorMike
      @DoctorMike  Před 7 lety +133

      Thanks Victor, appreciate that man.

    • @dr.pritakarmacharya9644
      @dr.pritakarmacharya9644 Před 7 lety +57

      Doctor Mike - eyes welled up after watchin ths grt video .... though ur story is very heart rending ,its actually an inspiration to all people in general tht we shld nvr giveup being positive. Diamonds r formed under pressure nd so r u who is clearly the reflection of ur incredible mom... salute to her... salute to ur devotion for ur profession.... you r an inspiration to evryone in today's world may they b medical professionals or general public... thx alot for all the positivity that u hav been giving to evryone.... best wishes for ur wonferful future... :)

    • @sarahm6333
      @sarahm6333 Před 7 lety +2

      prita Karmacharya in

    • @umairahmed1874
      @umairahmed1874 Před 7 lety +21

      a good man?!
      a great man......!

    • @cirkinekze547
      @cirkinekze547 Před 6 lety +1

      +umair ahmed a great man ?! 😂😂😂😂 he's the perfect man on earth god bless him

  • @iorimaytajo3160
    @iorimaytajo3160 Před 5 lety +1809

    How can he not cry? He's so strong i love him so much

    • @Reine_Doctobre
      @Reine_Doctobre Před 5 lety +142

      He probably had to stop and pause, and cut out some parts.

    • @stephanieann6622
      @stephanieann6622 Před 5 lety +49

      Yeah he edited out parts.

    • @cookiesyum5884
      @cookiesyum5884 Před 5 lety +114

      Crying isn’t weak

    • @jaym2015
      @jaym2015 Před 5 lety +68

      Maybe he cried in his own time.. some people dont really show that emotion in front of everyone.

    • @Marimilitarybrat
      @Marimilitarybrat Před 5 lety +27

      His nose sounds stuffy and his eyes are a little glistening. He's doing quiet crying.

  • @hillaryvelasquez5965
    @hillaryvelasquez5965 Před 5 dny

    I love to hear people talk so beautifully about their mother. My mom passed away almost three years ago, but I think she’d tell me to keep pushing right now when things are hard. I’m working as a janitor to pay for my online course (medical field) and groceries for my kids. When I lost motivation my mom always told me to participate in my life, I need to remember that and stop complaining so much.

  • @vivideleganceboudoir
    @vivideleganceboudoir Před 2 lety +219

    Losing a parent at any age is an unfathomable loss, but you've truly honored her memory and legacy. I'm sure she is extremely proud.
    I lost my dad when I was 15 to homicide. I remember him flat lining after they took him off life support and my mom asking me what that noise meant. It killed me to have to explain that to her. I did make it my mission to do my best in my father's memory and went on to graduate high school with honors and a college degree simultaneously and then worked as an advocate for 8 years to help crime victims. Great loss, in my experience, has given me even greater compassion and empathy.
    Side note: I have an 11 year old black lab named Roxie. Roxie, along with her sister, who passed not long ago, were a huge part of the healing process for my mom and I. Dogs are the best.
    I realize this is an older video, but thank you for sharing this part of your story. It has certainly made me respect you even more.

  • @darsitisuwarso7219
    @darsitisuwarso7219 Před 5 lety +1294

    Who puts onions here 😭😭

    • @ashmitasarker919
      @ashmitasarker919 Před 5 lety +7

      Darsiti Suwarso it’s namjoon’s terrible onion cutting skills

    • @Archie-oq9ci
      @Archie-oq9ci Před 5 lety +1

      Darsiti Suwarso me >:)

    • @reneebrown9987
      @reneebrown9987 Před 5 lety +6

      I was good until that last bit with the Instagram quote and the Russian. Good God my heart!!

    • @sheilamuchiri6411
      @sheilamuchiri6411 Před 5 lety

      Onions aren't so good 😂😭

    • @brittanys505
      @brittanys505 Před 5 lety

      Shrek!Get out of our swamp!!!!

