THINGS GET MORE INTENSE IN PART 4! A WOMAN WHO MARRIED A PATHOLOGICAL LIAR PSYCHOPATH

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  • čas přidán 16. 02. 2024
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  • @RealTalkWithYanie
    @RealTalkWithYanie  Před 3 měsíci +47

    Missing part 24: czcams.com/video/FPWKxFgRjvo/video.html
    Part 5: czcams.com/video/TVkdCXwLToI/video.html

  • @jayannnickels9126
    @jayannnickels9126 Před 3 měsíci +1577

    Everyone keeps saying he didn’t like her. The issue is he’s a pathological liar and a psychopath. Even being with someone he likes he would not change . The problem is within himself, not because he simply doesn’t like her

    • @Lightreign888
      @Lightreign888 Před 3 měsíci +86

      🎯

    • @ST20439
      @ST20439 Před 3 měsíci +100

      Facts funnily enough it’s the same for most of these Men. They don’t like themselves. It’s hard to love others devoid of it for self. Of course there are some who simply choose to be arses but most of the time it’s really not about the Woman it’s about them!

    • @NoNo-kk3lc
      @NoNo-kk3lc Před 3 měsíci +66

      That’s so evidently clear… sad you had to post this comment. Not all will learn the lesson from others, some just have to go through I guess. You’re 100% correct! You didn’t miss the takeaway!

    • @nice1cool
      @nice1cool Před 3 měsíci +54

      My brother in law is compulsive liar and I seen the difference in how he acted with a Woman he loved or
      Was in love with VS a woman he couldn’t care less about. The results and actions where the same as any man usually. Difference between him and other men he lied to both a crazy ass amount lol .

    • @user-dq9rr9mv3f
      @user-dq9rr9mv3f Před 3 měsíci +60

      No this isn’t about the women at all, he’s lying to anyone that crosses his path

  • @toritaylor8606
    @toritaylor8606 Před 3 měsíci +766

    Can we talk about how her passive demeanor may have saved her life. True narcissist are dangerous when they are confronted head on with their lies!

    • @MissRayneNerdiiChicK
      @MissRayneNerdiiChicK Před 3 měsíci +75

      (not done with the video yet) But, yes absolutely. I was scared for her when she was speaking on confronting him about any of his lies. I know everyone spoke about how he is an obvious full fledged narcissist, but I feel he definitely may also be a sociopath because of the very intense need for the constant pleasure he was getting from his manipulation as well as the risky illegal behavior(signing the money for the house when he really doesn't have it etc.)

    • @ShixB
      @ShixB Před 3 měsíci +112

      I surely would have been knocked out about 16 parts ago because I. Got. Questions! LOL

    • @NoNo-kk3lc
      @NoNo-kk3lc Před 3 měsíci +62

      Correct! The one I survived, attacked me and the only way out was to call the police AND threaten public exposure! Play with it if you want to ladies but I’m telling you GET OUT!

    • @sixteen.candles.4644
      @sixteen.candles.4644 Před 3 měsíci +18

      Im dead 😂​@@ShixB

    • @giab.3411
      @giab.3411 Před 3 měsíci +45

      I don’t know the only thing a narcissist fears is public scrutiny and humiliation. Her making these videos now completely destroys his ability to control the narrative and can very well trigger an outburst from him.

  • @gia4822
    @gia4822 Před 3 měsíci +900

    She had me sad last night, rather angry. I hate how loving we are sometime. The quickest way to destruct a woman is through her heart.

    • @auroradreamcatcher
      @auroradreamcatcher Před 3 měsíci +28

      This right here 😢💔

    • @pausedforcyberbullying_
      @pausedforcyberbullying_ Před 3 měsíci +33

      Women are often accused of not caring about anyone but themselves, but the truth is a lot of women are saying stuff like he didn’t like her the truth this is he can’t change he lived in a fantasy world. He did a lot of acting to him. He really bought a house to him he really had a business. He really had had a company car and he was really a CEO.
      When someone decides to live a lie live a fantasy the world becomes a part of the fantasy so she was a part of the fantasy where he was really taking care of her because she married him so she was just keeping his delusions alive longer. He wasn’t living in reality, and what a psychologist would have done is show him. This is some made up chase paper. You don’t own the house a psychologist has to confront him in a professional manner not a wife, not a sibling. He has to be a professional because he has to do the work, and it takes years to realize that, he made up his life. He’s way more damage than she can possibly realize and it’s not about her.

    • @hellothere8347
      @hellothere8347 Před 3 měsíci +34

      The Bible say, “guard your heart above all else,for it determines the course of your life” proverbs 4:23. ❤️

    • @gia4822
      @gia4822 Před 3 měsíci +14

      @@hellothere8347YES!! Do not cast your pearls before swine. The measure of a man. We need to know ourselves before we know these people.

    • @tyashiamccall117
      @tyashiamccall117 Před 3 měsíci +5

      & Some know that and try to take advantage. It's really crazy out here literally

  • @moodydoll2.0
    @moodydoll2.0 Před 3 měsíci +563

    After talking to the ex- wife I would've filed for divorce IMMEDIATELY. NOTHING else needs to be seen. He lied about a childs death. How could you do that???

    • @hubabaloop
      @hubabaloop Před 3 měsíci +100

      Right. I would’ve been done after the part of the house situation where they asked for proof of income and he threw a fit. Clearly he don’t have it 😭

    • @moodydoll2.0
      @moodydoll2.0 Před 3 měsíci +43

      @@hubabaloop definitely that part. Cause you not bouta play with my peace and emotions.

    • @Murdermagictricks
      @Murdermagictricks Před 3 měsíci +17

      Yeah I would have moved in silence

    • @lavender123u
      @lavender123u Před 3 měsíci +9

      And his grandma dying from covid lol

    • @jadedoe9966
      @jadedoe9966 Před 2 měsíci

      @@hubabaloopyep

  • @erikarobinson3557
    @erikarobinson3557 Před 3 měsíci +497

    She has a successful book and movie in her hands. I know this would help many women.

    • @PeaceNU2
      @PeaceNU2 Před 3 měsíci +15

      😂😂 Carlos King already DM'ing her.

    • @EbsSeven
      @EbsSeven Před 2 měsíci +32

      Right, she also tells stories really well too, I cant believe I am watching all of these.

    • @erikaarnold4780
      @erikaarnold4780 Před 2 měsíci +10

      Okay! I feel like sending this series to someone and getting her a deal, dammit! 🤑 But that man would probably wash up on her doorstep if he smelled money….🙄

    • @V1ntageheart
      @V1ntageheart Před 2 měsíci

      Please do. I'm sure she has people reaching out..... and hopefully she has legal rights to this story already before telling the internet
      @@erikaarnold4780

    • @roseyfan
      @roseyfan Před 2 měsíci +1

      may reesa get her coins!

  • @SmallBobby
    @SmallBobby Před 3 měsíci +226

    That chase pre approval letter is the unsuspected star of the show.

    • @gorgeousfrazier5903
      @gorgeousfrazier5903 Před 3 měsíci +30

      Girl!!!! I’d be on the phone with chase!!!

    • @Frugal637
      @Frugal637 Před 2 měsíci +32

      That is crazy and not many people lie to that level so me personally I wouldn’t suspect this type of lying.

  • @annt7384
    @annt7384 Před 3 měsíci +496

    Audible wishes it was this good.
    This woman’s intelligence, grace, and fortitude is off the charts.

    • @blacknbougie8021
      @blacknbougie8021 Před 3 měsíci +61

      That's what mostly stood out to me. I'm not judging her for getting played bc we've all been there. She is very aware of the part she played & I trust that she'll be fine.

    • @LizzyAnnShow
      @LizzyAnnShow Před 3 měsíci +50

      Ok! She is an amazing storyteller

    • @DivaDivine88
      @DivaDivine88 Před 3 měsíci +16

      I ntelligence🤔.. mmehh 😬

    • @annt7384
      @annt7384 Před 3 měsíci +58

      @@DivaDivine88 I stand by what I said. The pandemic messed with a lot of people’s heads and hearts, and she is no exception. We all make mistakes, even you, but it’s how you respond that shows your true character.

    • @hevabmore
      @hevabmore Před 3 měsíci +27

      ​@annt7384 and also, there is research that shows that some of the most intelligent and successful women are or have been in these types of situations. Those types of women try hard for success, even in the face of long odds. They try even in the face of terrible partners. So I agree, she can be gullible in love and still intelligent.

  • @TrainWithStephh
    @TrainWithStephh Před 3 měsíci +411

    This video literally made me stop talking to a guy I just met. He has some of these same red flags that I see already. Whew let me save myself now . Blocked

    • @MsPrice-pn2py
      @MsPrice-pn2py Před 3 měsíci +80

      Great job sweetheart❤😂

    • @TrainWithStephh
      @TrainWithStephh Před 3 měsíci +15

      @@MsPrice-pn2pyooo yes !

    • @anikasmith8361
      @anikasmith8361 Před 3 měsíci +55

      Better safe than sorry. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    • @friedgreentomatoes5054
      @friedgreentomatoes5054 Před 3 měsíci +32

      Run sis run!

    • @deej9
      @deej9 Před 3 měsíci +74

      This is why she is sharing her story, to help women leave before the shit storm gets started. Yes gurl

  • @martinecooper6669
    @martinecooper6669 Před 3 měsíci +436

    I was drained af after part 1 but here I am again. This was an exhausting experience. Men are scary af

    • @lilme2me
      @lilme2me Před 3 měsíci +44

      We need workshops to teach women to peep the signs

    • @AmyTraphouse
      @AmyTraphouse Před 3 měsíci +17

      Terrifying!!

    • @PranaChi369
      @PranaChi369 Před 3 měsíci +8

      😂 Ikr!

    • @jas911
      @jas911 Před 3 měsíci +10

      girl same! im binging on 1.75 speed 😩

    • @MovingAlong531
      @MovingAlong531 Před 3 měsíci +3

      Girl 😂😂😂 😂

  • @romanaa7070
    @romanaa7070 Před 3 měsíci +523

    This lady had me deleting everything off my phone to have space to download tiktok which I said I never would just to continue hearing the story. A lot of us are invested because we can see some of us in her story in one way or another. To the person that said why is she sharing, because its important to share our stories amongst each other. This is how we learn and grow and lean on each other for strength as women.

    • @7Mushrooms7
      @7Mushrooms7 Před 3 měsíci +30

      Exactly. These cautionary tales need to be shared so that other women can learn not to make the same mistakes and be more aware.

    • @skkylotus
      @skkylotus Před 3 měsíci +15

      Totally agree...these real life scenes are what might save another mother,young girl,sister,auntie, grandmother,niece from going through the same. I commend her for being brave enough knowing full well the backlash she may receive from some people. Women are a community where we stand for each other, we look out for each other, we love each other!! No judgement here

    • @cookee888
      @cookee888 Před 3 měsíci +27

      Keeping quiet is why we are so oblivious to the true nature of males.

    • @misskris117
      @misskris117 Před 3 měsíci +4

      💯💯🎯🎯🎯🎯

    • @IQN764
      @IQN764 Před 2 měsíci +3

      Yesssss u are like ME We are TRUE FOR THE GIRLS/WOMEN!!! I ROOT FR ALLL WOMEN.. EVEN THE ONES WHO HARMED ME AND PUT MINE IN HARMS WAY! BC HURT PEOPLE HURT PEOPLE.... N I STILL WANT HER TO WIN🎉❤

  • @BlackButterfly504
    @BlackButterfly504 Před 3 měsíci +247

    The nickname "Legion", fits that demon so well 😂

    • @foreveralchemy3193
      @foreveralchemy3193 Před 3 měsíci +33

      For he is many..

    • @DivaDivine88
      @DivaDivine88 Před 3 měsíci +9

      More like Levi.. ie Leviathan

    • @informedRev13
      @informedRev13 Před 3 měsíci +2

      Agreed.

    • @NarcissisticEmpath
      @NarcissisticEmpath Před 2 měsíci +1

      And Shirley fits her as well. She is a liar and my discernment and Spidey senses going off with her. How's she going to call the ex-wife and ask her how her daughter is? But her daughter supposed to have passed? She is embellishing the story and as many parts as there is and she keeps saying the same thing over and over again she is an attention seeker. She ain't the first Broad that's ever been lied to and she ain't going to be the last. The more I listen the more I feel she's nuts

    • @lamalaita3767
      @lamalaita3767 Před 2 měsíci +18

      @@NarcissisticEmpath Clearly you didn’t pay attention. She asked about the daughter to see if he was lying about that too. The daughter was not dead, he lied about her being dead and the mother confirmed she was well without her knowing why the daughter’s welfare was being questioned. Understand? Get it? Got it? Good 👍🏾

  • @Queenlizzie18
    @Queenlizzie18 Před 3 měsíci +276

    On a smaller scale This happen to me. I dated a guy when I was 23-24 years old. Red flag was he had no car and was staying with his boy. He was working several jobs, said he was trynna get on his feet, so I over looked it. My friend felt like something funny was up so she ran a background check and he had three women who filed on him for child support. Broke it off right away. He went off on me, begging for me not to break up with him. Ladies...RUN BACKGROUND checks, ask questions! And BE CAREFUL ON THESE DATING APPS!

    • @GratefulDaughter1
      @GratefulDaughter1 Před 3 měsíci +19

      They are on the site for a reason! So sorry that happened to you

    • @Queenlizzie18
      @Queenlizzie18 Před 3 měsíci +21

      @@GratefulDaughter1 thanks girl, I meet this guy in person but I have tried dating apps and I don't do them anymore bc I've had bad experiences with men on there as well. Thankfully they were minor situations as well. But alot of weird and broken men on there.