  • @the_tachycardic_doctor6649
    @the_tachycardic_doctor6649 Před 3 lety +955

    Losing a parent is always hard no matter how old you are. Your mom was a strong, independent women. This world need more women like her. Her teaching have shaped you well. We adore you.

    • @MacKa-VLogs
      @MacKa-VLogs Před 2 lety

      Proud of her and we always adore Dr.Mike. i like him so much

  • @lilbrogeorge8715
    @lilbrogeorge8715 Před 2 lety +46

    I can't imagine how hard it is for you to tell them to stop the chest compression, your mom is an incredible woman, beautiful, hardworking, smart and caring. God bless your family.

  • @saki6769
    @saki6769 Před 2 lety +56

    You're very strong doc. I don't know how you put all those feelings into words. You're real inspiration.

  • @ellenoganesyan9665
    @ellenoganesyan9665 Před 5 lety +1451

    This video broke my heart but it was also incredibly inspirational.

  • @twiceborn_by_grace
    @twiceborn_by_grace Před 5 lety +811

    Believe it or not, I didn’t cry until I saw your dad sleeping on Roxy. That just was such a sweet moment. Thank you for sharing this.

  • @thebookseeker8880
    @thebookseeker8880 Před 10 měsíci +8

    Ваша мама так напоминает мою собственную. Моя тоже была очень доброй, а еще немного наивной, всегда за всех переживала, за всех болело сердце. При этом она была оптимистом и немного ребенком в душе. Я потеряла маму в прошлом году, она лежала в коме почти месяц. Сочувствую Вам. После просмотра видео и тепло,и грустно на душе.

  • @grom69
    @grom69 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Being a russian myself, i greatly admire what your mom has done, the spirit she had going through the immigration process, adapting to the whole situation and being quite successful at it. She was such a champ. Спасибо тебе большое за данное видео, было очень приятно услышать твою историю ❤

  • @LORD-kg4sl
    @LORD-kg4sl Před 5 lety +730

    Amazing this guy is more handsome in his heart than his face

    • @biggerdaddy123
      @biggerdaddy123 Před 5 lety +26

      So true and that is where true beauty lies in us all.
      Despite social and peer programming , the heart is the measure of any human.

    • @lorenzosalomone8635
      @lorenzosalomone8635 Před 5 lety +6

      Thanks to his parents

    • @CrazyKemo_0
      @CrazyKemo_0 Před 5 lety +8

      @@biggerdaddy123 Absolutely true

  • @laurlore72
    @laurlore72 Před 4 lety +548

    He got me. I'm tearing up! Just texted my mom I love her. Thank you for sharing this Dr.

    • @DoctorMike
      @DoctorMike  Před 4 lety +98

      Of course, thanks for watching!

    • @laurlore72
      @laurlore72 Před 4 lety +9

      Oh goodness! Now I'm a mix of emotions! Thank you for the reply! You are an amazing human being and I wish you a happy holiday and new year!

    • @elizabethlauter3155
      @elizabethlauter3155 Před 4 lety

      Rather than texting her live with her! Be by her side!

  • @graoe
    @graoe Před 2 lety +48

    poor mike. watching this video, i saw that he was trying so hard not to cry, i’m atleast glad he was able to let out his story to an audience that would support him. we love you, mike.

  • @Books.and.biscuits
    @Books.and.biscuits Před 2 lety +15

    I lost my dad to cancer when I was 15. everyone in my family has a mental disability apart from me, so I also had to be the support pillar when he died. The worst thing was that he fought to stay alive until I told him “it’s okay to give up, I’ve got it from here.” Ever since then I had to be the one to keep our family running and honestly it’s exhausting, but I can’t stop because I made a promise!. I love this video, and how strong you are talking about her. She sounds lovely!.

  • @chukwudionwuka9079
    @chukwudionwuka9079 Před 5 lety +556

    You know they definitely cut out the parts where he choked up or teared up because it's not even my mom and I am crying lol.