    • @wednesday9623
      @wednesday9623 Před 2 měsíci

      ​@@Queenlizzie18i agree i stay clear of dating sites because they are literally strangers with no mutual friends who can pretend to be anyone

    • @Frugal637
      @Frugal637 Před 2 měsíci +9

      I had bad experiences on dating apps. These people be living double lives, they lie or are just looking for a hook up. I am totally turned off by them.

    • @user-hw9kr5md2z
      @user-hw9kr5md2z Před 2 měsíci

      Chile they will find a way around it. They will make up fake names and everything. I don't understand why people try so hard to make up lies instead of trying to do the right thing and be a good person. Its backwards as hell.

  • @rachelesmith3342
    @rachelesmith3342 Před 3 měsíci +185

    Also 2024 is the year of returning attention spans 😂😂 between the club shay Shay interviews and these types of stories, I’ve spent hours just watching this

    • @ItsWorkingTogetherForMyGood
      @ItsWorkingTogetherForMyGood Před 3 měsíci +28

      😂😂😂😂 look at us GLUED and Hyper focused!!!

    • @cookee888
      @cookee888 Před 3 měsíci +3

      😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @drenee6164
      @drenee6164 Před 3 měsíci +26

      Riiigghhttt....expanding attention spans and the critical thinking process 😂😂

    • @Fawtfa617
      @Fawtfa617 Před 2 měsíci

      😂😂😂😂😂

  • @Candikanelane
    @Candikanelane Před 3 měsíci +141

    He probably had PPP money in those accounts. It was going down around that time.

    • @MsApple0916
      @MsApple0916 Před 2 měsíci +10

      Yoo exactly what I said. Got my dude invested he said if it was Covid it was PPP

    • @Candikanelane
      @Candikanelane Před 2 měsíci +3

      @@MsApple0916 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I'm not surprised he got invested. This was definitely a story that sucked you in.

    • @TheQueenrevolution
      @TheQueenrevolution Před 2 měsíci +1

      Mmm hmmm

  • @kekef3620
    @kekef3620 Před 2 měsíci +33

    She need this marriage annulled.l..not divorce. Everything was fraud. He needs to be reported to law enforcement and his identity revealed to save another possible victim. This is crazy.

  • @flooshoomoo7104
    @flooshoomoo7104 Před 3 měsíci +197

    The way he keeps killing everyone off with COVID😅 at least take a creative writing course at this point my guy

    • @bigelowkaryn
      @bigelowkaryn Před 3 měsíci +36

      Right! A car accident, cancer, old age., piano dropped from the sky?

    • @tempesttking5715
      @tempesttking5715 Před 3 měsíci +5

      😂

    • @danamonet77
      @danamonet77 Před 3 měsíci +6

      @@bigelowkarynsomething 🤷🏽‍♀️🥴😂😂😂

    • @naturallyhoneybrown
      @naturallyhoneybrown Před 2 měsíci +2

      that's what I'm saying. Either she or him are very creative lmbo

    • @geminipoetgirl
      @geminipoetgirl Před 2 měsíci +3

      ​@@bigelowkaryn lmao you got his people as walking Looney Tunes characters 😅😅😅

  • @purevenus6359
    @purevenus6359 Před 3 měsíci +181

    “I have nothing to hide. I don’t lie. I don’t like liars.”
    They all say this same bullshit when the mask is on 🙄🙄

    • @nice1cool
      @nice1cool Před 3 měsíci +21

      I can see why a liar wouldn’t like liars a lot of people don’t like dealing with Their own Bull lol

    • @napturalee_8815
      @napturalee_8815 Před 3 měsíci +18

      It’s really scary they all read the same script it’s the same demon for sure

    • @tempesttking5715
      @tempesttking5715 Před 3 měsíci

      @@napturalee_8815💯

    • @shachede6828
      @shachede6828 Před 3 měsíci +8

      In fact once you hear it believe otherwise lol

    • @alkahinat4558
      @alkahinat4558 Před 2 měsíci

      @@napturalee_8815it has to be atp. No matter the person, the lines are the same 😭

  • @Juniper122
    @Juniper122 Před 3 měsíci +159

    This man must be stopped!!! he should literally face criminal charges

    • @hannahi9355
      @hannahi9355 Před 3 měsíci +7

      For real because tf

    • @bigelowkaryn
      @bigelowkaryn Před 3 měsíci +19

      Yes, he clearly forged many legal documents between the marriage license and the home documents. Those alone should be enough to have him arrested

    • @ms.thomas5758
      @ms.thomas5758 Před 3 měsíci +4

      Emotional and mental distress

    • @shachede6828
      @shachede6828 Před 3 měsíci +10

      The marriage is meant to be annulled, not a divorce. Annulled is allowed for this type of lies

    • @desjanaewashington35
      @desjanaewashington35 Před 2 měsíci

      @@shachede6828 facts

  • @carmen.juliana
    @carmen.juliana Před 3 měsíci +102

    When she said “I thought it was my turn” that hurt me 😥

  • @JoBunny87
    @JoBunny87 Před 3 měsíci +51

    My home is my sanctuary. I don't understand how this woman was able to sleep and feel comfortable in her home with this man.

  • @labellekei
    @labellekei Před 3 měsíci +114

    The way this man lied about everything I wouldn’t be surprised if he was a serial killer. Cause what!? 🥴

    • @kisha1UP
      @kisha1UP Před 3 měsíci +12

      I was thinking the same cause, wtf🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @apollosmommy12
      @apollosmommy12 Před 2 měsíci +4

      GREAT MINDS THINK ALIKE! Cuz I say he is one and was going to finish her tail for another check

    • @hayaq9991
      @hayaq9991 Před 2 měsíci +2

      I wonder if he was behind the the miscarriage

  • @cynicalsenpai
    @cynicalsenpai Před 3 měsíci +200

    Yanie… you are smart AF for posting these segments and THANK YOU for posting them like this. There was no way, I was gonna watch all this on TikTok lol not a fan of that app

  • @sexxibrown1986
    @sexxibrown1986 Před 3 měsíci +347

    I stayed up until three am watching these videos. I too met and married a narcissist in 2020 l. he just needed a place to stay. Going through a divorce as we speak.

    • @DarthFurie
      @DarthFurie Před 3 měsíci +50

      Onward and upward! My divorce from my first husband was deeply traumatic, I took accountability and did therapy to heal, my second marriage is to an incredible man and I am cherished in a way I couldn't have fathomed before 🥰 Courage my sister, take heart ❤

    • @KeLovely2019
      @KeLovely2019 Před 3 měsíci +25

      Same here. Literally became the real them months after me saying I do. Stories were made up . Lied about jobs, previous relationship issues, and soooo much.

    • @invadingminds
      @invadingminds Před 3 měsíci +25

      Chile! I wish you nothing but healing and blessings. The situation with my ex husband tore me up so bad that I didn't get married again until 13 years later. Things are wonderful with my current husband but if this one doesn't work out for some reason I'm going to just throw in the towel and remain single lol.

    • @msessenceofreality
      @msessenceofreality Před 3 měsíci +10

      There are Facebook recovery groups and CZcams channels that help with your circumstance.. you ever heard of lisa a ramono?

    • @msessenceofreality
      @msessenceofreality Před 3 měsíci +1

      I think the video repeats at 22:30...

  • @pinkdymindz
    @pinkdymindz Před 3 měsíci +120

    I don't blame her because there are different types of liars and his lie style is beyond the scope of normalcy. How would anyone anticipate this?

    • @ItsWorkingTogetherForMyGood
      @ItsWorkingTogetherForMyGood Před 3 měsíci

      PATHOLOGICAL liar on steroids. It is shocking.

    • @OrchidLei
      @OrchidLei Před 3 měsíci +13

      Knowing what a liar is like and holding him accountable and actually checking what he said. 2 houses and 1 car ago she should not have married him.

    • @pinkdymindz
      @pinkdymindz Před 2 měsíci +11

      @@OrchidLei I personally think I would've been out after finding out someone else closed on the first house.

    • @hottstepher
      @hottstepher Před 2 měsíci +5

      This is lying at an _expert_ level 😳

    • @Frugal637
      @Frugal637 Před 2 měsíci +8

      I guess I’ll be the only one to admit that I would have fell for some of this. Who makes up whole conversations with family, friends and fake subordinates? He sent professional emails with letterheads and just did things most people won’t. He lied about deaths. This is very bizarre.

  • @Kmillions77
    @Kmillions77 Před 3 měsíci +121

    He been smooth cheating the whole time and that’s why he tried to say her ex was the one who came to the house smh he been trying to confuse her and keep her off his tail.

    • @Frugal637
      @Frugal637 Před 2 měsíci +4

      He is just a liar period

    • @nnmbarati6757
      @nnmbarati6757 Před 2 měsíci +4

      Projection at its best

    • @fannymackk
      @fannymackk Před 2 měsíci +5

      I believe it was because she was doing something for herself (pedicure) and he interrupted that with the story. I don’t remember her saying whether she left before or after the pedi but narcissists don’t like for you to have time to yourself without causing some kind of ruckus

    • @Kmillions77
      @Kmillions77 Před 2 měsíci +2

      @@fannymackk this man is insane lol

  • @moshu10
    @moshu10 Před 3 měsíci +158

    One thing I always tell people getting married or needing marital counseling: don't go to a pastor. They have no reason to keep that info to themselves and they have a vested interest in keeping you married regardless of your situation. Go to a licensed professional.
    Edited to add: She's lucky that the pastor's wife was honest with her.

    • @ItsWorkingTogetherForMyGood
      @ItsWorkingTogetherForMyGood Před 3 měsíci +26

      So true. They are neither trained nor aware of the wickedness of these very heavy matters going on in these streets.

    • @mamat1213
      @mamat1213 Před 3 měsíci +15

      Yes! And that was remarkable, I’ve seen them “counsel” thru everything from cheating to homosexuality to p-do issues! Etc etc

    • @bigelowkaryn
      @bigelowkaryn Před 3 měsíci +24

      As a seminary trained person, we were told that if anyone needs to talk more than 3 times, then it’s time to refer out to a professional. The pastor should have sent them to someone else, especially once they heard his bs

    • @shachede6828
      @shachede6828 Před 3 měsíci +5

      Not all pastors. But get both lol

    • @tiahnarodriguez3809
      @tiahnarodriguez3809 Před 2 měsíci +6

      @@ItsWorkingTogetherForMyGood Pastors are aware of how wicked their church can be, how he can be, and trained to say whatever is acceptable by the church. That’s why they push for couples to stay together even though it’s clear as day that one partner (usually the wife) would be better off divorced.

  • @EverydayGworl
    @EverydayGworl Před 3 měsíci +69

    I hate when ppl say “y’all married, you can’t just break up!”…..uuummm yea tf we can! I don’t have to “go home and work it out” but especially when there aren’t kids involved and the bullshit has been consistent!

    • @iseeyoushay
      @iseeyoushay Před 3 měsíci +15

      I said the same thing. Married today, divorced tomorrow! Shiiiiiid I'm out.

    • @christinekelly7769
      @christinekelly7769 Před 3 měsíci +3

      I'm a living witness that you can !

    • @ninidanatural
      @ninidanatural Před 2 měsíci +2

      Right! When it’s time to go it’s time to go

    • @Udkorownme
      @Udkorownme Před 2 měsíci

      @@christinekelly7769🎯

  • @restlessfae2407
    @restlessfae2407 Před 3 měsíci +142

    The worse thing you can do is confront your husband especially if he's a psychopath. Yes , it's ok to be angry and hurt. But the worse thing you can do with people who are psychopath is confront them or screaming at them and say your leaving. You put yourself in danger.. best way to move.. is in silence... especially when dealing with a psychopath.

    • @ItsWorkingTogetherForMyGood
      @ItsWorkingTogetherForMyGood Před 3 měsíci

      Yes,so true ! You can't handle the many DEMONS in them on your own.

    • @SoGoldenGlow
      @SoGoldenGlow Před 3 měsíci +19

      @yanie - can you pin this comment? This is very helpful for women trying to get out of relationships like this. This is the second one I’ve seen where a commenter is warning women not to confront. This information could save lives.

    • @mynameonly579
      @mynameonly579 Před 2 měsíci +1

      Yes please

    • @mellabeautynyc8587
      @mellabeautynyc8587 Před 2 měsíci +3

      This‼️💯 Been there, always move in silence !

    • @Udkorownme
      @Udkorownme Před 2 měsíci +3

      I learned the hard way 😢

  • @moniquew3603
    @moniquew3603 Před 3 měsíci +194

    I took a break last night in the middle of part 3. It was just too much, so I woke up this morning and listened to the rest while working out. This is some HEAVY mess.

  • @ant123924
    @ant123924 Před 3 měsíci +125

    Part 26 is wild. The 'private citizen' part. damn the mf didn't miss a beat. 😂😂😂. It's sad but disturbingly funny as hell😅.

    • @distinctlydri2831
      @distinctlydri2831 Před 2 měsíci +3

      I knew that was coming at some point due to how he was moving.

    • @ant123924
      @ant123924 Před 2 měsíci

      @distinctlydri2831 if she would have had that baby, her life would have been fkkkkkkked. He would have been an albatross around he neck forever.

    • @fannymackk
      @fannymackk Před 2 měsíci

      That’s not really a thing right? He had to of pulled that out his arse?

    • @Julianaao2601
      @Julianaao2601 Před 2 měsíci +1

      @@fannymackkthat can’t be a thing omg

  • @derryanngriffith42
    @derryanngriffith42 Před 3 měsíci +31

    After the first promise never came to fruition. I would've been gone. This was a sport for him smh

  • @martinecooper6669
    @martinecooper6669 Před 3 měsíci +97

    All of this nonsense he carried on was just UNNECESSARY!!!! omggggg

    • @Leira6267
      @Leira6267 Před 3 měsíci +4

      She allowed it.