    • @NoamRabbit
      @NoamRabbit Před 5 lety +1

      Check out my Mother Day videos --ENJOY

    • @kitsmile2725
      @kitsmile2725 Před 5 lety

      Well it was 6 years since his mom passed when he made this so maybe hes stronger now

  • @olgal9902
    @olgal9902 Před 6 lety +721

    I know your mom in extremely proud of the incredible person you’ve become. You have physical beauty but I think your soul is the most beautiful part about you.

  • @josealexandre8486
    @josealexandre8486 Před 2 lety +6

    I am 16 years old now and my mom passed away from cancer when i was 1 never got the chance to say that i loved her... but i hope wherever she is she knows it i love you mom and i miss you everyday thank you for sharing your story doctor mike love from portugal 🇵🇹

  • @irinaruzhanskaya3840
    @irinaruzhanskaya3840 Před 2 lety +27

    Доктор, вы замечательный. Ваши родители могут гордиться таким мудрым и талантливым сыном!

    • @Arslion05
      @Arslion05 Před 2 lety +6

      Он очень крутой, а как он говорит: «Через не могу». Очень вдохновляет

  • @anamariam.9068
    @anamariam.9068 Před 6 lety +600

    Your mom really was a very beautiful woman 🙂

    • @DoctorMike
      @DoctorMike  Před 6 lety +48

      Thank you, I do appreciate you saying that!

    • @deedee-dk2uz
      @deedee-dk2uz Před 6 lety +7

      That's why he's Beautiful

  • @danielb.4373
    @danielb.4373 Před 6 lety +874

    I'm just sitting here and crying like a little baby...you're an amazing human being. You're really inspiring a lot of people with your channel, and changing the world for good!

  • @mariapaulapolanccoparra6814
    @mariapaulapolanccoparra6814 Před měsícem +1

    I cannot tell you how much my heart hurts right now, there're only words of admiration towards her and your dad. what an amazing person she was. Life is really hard, love you Mike. ❤❤

  • @Glebiys
    @Glebiys Před rokem +15

    Mike, your mother was beautiful woman and absolute legend! I can definitely relate to many things in your story, when my family moved to USA (from post-soviet country)in early 2000s, my mom also went to clean toilets and sweeping floors to let me and my sister get education. She would sweep floors during day and go to college evening to learn English and get a degree. Nowadays I can afford to pay her bills and I’ll do everything I can, so she doesn’t have to work another day in her life.

  • @lilylife4426
    @lilylife4426 Před 4 lety +1222

    Your mom was a wonderful woman and you are a living proof of that, Dr Mike. Such an amazing family!

  • @birdapp
    @birdapp Před 6 lety +1709

    you're such a great human being and a lovely son, your mom is so proud of you so do i.

  • @dinakharma4541
    @dinakharma4541 Před měsícem +1

    A beautiful and sad story of a nice family I loved your mother even if I did not know her She is a beautiful woman and a great mother She worked hard for a better life for her family and gave birth to a great handsome doctor She taught him to love people humility and honesty and made an ideal man out of you She is very proud of you for the success you have created and you deserve this fame and this Success is in heaven in a better place with Jesus We are also your second family and very proud of you May God protect you and your father You have all my love respect and support
    my handsome doctor ❤

  • @user-ro4qv3uf7d
    @user-ro4qv3uf7d Před 2 měsíci

    My mother also died two and a half years ago from cancer. Even before I turned 18.
    Only those who have experienced such a loss understand the pain.
    I wanted to do so many things with her and experience with her and it won't happen anymore..
    I am so sorry for your loss, and appreciate you for being someone who saves the lives of others.

  • @KellyMangiliman
    @KellyMangiliman Před 4 lety +1245

    You're not only a Good Doctor, but you're an angel too. You're mom is a Strong beautiful woman who raised you well.
    Everyone cried watching this video. How I wish we can get to see you in person Dr. :'(
    Love from the Philippines 🥰😇

  • @catherineann6091
    @catherineann6091 Před 3 lety +1325

    I’m crying. What a sweet tribute, she must be so proud of you. God bless your heart and family. She lives through you now.

  • @tiny3705
    @tiny3705 Před 2 lety +6

    I came here after the fault in our stars video. I can't even find the right words. That must have been so difficult for you, your dad and your sister. She would have been so proud of who you have become. She sounds like an amazing woman. Beautiful, smart and sweet.