    • @dejaniquenelson9458
      @dejaniquenelson9458 Před 3 měsíci +9

      @@Leira6267stop blaming the victim!! She just said she was desperate and ready to be married.. of course she not thinking straight

    • @ItsWorkingTogetherForMyGood
      @ItsWorkingTogetherForMyGood Před 3 měsíci +3

      ​@@Leira6267yes, have some mercy and empathy. She was already in a compromised situation.

    • @shachede6828
      @shachede6828 Před 3 měsíci

      @@dejaniquenelson9458it’s not victim blaming its facts. She allowed it is different from she deserves it.

    • @sweetjane7375
      @sweetjane7375 Před 3 měsíci +7

      ​@shachede6828
      Whatever she allowed or didn't allow is irrelevant. He shouldn't have done it. It ends and begins there.

  • @naturalyme2
    @naturalyme2 Před 3 měsíci +61

    Listen good young naive women. If you think being single with a dog is bad , trust and believe you will feel that you should’ve been single with a dog after a man has screwed up your life and this is what they do. Save yourself and be single, have your own everything, enjoy your women friends and live your best life without dealing with this mess. You have the ability to have your own money so you don’t have to deal with this.

  • @pinkdymindz
    @pinkdymindz Před 3 měsíci +114

    I accomplished 3 miles walking on the treadmill while listening to this. I usually don't stay on that long but this was extremely entertaining and kept me going! I'm ready for the rest! I got time today!

    • @valpal9248
      @valpal9248 Před 2 měsíci +1

      Good idea! I was looking for something to watch while I walk!

    • @erinlee6018
      @erinlee6018 Před 2 měsíci +3

      Yes, I’ve been watching, cleaning and cooking.

  • @RealTalkWithYanie
    @RealTalkWithYanie  Před 3 měsíci +124

    Part 5 is coming in a few mintues.

    • @imani55555
      @imani55555 Před 3 měsíci +11

      Was abouta say 😂

    • @shawnflossy
      @shawnflossy Před 3 měsíci +20

      Thank you Yanie! I don’t have a TT so you really a lifesaver for this one 😅

    • @nalliebell
      @nalliebell Před 3 měsíci +5

      Thank you thank you thank you

    • @Yennnyyy
      @Yennnyyy Před 3 měsíci +6

      Girl I need part 5!

    • @sweetjane7375
      @sweetjane7375 Před 3 měsíci

      😱

  • @Angele21
    @Angele21 Před 3 měsíci +140

    I’m glad this video confirmed that it is necessary to do background checks on ppl whether they’re friends or potential partners. I loved that she shared her story and took accountability for everything.

    • @AnitaDavenport-wg2bd
      @AnitaDavenport-wg2bd Před 2 měsíci +6

      The crazy part is that she did do a background check and it showed nothing. Scary for real

    • @Udkorownme
      @Udkorownme Před 2 měsíci +1

      And that’s the part I’m trying to do is the background check. How would I do that and what’s the link? 😂

    • @christinem8799
      @christinem8799 Před 2 měsíci

      Yeah how do y’all be doing your background checks? Yanie gave us a site a while back but I’m from NY so it doesn’t work.

  • @aprilrae6551
    @aprilrae6551 Před 3 měsíci +84

    I just want to commend the woman in the video. She tells a great story. She should write a book. And see if she can sell it to Lifetime or Netflix.

    • @angelabaylor5854
      @angelabaylor5854 Před 3 měsíci +2

      Tubi movie

    • @ItsWorkingTogetherForMyGood
      @ItsWorkingTogetherForMyGood Před 3 měsíci +7

      It's her memory for me. I literally had memory issues in my own story and cannot remember the details for my own sanity.

    • @christinem8799
      @christinem8799 Před 2 měsíci

      @@tashatash8812what makes you think that?

    • @christinem8799
      @christinem8799 Před 2 měsíci

      @@ItsWorkingTogetherForMyGoodI thought it was just me! 😂 I started eating blueberries so my memory stops failing me.

  • @islandgyal3730
    @islandgyal3730 Před 3 měsíci +46

    Surviving Legion!!!!

  • @so.many.obstacles
    @so.many.obstacles Před 3 měsíci +129

    She somewhat reminds me of my sister. On that, “keep outsiders out of my relationship”. Truth is, most people aren’t that invested in someone else’s personal life.
    What I find with these kind of people is that they have a propensity to make piss poor decisions. They are aware of that so they claim to want to keep people out of their business, when in reality, they want to dwell in their mess without judgement or interference.
    It seems like her family and friends were trying to steer her away from the legion of doom, but her desperation kept her wanting to fulfill her fantasy. This is not a dig at her.

    • @thetravelgoods2760
      @thetravelgoods2760 Před 3 měsíci

      Chile the name legion is connected with demons.. that name is the first red flag 🚩 don’t get me wrong.. not judging just saying cause lord knows I’ve ignored red flags plenty of times!

    • @giab.3411
      @giab.3411 Před 3 měsíci

      Agreed, when she said she keeps it inside the home I said that’s why your in the mess you’re in now. Because you would rather live in shame and dis function rather than to admit you were desperate and your mother just wanted you married off to any dusty because Christianity demonized single women. She literally had no trust in her own judgement that literally knew better.

    • @bigelowkaryn
      @bigelowkaryn Před 3 měsíci +24

      Agreed. There’s a difference between keeping people out your business and out your life. She made major life choices without having no real perspective from others about his character, and seemed to ignore the warnings

    • @tashibalampkin8555
      @tashibalampkin8555 Před 3 měsíci +19

      You make a good point. When I'm down, I don't want to talk to anyone. The less people know about my poor choices, the better.

    • @hellothereyouall
      @hellothereyouall Před 3 měsíci +20

      True. It’s not a dig. She said herself she was desperate. It takes a lot of self awareness and courage to admit that.

  • @chakralove4300
    @chakralove4300 Před 3 měsíci +68

    Yanie you need get her on your platform. Not for ppl to judge her but to learn from her journey, which leads to wisdom.

    • @HaitianBlackGinger11
      @HaitianBlackGinger11 Před 3 měsíci +5

      Thank you for saying that.

    • @_Ridethemaverick
      @_Ridethemaverick Před 3 měsíci +6

      We’ve heard every detail/ red flag we could possibly hear. We’re learning from this mini series.

    • @chakralove4300
      @chakralove4300 Před 3 měsíci +19

      @@_Ridethemaverick Very true. I would love for a psychologist like Dr. Ramani to interview her…. break it down so ppl will stop victim blaming and shaming.

    • @Udkorownme
      @Udkorownme Před 2 měsíci +2

      Yessss Yani Tasha K her please!! 😅😊

    • @HaitianBlackGinger11
      @HaitianBlackGinger11 Před 2 měsíci +2

      @@Udkorownme Not “Tasha K her”😆

  • @emperorsupreme1
    @emperorsupreme1 Před 3 měsíci +42

    Y’all I’m not a woman at all, but I’m so invested and shocked, I love that she transitions from part to part of her daily life, cause if felt like I was being a good listener to a friend who did not deserve this bruhhhhhhh, it just keep getting more deeper than any wack ass Tyler Perry movie.