  • @abyfy
    @abyfy Před rokem +2

    POV “I’m gonna learn English and I’m gonna be great at it” that’s it…that was my dream and look where I am right now 🙌🏼

  • @nehat.1668
    @nehat.1668 Před 5 lety +675

    I’ve always thought of Russian as such an aggressive language but the way he said it was so sweet.

    • @inkystix5327
      @inkystix5327 Před 5 lety +8

      @A Lou **ahem**
      YES COMRADE, CYKA BLYAT

    • @inkystix5327
      @inkystix5327 Před 5 lety +3

      @A Lou *insert its ma'am joke here*
      nah jk
      blyat

    • @user-xd1st1er9j
      @user-xd1st1er9j Před 5 lety +13

      Well yeah, russian accent in english can be harsh, but russian language is really melodic. You can listen a song “полина гагарина - кукушка” (just write it down on youtube) and you can hear it!

    • @thesquad-airsoftgamingnerf9643
      @thesquad-airsoftgamingnerf9643 Před 5 lety +5

      @@user-xd1st1er9j is that song a cover of the song of the same name by Viktor tsoi.

    • @Anastasia-ot6si
      @Anastasia-ot6si Před 5 lety

      @@thesquad-airsoftgamingnerf9643 yeah, i think it is

  • @annelemo8388
    @annelemo8388 Před 5 lety +588

    My mother passed away today and this is very comforting to me. My mother meant the world to me, she was an amazing human being and such an inspiration for everyone around her. Thank you, Dr. Mike for sharing this!

    • @lafleurexotique3809
      @lafleurexotique3809 Před 5 lety +26

      I feel like hugging you.. I understand the pain. My mom is sick and dying. It's just the worse thing ever. I wish you a lot of positivity. Know that your mom is in a better place and watching over you until you meet again.

    • @annelemo8388
      @annelemo8388 Před 5 lety +15

      @@lafleurexotique3809 I would love to give you back a hug! Thank you so much! I'm so sorry to hear what you're going through! My warmest thoughts to you and your mother!

    • @pleaseclap3335
      @pleaseclap3335 Před 5 lety +12

      @@lafleurexotique3809 I'm so sorry for your loss. I can't even imagine losing my mom without my eyes filling with tears. Stay strong hun.

    • @davidapolonio1617
      @davidapolonio1617 Před 4 lety +7

      My condolences

    • @annelemo8388
      @annelemo8388 Před 4 lety +7

      @@davidapolonio1617 Thank You!

  • @carolinabonkowski2947
    @carolinabonkowski2947 Před rokem +2

    She rests in Christ, and He is coming! Hold on to hope, Dr Mike ♥️

  • @cleoodogg
    @cleoodogg Před 2 lety +4

    i was tearing up during this i am suprised he wasnt tearing up or crying in this video.

  • @saimaali843
    @saimaali843 Před 4 lety +828

    I am so sorry for your loss. it must be really hard for you to make this video. As an immigrant, I can't appreciate you enough for being so open about your parents. I just fell for you a little bit more than yesterday. I was sobbing throughout the whole video. The way you were holding your tears back was just...

  • @okamuspanulirus9614
    @okamuspanulirus9614 Před 4 lety +353

    Hardest part of losing a mom is when they take up the role of an absent father, they go thru it all without any complaint. Our situations are similar and I understand the pain of seeing a beloved part of your life deteriorate in such a short time right infront of you, its hard to see supermoms fall and the pain of them not seeing their hardwork pay off thru our own success is truly heart breaking.
    R.I.P. to our mothers, cheers!

  • @trenae77
    @trenae77 Před 2 lety +9

    Your story reminds me of Langston Hughes "Mother to Son." While it is written from a black mother to her son, the essence is so on point; parents are willing to take on any challenge that comes their way if it means a better life for their children. I know for a fact you are bringing so much honor to your mother's sacrifice not only through your accomplishments with your job, but with the compassion you exhibit to the world around you.

  • @user-tt7ho3vr9t
    @user-tt7ho3vr9t Před 2 lety +6

    Wow.. смотря ваши видео, я даже подумать не могла, что вы из России.. сильный слова "через не могу"! Спасибо, что поделились этой историей

  • @allisonrojas7727
    @allisonrojas7727 Před 5 lety +549

    Dr. Mike, this touched my heart so much. I’m sorry for your loss. I know the feeling as well. I lost my mom to cancer in December 2017 at Memorial Sloan Kettering. For 3-4 years, she had an ongoing battle between Endometrial cancer and AML. Sadly the endometrial cancer metastasized without the doctors knowing last minute. Your mom is no longer suffering but I know she is looking down at you every day and is proud of all that you’ve accomplished. You’re an amazing doctor and keep helping others. 💕

    • @kidsavant3246
      @kidsavant3246 Před 5 lety +5

      Allison Rojas I’m sorry about your mom, hopefully she is in a better place 😔

    • @egg-tc9qt
      @egg-tc9qt Před 5 lety +1

      Allison Rojas omg this made me cry

  • @shrj
    @shrj Před 6 lety +555

    Hi Doctor, I admire that you are so humble. People don't realise how hard it is for first generation immigrants to settle- my family moved to the UK when I was seven with no English and qualifications that meant nothing. It took 11 years to be in a state where we had piece of mind. Thank you for also sharing about your hardships when your mother suffered and ultimately passed from Leukemia. I could tell that in that hectic moment in the hospital when you had to tell the doctors and nurses to stop trying to resuscitate, mentally you aged 10 years. All I can say is wow- how much courage it must have taken you. Thank you for the person that you are. Finally, your videos are so informative and they address so many medical issues that aren't discussed enough; thank you for educating us! Have a nice day!

  • @TheJuliefrom
    @TheJuliefrom Před 2 lety +2

    You have a beautiful family. I lost my father very dramatically. I got called several times by my sister when I was a radio presenter and I shouted to her do not call me on live broadcasting! But she said Julie he is going to die...and I was in shock....and I firmly believe he stayed alive for me to come to the hospital and say goodbye. I drove as fast as possible and also parked illegally as you dont think about stupid things like that in grave situations.... I had an awful doctor at the time who refused to give me more than one week sick leave. So I was forced back on air, crying my eyes out in between songs and commercials....
    I love the way you talk about your dear mother

  • @sarahmalmude8460
    @sarahmalmude8460 Před 2 lety

    thanks...i keep fighting for 1/2 custody of my son in a foreign country as an american immigrant in the country and to hear your story of love for your mom made me realize the importance of me for my son, even if i often feel fighting in this legal systm in this country is an unfair fight.... i will keep going

  • @electricdreams3384
    @electricdreams3384 Před 2 lety +808

    mr. Varshavski how could u not have a single tear? i literally was almost sobbing!

    • @twincherry4958
      @twincherry4958 Před 2 lety +35

      He's Russian dear

    • @angshusarma8331
      @angshusarma8331 Před 2 lety +58

      @@twincherry4958 it's not just being a Russian. Some people can control it...I didn't cry when my Grandma and Grandpa passed away...everyone called me crazy...I can't cry infront of a huge crowd...but yes, I did cry when I was alone and it's been 12/10 years ...I still miss my grandma and grandpa....and yes, I miss them a lot 😢

    • @renenasmr2976
      @renenasmr2976 Před 2 lety +9

      @@twincherry4958 tahts not true some people just don’t cry no matter how sad they are like my grandma now don’t get me wrong she shows emotions but she doesn’t show sorrow. when my grandmas mom died which was in 2015 she didn’t cry but she still seemed sad and even while thinking about my great grandma now i tear up, some people are just different. my grandma was my great grandmas favourite child too so t must’ve made her even more sad but she never shed a tear not even while giving birth without medication or anything. she never cries. if i mention my great grandma i can see the sadness in her eyes though but she manages to stay strong.

    • @FatBellyChemist1234
      @FatBellyChemist1234 Před 2 lety +5

      @@angshusarma8331 Some people can control their emotions others might feel numbing.