  • @carra_cancan638
    @carra_cancan638 Před 3 měsíci +54

    The mental anguish this woman has experienced from her so called spouse is disgusting. How in the hell could an individual disguise himself to be someone that he is NOT and freely walk the earth with other sane people. Unfortunately this devastation of a relationship is permanent stain on her mind and body. Especially because she shared it online.😢😢

  • @Mongezi_Goxo
    @Mongezi_Goxo Před 3 měsíci +43

    This man is one frightening human being! I feel like everybody is in danger 😮

  • @BMynroeLoyren
    @BMynroeLoyren Před 3 měsíci +130

    Bbbbaabbbbyyy....I haven't been on pins and needles for a video to drop in YEARS! But THIS HERE, THIS RIGHT HERE, Yanie....you Betta SERVE!!! ❤️🍿❤️

    • @RealTalkWithYanie
      @RealTalkWithYanie  Před 3 měsíci +15

      😂😂😭

    • @BMynroeLoyren
      @BMynroeLoyren Před 3 měsíci

      @@teyianneful That PART!!! Suspense much?!? Cliffhangers.😬 Plot thickness.😩 It's a TIKTOK one woman soap opera! 👀
      😮🫣😑😵😵‍💫🙄🫤😑
      🫠🍿🫠🍿🫠🍿

    • @Juniper122
      @Juniper122 Před 3 měsíci +8

      This is literally dirty John

    • @walkingmasterpeace
      @walkingmasterpeace Před 3 měsíci +3

      Me too Girl 😂😂😂

    • @PourLaMourDeLargent
      @PourLaMourDeLargent Před 3 měsíci +15

      i finished the series via her tiktok. she deserves the views. i hope she gets a big deal to for telling her story.

  • @go-goyubari8776
    @go-goyubari8776 Před 3 měsíci +81

    So that man wasn't committed to a mental institution?

    • @sallyhemings2295
      @sallyhemings2295 Před 3 měsíci +12

      Nope 👎🏽 she thought marriage counseling was the ANSWER 😅

    • @pinkdymindz
      @pinkdymindz Před 3 měsíci

      He needs to be! People like this shouldn't be allowed around society. All they do is go around traumatizing others

    • @shachede6828
      @shachede6828 Před 3 měsíci

      Real fucking question! He is a mad man

    • @NarcissisticEmpath
      @NarcissisticEmpath Před 2 měsíci +1

      Yeah that's her side of the story. Let's wait till we hear some of his. And she's the one that's crazy in my opinion just as crazy as he is. Because she shouldn't have even made it to the marriage. But she was so desperate to be married she overlooked everything she told him part 1 2 3 blah blah blah she didn't really have a problem until he wouldn't show her the supposed to other accounts. Also she was using him for money the whole time and then when her little scenario blew up in her face then she claims he's a narcissist. Well she's narcissistic he may be crazy in a narcissist but she ain't innocent

    • @christinadumont458
      @christinadumont458 Před 2 měsíci +1

      @@NarcissisticEmpathGirl, your screen tag alone is… Questionable at best! Add your comment to that and sheesh! 🙄 I will gladly continue to alienate myself from women with your thought process Lol! Get well soon Sis! 😂

  • @rjones4517
    @rjones4517 Před 3 měsíci +51

    I refuse to tiktok, so thank you, yanie, for this. Disclaimers should mention that your household will be on hold and headaches are possible while watching 👀 🤔

  • @milodavis1
    @milodavis1 Před 3 měsíci +39

    I can’t believe I’ve watched 3 hours, going on 4, of this. It’s good to listen to while doing your taxes.

    • @georgiaw.
      @georgiaw. Před 2 měsíci +3

      Girl!!! I've been stuck for 4.5 hours. Luckily, i did all my cleaning and cooking yesterday because I'm glued!

  • @jcksnnnnn
    @jcksnnnnn Před 3 měsíci +54

    Part 24 summed up via TT...they went to look for another cash-offer house, he didn’t want to show proof of funds, realtor said nah, girl and realtor had a one on one chat, girl told Legion (so that he could save face) let's rent for now (because deep down she knew there was no money).

    • @mrsevelync6900
      @mrsevelync6900 Před 3 měsíci +6

      Thank you! This needs to be pinned

    • @Brenda-uw3jk
      @Brenda-uw3jk Před 3 měsíci +1

      Thank you 🙏🏾 bc I didn’t want to go back and watch it.

    • @gorgeousfrazier5903
      @gorgeousfrazier5903 Před 3 měsíci

      Girllllllllll not another damn all cash offer 🫣🫣🫣 this gotta be a GA thing ny/nj would never, before you start looking for a home they make you send financials over

  • @NayDay718
    @NayDay718 Před 3 měsíci +59

    I woke up looking for this …. My goodness , this is a lot ! 😩🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @PourLaMourDeLargent
    @PourLaMourDeLargent Před 3 měsíci +29

    girl they revealed that man’s facebook !!! omgggg

  • @Yamalie
    @Yamalie Před 3 měsíci +26

    I apply this woman for volunteer to be a case study an example, because not many older generation likes to air out their business for the younger audience to learn, and I am taking in every lesson period 💅🏾

  • @gloribelcouvertier9458
    @gloribelcouvertier9458 Před 3 měsíci +14

    She’s brave asking all these questions after finding out. Narcissist don’t like to be confronted on their lies. God bless this woman.

  • @Candikanelane
    @Candikanelane Před 3 měsíci +29

    All of this in less than a year of knowing him? And less than a year of marriage? Wait a gat dang min... she just said married only 3 months. Whew chile...

    • @jas911
      @jas911 Před 3 měsíci +2

      right like damn! imagine if this went on for another year

  • @Sunny-tc3ul
    @Sunny-tc3ul Před 3 měsíci +16

    Not only was she talking to a narcissist but a scammer as well. Have she opened a joint account he was going to get her for everything she had.

  • @JacindaJourney
    @JacindaJourney Před 3 měsíci +17

    I can’t stop watching, I’ve been watching this for hours. It’s a cautionary tale, but It also doesn’t surprise me. These Atlanta men are scammers. Be careful and vigilant ladies. Don’t rush into a relationship and don’t be desperate for one. This story is sickening . 😮

  • @froonamission1013
    @froonamission1013 Před 3 měsíci +20

    I can't even be mad at her. It's all about being honest with yourself and owning your part in the story, which she has done. Most of us, though many won't admit it, have been in a serious relationship with a whole field worth of red flags. I know I have. I tried to marry my walking red flag. But the lord saw fit to protect me from myself. Thankfully, I am now married to the most wonderful man. And we have a beautiful relationship and family. Honestly, sometimes going through a crazy relationship makes you more aware of what you really want and know good actually looks and feels like.