    • @scholaroftheworldalternatehist
      @scholaroftheworldalternatehist Před rokem +1

      I only cry nowadays if my eyes are dry

  • @gracelayexo8206
    @gracelayexo8206 Před 7 lety +104

    U have made your mother Proud . Such a kind , genuine and succesful person .
    My hero ❤
    Hard work always pay off . ❤

    • @DoctorMike
      @DoctorMike  Před 7 lety +45

      Thank you Cielito! Really do appreciate the kind words.

  • @katwalk678
    @katwalk678 Před 2 lety +2

    My mom has Alzheimer’s and was diagnosed five years ago at age 61 I wish I would’ve told her how much I loved her and how much I appreciated everything that she sacrificed for me more when she knew what I was saying. Now whenever I see her I tell her and part of me has to believe that she hears me.

  • @barneythedino7798
    @barneythedino7798 Před rokem +2

    I lost my aunt and cousin first ima say something about my cousin ❤ my cousin was born on 1997 but my aunt gave birth 2 months earlier and she had twins the babies my cousin (they are the first cousins I had the number #1 cousin that makes my grandm,a a grandma) so my aunt she gave birth to premature kids but the second one survive 16 years later my aunt got cancer and when I was born on 2011 on 2012 on October my aunt died 2 days before my birthday ❤😢 I luv my aunt and cousin that sadly past away when I was 2 I’m now 11 and I’m happy that they are watching over me

  • @ambertribble6551
    @ambertribble6551 Před 3 lety +404

    The quote at the end is where I lost it, I felt that pain when you said “mama”. 🥺
    I wish I could hug you though this video. ❤️ I’m gonna say it even though you’ve heard it a 1,000 times, you’re mom would be so amazed at who you are and all you do for other people.

    • @cwiggins27
      @cwiggins27 Před 2 lety +7

      I was just coming here to comment on the "mama." It broke me.🥺

  • @akambiyamwanza
    @akambiyamwanza Před 5 lety +360

    That last line though 😭😭😭 this explains why he comes across as such a normal and decent human being. Such a rarity these days. Thank you for this beautiful video❤

    • @GeminiTwins2019
      @GeminiTwins2019 Před 5 lety +2

      Idyllic Lonesome 😭😭😭😭😭

    • @Jesszicar
      @Jesszicar Před 5 lety +5

      "if you haven't yet, please subscribe" it gets me everytime

    • @amshazow
      @amshazow Před 4 lety

      what does he say in Russian?

  • @mikebunner3498
    @mikebunner3498 Před rokem +34

    Mike your mother is/was a rock star of a human being. A real mom. They are rare these days. So many females these days are so self-centered. This story is uplifting yet is sad.... May GOD hold and keep your family and loved ones. Be strong like your momma.

  • @mariamshenouda3379
    @mariamshenouda3379 Před 2 lety +13

    This may be like 4.5 years since this video was posted, but your mom sounds like a strong and incredible woman. God bless your family. She lives through you and now you get to carry her amazing legacy forward and keep making a positive impact. As someone pursing a medical career, your passion, hope, and realism when sharing your story is impeccable. Keep being awesome :)

  • @iSamzeh
    @iSamzeh Před 5 lety +368

    I lost my mother to suicide in January this year. She was the most beautiful and kind individual you'd ever meet and it fills me with pride to be able to call such an incredible lady my mother. It's been by far the toughest thing I've ever had to deal with while still continuing with my journey through university in the pursuit of becoming a clinical psychologist. In times like these I've managed to channel my emotions into things such as the gym and I like to think that I'm making the correct steps to ensure that even though shes gone, she will live on in me. At the age of 19 I've already learnt a lifetime in lessons from this experience. It is allowing me to shape into the man I want to be. Terrible things like this happen but sometimes all you can do is take a step back and think "what can I learn from this" and I believe that's how to truly take steps forward.
    Thanks for sharing your story, I thought I'd share a little bit of my own.

    • @AnikaKinz16
      @AnikaKinz16 Před 5 lety +12

      so sorry for your loss. you're strong and its so true what you're taking from what you experienced, keep your head up :)

    • @mamadungca5644
      @mamadungca5644 Před 5 lety +2

      PTSD still too, even after..4 yrs? If her sudden death..tragedy..wish we'll have total peace.somehow

    • @TattooedLuna
      @TattooedLuna Před 5 lety +3

      So sorry for the loss of your mother xx

    • @idkmyuser1
      @idkmyuser1 Před 5 lety +11

      If you make it through school you will save so many people from suicide and I think that's a simply beautiful coincidence even if it's tragedy.

    • @ameliabowerman5240
      @ameliabowerman5240 Před 5 lety +1

      Sorry for you loss xx

  • @marleesuarez7162
    @marleesuarez7162 Před 3 lety +281

    Your mom, based off your story, seems like a wonderful woman. I think your mom would have loved Roxy, and Bear, too. My heart goes out to you, in the good, the bad, and everything in between.

  • @tatsi1105
    @tatsi1105 Před 2 lety +4

    I am crying…math professor sweeping floors. A lesson of resilience and purpose. Your mom taught me a huge lesson today. Thank you for sharing!

  • @Teazer000
    @Teazer000 Před 7 měsíci

    I also lost my mother because of cancer. I could describe her as someone who only cared for the people around her. She was always trying to help the people, she never cared about herself. Even in her last days she was more worried with giving away her stuff to the poor instead of resting.... seeing her suffer every day for 1.5 years and seeing her die were the most difficult moments that I have experienced.
    This video made me feel that I am not alone. Thanks Dr Mike. I feel your pain.

  • @Courtneyemily91
    @Courtneyemily91 Před 4 lety +235

    Losing a parent is awful. I lost my dad and grandfather within a span of 6 months at 17 and it was terrible. This story was beautiful and you're such an inherently good person. You continually inspire me and I love your videos. I truly believe in the possibility of reincarnation and it's possible she was reincarnated in Roxy. ❤️

    • @Courtneyemily91
      @Courtneyemily91 Před 4 lety +9

      The fact that you liked my comment, Doctor Mike, made my day!

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    • @reneeyip3815
      @reneeyip3815 Před 4 lety

      POOR THING I CANT IMAGINE WHAT I WOULD DO

  • @maruko5244
    @maruko5244 Před 7 lety +119

    This is so sad
    I can't imagine a life without my mother

    • @DoctorMike
      @DoctorMike  Před 7 lety +87

      Yeah please appreciate her every SINGLE day!

    • @baileymay5031
      @baileymay5031 Před 6 lety +2

      either

    • @valkh83
      @valkh83 Před 5 lety +1

      I couldn’t either until September 22 of this year. I don’t know how I will do it. 😔

  • @kazzuo32
    @kazzuo32 Před 2 lety +1

    Here I'm in 3/2022 crying like a woose over a video made few years ago but that still applys. I lost my mother in 2019 in a surgery that she walk-in to remove a cancerous mass and she didn't wakeup from the anesthesia, at the moment I didn't understand Gods plan, now I do but still hurts. Kudos to Dr. Mike for doing a video about his mom that many people identify with.❤️♥️💔

  • @allright4915
    @allright4915 Před 2 lety +4

    My mom passed away of liver cancer 4 months ago. Her doctor missed the tumor on her ultrasound examination and when we found out it was too late. I can't get over the fact she had to suffer so much. You seem to be as kind and sweet as your mom was. I wish there were more doctors like you.

  • @downwired
    @downwired Před 5 lety +304

    I speak 3 languages and I feel like I'm flunking basic university french grammar...I want to give up right now. Seeing this, I just can't give up, can I? You and your family are absolutely amazing. All the respect to your mother, she did the most amazing job taking care of her family while being an incredibly smart, hardworking and strong person. Inspiring enough, I might stay in school and give it all I've got. My mom will lose mobility (and brain authority) soon from Parkinson's so, at least I will have a good job to take care of her. I have an 11 years old husky named Tenka, my mom loves him also :)

    • @leonilic9022
      @leonilic9022 Před 5 lety +1

      Jenny wolf Matte my nigga i speak 4 and i dont feel like its really that hard cuz u just live w it my nigga

    • @veobro1456
      @veobro1456 Před 5 lety +1

      @@leonilic9022 racist taco

  • @adrianavelarde7684
    @adrianavelarde7684 Před 4 lety +326

    Your mom was so gorgeous! Wow! You can also tell how strong and dedicated woman she was. The way you talk about her shows how sweet and wonderful you are, and also I fell in love with Roxy.