  • @tamaicollins4866
    @tamaicollins4866 Před 2 měsíci +4

    Her story reminds me of an ex especially when she said he loved hats and Invicta watches like is it like a narcissists starter pack 😩😂. But it’s really sad and crazy how some men are.

  • @shachede6828
    @shachede6828 Před 3 měsíci +6

    Okay that private citizen shit is UNHINGEDDDDD! 😭😭😭😭😳😳😳

  • @RS33381
    @RS33381 Před 3 měsíci +42

    I need a visual to mentally process all of this. We need to see how this man looks!

    • @ShixB
      @ShixB Před 3 měsíci +4

      I agree. I need to know this part!

    • @DivaDivine88
      @DivaDivine88 Před 3 měsíci +4

      I agree.. these demons neeed to be exposed so they can't do this to another woman!

    • @allotatalk
      @allotatalk Před 3 měsíci +1

      I’m already picturing him as ghost from empire

    • @riah73939
      @riah73939 Před 2 měsíci +1

      They found his Facebook he looks like how he acts

  • @marvinecesar
    @marvinecesar Před 3 měsíci +32

    Also Yanie, this men is a Gemini and has himself a twin brother. He basically kinda stole his twin brother's identify. FYI. Just in case anyone missed that part.

    • @marvinecesar
      @marvinecesar Před 3 měsíci +4

      @royalgem100 lol, yes. June 17th. Fits his personality very well.

    • @hellothere8347
      @hellothere8347 Před 3 měsíci +7

      I don’t even believe in the signs thing but my ex was a Gemini and everybody be thinking the same thing about that sign they just be weird asf for no reason

    • @portiadefleur7818
      @portiadefleur7818 Před 3 měsíci +10

      My daughter is a Gemini, first time in my whole life I've ever known someone that lies like that. Tried to get her professional help, but Gemini's compartmentalize very well. To them their lie is not a lie if 1% of it holds any truth.

    • @shachede6828
      @shachede6828 Před 3 měsíci

      Please be careful assuming only Gemini act like this, it’s very wrong. This is a psychopath. The kind of comment is dangerous. My best friend is a Gemini male, he doesn’t lie. The duplicity of Gemini are not always negative. There are crazy people in all birth signs. That been said Gemini are something 😂😂😂

    • @voodoochile4147
      @voodoochile4147 Před 2 měsíci

      Geminis taking heavy fire in the thread! 😩😮‍💨🥺 We aren’t all like that, but we are out here looking crazy AF these days. Donald Trump, Kanye West and now this negro. Im even side eying my fellow gems like😒 whew chile…

  • @pattysdaughter5639
    @pattysdaughter5639 Před 2 měsíci +10

    “Barbara this is Shirley”, if you know, you know !

  • @layna762
    @layna762 Před 3 měsíci +10

    He has a random out of the blue response for every question she asked him. At this point shes done more than ignoring red flags. She knew and played along

  • @ashleyadeline1537
    @ashleyadeline1537 Před 3 měsíci +31

    The visceral reaction I'm having to her explaining going through the phone is exposing a whole lot of trauma I thought I was over 😢 Anyone who has been through this can literally physically FEEL IT as we're listening to this 😭 At least we aren't alone ❤

  • @allotatalk
    @allotatalk Před 3 měsíci +6

    I would’ve been scared after the social security numbers didn’t add up the marriage would’ve been annulled

  • @Rabbit_the_Realtor
    @Rabbit_the_Realtor Před 2 měsíci +5

    The fact that this lady had to become a private investigator this man running around with different social security numbers lying about college but yet folks running around telling us to VET these men how of they sitting around lying and using different SSN this is crazy! You can’t vet this type of stuff I saw a story where a man was giving ppl different name.

  • @brandig2906
    @brandig2906 Před 2 měsíci +6

    I seen a tik tok that legion just made and he’s still lying. He’s on there talking about she cheated with Bradley they went to counseling and they broke up. That man is absolutely horrible and he will never stop. He will continue to do this to every woman that he gets involved with. It wasn’t because he didn’t like her. That man is a disturbed, sick individual. I pray one day a man finds her and gives her the world because she deserves the absolute best.

  • @JoBunny87
    @JoBunny87 Před 3 měsíci +9

    44:18 "I did what any rational person would do...." A rational person wouldve left after the first house scam.

  • @weekendnomad5038
    @weekendnomad5038 Před 2 měsíci +2

    How did she only have 1900 in her account when she said he’s paying all the bills 😮 something is off with her too.

  • @ohhmyyken
    @ohhmyyken Před 3 měsíci +25

    I dreamed about this story last night 😂

    • @honeyblu1586
      @honeyblu1586 Před 3 měsíci +1

      Lmaoooooo gurrlllll 😅

    • @NayDay718
      @NayDay718 Před 3 měsíci +1

      😂 … I understand , I didn’t dream about it but I was definitely ready for more !

    • @BlakcSheep6342
      @BlakcSheep6342 Před 3 měsíci

      😭😭😭

    • @BlakcSheep6342
      @BlakcSheep6342 Před 3 měsíci +4

      My man had a bad dream about this 😭

    • @hannahi9355
      @hannahi9355 Před 3 měsíci

      😂😂😂😂

  • @therantingshop7423
    @therantingshop7423 Před 3 měsíci +13

    Don't go to pastors for counseling, but at least they were honest with her.

  • @naturallyhoneybrown
    @naturallyhoneybrown Před 2 měsíci +8

    At this point, I'm wondering if he even had a knee. lmbo.

  • @ibuymyownroses
    @ibuymyownroses Před 3 měsíci +28

    I didn’t realize how many hours of content I consumed by watching all 50 parts until I saw how long your videos are of hers combined. Hours! 😳 I feel ashamed 😂

    • @DarthFurie
      @DarthFurie Před 3 měsíci +6

      Why be ashamed? People spend hours on entertainment all the time. It's the same as watching a football game once or twice a week, lol

    • @Coffycoloredworld
      @Coffycoloredworld Před 3 měsíci +4

      Damn there are 50 parts 😮 I'm on part 29 🙎🏾‍♀️😂

  • @ahah99
    @ahah99 Před 2 měsíci +3

    She don't play about death but she play about life...I swear I can't & won't with people.

  • @skrlreels2060
    @skrlreels2060 Před 2 měsíci +9

    I'm totally invested. Make sure you write your own story and you do your own story with Lifetime, girl. Don't let Tubi try to take your story and say they made it up on their own, either.

  • @chickaweeka
    @chickaweeka Před 3 měsíci +8

    Anything before/leading up to her first finding out he was a liar IS NOT her fault. Anything after she first found out for sure he was a liar but still stayed when there was no threat to her life IS her fault.

  • @saun86
    @saun86 Před 2 měsíci +4

    I feel like tik toking my story but i fear for my life because the dude still in my house.

    • @KEOSHAANEILIA
      @KEOSHAANEILIA Před 2 měsíci +3

      Wait until you are safe to share. It’s not worth your life.