  • @betsybabf748
    @betsybabf748 Před rokem +1

    Not sure why this old video was in my feed but crying. I woke and found my husband dead, then 4 weeks later my mom was diagnosed with terminal cancer so I watched her die as a shell-shocked new widow with 5 grieving kids. When you have kids, you just function, but then one best friend died at 43 and the other (who introduced me as a teen to my husband) is fighting aggressive breast cancer. All is hitting hard now. I not long ago walked into my doctors basically saying I have nothing left, help.

  • @Rae2Day
    @Rae2Day Před měsícem

    Your mom sounds like an incredible woman. I’m so sorry you lost her.

  • @paan35007
    @paan35007 Před 3 lety +386

    Uh ! Your sister in that photo is a gorgeous female version of you ! Beautiful family !

  • @noellepoelle
    @noellepoelle Před 4 lety +155

    Oh my god.. You looking so sad makes me cry and sad

  • @iamthedaughteroftheking3704

    Dr. Mike! I’m not sure if you ever going to see this comment. I saw you in Washington DC live show. I can see your passion in medicine and care for others. I been watching you for years. Your mother did a great job raising you. I love your disciple and you don’t look down at anyone. I don’t look at you for being handsome but your love for others.

  • @onecheed2
    @onecheed2 Před rokem +2

    i cried watching this its a sad story i have a fear of losing my mom cause shes my only parent i feel you bro i hope you stay happy and healthy

  • @JH-kw8zy
    @JH-kw8zy Před 5 lety +157

    You cant have joy without sadness. They are two sides of a coin and you cant choose one or the other. But time dulls pain so you can look back on who you lost and appreciate the time you had and learn to live in here and now and love the people around you.

  • @sophiehe5725
    @sophiehe5725 Před 4 lety +322

    Mike... this was such a beautiful story:/ I cried

  • @michellevantongeren7806
    @michellevantongeren7806 Před 6 měsíci

    Hi Doctor Mike I just wanted to say that I totally agree with you that you should tell your mom or your loved ones that you love them because you don’t know when they will go to heaven. I lost my mom 6 1/2 years ago. My mom passed away two weeks after Mother’s Day.

  • @whereisqwerty
    @whereisqwerty Před rokem +2

    i speak fluent russian and that phrase means a lot. your mom was an amazing woman and i'm SOOOO glad to see you not suffering now. i hope your family is healthier than before and more fixed than before. your mom is BEAUTIFUL and i love the fact you're doing well now❤

  • @linaakol2988
    @linaakol2988 Před 7 lety +161

    The fact that you can Film this entire video without shedding a single tear, shows how strong you are. ❤

    • @k3nfr0st39
      @k3nfr0st39 Před 5 lety +2

      I think she's just giving him props for being very articulate while being true to himself. I can see that he's a very genuine person and a doctor. I'm sure any patient of his are in great hands.

  • @ebecky4275
    @ebecky4275 Před 4 lety +344

    You looked so adorable as a baby and as a child.

    • @idrk1507
      @idrk1507 Před 3 lety +5

      and still does now ;)
      And his mum was even more, from outside to literally inside, bless that woman :(

  • @chiangdaikamei4778
    @chiangdaikamei4778 Před 2 lety +1

    I'm literally crying by the end of the video.

  • @anovosedlik
    @anovosedlik Před 3 měsíci +1

    Losing your mother would be the worst thing that could EVER happen. I am so very sorry for your loss; there is nothing that can replace her. Nothing. May she rest peacefully as the angel she is. ❤