  • @rebeccadavila6603
    @rebeccadavila6603 Před 3 měsíci +14

    Instead of her digging up info on his divorce from his wife she should had been digging up info on his background and work and finances.🤦

  • @SonjaUnapologetic
    @SonjaUnapologetic Před 3 měsíci +9

    I’m happy this lady shared her story. She admits she saw the red flags and stayed anyway. I’m sorry she went through this but I hope her story helps others.

  • @virgo_hershey_kisses2990
    @virgo_hershey_kisses2990 Před 3 měsíci +8

    11:11 BAAAAABY!!! Ain’t no way my praying Auntie would’ve told me to stay!! She would’ve called my Momma and them along with my cousins would’ve swiftly removed my delusional a$$ from the situation 😂

  • @spoileddiva
    @spoileddiva Před 3 měsíci +10

    Y’all ever told someone a juicy story - you tell it in proper order of events & are 100% truthful & objective. Then later on you start to recall a bunch of ADDITIONAL tidbits you didn’t include in the retelling? They don’t necessarily add or take away from the story nor does the fact that they were omitted make what you said untrue but, if they would’ve come to mind during the original story telling, you’d definitely not leave those particular details out? Well, I can’t even front - I wanna know what’s on THAT list 👀
    I can only imagine what THAT list looks like! I already KNOW it’s lengthy. This dude was/is SOMETHING. ELSE. This is absolutely a movie! 🤯

  • @Image8O4
    @Image8O4 Před 3 měsíci +20

    8:44 whew i been waiting to make this comment!!! MARRIAGE for a lot of ppl is an act! Two ppl get together to convince others that they are happy. I swear 95% of married ppl are faking how in love and happily married they are. LIGHTS CAMERA 🎬 ACTION AND SCENE! 😂

  • @Rikkilover17
    @Rikkilover17 Před 2 měsíci +2

    The fact that spiritual marriage counselors. Literally the church, an institution that WANTS people to get married are like: ah no baby drop this man.
    That’s WIIIILLLDDDDDD. NOT ONLY THAT this man had the nerve to lie about his ex-wife child dying KNOWING FULL WELL that the narrator lost a child. That’s doubly cruel.

  • @erobinson5942
    @erobinson5942 Před 2 měsíci +4

    He didn’t put you at ease cuz he never wanted you at ease

  • @cnbri30
    @cnbri30 Před 2 měsíci +7

    Tubi gone steal dis!

  • @arod191
    @arod191 Před 2 měsíci +4

    I am SO happy she started inspector gadgeting his behind! Like sis we should have done this from the beginning!

  • @SincerelySandcha
    @SincerelySandcha Před 3 měsíci +9

    My thing is why didn't she just Google him. If he was this amazing football player that would be public info. A guy i was talking to told me he played college baseball and by the next day i knew his stats. She would have found out immediately that nothing shows and then he could pull the private citizen stuff immediately lol

  • @DrTLEvans
    @DrTLEvans Před 2 měsíci +6

    This is why I continue to say our education system has failed us in the areas of psychology and sociology. These two subjects should be apart of core curriculum from K-5 to high school graduation. If we are educated in these areas, we are able to identify what is happening and take the necessary steps. So many lives would have been saved whether, domestically or occupationally. You do not know people until you get to know them beyond their representative. Sadly, I didn’t learn about different psychiatric behaviors, psychosocial disorders and factors until grad school. But, I’ve taken countless math classes that I have yet to use much since high school. WTH??!! This guy was a whole textbook malignant narcissist with a dash of schizophrenia

    • @Lovefrequency717
      @Lovefrequency717 Před 2 měsíci

      If you can't tell when somebody is lying to you, that's not an educational system problem...that's a YOU problem! That's a SPIRITUAL problem. PARENTS should be teaching kids discernment. What to look out for in people. I'm teaching my 12 year old that. I don't expect the school to teach them about psychology. Stop blaming the school system for everything. Y'all want the school to fix everything. Your first teachers are AT HOME!!! Somethings LIFE have to teach you especially if you insist on being ignorant (not using the term, to be mean)

  • @marvinecesar
    @marvinecesar Před 3 měsíci +21

    @realtalkwithyanie We all saw this. I literally finished 28 min ago. I slept listening to this last night. Woke up. Cleaned myself and proceeded back. WE ARE ALL WAITING FOR YOUR OPINION NOW! ❤

  • @nymperico
    @nymperico Před 2 měsíci +1

    It's not petty to look for another job so you can become more safe!!
    We need to unlearn all these lies society tells us 😩

  • @neuzavaz2845
    @neuzavaz2845 Před 3 měsíci +30

    Thank you Yanie, I went to her TikTok but I was waiting for you to post the 4th part.
    I liked her videos and subscribed. I hope she finds peace and healing 🙏🏾 ❤

  • @MeowPurrsz
    @MeowPurrsz Před 2 měsíci +3

    I have a cousin who used to do this to the women he used to date .. I was a teenager at the time I just remember being questioned and I remember one of the ladies was like “is Derrick always nice to you” I’m like whose that? I’m like his name is Patrick & she looked so sick in the face. Long story short he was a scammer I found out when I got older . He used to steal people ssns and get houses and cars in people name run fake business to make it seem as though he was wealthy he’s in the penitentiary now thank god but I’ve witnessed this before

  • @QueenSchatz
    @QueenSchatz Před 3 měsíci +3

    Before I was married, I REFUSED to date someone with kids let alone STEP-kids you're taking care of? Absolutely not. But culturally, this is not acceptable in my background so maybe this is normal for others.

  • @islandgirl5382
    @islandgirl5382 Před 2 měsíci +1

    KARMA finally was 'beating on that knee'!! More to come from KARMA!

  • @belindabelinda7463
    @belindabelinda7463 Před 2 měsíci +4

    I dont think he is a narc but I agree with the comments saying he did not like her. I also feel like black men are entertained by hurting black women because of their own jealously, lack of power and resilence and their insecurities in society. He was dangling everything she dreamed of in her face and he had the funds to be a grown man and have a grown marriage instead he intentionally misguided her for no damn reason. I kinda wish she didnt expose her pain on socials but I am glad this loser male was exposed to prevent future womens suffering. Marriage is dead anyway. Women should focus on self-care, consider single motherhood by choice and raise healthy, multilingual, mentally, emotionally intelligent children and travel the world.

  • @MizzBFlye
    @MizzBFlye Před 3 měsíci +4

    The ladies of Atlanta need to know who this liar is ...whew chile!!

  • @Danny-ii6jn
    @Danny-ii6jn Před 3 měsíci +14

    Thank you for the update, I watched all of them and went to bed at 4am and woke up thinking about it lmao😂😂😂😂

  • @ColdDiva
    @ColdDiva Před 3 měsíci +11

    On another note sis silk press stays ready!😂

  • @freedombreathing
    @freedombreathing Před 3 měsíci +4

    This ex wife is extremely smart ,she didn't say too much but she said enough

  • @PeaceNU2
    @PeaceNU2 Před 3 měsíci +7

    She ignored the flags because he paid her $1000 rent? 👀